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After years spent working abroad, | 0:00:02 | 0:00:04 | |
you're more than happy to finally be back home. | 0:00:04 | 0:00:08 | |
Your partner, though, wants a new life | 0:00:08 | 0:00:11 | |
and already has a job offer on the other side of the world. | 0:00:11 | 0:00:15 | |
Would you sacrifice everything that keeps you content | 0:00:15 | 0:00:18 | |
to allow them to follow their dream? | 0:00:18 | 0:00:20 | |
In 2015, Gemma Crompton was struggling to make that decision. | 0:00:20 | 0:00:25 | |
Today, we'll find out what side of the world the family now call home. | 0:00:25 | 0:00:30 | |
In 2015, air-traffic controller Andrew Crompton believed | 0:00:30 | 0:00:34 | |
his family life really could take off in Australia. | 0:00:34 | 0:00:38 | |
This opportunity is once-in-a-lifetime. | 0:00:38 | 0:00:40 | |
But wife Gemma wasn't convinced about the merits of moving. | 0:00:40 | 0:00:44 | |
It's starting a new life. You know, everything is from scratch. | 0:00:44 | 0:00:48 | |
A trial week down under revealed some home truths. | 0:00:48 | 0:00:52 | |
That's insane. | 0:00:52 | 0:00:53 | |
So, one year on, | 0:00:54 | 0:00:56 | |
have the Cromptons made it to the other side of the world? | 0:00:56 | 0:00:59 | |
It was less than ideal but we knew there was no other way to do it. | 0:00:59 | 0:01:03 | |
Home to over a million expats, | 0:01:25 | 0:01:27 | |
Australia's long been the destination of choice | 0:01:27 | 0:01:30 | |
for British families on the move. | 0:01:30 | 0:01:32 | |
Promising average annual temperatures of 21 Celsius, | 0:01:32 | 0:01:36 | |
some of the best beaches on Earth | 0:01:36 | 0:01:38 | |
and a laid-back lifestyle, it's easy to see the attraction | 0:01:38 | 0:01:41 | |
for thousands who emigrate there every year. | 0:01:41 | 0:01:45 | |
But it isn't idyllic for everyone. | 0:01:45 | 0:01:47 | |
Almost half of those who move return home with their dream in tatters. | 0:01:47 | 0:01:51 | |
Former naval officer Gemma Crompton was used to navigating her way | 0:01:54 | 0:01:58 | |
through stormy situations. | 0:01:58 | 0:02:01 | |
But her most challenging journey ever was on the horizon. | 0:02:01 | 0:02:05 | |
While she was happy with a new career and life in the English countryside, | 0:02:05 | 0:02:09 | |
husband Andrew was convinced | 0:02:09 | 0:02:11 | |
his family would be better off living in Australia. | 0:02:11 | 0:02:15 | |
With a job offer already on the table, | 0:02:15 | 0:02:18 | |
Andrew had just one week | 0:02:18 | 0:02:19 | |
to steer Gemma towards the life he'd wanted for years. | 0:02:19 | 0:02:24 | |
One year ago, the Cromptons' first ever visit to Australia got underway | 0:02:24 | 0:02:29 | |
with just over 22 hours in the sky. | 0:02:29 | 0:02:32 | |
Touching down in Brisbane, | 0:02:32 | 0:02:33 | |
Andrew was full of anticipation for the week ahead. | 0:02:33 | 0:02:36 | |
It's really warm, I'm loving it. | 0:02:36 | 0:02:38 | |
So, yeah, can't wait to see where we get to go. | 0:02:38 | 0:02:41 | |
-It's better than England. -It's better than England? | 0:02:41 | 0:02:43 | |
You're right, it's better than England. | 0:02:43 | 0:02:45 | |
In your five minutes' experience of Australia?! | 0:02:45 | 0:02:47 | |
And that's all it took. | 0:02:47 | 0:02:48 | |
Henry may have been on board already, | 0:02:48 | 0:02:50 | |
but Gemma was going to take more work, despite the sunshine. | 0:02:50 | 0:02:54 | |
It makes it a lot more appealing but | 0:02:55 | 0:02:58 | |
as far as moving my entire life here, then I'm still, | 0:02:58 | 0:03:02 | |
I still need to be convinced. | 0:03:02 | 0:03:04 | |
As they took their first steps into Brisbane, | 0:03:04 | 0:03:07 | |
Andrew knew where his family would spend the rest of their lives | 0:03:07 | 0:03:10 | |
was anything but certain. | 0:03:10 | 0:03:12 | |
When we first met them, the Crompton family - dad Andrew, | 0:03:13 | 0:03:17 | |
mum Gemma, Henry, then aged seven, and Matilda who was five, | 0:03:17 | 0:03:21 | |
lived in Fishbourne in County Durham. | 0:03:21 | 0:03:24 | |
Having met in the Royal Navy 16 years previously, | 0:03:24 | 0:03:27 | |
Andrew had stayed on dry land while Gemma sailed the world, | 0:03:27 | 0:03:31 | |
deployed to conflicts such as Iraq and Afghanistan. | 0:03:31 | 0:03:34 | |
Andrew then became a civil air-traffic controller | 0:03:34 | 0:03:37 | |
and after several years at sea, Gemma retrained as a radiographer. | 0:03:37 | 0:03:41 | |
Right, so we're going to make chocolate brownies. | 0:03:41 | 0:03:44 | |
-Yay! -Yay! | 0:03:44 | 0:03:46 | |
Mum to Henry and Matilda, Gemma loved being permanently on home turf. | 0:03:46 | 0:03:50 | |
But Andrew had other ideas. | 0:03:50 | 0:03:53 | |
Seeing an advert for air-traffic controllers in Brisbane had set him | 0:03:53 | 0:03:56 | |
thinking about a new life on the other side of the world. | 0:03:56 | 0:04:00 | |
He got in the car and said, "Australia are recruiting, do you want to move there?" | 0:04:00 | 0:04:04 | |
I said, I'm not going." | 0:04:04 | 0:04:05 | |
Despite Gemma's reluctance, Andrew went ahead and applied for the position. | 0:04:07 | 0:04:11 | |
Landing a job offer months later, | 0:04:11 | 0:04:13 | |
he was determined to put the country on Gemma's radar. | 0:04:13 | 0:04:16 | |
Everything about it just screams | 0:04:17 | 0:04:20 | |
this would be a great place to go to. | 0:04:20 | 0:04:22 | |
The opportunities for the children as they grow up | 0:04:22 | 0:04:25 | |
far outweigh the opportunities that are in the UK. | 0:04:25 | 0:04:28 | |
We are outdoors people and being in a climate like Australia, | 0:04:29 | 0:04:33 | |
that would afford us all the more opportunity to do that. | 0:04:33 | 0:04:36 | |
The only thing standing between Andrew and the life he wanted was Gemma. | 0:04:36 | 0:04:41 | |
Dedicated to her new career | 0:04:41 | 0:04:42 | |
and passionate about practising tae kwon do at her local club, | 0:04:42 | 0:04:46 | |
she was happy with life in the UK. | 0:04:46 | 0:04:48 | |
Convincing her to give it up would be a massive challenge. | 0:04:48 | 0:04:51 | |
I don't know if I could make the sacrifices. | 0:04:53 | 0:04:55 | |
I find it all very unsettling that I knew exactly where my life was going | 0:04:55 | 0:05:00 | |
and that I was going to work for promotion in the hospital I was in | 0:05:00 | 0:05:04 | |
and stay there until I retired. | 0:05:04 | 0:05:06 | |
Moving half a world away would also have meant | 0:05:06 | 0:05:09 | |
splitting Gemma from sister Joanne, who she saw every day. | 0:05:09 | 0:05:12 | |
She has been extremely emotional about it. | 0:05:12 | 0:05:16 | |
Out of everybody, she will be the one that's hard to leave. | 0:05:17 | 0:05:22 | |
-VOICE BREAKING: -We're best friends. | 0:05:22 | 0:05:24 | |
The couple were at polar opposites | 0:05:25 | 0:05:27 | |
when it came to where they should be living. | 0:05:27 | 0:05:29 | |
But Andrew's job offer meant it was decision time. | 0:05:29 | 0:05:32 | |
In one week, Gemma would face an agonising choice | 0:05:32 | 0:05:35 | |
between the life she loved and the one her husband longed for. | 0:05:35 | 0:05:39 | |
This opportunity is once-in-a-lifetime. | 0:05:40 | 0:05:42 | |
I think if we don't go now, | 0:05:42 | 0:05:44 | |
we never will go and I think if we didn't even attempt to go, | 0:05:44 | 0:05:48 | |
we'll regret it for the rest of our lives. | 0:05:48 | 0:05:51 | |
How do you choose between a life you love | 0:05:51 | 0:05:53 | |
and the man you love and what he wants from his life? | 0:05:53 | 0:05:57 | |
The Cromptons spent their trial week | 0:06:03 | 0:06:06 | |
in Queensland in the north-east of Australia. | 0:06:06 | 0:06:08 | |
Their temporary base was the suburb of Buddina, | 0:06:08 | 0:06:11 | |
just over 60 miles north of Brisbane on the Sunshine Coast. | 0:06:11 | 0:06:15 | |
Would their first glimpse of Aussie living be enough to get Gemma excited? | 0:06:15 | 0:06:19 | |
CHEERING | 0:06:19 | 0:06:20 | |
It's only got a pool. | 0:06:20 | 0:06:22 | |
Wow! | 0:06:22 | 0:06:24 | |
We've got our very own swimming pool! | 0:06:24 | 0:06:26 | |
This is unbelievable! | 0:06:26 | 0:06:28 | |
I didn't expect anything this amazing and grand | 0:06:28 | 0:06:32 | |
and just...luxurious. | 0:06:32 | 0:06:34 | |
Indoors, the main living area was an instant hit. | 0:06:37 | 0:06:40 | |
Oh, my goodness. | 0:06:42 | 0:06:43 | |
-This is amazing. -Isn't it? | 0:06:45 | 0:06:48 | |
Oh, you can see the sea. | 0:06:48 | 0:06:51 | |
With the beach on their doorstep, | 0:06:51 | 0:06:52 | |
the family couldn't wait to feel the sand between their toes and Andrew was confident about the week ahead. | 0:06:52 | 0:06:58 | |
I think we've got out of the traps quite well. | 0:06:58 | 0:07:00 | |
After today I can't see us going too far backwards, I think. | 0:07:00 | 0:07:04 | |
It can only get better. | 0:07:04 | 0:07:06 | |
But despite her earlier enthusiasm, | 0:07:07 | 0:07:09 | |
Gemma was beginning to think about the decision she'd soon face. | 0:07:09 | 0:07:13 | |
Do I sacrifice their family and their relationships with their grandparents and my relationships | 0:07:14 | 0:07:19 | |
to come and live somewhere sunny, you know, is it that, | 0:07:19 | 0:07:23 | |
is it that shallow or is this really a better life for us? | 0:07:23 | 0:07:26 | |
And if the answer to that at the end of this week is yes, | 0:07:26 | 0:07:29 | |
the answer will be easy. | 0:07:29 | 0:07:31 | |
If I'm still on the fence at the end of the week, then... | 0:07:31 | 0:07:34 | |
it's going to be a much different question, I think. | 0:07:34 | 0:07:37 | |
Back in the UK, | 0:07:43 | 0:07:44 | |
home for the Cromptons was a modern four-bedroom detached house | 0:07:44 | 0:07:48 | |
in Fishbourne in County Durham. | 0:07:48 | 0:07:50 | |
Their budget for a property in Australia was around £300,000 | 0:07:50 | 0:07:54 | |
if Andrew could convince Gemma to make the move. | 0:07:54 | 0:07:58 | |
I'm hoping that if we did go, the house would be less important | 0:07:58 | 0:08:02 | |
so it would be more of location, close to beaches, close to parks, | 0:08:02 | 0:08:06 | |
close to things that we can do. | 0:08:06 | 0:08:08 | |
We would love to have a pool and a large garden | 0:08:08 | 0:08:11 | |
with one of those shoe racks that rotate. | 0:08:11 | 0:08:14 | |
All right, don't push the boat out! | 0:08:14 | 0:08:16 | |
We showed the Cromptons three properties, | 0:08:17 | 0:08:20 | |
two on budget and a third which could have been their dream home. | 0:08:20 | 0:08:24 | |
The search began in Pelican Waters. | 0:08:24 | 0:08:27 | |
-Nice isn't the right word. -Unbelievable. | 0:08:27 | 0:08:30 | |
Just minutes from the Sunshine Coast's beaches, | 0:08:30 | 0:08:33 | |
this location's wide range of sporting activities | 0:08:33 | 0:08:35 | |
should have appealed to the family, but was house on their wavelength? | 0:08:35 | 0:08:39 | |
-What do you think? I'm liking it. I'm liking it. -So far, so good. | 0:08:41 | 0:08:45 | |
Wow! | 0:08:46 | 0:08:47 | |
-I love it. -Look at this. | 0:08:49 | 0:08:50 | |
The modern interiors won Gemma over straightaway. | 0:08:50 | 0:08:54 | |
This is absolutely sensational. | 0:08:54 | 0:08:57 | |
-The open plan living. -Yeah. | 0:08:57 | 0:08:59 | |
The large garden was a hit, too. | 0:08:59 | 0:09:01 | |
I love this outside space. | 0:09:01 | 0:09:03 | |
This is really the thing that gets me excited. | 0:09:03 | 0:09:06 | |
Moving back inside, | 0:09:07 | 0:09:08 | |
Andrew's chances of convincing Gemma to move seem to be on the up. | 0:09:08 | 0:09:12 | |
This is one of the big bedrooms. | 0:09:12 | 0:09:14 | |
I think I just spied a walk-in wardrobe. | 0:09:14 | 0:09:18 | |
Wow! | 0:09:18 | 0:09:19 | |
The master bedroom with en-suite was a definite hit. | 0:09:19 | 0:09:23 | |
-His and hers' sinks. -That's what you've always wanted. | 0:09:23 | 0:09:25 | |
-I know. -Apart from a walk-in wardrobe. -I can have my untidy side. | 0:09:25 | 0:09:28 | |
And decent-sized bedrooms for the children went down well, too. | 0:09:28 | 0:09:33 | |
-Oh, I think this could be Tilda's room. -Is this yours? | 0:09:33 | 0:09:36 | |
This is exactly what you need. It's not too big, | 0:09:36 | 0:09:38 | |
it's got great outside space. | 0:09:38 | 0:09:41 | |
Come on, you guys. | 0:09:41 | 0:09:43 | |
It's like a little maze, this house. | 0:09:43 | 0:09:46 | |
It looked like this was somewhere the Cromptons could be comfortable, | 0:09:46 | 0:09:49 | |
but was it affordable with their £300,000 budget? | 0:09:49 | 0:09:53 | |
-This is it, Tilda. -Let's turn over. | 0:09:53 | 0:09:55 | |
-BOTH: -Ooh! | 0:09:57 | 0:09:59 | |
So, pretty much top of our budget. | 0:09:59 | 0:10:01 | |
But doable. | 0:10:01 | 0:10:03 | |
Yeah, it is doable. | 0:10:03 | 0:10:05 | |
But, in my heart I was hoping it would be a bit more affordable, | 0:10:05 | 0:10:08 | |
which gave us a bit more kind of leeway. | 0:10:08 | 0:10:10 | |
Despite positive reactions, the cost had disappointed Gemma. | 0:10:10 | 0:10:15 | |
The next property would need to deliver what she wanted | 0:10:15 | 0:10:19 | |
at a price she was happy to pay | 0:10:19 | 0:10:21 | |
if Andrew was to persuade her to make a move. | 0:10:21 | 0:10:23 | |
To find out, the family travelled to Maleny, | 0:10:23 | 0:10:26 | |
a quaint town situated in the heart of the Sunshine Coast. | 0:10:26 | 0:10:30 | |
Let's have a look. | 0:10:30 | 0:10:32 | |
It's a little bit bold. | 0:10:32 | 0:10:35 | |
But I like the log burner. | 0:10:35 | 0:10:36 | |
I didn't even notice the log burner because the chair was in the way. | 0:10:36 | 0:10:39 | |
The kitchen had one very pleasing aspect. | 0:10:39 | 0:10:42 | |
My goodness. | 0:10:42 | 0:10:44 | |
So, this might change my view of this house. | 0:10:45 | 0:10:48 | |
It looked like Gemma could be coming round. | 0:10:48 | 0:10:51 | |
Yeah, if you just take out | 0:10:51 | 0:10:53 | |
the chairs and the pictures, then, | 0:10:53 | 0:10:56 | |
wow, it could be amazing, couldn't it? | 0:10:56 | 0:10:58 | |
The positive note continued upstairs. | 0:10:58 | 0:11:00 | |
Wow! | 0:11:02 | 0:11:04 | |
But the en-suite was a bit of a let-down. | 0:11:04 | 0:11:07 | |
Nice, but I think not quite in our taste. | 0:11:08 | 0:11:10 | |
No, it's a bit outdated, I think. | 0:11:10 | 0:11:13 | |
The house needed upgrading but the generous gardens did hit the mark. | 0:11:13 | 0:11:17 | |
It's all about this view, isn't it? | 0:11:17 | 0:11:19 | |
And Andrew was quick to spot something else. | 0:11:21 | 0:11:23 | |
Gem, it's a granny flat. | 0:11:23 | 0:11:25 | |
Oh, my goodness! | 0:11:25 | 0:11:27 | |
-Check it out! -I just love this garden. | 0:11:29 | 0:11:31 | |
A studio cottage with its own kitchen and bathroom | 0:11:31 | 0:11:34 | |
could be the perfect home from home for visitors. | 0:11:34 | 0:11:37 | |
This is lovely. | 0:11:37 | 0:11:38 | |
Oh, yeah! | 0:11:39 | 0:11:40 | |
-Great fireplace as well. -This is amazing. -This is fabulous, isn't it? | 0:11:40 | 0:11:43 | |
And the property's half acre of gardens took Gemma's breath away. | 0:11:43 | 0:11:47 | |
I love this. I love this. | 0:11:49 | 0:11:51 | |
This is fabulous. | 0:11:51 | 0:11:52 | |
But was it somewhere they could afford to call home | 0:11:52 | 0:11:55 | |
with £300,000 to spend? | 0:11:55 | 0:11:57 | |
SHE WHISTLES | 0:11:59 | 0:12:01 | |
Whoa! | 0:12:01 | 0:12:03 | |
It was £35,000 over budget. | 0:12:03 | 0:12:06 | |
I mean, I love the garden, it's gorgeous, it's beautiful, but... | 0:12:06 | 0:12:09 | |
it doesn't tick all our boxes for that amount of money. | 0:12:09 | 0:12:11 | |
-It doesn't tick many of them, really. -No. | 0:12:11 | 0:12:14 | |
The home hadn't offered enough to justify the price tag. | 0:12:14 | 0:12:18 | |
With one more property to go, | 0:12:18 | 0:12:20 | |
the family headed back to Pelican Waters. | 0:12:20 | 0:12:22 | |
Oh, my goodness, these are like... | 0:12:22 | 0:12:24 | |
-..palatial. -Wow! -I know. | 0:12:25 | 0:12:28 | |
Would this contemporary five-bedroom house in a private gated community | 0:12:28 | 0:12:32 | |
be an all-round winner? | 0:12:32 | 0:12:34 | |
Oh, yeah. | 0:12:34 | 0:12:36 | |
This is going to be a good one. | 0:12:38 | 0:12:40 | |
Inside didn't disappoint. | 0:12:40 | 0:12:43 | |
Oh, my goodness. Look at this. | 0:12:43 | 0:12:45 | |
-Wow! -Wow! | 0:12:45 | 0:12:47 | |
It is, it's huge. | 0:12:47 | 0:12:49 | |
The house definitely wasn't run of the mill, | 0:12:49 | 0:12:51 | |
but would it be the one to convince Gemma to make the move? | 0:12:51 | 0:12:55 | |
Look at that kitchen. | 0:12:56 | 0:12:57 | |
I love how it all just opens out so your whole living area's just... | 0:12:57 | 0:13:01 | |
in and out at the same time. | 0:13:01 | 0:13:02 | |
It's amazing. | 0:13:04 | 0:13:05 | |
Outside had plenty to get excited about, too. | 0:13:05 | 0:13:08 | |
-A swimming pool! -Massive! | 0:13:08 | 0:13:10 | |
Massive swimming pool. Not only that, there's a slide. | 0:13:10 | 0:13:13 | |
And you've got a garden on the side. | 0:13:13 | 0:13:15 | |
It was less roomy than the last one, but Gemma didn't mind. | 0:13:15 | 0:13:19 | |
The garden's gorgeous. | 0:13:19 | 0:13:21 | |
It's just so quiet. | 0:13:22 | 0:13:24 | |
-It is quiet, isn't it? -I know. | 0:13:24 | 0:13:26 | |
Five bedrooms meant plenty of room for guests | 0:13:26 | 0:13:29 | |
and the enormous master bedroom with en-suite left Gemma speechless. | 0:13:29 | 0:13:33 | |
-This is my bedroom. -It's just absolutely perfect, isn't it? | 0:13:34 | 0:13:38 | |
-It is, it is. -Everything is really high-standard. | 0:13:38 | 0:13:41 | |
The house had sold itself to the whole family, | 0:13:41 | 0:13:44 | |
but with £300,000 to spend, could they afford it? | 0:13:44 | 0:13:48 | |
No! | 0:13:51 | 0:13:53 | |
Wow, that is even, it's way higher than we predicted. | 0:13:53 | 0:13:57 | |
Yeah, that is a lot more. | 0:13:57 | 0:13:58 | |
Yeah, that is colossally more money than we can afford. | 0:13:58 | 0:14:02 | |
At £151,000 over budget, | 0:14:02 | 0:14:05 | |
this house would be a stretch unless the couple could substantially | 0:14:05 | 0:14:09 | |
increase their earnings down under. | 0:14:09 | 0:14:12 | |
Property 1 had the space and gorgeous garden the couple wanted, | 0:14:12 | 0:14:16 | |
but Gemma needed more for their money. | 0:14:16 | 0:14:18 | |
Despite substantial grounds | 0:14:18 | 0:14:20 | |
and a granny flat, the interiors of Property 2 | 0:14:20 | 0:14:23 | |
weren't quite to anyone's taste. | 0:14:23 | 0:14:25 | |
Complete with a pool, | 0:14:25 | 0:14:26 | |
Property 3 was everything the family wanted. | 0:14:26 | 0:14:30 | |
But at more than £150,000 over budget, | 0:14:30 | 0:14:33 | |
sadly, the price tag wasn't quite as agreeable. | 0:14:33 | 0:14:37 | |
So based on what they'd seen, | 0:14:37 | 0:14:39 | |
how did the family vote | 0:14:39 | 0:14:40 | |
when it came to choosing between property in Australia and the UK? | 0:14:40 | 0:14:44 | |
Australia. | 0:14:53 | 0:14:54 | |
Undecided. | 0:14:54 | 0:14:56 | |
Australia. | 0:14:56 | 0:14:58 | |
Why are you undecided, then? | 0:14:58 | 0:14:59 | |
I loved all the houses, they were all gorgeous, | 0:15:01 | 0:15:03 | |
but for the top of our budget, | 0:15:03 | 0:15:06 | |
we still didn't get exactly what we wanted. | 0:15:06 | 0:15:08 | |
I don't know that we can afford to have, you know, | 0:15:10 | 0:15:13 | |
a house that will meet our needs. | 0:15:13 | 0:15:15 | |
The Sunshine Coast's property prices had added to Gemma's doubts about | 0:15:20 | 0:15:24 | |
leaving the life she loved in the UK. | 0:15:24 | 0:15:27 | |
But the right work prospects down under could have helped Andrew's case. | 0:15:27 | 0:15:31 | |
Back in the UK, he was an air traffic controller at Durham Tees Valley Airport | 0:15:33 | 0:15:38 | |
and he'd already landed himself a job down under. | 0:15:38 | 0:15:41 | |
Tels mobile, you have the DME report back to us. | 0:15:41 | 0:15:44 | |
Air Service Australia have offered me a position where I would control | 0:15:44 | 0:15:48 | |
a Brisbane tower, and subject to successfully completing | 0:15:48 | 0:15:51 | |
a probationary period and training, | 0:15:51 | 0:15:53 | |
they would make my position permanent. | 0:15:53 | 0:15:55 | |
Gemma was working as a diagnostic radiographer in North Tees Hospital. | 0:15:57 | 0:16:01 | |
Passionate about her job, the thought of giving it up was devastating. | 0:16:01 | 0:16:04 | |
It's a really important part of my life. | 0:16:04 | 0:16:07 | |
And... | 0:16:07 | 0:16:09 | |
..I would find it really difficult to go. | 0:16:10 | 0:16:12 | |
To explore her work opportunities in Australia, | 0:16:17 | 0:16:19 | |
we arranged for Gemma to visit a private radiology clinic | 0:16:19 | 0:16:23 | |
where she met operations manager Trevor Gourlay. | 0:16:23 | 0:16:26 | |
-Hello, Gemma. -Hi, nice to meet you. -I'm Trevor, how are you? -Very well, thanks. | 0:16:26 | 0:16:30 | |
After a quick tour of the facilities, Gemma quizzed Trevor | 0:16:30 | 0:16:33 | |
on her prospects. | 0:16:33 | 0:16:34 | |
Looking at my experience, would you consider me for a position here? | 0:16:34 | 0:16:38 | |
Yeah, absolutely, absolutely. | 0:16:38 | 0:16:40 | |
You seem well-rounded. | 0:16:40 | 0:16:41 | |
It was a good start, and opportunities could be plentiful | 0:16:41 | 0:16:45 | |
with a new public hospital being built on the Sunshine Coast. | 0:16:45 | 0:16:49 | |
One of the most advanced hospitals in the world, we're led to believe, | 0:16:49 | 0:16:53 | |
-and looking at somewhere of about 140 imaging staff, which... -Wow. | 0:16:53 | 0:16:58 | |
That's really nice to know that there's going to be such demand for | 0:16:58 | 0:17:01 | |
my profession in the coming year. | 0:17:01 | 0:17:03 | |
With Andrew already having secured a job down under, | 0:17:03 | 0:17:06 | |
he went to explore educational options for Henry and Matilda. | 0:17:06 | 0:17:10 | |
They visited Sun Coast Christian College, | 0:17:10 | 0:17:12 | |
a popular private school where they met principal Mark Ash. | 0:17:12 | 0:17:17 | |
All right, so I gather you guys are ready for a bit of | 0:17:17 | 0:17:20 | |
-a look around the school? -Yes. | 0:17:20 | 0:17:22 | |
While Henry and Matilda sat in on a lesson, | 0:17:22 | 0:17:24 | |
Andrew asked Mark about their potential Aussie schooling. | 0:17:24 | 0:17:28 | |
Matilda's just about to turn five | 0:17:28 | 0:17:30 | |
and in the UK she's been at school for a year, almost. | 0:17:30 | 0:17:33 | |
Coming to Australia, | 0:17:33 | 0:17:35 | |
I think we were concerned that she would resit a year. | 0:17:35 | 0:17:37 | |
In Queensland here there's a lot of flexibility given to schools around | 0:17:37 | 0:17:41 | |
starting age, so our head of primary would do an interview and then | 0:17:41 | 0:17:45 | |
in consultation with you determine whether it's best to start in prep, | 0:17:45 | 0:17:49 | |
year one, what's going to give her the best outcome. | 0:17:49 | 0:17:52 | |
It was welcome news. | 0:17:52 | 0:17:54 | |
Andrew was also keen to find out about their physical education. | 0:17:54 | 0:17:58 | |
What sort of sports programme do you have on a day to day, | 0:17:58 | 0:18:00 | |
-week to week basis? -Primary kids are just midway through their first | 0:18:00 | 0:18:04 | |
season with touch, netball, volleyball, basketball. | 0:18:04 | 0:18:08 | |
Andrew was happy with what he'd heard and it sounded like | 0:18:08 | 0:18:11 | |
Henry and Matilda would have no problem fitting in. | 0:18:11 | 0:18:14 | |
So, what do you guys think of the school, then, today? | 0:18:14 | 0:18:16 | |
-I like it. -You like it, you want to come here? | 0:18:16 | 0:18:18 | |
-I love it. -You love it? | 0:18:18 | 0:18:20 | |
Back at the clinic, | 0:18:20 | 0:18:21 | |
Gemma was finding out about potential work hours. | 0:18:21 | 0:18:24 | |
Well, our MRI starts here at seven, goes through till nine every night. | 0:18:24 | 0:18:28 | |
-Right. -We occasionally do Saturdays if the workload demands it. | 0:18:28 | 0:18:32 | |
And salary? | 0:18:32 | 0:18:34 | |
You'd probably start off at 90 to 100,000, you know, | 0:18:34 | 0:18:37 | |
it sort of gets up to about 115, I suppose. | 0:18:37 | 0:18:40 | |
That's unbelievable - that's more than double what I earn in the UK. | 0:18:40 | 0:18:44 | |
So, had Gemma heard enough to choose a career in Australia over the UK? | 0:18:44 | 0:18:49 | |
Australia! | 0:18:52 | 0:18:54 | |
Australia all the way. | 0:18:55 | 0:18:57 | |
Mind made up, Gemma was keen to share her news with Andrew | 0:18:57 | 0:19:01 | |
and find out how he'd got on at school. | 0:19:01 | 0:19:03 | |
Both of them thought it was brilliant. | 0:19:03 | 0:19:05 | |
Oh, that's great news. | 0:19:05 | 0:19:07 | |
So, how was your day? How did the job go? | 0:19:07 | 0:19:09 | |
My qualifications were really good. | 0:19:09 | 0:19:12 | |
I'd be quite desirable in Australia. And the best bit was | 0:19:12 | 0:19:15 | |
he said I would earn 115,000. | 0:19:15 | 0:19:18 | |
115,000? | 0:19:18 | 0:19:20 | |
-Yeah! -That is mint. -Yeah. | 0:19:20 | 0:19:24 | |
Gemma's vote for Australia was a step in the right direction | 0:19:26 | 0:19:30 | |
but there was still a long way to go before the move was a done deal. | 0:19:30 | 0:19:33 | |
A key part of Andrew's desire to emigrate was the lifestyle | 0:19:33 | 0:19:36 | |
he believed the country could offer. | 0:19:36 | 0:19:39 | |
So did a family day out | 0:19:39 | 0:19:40 | |
put him another step closer to achieving his goal? | 0:19:40 | 0:19:43 | |
Making the most of the fine weather, | 0:19:43 | 0:19:45 | |
the family headed east of Caloundra to enjoy a day at King's Beach. | 0:19:45 | 0:19:49 | |
It's going to be fun. | 0:19:49 | 0:19:50 | |
The children took to the lifestyle like ducks to water. | 0:19:55 | 0:19:58 | |
This is awesome. | 0:20:01 | 0:20:03 | |
Henry spotted an adventurous activity he'd like to try. | 0:20:03 | 0:20:07 | |
-Bungee jump. -Do you fancy doing bungee jumping? -Do you want to go on the jump? | 0:20:07 | 0:20:11 | |
It was the perfect way to burn off some energy. | 0:20:11 | 0:20:13 | |
OK, little man, move into the middle. | 0:20:13 | 0:20:15 | |
I'll tell you when to jump. | 0:20:15 | 0:20:17 | |
Could you get used to this, then? | 0:20:17 | 0:20:18 | |
Oh, yeah. It beats hanging out in Fishbourne in the rain! | 0:20:18 | 0:20:21 | |
That was music to Andrew's ears. | 0:20:21 | 0:20:24 | |
Andrew was delighted to finally experience Aussie living. | 0:20:29 | 0:20:33 | |
It's gone way past everything that I thought it would be. | 0:20:33 | 0:20:36 | |
And it looked like Gemma could be warming to the idea of | 0:20:36 | 0:20:39 | |
a life in the southern hemisphere. | 0:20:39 | 0:20:41 | |
It just really has opened my eyes to what kind of a life we can have. | 0:20:41 | 0:20:44 | |
The weather obviously is a huge bonus. | 0:20:44 | 0:20:46 | |
Still, she was mindful - sunshine wasn't everything. | 0:20:46 | 0:20:50 | |
It's starting a new life. | 0:20:50 | 0:20:51 | |
You know, everything is from scratch. | 0:20:51 | 0:20:54 | |
All too aware of Gemma's dilemma, | 0:20:54 | 0:20:56 | |
Andrew knew she held the key to the family's future. | 0:20:56 | 0:21:00 | |
She has the ultimate veto. | 0:21:00 | 0:21:01 | |
If she doesn't want to come, she doesn't have to come | 0:21:01 | 0:21:04 | |
and none of us will. | 0:21:04 | 0:21:06 | |
As the afternoon drew to a close, | 0:21:06 | 0:21:08 | |
Gemma pondered the reality of leaving her sister in the UK. | 0:21:08 | 0:21:12 | |
I don't know if I'm ready for that and I'm pretty sure she's not. | 0:21:12 | 0:21:16 | |
I mean, she's texted me every day that we've been here | 0:21:16 | 0:21:19 | |
and I just can't imagine having a life without her being in it. | 0:21:19 | 0:21:22 | |
So, based on lifestyle, did the family prefer Australia or the UK? | 0:21:24 | 0:21:29 | |
Australia! | 0:21:39 | 0:21:41 | |
I just loved how everything is just all so close to the beach as well | 0:21:42 | 0:21:46 | |
so you could have a really full day | 0:21:46 | 0:21:47 | |
without really getting bored of doing any activities. | 0:21:47 | 0:21:50 | |
And it was all free, really, it was a really good. | 0:21:50 | 0:21:53 | |
I had a great day. Did you have a great day? | 0:21:53 | 0:21:55 | |
Yeah. | 0:21:55 | 0:21:56 | |
With another vote for Australia, | 0:22:00 | 0:22:02 | |
it looked like Andrew was inching closer to achieving the life he wanted for his family. | 0:22:02 | 0:22:07 | |
But would the finances down under stack up? | 0:22:07 | 0:22:10 | |
We'd prepared a comparison of costs with the UK. | 0:22:10 | 0:22:13 | |
First up, a look at the weekly grocery bill. | 0:22:13 | 0:22:16 | |
Brown sauce is, like, way more expensive. | 0:22:17 | 0:22:20 | |
We'll have to get our own... source our own supply! | 0:22:20 | 0:22:23 | |
Bananas are a lot more expensive. | 0:22:23 | 0:22:25 | |
-Yeah, they are, which is surprising, really. -And potatoes. | 0:22:25 | 0:22:28 | |
Most of it is slightly more expensive, I would say. | 0:22:28 | 0:22:33 | |
A quick tot-up of the figures | 0:22:33 | 0:22:35 | |
revealed they'd be paying almost £80 more every month down under. | 0:22:35 | 0:22:39 | |
-Not too bad, though. -No. -Could have been worse. -Happy days. | 0:22:40 | 0:22:42 | |
Encouraged, the couple moved on to the bigger monthly bills. | 0:22:42 | 0:22:46 | |
The mortgage here based on the first house we viewed is 1507.33. | 0:22:46 | 0:22:52 | |
Childcare is a lot more. | 0:22:52 | 0:22:54 | |
Because obviously we won't have our family. | 0:22:55 | 0:22:57 | |
And then private school fees per month for both kids, 436.13. | 0:22:57 | 0:23:03 | |
1326.69 more expensive per month. | 0:23:04 | 0:23:10 | |
-Yeah. -Wowsers. | 0:23:10 | 0:23:13 | |
It was a considerable hit, but Gemma had the potential | 0:23:13 | 0:23:16 | |
to almost double her salary in Australia. | 0:23:16 | 0:23:19 | |
7654. | 0:23:20 | 0:23:22 | |
And that's per month. | 0:23:22 | 0:23:23 | |
When the couple subtracted their outgoings, | 0:23:24 | 0:23:27 | |
they discovered they'd actually be £1,300 better off each month. | 0:23:27 | 0:23:32 | |
That's £16,000 a year. | 0:23:32 | 0:23:33 | |
SHE GASPS | 0:23:33 | 0:23:35 | |
That's insane. | 0:23:49 | 0:23:50 | |
It looked like there was only one way this vote could go. | 0:23:53 | 0:23:56 | |
Australia. | 0:24:02 | 0:24:03 | |
Australia! | 0:24:03 | 0:24:05 | |
So, you're happy with that, then? | 0:24:06 | 0:24:08 | |
I'm happy with an extra 16 grand a year. | 0:24:08 | 0:24:10 | |
I'd be insane to vote anything else based on finances. | 0:24:10 | 0:24:13 | |
So far, Gemma had discovered | 0:24:18 | 0:24:20 | |
the work, lifestyle and financial opportunities Australia could offer | 0:24:20 | 0:24:24 | |
were hard to argue with. | 0:24:24 | 0:24:26 | |
But a move wasn't in the bag just yet. | 0:24:26 | 0:24:29 | |
It was now time for her to confront the reality of leaving loved ones. | 0:24:29 | 0:24:33 | |
The family sat down to watch a DVD of messages from home. | 0:24:33 | 0:24:37 | |
So, do you think you're happy to watch that | 0:24:39 | 0:24:40 | |
even though it might make you sad? | 0:24:40 | 0:24:42 | |
-It won't make me sad. -It won't make you sad? OK. | 0:24:42 | 0:24:44 | |
-So, are you sure? -Yeah. -OK, should we watch it, then? | 0:24:44 | 0:24:47 | |
Yeah. | 0:24:47 | 0:24:48 | |
Hi! | 0:24:48 | 0:24:49 | |
Hi, Gemma, Andy, Henry, Matilda. | 0:24:49 | 0:24:53 | |
Hi, kids. This is your Nana. | 0:24:53 | 0:24:56 | |
-Hi. -Hi, Gemma, Andy, Matilda and Henry. | 0:24:57 | 0:25:00 | |
My son, wonderful boy. | 0:25:00 | 0:25:04 | |
Just like his father! | 0:25:04 | 0:25:05 | |
My relationship with my sister is she's my best friend. | 0:25:07 | 0:25:10 | |
We're there for each other, we're on the phone a lot of the time. | 0:25:10 | 0:25:13 | |
She's a very outgoing girl. | 0:25:13 | 0:25:15 | |
She's a very loving girl. I'm very proud of her. | 0:25:15 | 0:25:18 | |
Two lovely kids. Very well brought up, very well-behaved. | 0:25:20 | 0:25:23 | |
It'll bring them on leaps and bounds down under. | 0:25:23 | 0:25:26 | |
I ain't going to last forever. | 0:25:27 | 0:25:29 | |
She's hopefully going to live a lot longer than I will now | 0:25:29 | 0:25:33 | |
and I want what's best for them. | 0:25:33 | 0:25:35 | |
Well, it's going to break my heart. | 0:25:35 | 0:25:37 | |
There will be a huge hole in my life if the grandchildren go. | 0:25:42 | 0:25:47 | |
Whatever you do, you have our full backing and our full support. | 0:25:49 | 0:25:54 | |
I love you all very much. | 0:25:54 | 0:25:55 | |
I hope you make the right decision for yourselves. | 0:25:58 | 0:26:02 | |
Love you both and adore my grandchildren. Bye. | 0:26:02 | 0:26:07 | |
I'm gutted that you're going to be across the world. | 0:26:09 | 0:26:11 | |
But I know you're only on the other end of a phone and I know | 0:26:22 | 0:26:25 | |
we'll still stay in touch and still be close. | 0:26:25 | 0:26:28 | |
I'm very proud of you. | 0:26:28 | 0:26:29 | |
All right? | 0:26:32 | 0:26:34 | |
I knew Joanne was going to be the hard one. | 0:26:35 | 0:26:37 | |
She's just such a huge part of our life and I need her, I need her. | 0:26:40 | 0:26:46 | |
So, it will be hard to leave. | 0:26:47 | 0:26:49 | |
Are you worried about me? | 0:26:50 | 0:26:52 | |
No. I'm OK. | 0:26:52 | 0:26:53 | |
Hearing messages from home was particularly tough for Gemma. | 0:26:55 | 0:26:59 | |
Would the thought of how much they'd be missed in the UK mean Andrew's dream's about to run aground? | 0:26:59 | 0:27:05 | |
With the job offer already on the table, | 0:27:05 | 0:27:08 | |
Gemma knew he was more determined than ever to make the move. | 0:27:08 | 0:27:11 | |
He's already here, he's made this move in his head and his heart. | 0:27:12 | 0:27:15 | |
This week has just cemented 100% | 0:27:15 | 0:27:17 | |
that this is the right place for us to be. | 0:27:17 | 0:27:20 | |
Henry was convinced, too. | 0:27:20 | 0:27:22 | |
I think it would be quite nice being here for a long time, | 0:27:23 | 0:27:26 | |
being in the sunshine. | 0:27:26 | 0:27:28 | |
I don't like being in the rain. | 0:27:28 | 0:27:30 | |
But with the final decision approaching, | 0:27:30 | 0:27:33 | |
Andrew was still unsure what life his wife would choose. | 0:27:33 | 0:27:36 | |
If she votes yes, that will be fantastic, | 0:27:36 | 0:27:40 | |
we would make a brilliant life here. | 0:27:40 | 0:27:42 | |
If she decides that it's just not what she wants, then OK, | 0:27:42 | 0:27:45 | |
I'll have to console myself to that fact. | 0:27:45 | 0:27:47 | |
It's totally emotional. | 0:27:47 | 0:27:49 | |
My head is in Australia now, | 0:27:49 | 0:27:51 | |
my heart is just still attached and I can't really explain it, | 0:27:51 | 0:27:56 | |
I just feel sad when I think about leaving home. | 0:27:56 | 0:27:59 | |
Whatever Gemma decided next would change the family's path forever. | 0:27:59 | 0:28:04 | |
Had the week done enough to convince her to follow Andrew's dream? | 0:28:04 | 0:28:09 | |
So, after a trial week in Australia, we're ready to make our final vote. | 0:28:09 | 0:28:13 | |
-Australia! -Australia! | 0:28:24 | 0:28:26 | |
Really? | 0:28:26 | 0:28:28 | |
-Good news. -Yeah, I think so. | 0:28:28 | 0:28:29 | |
I mean, there's always going to be, | 0:28:29 | 0:28:31 | |
it's going to be an emotional roller-coaster, | 0:28:31 | 0:28:34 | |
it's going to be hard to leave, | 0:28:34 | 0:28:35 | |
but this is definitely the right place to raise our kids. | 0:28:35 | 0:28:38 | |
I might be a bit crazy on the transition but let's go for it. | 0:28:38 | 0:28:42 | |
-You guys happy with that? -Right, guys, let's go. | 0:28:42 | 0:28:44 | |
It was a really tough decision for Gemma, but after much deliberating, | 0:28:53 | 0:28:59 | |
Andrew had finally got the all-clear | 0:28:59 | 0:29:02 | |
to start his new job as an air traffic controller down under. | 0:29:02 | 0:29:06 | |
One year on, it's time to find out | 0:29:06 | 0:29:09 | |
if the family's journey of a lifetime had taken off. | 0:29:09 | 0:29:13 | |
It's April 2016 | 0:29:13 | 0:29:15 | |
and the Cromptons are living in Queensland, Australia. | 0:29:15 | 0:29:19 | |
When they all chose to move down under at the end of their trial week | 0:29:19 | 0:29:23 | |
Andrew felt all his dreams had come true. | 0:29:23 | 0:29:25 | |
I was really made up. I always thought we'd make that decision | 0:29:25 | 0:29:29 | |
and I believed that Gem would | 0:29:29 | 0:29:31 | |
come round to the idea that Australia was a better life for us, | 0:29:31 | 0:29:35 | |
but when everybody voted | 0:29:35 | 0:29:36 | |
and everybody at the same time shouted out, "Australia" | 0:29:36 | 0:29:39 | |
it was, I thought, "It's going to happen, we're going to move" | 0:29:39 | 0:29:42 | |
and that's everything I wanted. | 0:29:42 | 0:29:44 | |
MATILDA SQUEALS | 0:29:45 | 0:29:47 | |
Their week in Australia had convinced Gemma | 0:29:47 | 0:29:50 | |
a move was worth the sacrifice of breaking close ties to home. | 0:29:50 | 0:29:54 | |
There wasn't really anything holding me back except leaving my family. | 0:29:54 | 0:29:57 | |
Everything else was better here and I didn't expect that. | 0:29:57 | 0:30:01 | |
With their minds made up, she began putting the wheels in motion | 0:30:01 | 0:30:04 | |
before they even landed back in the UK. | 0:30:04 | 0:30:07 | |
I started making lists and I think that made Andy very uneasy, | 0:30:07 | 0:30:11 | |
just how manic I was going to get as soon as we hit UK soil. | 0:30:11 | 0:30:15 | |
I think he started to see what he'd let himself in for. | 0:30:15 | 0:30:19 | |
Breaking the news to family wasn't as painful as they'd anticipated. | 0:30:19 | 0:30:23 | |
I think they all secretly, whether they voiced it or not, | 0:30:23 | 0:30:26 | |
were expecting us to go back and say we were going to go to Australia. | 0:30:26 | 0:30:29 | |
Andrew had already been given a start date in October | 0:30:29 | 0:30:32 | |
for his new job, so there was no time to lose. | 0:30:32 | 0:30:35 | |
We arrived back in April in 2015 and we left on the 30th of September. | 0:30:36 | 0:30:41 | |
I think that was the hardest thing, having the finish line, | 0:30:41 | 0:30:43 | |
so we had to fit everything in before that | 0:30:43 | 0:30:45 | |
and that was the trickiest bit. | 0:30:45 | 0:30:47 | |
It was full throttle, making sure that we had everything in place. | 0:30:47 | 0:30:49 | |
Andrew had already secured a temporary visa | 0:30:49 | 0:30:52 | |
because of his job offer, | 0:30:52 | 0:30:53 | |
but Gemma was keen to put things on a more permanent basis. | 0:30:53 | 0:30:56 | |
I didn't want to move across the world on a temporary anything, | 0:30:58 | 0:31:01 | |
so I realised that my job would get us a permanent visa. | 0:31:01 | 0:31:05 | |
Gemma's visa came through within three months. | 0:31:05 | 0:31:08 | |
Then, I was just hit with this | 0:31:08 | 0:31:09 | |
"Wow, this is real, we are really going to Australia." | 0:31:09 | 0:31:13 | |
It was exciting that it was happening and we could have this new life | 0:31:13 | 0:31:18 | |
but then it was like a real bold underline, | 0:31:18 | 0:31:20 | |
"You are leaving everything behind." | 0:31:20 | 0:31:23 | |
The couple began the mammoth task of packing up their lives in the UK. | 0:31:23 | 0:31:27 | |
We had to empty our loft, which I'm sure everyone can understand | 0:31:27 | 0:31:30 | |
what an epic job that is. | 0:31:30 | 0:31:32 | |
But there were some things they were determined not to get rid of. | 0:31:32 | 0:31:36 | |
We knew that if we were coming, | 0:31:36 | 0:31:38 | |
there was no way we were leaving our dogs behind and that was really | 0:31:38 | 0:31:41 | |
tough, to get your dogs into Australia, it's no mean feat. | 0:31:41 | 0:31:44 | |
Find a stick. Here's one. | 0:31:44 | 0:31:46 | |
With such a quick turnaround, before they knew it, it was time to go. | 0:31:48 | 0:31:53 | |
I get emotional just thinking about saying goodbye. | 0:31:53 | 0:31:55 | |
It was an emotional time for Gemma, | 0:31:57 | 0:31:59 | |
particularly saying goodbye to her sister | 0:31:59 | 0:32:01 | |
and I think they were putting it off until that very last moment. | 0:32:01 | 0:32:04 | |
I knew that was going to be the hard one for me and it really was awful. | 0:32:04 | 0:32:08 | |
But when departure day dawned, it was time to dry the tears. | 0:32:08 | 0:32:12 | |
It was more of a release, wasn't it? | 0:32:12 | 0:32:15 | |
-Yeah. -It had finally arrived and we were embarking on the adventure. | 0:32:15 | 0:32:18 | |
Once we got on the plane, | 0:32:18 | 0:32:19 | |
that bit was done and it was all exciting from there on, | 0:32:19 | 0:32:22 | |
and every time we got a step closer to Australia, | 0:32:22 | 0:32:25 | |
we were kind of pinching ourselves thinking, "We're doing this, we're really moving to Australia." | 0:32:25 | 0:32:29 | |
The Cromptons touched down in Brisbane | 0:32:29 | 0:32:32 | |
at the end of September 2015, | 0:32:32 | 0:32:34 | |
less than six months after their trial week | 0:32:34 | 0:32:37 | |
and moved into their new home on the Sunshine Coast. | 0:32:37 | 0:32:41 | |
We looked on the internet, | 0:32:41 | 0:32:42 | |
we found some houses that were in our price range | 0:32:42 | 0:32:45 | |
and we decided that this was the house we wanted, | 0:32:45 | 0:32:47 | |
this was the wow house. | 0:32:47 | 0:32:49 | |
It was a great start to their new life. | 0:32:49 | 0:32:51 | |
It was so impressive. The sun was shining, | 0:32:51 | 0:32:54 | |
the garden was all in full flower. | 0:32:54 | 0:32:56 | |
We got into the house and it was just gorgeous. | 0:32:56 | 0:32:58 | |
It was a lovely time. It was like being on holiday | 0:32:58 | 0:33:01 | |
but then knowing that we were here to live. | 0:33:01 | 0:33:03 | |
Their house is in Buderim, | 0:33:03 | 0:33:05 | |
a picturesque township overlooking Queensland's Sunshine Coast. | 0:33:05 | 0:33:08 | |
This area is just fabulous. | 0:33:10 | 0:33:11 | |
It's a mountain with rainforests and what a place to live. | 0:33:11 | 0:33:15 | |
It's just sensational. | 0:33:15 | 0:33:17 | |
This is our open plan living area. | 0:33:17 | 0:33:19 | |
It's really nice and bright. | 0:33:19 | 0:33:21 | |
This was exactly what we wanted from a house in Australia. | 0:33:21 | 0:33:23 | |
We all get to stay together, even when somebody's cooking dinner. It's ideal. | 0:33:23 | 0:33:27 | |
But it's not perfect in every aspect. | 0:33:27 | 0:33:29 | |
We've got a beautiful view but the kitchen is just tiny. | 0:33:29 | 0:33:33 | |
But I like the view from down here. | 0:33:33 | 0:33:34 | |
The view is exceptional. | 0:33:34 | 0:33:36 | |
It's nice to sit and eat your dinner here looking out at that. | 0:33:36 | 0:33:39 | |
The master bedroom's got a pleasing outlook, too. | 0:33:39 | 0:33:42 | |
We've got beautiful views out into the forest. | 0:33:42 | 0:33:44 | |
It's nice and big and spacious and we've got a walk-in wardrobe, | 0:33:45 | 0:33:48 | |
which was one of my tick lists. | 0:33:48 | 0:33:50 | |
Again, though, it does have a downside. | 0:33:51 | 0:33:53 | |
It's right on the living room and when your children get up at 5am, | 0:33:53 | 0:33:57 | |
it's less than ideal. | 0:33:57 | 0:33:58 | |
Henry and Matilda are happy with their lot. | 0:33:58 | 0:34:02 | |
This is my bedroom. | 0:34:02 | 0:34:04 | |
My bed has got a slide. | 0:34:04 | 0:34:08 | |
It was important for us to bring, like, the beds and the furniture | 0:34:08 | 0:34:11 | |
just to give the kids as much continuity as they could from home. | 0:34:11 | 0:34:13 | |
This is my bedroom. | 0:34:14 | 0:34:16 | |
I've got a bunk bed so when people come to stay, | 0:34:16 | 0:34:19 | |
they can sleep, and Tink, she sleeps on the end there. | 0:34:19 | 0:34:24 | |
The room's a bit dark but it's close to the man cave, | 0:34:24 | 0:34:27 | |
so that's why I picked it. | 0:34:27 | 0:34:29 | |
This is the man cave. | 0:34:29 | 0:34:31 | |
We've got a TV up here and there's a nice view of all the house. | 0:34:31 | 0:34:35 | |
Me and Daddy like to hang out up here sometimes. | 0:34:35 | 0:34:38 | |
We thought it would be great but to be honest it's so hot up here. | 0:34:38 | 0:34:42 | |
We could live without it, I think. | 0:34:42 | 0:34:45 | |
What?! | 0:34:45 | 0:34:46 | |
Maybe not, Mum! | 0:34:47 | 0:34:49 | |
The house is situated right in the middle of a forest. | 0:34:49 | 0:34:52 | |
It's gorgeous, isn't it? | 0:34:52 | 0:34:55 | |
We get...the Australian king parrots come and land and we can feed them | 0:34:55 | 0:34:58 | |
and, you know, that's so different from pigeons at home and sparrows. | 0:34:58 | 0:35:02 | |
It's ideal for the dogs. | 0:35:02 | 0:35:03 | |
We've got a bit of a grass area, so they can just have a run. | 0:35:03 | 0:35:06 | |
We can leave them out here when we're at work. | 0:35:06 | 0:35:07 | |
We're very in love with our dogs. | 0:35:07 | 0:35:09 | |
It was important that they were happy here. | 0:35:09 | 0:35:11 | |
With Andrew starting his work just a couple of weeks after arriving back | 0:35:11 | 0:35:14 | |
in Australia, the family were jet-propelled into life down under. | 0:35:14 | 0:35:19 | |
So, we had to get the kids set up in school, set up bank accounts, | 0:35:19 | 0:35:23 | |
set up Medicare accounts, | 0:35:23 | 0:35:24 | |
so we expected to arrive and have 18 days lying in the sun | 0:35:24 | 0:35:28 | |
and what happened was | 0:35:28 | 0:35:29 | |
we spent 18 days sitting in offices around the Sunshine Coast | 0:35:29 | 0:35:32 | |
waiting for pieces of paper. | 0:35:32 | 0:35:34 | |
-And then I flew to Melbourne for... -Three months. -Three months, yeah. | 0:35:34 | 0:35:38 | |
So that was pretty tough. | 0:35:38 | 0:35:39 | |
With Andrew off training, Gemma was left flying solo. | 0:35:39 | 0:35:43 | |
But unfortunately, her settling-in period | 0:35:43 | 0:35:46 | |
was about hit some turbulence. | 0:35:46 | 0:35:48 | |
Having decided to rent out their home in the UK rather than sell it, | 0:35:48 | 0:35:51 | |
Gemma was devastated to receive some very unsettling news | 0:35:51 | 0:35:55 | |
from the other side of the world. | 0:35:55 | 0:35:57 | |
The tenants we had in our home took out identity theft in our name. | 0:35:58 | 0:36:02 | |
We were getting bills dropping in to family | 0:36:02 | 0:36:04 | |
where we'd had our mail redirected | 0:36:04 | 0:36:06 | |
saying that we were owing £1,000 on credit cards and store cards. | 0:36:06 | 0:36:10 | |
You hear about it happening. You don't expect it to happen to you. | 0:36:10 | 0:36:13 | |
The stress of knowing I had criminals living in my home, | 0:36:13 | 0:36:17 | |
I found that really, really emotional. | 0:36:17 | 0:36:20 | |
More than 1000 miles away from Andrew, Gemma felt very alone. | 0:36:20 | 0:36:24 | |
It was really hard trying to set up a new life here with all of that going on in the UK | 0:36:24 | 0:36:30 | |
and not really having a support network to help me. | 0:36:30 | 0:36:33 | |
At times, Andrew feared the worst. | 0:36:33 | 0:36:35 | |
Every day was kind of like maybe Gem will turn round and go, | 0:36:35 | 0:36:38 | |
"Do you know what? It's too hard. I can't do it," | 0:36:38 | 0:36:40 | |
and we'd have to go home. | 0:36:40 | 0:36:41 | |
Eventually, the situation was resolved, | 0:36:41 | 0:36:43 | |
the tenants evicted and the debt cleared. | 0:36:43 | 0:36:47 | |
The Cromptons got on with establishing their new lives in Australia, | 0:36:47 | 0:36:50 | |
but being away from his family for long periods | 0:36:50 | 0:36:53 | |
began to tell on Andrew. | 0:36:53 | 0:36:55 | |
And I only got back for a couple of weekends through that entire time | 0:36:55 | 0:36:58 | |
and that was hard. | 0:36:58 | 0:36:59 | |
Being separated from Henry and Matilda was especially difficult. | 0:36:59 | 0:37:03 | |
I hadn't been away from the children | 0:37:03 | 0:37:05 | |
for more than a couple of nights here or there. | 0:37:05 | 0:37:07 | |
It was hard not to have that physical contact with them, | 0:37:07 | 0:37:10 | |
giving them a hug when they felt bad | 0:37:10 | 0:37:13 | |
or sharing their successes at school or their new friends. | 0:37:13 | 0:37:17 | |
It was less than ideal but we knew there was no other way to do it. | 0:37:17 | 0:37:20 | |
It was a challenging time for the couple, but it didn't put them off. | 0:37:20 | 0:37:24 | |
On the really bad days I was like, | 0:37:25 | 0:37:27 | |
"Well, on a good note, at least I'm in Australia." | 0:37:27 | 0:37:31 | |
The children have adapted well to life down under. | 0:37:31 | 0:37:34 | |
They are always outside. They love school. They've got new friends. | 0:37:34 | 0:37:37 | |
They love the lifestyle that it affords them. You know, | 0:37:37 | 0:37:40 | |
every day when they're not at school, | 0:37:40 | 0:37:42 | |
we're out and about doing something. | 0:37:42 | 0:37:44 | |
I like living here because there's more sunshine, | 0:37:44 | 0:37:46 | |
so I get more time to play out. | 0:37:46 | 0:37:48 | |
I think moving to Australia was a good idea. | 0:37:48 | 0:37:55 | |
After about three weeks, Henry said, | 0:37:55 | 0:37:56 | |
"Thank you, Mammy, for bringing us to Australia. I love my new life." | 0:37:56 | 0:38:00 | |
And I was like... | 0:38:00 | 0:38:02 | |
"Oh! We made the right choice!" | 0:38:02 | 0:38:04 | |
And Mum and Dad feel very at home, too. | 0:38:06 | 0:38:08 | |
Everybody's really friendly. | 0:38:08 | 0:38:10 | |
You walk past people on the street and they say, "hi". | 0:38:10 | 0:38:12 | |
I was really moved by just how welcoming everybody was. | 0:38:12 | 0:38:15 | |
It's been fabulous. | 0:38:15 | 0:38:18 | |
Andrew's now in the final stages of his training. | 0:38:18 | 0:38:21 | |
I always wanted to continue to be in air traffic control | 0:38:21 | 0:38:24 | |
but I'd have probably come and been a bin man or anything, really. | 0:38:24 | 0:38:27 | |
The fact that I could come and continue a job that I love | 0:38:27 | 0:38:30 | |
was a bonus. | 0:38:30 | 0:38:31 | |
It's taken a bit of getting used to, though. | 0:38:31 | 0:38:35 | |
Brisbane Airport is completely different to the airport I used to control at Durham Tees Valley. | 0:38:35 | 0:38:39 | |
The number of aeroplanes, the amount of passengers, | 0:38:39 | 0:38:43 | |
just the scale of the airport itself, | 0:38:43 | 0:38:45 | |
everything's different. There's an awful lot of mental discipline to | 0:38:45 | 0:38:48 | |
unlearn the way you've done things historically, to then | 0:38:48 | 0:38:51 | |
start doing it the way you're meant to do it in the new way. | 0:38:51 | 0:38:53 | |
Getting to work's a lot different as well. | 0:38:53 | 0:38:56 | |
My commute in England was 20 to 25 minutes at worst, | 0:38:56 | 0:38:59 | |
whereas here, at best it's 65 minutes. | 0:38:59 | 0:39:03 | |
Now... That's hard. It makes an early start | 0:39:03 | 0:39:07 | |
a really, very early start. | 0:39:07 | 0:39:09 | |
On the flipside of that coin, when I'm not at work, | 0:39:09 | 0:39:12 | |
I'm exactly where I want to be, on the Sunshine Coast. | 0:39:12 | 0:39:15 | |
Gemma's recently started work, too. | 0:39:15 | 0:39:17 | |
Having moved into the private sector, | 0:39:17 | 0:39:19 | |
she finds working as a radiographer down under a lot less stressful | 0:39:19 | 0:39:23 | |
than in the UK. | 0:39:23 | 0:39:25 | |
We have a lot more space between our patients, | 0:39:25 | 0:39:27 | |
so there's more time to really build up a rapport with your patients | 0:39:27 | 0:39:30 | |
and look after them. So I do enjoy that, that's nice. | 0:39:30 | 0:39:33 | |
Everybody here is really happy in their job. | 0:39:33 | 0:39:35 | |
There's a much calmer working environment | 0:39:35 | 0:39:37 | |
than I've ever been used to. | 0:39:37 | 0:39:39 | |
And it's not just Gemma reaping the benefits of her new job. | 0:39:39 | 0:39:43 | |
Where I work is actually only ten minutes' drive from my home. | 0:39:43 | 0:39:46 | |
It tends to be eight till five, Monday to Friday, | 0:39:46 | 0:39:49 | |
which fits really well with the children going to after-school care. | 0:39:49 | 0:39:53 | |
I'm at work when they're at school. | 0:39:53 | 0:39:54 | |
There's no more me going out to work when they're going to bed | 0:39:54 | 0:39:57 | |
and then being asleep all day when they're home, | 0:39:57 | 0:39:59 | |
so we have much better family time, much better balance. | 0:39:59 | 0:40:02 | |
That's not the only bonus, either. | 0:40:02 | 0:40:04 | |
I'm earning more now in Australia doing three days a week | 0:40:04 | 0:40:06 | |
than I did in the UK working four days a week, so it's no comparison. | 0:40:06 | 0:40:10 | |
Overall, Gemma's very content with her lot. | 0:40:10 | 0:40:13 | |
I always had big aspirations when I was in the UK | 0:40:13 | 0:40:16 | |
for what I wanted to do. | 0:40:16 | 0:40:17 | |
I think those have changed, actually, with my move to Australia. | 0:40:17 | 0:40:20 | |
But in terms of career ladder climbing, | 0:40:20 | 0:40:23 | |
I think I'm just going to enjoy my life on the coast. | 0:40:23 | 0:40:26 | |
The family have already had plenty of visitors. | 0:40:26 | 0:40:29 | |
First out was Andrew's mum. | 0:40:29 | 0:40:30 | |
She arrived two months in and stayed right through Christmas | 0:40:30 | 0:40:34 | |
and New Year and during that time Andy's sister flew in | 0:40:34 | 0:40:37 | |
and then my mum arrived three weeks ago. | 0:40:37 | 0:40:39 | |
So, we've had a lot of visitors. | 0:40:40 | 0:40:42 | |
-We haven't had much time on our own, really. -No. | 0:40:42 | 0:40:44 | |
If you're achin' for some bacon. | 0:40:44 | 0:40:46 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:40:46 | 0:40:48 | |
Life's been so busy, there's scarcely time to be homesick. | 0:40:48 | 0:40:52 | |
But the distance from home did hit hard when Gemma missed an important | 0:40:52 | 0:40:55 | |
family occasion back in the UK. | 0:40:55 | 0:40:58 | |
Joanne got married a month ago | 0:40:58 | 0:41:01 | |
and I couldn't be there because I'm here, so... | 0:41:01 | 0:41:05 | |
nothing will ever give me that back | 0:41:05 | 0:41:09 | |
and I feel awful because that was my choice to come. | 0:41:09 | 0:41:12 | |
She may not have been able to be there in person, | 0:41:12 | 0:41:14 | |
but thanks to modern technology, | 0:41:14 | 0:41:16 | |
Gemma still played a part in the big day. | 0:41:16 | 0:41:19 | |
I watched her put her dress on and I watched her get her hair done | 0:41:19 | 0:41:22 | |
and just before she walked down the aisle | 0:41:22 | 0:41:24 | |
it was just me and her talking. | 0:41:24 | 0:41:26 | |
That was amazing that you can do that in this day and age | 0:41:26 | 0:41:28 | |
and that really does make the distance less, and it does help. | 0:41:28 | 0:41:31 | |
So far, Australia's surpassed all of the couple's expectations. | 0:41:31 | 0:41:35 | |
You can't even get anywhere close to living in the UK as we live here. | 0:41:35 | 0:41:39 | |
Our spare time as a family's exceptional now. | 0:41:39 | 0:41:42 | |
We're never in. So, we spend a lot of time at the beach. | 0:41:42 | 0:41:46 | |
That is never going to get old for us. We go swimming in the river | 0:41:46 | 0:41:49 | |
and the dogs are swimming alongside us and that's great fun. | 0:41:49 | 0:41:51 | |
Everything we do here is as a family. | 0:41:51 | 0:41:54 | |
It's a lovely lifestyle. | 0:41:54 | 0:41:55 | |
Even your worst day here is just amazing. | 0:41:55 | 0:41:58 | |
That sounds cheesy but it is. | 0:41:58 | 0:42:01 | |
They've no doubt they made the right move. | 0:42:01 | 0:42:04 | |
With all the emotional ups and downs we've had since we moved to | 0:42:04 | 0:42:07 | |
Australia, there's not a moment where I've regretted my decision. | 0:42:07 | 0:42:10 | |
We've been in Australia six months now and I can honestly say every day | 0:42:10 | 0:42:15 | |
I've woken up and thought, "Thank goodness we made the choice to come." | 0:42:15 | 0:42:18 | |
They really are living the dream. | 0:42:18 | 0:42:20 | |
I didn't even know my life could ever be this good, | 0:42:20 | 0:42:23 | |
so we're kind of creating a new bar for the dream and | 0:42:23 | 0:42:25 | |
it's much higher than it used to be. | 0:42:25 | 0:42:27 | |
I will always be English and British but Australia is my home. | 0:42:27 | 0:42:31 | |
I'm just so grateful that we did this for our children because | 0:42:31 | 0:42:34 | |
their life will be so much better here than | 0:42:34 | 0:42:38 | |
it ever would have been in the UK. | 0:42:38 | 0:42:40 | |
Everything about who we are | 0:42:40 | 0:42:42 | |
fits perfectly with what Australia has to offer | 0:42:42 | 0:42:45 | |
and I can't ever see us going back. | 0:42:45 | 0:42:48 | |
We love Australia. | 0:42:48 | 0:42:49 | |
It's just the most amazing place and I'm so grateful that they let us in! | 0:42:49 | 0:42:54 | |
Life has really taken off for the Cromptons down under | 0:42:58 | 0:43:02 | |
and despite Gemma's initial reservations, | 0:43:02 | 0:43:05 | |
it looks like she's more than happy to have made the move. | 0:43:05 | 0:43:09 | |
We wish her, Andrew, Henry and Matilda a long and happy future | 0:43:09 | 0:43:14 | |
living the dream on Australia's Sunshine Coast. | 0:43:14 | 0:43:18 |