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'Former Labour leader Neil Kinnock

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'is on a personal journey to trace his family story in Wales.'

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I'm looking forward with great anticipation because of the hints

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that I've been given about stories of my family -

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on both sides, I guess.

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Even when your life has been churned over in biographies and so on,

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you still retain a sense of curiosity

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about bits that are missing.

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So I'll really enjoy myself if we discover bits that are missing -

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good, bad or indifferent.

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'But can anything really prepare him

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'for what he will discover on this journey, as Neil Kinnock

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'is coming home?'

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'Later on the programme, Neil wrestles with a shocking family truth...'

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I'd like to take a magic pill

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to get back and say,

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"Great-grandmother, what the HELL were you thinking of?"

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'..meets up with old friends...'

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Amazing!

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'..and uncovers a moving family secret.'

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That I didn't know. I really didn't know that.

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'Born in 1942, the son of a South Wales coal miner,

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'Neil Kinnock rose to become Labour leader and so very nearly British Prime Minister.

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'A man passionate in his beliefs, even when taking on militants in his party.'

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A Labour council hiring taxis to scuttle round the city

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handing out redundancy notices to its own workers.

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'His political convictions have always been rooted in his Welsh family history.'

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Why am I

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the first Kinnock

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in a thousand generations

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to be able to get to university?

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'Today, Neil Kinnock is heading to Tredegar,

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'his home town.

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'He has a special reason for making this journey.

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'He lost both parents 40 years ago this year,

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'and as an only child, he's now become aware

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'that he's the last of the Kinnocks to come from South Wales.'

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Recently, and very sadly, my last two surviving aunts...

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..the last survivors of my parents' generation of relations,

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died in March and in April.

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That does mean something in terms of my relationship to the valley communities.

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And in November and December this year,

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there'll be the 40th anniversary of my parents' deaths,

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within a couple of days of each other.

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And so...that kind of...memory

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and the very recent alteration...

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..makes me want to take stock.

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'The story begins with Neil's mother, Mary Howells,

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'a district nurse from Aberdare with deep Welsh roots.

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'In 1938, she married into the Kinnock family.

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'Her husband was Gordon Kinnock, a coal miner from Tredegar.

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'The Kinnock clan were originally from Scotland, but moved to Bristol,

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'where Neil's grandfather, Archie Kinnock, was born.

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'Later, Archie would move to Tredegar, South Wales.'

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I used to go and stay with my grandpa, Archie,

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in Vale Terrace in Tredegar,

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so I got lots of stories from him.

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'The manager of Archie's coal mine lived here in some splendour

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'at Bedwellty House, now a heritage centre.

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'Neil has come to meet with genealogist Mike Churchill-Jones,

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'who has traced his family back to the 1690s.'

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Your Kinnock family name is obviously Scottish.

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You come from a long line of shoemakers in Perth in Scotland.

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Your second great-grandfather

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is shown as a shoe and boot maker, employing ten men.

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'The Kinnocks would come south when Neil's great-grandfather, William,

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'brought the family to Bristol.

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'Here, he married Emily Hayman.

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'Emily was Neil's great-grandmother,

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'and later would have a huge role to play

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'in the fate of the Kinnock family.

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'Between them, Emily and William had a large family.'

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William Gordon and Emily,

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they had ten children, I believe.

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The important one for us is your grandfather, Archibald James,

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who was born 1882.

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He came down...

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He moved from Bristol to this part of the country. Any idea why?

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Because he quarrelled hideously with his father

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and, literally, ran away.

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He was over 16 by that time.

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Got down to Bristol docks and was looking for a ship.

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And the only one under steam...

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-LAUGHING:

-..was the ferry across the Bristol Channel into Cardiff.

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He was hoping he'd eventually get to the United States or Canada or wherever.

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He ended up in Cardiff

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and they told him that "There's gold in them there hills!"

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He got up to Tredegar and starting working in Ty Trist colliery.

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'In fact, Mike Churchill-Jones suspects that this story Neil learnt from his grandfather

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'is almost certainly not true.

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'But that's something Neil will learn later on his journey.

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'He will uncover not only the truth about Archie, his grandfather,

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'but also two of Archie's brothers, Harold and Wilfred Kinnock -

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'a story that will lead Neil to uncover a hidden family fortune.

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'Finally, on his mother Mary's side, the family name was Howells.'

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This side was much darker to me, the Howells side, than the Kinnock side,

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simply because we never got round to talking about their background.

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These were West Walian Howells.

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-Yeah.

-That's going to be your next stop.

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You'll find out a lot more about how they lived their life.

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-This is absolutely fascinating.

-I'm glad you like it.

-Yeah.

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'To discover the story of his Howells family, Neil travels to Kidwelly,

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'where there's a surprise.

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'For the first time, Neil is about to see

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'the tinplate works, where generations of his family laboured.

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'Today, the works is a museum.

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'Researching the Howells family has been social historian Chris Delaney,

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'who takes Neil to see a special place in his family story.'

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This is the hot mills, where your great-grandfather worked,

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where Thomas Howells worked as a furnace man.

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The work that he did, to supply the hot bars to the rolling mills,

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the rolling mills and the rest of the steam engines all survive.

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Now, I worked 50 years ago in Ebbw Vale steelworks,

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-in the hot mill, at one stage.

-Right.

-Rolling.

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How does this differ from what I was doing?

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This was making tinplate by hand.

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Here, you had a mill crew, which your great-grandfather was part of.

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They were the elite. They were the people who set the pace.

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They needed to produce the tinplate from the bar

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for the rest of this works to make money and for people to take home decent wages.

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'The owner of the works was this man, Daniel Chivers.

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'He founded the site in the 1870s.

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'An enlightened employer, he built a model village for the workers,

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'believing good working conditions were the key to productivity.'

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What were living conditions like in that new town?

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The new-built houses weren't thrown up, they were well constructed.

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Chivers, the Chivers family, was a very paternalistic industrialist.

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They helped with the chapels,

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founded a number of institutions, so they would have built good quality housing of the time.

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'So why did the Howells family leave for Aberdare in South Wales?'

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The problem is the Americans.

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In order to help their own industry, which was young and growing, they brought in tariffs.

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Absolutely devastated the Welsh industry.

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So the reason why I think of my family as coming from Aberdare

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-is American protectionism.

-Yes.

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You can blame the McKinley tariffs for your Aberdare connection.

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'Next, Neil is travelling from west Wales

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'back to Tredegar, where he will learn of a shocking revelation in his tree.

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'Growing up, Neil's grandfather, Archie,

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'with his father, Gordon, and mother, Mary,

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'all instilled in Neil the importance of education.'

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So far as my parents and grandparents are concerned,

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education was the jewel.

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It was the key. It was the avenue. It was the access.

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It was the stairway.

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'Growing up, Neil concluded

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'that generations of the Kinnocks were denied a good education,

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'something that became the bedrock of his political beliefs.'

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Why am I

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the first Kinnock

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in a thousand generations to be able to get to university?

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I was acutely aware of the fact that my parents particularly,

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but my family generally,

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had been denied anything like those opportunities,

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despite their manifest intelligence and talents.

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'In fact, Neil is about to learn

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'that one of his family did receive a privileged education.

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'Back at Tredegar's old council chambers, he meets again with genealogist Mike Churchill-Jones.

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'What Neil is to learn concerns the Kinnock side of his family.

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'The story begins in Bristol,

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'and the death of Neil's great-grandfather, William Kinnock, in 1892.

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'His widow Emily was left with ten children to bring up,

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'including Archie, Neil's grandfather,

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'and his brothers, Harold and Wilfred.

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'Emily made what must have been a heartbreaking decision,

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'to abandon one of her sons, Wilfred, to an orphanage.'

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Archie's brother, Wilfred,

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at the age of two,

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was put by his mother, Emily,

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into a "waifs and strays" home.

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That I didn't know. I really didn't know that.

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That's...

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deeply miserable.

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Good God!

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'Neil's grandfather, Archie,

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'was aged nine when his brother, Wilfred, was taken to the orphanage.

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'Archie would also have known what happened to his brother, Harold.

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'Emily sent Harold away, too, but not to the orphanage.

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'Remarkably, she sent HIM

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'to one of England's oldest and most prestigious public schools.

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'Founded in 1553 by Edward, son of Tudor King Henry VIII,

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'King Edward's School in Surrey is still a thriving public school.

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'This is a story Neil is about to learn for the very first time.'

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We find that Harold Bruce Kinnock,

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bearing in mind that your grandfather finds his way to the mines of Tredegar,

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Wilfred is in a waifs and strays home, we find Harold

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in one of the most exclusive private schools

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-in England.

-Good lord!

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He started boarding there in 1898 until around 1902.

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So he was in Surrey, in a very exclusive boarding school.

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One is in a waifs and strays home

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-and the other one is in an exclusive public school?

-Indeed.

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-How would you explain that?

-I've no idea. It's impossible to explain.

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When you compare it with the fortunes of the rest of the family.

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By then, Archie was having his quarrels with his father

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and was getting ready to run away.

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'But is this story really true?

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'Did Neil's grandfather run away from home to escape his bullying father,

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'William Kinnock?

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'In fact, it appears William Kinnock had died

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'many years before Archie made his trip to Wales.'

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He's died in 1892, so it's nine years later that Archie finds his way to Tredegar.

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So...

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can we really say that it's because he fell out with his father?

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That was the story in the family.

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Looking at that, I would say that the crux of the problems that led Archie to Tredegar,

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the fact that Wilfred finds himself in what is effectively an orphanage.

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-Yes.

-It's something to do with favouritism by the mother.

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-Yes.

-Her favourite son is Harold.

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Yeah.

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On the back of having such a good education,

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he found himself as a civil servant.

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Good lord! So he would have been a civil servant

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-in the years before the First World War?

-Indeed.

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Amazing.

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But what this proves is that you weren't the first Kinnock

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to have a good education behind you.

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Well, going to THIS school

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doesn't NATURALLY convey the fact that it's a good education.

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'Of her ten children, it's hard to imagine

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'why Emily chose such different paths for two of her sons,

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'decisions that had far-reaching consequences

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'for both Harold and Wilfred.

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'But how much of a surprise has this been for Neil?'

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I really didn't know that one of my grandfather's brothers

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lived in an orphanage for many years.

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And that the other one

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went to a public school.

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There are lots of extraordinary things about this...

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segment of history, that are a revelation.

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'These stories have challenged some of Neil's most cherished beliefs,

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'and go to the heart of his political and family life.

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'He would dearly love to be able to speak to his grandfather, Archie,

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'and ask him why he didn't share these important stories with him.

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'But Archie died when Neil was a teenager,

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'and Neil lost his father, Gordon,

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'and mother, Mary, whilst still in his 20s.

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'His mother passed away within a few days of her husband.

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'Neil believes she died of a broken heart.'

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At the end of November this year

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will be the 40th anniversary of my parents' deaths,

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within a few days of each other.

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Which, of course, was utterly shattering.

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'Neil knows that as an only child,

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'he is the last of the Kinnocks to come from Tredegar.

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'Even his family home, the prefab house where he grew up, has been demolished.

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'He's aware that his links with his beloved home town are ebbing away.

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'But even 40 years on, in a strong community like Tredegar,

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'Neil is never far from people who remember his parents fondly -

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'including retired milkman Trevor Jones, known as Trevor the Milk.

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'He has a surprise - a surviving photograph of Neil's family home.'

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That's the prefabs. Amazing!

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Our house, number one.

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Morgans, number four here.

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Davis, number three.

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-Great days!

-I remember your mother visiting patients up there.

-Indeed.

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-Cromwell Roberts lived over here.

-Cromwell Roberts! Ambulance driver!

-That's right.

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-It's great to see you.

-Oh, yes.

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'Neil is back on the trail of his grandfather Archie's story.

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'For this, he must travel to Bristol,

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'to the town where Archie grew up.

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'In Bristol, Neil is here to learn of his grandfather Archie's parents,

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'both Emily and William Kinnock.

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'William Kinnock was a military man and later an accountant.

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'Despite his outward respectability, in 1892, amazingly,

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'he died here, in this workhouse in the Stapleton area of Bristol,

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'a place reserved for the very poorest in society.

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'The workhouse still stands today.

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'It's always been Neil's belief his great-grandfather died of drink.

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'But what has historian Peter Higginbotham managed to unearth?'

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We've got a death certificate here

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of your great-grandfather,

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William Gordon Kinnock, 1892.

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He died in the Bristol city workhouse, Stapleton.

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Now, the cause of death

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was ulcerated legs, weak heart, exhaustion.

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Drink.

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-You think that was the reason?

-It was booze. Yeah.

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-The other thing we know about him, he wasn't penniless.

-Oh.

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He had 130 quid to his name after he died.

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-£30,000 in today's prices.

-Right.

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You couldn't just come into a workhouse. There was a means test.

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The best explanation is

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that William wanted a bit of free medical treatment.

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He almost certainly had the interview with the officer,

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-but didn't really...

-Disclose.

-..come clean about what he had tucked away.

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'So Neil's great-grandfather, William Kinnock,

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'was prepared to live out his days in the workhouse,

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'a place of last resort for the very poor, even though he had money

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'and could have avoided this miserable end.'

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Really, he could afford a private doctor,

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but decided he'd have some cut-price medical care.

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I can't say I'm proud of THAT particular antecedent.

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'After William died, his widow Emily appears to have continued to hide

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'the family wealth,

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'throwing herself on the mercy of charity to send Archie to poor school and Wilfred to the orphanage.

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'But with ten children to support,

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'it was only Harold who she chose to send to public school.'

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The way she dealt with at least one of her children was bizarre,

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sending him to an orphanage when he wasn't an orphan.

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Another one, she got into public school somehow.

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All of that was occurring and at the same time,

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um...if there's any...

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Well, it wouldn't amount to insanity.

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..any bizarreness, any weirdness

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in the family, I suppose that's the strain.

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-I'm very glad it's died out.

-HE CHUCKLES

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'Could it be that this story of family injustice

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'is why Archie passed on the importance of education

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'to his young grandson, Neil Kinnock, something that would guide

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'the rest of his political life?

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'Now, Neil is travelling back to Wales,

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'where he will learn the final chapter in his story,

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'and the effects of World War I on the Kinnock family.

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'His grandfather, Archie, as a coal miner,

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'was in a reserved occupation.

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'His brother, Harold, was a civil servant in London.

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'And Wilfred? What had become of him?

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'By now, he'd become a professional soldier

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'in one of Wales's most famous regiments.

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'To learn of Wilfred's story,

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'Neil is travelling across the Brecon Beacons.

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'He's come to the heart of Brecon town,

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'to the museum of the South Wales Borderers.

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'Neil will shortly learn that he's here

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'because this is the regiment Wilfred Kinnock joined before the First World War.

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'But was it the promise of comradeship that drew Wilfred,

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'the boy from the orphanage, to join up?

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'Neil's here to follow the story

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'of his grandfather Archie's brother, Wilfred Kinnock.

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'Wilfred joined the South Wales Borderers

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'four years before the outbreak of World War I.

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'Although Neil doesn't yet know it,

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'this portrait is of Wilfred's commanding officer.

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'Neil joins Mike Churchill-Jones.'

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Wilfred joined the South Wales Borderers in 1910.

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-So he was a regular soldier.

-Yeah.

-Joined the 1st Battalion.

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He never rose above the rank of private.

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He fought in some of the bloodiest battles of the war.

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Um...

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During one of those battles, the Battle of the Somme in July 1916,

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he fought in a battle at Memetz Wood.

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-Memetz Wood, obviously, was a very bloody battle.

-Yes.

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Across three battalions, 400 South Wales Borderers lost their lives.

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Great casualties in the Welsh regiments.

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'The odds were stacked firmly against Wilfred, but...'

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Miraculously, he survived that battle.

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-So maybe his luck was finally changing.

-Mm.

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'In fact, Archie, Harold AND Wilfred Kinnock all lived through the war

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'to the final call for peace by the Germans in October 1918.'

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We've got Emily, who's probably...

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-She's overjoyed.

-Yes.

-Her sons have survived the war.

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'The front page of the Western Mail proclaimed the good news.

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'This headline was dated Monday October 7 1918.

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'The following day, October 8, the regimental diary also recorded...'

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"Kinnock Wilfred Hayman. Nationality, United Kingdom.

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"Rank, private. Regiment, South Wales Borderers.

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"Aged 27.

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"Date of death, 8th October 1918."

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-The day the war ended, or shortly afterwards.

-That was...

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The Armistice, as you know, was on 11th November.

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'Although Wilfred was killed on October 8th,

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'Emily would have known nothing of this tragedy until notified later

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'by a letter from his commanding officer.

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'In the midst of national celebration of peace,

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'Emily would receive news that Wilfred,

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'the child she had given up to the orphanage, had died

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'in the very last days of the war.'

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-That's the Victory medal, isn't it?

-The Military medal...

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'Emily would receive Wilfred's medals posthumously,

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'along with a memorial plaque,

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'one of over a million issued to the families of the fallen.'

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Well...

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-Did you know about Wilfred?

-No. I didn't know about Wilfred.

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-He didn't have a very lucky life, did he?

-He didn't.

-No.

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Especially to be robbed of it

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when the war was effectively over.

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-Do you think Archie would have known?

-Archie would have known about it.

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I just feel sorry for Wilfred. His father dies when he's two.

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He's in an orphanage from the age of four

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till at least 14.

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And...

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then he joins the army.

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He served under the colours for four years, five years,

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from the age of 22, 23, and then he died.

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'With ten children to bring up,

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'Emily chose to place Wilfred in an orphanage,

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'but she would never have forgotten him.

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'He alone had been christened with her family name, Hayman.'

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He's the only child with the mother's name.

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She effectively abandons him when he's four years of age.

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This is why, in this whole experience,

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I'd like to take a magic pill

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to get back and say,

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"Great-grandmother, what the HELL were you thinking of?

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"Why did you have to do it?"

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'Neil was so close to his grandfather, Archie,

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'but there's so much in the family story that he didn't share with him.

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'Maybe he was protecting him from his past.

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'Now, nearly at the end of his journey,

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'how much has this changed what Neil knew of his family story?'

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All the messages given to me by my grandfather,

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to whom I was very close, knew very well and loved very much,

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were that he detested, despised his father.

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So much so that the impression that I gathered

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and have carried in all the decades since,

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51 years,

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have been that my grandfather ran away from a bullying father.

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But he was only nine when his father died.

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And so, that is an invention,

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unconscious invention, of my imagination.

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'Neil has learnt revealing stories of distant ancestors

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'and close family,

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'and the events that brought the Kinnocks to Wales.

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'Now, with his journey over, how does Neil feel about coming home?'

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I've been very fortunate, privileged, indeed,

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to have my story told,

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but never with the fullness that's been available

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as a consequence of Coming Home.

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My children and grandchildren will thoroughly enjoy it.

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My preoccupation has always been with the future.

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Now we can feel

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bitter, angry about some of the past.

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But it's tomorrow that matters.

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And part of my children and grandchildren's tomorrow

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is where they came from.

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So they already want to know and see,

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and they do and they will.

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