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After years spent working abroad, you're more than happy

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to finally be back home.

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Your partner though wants a new life

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and already has a job offer on the other side of the world.

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Would you sacrifice everything that keeps you content

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to allow them to follow their dream?

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Air traffic controller, Andrew Crompton,

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thinks his family's life could really take off in Australia.

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This opportunity is once in a lifetime.

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All he needs to do now is convince wife, Gemma,

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to give up everything she loves in the UK.

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It's starting a new life.

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You know, everything is from scratch.

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So, will a trial week reveal some home truths?

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Oh.

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That's insane.

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Will Gemma be persuaded to green light Andrew's dream

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or keep the family grounded in the UK?

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How do you choose between the life you love and the man you love

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and what he wants from his life?

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Home to over a million expats,

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Australia's long been the destination of choice

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for British families on the move.

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Promising average annual temperatures of 21 degrees,

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some of the best beaches on the planet

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and a world-famous, laid-back lifestyle,

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it's easy to see the attraction for the thousands

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who emigrate there every year.

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But it isn't idyllic for everyone who makes the move.

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Almost half return home with their dream in tatters.

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Former navel officer, Gemma Crompton,

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is used to navigating her way through stormy situations,

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but her more challenging journey yet is on the horizon.

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While she's happy with a new career and life in the English countryside,

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husband, Andrew, has a very different outlook.

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He's convinced his family would be better off living in Australia.

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With a job offer already on the table,

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it's crunch time for the Cromptons.

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In just one week,

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can Andrew steer Gemma towards the life he's wanted for years?

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The family's first ever visit to Australia gets under way

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with just over 22 hours in the sky,

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flying from London to Brisbane with stopovers in Dubai and Sydney.

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And when they finally arrive, Andrew admits it's been quite a journey.

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It was pretty long, yeah, it was quite tiring.

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Trying to grab a few hours' sleep.

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Now he's here, Andrew's excited about the week ahead.

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It's really warm, I'm loving it. So, yeah, can't wait to keep...

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-See how... See what we get to go...

-It's better than England.

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It's better than England. You're right. It's better than England.

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In your five minutes experience of Australia.

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And that's all it took.

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Henry's onboard already,

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but Gemma's going to take a lot more work, despite the sunshine.

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It makes it a lot more appealing.

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But as far as moving my entire life here,

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then I still need to be convinced.

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As they take their first steps into Brisbane,

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Andrew knows where his family will spend the rest of their lives

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is anything but certain.

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Back in the UK, the Crompton family live in Fishburn, in County Durham.

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They're Dad, Andrew, Mum, Gemma, seven-year-old Henry

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and five-year-old Matilda.

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Andrew and Gemma met in the Royal Navy 15 years ago.

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Andrew stayed on dry land while Gemma sailed the world,

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deployed to conflicts such as Iraq and Afghanistan.

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Andrew then became a civil air traffic controller

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and after six years at sea, Gemma retrained as a radiographer.

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-Right, so we're going to make chocolate brownies.

-BOTH:

-Yay!

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Now parents to Henry and Matilda,

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Gemma loves being permanently on home turf.

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Having been in the Navy

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and travelled the world as much as I have, it made me really

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appreciate the UK and convinced me that I would say here forever.

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Yay!

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Not if Andrew has his way, though.

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Seeing an advert for air traffic controllers in Brisbane

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set him thinking about a new life on the other side of the world.

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He got in the car and said, "Australia are recruiting,

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"do you want to move there"?

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I said, "I'm not going".

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Despite Gemma's reluctance, Andrew went ahead and applied

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for the position and months later he's landed himself a job offer.

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I've been through all the testing that is required

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and as long as I successfully complete my training,

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then I will be accepted for the job.

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Andrew's now determined to put the country on Gemma's radar.

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Everything about it, it just screams,

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"this would be a great place to go to".

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The opportunities for the children as they grow up

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far outweigh the opportunities in the UK.

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We are outdoors people and being in a climate like Australia,

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that would afford us all the more opportunity to do that.

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The only thing standing between Andrew

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and the life he wants is Gemma.

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It's difficult knowing that Gemma is very happy with our life here.

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If you'd have asked me last year

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if I would move to Australia, I would have said, "Never.

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"I will never move to Australia"

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Gemma's happy with life in the UK.

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Dedicated to her new career,

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she's passionate about practising taekwondo at her local club

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and has a close knit group of friends.

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Convincing her to give that up will be a massive challenge.

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I don't know if I could make the sacrifices.

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I find it all very unsettling that I knew exactly

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where my life was going and I was going to work for promotion

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in the hospital I was in and stay there until I retired.

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Moving half a world away would also mean splitting Gemma

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from sister, Joanne, who she sees every day.

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And that prospect's already causing heartache.

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She has been extremely emotional about it.

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And out of everybody, she will be the one that's hard to leave.

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We're best friends.

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She makes me laugh and I can tell her anything

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and I can rely on her and she knows me inside out.

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And to be able to just turn up at somebody's house

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and have that is really, really special.

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The couple are at polar opposites

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when it comes to where they should be living.

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But Andrew's job offer means it's now decision time.

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In one week, Gemma will face an agonising choice

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between the life she loves and the one her husband's longing for.

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This opportunity is once in a lifetime.

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I think if we don't go now, we never will go.

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And I think if we don't even attempt to go we'll regret it

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for the rest of our lives.

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How do you choose between a life you love and the man you love

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and what he wants from his life?

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To find out where their future lies,

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the family are visiting Queensland in the north-east of Australia.

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Often referred to as the Sunshine State,

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it's the second largest and third most populated state in the country.

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Their temporary base is the suburb of Buddina,

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just over 60 miles north of Brisbane on the sunshine coast.

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But will their first glimpse of Aussie living be enough

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to get Gemma excited?

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GEMMA GASPS

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It's only got a pool.

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Wow.

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We've got our very own swimming pool. This is unbelievable.

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-Don't start crying.

-I know.

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I just feel a bit overwhelmed

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cos I didn't expect anything this amazing and grand

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and, just, luxurious.

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Oh!

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Inside's impressive, too.

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This is the biggest front door I've ever seen in my life.

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Oh.

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Yes! Whoa!

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Oh, my goodness.

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What's going to be upstairs?

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I don't know cos all the bedrooms are downstairs.

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Its location may be surprising,

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but the main living area's an instant hit.

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Oh, my goodness!

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This is amazing.

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Isn't it?

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Oh, you can see the sea.

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With the beach on their doorstep,

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the family can't wait to feel the sand between their toes.

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Andrew's already feeling more confident about the week ahead.

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Yeah, I think we've got out the traps quite well.

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I think this was pretty much spot on the money for the start.

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I think it'll be a bit of a rollercoaster,

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but after today I can't see us going too far backwards.

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I think it can only get better.

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But despite her earlier enthusiasm,

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Gemma's already thinking about the decision she'll soon face.

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Do I sacrifice their family

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and their relationships with their grandparents

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and my relationships

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to come and live somewhere sunny, you know? Is it that shallow?

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Or is this really a better life for us?

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And if the answer to that at the end of this week is yes,

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the answer will be easy.

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If I'm still on the fence at the end of the week,

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then it's going to be a much different question, I think.

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In the UK, home for the Cromptons

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is a modern, four bedroom, detached house in Fishburn, in County Durham.

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If Andrew can convince Gemma to make the move,

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their budget for a property in Australia is around £300,000.

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I'm hoping that if we did go the house would be less important.

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So, it would be more location, close to beaches, close to parks.

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Close to things that we can do.

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-As long as it's got a big, decent bit of outside space I don't think there's any real...

-Yeah.

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Nothing would be a showstopper.

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In my ideal home, we would love to have a pool and a large garden.

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With one of those shoe racks that rotates.

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All right, don't push the boat out.

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To find out what kind of house they could actually have in Australia,

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today we'll show the Cromptons three properties.

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Two on budget and a third which could be their dream home.

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Only after they've seen each one will they find out what it costs.

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The family's search begins in Pelican Waters.

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-Nice. A nice bit of the world, no?

-Unbelievable.

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Situated in the heart of Caloundra,

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this area's around an hour and a half north of Brisbane,

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but only minutes from Sunshine Coast beaches.

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Offering a wide range of coastal and sporting activities,

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the location should appeal to Andrew and Gemma.

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But will the house be on their wavelength, too?

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What do you think? I'm liking it, I'm liking it.

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So far, so good.

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Wow.

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-Oh, I love it.

-Look at this.

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The modern interiors win Gemma over straight away.

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This is absolutely sensational.

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-With the open plan living and the...

-Yeah.

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This home's living area opens out onto a large garden.

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Just what the couple were hoping for.

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GEMMA GASPS

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-This...

-I love this outside space.

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This is really the thing that gets me excited.

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The garden has plenty of room to roam

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and discovering it backs onto a golf club does little to dent enthusiasm.

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It's just, you feel like you're in the country,

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even though you're in this big housing estate.

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Cos you look over this golf course and it's trees and it's quiet.

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Moving back inside to check out the bedrooms,

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Andrew's chances of convincing Gemma seem to be on the up.

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I think I just spied a walk-in wardrobe.

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Wow.

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The master bedroom with en suite is a definite hit.

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-His and hers sinks.

-That's what you've always wanted.

-I know.

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-Apart from a walk-in wardrobe.

-I can have my own tidy side.

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And decent sized bedrooms for the children go down well, too.

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O-oh, I think this could be Tilda's room.

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-What do you think?

-Is this yours?

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This is exactly what you need, it's not too big,

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it's got great outside space.

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Come on, you guys.

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And finally a space for the boys.

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-Look at the size of this garage.

-Everything's just so big.

-I know.

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It's just the scale.

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It's like a little maze this house, isn't it? There's loads of little...

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It's the first place they've viewed,

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but it looks like this is somewhere the Cromptons could be comfortable.

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Is it affordable though, with their £300,000 budget?

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-Henry, what do you think?

-Erm, 1,284 or something like that.

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-1,284.

-Uh-huh.

-That'd be great if it was that much.

-I'll take it.

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-I mean, it's immaculate. You could just move straight in.

-It is, yeah.

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Time to find out how much it costs.

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Right, this is it, Tilda.

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Let's turn it over.

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-BOTH:

-Oo-oh.

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So, pretty much top of our budget.

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But doable.

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Yeah, it is doable.

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But if I was going top of the budget,

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we'd need a bigger guest room I think, wouldn't we?

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-I'm a bit disappointed actually at how much that is.

-Really?

-Yeah.

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In my heart, I was hoping it would be a bit more affordable,

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which gave us a bit more leeway

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-to look for something slightly bigger.

-I think it's what we expected, though.

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Yeah. Yeah, it is. Right, come on, then.

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Despite positive reactions to the house,

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the price has disappointed Gemma.

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If Andrew's to convince her to make the move the next property

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will need to deliver what Gemma wants at a price she's happy to pay.

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To find out, the family travel to Maleny,

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a quaint town situated in the heart of the Sunshine Coast.

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Surrounded by mountains and lush green hills,

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the area combines countryside with coastal living.

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But will this traditional character home

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be made-to-measure for the Cromptons?

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Look at that.

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We could get a nice rocking chair on this deck.

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Gemma can see herself enjoying a seat in the sunshine,

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but will inside be as appealing?

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Right, let's have a look.

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It's a little bit...bald.

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Andrew's not as concerned about the dated decor.

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I like the log burner.

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Oh, I didn't even notice the log burner cos the chair was in the way.

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The kitchen has one pleasing aspect.

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Oh, yeah. I like the kitchen.

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My goodness.

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So, this might change my view of this house.

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Gemma could be coming round.

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Yeah, if you just take out the chairs and the pictures then, wow.

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It could be amazing, couldn't it?

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Will the bedrooms be to her liking, too?

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-Wow.

-Oh.

-Mummy, this is mine and your bedroom.

-It's mine and your bedroom.

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-Where's daddy going to sleep, in the garden?

-I'm not sure about the floor, though.

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Might be some negotiating to do over sleeping arrangements,

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but is the en-suite worth fighting over?

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Nice, but I think not quite in our taste.

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No, it's a bit out of date, I think.

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The house might need upgrading,

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but the generous gardens could be a big selling point.

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It's all about this view, isn't it?

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Oh.

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It's an impressive outlook

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and Andrew's spotted something which could please Gemma.

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-Gem. It's a granny flat.

-Oh, my goodness.

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-Check it out.

-I just love this garden.

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A studio cottage with its own kitchen and bathroom

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could be the perfect home from home for visitors.

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This is lovely.

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-Oh, yeah. Look at that fireplace, as well.

-This is amazing.

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This is fabulous, isn't it?

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The furniture and fittings are more to Gemma's style.

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This bathroom's nice. This is nicer than the main house.

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Ooh, a bottom!

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And the property's half acre of gardens

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has taken Gemma's breath away.

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Let's have a quick look down here cos this is absolutely colossal.

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We found the football pitch.

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-Oh. I love this. I love this.

-This is fabulous.

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Although underwhelmed at first,

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this home's hidden features have worked wonders on Gemma.

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I just loved the garden and the views

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and I could really see myself pottering my hours away.

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If you took the garden out of it, though

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I don't think you'd think the same.

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No, I think if the garden wasn't here then I wouldn't feel the same.

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So, is it someplace they could afford to call home with £300,000 to spend?

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Ohf.

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Whoa.

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-That is way over.

-More expensive.

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That's £35,000 over budget.

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I mean, I love the garden. It's gorgeous, it's beautiful, but...

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It doesn't tick all our boxes for that amount of money.

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-It doesn't tick many of them, really.

-No.

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The home just hasn't offered enough to justify a price tag

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£35,000 over the couple's budget.

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The family head back to Pelican Waters to check out what

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we think could be their dream home.

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-Oh, my goodness. These are, like, palatial.

-Wow.

-I know.

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Based on their ideal wish list,

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will this contemporary, five-bedroom house

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in a private, gated community be an all round winner?

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Oh, yeah.

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This is going to be a good one.

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Hopefully, inside won't disappoint.

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-Oh, my goodness.

-Can that be my room?

-It could be.

-Look at this.

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-Oh-ho.

-Wow.

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-It's massive.

-It is, it's huge.

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With a wine cellar and cinema room,

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this house definitely isn't run of the mill.

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But will it be the one to convince Gemma to make the move?

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Look at that kitchen.

0:18:390:18:41

Oh, I love how it all just opens out so your whole living area's just in and out at the same time.

0:18:410:18:46

-It's amazing.

-It is amazing.

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Wandering outside, Matilda soon spots something else to get excited about.

0:18:490:18:54

-A swimming pool!

-Massive.

-A massive swimming pool.

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Not only that there's a slide.

0:18:570:18:59

I'm lost for words.

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And you've got a garden on the side.

0:19:010:19:03

It's less roomy than the last one, but still enough for Gemma.

0:19:030:19:06

-Garden's gorgeous.

-Come on, I'm coming for you.

0:19:070:19:10

-I'm coming.

-It's just so quiet.

0:19:100:19:12

-It is quiet, isn't it?

-I know.

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Back inside, a perfect play area for Henry and Matilda.

0:19:140:19:19

-Table football!

-This is your space, Henry.

0:19:190:19:22

There's something for everyone,

0:19:220:19:24

but Gemma's trying not to get carried away.

0:19:240:19:26

The problem is, everything from this point on would be a disappointment.

0:19:260:19:30

Wouldn't it? Do you know what I mean?

0:19:300:19:32

Nothing else can compete with this. This house is just absolutely unreal.

0:19:320:19:36

The only thing missing is a granny flat,

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but with five bedrooms, there's still plenty of rooms for guests.

0:19:390:19:43

Mine!

0:19:430:19:45

There's a double downstairs bed

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and then a single upstairs bed for when people come and sleep over.

0:19:470:19:50

Gemma can definitely see herself living in a house like this.

0:19:510:19:55

And the enormous master bedroom with en suite

0:19:550:19:57

almost leaves her speechless.

0:19:570:20:00

-Oh!

-This is my bedroom, remember.

0:20:000:20:03

Don't think so, Henry.

0:20:030:20:05

-It's just absolutely perfect, isn't it?

-It is.

0:20:080:20:11

Everything's really high standard.

0:20:110:20:14

This house has sold itself to the whole family.

0:20:140:20:17

But with £300,000 to spend, will they be able to afford it?

0:20:170:20:22

I think it's really, way smashed over the budget.

0:20:240:20:27

-It's way over our budget.

-Above budget, yeah.

0:20:270:20:29

It's beautiful and I've loved seeing it

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and it's going to just ruin my life that we can't afford it!

0:20:310:20:34

Henry, go for it.

0:20:360:20:37

-Oo-oh.

-Wow. That is even...

0:20:440:20:47

-That's way higher than we predicted.

-Yeah, that is a lot more.

0:20:470:20:51

Yeah. That is colossally more money than we can afford.

0:20:510:20:54

ANDREW LAUGHS

0:20:540:20:55

-Can we save up?

-I guess we'll have to save up.

0:20:550:20:58

Never mind.

0:21:000:21:02

At £150,000 over budget, this house would be a stretch.

0:21:020:21:07

Unless the couple could substantially increase their earnings down under.

0:21:070:21:11

Property one had the space and gorgeous garden the couple

0:21:110:21:15

wanted, but Gemma wanted more for the money.

0:21:150:21:17

Despite substantial grounds and a granny flat,

0:21:190:21:22

the interiors of property two weren't quite to anyone's taste.

0:21:220:21:26

Complete with a pool and cinema room,

0:21:280:21:30

property three was everything the family wanted,

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but at more than £150,000 over budget,

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sadly the price tag wasn't quite as agreeable.

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So, based on everything they've seen, how will the family vote

0:21:400:21:44

when it comes to choosing between property in Australia and the UK?

0:21:440:21:47

-Australia.

-Undecided.

-Australia.

0:22:060:22:11

Why are you undecided, then?

0:22:110:22:13

I loved all the houses, they were all gorgeous.

0:22:140:22:17

But for the top of our budget

0:22:170:22:19

we still didn't get exactly what we wanted.

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The last one was just fabulous,

0:22:220:22:24

and if it had started with a different number - down.

0:22:240:22:27

I don't know that we can afford

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to have a house that will meet our needs.

0:22:300:22:34

Hoping for more for her money, the Sunshine Coast's property prices

0:22:400:22:43

have added to Gemma's doubts about leaving the life she loves in the UK.

0:22:430:22:48

She's passionate about her job at home,

0:22:480:22:51

but the right work prospects down under could help Andrew's case.

0:22:510:22:55

Back in the UK, he's an air traffic controller

0:22:570:22:59

at Durham Tees Valley Airport.

0:22:590:23:02

But he's already landed himself a job down under.

0:23:020:23:05

You have the DME, report back to us.

0:23:050:23:07

Airservices Australia have offered me a position

0:23:070:23:10

where I would control a Brisbane tower.

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And subject to successfully completing a probationary period

0:23:130:23:16

and training, they would make my position permanent.

0:23:160:23:19

Right, I just need to check some details with you.

0:23:210:23:23

Gemma's been a diagnostic radiographer at North Tees Hospital

0:23:230:23:26

for the past four years.

0:23:260:23:27

Most of my day involves doing 3D body scans of patients who come in.

0:23:290:23:33

If Andrew's career down under's to take off,

0:23:340:23:37

it's a job she'd have to sacrifice.

0:23:370:23:39

And that's a devastating thought.

0:23:390:23:41

It's a really important part of my life and...

0:23:420:23:45

..I would find it really difficult to go.

0:23:480:23:50

To explore her work opportunities in Australia,

0:23:560:23:58

we've arranged for Gemma to visit a private radiology clinic,

0:23:580:24:02

where she meets operations manager Trevor Gourlay.

0:24:020:24:05

-Hi, nice to meet you.

-I'm Trevor, how are you?

-Very well, thanks.

0:24:050:24:07

After a quick tour of the facilities,

0:24:070:24:09

Gemma's ready to quiz Trevor on her prospects.

0:24:090:24:14

Looking at my experience, would you consider me for a position here?

0:24:140:24:18

Yeah, absolutely. Absolutely. You seem well-rounded.

0:24:180:24:21

It's a good start, and opportunities could be plentiful

0:24:210:24:25

with an new public hospital being built on the sunshine coast.

0:24:250:24:28

One of the most advanced hospitals in the world, we're led to believe.

0:24:290:24:34

And looking at somewhere of about 140 imaging staff, which is...

0:24:340:24:38

Wow, that's really nice to know that there's going to be such demand

0:24:380:24:41

for my profession in the coming year.

0:24:410:24:44

As Andrew's already secured a job, he takes the time to explore

0:24:440:24:47

education options for Harry and Matilda,

0:24:470:24:50

visiting Suncoast Christian College, a popular private school.

0:24:500:24:54

If we can't give them the education and the opportunities

0:24:540:24:57

that they've got in the UK, then it's a no-go, really.

0:24:570:25:00

The family are welcomed by school principle, Mark Ash.

0:25:000:25:04

All right, so I gather you guys are ready for a bit of a look

0:25:040:25:07

-around the school.

-Mhm, yep.

0:25:070:25:09

While Henry and Matilda sit in on a lesson,

0:25:160:25:19

Andrew asks Mark about their potential Aussie schooling.

0:25:190:25:22

Matilda's just about to turn five,

0:25:240:25:26

and in the UK she's been at school for a year, almost.

0:25:260:25:30

Coming to Australia, I think we'd be concerned that

0:25:300:25:32

she would resit a year.

0:25:320:25:34

In Queensland here,

0:25:340:25:35

there's a lot of flexibility given to schools around starting age.

0:25:350:25:38

So our head of primary would do an interview, do an assessment of

0:25:380:25:43

where she's at in terms of literacy, numeracy, look at her social skills.

0:25:430:25:46

And then, in consultation with you, determine whether it's best

0:25:460:25:49

to start in prep, year one, what's going to give her the best outcome.

0:25:490:25:53

It's welcome news.

0:25:530:25:55

Andrew's also keen to find out about their physical education.

0:25:550:25:58

What sort of sports programme do you have on a day-to-day,

0:25:580:26:01

week-to-week basis?

0:26:010:26:02

We've just finished seasons of volley ball

0:26:020:26:04

and football in secondary after-school sport.

0:26:040:26:07

And the primary kids are midway through their first season

0:26:070:26:10

with touch, netball, volleyball, basketball.

0:26:100:26:14

Andrew is happy with what he's heard

0:26:140:26:17

and Henry and Matilda sound like they'd have no problem fitting in.

0:26:170:26:22

So what do you guys think of the school then today?

0:26:220:26:24

-I like it.

-You like it?

-I love it.

-You love it.

0:26:240:26:28

That should make Gemma happy too.

0:26:280:26:30

Back at the clinic, she's finding out about potential work hours.

0:26:300:26:35

Well, our MRI starts here at seven, goes through till nine every night.

0:26:350:26:38

Mm-hm, right.

0:26:380:26:39

We occasionally do Saturdays if the workload demands it.

0:26:390:26:44

All she needs to know now is her potential salary.

0:26:440:26:47

So what kind of wage would I be expecting to earn,

0:26:470:26:50

if I was working in the private radiology sector?

0:26:500:26:52

With your qualifications, you'd probably start off

0:26:520:26:55

at 90,000 to 100,000.

0:26:550:26:56

It sort of gets up to about 115,000, I suppose.

0:26:560:26:59

That's unbelievable, that's more than double what I earn in the UK.

0:26:590:27:03

It's been encouraging news for Gemma all the way,

0:27:030:27:06

but has she heard enough to choose a career in Australia, over the UK?

0:27:060:27:11

I'm ready to vote...

0:27:110:27:12

Australia!

0:27:200:27:21

It's just so much better than it could be at home.

0:27:210:27:24

It was an easy decision to make, after the conversation I had.

0:27:240:27:27

Australia all the way.

0:27:270:27:29

Mind made up, Gemma's keen to share her news with Andrew

0:27:310:27:34

and find out how he got on at school.

0:27:340:27:37

So how did the kids get on?

0:27:370:27:38

It was impressive, it was, like, loads of resources.

0:27:380:27:41

Both of them thought it was brilliant.

0:27:410:27:43

-So you'd be really happy for them to go there?

-Oh, yeah, absolutely.

0:27:430:27:46

-Yeah, it was brilliant.

-Oh, that's great news.

0:27:460:27:48

Andrew's anxious to hear how Gemma got on.

0:27:480:27:51

So how was your day, how did the job go?

0:27:510:27:54

My qualifications were really good, I'd be quite desirable in Australia.

0:27:540:27:59

-And the best bit was, he said I would earn 115,000.

-115,00?

0:27:590:28:05

-Yeah.

-That is mint.

-Yeah.

0:28:050:28:07

Discovering she could earn more doing the job she loves,

0:28:110:28:14

could mean Gemma's beginning to understand Australia's appeal,

0:28:140:28:18

but there's a long way to go before the move's a done deal.

0:28:180:28:22

A key part of Andrew's desire to emigrate,

0:28:220:28:25

is the lifestyle he believes the country could offer.

0:28:250:28:28

So will a typically Aussie family day out bring him

0:28:280:28:31

one step closer to achieving his goal?

0:28:310:28:34

Making the most of the fine weather, the family head east of Caloundra,

0:28:420:28:46

to enjoy a day at King's Beach.

0:28:460:28:50

It's going to be fun.

0:28:500:28:52

With its water fountains and playground,

0:28:520:28:55

right on the oceanfront, this is a popular spot

0:28:550:28:58

for families with young children.

0:28:580:29:00

And Henry and Matilda take to the lifestyle like ducks to water.

0:29:000:29:04

This is awesome.

0:29:040:29:07

Henry spots an adventurous activity he'd like to try.

0:29:070:29:10

-Bungee jump.

-Do you fancy doing bungee jump?

0:29:100:29:13

-Do you want to go on the jump?

-Yeah!

0:29:130:29:14

It's the perfect way to burn off some energy.

0:29:140:29:17

OK, little man, move into the middle and I'll tell you when to jump.

0:29:170:29:20

-So you could get used to this then?

-Oh, yeah.

0:29:200:29:22

It beats hanging out in Fishburn in the rain.

0:29:220:29:25

That should be music to Andrew's ears.

0:29:250:29:28

Time for a spot of lunch in the park.

0:29:320:29:35

-Is this our first picnic?

-First ever picnic in Australia.

0:29:370:29:41

Andrew's delighted to finally experience Aussie living.

0:29:430:29:47

Before we came, I felt... Is it going to live up to my expectations?

0:29:470:29:51

And it's gone way past everything that I thought it would be.

0:29:510:29:55

Gemma could be warming to the idea of a life in the southern hemisphere.

0:29:550:29:59

It just really has opened my eyes to what kind of a life we can have.

0:29:590:30:02

The weather, obviously, is a huge bonus.

0:30:020:30:04

You can do so much more with your children

0:30:040:30:06

when you've got a sunny day pretty much guaranteed every day.

0:30:060:30:09

But she's still mindful, sunshine isn't everything.

0:30:090:30:13

It's starting a new life.

0:30:130:30:15

You know, everything is from scratch.

0:30:150:30:18

And I'm still kind of on a bit of an emotional rollercoaster

0:30:180:30:22

and I find it hard to think of this place as home.

0:30:220:30:25

Andrew's all too aware Gemma's torn and that

0:30:260:30:29

come the end of the week, she'll hold the key to their future.

0:30:290:30:33

She has the ultimate veto.

0:30:330:30:34

If she doesn't want to come, she doesn't have to come.

0:30:340:30:36

And none of us will.

0:30:360:30:39

As the afternoon draws to a close,

0:30:390:30:41

Gemma's pondering the reality of leaving her sister in the UK.

0:30:410:30:45

I don't know if I'm ready for that.

0:30:480:30:50

And I'm pretty sure she's not.

0:30:500:30:52

I mean, she's texted me every day that we've been here.

0:30:520:30:55

And I just can't imagine having a life without her being in it.

0:30:550:30:58

A difficult decision lies ahead for Gemma,

0:30:590:31:02

but based on today alone, it's time to find out

0:31:020:31:05

if the family prefer lifestyle in the UK or Australia.

0:31:050:31:09

-ALL:

-Australia!

0:31:250:31:28

Is everybody the same? Yay!

0:31:280:31:30

I just loved how everything was all so close to the beach as well,

0:31:300:31:33

so you could have a really full day without really getting

0:31:330:31:36

bored of doing any activities.

0:31:360:31:38

Yeah, and then we had a picnic in the park

0:31:380:31:40

and it was all in the same place.

0:31:400:31:42

Everything was together. And it was all free, really.

0:31:420:31:44

It was really good. We had a great day. Did you have a great day?

0:31:440:31:47

Yeah.

0:31:470:31:48

With another vote going his way,

0:31:530:31:55

Andrew could be inching closer to achieving the life

0:31:550:31:57

he wants for his family, but will the finances down under stack up?

0:31:570:32:02

The couple would sell their house in the UK

0:32:020:32:05

and believe it's worth around £200,000.

0:32:050:32:07

We sent round two estate agents to give their valuations.

0:32:070:32:11

Bit nervous about what they say.

0:32:110:32:13

I'm more nervous in case it looks messy or dirty.

0:32:130:32:16

So weird.

0:32:160:32:18

This is a really airy, modern hall.

0:32:190:32:22

Lovely wooden flooring.

0:32:230:32:25

It's a really, really modern kitchen. Lovely range cooker.

0:32:280:32:31

-It looks really nice.

-It does, yeah.

0:32:310:32:35

-That's my dad.

-Nice big family space.

0:32:350:32:38

Lots of happy pictures on the wall.

0:32:380:32:41

It looks really nice.

0:32:410:32:43

What a lovely room, like having a hotel room in your home.

0:32:430:32:48

Got lots of space, lots of storage.

0:32:480:32:50

Nice, neutral white bathroom space.

0:32:510:32:54

Do you think he's saying it's a bit boring?

0:32:540:32:57

Yeah, everything seems to be working fine, great.

0:32:570:33:00

The toilet!

0:33:000:33:01

It's a great spare room and a lovely view at the back, over the fields.

0:33:040:33:08

We've got a family dog here, who's obviously very happy.

0:33:080:33:11

Aw, Earl's on! Fantastic.

0:33:110:33:14

And we've got all this countryside here and here and here.

0:33:140:33:18

-Really appealing for any family.

-It's gorgeous, looks good.

0:33:190:33:22

In the current market conditions,

0:33:220:33:24

I would value this property at £180,000.

0:33:240:33:27

THEY WINCE

0:33:270:33:28

And, for a quick sale, I would value this property at £170,000.

0:33:280:33:33

What?

0:33:330:33:35

I would value this house at £195,000.

0:33:350:33:37

For a quick sale, I would value it at £175,000.

0:33:380:33:41

So that's a bit under.

0:33:420:33:44

That changes what we would be able to afford over here,

0:33:440:33:46

-if we decide to come...

-True.

0:33:460:33:48

..because that's like, £20,000 less than we were expecting.

0:33:480:33:51

Hopefully there won't be more nasty shocks

0:33:550:33:58

when the couple examine finances in Australia.

0:33:580:34:01

To see how they add up,

0:34:010:34:02

we've prepared a comparison of costs with the UK.

0:34:020:34:05

Here we go.

0:34:050:34:07

First up, a look at the weekly grocery shop.

0:34:070:34:11

Brown sauce is, like, way more expensive.

0:34:110:34:14

Unless we could source our own supply.

0:34:140:34:17

-Bananas are a lot more expensive.

-Yeah, they are.

0:34:170:34:20

-Which is surprising, really.

-And potatoes.

0:34:200:34:23

Most of it is slightly more expensive, I would say.

0:34:230:34:27

A quick tot up of expensive reveals what they'll be paying

0:34:270:34:29

out for food every week.

0:34:290:34:33

£153.23.

0:34:330:34:35

So the UK was £133.72.

0:34:350:34:37

So £19.51 more expensive.

0:34:370:34:42

That's almost £80.00 more every month.

0:34:420:34:45

-Not too bad though, could've been worse.

-No, happy days.

0:34:450:34:48

Encouraged, the couple move onto the bigger monthly bills.

0:34:480:34:52

The mortgage here, based on the first house we viewed, is £1,507.33.

0:34:520:34:58

Childcare is a lot more, because, obviously, we won't have our family.

0:34:580:35:03

And then private school fees per month, for both kids, £436.13.

0:35:030:35:09

The added extras quickly stack up

0:35:090:35:12

and it's clear the couple would be spending much more down under.

0:35:120:35:16

-£1,326.69...

-Yeah.

0:35:160:35:20

-..more expensive per month.

-Yeah.

0:35:200:35:23

Wowsers.

0:35:230:35:26

It's a considerable hit, but Gemma could almost double her

0:35:260:35:30

salary in Australia and that could help massively.

0:35:300:35:34

-£7,654.

-And that's per month.

0:35:340:35:39

We earn just under £32,000 a year more than we do in the UK.

0:35:390:35:42

But then it's obviously more expensive to live.

0:35:420:35:45

It's a phenomenal increase in earnings and when the couple subtract

0:35:450:35:48

their outgoings, they discover they'd be £1,300 better off each month.

0:35:480:35:55

That's £16,000 a year.

0:35:550:35:56

GEMMA GASPS

0:35:560:35:59

Stop. That's insane.

0:36:100:36:13

That's insane.

0:36:180:36:21

-16 grand, that's like a wage, isn't it?

-Yeah.

0:36:210:36:24

That's a whole wage, on top.

0:36:240:36:26

That's really overwhelming.

0:36:290:36:31

It's got to be a positive result for Andrew,

0:36:330:36:36

as the couple vote on finances in Australia versus the UK.

0:36:360:36:40

Based on our finances, the UK versus Australia,

0:36:410:36:45

we're going to vote for...

0:36:450:36:47

Australia.

0:36:570:36:59

Australia!

0:36:590:37:00

-So you're happy with that then?

-"Happy"?

0:37:010:37:04

With an extra 16 grand a year, I'd be insane to vote anything else,

0:37:040:37:07

based on finances.

0:37:070:37:10

So far, Gemma's discovered the work, lifestyle

0:37:100:37:13

and financial opportunities Australia could offer are hard to argue with.

0:37:130:37:18

But Andrew's dream could still stall,

0:37:180:37:20

as Gemma confronts the reality of leaving loved ones.

0:37:200:37:24

The family sit down to watch messages from home.

0:37:240:37:27

So we're going to watch our family and friends' videos from home.

0:37:270:37:31

And it might be a little bit sad, OK?

0:37:310:37:33

Cos it's going to be all your family telling you

0:37:330:37:37

what they think about us maybe moving to Australia, so do you

0:37:370:37:39

think you're happy to watch that, even though it might make you sad?

0:37:390:37:42

-Yeah.

-It won't make me sad.

0:37:420:37:44

-It won't make you sad? OK. So are you sure?

-Mm-hm.

-Yeah.

0:37:440:37:47

-OK, should we watch it then?

-BOTH: Yeah.

0:37:470:37:50

-Hi!

-Hi, Gemma, Andy, Henry, Matilda.

0:37:500:37:54

Hi, kids, this is your nanna.

0:37:540:37:57

-Hi.

-Hi, Gemma, Andy, Matilda and Henry.

0:37:570:38:01

My son, wonderful boy.

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Just like his father.

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My relationship with my sister is she's my best friend.

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We're there for each other, we're on the phone a lot of the time.

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She's a very outgoing girl, she's a very loving girl.

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Very proud of her.

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Two lovely kids, very well-brought-up, very well-behaved.

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It'll bring them on leaps and bounds down under.

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I ain't going to last forever.

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She's hopefully going to live a lot longer than do now.

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And I want what's best for them.

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It's going to break my heart.

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There would be a huge hole in my life, if the grandchildren go.

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Whatever you do, you have our full backing and our full support.

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I love you all very much.

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I hope you make the right decision for yourselves.

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Love you both and adore my grandchildren.

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Bye.

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I'm gutted that you're going to be across the world.

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But I know you're only on the other end of a phone

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and I know we'll still stay in touch and we'll still be close.

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I'm very proud of you.

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You all right?

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I knew Joanne was going to be the hard one.

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She's just such a huge part of our life and I need her, I need her.

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So it will be hard to leave.

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Are you worried about me?

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No, I'm OK.

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Hearing messages from home was particularly tough for Gemma,

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who after years at sea,

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has grown accustomed to having loved ones close by once more.

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Knowing friends and family will support whatever decision

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they reach is reassuring, but will the thought of how much they'd

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be missed mean Andrew's dream is about to run aground forever?

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When the Crompton's touched down in Australia a week ago,

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Andrew was hoping the country would sell itself as somewhere

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the family could make themselves at home.

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I don't want to pile all the pressure on Gemma, but, obviously,

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I was already sold on the idea of coming here in the first place.

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This was all about convincing her.

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It was more, for me, about whether I could still be happy here as well.

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I'm feeling a lot more positive,

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but there's still a bit of a niggle, you know, my family and my friends.

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And also, how we'd settle over in Australia.

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With his job offer already on the table,

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Gemma knows Andrew is more determined than ever to make the move.

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He's already here. He's made this move in his head and his heart.

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This week has just cemented 100% that this is the right

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place for us to be.

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And Henry's been convinced too.

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I think it would be quite nice being here for a long time,

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being in the sunshine.

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I don't like being in the rain.

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But, as the final decision approaches,

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Andrew's still not sure what life his wife will choose.

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If she votes yes, that'll be fantastic.

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We would make a brilliant life here.

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If she decides that it's just not what she wants,

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then OK, I'll have to console myself to that fact.

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It's totally emotional.

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My head is in Australia now, my heart is just still attached

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and I can't really explain it.

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I just feel sad when I think about leaving home.

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What Gemma decides next will change the family's path forever,

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As Andrew prepares to find out whether the week's done enough

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to finally convince her to follow his dream.

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So, after a trial week in Australia, we're ready to make our final vote.

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-ALL:

-Australia!

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-Really? Good news.

-Yeah.

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I think so, I mean,

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it was always going to be an emotional rollercoaster

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and it's going to be hard to leave, but this is definitely

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the right place to raise our kids and it's the right place for us.

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Employment-wise, financially and the lifestyle it's what I want,

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for me as well as them.

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So I might be a bit crazy on the transition, but let's go for it.

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-You guys happy with that?

-Right, guys, let's go!

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It was a tough decision for Gemma, but, after much deliberating,

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Andrew's finally got the all clear to accept his exciting job

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offer down under.

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We wish the whole family the very best of luck as they prepare

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to take off on the journey of a lifetime.

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