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Moving your family halfway around | 0:00:02 | 0:00:04 | |
the world is a massive challenge at the best of times, | 0:00:04 | 0:00:08 | |
but it's even tougher when you've never visited the country you hope | 0:00:08 | 0:00:11 | |
to call home and some of your family don't want to go. | 0:00:11 | 0:00:16 | |
That's the scenario the Pedley-McKnight family | 0:00:16 | 0:00:19 | |
were struggling with in 2015. | 0:00:19 | 0:00:22 | |
Today, we'll find out where they're living 12 months on. | 0:00:22 | 0:00:25 | |
Danyel Pedley-McKnight was desperate to uproot her family to Australia. | 0:00:27 | 0:00:31 | |
It is my dream come true. | 0:00:31 | 0:00:33 | |
This is what I wanted for them. | 0:00:33 | 0:00:35 | |
But her husband and oldest daughters found the thought of leaving loved | 0:00:35 | 0:00:38 | |
ones in the UK too much to bear. | 0:00:38 | 0:00:40 | |
It'll just be us over there - no-one else that we knew. | 0:00:40 | 0:00:44 | |
A week down under revealed what life could be like. | 0:00:44 | 0:00:47 | |
So what do you think of this? | 0:00:47 | 0:00:49 | |
SQUEALING | 0:00:49 | 0:00:51 | |
So, one-year on, | 0:00:51 | 0:00:53 | |
are the family living in the UK or on other side of the world? | 0:00:53 | 0:00:56 | |
He wouldn't say yes or no - | 0:00:56 | 0:00:58 | |
it was just a definite maybe. | 0:00:58 | 0:01:00 | |
Straddling the Pacific and Indian oceans, | 0:01:23 | 0:01:26 | |
Australia's the smallest continent on earth. | 0:01:26 | 0:01:29 | |
Home to just over 23 million people, | 0:01:29 | 0:01:31 | |
its population continues to rise at one of the fastest rates in the | 0:01:31 | 0:01:35 | |
developed world. | 0:01:35 | 0:01:37 | |
With over 10,000 beaches and a sun-soaked climate, | 0:01:37 | 0:01:41 | |
it's no surprise the country's the number one destination for British | 0:01:41 | 0:01:44 | |
families moving abroad. | 0:01:44 | 0:01:46 | |
Danyel Pedley-McKnight passionately believed Australia was the place to | 0:01:48 | 0:01:52 | |
give her daughters the healthy | 0:01:52 | 0:01:55 | |
outdoor lifestyle she craved for them. | 0:01:55 | 0:01:57 | |
But with the girls disinterested, | 0:01:57 | 0:02:00 | |
her husband worried about leaving their life in the UK, | 0:02:00 | 0:02:03 | |
and a failed visa attempt already behind her, | 0:02:03 | 0:02:07 | |
she faced an uphill struggle if she was going to make it happen. | 0:02:07 | 0:02:11 | |
Desperate, she knew a week trialling the country she longed to call home | 0:02:11 | 0:02:16 | |
would be her one and only chance of making her dream come true. | 0:02:16 | 0:02:21 | |
To reach Perth in Australia, | 0:02:22 | 0:02:24 | |
the family spent almost 18 hours in the sky, | 0:02:24 | 0:02:27 | |
flying from London via Dubai. | 0:02:27 | 0:02:29 | |
It was harder than I expected, to be fair. | 0:02:31 | 0:02:34 | |
I am genuinely exhausted. | 0:02:34 | 0:02:36 | |
Danyel was excited to have made it down under for the first time. | 0:02:36 | 0:02:40 | |
Now I'm here, and I'm looking at the sun, I've forgotten all that now. | 0:02:40 | 0:02:43 | |
It's like labour - it's gone. | 0:02:43 | 0:02:46 | |
While Guy worried about how far they'd come. | 0:02:46 | 0:02:49 | |
That's something that's playing on my mind, to be honest. | 0:02:49 | 0:02:51 | |
Lauren was tired and emotional. | 0:02:51 | 0:02:54 | |
It is just how far away it is from everyone. | 0:02:54 | 0:02:57 | |
I think I need a tissue. | 0:03:02 | 0:03:04 | |
As the family headed into Perth, | 0:03:05 | 0:03:07 | |
Danyel knew she could have a battle on her hands convincing Guy, | 0:03:07 | 0:03:10 | |
Leeya and Lauren to follow her dream. | 0:03:10 | 0:03:12 | |
The Pedley-McKnights lived in Bradford, West Yorkshire. | 0:03:15 | 0:03:18 | |
They are dad, Guy, mum Danyel, Leeya, who was then 12, | 0:03:18 | 0:03:22 | |
Lauren, who was ten, | 0:03:22 | 0:03:24 | |
and Ashlee, who was seven. | 0:03:24 | 0:03:25 | |
Right foot - green. | 0:03:26 | 0:03:29 | |
Together for almost 20 years, | 0:03:29 | 0:03:31 | |
Danyel and Guy were proof opposites attract. | 0:03:31 | 0:03:33 | |
I'm very outgoing, | 0:03:33 | 0:03:35 | |
I'm quite happy to take risks, | 0:03:35 | 0:03:37 | |
so I'm quite impulsive and he's not. | 0:03:37 | 0:03:39 | |
You're not overly fussed about trying anything new. | 0:03:39 | 0:03:42 | |
A bit boring, really, aren't you? | 0:03:42 | 0:03:43 | |
A bit boring, yeah. A bit boring. | 0:03:43 | 0:03:45 | |
But Danyel's latest dream was | 0:03:48 | 0:03:50 | |
threatening to shake Guy out of his comfort zone forever. | 0:03:50 | 0:03:53 | |
Since attending an immigration seminar four years earlier, | 0:03:53 | 0:03:56 | |
she'd been determined to move her family to Australia. | 0:03:56 | 0:04:00 | |
I just came back absolutely buzzing with the idea that we need to move | 0:04:01 | 0:04:05 | |
there because it's the best thing since sliced bread. | 0:04:05 | 0:04:07 | |
Guy wasn't keen, but, | 0:04:07 | 0:04:08 | |
convinced the country offered the girls a better life, | 0:04:08 | 0:04:12 | |
Danyel pushed ahead and signed up | 0:04:12 | 0:04:13 | |
with an immigration company to secure a visa. | 0:04:13 | 0:04:17 | |
The day that I registered for that company, I were like, "Yeah, OK. | 0:04:17 | 0:04:20 | |
"Within six months, we'll probably be in Australia." | 0:04:20 | 0:04:23 | |
But six months and thousands of pounds later, | 0:04:23 | 0:04:26 | |
the visa had failed to materialise. | 0:04:26 | 0:04:29 | |
So we'd lost £2,600, I think it were. | 0:04:29 | 0:04:32 | |
I was quite angry that we'd lost | 0:04:32 | 0:04:34 | |
that money and the company could do that to you. | 0:04:34 | 0:04:37 | |
It was a difficult time for the couple, | 0:04:38 | 0:04:41 | |
but Danyel refused to give up and, three years later, | 0:04:41 | 0:04:44 | |
she was more determined than ever to follow her heart. | 0:04:44 | 0:04:47 | |
When we're out for the day, if it starts to rain, | 0:04:48 | 0:04:51 | |
I will say things like, | 0:04:51 | 0:04:52 | |
"Oh, if we were in Australia, it wouldn't be like this." | 0:04:52 | 0:04:55 | |
Or when we're in the car and it's really sunny, I'll say, | 0:04:55 | 0:04:57 | |
"If we were in Australia, it would be like this all the time." | 0:04:57 | 0:05:00 | |
The more she talked, | 0:05:00 | 0:05:01 | |
the more vivid Danyel's vision of life in Australia had become. | 0:05:01 | 0:05:05 | |
The girls will have a few hours at school. | 0:05:05 | 0:05:08 | |
I'll be at work, but not as many hours as I have to put in now. | 0:05:08 | 0:05:11 | |
Guy will be doing his dream job. | 0:05:11 | 0:05:13 | |
We'll come home and then go swimming in the back garden | 0:05:13 | 0:05:15 | |
or what have you. We'll have this massive, grand house. | 0:05:15 | 0:05:18 | |
We can afford to have family come and stay with us. | 0:05:18 | 0:05:20 | |
So as unrealistic as it is, that's my dream. | 0:05:20 | 0:05:23 | |
Come on, it's raining. Let's go. | 0:05:23 | 0:05:25 | |
But having made a costly mistake before, | 0:05:25 | 0:05:27 | |
Danyel knew convincing Guy to move would be a mammoth task. | 0:05:27 | 0:05:31 | |
It's all our finances, jobs, a house. | 0:05:31 | 0:05:34 | |
Can we afford it? Are we going to be stable? | 0:05:34 | 0:05:37 | |
Guy was also wracked with guilt at | 0:05:37 | 0:05:39 | |
the prospect of leaving his parents in the UK. | 0:05:39 | 0:05:42 | |
If owt happens, it's not as though you can just jump on a bus | 0:05:42 | 0:05:46 | |
and that's why I'm just torn, I really am. | 0:05:46 | 0:05:49 | |
Leeya and Lauren shared Guy's concerns about leaving loved ones. | 0:05:51 | 0:05:55 | |
I'm so close to my family and my cousins especially. | 0:05:55 | 0:05:59 | |
Special days like birthdays or anything, or Christmas, | 0:06:01 | 0:06:04 | |
it would just be us, | 0:06:04 | 0:06:06 | |
and it wouldn't be like a family day | 0:06:06 | 0:06:09 | |
because we won't have any family over there. | 0:06:09 | 0:06:12 | |
The week ahead was Danyel's best chance to convince Guy and the girls | 0:06:12 | 0:06:15 | |
Australia was where they belonged. | 0:06:15 | 0:06:18 | |
We can't keep living our life in limbo. | 0:06:18 | 0:06:20 | |
We've done it for the last four years. | 0:06:20 | 0:06:22 | |
We need to make the decision. | 0:06:22 | 0:06:24 | |
This week, in Australia, | 0:06:24 | 0:06:26 | |
it's really important to us because it's going to depend on what we're | 0:06:26 | 0:06:31 | |
going to do for our life and where we live. | 0:06:31 | 0:06:33 | |
If we were to get over there | 0:06:38 | 0:06:40 | |
and even if I thought it was absolutely everything I dream of, | 0:06:40 | 0:06:43 | |
and if it ticks every single box, if my girls look at me and say, | 0:06:43 | 0:06:48 | |
"Mummy, we can't go..." | 0:06:48 | 0:06:50 | |
..then we won't go. | 0:06:55 | 0:06:57 | |
To find out if Australia offered the lifestyle Danyel dreamt of, | 0:07:06 | 0:07:10 | |
the family visited Perth. | 0:07:10 | 0:07:12 | |
Home for the week was in Quinns Rock, | 0:07:12 | 0:07:14 | |
a coastal suburb 25 miles north of the city. | 0:07:14 | 0:07:18 | |
But did their first taste of | 0:07:18 | 0:07:19 | |
Australian living meet Danyel's expectations? | 0:07:19 | 0:07:22 | |
It looks like a Neighbours house, doesn't it? | 0:07:22 | 0:07:24 | |
An Home And Away house. | 0:07:24 | 0:07:26 | |
Danyel sounded pleased. | 0:07:26 | 0:07:28 | |
-Let's go and have a look. -Cool! -Oh, my word! | 0:07:28 | 0:07:30 | |
No complaints yet. | 0:07:31 | 0:07:33 | |
-Wow! -Everyone was happy | 0:07:33 | 0:07:36 | |
and discovering a pool in the garden | 0:07:36 | 0:07:38 | |
put excitement levels through the roof. | 0:07:38 | 0:07:40 | |
What's that, Ashlee? | 0:07:40 | 0:07:42 | |
It's a pool! | 0:07:44 | 0:07:46 | |
It was everything Danyel wanted and even Guy seemed impressed. | 0:07:46 | 0:07:50 | |
It's thumbs up from me. | 0:07:50 | 0:07:51 | |
I feel like a kid that's been given a Christmas present. | 0:07:51 | 0:07:54 | |
I wanted my husband and my children | 0:07:54 | 0:07:56 | |
to think it was just as great as I do and, so far, they have. | 0:07:56 | 0:07:59 | |
But Guy wasn't committing to anything. | 0:07:59 | 0:08:02 | |
It's the biggest decision we're going to make in our lifetime, | 0:08:02 | 0:08:06 | |
so we've just got to weigh it up this week, see what happens. | 0:08:06 | 0:08:11 | |
With so much riding on this trip, | 0:08:11 | 0:08:13 | |
Danyel hoped the coming week would go to plan. | 0:08:13 | 0:08:16 | |
Even though I've had this dream for forever, | 0:08:16 | 0:08:19 | |
the girls and Guy haven't and I need to convince them. | 0:08:19 | 0:08:23 | |
Well, I hope Australia convinces them and I won't need to. | 0:08:23 | 0:08:26 | |
In the UK, home for the Pedley-McKnights | 0:08:33 | 0:08:36 | |
was a five-bedroom house in Bradford, | 0:08:36 | 0:08:39 | |
but Danyel had lost heart in it. | 0:08:39 | 0:08:41 | |
We stopped decorating. We stopped doing everything we wanted to do | 0:08:41 | 0:08:44 | |
because I think, "Well, I'm just going to leave it anyway." | 0:08:44 | 0:08:46 | |
If Danyel got her way, | 0:08:46 | 0:08:48 | |
the couple's budget for a house in Australia was around £250,000 | 0:08:48 | 0:08:53 | |
and she knew exactly what she wanted. | 0:08:53 | 0:08:56 | |
I'd want the open plan kitchen-dining area, the pool, | 0:08:56 | 0:09:00 | |
not too far from the beach but not too far from the schools. | 0:09:00 | 0:09:03 | |
That would be great. But it needs to be new. | 0:09:03 | 0:09:05 | |
It needs to be grand. | 0:09:05 | 0:09:07 | |
To find out what kind of house they could have, | 0:09:09 | 0:09:11 | |
we showed the family three properties - | 0:09:11 | 0:09:14 | |
two on budget and a third which could be their dream home. | 0:09:14 | 0:09:17 | |
Only after they'd seen each one did they find out its value. | 0:09:17 | 0:09:21 | |
The search began in the well-established suburb of Clarkson. | 0:09:24 | 0:09:27 | |
Offering schools, recreation and shopping facilities | 0:09:27 | 0:09:30 | |
and only ten minutes' drive from the beach, | 0:09:30 | 0:09:32 | |
it was the kind of area Danyel wanted but was the house up to spec? | 0:09:32 | 0:09:36 | |
Wow! Double garage. | 0:09:37 | 0:09:39 | |
-Oh, my God! -Guy was happy before they'd even parked up. | 0:09:39 | 0:09:43 | |
-Wow! -But moving to the master bedroom, Guy quickly found a fault. | 0:09:43 | 0:09:47 | |
I hate that fence. I just don't like it at all. | 0:09:47 | 0:09:51 | |
A tin fence, | 0:09:51 | 0:09:53 | |
-just doesn't look right to me. -Danyel skilfully shifted the girls' | 0:09:53 | 0:09:55 | |
attention to the impressive walk-in wardrobe. | 0:09:55 | 0:09:58 | |
-What's that, a walk-in wardrobe? -Yeah. | 0:09:58 | 0:09:59 | |
-What do you think that? -Look at the size of that! | 0:09:59 | 0:10:02 | |
Look at the size of that, eh! | 0:10:02 | 0:10:03 | |
-You could live in there, Ashlee. -Yeah. | 0:10:03 | 0:10:05 | |
-A walk-in wardrobe. -But Guy was outnumbered and the open plan | 0:10:05 | 0:10:08 | |
-living-kitchen area was exactly what Danyel had been dreaming of. -Wow! | 0:10:08 | 0:10:13 | |
-That looks nice. -It was a good start for Danyel and, | 0:10:13 | 0:10:17 | |
with three other bedrooms, the girls would have their own space, too. | 0:10:17 | 0:10:20 | |
But Guy had spotted another blot on the landscape outside. | 0:10:20 | 0:10:25 | |
I don't like that brick wall there. | 0:10:25 | 0:10:27 | |
-Why? -I just don't like it. | 0:10:27 | 0:10:29 | |
Once again, Danyel sidestepped Guy's negativity. | 0:10:29 | 0:10:33 | |
In ours, you can be overlooked from someone's upstairs. | 0:10:33 | 0:10:35 | |
If this is high, you can't be overlooked in the garden. | 0:10:35 | 0:10:38 | |
I think, even if the inside's nice, the outside's not. | 0:10:38 | 0:10:41 | |
After a really positive start, Danyel could have hit a wall. | 0:10:42 | 0:10:46 | |
But she was still keen to know what the house cost and whether their | 0:10:46 | 0:10:50 | |
£250,000 budget would be enough to cover it. | 0:10:50 | 0:10:53 | |
I realistically think it's 290. | 0:10:55 | 0:10:57 | |
I think it's going to be 260. | 0:10:57 | 0:10:59 | |
Seen some beauty houses. I think I'm going to say that it's on budget. | 0:10:59 | 0:11:02 | |
Time to find out if Danyel was right. | 0:11:03 | 0:11:05 | |
Oh, my God! | 0:11:10 | 0:11:13 | |
I knew it, didn't I? | 0:11:13 | 0:11:15 | |
-I knew it when I said it was on budget. -That is cheap. | 0:11:15 | 0:11:18 | |
She may be a dreamer but Danyel was on the money. | 0:11:18 | 0:11:21 | |
So that 5,000, we could buy a pool. | 0:11:21 | 0:11:24 | |
I don't think you'd get a pool in there. | 0:11:24 | 0:11:26 | |
You could get a small pool. | 0:11:26 | 0:11:28 | |
House hunting was off to a great start for the Pedley-McKnights. | 0:11:28 | 0:11:32 | |
Hopefully, the next home would be as promising. | 0:11:32 | 0:11:35 | |
It was in Carramar, an area slightly closer to central Perth. | 0:11:35 | 0:11:39 | |
Although further inland, it was | 0:11:39 | 0:11:41 | |
still only 15 minutes from the beach | 0:11:41 | 0:11:43 | |
and excellent amenities, including parks and shops, | 0:11:43 | 0:11:46 | |
meant it should be perfect for the family. | 0:11:46 | 0:11:49 | |
I like that it's a cul-de-sac road end. | 0:11:49 | 0:11:52 | |
Guy's happy with the location but | 0:11:52 | 0:11:54 | |
was the house somewhere the family could call home? | 0:11:54 | 0:11:56 | |
Wow! It's big. | 0:11:56 | 0:11:58 | |
-Good size. -Yeah. | 0:12:00 | 0:12:02 | |
Master bedroom, isn't it? | 0:12:02 | 0:12:04 | |
If you have a look in there... | 0:12:04 | 0:12:06 | |
And another roomy wardrobe kept Lauren on side. | 0:12:06 | 0:12:09 | |
Ever since mum started talking about it, | 0:12:09 | 0:12:11 | |
I've always wanted a walk-in wardrobe, haven't I? | 0:12:11 | 0:12:13 | |
Once again, the open plan living area was a winner. | 0:12:13 | 0:12:16 | |
Oh, my God! Look at the size of this! | 0:12:16 | 0:12:18 | |
When I walked in and saw that room, I thought that might have been it. | 0:12:21 | 0:12:23 | |
This is a lot bigger than I expected. | 0:12:23 | 0:12:26 | |
It does feel nice. | 0:12:26 | 0:12:28 | |
But, moving on, Guy spotted a familiar problem. | 0:12:28 | 0:12:30 | |
Metal tin again. | 0:12:30 | 0:12:33 | |
-Horrible fence you don't like. -Horrible fence. | 0:12:33 | 0:12:35 | |
And the bathroom presented another issue. | 0:12:35 | 0:12:38 | |
It's a bit tight, isn't it, that bath?! | 0:12:38 | 0:12:40 | |
Don't you think it's smaller? I think it's smaller. | 0:12:40 | 0:12:42 | |
Danyel stayed schtum, so Guy put it to the test. | 0:12:42 | 0:12:46 | |
It is small but... Obviously I'd be over the end of the bath, | 0:12:46 | 0:12:49 | |
-but it is quite small still. -The house wasn't measuring up, | 0:12:49 | 0:12:53 | |
but what about the garden? | 0:12:53 | 0:12:55 | |
I think it's just really tight, living on top of each other. | 0:12:55 | 0:12:58 | |
Danyel knew she was beat. | 0:12:58 | 0:13:00 | |
I just don't think it's ticking our boxes, this house, is it? | 0:13:00 | 0:13:02 | |
-No, not ticking at all. -No. | 0:13:02 | 0:13:04 | |
It wasn't perfect, | 0:13:06 | 0:13:07 | |
but could the family afford a house like this? | 0:13:07 | 0:13:10 | |
I'm going to dread this price. | 0:13:10 | 0:13:12 | |
It's going to be more because of the area. | 0:13:12 | 0:13:14 | |
-Yeah. I think it's going to be more. -That's what I think. | 0:13:14 | 0:13:17 | |
They had £250,000 to spend. | 0:13:17 | 0:13:20 | |
Wow! | 0:13:25 | 0:13:26 | |
Oh, my God! I'm feeling really positive again now. | 0:13:26 | 0:13:29 | |
Yes, we didn't like this house but | 0:13:29 | 0:13:31 | |
I'm feeling positive again now with regards to what we could afford. | 0:13:31 | 0:13:33 | |
Yeah. | 0:13:33 | 0:13:35 | |
Here we go, girls. | 0:13:35 | 0:13:37 | |
Staying in the northern suburbs, | 0:13:37 | 0:13:39 | |
the final stop was the popular area of Tapping, | 0:13:39 | 0:13:42 | |
just 30 minutes from central Perth. | 0:13:42 | 0:13:45 | |
The area has schools and parklands perfect for children. | 0:13:45 | 0:13:48 | |
This is nice. You can feel the area. | 0:13:48 | 0:13:51 | |
You can feel the difference in the area, can't you? | 0:13:51 | 0:13:53 | |
We'd found what could be the Pedley-McKnights' dream home, | 0:13:53 | 0:13:56 | |
but did they agree? | 0:13:56 | 0:13:57 | |
-Oh, my God! -What do think of this? | 0:13:57 | 0:14:00 | |
SQUEALING | 0:14:00 | 0:14:03 | |
Hopefully, inside wouldn't be a let down. | 0:14:03 | 0:14:06 | |
Oh, my God! | 0:14:07 | 0:14:09 | |
It was exactly what Danyel needed to get Guy and the girls | 0:14:09 | 0:14:12 | |
excited about a move. | 0:14:12 | 0:14:14 | |
Oh, wow! I'm assuming it's the master bedroom. | 0:14:14 | 0:14:17 | |
And the open plan living area was just what she wanted. | 0:14:20 | 0:14:23 | |
-Oh, this is nice. -The couch would fit there. | 0:14:24 | 0:14:28 | |
Even the sight of a fence didn't put Guy off. | 0:14:28 | 0:14:31 | |
-Could you live with it? -I'd live with the tin fence, | 0:14:31 | 0:14:33 | |
it'll be all right. | 0:14:33 | 0:14:35 | |
Everyone was on the same page and | 0:14:35 | 0:14:36 | |
the cinema room was further cause for celebration. | 0:14:36 | 0:14:39 | |
Wow! Look at that! | 0:14:40 | 0:14:42 | |
-Oh, my...! -That's nice, isn't it? -Really nice. | 0:14:44 | 0:14:46 | |
Oh, wow! | 0:14:46 | 0:14:48 | |
And the garden had a welcome surprise for Ashlee. | 0:14:49 | 0:14:53 | |
-A pool! -It's what? | 0:14:53 | 0:14:54 | |
A pool! | 0:14:54 | 0:14:56 | |
With areas for entertaining, Danyel and the girls felt at home. | 0:14:58 | 0:15:02 | |
I think these three are sold now. It's just you. | 0:15:02 | 0:15:06 | |
Just me to be sold. | 0:15:06 | 0:15:08 | |
Meanwhile, the family needed to find | 0:15:08 | 0:15:10 | |
out how much a dream house in the sun | 0:15:10 | 0:15:12 | |
really cost and whether their £250,000 budget would cover it. | 0:15:12 | 0:15:17 | |
What do you think now, price-wise? | 0:15:17 | 0:15:19 | |
-325. -I think 350. | 0:15:19 | 0:15:21 | |
I feel sick. | 0:15:21 | 0:15:23 | |
You could just tell it was going to be around that price. | 0:15:32 | 0:15:35 | |
It's not a million miles away, I guess. | 0:15:35 | 0:15:38 | |
I was hoping it wasn't. | 0:15:38 | 0:15:39 | |
Just 100,000. | 0:15:39 | 0:15:41 | |
Yeah, I were hoping it wasn't 100,000 away, but, you know. | 0:15:41 | 0:15:43 | |
Discovering the dream house was out of reach wasn't Danyel's perfect | 0:15:43 | 0:15:46 | |
ending but, on the whole, it had been a successful day. | 0:15:46 | 0:15:51 | |
Property one delivered much of what Danyel had hoped for. | 0:15:51 | 0:15:54 | |
Discovering it was £5,000 under budget was a great start. | 0:15:54 | 0:15:58 | |
Although not spacious enough, | 0:15:59 | 0:16:01 | |
the location of property two had | 0:16:01 | 0:16:03 | |
impressed the family and it wasn't beyond their reach. | 0:16:03 | 0:16:06 | |
The final property of the day proved to be the real dream | 0:16:06 | 0:16:09 | |
home but with a price tag to match. | 0:16:09 | 0:16:12 | |
Remaining optimistic, | 0:16:12 | 0:16:15 | |
Danyel still felt it could be something to aspire to. | 0:16:15 | 0:16:18 | |
So how did the day impact on | 0:16:18 | 0:16:20 | |
everyone's choice between property in the UK and Australia? | 0:16:20 | 0:16:24 | |
ALL: Australia! | 0:16:29 | 0:16:30 | |
-Australia. -Oh, my God! | 0:16:30 | 0:16:34 | |
So my first box ticked. | 0:16:34 | 0:16:36 | |
Five out of five votes for Australia was a brilliant and unexpected | 0:16:45 | 0:16:49 | |
result for Danyel. | 0:16:49 | 0:16:51 | |
But knowing how risk averse Guy was, | 0:16:51 | 0:16:54 | |
she knew he still needed to be convinced he'd find suitable work | 0:16:54 | 0:16:57 | |
down under. | 0:16:57 | 0:16:59 | |
Back in the UK, Danyel was a human resources manager in a supermarket. | 0:16:59 | 0:17:04 | |
I've worked for the same company now for almost 19 years. | 0:17:04 | 0:17:07 | |
I've done the HR role for about five years. | 0:17:07 | 0:17:10 | |
How are we doing, Steph? | 0:17:11 | 0:17:13 | |
Guy had worked at the same company for 21 years but Danyel had tempted | 0:17:13 | 0:17:17 | |
him with a suggestion he could | 0:17:17 | 0:17:19 | |
realise his dream of becoming a policeman down under. | 0:17:19 | 0:17:22 | |
She's dangling that carrot. | 0:17:22 | 0:17:23 | |
It's a big carrot. It's a big difference in the job what I do now | 0:17:23 | 0:17:26 | |
but it would be something I'd love to do. | 0:17:26 | 0:17:28 | |
While the girls were looked after by a childminder, | 0:17:28 | 0:17:31 | |
the couple explored work options in Perth. | 0:17:31 | 0:17:34 | |
For Guy, the day started at the | 0:17:34 | 0:17:36 | |
Western Australia Police Academy in Joondalup. | 0:17:36 | 0:17:39 | |
Morning, Guy. I'm Ben. Welcome to the Police Academy. | 0:17:39 | 0:17:42 | |
Ben Atherton was happy to give Guy | 0:17:42 | 0:17:44 | |
the lowdown on the recruitment process. | 0:17:44 | 0:17:46 | |
28-week training course here at the academy. | 0:17:46 | 0:17:48 | |
There's a lot of classroom-based training - | 0:17:48 | 0:17:51 | |
a lot of scenario-based training - | 0:17:51 | 0:17:52 | |
and spend a few days with current serving officers. | 0:17:52 | 0:17:55 | |
But Guy was about to be hit with some bad news. | 0:17:55 | 0:17:57 | |
You would have to get permanent residency. | 0:17:57 | 0:18:00 | |
Unless the couple could qualify for a permanent residence visa | 0:18:00 | 0:18:03 | |
straightaway, Guy's plans to become | 0:18:03 | 0:18:06 | |
a police officer could be on hold for another few years. | 0:18:06 | 0:18:09 | |
Meanwhile, we'd arranged for Danyel | 0:18:11 | 0:18:13 | |
to meet human resources manager | 0:18:13 | 0:18:14 | |
Jenny Milne at a motoring organisation. | 0:18:14 | 0:18:17 | |
After a quick look round, Danyel was ready to talk business. | 0:18:17 | 0:18:21 | |
Now you've had a chance to look at my CV, | 0:18:21 | 0:18:23 | |
have you got any thoughts of where you think | 0:18:23 | 0:18:26 | |
I might fit within Western Australia's HR? | 0:18:26 | 0:18:29 | |
I think at the HR business partner | 0:18:29 | 0:18:30 | |
level would be a really good start for you. | 0:18:30 | 0:18:32 | |
The role wasn't as senior as Danyel's current position and Jenny | 0:18:32 | 0:18:36 | |
informed her there weren't any suitable vacancies at the company, | 0:18:36 | 0:18:40 | |
but Danyel refused to be put off. | 0:18:40 | 0:18:43 | |
So do you know if there is any jobs available in Western Australia? | 0:18:43 | 0:18:46 | |
Yes, there's definitely HR manager roles. | 0:18:46 | 0:18:49 | |
There's HR advisor roles in both permanent and contract. | 0:18:49 | 0:18:52 | |
Encouraged, Danyel was ready to talk money. | 0:18:52 | 0:18:56 | |
What are the salaries? | 0:18:56 | 0:18:58 | |
£45,000. | 0:18:58 | 0:18:59 | |
Wow! That's a lot more than what I would be earning now at home. | 0:19:01 | 0:19:04 | |
Around £15,000 more could fuel | 0:19:05 | 0:19:08 | |
Danyel's argument for making the move. | 0:19:08 | 0:19:11 | |
Meanwhile, concerned about his short-term prospects, | 0:19:11 | 0:19:14 | |
Guy had gone to meet Bronwyn Butcher, | 0:19:14 | 0:19:16 | |
a recruitment specialist in the retail sector. | 0:19:16 | 0:19:20 | |
And after his earlier disappointment, it was good news. | 0:19:20 | 0:19:23 | |
I'm actually working on some roles right now, Guy, | 0:19:23 | 0:19:26 | |
that I think I could place you in. | 0:19:26 | 0:19:27 | |
What type of income would I be looking at? | 0:19:27 | 0:19:30 | |
Anywhere between £46,000 to about £67,000. | 0:19:30 | 0:19:35 | |
So that's quite promising, that. | 0:19:35 | 0:19:37 | |
That's more than what I am on right now. | 0:19:37 | 0:19:40 | |
It was a great result for Guy. | 0:19:40 | 0:19:42 | |
But when he reunited with Danyel, | 0:19:42 | 0:19:44 | |
it was clear her negative news had overshadowed the positive. | 0:19:44 | 0:19:48 | |
They don't have any jobs currently for me. | 0:19:48 | 0:19:52 | |
However, when Guy told her about his prospects in retail, | 0:19:52 | 0:19:55 | |
her spirits soon soared. | 0:19:55 | 0:19:57 | |
They said, "Yeah, there's vacancies out there now for me" - | 0:19:57 | 0:19:59 | |
-on good money as well. -Why don't we just stay here | 0:19:59 | 0:20:02 | |
and send you for some interviews over here? | 0:20:02 | 0:20:05 | |
Why not? | 0:20:05 | 0:20:06 | |
So how did the day's discoveries play out when it came to choosing | 0:20:08 | 0:20:11 | |
between work in Australia and the UK? | 0:20:11 | 0:20:15 | |
BOTH: Undecided. | 0:20:15 | 0:20:17 | |
-What? -Just had some great | 0:20:18 | 0:20:20 | |
information in retail but I'm still just... | 0:20:20 | 0:20:23 | |
There's that much information going round in my head at the moment. | 0:20:23 | 0:20:26 | |
-That's a copout. -It's not a copout. -It is. | 0:20:26 | 0:20:28 | |
The lure of a job with a good salary wasn't enough to convince Guy and | 0:20:32 | 0:20:36 | |
Danyel's undecided vote could mean she was beginning to waver, too. | 0:20:36 | 0:20:41 | |
Would a day exploring the Australian lifestyle she so desperately desired | 0:20:41 | 0:20:45 | |
for Leeya, Lauren and Ashlee put Danyel's dream back on track? | 0:20:45 | 0:20:51 | |
Keen to let the girls experience a typical Australian activity, | 0:20:51 | 0:20:55 | |
the family headed to Trigg Beach for | 0:20:55 | 0:20:57 | |
a surf lesson with some students from Carine Senior High School. | 0:20:57 | 0:21:00 | |
Surfing is a way of life. | 0:21:00 | 0:21:03 | |
It was exactly the lifestyle Danyel had dreamt of for the girls. | 0:21:04 | 0:21:08 | |
It is my dream come true. | 0:21:08 | 0:21:10 | |
This is what I wanted. | 0:21:10 | 0:21:11 | |
I wanted to see the girls outside and I wanted this for them. | 0:21:11 | 0:21:16 | |
Well done, Ashlee! | 0:21:16 | 0:21:17 | |
Well done! | 0:21:17 | 0:21:19 | |
Ashlee had always been sold on her mum's idea of moving but | 0:21:19 | 0:21:21 | |
the day won Leeya and Lauren over, too. | 0:21:21 | 0:21:24 | |
I probably would want to move over here if we did this at school. | 0:21:24 | 0:21:27 | |
I can definitely imagine myself doing this all the time. | 0:21:27 | 0:21:30 | |
Guy, on the other hand, still had doubts. | 0:21:30 | 0:21:33 | |
If I could pick my family up, and Danyel's family up, | 0:21:33 | 0:21:36 | |
and bring them to Australia, I'd be here straightaway. | 0:21:36 | 0:21:39 | |
That still is the massive pull | 0:21:39 | 0:21:41 | |
and that's going to be the hardest decision we need to make. | 0:21:41 | 0:21:45 | |
Danyel and Guy had lots to discuss but had the day done enough to make | 0:21:45 | 0:21:49 | |
them all choose Australia over the UK? | 0:21:49 | 0:21:52 | |
ALL: Australia! | 0:21:57 | 0:21:59 | |
It's a no-brainer for me, to be honest. | 0:22:01 | 0:22:03 | |
-The lifestyle... -I knew it from the start of the day. | 0:22:03 | 0:22:05 | |
..it's just Australia. | 0:22:05 | 0:22:06 | |
Danyel's dream had survived another day but she still needed to convince | 0:22:10 | 0:22:15 | |
Guy moving wouldn't break the bank. | 0:22:15 | 0:22:17 | |
The couple would rely on proceeds | 0:22:17 | 0:22:19 | |
from the sale of their home to fund the move. | 0:22:19 | 0:22:21 | |
They expected it to be worth around £150,000. | 0:22:21 | 0:22:25 | |
Are you ready, then? | 0:22:25 | 0:22:27 | |
We sent round two estate agents to see if they were right. | 0:22:27 | 0:22:30 | |
A really good-sized front room. | 0:22:30 | 0:22:32 | |
Doesn't it look good, don't you think? | 0:22:32 | 0:22:35 | |
A good-sized rear garden. | 0:22:35 | 0:22:36 | |
Recently landscaped. | 0:22:36 | 0:22:38 | |
Ideal for a growing family. | 0:22:38 | 0:22:40 | |
A good-sized bathroom but probably needs the grouting re-doing. | 0:22:40 | 0:22:44 | |
Picking up on every little bit. | 0:22:44 | 0:22:47 | |
In the current market, | 0:22:47 | 0:22:48 | |
I'd put this property on at 145,000. | 0:22:48 | 0:22:51 | |
For a quick sale, at 139,950. | 0:22:51 | 0:22:53 | |
That's low, that. | 0:22:53 | 0:22:55 | |
In the current market, | 0:22:55 | 0:22:56 | |
I'd value property at 145,000. | 0:22:56 | 0:22:59 | |
For a quick sale, I'd value the property at 140,000. | 0:22:59 | 0:23:02 | |
Potentially, we could have lost £10,000 equity out of the house. | 0:23:03 | 0:23:08 | |
No, we haven't. Potentially, we're only talking 5,000, aren't we? | 0:23:08 | 0:23:12 | |
What I'm saying is, their advice for a quick sale... | 0:23:12 | 0:23:15 | |
I know, but we don't have to. | 0:23:15 | 0:23:16 | |
Concerned, the couple moved on to compare finances down under, | 0:23:18 | 0:23:22 | |
starting with their weekly shop. | 0:23:22 | 0:23:24 | |
Fresh mash - that's an expensive one there. | 0:23:24 | 0:23:27 | |
But you could buy potatoes, if you needed to. | 0:23:27 | 0:23:29 | |
-Stop being lazy. -Chicken is £1.75 more. | 0:23:29 | 0:23:35 | |
Over all, the couple would pay | 0:23:35 | 0:23:36 | |
almost £30 more for food every week. | 0:23:36 | 0:23:39 | |
Next they compared the bigger monthly bills, | 0:23:39 | 0:23:42 | |
basing their mortgage on the first property they'd viewed. | 0:23:42 | 0:23:46 | |
That's £633 more than what we pay now. | 0:23:46 | 0:23:50 | |
-That's huge, isn't it? It's like a wage. -It's massive. | 0:23:50 | 0:23:53 | |
Staying positive, Danyel pointed out areas where they could make savings. | 0:23:53 | 0:23:58 | |
And 40 better off for TV, cable TV. | 0:23:58 | 0:24:01 | |
What we talked about depends what type of package we've got. | 0:24:01 | 0:24:04 | |
Let's just look at that. | 0:24:04 | 0:24:05 | |
We'll go with that figure, yes. Don't say, "But, but, but." | 0:24:05 | 0:24:09 | |
Just leave it at that. We're £40 better off. | 0:24:09 | 0:24:12 | |
Let's just move on. | 0:24:12 | 0:24:15 | |
The calculations revealed they'd pay out just over £200 more | 0:24:15 | 0:24:19 | |
every month in Australia. | 0:24:19 | 0:24:22 | |
-OK. -I'm all right with that. | 0:24:22 | 0:24:23 | |
-That's manageable. -OK. | 0:24:23 | 0:24:26 | |
Danyel hoped their potentially higher salaries would make up the | 0:24:26 | 0:24:29 | |
shortfall and she was right. | 0:24:29 | 0:24:32 | |
Based on Guy working in retail and Danyel working full-time, | 0:24:32 | 0:24:35 | |
their joint income would be almost £1,500 higher than in the UK. | 0:24:35 | 0:24:40 | |
So if we were back in the UK, | 0:24:40 | 0:24:42 | |
our income would be more, still, full-time. | 0:24:42 | 0:24:45 | |
But that is big tick for me, full-time. | 0:24:45 | 0:24:48 | |
£700 - a massive amount more money a month... | 0:24:48 | 0:24:51 | |
-just for me. -Even with higher outgoings, | 0:24:51 | 0:24:54 | |
the family would have more disposable income down under. | 0:24:54 | 0:24:57 | |
1,282 better off a month. | 0:24:57 | 0:25:01 | |
Wow! | 0:25:04 | 0:25:05 | |
And even recalculating to see | 0:25:05 | 0:25:07 | |
where they'd stand if Danyel remained | 0:25:07 | 0:25:09 | |
in part-time work, things looked good. | 0:25:09 | 0:25:11 | |
We are still 10,644 a year better off. | 0:25:11 | 0:25:15 | |
Here. | 0:25:15 | 0:25:18 | |
It was a great result. | 0:25:18 | 0:25:20 | |
So how would their findings | 0:25:20 | 0:25:22 | |
influence the decision between finances in Australia and the UK? | 0:25:22 | 0:25:26 | |
BOTH: Australia! | 0:25:30 | 0:25:31 | |
I'm so glad you did that. | 0:25:33 | 0:25:35 | |
-It's a no-brainer, isn't it? -I'm so glad you did that. | 0:25:35 | 0:25:37 | |
-It's a no-brainer. -I thought I might have to kill you. | 0:25:37 | 0:25:40 | |
Realising their finances could | 0:25:44 | 0:25:46 | |
flourish in Australia had put Guy more in favour of a move, | 0:25:46 | 0:25:50 | |
but there are some things money can't buy. | 0:25:50 | 0:25:52 | |
And as the family prepared to watch messages from loved ones together, | 0:25:52 | 0:25:56 | |
Danyel knew this could be the hurdle she couldn't overcome. | 0:25:56 | 0:26:00 | |
Let's just put it on and just do it then. | 0:26:00 | 0:26:04 | |
ALL: Hello. | 0:26:04 | 0:26:06 | |
Are you having a good time? | 0:26:06 | 0:26:07 | |
Don't get too sunburnt, Guy. | 0:26:07 | 0:26:10 | |
How do you describe Danyel? | 0:26:10 | 0:26:12 | |
She's awesome. She's mega. | 0:26:12 | 0:26:14 | |
Guy's quite... | 0:26:14 | 0:26:16 | |
He laughs with us but he's not so good with... | 0:26:16 | 0:26:19 | |
He hasn't got a clue what we're saying, has he? | 0:26:19 | 0:26:22 | |
The girls are their world, really. They do a lot with them. | 0:26:22 | 0:26:25 | |
Your friends are the family that you choose but Danyel's both. | 0:26:26 | 0:26:29 | |
She's like my person | 0:26:29 | 0:26:32 | |
and it's really hard to imagine | 0:26:32 | 0:26:36 | |
how you'd carry on without your person being there, | 0:26:36 | 0:26:38 | |
being five minutes away, being ten minutes away. | 0:26:38 | 0:26:41 | |
He is... He's like my big brother. | 0:26:41 | 0:26:44 | |
I just could not imagine him not being there. | 0:26:45 | 0:26:49 | |
It's like a big part of my life missing. | 0:26:51 | 0:26:55 | |
I'm really going to miss them. | 0:26:55 | 0:26:56 | |
I weren't going to cry. I said I wouldn't cry. | 0:26:58 | 0:27:01 | |
No. No. | 0:27:03 | 0:27:05 | |
I just... I want to see my grandchildren grow up. | 0:27:05 | 0:27:08 | |
Life without you here | 0:27:10 | 0:27:12 | |
would just be | 0:27:12 | 0:27:15 | |
pretty hard, | 0:27:15 | 0:27:18 | |
but we love you and we want you to be happy and... | 0:27:18 | 0:27:24 | |
if Australia is where you are going to go to be happy, | 0:27:24 | 0:27:28 | |
then we absolutely support you with that. | 0:27:28 | 0:27:30 | |
I just don't want any of you to go. | 0:27:32 | 0:27:34 | |
I just love you too much. | 0:27:34 | 0:27:36 | |
You just need to stay at home with us. | 0:27:36 | 0:27:38 | |
That's it. I can't say any more. | 0:27:38 | 0:27:40 | |
I can't. | 0:27:43 | 0:27:45 | |
Do you think that was harder | 0:27:49 | 0:27:52 | |
or easier than you thought it was going to be? | 0:27:52 | 0:27:54 | |
Harder. | 0:27:54 | 0:27:55 | |
Yeah. We know the lifestyle out here is better. | 0:27:57 | 0:28:00 | |
I know that now. I can see that. | 0:28:01 | 0:28:04 | |
But just to see... | 0:28:04 | 0:28:06 | |
..the girls upset at the moment is tough. | 0:28:08 | 0:28:10 | |
That's changed my decision, I think, a bit. | 0:28:12 | 0:28:15 | |
Confronting the reality of being on the other side of the world was | 0:28:20 | 0:28:24 | |
tougher than anyone had expected. | 0:28:24 | 0:28:26 | |
With their final decision inching ever closer, | 0:28:26 | 0:28:29 | |
would the family decide the | 0:28:29 | 0:28:32 | |
emotional cost of a move was too high a price to pay? | 0:28:32 | 0:28:35 | |
When Danyel arrived in Perth a week earlier, | 0:28:35 | 0:28:38 | |
it was the first time she'd set foot in Australia, | 0:28:38 | 0:28:41 | |
but the country more than met her expectations. | 0:28:41 | 0:28:44 | |
Being here this week has shown me it doesn't have to be a dream, | 0:28:44 | 0:28:48 | |
it can be a reality. | 0:28:48 | 0:28:49 | |
The week had allayed some of Guy's concerns about moving. | 0:28:49 | 0:28:53 | |
Every day I've come here, I've felt better about Australia, | 0:28:53 | 0:28:57 | |
about the kids spending their lives here. | 0:28:57 | 0:29:00 | |
The family faced an incredibly tough decision - | 0:29:00 | 0:29:03 | |
whether to pursue the life Danyel wanted for them or stay close to | 0:29:03 | 0:29:07 | |
everything they loved in the UK. | 0:29:07 | 0:29:09 | |
I feel a little bit like... | 0:29:09 | 0:29:12 | |
After watching those family videos, | 0:29:12 | 0:29:15 | |
it's definitely put a different spin on how I feel. | 0:29:15 | 0:29:18 | |
When we watched the video, | 0:29:18 | 0:29:19 | |
it just made us all upset and made | 0:29:19 | 0:29:21 | |
us remember our family back in the UK. | 0:29:21 | 0:29:25 | |
This is one of the hardest decisions I've ever had to make. | 0:29:27 | 0:29:30 | |
I'm just torn, I really, really am torn. | 0:29:30 | 0:29:32 | |
It's just so hard. Right now, I just don't know what I'm going to do. | 0:29:34 | 0:29:38 | |
It was time to see where the family would call home. | 0:29:39 | 0:29:43 | |
-Australia. -UK. | 0:29:53 | 0:29:55 | |
-Australia? -Yeah. | 0:29:56 | 0:29:59 | |
Even though I've voted Australia, I'm so upset that... | 0:29:59 | 0:30:03 | |
about the family and stuff. | 0:30:03 | 0:30:04 | |
I don't want to be this far from the family. | 0:30:04 | 0:30:07 | |
It's been really great. | 0:30:07 | 0:30:09 | |
It's just I can't see myself moving all this way when we could have | 0:30:09 | 0:30:12 | |
the family just next to us. | 0:30:12 | 0:30:14 | |
I didn't expect you to vote Australia. | 0:30:14 | 0:30:16 | |
I can't believe it. | 0:30:16 | 0:30:18 | |
Ultimately, I think | 0:30:18 | 0:30:19 | |
this is where the family should be, but it's going to be tough. | 0:30:19 | 0:30:24 | |
-Didn't expect... -No, I didn't. | 0:30:24 | 0:30:27 | |
After a week of tears and laughter, Danyel had finally persuaded Guy | 0:30:37 | 0:30:43 | |
and, surprisingly, Lauren, to sign up to the move. | 0:30:43 | 0:30:47 | |
Leeya and Ashlee were going to take a little bit more work, but overall | 0:30:47 | 0:30:51 | |
it looked like Danyel was well on her way to getting the life | 0:30:51 | 0:30:54 | |
she'd spent years dreaming about. | 0:30:54 | 0:30:57 | |
It's April 2016 and the Pedley-McKnights are living in... | 0:30:58 | 0:31:03 | |
Bradford. | 0:31:03 | 0:31:04 | |
Hopefully not for long, though, | 0:31:04 | 0:31:06 | |
as the family are currently making plans to move down under. | 0:31:06 | 0:31:10 | |
Getting to this point hasn't been straightforward, | 0:31:10 | 0:31:13 | |
despite Guy signing up to Danyel's dream. | 0:31:13 | 0:31:16 | |
As I voted, I voted, yeah, Australia, yeah. | 0:31:16 | 0:31:18 | |
I could see us there but it still wasn't a 100% vote, to be honest. | 0:31:18 | 0:31:23 | |
I knew that. | 0:31:23 | 0:31:24 | |
We've been together for 19 years. | 0:31:24 | 0:31:26 | |
I can read him. He voted Australia and he said the right things, | 0:31:26 | 0:31:30 | |
but I had this feeling that he didn't mean it. | 0:31:30 | 0:31:33 | |
I just sort of said, "I know you just voted Australia there | 0:31:33 | 0:31:36 | |
"but you didn't look as excited as I thought you would have done." | 0:31:36 | 0:31:39 | |
And I said, "You didn't really mean that vote, did you?" | 0:31:39 | 0:31:42 | |
And he said, "No, I didn't." | 0:31:42 | 0:31:44 | |
It were devastating. I felt like I were heartbroken, really. | 0:31:46 | 0:31:49 | |
We talked about it again and said, "Let's not let it ruin the holiday. | 0:31:49 | 0:31:52 | |
"We've got two weeks here. Let's just have some fun and we'll talk about it when we get home." | 0:31:52 | 0:31:57 | |
There - swimming with dolphins, look. | 0:31:57 | 0:31:59 | |
With plans to stay in the country for another two weeks, | 0:31:59 | 0:32:02 | |
Danyel put her feelings aside | 0:32:02 | 0:32:04 | |
to make sure the girls could make the most of their time down under | 0:32:04 | 0:32:08 | |
and they had a ball. | 0:32:08 | 0:32:09 | |
We swam with dolphins and it were really, really fun. | 0:32:09 | 0:32:13 | |
I'm not sure... | 0:32:13 | 0:32:15 | |
In the water you could, like, hear them talking to each other. | 0:32:15 | 0:32:18 | |
It was really cool. | 0:32:18 | 0:32:20 | |
Despite her reservations about making the country home, | 0:32:20 | 0:32:23 | |
Leeya had to admit Australia was pretty awesome. | 0:32:23 | 0:32:26 | |
I sort of made myself think I wouldn't like it | 0:32:26 | 0:32:29 | |
because I didn't want to go but when I got there, I really did like it. | 0:32:29 | 0:32:33 | |
Of course, Danyel loved it so much she didn't want to go home. | 0:32:33 | 0:32:37 | |
Leaving Perth and then coming back to the UK, I've got to say, | 0:32:37 | 0:32:41 | |
I were a big sulker. | 0:32:41 | 0:32:42 | |
I didn't want to come home. | 0:32:42 | 0:32:44 | |
I almost didn't get on the plane! | 0:32:44 | 0:32:45 | |
OK. Good boy. | 0:32:47 | 0:32:49 | |
With Guy's change of heart, | 0:32:49 | 0:32:50 | |
the family had no option other than to settle back into life in the UK. | 0:32:50 | 0:32:55 | |
But it wasn't long before | 0:32:55 | 0:32:56 | |
the subject of moving to Australia raised its head again. | 0:32:56 | 0:32:59 | |
Probably about a month after we got back, Danyel was saying, | 0:33:01 | 0:33:03 | |
"So, what are we doing?" I couldn't make a decision. | 0:33:03 | 0:33:06 | |
I was still kind of nagging him for | 0:33:06 | 0:33:08 | |
an answer but he wouldn't say yes or no. It was just a definite maybe. | 0:33:08 | 0:33:12 | |
I were torn. I'm still torn. | 0:33:12 | 0:33:14 | |
I can see it. I could see going to live in Australia to see what it would be like | 0:33:14 | 0:33:18 | |
but then I could see, I don't want to leave the family. | 0:33:18 | 0:33:21 | |
Six months later we were still talking about it and | 0:33:21 | 0:33:24 | |
he was still saying, "I just don't know. I don't think I want to." | 0:33:24 | 0:33:28 | |
Come here, boy. | 0:33:28 | 0:33:29 | |
Yeah, we had arguments, we had discussions. | 0:33:29 | 0:33:31 | |
There were some real tense times, to be honest. | 0:33:31 | 0:33:34 | |
We generally had moments where we didn't speak to each other | 0:33:34 | 0:33:38 | |
and it was quite upsetting. I was getting upset quite regular. | 0:33:38 | 0:33:41 | |
As the dust settled on her dream, | 0:33:45 | 0:33:47 | |
Danyel shifted her attention to improving the life | 0:33:47 | 0:33:51 | |
she already had in the UK. | 0:33:51 | 0:33:53 | |
I just decided that if Australia was never going to happen, | 0:33:53 | 0:33:57 | |
then something else had to happen because I couldn't just carry on | 0:33:57 | 0:34:00 | |
doing the same things we've always done. | 0:34:00 | 0:34:02 | |
If it wasn't going to be that, | 0:34:03 | 0:34:05 | |
it would have to be something else because I wasn't happy. | 0:34:05 | 0:34:08 | |
Danyel gave up her job as an HR manager for the retail firm | 0:34:08 | 0:34:13 | |
she'd spent 19 years working for | 0:34:13 | 0:34:14 | |
in order to do the same job part-time at a local college, | 0:34:14 | 0:34:18 | |
whilst also studying for a degree in human resources. | 0:34:18 | 0:34:21 | |
Guy was fully supportive of her decision. | 0:34:21 | 0:34:24 | |
In a way, it took a bit of pressure off me | 0:34:24 | 0:34:26 | |
that she was making these plans to go forward. | 0:34:26 | 0:34:29 | |
They were plans to make our life and our home life and our | 0:34:29 | 0:34:31 | |
family life better back in the UK. | 0:34:31 | 0:34:33 | |
Spurred on by his wife's determination | 0:34:35 | 0:34:37 | |
and his visit to the police academy in Perth, Guy's also recently | 0:34:37 | 0:34:41 | |
applied to join the special police force in West Yorkshire. | 0:34:41 | 0:34:45 | |
I talked about doing it for a long time. | 0:34:45 | 0:34:47 | |
It's just like getting myself into the right frame of mind and saying, | 0:34:47 | 0:34:50 | |
"Let's do it." | 0:34:50 | 0:34:51 | |
Busy improving their life in the UK, | 0:34:56 | 0:34:59 | |
Danyel's Australian dream was slowly fading | 0:34:59 | 0:35:02 | |
until things took an unexpected turn | 0:35:02 | 0:35:04 | |
when Guy's parents viewed footage of the family down under. | 0:35:04 | 0:35:07 | |
They said, "Yeah, I can see why you want to go out there. | 0:35:07 | 0:35:10 | |
"I can see why you want to live over there." | 0:35:10 | 0:35:12 | |
So, that were a bit of a light bulb moment really, thinking, yeah, | 0:35:12 | 0:35:15 | |
the family say, "Yeah, it's OK for you to go," | 0:35:15 | 0:35:18 | |
So let's give it a go. | 0:35:19 | 0:35:20 | |
You don't mind that flight? | 0:35:20 | 0:35:22 | |
You don't really notice it till... | 0:35:22 | 0:35:23 | |
You don't even feel that, do you? | 0:35:23 | 0:35:25 | |
-It's easier. -It's easier. | 0:35:25 | 0:35:27 | |
Almost a year after their trial week, | 0:35:29 | 0:35:31 | |
Guy finally had the news Danyel had given up hope of ever hearing. | 0:35:31 | 0:35:36 | |
She came home from work, I were making tea | 0:35:36 | 0:35:39 | |
and I just says, "OK, let's decide. I've made a decision. | 0:35:39 | 0:35:42 | |
"We're going to go. Let's do it." | 0:35:42 | 0:35:44 | |
I think I kind of looked at him as if to say, "Yeah, OK. I've heard this before!" | 0:35:44 | 0:35:48 | |
Then he said, "No. I've spoken to my mum." | 0:35:48 | 0:35:50 | |
And he told me about his conversation with his mum and dad, | 0:35:50 | 0:35:53 | |
and went into a bit more detail. | 0:35:53 | 0:35:55 | |
I think I just saw it in his face that he meant it, | 0:35:55 | 0:35:58 | |
so I think I jumped up and down. | 0:35:58 | 0:36:00 | |
We had a bit of a kiss and a cuddle | 0:36:00 | 0:36:02 | |
and I think I were like, "Yay, we're going to go!" | 0:36:02 | 0:36:05 | |
-Hiya. Hello. -You all right? | 0:36:05 | 0:36:08 | |
-Come in here. -Sit down. | 0:36:08 | 0:36:10 | |
-You all right? -All right, darling? | 0:36:10 | 0:36:12 | |
Danyel wasted no time spreading the word. | 0:36:12 | 0:36:16 | |
I went shouting to the girls, | 0:36:16 | 0:36:17 | |
"Your dad's changed his mind and he wants to go! | 0:36:17 | 0:36:19 | |
"We're going, we're going." I think I went just a little bit giddy. | 0:36:19 | 0:36:22 | |
I think you were a bit too giddy at the time. | 0:36:22 | 0:36:24 | |
-I think she were a bit too giddy. -I don't think you can be too giddy. | 0:36:24 | 0:36:26 | |
I don't think you can be too giddy about something like that. | 0:36:26 | 0:36:29 | |
When you've been stringing me along for years, | 0:36:29 | 0:36:31 | |
I don't think you can say I'm too giddy. | 0:36:31 | 0:36:33 | |
-I think that's unfair. -Unfair, is it? But you were a bit giddy. | 0:36:33 | 0:36:36 | |
Look at that. First time she's come right close to me. | 0:36:36 | 0:36:39 | |
Her excitement wasn't shared by Leeya. | 0:36:40 | 0:36:43 | |
I were really shocked that he actually wants to go and... | 0:36:43 | 0:36:48 | |
When it's just me and Ashlee that don't want to go against my mum | 0:36:48 | 0:36:51 | |
and my dad and Lauren, I just realised I might end up | 0:36:51 | 0:36:54 | |
actually going and it's not my choice if we do or don't go. | 0:36:54 | 0:36:57 | |
Unfortunately for Leeya, | 0:36:58 | 0:37:00 | |
Danyel's confident Guy's now completely on board. | 0:37:00 | 0:37:04 | |
Go down this way, darling. Do you want to hold him? | 0:37:04 | 0:37:06 | |
I haven't felt that it wasn't genuine. | 0:37:06 | 0:37:08 | |
I haven't felt like he was going to change his mind | 0:37:08 | 0:37:10 | |
like I always used to. Always, in the back of my mind, | 0:37:10 | 0:37:13 | |
I was used to think, "It's not going to really happen." | 0:37:13 | 0:37:15 | |
I haven't felt like that this time. | 0:37:15 | 0:37:17 | |
It's a very, very scary thing to do. | 0:37:20 | 0:37:22 | |
Very, very scary. | 0:37:22 | 0:37:23 | |
But you've got to think of the girls | 0:37:27 | 0:37:29 | |
and you've got to think of their growing up. | 0:37:29 | 0:37:31 | |
Danyel's finally got the green light | 0:37:34 | 0:37:37 | |
to start planning the life she craves. | 0:37:37 | 0:37:39 | |
I started purchasing magazines. | 0:37:39 | 0:37:42 | |
I was downloading application forms. | 0:37:42 | 0:37:44 | |
You know, redoing the CVs. | 0:37:45 | 0:37:47 | |
It's just been sort of full throttle ever since. | 0:37:47 | 0:37:50 | |
And with a degree soon to be added to her CV, | 0:37:50 | 0:37:53 | |
she's confident about her work prospects down under. | 0:37:53 | 0:37:56 | |
The lady that I actually met while I was over on the trial week, | 0:37:56 | 0:37:59 | |
she's contacted me as well to say that she would be able to consider | 0:37:59 | 0:38:03 | |
offering me something part-time, if that's what I'm interested in doing. | 0:38:03 | 0:38:06 | |
I just need to let her know when I get there. | 0:38:06 | 0:38:08 | |
So, potentially, I've already got a part-time job when I get there. | 0:38:08 | 0:38:12 | |
-Hello there. -Nice to meet you. | 0:38:12 | 0:38:14 | |
To help fund a move, the family home has just gone on the market. | 0:38:14 | 0:38:18 | |
-I believe you're moving to Australia. -Yeah. | 0:38:18 | 0:38:21 | |
When I saw the "for sale" sign the other day when I came home, | 0:38:21 | 0:38:24 | |
I've got to say, I did feel a little bit sick. | 0:38:24 | 0:38:26 | |
I felt something in my stomach. | 0:38:26 | 0:38:28 | |
I suppose it's that bit that it feels real now | 0:38:28 | 0:38:31 | |
and I said that to Guy - "How do you feel about that?" | 0:38:31 | 0:38:33 | |
He said, "It feels a bit real," but none of us weren't smiling. | 0:38:33 | 0:38:38 | |
It looks like Guy and Danyel are finally on the same page. | 0:38:39 | 0:38:43 | |
We've got a Plan A and a Plan B. | 0:38:43 | 0:38:45 | |
We've got Plan A, which is Australia... | 0:38:45 | 0:38:46 | |
-Yeah? -Yeah. -Definite. | 0:38:46 | 0:38:48 | |
-What can I buy you to make you want to go? -Nothing. | 0:38:48 | 0:38:51 | |
But, as the couple work towards making the move, | 0:38:51 | 0:38:54 | |
the possibility of swapping Bradford for Perth is still getting | 0:38:54 | 0:38:58 | |
a mixed reaction from Ashlee. | 0:38:58 | 0:39:00 | |
I wouldn't like to live in Australia | 0:39:00 | 0:39:02 | |
because we're leaving all the friends and family. | 0:39:02 | 0:39:06 | |
But if they moved out, | 0:39:06 | 0:39:10 | |
I would because it's... | 0:39:10 | 0:39:12 | |
better, and warm, and you get to do more activities. | 0:39:12 | 0:39:16 | |
And Leeya's still adamant she doesn't want to leave her friends. | 0:39:18 | 0:39:22 | |
It would be really, really hard to leave them, not see them every day, | 0:39:22 | 0:39:26 | |
and have to make new ones in Australia. | 0:39:26 | 0:39:28 | |
It's harder when you have to go to a new school, | 0:39:28 | 0:39:31 | |
never mind going across the world to a new school. | 0:39:31 | 0:39:34 | |
But just like mum, Lauren's excited at the prospect of making the move. | 0:39:34 | 0:39:38 | |
-I thought you wanted to go. -I do. -Why are you crying? | 0:39:38 | 0:39:40 | |
Are you just fibbing to me and you don't want to go? | 0:39:40 | 0:39:43 | |
-You're just telling me so that I'm happy? -No. | 0:39:43 | 0:39:46 | |
There's loads more to do and, like, to have in Australia than in the UK. | 0:39:46 | 0:39:52 | |
So, like, against each other, I know Australia is better for me. | 0:39:52 | 0:39:57 | |
You won't be able to hang around with your friends. | 0:39:57 | 0:39:59 | |
Is that what you're saying? | 0:39:59 | 0:40:00 | |
And she's confident her sisters will soon come round. | 0:40:00 | 0:40:03 | |
You won't be speaking to any of them. | 0:40:03 | 0:40:04 | |
No, I won't speak to any of them. | 0:40:04 | 0:40:07 | |
'I know Leeya doesn't want to go' | 0:40:07 | 0:40:09 | |
but when we were out there she was really happy, | 0:40:09 | 0:40:12 | |
so I think if we get out there, she'll, like... | 0:40:12 | 0:40:16 | |
adapt to it. But Ashlee, I feel like, when we get there again, | 0:40:16 | 0:40:20 | |
she'll love it again. | 0:40:20 | 0:40:21 | |
Did your dad tell you that I scored three past him on Monday? | 0:40:21 | 0:40:26 | |
Even though Guy's fully signed up this time, | 0:40:26 | 0:40:28 | |
he's still uneasy at the prospect of leaving family in the UK. | 0:40:28 | 0:40:32 | |
It's going to be really, really upsetting. | 0:40:34 | 0:40:36 | |
I think the weeks up to it are going to be awful. | 0:40:36 | 0:40:39 | |
That day's just going to be horrendous. | 0:40:39 | 0:40:41 | |
I don't really want to think about it, to be honest. | 0:40:43 | 0:40:47 | |
And Lauren knows just how he feels. | 0:40:47 | 0:40:50 | |
I'm upset sometimes because, like, I'm really close with my family | 0:40:51 | 0:40:56 | |
and to leave them is really hard, | 0:40:56 | 0:40:58 | |
but then I know it's the right thing to do | 0:40:58 | 0:41:01 | |
because Australia's better for us... | 0:41:01 | 0:41:04 | |
..and I know that we can, like, see them because we can come home | 0:41:05 | 0:41:11 | |
but it'll be hard to leave them. | 0:41:11 | 0:41:13 | |
Danyel, on the other hand, | 0:41:17 | 0:41:19 | |
is taking comfort from her family's words of encouragement. | 0:41:19 | 0:41:23 | |
My dad, he actually said, | 0:41:23 | 0:41:25 | |
"I'll be able to die happy knowing that you're living your dream." | 0:41:25 | 0:41:28 | |
Because he knows it's my dream. | 0:41:28 | 0:41:30 | |
And, yeah, my dream is something different for the children. | 0:41:30 | 0:41:33 | |
My parents have raised us - they've done what they want to do - | 0:41:33 | 0:41:36 | |
it's my turn to do the same thing for my girls now. | 0:41:36 | 0:41:38 | |
The wheels are definitely in motion for the family to make the move | 0:41:39 | 0:41:43 | |
and, hopefully, it won't be too much longer before they touch | 0:41:43 | 0:41:47 | |
back down on Australian soil. | 0:41:47 | 0:41:49 | |
In an ideal world, we'll be moving over | 0:41:49 | 0:41:52 | |
in about September time this year. | 0:41:52 | 0:41:54 | |
Is that what you think? | 0:41:54 | 0:41:55 | |
-That's your ideal? -You've got to have positive thinking, haven't you? | 0:41:55 | 0:41:58 | |
Because if you haven't got owt to work towards, what's...? | 0:41:58 | 0:42:01 | |
The earliest I think's going to be January, the earliest, next year... | 0:42:11 | 0:42:16 | |
by the time I get across. That's what I believe. | 0:42:16 | 0:42:18 | |
I can handle January. | 0:42:18 | 0:42:19 | |
Go! | 0:42:19 | 0:42:20 | |
You're going fast. Come on, Ashlee. | 0:42:25 | 0:42:27 | |
But there's nothing to say it won't happen as fast as I'm saying. | 0:42:27 | 0:42:31 | |
There's nothing to say we won't be there before Christmas. | 0:42:31 | 0:42:34 | |
Is there, though? You can't guarantee it. | 0:42:34 | 0:42:36 | |
-I can't guarantee it. -No. -But I don't think we will. | 0:42:36 | 0:42:39 | |
-OK. -I'm a big realist. | 0:42:39 | 0:42:40 | |
They might disagree on when they'll make the move, | 0:42:49 | 0:42:53 | |
but the important thing is | 0:42:53 | 0:42:55 | |
Guy finally agrees with Danyel about pursuing her Australian dream. | 0:42:55 | 0:43:00 | |
Fingers crossed everything works out | 0:43:00 | 0:43:02 | |
and the lifestyle they all fell for during their trial week | 0:43:02 | 0:43:06 | |
becomes their reality sooner rather than later. | 0:43:06 | 0:43:10 | |
Meantime, we wish the whole family a very happy future. | 0:43:10 | 0:43:14 |