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Imagine if, after years of discussion, | 0:00:02 | 0:00:04 | |
you'd finally persuaded your partner to consider emigrating | 0:00:04 | 0:00:08 | |
to the other side of the world, | 0:00:08 | 0:00:10 | |
only to discover your teenaged children | 0:00:10 | 0:00:13 | |
still needed to be convinced. | 0:00:13 | 0:00:15 | |
That's the situation Lyn Horn was in back in 2010 | 0:00:15 | 0:00:19 | |
when her family set off on a trial week to Adelaide. | 0:00:19 | 0:00:23 | |
Six years later, we'll find out where and how the Horns are now. | 0:00:23 | 0:00:27 | |
For 30 years, Lyn Horn believed in a life down under, | 0:00:29 | 0:00:32 | |
but her children didn't share that dream. | 0:00:32 | 0:00:35 | |
I'm not only losing a boyfriend, but I'm losing a friend. | 0:00:35 | 0:00:39 | |
And the thought of splitting the family in two | 0:00:39 | 0:00:41 | |
was hard for everyone to comprehend. | 0:00:41 | 0:00:44 | |
I couldn't stay in England | 0:00:45 | 0:00:47 | |
and have these three out in Australia, I couldn't do it. | 0:00:47 | 0:00:50 | |
Today, we'll find out if the Horns stayed in the UK or, together, | 0:00:50 | 0:00:54 | |
made the leap to the other side of the world. | 0:00:54 | 0:00:57 | |
You just don't know what to do when it gets to that stage. | 0:00:57 | 0:00:59 | |
You know, is it worth then going? | 0:00:59 | 0:01:02 | |
Lyn Horn had dreamt of moving to Australia ever since childhood. | 0:01:24 | 0:01:29 | |
After years of discussion, | 0:01:29 | 0:01:31 | |
husband Andy was finally in agreement | 0:01:31 | 0:01:33 | |
the country could be somewhere they could call home. | 0:01:33 | 0:01:37 | |
But with two teenaged children less than convinced, | 0:01:37 | 0:01:40 | |
the family's future was far from certain. | 0:01:40 | 0:01:44 | |
A trial week in Adelaide in 2010 | 0:01:44 | 0:01:47 | |
gave the whole family a taste of what life could be like | 0:01:47 | 0:01:50 | |
and the chance to decide once and for all | 0:01:50 | 0:01:54 | |
whether to stay in the UK or make the move down under. | 0:01:54 | 0:01:59 | |
Back then, glazier Andy and preschool teacher Lyn Horn | 0:01:59 | 0:02:02 | |
lived in Herne Bay in Kent. | 0:02:02 | 0:02:04 | |
Their son Chris was aged 18 and daughter Kirsty, 17. | 0:02:04 | 0:02:10 | |
They had built a good life for themselves, | 0:02:10 | 0:02:12 | |
but it wasn't enough for Lyn and she was desperate for change. | 0:02:12 | 0:02:16 | |
I have wanted to go since I was about nine. | 0:02:16 | 0:02:18 | |
My mum went to Australia on a cricket tour with my dad | 0:02:18 | 0:02:21 | |
and they came back absolutely raving about the place, | 0:02:21 | 0:02:24 | |
and I told Andy that when I met him | 0:02:24 | 0:02:26 | |
and we've tried a couple of times, we've looked into it, | 0:02:26 | 0:02:28 | |
but we've always thought that something wasn't quite right, | 0:02:28 | 0:02:31 | |
timings weren't right. | 0:02:31 | 0:02:32 | |
She talked Andy into giving Australia a try, | 0:02:32 | 0:02:35 | |
but he wasn't convinced. | 0:02:35 | 0:02:37 | |
It's been a long, long time since she first dreamed about going, | 0:02:37 | 0:02:40 | |
but I'm not sure whether she is really committed | 0:02:40 | 0:02:43 | |
to leaving everything she's got to make that big move. | 0:02:43 | 0:02:46 | |
There were two other potential problems. | 0:02:47 | 0:02:50 | |
Chris and Kirsty. | 0:02:50 | 0:02:52 | |
They were old enough to stay at home on their own, | 0:02:52 | 0:02:54 | |
but Lyn wouldn't contemplate splitting the family up. | 0:02:54 | 0:02:57 | |
We want more for the children, for their futures, | 0:03:00 | 0:03:02 | |
which we don't think they're going to get over here. | 0:03:02 | 0:03:05 | |
About to leave school, | 0:03:05 | 0:03:06 | |
the timing couldn't have been worse for Chris. | 0:03:06 | 0:03:08 | |
He needed some serious persuading. | 0:03:08 | 0:03:11 | |
For me, I feel a bit confused as to where I am and what could happen | 0:03:11 | 0:03:15 | |
within the next couple of years. | 0:03:15 | 0:03:16 | |
It's going to have a massive impact on all of us. | 0:03:16 | 0:03:18 | |
For Kirsty, leaving a group of friends and her boyfriend behind | 0:03:18 | 0:03:22 | |
was unthinkable. | 0:03:22 | 0:03:23 | |
If we did make the move, we'd be leaving so much behind. | 0:03:23 | 0:03:27 | |
I love life as it is now. | 0:03:27 | 0:03:29 | |
I'm not sure if it's worth giving up. | 0:03:29 | 0:03:32 | |
But Andy could see the possibilities down under and had grand plans. | 0:03:36 | 0:03:40 | |
If I do get any time off work, then I'm out on the golf course. | 0:03:41 | 0:03:45 | |
Playing somewhere. | 0:03:45 | 0:03:46 | |
I've always wanted to build myself a small crazy golf centre. | 0:03:46 | 0:03:51 | |
Yeah, that would be my ultimate dream. | 0:03:51 | 0:03:54 | |
Even so, he was heading out to Australia with some doubts. | 0:03:54 | 0:03:58 | |
There's still a lot of convincing for me to go as well, I think. | 0:03:59 | 0:04:03 | |
If things don't work out this side, for us to make that initial move, | 0:04:03 | 0:04:08 | |
then no, we don't go, basically. | 0:04:08 | 0:04:12 | |
Still believing it was the right move, for Lyn, | 0:04:13 | 0:04:16 | |
there was only one barrier. | 0:04:16 | 0:04:18 | |
Finances are the only thing | 0:04:19 | 0:04:21 | |
that could actually stop it from occurring, I think. | 0:04:21 | 0:04:24 | |
Selling Andy's business, selling the house, | 0:04:24 | 0:04:26 | |
getting the money we need for the house | 0:04:26 | 0:04:28 | |
to then make the move over, | 0:04:28 | 0:04:30 | |
it's purely financial. | 0:04:30 | 0:04:32 | |
To find out where their future lay, the Horns visited Adelaide. | 0:04:41 | 0:04:46 | |
After a 23-hour journey across two continents, | 0:04:46 | 0:04:49 | |
Kirsty was feeling a little emotional. | 0:04:49 | 0:04:52 | |
We've had tears on the way. But... | 0:04:53 | 0:04:55 | |
-Don't, because I'll start again. -No, you won't. | 0:04:55 | 0:04:59 | |
Lyn and Andy were more positive. | 0:04:59 | 0:05:02 | |
Really looking forward to it. | 0:05:02 | 0:05:04 | |
Yeah, here we come, Adelaide. | 0:05:04 | 0:05:06 | |
Lyn had to persuade the whole family Australia was for them, | 0:05:07 | 0:05:11 | |
if she was to realise her dream. | 0:05:11 | 0:05:13 | |
Their home for the week was in Henley Beach, | 0:05:16 | 0:05:18 | |
and it was the perfect place to explore the area. | 0:05:18 | 0:05:21 | |
They were soon feeling the effects of a long journey. | 0:05:23 | 0:05:27 | |
Being on the flight for 23 hours overall... | 0:05:27 | 0:05:31 | |
..definitely made me realise how far Australia is away from home. | 0:05:33 | 0:05:37 | |
Kirsty had a lot to leave behind, | 0:05:37 | 0:05:39 | |
so Andy and Lyn had a huge challenge ahead to persuade her to move. | 0:05:39 | 0:05:44 | |
We're going to try really hard throughout this week... | 0:05:44 | 0:05:47 | |
..to try and make a point that this is going to be a really good idea | 0:05:48 | 0:05:52 | |
and there's going to be everything for her that she wants here. | 0:05:52 | 0:05:55 | |
Which is why the week is so important for us. | 0:05:55 | 0:05:58 | |
Yeah, not just for us, but for Kirsty as well. | 0:05:58 | 0:06:00 | |
With so much to consider, | 0:06:02 | 0:06:03 | |
the week ahead would be full of difficult decisions | 0:06:03 | 0:06:06 | |
as they found out if Australia really was for them. | 0:06:06 | 0:06:09 | |
Back in the UK, | 0:06:16 | 0:06:17 | |
the Horn family lived in a three-bedroom end terrace property | 0:06:17 | 0:06:20 | |
in Herne Bay. | 0:06:20 | 0:06:21 | |
They love their home, but ideally wanted something a little bigger. | 0:06:21 | 0:06:25 | |
If they got the £175,000 they hoped their house was worth, | 0:06:29 | 0:06:33 | |
they would have a budget of £230,000 to spend in Australia. | 0:06:33 | 0:06:38 | |
We showed them three properties in Adelaide | 0:06:42 | 0:06:45 | |
to give them an idea of what they could afford. | 0:06:45 | 0:06:48 | |
Property one was in Seaton, | 0:06:48 | 0:06:49 | |
a busy suburb 25 minutes from the city centre | 0:06:49 | 0:06:52 | |
and only ten minutes from the beach. | 0:06:52 | 0:06:55 | |
This Tudor style three-bedroom property was under budget | 0:06:57 | 0:07:01 | |
at £210,000. | 0:07:01 | 0:07:04 | |
It needed some updating, | 0:07:04 | 0:07:05 | |
but would the Horns see its potential? | 0:07:05 | 0:07:07 | |
-About the size... -Yeah, about the same size as ours, really. | 0:07:10 | 0:07:13 | |
I like the small room as well. | 0:07:13 | 0:07:14 | |
I've always wanted the kitchen and diner combined. | 0:07:16 | 0:07:20 | |
-Yeah, the open-plan. -Yeah. | 0:07:20 | 0:07:22 | |
-Nice size. -Yeah. It's not bad, is it? | 0:07:24 | 0:07:26 | |
I'd be happy with this view as well. | 0:07:26 | 0:07:29 | |
Outside was an alfresco dining area, very typical of Australian homes. | 0:07:29 | 0:07:33 | |
This is nice, I like this. | 0:07:33 | 0:07:35 | |
You probably get about three days a year in the UK for barbecues. | 0:07:35 | 0:07:39 | |
Here, it's probably three days a week. | 0:07:39 | 0:07:41 | |
I really like the house. It's a good size. | 0:07:41 | 0:07:44 | |
The driveway space is a bit limited, isn't it? | 0:07:44 | 0:07:46 | |
-Yeah. -There'd be a big fight for the last spot each night. | 0:07:46 | 0:07:50 | |
The bijou driveway had ruled out property one. | 0:07:50 | 0:07:53 | |
Could property two win them over? | 0:07:53 | 0:07:55 | |
It was in the suburb of Queenstown, where property prices were generally | 0:07:57 | 0:08:00 | |
lower than the city average. | 0:08:00 | 0:08:02 | |
This huge house offered four good-sized bedrooms | 0:08:03 | 0:08:06 | |
and a massive living space. | 0:08:06 | 0:08:08 | |
All for £233,000. | 0:08:10 | 0:08:13 | |
Estate agent Sean O'Hara was waiting to show them around. | 0:08:13 | 0:08:17 | |
It definitely had the space they wanted, | 0:08:17 | 0:08:19 | |
but would it impress the Horn family? | 0:08:19 | 0:08:21 | |
Wow! | 0:08:21 | 0:08:23 | |
Kirst, I would be in my element. | 0:08:23 | 0:08:25 | |
-I want this room. -Do you? -Yeah. | 0:08:25 | 0:08:26 | |
-You can't have it. -Dad, you can be in the other room. | 0:08:26 | 0:08:29 | |
Wow! | 0:08:31 | 0:08:32 | |
You could fit our house in this space. | 0:08:32 | 0:08:35 | |
And I'm not joking. Seriously. | 0:08:35 | 0:08:37 | |
-So it's big enough for you, then? -Just a little bit. | 0:08:37 | 0:08:40 | |
The property seemed to be going down well until Andy spotted a problem. | 0:08:40 | 0:08:45 | |
It hasn't got any air con at all, has it? | 0:08:45 | 0:08:47 | |
No, it doesn't. There is an air conditioner in the lounge, | 0:08:47 | 0:08:50 | |
but you'd probably still want that upgraded. | 0:08:50 | 0:08:52 | |
Would the final house be more in line with what they were after? | 0:08:52 | 0:08:56 | |
On the market for £255,000, | 0:08:56 | 0:08:59 | |
this four-bedroom, | 0:08:59 | 0:09:01 | |
two-bathroom house was £25,000 over budget. | 0:09:01 | 0:09:04 | |
With a large garden and spectacular views, | 0:09:04 | 0:09:07 | |
could they be persuaded to stretch their finances? | 0:09:07 | 0:09:10 | |
-This is nice. -That's huge. You can see the sea from here. | 0:09:12 | 0:09:16 | |
-Beautiful, isn't it? -It is lovely. | 0:09:16 | 0:09:18 | |
This house had impressed everyone so far. | 0:09:18 | 0:09:21 | |
-It's nice. -Oh, wow! | 0:09:21 | 0:09:23 | |
You wouldn't have to do anything here, would you? | 0:09:23 | 0:09:25 | |
No, you could just move in. | 0:09:25 | 0:09:27 | |
And the garden really hit the spot. | 0:09:27 | 0:09:29 | |
Stunning, isn't it? There's not much maintenance really. | 0:09:29 | 0:09:32 | |
-Not at all. -Cutting the grass and watering the plants. | 0:09:32 | 0:09:35 | |
There was just the master bedroom to seal the deal. | 0:09:35 | 0:09:39 | |
Oh, my Lord! | 0:09:39 | 0:09:40 | |
-Look at this. -Oh, wow. | 0:09:42 | 0:09:45 | |
-Now this... -..is the bee's knees. | 0:09:45 | 0:09:49 | |
Oh, wow. Look at those views. | 0:09:49 | 0:09:52 | |
The views...all the way round, by the looks of it. | 0:09:52 | 0:09:54 | |
Who wouldn't want to live in this house? | 0:09:54 | 0:09:57 | |
This is just mad. | 0:09:57 | 0:09:58 | |
I would do anything to have this house. | 0:09:58 | 0:10:01 | |
This is absolutely amazing. | 0:10:01 | 0:10:03 | |
Andy had fallen in love with the place, | 0:10:04 | 0:10:06 | |
but would need a well-paid job to be able to afford it. | 0:10:06 | 0:10:10 | |
The Horn family liked property one, but lack of parking was a problem. | 0:10:12 | 0:10:16 | |
Property two had the floor space, | 0:10:16 | 0:10:18 | |
but they couldn't see themselves living there. | 0:10:18 | 0:10:21 | |
While over budget, property three was the dream house. | 0:10:23 | 0:10:27 | |
But giving up their home in Herne Bay wouldn't be easy. | 0:10:28 | 0:10:31 | |
Had they seen enough in Australia to make it worthwhile? | 0:10:31 | 0:10:36 | |
It was time to vote on property. | 0:10:36 | 0:10:37 | |
Based on the houses we've seen today, | 0:10:40 | 0:10:42 | |
our vote is going to be... | 0:10:42 | 0:10:43 | |
-Australia. -Australia. -Australia. | 0:10:54 | 0:10:57 | |
-Can't compare, really, can you? -No. -No. | 0:10:57 | 0:10:59 | |
We're at that vital stage now, | 0:10:59 | 0:11:01 | |
we really need to know our budget, what we can afford. | 0:11:01 | 0:11:04 | |
Yeah, the dream is to sell the house and the business, | 0:11:04 | 0:11:07 | |
make a bit of profit on both of them | 0:11:07 | 0:11:10 | |
and then have that as a set-up, really, | 0:11:10 | 0:11:13 | |
for coming out here and starting a new life. | 0:11:13 | 0:11:15 | |
Back in the UK, Lyn was a preschool supervisor. | 0:11:21 | 0:11:25 | |
I do actually love my job. | 0:11:25 | 0:11:27 | |
I don't get up in the morning and think, | 0:11:27 | 0:11:28 | |
"I don't want to go to work." | 0:11:28 | 0:11:29 | |
She had been working with young children for 24 years. | 0:11:31 | 0:11:35 | |
Lyn would have to work more hours in Australia, | 0:11:35 | 0:11:37 | |
but hoped that would mean a decent hike on her annual £14,000 earnings. | 0:11:37 | 0:11:42 | |
Lyn visited a preschool in the heart of Adelaide | 0:11:45 | 0:11:48 | |
to find out more about working in Australia. | 0:11:48 | 0:11:51 | |
I'm a little bit nervous at the minute and a bit excited. | 0:11:52 | 0:11:55 | |
I really just want to get an overall view of how the systems work. | 0:11:55 | 0:11:59 | |
An idea of wages and hours would be good. | 0:11:59 | 0:12:02 | |
She met with preschool director Melissa Ray for a rapid introduction | 0:12:02 | 0:12:06 | |
into teaching down under. | 0:12:06 | 0:12:08 | |
Do you want to come through and I'll show you the classroom? | 0:12:08 | 0:12:12 | |
It was straight in at the deep end for Lyn, | 0:12:12 | 0:12:14 | |
but there was a great reception waiting for her. | 0:12:14 | 0:12:17 | |
-ALL: -Hi, Lyn. -Hello. | 0:12:17 | 0:12:20 | |
With creative learning a key philosophy at this school, | 0:12:20 | 0:12:23 | |
she seemed to have fitted in perfectly. | 0:12:23 | 0:12:25 | |
Have they all gone? You did good pinning. | 0:12:25 | 0:12:28 | |
As Lyn settled into a day at work, | 0:12:28 | 0:12:31 | |
Andy was determined to find out | 0:12:31 | 0:12:32 | |
if his dream of owning a mini golf course | 0:12:32 | 0:12:35 | |
could be viable in Australia. | 0:12:35 | 0:12:37 | |
He met course owner Brian to discuss the pros and cons of the business | 0:12:39 | 0:12:43 | |
over a quick game. | 0:12:43 | 0:12:44 | |
There you go. Look at that. Oh, excuse me! | 0:12:45 | 0:12:50 | |
Andy was planning to sell his glazing business back in the UK | 0:12:50 | 0:12:53 | |
to help fund the set-up for a mini golf course like Brian's, | 0:12:53 | 0:12:56 | |
but there were some costs he hadn't even thought of. | 0:12:56 | 0:13:00 | |
The maintenance involved in mini golf | 0:13:00 | 0:13:02 | |
is obviously keeping the greens nice and clean. | 0:13:02 | 0:13:07 | |
Probably to carpet, something like this | 0:13:07 | 0:13:09 | |
is going to cost you probably 30 or 40,000, it's not cheap. | 0:13:09 | 0:13:12 | |
But before he even considered that, | 0:13:12 | 0:13:14 | |
Andy would need to find a plot of land on which to build his business. | 0:13:14 | 0:13:18 | |
If you're starting from scratch, you've obviously got to buy land | 0:13:19 | 0:13:22 | |
and it's got to be in the right place, too. | 0:13:22 | 0:13:24 | |
It would properly make 85% of your income | 0:13:24 | 0:13:29 | |
during school holidays. | 0:13:29 | 0:13:30 | |
The only day we close here is Christmas Day. | 0:13:30 | 0:13:33 | |
The more he heard, the more Andy realised | 0:13:33 | 0:13:35 | |
his plans were out of reach. | 0:13:35 | 0:13:37 | |
Well, my dream for this golf, mini golf, | 0:13:37 | 0:13:42 | |
I think, is going to stay a dream, to be quite honest with you. | 0:13:42 | 0:13:45 | |
It looks like he would have to find an alternative income, | 0:13:45 | 0:13:48 | |
so it was even more important Lyn was happy teaching in Australia. | 0:13:48 | 0:13:52 | |
Back at the school, she was curious to find out if she could earn | 0:13:52 | 0:13:55 | |
enough money to stretch their property budget. | 0:13:55 | 0:13:59 | |
If she couldn't, the whole move could be off. | 0:13:59 | 0:14:02 | |
What would be the sort of start pay? | 0:14:02 | 0:14:04 | |
If you were to work at our centre, it's about 880 a week, | 0:14:04 | 0:14:07 | |
so it's about 46,000 a year to come and work here as a team leader. | 0:14:07 | 0:14:11 | |
That was about £27,000 a year, | 0:14:11 | 0:14:14 | |
almost double what Lyn was earning back in the UK. | 0:14:14 | 0:14:17 | |
-Thank you very much. -It's been lovely to meet you. | 0:14:17 | 0:14:20 | |
-Thank you. -All right. | 0:14:20 | 0:14:21 | |
The wages would be better, but she'd have to work longer hours. | 0:14:24 | 0:14:27 | |
Had it been enough to convince her to leave behind the school she loved | 0:14:28 | 0:14:32 | |
in the UK? | 0:14:32 | 0:14:33 | |
Based on what I've experienced today at the preschool, | 0:14:34 | 0:14:37 | |
my vote for jobs would be... | 0:14:37 | 0:14:39 | |
..Australia. | 0:14:42 | 0:14:43 | |
I could really work in a place like that. | 0:14:46 | 0:14:47 | |
The setting was lovely, the people were nice, | 0:14:47 | 0:14:50 | |
that's sort of the setting that I would really fit into, I think. | 0:14:50 | 0:14:55 | |
Lyn had been impressed with work, | 0:14:55 | 0:14:57 | |
but if Andy was unable to subsidise the income, | 0:14:57 | 0:15:00 | |
it would impact on their finances. | 0:15:00 | 0:15:02 | |
For the Horn family to achieve their dream home in Australia, | 0:15:07 | 0:15:11 | |
they needed not only to secure good jobs, | 0:15:11 | 0:15:13 | |
but also a decent price for their house in the UK. | 0:15:13 | 0:15:17 | |
So we sent two estate agents round to give them valuations. | 0:15:17 | 0:15:21 | |
-Look at that snow on the ground. -Here's our house! | 0:15:21 | 0:15:23 | |
Not a large kitchen, but adequate. | 0:15:25 | 0:15:27 | |
Hob, oven, could do with a bit of a clean. | 0:15:27 | 0:15:30 | |
Quite a good size. | 0:15:32 | 0:15:33 | |
Now, conservatory. | 0:15:36 | 0:15:38 | |
The only problem being, maybe, it's not double-glazed. | 0:15:38 | 0:15:42 | |
It IS double-glazed. | 0:15:42 | 0:15:43 | |
It was an interesting start. Was the second opinion any better? | 0:15:43 | 0:15:48 | |
Very usable space for a modern family. | 0:15:48 | 0:15:52 | |
Nice, usable conservatory. | 0:15:52 | 0:15:54 | |
Nice to see timber construction for a change. | 0:15:54 | 0:15:56 | |
Not a large bathroom. | 0:15:56 | 0:15:58 | |
And the master bedroom, yeah, it's a nice room. | 0:15:58 | 0:16:02 | |
The family had believed it was worth £175,000. | 0:16:02 | 0:16:06 | |
Ideal family house, modern end terrace, recently built. | 0:16:06 | 0:16:09 | |
If I was to put this property on the market today, | 0:16:09 | 0:16:11 | |
I would value it around about 160,000. | 0:16:11 | 0:16:14 | |
If the family were looking for a quick sale, | 0:16:14 | 0:16:16 | |
I would recommend they put it on the market at, say, 154,950. | 0:16:16 | 0:16:20 | |
In the current market, I would value this house at £169,000. | 0:16:21 | 0:16:25 | |
If we wanted | 0:16:25 | 0:16:26 | |
to get a queue at the door, | 0:16:26 | 0:16:29 | |
if it was going to go on the market | 0:16:29 | 0:16:31 | |
at between 160 and £165,000, | 0:16:31 | 0:16:34 | |
then I feel it would go very quickly. | 0:16:34 | 0:16:36 | |
We were hoping to come to Australia with a budget, | 0:16:36 | 0:16:40 | |
and we've just watched that crumble, basically. | 0:16:40 | 0:16:42 | |
But the house was only part of the package. | 0:16:42 | 0:16:45 | |
They had to make a comparison between their UK finances | 0:16:45 | 0:16:48 | |
and what they could afford in Australia. | 0:16:48 | 0:16:51 | |
If they were going to struggle to have the life they wanted, | 0:16:51 | 0:16:54 | |
Lyn's dream could be over. | 0:16:54 | 0:16:57 | |
-Right, should we start with salary, then? -Yeah. | 0:16:57 | 0:17:00 | |
That's your wage. | 0:17:00 | 0:17:01 | |
Yeah. Before tax. | 0:17:01 | 0:17:03 | |
So we bring home 42.4. | 0:17:03 | 0:17:06 | |
If I worked 40 hours, I'd be bringing home 26, | 0:17:06 | 0:17:11 | |
nearly 26.5, and you'd be bringing home 27. | 0:17:11 | 0:17:16 | |
-That's a 4,000 drop. -Yeah. | 0:17:16 | 0:17:18 | |
-But look, they clobber you for tax. -So, 6,000 a year. | 0:17:18 | 0:17:21 | |
So, we'd be £500 a month worse off. | 0:17:21 | 0:17:24 | |
Mortgage, we pay 450. | 0:17:24 | 0:17:27 | |
Repayments...would be 969. | 0:17:27 | 0:17:31 | |
We're doing it on property three, then? | 0:17:31 | 0:17:33 | |
And groceries. | 0:17:33 | 0:17:35 | |
-That's a bit small, look. -A bit small. | 0:17:35 | 0:17:37 | |
-There we go. -That's perfect. | 0:17:37 | 0:17:39 | |
Chicken's expensive, look. | 0:17:39 | 0:17:40 | |
5.72 to 6.79. | 0:17:40 | 0:17:43 | |
-That's quite a jump. -It's about a pound. -Yeah. | 0:17:43 | 0:17:46 | |
Let's add up these monthly figures. | 0:17:46 | 0:17:48 | |
UK is 1,855. | 0:17:49 | 0:17:52 | |
And Australia is 2,605. | 0:17:52 | 0:17:55 | |
That's 750 higher in Australia. | 0:17:56 | 0:18:01 | |
-It almost looks like we've got to work... -Harder to... | 0:18:01 | 0:18:05 | |
-To pay for that. -It would be tight, though. | 0:18:05 | 0:18:08 | |
-Very tight. -Hm. | 0:18:08 | 0:18:09 | |
Discovering they'd be £750 a month worse off in Australia | 0:18:09 | 0:18:13 | |
was disappointing. | 0:18:13 | 0:18:15 | |
The finances have got to start going | 0:18:15 | 0:18:18 | |
the correct way now...to keep our dream alive. | 0:18:18 | 0:18:22 | |
If they keep dipping and dipping, then our dream is fading with it. | 0:18:22 | 0:18:27 | |
SHE SOBS | 0:18:27 | 0:18:29 | |
Just realising that it might not ever happen. | 0:18:31 | 0:18:33 | |
Lyn's worst nightmare had come true. | 0:18:36 | 0:18:39 | |
So would they choose finances at home or away? | 0:18:39 | 0:18:41 | |
That was a really hard exercise going through them figures. | 0:18:43 | 0:18:46 | |
But our decision on cost of living is going to be... | 0:18:48 | 0:18:51 | |
..UK. | 0:18:53 | 0:18:54 | |
Australia. | 0:18:55 | 0:18:56 | |
I thought you'd go the over way. | 0:18:58 | 0:19:01 | |
You can think what you want to do. | 0:19:01 | 0:19:03 | |
I think the cost of living is definitely better in the UK. | 0:19:03 | 0:19:07 | |
The cost of living is better in the UK, | 0:19:07 | 0:19:09 | |
but we looked at the most dearest house of the three. | 0:19:09 | 0:19:13 | |
-I think, definitely, the dream is still on. -Yeah. | 0:19:13 | 0:19:16 | |
And we're going to have to delve a little bit deeper | 0:19:16 | 0:19:18 | |
to find that dream. | 0:19:18 | 0:19:19 | |
I'm not backing down. The dream is still on for me. | 0:19:19 | 0:19:22 | |
It's still on for me, even though I went that way. | 0:19:22 | 0:19:25 | |
With so much to leave behind, | 0:19:31 | 0:19:33 | |
socialising and making new friends was essential for the Horn family, | 0:19:33 | 0:19:38 | |
so we arranged for them to make up with Paul Durgin, | 0:19:38 | 0:19:40 | |
his wife, Lisa, and teenage children, | 0:19:40 | 0:19:43 | |
Brittany and Henry, at a park in Adelaide. | 0:19:43 | 0:19:46 | |
A little bit hot, is it? | 0:19:46 | 0:19:48 | |
While the parents got to know each other better, | 0:19:48 | 0:19:50 | |
the youngsters all headed off to explore the park. | 0:19:50 | 0:19:53 | |
Chris and Kirsty were both worried they couldn't cope without | 0:19:53 | 0:19:56 | |
their friends in the UK, | 0:19:56 | 0:19:57 | |
so it was crucial they found out if they would fit in here. | 0:19:57 | 0:20:01 | |
They used a leisurely paddle as a chance to get some answers | 0:20:01 | 0:20:04 | |
from their new pals. | 0:20:04 | 0:20:06 | |
I think we need to go that way. | 0:20:06 | 0:20:07 | |
Kirsty had some serious issues to discuss with Brittany. | 0:20:09 | 0:20:13 | |
-Have you got a boyfriend? -No. | 0:20:13 | 0:20:15 | |
-Oh. -I hear you do, though. -Yeah. Back in England. | 0:20:15 | 0:20:18 | |
-What's his name? -Callum. | 0:20:18 | 0:20:19 | |
-Callum? -Yeah. -It's a nice name. | 0:20:19 | 0:20:21 | |
-Bless him. -THEY LAUGH | 0:20:21 | 0:20:22 | |
Yeah, tears at the airport. | 0:20:22 | 0:20:24 | |
Oh, really? | 0:20:24 | 0:20:25 | |
The boys had other priorities. | 0:20:25 | 0:20:27 | |
And then most people play footy, for school and club footy. | 0:20:29 | 0:20:32 | |
And then some other people play for league sides. | 0:20:32 | 0:20:34 | |
-Right. -So, a lot of people play three lots of footy | 0:20:34 | 0:20:38 | |
in, like, one week. | 0:20:38 | 0:20:39 | |
After all that exercise, | 0:20:42 | 0:20:44 | |
it was time to see if the local tucker would go down a treat. | 0:20:44 | 0:20:48 | |
What have you got? | 0:20:48 | 0:20:50 | |
We have goat's cheese, we have sheep's cheese, we have... | 0:20:50 | 0:20:53 | |
Kangaroo cheese? | 0:20:53 | 0:20:54 | |
If you can work out a way to milk a kangaroo, | 0:20:54 | 0:20:57 | |
you're doing better than us. | 0:20:57 | 0:20:59 | |
The family had had a fantastic time, | 0:21:01 | 0:21:03 | |
but was their day sampling lifestyle down under enough to secure | 0:21:03 | 0:21:07 | |
a unanimous vote for Australia? | 0:21:07 | 0:21:09 | |
Our vote is going to be... | 0:21:11 | 0:21:12 | |
-Halfway. -Halfway. | 0:21:18 | 0:21:21 | |
Australia. | 0:21:21 | 0:21:22 | |
Australia. | 0:21:23 | 0:21:24 | |
A great family today. | 0:21:26 | 0:21:28 | |
They're really sociable out here. | 0:21:28 | 0:21:30 | |
And made us feel like part of a group already, in one day. | 0:21:30 | 0:21:34 | |
So, really looking forward to meeting lots more people like that | 0:21:34 | 0:21:37 | |
if we ever do get the move over here. | 0:21:37 | 0:21:39 | |
While they had enjoyed their day out, | 0:21:39 | 0:21:41 | |
the family were no closer to an agreement. | 0:21:41 | 0:21:44 | |
Yes. Here we go. | 0:21:48 | 0:21:49 | |
Messages from friends and family back home would make things | 0:21:49 | 0:21:53 | |
even harder for the Horns. | 0:21:53 | 0:21:55 | |
Hi, Lyn, Andy, Chris and Kirsty. | 0:21:55 | 0:21:58 | |
Hello, Chris and Kirsty, Lyn and family. | 0:21:58 | 0:22:01 | |
Lyn's a very responsible person, and as far as the family are | 0:22:01 | 0:22:04 | |
concerned, well, I couldn't fault | 0:22:04 | 0:22:07 | |
any of her way of bringing up, bringing the children. | 0:22:07 | 0:22:10 | |
I've been very close to her all my life. | 0:22:10 | 0:22:12 | |
When she met Andy, I felt that I was losing the closest thing I'd got, | 0:22:12 | 0:22:19 | |
but realised that, in actual fact, | 0:22:19 | 0:22:21 | |
I had actually gained a brother, not lost a sister. | 0:22:21 | 0:22:24 | |
He is good company, good friend, good fun to be with. | 0:22:24 | 0:22:27 | |
You just enjoy his company. No-one's got a bad word for him. | 0:22:27 | 0:22:30 | |
I mean, he's one of the legends, | 0:22:30 | 0:22:31 | |
one of the kingpins of the club, ex-captain. | 0:22:31 | 0:22:35 | |
Chris is my closest and best friend because he's always there | 0:22:35 | 0:22:39 | |
and he's always kind, and he'll always go out of his way | 0:22:39 | 0:22:42 | |
more than my other friends will for me. | 0:22:42 | 0:22:44 | |
Kirsty's just, she's really easy to like, | 0:22:44 | 0:22:47 | |
a really likeable person. | 0:22:47 | 0:22:50 | |
Funny, loves to shop. | 0:22:50 | 0:22:51 | |
She's just constantly happy, talking to her friends. | 0:22:51 | 0:22:54 | |
Bubbly person, always knows when to have a laugh. | 0:22:56 | 0:22:59 | |
And cheers me up whenever I'm a bit unhappy. | 0:22:59 | 0:23:03 | |
I want her to enjoy herself, but I don't want her to, like, | 0:23:03 | 0:23:05 | |
love it that much that she stays over there. | 0:23:05 | 0:23:07 | |
Yeah, we don't want her to leave. | 0:23:07 | 0:23:09 | |
Kirsty belongs here with us, so... | 0:23:09 | 0:23:11 | |
Naturally, I'd like to hope | 0:23:11 | 0:23:13 | |
that they didn't make that decision to go permanently. | 0:23:13 | 0:23:18 | |
I'd like to think that they would stay here. | 0:23:18 | 0:23:20 | |
I'm really going to miss you if you go to Oz. | 0:23:22 | 0:23:25 | |
Even though I'm going to miss you, I think it's a brave decision, | 0:23:28 | 0:23:32 | |
and I'm going to really miss you. | 0:23:32 | 0:23:34 | |
Hearing from loved ones made the pain of leaving even more real. | 0:23:41 | 0:23:45 | |
It does make it hard to think about actually leaving Mum and Sue. | 0:23:45 | 0:23:49 | |
Like, if we miss our friends after a week, | 0:23:50 | 0:23:53 | |
imagine after, like, a month. | 0:23:53 | 0:23:55 | |
It's going to be so hard. | 0:23:55 | 0:23:56 | |
It hits you in the heart, doesn't it? | 0:23:56 | 0:23:58 | |
Shows you how close they really are. | 0:23:58 | 0:24:00 | |
And it would be the hardest decision, I think, | 0:24:00 | 0:24:03 | |
to leave behind. | 0:24:03 | 0:24:05 | |
But splitting up the family wasn't an option. | 0:24:05 | 0:24:08 | |
I couldn't stay in Australia... | 0:24:08 | 0:24:11 | |
Stay in England and have these three out in Australia. | 0:24:11 | 0:24:17 | |
-And vice versa. -I couldn't do it. | 0:24:17 | 0:24:19 | |
The week had been emotionally draining for the whole family, | 0:24:25 | 0:24:29 | |
but for Chris, it was the extreme heat that worried him the most. | 0:24:29 | 0:24:33 | |
I've had really bad headaches, stomach pains. | 0:24:33 | 0:24:37 | |
It will affect my decision, | 0:24:37 | 0:24:40 | |
because I'd have to deal with it all the time, obviously, | 0:24:40 | 0:24:45 | |
because it's so hot. | 0:24:45 | 0:24:46 | |
For Kirsty, the emotional pain was just as strong. | 0:24:46 | 0:24:49 | |
I think I'm the one that would stop this move from happening. | 0:24:49 | 0:24:53 | |
But the thing is, like, with Callum, I'm not only losing a boyfriend, | 0:24:53 | 0:24:57 | |
but I'm losing a friend. | 0:24:57 | 0:24:58 | |
Would the children stop Lyn fulfilling her dream? | 0:25:02 | 0:25:05 | |
Potentially, either of them could say "no", to be fair. | 0:25:05 | 0:25:09 | |
To lose one of them, one of them to say, | 0:25:09 | 0:25:12 | |
"I want to stay in the UK," would break my heart, I think. | 0:25:12 | 0:25:16 | |
We may have to face up to that, mightn't we? | 0:25:16 | 0:25:18 | |
It might be a reality. That could happen, yeah. | 0:25:18 | 0:25:20 | |
Yeah, it's just, you know, | 0:25:20 | 0:25:21 | |
-we'll just have to take it a step at a time. -Yeah. | 0:25:21 | 0:25:24 | |
When it came to the final decision, which way did they vote? | 0:25:24 | 0:25:28 | |
This has been my dream, but now, it's time for the family to vote, | 0:25:28 | 0:25:31 | |
and based on what we've experienced in Australia this week, | 0:25:31 | 0:25:33 | |
our vote is going to be... | 0:25:33 | 0:25:35 | |
Australia. | 0:25:40 | 0:25:42 | |
Australia. | 0:25:42 | 0:25:43 | |
Australia. | 0:25:43 | 0:25:44 | |
Halfway. | 0:25:48 | 0:25:49 | |
-I'm surprised at you, Christopher. -Yeah. | 0:25:51 | 0:25:53 | |
I thought it was going to be a half, or... | 0:25:53 | 0:25:55 | |
You've been ill virtually since you've been here. | 0:25:55 | 0:25:57 | |
And you've looked over that. Well done. Hats off to you. | 0:25:57 | 0:26:00 | |
That's a bit better than what I expected. | 0:26:00 | 0:26:02 | |
-I thought... -You were going to go UK. | 0:26:02 | 0:26:04 | |
Thank you. That's peace of mind for us. | 0:26:04 | 0:26:07 | |
Thumbs up to Australia, and we'll work on that one. | 0:26:07 | 0:26:10 | |
Yeah. | 0:26:10 | 0:26:12 | |
-You can try. -OK. | 0:26:12 | 0:26:13 | |
When we caught up with the Horns in 2011, | 0:26:23 | 0:26:26 | |
the family were still living in the UK, | 0:26:26 | 0:26:29 | |
but after their experience down under, | 0:26:29 | 0:26:32 | |
Lyn was more convinced than ever Australia was right for them. | 0:26:32 | 0:26:35 | |
The trip to Australia was amazing. | 0:26:35 | 0:26:38 | |
It just showed us the life we could have. | 0:26:38 | 0:26:40 | |
Just the lifestyle in general, wasn't it? | 0:26:40 | 0:26:42 | |
Just convinced us that that's definitely what we want to do. | 0:26:42 | 0:26:45 | |
Then, just as they were getting ready to make the move, | 0:26:45 | 0:26:48 | |
their plans were brought to a standstill. | 0:26:48 | 0:26:50 | |
We applied when the recession kicked in in the UK. | 0:26:50 | 0:26:54 | |
We just watched our finances crumble. | 0:26:54 | 0:26:57 | |
So the budget we wanted to go with, we've just seen disappear. | 0:26:57 | 0:27:02 | |
We've sort of been on hold for a few months, | 0:27:02 | 0:27:05 | |
purely because of the financial situation. | 0:27:05 | 0:27:08 | |
But better news was just around the corner. | 0:27:08 | 0:27:11 | |
Just out of the blue, | 0:27:11 | 0:27:12 | |
someone's offered to buy my business, | 0:27:12 | 0:27:14 | |
which really has given us the golden ticket | 0:27:14 | 0:27:16 | |
to go to Australia. | 0:27:16 | 0:27:17 | |
We then approached Christopher and Kirsty, | 0:27:17 | 0:27:20 | |
and that's when it all kicked off with them, | 0:27:20 | 0:27:22 | |
and actually finding out their true decisions | 0:27:22 | 0:27:25 | |
of whether they wanted to go or not. | 0:27:25 | 0:27:27 | |
Selling the business opened the door to emigrating all over again, | 0:27:27 | 0:27:31 | |
and despite her original doubts, | 0:27:31 | 0:27:33 | |
changes in daughter Kirsty's life made moving more realistic. | 0:27:33 | 0:27:37 | |
I voted undecided because of the boyfriend I was with, | 0:27:39 | 0:27:42 | |
but as soon as I split up with my boyfriend, | 0:27:42 | 0:27:45 | |
I was ready to go to Australia straightaway. | 0:27:45 | 0:27:48 | |
Since then, it's changed, and it was... | 0:27:48 | 0:27:50 | |
Well, it was my brother that was indecisive, | 0:27:50 | 0:27:53 | |
because he got a girlfriend... | 0:27:53 | 0:27:55 | |
and it's just flipped. | 0:27:55 | 0:27:57 | |
As one relationship ended, | 0:27:57 | 0:27:59 | |
another had left the Horns in exactly the same position | 0:27:59 | 0:28:02 | |
they faced in Australia. | 0:28:02 | 0:28:05 | |
We started seeing each other just before we went to Adelaide. | 0:28:05 | 0:28:08 | |
I was a bit worried about Mum and Dad | 0:28:08 | 0:28:11 | |
giving up their lives here, and then leaving Olivia, | 0:28:11 | 0:28:14 | |
I didn't want to do that. | 0:28:14 | 0:28:16 | |
The reluctance from Chris had thrown a spanner in the works. | 0:28:16 | 0:28:19 | |
We all had a long chat, | 0:28:23 | 0:28:25 | |
just talked about everything, really, to do with the whole move. | 0:28:25 | 0:28:29 | |
Just... Yeah, it was a long discussion. | 0:28:29 | 0:28:32 | |
Chris just said he didn't want to go, | 0:28:32 | 0:28:34 | |
and that was hard for all of us, | 0:28:34 | 0:28:36 | |
because it's either all of us going out there or none of us. | 0:28:36 | 0:28:39 | |
If he didn't want to come with us, we just basically wouldn't go. | 0:28:39 | 0:28:43 | |
It looked as if they were right back at square one, but as it turned out, | 0:28:46 | 0:28:50 | |
facing their true feelings was exactly what the family needed. | 0:28:50 | 0:28:54 | |
We came up with the solution of possibly asking Olivia | 0:28:54 | 0:28:58 | |
and seeing if she wanted to come out with us, | 0:28:58 | 0:29:01 | |
and that seemed to sort of sway him the other way, | 0:29:01 | 0:29:04 | |
so then he made the decision that he wanted to come. | 0:29:04 | 0:29:07 | |
I mean, it's a good quality of life out there. | 0:29:07 | 0:29:10 | |
It's something that you can only experience once, | 0:29:10 | 0:29:13 | |
and I'd like to give it a go. | 0:29:13 | 0:29:15 | |
After a total turnaround, the entire family were finally up for moving. | 0:29:17 | 0:29:22 | |
All that was holding them back was affording it. | 0:29:22 | 0:29:25 | |
It is still about the finance. | 0:29:26 | 0:29:28 | |
Obviously, if the business sells and then the house sells, we can go. | 0:29:28 | 0:29:32 | |
The crux of the matter was Andy selling his business. | 0:29:32 | 0:29:34 | |
18 months ago, the work was very slack and the price of the business | 0:29:34 | 0:29:38 | |
was dipping and dipping. | 0:29:38 | 0:29:39 | |
But now it's picking up again, I've got this potential buyer. | 0:29:39 | 0:29:43 | |
So if it all goes well, we're obviously not going | 0:29:43 | 0:29:46 | |
to get the money we want for the business, | 0:29:46 | 0:29:48 | |
but it is still an offer | 0:29:48 | 0:29:50 | |
and it is money that could get us to Australia. | 0:29:50 | 0:29:53 | |
The potential to sell the business had given the family fresh hope, | 0:29:53 | 0:29:57 | |
but Andy was still concerned. | 0:29:57 | 0:29:59 | |
I can't get excited yet. | 0:29:59 | 0:30:00 | |
You've got to be reserved with your emotions, I think. | 0:30:00 | 0:30:04 | |
Until you've actually seen the signatures, you've got the finances there | 0:30:04 | 0:30:08 | |
and you've got the flights all booked, | 0:30:08 | 0:30:11 | |
then I'll start getting excited. | 0:30:11 | 0:30:14 | |
With the final piece of the puzzle almost in place, | 0:30:14 | 0:30:17 | |
Lynn's dreams seem to be closer than ever. | 0:30:17 | 0:30:19 | |
-We've been waiting for it for about two or three years now. -It's very exciting. | 0:30:20 | 0:30:24 | |
It is very, very exciting. | 0:30:24 | 0:30:27 | |
But scary at the same time. | 0:30:27 | 0:30:28 | |
People think it is really easy, that especially once you've experienced the life | 0:30:28 | 0:30:32 | |
that there's no comparison, but there is still a lot of ties that are | 0:30:32 | 0:30:36 | |
pulling us this way even though we've made the decision that we want to go. | 0:30:36 | 0:30:41 | |
Leaving family and friends, I think, definitely the hardest part. | 0:30:41 | 0:30:44 | |
Especially for Olivia, cos she's going to be joining my family and | 0:30:44 | 0:30:49 | |
leaving her whole family really. | 0:30:49 | 0:30:51 | |
Yeah, it is a huge step, just leaving everything I've known behind. | 0:30:51 | 0:30:55 | |
But you have to take risks and it is a risk that I'm willing to take, really. | 0:30:56 | 0:31:01 | |
Australia can provide a great place for my kids to grow up | 0:31:01 | 0:31:06 | |
and their kids to grow up, whereas here it's... | 0:31:06 | 0:31:09 | |
Just nothing here for us. | 0:31:09 | 0:31:11 | |
Even though we've got a lot to leave behind this side... | 0:31:11 | 0:31:14 | |
..we know we've got a lot more to get the other side of the world. | 0:31:15 | 0:31:19 | |
In life you've got to grab what you can | 0:31:20 | 0:31:23 | |
and if that dream's there for us, then go for it. | 0:31:23 | 0:31:25 | |
With everyone finally on the same page, | 0:31:34 | 0:31:37 | |
a move to Australia seemed closer than ever for the family but there was | 0:31:37 | 0:31:41 | |
still some work to be done to secure the dream life they wanted. | 0:31:41 | 0:31:46 | |
Now five years on it's time to find out what happened next. | 0:31:46 | 0:31:51 | |
It is May 2016 and the Horns are living in... | 0:31:52 | 0:31:56 | |
Adelaide, Australia. | 0:31:56 | 0:31:57 | |
Having emigrated in 2012, | 0:31:58 | 0:32:01 | |
the family bought and moved into this house in the coastal suburb of | 0:32:01 | 0:32:04 | |
Seaford Rise, 20 miles south of central Adelaide. | 0:32:04 | 0:32:08 | |
We use this in the evenings to just relax and watch a bit of telly, | 0:32:09 | 0:32:13 | |
but we do enjoy watching the view out the window, don't we? | 0:32:13 | 0:32:16 | |
Yeah, it's a stunning view. | 0:32:16 | 0:32:17 | |
Watching the sunsets in the evening as well is magic. | 0:32:17 | 0:32:20 | |
How many photographs have we taken? | 0:32:20 | 0:32:23 | |
Just a few of the sunset! | 0:32:23 | 0:32:25 | |
They're finally where they want to be, | 0:32:25 | 0:32:27 | |
but they had to overcome some major emotional and financial | 0:32:27 | 0:32:31 | |
stumbling blocks to get here. | 0:32:31 | 0:32:33 | |
With the move hinging on the sale of Andy's glazing business, he realised | 0:32:33 | 0:32:36 | |
to get things going he'd have to drastically reduce the price. | 0:32:36 | 0:32:40 | |
Who wants to buy a business in the middle of a recession? | 0:32:41 | 0:32:44 | |
So we knocked the price down and then down again, then down again | 0:32:44 | 0:32:48 | |
and I think we ended up with... | 0:32:48 | 0:32:50 | |
Not a lot. | 0:32:50 | 0:32:52 | |
Fortunately, it was still enough to fund the move and the family set | 0:32:54 | 0:32:58 | |
about planning their return down under. | 0:32:58 | 0:33:01 | |
But things took an unexpected twist when Lynne received devastating news. | 0:33:01 | 0:33:05 | |
I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer and had to have... | 0:33:07 | 0:33:10 | |
They wouldn't let me fly unless I'd had an operation. | 0:33:10 | 0:33:13 | |
My first thought was, "But I'm flying to Australia!" | 0:33:14 | 0:33:18 | |
And the consultant said, "When are you coming back?" And I said, "I'm not, we're emigrating." | 0:33:18 | 0:33:21 | |
And that's when he said, "You're not flying, Lynn, until we've done it." | 0:33:21 | 0:33:24 | |
'When you're going through all the emotions of moving to Australia,' | 0:33:25 | 0:33:30 | |
just literally weeks before you're due to come here you get told that you've got, | 0:33:30 | 0:33:35 | |
you know, tumours the size of tennis balls... | 0:33:35 | 0:33:38 | |
That just set all four of us upside down. | 0:33:38 | 0:33:41 | |
It was a harrowing time for the whole family and, unsurprisingly, | 0:33:42 | 0:33:47 | |
they found themselves questioning the move. | 0:33:47 | 0:33:49 | |
We nearly got to the point where we was just going to cancel everything and just stay put. | 0:33:50 | 0:33:55 | |
And you just don't know what to do when it gets to that stage. | 0:33:56 | 0:33:59 | |
You know, is it worth then going? | 0:33:59 | 0:34:02 | |
We only had a year to do it, so it was either go now or not go | 0:34:02 | 0:34:05 | |
and we just decided to go for it, didn't we? | 0:34:05 | 0:34:07 | |
Yeah. If we didn't go then, then we wouldn't be here. | 0:34:07 | 0:34:10 | |
Determined to keep their Australian dream alive, | 0:34:11 | 0:34:14 | |
the couple postponed their flight to give Lynne time to recover, and | 0:34:14 | 0:34:18 | |
fortunately, it wasn't long before she had the green light she needed. | 0:34:18 | 0:34:23 | |
I got the news that everything was OK, | 0:34:23 | 0:34:25 | |
it came back that it was all borderline, which is good, | 0:34:25 | 0:34:28 | |
the week after the house had been packed up. | 0:34:28 | 0:34:30 | |
In the back of my mind, we were going to get here no matter what, whatever happened. | 0:34:33 | 0:34:37 | |
-There was just a few hurdles that we had to go over to actually make it. -Hurdles? | 0:34:37 | 0:34:42 | |
THEY LAUGH | 0:34:42 | 0:34:43 | |
-High jumps. -High jump. | 0:34:43 | 0:34:44 | |
That's fair enough. | 0:34:44 | 0:34:45 | |
A matter of weeks later, | 0:34:47 | 0:34:49 | |
the family were touching down for a new life on the other side of the world. | 0:34:49 | 0:34:53 | |
I felt like we were coming home when we landed. | 0:34:56 | 0:35:00 | |
I don't know why, cos I'd only been here once before, but it just felt like home. | 0:35:00 | 0:35:04 | |
But one person didn't make the journey. | 0:35:04 | 0:35:07 | |
Chris's former girlfriend Olivia. | 0:35:07 | 0:35:10 | |
So, the plan was to bring my girlfriend at the time out with us, but the | 0:35:10 | 0:35:13 | |
relationship broke up just before and she didn't come. | 0:35:13 | 0:35:17 | |
And we just came out with the four of us. | 0:35:17 | 0:35:19 | |
The family remember those first few weeks in Australia as a bit of a blur. | 0:35:20 | 0:35:24 | |
When we finally got to Adelaide you're like, "Relax!" | 0:35:26 | 0:35:29 | |
You know, but there's still lots to do. | 0:35:29 | 0:35:32 | |
None of us had jobs. | 0:35:32 | 0:35:33 | |
We didn't have sort of tax file numbers, bank accounts, nothing like that. | 0:35:33 | 0:35:38 | |
We soon sort of settled in and started job-hunting, | 0:35:38 | 0:35:41 | |
house-hunting and all of that. | 0:35:41 | 0:35:43 | |
So it was busy but, you know, | 0:35:43 | 0:35:46 | |
I was still recovering from my operation as well, so I couldn't really do too much. | 0:35:46 | 0:35:50 | |
I think because there was just so much going on I didn't even think | 0:35:50 | 0:35:52 | |
about the fact that we had left the UK for good. | 0:35:52 | 0:35:55 | |
Just three weeks after arriving, | 0:35:58 | 0:36:00 | |
Lynn landed herself a job at a childcare centre. | 0:36:00 | 0:36:03 | |
For Andy, though, things didn't move so quickly. | 0:36:03 | 0:36:07 | |
It was bad timing. We got out here when the construction trade was dipping a bit. | 0:36:07 | 0:36:10 | |
So I spent the first six months here looking for work. | 0:36:10 | 0:36:14 | |
He just looked every day. | 0:36:14 | 0:36:15 | |
He just kept going online, looking on all the sites and whatever. | 0:36:15 | 0:36:19 | |
Going for interviews, applying for jobs until he found one. | 0:36:19 | 0:36:22 | |
Andy's determination eventually paid off. | 0:36:24 | 0:36:26 | |
SCRAPING | 0:36:27 | 0:36:29 | |
Yeah, after six months I phoned these guys up, | 0:36:29 | 0:36:31 | |
they took me on and three and a half years later I'm still here. | 0:36:31 | 0:36:35 | |
They are a very big company in Adelaide. | 0:36:35 | 0:36:37 | |
We do some really big jobs in the city. | 0:36:37 | 0:36:40 | |
It's a lot of hours, a lot of hard work, but the money's good and, | 0:36:40 | 0:36:44 | |
you know, if you want a good living, then you don't mind working hard. | 0:36:44 | 0:36:49 | |
For Chris and Kirsty, | 0:36:49 | 0:36:50 | |
starting afresh 10,000 miles from where they'd grown up seemed to come naturally. | 0:36:50 | 0:36:55 | |
The kids settled in really quickly, actually. | 0:36:55 | 0:36:57 | |
They just seemed to take it in their stride. | 0:36:57 | 0:36:59 | |
After putting herself through college, | 0:36:59 | 0:37:01 | |
Kirsty's working as a medical receptionist and now aged 23 she's | 0:37:01 | 0:37:06 | |
fled the family nest to move in with her fiance. | 0:37:06 | 0:37:09 | |
I came to Australia and found a Geordie. | 0:37:09 | 0:37:11 | |
He's lovely. And now we've finally moved out of home, | 0:37:11 | 0:37:15 | |
which is a huge thing for both of us. | 0:37:15 | 0:37:19 | |
I can't imagine you in chinos! | 0:37:19 | 0:37:21 | |
Chinos and a white shirt! | 0:37:21 | 0:37:22 | |
And we don't live that far either, so it's about a three-minute drive. | 0:37:22 | 0:37:26 | |
SHE LAUGHS | 0:37:26 | 0:37:27 | |
So I'm still close. | 0:37:27 | 0:37:28 | |
She's never been happier, which is just the main thing for us. | 0:37:28 | 0:37:31 | |
I was quite sad when she moved out, but I actually see her more now that | 0:37:31 | 0:37:35 | |
she doesn't live here than when she did live here. | 0:37:35 | 0:37:37 | |
Chris is also in a new relationship and is enjoying his final year as a | 0:37:38 | 0:37:42 | |
student of international studies. | 0:37:42 | 0:37:45 | |
I worked for a year and a half before I started university to try and save as much money | 0:37:45 | 0:37:51 | |
as I could to be able to put myself through it, | 0:37:51 | 0:37:53 | |
which has been tough, but for the long term I've come out of university | 0:37:53 | 0:37:56 | |
debt-free, which is great. | 0:37:56 | 0:37:58 | |
After over two years in her role, | 0:37:58 | 0:38:00 | |
Lynn fancied a change and is now working as a nursery team leader. | 0:38:00 | 0:38:05 | |
The job that I have now is everything I wanted it to be. | 0:38:05 | 0:38:08 | |
It's a bit different from the UK, cos obviously I was term-time there | 0:38:08 | 0:38:11 | |
and only did about 32 and a half hours a week. | 0:38:11 | 0:38:14 | |
Here I'm full-time and I do 37 and a half a week. | 0:38:14 | 0:38:17 | |
Cranberry and apricot muesli bars. No, that doesn't sound... | 0:38:17 | 0:38:20 | |
'Doing the equivalent in the UK I'd be on about 35 grand,' | 0:38:20 | 0:38:23 | |
but here I'm on over 50, so it's quite dramatically different. | 0:38:23 | 0:38:27 | |
New things are on the horizon for Andy too, | 0:38:29 | 0:38:32 | |
with his dream of opening a mini-golf course back on the cards. | 0:38:32 | 0:38:36 | |
The couple have put their house on the market in the hope they can | 0:38:36 | 0:38:39 | |
downsize and release enough money for Andy to set up his business. | 0:38:39 | 0:38:42 | |
I've actually found a plot of land absolutely perfect for a mini-golf centre, | 0:38:44 | 0:38:47 | |
cos there's no other mini-golf centre around here. | 0:38:47 | 0:38:51 | |
To finance that we'll go back to a rental for maybe a couple of years, | 0:38:51 | 0:38:55 | |
cos the financing in this house will get that business built up. | 0:38:55 | 0:38:59 | |
The plan is, two or three years' time we should get all that money back | 0:38:59 | 0:39:02 | |
and then we can start looking at houses again, you know, | 0:39:02 | 0:39:05 | |
a beautiful house like this. | 0:39:05 | 0:39:07 | |
I'm hoping by next February that it'll be up and running. | 0:39:07 | 0:39:10 | |
That'll be a perfect way to end my working life, I think. | 0:39:10 | 0:39:14 | |
It's the final piece in the puzzle for our dreams. | 0:39:14 | 0:39:17 | |
With everyone settled and doing well, | 0:39:18 | 0:39:20 | |
Lynn had all she'd wished for, but during a routine medical checkup she | 0:39:20 | 0:39:25 | |
was heartbroken to discover the cancer had returned. | 0:39:25 | 0:39:28 | |
All of a sudden one of my blood tests came back with higher cancer markers, | 0:39:28 | 0:39:33 | |
and I had to have CT scans, then they found another cyst and they basically told me I'd | 0:39:33 | 0:39:38 | |
have to have it removed again. | 0:39:38 | 0:39:39 | |
Having major surgery for the second time has been incredibly difficult, | 0:39:40 | 0:39:45 | |
but thankfully Lynn's now on the road to recovery. | 0:39:45 | 0:39:49 | |
I'm about seven weeks post-op now. | 0:39:49 | 0:39:52 | |
The results all came back borderline again. | 0:39:52 | 0:39:54 | |
Yeah, I'm just weaning myself back into work now. | 0:39:55 | 0:39:58 | |
With mum Lynn in better health, | 0:40:02 | 0:40:04 | |
the family are looking forward to enjoying more of the Australian lifestyle they've fallen for. | 0:40:04 | 0:40:09 | |
'We're just out every weekend, exploring. | 0:40:09 | 0:40:12 | |
'There's always something to do.' | 0:40:12 | 0:40:14 | |
It's an absolutely huge country and there's so much here to see. | 0:40:14 | 0:40:18 | |
So we've been to Sydney twice now and been to Melbourne twice. | 0:40:18 | 0:40:22 | |
You know, when we get our next holiday we'll think of another trip, | 0:40:22 | 0:40:24 | |
we'll probably go to the Gold Coast. | 0:40:24 | 0:40:26 | |
There's just so much to do in Australia. | 0:40:26 | 0:40:28 | |
They've also enjoyed hosting family and friends from England over the past four years. | 0:40:28 | 0:40:33 | |
Since we've been here we've had nine lots of visitors. | 0:40:33 | 0:40:37 | |
It's been amazing having them here. | 0:40:37 | 0:40:38 | |
We try and take them to all the places that we like down here, don't we? | 0:40:38 | 0:40:42 | |
Try and show them the way we live. | 0:40:42 | 0:40:45 | |
It's been really good. | 0:40:45 | 0:40:46 | |
The airport runs are horrible when we say goodbye, but there we go. | 0:40:46 | 0:40:49 | |
-But brilliant when we say hello and they turn up. -Yeah. Exactly. -It's... Yeah. | 0:40:49 | 0:40:52 | |
Chris and Kirsty have been back to the UK too. | 0:40:54 | 0:40:57 | |
Most recently Chris took his girlfriend there to show her where he'd grown up. | 0:40:57 | 0:41:01 | |
We spent three weeks in the UK. | 0:41:01 | 0:41:03 | |
It was weird to be back, | 0:41:03 | 0:41:05 | |
cos it felt like I was going home almost. | 0:41:05 | 0:41:07 | |
But then when we came back here it was weird because I was going home, | 0:41:07 | 0:41:11 | |
so it's a bit strange. | 0:41:11 | 0:41:13 | |
I see both as home now. | 0:41:13 | 0:41:15 | |
For Lynn and Andy there's been no rush to return. | 0:41:17 | 0:41:21 | |
'We originally decided that we would have five years here before we even thought about going back,' | 0:41:21 | 0:41:26 | |
just so that we knew we were settled. | 0:41:26 | 0:41:29 | |
So we haven't gone back yet, but we are thinking, possibly, we've got a family | 0:41:29 | 0:41:33 | |
wedding next year, so we might be going back for that. | 0:41:33 | 0:41:36 | |
'Yeah, I think it would be strange going back.' | 0:41:38 | 0:41:40 | |
But our passion is here in Australia. | 0:41:40 | 0:41:42 | |
I don't think going back's going to... | 0:41:42 | 0:41:44 | |
It certainly won't change our minds. | 0:41:44 | 0:41:46 | |
Ultimately, the whole family are confident down under is where their future lies. | 0:41:48 | 0:41:53 | |
The children, they are really settled, | 0:41:53 | 0:41:55 | |
they are really happy in what they're doing and I can see them settling down, | 0:41:55 | 0:42:00 | |
getting married, having kids of their own | 0:42:00 | 0:42:02 | |
and living the rest of their days here. | 0:42:02 | 0:42:04 | |
And it looks like Australia has exceeded everyone's expectations. | 0:42:06 | 0:42:11 | |
It's all been worth it, cos we just love it here. | 0:42:11 | 0:42:14 | |
It's beautiful. | 0:42:14 | 0:42:15 | |
I do still get homesick and I do have days where I really, | 0:42:18 | 0:42:20 | |
really miss people, but this is our life now and homesick passes. | 0:42:20 | 0:42:26 | |
And you realise how much better your life is here. | 0:42:28 | 0:42:32 | |
As a family I think we've made the right decision to move to Australia. | 0:42:34 | 0:42:38 | |
Yeah, life's been great since we moved here. | 0:42:38 | 0:42:42 | |
You could say we have settled down perfectly here, all four of us. | 0:42:42 | 0:42:45 | |
This is the dream. We are living the dream. | 0:42:47 | 0:42:49 | |
Almost four years into their new life in Adelaide, | 0:42:55 | 0:42:58 | |
Lynn and Andy are proof that dreams really can come true. | 0:42:58 | 0:43:04 | |
And with Chris and Kirsty both in new relationships down under, | 0:43:04 | 0:43:07 | |
it looks like the whole family's future lies firmly in Australia. | 0:43:07 | 0:43:12 | |
We wish them all continued health and happiness in the country they now call home. | 0:43:12 | 0:43:17 |