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Moving to the other side of the world can be a | 0:00:02 | 0:00:04 | |
massive undertaking for anyone. | 0:00:04 | 0:00:07 | |
But how would you cope if the search for a better life meant | 0:00:07 | 0:00:10 | |
potentially splitting your family up for good? | 0:00:10 | 0:00:13 | |
That was the dilemma facing Wendie and Peter Williamson one year ago. | 0:00:13 | 0:00:18 | |
Today, we'll find out where they now call home. | 0:00:18 | 0:00:21 | |
In 2013, Wendie Williamson was on a mission to move down under. | 0:00:23 | 0:00:28 | |
I've wanted to go to Australia for such a long time. It is my dream. | 0:00:28 | 0:00:32 | |
But it was a dream her son didn't share... | 0:00:32 | 0:00:34 | |
Not all of me mates have a spare £700 for a flight, do they? | 0:00:34 | 0:00:37 | |
You're not going to be with all your friends forever, are you? | 0:00:37 | 0:00:40 | |
I'm not saying that. | 0:00:40 | 0:00:41 | |
Without Sonny on board, the dream was in real jeopardy. | 0:00:41 | 0:00:45 | |
This could be a big decision, a big moment in our life really, | 0:00:45 | 0:00:50 | |
where we either stay together as a family | 0:00:50 | 0:00:53 | |
or we leave Sonny behind in the UK. | 0:00:53 | 0:00:55 | |
One year later - find out where the Williamsons now call home - | 0:00:55 | 0:00:59 | |
and if Sonny's still with them. | 0:00:59 | 0:01:01 | |
I definitely think I made the right decision. | 0:01:01 | 0:01:03 | |
Australia's the top destination for Brits seeking a new life abroad. | 0:01:25 | 0:01:30 | |
With winter temperatures often reaching 27 degrees centigrade, | 0:01:30 | 0:01:34 | |
and a year-round outdoor lifestyle, it's easy to understand why. | 0:01:34 | 0:01:38 | |
But moving thousands of miles across the globe can turn the strongest | 0:01:38 | 0:01:42 | |
dreams into the toughest challenges - and many return to their | 0:01:42 | 0:01:45 | |
lives in the UK with their ambitions in tatters. | 0:01:45 | 0:01:49 | |
In 2013, the Williamsons faced some huge decisions | 0:01:49 | 0:01:54 | |
as they spent a trial week in Australia. | 0:01:54 | 0:01:57 | |
While experiencing the reality of Aussie living, | 0:01:57 | 0:02:00 | |
Wendie had to convince her son he would have a better life | 0:02:00 | 0:02:03 | |
down under, otherwise she risked splitting her family up for good. | 0:02:03 | 0:02:08 | |
One year on, we'll find out on which side of the world the family | 0:02:08 | 0:02:12 | |
are living and if they're still together. | 0:02:12 | 0:02:15 | |
The Williamsons' trial week in Perth started with a 10,000-mile journey | 0:02:21 | 0:02:25 | |
from home and they'd had plenty of time | 0:02:25 | 0:02:27 | |
to contemplate the week ahead. | 0:02:27 | 0:02:29 | |
We just need to go and see a bit of the country now. | 0:02:29 | 0:02:31 | |
See what Australia has to offer. | 0:02:31 | 0:02:33 | |
I hope I'm going to like it. I should like it. | 0:02:33 | 0:02:37 | |
I should. | 0:02:37 | 0:02:39 | |
I'm going to. I'm going to like it. | 0:02:39 | 0:02:41 | |
But the family's decision would depend on eldest child Sonny | 0:02:43 | 0:02:46 | |
being persuaded. | 0:02:46 | 0:02:48 | |
I hoping that I'll make up my mind by the end of the week... | 0:02:48 | 0:02:51 | |
whether to decide to come here or not. | 0:02:51 | 0:02:53 | |
What if it's 50/50? | 0:02:53 | 0:02:56 | |
Then...I don't know | 0:02:56 | 0:02:58 | |
Then you'll come. | 0:02:58 | 0:02:59 | |
There was tension in the air as the Williamsons | 0:03:01 | 0:03:04 | |
set out on the most important week of their lives. | 0:03:04 | 0:03:07 | |
When it was over they'd have to decide not only | 0:03:07 | 0:03:09 | |
where their future lay but whether they'd spend it together. | 0:03:09 | 0:03:13 | |
Peter, Wendie, Sonny | 0:03:16 | 0:03:18 | |
and Reece were living in Hartlepool in the north-east of England. | 0:03:18 | 0:03:21 | |
Wendie was just 19 when she first began to consider | 0:03:21 | 0:03:24 | |
the benefits of Australia. | 0:03:24 | 0:03:27 | |
Warm, sunny, less populated than the UK. | 0:03:27 | 0:03:31 | |
She believed it could offer a better quality of life for her family. | 0:03:31 | 0:03:36 | |
I want to provide a better life for my children. | 0:03:36 | 0:03:38 | |
I want to give them better opportunities | 0:03:38 | 0:03:40 | |
and I don't think I can do that in this country. | 0:03:40 | 0:03:43 | |
After some reluctance, husband Peter had bought into Wendie's dream. | 0:03:43 | 0:03:47 | |
Initially it was because I had such a good relationship | 0:03:47 | 0:03:49 | |
with my father and my parents and the rest of my family. | 0:03:49 | 0:03:53 | |
And then his dad passed away. And since that happened, I think | 0:03:53 | 0:03:58 | |
his perspective's changed slightly about going to Australia. | 0:03:58 | 0:04:02 | |
Now I'm thinking it could be a possibility. | 0:04:02 | 0:04:05 | |
But the couple's 19-year-old son, Sonny, | 0:04:07 | 0:04:10 | |
didn't want to leave his life in the UK. | 0:04:10 | 0:04:12 | |
There's nothing in my life that I'm not happy about, | 0:04:13 | 0:04:16 | |
apart from my mum and dad wanting to move to Australia. | 0:04:16 | 0:04:19 | |
That would just upset everything really. | 0:04:21 | 0:04:25 | |
He's got a great social life, great set of friends, good job... | 0:04:25 | 0:04:30 | |
-Girlfriend. -Enjoys his job. A girlfriend. | 0:04:30 | 0:04:33 | |
Me and Jen have been together two years. | 0:04:33 | 0:04:35 | |
We've got quite a strong relationship. | 0:04:35 | 0:04:37 | |
We know each other pretty much inside out. | 0:04:37 | 0:04:40 | |
Wendie was desperate to move down under, | 0:04:42 | 0:04:44 | |
but the thought of leaving Sonny behind was tearing the family apart. | 0:04:44 | 0:04:49 | |
I couldn't leave him here without anywhere to live. | 0:04:49 | 0:04:51 | |
I couldn't... That just wouldn't be an option. I would have to say... | 0:04:51 | 0:04:55 | |
I would probably say... | 0:04:55 | 0:04:56 | |
I don't know what I would say. It's very difficult. | 0:04:57 | 0:05:00 | |
I don't think Wendie is prepared for going to Australia without Sonny. | 0:05:00 | 0:05:03 | |
I'm kind of keeping that balance. I'm the one who's | 0:05:03 | 0:05:06 | |
keeping that topic of conversation going, so to speak. | 0:05:06 | 0:05:10 | |
For the sake of the family, Sonny had decided to keep an open mind. | 0:05:10 | 0:05:14 | |
I would like to give it a go cos if you rule out something before you | 0:05:14 | 0:05:18 | |
even try it, then I think you're in a no-win situation really. | 0:05:18 | 0:05:22 | |
But if he didn't like what he saw, | 0:05:22 | 0:05:24 | |
the Williamsons could be split for good. | 0:05:24 | 0:05:27 | |
If they had to move to Australia and I was to stay here it would | 0:05:27 | 0:05:32 | |
probably be the most upsetting thing ever to happen in my life so far. | 0:05:32 | 0:05:38 | |
I just want him to be with us. And that's it. | 0:05:38 | 0:05:42 | |
I just want Sonny with us. | 0:05:42 | 0:05:44 | |
The Williamsons were at a crossroad. | 0:05:44 | 0:05:47 | |
Wendie had just one week to persuade Sonny to make the move, | 0:05:47 | 0:05:50 | |
or the family would end up living on opposite sides of the world. | 0:05:50 | 0:05:53 | |
I'm not quite ready to leave Sonny - I am fully aware of that, | 0:05:53 | 0:05:57 | |
and I think he is - we all are. | 0:05:57 | 0:05:59 | |
The Williamsons spent their trial week in Perth - | 0:06:06 | 0:06:09 | |
one of Australia's sunniest cities and a favourite | 0:06:09 | 0:06:12 | |
destination for families seeking a new life down under. | 0:06:12 | 0:06:15 | |
Home for the week was a modern, three-bedroom town house. | 0:06:15 | 0:06:19 | |
Very nice. Nice big television. | 0:06:19 | 0:06:22 | |
They'd just arrived, but Wendie was already | 0:06:22 | 0:06:25 | |
thinking about what she wanted from the next few days. | 0:06:25 | 0:06:28 | |
My ideal outcome for the week would be that we're all | 0:06:28 | 0:06:31 | |
voting for Australia. | 0:06:31 | 0:06:32 | |
Simple answer but that's it. | 0:06:33 | 0:06:36 | |
But for Sonny, it was much more complicated. | 0:06:36 | 0:06:39 | |
Cos it's my mum's dream I kind of do feel a little bit under | 0:06:39 | 0:06:44 | |
pressure because she goes on about it so much, she thinks | 0:06:44 | 0:06:47 | |
she can make me go which sort of makes me want to rebel a bit. | 0:06:47 | 0:06:51 | |
The whole family was feeling the pressure. | 0:06:51 | 0:06:54 | |
If the family decision is split at the end of the week, | 0:06:54 | 0:06:58 | |
I'm not sure what Wendie would think about it. | 0:06:58 | 0:07:01 | |
He said to me that he knows he going to like it but he knows | 0:07:01 | 0:07:06 | |
that he doesn't want to move as well. | 0:07:06 | 0:07:08 | |
The possibility of a life down under without her eldest son | 0:07:10 | 0:07:13 | |
was something Wendie couldn't bear to think about. | 0:07:13 | 0:07:16 | |
I don't think I've prepared myself for that, if I'm honest. | 0:07:16 | 0:07:20 | |
I've just got it in my head that we're all going to move out here | 0:07:20 | 0:07:23 | |
and everything's going to be really, really happy and somehow I've not | 0:07:23 | 0:07:26 | |
prepared myself for that. I'll cross that bridge when I come to it. | 0:07:26 | 0:07:30 | |
Back in the UK, home for the Williamson's was a red-brick, | 0:07:35 | 0:07:38 | |
three-bedroom semidetached house in the centre of Hartlepool. | 0:07:38 | 0:07:43 | |
The family planned to rent initially in Australia. | 0:07:43 | 0:07:46 | |
They'd set themselves a budget of £1,500 a month - | 0:07:46 | 0:07:50 | |
and Wendie knew exactly what she was looking for. | 0:07:50 | 0:07:53 | |
Ideally, it would have four bedrooms. | 0:07:53 | 0:07:55 | |
I'd like to live near the beach. | 0:07:55 | 0:07:56 | |
Having a sea view's not that important as long as I know | 0:07:56 | 0:07:59 | |
I could get there within five or ten minutes. | 0:07:59 | 0:08:01 | |
I want it all open-plan and I want a nice pool with a nice garden. | 0:08:01 | 0:08:04 | |
And nice neighbours. That's it. That's what I want. | 0:08:04 | 0:08:08 | |
To give the Williamsons an idea of what the Perth rental market | 0:08:11 | 0:08:15 | |
could offer, we showed them three properties, | 0:08:15 | 0:08:17 | |
ranging from what they could afford to their dream home. | 0:08:17 | 0:08:21 | |
The search began in Port Kennedy - | 0:08:21 | 0:08:23 | |
a suburb 30 miles south of Perth city centre. | 0:08:23 | 0:08:27 | |
The four-bedroom, two-bathroom family home was a short | 0:08:27 | 0:08:30 | |
stroll from the beach, so was it what Wendie was looking for? | 0:08:30 | 0:08:33 | |
-No furniture. -No furniture. | 0:08:35 | 0:08:37 | |
Seems quite small. | 0:08:37 | 0:08:38 | |
I don't think I'm too excited about this property. | 0:08:38 | 0:08:41 | |
It definitely wasn't love at first sight, | 0:08:41 | 0:08:44 | |
but Wendie was keen to know what Sonny thought. | 0:08:44 | 0:08:47 | |
Would you make the move from Hartlepool to Oz for this? | 0:08:47 | 0:08:50 | |
-No. -You wouldn't? -No. | 0:08:50 | 0:08:53 | |
He wasn't exactly bubbling over with enthusiasm | 0:08:53 | 0:08:56 | |
and things soon went from bad to worse. | 0:08:56 | 0:08:59 | |
DOG BARKING | 0:08:59 | 0:09:02 | |
I couldn't live next door to that, no. I would be forever saying... | 0:09:02 | 0:09:05 | |
(Shut up!) | 0:09:05 | 0:09:06 | |
Some extra space upstairs did get a more positive reaction. | 0:09:06 | 0:09:10 | |
Could be a little bedsit for you, couldn't it? | 0:09:10 | 0:09:12 | |
Could be, yeah. I like it. I'd live here. | 0:09:12 | 0:09:15 | |
Things were looking up but the view was a big let-down. | 0:09:15 | 0:09:18 | |
I'm just not too keen on looking out on that, are you? | 0:09:18 | 0:09:21 | |
And remember the dog? | 0:09:21 | 0:09:22 | |
DOG BARKS AGAIN | 0:09:22 | 0:09:24 | |
You'd have to be barking mad to live here. | 0:09:24 | 0:09:26 | |
The setting and soundtrack weren't perfect, but was the house within | 0:09:27 | 0:09:31 | |
the family's monthly 2,400 budget? | 0:09:31 | 0:09:35 | |
For monthly rental for this, | 0:09:35 | 0:09:37 | |
-I would say no more than 2,000 Australian dollars. -Yeah. | 0:09:37 | 0:09:45 | |
Do you want to turn it over, Reece? | 0:09:45 | 0:09:47 | |
2,400. | 0:09:50 | 0:09:51 | |
-600 a week. -Yeah... | 0:09:53 | 0:09:56 | |
Which is our budget. | 0:09:56 | 0:09:58 | |
It is our budget. | 0:09:58 | 0:09:59 | |
-And I wouldn't pay 2,400 for this one. -No. | 0:09:59 | 0:10:03 | |
It wasn't the best of starts for Wendie's dream. | 0:10:03 | 0:10:07 | |
Would the next property get things back on track? | 0:10:07 | 0:10:10 | |
It was in the suburb of Lake Coogee - 14 miles south of Perth. | 0:10:11 | 0:10:15 | |
So did this three-bedroom Art Deco home | 0:10:15 | 0:10:18 | |
meet with the Williamsons' approval? | 0:10:18 | 0:10:21 | |
I don't want to look too excited but I really love this. | 0:10:21 | 0:10:24 | |
Wow, what a huge, amazing space. It is good. | 0:10:24 | 0:10:27 | |
I love it. I actually do love it. We probably can't afford this. | 0:10:27 | 0:10:31 | |
Outdoors was equally impressive - | 0:10:31 | 0:10:34 | |
with a family-sized pool and stunning outdoor living area. | 0:10:34 | 0:10:38 | |
But was it somewhere Sonny could see himself? | 0:10:38 | 0:10:40 | |
-Yeah, course I would. -You would? | 0:10:40 | 0:10:43 | |
-Be stupid not to really. -Course you would. | 0:10:43 | 0:10:46 | |
It was just what Wendie needed to hear, | 0:10:46 | 0:10:49 | |
but it wasn't long before old tensions rose up. | 0:10:49 | 0:10:51 | |
I would still be unsure. | 0:10:53 | 0:10:55 | |
Your friends could come over for a visit. They're all young enough. | 0:10:55 | 0:10:58 | |
My mates are 19 and don't have a spare 700 quid | 0:10:58 | 0:11:00 | |
for a flight, do they? | 0:11:00 | 0:11:01 | |
You're not going to be with all your friends forever, are you? | 0:11:01 | 0:11:04 | |
I'm not saying that. | 0:11:04 | 0:11:05 | |
With his thoughts never far from home, | 0:11:05 | 0:11:08 | |
it was clearly going to take more than a big house with a pool | 0:11:08 | 0:11:11 | |
to win Sonny over. | 0:11:11 | 0:11:13 | |
With a rental budget of £1,500, was this house a home | 0:11:13 | 0:11:16 | |
they could afford - even if he did come on board? | 0:11:16 | 0:11:21 | |
Shall we turn over and find out? ALL: Yeah. | 0:11:21 | 0:11:23 | |
2,100! | 0:11:27 | 0:11:30 | |
-Is that like 150 more... -A week. | 0:11:33 | 0:11:38 | |
But I'd be paying rent if I do come. | 0:11:38 | 0:11:41 | |
You'd be paying rent? | 0:11:41 | 0:11:42 | |
Sonny's contribution could have made the house affordable. | 0:11:42 | 0:11:45 | |
-Could be. Maybe. -Yeah. | 0:11:45 | 0:11:47 | |
And Wendie seized upon the opportunity. | 0:11:47 | 0:11:50 | |
If you actually come with us and start contributing | 0:11:50 | 0:11:53 | |
-maybe we could afford something a little better. -Maybe. | 0:11:53 | 0:11:55 | |
Perhaps all was not yet lost. | 0:11:57 | 0:12:00 | |
The final house was in Secret Harbour - | 0:12:01 | 0:12:04 | |
a 50-minute drive south of Perth. | 0:12:04 | 0:12:06 | |
Did this modern family home keep up the positive vibe? | 0:12:06 | 0:12:09 | |
-I like it. -I do, definitely. Do you like that staircase? | 0:12:14 | 0:12:17 | |
I do like the staircase. | 0:12:17 | 0:12:19 | |
One feature rubbed Wendie and Peter up the right way. | 0:12:19 | 0:12:22 | |
Double shower. I would love to have a double shower in a property. | 0:12:22 | 0:12:27 | |
Of course. | 0:12:27 | 0:12:28 | |
SHE LAUGHS | 0:12:28 | 0:12:29 | |
I'm just a man. Just a man. | 0:12:29 | 0:12:32 | |
Children are around. | 0:12:33 | 0:12:34 | |
Cringe. | 0:12:36 | 0:12:37 | |
Spirits were high and Sonny could see some appeal. | 0:12:37 | 0:12:41 | |
-I like this room. -Would you like it? You've got your own bathroom. | 0:12:41 | 0:12:44 | |
There is like room like for desk or something | 0:12:44 | 0:12:47 | |
so I can do some drawing and stuff. | 0:12:47 | 0:12:49 | |
The outdoor space was perfect for Aussie living. | 0:12:49 | 0:12:52 | |
This is exactly what I had in mind. | 0:12:52 | 0:12:54 | |
It's the ideal house to move to. | 0:12:54 | 0:12:57 | |
And things just kept getting better. | 0:12:57 | 0:12:59 | |
-Oh, my God. -You can see the sea. | 0:12:59 | 0:13:03 | |
-Sea view. -Wow! | 0:13:03 | 0:13:04 | |
This is definitely going to be out of our price range, isn't it? | 0:13:04 | 0:13:07 | |
The house seemed perfect for the whole family, | 0:13:09 | 0:13:11 | |
but was it within reach of their 2,400 monthly rental budget? | 0:13:11 | 0:13:17 | |
Shall we turn over and find out? | 0:13:17 | 0:13:19 | |
That was substantially over budget. | 0:13:22 | 0:13:24 | |
Our budget was at 600. This is 900 a week. | 0:13:24 | 0:13:28 | |
It may have been beyond their means, | 0:13:28 | 0:13:30 | |
but Wendie wasn't giving up on it just yet. | 0:13:30 | 0:13:33 | |
This house is worth putting in a little bit more hard work, I think. | 0:13:33 | 0:13:37 | |
-Definitely. -Do you think so? | 0:13:37 | 0:13:39 | |
-Yeah, I'd contribute. -You would? -Yeah. | 0:13:39 | 0:13:41 | |
And if Peter's salary increased down under, | 0:13:41 | 0:13:44 | |
the dream house could possibly have been within reach. | 0:13:44 | 0:13:47 | |
Coming home from work to this? | 0:13:47 | 0:13:49 | |
Of course, if I could make it doable I would, yeah. | 0:13:49 | 0:13:52 | |
It had been an interesting day on the property front. | 0:13:56 | 0:13:59 | |
House number one was on budget but the noisy four-legged neighbour | 0:13:59 | 0:14:03 | |
had put them off. | 0:14:03 | 0:14:04 | |
Property number two had ticked a lot of boxes | 0:14:04 | 0:14:07 | |
with its family-sized pool and stunning outdoor living area. | 0:14:07 | 0:14:11 | |
But the final house was the dream home - and although it had | 0:14:11 | 0:14:15 | |
a price to match, it could have been worth stretching the budget for. | 0:14:15 | 0:14:19 | |
So when it came to properties - was it home or away? | 0:14:19 | 0:14:22 | |
Based on the properties we have seen today we are voting for... | 0:14:22 | 0:14:26 | |
-WENDY, SONNY AND REECE: Australia. -Undecided. | 0:14:31 | 0:14:34 | |
Why undecided? | 0:14:37 | 0:14:38 | |
We've been shown three properties and only one of them within budget. | 0:14:38 | 0:14:44 | |
And we didn't like it. | 0:14:44 | 0:14:46 | |
-Fair dos. -That's understandable. | 0:14:47 | 0:14:49 | |
-And you voted Australia. -Yeah. -Why have you voted Australia? | 0:14:49 | 0:14:52 | |
Well, I wouldn't mind living in a massive house with an en-suite | 0:14:52 | 0:14:55 | |
-and a pool, would I? -Right. OK. How about you, Reece? | 0:14:55 | 0:14:58 | |
I think the houses look better than what we live in now. | 0:14:58 | 0:15:03 | |
Why did you vote Australia, Mum? | 0:15:03 | 0:15:04 | |
I've seen my dream home. My dream home. | 0:15:04 | 0:15:07 | |
I know it is out of reach financially but I'm prepared to | 0:15:07 | 0:15:10 | |
make sacrifices in order to find a dream property | 0:15:10 | 0:15:13 | |
where you can come and live with us too. | 0:15:13 | 0:15:15 | |
Wendie may have been prepared to go the extra mile to keep Sonny | 0:15:20 | 0:15:23 | |
on board, but Peter was sticking to his guns - and his budget. | 0:15:23 | 0:15:27 | |
If Wendie's hopes were to stay alive, it was vital Perth | 0:15:27 | 0:15:31 | |
could offer good work prospects for the whole family. | 0:15:31 | 0:15:34 | |
In the UK, Peter enjoyed his job as Assistant Manager | 0:15:34 | 0:15:37 | |
for a petrochemical company. | 0:15:37 | 0:15:40 | |
If I could move my job to Australia and continue doing what I'm | 0:15:40 | 0:15:43 | |
doing with the same company, that would make me very happy. | 0:15:43 | 0:15:46 | |
Wendie was a care worker | 0:15:46 | 0:15:48 | |
specialising in drug and alcohol problems. | 0:15:48 | 0:15:50 | |
Where I was brought up, on a council estate, it seemed like many people | 0:15:50 | 0:15:54 | |
were taking drugs and drugs become a big thing in people's lives really. | 0:15:54 | 0:15:58 | |
And I thought that I could perhaps get into helping them stay | 0:15:58 | 0:16:03 | |
off it and maybe steer them on the right road, basically. | 0:16:03 | 0:16:06 | |
Having studied art at college, | 0:16:10 | 0:16:12 | |
Sonny was serving an apprenticeship as a tattooist. | 0:16:12 | 0:16:16 | |
Finding the right work opportunity would be | 0:16:16 | 0:16:19 | |
crucial in persuading him to emigrate. | 0:16:19 | 0:16:21 | |
If he could get work out there, I think that would maybe | 0:16:21 | 0:16:24 | |
persuade him a little bit more to come. | 0:16:24 | 0:16:27 | |
But as the main breadwinner, it was essential Peter found the right job. | 0:16:27 | 0:16:32 | |
If I love it in Australia and I can't find the right job, | 0:16:32 | 0:16:35 | |
then I can't see how we can make the move. | 0:16:35 | 0:16:38 | |
It would be game over. | 0:16:38 | 0:16:40 | |
If he can't find the right employment, we might have to consider | 0:16:40 | 0:16:44 | |
staying in the UK, which fills me with dread. | 0:16:44 | 0:16:48 | |
With so much riding on the day, | 0:16:50 | 0:16:52 | |
the family set out to explore what work options Perth had to offer. | 0:16:52 | 0:16:56 | |
First, Peter set off to get the lowdown on potential jobs | 0:16:56 | 0:16:59 | |
in the petrochemical industry | 0:16:59 | 0:17:01 | |
from Recruitment Manager Stuart Marsh. | 0:17:01 | 0:17:04 | |
There's plenty of opportunity at the moment, OK. | 0:17:04 | 0:17:06 | |
There's quite a few terminals near Perth or if you're really looking to | 0:17:06 | 0:17:10 | |
live in Perth and work a bit more remotely, | 0:17:10 | 0:17:12 | |
there's certainly opportunities further afield. | 0:17:12 | 0:17:15 | |
It was a great start for Peter. | 0:17:15 | 0:17:17 | |
Across town, Wendie was touring a rehabilitation centre | 0:17:17 | 0:17:20 | |
with Manageress Wendy Shannon. Were her prospects as encouraging? | 0:17:20 | 0:17:25 | |
Are there job opportunities? | 0:17:25 | 0:17:27 | |
I think there is. I think what you offer | 0:17:27 | 0:17:30 | |
and your experience would actually suit a senior role. | 0:17:30 | 0:17:34 | |
It was positive news | 0:17:34 | 0:17:36 | |
but a move would hang on Peter's earning potential. | 0:17:36 | 0:17:39 | |
I'm comfortable you could achieve a salary of around | 0:17:39 | 0:17:42 | |
100,000 plus benefits. | 0:17:42 | 0:17:44 | |
Really? 100,000? That equates to about 65...£65,000. | 0:17:44 | 0:17:50 | |
I'd say that's right, yeah. | 0:17:50 | 0:17:52 | |
OK. That's £20,000 more than what my current salary is. Wow. | 0:17:52 | 0:17:56 | |
Fantastic news for Peter. Were Wendie's figures as optimistic? | 0:17:56 | 0:18:02 | |
-Between about 68,000 to 74,000 Australian. -OK. | 0:18:02 | 0:18:08 | |
That was between 40 to £45,000 a year. | 0:18:08 | 0:18:11 | |
How would that fit with the work? | 0:18:11 | 0:18:13 | |
That's very good actually, that sort of doubles my salary. | 0:18:13 | 0:18:17 | |
Both Peter and Wendie had discovered their earning power would | 0:18:17 | 0:18:20 | |
significantly increase in Australia, but before they could | 0:18:20 | 0:18:23 | |
share their great news there was an unexpected turn of events. | 0:18:23 | 0:18:27 | |
The couple discovered Sonny couldn't be included on the family visa | 0:18:27 | 0:18:31 | |
as he was over 18 and a wage earner. | 0:18:31 | 0:18:34 | |
With her dream potentially in tatters, | 0:18:34 | 0:18:37 | |
Wendie and Sonny sought urgent advice from a migrant official | 0:18:37 | 0:18:40 | |
to find out if Sonny could register for a visa of his own. | 0:18:40 | 0:18:44 | |
If you want to apply at some later stage to come over | 0:18:44 | 0:18:48 | |
and live in Australia, then tattoo artist is not | 0:18:48 | 0:18:51 | |
on the Schedule of Occupations List. | 0:18:51 | 0:18:54 | |
Wendie was stunned. If Sonny wasn't eligible for his own visa | 0:18:54 | 0:18:58 | |
it could have meant her dream was over. | 0:18:58 | 0:19:01 | |
But there was a glimmer of hope. | 0:19:01 | 0:19:03 | |
If it was possible for you to be dependent, | 0:19:03 | 0:19:06 | |
which means basically you'd have to be studying and not | 0:19:06 | 0:19:09 | |
earning money of your own and you're dependent on your parents, | 0:19:09 | 0:19:14 | |
then you could be included. | 0:19:14 | 0:19:15 | |
Wendie's dream suddenly rested on Sonny's willingness to give up | 0:19:18 | 0:19:22 | |
the job he loved to become a student again. | 0:19:22 | 0:19:25 | |
I don't really feel that keen on going back to college. | 0:19:25 | 0:19:28 | |
It wasn't what Wendie wanted to hear. | 0:19:33 | 0:19:35 | |
But if I did like this country enough then it would be worth it | 0:19:36 | 0:19:40 | |
cos it's only six months out of my life...to go back to college. | 0:19:40 | 0:19:44 | |
So if I did look about Australia a bit more and I did feel like I | 0:19:44 | 0:19:48 | |
did want to move here | 0:19:48 | 0:19:49 | |
-then it would be something I would consider, yeah. -OK. | 0:19:49 | 0:19:53 | |
A move was perhaps still a possibility. | 0:19:54 | 0:19:57 | |
With a huge sigh of relief, | 0:19:57 | 0:19:59 | |
Wendie and Peter met to vote on working in Australia. | 0:19:59 | 0:20:02 | |
BOTH: Australia. | 0:20:08 | 0:20:10 | |
After a day of intense highs and lows, Wendie's face said it all. | 0:20:11 | 0:20:16 | |
But now the pressure was really on to persuade Sonny that | 0:20:16 | 0:20:19 | |
emigrating down under would be the best move for him. | 0:20:19 | 0:20:22 | |
For Wendie, the move was about a better life. | 0:20:28 | 0:20:32 | |
So did a day out Aussie-style | 0:20:32 | 0:20:33 | |
draw Sonny closer to the idea of emigrating? | 0:20:33 | 0:20:36 | |
The Williamsons spent the day at Lancelin, | 0:20:39 | 0:20:41 | |
one of the biggest sand dunes in Western Australia. | 0:20:41 | 0:20:44 | |
It was a chance to spend quality time together - | 0:20:44 | 0:20:47 | |
and to gather their thoughts. | 0:20:47 | 0:20:49 | |
It's a special moment really for us to spend time together. | 0:20:49 | 0:20:52 | |
Having this opportunity to see Australia as a family unit is | 0:20:52 | 0:20:56 | |
very special for me. It could be our last time together as a family. | 0:20:56 | 0:20:59 | |
Sonny had enjoyed the day. | 0:20:59 | 0:21:01 | |
Today has been unreal and I've really, really enjoyed it. | 0:21:01 | 0:21:06 | |
So I do have a kind of a battle going on in my mind what | 0:21:06 | 0:21:09 | |
I want to do at this moment in time. | 0:21:09 | 0:21:11 | |
I think today has opened Sonny's eyes in terms of the type | 0:21:11 | 0:21:16 | |
of activities and the kind of lifestyle we could have | 0:21:16 | 0:21:19 | |
if we moved to Australia, but on saying that, | 0:21:19 | 0:21:22 | |
I think Sonny still has unfinished business in the UK. | 0:21:22 | 0:21:25 | |
It's his life, at the end of the day, and I don't want to take that | 0:21:25 | 0:21:28 | |
away from him. All I can do is show him what Australia... | 0:21:28 | 0:21:31 | |
How lovely Australia is and hope | 0:21:31 | 0:21:33 | |
that he makes the decision to come with us. | 0:21:33 | 0:21:35 | |
So had Sonny seen enough to keep his mum's dream alive? | 0:21:35 | 0:21:39 | |
Based on our lifestyle activities today we are voting for... | 0:21:39 | 0:21:42 | |
ALL: Australia. | 0:21:47 | 0:21:49 | |
It was a clean sweep. Despite his doubts, | 0:21:50 | 0:21:53 | |
Sonny had given the thumbs up to the Aussie lifestyle. | 0:21:53 | 0:21:56 | |
Wendie's dream lived another day. | 0:21:56 | 0:21:58 | |
A unanimous vote for the Australian lifestyle was great news for Wendie. | 0:22:03 | 0:22:08 | |
But now it was time to find out if they could actually afford it. | 0:22:08 | 0:22:11 | |
We prepared a comparison of costs between Australia and the UK - | 0:22:11 | 0:22:15 | |
starting with the weekly shopping bill. | 0:22:15 | 0:22:18 | |
-Leg of lamb - £15... -In the UK. | 0:22:18 | 0:22:22 | |
£9 here. That's surprising, isn't it? | 0:22:22 | 0:22:25 | |
-Do we really eat all this in a week? -Yes, we do. | 0:22:25 | 0:22:28 | |
£85.73 per week worse off in Australia. | 0:22:31 | 0:22:35 | |
And that was just for food. Next up were the bigger costs. | 0:22:37 | 0:22:41 | |
The couple based their sums on the second property they saw. | 0:22:41 | 0:22:45 | |
Rent here, monthly, would be £1,980. That sounds a lot, doesn't it? | 0:22:45 | 0:22:52 | |
£1,980 a month. | 0:22:52 | 0:22:54 | |
Doesn't it? | 0:22:57 | 0:22:59 | |
-Yes. It does sound a lot. -That sounds crazy. | 0:22:59 | 0:23:01 | |
It was a huge amount of money but in Australia their combined | 0:23:01 | 0:23:05 | |
salaries after tax would provide an increase of almost | 0:23:05 | 0:23:09 | |
£21,000 a year, so did that help balance the books? | 0:23:09 | 0:23:14 | |
-That would leave us with £3,028. -There you go. | 0:23:14 | 0:23:20 | |
-So we're better off by £24. -There you go. | 0:23:20 | 0:23:25 | |
It wasn't much, but it was enough for Wendie. | 0:23:25 | 0:23:27 | |
You haven't calculated it wrong. You've done it right. | 0:23:27 | 0:23:32 | |
We're going to be better off in Australia. | 0:23:32 | 0:23:34 | |
So were the figures enough to convince Peter? | 0:23:36 | 0:23:38 | |
BOTH: Australia. | 0:23:43 | 0:23:44 | |
We're going to be better off financially here. | 0:23:47 | 0:23:50 | |
Even though it costs more to live here, our wages cover it, yeah. | 0:23:50 | 0:23:54 | |
-We are £24... -Better off a month. -..better off a month. | 0:23:54 | 0:23:58 | |
And I'm sure we'll put that to good use. | 0:23:58 | 0:24:01 | |
Yeah, I'm pretty sure we will. | 0:24:01 | 0:24:02 | |
With the finances just in the black, Wendie's dream was still on course. | 0:24:11 | 0:24:15 | |
But she wasn't home and dry just yet. | 0:24:15 | 0:24:19 | |
Sonny had made it clear that leaving the UK would be an enormous | 0:24:19 | 0:24:22 | |
wrench, so would watching messages from home be the family's | 0:24:22 | 0:24:26 | |
toughest challenge yet? | 0:24:26 | 0:24:28 | |
BOTH: Hi, guys. | 0:24:31 | 0:24:33 | |
Hi, Wendie. Hi, Peter, Sonny and Reece. | 0:24:33 | 0:24:38 | |
-BOTH: -Hi, Peter, Wendie, Sonny and Reece. | 0:24:38 | 0:24:42 | |
Hi, Sonny. | 0:24:42 | 0:24:44 | |
Wendie is extremely friendly. | 0:24:44 | 0:24:47 | |
She makes coming to work quite pleasurable really. | 0:24:47 | 0:24:49 | |
Pete is a real hard worker and he's always got a story to tell, | 0:24:49 | 0:24:56 | |
he's always a good laugh, isn't he? | 0:24:56 | 0:24:58 | |
They're just a lovely family really. | 0:24:58 | 0:25:01 | |
Sonny and Reece, beautiful. | 0:25:02 | 0:25:04 | |
They're very family oriented. They do a lot together as a family. | 0:25:04 | 0:25:08 | |
Sonny is an interesting person. | 0:25:08 | 0:25:13 | |
He's got a very interesting personality. | 0:25:13 | 0:25:15 | |
He just does anything for you. He never puts himself first | 0:25:15 | 0:25:18 | |
-and he just... -He's funny like, | 0:25:18 | 0:25:20 | |
-everything he says has to be a joke. -He's got no shame. | 0:25:20 | 0:25:23 | |
He just does outrageous things. | 0:25:23 | 0:25:25 | |
THEY LAUGH | 0:25:25 | 0:25:28 | |
She's always talked about going to Australia, | 0:25:28 | 0:25:30 | |
from when she was young, from as long as I can remember. | 0:25:30 | 0:25:33 | |
I'd be really sad to see Wendie go, I really will, | 0:25:33 | 0:25:35 | |
but happy on the other hand | 0:25:35 | 0:25:37 | |
because I know it's something she really wants. | 0:25:37 | 0:25:39 | |
If the whole family go, they'll be deeply missed. | 0:25:39 | 0:25:44 | |
Obviously we'll miss them, we'll miss seeing the boys, Peter. | 0:25:44 | 0:25:48 | |
We'll miss coming up to visit, because we won't be | 0:25:48 | 0:25:51 | |
-able to get to Australia... -So often. -Yeah. | 0:25:51 | 0:25:53 | |
To lose him would be...heartbreaking for any of us | 0:25:53 | 0:25:58 | |
cos he's such a close friend. | 0:25:58 | 0:26:00 | |
I'd be devastated, don't know what I'd do really. | 0:26:00 | 0:26:04 | |
I'm getting a bit... | 0:26:04 | 0:26:05 | |
I've a lump in me throat. | 0:26:05 | 0:26:07 | |
It's too far away, it's quite upsetting really to think about. | 0:26:07 | 0:26:12 | |
I know this is a difficult decision for you to make, | 0:26:12 | 0:26:15 | |
we're going to love you no matter what. Take care. God bless. | 0:26:15 | 0:26:19 | |
If you decide to stay here, we're all really happy, but then again, | 0:26:19 | 0:26:25 | |
if Australia's the right thing for you to do, | 0:26:25 | 0:26:29 | |
then you should go for it. | 0:26:29 | 0:26:30 | |
Don't let us stop you. In fact, we won't stop you. | 0:26:30 | 0:26:33 | |
We love you so much. So live your dream. | 0:26:33 | 0:26:37 | |
I don't want you to go at all but I know that if you do go, | 0:26:38 | 0:26:43 | |
it's the right decision for you to make. And... | 0:26:43 | 0:26:46 | |
I miss you and I love you and can't wait for you to come back. | 0:26:48 | 0:26:54 | |
I didn't think I'd be upset. | 0:27:02 | 0:27:04 | |
I know how upset she would be if you did come | 0:27:08 | 0:27:10 | |
and for us to ask you to make that decision... | 0:27:10 | 0:27:14 | |
We're forcing that upon you in one respect. | 0:27:14 | 0:27:17 | |
It's up to me what I want to do. | 0:27:17 | 0:27:19 | |
I can stay if I want to stay. I can come if I want to come. | 0:27:19 | 0:27:22 | |
This is going to be difficult for us, Sonny, as parents to actually say | 0:27:22 | 0:27:25 | |
goodbye to you if you do decide to stay in the UK. | 0:27:25 | 0:27:28 | |
Yeah, I know but you're not saying goodbye forever. | 0:27:28 | 0:27:31 | |
You're going to stay, aren't you? | 0:27:31 | 0:27:33 | |
Mm, yeah. Made my decision, yeah. | 0:27:33 | 0:27:36 | |
Have you? | 0:27:36 | 0:27:37 | |
-I think he has. -Yeah. | 0:27:37 | 0:27:39 | |
-I'm 19 now, 20 next year... -Yeah. | 0:27:43 | 0:27:46 | |
I can't be living at home all my life. | 0:27:46 | 0:27:48 | |
Can I? | 0:27:50 | 0:27:51 | |
Messages from loved ones back home had pushed | 0:27:54 | 0:27:56 | |
Sonny into a decision - Wendie's worst fear had become a reality. | 0:27:56 | 0:28:01 | |
As the final vote approached, she faced a heart-breaking decision. | 0:28:01 | 0:28:06 | |
Would she still choose to chase her dream of a better | 0:28:06 | 0:28:09 | |
life down under, or would the pain of leaving her eldest | 0:28:09 | 0:28:12 | |
son behind be too much to bear? | 0:28:12 | 0:28:14 | |
I think I've realised that Sonny does want to stay in the UK. | 0:28:14 | 0:28:18 | |
I'm having to think a little bit more about that now. | 0:28:18 | 0:28:20 | |
I just think, I know the distance... | 0:28:20 | 0:28:23 | |
If he needed me in an emergency, it would be a 26-hour flight. | 0:28:23 | 0:28:26 | |
I think she thinks she's been a bit selfish maybe in the past | 0:28:26 | 0:28:29 | |
because she's been saying to me, "You're coming to Australia, | 0:28:29 | 0:28:32 | |
"I'm not leaving you here." | 0:28:32 | 0:28:33 | |
But after watching the friends and family video, | 0:28:33 | 0:28:37 | |
I think she kind of realised what I'd have to leave behind. | 0:28:37 | 0:28:41 | |
Sonny's decision had deeply affected everyone. | 0:28:41 | 0:28:44 | |
I was upset, like my brother, that he didn't want to come over here. | 0:28:45 | 0:28:50 | |
Because my mum and dad do, so it's quite upsetting. | 0:28:50 | 0:28:54 | |
I'm considering all aspects of what I've got in the UK. | 0:28:55 | 0:29:00 | |
What possibly could be out here for me. | 0:29:00 | 0:29:03 | |
And I'm continuously flicking from one side to the other. | 0:29:03 | 0:29:06 | |
But it seemed Wendie had finally made up her mind. | 0:29:06 | 0:29:10 | |
I think I have come to a decision on which way I'm going to vote. | 0:29:10 | 0:29:13 | |
It was time for the Williamsons' to decide where their future lay. | 0:29:15 | 0:29:19 | |
-PETER, WENDY AND REECE: Australia. -England. | 0:29:26 | 0:29:29 | |
UK, yeah? You're not coming, then? | 0:29:31 | 0:29:35 | |
No. I've got too much to lose in England. | 0:29:35 | 0:29:38 | |
Do you think that seeing that friends and family DVD | 0:29:38 | 0:29:41 | |
brought it home to you? | 0:29:41 | 0:29:43 | |
I've always thought that anyway but, yeah, that obviously... | 0:29:43 | 0:29:45 | |
-Made it clearer. -Yeah. | 0:29:45 | 0:29:48 | |
So you're not saying never, never though? | 0:29:48 | 0:29:50 | |
I'm not saying never, no. | 0:29:50 | 0:29:51 | |
It had been a hugely emotional week for the Williamsons. | 0:29:58 | 0:30:02 | |
Australia had lived up to all of Wendie's expectations, | 0:30:02 | 0:30:06 | |
but it looked like Sonny and the family were facing new | 0:30:06 | 0:30:08 | |
futures on opposite sides of the globe. | 0:30:08 | 0:30:11 | |
One year on... | 0:30:11 | 0:30:13 | |
It's January, 2014, and the Williamsons are in the UK. | 0:30:13 | 0:30:18 | |
But some of them are preparing to make a move. | 0:30:18 | 0:30:21 | |
Their week down under persuaded Peter and Wendie | 0:30:21 | 0:30:24 | |
Australia should be their future home. | 0:30:24 | 0:30:27 | |
Australia was everything I hoped it would be. | 0:30:27 | 0:30:30 | |
When I came away, it made me want to go back and experience more. | 0:30:30 | 0:30:34 | |
Having that week in Australia really motivated us, I think. | 0:30:35 | 0:30:38 | |
It did but I don't think any of us expected to | 0:30:38 | 0:30:42 | |
be moving as quickly as this. | 0:30:42 | 0:30:43 | |
On their return to the UK, the couple wasted little time | 0:30:45 | 0:30:48 | |
getting ready to emigrate down under. | 0:30:48 | 0:30:50 | |
We came back at the end of May. | 0:30:50 | 0:30:52 | |
We reduced the asking price of our house in June, it sold in July. | 0:30:52 | 0:30:57 | |
We moved in here, into the rented accommodation, in July. | 0:30:57 | 0:31:01 | |
And then started the process of applying for my visa. | 0:31:01 | 0:31:04 | |
We got all that done and by the September, | 0:31:04 | 0:31:06 | |
we had all the paperwork that we needed, | 0:31:06 | 0:31:08 | |
and we got granted in October. So, all in all, that was pretty quick. | 0:31:08 | 0:31:12 | |
Only seven months after returning from their week in Perth, | 0:31:15 | 0:31:18 | |
the family have already waved goodbye to their belongings, | 0:31:18 | 0:31:21 | |
but they'll soon be saying a tougher farewell. | 0:31:21 | 0:31:24 | |
Sonny has stuck to his guns and decided to stay in the UK. | 0:31:24 | 0:31:28 | |
I didn't want to risk going to the other side of the world | 0:31:28 | 0:31:31 | |
to not be happy. | 0:31:31 | 0:31:32 | |
Their week in Australia helped Wendie realise it was | 0:31:32 | 0:31:35 | |
time for him to forge his own path in life. | 0:31:35 | 0:31:38 | |
I think after the show she kind of realised how I felt | 0:31:38 | 0:31:42 | |
and I think she understood my point of view | 0:31:42 | 0:31:45 | |
and I think she felt quite bad in the end for trying to make me go. | 0:31:45 | 0:31:48 | |
We said to him, "If you don't want to come to Australia, | 0:31:48 | 0:31:51 | |
"you have to go and fend for yourself." | 0:31:51 | 0:31:54 | |
And he did. Soon as we came back, he managed to get himself a house | 0:31:54 | 0:31:59 | |
and he's been paying his own rent, bills, his own shopping, | 0:31:59 | 0:32:02 | |
and he's been doing really well. | 0:32:02 | 0:32:04 | |
-He's actually proved to us he can survive without us. -Yeah. | 0:32:04 | 0:32:07 | |
We've got a lot closer since I've moved out and stuff. | 0:32:07 | 0:32:11 | |
Especially in the last couple of weeks when we've | 0:32:11 | 0:32:14 | |
been trying to spend more time together before they move. | 0:32:14 | 0:32:16 | |
Although it's been tough for Wendie, | 0:32:16 | 0:32:18 | |
she's come to terms with Sonny's decision. | 0:32:18 | 0:32:21 | |
We just have to keep our fingers crossed | 0:32:21 | 0:32:23 | |
and hope that he misses us so much that he'll come out at a later date. | 0:32:23 | 0:32:26 | |
That's what I'm hoping for. | 0:32:26 | 0:32:28 | |
I am definitely a little bit jealous but | 0:32:28 | 0:32:30 | |
I still think I've made the right decision. | 0:32:30 | 0:32:32 | |
I know I can go over whenever I want to see them and stuff. | 0:32:32 | 0:32:36 | |
So, yeah, I definitely think I made the right decision. | 0:32:36 | 0:32:39 | |
After saying their farewells, it's time for Wendie, | 0:32:44 | 0:32:47 | |
Peter and Reece to set off for their new life. | 0:32:47 | 0:32:50 | |
And they can't wait. | 0:32:50 | 0:32:52 | |
I've got no last-minute jitters whatsoever. | 0:32:52 | 0:32:55 | |
I'm just really looking forward to this experience | 0:32:55 | 0:32:58 | |
and grateful I've been given this opportunity. | 0:32:58 | 0:33:00 | |
I can't wait to get on the plane, to be honest with you. | 0:33:00 | 0:33:03 | |
It's quite sad leaving loads of friends behind | 0:33:03 | 0:33:06 | |
but I know I'll see them in a few years. | 0:33:06 | 0:33:09 | |
Five months later, the family are well and truly settled in Perth, | 0:33:20 | 0:33:24 | |
Western Australia, but Wendie still has to pinch herself to believe | 0:33:24 | 0:33:29 | |
she's made it to the other side of the world. | 0:33:29 | 0:33:31 | |
It felt very strange, if I'm being honest, when I landed, | 0:33:31 | 0:33:36 | |
knowing that I was not going to be returning to the UK. | 0:33:36 | 0:33:40 | |
It all felt surreal. | 0:33:40 | 0:33:41 | |
I couldn't quite take it all in that my dream had finally come true. | 0:33:41 | 0:33:46 | |
Landing in the country without jobs, Wendie and Peter spent their | 0:33:46 | 0:33:50 | |
first few weeks in Perth taking time to adjust to life down under. | 0:33:50 | 0:33:54 | |
We both didn't rush to work right away. | 0:33:54 | 0:33:56 | |
We had enough money to survive, live a nice lifestyle. | 0:33:56 | 0:34:02 | |
Having a month or so off was all part of the plan. | 0:34:02 | 0:34:05 | |
I kept saying to myself and to you, "Does this feel real? | 0:34:05 | 0:34:09 | |
"Can you believe we're not going back home?" | 0:34:09 | 0:34:12 | |
As we were walking up the beach, and it's 30 degrees, | 0:34:12 | 0:34:15 | |
-and you're just absolutely in paradise. -Yeah. | 0:34:15 | 0:34:17 | |
After living in a rental property for a couple of weeks, | 0:34:18 | 0:34:21 | |
the family have taken out a one year lease on a four-bedroom property | 0:34:21 | 0:34:25 | |
in the suburb of Safety Bay. | 0:34:25 | 0:34:27 | |
It's been the cause of some dissention. | 0:34:27 | 0:34:30 | |
That's probably when reality kicked in for me actually, | 0:34:30 | 0:34:33 | |
when we saw this house and I realised Pete liked it, | 0:34:33 | 0:34:36 | |
I didn't, but we were moving in any way. | 0:34:36 | 0:34:39 | |
For a base, it's a good house. It's a good size, got four bedrooms, | 0:34:39 | 0:34:44 | |
there's massive gardens, there's a double garage, | 0:34:44 | 0:34:47 | |
it's located in a very nice suburb. | 0:34:47 | 0:34:51 | |
There's a lot of positives about this house. | 0:34:51 | 0:34:53 | |
This is our living room. | 0:34:55 | 0:34:57 | |
I'm not a fan of this living room cos it's pretty dark but... | 0:34:57 | 0:35:01 | |
Pete likes it. | 0:35:03 | 0:35:04 | |
Wendie hasn't been won over by the kitchen either. | 0:35:04 | 0:35:08 | |
It's not my ideal kitchen, it's very old-fashioned, as you can see, | 0:35:08 | 0:35:12 | |
but it serves a purpose. | 0:35:12 | 0:35:14 | |
But there is one room that gets the thumbs up. | 0:35:14 | 0:35:17 | |
We had to get a pool table. Every Aussie house seems to have one. | 0:35:17 | 0:35:22 | |
Pete has even got his own space as well. | 0:35:22 | 0:35:26 | |
Which is for his precious decks. | 0:35:26 | 0:35:29 | |
Yeah, this room is...quite a good room. | 0:35:29 | 0:35:33 | |
And it overlooks the garden as well, which is nice. | 0:35:33 | 0:35:36 | |
The only thing missing is the pool. | 0:35:36 | 0:35:38 | |
This is not my dream house. | 0:35:40 | 0:35:42 | |
My dream house would consist of having a pool, | 0:35:42 | 0:35:44 | |
that's what I moved over here for, to live the Australian dream. | 0:35:44 | 0:35:48 | |
It's a good base. The house is big enough. | 0:35:48 | 0:35:51 | |
It hasn't got a pool but so what? We'll get a pool eventually. | 0:35:51 | 0:35:56 | |
It's close to Reece's school, it's close to Wendie's work... | 0:35:56 | 0:35:59 | |
And close to the beach. | 0:35:59 | 0:36:01 | |
Close to the beach, what more do you want? | 0:36:01 | 0:36:04 | |
A pool. | 0:36:04 | 0:36:05 | |
Despite moving to the other side of the world without employment, | 0:36:07 | 0:36:11 | |
Wendie was lucky to land on her feet. | 0:36:11 | 0:36:13 | |
I was very fortunate. I didn't have to go searching for work really. | 0:36:13 | 0:36:16 | |
Contacts made on the family's original trial week proved useful. | 0:36:16 | 0:36:22 | |
They offered me a job as soon as I stepped off the plane, basically. | 0:36:22 | 0:36:26 | |
My new job is absolutely fantastic. | 0:36:27 | 0:36:29 | |
I work on a rehabilitation farm helping clients with addiction. | 0:36:29 | 0:36:35 | |
It's a lot more relaxed than what I was doing back in the UK. | 0:36:35 | 0:36:39 | |
I'm part-time and it's absolutely fantastic. | 0:36:39 | 0:36:42 | |
I'm earning the same money I was earning working full-time back home. | 0:36:42 | 0:36:45 | |
Peter found searching for work a bit trickier though. | 0:36:45 | 0:36:49 | |
The process of looking for a job has been quite difficult. | 0:36:49 | 0:36:52 | |
You apply for quite a lot of jobs and you get a lot of knockbacks. | 0:36:52 | 0:36:56 | |
Although he's now found a job, it's not quite perfect. | 0:36:56 | 0:37:00 | |
Working with a gas processing company on an island 700 miles | 0:37:00 | 0:37:04 | |
from Perth will see him working away from home for three weeks at a time. | 0:37:04 | 0:37:08 | |
I'm not too excited about spending 26 days away from my family, | 0:37:08 | 0:37:13 | |
but I need to go and earn some decent money | 0:37:13 | 0:37:15 | |
and that's what this job's going to do for me. | 0:37:15 | 0:37:17 | |
It doesn't exactly fit with Wendie's vision of family life down under, | 0:37:17 | 0:37:22 | |
but it does have some upsides. | 0:37:22 | 0:37:24 | |
We've gone from being a family of four to a family of three, | 0:37:24 | 0:37:27 | |
and now we're going to be a family of two. | 0:37:27 | 0:37:30 | |
I didn't really come to Australia to be on my own. | 0:37:30 | 0:37:35 | |
However, the job that Pete's been offered | 0:37:35 | 0:37:38 | |
has just a substantial amount of money that he can't really refuse. | 0:37:38 | 0:37:41 | |
It's a very well-paid job, it will allow me | 0:37:41 | 0:37:46 | |
to save for the next year. If I did this job for five years, | 0:37:46 | 0:37:49 | |
we could potentially pay our mortgage off. | 0:37:49 | 0:37:51 | |
For Reece, the transition to a new school down under | 0:37:51 | 0:37:55 | |
was daunting at first. | 0:37:55 | 0:37:56 | |
It was like starting all over and I didn't know anyone. | 0:37:57 | 0:38:02 | |
I didn't know anything about them. It was really hard. | 0:38:02 | 0:38:05 | |
But after a few weeks, he discovered some benefits | 0:38:05 | 0:38:08 | |
of Aussie-style schools. | 0:38:08 | 0:38:10 | |
The teachers are quite laid back and not worried about | 0:38:10 | 0:38:15 | |
school uniform or how you dress. | 0:38:15 | 0:38:18 | |
They're not as strict as England, which is good. | 0:38:18 | 0:38:23 | |
Most of the people in my classes welcomed me into school | 0:38:23 | 0:38:28 | |
and it made life a lot easier. | 0:38:28 | 0:38:31 | |
Mum and Dad are proud of how their son has adjusted. | 0:38:31 | 0:38:34 | |
He's coping really well. I think he seems a lot happier in himself. | 0:38:34 | 0:38:39 | |
It's a big thing for any 14-year-old to move to the other | 0:38:39 | 0:38:42 | |
side of the world but he's coped really well with it. | 0:38:42 | 0:38:45 | |
With some family already in Perth, | 0:38:47 | 0:38:49 | |
Wendie hasn't suffered too much from homesickness. | 0:38:49 | 0:38:52 | |
Hello, babe! Did you get lost up the freeway? | 0:38:54 | 0:38:58 | |
-Hi, Reece. -Hi! | 0:38:58 | 0:39:00 | |
It's been lovely having people here I'm familiar with, yeah. | 0:39:01 | 0:39:04 | |
I think that's a head start, really. | 0:39:04 | 0:39:05 | |
Good to see you again, darlin'. | 0:39:05 | 0:39:09 | |
They absolutely love it here. | 0:39:09 | 0:39:10 | |
There's no way that they would ever go back. | 0:39:10 | 0:39:13 | |
They've got their work, they've made friends, it's great for them. | 0:39:13 | 0:39:17 | |
But five months after the move, | 0:39:18 | 0:39:19 | |
Wendie's still coming to terms with leaving Sonny behind. | 0:39:19 | 0:39:23 | |
I've gained family here but left family back home. I do miss Sonny. | 0:39:23 | 0:39:27 | |
Hiya! | 0:39:31 | 0:39:32 | |
-SONNY: -'All right, hiya.' | 0:39:32 | 0:39:34 | |
How are you going? | 0:39:34 | 0:39:35 | |
He does miss us as a family, but with the beauty of the internet, | 0:39:35 | 0:39:38 | |
we've managed to stay in touch with him. | 0:39:38 | 0:39:40 | |
So, it's like he is just down the road, really. | 0:39:40 | 0:39:43 | |
Have fun tonight. Have a nice day as well. See ya! | 0:39:43 | 0:39:46 | |
ALL: Bye! | 0:39:46 | 0:39:48 | |
It does feel very strange being just the three of us. | 0:39:50 | 0:39:53 | |
I do miss him. | 0:39:53 | 0:39:55 | |
The couple are pleased with how Sonny's coping having flown | 0:39:55 | 0:39:58 | |
the family nest, but are hopeful one day he will make the move. | 0:39:58 | 0:40:03 | |
He's coping extremely well but I still would love for him | 0:40:03 | 0:40:07 | |
to be here with us. And eventually, he might. | 0:40:07 | 0:40:10 | |
-He will. -He will. | 0:40:12 | 0:40:14 | |
SHE LAUGHS | 0:40:14 | 0:40:15 | |
While their move went smoothly, | 0:40:15 | 0:40:17 | |
at times Wendie and Peter found things did get strained. | 0:40:17 | 0:40:21 | |
Logistically, the journey's been great. | 0:40:21 | 0:40:24 | |
Emotionally, it's been difficult at times. | 0:40:24 | 0:40:27 | |
It's been difficult on our relationship, | 0:40:27 | 0:40:31 | |
because I think when you move here you lose your identity slightly | 0:40:31 | 0:40:35 | |
because you leave family behind, you leave friends behind. | 0:40:35 | 0:40:37 | |
That has an impact on your relationship because | 0:40:37 | 0:40:40 | |
you rely solely on each other. | 0:40:40 | 0:40:42 | |
-It hasn't been a completely smooth ride... -No, it hasn't. | 0:40:42 | 0:40:45 | |
-..but overall, it hasn't been too bad. -No. | 0:40:45 | 0:40:49 | |
The lifestyle opportunities afforded by the move down under | 0:40:49 | 0:40:52 | |
are having a positive effect on everyone. | 0:40:52 | 0:40:55 | |
The best thing about living here is waking up to sunshine every | 0:40:55 | 0:40:58 | |
morning and having parrots flying around in your garden, | 0:40:58 | 0:41:02 | |
walking down to the beach and seeing dolphins. | 0:41:02 | 0:41:04 | |
You don't get one day of sunshine and six days of rain, | 0:41:04 | 0:41:08 | |
you get a whole week of sunshine. | 0:41:08 | 0:41:10 | |
I'm more happy here than I was in the UK because the weather, | 0:41:10 | 0:41:15 | |
you can do more things. My family life has changed a lot | 0:41:15 | 0:41:19 | |
because we go out walking the dog, we do more activities together. | 0:41:19 | 0:41:24 | |
I've been dreaming about coming to Australia since my early twenties, | 0:41:24 | 0:41:28 | |
I think, and now I'm actually living that dream... | 0:41:28 | 0:41:32 | |
..it feels fantastic. | 0:41:34 | 0:41:36 | |
Wendie's always been the driving force behind the move. | 0:41:36 | 0:41:41 | |
There has been a lot of pressure on me to make this work cos | 0:41:41 | 0:41:44 | |
it's something that I've talked about for so many years. | 0:41:44 | 0:41:47 | |
So, almost half a year into their new life down under, | 0:41:47 | 0:41:51 | |
are there any regrets? | 0:41:51 | 0:41:52 | |
I'm 100% sure I've made the right move. | 0:41:52 | 0:41:57 | |
With no doubt whatsoever in my mind. | 0:41:57 | 0:41:59 | |
I definitely know I've made the right move. | 0:41:59 | 0:42:02 | |
And the rest of the family seem to agree. | 0:42:02 | 0:42:05 | |
I think my future lies in Australia. | 0:42:05 | 0:42:07 | |
I've made a new life for myself. It's a lot better than the UK. | 0:42:07 | 0:42:13 | |
The whole move has been worth it. We're not going back to the UK. | 0:42:13 | 0:42:18 | |
I can't see that happening. | 0:42:18 | 0:42:19 | |
Wendie's dream does exist here in Australia, I would say, | 0:42:19 | 0:42:23 | |
and we are striving to achieve it. | 0:42:23 | 0:42:26 | |
I do think our future is going to be great, | 0:42:26 | 0:42:29 | |
I do see us having a wonderful life, a wonderful lifestyle. | 0:42:29 | 0:42:33 | |
There's just one obvious downside. | 0:42:33 | 0:42:36 | |
-We're just missing one thing and that's a family member. -Yeah. | 0:42:36 | 0:42:39 | |
So once Sonny has lived his social life in the UK | 0:42:39 | 0:42:43 | |
and gets a bit fed up, hopefully he's going to come out and join us. | 0:42:43 | 0:42:46 | |
Eventually - that's the key word here - eventually. | 0:42:46 | 0:42:49 | |
-When it's right for him. -Yeah. That's right. | 0:42:49 | 0:42:52 | |
Secretly, deep down, I would love for him to be here with us. | 0:42:52 | 0:42:57 | |
For sure. | 0:42:57 | 0:42:58 | |
Within the space of a year, it appears the Williamsons have finally | 0:43:02 | 0:43:06 | |
achieved the lifestyle Wendie and Peter had been dreaming of. | 0:43:06 | 0:43:10 | |
And who knows? | 0:43:10 | 0:43:12 | |
At some point in the future, Sonny may yet join them. | 0:43:12 | 0:43:15 | |
We wish the whole family the very best with their new lives. | 0:43:15 | 0:43:18 |