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'Serena and Tony and Rachel and Sam have never met, but they have one thing in common.' | 0:00:05 | 0:00:11 | |
Marriage is the most solemn thing you can do. | 0:00:11 | 0:00:14 | |
-'They're planning to tie the knot.' -I want to spend my life with him. | 0:00:14 | 0:00:18 | |
'But there's a problem. | 0:00:18 | 0:00:20 | |
'In the UK, if you get married before you're 30, | 0:00:20 | 0:00:24 | |
'you're far more likely to end up divorced than any other age group.' | 0:00:24 | 0:00:29 | |
People think when they get married, it goes downhill, but why? | 0:00:29 | 0:00:33 | |
'For Britain's 20-somethings, marriage has never been so risky.' | 0:00:33 | 0:00:38 | |
I'm making this vow to spend the rest of my life with you, which I do think means something. | 0:00:38 | 0:00:43 | |
'If these couples want to ensure they go the distance, who can they turn to?' | 0:00:43 | 0:00:49 | |
I don't think anybody can convince me it's not the right thing to do. | 0:00:49 | 0:00:53 | |
'Each other!' | 0:00:53 | 0:00:56 | |
Hello. I'm Tony. | 0:00:54 | 0:00:56 | |
'In a ground-breaking experiment, they'll spend seven days in each other's lives...' | 0:00:56 | 0:01:02 | |
What I'm nervous about is if they said, "Sam's not the right person for you." | 0:01:02 | 0:01:06 | |
'..on a fact-finding mission where strangers attempt to identify | 0:01:06 | 0:01:11 | |
'potential problems in each other's relationships.' | 0:01:11 | 0:01:14 | |
We'll make them feel like they're being interrogated. | 0:01:14 | 0:01:18 | |
'Model Serena and boxer Tony met five years ago.' | 0:01:18 | 0:01:21 | |
-We never have one serious argument. -Over the stupidest... -Let me speak! | 0:01:21 | 0:01:26 | |
'Will constant bickering destroy their chances of a happy marriage?' | 0:01:26 | 0:01:30 | |
-We start arguing and she throws a strop. -You start screaming and I throw a strop! | 0:01:30 | 0:01:35 | |
'Admin clerk Rachel and factory worker Sam | 0:01:35 | 0:01:39 | |
'got engaged exactly three years after they met.' | 0:01:39 | 0:01:42 | |
I used to work for a company who fitted tow bars. | 0:01:42 | 0:01:46 | |
Rachel worked for a company who sold tow bars. | 0:01:46 | 0:01:49 | |
'Will their future marriage survive without excitement and romance?' | 0:01:49 | 0:01:53 | |
I've had flowers three times in six and a half years? | 0:01:53 | 0:01:57 | |
'To answer all of these questions and more, | 0:01:58 | 0:02:01 | |
'they'll spend time in each other's homes, quiz each other's families...' | 0:02:01 | 0:02:06 | |
He was two and a half when his dad walked out. | 0:02:06 | 0:02:09 | |
'..discover what their wedding plans might say about them as a couple.' | 0:02:09 | 0:02:15 | |
That's not me. That's him. | 0:02:15 | 0:02:17 | |
'Test if their plans for family life are realistic.' | 0:02:17 | 0:02:20 | |
She's terrified, to be honest! | 0:02:20 | 0:02:23 | |
'And who will stay faithful on their hen do...' | 0:02:23 | 0:02:27 | |
-Not for me! -'..and stag night?' | 0:02:27 | 0:02:29 | |
-He's under the thumb. -A load of shit. | 0:02:29 | 0:02:32 | |
'After an intense week, they'll deliver a verdict on each other's impending marriages.' | 0:02:32 | 0:02:38 | |
It's going to destroy the relationship. | 0:02:38 | 0:02:40 | |
-'A brutally honest assessment...' -You need to grow a set. | 0:02:40 | 0:02:44 | |
'..they'll never hear from family and friends...' | 0:02:44 | 0:02:47 | |
If Tony was like that, I would be gone! | 0:02:47 | 0:02:50 | |
'..that could decide whether these couples go from being nearlyweds...' | 0:02:50 | 0:02:55 | |
-I guarantee you won't regret it. -'..to reallyweds.' | 0:02:55 | 0:02:58 | |
One thing I hate doing is packing. It annoys me. | 0:03:07 | 0:03:11 | |
This is how I pack. Done. | 0:03:11 | 0:03:13 | |
'Nearlyweds Tony and Serena | 0:03:13 | 0:03:16 | |
'are leaving their home in Liverpool and heading to Wigan | 0:03:16 | 0:03:20 | |
'to meet Rachel and Sam for the first time.' | 0:03:20 | 0:03:23 | |
-Getting a bit nervous. Are you, Sam? -A little bit. | 0:03:23 | 0:03:27 | |
'For seven days, they'll be taking a fresh look at each other's relationships.' | 0:03:27 | 0:03:32 | |
I want to get there and meet them. | 0:03:32 | 0:03:34 | |
'Almost half of all people who marry in their 20s end up divorced.' | 0:03:34 | 0:03:39 | |
I hate waiting. | 0:03:39 | 0:03:41 | |
'These young couples are hoping that this week might save their marriage before they've said "I do".' | 0:03:41 | 0:03:48 | |
It'll be good to get someone's point of view. | 0:03:48 | 0:03:51 | |
-If there's anything that... -Needs to be worked on. -Yeah. | 0:03:51 | 0:03:55 | |
We want to go into our marriage with open eyes. | 0:03:55 | 0:03:58 | |
"OK, that is a bit of a weak spot, but we can work on it." | 0:03:58 | 0:04:02 | |
Hopefully, come out of it at the end an even better relationship. | 0:04:02 | 0:04:07 | |
'At the end of their week together, | 0:04:07 | 0:04:09 | |
'both couples record a no-holds barred verdict | 0:04:09 | 0:04:12 | |
'on their fellow nearlyweds.' | 0:04:12 | 0:04:15 | |
Wigan Pier! I used to go raving in here! | 0:04:15 | 0:04:17 | |
'Right down to whether they should get married at all.' | 0:04:17 | 0:04:21 | |
I'm willing to be outspoken and give them my advice. | 0:04:21 | 0:04:25 | |
I hope they don't sit there and say nothing. I just hope they don't try and upset me! | 0:04:25 | 0:04:31 | |
This was an engagement present off Rachel's mum and dad. | 0:04:31 | 0:04:34 | |
Royal Doulton wine glasses. | 0:04:34 | 0:04:36 | |
Yeah. Get them out. It's a special occasion. | 0:04:36 | 0:04:40 | |
-Listen to that. -GLASS RINGS | 0:04:40 | 0:04:44 | |
'Sam and Rachel have been together for six years. | 0:04:44 | 0:04:47 | |
'Their friends and family have never told them they were anything other than the perfect couple.' | 0:04:47 | 0:04:52 | |
Just feel really, really comfortable with each other. | 0:04:52 | 0:04:56 | |
-A little bit too comfortable, sometimes. -Yeah! -Get a bit lazy! | 0:04:56 | 0:05:00 | |
Goes with napkins as well! Colour coordination! | 0:05:00 | 0:05:04 | |
'The moment Sam met Rachel, he believed she was the sort of woman | 0:05:04 | 0:05:08 | |
'he could spend the rest of his life with.' | 0:05:08 | 0:05:10 | |
The main women who I don't like more than anything | 0:05:10 | 0:05:13 | |
are the WAG type women who are just obsessed by money. | 0:05:13 | 0:05:17 | |
"Unless he looks like Cristiano Ronaldo I won't talk to him." | 0:05:17 | 0:05:22 | |
My God! Where are we? | 0:05:22 | 0:05:25 | |
'Serena and Tony will be in Wigan for the first half of the week, | 0:05:25 | 0:05:29 | |
'before the tables are turned, and Rachel and Sam stay with them.' | 0:05:29 | 0:05:34 | |
I like the garden. | 0:05:34 | 0:05:36 | |
-Hello. -Hello, I'm Tony. | 0:05:36 | 0:05:39 | |
-I'm Rachel. -Hiya. I'm Serena. | 0:05:39 | 0:05:42 | |
-It's lovely in here! -How long you lived here? | 0:05:42 | 0:05:45 | |
< Nearly five years. Quite a while then. Sound. | 0:05:45 | 0:05:49 | |
Nice area. > | 0:05:49 | 0:05:51 | |
SERENA LAUGHS | 0:05:51 | 0:05:53 | |
So... | 0:05:53 | 0:05:56 | |
Tell me a bit about yourselves. | 0:05:56 | 0:05:59 | |
For a living, I do powder coating. | 0:05:59 | 0:06:01 | |
-Painting gates, railings, motor bike frames. -Yeah. I get you. | 0:06:01 | 0:06:05 | |
What do you do, Rachel? > I work in administration. | 0:06:05 | 0:06:09 | |
-Where are you getting married? -In the hotel where I stayed when we first met. | 0:06:09 | 0:06:14 | |
-Why did you decide to do it? -When we first got together, I said to Rachel | 0:06:14 | 0:06:19 | |
that if we're together for three years, I'll ask you to marry me... | 0:06:19 | 0:06:23 | |
Wait there! It wasn't the fact that you were in love. | 0:06:23 | 0:06:27 | |
You said, "Three years, I'm gonna marry you!" | 0:06:27 | 0:06:30 | |
No, we both said that three years living with someone | 0:06:30 | 0:06:33 | |
is a good time to think you do actually know this person. | 0:06:33 | 0:06:37 | |
Who's sorted the wedding out? | 0:06:37 | 0:06:39 | |
-We've both sorted it, but Rachel's done more. -You've been helpful. | 0:06:39 | 0:06:43 | |
-You helped me pick the bridesmaid dresses. -Is that not a good thing? | 0:06:43 | 0:06:47 | |
-That somebody else is helping you to choose things? -Definitely. | 0:06:47 | 0:06:52 | |
-On your own, would you find that extremely stressful? -Yes. | 0:06:52 | 0:06:56 | |
Things aren't going as planned for me right now! | 0:06:58 | 0:07:02 | |
'But what are the wedding plans that Sam has supposedly helped with?' | 0:07:02 | 0:07:08 | |
-Is your accent a Wigan accent? -Proper Wigan accent, yeah. | 0:07:08 | 0:07:12 | |
'They're planning to tie the knot where they had their first date. | 0:07:12 | 0:07:17 | |
'They've set up the venue so that Tony and Serena can get an accurate glimpse of the big day.' | 0:07:17 | 0:07:23 | |
Our wedding day, every bit has got a part of us. | 0:07:23 | 0:07:27 | |
'Something personal to us. | 0:07:27 | 0:07:30 | |
'We've got near enough all the things that we wanted.' | 0:07:30 | 0:07:34 | |
Bar a horse and carriage, what you wanted. | 0:07:34 | 0:07:37 | |
-You don't have to spend a fortune to have a good day. -No. | 0:07:37 | 0:07:42 | |
Ah! It looks lovely! | 0:07:42 | 0:07:44 | |
Look at the red carpet! Where are you gonna come from? Here? | 0:07:44 | 0:07:49 | |
This pulls away. | 0:07:49 | 0:07:51 | |
Then we do the vows and there's another reading. | 0:07:51 | 0:07:54 | |
-Then the final bit. -You can do your own vows. | 0:07:54 | 0:07:57 | |
I thought it would be really nice | 0:07:57 | 0:08:00 | |
but Sam's not having any of it. | 0:08:00 | 0:08:03 | |
You like the traditional vows, is what you're saying. | 0:08:03 | 0:08:06 | |
You should be doing it, making the effort. "If that's going to make you happy, it's your big day." | 0:08:07 | 0:08:14 | |
'The guy needs to sit in a room by himself and write some vows.' | 0:08:14 | 0:08:18 | |
I wouldn't even question it. "If that's what would make this special, I'll do it." | 0:08:18 | 0:08:24 | |
'It's not just Sam's lack of personal vows that's worrying Tony.' | 0:08:24 | 0:08:28 | |
For me, this is like going round to the local pub. | 0:08:28 | 0:08:32 | |
What do you think the dress is going to be like? | 0:08:32 | 0:08:35 | |
I reckon it's going to be white... | 0:08:35 | 0:08:38 | |
'Despite saying she's happy to get married in a hotel, | 0:08:38 | 0:08:42 | |
'Rachel's first choice would have been something more traditional.' | 0:08:42 | 0:08:46 | |
It was the plan to get married in church. We discussed it when we got together. | 0:08:46 | 0:08:51 | |
When we came down to organising it, we had issues with the date. | 0:08:51 | 0:08:54 | |
It would be hard to get a venue, trying to organise the two together. | 0:08:54 | 0:08:59 | |
I want everything done yesterday | 0:08:59 | 0:09:02 | |
and I would not have been able to wait, have it hanging over me. | 0:09:02 | 0:09:06 | |
Wow! That is gorgeous! | 0:09:08 | 0:09:12 | |
Oh, my God! You look amazing! | 0:09:12 | 0:09:15 | |
-I love the gloves. -I wasn't sure about the gloves. -It's dead classy. | 0:09:15 | 0:09:20 | |
How do you think Sam's feeling, knowing your dress is ready? | 0:09:20 | 0:09:25 | |
-He's saying he's not nervous, but I think he is. -Yeah? | 0:09:25 | 0:09:29 | |
-You were saying about writing your own wedding vows. Do you think he will do that? -No. | 0:09:29 | 0:09:35 | |
-'I do feel that Sam probably won't make me feel as special on the day as... -As you'd like to. -Yeah.' | 0:09:35 | 0:09:41 | |
I'd love him to have a really nice speech. That would do me. | 0:09:41 | 0:09:45 | |
-Just that speech. -Just that speech. OK. | 0:09:45 | 0:09:49 | |
I'm getting wound up now! | 0:09:49 | 0:09:51 | |
Don't get wound up! Like you just said, that's the way he is. | 0:09:51 | 0:09:55 | |
It's just something you want to change about him, isn't it? | 0:09:55 | 0:09:59 | |
-It's only a minute little thing, nothing massive. -Something silly. | 0:09:59 | 0:10:03 | |
It's something that makes YOU feel good about YOU. | 0:10:03 | 0:10:06 | |
-CHAMPAGNE CORK POPS -I'll have a tiny bit, please. | 0:10:10 | 0:10:13 | |
'Although they've only just met...' | 0:10:13 | 0:10:16 | |
TONY: Cheers, ears! RACHEL: A toast to us. | 0:10:16 | 0:10:18 | |
Finding out everything about each other! | 0:10:18 | 0:10:21 | |
'..Serena and Tony are starting to draw conclusions about Rachel and Sam's marriage prospects.' | 0:10:21 | 0:10:27 | |
The lack of romance, if it's left unattended to, | 0:10:27 | 0:10:31 | |
could get out of control and really turn a little bit nasty and... | 0:10:31 | 0:10:36 | |
-You know... -Dead. | 0:10:36 | 0:10:38 | |
Day one, we can chalk down to a success. | 0:10:38 | 0:10:41 | |
I think we can chalk it to a success. We've met two sane people. We've got similarities. | 0:10:41 | 0:10:48 | |
If he's being like that now and she's noticed it, | 0:10:48 | 0:10:51 | |
because she's brought it up, who's to say it's not going to get worse? | 0:10:51 | 0:10:55 | |
-What do you think they thought about us? -I think they thought we're a good couple. | 0:10:55 | 0:11:01 | |
We know each other inside out. | 0:11:01 | 0:11:04 | |
With girls, they feel like that the do still need reminding | 0:11:04 | 0:11:08 | |
and they do still need little...nice things. | 0:11:08 | 0:11:12 | |
-Very sexist that! -Something like... -Very sexist. | 0:11:12 | 0:11:15 | |
Coming in with flowers every now and then. It's nice. | 0:11:15 | 0:11:18 | |
-Sleep? -Sleep. | 0:11:18 | 0:11:21 | |
-See you in the morning. Love you. -Love you, too. | 0:11:21 | 0:11:25 | |
'Today, the investigation into Sam and Rachel's relationship | 0:11:34 | 0:11:38 | |
'is going to go deeper.' | 0:11:38 | 0:11:40 | |
If you're not in a relationship that's a happy relationship, | 0:11:40 | 0:11:45 | |
what the fuck? Your life's shit, basically. | 0:11:45 | 0:11:48 | |
To see her get really upset when she had her wedding dress on. | 0:11:48 | 0:11:52 | |
'Tony and Serena have arranged to meet their family.' | 0:11:52 | 0:11:56 | |
I'm here for the interrogation! | 0:11:56 | 0:11:58 | |
'They want to know if anyone has doubts about Sam and Rachel's plans for life together, | 0:11:58 | 0:12:03 | |
'but haven't found a way of telling them.' | 0:12:03 | 0:12:06 | |
What were your first impressions of Sam? | 0:12:06 | 0:12:09 | |
'Rachel's mum Anne met Sam almost as soon as they started seeing each other.' | 0:12:09 | 0:12:14 | |
He walked in the door, gave me a hug and said, "I'm Sam. You're Rachel's mum." | 0:12:14 | 0:12:20 | |
And that was it. I thought, "Yeah. He is the one." | 0:12:20 | 0:12:24 | |
'Sam grew up in a single parent family. | 0:12:24 | 0:12:27 | |
'His Aunt Tracy played a huge part in his upbringing.' | 0:12:27 | 0:12:30 | |
They got engaged in our house on Christmas Day. | 0:12:30 | 0:12:34 | |
He got down on one knee in front of us all and proposed to her. | 0:12:34 | 0:12:39 | |
He's got this problem with romance. | 0:12:39 | 0:12:42 | |
He can do that in front of everybody, why can't he do a bit more? | 0:12:42 | 0:12:47 | |
Rachel was saying, "I want it to be dead traditional." Then took us to the Bellingham. | 0:12:47 | 0:12:53 | |
That's not traditional. Why are they rushing it instead of waiting? | 0:12:53 | 0:12:57 | |
-Is there something going on? -She said she wanted to be married before she were 30. -There it is! | 0:12:57 | 0:13:03 | |
Rachel was born in a hurry. | 0:13:03 | 0:13:05 | |
She always wanted to do things before anybody else. | 0:13:05 | 0:13:10 | |
She was trying her dress on and got dead upset. | 0:13:11 | 0:13:15 | |
Serena questioned her about it and it's down to Sam not being romantic. | 0:13:15 | 0:13:20 | |
It could be something that's happened in his past. | 0:13:20 | 0:13:24 | |
He was only two and a half when his dad walked out. | 0:13:24 | 0:13:28 | |
My dad was like a father figure to him. | 0:13:28 | 0:13:30 | |
I think that's where it's come from. My dad wasn't a romantic person! | 0:13:30 | 0:13:36 | |
-Now with you saying that, it's obvious he's learned from your dad. -Definitely. | 0:13:36 | 0:13:41 | |
What's your thoughts on grandchildren? | 0:13:41 | 0:13:44 | |
What do you reckon Rachel would do if Sam said, "I want a kid"? | 0:13:44 | 0:13:48 | |
-Would she have one? -I think so. | 0:13:48 | 0:13:50 | |
Do you think Sam's ready to be a dad, grown-up enough? | 0:13:50 | 0:13:54 | |
I think maybe a few more years for Sam. | 0:13:54 | 0:13:57 | |
'It's helpful to meet members of the family | 0:13:57 | 0:14:01 | |
'because they tell you things Rachel and Sam wouldn't want you to know.' | 0:14:01 | 0:14:05 | |
You get to know the truth when other people tell you stuff about them. | 0:14:05 | 0:14:10 | |
-Let's show Manchester what we're made of! -Oh, God! | 0:14:10 | 0:14:14 | |
'Now that they've met the family, it's time to grill the friends.' | 0:14:14 | 0:14:18 | |
-To Rachel, and all who sail in her! -'If they can!' | 0:14:18 | 0:14:22 | |
CHEERING | 0:14:22 | 0:14:24 | |
'Tony and Serena's investigations will have to continue | 0:14:24 | 0:14:28 | |
'on the couple's stag and hen do's.' | 0:14:28 | 0:14:30 | |
The stag and hen do's reflect mine and Sam's personalities. | 0:14:30 | 0:14:35 | |
Considering it's classed as our last night of freedom, | 0:14:35 | 0:14:39 | |
we're going to have a few drinks, it's going to be a wild night. | 0:14:39 | 0:14:43 | |
Sam and Rachel like to party, but their friends aren't giving much away. | 0:14:43 | 0:14:49 | |
Everyone's bladdered. | 0:14:49 | 0:14:50 | |
CHEERING | 0:14:50 | 0:14:53 | |
He's a nice lad. I'm having a laugh with him. | 0:14:54 | 0:14:57 | |
-He's cool. -Sam's not too bad. | 0:14:57 | 0:15:00 | |
-In about half an hour, we'll move on somewhere else. -Ho-ho! | 0:15:00 | 0:15:04 | |
I give Serena till ten to ten. I guarantee you she'll ring me. | 0:15:04 | 0:15:09 | |
-Guarantee you! -You're here with the boys. | 0:15:09 | 0:15:13 | |
'But the night is about to get even more revealing | 0:15:13 | 0:15:17 | |
'than any of the nearlyweds expected. | 0:15:17 | 0:15:20 | |
'She may not be having a traditional wedding, | 0:15:20 | 0:15:23 | |
'but Rachel's mates have ensured she has a very traditional hen night.' | 0:15:23 | 0:15:28 | |
'Not my scene at all, the stripper.' | 0:15:35 | 0:15:38 | |
Not for me. I'd find it disrespectful if Tony went to a strip club. | 0:15:38 | 0:15:42 | |
When you're with someone, what's the point doing stuff like that? | 0:15:42 | 0:15:47 | |
-Tony! Tony! Are we in? -Not for me, lads. | 0:15:47 | 0:15:51 | |
-Look, even if I was single, I wouldn't go in there. I wouldn't. -All you have to do is chill. | 0:15:51 | 0:15:58 | |
-You don't have to have a dance. -I'm not going in there. -Have a beer. | 0:15:58 | 0:16:02 | |
You're going in! I'm not going in there. | 0:16:02 | 0:16:05 | |
'The evening is beginning to say more about Tony and Serena's relationship...' | 0:16:05 | 0:16:11 | |
-You all right? -It's cool. -I'm ready to go. I'll meet you at the hotel. | 0:16:11 | 0:16:15 | |
'..than it is about Rachel and Sam's.' | 0:16:15 | 0:16:18 | |
'I wouldn't leave early on anybody's hen do. | 0:16:18 | 0:16:22 | |
'I'm not the sort of person that would just go home.' | 0:16:22 | 0:16:27 | |
I find that a bit disrespectful. | 0:16:27 | 0:16:30 | |
See ya later, lads. See ya later, mate. | 0:16:30 | 0:16:33 | |
Tony's gone home with Serena, but I don't think that Tony wants to go home. | 0:16:33 | 0:16:38 | |
I think I've learnt more about Tony and Serena than they have about us. | 0:16:38 | 0:16:42 | |
Serena gets her own way and Tony just goes along with it. | 0:16:42 | 0:16:47 | |
He's under the thumb. That's not a boxing scar, that's a thumbprint. | 0:16:47 | 0:16:52 | |
'It weren't my scene at all.' | 0:17:06 | 0:17:08 | |
At all, whatsoever. | 0:17:08 | 0:17:11 | |
'The way they are works for them.' | 0:17:13 | 0:17:15 | |
It wouldn't work for us, not one bit. | 0:17:15 | 0:17:19 | |
Strip clubs and strippers, just fucking seedy. Just not for us. | 0:17:21 | 0:17:27 | |
Louder! Louder! SAM BARKS | 0:17:27 | 0:17:31 | |
'It's Sam and Rachel's last day under the microscope.' | 0:17:39 | 0:17:43 | |
I'm feeling a bit rough from last night. I had a few. | 0:17:43 | 0:17:49 | |
'From tomorrow, the tables will be turned.' | 0:17:49 | 0:17:54 | |
-They're going to walk in and be like, "Hiya!" -We're like, "Aargh!" | 0:17:54 | 0:18:00 | |
'They can begin gathering evidence on Tony and Serena's relationship | 0:18:00 | 0:18:05 | |
'for their final verdict at the end of the week.' | 0:18:05 | 0:18:08 | |
They've had a head start because they've got to spend time with us. | 0:18:08 | 0:18:13 | |
We are the way we are all the time. | 0:18:13 | 0:18:15 | |
We haven't been fake or nothing like that. | 0:18:15 | 0:18:18 | |
'But their fellow nearlyweds have one last area they want to explore.' | 0:18:20 | 0:18:25 | |
We've got a challenge planned. I don't know if they're gonna like it. | 0:18:25 | 0:18:29 | |
'When Serena talked to Rachel's mum yesterday, it was clear she wanted grandchildren.' | 0:18:29 | 0:18:35 | |
-I feel a bit sick. -SERENA LAUGHS | 0:18:35 | 0:18:38 | |
-Is that nervous sick? -I think so. | 0:18:38 | 0:18:41 | |
'What was also clear was her worry that Sam wasn't ready to be a dad.' | 0:18:41 | 0:18:46 | |
-When people ask us about kids, we're just like, "No, no, no." -Yeah. | 0:18:46 | 0:18:50 | |
-I don't think we've ever sat down and actually spoke about it. -No. -It's something that we need to do. | 0:18:50 | 0:18:56 | |
'Tony and Serena have brought them to a nursery.' | 0:18:59 | 0:19:04 | |
The plan is you're going to be with the babies over lunch time. | 0:19:04 | 0:19:08 | |
We're going to get you in there... | 0:19:08 | 0:19:10 | |
I've never held a baby. Now's your chance. Never. | 0:19:10 | 0:19:15 | |
'While they get their first ever taste of childcare, Tony and Serena will see everything.' | 0:19:15 | 0:19:21 | |
Tiny little bit on the spoon. | 0:19:22 | 0:19:24 | |
Is it the right temperature? Yeah. | 0:19:24 | 0:19:28 | |
'Could Rachel and Sam become parents and remain married?' | 0:19:32 | 0:19:37 | |
OK? Don't look so scared! | 0:19:37 | 0:19:39 | |
-You're like that! -She doesn't bite. | 0:19:39 | 0:19:43 | |
Just relax! | 0:19:43 | 0:19:44 | |
-We make it look easy! -Oh, no. She's crying! > | 0:19:44 | 0:19:48 | |
She's crying! | 0:19:48 | 0:19:50 | |
'Sam's a lot better with the kids than Rachel.' | 0:19:54 | 0:19:57 | |
I think she's terrified of them! | 0:19:57 | 0:20:00 | |
-I told you, babies don't like me! -Is this normal? | 0:20:00 | 0:20:04 | |
BABY CRIES | 0:20:04 | 0:20:06 | |
'The trouble with deciding to have kids... | 0:20:08 | 0:20:12 | |
'..is that they keep growing.' | 0:20:13 | 0:20:15 | |
-You all right there? -No. No! | 0:20:15 | 0:20:18 | |
'And you have to find even more time away from your relationship | 0:20:18 | 0:20:22 | |
'to entertain them.' | 0:20:22 | 0:20:24 | |
'He's getting involved.' | 0:20:24 | 0:20:26 | |
She's just sitting there saying, "I can't." | 0:20:26 | 0:20:29 | |
-Get your hands done, Rach. -What? -Get your hand on there! | 0:20:29 | 0:20:33 | |
-Get your hand there. -No. | 0:20:33 | 0:20:35 | |
He's telling her to do a hand print with the kids and she's saying, "What for?" | 0:20:35 | 0:20:41 | |
So it's fun for them. It's not about you. | 0:20:41 | 0:20:44 | |
We're off! Hello! | 0:20:44 | 0:20:47 | |
'Finally, it's nap time.' | 0:20:48 | 0:20:50 | |
If you sort of sit her in here. | 0:20:50 | 0:20:53 | |
'At long last, aged 29, | 0:20:53 | 0:20:57 | |
'Rachel is about to hold a baby | 0:20:57 | 0:21:00 | |
'for the very first time.' | 0:21:00 | 0:21:03 | |
She likes to be patted or stroked as well. | 0:21:05 | 0:21:09 | |
She does like to be sung to as well. > | 0:21:09 | 0:21:12 | |
Sam, jump in! | 0:21:12 | 0:21:14 | |
She likes Twinkle, Twinkle. | 0:21:14 | 0:21:16 | |
Shall I start? > Yeah. | 0:21:16 | 0:21:18 | |
# Twinkle, twinkle little star | 0:21:18 | 0:21:22 | |
ALL JOIN IN # How I wonder what you are... # | 0:21:22 | 0:21:27 | |
'I think me and Rachel would make really good parents.' | 0:21:27 | 0:21:31 | |
Singing a little baby to sleep like that gets you quite close. | 0:21:31 | 0:21:36 | |
It's made me start thinking about certain things being here today. | 0:21:36 | 0:21:40 | |
It's not just them nice moments. It's the whole thing. | 0:21:40 | 0:21:44 | |
Them moments are little moments. | 0:21:44 | 0:21:46 | |
There's a whole lot of other side to it. That was just the easy bit. | 0:21:46 | 0:21:52 | |
TONY: It's obvious Rachel's never going to be interested in kids. | 0:21:52 | 0:21:57 | |
As Sam gets older and more mature, | 0:21:57 | 0:22:00 | |
out of the two of them, he will want them. | 0:22:00 | 0:22:03 | |
She's 29 and if she doesn't want them now she's never going to. | 0:22:03 | 0:22:06 | |
A bleating sheep. | 0:22:06 | 0:22:09 | |
-Baaa! Baa! -CHILDREN LAUGH | 0:22:09 | 0:22:12 | |
'They're halfway through the week | 0:22:18 | 0:22:20 | |
'and it's all change for the nearlyweds.' | 0:22:20 | 0:22:23 | |
It's been quite strange for two strangers to come into our home. | 0:22:23 | 0:22:27 | |
We've bared all to them. They know everything about us, the small details. | 0:22:27 | 0:22:32 | |
-You're excited about them coming to ours? -Er, not really. | 0:22:32 | 0:22:36 | |
-Are you nervous? -No. | 0:22:36 | 0:22:38 | |
-I know they're going to grill you. -I'm not bothered. What do you mean? | 0:22:38 | 0:22:42 | |
-Why not you? -I don't think I've got anything to be grilled. | 0:22:42 | 0:22:47 | |
Don't you now? We'll see! | 0:22:47 | 0:22:49 | |
'In the past three days, have Rachel and Sam done enough...' | 0:22:49 | 0:22:53 | |
I'd just love him to have a really nice speech. That would do me. | 0:22:53 | 0:22:58 | |
'..to convince Tony and Serena they're meant to be?' | 0:22:58 | 0:23:01 | |
If you're not in a happy relationship, what the fuck? | 0:23:01 | 0:23:04 | |
-'Will THEY be able to show THEM...' -I'm sweating! | 0:23:04 | 0:23:09 | |
'..they've got what it takes to live happily ever after?' | 0:23:09 | 0:23:12 | |
Every single thing that I questioned she had an answer for. | 0:23:12 | 0:23:17 | |
'Whose final judgment will pull no punches?' | 0:23:17 | 0:23:21 | |
Serena, if you spit the dummy out, Tony, you just put it back in. | 0:23:21 | 0:23:26 | |
'And whose dreams for wedded bliss...' | 0:23:26 | 0:23:28 | |
You SEEM happy. You SEEM semi in love. | 0:23:28 | 0:23:31 | |
'..will be dealt a knock-out blow?' | 0:23:31 | 0:23:34 | |
Don't cry. | 0:23:34 | 0:23:36 | |
Here's the details where to come. | 0:23:41 | 0:23:43 | |
Looking forward to spending time with you in our town. | 0:23:43 | 0:23:46 | |
Thank you. | 0:23:49 | 0:23:50 | |
I'm really, really happy that we're going home. | 0:23:50 | 0:23:54 | |
It's been very stressful, very intense. | 0:23:54 | 0:23:57 | |
For me. | 0:23:57 | 0:23:59 | |
'Tony and Serena met five and a half years ago | 0:24:01 | 0:24:04 | |
'in a Liverpool tanning salon.' | 0:24:04 | 0:24:06 | |
I've seen her standing there and it was just like... | 0:24:06 | 0:24:11 | |
'Fortunately for Tony, the feeling was mutual.' | 0:24:11 | 0:24:14 | |
I love everything about him. He's funny, down-to-earth, easy-going. He's a nuisance! | 0:24:14 | 0:24:20 | |
I'm not the best looking lad in the world but I treat her like gold. | 0:24:20 | 0:24:24 | |
'They're planning a wedding that they say reflects how they feel about each other.' | 0:24:24 | 0:24:29 | |
-It is very expensive, but it's worth it... -It's a one-off. | 0:24:29 | 0:24:34 | |
-In a fairy tale place! -You only get one wedding - hopefully! | 0:24:34 | 0:24:38 | |
'But before they can start to assess whether the wedding should go ahead, | 0:24:38 | 0:24:43 | |
'Rachel and Sam have hit an early stumbling block.' | 0:24:43 | 0:24:48 | |
"You won't be coming to our house in Liverpool to start with. | 0:24:48 | 0:24:54 | |
"Meet us at Manchester Airport tomorrow | 0:24:54 | 0:24:58 | |
-"at 5am?" -5am? | 0:24:58 | 0:25:01 | |
Should be in here waiting for us. | 0:25:04 | 0:25:06 | |
'If Rachel and Sam want to find out what Tony and Serena's wedding plans say about them as a couple, | 0:25:06 | 0:25:12 | |
'they've got to travel a bit further than the hotel up the road.' | 0:25:12 | 0:25:16 | |
'Knowing Tony and Serena, they're going to have an over-the-top' | 0:25:16 | 0:25:21 | |
-"look at me" style wedding. -It's going to be "look at me"! | 0:25:21 | 0:25:25 | |
This is me mum. This is me dad. | 0:25:25 | 0:25:26 | |
'Serena's even had to bring along interpreters.' | 0:25:26 | 0:25:30 | |
Hiya. I'm Rachel. | 0:25:30 | 0:25:32 | |
'Her parents, Maury and Colette.' | 0:25:32 | 0:25:35 | |
-Serena, where are we going? -We're actually going to be going to Rome. | 0:25:35 | 0:25:40 | |
I'm not going to tell you exactly where. That's a surprise! | 0:25:40 | 0:25:44 | |
-Never been to Italy. -It's our first time. I'm looking forward to it. | 0:25:47 | 0:25:53 | |
'Three hours later in Rome, | 0:25:56 | 0:25:58 | |
'Rachel and Sam have asked to spend the rest of the journey | 0:25:58 | 0:26:02 | |
'to the wedding venue with Tony on his own.' | 0:26:02 | 0:26:05 | |
Tony, have you always planned to get married in Italy? | 0:26:05 | 0:26:10 | |
-Or was it like...? -Well... -Was it a joint decision or Serena's decision? | 0:26:10 | 0:26:14 | |
It was definitely a joint decision. | 0:26:14 | 0:26:17 | |
It was always an idea of mine from when I first got with her. | 0:26:17 | 0:26:22 | |
You know when you meet someone and it's serious, you really like them | 0:26:22 | 0:26:26 | |
-you get that... -Different feeling. -Totally different. | 0:26:26 | 0:26:30 | |
I'd have been happy to go to the registry office | 0:26:30 | 0:26:33 | |
and spend the money going round the world for 12 months. | 0:26:33 | 0:26:37 | |
You get one day to do it, | 0:26:37 | 0:26:40 | |
and that's what swayed me. | 0:26:40 | 0:26:42 | |
When you think about it, you've got one day, just do it. | 0:26:42 | 0:26:45 | |
You're making Serena's dream come true? I hope so. | 0:26:48 | 0:26:51 | |
I hope it's a story she can tell all her mates. | 0:26:51 | 0:26:55 | |
'Apart from her mum and dad, all of Serena's family live in Rome.' | 0:26:55 | 0:27:00 | |
It's stunning, isn't it? | 0:27:00 | 0:27:02 | |
'She's chosen a wedding venue a stone's throw from the Vatican.' | 0:27:02 | 0:27:06 | |
You can see all the monks | 0:27:06 | 0:27:08 | |
everywhere round here. | 0:27:08 | 0:27:11 | |
Is there a lot of religious places round here? | 0:27:11 | 0:27:13 | |
Well, it is... | 0:27:13 | 0:27:15 | |
Shut it! It's the most religious city in the world, Rome. | 0:27:15 | 0:27:19 | |
The Vatican City. In this particular place? | 0:27:19 | 0:27:22 | |
The Vatican is actually a city. It's its own independent state. | 0:27:22 | 0:27:26 | |
It's actually not Italian. | 0:27:26 | 0:27:29 | |
Vatican City! "Is there any religious places round here?" | 0:27:29 | 0:27:34 | |
-I didn't know we're in Vatican City. -There's a couple of night clubs(!) | 0:27:34 | 0:27:38 | |
Best of British! | 0:27:38 | 0:27:40 | |
A lap-dancing club next to it(!) | 0:27:40 | 0:27:43 | |
-LAUGHS -What sort of question was that? | 0:27:43 | 0:27:46 | |
-I was just asking. -Oooh! | 0:27:46 | 0:27:49 | |
You're going to see a domestic in a minute! | 0:27:49 | 0:27:52 | |
-You all right? -It's beautiful. -Do you like it? -Lovely. | 0:27:52 | 0:27:56 | |
-It's nice, isn't it? -It's massive. | 0:27:56 | 0:27:58 | |
-It's making me go dizzy! Shall we go in? -Let's have a look! | 0:27:58 | 0:28:02 | |
Let's go knock. | 0:28:02 | 0:28:04 | |
GASPS AND CHUCKLES | 0:28:06 | 0:28:09 | |
It's amazing! I forgot how nice it was! | 0:28:09 | 0:28:13 | |
It's going to take me half an hour to walk up this aisle! | 0:28:16 | 0:28:20 | |
It's your special day. You've got to milk it. | 0:28:20 | 0:28:23 | |
At least you've got a long aisle to pansy your dress off. | 0:28:23 | 0:28:27 | |
It's going to be really nice. I'm sweating! | 0:28:27 | 0:28:31 | |
-Look at the roof, Rach. -I know. | 0:28:31 | 0:28:33 | |
Oh, my God! | 0:28:33 | 0:28:35 | |
It's going to have the red carpet over the chairs. | 0:28:35 | 0:28:38 | |
And all the flowers, all white roses we're having. | 0:28:38 | 0:28:42 | |
Look at the paintings behind the altar. | 0:28:42 | 0:28:46 | |
It's just amazing, the detail in churches over here. | 0:28:46 | 0:28:49 | |
This is the nicest church, though. | 0:28:49 | 0:28:51 | |
My initial reactions when we pulled up were, | 0:28:51 | 0:28:55 | |
-"That's massive!" -It looked big. -Then when we came in... | 0:28:55 | 0:28:58 | |
-Absolutely amazing! -It is amazing. It's stunning. -Out-done ours! | 0:28:58 | 0:29:02 | |
BOTH LAUGH | 0:29:02 | 0:29:04 | |
-We're happy with our little wedding. -They've gone a million better. | 0:29:04 | 0:29:08 | |
-I'm still chuffed with what we're doing with all the sentimental... -It's our day. | 0:29:08 | 0:29:14 | |
Obviously, I wanted to get married in a church, but that didn't happen. | 0:29:14 | 0:29:18 | |
After we do the ceremony, we walk out. | 0:29:18 | 0:29:21 | |
Everyone comes out and we've got two doves in bird cages. | 0:29:21 | 0:29:24 | |
-We hold them and set them off. -You set them off? -Yeah. | 0:29:24 | 0:29:28 | |
'This is Serena's dream.' | 0:29:28 | 0:29:30 | |
What she's had when she was younger, and Tony's happy to let Serena have her day. | 0:29:30 | 0:29:36 | |
He did turn round in the car, Tony, and say he'd be happy going to registry office. | 0:29:36 | 0:29:42 | |
You going to look at her when she comes to you or turn round? | 0:29:42 | 0:29:46 | |
I won't be able to hold me own piss water. I'll have to turn round! | 0:29:46 | 0:29:51 | |
I'm not good with being patient. | 0:29:51 | 0:29:53 | |
The vibe in Tony and Serena's wedding is it's Serena's wedding. | 0:29:53 | 0:29:57 | |
That's the vibe you get, and Tony's just along for the ride. | 0:29:57 | 0:30:01 | |
-Turn up on the day. -Yeah. Turn up on the day! | 0:30:01 | 0:30:04 | |
TONY: Here's to our weddings. | 0:30:11 | 0:30:13 | |
< Our weddings! | 0:30:13 | 0:30:15 | |
So, Maury and Colette, you've been married for 27 years. | 0:30:16 | 0:30:20 | |
What advice would you give for a successful marriage? | 0:30:20 | 0:30:23 | |
-ALL SHRIEK -Dad! | 0:30:28 | 0:30:32 | |
Did you really just say that? I'm going to die! | 0:30:32 | 0:30:35 | |
'There's just two days before the nearlyweds deliver their final verdict.' | 0:30:37 | 0:30:42 | |
I can't do the two bed thing. I hate it. | 0:30:42 | 0:30:46 | |
-That's better. -Oh, yeah. That made a big difference(!) | 0:30:47 | 0:30:52 | |
Serena's been a lot more relaxed. We've probably seen the real Serena. | 0:30:52 | 0:30:57 | |
-Dreading going home! -Yeah, when... -This country's absolutely gorgeous! | 0:30:57 | 0:31:01 | |
-Fantastic... -The atmosphere is dead romantic and hectic. | 0:31:01 | 0:31:06 | |
It's just great. | 0:31:06 | 0:31:08 | |
She basically said, "I've not got my worries at work and worries of life. | 0:31:08 | 0:31:13 | |
"I can just relax." Tony was like, "I'm a big part of your life." | 0:31:13 | 0:31:18 | |
I don't think Serena meant it like that. | 0:31:18 | 0:31:21 | |
'She's definitely a different person here.' | 0:31:21 | 0:31:23 | |
'The nearlyweds are on their way | 0:31:27 | 0:31:30 | |
'to the venue for Tony and Serena's wedding reception.' | 0:31:30 | 0:31:33 | |
The wedding invitations, I wanted a scroll, Roman looking. | 0:31:33 | 0:31:38 | |
'Are Rachel and Sam going to find evidence | 0:31:38 | 0:31:40 | |
'that decisions about the big day do involve Tony?' | 0:31:40 | 0:31:44 | |
-I reckon the girls are talking about shoes. -Handbags. -Hair. | 0:31:44 | 0:31:47 | |
'Or, as with the church, has Serena got her own way again?' | 0:31:47 | 0:31:52 | |
'Tony needs to see, you know,' | 0:31:52 | 0:31:54 | |
if he starts standing up to her, she might stop doing it as much. | 0:31:54 | 0:31:59 | |
A little kid, if you stand up to them... Not that I'm comparing her to a little kid. | 0:31:59 | 0:32:04 | |
RACHEL: I'm expecting somewhere as amazing as the church. | 0:32:07 | 0:32:10 | |
Definitely something big and fancy. | 0:32:10 | 0:32:12 | |
-It's lovely, isn't it? -This is the gardens. -This is me favourite part. | 0:32:12 | 0:32:17 | |
The Roman forums, little columns, the bench and stuff like that. | 0:32:17 | 0:32:21 | |
-The best part... -After we do our meal, | 0:32:21 | 0:32:24 | |
we walk into our castle and set fireworks off. | 0:32:24 | 0:32:27 | |
You actually go up there? | 0:32:27 | 0:32:29 | |
-We'll be standing and... -While they're setting the fireworks off. | 0:32:29 | 0:32:34 | |
-Do you want to have a little look? -Yeah. -Let's get the view. | 0:32:34 | 0:32:38 | |
This is what it's going to be like! | 0:32:38 | 0:32:41 | |
-I think the fireworks are a bit over the top, in fairness. -Do you? -Yeah. | 0:32:41 | 0:32:46 | |
It's like when you see the President out of the window of the balcony! | 0:32:46 | 0:32:52 | |
-Can you imagine us waving at people with fireworks going off? -N-no! | 0:32:52 | 0:32:56 | |
We'd be down at the bar with everybody. | 0:32:56 | 0:32:59 | |
-'The church is stunning. -Yeah. -You loved the church.' | 0:32:59 | 0:33:04 | |
-Absolutely loved it. -Yeah. | 0:33:04 | 0:33:06 | |
Yeah, that's more, that's the formal side, like. | 0:33:06 | 0:33:10 | |
But then when you come here, this is more like the Footballer's Wife's! | 0:33:10 | 0:33:16 | |
'In the time he's known Tony, Sam has seen him leave a stag do the moment Serena phoned him.' | 0:33:16 | 0:33:23 | |
They're all just going to be white roses in the middle. | 0:33:23 | 0:33:27 | |
'Now it seems she's made every call on the wedding.' | 0:33:27 | 0:33:31 | |
One of the things I wanted to talk to you about was Tony. | 0:33:31 | 0:33:35 | |
-He said that you spend 24/7 together. -Yeah. | 0:33:35 | 0:33:39 | |
And I think he'd appreciate a little bit of time with his mates. | 0:33:39 | 0:33:44 | |
Every time something happens, like his mates going for a meal, he's training. That's not me. | 0:33:44 | 0:33:50 | |
Tony has been like that since before I met him. | 0:33:50 | 0:33:54 | |
I think he should do stuff with his mates. | 0:33:54 | 0:33:56 | |
He needs to understand you need to make that time with your mates. | 0:33:56 | 0:34:00 | |
You can't... But the pair of us live hectic lives. | 0:34:00 | 0:34:04 | |
Tony makes it sound like you want to be with him 24/7, | 0:34:04 | 0:34:08 | |
that you don't give him any space. | 0:34:08 | 0:34:11 | |
That's the message coming across. | 0:34:11 | 0:34:13 | |
Ask Tony. Every time something comes up, he's got an excuse. | 0:34:13 | 0:34:17 | |
'Everything that I pointed out' | 0:34:17 | 0:34:19 | |
and questioned, she had an answer for. | 0:34:19 | 0:34:22 | |
Tony's just accepted the fact that she's a model, she's good looking | 0:34:22 | 0:34:28 | |
and all that lot. | 0:34:28 | 0:34:30 | |
He just thinks to himself that he's lucky to have her and, basically, | 0:34:30 | 0:34:35 | |
he's going to accept anything. | 0:34:35 | 0:34:37 | |
'The nearlyweds have a plane to catch. | 0:34:39 | 0:34:43 | |
'Sam and Rachel's interrogation will continue 1,300 miles away...' | 0:34:43 | 0:34:48 | |
That cloud looks like a dog. | 0:34:48 | 0:34:51 | |
'..in Tony and Serena's home town of Liverpool.' | 0:34:51 | 0:34:54 | |
-Wow! I like your floor. -This is our living room. | 0:34:54 | 0:34:58 | |
Obviously, as you can see! > | 0:34:58 | 0:35:00 | |
-I expected Serena's touch on things! -I thought it would be modern. | 0:35:00 | 0:35:05 | |
When the house was getting done... | 0:35:05 | 0:35:08 | |
Tony's done what he's done with the wedding. "Whatever you want." | 0:35:08 | 0:35:12 | |
It's not. I've got no artistic design in me at all. > | 0:35:12 | 0:35:16 | |
-This is our back kitchen. It's pink! -TONY: Nothing to do with me. | 0:35:16 | 0:35:21 | |
'As well as seeing where they live...' | 0:35:21 | 0:35:24 | |
-This is our bedroom. -Very nice. | 0:35:24 | 0:35:27 | |
'..tonight, Sam and Rachel will find out what Tony and Serena's friends make of their relationship. | 0:35:27 | 0:35:33 | |
'It's their stag and hen do's.' | 0:35:33 | 0:35:36 | |
-Let's go. -Are we off? See you later. | 0:35:36 | 0:35:38 | |
< Enjoy! | 0:35:38 | 0:35:40 | |
'Four days ago, they treated their fellow nearlyweds to stretch limos, heavy drinking and strippers!' | 0:35:40 | 0:35:46 | |
Rach, me and you are going to sit in with Steph, my Maid of Honour, | 0:35:46 | 0:35:51 | |
have a drink and a girlie chat about the wedding. | 0:35:51 | 0:35:54 | |
'Tonight is shaping up a little differently.' | 0:35:54 | 0:35:57 | |
Hello! You all right? Come in. | 0:35:58 | 0:36:00 | |
'Serena's planned a quiet night in and Tony's going out for a Chinese.' | 0:36:00 | 0:36:05 | |
Hello, boys. CHEERING | 0:36:05 | 0:36:08 | |
This is Rachel and that's Steph. | 0:36:09 | 0:36:13 | |
- Lime and soda. - Pint of lager. | 0:36:13 | 0:36:15 | |
Pint of Jack Daniel's please! Only joking! | 0:36:15 | 0:36:18 | |
It's white, then it's got diamonds and crystals all over the top of it. | 0:36:18 | 0:36:23 | |
I'm getting my shoes made as well. They're covered in crystals. They're gorgeous, aren't they? | 0:36:23 | 0:36:28 | |
'But the evening isn't proving that quiet for Tony.' | 0:36:28 | 0:36:32 | |
Why didn't you go in the strippers on his stag do? | 0:36:32 | 0:36:36 | |
I didn't want to! I told them before. What are you laughing at? | 0:36:36 | 0:36:40 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:36:40 | 0:36:42 | |
I just chose not to go in. > | 0:36:42 | 0:36:45 | |
-I just didn't want to go in. -Serena wouldn't let him. | 0:36:45 | 0:36:49 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:36:49 | 0:36:51 | |
I didn't want to go in. | 0:36:51 | 0:36:54 | |
Why do you reckon he didn't come in the strip club? | 0:36:54 | 0:36:57 | |
I think he's scared in case he... | 0:36:57 | 0:36:59 | |
Right, is he under the thumb, yeah or no? | 0:37:09 | 0:37:12 | |
He is under the thumb but I think he wants to be there. > | 0:37:12 | 0:37:16 | |
That's your best mates saying that. | 0:37:16 | 0:37:19 | |
I'm not under the thumb. I love my bird and I love being with her. | 0:37:19 | 0:37:23 | |
-I'm happy with my relationship. -Does that mean I don't love mine? | 0:37:23 | 0:37:28 | |
Tony, you did know you were going to get this? < I knew. | 0:37:28 | 0:37:32 | |
'And there's no peace for Tony back at the quiet night in.' | 0:37:32 | 0:37:36 | |
Some men let you get on with it. I don't think they're being lazy. | 0:37:36 | 0:37:41 | |
I think they just think, "She'll kick off." | 0:37:41 | 0:37:44 | |
"Why do I have to make all the decisions? Make a bloody decision. Don't leave it all to me." | 0:37:44 | 0:37:50 | |
Say you liked something and he said he didn't like it. | 0:37:50 | 0:37:54 | |
-Would you get it? -Yeah. But I would like to know that he didn't like it. | 0:37:54 | 0:37:59 | |
-You'll listen to him. -Exactly. Say, "You can't have it." | 0:37:59 | 0:38:02 | |
'Rachel wants to compare notes with Sam, | 0:38:02 | 0:38:06 | |
'so the hens are off to meet the stags at Tony's local.' | 0:38:06 | 0:38:09 | |
-I've had a really good night. -I've had a good night. | 0:38:09 | 0:38:12 | |
'I had a good chat with Stephanie. Things we've said she's agreed with. | 0:38:12 | 0:38:17 | |
'You want to see what our lads have been saying about Tony.' | 0:38:17 | 0:38:20 | |
-Have they been saying the same? -He's under the thumb. | 0:38:20 | 0:38:23 | |
He needs some more lads' time. Proper been ripping him to pieces. | 0:38:23 | 0:38:28 | |
'And the stags have only just begun.' | 0:38:28 | 0:38:32 | |
SCREAMING AND CHEERING | 0:38:32 | 0:38:35 | |
INAUDIBLE | 0:38:41 | 0:38:43 | |
RACHEL: That was absolutely hilarious. | 0:38:57 | 0:39:01 | |
It was hilarious for everybody else. | 0:39:01 | 0:39:04 | |
Serena wants to pressure-wash him down. | 0:39:04 | 0:39:07 | |
That was hilarious. | 0:39:08 | 0:39:10 | |
-That was Tony's biggest nightmare! -Disgusting. | 0:39:10 | 0:39:15 | |
Give him a clap everybody! | 0:39:15 | 0:39:17 | |
CHEERING | 0:39:17 | 0:39:19 | |
I didn't find it funny at all, not one bit. | 0:39:19 | 0:39:22 | |
-It was hysterical! -It was the worst thing someone could do to me. | 0:39:22 | 0:39:26 | |
'It's their final day together. | 0:39:28 | 0:39:30 | |
'Sam and Rachel are about to set the nearlyweds one last challenge.' | 0:39:30 | 0:39:35 | |
What do you guys think it is? | 0:39:35 | 0:39:37 | |
-I don't know. -Ain't got a clue. | 0:39:37 | 0:39:39 | |
'Concerned over their one-sided wedding and frequent bickering, | 0:39:39 | 0:39:44 | |
'they want to discover if Tony and Serena can ever communicate and actually work together.' | 0:39:44 | 0:39:51 | |
-I don't think we're as bad as what they think. -We are. | 0:39:51 | 0:39:55 | |
-OK. We are! I don't think we're... -We are for communicating. -It's just that she butts in a lot. | 0:39:55 | 0:40:01 | |
'They're sending a middleweight boxer and a model orienteering.' | 0:40:01 | 0:40:06 | |
-How am I gonna get up? -I'll pick you up. | 0:40:06 | 0:40:10 | |
-See the way he just leaves me? -Give me your hand. -Don't pull me. | 0:40:10 | 0:40:14 | |
Climb up the wall. SHE SCREAMS | 0:40:14 | 0:40:16 | |
'They've got half an hour to locate Sam and Rachel at three different checkpoints in a forest.' | 0:40:16 | 0:40:23 | |
I'm pissing myself! | 0:40:23 | 0:40:25 | |
'All they have to guide them is a map.' | 0:40:25 | 0:40:28 | |
-This is where we was. -Where do we have to go? -There. | 0:40:28 | 0:40:31 | |
'And a compass.' | 0:40:31 | 0:40:33 | |
-The compass that they said follow is pointing that way. -Go that way! | 0:40:33 | 0:40:37 | |
'They've both got to stay calm and think.' | 0:40:37 | 0:40:40 | |
They've got to talk to each other or it's going to go horribly wrong. | 0:40:40 | 0:40:44 | |
It's on here. | 0:40:44 | 0:40:46 | |
It's there somewhere. | 0:40:46 | 0:40:48 | |
-Tony! -What? -How thick are we? | 0:40:48 | 0:40:51 | |
-I reckon they're bonding at the minute. -Having a nice cuddle! | 0:40:51 | 0:40:55 | |
-It's not going to be this side of the wall. -Why? -Let's have a look. | 0:40:55 | 0:40:59 | |
'Just ten minutes in...' | 0:40:59 | 0:41:01 | |
-We've walked the wrong way. -It's not. | 0:41:01 | 0:41:04 | |
'..they're already behind schedule.' | 0:41:04 | 0:41:07 | |
-Seriously, it was down here somewhere. -We haven't got a clue! | 0:41:07 | 0:41:11 | |
-18 minutes. -They're not even at the first one! | 0:41:11 | 0:41:15 | |
-It's all going to plan. -Yeah. | 0:41:16 | 0:41:19 | |
CHEERING | 0:41:19 | 0:41:21 | |
-Oh, my God! -< How's it going, guys? | 0:41:21 | 0:41:24 | |
We haven't got a clue how to use that silly compass. | 0:41:24 | 0:41:28 | |
So we're just going to go by the map and just try and guess. | 0:41:28 | 0:41:32 | |
'For the second checkpoint, Tony's attempting a softer approach.' | 0:41:32 | 0:41:36 | |
Ah! | 0:41:37 | 0:41:38 | |
-Oh, ta. What are they? -Bluebells. | 0:41:38 | 0:41:41 | |
They're actually like a bell, aren't they? | 0:41:41 | 0:41:44 | |
'But it isn't long...' | 0:41:44 | 0:41:46 | |
-There it is, right in front of us. -What? -That's it. | 0:41:46 | 0:41:50 | |
-It's not. -That's it. -'..before they're lost again.' | 0:41:50 | 0:41:53 | |
-You see things the way you want. -Cos I'm always right. -See what I mean? | 0:41:53 | 0:41:58 | |
-Oh! -Come on, babe. | 0:42:01 | 0:42:04 | |
-Ta, Rambo! Ow! -We're flying through. -Watch the nettles. -You go first. | 0:42:04 | 0:42:09 | |
There they are! | 0:42:09 | 0:42:11 | |
It's like playing hide and seek. | 0:42:11 | 0:42:14 | |
-I've got survival instincts. -Oh! Getting a bit cocky now! | 0:42:14 | 0:42:19 | |
The first one was just a pain in the arse. | 0:42:19 | 0:42:22 | |
-Bad workman blaming his tools. -I'm doing without the tools. That's how we roll, baby. | 0:42:22 | 0:42:28 | |
'With their half hour gone, | 0:42:28 | 0:42:30 | |
'Tony and Serena have managed to find just two checkpoints.' | 0:42:30 | 0:42:34 | |
Usually, you scream, I scream, we start roaring and get a big cob on. | 0:42:34 | 0:42:40 | |
No, let's get that right. We start arguing and she throws a strop. | 0:42:40 | 0:42:45 | |
-You start screaming and I throw a strop. -See? Works both ways. | 0:42:45 | 0:42:49 | |
It's been a fitting way to end the experience. | 0:42:49 | 0:42:52 | |
The main thing that me and Rachel have picked up on is the communication thing. | 0:42:52 | 0:42:58 | |
It's definitely fitting to see how they reacted when they were thrown in at the deep end. | 0:42:58 | 0:43:04 | |
Next time we come to a forest and there's no-one following us round, | 0:43:04 | 0:43:09 | |
-no-one watching us, could be some funny business going on. -Shut up! | 0:43:09 | 0:43:14 | |
-Only joking. -Completely ignore him. | 0:43:14 | 0:43:16 | |
-This is the last day now, having a brew and then we're going back to sunny Wigan. -Yeah. | 0:43:20 | 0:43:27 | |
- It's been class. - Fun, sharing our wedding... | 0:43:27 | 0:43:31 | |
We got to know each other. We've had to really look into each other's lives. | 0:43:31 | 0:43:35 | |
It's weird, because we've spent so much time together, | 0:43:35 | 0:43:39 | |
< we know each other inside out, sort of thing. | 0:43:39 | 0:43:44 | |
-It's been interesting looking into their lives, hasn't it? -Yeah. | 0:43:44 | 0:43:49 | |
It's not every day you get to completely grill someone. | 0:43:49 | 0:43:53 | |
'I don't think we know our friends' relationships as well. Both couples have been honest.' | 0:43:53 | 0:43:59 | |
-Hopefully. -Well, hopefully. We'll find out tomorrow. | 0:43:59 | 0:44:04 | |
-Bye. -Cheers. | 0:44:04 | 0:44:06 | |
It's been brill, guys. | 0:44:06 | 0:44:09 | |
We've had such a good time. See you later. | 0:44:09 | 0:44:13 | |
-Bye. -Bye. | 0:44:13 | 0:44:15 | |
I hope that they don't take whatever we say the wrong way. | 0:44:15 | 0:44:19 | |
We've only done it because we want to make it better for them. | 0:44:19 | 0:44:24 | |
I'm not going to be horrible, but I'm going to be straight to the point. | 0:44:24 | 0:44:29 | |
-We need to be to the point. -Otherwise, they won't listen. | 0:44:29 | 0:44:32 | |
It's going to be hard, coming out with the truth. Whether they like it or not, we've got to do it. | 0:44:32 | 0:44:39 | |
I'm quite sad it's all over now. | 0:44:39 | 0:44:41 | |
I might not be saying that tomorrow, once we've seen the verdict. | 0:44:41 | 0:44:45 | |
Might be, "Don't want to see you again!" | 0:44:45 | 0:44:48 | |
'It's verdict day.' | 0:44:59 | 0:45:02 | |
-Here it is. Ready for this, babe? -Yeah. Come on. Get it on! | 0:45:03 | 0:45:06 | |
'Both weddings have been planned to take place in a few weeks' time.' | 0:45:06 | 0:45:11 | |
I hope we haven't come across as if we've got major issues. | 0:45:11 | 0:45:16 | |
-I don't feel like we've got that many. Do you? -No. Nothing major. | 0:45:16 | 0:45:20 | |
'The nearlyweds' honest assessments could change each other's lives for ever.' | 0:45:20 | 0:45:26 | |
We don't know what conclusion they're going to come out with. | 0:45:26 | 0:45:30 | |
Like judgment day. Yeah, it's good, or no it's bad. | 0:45:30 | 0:45:34 | |
I think there'll be a few surprises in there. | 0:45:34 | 0:45:37 | |
Here we go. Come on, Sam! | 0:45:39 | 0:45:41 | |
-I'm excited. -'Hi, Tony and Serena.' | 0:45:41 | 0:45:44 | |
'We're here to talk about your relationship but we're going to kick off with we've had a great time. | 0:45:44 | 0:45:51 | |
'It's been great meeting you guys. | 0:45:51 | 0:45:55 | |
'We think that you guys have got a good basis of a relationship. | 0:45:55 | 0:45:59 | |
'You obviously genuinely love each other, but...' | 0:45:59 | 0:46:03 | |
But! | 0:46:03 | 0:46:05 | |
'We think that one of the main issues in your relationship that needs addressing is communication. | 0:46:05 | 0:46:11 | |
'Relationships are partnerships. | 0:46:11 | 0:46:13 | |
'You need to talk to your partner | 0:46:13 | 0:46:15 | |
'and listen to what your partner's saying. | 0:46:15 | 0:46:18 | |
'You need to speak to each other and sort it out, | 0:46:18 | 0:46:21 | |
'rather than just accepting it, which is what you've done. | 0:46:21 | 0:46:25 | |
'One of the other main things that we wanted to speak to you about | 0:46:25 | 0:46:29 | |
'is you're living in each other's pockets 24/7. | 0:46:29 | 0:46:33 | |
'Tony, I think, man-to-man, you need to grow a set. | 0:46:33 | 0:46:38 | |
'Put your foot down and tell Serena that you're going out with the lads. | 0:46:38 | 0:46:42 | |
'Because boys' time is as important as spending time with your missus. | 0:46:42 | 0:46:47 | |
'Serena, what I think you need to do is try and encourage Tony | 0:46:47 | 0:46:51 | |
'and give him a bit more space. | 0:46:51 | 0:46:54 | |
'If Rachel was texting me when I was out with the lads, | 0:46:54 | 0:46:58 | |
'she knows that I'd be like, "No."' | 0:46:58 | 0:47:00 | |
Point blank, no! | 0:47:00 | 0:47:02 | |
'If you don't address this, we fear that you guys | 0:47:02 | 0:47:06 | |
'five, six, seven years down the line, | 0:47:06 | 0:47:09 | |
'are going to have spent so much time together that all you'll be doing is bickering. | 0:47:09 | 0:47:14 | |
'And maybe even could cause you guys to split up, which, obviously, | 0:47:14 | 0:47:18 | |
'we don't want happening. | 0:47:18 | 0:47:20 | |
'We've also noticed, a lot of things, Serena's done a lot of it. | 0:47:20 | 0:47:26 | |
'Everything from the wedding, it's got Serena written all over it. | 0:47:26 | 0:47:31 | |
'The house is lovely, | 0:47:31 | 0:47:33 | |
-'but it's just all Serena.' -All me. Exactly. | 0:47:33 | 0:47:36 | |
-'I can't see any of you there, Tony. -Maybe, Tony, try and be a bit more forceful about what you want...' | 0:47:36 | 0:47:43 | |
-You don't tell me. -Just watch. | 0:47:43 | 0:47:45 | |
'..Serena, maybe you trying to listen to what he's saying. | 0:47:45 | 0:47:48 | |
'Serena, if you spit the dummy out, Tony, you need to just put it back | 0:47:48 | 0:47:53 | |
'and just say, "This is what I want to do, so get it sorted." | 0:47:53 | 0:47:58 | |
-'Basically, we think you should get married. -Yeah. | 0:48:01 | 0:48:05 | |
-'You make a brilliant couple. -You obviously love each other. | 0:48:05 | 0:48:08 | |
'But if some of these problems are not addressed, it could cause massive massive problems | 0:48:08 | 0:48:14 | |
'a few years down the line.' | 0:48:14 | 0:48:16 | |
It's nothing that we didn't know already. No-one's perfect. | 0:48:18 | 0:48:23 | |
We knew the communication thing and me moaning about not having time to myself. | 0:48:23 | 0:48:28 | |
-They've picked up... -Everything in the wedding and this house is me. | 0:48:28 | 0:48:32 | |
Because when I say, "Tony, would you like the living room grey and black? "Whatever you want, love." | 0:48:32 | 0:48:38 | |
-They don't see... -"What do you think of these favours?" "Whatever you want, love." That's what you do. | 0:48:38 | 0:48:44 | |
-Yes. I admit to it... -It's all my input. -So... -You aren't arsed. | 0:48:44 | 0:48:48 | |
-Like I said, they're picking up on things... -Yeah. It is a problem. | 0:48:48 | 0:48:53 | |
You need to open your mouth more and go, "I want that." | 0:48:53 | 0:48:56 | |
"I think that'd be nice." | 0:48:56 | 0:48:58 | |
Put your opinion into it. | 0:48:58 | 0:49:00 | |
-It's not as bad as what they're making out. -It is. -It's not. -It is. | 0:49:00 | 0:49:05 | |
Why should the stress be left up to me to make sure everything's right? | 0:49:05 | 0:49:09 | |
-Fair enough. -It should be both of us, not just me. -OK. | 0:49:09 | 0:49:13 | |
-Are we ready? -Yeah. -Let's go. | 0:49:17 | 0:49:19 | |
-'Hi. -Hello. | 0:49:19 | 0:49:21 | |
'Sam, Rach, you're sitting here watching this. | 0:49:21 | 0:49:25 | |
'This is what we're here to do, the final verdict of what we think of your relationship. | 0:49:25 | 0:49:30 | |
'I think, in a way, you're very compatible because... | 0:49:30 | 0:49:35 | |
'you do get along | 0:49:35 | 0:49:37 | |
'and you do seem to enjoy one another's company. | 0:49:37 | 0:49:40 | |
'On the bad side of it, it seems to me like everything is... | 0:49:40 | 0:49:45 | |
-'Like friends, isn't it? -Yeah. You're too "friendly". | 0:49:45 | 0:49:49 | |
'There has to be aspects of romance. | 0:49:49 | 0:49:52 | |
'I think you, Sam, need to pay more attention to Rachel. | 0:49:52 | 0:49:55 | |
'If Tony was like that with me, I would be gone in a second. | 0:49:55 | 0:50:00 | |
'You need to feel appreciated, feel like it's worthwhile. | 0:50:00 | 0:50:04 | |
'Rachel, when you tried your wedding dress on and you got upset, that upset me. | 0:50:04 | 0:50:09 | |
'That's meant to be the happiest time of your life and you got upset | 0:50:09 | 0:50:13 | |
'cos you're worried Sam's not going to make you feel special on your wedding day.' | 0:50:13 | 0:50:18 | |
-Are you OK? -'Which I think's wrong. | 0:50:18 | 0:50:21 | |
-'Straight away, that shouldn't be happening, mate. -No. | 0:50:21 | 0:50:25 | |
'Something's going wrong. | 0:50:25 | 0:50:27 | |
'Sam, you are capable of the romance cos we've seen you in Rome doing it. | 0:50:27 | 0:50:32 | |
'One thing that I think from what I've seen | 0:50:32 | 0:50:36 | |
'and what I think needs to be sorted is the wedding. | 0:50:36 | 0:50:40 | |
'I think it's been rushed. | 0:50:40 | 0:50:43 | |
'You're doing it cos you had a date in your head. | 0:50:43 | 0:50:47 | |
'You should wait for a church. | 0:50:47 | 0:50:49 | |
'I know you're sitting there, Rachel, saying, "No. Bla-di-bla." | 0:50:49 | 0:50:53 | |
'Bollocks! A load of crap! | 0:50:53 | 0:50:55 | |
'We think that, yeah, you should get married. You're great together. | 0:50:55 | 0:51:00 | |
'It works for yous. You SEEM happy. You SEEM semi in love.' | 0:51:00 | 0:51:06 | |
LAUGHING: Semi in love! | 0:51:06 | 0:51:09 | |
'Please sort this out. I think it's going to go tits up if you don't.' | 0:51:09 | 0:51:14 | |
Hm. | 0:51:17 | 0:51:19 | |
What were you crying for? | 0:51:19 | 0:51:21 | |
Nothing. | 0:51:21 | 0:51:23 | |
-Tell me. -Nothing. | 0:51:23 | 0:51:25 | |
You're not going to tell me? | 0:51:25 | 0:51:27 | |
Serena said, didn't she? You should have been listening! | 0:51:27 | 0:51:33 | |
The issues that they brought up, we know about. | 0:51:33 | 0:51:37 | |
-Especially with me being romantic and stuff. Go on! -No. -Go on. | 0:51:37 | 0:51:43 | |
-It's just what Serena was saying. -You not feeling special enough? | 0:51:43 | 0:51:48 | |
It's down to the romance, isn't it? | 0:51:50 | 0:51:52 | |
It's been pointed out, so I'll work on it. | 0:51:54 | 0:51:57 | |
-Don't cry. -OK. | 0:51:59 | 0:52:01 | |
No, it's just... You know. | 0:52:06 | 0:52:08 | |
I know I'll feel special on the day but sometimes you forget about me. | 0:52:08 | 0:52:13 | |
I just want it to be a special day for us two. | 0:52:13 | 0:52:17 | |
-You know what I mean? -I love you. | 0:52:17 | 0:52:19 | |
Are you OK? | 0:52:22 | 0:52:24 | |
'It's been two months since the verdicts were delivered. | 0:52:51 | 0:52:55 | |
'There's been plenty of time to think through what was said.' | 0:52:55 | 0:53:00 | |
I've said before, I don't think we've got any issues or I'm perfect, | 0:53:00 | 0:53:05 | |
but obviously, watching that, I realise that it's not. | 0:53:05 | 0:53:09 | |
'I do need to work on romance. | 0:53:09 | 0:53:11 | |
'I just keep like, "I'll do something small."' | 0:53:11 | 0:53:14 | |
I've got comfortable in the relationship and I need to work on it. | 0:53:14 | 0:53:19 | |
'I might have to start getting my hands dirty,' | 0:53:19 | 0:53:23 | |
getting more involved in decisions, not just only in the wedding, but the relationship in general. | 0:53:23 | 0:53:29 | |
'It was her decision to get married at the Bellingham Hotel. That's absolutely fine.' | 0:53:31 | 0:53:37 | |
If Rachel said, "I do want to get married in a church," | 0:53:37 | 0:53:40 | |
definitely, yeah, I'd stop it now, today! | 0:53:40 | 0:53:43 | |
'I think our relationship, before we done this was...' | 0:53:43 | 0:53:46 | |
We were never going to split up. It was always going to be forever. | 0:53:46 | 0:53:51 | |
'Life's all about bettering yourself, so I'm actually glad' | 0:54:04 | 0:54:09 | |
that an outsider looked into our relationship and seen the issues we knew we had anyway. | 0:54:09 | 0:54:14 | |
'But it's nice that a stranger has seen that. | 0:54:14 | 0:54:19 | |
'So that makes me think now we do really need to start, like,' | 0:54:19 | 0:54:23 | |
working on that a bit and it will improve our relationship. | 0:54:23 | 0:54:26 | |
CHEERING | 0:54:38 | 0:54:41 | |
'Do I think Sam can be different?' | 0:54:50 | 0:54:53 | |
Six and a half years, he's not changed. | 0:54:53 | 0:54:56 | |
'It would be a very nice surprise.' | 0:54:56 | 0:55:00 | |
I'd be over the moon, but if he doesn't, I'll still love him anyway. | 0:55:00 | 0:55:04 | |
Before I met you, life didn't seem full. | 0:55:04 | 0:55:07 | |
A piece from the puzzle was missing. | 0:55:07 | 0:55:10 | |
You bring out the best of me in good times and in bad. | 0:55:10 | 0:55:13 | |
I have met my soul mate, my best friend, my lover, my everything. | 0:55:13 | 0:55:18 | |
That is why I take you to be my wife for as long as we both shall live. | 0:55:18 | 0:55:23 | |
'I know me, Serena and Tony bullied him into doing personal vows.' | 0:55:25 | 0:55:31 | |
Your personal vows were lovely. | 0:55:31 | 0:55:33 | |
We didn't listen about postponing. | 0:55:33 | 0:55:35 | |
It's not where we get married. It's who we're getting married to. | 0:55:35 | 0:55:39 | |
CHEERING | 0:55:39 | 0:55:41 | |
'We do have a communication problem but I think...' | 0:55:41 | 0:55:44 | |
-That's the only problem. -..it's part of our relationship that makes us who we are. | 0:55:44 | 0:55:50 | |
It makes us better rather than worse. | 0:55:50 | 0:55:53 | |
You can tell he's had a few wines! He won't stop talking! | 0:55:53 | 0:55:58 | |
-I think we're perfect the way we are. -I didn't think it was a problem anyway... -Stop talking. | 0:55:58 | 0:56:03 | |
The pair of us suit each other perfect! In ten years' time, | 0:56:03 | 0:56:08 | |
we'll still be arguing, making up, having a laugh. | 0:56:08 | 0:56:12 | |
We'll just be us till we're... we're ready to drop dead, won't we? | 0:56:12 | 0:56:18 | |
CHEERING | 0:56:19 | 0:56:22 | |
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