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If starting a new life halfway around the world | 0:00:02 | 0:00:05 | |
promised your family more quality time together, | 0:00:05 | 0:00:08 | |
you might be sorely tempted, | 0:00:08 | 0:00:11 | |
but what if it meant having to leave one family member behind? | 0:00:11 | 0:00:15 | |
That was the dilemma facing the Cornish family back in 2014. | 0:00:15 | 0:00:20 | |
We've caught up with them two years later to find out if they | 0:00:20 | 0:00:23 | |
took the plunge or stayed put. | 0:00:23 | 0:00:25 | |
Pulling pints and being a travelling teacher meant James and Lisa Cornish | 0:00:27 | 0:00:30 | |
hardly ever saw their two little boys... | 0:00:30 | 0:00:33 | |
I would absolutely love for us to feel like a family again, | 0:00:33 | 0:00:36 | |
and for me to feel like I'm a mum and a wife again. | 0:00:36 | 0:00:40 | |
..so they were considering moving lock, stock and barrel | 0:00:40 | 0:00:42 | |
to the other side of the world... | 0:00:42 | 0:00:44 | |
I'll get more time to spend with the boys in the evenings. | 0:00:44 | 0:00:46 | |
I'll be less tired because I won't be working 100 hours per week. | 0:00:46 | 0:00:49 | |
..but moving to Australia would mean James saying goodbye to his daughter | 0:00:49 | 0:00:53 | |
for months at a time. | 0:00:53 | 0:00:55 | |
This week in Australia is going to be really important, | 0:00:55 | 0:00:58 | |
because it's going to change our lives, really, | 0:00:58 | 0:01:02 | |
whichever way we choose. | 0:01:02 | 0:01:03 | |
Two years on, where do the Cornishes call home? | 0:01:03 | 0:01:07 | |
It's something we've done before, | 0:01:07 | 0:01:09 | |
but we're still, kind of, learning what it means for us here. | 0:01:09 | 0:01:13 | |
With more than a quarter of its population born abroad, | 0:01:39 | 0:01:42 | |
Australia's long been a dream destination for people in search of | 0:01:42 | 0:01:46 | |
a better life. | 0:01:46 | 0:01:48 | |
Around 34,000 UK residents flock to the country every year, | 0:01:48 | 0:01:53 | |
hoping the healthy, outdoor lifestyle and prosperous economy | 0:01:53 | 0:01:57 | |
will improve their standard of living. | 0:01:57 | 0:01:59 | |
James and Lisa Cornish were desperate for more time together | 0:02:01 | 0:02:04 | |
with sons Sammy and Louis, | 0:02:04 | 0:02:06 | |
and believed Australia could be the answer. | 0:02:06 | 0:02:10 | |
However, moving would come at a price, | 0:02:10 | 0:02:13 | |
as James's daughter from a previous relationship would be | 0:02:13 | 0:02:16 | |
left behind in the UK. | 0:02:16 | 0:02:19 | |
Even if the family could persuade Lauryn to visit regularly, | 0:02:19 | 0:02:22 | |
James faced the prospect of being separated from her | 0:02:22 | 0:02:25 | |
for most of the year. | 0:02:25 | 0:02:27 | |
The Cornishes' journey began with a 10,000-mile flight from London to | 0:02:28 | 0:02:32 | |
Melbourne via Dubai. | 0:02:32 | 0:02:34 | |
It was the family's first time in Australia, | 0:02:34 | 0:02:37 | |
and the reality of just how far they'd come had hit home. | 0:02:37 | 0:02:41 | |
It really puts it into perspective how far away Australia | 0:02:41 | 0:02:44 | |
is from England. | 0:02:44 | 0:02:45 | |
The flight had taken its toll on Sammy and Louis, | 0:02:45 | 0:02:48 | |
but Lisa and James were raring to go. | 0:02:48 | 0:02:50 | |
We're really excited about the week. | 0:02:50 | 0:02:52 | |
It'll be nice to see everything in the flesh, | 0:02:52 | 0:02:54 | |
so we've been looking forward to it. | 0:02:54 | 0:02:56 | |
If the week went according to plan, | 0:02:56 | 0:02:58 | |
Lauryn faced the 20-hour flight on a regular basis. | 0:02:58 | 0:03:02 | |
It means I get to see what they're doing, and be a part of their lives. | 0:03:02 | 0:03:07 | |
The family faced a life-changing decision | 0:03:07 | 0:03:09 | |
come the end of their trial week. | 0:03:09 | 0:03:11 | |
In 2014, | 0:03:14 | 0:03:16 | |
James and Lisa Cornish lived above a pub near Sheffield with | 0:03:16 | 0:03:19 | |
son Sammy, who was then five, Louis, who was two, | 0:03:19 | 0:03:22 | |
and James's daughter Lauryn, who was 13. | 0:03:22 | 0:03:26 | |
James had been running the pub since 2013 after taking | 0:03:26 | 0:03:29 | |
voluntary redundancy as an accountant, | 0:03:29 | 0:03:31 | |
but being a landlord had proven much harder | 0:03:31 | 0:03:34 | |
than anyone had predicted. | 0:03:34 | 0:03:35 | |
I've been working much more than we expected - | 0:03:36 | 0:03:40 | |
up to, sort of, 100 hours per week. | 0:03:40 | 0:03:42 | |
For James, the pub has completely took over his life. | 0:03:42 | 0:03:46 | |
If he's not running the business, nobody is. | 0:03:46 | 0:03:50 | |
Lisa's job, as an accountancy lecturer at colleges | 0:03:50 | 0:03:52 | |
across the country, meant she was also missing out | 0:03:52 | 0:03:55 | |
on quality time with the children. | 0:03:55 | 0:03:57 | |
There have been weeks when I've left the house on a Sunday evening, | 0:03:58 | 0:04:02 | |
and I haven't seen the kids until the Thursday evening. | 0:04:02 | 0:04:04 | |
And there was no let-up at the weekends. | 0:04:04 | 0:04:07 | |
With Lisa drafted in to help James behind the bar, | 0:04:07 | 0:04:10 | |
Sammy and Louis had to stay with their grandparents. | 0:04:10 | 0:04:13 | |
It's a horrible feeling to feel like somebody else is... | 0:04:13 | 0:04:17 | |
enjoying spending time with your kids all the time. | 0:04:17 | 0:04:21 | |
The couple had reached breaking point. | 0:04:21 | 0:04:23 | |
It does upset me that I can't spend the time with the boys. | 0:04:23 | 0:04:26 | |
It does cause tension, just because we've both been so tired, | 0:04:26 | 0:04:30 | |
erm, and so stressed with everything that it's unavoidable. | 0:04:30 | 0:04:35 | |
Desperate for more quality time together, | 0:04:37 | 0:04:39 | |
Lisa and James were considering a drastic change - | 0:04:39 | 0:04:42 | |
moving to the other side of the world. | 0:04:42 | 0:04:44 | |
It might be slightly naive, but, at the moment, Australia, | 0:04:45 | 0:04:50 | |
to me, I'm... | 0:04:50 | 0:04:53 | |
I feel as though it's going to give us that family life together that | 0:04:53 | 0:04:56 | |
we just don't have here in the UK. | 0:04:56 | 0:04:58 | |
And it will strengthen our relationship | 0:04:58 | 0:05:01 | |
and bring us all closer together. | 0:05:01 | 0:05:03 | |
But while Australia could reunite James and Lisa with their boys, | 0:05:03 | 0:05:06 | |
it would mean James leaving a daughter behind. | 0:05:06 | 0:05:10 | |
Lauryn's my daughter from my first marriage, | 0:05:10 | 0:05:12 | |
and she spends half the time with us and half the time with her mum. | 0:05:12 | 0:05:16 | |
If we do decide to move out to Australia, | 0:05:16 | 0:05:19 | |
she will stay here until she's 18. | 0:05:19 | 0:05:22 | |
13-year-old Lauryn was faced with the prospect of spending | 0:05:22 | 0:05:25 | |
months at a time without seeing her dad and his family. | 0:05:25 | 0:05:29 | |
It's just... It's not ten miles down the road any more, | 0:05:30 | 0:05:33 | |
it's across the world. | 0:05:33 | 0:05:35 | |
I'd miss them a lot if they went. | 0:05:35 | 0:05:37 | |
But she understood their life couldn't carry on as it was. | 0:05:37 | 0:05:41 | |
I want them to have a better life than over here. | 0:05:41 | 0:05:44 | |
James and Lisa faced an agonising decision. | 0:05:44 | 0:05:47 | |
Being a father to her and to the boys, | 0:05:47 | 0:05:49 | |
it makes my decision much more difficult. | 0:05:49 | 0:05:53 | |
I would miss her, and I think the boys would miss her more so. | 0:05:55 | 0:05:59 | |
I think the boys really dote on her. | 0:05:59 | 0:06:03 | |
Lauryn could spend holidays down under, | 0:06:03 | 0:06:05 | |
but if she didn't like Australia, | 0:06:05 | 0:06:07 | |
Lisa and James's dream could be over. | 0:06:07 | 0:06:10 | |
That would be, like, a game-changer, really, | 0:06:10 | 0:06:14 | |
because I don't think that I could, erm... | 0:06:14 | 0:06:20 | |
spend my life without her. | 0:06:20 | 0:06:21 | |
James knew something had to give if he was to spend quality time | 0:06:23 | 0:06:26 | |
with his wife and young sons, | 0:06:26 | 0:06:28 | |
but, to make a move work, | 0:06:28 | 0:06:30 | |
he had to persuade Lauryn Australia could be her home for part of | 0:06:30 | 0:06:33 | |
the year, and come to terms with being separated from her | 0:06:33 | 0:06:37 | |
for months at a time. | 0:06:37 | 0:06:38 | |
The family visited Melbourne, | 0:06:45 | 0:06:47 | |
Australia's second most populated city | 0:06:47 | 0:06:49 | |
and capital of the state of Victoria. | 0:06:49 | 0:06:52 | |
Their temporary home was a three-bedroom house in Williamstown, | 0:06:52 | 0:06:55 | |
a popular coastal suburb 15 miles from the city centre. | 0:06:55 | 0:06:59 | |
Wakey-wakey! | 0:07:02 | 0:07:05 | |
It was the family's first chance to see what living on | 0:07:05 | 0:07:08 | |
the other side of the world could be like. | 0:07:08 | 0:07:11 | |
It looks lovely. | 0:07:11 | 0:07:12 | |
-Let's go in and have a look. -Come on, then. | 0:07:12 | 0:07:15 | |
Oh! | 0:07:15 | 0:07:17 | |
It looks lovely. Open-staired. | 0:07:17 | 0:07:18 | |
Yeah. It's really modern, actually. I like that. | 0:07:18 | 0:07:21 | |
First impressions were good, but then... | 0:07:21 | 0:07:24 | |
I'm not so sure there that would be enough space. | 0:07:24 | 0:07:27 | |
-No, we're used to more space than this. -Long-term. | 0:07:27 | 0:07:29 | |
Upstairs, Lauryn wasn't impressed with the views. | 0:07:29 | 0:07:33 | |
-It's not unique. -There's no... | 0:07:33 | 0:07:36 | |
real wildlife or anything to look at. | 0:07:36 | 0:07:40 | |
They had just arrived, but James and Lauryn's thoughts | 0:07:40 | 0:07:43 | |
were already turning towards possibly being separated. | 0:07:43 | 0:07:46 | |
It's something that we've, kind of, put on the back-burner to say, | 0:07:46 | 0:07:50 | |
"How do we all really feel about | 0:07:50 | 0:07:54 | |
"spending four or five months apart at a time?" | 0:07:54 | 0:07:57 | |
This week in Australia is going to be really important, | 0:07:57 | 0:08:00 | |
because it's going to change our lives, really, | 0:08:00 | 0:08:04 | |
whichever way we choose. | 0:08:04 | 0:08:05 | |
It was a case of upstairs-downstairs for the Cornishes in the UK, | 0:08:09 | 0:08:14 | |
living above the pub James managed. | 0:08:14 | 0:08:16 | |
We've got three bedrooms. | 0:08:16 | 0:08:18 | |
The boys share a room, and Lauryn's got her own bedroom as well, | 0:08:18 | 0:08:21 | |
but we don't have a huge amount of space. | 0:08:21 | 0:08:23 | |
It doesn't really feel like home to us. | 0:08:23 | 0:08:25 | |
Whenever we sit upstairs and get any time off, | 0:08:25 | 0:08:29 | |
it feels like people are in your house. | 0:08:29 | 0:08:32 | |
More space was at the top of James' wish list for a property down under. | 0:08:32 | 0:08:36 | |
Modern, spacious, with four or five bedrooms. | 0:08:36 | 0:08:41 | |
Plenty of room for the kids to play. | 0:08:41 | 0:08:43 | |
James and Lisa had a budget of £250,000-£300,000 | 0:08:46 | 0:08:50 | |
for a home in Australia, | 0:08:50 | 0:08:51 | |
but could possibly stretch further depending on their salaries. | 0:08:51 | 0:08:56 | |
To give them an idea of Melbourne's property market, | 0:08:56 | 0:08:58 | |
we showed them three houses - | 0:08:58 | 0:09:00 | |
two based on their budget, | 0:09:00 | 0:09:02 | |
and a third based on everything they wanted. | 0:09:02 | 0:09:05 | |
Only after they had seen each one did they find out its value. | 0:09:05 | 0:09:08 | |
The search began in Werribee, a suburb 20 miles west of the city. | 0:09:12 | 0:09:16 | |
With good commuting links, plenty of schools and green spaces, | 0:09:16 | 0:09:19 | |
it's a family-friendly area which could have been perfect | 0:09:19 | 0:09:23 | |
for the Cornishes. | 0:09:23 | 0:09:24 | |
I really like the area, kind of, driving through. | 0:09:24 | 0:09:26 | |
The outside wasn't overly impressive. | 0:09:26 | 0:09:29 | |
It looks quite...dated. | 0:09:29 | 0:09:32 | |
But appearances can be deceptive. | 0:09:32 | 0:09:35 | |
Oh. | 0:09:35 | 0:09:36 | |
Oh, this wasn't what I was expecting. | 0:09:37 | 0:09:39 | |
Now... I want to see the rest of it now. | 0:09:40 | 0:09:42 | |
Yeah, I do, too. | 0:09:42 | 0:09:43 | |
The property had the open-plan interiors Lisa wanted, | 0:09:43 | 0:09:47 | |
but did it have the space James craved? | 0:09:47 | 0:09:49 | |
I think once we get the kids' toys in here and everything, | 0:09:49 | 0:09:52 | |
I think we'd struggle for space and we'd feel cramped again. | 0:09:52 | 0:09:54 | |
The kitchen wasn't perfect either. | 0:09:54 | 0:09:57 | |
-Certain parts of it... -Yeah. -..feel modern and updated, | 0:09:57 | 0:10:00 | |
and other parts don't. | 0:10:00 | 0:10:02 | |
The house did have five bedrooms, though, | 0:10:02 | 0:10:04 | |
meaning Sammy and Louis could have their own rooms, | 0:10:04 | 0:10:07 | |
and Lauryn, too, if she visited, | 0:10:07 | 0:10:09 | |
and there was plenty of room for storage, too. | 0:10:09 | 0:10:12 | |
Wow! This is a walk-in wardrobe and a half. | 0:10:12 | 0:10:15 | |
It's just that everything at home is so cramped. | 0:10:17 | 0:10:21 | |
So, did the house have all the space needed? | 0:10:21 | 0:10:24 | |
Oh, gosh. | 0:10:24 | 0:10:25 | |
-Wow. -Wow. | 0:10:25 | 0:10:26 | |
Not in every sense. LISA LAUGHS | 0:10:26 | 0:10:29 | |
I don't know who was going to fit in that bath. | 0:10:29 | 0:10:31 | |
-Louis. -Louis! | 0:10:31 | 0:10:33 | |
-LAUGHTER -Oh, I can't take this seriously. | 0:10:33 | 0:10:35 | |
Fortunately, the garden wasn't quite as cramped. | 0:10:37 | 0:10:41 | |
This is far more what we were looking for. | 0:10:41 | 0:10:44 | |
You like this one, don't you? | 0:10:44 | 0:10:45 | |
Yeah, and from the windows upstairs, | 0:10:45 | 0:10:47 | |
you'll have a view of the garden and the trees and things. | 0:10:47 | 0:10:51 | |
The house was somewhere Lauryn could call a second home, | 0:10:51 | 0:10:54 | |
but could the family afford it on their £250,000-£300,000 budget? | 0:10:54 | 0:10:59 | |
OK, how much do you think this one's worth? | 0:10:59 | 0:11:02 | |
210,000. | 0:11:02 | 0:11:04 | |
It's going to go under the 200 mark, maybe something around 185, 190. | 0:11:04 | 0:11:10 | |
I'm going to say 230. | 0:11:10 | 0:11:12 | |
230? | 0:11:12 | 0:11:13 | |
-OK. -Shall we have a look? -Yes, go on, then. | 0:11:13 | 0:11:16 | |
-Oof! -Oof! -Oh, dear. | 0:11:16 | 0:11:18 | |
Wow. 262. | 0:11:18 | 0:11:19 | |
That's a lot more than I was expecting... | 0:11:19 | 0:11:21 | |
-That's not justifiable, to me, at all. -No. | 0:11:21 | 0:11:25 | |
It was within budget, but James and Lisa were clearly hoping for | 0:11:25 | 0:11:28 | |
much more for their money. | 0:11:28 | 0:11:30 | |
Would property number two fit the bill? | 0:11:30 | 0:11:32 | |
It was situated in Tarneit, | 0:11:35 | 0:11:37 | |
just 15 miles from Melbourne's central business district. | 0:11:37 | 0:11:41 | |
Offering parks, schools, | 0:11:41 | 0:11:43 | |
shopping centres and the modern style of housing Lisa was after, | 0:11:43 | 0:11:46 | |
it could have been a perfect match. | 0:11:46 | 0:11:49 | |
That's way bigger! | 0:11:49 | 0:11:50 | |
-This looks nice and big. -It looks lovely. | 0:11:51 | 0:11:54 | |
Straight away, the property looked more promising. | 0:11:54 | 0:11:57 | |
-Oh, gosh, James, it goes back quite a way as well. -Wow. | 0:11:57 | 0:12:00 | |
After living over a pub, all that room was definitely a bonus... | 0:12:00 | 0:12:04 | |
It's got three living rooms. | 0:12:04 | 0:12:06 | |
..and there was one space James was more than happy with. | 0:12:06 | 0:12:10 | |
Oh, wow! This is my room! | 0:12:10 | 0:12:11 | |
Yeah, so I can see, sort of, like, a little bar area in the corner. | 0:12:11 | 0:12:14 | |
But the garden wasn't ideal for everyone. | 0:12:14 | 0:12:17 | |
Yeah, there's loads of space - it's just not two-year-old friendly. | 0:12:17 | 0:12:21 | |
The house inside, though, is fantastic. | 0:12:21 | 0:12:24 | |
I'm a little bit disappointed with the outside. | 0:12:24 | 0:12:26 | |
Downstairs had provoked mixed reactions, but, upstairs, | 0:12:26 | 0:12:29 | |
the master bedroom with a balcony appealed to both Lisa and James. | 0:12:29 | 0:12:34 | |
It's not like it's got an amazing view or anything like that, | 0:12:34 | 0:12:37 | |
but it's green and it's pleasant. | 0:12:37 | 0:12:40 | |
This is a lovely en-suite. | 0:12:40 | 0:12:41 | |
His and hers sinks. | 0:12:41 | 0:12:42 | |
His and hers sinks... | 0:12:42 | 0:12:44 | |
This house would also give Lauryn her own bedroom, | 0:12:45 | 0:12:48 | |
and that could seal the deal when it came to persuading her to visit, | 0:12:48 | 0:12:52 | |
but, with a budget of between £250,000 and £300,000, | 0:12:52 | 0:12:56 | |
was it affordable? | 0:12:56 | 0:12:58 | |
OK, so what do you think it's worth, then? | 0:12:58 | 0:13:01 | |
I'd say probably about £270,000. | 0:13:02 | 0:13:06 | |
I was going to say a little bit more than that. | 0:13:06 | 0:13:09 | |
I think round about £290,000, £300,000. | 0:13:09 | 0:13:11 | |
-Shall we have a look? -Yeah. | 0:13:11 | 0:13:13 | |
Let's have a look. | 0:13:14 | 0:13:16 | |
Wow! | 0:13:16 | 0:13:19 | |
-Spot-on. -295. -You get a lot for your money. | 0:13:19 | 0:13:23 | |
I think if we had the dream, | 0:13:23 | 0:13:26 | |
it would be a new build with this space and a bigger garden. | 0:13:26 | 0:13:31 | |
Next up, the dream property, a house that, if money was no object, | 0:13:33 | 0:13:38 | |
could offer everything the Cornishes wanted. | 0:13:38 | 0:13:41 | |
The four-bedroom bungalow was in Sanctuary Lakes, | 0:13:41 | 0:13:44 | |
one of 20 modern estates making up the semirural but family-friendly | 0:13:44 | 0:13:48 | |
suburb of Point Cook. | 0:13:48 | 0:13:50 | |
And first impressions were good. | 0:13:50 | 0:13:53 | |
Every single house in this street I'd quite happily live in, I think. | 0:13:53 | 0:13:57 | |
Lisa was sold already. | 0:13:57 | 0:14:00 | |
Oh, wow. | 0:14:00 | 0:14:02 | |
That is just stunning. | 0:14:02 | 0:14:04 | |
Oh, James! | 0:14:04 | 0:14:06 | |
-Oh, my God. -Crikey. | 0:14:08 | 0:14:10 | |
-And this is just the en-suite. -Yeah. | 0:14:11 | 0:14:13 | |
Further down the hallway, something everyone could enjoy. | 0:14:13 | 0:14:18 | |
Oh, wow. | 0:14:18 | 0:14:20 | |
Oh, it's a proper cinema room. | 0:14:20 | 0:14:22 | |
Just imagine when that's got projected. | 0:14:22 | 0:14:26 | |
-I'd definitely come out and visit! -With everyone impressed, | 0:14:26 | 0:14:29 | |
James was already wondering how he could afford it. | 0:14:29 | 0:14:32 | |
I think I'd get two jobs to get this house. | 0:14:32 | 0:14:35 | |
-It is a dream house. -It's perfect. | 0:14:35 | 0:14:37 | |
And outside, a chance for the boys to dip their toes into what life in | 0:14:37 | 0:14:41 | |
Australia could be like. | 0:14:41 | 0:14:44 | |
-Tickles! -How would you like to live here and have this in your garden? -Yeah! | 0:14:44 | 0:14:48 | |
The house offered everything James and Lisa wanted, | 0:14:48 | 0:14:51 | |
but would Lauryn be happy with it as a second home? | 0:14:51 | 0:14:54 | |
It'd be worth not living with you! | 0:14:54 | 0:14:57 | |
Well, it wouldn't, but | 0:14:57 | 0:14:59 | |
it would at the same time, | 0:14:59 | 0:15:01 | |
knowing that I'd get to come out to this for two or three months, yeah, | 0:15:01 | 0:15:05 | |
-maybe more. -With everyone won over, | 0:15:05 | 0:15:08 | |
they were keen to find out if their £250,000 to £300,000 budget would | 0:15:08 | 0:15:13 | |
be enough to buy a house like this. | 0:15:13 | 0:15:15 | |
-It's going to be a lot. -I think it's going to be nearer £550,000. | 0:15:18 | 0:15:22 | |
-£550,000? -Yeah. | 0:15:22 | 0:15:25 | |
Time to see who was right. | 0:15:25 | 0:15:27 | |
-£404,000. -Oh, that's unbelievable! | 0:15:29 | 0:15:33 | |
It was £100,000 over-budget. | 0:15:33 | 0:15:35 | |
But... Oh, we could still have that. | 0:15:35 | 0:15:38 | |
That almost makes me cry! | 0:15:38 | 0:15:40 | |
I'm completely and utterly speechless that we could get | 0:15:40 | 0:15:43 | |
this house in this location for that amount of money. | 0:15:43 | 0:15:48 | |
It had been a day of real ups and downs for the Cornishes. | 0:15:48 | 0:15:52 | |
Property one was bang on budget, but short on space. | 0:15:52 | 0:15:56 | |
Property two had plenty of room, | 0:15:56 | 0:15:58 | |
but it just wasn't the house James and Lisa had based their dreams on. | 0:15:58 | 0:16:02 | |
But property three had everything the family wanted, | 0:16:02 | 0:16:05 | |
and with the right salaries could still be affordable. | 0:16:05 | 0:16:09 | |
So, based on the houses that we've seen in Australia, we're voting for... | 0:16:09 | 0:16:14 | |
-Australia! -Undecided. | 0:16:24 | 0:16:26 | |
No surprise that we voted for the same thing, | 0:16:26 | 0:16:29 | |
given how pleased we were with the last house. | 0:16:29 | 0:16:32 | |
We could never afford that at home. | 0:16:32 | 0:16:34 | |
Lauryn would take a bit more work, | 0:16:41 | 0:16:43 | |
but seeing the dream house had got Lisa and James excited about a | 0:16:43 | 0:16:47 | |
potential future in Australia. | 0:16:47 | 0:16:49 | |
Still, the couple knew that to afford the property, | 0:16:49 | 0:16:52 | |
they'd need to be pulling in a good income. | 0:16:52 | 0:16:55 | |
In the UK, Lisa had spent 11 years as an accountant before becoming an | 0:16:57 | 0:17:01 | |
accountancy lecturer. | 0:17:01 | 0:17:03 | |
It was a job she loved and hoped to continue Down Under. | 0:17:03 | 0:17:06 | |
I'm fortunate enough to be able to teach them all levels through their | 0:17:06 | 0:17:09 | |
accountancy qualification, | 0:17:09 | 0:17:11 | |
and eventually see them leaving as a fully qualified accountant. | 0:17:11 | 0:17:15 | |
James planned to call time on being a landlord and return to accounting. | 0:17:15 | 0:17:19 | |
And research had given him confidence work would be available. | 0:17:19 | 0:17:23 | |
Mainly we've looked at sort of the central government roles, | 0:17:23 | 0:17:26 | |
which is what we're used to here in the UK. | 0:17:26 | 0:17:29 | |
Melbourne's a leading financial centre in Australia, | 0:17:31 | 0:17:34 | |
which was good news for the couple. | 0:17:34 | 0:17:36 | |
But Lisa knew just how much was at stake. | 0:17:36 | 0:17:39 | |
Unless we can find a job at the right salary level, there's no way | 0:17:39 | 0:17:42 | |
on Earth we're going to be able to financially make the move. | 0:17:42 | 0:17:45 | |
We had arranged for visa applicant Lisa to visit Box Hill Institute, | 0:17:45 | 0:17:50 | |
a college east of Melbourne, where she met Colin Hardie, | 0:17:50 | 0:17:53 | |
Head of the Business Studies Department. | 0:17:53 | 0:17:56 | |
To get a teaching job here, | 0:17:56 | 0:17:58 | |
the minimum qualification is a certificate in training and assessment. | 0:17:58 | 0:18:01 | |
That will take you about a month. | 0:18:01 | 0:18:04 | |
You have certainly more than the minimum to get employed as a teacher. | 0:18:04 | 0:18:08 | |
However, in the current environment, | 0:18:08 | 0:18:10 | |
we would highly recommend more qualifications, | 0:18:10 | 0:18:13 | |
higher level qualifications, breadth and depth, | 0:18:13 | 0:18:15 | |
and that will maximise your chances of employment, | 0:18:15 | 0:18:18 | |
and also maximise your salary. | 0:18:18 | 0:18:20 | |
It sounded like Lisa might be back at school herself if she was to | 0:18:20 | 0:18:24 | |
stand out from candidates chasing lecturing roles. | 0:18:24 | 0:18:27 | |
Which meant more pressure for James to find the perfect job. | 0:18:27 | 0:18:31 | |
To get to the bottom of accounting opportunities, | 0:18:31 | 0:18:34 | |
he met Susan Drews from one of the city's prominent recruitment companies. | 0:18:34 | 0:18:38 | |
So, really, looking at your experience, | 0:18:38 | 0:18:41 | |
your skills in government, I believe could be very transferable into | 0:18:41 | 0:18:45 | |
the state government here or a public sector environment. | 0:18:45 | 0:18:47 | |
James could be in demand. | 0:18:47 | 0:18:49 | |
Back at Box Hill, Lisa was keen to hear her potential salary | 0:18:49 | 0:18:53 | |
if she found a job. | 0:18:53 | 0:18:54 | |
Some of the jobs that I'd been looking at were in the region of £80,000 to £100,000. | 0:18:54 | 0:18:59 | |
I estimate at least that you would come in at about the middle of the | 0:18:59 | 0:19:01 | |
lecturer range, which would be a salary of about 60,000 to 70,000 per year. | 0:19:01 | 0:19:07 | |
It was a massive £50,000 less than Lisa had hoped for, | 0:19:07 | 0:19:11 | |
which could signal the end of her and James's dream. | 0:19:11 | 0:19:14 | |
We would want the standard of living that would offer the boys and | 0:19:14 | 0:19:18 | |
ourselves a much better lifestyle. | 0:19:18 | 0:19:21 | |
If James's potential earnings weren't high enough, | 0:19:21 | 0:19:25 | |
it looked like leaving Lauryn might not be an issue after all. | 0:19:25 | 0:19:29 | |
So, what sort of salary do you think I'd be able to command in Australia? | 0:19:30 | 0:19:33 | |
Look, I think realistically you'd be looking at anything at about that | 0:19:33 | 0:19:37 | |
sort of 80,000 mark. | 0:19:37 | 0:19:39 | |
Which, to be honest with you, is more than what I was on in the UK. | 0:19:39 | 0:19:42 | |
Lisa and James had had completely different experiences. | 0:19:42 | 0:19:46 | |
So, how did it affect their vote? | 0:19:46 | 0:19:48 | |
Did they choose work in Australia or the UK? | 0:19:48 | 0:19:52 | |
BOTH: Australia! | 0:20:02 | 0:20:05 | |
Although the salary expectations in lecturing are immediately a lot | 0:20:05 | 0:20:09 | |
less, it just means that we'll have to have a rethink and maybe look at | 0:20:09 | 0:20:13 | |
some different opportunities for me in the short term. | 0:20:13 | 0:20:16 | |
In terms of what it'll give us as a family, moving away from the pub, | 0:20:16 | 0:20:21 | |
and everything that goes with that, | 0:20:21 | 0:20:23 | |
I still think we'll be better off out here. | 0:20:23 | 0:20:26 | |
With Lisa prepared to consider different options, | 0:20:34 | 0:20:37 | |
the couple's dream was still intact. | 0:20:37 | 0:20:39 | |
But James needed to establish if the benefits Australia offered his | 0:20:39 | 0:20:43 | |
family would outweigh the time he'd be spending apart from daughter Lauryn. | 0:20:43 | 0:20:47 | |
A day sampling Australia's lifestyle could make all the difference. | 0:20:47 | 0:20:52 | |
The Cornishes spent the day at Latrobe Golf Park in Bundoora. | 0:20:53 | 0:20:57 | |
Before becoming consumed with running the pub, James was a keen golfer. | 0:20:57 | 0:21:02 | |
And he hoped that if he and Lisa got more time with Sammy and Louis, | 0:21:02 | 0:21:05 | |
they could all practice the sport together. | 0:21:05 | 0:21:08 | |
Yay! | 0:21:10 | 0:21:12 | |
It was a reminder of what the move was all about. | 0:21:12 | 0:21:15 | |
We don't spend a huge amount of time together as a family | 0:21:15 | 0:21:18 | |
and moving to Australia would offer us the opportunity to have that time | 0:21:18 | 0:21:23 | |
back, and for us to feel like a family again. | 0:21:23 | 0:21:26 | |
This is fun! | 0:21:26 | 0:21:28 | |
It was a real taste of what life could be like. | 0:21:28 | 0:21:31 | |
And James was delighted to get quality time with his boys. | 0:21:31 | 0:21:34 | |
I can honestly say I've never really seen them that happy, | 0:21:34 | 0:21:37 | |
as they have been this week. | 0:21:37 | 0:21:39 | |
They can go and play together, | 0:21:39 | 0:21:41 | |
and even myself and Lisa are getting involved in that, | 0:21:41 | 0:21:44 | |
and it's not something we can do at home. | 0:21:44 | 0:21:47 | |
The family rounded their day off at the driving range. | 0:21:47 | 0:21:50 | |
And James and Lauryn enjoyed some father-daughter time, | 0:21:50 | 0:21:53 | |
and the chance to discuss what moving would mean for their relationship. | 0:21:53 | 0:21:58 | |
So, how would you feel if we came out here? | 0:21:58 | 0:22:00 | |
Well, I'd be upset, but... | 0:22:00 | 0:22:03 | |
I'd be happy for you as well. | 0:22:03 | 0:22:05 | |
You'd be happy to see us for two or three months per year | 0:22:05 | 0:22:09 | |
rather than every week? | 0:22:09 | 0:22:11 | |
Oh... I'd get used to it. | 0:22:11 | 0:22:14 | |
Just like I got used to not seeing you and Mum together. | 0:22:14 | 0:22:17 | |
And you're not abandoning me. | 0:22:17 | 0:22:21 | |
-Really? Are you sure? -I'm saying that because that's how I feel. | 0:22:21 | 0:22:24 | |
OK. | 0:22:26 | 0:22:27 | |
It had been a fun and thought-provoking day. | 0:22:27 | 0:22:30 | |
So when it came to choosing between lifestyle in Australia and the UK, | 0:22:30 | 0:22:34 | |
what did they opt for? | 0:22:34 | 0:22:36 | |
ALL: Australia! | 0:22:41 | 0:22:42 | |
It's just nice to be able to spend time together as a family. | 0:22:42 | 0:22:46 | |
A unanimous vote for Australia was all well and good, | 0:22:53 | 0:22:57 | |
but with Lisa's projected salary much lower than expected, | 0:22:57 | 0:23:00 | |
the family needed to find out whether they could afford to make the move. | 0:23:00 | 0:23:05 | |
We had provided a breakdown of their living expenses, | 0:23:05 | 0:23:07 | |
starting with their fortnightly grocery shop. | 0:23:07 | 0:23:10 | |
Quite a lot of the vegetables and things doubled. | 0:23:10 | 0:23:14 | |
Beef's a lot cheaper, chicken's a lot cheaper. | 0:23:14 | 0:23:17 | |
Most things are more expensive, though, aren't they, let's face it, | 0:23:17 | 0:23:20 | |
as we go down the list. 73% more expensive. | 0:23:20 | 0:23:24 | |
£135 per month more on food wasn't a deal-breaker, | 0:23:24 | 0:23:28 | |
but how did the bigger figures stack up? | 0:23:28 | 0:23:31 | |
James and Lisa based calculations on the second property they viewed. | 0:23:31 | 0:23:35 | |
Gas is half the price. | 0:23:35 | 0:23:37 | |
The childcare would be more expensive because we wouldn't have | 0:23:37 | 0:23:40 | |
grandparents looking after the kids. | 0:23:40 | 0:23:43 | |
Overall, Lisa and James would spend £600 more per month in Australia. | 0:23:43 | 0:23:48 | |
The dream would live or die on their potential salaries. | 0:23:48 | 0:23:52 | |
My salary would be £543 more. | 0:23:52 | 0:23:57 | |
Yours would be £2 less. | 0:23:57 | 0:23:59 | |
We would be £70.85 better off per month in Australia. | 0:23:59 | 0:24:05 | |
If Lisa lectured Down Under, | 0:24:05 | 0:24:07 | |
the family would be around £70 better off each month. | 0:24:07 | 0:24:10 | |
Not bad, but not enough to pay for regular flights for Lauryn. | 0:24:10 | 0:24:15 | |
If I went back into accounting, | 0:24:15 | 0:24:17 | |
we'd be £10,606.20 per year better off. | 0:24:17 | 0:24:23 | |
Even if we had the dream house, | 0:24:23 | 0:24:26 | |
if I was in accounting, and you were too, | 0:24:26 | 0:24:30 | |
then we'd still be £5,326 better off per year. | 0:24:30 | 0:24:35 | |
It's a huge difference. | 0:24:35 | 0:24:37 | |
-I can't believe that. -It's a huge difference. | 0:24:37 | 0:24:39 | |
Lisa and James could afford the life they were desperate for, | 0:24:39 | 0:24:42 | |
and flights for Lauryn. | 0:24:42 | 0:24:44 | |
So how did they vote? | 0:24:44 | 0:24:46 | |
Australia! | 0:24:50 | 0:24:52 | |
-Are you happy? -Yeah, I'm happy again! | 0:24:52 | 0:24:55 | |
Financially, Lisa and James's dream seemed achievable. | 0:25:02 | 0:25:06 | |
But what about the emotional cost? | 0:25:06 | 0:25:09 | |
While Sammy and Louis were looked after by a childminder, | 0:25:09 | 0:25:12 | |
the rest of the family were keen to watch messages from loved ones in the UK. | 0:25:12 | 0:25:16 | |
Hope you're having a fantastic time. | 0:25:16 | 0:25:19 | |
We don't want you to come back with a tan because we don't want to look | 0:25:19 | 0:25:22 | |
pasty next to you! | 0:25:22 | 0:25:23 | |
As a family, Lisa and James are really, you know, hard-working, | 0:25:23 | 0:25:27 | |
dedicated to their family, to the kids. | 0:25:27 | 0:25:29 | |
James is a top bloke, and, yeah, if you were to go, | 0:25:29 | 0:25:32 | |
I'd miss him very much. | 0:25:32 | 0:25:34 | |
Lisa doesn't just do something, she overdoes it, | 0:25:34 | 0:25:38 | |
if you know what I mean. She really looks into things. | 0:25:38 | 0:25:41 | |
She's very sort of like, confident in herself, and the things she does. | 0:25:41 | 0:25:46 | |
Because I lack in that area, it's nice, because that bit | 0:25:46 | 0:25:49 | |
rubs off and then I feel confident enough to go and do things. | 0:25:49 | 0:25:52 | |
So it's nice. I don't think she realises that she does that. | 0:25:52 | 0:25:56 | |
Lauryn's a lovely young girl. | 0:25:56 | 0:25:58 | |
She has sprung from being a little girl at the beginning of last summer | 0:25:58 | 0:26:02 | |
to being quite a young lady, really, hasn't she? | 0:26:02 | 0:26:05 | |
And she's, yeah, she's a really good big sister to the boys, isn't she? | 0:26:05 | 0:26:09 | |
Our Sammy, you know what, like, I've said to James and Lisa, you lot go, | 0:26:09 | 0:26:14 | |
but leave Sammy here with me because I don't want him to go, | 0:26:14 | 0:26:16 | |
I really don't! | 0:26:16 | 0:26:18 | |
Louis is lovely. Louis is coming on smashing. | 0:26:18 | 0:26:21 | |
I can honestly say that | 0:26:21 | 0:26:24 | |
since I knew... | 0:26:24 | 0:26:26 | |
..I've been the saddest that I've ever been in my life. | 0:26:28 | 0:26:31 | |
I'd miss the physical contact, | 0:26:35 | 0:26:38 | |
and although we'll be able to see them on Skype and talk to her | 0:26:38 | 0:26:44 | |
and everything like that... | 0:26:44 | 0:26:46 | |
..I would look forward to the cuddles when I do see them, | 0:26:47 | 0:26:50 | |
so they'd have to save them all up. | 0:26:50 | 0:26:53 | |
I know it's going to be hard when they go, if they do go. | 0:26:55 | 0:26:57 | |
It's a fantastic opportunity, and if you think you can make it work, | 0:26:59 | 0:27:02 | |
-then do it, because it might be one of the best decisions you've ever made. -Yeah, definitely. | 0:27:02 | 0:27:06 | |
We know we've told you we'll miss you, | 0:27:06 | 0:27:10 | |
but we've also said that we wouldn't stand in your way if you went, | 0:27:10 | 0:27:13 | |
if you made the decision to go. | 0:27:13 | 0:27:15 | |
I will really, really miss you. | 0:27:15 | 0:27:17 | |
Obviously I know it's going to be hard. Especially with Lauryn. | 0:27:17 | 0:27:21 | |
But I want you to do what's best for you and be happy. | 0:27:21 | 0:27:25 | |
Just make sure, James and Lisa, that you look at everything... | 0:27:25 | 0:27:30 | |
..before you make any decisions whatsoever. | 0:27:31 | 0:27:35 | |
And come back safe. | 0:27:35 | 0:27:37 | |
I can see now how much it is going to affect | 0:27:41 | 0:27:45 | |
me and everyone else, but I could see that before. | 0:27:45 | 0:27:49 | |
It's just... How I will cope with it. | 0:27:51 | 0:27:54 | |
Lauryn had given her blessing for the family's move to Australia, | 0:28:01 | 0:28:04 | |
but James still needed to decide if the lifestyle he and Lisa yearned | 0:28:04 | 0:28:08 | |
for with their sons was worth the time he'd lose with his daughter. | 0:28:08 | 0:28:12 | |
Had Australia lived up to the dream? | 0:28:12 | 0:28:15 | |
It's been fascinating to see the Australian culture and look round | 0:28:16 | 0:28:22 | |
some fantastic houses. | 0:28:22 | 0:28:24 | |
Experience what Australia has got to offer for us. | 0:28:24 | 0:28:27 | |
There's parts of the week that have been really good, | 0:28:27 | 0:28:30 | |
parts of the week that have put my mind into doubt as to whether a move | 0:28:30 | 0:28:34 | |
to Australia is right for us. | 0:28:34 | 0:28:36 | |
James was still wrestling with the positive and negative implications | 0:28:36 | 0:28:40 | |
-of a move, too. -This thing for me with the decision is Lauryn. | 0:28:40 | 0:28:45 | |
She's my daughter, she's my first-born, | 0:28:46 | 0:28:49 | |
and she means everything to me. | 0:28:49 | 0:28:51 | |
Obviously I'd be sad if they did choose Australia, | 0:28:51 | 0:28:54 | |
but I'd much rather them be happy than to have to | 0:28:54 | 0:28:59 | |
stop and... | 0:28:59 | 0:29:01 | |
crush their dreams. | 0:29:01 | 0:29:04 | |
It was time for the whole family to decide where their future lay. | 0:29:04 | 0:29:09 | |
ALL: Australia! | 0:29:19 | 0:29:21 | |
-Has everyone put Australia? -Yeah! | 0:29:23 | 0:29:25 | |
-Cool. -Wow! | 0:29:25 | 0:29:28 | |
The writing's on the wall for us to come out here. | 0:29:28 | 0:29:31 | |
I voted Australia for you and for coming out here twice a year, | 0:29:31 | 0:29:36 | |
maybe when I turn 18 I could come out and have a year out. | 0:29:36 | 0:29:39 | |
-Did you vote UK or did you vote Australia? -Australia. | 0:29:39 | 0:29:42 | |
-Australia! Shout it out. -Australia! | 0:29:42 | 0:29:45 | |
With Lauryn happy to spend months at a time in Australia, | 0:29:56 | 0:30:00 | |
James had decided a move Down Under could give the rest of his family | 0:30:00 | 0:30:04 | |
the time together they were missing in the UK. | 0:30:04 | 0:30:07 | |
So, two years on, | 0:30:07 | 0:30:10 | |
it's time to find out where the Cornishes are now calling home. | 0:30:10 | 0:30:14 | |
It's April 2016, and the family are living in Point Cook, Australia. | 0:30:14 | 0:30:22 | |
James, Lisa and the boys moved into their modern four-bedroom house in | 0:30:22 | 0:30:25 | |
this western suburb 60 miles from Melbourne days after arriving back | 0:30:25 | 0:30:30 | |
in the country a year ago. | 0:30:30 | 0:30:32 | |
We landed on the Wednesday evening. | 0:30:32 | 0:30:34 | |
We went viewing rental properties on the Saturday, | 0:30:34 | 0:30:37 | |
which is the kind of common day for open houses in Australia, | 0:30:37 | 0:30:41 | |
and we got a phone call first thing on the Monday morning to say that | 0:30:41 | 0:30:44 | |
we'd been accepted for a rental property, | 0:30:44 | 0:30:47 | |
and we could come and collect the keys that afternoon. | 0:30:47 | 0:30:50 | |
So it was less than a week between landing and moving into our house | 0:30:50 | 0:30:55 | |
that we're in now. | 0:30:55 | 0:30:56 | |
The area's where the family viewed their dream home during the trial | 0:31:00 | 0:31:04 | |
week, and they couldn't be happier in their new surroundings. | 0:31:04 | 0:31:07 | |
And this is our kitchen area. | 0:31:07 | 0:31:10 | |
James does most of the cooking. | 0:31:10 | 0:31:11 | |
I can bake, but he does most of the evening meals for the family here, | 0:31:11 | 0:31:16 | |
and the cooker's great, because we can fit two lots of | 0:31:16 | 0:31:19 | |
Yorkshire puddings in there, if we want to. | 0:31:19 | 0:31:21 | |
The house that we've got now, you know, | 0:31:21 | 0:31:23 | |
we couldn't really ask for much more. It's huge. | 0:31:23 | 0:31:27 | |
All the kids have got their own bedrooms, | 0:31:27 | 0:31:28 | |
Lauryn's got her own room when she comes and visits, | 0:31:28 | 0:31:31 | |
and we've got a huge master bedroom with ensuite. | 0:31:31 | 0:31:34 | |
So one of the really great things about this space is something that | 0:31:38 | 0:31:41 | |
we never ever heard in the UK, and that's our walk-in wardrobe. | 0:31:41 | 0:31:46 | |
And James gets 50% of this, which I think's really unfair. | 0:31:46 | 0:31:49 | |
I think we take for granted a lot of the time what we've got now, | 0:31:49 | 0:31:53 | |
but looking back to what we had in the UK, | 0:31:53 | 0:31:55 | |
and particularly what we had when we were living over the pub, | 0:31:55 | 0:31:58 | |
it's a million miles away from what we were used to back them. | 0:31:58 | 0:32:01 | |
This is my bedroom, and it's got lots of toys in it. | 0:32:01 | 0:32:05 | |
We love the lifestyle here. | 0:32:09 | 0:32:12 | |
It's just set up for living. | 0:32:12 | 0:32:13 | |
We've got a golf course on the doorstep, tennis courts, | 0:32:13 | 0:32:16 | |
golf driving range. We've got a swimming pool, we've got a gym, | 0:32:16 | 0:32:20 | |
all within two minutes' drive of the house or ten minutes' walk. | 0:32:20 | 0:32:23 | |
We are right next to the coast, so if we want to go to the beach, | 0:32:23 | 0:32:26 | |
we've got that on the doorstep, as well. | 0:32:26 | 0:32:28 | |
The lifestyle they had glimpsed during the trial week has become | 0:32:28 | 0:32:31 | |
their reality, and, looking back, | 0:32:31 | 0:32:34 | |
James and Lisa were never in any doubt that it would. | 0:32:34 | 0:32:37 | |
We'd fallen in love with Melbourne, we'd fallen in love with Australia, | 0:32:37 | 0:32:40 | |
and if someone had told me at that point in time, you stay here, | 0:32:40 | 0:32:43 | |
we'll pack up your bags in England, I'd have done it in a heartbeat. | 0:32:43 | 0:32:47 | |
We both actually said to each other that it felt like we were leaving | 0:32:48 | 0:32:51 | |
home when we got on the plane to go back to the UK. | 0:32:51 | 0:32:54 | |
We started the visa application process pretty much as soon as we | 0:32:54 | 0:32:57 | |
got off the plane back in the UK. | 0:32:57 | 0:32:59 | |
There was a lot of work to be done, | 0:32:59 | 0:33:01 | |
in terms of wrapping up the business and applying for jobs, | 0:33:01 | 0:33:03 | |
and planning the move out here. | 0:33:03 | 0:33:05 | |
They also had to tell loved ones they were going. | 0:33:07 | 0:33:10 | |
They knew deep down this was going to happen. | 0:33:10 | 0:33:13 | |
It wasn't an easy task to break the news to family and friends, | 0:33:13 | 0:33:17 | |
by any means, | 0:33:17 | 0:33:19 | |
but most of them understood the reasons why. | 0:33:19 | 0:33:22 | |
Their visa was through just six months later. | 0:33:22 | 0:33:25 | |
And before leaving the UK, | 0:33:25 | 0:33:27 | |
Lisa had been fortunate enough to secure an accountancy job at Melbourne University. | 0:33:27 | 0:33:32 | |
And I did all of my interviews over video, over the internet, for that. | 0:33:32 | 0:33:36 | |
It was a very strange process for me, | 0:33:36 | 0:33:39 | |
sitting in the kitchen at 9.30pm at night with my tablet stacked up on | 0:33:39 | 0:33:42 | |
cookery books so that it was at the right height. | 0:33:42 | 0:33:44 | |
But I was fortunate enough to eventually get the job. | 0:33:44 | 0:33:48 | |
The family left the UK in April 2015, | 0:33:48 | 0:33:51 | |
after a bit of a do to mark their departure. | 0:33:51 | 0:33:55 | |
We had in Australia themed party. | 0:33:55 | 0:33:58 | |
One of our closest friends made a huge Australia flag cake. | 0:33:58 | 0:34:02 | |
We had shapes from Arnott's, | 0:34:02 | 0:34:05 | |
and all sorts of Tim Tams and things like that. | 0:34:05 | 0:34:08 | |
It was great fun. | 0:34:08 | 0:34:10 | |
But not everything was as enjoyable. | 0:34:10 | 0:34:14 | |
James still had to face the reality of putting 10,000 miles between him | 0:34:14 | 0:34:19 | |
and his daughter, Lauryn. | 0:34:19 | 0:34:21 | |
The last goodbye to Lauryn on the morning that we came away was really | 0:34:21 | 0:34:24 | |
difficult. We were both in tears, you know, | 0:34:24 | 0:34:28 | |
it was up until half an hour before we were laughing and joking, | 0:34:28 | 0:34:31 | |
and then it all of a sudden became real. | 0:34:31 | 0:34:33 | |
You know, when we said goodbye, and sort of waved her off, | 0:34:33 | 0:34:35 | |
as we drove off down the road. It was really, really difficult, | 0:34:35 | 0:34:38 | |
and probably the first couple of days after that, it was really raw. | 0:34:38 | 0:34:42 | |
Good boy, well done. | 0:34:46 | 0:34:48 | |
It was a difficult time for everyone. | 0:34:48 | 0:34:50 | |
However, once back in Australia, | 0:34:50 | 0:34:53 | |
the family threw themselves into setting up their new life. | 0:34:53 | 0:34:56 | |
Our first week here was really fast-paced. | 0:34:59 | 0:35:03 | |
Obviously, I started work really quickly, | 0:35:03 | 0:35:06 | |
and during that time period we also needed to get the boys registered | 0:35:06 | 0:35:10 | |
into childcare, and into school, get Medicare cards, | 0:35:10 | 0:35:14 | |
get driving licences sorted. | 0:35:14 | 0:35:15 | |
It felt like we were doing something, if not 20 things, every single day. | 0:35:15 | 0:35:19 | |
It was a real whirlwind. | 0:35:19 | 0:35:22 | |
Well done. He's doing well, isn't he? | 0:35:22 | 0:35:24 | |
We literally had nothing when we came here. | 0:35:24 | 0:35:26 | |
We had 24 boxes on a ship somewhere, | 0:35:26 | 0:35:29 | |
with kids toys and clothes and things, | 0:35:29 | 0:35:31 | |
but that was everything that we'd brought. | 0:35:31 | 0:35:33 | |
So we had to set up a new house, and a new home and a new life. | 0:35:33 | 0:35:36 | |
Fortunately, it didn't take Lisa long to settle into her new job as a | 0:35:36 | 0:35:40 | |
business intelligence manager. | 0:35:40 | 0:35:43 | |
I love my work. I really enjoy working for the university. | 0:35:47 | 0:35:51 | |
Work was a concern to me during the trial week, | 0:35:52 | 0:35:55 | |
because I loved the job that I did in the UK. | 0:35:55 | 0:35:57 | |
In retrospect, I could never have imagined how brilliant | 0:35:57 | 0:36:02 | |
the job that I've got here would be. | 0:36:02 | 0:36:05 | |
James spent the first few months getting Sammy and Louis settled | 0:36:08 | 0:36:11 | |
Down Under, and now they're delighted with their new homeland. | 0:36:11 | 0:36:15 | |
Perfect. Go on, knock daddy's out the way, Louis. | 0:36:15 | 0:36:18 | |
I like Australia because it's got nice, hot places and kangaroos are really funny. | 0:36:20 | 0:36:25 | |
The boys are really well settled. Sammy's in school. | 0:36:29 | 0:36:32 | |
He's doing great in school, | 0:36:32 | 0:36:34 | |
and Louis goes to kinder, and also day-care. | 0:36:34 | 0:36:38 | |
He's in a fantastic place as well, he absolutely loves it, | 0:36:38 | 0:36:40 | |
and they're both learning languages, so Sammy's learning Japanese, | 0:36:40 | 0:36:44 | |
and Louis is learning a little bit of Chinese at the moment. | 0:36:44 | 0:36:47 | |
And Sammy's learning guitar at school, as well, | 0:36:47 | 0:36:50 | |
and we're getting them more and more involved in sports. | 0:36:50 | 0:36:54 | |
The whole family have made lots of new friends. | 0:37:00 | 0:37:04 | |
Early on when we first got here, | 0:37:04 | 0:37:06 | |
there were a lot of informal arranged meet ups at parks, | 0:37:06 | 0:37:09 | |
where families were openly invited to turn up with the sole purpose of | 0:37:09 | 0:37:15 | |
meeting new people. | 0:37:15 | 0:37:16 | |
And we got a lot of friends out of that initially. | 0:37:16 | 0:37:20 | |
And some of who we are really, really close with now, and who we'd | 0:37:20 | 0:37:26 | |
state are our closest friends. | 0:37:26 | 0:37:29 | |
Two months after they'd arrived, | 0:37:29 | 0:37:31 | |
Lauryn made her first trip out to visit them. | 0:37:31 | 0:37:33 | |
I was really excited to see her. | 0:37:33 | 0:37:35 | |
She walked through the doors, and obviously we ran up and gave each | 0:37:35 | 0:37:37 | |
other a big hug, and she was here for around seven weeks, | 0:37:37 | 0:37:41 | |
and in that time I wasn't working. | 0:37:41 | 0:37:43 | |
It was fantastic to be able to spend quality time with her. | 0:37:43 | 0:37:48 | |
Sammy was delighted to have his sister back, too. | 0:37:48 | 0:37:51 | |
I miss Lauryn because she's really nice and helpful. | 0:37:51 | 0:37:55 | |
James and Lisa made sure Lauryn's first visit was as memorable as possible. | 0:37:55 | 0:38:00 | |
We were conscious that she was leaving the UK summer behind and | 0:38:00 | 0:38:04 | |
coming out to the Australian winter, so we decided to take a drive, | 0:38:04 | 0:38:08 | |
and jumped in the car and drove up to the Gold Coast, | 0:38:08 | 0:38:11 | |
which was a long trek. | 0:38:11 | 0:38:13 | |
We had a week up there in the sunshine. | 0:38:13 | 0:38:16 | |
-Hello! -Thanks to technology, | 0:38:23 | 0:38:25 | |
the family regularly stay in touch with loved ones back home, too. | 0:38:25 | 0:38:29 | |
Oh, we saw that on the forecast this morning. It was going to snow. | 0:38:29 | 0:38:33 | |
It said eight degrees... | 0:38:33 | 0:38:35 | |
Lisa's mum and dad have already been out to visit, and plan to return for Christmas. | 0:38:35 | 0:38:39 | |
We've got a lot of visitors this year. | 0:38:39 | 0:38:41 | |
Lauryn will be out here three times this year, in total, | 0:38:41 | 0:38:44 | |
so we're going to see a lot of her, as well, which is great. | 0:38:44 | 0:38:48 | |
So it's going to be a busy house. So I'm grateful for the extra space. | 0:38:48 | 0:38:52 | |
My dad and stepmum have been out already, and they had a great time. | 0:38:52 | 0:38:56 | |
My mum and stepdad are planning to come out in June this year. | 0:38:56 | 0:39:00 | |
We've always got somebody coming through the door and visiting us | 0:39:00 | 0:39:03 | |
so it's good fun. | 0:39:03 | 0:39:05 | |
Meanwhile, James has just started his first permanent job in Australia, | 0:39:05 | 0:39:09 | |
working as a finance manager, also at Melbourne University. | 0:39:09 | 0:39:13 | |
-PHONE RINGS -Hello, James speaking. | 0:39:13 | 0:39:15 | |
It's the perfect job for me. It's exactly what I was used to in the UK, | 0:39:15 | 0:39:19 | |
in terms of business partnering and budget management, | 0:39:19 | 0:39:22 | |
and I think there's a lot of scope to build the role. | 0:39:22 | 0:39:26 | |
So, yeah, I can see myself being here for a long time. | 0:39:26 | 0:39:29 | |
It has another added bonus in the fact that I actually work with Lisa | 0:39:29 | 0:39:33 | |
in the same office. Our roles are interconnected, | 0:39:33 | 0:39:36 | |
so we work very closely together. | 0:39:36 | 0:39:39 | |
Mixing business with pleasure doesn't seem to be a problem for the Cornishes. | 0:39:39 | 0:39:44 | |
It's something we've done before, | 0:39:44 | 0:39:47 | |
but we're still kind of learning what it means for us here. | 0:39:47 | 0:39:51 | |
But the best bit is they've finally | 0:39:51 | 0:39:54 | |
managed to address their work/life balance. | 0:39:54 | 0:39:57 | |
My boss gives me an amount of flexibility with my start times and | 0:39:57 | 0:40:01 | |
finish times, which allows me to manage the childcare, | 0:40:01 | 0:40:05 | |
and for James and I to alternate drop-offs and pick-ups, | 0:40:05 | 0:40:09 | |
so that we both get to spend time with the kids on a morning and an | 0:40:09 | 0:40:12 | |
afternoon, and it's a far better lifestyle than we had in the UK. | 0:40:12 | 0:40:17 | |
The couple have also recently celebrated another milestone Down Under. | 0:40:21 | 0:40:26 | |
When James and I first got married, | 0:40:26 | 0:40:28 | |
we made a commitment to renew our wedding vows every five years. | 0:40:28 | 0:40:32 | |
We spoke with one of the local pubs, | 0:40:32 | 0:40:34 | |
and arranged to have our vows renewed by one of our friends unofficially, | 0:40:34 | 0:40:39 | |
and had a Neighbours-themed wedding, | 0:40:39 | 0:40:42 | |
where Lisa and I got dressed up as Scott and Charlene, | 0:40:42 | 0:40:45 | |
and we had all the guests came as various characters from Neighbours. | 0:40:45 | 0:40:49 | |
It was a lot of fun, and it | 0:40:49 | 0:40:51 | |
allowed James and I to renew our wedding vows, | 0:40:51 | 0:40:54 | |
and also mark the fact that this was our first year here in Australia. | 0:40:54 | 0:40:58 | |
-On your marks... -Set... Go! | 0:41:00 | 0:41:03 | |
It's been a hectic 12 months, | 0:41:03 | 0:41:05 | |
but all in all it sounds like moving Down Under has been everything Lisa | 0:41:05 | 0:41:09 | |
and James hoped it would be. | 0:41:09 | 0:41:11 | |
The best thing about life in Australia for us is the family time that we | 0:41:11 | 0:41:15 | |
get together, and the weather, and what that enables us to do. | 0:41:15 | 0:41:18 | |
It's quite a nice night tonight. | 0:41:18 | 0:41:20 | |
It's lovely. We wouldn't be doing this back in the UK. | 0:41:20 | 0:41:23 | |
-No. -There's no chance of that. | 0:41:23 | 0:41:24 | |
Weekends now are spent going out to zoos and to beaches and parks, | 0:41:24 | 0:41:28 | |
and to people's houses for barbecues and things like that. | 0:41:28 | 0:41:32 | |
It might sound stereotypical, but this is genuinely what we do. | 0:41:32 | 0:41:37 | |
And having recently purchased some land, | 0:41:37 | 0:41:40 | |
they already have plans to build their own home. | 0:41:40 | 0:41:43 | |
The house that we're building will be our dream house, | 0:41:43 | 0:41:46 | |
so we've built it with a cinema room in there, we've got | 0:41:46 | 0:41:50 | |
a huge master bedroom for us, we've got... | 0:41:50 | 0:41:53 | |
All the kids have got their own rooms with walk-in wardrobes, | 0:41:53 | 0:41:56 | |
huge play area for the kids. | 0:41:56 | 0:41:58 | |
And we've also | 0:41:58 | 0:42:00 | |
made provisions for building a swimming pool in the back garden, | 0:42:00 | 0:42:03 | |
so the kids can enjoy that, as and when they want to. | 0:42:03 | 0:42:07 | |
Having come 10,000 miles for the life they wanted, | 0:42:07 | 0:42:11 | |
it looks like the Cornishes will be staying put. | 0:42:11 | 0:42:14 | |
I would definitely say that our family's future lies in Australia. | 0:42:14 | 0:42:17 | |
It just feels like home, and it has since we first got here. | 0:42:17 | 0:42:22 | |
THEY LAUGH AND SHOUT | 0:42:26 | 0:42:28 | |
The only thing that could make it better now would be if Lauryn was | 0:42:31 | 0:42:34 | |
here on a permanent basis, | 0:42:34 | 0:42:36 | |
but we both appreciate that that's not a possibility at the moment. | 0:42:36 | 0:42:40 | |
But, yeah, I think all in all everything on balance, | 0:42:40 | 0:42:44 | |
we're pretty much living the dream. | 0:42:44 | 0:42:46 | |
How about a seagull? | 0:42:46 | 0:42:49 | |
It's been an eventful few years for the Cornishes, | 0:42:53 | 0:42:57 | |
and while leaving Lauryn in the UK hasn't been easy for anyone, | 0:42:57 | 0:43:00 | |
it seems the move really has given Lisa and James more quality time | 0:43:00 | 0:43:05 | |
with Sammy and Louis. | 0:43:05 | 0:43:07 | |
We wish the whole family a very happy future together in the country | 0:43:07 | 0:43:11 | |
they have so quickly made themselves home in. | 0:43:11 | 0:43:14 |