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If your job meant never seeing the people you loved, | 0:00:02 | 0:00:05 | |
how far would you go for the family life you dreamt of? | 0:00:05 | 0:00:08 | |
In 2011 the Stitt family had to decide | 0:00:08 | 0:00:10 | |
if the answer lay on the other side of the world. | 0:00:10 | 0:00:14 | |
One year on, we'll find out if they went through with the biggest gamble of their lives. | 0:00:14 | 0:00:19 | |
The Stitts were desperate for a new life. | 0:00:19 | 0:00:22 | |
I just don't want, in ten years' time, | 0:00:22 | 0:00:25 | |
for my children to say, "Daddy, who are you?" | 0:00:25 | 0:00:27 | |
But it would come at a huge cost. | 0:00:27 | 0:00:29 | |
That's what we have to give up, that, to make... | 0:00:29 | 0:00:33 | |
It's a huge, huge stumbling block. | 0:00:33 | 0:00:36 | |
A year on, had they made the right decision? | 0:00:36 | 0:00:39 | |
I wish Eric had been here. | 0:00:39 | 0:00:42 | |
I miss him and his support. | 0:00:42 | 0:00:44 | |
In 2011, the Stitt family spent a week | 0:01:08 | 0:01:11 | |
experiencing the reality of life in Australia. | 0:01:11 | 0:01:15 | |
At the end of it, they'd face a huge decision - | 0:01:15 | 0:01:17 | |
whether to stay in the UK or to make the move for good. | 0:01:17 | 0:01:21 | |
Today we're catching up with them | 0:01:21 | 0:01:23 | |
to find out what's happened since we last met. | 0:01:23 | 0:01:25 | |
Their journey began with a gruelling 20-hour flight | 0:01:27 | 0:01:31 | |
over 9,000 miles to reach Perth. | 0:01:31 | 0:01:33 | |
And all that time brought out a whole range of worries | 0:01:33 | 0:01:37 | |
about the days ahead. | 0:01:37 | 0:01:38 | |
I'm just thinking, | 0:01:38 | 0:01:40 | |
"What if we don't like it? What are we going to do? | 0:01:40 | 0:01:43 | |
"Is our situation so bad that we have to leave Northern Ireland? | 0:01:43 | 0:01:46 | |
"Do we have to come to the other side of the world? | 0:01:46 | 0:01:49 | |
"Can't we do something else? Can't we just do what we're doing? | 0:01:49 | 0:01:53 | |
"Can I put up with it? No, I can't put up with it." | 0:01:53 | 0:01:56 | |
I've just been up and down. | 0:01:56 | 0:01:57 | |
But there were some plus points to their trial week in Australia. | 0:01:57 | 0:02:01 | |
-Nice to get to spend a bit of time together. -Yes, yeah. -As a family. | 0:02:01 | 0:02:05 | |
Cos we don't get a lot of that, family time together. | 0:02:05 | 0:02:07 | |
So, that's an opportunity for us to be together and... | 0:02:07 | 0:02:11 | |
see how that works out! | 0:02:11 | 0:02:13 | |
As they set off on their week in Australia, | 0:02:13 | 0:02:17 | |
it was a far cry from their life in Northern Ireland. | 0:02:17 | 0:02:21 | |
In 2011, Eric, Corinne and their daughters, nine-year-old Jodie | 0:02:24 | 0:02:30 | |
and Madison, aged five, lived in Bangor. | 0:02:30 | 0:02:32 | |
It provided them with a lifestyle they all loved. | 0:02:32 | 0:02:36 | |
Both Eric and I are born and bred Northern Ireland | 0:02:36 | 0:02:38 | |
and we're proud to be Northern Irish. | 0:02:38 | 0:02:40 | |
-We have a lot going on here. -We do love where we live. | 0:02:40 | 0:02:45 | |
We live in a very nice area, we're so close to the school the kids go to. | 0:02:45 | 0:02:49 | |
We've been able to provide the girls lots of opportunities for things. | 0:02:49 | 0:02:54 | |
So why did the Stitts want to give it all up for Australia? | 0:02:55 | 0:02:59 | |
It seemed there was a huge problem tearing the family apart. | 0:02:59 | 0:03:03 | |
In a month, Eric would be away for two or three weeks at a time. | 0:03:03 | 0:03:09 | |
He's home for the weekend and he would have one full day with us. | 0:03:09 | 0:03:16 | |
And in that stage everything is rushed into the full day | 0:03:16 | 0:03:19 | |
and then, the next day, Eric's away off to the airport, | 0:03:19 | 0:03:22 | |
and away to work, and it could be for another two weeks. | 0:03:22 | 0:03:26 | |
The day-to-day absence from Eric was taking its toll on all of them. | 0:03:26 | 0:03:31 | |
He has missed out over the years on those things where, really, | 0:03:31 | 0:03:35 | |
you know, he should be there. And he does feel it. | 0:03:35 | 0:03:39 | |
It can be very hard trying to explain to a five-year-old | 0:03:39 | 0:03:44 | |
that Daddy has to go to work, you have to keep a roof over your heads. | 0:03:44 | 0:03:50 | |
OK, have you got a kiss for Daddy? | 0:03:50 | 0:03:52 | |
Eric owned his own business designing pipe systems for oil and gas rigs all over Europe. | 0:03:56 | 0:04:02 | |
Working offshore meant he couldn't have his family with him. | 0:04:02 | 0:04:06 | |
'I just don't want, in ten years' time, | 0:04:06 | 0:04:08 | |
'for my children to turn round and say, "Daddy, who are you? | 0:04:08 | 0:04:12 | |
'"Where have you been?"' | 0:04:12 | 0:04:14 | |
-You behave yourself, now, for your mummy. -OK. | 0:04:14 | 0:04:16 | |
'It's vitally important that we do get our lives sorted out | 0:04:16 | 0:04:21 | |
'and get to spend the time together as a family that we need to.' | 0:04:21 | 0:04:25 | |
-Try... -You're all right. -OK. See you. Take care. | 0:04:25 | 0:04:31 | |
'Corinne does feel it hard sometimes. | 0:04:31 | 0:04:34 | |
'She has to be here 24/7 for the girls.' | 0:04:34 | 0:04:36 | |
Everything is on her shoulders. | 0:04:36 | 0:04:40 | |
She says she feels like she's a single parent. | 0:04:40 | 0:04:44 | |
It's not easy for her and I do appreciate that. | 0:04:44 | 0:04:48 | |
The Stitts were looking to Australia | 0:04:48 | 0:04:51 | |
to give them their dream of a normal family life. | 0:04:51 | 0:04:54 | |
They hoped its booming oil industry would mean Eric could find a job | 0:04:54 | 0:04:58 | |
that allowed him to be at home a lot more. | 0:04:58 | 0:05:00 | |
We're just hoping for a lifestyle that's... | 0:05:00 | 0:05:04 | |
you work to live, you don't live to work. | 0:05:04 | 0:05:07 | |
Even the girls could see the benefits. | 0:05:07 | 0:05:09 | |
We would like to go to Australia. | 0:05:09 | 0:05:13 | |
-Wouldn't we? -Yeah. | 0:05:13 | 0:05:15 | |
It would be fun to spend some time with Dad and everything. | 0:05:15 | 0:05:20 | |
And he'll help us with our homework. | 0:05:20 | 0:05:24 | |
But if the Stitts did move down under they were all too aware | 0:05:24 | 0:05:28 | |
of how much they stood to lose. | 0:05:28 | 0:05:30 | |
We are quite a close family. | 0:05:30 | 0:05:34 | |
It's very daunting, I suppose, sometimes, just to think that | 0:05:34 | 0:05:37 | |
you're going to be the other side of the world. | 0:05:37 | 0:05:40 | |
That you're not going to be there when they need you. | 0:05:40 | 0:05:44 | |
It's not that easy to get back to see them. | 0:05:44 | 0:05:47 | |
It was a difficult decision which left them torn. | 0:05:47 | 0:05:51 | |
The Stitts wanted to find out if Perth in Western Australia | 0:05:57 | 0:06:01 | |
was the right location for their fresh start. | 0:06:01 | 0:06:04 | |
Their rental home for the week was a three-bedroom cottage | 0:06:04 | 0:06:08 | |
only five minutes from Fremantle Beach. | 0:06:08 | 0:06:10 | |
Everything's here that we need. It's really nice and it's clean | 0:06:13 | 0:06:17 | |
and it's modern with that sort of shabby chic-y twist to it. | 0:06:17 | 0:06:22 | |
Corinne and Eric were well aware of how big a deal | 0:06:22 | 0:06:25 | |
the next seven days would be. | 0:06:25 | 0:06:27 | |
I really want it to go well, | 0:06:27 | 0:06:29 | |
for this to be a really positive experience for us. | 0:06:29 | 0:06:32 | |
Otherwise, we're going to be down the road in another ten years' time | 0:06:32 | 0:06:37 | |
and wonder what we've done with ourselves. | 0:06:37 | 0:06:39 | |
A lot really does ride on it. | 0:06:39 | 0:06:41 | |
Although they were looking for a future in Australia, | 0:06:41 | 0:06:44 | |
falling for life there could have had huge repercussions. | 0:06:44 | 0:06:48 | |
I worry that if I really, really do like it, | 0:06:48 | 0:06:51 | |
that people at home are going to be a bit... | 0:06:51 | 0:06:57 | |
There's a sense of guilt. | 0:06:57 | 0:06:58 | |
There's a wee sense of that, | 0:06:58 | 0:07:00 | |
that there's going to be a lot of sad faces. | 0:07:00 | 0:07:02 | |
I don't know whether they really have realised | 0:07:02 | 0:07:05 | |
that this is a serious decision for us. | 0:07:05 | 0:07:09 | |
This is... If we like this, we're coming out here. | 0:07:09 | 0:07:13 | |
We're not hanging about. | 0:07:13 | 0:07:15 | |
Actually being here now brings home to you just how big a decision | 0:07:15 | 0:07:18 | |
it would be to make the move. | 0:07:18 | 0:07:21 | |
In 2011, | 0:07:28 | 0:07:29 | |
the Stitts lived in a three-bedroom house in Bangor, Northern Ireland. | 0:07:29 | 0:07:34 | |
They had plenty of ideas about what | 0:07:34 | 0:07:37 | |
their Australian house needed to deliver. | 0:07:37 | 0:07:39 | |
The right sort of property would be very important. | 0:07:39 | 0:07:42 | |
My dream property in Australia would be a pretty big house. | 0:07:42 | 0:07:46 | |
In the middle of nowhere. | 0:07:46 | 0:07:48 | |
It has to have a swimming pool for the girls. | 0:07:48 | 0:07:51 | |
And just somewhere where we can spread out | 0:07:51 | 0:07:53 | |
and just enjoy being outdoors and just having room around us. | 0:07:53 | 0:07:58 | |
That all sounded great, but it wouldn't come cheap. | 0:07:58 | 0:08:02 | |
The Stitts had a budget of around £300,000, | 0:08:02 | 0:08:05 | |
but they needed to get the right price for their house. | 0:08:05 | 0:08:08 | |
We gave them a taste of the Perth property market | 0:08:11 | 0:08:14 | |
and showed them three options, | 0:08:14 | 0:08:15 | |
based upon what they wanted from their ideal home, | 0:08:15 | 0:08:19 | |
what they could afford | 0:08:19 | 0:08:20 | |
and the real price of property down under. | 0:08:20 | 0:08:23 | |
After looking round each one, they'd discover how much they cost. | 0:08:23 | 0:08:28 | |
But could their wallets keep up with their dreams? | 0:08:28 | 0:08:33 | |
First up was this three-bedroom house 20 miles south of Perth, | 0:08:33 | 0:08:37 | |
in the Byford area. | 0:08:37 | 0:08:39 | |
It was popular with young families and offered good value for money. | 0:08:39 | 0:08:42 | |
But what did the Stitts make of it? | 0:08:42 | 0:08:45 | |
Looks like a box with windows. | 0:08:45 | 0:08:48 | |
THEY LAUGH | 0:08:48 | 0:08:50 | |
Straight into the living room. A bit smaller than I thought. | 0:08:55 | 0:08:58 | |
-No, I don't like this at all. -You're not keen on coming straight in... | 0:08:58 | 0:09:02 | |
No. It's really not what I would come out here for. | 0:09:02 | 0:09:05 | |
I know we don't have a big back garden at home, | 0:09:06 | 0:09:09 | |
but this is even smaller. | 0:09:09 | 0:09:11 | |
It's just not practical at all, not for having kids. | 0:09:11 | 0:09:15 | |
-Where are you going to play? -What are they going to do out here? | 0:09:15 | 0:09:18 | |
-Go round in a circle on their bikes? -No, that's not working for me at all. | 0:09:18 | 0:09:22 | |
No. | 0:09:22 | 0:09:23 | |
That's a real big letdown. | 0:09:25 | 0:09:28 | |
This house failed on all fronts, but they still didn't know its cost. | 0:09:28 | 0:09:31 | |
If it was anywhere near their budget, | 0:09:31 | 0:09:34 | |
would it be worth giving up life in the UK for? | 0:09:34 | 0:09:38 | |
So, what was the price? | 0:09:38 | 0:09:40 | |
ERIC SNIGGERS | 0:09:44 | 0:09:45 | |
£250,000 sterling. | 0:09:45 | 0:09:48 | |
That was a blow. | 0:09:48 | 0:09:50 | |
Their budget was between £250,000 and £300,000. | 0:09:50 | 0:09:53 | |
There needs to be a wee bit of reality on that | 0:09:53 | 0:09:57 | |
cos this house is not worth £250,000 of anybody's money. | 0:09:57 | 0:10:02 | |
Things didn't look good for the Stitts. | 0:10:02 | 0:10:06 | |
If this property was not even worth considering, | 0:10:06 | 0:10:08 | |
would their dream house be beyond their means? | 0:10:08 | 0:10:12 | |
Hopefully, property two would restore their faith. | 0:10:12 | 0:10:15 | |
This four-bedroom house in the small town of Baldivis | 0:10:15 | 0:10:18 | |
was close to beaches, shops and restaurants. | 0:10:18 | 0:10:20 | |
Would it be more up their street? | 0:10:20 | 0:10:23 | |
OK. | 0:10:24 | 0:10:25 | |
Ahh, you see, this is a hall. | 0:10:27 | 0:10:29 | |
-This is better. -This has a nice feel about it. -Yeah, this is better. | 0:10:29 | 0:10:33 | |
It's open-plan but it works a lot better than that other property. | 0:10:33 | 0:10:36 | |
Yeah, it's a bigger area. | 0:10:36 | 0:10:37 | |
It was only the second house | 0:10:37 | 0:10:39 | |
and the Stitts seemed to have found something they liked. | 0:10:39 | 0:10:42 | |
Would the garden keep them happy? | 0:10:42 | 0:10:44 | |
Oh, it's like... | 0:10:44 | 0:10:46 | |
Pfft. | 0:10:47 | 0:10:48 | |
-That's like the... -Peace wall. -That's like a peace wall. | 0:10:49 | 0:10:52 | |
A DOG BARKS | 0:10:52 | 0:10:54 | |
Er... It's a wee bit... | 0:10:54 | 0:10:57 | |
No, the house is nice, this here is a big no-no. I couldn't, no way. | 0:10:57 | 0:11:01 | |
No way, I have to be honest with you, no way. That... | 0:11:01 | 0:11:05 | |
That is like a prison boundary. I can't cope with that. | 0:11:05 | 0:11:10 | |
It's not my dream, | 0:11:12 | 0:11:14 | |
it's really not my idea of living the Australian dream. | 0:11:14 | 0:11:20 | |
It doesn't do it for me, I'm sorry. | 0:11:20 | 0:11:22 | |
Can we go? | 0:11:27 | 0:11:29 | |
It may seem like an extreme reaction but it's a painful reminder | 0:11:29 | 0:11:33 | |
of something they're trying to leave behind. | 0:11:33 | 0:11:35 | |
It reminds us both of a boundary wall in Belfast | 0:11:35 | 0:11:39 | |
called a peace wall, | 0:11:39 | 0:11:41 | |
which separates two communities in Belfast. | 0:11:41 | 0:11:45 | |
It's there to keep people apart. | 0:11:45 | 0:11:47 | |
It doesn't affect Eric and I where we live, but it is a symbol | 0:11:47 | 0:11:51 | |
of something that we have been affected by over the years. | 0:11:51 | 0:11:56 | |
I'm not coming to Western Australia to look at that | 0:11:56 | 0:11:58 | |
-or be reminded of it, thanks very much. -No. | 0:11:58 | 0:12:02 | |
Corinne wasn't too concerned about the price of the property, | 0:12:02 | 0:12:05 | |
but would they have been able to afford it? | 0:12:05 | 0:12:07 | |
Leaving the garden aside, it was a house they all liked. | 0:12:07 | 0:12:11 | |
315,000. | 0:12:15 | 0:12:17 | |
It's probably over-valued at 315,000. | 0:12:19 | 0:12:24 | |
Well, basing it and comparing it to... | 0:12:25 | 0:12:28 | |
Comparing it to what I would get at home, yeah. | 0:12:28 | 0:12:31 | |
But I certainly would not pay it for here. No. | 0:12:31 | 0:12:34 | |
As if the wall wasn't enough, it was also at the top of their budget. | 0:12:35 | 0:12:39 | |
If this was the best they could buy, | 0:12:39 | 0:12:42 | |
would Eric and Corinne have to rethink their future? | 0:12:42 | 0:12:45 | |
Everything rested on the last house. | 0:12:45 | 0:12:48 | |
Property three, in Secret Harbour, | 0:12:52 | 0:12:54 | |
was only a few minutes' walk from the beach | 0:12:54 | 0:12:57 | |
but nearly 40 miles south of Perth. | 0:12:57 | 0:12:59 | |
The Stitts would get more for their money | 0:12:59 | 0:13:02 | |
but it meant a long commute for Eric. | 0:13:02 | 0:13:05 | |
This is nice. | 0:13:07 | 0:13:08 | |
-That's nice. Lots of kiddies about, as well. -Yeah. | 0:13:08 | 0:13:12 | |
You'd have friends to play with. | 0:13:12 | 0:13:14 | |
-Oh, this is really swanky, isn't it? This is lovely. -Yeah, this is nice. | 0:13:15 | 0:13:19 | |
-Which way will we go? -Erm... follow Dad. -This way? -Go this way. | 0:13:19 | 0:13:25 | |
Master bedroom, I think. | 0:13:26 | 0:13:29 | |
-That's lovely. -That's beautiful. -That's really nice, | 0:13:29 | 0:13:33 | |
the decor, as well, is really nice. | 0:13:33 | 0:13:35 | |
That looks like an en-suite. | 0:13:35 | 0:13:39 | |
-Oh, wow! -Woo! | 0:13:39 | 0:13:41 | |
-That's bigger than our bathroom at home! -Probably is. | 0:13:42 | 0:13:46 | |
With so much at stake, this house certainly seemed to pick up | 0:13:46 | 0:13:49 | |
Corinne and Eric's spirits. | 0:13:49 | 0:13:51 | |
Wow! I like this. | 0:13:51 | 0:13:53 | |
-Wow factor, there. -Yeah, this is what I'm talking about. | 0:13:53 | 0:13:57 | |
Ohhhh. | 0:14:00 | 0:14:02 | |
Mummy, are you going to get this house? | 0:14:02 | 0:14:05 | |
Wow, she is going to get it. | 0:14:05 | 0:14:08 | |
-Well, it ticks a lot of my boxes. -It's ticking all the boxes so far. | 0:14:08 | 0:14:12 | |
Madison seemed to have made up her mind about the house, | 0:14:12 | 0:14:16 | |
but Corinne had spotted something in the garden. | 0:14:16 | 0:14:20 | |
You're here, you're looking at your TV, your living area | 0:14:20 | 0:14:25 | |
and what else are you looking at? | 0:14:25 | 0:14:27 | |
Oh, aye. What can you see out there, girls? | 0:14:27 | 0:14:30 | |
-What is it? -A pool. | 0:14:30 | 0:14:33 | |
A pool. | 0:14:33 | 0:14:35 | |
No tears this time. | 0:14:41 | 0:14:42 | |
ERIC LAUGHS | 0:14:42 | 0:14:44 | |
Quite happy. | 0:14:44 | 0:14:46 | |
Everyone might have been happy, but they were yet to find out the price. | 0:14:49 | 0:14:53 | |
Could the cost bring the dream to a juddering halt? | 0:14:53 | 0:14:57 | |
400. | 0:15:00 | 0:15:01 | |
-Approximately 400,000. -Yep. | 0:15:03 | 0:15:06 | |
I think, the finish, the detail, | 0:15:06 | 0:15:09 | |
the swimming pool, that all adds up. | 0:15:09 | 0:15:12 | |
They'd found the ideal house but it was well over budget. | 0:15:12 | 0:15:15 | |
Would the Stitts have to settle for a lot less | 0:15:15 | 0:15:19 | |
if they were to make the move? | 0:15:19 | 0:15:21 | |
-We'll have to see what I can expect, obviously, to earn. -Yep. | 0:15:21 | 0:15:26 | |
It would have to take | 0:15:26 | 0:15:29 | |
a house like this or similar standard | 0:15:29 | 0:15:33 | |
for us to make the move. | 0:15:33 | 0:15:38 | |
After viewing all three houses, emotions were running high. | 0:15:38 | 0:15:42 | |
With the realisation that to afford their dream | 0:15:42 | 0:15:44 | |
Eric would have to earn considerably more, | 0:15:44 | 0:15:47 | |
which way did they vote? | 0:15:47 | 0:15:48 | |
Based on the houses we've looked at today | 0:15:50 | 0:15:52 | |
and what we think we can get, | 0:15:52 | 0:15:56 | |
our decision is... | 0:15:56 | 0:15:58 | |
ALL: Australia! | 0:15:58 | 0:16:01 | |
Back home in Northern Ireland, Eric ran his own company, | 0:16:06 | 0:16:10 | |
designing pipework for the oil and gas industry. | 0:16:10 | 0:16:13 | |
He earned £75,000 a year. | 0:16:13 | 0:16:16 | |
The problem was, this meant being away from home for up to three weeks at a time. | 0:16:16 | 0:16:22 | |
So we arranged for him to meet a specialist recruitment consultant | 0:16:22 | 0:16:26 | |
for the oil and gas industry. | 0:16:26 | 0:16:28 | |
However, starting again would be a big gamble. | 0:16:28 | 0:16:32 | |
I do have reservations about leaving the job I have in the UK at present. | 0:16:32 | 0:16:37 | |
Things have been going very well for me. | 0:16:37 | 0:16:39 | |
I enjoy the work, | 0:16:39 | 0:16:41 | |
so, yeah, I'm worried about possibly leaving that behind, | 0:16:41 | 0:16:47 | |
taking the plunge for pastures new. | 0:16:47 | 0:16:51 | |
There was a lot riding on Eric's interview, and, while he prepared, | 0:16:51 | 0:16:55 | |
Corinne gave the girls a taste of Aussie life. | 0:16:55 | 0:16:58 | |
-I'm Suzanne. -Hi, I'm Corinne. | 0:16:58 | 0:17:02 | |
-This is Jodie and Madison. -How you going, guys? -Good. | 0:17:02 | 0:17:07 | |
And the girls didn't waste any time getting into the saddle. | 0:17:07 | 0:17:12 | |
-CLICKS HER TONGUE -Walk on. | 0:17:13 | 0:17:15 | |
Aah! | 0:17:15 | 0:17:17 | |
Back in the city, recruitment manager Andrei Sarpe | 0:17:20 | 0:17:24 | |
had been poring over Eric's CV. | 0:17:24 | 0:17:26 | |
The positive thing is, because of the industry where it is, | 0:17:26 | 0:17:29 | |
it's at a massive growth stage | 0:17:29 | 0:17:31 | |
so it's the right time for anyone to come into the industry | 0:17:31 | 0:17:34 | |
if they'll ever have a chance of coming in. | 0:17:34 | 0:17:36 | |
-Yeah. -And I think the skills that you've already got | 0:17:36 | 0:17:39 | |
and the packages that you've been working with | 0:17:39 | 0:17:43 | |
are very transferable to the market here. | 0:17:43 | 0:17:45 | |
That's exactly what Eric wanted to hear. | 0:17:45 | 0:17:49 | |
At the stables, Corinne's time alone with the girls | 0:17:49 | 0:17:52 | |
reminded her why their life needed to change. | 0:17:52 | 0:17:55 | |
Eric misses out on a lot of the kids' day-to-day activities. | 0:17:55 | 0:18:00 | |
And when he does come home from work he feels absolutely wrecked. | 0:18:00 | 0:18:04 | |
But at the end of the day, it's not an option | 0:18:04 | 0:18:06 | |
when you've two young kids, you have to get up and out there | 0:18:06 | 0:18:09 | |
and that's when we feel the pressure. | 0:18:09 | 0:18:12 | |
We pack everything into the short time he is home. | 0:18:12 | 0:18:15 | |
And then the routine starts again, | 0:18:15 | 0:18:19 | |
and that's when the upset starts, when Eric heads off again. | 0:18:19 | 0:18:23 | |
SHE SOBS | 0:18:24 | 0:18:25 | |
Find it really difficult. I find it difficult. | 0:18:25 | 0:18:29 | |
I find emotionally, sometimes I'm wrecked, just with... | 0:18:29 | 0:18:33 | |
I feel so much for the kids. | 0:18:33 | 0:18:36 | |
I just really do feel for them | 0:18:36 | 0:18:37 | |
and it's just like I have to put them first. | 0:18:37 | 0:18:41 | |
It sounds silly, but I have to be a big girl about things now | 0:18:41 | 0:18:45 | |
and my kids have to come first. | 0:18:45 | 0:18:47 | |
My family have to come first | 0:18:47 | 0:18:49 | |
and I can't really cope much longer | 0:18:49 | 0:18:52 | |
with the upset that it causes them. | 0:18:52 | 0:18:55 | |
It was this upset that pushed them | 0:18:55 | 0:18:58 | |
to consider emigrating to the other side of the world. | 0:18:58 | 0:19:01 | |
However, the move would have been pointless if Eric still had to work away from home. | 0:19:01 | 0:19:06 | |
Most of the work is office-based in Perth | 0:19:07 | 0:19:09 | |
and most of the companies do have facilities in the CBD. | 0:19:09 | 0:19:13 | |
So there's infrequent travel | 0:19:13 | 0:19:15 | |
to offshore and maybe onshore sites as well, | 0:19:15 | 0:19:19 | |
but definitely 95% of the work is done in the CBD | 0:19:19 | 0:19:22 | |
so it is more family-friendly, compared to a lot of other places. | 0:19:22 | 0:19:25 | |
To get an opportunity to work in the CBD, | 0:19:25 | 0:19:27 | |
in the same city, the same country as my wife and children... | 0:19:27 | 0:19:31 | |
-You get to go home every night. -To go home every night would be fantastic. | 0:19:31 | 0:19:35 | |
That left just one big question. | 0:19:35 | 0:19:39 | |
Based on the contract rules, what would you... | 0:19:39 | 0:19:42 | |
ballpark figure, would you see salary potential? | 0:19:42 | 0:19:45 | |
The salary ranges can start anywhere between 180 | 0:19:45 | 0:19:49 | |
up into the vicinity of the 300,000s | 0:19:49 | 0:19:52 | |
for the senior roles and the lead roles. | 0:19:52 | 0:19:55 | |
Yeah, just trying to do the sums in my head there | 0:19:55 | 0:19:57 | |
but I think that compares really favourably. | 0:19:57 | 0:20:00 | |
Certainly the news I wanted to hear. | 0:20:00 | 0:20:03 | |
Fantastic. | 0:20:03 | 0:20:04 | |
I think those figures will go down well with my wife as well! | 0:20:04 | 0:20:08 | |
I'm sure they will! | 0:20:08 | 0:20:09 | |
Even the lowest possible salary was £113,000, | 0:20:09 | 0:20:14 | |
38,000 more than Eric earned at the time. | 0:20:14 | 0:20:17 | |
Suddenly, a future where he could be part of the family looked possible. | 0:20:17 | 0:20:21 | |
So how did he vote on work in the UK vs Australia? | 0:20:21 | 0:20:25 | |
Today's went really positive. | 0:20:25 | 0:20:27 | |
I heard all I needed to hear, | 0:20:27 | 0:20:29 | |
probably a little bit more. | 0:20:29 | 0:20:31 | |
Based on all I've been able to find out today, | 0:20:31 | 0:20:35 | |
my vote goes to... | 0:20:35 | 0:20:37 | |
..Australia! | 0:20:39 | 0:20:42 | |
Back at the house, Corinne was keen to know what Eric had found out. | 0:20:45 | 0:20:52 | |
So where would you be located? Would you have to do any offshore work? | 0:20:52 | 0:20:56 | |
-It's all based in the CBD. -Office-based? | 0:20:56 | 0:20:58 | |
Those big tall new buildings you're looking at in the centre of Perth, | 0:20:58 | 0:21:02 | |
a lot of them are all the major oil companies | 0:21:02 | 0:21:06 | |
-so all Perth-based, CBD. -That's what you want, isn't it? | 0:21:06 | 0:21:09 | |
-So you're not having to worry about looking... -Isn't that good? | 0:21:09 | 0:21:14 | |
Do you like that? Do you like that, Madison? | 0:21:14 | 0:21:17 | |
-Mm-hmm. -Daddy working in a job that he'd be home every night? | 0:21:17 | 0:21:22 | |
-Mm-hmm. -Yeah? | 0:21:22 | 0:21:23 | |
-Yeah? -Oh, dear. | 0:21:23 | 0:21:25 | |
-I haven't told you what the salary was yet. -All right, tell me. | 0:21:25 | 0:21:29 | |
He reckons he doesn't see why you couldn't be looking at | 0:21:29 | 0:21:35 | |
250,000 - 300,000 Australian dollars. | 0:21:35 | 0:21:39 | |
What? | 0:21:40 | 0:21:41 | |
And that's before you start even moving into management. | 0:21:41 | 0:21:46 | |
CORINNE LAUGHS | 0:21:46 | 0:21:49 | |
Serious! | 0:21:51 | 0:21:52 | |
-I don't believe you. -Seriously. | 0:21:54 | 0:21:56 | |
What do you think about that, then? | 0:21:56 | 0:21:59 | |
Yeah, when can I start? | 0:21:59 | 0:22:01 | |
Can you do overtime? | 0:22:01 | 0:22:03 | |
Not yet! | 0:22:03 | 0:22:04 | |
-Can you work weekends? It is 7-7? -I don't think they do weekends. | 0:22:06 | 0:22:09 | |
OK, that's something you need to find out. | 0:22:09 | 0:22:11 | |
THEY LAUGH | 0:22:11 | 0:22:13 | |
We're OK, we'll amuse ourselves. | 0:22:13 | 0:22:16 | |
Corinne and Eric's house had been on the market | 0:22:21 | 0:22:24 | |
for 12 months at £180,000. | 0:22:24 | 0:22:26 | |
If they couldn't get a decent price, they were thinking of renting it out | 0:22:26 | 0:22:30 | |
and taking a bigger mortgage in Australia. | 0:22:30 | 0:22:33 | |
We sent round two estate agents to get their opinion. | 0:22:33 | 0:22:39 | |
The kitchen's modern | 0:22:39 | 0:22:41 | |
and most buyers are looking for natural wood kitchens. | 0:22:41 | 0:22:45 | |
-Nicely done. -That's good. -That's nice. | 0:22:45 | 0:22:47 | |
This is a well-proportioned bedroom, | 0:22:47 | 0:22:51 | |
certainly capable of taking a double bed, | 0:22:51 | 0:22:53 | |
and obviously a little girl's room, but that shouldn't affect the price. | 0:22:53 | 0:22:57 | |
I'm not little! | 0:22:57 | 0:22:59 | |
In today's market, I would value this house at £160,000 | 0:22:59 | 0:23:04 | |
and for quick sale, £150,000 | 0:23:04 | 0:23:07 | |
-and for a rental, somewhere in the region of £650 per month. -Yep. -Yes? | 0:23:07 | 0:23:11 | |
I would expect under current market conditions | 0:23:11 | 0:23:14 | |
that the property should achieve a figure in the region of £165,000. | 0:23:14 | 0:23:19 | |
In terms of rental value, | 0:23:19 | 0:23:20 | |
I would expect it to achieve between £600 and £650 per calendar month. | 0:23:20 | 0:23:24 | |
-Yeah. -Yeah, that's OK. | 0:23:24 | 0:23:27 | |
-That's exactly... -What we thought. | 0:23:27 | 0:23:30 | |
Maybe actually a wee bit more on the sale of the house. | 0:23:30 | 0:23:34 | |
No big surprises there, then, | 0:23:37 | 0:23:40 | |
but what did the cost of living reveal? | 0:23:40 | 0:23:41 | |
We prepared a comparison of prices in Australia to those in the UK. | 0:23:41 | 0:23:46 | |
Just over slightly doubled. | 0:23:49 | 0:23:51 | |
The cost of living is, | 0:23:51 | 0:23:53 | |
basically, slightly more than double what it would be in the UK. | 0:23:53 | 0:23:59 | |
That was a massive difference. | 0:23:59 | 0:24:02 | |
Could Eric's higher salary have made up for the hole in their finances? | 0:24:02 | 0:24:06 | |
Right, so looking at the figures, in the UK, we can get £80,000 a year. | 0:24:06 | 0:24:11 | |
-Yep. -In Australia, going in at the mid-range, | 0:24:11 | 0:24:14 | |
you're looking at £110,000 a year | 0:24:14 | 0:24:17 | |
with the potential to go up another 10 - 15,000 | 0:24:17 | 0:24:21 | |
if you're looking towards the higher end of the income range. | 0:24:21 | 0:24:25 | |
So, right away, you are £30,000 a year better off here. | 0:24:25 | 0:24:28 | |
We can achieve the dream of being together as a family | 0:24:28 | 0:24:32 | |
and financially we're not going to suffer. | 0:24:32 | 0:24:35 | |
We can have our cake and eat it, in a way. | 0:24:36 | 0:24:40 | |
Gosh. That's good. | 0:24:40 | 0:24:43 | |
I'm just really, really excited now. | 0:24:43 | 0:24:46 | |
That's making me so happy. | 0:24:46 | 0:24:48 | |
It's better than what we possibly thought. | 0:24:48 | 0:24:50 | |
Had the Stitts worked out a way to get the dream life? | 0:24:54 | 0:24:57 | |
How did they vote on living costs? | 0:24:57 | 0:24:59 | |
Taking into consideration the salary Eric would earn in Australia | 0:24:59 | 0:25:05 | |
against the salary in the UK | 0:25:05 | 0:25:07 | |
and also the cost of living... | 0:25:07 | 0:25:09 | |
..our vote goes to... | 0:25:10 | 0:25:12 | |
BOTH: ..Australia! | 0:25:14 | 0:25:17 | |
The figures looked great, but would hearing messages from their loved ones | 0:25:22 | 0:25:26 | |
make them realise that moving away would be too high a price to pay. | 0:25:26 | 0:25:30 | |
Let's see what everyone has to say about us back home. | 0:25:33 | 0:25:37 | |
About a year and a half ago, they came to see us one night | 0:25:37 | 0:25:40 | |
and they happened to say | 0:25:40 | 0:25:43 | |
that they were thinking of going to Australia | 0:25:43 | 0:25:46 | |
and how did we feel about it? | 0:25:46 | 0:25:48 | |
Well, | 0:25:48 | 0:25:50 | |
-we were shocked. -Mm-hmm. | 0:25:50 | 0:25:53 | |
But we understood the situation, we understood how they felt. | 0:25:53 | 0:25:57 | |
We'll miss sometimes having to go to school to collect the kids, | 0:25:57 | 0:26:00 | |
bring them home, | 0:26:00 | 0:26:01 | |
just doing different things in general with them. | 0:26:01 | 0:26:04 | |
It'll be different that | 0:26:04 | 0:26:07 | |
a family member lives over there, | 0:26:07 | 0:26:09 | |
so close to you, but... | 0:26:09 | 0:26:11 | |
..if it helps their family life, and betters... | 0:26:12 | 0:26:16 | |
It'll be good for them, you know. | 0:26:16 | 0:26:18 | |
I will feel very emotional about it. | 0:26:18 | 0:26:20 | |
It did affect me, yes. Sometimes I try not to show it. | 0:26:20 | 0:26:25 | |
But it does. | 0:26:29 | 0:26:30 | |
If they do go, | 0:26:32 | 0:26:34 | |
and if they stay, | 0:26:34 | 0:26:36 | |
I know we've always said we would never fly | 0:26:36 | 0:26:38 | |
but we will try to go to see them. | 0:26:38 | 0:26:42 | |
But God willing, they'll come back to see us. | 0:26:42 | 0:26:45 | |
And we'll keep in touch as best we can. | 0:26:45 | 0:26:48 | |
You're the very best. | 0:26:49 | 0:26:51 | |
And I just think that... | 0:26:52 | 0:26:55 | |
All the best, son. All the best. | 0:26:59 | 0:27:02 | |
Think about it. | 0:27:04 | 0:27:05 | |
Take in, weigh the pros and cons | 0:27:05 | 0:27:09 | |
of what you have in Australia and what you have here at home | 0:27:09 | 0:27:13 | |
and weigh out the difference | 0:27:13 | 0:27:15 | |
and make the right decision, both of yous. | 0:27:15 | 0:27:18 | |
We love yous. God bless. | 0:27:18 | 0:27:23 | |
Brings it home to you a wee bit more, sitting here seeing that, I suppose. | 0:27:23 | 0:27:26 | |
Och aye, it does. | 0:27:26 | 0:27:28 | |
But at the end of the day, | 0:27:31 | 0:27:32 | |
they understand that my quality of life just isn't there. | 0:27:32 | 0:27:36 | |
Exactly. | 0:27:36 | 0:27:38 | |
And that's the compromise. | 0:27:38 | 0:27:40 | |
We're OK financially here, | 0:27:40 | 0:27:43 | |
we're OK with the lifestyle, | 0:27:43 | 0:27:47 | |
that's our compromise. | 0:27:47 | 0:27:49 | |
That's what we have to give up | 0:27:49 | 0:27:51 | |
and that, to me, is a huge, | 0:27:51 | 0:27:55 | |
huge stumbling block. | 0:27:55 | 0:27:56 | |
It's emotional. There's no doubt about it. | 0:27:56 | 0:28:00 | |
Seeing their messages brought home how painful the move would be. | 0:28:01 | 0:28:05 | |
But if it was a loss that was too much to bear, | 0:28:05 | 0:28:08 | |
they'd have to give up on their dream of Australia. | 0:28:08 | 0:28:12 | |
You can see the emotions, you can see how people feel, | 0:28:12 | 0:28:17 | |
and it is, it's a significant sacrifice. | 0:28:17 | 0:28:21 | |
You are walking away from your life, your established life, | 0:28:21 | 0:28:25 | |
everything you know, everything that's familiar to you, | 0:28:25 | 0:28:29 | |
and there is a risk involved in that. | 0:28:29 | 0:28:32 | |
We have to weigh up the pros and cons. | 0:28:32 | 0:28:35 | |
Obviously on the minus side | 0:28:37 | 0:28:40 | |
is the sacrifice of leaving people behind, | 0:28:40 | 0:28:43 | |
but the plus side is the opportunities and lifestyle | 0:28:43 | 0:28:48 | |
that it could offer Jodie and Madison. | 0:28:48 | 0:28:51 | |
It was the end of an emotional week for the Stitts | 0:28:51 | 0:28:54 | |
and time for them to make their final, crucial vote. | 0:28:54 | 0:28:57 | |
Would the promise of more time together in Australia | 0:28:57 | 0:29:00 | |
be enough to overcome the pull of home? | 0:29:00 | 0:29:04 | |
We started off, we weren't too sure | 0:29:04 | 0:29:06 | |
how we would fit in with Australian life. | 0:29:06 | 0:29:10 | |
But all in all, | 0:29:12 | 0:29:13 | |
we as a family have enjoyed our experience here in Perth. | 0:29:13 | 0:29:17 | |
It's been a positive experience. | 0:29:17 | 0:29:20 | |
I think we all can see that the dream is more of a possibility now. | 0:29:20 | 0:29:26 | |
Our vote goes to... | 0:29:26 | 0:29:28 | |
ALL: Australia! | 0:29:28 | 0:29:31 | |
Are you happy enough with your decision? | 0:29:35 | 0:29:37 | |
Yeah, I think so. | 0:29:37 | 0:29:39 | |
-I think it's just reinforced what we were thinking before we came. -Dada! | 0:29:39 | 0:29:43 | |
I think we can make it work for us. | 0:29:43 | 0:29:46 | |
Yeah, I think we could work together. | 0:29:46 | 0:29:48 | |
You want a kiss too? Mwah! | 0:29:50 | 0:29:53 | |
-You get one? -Eugh! -No? | 0:29:53 | 0:29:56 | |
After a week to remember, | 0:30:01 | 0:30:03 | |
Eric and Corinne decided that Australia could offer them | 0:30:03 | 0:30:06 | |
the lifestyle they were searching for, but with so much at stake, | 0:30:06 | 0:30:10 | |
were they able to go through with their plans? | 0:30:10 | 0:30:13 | |
One year on, we've caught up with them to find out. | 0:30:13 | 0:30:15 | |
It's May 2012 and the Stitts are enjoying | 0:30:18 | 0:30:21 | |
-a sunny afternoon in the garden... -Well, that's you off. | 0:30:21 | 0:30:25 | |
..in Northern Ireland. | 0:30:25 | 0:30:27 | |
'I think it was probably the first time that we had spent | 0:30:28 | 0:30:31 | |
'so much time together as a family, in Australia,' | 0:30:31 | 0:30:35 | |
without Eric having to go off somewhere. | 0:30:35 | 0:30:39 | |
And once again, Eric's work has taken him away from Corinne | 0:30:39 | 0:30:43 | |
-and the family. -'Hello?' -Hello! | 0:30:43 | 0:30:47 | |
-How's it going? -'Good. Not too bad. How are you?' | 0:30:47 | 0:30:50 | |
-I'm grand, I'm grand. You're looking well, pet. -How's work? | 0:30:50 | 0:30:55 | |
'Yeah, I'm keeping busy.' | 0:30:55 | 0:30:57 | |
What about the kids? How are they doing? | 0:30:57 | 0:30:59 | |
Yeah, the kids are great, doing well. | 0:30:59 | 0:31:01 | |
They're happy enough at school. | 0:31:01 | 0:31:04 | |
We've been starting to get the packing, get the bags sorted. | 0:31:04 | 0:31:08 | |
I'm working out what I'm going to bring. | 0:31:08 | 0:31:12 | |
What's that? The packing?! | 0:31:12 | 0:31:15 | |
Well, in a week's time I will be on a flight to Australia! | 0:31:15 | 0:31:20 | |
We're heading out to Perth to be with Eric. | 0:31:21 | 0:31:25 | |
Just get your suitcases packed! Hurry up and get out here! | 0:31:25 | 0:31:29 | |
Are you looking forward to it? | 0:31:29 | 0:31:30 | |
'No, I can't wait. I can't wait until yous get out now.' | 0:31:30 | 0:31:33 | |
I'm really missing you and Jodie and Madison, honey, | 0:31:33 | 0:31:36 | |
so you can give them a big kiss and a hug from Daddy. | 0:31:36 | 0:31:40 | |
We're not having too long to wait now. | 0:31:40 | 0:31:42 | |
It'll all be worth it in the end, won't it? | 0:31:42 | 0:31:45 | |
'It will, it will. So I hope you're ready for a big cuddle | 0:31:45 | 0:31:49 | |
'when you get off that plane. And a big kiss.' | 0:31:49 | 0:31:52 | |
Five weeks earlier, Eric had flown out of Perth | 0:31:53 | 0:31:57 | |
to start a new job. | 0:31:57 | 0:31:58 | |
He's been staying in a rental property while he looks for a bigger place, | 0:31:58 | 0:32:02 | |
for when the rest of the family comes out to join him. | 0:32:02 | 0:32:04 | |
Once we returned to the UK, | 0:32:09 | 0:32:11 | |
we were pretty happy that we wanted to make the move to Australia, | 0:32:11 | 0:32:15 | |
so we basically got started right away | 0:32:15 | 0:32:18 | |
trying to put the plans in order, trying to get things organised | 0:32:18 | 0:32:21 | |
for the move. | 0:32:21 | 0:32:24 | |
I've now made the move over to Perth, | 0:32:24 | 0:32:27 | |
but Corinne, Jodie and Madison are still back in Bangor, | 0:32:27 | 0:32:31 | |
until the end of May, to give me a chance to get over here, | 0:32:31 | 0:32:34 | |
get the job organised and get everything set up for them arriving. | 0:32:34 | 0:32:38 | |
My stomach... At the time when we decided, "Yeah, we want to make the move," | 0:32:42 | 0:32:47 | |
ach, we were really excited, | 0:32:47 | 0:32:49 | |
but we were really, really nervous about it as well, | 0:32:49 | 0:32:52 | |
cos then we were thinking, we've got to go back | 0:32:52 | 0:32:55 | |
and start making plans. | 0:32:55 | 0:32:58 | |
And it was just a roller coaster after that. | 0:32:58 | 0:33:01 | |
Obviously, we're still... we're still apart, um... | 0:33:01 | 0:33:05 | |
They're back in the UK and I'm over here. | 0:33:05 | 0:33:09 | |
It isn't ideal but at least it does give me the chance | 0:33:09 | 0:33:13 | |
to get things ready for them coming here, | 0:33:13 | 0:33:16 | |
and hopefully making it an easier start for us all | 0:33:16 | 0:33:19 | |
once they get here. | 0:33:19 | 0:33:21 | |
It has been really difficult without Eric being here, | 0:33:21 | 0:33:26 | |
but we're looking forward now to getting out to Australia | 0:33:26 | 0:33:29 | |
and just getting on with our lives and just being there with him. | 0:33:29 | 0:33:32 | |
When Eric left the UK, | 0:33:35 | 0:33:37 | |
so did a container full of the family's belongings. | 0:33:37 | 0:33:41 | |
With the house empty, they put it up for rental, | 0:33:41 | 0:33:43 | |
and Corinne and the girls moved in with her parents next door | 0:33:43 | 0:33:47 | |
for their final few weeks in Northern Ireland. | 0:33:47 | 0:33:50 | |
Moved everything in, lock, stock and barrel. Dogs, children. | 0:33:50 | 0:33:53 | |
And, um, it's been fun. | 0:33:53 | 0:33:57 | |
It has been good, my mum and dad have been absolutely brilliant. | 0:33:57 | 0:34:00 | |
For Jodie and Madison, | 0:34:00 | 0:34:01 | |
it's been a completely new experience | 0:34:01 | 0:34:04 | |
and it's only just the start of their Australian journey. | 0:34:04 | 0:34:08 | |
I've probably had more ups and downs than they have, really. | 0:34:08 | 0:34:12 | |
You know, they're so well adjusted to Eric not being around. | 0:34:12 | 0:34:16 | |
But now, as the time has come sort of closer, | 0:34:16 | 0:34:19 | |
I think we're all just getting to the stage where we just want to be away now. | 0:34:19 | 0:34:23 | |
We're tired, we're living out of suitcases, | 0:34:23 | 0:34:26 | |
it's not normal. | 0:34:26 | 0:34:28 | |
Um, but we have all... We've done well. | 0:34:28 | 0:34:32 | |
I think we have done well. | 0:34:32 | 0:34:35 | |
While Corinne and the girls are coping with the upheaval of leaving the UK, | 0:34:39 | 0:34:44 | |
in Australia, Eric is dealing with starting a new job | 0:34:44 | 0:34:47 | |
in unfamiliar territory. | 0:34:47 | 0:34:49 | |
I've started here as a senior piping designer. | 0:34:50 | 0:34:53 | |
The financial package is very good | 0:34:54 | 0:34:56 | |
and also the professional development, | 0:34:56 | 0:34:59 | |
which I'm looking for as well. | 0:34:59 | 0:35:01 | |
There's a lot worse places you can think of going to work every morning | 0:35:01 | 0:35:06 | |
than coming in to the centre of Perth. You're coming in | 0:35:06 | 0:35:09 | |
and there's sunshine and it's very, very different. | 0:35:09 | 0:35:14 | |
Obviously the main reason for the move | 0:35:16 | 0:35:18 | |
was the fact that we didn't have the opportunity, | 0:35:18 | 0:35:21 | |
or very limited opportunity, to be together as a family. | 0:35:21 | 0:35:24 | |
When they come over, | 0:35:24 | 0:35:25 | |
I'll be home every night just after dinner time and be able to spend | 0:35:25 | 0:35:29 | |
the evenings with Corinne and the kids, | 0:35:29 | 0:35:31 | |
that'll be just so much more time together, | 0:35:31 | 0:35:34 | |
and the family time that we've been looking for | 0:35:34 | 0:35:36 | |
and we've been wanting. | 0:35:36 | 0:35:38 | |
And what, really, the move here has been about the whole time. | 0:35:38 | 0:35:43 | |
Meanwhile, back in the UK, | 0:35:45 | 0:35:47 | |
it's Madison's and Jodie's last day at school, | 0:35:47 | 0:35:50 | |
as they get another step closer to joining their dad. | 0:35:50 | 0:35:53 | |
The kids are now just so focused | 0:35:53 | 0:35:54 | |
on going to Australia and being with their dad. | 0:35:54 | 0:35:57 | |
I hope that it's not going to be an upset for them, | 0:35:57 | 0:36:00 | |
but I don't think it will be. I think it's me saying bye | 0:36:00 | 0:36:03 | |
to people I've been friends with at the school. | 0:36:03 | 0:36:06 | |
I think it's probably me that's going to be the most upset. | 0:36:06 | 0:36:11 | |
What did you get? Oh, wow! And a book on Madison! | 0:36:11 | 0:36:15 | |
Yeah. I'm tired! | 0:36:15 | 0:36:19 | |
-You did very well. -I'm tired. -Right. Want to go home? -Yay. | 0:36:19 | 0:36:23 | |
All right, then. Come on. | 0:36:23 | 0:36:25 | |
-Bye! -Bye. | 0:36:27 | 0:36:29 | |
-GIRL: Bye, Madison! -Bye. | 0:36:29 | 0:36:32 | |
Looking through the girls' good-luck messages from school, | 0:36:34 | 0:36:37 | |
Corinne has time to reflect on everything they're leaving behind. | 0:36:37 | 0:36:41 | |
"It has been a pleasure to have such a well-mannered, | 0:36:41 | 0:36:44 | |
"hard-working girl in my class this year." | 0:36:44 | 0:36:48 | |
That's really lovely, isn't it? | 0:36:48 | 0:36:51 | |
It's something to keep. | 0:36:51 | 0:36:52 | |
'It's just closing such a chapter in our lives and our kids' lives.' | 0:36:54 | 0:36:59 | |
I wish Eric had have been here. | 0:36:59 | 0:37:02 | |
I miss him not being here now, and supportive, | 0:37:02 | 0:37:05 | |
trying to cope with these final three days. | 0:37:05 | 0:37:08 | |
-And this is you with Barney Bear. -Yeah. | 0:37:09 | 0:37:12 | |
-Were you sad to leave all your friends? -Just a wee bit. | 0:37:12 | 0:37:16 | |
-Just a wee bit. You're very, very brave, aren't you? -Yeah. | 0:37:16 | 0:37:20 | |
Yeah, I'm glad you had a good day. | 0:37:20 | 0:37:23 | |
In Perth, Eric is also busy, making sure the move runs smoothly. | 0:37:23 | 0:37:28 | |
He's been viewing properties for the family to rent when they arrive. | 0:37:28 | 0:37:32 | |
But back during their trial week, | 0:37:32 | 0:37:34 | |
Corinne had some strong views on their ideal house down under, | 0:37:34 | 0:37:37 | |
so it's a big responsibility. | 0:37:37 | 0:37:40 | |
There is a wee bit of pressure with the house-hunting. | 0:37:42 | 0:37:46 | |
Having somewhere where they're going to feel at home, the kids | 0:37:46 | 0:37:50 | |
are going to settle, Corinne's going to settle, is really, really crucial. | 0:37:50 | 0:37:55 | |
I think that they prefer, the kids prefer, Secret Harbour, really. | 0:37:55 | 0:37:58 | |
-I know they like being close to the beach. -Well, just weigh it up. | 0:37:58 | 0:38:03 | |
I'll leave it up to you. You know, make the decision that you think... | 0:38:03 | 0:38:07 | |
-Don't do that! -It'll be right for us. And if it's not, then... | 0:38:07 | 0:38:11 | |
No, I can't take responsibility for this, | 0:38:11 | 0:38:14 | |
you're the one that makes all the big decisions, pet. | 0:38:14 | 0:38:16 | |
Let's hope Eric is up to the challenge. | 0:38:16 | 0:38:20 | |
I do trust him. | 0:38:20 | 0:38:22 | |
I think we're both on the same wavelength | 0:38:22 | 0:38:24 | |
when it comes to the house. I hope so! | 0:38:24 | 0:38:27 | |
Today, he's viewing a property in Secret Harbour, | 0:38:29 | 0:38:32 | |
an area they've been keen on since their trial week. | 0:38:32 | 0:38:35 | |
-Hi, Eric, I'm Carol. -Hi, Carol, pleased to meet you. -Come on in. | 0:38:37 | 0:38:40 | |
Thanks very much. | 0:38:40 | 0:38:41 | |
-This is lovely. -Yep. Plenty of space for your double fridge freezer. | 0:38:41 | 0:38:46 | |
-And you've got your dishwasher. -The dishwasher comes too? -Yeah. | 0:38:46 | 0:38:49 | |
And that leads out into your patio area. | 0:38:49 | 0:38:53 | |
So, outdoor entertaining area, and then obviously you've got your pool. | 0:38:53 | 0:38:56 | |
That's brilliant. That is a nice size. I'm looking at this pool... | 0:38:56 | 0:39:00 | |
-It is nice. -ERIC LAUGHS | 0:39:00 | 0:39:02 | |
I can see two little girls' faces right now. | 0:39:03 | 0:39:06 | |
So I can. | 0:39:07 | 0:39:08 | |
Hopefully, that will keep everyone happy. | 0:39:08 | 0:39:11 | |
Eric has a final look round, | 0:39:11 | 0:39:13 | |
but Corinne will have to make do with just the photos. | 0:39:13 | 0:39:17 | |
-How did it go? -It's really nice, Carol, absolutely lovely. | 0:39:17 | 0:39:20 | |
I think I'm pretty confident to go ahead and lodge the application, if possible? | 0:39:20 | 0:39:24 | |
Fantastic! Congratulations. | 0:39:24 | 0:39:26 | |
We'll sort out all the paperwork and get that off to you. | 0:39:26 | 0:39:29 | |
It just seems to be that our little checklist, I can tick everything off | 0:39:29 | 0:39:34 | |
and get bonuses, like pool tables, which I didn't even have on the list. | 0:39:34 | 0:39:38 | |
I'm really happy. Hope Corinne is. | 0:39:38 | 0:39:42 | |
-Nice to meet you again. -Pleasure, Carol, thanks very much. | 0:39:42 | 0:39:44 | |
Take care. Bye-bye. | 0:39:44 | 0:39:45 | |
I've secured the job. I just secured the house. | 0:39:47 | 0:39:51 | |
Um, yeah, so it's getting off to a really positive start. | 0:39:51 | 0:39:55 | |
With a house now sorted and the move less than a week away, | 0:40:00 | 0:40:04 | |
all that remains is for Corinne to tie up the loose ends | 0:40:04 | 0:40:07 | |
of their life in Northern Ireland. | 0:40:07 | 0:40:08 | |
Recently, over the last couple of weeks, it's been, | 0:40:10 | 0:40:13 | |
"That's the last time we'll go there." | 0:40:13 | 0:40:17 | |
We've been doing our sort of Northern Ireland bucket list. | 0:40:17 | 0:40:21 | |
And we've been to different places that the kids like and that I like. | 0:40:22 | 0:40:27 | |
It sort of feels a wee bit surreal, actually, that I am actually going | 0:40:29 | 0:40:34 | |
to get on a flight to Australia - and it's a one-way ticket. | 0:40:34 | 0:40:38 | |
You know, that feels really strange, but it feels good as well. | 0:40:38 | 0:40:42 | |
It feels great that I'm going there and that's it. | 0:40:42 | 0:40:46 | |
You know, we do miss him. And I just can't wait... | 0:40:48 | 0:40:53 | |
I can't wait to go out there and start our lives together. | 0:40:53 | 0:40:56 | |
I really can't. | 0:40:56 | 0:40:58 | |
And finally, just a few days later, the waiting is almost over. | 0:41:04 | 0:41:09 | |
When I see Corinne and Jodie and Madison at the airport, | 0:41:10 | 0:41:13 | |
in reality, that's when our new life here begins - when they land. | 0:41:13 | 0:41:18 | |
I think I've been going over it so many times in my head | 0:41:18 | 0:41:22 | |
about how it's going to go and... | 0:41:22 | 0:41:24 | |
Oh, just looking forward so much to seeing them again. | 0:41:24 | 0:41:29 | |
-Hello! -Dada! | 0:41:52 | 0:41:54 | |
-Hello, me pet. -Don't squish! | 0:41:55 | 0:41:58 | |
-Don't squish. -You all right? | 0:41:59 | 0:42:01 | |
I'm so glad to see you. | 0:42:05 | 0:42:07 | |
Come here, me pet. | 0:42:13 | 0:42:15 | |
I'm still not feeling well. | 0:42:16 | 0:42:18 | |
It's just so much to take in. | 0:42:26 | 0:42:27 | |
This is real now and we're going to be all together | 0:42:29 | 0:42:32 | |
and it's the dream come true. | 0:42:32 | 0:42:35 | |
-I've missed you. -I've missed you too. | 0:42:37 | 0:42:39 | |
CORINNE SOBS | 0:42:42 | 0:42:43 | |
-Oh, now go home? -ERIC LAUGHS | 0:42:45 | 0:42:48 | |
After years of heartache, | 0:42:54 | 0:42:56 | |
the Stitts are finally back together as a family | 0:42:56 | 0:42:58 | |
and ready to start their lives in Perth. | 0:42:58 | 0:43:01 | |
We wish them the very best of luck with their future down under. | 0:43:01 | 0:43:04 | |
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