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Travelling in your teens often leaves you with a sense | 0:00:02 | 0:00:06 | |
of wanderlust, longing for a life in the sun. | 0:00:06 | 0:00:09 | |
But is it really possible to make the dream your reality years later, | 0:00:09 | 0:00:14 | |
when you've three children in tow and a husband who's far from convinced? | 0:00:14 | 0:00:19 | |
That was the question Julie Rutland needed answered in 2015. | 0:00:19 | 0:00:24 | |
One year on, we'll find out where the family are now. | 0:00:24 | 0:00:28 | |
In 2015, Julie Rutland longed to move her family to Australia. | 0:00:29 | 0:00:34 | |
I just want to try, I want to follow my dream. | 0:00:34 | 0:00:37 | |
With a visa already in place, she had just one obstacle to clear. | 0:00:37 | 0:00:40 | |
The only thing that is stopping us is me. | 0:00:42 | 0:00:45 | |
A trial week opened Dan's eyes to the possibilities. | 0:00:47 | 0:00:50 | |
If we could afford this house, you've got me in Australia. | 0:00:50 | 0:00:54 | |
So one year on, have the family made it to the other side of the world? | 0:00:54 | 0:00:58 | |
Making plans and then sticking to them religiously is, I think, | 0:00:58 | 0:01:03 | |
heading for disaster, because life isn't like that. | 0:01:03 | 0:01:06 | |
Covering a landmass of almost three million square miles, | 0:01:29 | 0:01:33 | |
Australia's been hailed a land of opportunity ever since the first | 0:01:33 | 0:01:37 | |
European settlers arrived back in the 1700s. | 0:01:37 | 0:01:41 | |
Promising sunshine, beaches and a strong economy, | 0:01:41 | 0:01:44 | |
the attraction shows little sign of easing up, | 0:01:44 | 0:01:46 | |
with latest figures showing over 28% of the country's population | 0:01:46 | 0:01:50 | |
is born overseas. | 0:01:50 | 0:01:52 | |
Julie Rutland was on a mission to convince husband Dan | 0:01:54 | 0:01:57 | |
Australia was where their family belonged. | 0:01:57 | 0:02:00 | |
However, never having stepped foot in the country, | 0:02:00 | 0:02:03 | |
he worried his wife's vision of life down under was based entirely | 0:02:03 | 0:02:08 | |
on rose-tinted memories. | 0:02:08 | 0:02:10 | |
Julie had just one week to persuade him once and for all | 0:02:10 | 0:02:14 | |
her dream was one worth chasing. | 0:02:14 | 0:02:16 | |
A year ago, the Rutlands' journey began with over 17 hours in the sky, | 0:02:18 | 0:02:23 | |
flying from London to Australia via Dubai. | 0:02:23 | 0:02:26 | |
As they landed in Perth, Julie was thrilled to be back down under. | 0:02:26 | 0:02:30 | |
I just can't wait to show them all the beach, the weather, | 0:02:30 | 0:02:34 | |
the lifestyle and the houses. | 0:02:34 | 0:02:36 | |
But there was only one word to sum up how Dan was feeling. | 0:02:36 | 0:02:39 | |
Tired. I'm feeling very, very tired. | 0:02:41 | 0:02:42 | |
It was a long journey. | 0:02:42 | 0:02:44 | |
It wasn't that bad. | 0:02:44 | 0:02:45 | |
Julie had a hard road ahead to convince Dan to start a new life | 0:02:45 | 0:02:49 | |
on the other side of the world. | 0:02:49 | 0:02:51 | |
In 2015, dad Dan, mum Julie, Zac, | 0:02:55 | 0:02:58 | |
who was then nine, Willow, who was six, and Faye, then aged five, | 0:02:58 | 0:03:03 | |
were living in Bicester in Oxfordshire. | 0:03:03 | 0:03:05 | |
Julie had been dreaming of Australia ever since visiting | 0:03:05 | 0:03:08 | |
15 years earlier. | 0:03:08 | 0:03:10 | |
It's got so many wonderful memories. | 0:03:10 | 0:03:12 | |
I was travelling with two of my best friends, we were young. | 0:03:12 | 0:03:15 | |
We bought a camper van in Darwin and we travelled all round Australia. | 0:03:15 | 0:03:19 | |
After reluctantly returning to the UK, Julie met Dan soon after. | 0:03:19 | 0:03:23 | |
I swerved into a nightclub, | 0:03:23 | 0:03:26 | |
swooped Julie off of her feet and that was the end of the story. | 0:03:26 | 0:03:29 | |
The couple settled down together. | 0:03:30 | 0:03:32 | |
Julie secured a job in Formula One, and Dan worked as a carpenter. | 0:03:32 | 0:03:37 | |
But when the children came along, | 0:03:37 | 0:03:38 | |
Julie parked her career and thoughts turned once again to Australia. | 0:03:38 | 0:03:43 | |
It's just about the lifestyle, really. | 0:03:43 | 0:03:45 | |
Be careful there, Willow. | 0:03:46 | 0:03:48 | |
I would just love to live by a beach, | 0:03:48 | 0:03:50 | |
and I love the sporty lifestyle. | 0:03:50 | 0:03:52 | |
We're such an outdoors family. | 0:03:52 | 0:03:54 | |
But moving to the other side of the world wasn't something Dan | 0:03:54 | 0:03:57 | |
had ever considered. | 0:03:57 | 0:03:59 | |
The only thing that is stopping us is me. | 0:03:59 | 0:04:03 | |
I am the brick wall. | 0:04:04 | 0:04:05 | |
Determined to make the move, | 0:04:05 | 0:04:07 | |
Julie secured a visa for the family and began applying for jobs | 0:04:07 | 0:04:11 | |
for Dan online. Knowing how much he loved fishing, | 0:04:11 | 0:04:14 | |
she even tried to reel him in with the promise of a boat. | 0:04:14 | 0:04:18 | |
It was just a splash. | 0:04:18 | 0:04:19 | |
Yeah, I might have hinted that he could have a little boat, | 0:04:19 | 0:04:22 | |
just a little boat, if he moved near the sea. | 0:04:22 | 0:04:26 | |
But Dan didn't rise to the bait. | 0:04:26 | 0:04:28 | |
Can we afford to move to Australia? | 0:04:28 | 0:04:31 | |
The jobs... There's a lot of questions that need answering. | 0:04:31 | 0:04:33 | |
Dan also worried about the emotional cost of moving. | 0:04:35 | 0:04:38 | |
Close to his dad, he was torn at the thought of leaving him. | 0:04:38 | 0:04:43 | |
If something happened to my dad while I was the other side, I'd... | 0:04:43 | 0:04:45 | |
I'd never forgive myself. | 0:04:47 | 0:04:48 | |
Yeah. | 0:04:51 | 0:04:53 | |
Julie was aware of the impact saying goodbye | 0:04:53 | 0:04:55 | |
would have on her family too. | 0:04:55 | 0:04:58 | |
I know it will break my mum's heart, I know it will. | 0:04:58 | 0:05:00 | |
And I know it will break both my sisters' hearts as well. | 0:05:02 | 0:05:05 | |
But, determined to show Dan and the children the lifestyle she believed | 0:05:12 | 0:05:16 | |
would benefit them, Julie was desperate for the chance to make her | 0:05:16 | 0:05:20 | |
vision their reality and she had just seven days to do it. | 0:05:20 | 0:05:24 | |
I can almost feel it, and I really want it for the children, | 0:05:24 | 0:05:28 | |
and I really want it for us. | 0:05:28 | 0:05:31 | |
I just want to try, I want to follow my dream. | 0:05:31 | 0:05:33 | |
The family spent their week in Western Australia's capital city, Perth. | 0:05:40 | 0:05:45 | |
Their temporary base was in Halls Head, | 0:05:45 | 0:05:47 | |
a coastal suburb just over an hour's drive from the city centre. | 0:05:47 | 0:05:51 | |
-Wow, look at that. -That looks very grand, doesn't it? | 0:05:51 | 0:05:54 | |
Look at the sea, wow! | 0:05:54 | 0:05:57 | |
That's a proper sea view. | 0:05:57 | 0:05:59 | |
Despite the dull day, Julie was delighted | 0:05:59 | 0:06:01 | |
with the beachfront location. | 0:06:01 | 0:06:03 | |
Wow. | 0:06:04 | 0:06:06 | |
Now this is the type of place I would love to live. | 0:06:06 | 0:06:08 | |
Then you should have married a millionaire! | 0:06:08 | 0:06:11 | |
Fuelled by excitement, the family headed straight to the beach. | 0:06:11 | 0:06:14 | |
That looks all right, doesn't it? Do you think they like it? | 0:06:16 | 0:06:19 | |
They'd only arrived, but the children were already sold. | 0:06:19 | 0:06:22 | |
Australia's epic. | 0:06:22 | 0:06:24 | |
It's fun. | 0:06:24 | 0:06:25 | |
I think Australia's good. | 0:06:25 | 0:06:27 | |
Dan, though, had his feet firmly on the ground. | 0:06:27 | 0:06:29 | |
This house is fantastic, | 0:06:30 | 0:06:32 | |
but it's whether we could afford something like this. | 0:06:32 | 0:06:35 | |
There's just lots of things to find out. | 0:06:35 | 0:06:38 | |
The week ahead would determine whether or not Dan could buy into | 0:06:38 | 0:06:42 | |
Julie's dream, but she was feeling confident things would go her way. | 0:06:42 | 0:06:46 | |
This is us finding out if this is what we actually want to do | 0:06:47 | 0:06:50 | |
for the rest of our lives, so it's got to be, it's got to be amazing, | 0:06:50 | 0:06:54 | |
and I think it will be. | 0:06:54 | 0:06:55 | |
In 2015, | 0:07:00 | 0:07:02 | |
the Rutlands were living in a three-bedroom semidetached house | 0:07:02 | 0:07:05 | |
in Bicester in Oxfordshire. | 0:07:05 | 0:07:07 | |
I would quite like to transport our house | 0:07:07 | 0:07:09 | |
and Danny's worked really hard. | 0:07:09 | 0:07:11 | |
-Yeah. -I tell him what we're going to do, and he works really hard to do it. | 0:07:11 | 0:07:14 | |
Knowing she couldn't take it with her, | 0:07:14 | 0:07:16 | |
Julie had a clear idea of what she'd like for a home in Australia. | 0:07:16 | 0:07:20 | |
Four bedrooms, plus a granny annexe, so people could come and stay. | 0:07:20 | 0:07:24 | |
An open-plan kitchen-dining area, plus a swimming pool, | 0:07:24 | 0:07:28 | |
and literally practically on the beach. | 0:07:28 | 0:07:31 | |
Dan had slightly different ideas. | 0:07:31 | 0:07:34 | |
For me it would be more a harbour. | 0:07:34 | 0:07:36 | |
So that I could have somewhere to put my boat. | 0:07:38 | 0:07:41 | |
But there again, you know, I could have a boat here. | 0:07:41 | 0:07:45 | |
But I can't afford that either. | 0:07:45 | 0:07:47 | |
With around £250,000 to spend on a house in Australia, | 0:07:52 | 0:07:56 | |
we showed the family three properties - two based on budget | 0:07:56 | 0:08:00 | |
and one which could have been their dream home. | 0:08:00 | 0:08:03 | |
The search began in Secret Harbour, | 0:08:03 | 0:08:05 | |
an established suburb 45 minutes' drive from central Perth. | 0:08:05 | 0:08:09 | |
Just a stone's throw from the beach, | 0:08:09 | 0:08:11 | |
did this four-bedroom home get things off to a flying start? | 0:08:11 | 0:08:15 | |
Come in, kids. | 0:08:15 | 0:08:18 | |
-That's quite nice. -Ooh, wow. -Yeah, I like it. | 0:08:18 | 0:08:21 | |
It is a bit dark, isn't it? | 0:08:23 | 0:08:25 | |
I don't know if it's kind of what I had in mind. | 0:08:27 | 0:08:29 | |
It is, it is open-plan living... | 0:08:29 | 0:08:32 | |
-Yes. -But perhaps not as open-plan as I was hoping. | 0:08:32 | 0:08:35 | |
She was the one pushing for the move, | 0:08:35 | 0:08:37 | |
but first impressions weren't quite what Julie expected. | 0:08:37 | 0:08:41 | |
-The main bedroom off of a lounge area... -It's en-suite. | 0:08:41 | 0:08:44 | |
It is a nice en-suite, isn't it? It's a really big one. | 0:08:46 | 0:08:49 | |
It didn't take long for her to come round, though. | 0:08:49 | 0:08:52 | |
It's a good double bedroom for one of the kids. | 0:08:52 | 0:08:55 | |
Yeah, it is good, it's a good size. | 0:08:55 | 0:08:57 | |
Yes, it's actually growing on me, this house. | 0:08:57 | 0:08:59 | |
The inside may have won Julie over, | 0:08:59 | 0:09:02 | |
but was the outside what they wanted? | 0:09:02 | 0:09:04 | |
It is nice, I do like the outdoor area, I do like it. | 0:09:05 | 0:09:09 | |
Dan, on the other hand, wasn't happy with the fake grass. | 0:09:09 | 0:09:12 | |
It sounds like it's plastic bags underneath it, doesn't it? | 0:09:12 | 0:09:16 | |
The house had evoked mixed reactions, | 0:09:16 | 0:09:18 | |
but the question was, would Julie and Dan's £250,000 budget | 0:09:18 | 0:09:23 | |
-be enough to buy it? -I think it's going to be over budget. | 0:09:23 | 0:09:26 | |
I think maybe about 275. | 0:09:26 | 0:09:28 | |
If this is over budget, I mean, I'm going to feel, I think, | 0:09:28 | 0:09:31 | |
quite disappointed by it. | 0:09:31 | 0:09:32 | |
Let's see what it is. | 0:09:34 | 0:09:37 | |
£254,600, so it's pretty much bang on our budget, and that's OK. | 0:09:37 | 0:09:43 | |
Yeah, yeah. | 0:09:43 | 0:09:45 | |
Are you a bit disappointed? | 0:09:45 | 0:09:46 | |
Yeah, yeah, I was hoping it was going to be less than that. | 0:09:46 | 0:09:49 | |
Their first taste of Perth's property prices was bittersweet. | 0:09:49 | 0:09:52 | |
For Dan, the next house would need to be more on the money if Julie | 0:09:52 | 0:09:56 | |
was to persuade him to make the move. | 0:09:56 | 0:09:58 | |
To find out, the family headed to Baldivis, | 0:09:58 | 0:10:01 | |
a rapidly expanding suburb just under 30 miles south of the city. | 0:10:01 | 0:10:06 | |
Would this place be up to spec for the Rutlands? | 0:10:06 | 0:10:09 | |
I like the look of this house. | 0:10:09 | 0:10:12 | |
Things were off to a good start. | 0:10:12 | 0:10:13 | |
-Straight into a bedroom. -See, I just like this more. | 0:10:15 | 0:10:19 | |
-This furnishing is a lot more like we would have in the house, isn't it? -Yeah. | 0:10:19 | 0:10:22 | |
The open-plan kitchen-living area was more in line | 0:10:22 | 0:10:25 | |
with Julie's expectations. | 0:10:25 | 0:10:27 | |
Oh, I love it! | 0:10:28 | 0:10:30 | |
-So do I. -Yeah, it's much nicer. | 0:10:30 | 0:10:32 | |
-Yeah. -The house also had a separate playroom for the children. | 0:10:32 | 0:10:35 | |
Wow, this is amazing! | 0:10:37 | 0:10:40 | |
And when they spotted a pool in the garden, | 0:10:40 | 0:10:43 | |
Julie couldn't believe her luck. | 0:10:43 | 0:10:44 | |
This house just got even better. | 0:10:44 | 0:10:47 | |
Yeah, this house just got more expensive. | 0:10:47 | 0:10:50 | |
Oh, my God, I love it. | 0:10:50 | 0:10:51 | |
Despite concerns about cost, even Dan was bowled over. | 0:10:52 | 0:10:57 | |
If we could afford this house, you've got me in Australia. | 0:10:57 | 0:11:01 | |
-How exciting! -This is awesome. | 0:11:01 | 0:11:04 | |
But, with £250,000 to spend, | 0:11:04 | 0:11:07 | |
was it somewhere the family could afford to live? | 0:11:07 | 0:11:09 | |
Let's have a look. | 0:11:12 | 0:11:14 | |
-JULIE GASPS -Oh! See, I was right. | 0:11:14 | 0:11:16 | |
£262,800. | 0:11:16 | 0:11:19 | |
-I was right. -That's amazing. | 0:11:19 | 0:11:21 | |
-That's doable. -Yeah, it is doable. | 0:11:21 | 0:11:23 | |
-That's just made my day. -Yeah. -It's really made my day. | 0:11:23 | 0:11:25 | |
Yeah, it certainly hasn't ruined mine. | 0:11:25 | 0:11:27 | |
£12,000 over budget hadn't dented Julie's enthusiasm, | 0:11:27 | 0:11:32 | |
and even Dan seemed content with the cost, | 0:11:32 | 0:11:35 | |
and there was still one property to go. | 0:11:35 | 0:11:37 | |
The final stop of the day was the coastal suburb of Waikiki. | 0:11:39 | 0:11:43 | |
Just one street back from the sea, | 0:11:43 | 0:11:45 | |
we'd found what could be the family's dream home, | 0:11:45 | 0:11:48 | |
but would Julie and Dan agree? | 0:11:48 | 0:11:50 | |
Oh, let's have a look. | 0:11:51 | 0:11:53 | |
-Wow, it looks huge. -It's massive. | 0:11:53 | 0:11:55 | |
-Wow. -First impressions looked good, but... | 0:11:55 | 0:11:59 | |
This is a bit different. | 0:11:59 | 0:12:01 | |
Yeah... | 0:12:02 | 0:12:04 | |
I don't like the kitchen. It's not really a really big area, | 0:12:06 | 0:12:10 | |
and I don't like all the bricks. | 0:12:10 | 0:12:12 | |
No. | 0:12:12 | 0:12:13 | |
With four bedrooms, on paper, | 0:12:13 | 0:12:15 | |
the house met many of Julie's requirements but the reality | 0:12:15 | 0:12:19 | |
didn't match up. | 0:12:19 | 0:12:21 | |
So it looks disappointing again. | 0:12:21 | 0:12:23 | |
And the dated en-suite did little to lift spirits. | 0:12:23 | 0:12:26 | |
There's just so much work that you'd need to do, that I would want to do. | 0:12:28 | 0:12:32 | |
It'd be quicker, honestly, it'd be quicker to knock it down. | 0:12:32 | 0:12:36 | |
The interiors of the property had failed to wow, | 0:12:36 | 0:12:39 | |
but outdoors was a different matter. | 0:12:39 | 0:12:42 | |
-Nice, under cover. -I do really like this. | 0:12:42 | 0:12:44 | |
-Yeah. -There's a Jacuzzi. -I'm liking it a little bit more. | 0:12:44 | 0:12:48 | |
It had the pool Julie wanted too, but was it enough? | 0:12:48 | 0:12:52 | |
Whoa, that's a big swimming pool. | 0:12:52 | 0:12:54 | |
That's a really lovely size swimming pool, | 0:12:54 | 0:12:56 | |
but I still don't know whether I'd want to spend thousands doing it up. | 0:12:56 | 0:13:00 | |
The jury was still out, | 0:13:00 | 0:13:02 | |
but was it somewhere they could afford on their £250,000 budget? | 0:13:02 | 0:13:06 | |
-Turn it over. -Turn it over. | 0:13:06 | 0:13:08 | |
-Whoa. -£318,900. | 0:13:09 | 0:13:12 | |
-625. -That's less than what I thought it would be, actually. | 0:13:14 | 0:13:17 | |
Yeah, it is, it's less than I thought it would be, but this house | 0:13:17 | 0:13:20 | |
just, for me, it just doesn't flow. | 0:13:20 | 0:13:22 | |
At almost £70,000 over budget, this house was out of reach, | 0:13:24 | 0:13:28 | |
unless Julie and Dan's earnings increased substantially down under. | 0:13:28 | 0:13:32 | |
Overall, it had been an eye-opening property search for the Rutlands. | 0:13:32 | 0:13:36 | |
Property one failed to deliver the large and bright living space Julie | 0:13:37 | 0:13:41 | |
dreamed of, and almost £5,000 over budget, left Dan disappointed. | 0:13:41 | 0:13:46 | |
With the open-plan living Julie loved, and a pool in the garden, | 0:13:47 | 0:13:50 | |
property two was a real hit with the whole family. | 0:13:50 | 0:13:53 | |
But even close to the beach and with a pool, | 0:13:55 | 0:13:57 | |
the final property of the day didn't meet Julie's expectations | 0:13:57 | 0:14:01 | |
and at nearly £70,000 over budget, proved unaffordable. | 0:14:01 | 0:14:06 | |
So how did the day influence their decision when it came to picking | 0:14:06 | 0:14:09 | |
between property in the UK and Australia? | 0:14:09 | 0:14:13 | |
Based on the houses that we've seen today, we're now going to vote. | 0:14:13 | 0:14:17 | |
ALL: Australia! | 0:14:27 | 0:14:29 | |
Yay! We love Australia. | 0:14:30 | 0:14:33 | |
You voted for Australia? I'm really pleased. | 0:14:33 | 0:14:36 | |
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I liked some of the houses we saw. | 0:14:36 | 0:14:38 | |
The weather's not brilliant, but I can see, yeah, | 0:14:38 | 0:14:40 | |
what it offers out here, it's on par with what I've got at home. | 0:14:40 | 0:14:43 | |
Oh, I'm so excited. This is a really good start. | 0:14:43 | 0:14:46 | |
This is a really good start to the week, yeah. | 0:14:46 | 0:14:48 | |
-It's a good start for me as well. -Yeah. | 0:14:48 | 0:14:50 | |
Five votes for Australia had got the week off to a great start, | 0:14:58 | 0:15:02 | |
but Julie knew if Dan couldn't be convinced he could find a job | 0:15:02 | 0:15:05 | |
to pay for the house he wanted, they wouldn't be moving anywhere. | 0:15:05 | 0:15:09 | |
Back in the UK, Dan had been working as a carpenter for 16 years. | 0:15:11 | 0:15:16 | |
Happy in his work and with the lifestyle it afforded, | 0:15:16 | 0:15:19 | |
he'd huge reservations about packing it in. | 0:15:19 | 0:15:22 | |
Everything I've heard over there is saying that things are more expensive, | 0:15:22 | 0:15:25 | |
so it is whether the salary is achievable with the job that I want as well. | 0:15:25 | 0:15:29 | |
As a former Formula One engineer, | 0:15:29 | 0:15:32 | |
Julie had plans to retrain as a teacher in Australia, | 0:15:32 | 0:15:35 | |
but she knew it was Dan's work prospects that could make or break | 0:15:35 | 0:15:39 | |
her dream to emigrate. | 0:15:39 | 0:15:40 | |
It's really important that Dan gets the right job and salary in Australia, | 0:15:40 | 0:15:44 | |
because I think that will be absolutely key to him making a decision. | 0:15:44 | 0:15:47 | |
To find out about their work options in Perth, | 0:15:49 | 0:15:51 | |
we had arranged for Dan to meet Robert Shaw, | 0:15:51 | 0:15:54 | |
a director at one of the city's well-established building companies. | 0:15:54 | 0:15:58 | |
I had a look at your resume, | 0:15:58 | 0:15:59 | |
obviously you've been in the industry a while, so yes, | 0:15:59 | 0:16:01 | |
I would say all your skills are definitely transferable. | 0:16:01 | 0:16:04 | |
If you've got the skill set that you've got, | 0:16:04 | 0:16:06 | |
which is an ideal base for a supervisor, you'd certainly get a crack here. | 0:16:06 | 0:16:09 | |
Julie was visiting the Edith Cowan University, | 0:16:09 | 0:16:12 | |
to meet student recruitment coordinator Sarah Bowley, | 0:16:12 | 0:16:15 | |
to find out about becoming a maths or science teacher. | 0:16:15 | 0:16:19 | |
We offer a graduate diploma of education, | 0:16:19 | 0:16:22 | |
which is a one-year conversion course, pretty much. | 0:16:22 | 0:16:25 | |
-Yeah. -For people that have a completed bachelor degree already. | 0:16:25 | 0:16:29 | |
If, for example, you're going to become a maths teacher and a science teacher, | 0:16:29 | 0:16:32 | |
we need to see that you've specialised that in your bachelor degree. | 0:16:32 | 0:16:35 | |
With an engineering degree under her belt, | 0:16:35 | 0:16:38 | |
that wasn't a problem for Julie, | 0:16:38 | 0:16:40 | |
but she still needed to find out how much the course would cost. | 0:16:40 | 0:16:44 | |
Approximately 6,200 Australian dollars. | 0:16:44 | 0:16:47 | |
-OK. -For the year, for the full course. | 0:16:47 | 0:16:49 | |
Around £3,000 was comparable with what she would pay back home. | 0:16:49 | 0:16:53 | |
-That's really great, thank you very much. -No worries. | 0:16:53 | 0:16:56 | |
Back at the building firm, | 0:16:56 | 0:16:57 | |
Dan was finding out about his potential earnings. | 0:16:57 | 0:17:01 | |
As a supervisor, you might look at somewhere around 70,000-80,000 Oz dollars, | 0:17:01 | 0:17:07 | |
up to 125,000. | 0:17:07 | 0:17:10 | |
Between £39,000 and £60,000 was very promising, | 0:17:10 | 0:17:15 | |
and Dan was taken aback when Robert made him an offer. | 0:17:15 | 0:17:18 | |
If you're lucky enough to come over here, and I said, | 0:17:18 | 0:17:21 | |
and we had a position available and we wanted to sort of train you up | 0:17:21 | 0:17:24 | |
as a supervisor straight off the bat... | 0:17:24 | 0:17:26 | |
-Yeah. -..would you be prepared to look at something like that? | 0:17:26 | 0:17:29 | |
Yeah, obviously, coming over here with the proposition of getting | 0:17:29 | 0:17:32 | |
a job would obviously make it even easier. | 0:17:32 | 0:17:35 | |
It was great news for Dan. | 0:17:35 | 0:17:37 | |
Meanwhile, Julie was meeting Alison Ramm, | 0:17:37 | 0:17:40 | |
director of school staffing services at Western Australia's | 0:17:40 | 0:17:43 | |
-Department of Education. -Hello. | 0:17:43 | 0:17:46 | |
You'd be a perfect candidate to move into maths or science teaching, | 0:17:46 | 0:17:50 | |
because not only would you have that qualification, | 0:17:50 | 0:17:52 | |
you'd also have that great industry experience. | 0:17:52 | 0:17:56 | |
That was encouraging, and there was more good news to come. | 0:17:56 | 0:17:59 | |
We actually currently have a shortage of secondary teachers, | 0:17:59 | 0:18:02 | |
and in fact I looked this morning and there's two science | 0:18:02 | 0:18:05 | |
and two maths jobs currently advertised. | 0:18:05 | 0:18:07 | |
With jobs looking plentiful, all Julie needed to know | 0:18:07 | 0:18:10 | |
was whether the salary would justify her retraining. | 0:18:10 | 0:18:13 | |
What sort of wages could I expect once I qualify? | 0:18:13 | 0:18:16 | |
You'd start, at the moment, on about £35,000 a year. | 0:18:16 | 0:18:20 | |
-Wow. -It was a positive day for the couple, | 0:18:20 | 0:18:23 | |
but had it been enough to make them both choose work in Australia | 0:18:23 | 0:18:27 | |
over the UK? | 0:18:27 | 0:18:29 | |
After a great day looking at job prospects, it's time to vote. | 0:18:29 | 0:18:33 | |
BOTH: Australia! | 0:18:42 | 0:18:43 | |
Wow! | 0:18:44 | 0:18:46 | |
Ah, I'm so pleased. | 0:18:46 | 0:18:48 | |
It looked like Julie was on a winning streak, | 0:18:52 | 0:18:55 | |
so did a day sampling Australia's lifestyle see her vision | 0:18:55 | 0:19:00 | |
for a new life down under brought one step closer? | 0:19:00 | 0:19:03 | |
The family's day began with a walk around the historic city | 0:19:03 | 0:19:06 | |
of Fremantle, just 30 minutes from central Perth. | 0:19:06 | 0:19:09 | |
First stop, the famous markets, | 0:19:09 | 0:19:12 | |
where Dan wasted no time getting to grips with traditional | 0:19:12 | 0:19:15 | |
Australian culture. | 0:19:15 | 0:19:16 | |
You're practically a native. | 0:19:22 | 0:19:24 | |
-I don't think so. -Nice try, Julie! | 0:19:24 | 0:19:27 | |
A fishing trip on the Swan River rounded off the day. | 0:19:27 | 0:19:32 | |
Well, this is the boat, guys. Come onboard. | 0:19:32 | 0:19:35 | |
Can we get something like that, Dad? | 0:19:37 | 0:19:38 | |
Probably not, mate. Unless I nick it! | 0:19:38 | 0:19:41 | |
He might not have been able to afford the biggest boat on the river, | 0:19:42 | 0:19:45 | |
but was the lifestyle one Dan could imagine living? | 0:19:45 | 0:19:49 | |
Yeah, I could definitely see myself taking one of these out. | 0:19:49 | 0:19:52 | |
Zac was hooked, too. | 0:19:52 | 0:19:54 | |
I caught a fish! | 0:19:54 | 0:19:56 | |
The day had panned out well for everyone. | 0:19:56 | 0:19:58 | |
The sun's come out for us, yeah, it's just brilliant, | 0:19:58 | 0:20:01 | |
I'm loving seeing them all really happy. | 0:20:01 | 0:20:03 | |
It might be a bit too small for your head! | 0:20:03 | 0:20:07 | |
But the realisation that days like this would mean sacrificing | 0:20:07 | 0:20:11 | |
relationships with everyone they love back home | 0:20:11 | 0:20:14 | |
was also beginning to surface. | 0:20:14 | 0:20:16 | |
Yeah, it's all good, it's just that one thing about family. | 0:20:16 | 0:20:20 | |
I know I'm going to miss them. | 0:20:20 | 0:20:22 | |
It is such a long way. | 0:20:22 | 0:20:24 | |
The family faced a tough decision come the end of the week, | 0:20:30 | 0:20:33 | |
but for now it was time to see if the day had done enough to make them | 0:20:33 | 0:20:37 | |
choose Australia's lifestyle ahead of the UK's. | 0:20:37 | 0:20:41 | |
It's time to vote. | 0:20:41 | 0:20:42 | |
ALL: Australia! | 0:20:54 | 0:20:57 | |
Yay! | 0:20:57 | 0:20:59 | |
Yeah, we've all voted the same! Dan? | 0:20:59 | 0:21:02 | |
Yeah, no, it was really good, it's been a really good day. | 0:21:02 | 0:21:05 | |
When the sun's out, brilliant, you said I can have a boat. | 0:21:05 | 0:21:08 | |
It's our third vote and the whole family so far has voted | 0:21:09 | 0:21:13 | |
for Australia, which is just amazing. | 0:21:13 | 0:21:15 | |
With another clean sweep of votes for Australia, | 0:21:24 | 0:21:26 | |
Julie's dream was gathering pace. | 0:21:26 | 0:21:29 | |
But could they afford the lifestyle they wanted? | 0:21:29 | 0:21:31 | |
The couple sat down to compare costs in Australia and the UK, | 0:21:31 | 0:21:35 | |
starting with the weekly shopping bill. | 0:21:35 | 0:21:38 | |
-Bananas. -Yeah. | 0:21:38 | 0:21:39 | |
£1.20 in the UK for ten bananas, | 0:21:40 | 0:21:44 | |
£4.49 in Australia! | 0:21:44 | 0:21:46 | |
Biscuits - for three packs it's £1.20 in the UK, | 0:21:48 | 0:21:52 | |
the equivalent is nearly £4 in Australia. | 0:21:52 | 0:21:55 | |
An increase of almost £12 more every week for food didn't faze them. | 0:21:55 | 0:22:00 | |
-That's pretty good, that's a really positive start. -Yes, that's OK. | 0:22:00 | 0:22:03 | |
The couple moved on to look at the bigger monthly | 0:22:03 | 0:22:05 | |
outgoings, basing their figures on the second property they'd viewed. | 0:22:05 | 0:22:09 | |
So in Australia, the cost of the mortgage would be £840. | 0:22:10 | 0:22:15 | |
-In Australia, yeah. -In the UK, the cost is £570. | 0:22:15 | 0:22:18 | |
A quick check of the figures revealed they would also spend more | 0:22:18 | 0:22:21 | |
on gas, electricity and water, but fortunately fuel costs | 0:22:21 | 0:22:25 | |
were a bit more palatable. | 0:22:25 | 0:22:27 | |
-We pay £400 in the UK. -£400. | 0:22:28 | 0:22:30 | |
238. | 0:22:30 | 0:22:32 | |
-That's just amazing, isn't it? -That's massive. | 0:22:32 | 0:22:34 | |
Overall, the couple's monthly bills would rise to £2,677. | 0:22:34 | 0:22:40 | |
Every month, we would be £241... | 0:22:40 | 0:22:44 | |
Worse off, yeah. | 0:22:44 | 0:22:45 | |
It's a lot of money. | 0:22:47 | 0:22:49 | |
But with the promise of a substantial hike in salary | 0:22:49 | 0:22:52 | |
for Julie once qualified down under, | 0:22:52 | 0:22:54 | |
when they added everything up, the result wasn't too bad. | 0:22:54 | 0:22:58 | |
So we're left with £733 every month. | 0:22:58 | 0:23:02 | |
£94 better off. | 0:23:02 | 0:23:04 | |
It wasn't a fortune, but Julie was relieved | 0:23:04 | 0:23:07 | |
they were still in the black. | 0:23:07 | 0:23:09 | |
I'm just, I'm just delighted. | 0:23:09 | 0:23:11 | |
I'm slightly losing this battle! | 0:23:11 | 0:23:14 | |
That's brilliant, it's made my day. | 0:23:14 | 0:23:15 | |
The figures had shown the move to be affordable, | 0:23:15 | 0:23:18 | |
but were they good enough to keep Dan and Julie on the same page | 0:23:18 | 0:23:21 | |
when it came to choosing between finances in Australia and the UK? | 0:23:21 | 0:23:25 | |
It's time to vote. | 0:23:25 | 0:23:27 | |
BOTH: Australia! | 0:23:36 | 0:23:38 | |
Yay! | 0:23:38 | 0:23:40 | |
-Well done! -Four out of four, yeah? | 0:23:40 | 0:23:42 | |
That was a bit of a no-brainer, wasn't it? | 0:23:42 | 0:23:44 | |
Yeah, yeah, we would've been better off in this country, so... | 0:23:44 | 0:23:48 | |
Yeah. Which is amazing. | 0:23:48 | 0:23:50 | |
Yeah. I think I'm surprising myself! | 0:23:50 | 0:23:52 | |
Realising the move was financially feasible had put Dan even further on | 0:23:58 | 0:24:03 | |
Julie's side, but the greatest hurdle of all was still to come. | 0:24:03 | 0:24:07 | |
While the children played outside, | 0:24:07 | 0:24:09 | |
the couple sat down to watch heartfelt messages from home. | 0:24:09 | 0:24:12 | |
Hello, Danny, Julie. | 0:24:14 | 0:24:16 | |
I love you all. Hope you're having a good time. | 0:24:17 | 0:24:21 | |
ALL: Hi, guys! | 0:24:21 | 0:24:23 | |
Really hope you're having a terrible time in Australia. | 0:24:23 | 0:24:26 | |
Hope the weather's awful. | 0:24:26 | 0:24:27 | |
Yeah, and there's loads of spiders. | 0:24:27 | 0:24:29 | |
Julie and Dan are very well suited, aren't they? | 0:24:29 | 0:24:31 | |
Oh, very well. Make a good pair, and a very good family for the children. | 0:24:31 | 0:24:35 | |
She's very domineering, I feel sorry for him at times. | 0:24:35 | 0:24:38 | |
He's like a little dog isn't he, pants? | 0:24:38 | 0:24:40 | |
I thought she was really brave when she left her job that she loved, | 0:24:40 | 0:24:43 | |
because she knew that staying at home looking after the children | 0:24:43 | 0:24:46 | |
was really important to her. | 0:24:46 | 0:24:47 | |
Yeah, I just think there'll be a hole in family get-togethers. | 0:24:47 | 0:24:50 | |
There'll be... | 0:24:50 | 0:24:52 | |
people missing. | 0:24:52 | 0:24:53 | |
I do wonder what will happen if and when something goes wrong | 0:24:53 | 0:24:59 | |
and she has nobody there to support her. | 0:24:59 | 0:25:02 | |
And, yes, she is, she is my best friend, | 0:25:03 | 0:25:06 | |
and I shall miss her terribly when she's gone. | 0:25:06 | 0:25:08 | |
I'm dreading it. | 0:25:08 | 0:25:10 | |
We're a really close family, and... | 0:25:18 | 0:25:21 | |
I didn't think she'd | 0:25:22 | 0:25:25 | |
want to move away from us. | 0:25:25 | 0:25:26 | |
I love him dearly. | 0:25:30 | 0:25:32 | |
If they do... | 0:25:33 | 0:25:35 | |
decide to go to Australia, | 0:25:35 | 0:25:39 | |
erm... | 0:25:39 | 0:25:40 | |
I may get upset. | 0:25:40 | 0:25:42 | |
If you really think Australia will give you a better quality of life, | 0:25:43 | 0:25:47 | |
then you need to do it. | 0:25:47 | 0:25:48 | |
But I don't want you to go, I'd be really gutted if you did. | 0:25:51 | 0:25:54 | |
That was just as hard as I thought it was going to be. | 0:26:03 | 0:26:07 | |
It's like, I don't want to leave them. | 0:26:08 | 0:26:09 | |
If I could bring them all with me, I would. | 0:26:09 | 0:26:12 | |
Yeah, that was really tough. | 0:26:12 | 0:26:14 | |
It was always going to be. | 0:26:14 | 0:26:16 | |
With not a dry eye between them, | 0:26:18 | 0:26:20 | |
the couple were left contemplating the enormity of putting thousands of | 0:26:20 | 0:26:24 | |
miles between them and their loved ones. | 0:26:24 | 0:26:27 | |
After such a positive week for the family, | 0:26:27 | 0:26:30 | |
would the emotional pull back to the UK prove too strong to overcome? | 0:26:30 | 0:26:34 | |
Julie's circumstances had changed since her last visit, | 0:26:36 | 0:26:39 | |
but Australia had more than met her expectations. | 0:26:39 | 0:26:42 | |
In a way, I feel's it's even better, | 0:26:42 | 0:26:44 | |
because when you become a mum you get so much enjoyment | 0:26:44 | 0:26:47 | |
from watching your children and seeing them in an environment | 0:26:47 | 0:26:50 | |
where you know that they're going to thrive. | 0:26:50 | 0:26:53 | |
But messages from loved ones in the UK had been a stark | 0:26:53 | 0:26:57 | |
reminder for both Julie and Dan of how much they'd be giving up. | 0:26:57 | 0:27:01 | |
That was really hard on Jules, it was hard on me as well, but, yeah, | 0:27:01 | 0:27:06 | |
it was really hard on Jules and it upset me watching her cry. | 0:27:06 | 0:27:09 | |
With emotions running high, | 0:27:09 | 0:27:11 | |
the family prepared to decide once and for all | 0:27:11 | 0:27:14 | |
where they wanted to call home. | 0:27:14 | 0:27:16 | |
Now it's time to make our final vote on where we would like to live. | 0:27:18 | 0:27:21 | |
-ALL: -Australia! | 0:27:35 | 0:27:38 | |
Zac, you have it the wrong way. | 0:27:38 | 0:27:40 | |
-You chose England? -Yeah. | 0:27:40 | 0:27:42 | |
-Did you choose England? -Yeah. | 0:27:42 | 0:27:44 | |
Why would you prefer to live in England? | 0:27:44 | 0:27:46 | |
Because I miss my friends. | 0:27:46 | 0:27:48 | |
Do you? That's OK, it's OK to miss your friends. | 0:27:48 | 0:27:51 | |
That's OK. | 0:27:51 | 0:27:53 | |
Girls, why did you choose to live in Australia? | 0:27:53 | 0:27:55 | |
Because it's nice and sunny. | 0:27:55 | 0:27:57 | |
And you can come in the water with us. | 0:27:57 | 0:28:00 | |
Dan... Australia? | 0:28:00 | 0:28:02 | |
It's been a brilliant week, everything I had doubts about | 0:28:02 | 0:28:06 | |
has been allayed. | 0:28:06 | 0:28:08 | |
Yeah, I think it could work, I think it's worth giving it a go. | 0:28:08 | 0:28:11 | |
The Rutland family down under, hey? | 0:28:11 | 0:28:13 | |
Yeah, yeah, I think so. | 0:28:13 | 0:28:15 | |
Zac still needed some gentle persuasion, | 0:28:20 | 0:28:24 | |
but with the majority vote for Australia, | 0:28:24 | 0:28:26 | |
Julie's hard work and determination had finally paid off. | 0:28:26 | 0:28:31 | |
So, 12 months later, | 0:28:31 | 0:28:33 | |
it's time to find out if the family are now living at home, or away. | 0:28:33 | 0:28:38 | |
It's April 2016 and the Rutlands are living in... | 0:28:40 | 0:28:44 | |
..Perth, Australia. | 0:28:45 | 0:28:46 | |
When the trial week won Dan round, | 0:28:48 | 0:28:50 | |
Julie couldn't believe the dream she'd had for so long was on the verge of coming true. | 0:28:50 | 0:28:54 | |
The fact that he said yes and he wanted to move out here was obviously amazing. | 0:28:54 | 0:28:59 | |
It answered all the questions that I had, all the fears that I had. | 0:28:59 | 0:29:02 | |
The Rutlands flew home on a high, but then came the difficult bit. | 0:29:02 | 0:29:07 | |
I think literally as the wheels touched down back in England, | 0:29:07 | 0:29:10 | |
her sisters were on the phone to her, "How did it go, how did it go? | 0:29:10 | 0:29:14 | |
"Are you still going?" | 0:29:14 | 0:29:15 | |
Especially my sister, Kirsten, out of everybody, | 0:29:15 | 0:29:18 | |
had probably hoped the most that we would change our minds. | 0:29:18 | 0:29:22 | |
Even though my dad had given the blessing, | 0:29:22 | 0:29:25 | |
my sisters and stuff like that, | 0:29:25 | 0:29:26 | |
it all... | 0:29:26 | 0:29:29 | |
It all then became a lot realer that we really were going to do it. | 0:29:29 | 0:29:33 | |
Decision made, they then began the process of packing up their lives in the UK. | 0:29:33 | 0:29:37 | |
It just felt huge. | 0:29:38 | 0:29:42 | |
I was just really scared, actually, and very daunted, | 0:29:42 | 0:29:44 | |
because as much as I really love Dan, | 0:29:44 | 0:29:47 | |
you can tell by talking to him he doesn't, he's not a sorter, | 0:29:47 | 0:29:50 | |
so I knew I'd got a really big task ahead of me. | 0:29:50 | 0:29:54 | |
Julie found the experience particularly difficult. | 0:29:54 | 0:29:57 | |
Sorry. | 0:30:00 | 0:30:01 | |
It's all right! It was, it was hard. | 0:30:01 | 0:30:04 | |
It was hard, it was really hard on you. | 0:30:04 | 0:30:06 | |
Selling their house in Oxfordshire was the first step. | 0:30:06 | 0:30:09 | |
That was the big thing. Up until that point none of it's real, | 0:30:09 | 0:30:13 | |
but actually putting your house on the market, | 0:30:13 | 0:30:15 | |
and that "for sale" sign made it real. | 0:30:15 | 0:30:18 | |
It made it a lot realer for the people back home, didn't it? | 0:30:18 | 0:30:21 | |
They realised that we were actually going. | 0:30:21 | 0:30:23 | |
Less than six months after their trial week down under, | 0:30:24 | 0:30:27 | |
the Rutlands prepared to say farewell to family and friends. | 0:30:27 | 0:30:31 | |
You're just dreading the final goodbye, | 0:30:31 | 0:30:34 | |
and that just seemed to come round so quickly. | 0:30:34 | 0:30:37 | |
We had a fantastic goodbye party, | 0:30:37 | 0:30:40 | |
it was one of the best parties I've ever had, all our friends came. | 0:30:40 | 0:30:43 | |
It was a memory to take with us to Australia of happy times, | 0:30:43 | 0:30:47 | |
not of tears and sadness that we were leaving, | 0:30:47 | 0:30:50 | |
of happiness that we were going. | 0:30:50 | 0:30:52 | |
The family touched down in Perth in September 2015, | 0:30:52 | 0:30:56 | |
but starting again on the other side of the world wasn't without its challenges. | 0:30:56 | 0:31:01 | |
We were very tired, it was dark, it was really cold. | 0:31:01 | 0:31:05 | |
Their first home was a short-term rental property. | 0:31:05 | 0:31:08 | |
It wasn't the nicest of houses, it wasn't very well equipped. | 0:31:10 | 0:31:13 | |
Yeah, everything was a little bit of a let down. | 0:31:13 | 0:31:16 | |
Their first few weeks down under fell short of the dream lifestyle | 0:31:16 | 0:31:19 | |
they'd moved half a world for. | 0:31:19 | 0:31:21 | |
You come here, you have nothing. | 0:31:22 | 0:31:24 | |
Simple things like bank accounts, you haven't got a doctor's, | 0:31:24 | 0:31:27 | |
you don't know where you're going to live. | 0:31:27 | 0:31:29 | |
Car shopping, house shopping, buying insurances, everything. | 0:31:29 | 0:31:33 | |
It was manic, wasn't it? | 0:31:33 | 0:31:35 | |
Yeah, when you're tired everything is so much harder. | 0:31:35 | 0:31:37 | |
When you've got three tired children, that's even harder. | 0:31:37 | 0:31:41 | |
And every time we got into the car to look at another house | 0:31:41 | 0:31:44 | |
or go to another bank, they were, "Mummy, Daddy, no, not again!" | 0:31:44 | 0:31:50 | |
You feel bad for them, | 0:31:50 | 0:31:52 | |
and it's literally the easiest way to describe it is | 0:31:52 | 0:31:55 | |
what takes you most your adult life to accumulate, | 0:31:55 | 0:31:58 | |
you have to fit into three weeks. | 0:31:58 | 0:32:00 | |
Desperate to establish some kind of normality, | 0:32:01 | 0:32:04 | |
having a place to call their own was high on the list of priorities. | 0:32:04 | 0:32:08 | |
My criteria was a house with a pool right next to a beach | 0:32:08 | 0:32:12 | |
that allowed a dog. | 0:32:12 | 0:32:14 | |
It soon became plain that that was not available, | 0:32:14 | 0:32:17 | |
so we knew we were going to have to compromise on something, | 0:32:17 | 0:32:21 | |
and our compromise was a pool. | 0:32:21 | 0:32:23 | |
The Rutlands are currently renting in Mullaloo, | 0:32:23 | 0:32:26 | |
35 minutes' drive north of Perth centre. | 0:32:26 | 0:32:29 | |
One evening Jules was looking through the internet and found this place, | 0:32:29 | 0:32:32 | |
and we rang them and they said, "Yeah, come and have a look." | 0:32:32 | 0:32:34 | |
Before we'd walked through the door we were, "Yeah, we'll try and get this one." And we did. | 0:32:34 | 0:32:38 | |
So this is our kitchen, | 0:32:40 | 0:32:41 | |
which was one of the reasons why we fell in love with this house. | 0:32:41 | 0:32:45 | |
It's just beautiful, light and airy, | 0:32:45 | 0:32:47 | |
and one of the things I always said I wanted from a house | 0:32:47 | 0:32:50 | |
was a great, big open-plan living area. | 0:32:50 | 0:32:53 | |
This just fits the bill perfectly. | 0:32:53 | 0:32:55 | |
This is our outside space. | 0:32:55 | 0:32:57 | |
This is what we wanted, one of the things we wanted. | 0:32:57 | 0:33:00 | |
We come and do homework here if we're not in the kitchen, don't we, if the weather's nice? | 0:33:00 | 0:33:04 | |
There's the barbecue, which gets used every day, | 0:33:04 | 0:33:06 | |
we hardly turn the oven on at all. | 0:33:06 | 0:33:08 | |
-It's great, isn't it? -It is, it's lovely, | 0:33:08 | 0:33:10 | |
and especially in the evenings we just tend to sit out here | 0:33:10 | 0:33:14 | |
with our books once the kids have gone to bed | 0:33:14 | 0:33:16 | |
and just relax. | 0:33:16 | 0:33:18 | |
Indoors, the children have their own special space. | 0:33:18 | 0:33:21 | |
I've always wanted a play room, | 0:33:21 | 0:33:23 | |
so basically this is where the kids can just come | 0:33:23 | 0:33:28 | |
and it's a little bit of a mess! | 0:33:28 | 0:33:30 | |
Mum and Dad are very happy with their room, too. | 0:33:30 | 0:33:33 | |
We have the most amazing wardrobe. | 0:33:33 | 0:33:35 | |
It is definitely another one of your favourite bits of the house. | 0:33:35 | 0:33:38 | |
Let me just demonstrate my side, just a quick little peek. | 0:33:38 | 0:33:40 | |
Look at all that storage! | 0:33:40 | 0:33:42 | |
Amazing. And then we've got a really gorgeous en-suite. | 0:33:42 | 0:33:48 | |
I've never had an en-suite in my life before, so that's a real bonus. | 0:33:48 | 0:33:52 | |
To be fair, I don't think I could go back to not having an en-suite. | 0:33:52 | 0:33:55 | |
There's plenty of space for the whole family to spread themselves out. | 0:33:55 | 0:33:59 | |
Really, the kids, in this part of the house, they've almost got their own wing, haven't they? | 0:33:59 | 0:34:03 | |
It makes life a lot easier, | 0:34:03 | 0:34:05 | |
with the room that you get with Australian houses. | 0:34:05 | 0:34:08 | |
Since we've moved in, | 0:34:08 | 0:34:09 | |
these doors have been open every single day from morning till night, | 0:34:09 | 0:34:12 | |
and I love it. | 0:34:12 | 0:34:14 | |
If a house had a soul, this one's got a good one. | 0:34:14 | 0:34:16 | |
So how have the children adapted to their new life down under? | 0:34:16 | 0:34:20 | |
Zac's been the hardest to settle. | 0:34:21 | 0:34:23 | |
Being the oldest, he's definitely been more aware of what we were doing, of the distance. | 0:34:23 | 0:34:29 | |
He understands about making friends and there's an awkwardness to it. | 0:34:29 | 0:34:34 | |
To start a new school, it was really tough. | 0:34:34 | 0:34:37 | |
The work's a lot harder. | 0:34:37 | 0:34:39 | |
It was tough making friends, but at the end I made a lot of friends. | 0:34:39 | 0:34:43 | |
Joining the local surf club has been a real lifeline for Zac. | 0:34:43 | 0:34:47 | |
I have watched him in six months come a long way. | 0:34:47 | 0:34:50 | |
I like Australia, because it's fun, | 0:34:51 | 0:34:54 | |
it's not chucking it down with rain, | 0:34:54 | 0:34:57 | |
and there's lots of things to do. | 0:34:57 | 0:35:00 | |
Seriously, you take him to the beach, you can't get him out of the sea. | 0:35:00 | 0:35:03 | |
The rougher, the better. | 0:35:03 | 0:35:05 | |
He's confident, he's happy and... | 0:35:05 | 0:35:08 | |
Yeah, he'll still tell you he prefers England, | 0:35:08 | 0:35:11 | |
but I don't believe it. | 0:35:11 | 0:35:13 | |
And Willow and Faye? | 0:35:13 | 0:35:15 | |
The girls have been so unfazed by the whole process. | 0:35:15 | 0:35:19 | |
Faye... | 0:35:19 | 0:35:20 | |
Faye hated school in England, she hates school in Australia, | 0:35:20 | 0:35:23 | |
she's just Faye. | 0:35:23 | 0:35:25 | |
She's going to be my little surfer dude. | 0:35:26 | 0:35:29 | |
She absolutely is going to be an Aussie. | 0:35:29 | 0:35:32 | |
I like living in Australia because | 0:35:32 | 0:35:35 | |
it has sometimes a cool breeze, | 0:35:35 | 0:35:39 | |
because it's hot and flowers grow. | 0:35:39 | 0:35:43 | |
And then Willow, I'm so, I'm so proud of Willow. | 0:35:43 | 0:35:47 | |
After I cried just a little bit, then I stopped, | 0:35:47 | 0:35:50 | |
then I made some friends with Billy. | 0:35:50 | 0:35:53 | |
Willow found a friend straightaway. | 0:35:53 | 0:35:55 | |
Um... | 0:35:55 | 0:35:56 | |
And they are still friends now, so yeah, Willow settled in really well. | 0:35:56 | 0:36:00 | |
She's not like the others. She's not sporty. | 0:36:00 | 0:36:03 | |
She's not a big fan of the beach. | 0:36:03 | 0:36:05 | |
But she does swimming lessons, like the others. | 0:36:05 | 0:36:08 | |
She's confident, she's got some amazing friends and she's doing great. | 0:36:08 | 0:36:11 | |
Julie and Dan are convinced they made the right move for their young family. | 0:36:13 | 0:36:17 | |
As they all get older, | 0:36:17 | 0:36:19 | |
um... | 0:36:19 | 0:36:20 | |
Yeah, they will see why we moved. | 0:36:20 | 0:36:23 | |
Every heartache and every tear and I miss someone | 0:36:23 | 0:36:26 | |
is absolutely worth it, | 0:36:26 | 0:36:28 | |
because the children are so happy and the lifestyle they've got | 0:36:28 | 0:36:30 | |
is amazing. | 0:36:30 | 0:36:32 | |
And it's not just the children who have taken to life down under | 0:36:32 | 0:36:35 | |
like ducks to water. | 0:36:35 | 0:36:37 | |
She forced me into it to start off with, and now I've completely, yeah, | 0:36:37 | 0:36:41 | |
sunk my teeth into it. I love barbecuing. | 0:36:41 | 0:36:43 | |
I go out as many times as I can a week on my paddle board. | 0:36:43 | 0:36:46 | |
He's absolutely an Aussie. | 0:36:46 | 0:36:49 | |
In fact, he talks like an Aussie. | 0:36:49 | 0:36:51 | |
The other day, he said to me, | 0:36:51 | 0:36:52 | |
something about throwing a snag on the barbie, was it? | 0:36:52 | 0:36:56 | |
This lifestyle suits him down to the ground. | 0:36:56 | 0:36:59 | |
Yeah, I love it. | 0:36:59 | 0:37:01 | |
The Aussie lifestyle has meant more quality time together. | 0:37:02 | 0:37:05 | |
Perth is a really family orientated place to be. | 0:37:07 | 0:37:10 | |
Free events in the park that we take them to, | 0:37:10 | 0:37:14 | |
there's just so much on offer for families. It's a great place. | 0:37:14 | 0:37:17 | |
Being in Australia has definitely enhanced our family life. | 0:37:17 | 0:37:21 | |
The couple have developed a solid social circle in Perth too. | 0:37:21 | 0:37:25 | |
Someone that we met, who is literally a one-person welcome to Perth. | 0:37:25 | 0:37:30 | |
She literally sets up barbecues and you get to meet all these other | 0:37:30 | 0:37:34 | |
people, and we're still friends with them now. | 0:37:34 | 0:37:36 | |
Dan's meeting people through work, | 0:37:36 | 0:37:38 | |
I've met some people through the school, | 0:37:38 | 0:37:40 | |
so, yeah, certainly meeting friends has just been wonderful. | 0:37:40 | 0:37:45 | |
Unfortunately the job Dan was offered during his trial week | 0:37:45 | 0:37:49 | |
didn't pan out. | 0:37:49 | 0:37:50 | |
When I got here I made the phone calls, e-mails, | 0:37:50 | 0:37:54 | |
and just got no response to that. | 0:37:54 | 0:37:56 | |
Which did annoy me a little bit, there was some choice words said, | 0:37:56 | 0:38:00 | |
but at the end of the day just had to get on and find another job, which I did. | 0:38:00 | 0:38:04 | |
Getting used to the local way of working hasn't been plain sailing. | 0:38:04 | 0:38:08 | |
Carpenters here have a different sort of role. | 0:38:08 | 0:38:10 | |
They are very much used to do sort of like all sorts of different things. | 0:38:10 | 0:38:14 | |
Yeah, for the last week I've been digging holes and doing shuttering, | 0:38:14 | 0:38:18 | |
which isn't something I've done before, | 0:38:18 | 0:38:20 | |
but it turns out I can dig quite a good hole. | 0:38:20 | 0:38:22 | |
Working on a self-employed basis, | 0:38:22 | 0:38:24 | |
Dan currently earns around £225 a day. | 0:38:24 | 0:38:30 | |
It's pretty good, but it is for a ten-hour day. | 0:38:30 | 0:38:32 | |
I could earn the same money back home in a shorter period of time, | 0:38:32 | 0:38:35 | |
just because of the way things are done. | 0:38:35 | 0:38:38 | |
Um... | 0:38:38 | 0:38:39 | |
But it does leave my weekends free, which is the point of coming here. | 0:38:39 | 0:38:44 | |
Judith started her training to become a teacher down under, | 0:38:44 | 0:38:47 | |
but with just one wage coming in, the couple have had to dip into their savings to survive. | 0:38:47 | 0:38:52 | |
The money that we had in our bank was everything that we had, | 0:38:52 | 0:38:56 | |
and to start off with we just saw it, | 0:38:56 | 0:38:58 | |
it was like someone had drilled a hole in our bank account and it was just leaking out. To see... | 0:38:58 | 0:39:03 | |
thousands and thousands of dollars just going out of your account, | 0:39:03 | 0:39:08 | |
just to feed, just to pay your bills. | 0:39:08 | 0:39:13 | |
We've just had to accept it and think, OK, we're going to have to do that, | 0:39:13 | 0:39:17 | |
but we're just going to do it as a short-term. | 0:39:17 | 0:39:19 | |
Originally signed up for a two-year course, | 0:39:19 | 0:39:22 | |
Julie's now pushing to qualify in just one year. | 0:39:22 | 0:39:24 | |
Doing a degree full-time, with three children, in a new place, | 0:39:26 | 0:39:31 | |
is quite tough. | 0:39:31 | 0:39:32 | |
She's also worried about the extra pressure it's putting on Dan. | 0:39:32 | 0:39:36 | |
He works long hours and in the heat that takes it out of him, | 0:39:36 | 0:39:39 | |
and it does put a strain on us. | 0:39:39 | 0:39:42 | |
And I feel guilty, because of that, but, you know, | 0:39:42 | 0:39:45 | |
you just have to keep thinking, it's a short-term goal, it's only a year, | 0:39:45 | 0:39:50 | |
there is going to be an outcome at the end of it, so while it's tough, | 0:39:50 | 0:39:53 | |
it's not going to be forever. | 0:39:53 | 0:39:55 | |
But financial worries haven't been the only negative. | 0:39:55 | 0:39:58 | |
Things that I didn't expect to miss so much, I miss a lot. | 0:40:00 | 0:40:03 | |
Some days, like, although it's beautiful, some days, | 0:40:04 | 0:40:07 | |
you think all the sunshine in the world doesn't make up for a hug. | 0:40:07 | 0:40:12 | |
But I wouldn't want to go back to England. | 0:40:17 | 0:40:19 | |
I just wish they were all here with me. | 0:40:19 | 0:40:22 | |
I miss my dad, I miss my family. | 0:40:22 | 0:40:24 | |
Apart from that, I don't actually miss anything. | 0:40:26 | 0:40:30 | |
Julie's mum and stepdad have already been out to visit. | 0:40:30 | 0:40:33 | |
Picking them up from the airport was a reminder of how far from home they are. | 0:40:33 | 0:40:37 | |
I think there must have been so many people that came through the | 0:40:37 | 0:40:40 | |
airport that hadn't seen their children for so long, | 0:40:40 | 0:40:42 | |
that by the time my mum came through the airport, I'd already gone through a box of tissues. | 0:40:42 | 0:40:47 | |
Some poor woman fell to her knees at the sight of her son. | 0:40:47 | 0:40:50 | |
Oh, my God, I was clinging hold of the railings, like sobbing, | 0:40:50 | 0:40:54 | |
and I'd never met the woman before. | 0:40:54 | 0:40:56 | |
Granny's visit was a complete surprise for the children. | 0:40:56 | 0:40:59 | |
They were playing at the park when my mum arrived, and, oh, | 0:40:59 | 0:41:03 | |
it was just lovely. | 0:41:03 | 0:41:05 | |
My mum came over the hill and I was saying to the kids, like, "Who's that, who's that?" | 0:41:05 | 0:41:09 | |
They were all looking, and then all of a sudden it clicked with Zac, and he was like, | 0:41:09 | 0:41:13 | |
"It's Granny Annie." | 0:41:13 | 0:41:15 | |
It was really great to see them again, because I've missed them, missed them a lot. | 0:41:15 | 0:41:19 | |
It's lovely to have them here and also it is that bit | 0:41:19 | 0:41:21 | |
that now they can see why we've done it. | 0:41:21 | 0:41:24 | |
The lifestyle is incredible. | 0:41:25 | 0:41:27 | |
It's brilliant, brilliant for kids. | 0:41:27 | 0:41:30 | |
I envy them. I really do envy them. | 0:41:31 | 0:41:35 | |
And there's plenty of other visits in the pipeline. | 0:41:36 | 0:41:39 | |
Good friends coming out at Christmas. | 0:41:39 | 0:41:41 | |
My dad at the moment, depending on how his operation goes on his knee, | 0:41:43 | 0:41:46 | |
he intends on coming out in March. | 0:41:46 | 0:41:48 | |
They're just a year into their new life down under, | 0:41:48 | 0:41:51 | |
but Dan and Julie are convinced the move's a permanent one. | 0:41:51 | 0:41:54 | |
There's absolutely no doubt in my mind that we did the right thing. | 0:41:54 | 0:41:58 | |
-No, none in mine either. -Money's tough. | 0:41:58 | 0:42:01 | |
It's definitely tough. | 0:42:01 | 0:42:02 | |
But it's a short-term tough. | 0:42:02 | 0:42:03 | |
There is light going to be at the end of the tunnel. | 0:42:03 | 0:42:05 | |
We're really happy. The kids are really happy and I think the longer we are here, | 0:42:05 | 0:42:10 | |
the more ingrained our lives become in Australia. | 0:42:10 | 0:42:12 | |
Just looking forward to the future in general. | 0:42:12 | 0:42:15 | |
And then obviously the main aim is to work towards that boat that you promised me. | 0:42:15 | 0:42:18 | |
Oh, yeah, the boat! | 0:42:18 | 0:42:20 | |
I know, Daddy wants to own one. | 0:42:22 | 0:42:24 | |
I certainly want to own one. | 0:42:24 | 0:42:25 | |
I can't believe I did it. | 0:42:27 | 0:42:29 | |
I can't believe I was that brave enough. | 0:42:29 | 0:42:32 | |
Because actually it's a really long road. | 0:42:32 | 0:42:34 | |
It was a very stressful road, but it was very worth it. | 0:42:34 | 0:42:38 | |
It will be, I think, the hardest thing that you've ever done, | 0:42:38 | 0:42:41 | |
but as long as you give it everything you can, it will be worthwhile. | 0:42:41 | 0:42:45 | |
Everything that I wanted a year ago when I planned this move is actually | 0:42:45 | 0:42:50 | |
here, and sometimes I have to pinch myself to think that we are | 0:42:50 | 0:42:54 | |
actually living our dream. | 0:42:54 | 0:42:56 | |
The past year has brought big changes for Dan, Julie, Zac, | 0:43:04 | 0:43:08 | |
Willow and Faye. | 0:43:08 | 0:43:10 | |
We wish them all the very best. | 0:43:10 | 0:43:12 |