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If your job meant never seeing the people you loved,

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how far would you go for the family life you dreamt of?

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In 2011 the Stitt family had to decide

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if the answer lay on the other side of the world.

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One year on, we'll find out if they went through with the biggest gamble of their lives.

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The Stitts were desperate for a new life.

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I just don't want, in ten years' time,

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for my children to say, "Daddy, who are you?"

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But it would come at a huge cost.

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That's what we have to give up, that, to make...

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It's a huge, huge stumbling block.

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A year on, had they made the right decision?

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I wish Eric had been here.

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I miss him and his support.

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In 2011, the Stitt family spent a week

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experiencing the reality of life in Australia.

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At the end of it, they'd face a huge decision -

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whether to stay in the UK or to make the move for good.

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Today we're catching up with them

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to find out what's happened since we last met.

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Their journey began with a gruelling 20-hour flight

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over 9,000 miles to reach Perth.

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And all that time brought out a whole range of worries

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about the days ahead.

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I'm just thinking,

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"What if we don't like it? What are we going to do?

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"Is our situation so bad that we have to leave Northern Ireland?

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"Do we have to come to the other side of the world?

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"Can't we do something else? Can't we just do what we're doing?

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"Can I put up with it? No, I can't put up with it."

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I've just been up and down.

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But there were some plus points to their trial week in Australia.

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-Nice to get to spend a bit of time together.

-Yes, yeah.

-As a family.

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Cos we don't get a lot of that, family time together.

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So, that's an opportunity for us to be together and...

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see how that works out!

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As they set off on their week in Australia,

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it was a far cry from their life in Northern Ireland.

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In 2011, Eric, Corinne and their daughters, nine-year-old Jodie

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and Madison, aged five, lived in Bangor.

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It provided them with a lifestyle they all loved.

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Both Eric and I are born and bred Northern Ireland

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and we're proud to be Northern Irish.

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-We have a lot going on here.

-We do love where we live.

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We live in a very nice area, we're so close to the school the kids go to.

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We've been able to provide the girls lots of opportunities for things.

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So why did the Stitts want to give it all up for Australia?

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It seemed there was a huge problem tearing the family apart.

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In a month, Eric would be away for two or three weeks at a time.

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He's home for the weekend and he would have one full day with us.

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And in that stage everything is rushed into the full day

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and then, the next day, Eric's away off to the airport,

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and away to work, and it could be for another two weeks.

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The day-to-day absence from Eric was taking its toll on all of them.

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He has missed out over the years on those things where, really,

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you know, he should be there. And he does feel it.

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It can be very hard trying to explain to a five-year-old

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that Daddy has to go to work, you have to keep a roof over your heads.

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OK, have you got a kiss for Daddy?

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Eric owned his own business designing pipe systems for oil and gas rigs all over Europe.

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Working offshore meant he couldn't have his family with him.

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'I just don't want, in ten years' time,

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'for my children to turn round and say, "Daddy, who are you?

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'"Where have you been?"'

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-You behave yourself, now, for your mummy.

-OK.

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'It's vitally important that we do get our lives sorted out

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'and get to spend the time together as a family that we need to.'

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-Try...

-You're all right.

-OK. See you. Take care.

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'Corinne does feel it hard sometimes.

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'She has to be here 24/7 for the girls.'

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Everything is on her shoulders.

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She says she feels like she's a single parent.

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It's not easy for her and I do appreciate that.

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The Stitts were looking to Australia

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to give them their dream of a normal family life.

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They hoped its booming oil industry would mean Eric could find a job

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that allowed him to be at home a lot more.

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We're just hoping for a lifestyle that's...

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you work to live, you don't live to work.

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Even the girls could see the benefits.

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We would like to go to Australia.

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-Wouldn't we?

-Yeah.

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It would be fun to spend some time with Dad and everything.

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And he'll help us with our homework.

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But if the Stitts did move down under they were all too aware

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of how much they stood to lose.

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We are quite a close family.

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It's very daunting, I suppose, sometimes, just to think that

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you're going to be the other side of the world.

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That you're not going to be there when they need you.

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It's not that easy to get back to see them.

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It was a difficult decision which left them torn.

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The Stitts wanted to find out if Perth in Western Australia

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was the right location for their fresh start.

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Their rental home for the week was a three-bedroom cottage

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only five minutes from Fremantle Beach.

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Everything's here that we need. It's really nice and it's clean

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and it's modern with that sort of shabby chic-y twist to it.

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Corinne and Eric were well aware of how big a deal

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the next seven days would be.

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I really want it to go well,

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for this to be a really positive experience for us.

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Otherwise, we're going to be down the road in another ten years' time

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and wonder what we've done with ourselves.

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A lot really does ride on it.

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Although they were looking for a future in Australia,

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falling for life there could have had huge repercussions.

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I worry that if I really, really do like it,

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that people at home are going to be a bit...

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There's a sense of guilt.

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There's a wee sense of that,

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that there's going to be a lot of sad faces.

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I don't know whether they really have realised

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that this is a serious decision for us.

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This is... If we like this, we're coming out here.

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We're not hanging about.

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Actually being here now brings home to you just how big a decision

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it would be to make the move.

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In 2011,

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the Stitts lived in a three-bedroom house in Bangor, Northern Ireland.

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They had plenty of ideas about what

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their Australian house needed to deliver.

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The right sort of property would be very important.

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My dream property in Australia would be a pretty big house.

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In the middle of nowhere.

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It has to have a swimming pool for the girls.

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And just somewhere where we can spread out

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and just enjoy being outdoors and just having room around us.

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That all sounded great, but it wouldn't come cheap.

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The Stitts had a budget of around £300,000,

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but they needed to get the right price for their house.

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We gave them a taste of the Perth property market

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and showed them three options,

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based upon what they wanted from their ideal home,

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what they could afford

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and the real price of property down under.

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After looking round each one, they'd discover how much they cost.

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But could their wallets keep up with their dreams?

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First up was this three-bedroom house 20 miles south of Perth,

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in the Byford area.

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It was popular with young families and offered good value for money.

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But what did the Stitts make of it?

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Looks like a box with windows.

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THEY LAUGH

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Straight into the living room. A bit smaller than I thought.

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-No, I don't like this at all.

-You're not keen on coming straight in...

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No. It's really not what I would come out here for.

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I know we don't have a big back garden at home,

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but this is even smaller.

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It's just not practical at all, not for having kids.

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-Where are you going to play?

-What are they going to do out here?

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-Go round in a circle on their bikes?

-No, that's not working for me at all.

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No.

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That's a real big letdown.

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This house failed on all fronts, but they still didn't know its cost.

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If it was anywhere near their budget,

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would it be worth giving up life in the UK for?

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So, what was the price?

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ERIC SNIGGERS

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£250,000 sterling.

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That was a blow.

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Their budget was between £250,000 and £300,000.

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There needs to be a wee bit of reality on that

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cos this house is not worth £250,000 of anybody's money.

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Things didn't look good for the Stitts.

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If this property was not even worth considering,

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would their dream house be beyond their means?

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Hopefully, property two would restore their faith.

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This four-bedroom house in the small town of Baldivis

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was close to beaches, shops and restaurants.

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Would it be more up their street?

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OK.

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Ahh, you see, this is a hall.

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-This is better.

-This has a nice feel about it.

-Yeah, this is better.

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It's open-plan but it works a lot better than that other property.

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Yeah, it's a bigger area.

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It was only the second house

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and the Stitts seemed to have found something they liked.

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Would the garden keep them happy?

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Oh, it's like...

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Pfft.

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-That's like the...

-Peace wall.

-That's like a peace wall.

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A DOG BARKS

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Er... It's a wee bit...

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No, the house is nice, this here is a big no-no. I couldn't, no way.

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No way, I have to be honest with you, no way. That...

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That is like a prison boundary. I can't cope with that.

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It's not my dream,

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it's really not my idea of living the Australian dream.

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It doesn't do it for me, I'm sorry.

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Can we go?

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It may seem like an extreme reaction but it's a painful reminder

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of something they're trying to leave behind.

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It reminds us both of a boundary wall in Belfast

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called a peace wall,

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which separates two communities in Belfast.

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It's there to keep people apart.

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It doesn't affect Eric and I where we live, but it is a symbol

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of something that we have been affected by over the years.

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I'm not coming to Western Australia to look at that

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-or be reminded of it, thanks very much.

-No.

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Corinne wasn't too concerned about the price of the property,

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but would they have been able to afford it?

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Leaving the garden aside, it was a house they all liked.

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315,000.

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It's probably over-valued at 315,000.

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Well, basing it and comparing it to...

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Comparing it to what I would get at home, yeah.

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But I certainly would not pay it for here. No.

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As if the wall wasn't enough, it was also at the top of their budget.

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If this was the best they could buy,

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would Eric and Corinne have to rethink their future?

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Everything rested on the last house.

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Property three, in Secret Harbour,

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was only a few minutes' walk from the beach

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but nearly 40 miles south of Perth.

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The Stitts would get more for their money

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but it meant a long commute for Eric.

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This is nice.

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-That's nice. Lots of kiddies about, as well.

-Yeah.

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You'd have friends to play with.

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-Oh, this is really swanky, isn't it? This is lovely.

-Yeah, this is nice.

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-Which way will we go?

-Erm... follow Dad.

-This way?

-Go this way.

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Master bedroom, I think.

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-That's lovely.

-That's beautiful.

-That's really nice,

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the decor, as well, is really nice.

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That looks like an en-suite.

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-Oh, wow!

-Woo!

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-That's bigger than our bathroom at home!

-Probably is.

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With so much at stake, this house certainly seemed to pick up

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Corinne and Eric's spirits.

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Wow! I like this.

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-Wow factor, there.

-Yeah, this is what I'm talking about.

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Ohhhh.

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Mummy, are you going to get this house?

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Wow, she is going to get it.

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-Well, it ticks a lot of my boxes.

-It's ticking all the boxes so far.

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Madison seemed to have made up her mind about the house,

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but Corinne had spotted something in the garden.

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You're here, you're looking at your TV, your living area

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and what else are you looking at?

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Oh, aye. What can you see out there, girls?

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-What is it?

-A pool.

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A pool.

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No tears this time.

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ERIC LAUGHS

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Quite happy.

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Everyone might have been happy, but they were yet to find out the price.

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Could the cost bring the dream to a juddering halt?

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400.

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-Approximately 400,000.

-Yep.

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I think, the finish, the detail,

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the swimming pool, that all adds up.

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They'd found the ideal house but it was well over budget.

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Would the Stitts have to settle for a lot less

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if they were to make the move?

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-We'll have to see what I can expect, obviously, to earn.

-Yep.

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It would have to take

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a house like this or similar standard

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for us to make the move.

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After viewing all three houses, emotions were running high.

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With the realisation that to afford their dream

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Eric would have to earn considerably more,

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which way did they vote?

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Based on the houses we've looked at today

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and what we think we can get,

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our decision is...

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ALL: Australia!

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Back home in Northern Ireland, Eric ran his own company,

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designing pipework for the oil and gas industry.

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He earned £75,000 a year.

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The problem was, this meant being away from home for up to three weeks at a time.

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So we arranged for him to meet a specialist recruitment consultant

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for the oil and gas industry.

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However, starting again would be a big gamble.

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I do have reservations about leaving the job I have in the UK at present.

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Things have been going very well for me.

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I enjoy the work,

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so, yeah, I'm worried about possibly leaving that behind,

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taking the plunge for pastures new.

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There was a lot riding on Eric's interview, and, while he prepared,

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Corinne gave the girls a taste of Aussie life.

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-I'm Suzanne.

-Hi, I'm Corinne.

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-This is Jodie and Madison.

-How you going, guys?

-Good.

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And the girls didn't waste any time getting into the saddle.

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-CLICKS HER TONGUE

-Walk on.

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Aah!

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Back in the city, recruitment manager Andrei Sarpe

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had been poring over Eric's CV.

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The positive thing is, because of the industry where it is,

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it's at a massive growth stage

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so it's the right time for anyone to come into the industry

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if they'll ever have a chance of coming in.

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-Yeah.

-And I think the skills that you've already got

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and the packages that you've been working with

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are very transferable to the market here.

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That's exactly what Eric wanted to hear.

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At the stables, Corinne's time alone with the girls

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reminded her why their life needed to change.

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Eric misses out on a lot of the kids' day-to-day activities.

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And when he does come home from work he feels absolutely wrecked.

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But at the end of the day, it's not an option

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when you've two young kids, you have to get up and out there

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and that's when we feel the pressure.

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We pack everything into the short time he is home.

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And then the routine starts again,

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and that's when the upset starts, when Eric heads off again.

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SHE SOBS

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Find it really difficult. I find it difficult.

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I find emotionally, sometimes I'm wrecked, just with...

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I feel so much for the kids.

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I just really do feel for them

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and it's just like I have to put them first.

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It sounds silly, but I have to be a big girl about things now

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and my kids have to come first.

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My family have to come first

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and I can't really cope much longer

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with the upset that it causes them.

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It was this upset that pushed them

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to consider emigrating to the other side of the world.

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However, the move would have been pointless if Eric still had to work away from home.

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Most of the work is office-based in Perth

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and most of the companies do have facilities in the CBD.

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So there's infrequent travel

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to offshore and maybe onshore sites as well,

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but definitely 95% of the work is done in the CBD

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so it is more family-friendly, compared to a lot of other places.

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To get an opportunity to work in the CBD,

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in the same city, the same country as my wife and children...

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-You get to go home every night.

-To go home every night would be fantastic.

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That left just one big question.

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Based on the contract rules, what would you...

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ballpark figure, would you see salary potential?

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The salary ranges can start anywhere between 180

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up into the vicinity of the 300,000s

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for the senior roles and the lead roles.

0:19:520:19:55

Yeah, just trying to do the sums in my head there

0:19:550:19:57

but I think that compares really favourably.

0:19:570:20:00

Certainly the news I wanted to hear.

0:20:000:20:03

Fantastic.

0:20:030:20:04

I think those figures will go down well with my wife as well!

0:20:040:20:08

I'm sure they will!

0:20:080:20:09

Even the lowest possible salary was £113,000,

0:20:090:20:14

38,000 more than Eric earned at the time.

0:20:140:20:17

Suddenly, a future where he could be part of the family looked possible.

0:20:170:20:21

So how did he vote on work in the UK vs Australia?

0:20:210:20:25

Today's went really positive.

0:20:250:20:27

I heard all I needed to hear,

0:20:270:20:29

probably a little bit more.

0:20:290:20:31

Based on all I've been able to find out today,

0:20:310:20:35

my vote goes to...

0:20:350:20:37

..Australia!

0:20:390:20:42

Back at the house, Corinne was keen to know what Eric had found out.

0:20:450:20:52

So where would you be located? Would you have to do any offshore work?

0:20:520:20:56

-It's all based in the CBD.

-Office-based?

0:20:560:20:58

Those big tall new buildings you're looking at in the centre of Perth,

0:20:580:21:02

a lot of them are all the major oil companies

0:21:020:21:06

-so all Perth-based, CBD.

-That's what you want, isn't it?

0:21:060:21:09

-So you're not having to worry about looking...

-Isn't that good?

0:21:090:21:14

Do you like that? Do you like that, Madison?

0:21:140:21:17

-Mm-hmm.

-Daddy working in a job that he'd be home every night?

0:21:170:21:22

-Mm-hmm.

-Yeah?

0:21:220:21:23

-Yeah?

-Oh, dear.

0:21:230:21:25

-I haven't told you what the salary was yet.

-All right, tell me.

0:21:250:21:29

He reckons he doesn't see why you couldn't be looking at

0:21:290:21:35

250,000 - 300,000 Australian dollars.

0:21:350:21:39

What?

0:21:400:21:41

And that's before you start even moving into management.

0:21:410:21:46

CORINNE LAUGHS

0:21:460:21:49

Serious!

0:21:510:21:52

-I don't believe you.

-Seriously.

0:21:540:21:56

What do you think about that, then?

0:21:560:21:59

Yeah, when can I start?

0:21:590:22:01

Can you do overtime?

0:22:010:22:03

Not yet!

0:22:030:22:04

-Can you work weekends? It is 7-7?

-I don't think they do weekends.

0:22:060:22:09

OK, that's something you need to find out.

0:22:090:22:11

THEY LAUGH

0:22:110:22:13

We're OK, we'll amuse ourselves.

0:22:130:22:16

Corinne and Eric's house had been on the market

0:22:210:22:24

for 12 months at £180,000.

0:22:240:22:26

If they couldn't get a decent price, they were thinking of renting it out

0:22:260:22:30

and taking a bigger mortgage in Australia.

0:22:300:22:33

We sent round two estate agents to get their opinion.

0:22:330:22:39

The kitchen's modern

0:22:390:22:41

and most buyers are looking for natural wood kitchens.

0:22:410:22:45

-Nicely done.

-That's good.

-That's nice.

0:22:450:22:47

This is a well-proportioned bedroom,

0:22:470:22:51

certainly capable of taking a double bed,

0:22:510:22:53

and obviously a little girl's room, but that shouldn't affect the price.

0:22:530:22:57

I'm not little!

0:22:570:22:59

In today's market, I would value this house at £160,000

0:22:590:23:04

and for quick sale, £150,000

0:23:040:23:07

-and for a rental, somewhere in the region of £650 per month.

-Yep.

-Yes?

0:23:070:23:11

I would expect under current market conditions

0:23:110:23:14

that the property should achieve a figure in the region of £165,000.

0:23:140:23:19

In terms of rental value,

0:23:190:23:20

I would expect it to achieve between £600 and £650 per calendar month.

0:23:200:23:24

-Yeah.

-Yeah, that's OK.

0:23:240:23:27

-That's exactly...

-What we thought.

0:23:270:23:30

Maybe actually a wee bit more on the sale of the house.

0:23:300:23:34

No big surprises there, then,

0:23:370:23:40

but what did the cost of living reveal?

0:23:400:23:41

We prepared a comparison of prices in Australia to those in the UK.

0:23:410:23:46

Just over slightly doubled.

0:23:490:23:51

The cost of living is,

0:23:510:23:53

basically, slightly more than double what it would be in the UK.

0:23:530:23:59

That was a massive difference.

0:23:590:24:02

Could Eric's higher salary have made up for the hole in their finances?

0:24:020:24:06

Right, so looking at the figures, in the UK, we can get £80,000 a year.

0:24:060:24:11

-Yep.

-In Australia, going in at the mid-range,

0:24:110:24:14

you're looking at £110,000 a year

0:24:140:24:17

with the potential to go up another 10 - 15,000

0:24:170:24:21

if you're looking towards the higher end of the income range.

0:24:210:24:25

So, right away, you are £30,000 a year better off here.

0:24:250:24:28

We can achieve the dream of being together as a family

0:24:280:24:32

and financially we're not going to suffer.

0:24:320:24:35

We can have our cake and eat it, in a way.

0:24:360:24:40

Gosh. That's good.

0:24:400:24:43

I'm just really, really excited now.

0:24:430:24:46

That's making me so happy.

0:24:460:24:48

It's better than what we possibly thought.

0:24:480:24:50

Had the Stitts worked out a way to get the dream life?

0:24:540:24:57

How did they vote on living costs?

0:24:570:24:59

Taking into consideration the salary Eric would earn in Australia

0:24:590:25:05

against the salary in the UK

0:25:050:25:07

and also the cost of living...

0:25:070:25:09

..our vote goes to...

0:25:100:25:12

BOTH: ..Australia!

0:25:140:25:17

The figures looked great, but would hearing messages from their loved ones

0:25:220:25:26

make them realise that moving away would be too high a price to pay.

0:25:260:25:30

Let's see what everyone has to say about us back home.

0:25:330:25:37

About a year and a half ago, they came to see us one night

0:25:370:25:40

and they happened to say

0:25:400:25:43

that they were thinking of going to Australia

0:25:430:25:46

and how did we feel about it?

0:25:460:25:48

Well,

0:25:480:25:50

-we were shocked.

-Mm-hmm.

0:25:500:25:53

But we understood the situation, we understood how they felt.

0:25:530:25:57

We'll miss sometimes having to go to school to collect the kids,

0:25:570:26:00

bring them home,

0:26:000:26:01

just doing different things in general with them.

0:26:010:26:04

It'll be different that

0:26:040:26:07

a family member lives over there,

0:26:070:26:09

so close to you, but...

0:26:090:26:11

..if it helps their family life, and betters...

0:26:120:26:16

It'll be good for them, you know.

0:26:160:26:18

I will feel very emotional about it.

0:26:180:26:20

It did affect me, yes. Sometimes I try not to show it.

0:26:200:26:25

But it does.

0:26:290:26:30

If they do go,

0:26:320:26:34

and if they stay,

0:26:340:26:36

I know we've always said we would never fly

0:26:360:26:38

but we will try to go to see them.

0:26:380:26:42

But God willing, they'll come back to see us.

0:26:420:26:45

And we'll keep in touch as best we can.

0:26:450:26:48

You're the very best.

0:26:490:26:51

And I just think that...

0:26:520:26:55

All the best, son. All the best.

0:26:590:27:02

Think about it.

0:27:040:27:05

Take in, weigh the pros and cons

0:27:050:27:09

of what you have in Australia and what you have here at home

0:27:090:27:13

and weigh out the difference

0:27:130:27:15

and make the right decision, both of yous.

0:27:150:27:18

We love yous. God bless.

0:27:180:27:23

Brings it home to you a wee bit more, sitting here seeing that, I suppose.

0:27:230:27:26

Och aye, it does.

0:27:260:27:28

But at the end of the day,

0:27:310:27:32

they understand that my quality of life just isn't there.

0:27:320:27:36

Exactly.

0:27:360:27:38

And that's the compromise.

0:27:380:27:40

We're OK financially here,

0:27:400:27:43

we're OK with the lifestyle,

0:27:430:27:47

that's our compromise.

0:27:470:27:49

That's what we have to give up

0:27:490:27:51

and that, to me, is a huge,

0:27:510:27:55

huge stumbling block.

0:27:550:27:56

It's emotional. There's no doubt about it.

0:27:560:28:00

Seeing their messages brought home how painful the move would be.

0:28:010:28:05

But if it was a loss that was too much to bear,

0:28:050:28:08

they'd have to give up on their dream of Australia.

0:28:080:28:12

You can see the emotions, you can see how people feel,

0:28:120:28:17

and it is, it's a significant sacrifice.

0:28:170:28:21

You are walking away from your life, your established life,

0:28:210:28:25

everything you know, everything that's familiar to you,

0:28:250:28:29

and there is a risk involved in that.

0:28:290:28:32

We have to weigh up the pros and cons.

0:28:320:28:35

Obviously on the minus side

0:28:370:28:40

is the sacrifice of leaving people behind,

0:28:400:28:43

but the plus side is the opportunities and lifestyle

0:28:430:28:48

that it could offer Jodie and Madison.

0:28:480:28:51

It was the end of an emotional week for the Stitts

0:28:510:28:54

and time for them to make their final, crucial vote.

0:28:540:28:57

Would the promise of more time together in Australia

0:28:570:29:00

be enough to overcome the pull of home?

0:29:000:29:04

We started off, we weren't too sure

0:29:040:29:06

how we would fit in with Australian life.

0:29:060:29:10

But all in all,

0:29:120:29:13

we as a family have enjoyed our experience here in Perth.

0:29:130:29:17

It's been a positive experience.

0:29:170:29:20

I think we all can see that the dream is more of a possibility now.

0:29:200:29:26

Our vote goes to...

0:29:260:29:28

ALL: Australia!

0:29:280:29:31

Are you happy enough with your decision?

0:29:350:29:37

Yeah, I think so.

0:29:370:29:39

-I think it's just reinforced what we were thinking before we came.

-Dada!

0:29:390:29:43

I think we can make it work for us.

0:29:430:29:46

Yeah, I think we could work together.

0:29:460:29:48

You want a kiss too? Mwah!

0:29:500:29:53

-You get one?

-Eugh!

-No?

0:29:530:29:56

After a week to remember,

0:30:010:30:03

Eric and Corinne decided that Australia could offer them

0:30:030:30:06

the lifestyle they were searching for, but with so much at stake,

0:30:060:30:10

were they able to go through with their plans?

0:30:100:30:13

One year on, we've caught up with them to find out.

0:30:130:30:15

It's May 2012 and the Stitts are enjoying

0:30:180:30:21

-a sunny afternoon in the garden...

-Well, that's you off.

0:30:210:30:25

..in Northern Ireland.

0:30:250:30:27

'I think it was probably the first time that we had spent

0:30:280:30:31

'so much time together as a family, in Australia,'

0:30:310:30:35

without Eric having to go off somewhere.

0:30:350:30:39

And once again, Eric's work has taken him away from Corinne

0:30:390:30:43

-and the family.

-'Hello?'

-Hello!

0:30:430:30:47

-How's it going?

-'Good. Not too bad. How are you?'

0:30:470:30:50

-I'm grand, I'm grand. You're looking well, pet.

-How's work?

0:30:500:30:55

'Yeah, I'm keeping busy.'

0:30:550:30:57

What about the kids? How are they doing?

0:30:570:30:59

Yeah, the kids are great, doing well.

0:30:590:31:01

They're happy enough at school.

0:31:010:31:04

We've been starting to get the packing, get the bags sorted.

0:31:040:31:08

I'm working out what I'm going to bring.

0:31:080:31:12

What's that? The packing?!

0:31:120:31:15

Well, in a week's time I will be on a flight to Australia!

0:31:150:31:20

We're heading out to Perth to be with Eric.

0:31:210:31:25

Just get your suitcases packed! Hurry up and get out here!

0:31:250:31:29

Are you looking forward to it?

0:31:290:31:30

'No, I can't wait. I can't wait until yous get out now.'

0:31:300:31:33

I'm really missing you and Jodie and Madison, honey,

0:31:330:31:36

so you can give them a big kiss and a hug from Daddy.

0:31:360:31:40

We're not having too long to wait now.

0:31:400:31:42

It'll all be worth it in the end, won't it?

0:31:420:31:45

'It will, it will. So I hope you're ready for a big cuddle

0:31:450:31:49

'when you get off that plane. And a big kiss.'

0:31:490:31:52

Five weeks earlier, Eric had flown out of Perth

0:31:530:31:57

to start a new job.

0:31:570:31:58

He's been staying in a rental property while he looks for a bigger place,

0:31:580:32:02

for when the rest of the family comes out to join him.

0:32:020:32:04

Once we returned to the UK,

0:32:090:32:11

we were pretty happy that we wanted to make the move to Australia,

0:32:110:32:15

so we basically got started right away

0:32:150:32:18

trying to put the plans in order, trying to get things organised

0:32:180:32:21

for the move.

0:32:210:32:24

I've now made the move over to Perth,

0:32:240:32:27

but Corinne, Jodie and Madison are still back in Bangor,

0:32:270:32:31

until the end of May, to give me a chance to get over here,

0:32:310:32:34

get the job organised and get everything set up for them arriving.

0:32:340:32:38

My stomach... At the time when we decided, "Yeah, we want to make the move,"

0:32:420:32:47

ach, we were really excited,

0:32:470:32:49

but we were really, really nervous about it as well,

0:32:490:32:52

cos then we were thinking, we've got to go back

0:32:520:32:55

and start making plans.

0:32:550:32:58

And it was just a roller coaster after that.

0:32:580:33:01

Obviously, we're still... we're still apart, um...

0:33:010:33:05

They're back in the UK and I'm over here.

0:33:050:33:09

It isn't ideal but at least it does give me the chance

0:33:090:33:13

to get things ready for them coming here,

0:33:130:33:16

and hopefully making it an easier start for us all

0:33:160:33:19

once they get here.

0:33:190:33:21

It has been really difficult without Eric being here,

0:33:210:33:26

but we're looking forward now to getting out to Australia

0:33:260:33:29

and just getting on with our lives and just being there with him.

0:33:290:33:32

When Eric left the UK,

0:33:350:33:37

so did a container full of the family's belongings.

0:33:370:33:41

With the house empty, they put it up for rental,

0:33:410:33:43

and Corinne and the girls moved in with her parents next door

0:33:430:33:47

for their final few weeks in Northern Ireland.

0:33:470:33:50

Moved everything in, lock, stock and barrel. Dogs, children.

0:33:500:33:53

And, um, it's been fun.

0:33:530:33:57

It has been good, my mum and dad have been absolutely brilliant.

0:33:570:34:00

For Jodie and Madison,

0:34:000:34:01

it's been a completely new experience

0:34:010:34:04

and it's only just the start of their Australian journey.

0:34:040:34:08

I've probably had more ups and downs than they have, really.

0:34:080:34:12

You know, they're so well adjusted to Eric not being around.

0:34:120:34:16

But now, as the time has come sort of closer,

0:34:160:34:19

I think we're all just getting to the stage where we just want to be away now.

0:34:190:34:23

We're tired, we're living out of suitcases,

0:34:230:34:26

it's not normal.

0:34:260:34:28

Um, but we have all... We've done well.

0:34:280:34:32

I think we have done well.

0:34:320:34:35

While Corinne and the girls are coping with the upheaval of leaving the UK,

0:34:390:34:44

in Australia, Eric is dealing with starting a new job

0:34:440:34:47

in unfamiliar territory.

0:34:470:34:49

I've started here as a senior piping designer.

0:34:500:34:53

The financial package is very good

0:34:540:34:56

and also the professional development,

0:34:560:34:59

which I'm looking for as well.

0:34:590:35:01

There's a lot worse places you can think of going to work every morning

0:35:010:35:06

than coming in to the centre of Perth. You're coming in

0:35:060:35:09

and there's sunshine and it's very, very different.

0:35:090:35:14

Obviously the main reason for the move

0:35:160:35:18

was the fact that we didn't have the opportunity,

0:35:180:35:21

or very limited opportunity, to be together as a family.

0:35:210:35:24

When they come over,

0:35:240:35:25

I'll be home every night just after dinner time and be able to spend

0:35:250:35:29

the evenings with Corinne and the kids,

0:35:290:35:31

that'll be just so much more time together,

0:35:310:35:34

and the family time that we've been looking for

0:35:340:35:36

and we've been wanting.

0:35:360:35:38

And what, really, the move here has been about the whole time.

0:35:380:35:43

Meanwhile, back in the UK,

0:35:450:35:47

it's Madison's and Jodie's last day at school,

0:35:470:35:50

as they get another step closer to joining their dad.

0:35:500:35:53

The kids are now just so focused

0:35:530:35:54

on going to Australia and being with their dad.

0:35:540:35:57

I hope that it's not going to be an upset for them,

0:35:570:36:00

but I don't think it will be. I think it's me saying bye

0:36:000:36:03

to people I've been friends with at the school.

0:36:030:36:06

I think it's probably me that's going to be the most upset.

0:36:060:36:11

What did you get? Oh, wow! And a book on Madison!

0:36:110:36:15

Yeah. I'm tired!

0:36:150:36:19

-You did very well.

-I'm tired.

-Right. Want to go home?

-Yay.

0:36:190:36:23

All right, then. Come on.

0:36:230:36:25

-Bye!

-Bye.

0:36:270:36:29

-GIRL: Bye, Madison!

-Bye.

0:36:290:36:32

Looking through the girls' good-luck messages from school,

0:36:340:36:37

Corinne has time to reflect on everything they're leaving behind.

0:36:370:36:41

"It has been a pleasure to have such a well-mannered,

0:36:410:36:44

"hard-working girl in my class this year."

0:36:440:36:48

That's really lovely, isn't it?

0:36:480:36:51

It's something to keep.

0:36:510:36:52

'It's just closing such a chapter in our lives and our kids' lives.'

0:36:540:36:59

I wish Eric had have been here.

0:36:590:37:02

I miss him not being here now, and supportive,

0:37:020:37:05

trying to cope with these final three days.

0:37:050:37:08

-And this is you with Barney Bear.

-Yeah.

0:37:090:37:12

-Were you sad to leave all your friends?

-Just a wee bit.

0:37:120:37:16

-Just a wee bit. You're very, very brave, aren't you?

-Yeah.

0:37:160:37:20

Yeah, I'm glad you had a good day.

0:37:200:37:23

In Perth, Eric is also busy, making sure the move runs smoothly.

0:37:230:37:28

He's been viewing properties for the family to rent when they arrive.

0:37:280:37:32

But back during their trial week,

0:37:320:37:34

Corinne had some strong views on their ideal house down under,

0:37:340:37:37

so it's a big responsibility.

0:37:370:37:40

There is a wee bit of pressure with the house-hunting.

0:37:420:37:46

Having somewhere where they're going to feel at home, the kids

0:37:460:37:50

are going to settle, Corinne's going to settle, is really, really crucial.

0:37:500:37:55

I think that they prefer, the kids prefer, Secret Harbour, really.

0:37:550:37:58

-I know they like being close to the beach.

-Well, just weigh it up.

0:37:580:38:03

I'll leave it up to you. You know, make the decision that you think...

0:38:030:38:07

-Don't do that!

-It'll be right for us. And if it's not, then...

0:38:070:38:11

No, I can't take responsibility for this,

0:38:110:38:14

you're the one that makes all the big decisions, pet.

0:38:140:38:16

Let's hope Eric is up to the challenge.

0:38:160:38:20

I do trust him.

0:38:200:38:22

I think we're both on the same wavelength

0:38:220:38:24

when it comes to the house. I hope so!

0:38:240:38:27

Today, he's viewing a property in Secret Harbour,

0:38:290:38:32

an area they've been keen on since their trial week.

0:38:320:38:35

-Hi, Eric, I'm Carol.

-Hi, Carol, pleased to meet you.

-Come on in.

0:38:370:38:40

Thanks very much.

0:38:400:38:41

-This is lovely.

-Yep. Plenty of space for your double fridge freezer.

0:38:410:38:46

-And you've got your dishwasher.

-The dishwasher comes too?

-Yeah.

0:38:460:38:49

And that leads out into your patio area.

0:38:490:38:53

So, outdoor entertaining area, and then obviously you've got your pool.

0:38:530:38:56

That's brilliant. That is a nice size. I'm looking at this pool...

0:38:560:39:00

-It is nice.

-ERIC LAUGHS

0:39:000:39:02

I can see two little girls' faces right now.

0:39:030:39:06

So I can.

0:39:070:39:08

Hopefully, that will keep everyone happy.

0:39:080:39:11

Eric has a final look round,

0:39:110:39:13

but Corinne will have to make do with just the photos.

0:39:130:39:17

-How did it go?

-It's really nice, Carol, absolutely lovely.

0:39:170:39:20

I think I'm pretty confident to go ahead and lodge the application, if possible?

0:39:200:39:24

Fantastic! Congratulations.

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We'll sort out all the paperwork and get that off to you.

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It just seems to be that our little checklist, I can tick everything off

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and get bonuses, like pool tables, which I didn't even have on the list.

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I'm really happy. Hope Corinne is.

0:39:380:39:42

-Nice to meet you again.

-Pleasure, Carol, thanks very much.

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Take care. Bye-bye.

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I've secured the job. I just secured the house.

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Um, yeah, so it's getting off to a really positive start.

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With a house now sorted and the move less than a week away,

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all that remains is for Corinne to tie up the loose ends

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of their life in Northern Ireland.

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Recently, over the last couple of weeks, it's been,

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"That's the last time we'll go there."

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We've been doing our sort of Northern Ireland bucket list.

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And we've been to different places that the kids like and that I like.

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It sort of feels a wee bit surreal, actually, that I am actually going

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to get on a flight to Australia - and it's a one-way ticket.

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You know, that feels really strange, but it feels good as well.

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It feels great that I'm going there and that's it.

0:40:420:40:46

You know, we do miss him. And I just can't wait...

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I can't wait to go out there and start our lives together.

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I really can't.

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And finally, just a few days later, the waiting is almost over.

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When I see Corinne and Jodie and Madison at the airport,

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in reality, that's when our new life here begins - when they land.

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I think I've been going over it so many times in my head

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about how it's going to go and...

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Oh, just looking forward so much to seeing them again.

0:41:240:41:29

-Hello!

-Dada!

0:41:520:41:54

-Hello, me pet.

-Don't squish!

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-Don't squish.

-You all right?

0:41:590:42:01

I'm so glad to see you.

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Come here, me pet.

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I'm still not feeling well.

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It's just so much to take in.

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This is real now and we're going to be all together

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and it's the dream come true.

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-I've missed you.

-I've missed you too.

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CORINNE SOBS

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-Oh, now go home?

-ERIC LAUGHS

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After years of heartache,

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the Stitts are finally back together as a family

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and ready to start their lives in Perth.

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We wish them the very best of luck with their future down under.

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