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Travelling in your teens often leaves you with a sense

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of wanderlust, longing for a life in the sun.

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But is it really possible to make the dream your reality years later,

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when you've three children in tow and a husband who's far from convinced?

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That was the question Julie Rutland needed answered in 2015.

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One year on, we'll find out where the family are now.

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In 2015, Julie Rutland longed to move her family to Australia.

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I just want to try, I want to follow my dream.

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With a visa already in place, she had just one obstacle to clear.

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The only thing that is stopping us is me.

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A trial week opened Dan's eyes to the possibilities.

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If we could afford this house, you've got me in Australia.

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So one year on, have the family made it to the other side of the world?

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Making plans and then sticking to them religiously is, I think,

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heading for disaster, because life isn't like that.

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Covering a landmass of almost three million square miles,

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Australia's been hailed a land of opportunity ever since the first

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European settlers arrived back in the 1700s.

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Promising sunshine, beaches and a strong economy,

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the attraction shows little sign of easing up,

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with latest figures showing over 28% of the country's population

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is born overseas.

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Julie Rutland was on a mission to convince husband Dan

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Australia was where their family belonged.

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However, never having stepped foot in the country,

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he worried his wife's vision of life down under was based entirely

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on rose-tinted memories.

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Julie had just one week to persuade him once and for all

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her dream was one worth chasing.

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A year ago, the Rutlands' journey began with over 17 hours in the sky,

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flying from London to Australia via Dubai.

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As they landed in Perth, Julie was thrilled to be back down under.

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I just can't wait to show them all the beach, the weather,

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the lifestyle and the houses.

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But there was only one word to sum up how Dan was feeling.

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Tired. I'm feeling very, very tired.

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It was a long journey.

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It wasn't that bad.

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Julie had a hard road ahead to convince Dan to start a new life

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on the other side of the world.

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In 2015, dad Dan, mum Julie, Zac,

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who was then nine, Willow, who was six, and Faye, then aged five,

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were living in Bicester in Oxfordshire.

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Julie had been dreaming of Australia ever since visiting

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15 years earlier.

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It's got so many wonderful memories.

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I was travelling with two of my best friends, we were young.

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We bought a camper van in Darwin and we travelled all round Australia.

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After reluctantly returning to the UK, Julie met Dan soon after.

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I swerved into a nightclub,

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swooped Julie off of her feet and that was the end of the story.

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The couple settled down together.

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Julie secured a job in Formula One, and Dan worked as a carpenter.

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But when the children came along,

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Julie parked her career and thoughts turned once again to Australia.

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It's just about the lifestyle, really.

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Be careful there, Willow.

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I would just love to live by a beach,

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and I love the sporty lifestyle.

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We're such an outdoors family.

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But moving to the other side of the world wasn't something Dan

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had ever considered.

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The only thing that is stopping us is me.

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I am the brick wall.

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Determined to make the move,

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Julie secured a visa for the family and began applying for jobs

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for Dan online. Knowing how much he loved fishing,

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she even tried to reel him in with the promise of a boat.

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It was just a splash.

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Yeah, I might have hinted that he could have a little boat,

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just a little boat, if he moved near the sea.

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But Dan didn't rise to the bait.

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Can we afford to move to Australia?

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The jobs... There's a lot of questions that need answering.

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Dan also worried about the emotional cost of moving.

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Close to his dad, he was torn at the thought of leaving him.

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If something happened to my dad while I was the other side, I'd...

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I'd never forgive myself.

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Yeah.

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Julie was aware of the impact saying goodbye

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would have on her family too.

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I know it will break my mum's heart, I know it will.

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And I know it will break both my sisters' hearts as well.

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But, determined to show Dan and the children the lifestyle she believed

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would benefit them, Julie was desperate for the chance to make her

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vision their reality and she had just seven days to do it.

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I can almost feel it, and I really want it for the children,

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and I really want it for us.

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I just want to try, I want to follow my dream.

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The family spent their week in Western Australia's capital city, Perth.

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Their temporary base was in Halls Head,

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a coastal suburb just over an hour's drive from the city centre.

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-Wow, look at that.

-That looks very grand, doesn't it?

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Look at the sea, wow!

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That's a proper sea view.

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Despite the dull day, Julie was delighted

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with the beachfront location.

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Wow.

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Now this is the type of place I would love to live.

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Then you should have married a millionaire!

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Fuelled by excitement, the family headed straight to the beach.

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That looks all right, doesn't it? Do you think they like it?

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They'd only arrived, but the children were already sold.

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Australia's epic.

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It's fun.

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I think Australia's good.

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Dan, though, had his feet firmly on the ground.

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This house is fantastic,

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but it's whether we could afford something like this.

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There's just lots of things to find out.

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The week ahead would determine whether or not Dan could buy into

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Julie's dream, but she was feeling confident things would go her way.

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This is us finding out if this is what we actually want to do

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for the rest of our lives, so it's got to be, it's got to be amazing,

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and I think it will be.

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In 2015,

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the Rutlands were living in a three-bedroom semidetached house

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in Bicester in Oxfordshire.

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I would quite like to transport our house

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and Danny's worked really hard.

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-Yeah.

-I tell him what we're going to do, and he works really hard to do it.

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Knowing she couldn't take it with her,

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Julie had a clear idea of what she'd like for a home in Australia.

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Four bedrooms, plus a granny annexe, so people could come and stay.

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An open-plan kitchen-dining area, plus a swimming pool,

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and literally practically on the beach.

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Dan had slightly different ideas.

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For me it would be more a harbour.

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So that I could have somewhere to put my boat.

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But there again, you know, I could have a boat here.

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But I can't afford that either.

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With around £250,000 to spend on a house in Australia,

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we showed the family three properties - two based on budget

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and one which could have been their dream home.

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The search began in Secret Harbour,

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an established suburb 45 minutes' drive from central Perth.

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Just a stone's throw from the beach,

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did this four-bedroom home get things off to a flying start?

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Come in, kids.

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-That's quite nice.

-Ooh, wow.

-Yeah, I like it.

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It is a bit dark, isn't it?

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I don't know if it's kind of what I had in mind.

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It is, it is open-plan living...

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-Yes.

-But perhaps not as open-plan as I was hoping.

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She was the one pushing for the move,

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but first impressions weren't quite what Julie expected.

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-The main bedroom off of a lounge area...

-It's en-suite.

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It is a nice en-suite, isn't it? It's a really big one.

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It didn't take long for her to come round, though.

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It's a good double bedroom for one of the kids.

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Yeah, it is good, it's a good size.

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Yes, it's actually growing on me, this house.

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The inside may have won Julie over,

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but was the outside what they wanted?

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It is nice, I do like the outdoor area, I do like it.

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Dan, on the other hand, wasn't happy with the fake grass.

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It sounds like it's plastic bags underneath it, doesn't it?

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The house had evoked mixed reactions,

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but the question was, would Julie and Dan's £250,000 budget

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-be enough to buy it?

-I think it's going to be over budget.

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I think maybe about 275.

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If this is over budget, I mean, I'm going to feel, I think,

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quite disappointed by it.

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Let's see what it is.

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£254,600, so it's pretty much bang on our budget, and that's OK.

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Yeah, yeah.

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Are you a bit disappointed?

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Yeah, yeah, I was hoping it was going to be less than that.

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Their first taste of Perth's property prices was bittersweet.

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For Dan, the next house would need to be more on the money if Julie

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was to persuade him to make the move.

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To find out, the family headed to Baldivis,

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a rapidly expanding suburb just under 30 miles south of the city.

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Would this place be up to spec for the Rutlands?

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I like the look of this house.

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Things were off to a good start.

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-Straight into a bedroom.

-See, I just like this more.

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-This furnishing is a lot more like we would have in the house, isn't it?

-Yeah.

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The open-plan kitchen-living area was more in line

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with Julie's expectations.

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Oh, I love it!

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-So do I.

-Yeah, it's much nicer.

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-Yeah.

-The house also had a separate playroom for the children.

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Wow, this is amazing!

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And when they spotted a pool in the garden,

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Julie couldn't believe her luck.

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This house just got even better.

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Yeah, this house just got more expensive.

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Oh, my God, I love it.

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Despite concerns about cost, even Dan was bowled over.

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If we could afford this house, you've got me in Australia.

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-How exciting!

-This is awesome.

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But, with £250,000 to spend,

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was it somewhere the family could afford to live?

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Let's have a look.

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-JULIE GASPS

-Oh! See, I was right.

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£262,800.

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-I was right.

-That's amazing.

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-That's doable.

-Yeah, it is doable.

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-That's just made my day.

-Yeah.

-It's really made my day.

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Yeah, it certainly hasn't ruined mine.

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£12,000 over budget hadn't dented Julie's enthusiasm,

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and even Dan seemed content with the cost,

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and there was still one property to go.

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The final stop of the day was the coastal suburb of Waikiki.

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Just one street back from the sea,

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we'd found what could be the family's dream home,

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but would Julie and Dan agree?

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Oh, let's have a look.

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-Wow, it looks huge.

-It's massive.

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-Wow.

-First impressions looked good, but...

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This is a bit different.

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Yeah...

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I don't like the kitchen. It's not really a really big area,

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and I don't like all the bricks.

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No.

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With four bedrooms, on paper,

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the house met many of Julie's requirements but the reality

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didn't match up.

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So it looks disappointing again.

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And the dated en-suite did little to lift spirits.

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There's just so much work that you'd need to do, that I would want to do.

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It'd be quicker, honestly, it'd be quicker to knock it down.

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The interiors of the property had failed to wow,

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but outdoors was a different matter.

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-Nice, under cover.

-I do really like this.

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-Yeah.

-There's a Jacuzzi.

-I'm liking it a little bit more.

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It had the pool Julie wanted too, but was it enough?

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Whoa, that's a big swimming pool.

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That's a really lovely size swimming pool,

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but I still don't know whether I'd want to spend thousands doing it up.

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The jury was still out,

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but was it somewhere they could afford on their £250,000 budget?

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-Turn it over.

-Turn it over.

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-Whoa.

-£318,900.

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-625.

-That's less than what I thought it would be, actually.

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Yeah, it is, it's less than I thought it would be, but this house

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just, for me, it just doesn't flow.

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At almost £70,000 over budget, this house was out of reach,

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unless Julie and Dan's earnings increased substantially down under.

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Overall, it had been an eye-opening property search for the Rutlands.

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Property one failed to deliver the large and bright living space Julie

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dreamed of, and almost £5,000 over budget, left Dan disappointed.

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With the open-plan living Julie loved, and a pool in the garden,

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property two was a real hit with the whole family.

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But even close to the beach and with a pool,

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the final property of the day didn't meet Julie's expectations

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and at nearly £70,000 over budget, proved unaffordable.

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So how did the day influence their decision when it came to picking

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between property in the UK and Australia?

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Based on the houses that we've seen today, we're now going to vote.

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ALL: Australia!

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Yay! We love Australia.

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You voted for Australia? I'm really pleased.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah, I liked some of the houses we saw.

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The weather's not brilliant, but I can see, yeah,

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what it offers out here, it's on par with what I've got at home.

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Oh, I'm so excited. This is a really good start.

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This is a really good start to the week, yeah.

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-It's a good start for me as well.

-Yeah.

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Five votes for Australia had got the week off to a great start,

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but Julie knew if Dan couldn't be convinced he could find a job

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to pay for the house he wanted, they wouldn't be moving anywhere.

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Back in the UK, Dan had been working as a carpenter for 16 years.

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Happy in his work and with the lifestyle it afforded,

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he'd huge reservations about packing it in.

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Everything I've heard over there is saying that things are more expensive,

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so it is whether the salary is achievable with the job that I want as well.

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As a former Formula One engineer,

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Julie had plans to retrain as a teacher in Australia,

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but she knew it was Dan's work prospects that could make or break

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her dream to emigrate.

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It's really important that Dan gets the right job and salary in Australia,

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because I think that will be absolutely key to him making a decision.

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To find out about their work options in Perth,

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we had arranged for Dan to meet Robert Shaw,

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a director at one of the city's well-established building companies.

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I had a look at your resume,

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obviously you've been in the industry a while, so yes,

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I would say all your skills are definitely transferable.

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If you've got the skill set that you've got,

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which is an ideal base for a supervisor, you'd certainly get a crack here.

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Julie was visiting the Edith Cowan University,

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to meet student recruitment coordinator Sarah Bowley,

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to find out about becoming a maths or science teacher.

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We offer a graduate diploma of education,

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which is a one-year conversion course, pretty much.

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-Yeah.

-For people that have a completed bachelor degree already.

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If, for example, you're going to become a maths teacher and a science teacher,

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we need to see that you've specialised that in your bachelor degree.

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With an engineering degree under her belt,

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that wasn't a problem for Julie,

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but she still needed to find out how much the course would cost.

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Approximately 6,200 Australian dollars.

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-OK.

-For the year, for the full course.

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Around £3,000 was comparable with what she would pay back home.

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-That's really great, thank you very much.

-No worries.

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Back at the building firm,

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Dan was finding out about his potential earnings.

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As a supervisor, you might look at somewhere around 70,000-80,000 Oz dollars,

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up to 125,000.

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Between £39,000 and £60,000 was very promising,

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and Dan was taken aback when Robert made him an offer.

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If you're lucky enough to come over here, and I said,

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and we had a position available and we wanted to sort of train you up

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as a supervisor straight off the bat...

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-Yeah.

-..would you be prepared to look at something like that?

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Yeah, obviously, coming over here with the proposition of getting

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a job would obviously make it even easier.

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It was great news for Dan.

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Meanwhile, Julie was meeting Alison Ramm,

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director of school staffing services at Western Australia's

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-Department of Education.

-Hello.

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You'd be a perfect candidate to move into maths or science teaching,

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because not only would you have that qualification,

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you'd also have that great industry experience.

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That was encouraging, and there was more good news to come.

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We actually currently have a shortage of secondary teachers,

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and in fact I looked this morning and there's two science

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and two maths jobs currently advertised.

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With jobs looking plentiful, all Julie needed to know

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was whether the salary would justify her retraining.

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What sort of wages could I expect once I qualify?

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You'd start, at the moment, on about £35,000 a year.

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-Wow.

-It was a positive day for the couple,

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but had it been enough to make them both choose work in Australia

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over the UK?

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After a great day looking at job prospects, it's time to vote.

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BOTH: Australia!

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Wow!

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Ah, I'm so pleased.

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It looked like Julie was on a winning streak,

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so did a day sampling Australia's lifestyle see her vision

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for a new life down under brought one step closer?

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The family's day began with a walk around the historic city

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of Fremantle, just 30 minutes from central Perth.

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First stop, the famous markets,

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where Dan wasted no time getting to grips with traditional

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Australian culture.

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You're practically a native.

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-I don't think so.

-Nice try, Julie!

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A fishing trip on the Swan River rounded off the day.

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Well, this is the boat, guys. Come onboard.

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Can we get something like that, Dad?

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Probably not, mate. Unless I nick it!

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He might not have been able to afford the biggest boat on the river,

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but was the lifestyle one Dan could imagine living?

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Yeah, I could definitely see myself taking one of these out.

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Zac was hooked, too.

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I caught a fish!

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The day had panned out well for everyone.

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The sun's come out for us, yeah, it's just brilliant,

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I'm loving seeing them all really happy.

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It might be a bit too small for your head!

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But the realisation that days like this would mean sacrificing

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relationships with everyone they love back home

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was also beginning to surface.

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Yeah, it's all good, it's just that one thing about family.

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I know I'm going to miss them.

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It is such a long way.

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The family faced a tough decision come the end of the week,

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but for now it was time to see if the day had done enough to make them

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choose Australia's lifestyle ahead of the UK's.

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It's time to vote.

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ALL: Australia!

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Yay!

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Yeah, we've all voted the same! Dan?

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Yeah, no, it was really good, it's been a really good day.

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When the sun's out, brilliant, you said I can have a boat.

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It's our third vote and the whole family so far has voted

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for Australia, which is just amazing.

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With another clean sweep of votes for Australia,

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Julie's dream was gathering pace.

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But could they afford the lifestyle they wanted?

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The couple sat down to compare costs in Australia and the UK,

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starting with the weekly shopping bill.

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-Bananas.

-Yeah.

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£1.20 in the UK for ten bananas,

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£4.49 in Australia!

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Biscuits - for three packs it's £1.20 in the UK,

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the equivalent is nearly £4 in Australia.

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An increase of almost £12 more every week for food didn't faze them.

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-That's pretty good, that's a really positive start.

-Yes, that's OK.

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The couple moved on to look at the bigger monthly

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outgoings, basing their figures on the second property they'd viewed.

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So in Australia, the cost of the mortgage would be £840.

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-In Australia, yeah.

-In the UK, the cost is £570.

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A quick check of the figures revealed they would also spend more

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on gas, electricity and water, but fortunately fuel costs

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were a bit more palatable.

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-We pay £400 in the UK.

-£400.

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238.

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-That's just amazing, isn't it?

-That's massive.

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Overall, the couple's monthly bills would rise to £2,677.

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Every month, we would be £241...

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Worse off, yeah.

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It's a lot of money.

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But with the promise of a substantial hike in salary

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for Julie once qualified down under,

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when they added everything up, the result wasn't too bad.

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So we're left with £733 every month.

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£94 better off.

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It wasn't a fortune, but Julie was relieved

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they were still in the black.

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I'm just, I'm just delighted.

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I'm slightly losing this battle!

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That's brilliant, it's made my day.

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The figures had shown the move to be affordable,

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but were they good enough to keep Dan and Julie on the same page

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when it came to choosing between finances in Australia and the UK?

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It's time to vote.

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BOTH: Australia!

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Yay!

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-Well done!

-Four out of four, yeah?

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That was a bit of a no-brainer, wasn't it?

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Yeah, yeah, we would've been better off in this country, so...

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Yeah. Which is amazing.

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Yeah. I think I'm surprising myself!

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Realising the move was financially feasible had put Dan even further on

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Julie's side, but the greatest hurdle of all was still to come.

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While the children played outside,

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the couple sat down to watch heartfelt messages from home.

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Hello, Danny, Julie.

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I love you all. Hope you're having a good time.

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ALL: Hi, guys!

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Really hope you're having a terrible time in Australia.

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Hope the weather's awful.

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Yeah, and there's loads of spiders.

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Julie and Dan are very well suited, aren't they?

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Oh, very well. Make a good pair, and a very good family for the children.

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She's very domineering, I feel sorry for him at times.

0:24:350:24:38

He's like a little dog isn't he, pants?

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I thought she was really brave when she left her job that she loved,

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because she knew that staying at home looking after the children

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was really important to her.

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Yeah, I just think there'll be a hole in family get-togethers.

0:24:470:24:50

There'll be...

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people missing.

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I do wonder what will happen if and when something goes wrong

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and she has nobody there to support her.

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And, yes, she is, she is my best friend,

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and I shall miss her terribly when she's gone.

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I'm dreading it.

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We're a really close family, and...

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I didn't think she'd

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want to move away from us.

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I love him dearly.

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If they do...

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decide to go to Australia,

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erm...

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I may get upset.

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If you really think Australia will give you a better quality of life,

0:25:430:25:47

then you need to do it.

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But I don't want you to go, I'd be really gutted if you did.

0:25:510:25:54

That was just as hard as I thought it was going to be.

0:26:030:26:07

It's like, I don't want to leave them.

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If I could bring them all with me, I would.

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Yeah, that was really tough.

0:26:120:26:14

It was always going to be.

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With not a dry eye between them,

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the couple were left contemplating the enormity of putting thousands of

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miles between them and their loved ones.

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After such a positive week for the family,

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would the emotional pull back to the UK prove too strong to overcome?

0:26:300:26:34

Julie's circumstances had changed since her last visit,

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but Australia had more than met her expectations.

0:26:390:26:42

In a way, I feel's it's even better,

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because when you become a mum you get so much enjoyment

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from watching your children and seeing them in an environment

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where you know that they're going to thrive.

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But messages from loved ones in the UK had been a stark

0:26:530:26:57

reminder for both Julie and Dan of how much they'd be giving up.

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That was really hard on Jules, it was hard on me as well, but, yeah,

0:27:010:27:06

it was really hard on Jules and it upset me watching her cry.

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With emotions running high,

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the family prepared to decide once and for all

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where they wanted to call home.

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Now it's time to make our final vote on where we would like to live.

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-ALL:

-Australia!

0:27:350:27:38

Zac, you have it the wrong way.

0:27:380:27:40

-You chose England?

-Yeah.

0:27:400:27:42

-Did you choose England?

-Yeah.

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Why would you prefer to live in England?

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Because I miss my friends.

0:27:460:27:48

Do you? That's OK, it's OK to miss your friends.

0:27:480:27:51

That's OK.

0:27:510:27:53

Girls, why did you choose to live in Australia?

0:27:530:27:55

Because it's nice and sunny.

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And you can come in the water with us.

0:27:570:28:00

Dan... Australia?

0:28:000:28:02

It's been a brilliant week, everything I had doubts about

0:28:020:28:06

has been allayed.

0:28:060:28:08

Yeah, I think it could work, I think it's worth giving it a go.

0:28:080:28:11

The Rutland family down under, hey?

0:28:110:28:13

Yeah, yeah, I think so.

0:28:130:28:15

Zac still needed some gentle persuasion,

0:28:200:28:24

but with the majority vote for Australia,

0:28:240:28:26

Julie's hard work and determination had finally paid off.

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So, 12 months later,

0:28:310:28:33

it's time to find out if the family are now living at home, or away.

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It's April 2016 and the Rutlands are living in...

0:28:400:28:44

..Perth, Australia.

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When the trial week won Dan round,

0:28:480:28:50

Julie couldn't believe the dream she'd had for so long was on the verge of coming true.

0:28:500:28:54

The fact that he said yes and he wanted to move out here was obviously amazing.

0:28:540:28:59

It answered all the questions that I had, all the fears that I had.

0:28:590:29:02

The Rutlands flew home on a high, but then came the difficult bit.

0:29:020:29:07

I think literally as the wheels touched down back in England,

0:29:070:29:10

her sisters were on the phone to her, "How did it go, how did it go?

0:29:100:29:14

"Are you still going?"

0:29:140:29:15

Especially my sister, Kirsten, out of everybody,

0:29:150:29:18

had probably hoped the most that we would change our minds.

0:29:180:29:22

Even though my dad had given the blessing,

0:29:220:29:25

my sisters and stuff like that,

0:29:250:29:26

it all...

0:29:260:29:29

It all then became a lot realer that we really were going to do it.

0:29:290:29:33

Decision made, they then began the process of packing up their lives in the UK.

0:29:330:29:37

It just felt huge.

0:29:380:29:42

I was just really scared, actually, and very daunted,

0:29:420:29:44

because as much as I really love Dan,

0:29:440:29:47

you can tell by talking to him he doesn't, he's not a sorter,

0:29:470:29:50

so I knew I'd got a really big task ahead of me.

0:29:500:29:54

Julie found the experience particularly difficult.

0:29:540:29:57

Sorry.

0:30:000:30:01

It's all right! It was, it was hard.

0:30:010:30:04

It was hard, it was really hard on you.

0:30:040:30:06

Selling their house in Oxfordshire was the first step.

0:30:060:30:09

That was the big thing. Up until that point none of it's real,

0:30:090:30:13

but actually putting your house on the market,

0:30:130:30:15

and that "for sale" sign made it real.

0:30:150:30:18

It made it a lot realer for the people back home, didn't it?

0:30:180:30:21

They realised that we were actually going.

0:30:210:30:23

Less than six months after their trial week down under,

0:30:240:30:27

the Rutlands prepared to say farewell to family and friends.

0:30:270:30:31

You're just dreading the final goodbye,

0:30:310:30:34

and that just seemed to come round so quickly.

0:30:340:30:37

We had a fantastic goodbye party,

0:30:370:30:40

it was one of the best parties I've ever had, all our friends came.

0:30:400:30:43

It was a memory to take with us to Australia of happy times,

0:30:430:30:47

not of tears and sadness that we were leaving,

0:30:470:30:50

of happiness that we were going.

0:30:500:30:52

The family touched down in Perth in September 2015,

0:30:520:30:56

but starting again on the other side of the world wasn't without its challenges.

0:30:560:31:01

We were very tired, it was dark, it was really cold.

0:31:010:31:05

Their first home was a short-term rental property.

0:31:050:31:08

It wasn't the nicest of houses, it wasn't very well equipped.

0:31:100:31:13

Yeah, everything was a little bit of a let down.

0:31:130:31:16

Their first few weeks down under fell short of the dream lifestyle

0:31:160:31:19

they'd moved half a world for.

0:31:190:31:21

You come here, you have nothing.

0:31:220:31:24

Simple things like bank accounts, you haven't got a doctor's,

0:31:240:31:27

you don't know where you're going to live.

0:31:270:31:29

Car shopping, house shopping, buying insurances, everything.

0:31:290:31:33

It was manic, wasn't it?

0:31:330:31:35

Yeah, when you're tired everything is so much harder.

0:31:350:31:37

When you've got three tired children, that's even harder.

0:31:370:31:41

And every time we got into the car to look at another house

0:31:410:31:44

or go to another bank, they were, "Mummy, Daddy, no, not again!"

0:31:440:31:50

You feel bad for them,

0:31:500:31:52

and it's literally the easiest way to describe it is

0:31:520:31:55

what takes you most your adult life to accumulate,

0:31:550:31:58

you have to fit into three weeks.

0:31:580:32:00

Desperate to establish some kind of normality,

0:32:010:32:04

having a place to call their own was high on the list of priorities.

0:32:040:32:08

My criteria was a house with a pool right next to a beach

0:32:080:32:12

that allowed a dog.

0:32:120:32:14

It soon became plain that that was not available,

0:32:140:32:17

so we knew we were going to have to compromise on something,

0:32:170:32:21

and our compromise was a pool.

0:32:210:32:23

The Rutlands are currently renting in Mullaloo,

0:32:230:32:26

35 minutes' drive north of Perth centre.

0:32:260:32:29

One evening Jules was looking through the internet and found this place,

0:32:290:32:32

and we rang them and they said, "Yeah, come and have a look."

0:32:320:32:34

Before we'd walked through the door we were, "Yeah, we'll try and get this one." And we did.

0:32:340:32:38

So this is our kitchen,

0:32:400:32:41

which was one of the reasons why we fell in love with this house.

0:32:410:32:45

It's just beautiful, light and airy,

0:32:450:32:47

and one of the things I always said I wanted from a house

0:32:470:32:50

was a great, big open-plan living area.

0:32:500:32:53

This just fits the bill perfectly.

0:32:530:32:55

This is our outside space.

0:32:550:32:57

This is what we wanted, one of the things we wanted.

0:32:570:33:00

We come and do homework here if we're not in the kitchen, don't we, if the weather's nice?

0:33:000:33:04

There's the barbecue, which gets used every day,

0:33:040:33:06

we hardly turn the oven on at all.

0:33:060:33:08

-It's great, isn't it?

-It is, it's lovely,

0:33:080:33:10

and especially in the evenings we just tend to sit out here

0:33:100:33:14

with our books once the kids have gone to bed

0:33:140:33:16

and just relax.

0:33:160:33:18

Indoors, the children have their own special space.

0:33:180:33:21

I've always wanted a play room,

0:33:210:33:23

so basically this is where the kids can just come

0:33:230:33:28

and it's a little bit of a mess!

0:33:280:33:30

Mum and Dad are very happy with their room, too.

0:33:300:33:33

We have the most amazing wardrobe.

0:33:330:33:35

It is definitely another one of your favourite bits of the house.

0:33:350:33:38

Let me just demonstrate my side, just a quick little peek.

0:33:380:33:40

Look at all that storage!

0:33:400:33:42

Amazing. And then we've got a really gorgeous en-suite.

0:33:420:33:48

I've never had an en-suite in my life before, so that's a real bonus.

0:33:480:33:52

To be fair, I don't think I could go back to not having an en-suite.

0:33:520:33:55

There's plenty of space for the whole family to spread themselves out.

0:33:550:33:59

Really, the kids, in this part of the house, they've almost got their own wing, haven't they?

0:33:590:34:03

It makes life a lot easier,

0:34:030:34:05

with the room that you get with Australian houses.

0:34:050:34:08

Since we've moved in,

0:34:080:34:09

these doors have been open every single day from morning till night,

0:34:090:34:12

and I love it.

0:34:120:34:14

If a house had a soul, this one's got a good one.

0:34:140:34:16

So how have the children adapted to their new life down under?

0:34:160:34:20

Zac's been the hardest to settle.

0:34:210:34:23

Being the oldest, he's definitely been more aware of what we were doing, of the distance.

0:34:230:34:29

He understands about making friends and there's an awkwardness to it.

0:34:290:34:34

To start a new school, it was really tough.

0:34:340:34:37

The work's a lot harder.

0:34:370:34:39

It was tough making friends, but at the end I made a lot of friends.

0:34:390:34:43

Joining the local surf club has been a real lifeline for Zac.

0:34:430:34:47

I have watched him in six months come a long way.

0:34:470:34:50

I like Australia, because it's fun,

0:34:510:34:54

it's not chucking it down with rain,

0:34:540:34:57

and there's lots of things to do.

0:34:570:35:00

Seriously, you take him to the beach, you can't get him out of the sea.

0:35:000:35:03

The rougher, the better.

0:35:030:35:05

He's confident, he's happy and...

0:35:050:35:08

Yeah, he'll still tell you he prefers England,

0:35:080:35:11

but I don't believe it.

0:35:110:35:13

And Willow and Faye?

0:35:130:35:15

The girls have been so unfazed by the whole process.

0:35:150:35:19

Faye...

0:35:190:35:20

Faye hated school in England, she hates school in Australia,

0:35:200:35:23

she's just Faye.

0:35:230:35:25

She's going to be my little surfer dude.

0:35:260:35:29

She absolutely is going to be an Aussie.

0:35:290:35:32

I like living in Australia because

0:35:320:35:35

it has sometimes a cool breeze,

0:35:350:35:39

because it's hot and flowers grow.

0:35:390:35:43

And then Willow, I'm so, I'm so proud of Willow.

0:35:430:35:47

After I cried just a little bit, then I stopped,

0:35:470:35:50

then I made some friends with Billy.

0:35:500:35:53

Willow found a friend straightaway.

0:35:530:35:55

Um...

0:35:550:35:56

And they are still friends now, so yeah, Willow settled in really well.

0:35:560:36:00

She's not like the others. She's not sporty.

0:36:000:36:03

She's not a big fan of the beach.

0:36:030:36:05

But she does swimming lessons, like the others.

0:36:050:36:08

She's confident, she's got some amazing friends and she's doing great.

0:36:080:36:11

Julie and Dan are convinced they made the right move for their young family.

0:36:130:36:17

As they all get older,

0:36:170:36:19

um...

0:36:190:36:20

Yeah, they will see why we moved.

0:36:200:36:23

Every heartache and every tear and I miss someone

0:36:230:36:26

is absolutely worth it,

0:36:260:36:28

because the children are so happy and the lifestyle they've got

0:36:280:36:30

is amazing.

0:36:300:36:32

And it's not just the children who have taken to life down under

0:36:320:36:35

like ducks to water.

0:36:350:36:37

She forced me into it to start off with, and now I've completely, yeah,

0:36:370:36:41

sunk my teeth into it. I love barbecuing.

0:36:410:36:43

I go out as many times as I can a week on my paddle board.

0:36:430:36:46

He's absolutely an Aussie.

0:36:460:36:49

In fact, he talks like an Aussie.

0:36:490:36:51

The other day, he said to me,

0:36:510:36:52

something about throwing a snag on the barbie, was it?

0:36:520:36:56

This lifestyle suits him down to the ground.

0:36:560:36:59

Yeah, I love it.

0:36:590:37:01

The Aussie lifestyle has meant more quality time together.

0:37:020:37:05

Perth is a really family orientated place to be.

0:37:070:37:10

Free events in the park that we take them to,

0:37:100:37:14

there's just so much on offer for families. It's a great place.

0:37:140:37:17

Being in Australia has definitely enhanced our family life.

0:37:170:37:21

The couple have developed a solid social circle in Perth too.

0:37:210:37:25

Someone that we met, who is literally a one-person welcome to Perth.

0:37:250:37:30

She literally sets up barbecues and you get to meet all these other

0:37:300:37:34

people, and we're still friends with them now.

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Dan's meeting people through work,

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I've met some people through the school,

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so, yeah, certainly meeting friends has just been wonderful.

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Unfortunately the job Dan was offered during his trial week

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didn't pan out.

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When I got here I made the phone calls, e-mails,

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and just got no response to that.

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Which did annoy me a little bit, there was some choice words said,

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but at the end of the day just had to get on and find another job, which I did.

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Getting used to the local way of working hasn't been plain sailing.

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Carpenters here have a different sort of role.

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They are very much used to do sort of like all sorts of different things.

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Yeah, for the last week I've been digging holes and doing shuttering,

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which isn't something I've done before,

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but it turns out I can dig quite a good hole.

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Working on a self-employed basis,

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Dan currently earns around £225 a day.

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It's pretty good, but it is for a ten-hour day.

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I could earn the same money back home in a shorter period of time,

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just because of the way things are done.

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Um...

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But it does leave my weekends free, which is the point of coming here.

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Judith started her training to become a teacher down under,

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but with just one wage coming in, the couple have had to dip into their savings to survive.

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The money that we had in our bank was everything that we had,

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and to start off with we just saw it,

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it was like someone had drilled a hole in our bank account and it was just leaking out. To see...

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thousands and thousands of dollars just going out of your account,

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just to feed, just to pay your bills.

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We've just had to accept it and think, OK, we're going to have to do that,

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but we're just going to do it as a short-term.

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Originally signed up for a two-year course,

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Julie's now pushing to qualify in just one year.

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Doing a degree full-time, with three children, in a new place,

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is quite tough.

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She's also worried about the extra pressure it's putting on Dan.

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He works long hours and in the heat that takes it out of him,

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and it does put a strain on us.

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And I feel guilty, because of that, but, you know,

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you just have to keep thinking, it's a short-term goal, it's only a year,

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there is going to be an outcome at the end of it, so while it's tough,

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it's not going to be forever.

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But financial worries haven't been the only negative.

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Things that I didn't expect to miss so much, I miss a lot.

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Some days, like, although it's beautiful, some days,

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you think all the sunshine in the world doesn't make up for a hug.

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But I wouldn't want to go back to England.

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I just wish they were all here with me.

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I miss my dad, I miss my family.

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Apart from that, I don't actually miss anything.

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Julie's mum and stepdad have already been out to visit.

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Picking them up from the airport was a reminder of how far from home they are.

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I think there must have been so many people that came through the

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airport that hadn't seen their children for so long,

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that by the time my mum came through the airport, I'd already gone through a box of tissues.

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Some poor woman fell to her knees at the sight of her son.

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Oh, my God, I was clinging hold of the railings, like sobbing,

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and I'd never met the woman before.

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Granny's visit was a complete surprise for the children.

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They were playing at the park when my mum arrived, and, oh,

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it was just lovely.

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My mum came over the hill and I was saying to the kids, like, "Who's that, who's that?"

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They were all looking, and then all of a sudden it clicked with Zac, and he was like,

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"It's Granny Annie."

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It was really great to see them again, because I've missed them, missed them a lot.

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It's lovely to have them here and also it is that bit

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that now they can see why we've done it.

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The lifestyle is incredible.

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It's brilliant, brilliant for kids.

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I envy them. I really do envy them.

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And there's plenty of other visits in the pipeline.

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Good friends coming out at Christmas.

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My dad at the moment, depending on how his operation goes on his knee,

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he intends on coming out in March.

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They're just a year into their new life down under,

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but Dan and Julie are convinced the move's a permanent one.

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There's absolutely no doubt in my mind that we did the right thing.

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-No, none in mine either.

-Money's tough.

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It's definitely tough.

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But it's a short-term tough.

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There is light going to be at the end of the tunnel.

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We're really happy. The kids are really happy and I think the longer we are here,

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the more ingrained our lives become in Australia.

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Just looking forward to the future in general.

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And then obviously the main aim is to work towards that boat that you promised me.

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Oh, yeah, the boat!

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I know, Daddy wants to own one.

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I certainly want to own one.

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I can't believe I did it.

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I can't believe I was that brave enough.

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Because actually it's a really long road.

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It was a very stressful road, but it was very worth it.

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It will be, I think, the hardest thing that you've ever done,

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but as long as you give it everything you can, it will be worthwhile.

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Everything that I wanted a year ago when I planned this move is actually

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here, and sometimes I have to pinch myself to think that we are

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actually living our dream.

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The past year has brought big changes for Dan, Julie, Zac,

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Willow and Faye.

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We wish them all the very best.

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