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Convincing your family to up sticks | 0:00:02 | 0:00:04 | |
and move to the other side of the world is a tough enough task, | 0:00:04 | 0:00:09 | |
but if a previous attempt had ended in a failure of epic proportions, | 0:00:09 | 0:00:13 | |
could you pick yourself up, dust yourself down | 0:00:13 | 0:00:16 | |
and convince your family to put everything on the line | 0:00:16 | 0:00:19 | |
for a second time? | 0:00:19 | 0:00:21 | |
Following a serious of hard knocks, | 0:00:21 | 0:00:23 | |
Jon Lawrence is desperate for a new life in New Zealand. | 0:00:23 | 0:00:26 | |
I didn't choose New Zealand, it chose me. | 0:00:26 | 0:00:29 | |
My decision has been made for the last five years. | 0:00:29 | 0:00:32 | |
But with one failed attempt at migrating... | 0:00:32 | 0:00:35 | |
I was in New Zealand for two hours before I booked my return ticket. | 0:00:35 | 0:00:39 | |
..his wife can't face putting everything on the line again. | 0:00:39 | 0:00:42 | |
I cannot go through the turmoil. | 0:00:42 | 0:00:44 | |
I can't do it. | 0:00:44 | 0:00:46 | |
While a trial week shows the merits of a move... | 0:00:46 | 0:00:48 | |
This would be a nice house to live in, wouldn't it? | 0:00:48 | 0:00:51 | |
..it could mean the end of Jon's dream. | 0:00:51 | 0:00:53 | |
I've got two people in tears here | 0:00:53 | 0:00:55 | |
who probably mean more than the dream. | 0:00:55 | 0:00:57 | |
Lying in the temperate south-west Pacific, | 0:01:22 | 0:01:25 | |
most of New Zealand enjoys at least 2,000 hours of sunshine every year. | 0:01:25 | 0:01:29 | |
With jaw-dropping scenery, thanks to its mountains, glaciers, | 0:01:34 | 0:01:37 | |
volcanoes and beaches, it's a popular choice with Brits | 0:01:37 | 0:01:40 | |
looking to start a new life overseas. | 0:01:40 | 0:01:43 | |
And more than a quarter of the migrant population | 0:01:43 | 0:01:45 | |
hail from the UK and Ireland. | 0:01:45 | 0:01:47 | |
Jon Lawrence's first bid for a new life in New Zealand | 0:01:50 | 0:01:54 | |
ended in disaster when he was forced to fly home | 0:01:54 | 0:01:57 | |
after just one day on Kiwi soil. | 0:01:57 | 0:01:59 | |
Now he's considering making the move for a second time. | 0:01:59 | 0:02:04 | |
But with one last shot at persuading his wife and children | 0:02:04 | 0:02:07 | |
the countries where they should be living, | 0:02:07 | 0:02:09 | |
will it be a case of once bitten, twice shy? | 0:02:09 | 0:02:12 | |
The Lawrences trial week begins with over 24 hours in the air, | 0:02:14 | 0:02:17 | |
travelling from London to New Zealand's capital Wellington | 0:02:17 | 0:02:20 | |
via Dubai and Sydney. | 0:02:20 | 0:02:22 | |
A somewhat bumpy flight has proved too much | 0:02:29 | 0:02:32 | |
for a rather pale-looking Jon and his sensitive tummy. | 0:02:32 | 0:02:35 | |
Somewhere in the Tasman Strait is probably my stomach. | 0:02:35 | 0:02:38 | |
If anybody actually finds it, I'd be grateful | 0:02:38 | 0:02:41 | |
if they would hand it back. | 0:02:41 | 0:02:43 | |
Hayden and Austen have just one thing on their minds. | 0:02:44 | 0:02:48 | |
I'm looking forward to sleeping. | 0:02:48 | 0:02:50 | |
Mum Kerry-Ann is keeping an open mind about the week ahead. | 0:02:50 | 0:02:54 | |
-We're not sure what to expect, are we? -No. | 0:02:54 | 0:02:56 | |
So, it'll be full of surprises. | 0:02:56 | 0:02:58 | |
Hopefully nice ones. | 0:02:58 | 0:03:00 | |
Jon will need to make a quick recovery if he's to set to work | 0:03:00 | 0:03:03 | |
convincing his family New Zealand is where their future lies. | 0:03:03 | 0:03:07 | |
Jon Lawrence lives with his wife Kerry-Ann and their two sons, | 0:03:11 | 0:03:15 | |
Hayden, who's ten, and eight-year-old Austen, in Norfolk. | 0:03:15 | 0:03:18 | |
Jon and Kerry-Ann were teenage sweethearts. | 0:03:18 | 0:03:22 | |
-We met at school. -Yeah. -We met... | 0:03:22 | 0:03:25 | |
1993. And we've been together ever since then. | 0:03:25 | 0:03:28 | |
We had lots of laughs. We still have lots of laughs. That's what's great. | 0:03:28 | 0:03:31 | |
Lots of hassles, but we do have lots of laughs. | 0:03:31 | 0:03:34 | |
And then 9/11 happened and... | 0:03:34 | 0:03:36 | |
our whole world sort of turned upside down, really. | 0:03:36 | 0:03:39 | |
The terrorist attacks on the World Trade Center | 0:03:42 | 0:03:45 | |
killed nearly 3,000 people. | 0:03:45 | 0:03:47 | |
One of the victims was a close friend of Jon's. | 0:03:47 | 0:03:49 | |
Well, her name was Kylie and she was a friend of the family | 0:03:51 | 0:03:55 | |
and, you know, we were very close. She was a lovely, lovely person. | 0:03:55 | 0:03:58 | |
It did hit him hard, really. It did hit him hard. | 0:04:01 | 0:04:04 | |
Losing Kylie wasn't the only tragedy to befall the family. | 0:04:04 | 0:04:08 | |
Just over a year after 9/11, | 0:04:08 | 0:04:10 | |
my mother suffered a very serious stroke. | 0:04:10 | 0:04:13 | |
And then in the March following that, I had a miscarriage. | 0:04:13 | 0:04:17 | |
That was really, really hard as well. | 0:04:17 | 0:04:19 | |
Deeply trying years took their toll and Jon developed depression. | 0:04:19 | 0:04:24 | |
You know, it was a very difficult couple of years | 0:04:24 | 0:04:26 | |
and I started to get lower and lower and lower. | 0:04:26 | 0:04:29 | |
It was watching him go through it every day... | 0:04:29 | 0:04:31 | |
Sorry. | 0:04:33 | 0:04:34 | |
It was tough. | 0:04:37 | 0:04:39 | |
Yeah. | 0:04:40 | 0:04:41 | |
Suffering from stress and anxiety, Jon started to look for | 0:04:41 | 0:04:46 | |
a new beginning away from the pressures of the UK. | 0:04:46 | 0:04:49 | |
His research led him to New Zealand. | 0:04:49 | 0:04:52 | |
I didn't choose New Zealand, it chose me. | 0:04:52 | 0:04:54 | |
I was attracted to the landscape. | 0:04:54 | 0:04:56 | |
I was attracted to its physical beauty. | 0:04:56 | 0:04:58 | |
I was attracted to its culture, the Maori culture. | 0:04:58 | 0:05:01 | |
In 2010, Jon applied for and was offered a teaching job | 0:05:01 | 0:05:04 | |
in the country. | 0:05:04 | 0:05:06 | |
The whole family took a trip to New Zealand to discover | 0:05:06 | 0:05:09 | |
if everything he'd read about the land was true. | 0:05:09 | 0:05:11 | |
We went from Auckland all the way down to Wellington. | 0:05:18 | 0:05:21 | |
And we'd go, "Wow." | 0:05:21 | 0:05:22 | |
And then you'd go round the next corner, and you'd say, "Wow!" | 0:05:22 | 0:05:26 | |
You'd think, "How many more wows can I have?" | 0:05:26 | 0:05:29 | |
Jon was smitten and the move was on, | 0:05:29 | 0:05:31 | |
with him heading out first to set up home ahead of the others' arrival. | 0:05:31 | 0:05:36 | |
-Everything about it stressed me out, didn't it? -Yeah. | 0:05:36 | 0:05:39 | |
Selling the house, packing everything up | 0:05:39 | 0:05:41 | |
and getting it over there. | 0:05:41 | 0:05:43 | |
I had a leaving party. | 0:05:43 | 0:05:45 | |
-I'd said goodbye to all my friends... -Your family. -..my family. | 0:05:45 | 0:05:50 | |
I said goodbye to Kerry-Ann and the kids. | 0:05:50 | 0:05:52 | |
It was very, very difficult. | 0:05:52 | 0:05:54 | |
Everything was going to plan until Jon handed over his passport | 0:05:54 | 0:05:59 | |
at the immigration desk in New Zealand. | 0:05:59 | 0:06:01 | |
The gentleman said... Asked me to see my paperwork. | 0:06:01 | 0:06:05 | |
And they said, "Well, it's not all in order. | 0:06:05 | 0:06:07 | |
"You shouldn't be here." | 0:06:07 | 0:06:09 | |
It was a huge shock. | 0:06:09 | 0:06:11 | |
Jon discovered he didn't have the correct visa | 0:06:11 | 0:06:13 | |
for working in the country. | 0:06:13 | 0:06:15 | |
I was in New Zealand for a grand total of... | 0:06:15 | 0:06:19 | |
two hours before I booked my return ticket. | 0:06:19 | 0:06:23 | |
-I was just angry at myself. -Yeah. -I was livid that I'd been so stupid. | 0:06:23 | 0:06:28 | |
Yeah. | 0:06:28 | 0:06:29 | |
On returning to the UK, the fallout from the failed move was massive. | 0:06:29 | 0:06:33 | |
By this point, he'd got no job, he'd got no car, I'd got no job | 0:06:33 | 0:06:37 | |
because I'd handed my notice in. | 0:06:37 | 0:06:38 | |
It was a pretty dreadful time. | 0:06:38 | 0:06:40 | |
Over the last five years, the family have slowly rebuilt their lives. | 0:06:46 | 0:06:50 | |
But despite everything they've been through, Jon's dream hasn't died. | 0:06:50 | 0:06:55 | |
I still have it in my head and my heart that... | 0:06:55 | 0:06:58 | |
that it would be a great place for the kids. | 0:06:58 | 0:07:01 | |
They would be so happy in that kind of environment | 0:07:01 | 0:07:04 | |
where there's a lot of outdoor stuff going on. | 0:07:04 | 0:07:07 | |
Still bearing the scars of the first failed attempt, | 0:07:07 | 0:07:10 | |
Kerry-Ann doesn't want to risk everything all over again. | 0:07:10 | 0:07:13 | |
I cannot go through the turmoil of everything that we went through | 0:07:13 | 0:07:16 | |
building up to it and afterwards when it all fell apart. | 0:07:16 | 0:07:19 | |
I can't do it. | 0:07:19 | 0:07:21 | |
And the children agree. | 0:07:21 | 0:07:23 | |
They're with me on this. Jon's totally outvoted. | 0:07:23 | 0:07:25 | |
Kerry-Ann's also deeply worried about leaving | 0:07:26 | 0:07:29 | |
her close group of friends, especially fellow teacher Mrs P. | 0:07:29 | 0:07:33 | |
Drop of a hat and she's there, isn't she? | 0:07:33 | 0:07:36 | |
We've been through so much together in the last, what, 12 years | 0:07:36 | 0:07:38 | |
-that we've worked together. -Yeah. | 0:07:38 | 0:07:40 | |
The couple both know, second time around, | 0:07:42 | 0:07:45 | |
the stakes are higher than ever. | 0:07:45 | 0:07:47 | |
It's a huge risk because if it all goes wrong again... | 0:07:47 | 0:07:50 | |
..I'm going to have to deal with another failure | 0:07:52 | 0:07:54 | |
and I'm not sure how many more failures I've got in me. | 0:07:54 | 0:07:57 | |
It has to be right for us all, not just him. | 0:07:57 | 0:07:59 | |
To find out if Jon can persuade Kerry-Ann | 0:08:06 | 0:08:09 | |
New Zealand should become their home, | 0:08:09 | 0:08:11 | |
the family are visiting Wellington, | 0:08:11 | 0:08:13 | |
located on the far southern tip of the country's North Island. | 0:08:13 | 0:08:17 | |
The Lawrences' base for the week is a three-bedroom cottage | 0:08:17 | 0:08:20 | |
directly across the road from Worser Bay beach - | 0:08:20 | 0:08:23 | |
a popular destination for families. | 0:08:23 | 0:08:25 | |
Arriving in less than favourable weather, | 0:08:27 | 0:08:29 | |
the family are keen to explore their temporary home. | 0:08:29 | 0:08:32 | |
Right, let's go and nosey then, shall we? | 0:08:32 | 0:08:35 | |
-Oh, yes. -Can this be my bedroom? | 0:08:36 | 0:08:39 | |
Not a chance. | 0:08:39 | 0:08:41 | |
We've got a nice place for you under the stairs anyway, Hayden. | 0:08:41 | 0:08:44 | |
That's lovely, isn't it? | 0:08:44 | 0:08:46 | |
Neither his air sickness or the pouring rain have dampened | 0:08:46 | 0:08:49 | |
Jon's enthusiasm. | 0:08:49 | 0:08:50 | |
Look at that view. | 0:08:50 | 0:08:52 | |
Good grief, look at that. | 0:08:54 | 0:08:55 | |
I still think it looks great, even in this sort of weather. | 0:08:57 | 0:09:00 | |
As they settle in, Jon's happy to be finally spending | 0:09:00 | 0:09:03 | |
more than just hours in the land of his dreams. | 0:09:03 | 0:09:06 | |
It's magical to be back in New Zealand. | 0:09:08 | 0:09:12 | |
I've been thinking about it for five years or so, | 0:09:12 | 0:09:16 | |
and it's... I'm actually here now. | 0:09:16 | 0:09:18 | |
Couldn't have hoped for better. | 0:09:18 | 0:09:20 | |
But he's under no illusions he faces an uphill struggle | 0:09:20 | 0:09:23 | |
over the coming days. | 0:09:23 | 0:09:25 | |
I still think it's going to be difficult to convince Kerry-Ann | 0:09:26 | 0:09:29 | |
to come out. Especially after the flight we've just had. | 0:09:29 | 0:09:32 | |
It was draining. | 0:09:32 | 0:09:34 | |
But it's also a reminder of just how far away we are from home. | 0:09:34 | 0:09:38 | |
And the boys agree their mum will be a tough nut to crack. | 0:09:38 | 0:09:42 | |
I think it's going to be very, very hard for my dad | 0:09:42 | 0:09:47 | |
to convince my mum to go. | 0:09:47 | 0:09:49 | |
I think my dad's got a pretty big job trying to convince my mum. | 0:09:49 | 0:09:53 | |
Kerry-Ann knows how happy a yes vote would make a husband. | 0:09:53 | 0:09:56 | |
I think if we all voted yes, I think he might actually do | 0:09:56 | 0:10:00 | |
a little party dance. I think that would be the reaction | 0:10:00 | 0:10:03 | |
you'd see at the end of the week if we all decided | 0:10:03 | 0:10:05 | |
that yes, it was the right option to do it. | 0:10:05 | 0:10:07 | |
Back in the UK, the Lawrences live in a three-bedroom | 0:10:15 | 0:10:18 | |
semi-detached house near King's Lynn in Norfolk. | 0:10:18 | 0:10:21 | |
Full of memories, it's a home Kerry-Ann loves. | 0:10:21 | 0:10:24 | |
It's the only home we've had. | 0:10:25 | 0:10:27 | |
It's the one the kids were born in, the one we had dogs in. | 0:10:27 | 0:10:31 | |
I can't imagine leaving it for anything actually. | 0:10:31 | 0:10:34 | |
If they did move, the couple would have a budget of around £150,000 | 0:10:35 | 0:10:40 | |
and their wish list is fairly modest. | 0:10:40 | 0:10:43 | |
Nothing has to be massive or anything, does it? | 0:10:43 | 0:10:45 | |
A garden would be nice so the kids can go out and play. | 0:10:45 | 0:10:47 | |
I'm not really worried about a smart house. | 0:10:47 | 0:10:50 | |
I'm not worried about swimming pools, tennis courts. | 0:10:50 | 0:10:52 | |
I'm not worried about underground heating. | 0:10:52 | 0:10:55 | |
I just want it to be a home. | 0:10:55 | 0:10:57 | |
For Jon, it's more about the quality of life. | 0:10:57 | 0:11:00 | |
I'm not worried about upgrading. | 0:11:00 | 0:11:02 | |
I'm more worried about upgrading my life. | 0:11:02 | 0:11:06 | |
To find out what kind of house the Lawrences could buy | 0:11:08 | 0:11:11 | |
in New Zealand, today we'll show Jon and Kerry-Ann three properties - | 0:11:11 | 0:11:15 | |
two on budget and one which could be their dream home. | 0:11:15 | 0:11:18 | |
Only after they've seen each one will they discover its value. | 0:11:20 | 0:11:24 | |
For their first viewing, the family head 20 minutes north of Wellington | 0:11:29 | 0:11:33 | |
to the Stokes Valley area of Lower Hutt. | 0:11:33 | 0:11:35 | |
It's an area known for its scenery and serenity | 0:11:35 | 0:11:38 | |
and could be an ideal location for a young family. | 0:11:38 | 0:11:41 | |
From the outside, first impressions could be better. | 0:11:43 | 0:11:47 | |
-Shall we have a nosy? -I'm not overly enamoured with the overhang, but... | 0:11:47 | 0:11:51 | |
I'm sure it's lovely inside. | 0:11:52 | 0:11:53 | |
Once up the steep staircase though, Jon's outlook improves. | 0:11:53 | 0:11:57 | |
It's a proper Kiwi house, isn't it? Nestled in the hillside. | 0:11:58 | 0:12:02 | |
And living amongst the trees gets the thumbs up. | 0:12:02 | 0:12:05 | |
-That's nice, isn't it? -Wow. | 0:12:05 | 0:12:08 | |
Nice little place to have your breakfast. | 0:12:08 | 0:12:10 | |
Having all the ferns around and the beautiful greenery around you, | 0:12:10 | 0:12:13 | |
I love it. | 0:12:13 | 0:12:14 | |
The bedrooms are the subject of some robust discussion. | 0:12:14 | 0:12:18 | |
It's bigger than the rooms in our house, isn't it? | 0:12:18 | 0:12:20 | |
-This is bigger than your room. -No, it's not bigger than my room. | 0:12:20 | 0:12:23 | |
It's not bigger than Hayden's, bigger than Austen's though. | 0:12:23 | 0:12:26 | |
-No, this is bigger than Hayden's. -No, it's not. -No, listen, don't forget you've got | 0:12:26 | 0:12:29 | |
-the sloping ceiling which comes much lower. -That's got nothing to do with it. | 0:12:29 | 0:12:33 | |
You're outnumbered! Let's go. | 0:12:33 | 0:12:35 | |
It's clear that Jon and Kerry-Ann | 0:12:35 | 0:12:37 | |
aren't singing from the same hymn sheet. | 0:12:37 | 0:12:39 | |
I could see myself living in somewhere like this. | 0:12:39 | 0:12:42 | |
It's not really to my taste at all. I don't like it at all. | 0:12:42 | 0:12:45 | |
But other than that, it's great. | 0:12:45 | 0:12:47 | |
Oh, dear. Refusing to give up, Jon has plans for the basement. | 0:12:47 | 0:12:50 | |
I think I see a recording studio here. | 0:12:50 | 0:12:53 | |
-Oh, dear. -HAYDEN LAUGHS | 0:12:53 | 0:12:55 | |
I think I see somewhere to put a car rather than fill it with rubbish. | 0:12:55 | 0:12:59 | |
Maybe even a pool table. | 0:12:59 | 0:13:00 | |
I'll get my coat. | 0:13:01 | 0:13:03 | |
Inside has failed to completely wow Kerry-Ann. | 0:13:04 | 0:13:07 | |
How will outside fare? | 0:13:07 | 0:13:09 | |
Garden is a little bit too small for my liking. | 0:13:09 | 0:13:11 | |
Yeah, it's not big. It's nice. | 0:13:11 | 0:13:13 | |
It's big enough for what we would want, isn't it? | 0:13:13 | 0:13:15 | |
Then Jon spots a surprise. | 0:13:15 | 0:13:17 | |
I wonder if you can get up on that bit up there. | 0:13:17 | 0:13:19 | |
Yeah, I can't resist it. Let's go up there. Go on. | 0:13:19 | 0:13:23 | |
Oh, look, there's another path up there as well. | 0:13:23 | 0:13:26 | |
Go on. So, the garden is actually pretty huge. | 0:13:26 | 0:13:29 | |
And before you know it, the boys are in their element. | 0:13:29 | 0:13:32 | |
This is unbelievable. | 0:13:32 | 0:13:33 | |
And Jon's pleased as punch. | 0:13:35 | 0:13:37 | |
I could see myself here, that's for sure. | 0:13:37 | 0:13:39 | |
This property has received a mixed response. | 0:13:41 | 0:13:44 | |
But could they afford it with their £150,000 budget? | 0:13:44 | 0:13:47 | |
So how much do you think it is, Austen? | 0:13:47 | 0:13:49 | |
£170,000. | 0:13:49 | 0:13:51 | |
-170. -What do you think, Hayden? | 0:13:51 | 0:13:54 | |
240. | 0:13:54 | 0:13:55 | |
I think it's about 160,000. | 0:13:55 | 0:13:59 | |
I'd say 140. | 0:13:59 | 0:14:00 | |
Turn it over. | 0:14:04 | 0:14:06 | |
That just £1,000 over budget. | 0:14:07 | 0:14:10 | |
So that's roughly the same as ours then. | 0:14:10 | 0:14:13 | |
I still think, in terms of the setting, it is amazing. | 0:14:13 | 0:14:17 | |
Well, onwards and upwards. | 0:14:19 | 0:14:21 | |
Kerry-Ann doesn't seem impressed so far. | 0:14:21 | 0:14:24 | |
So, will property two turn things in Jon's favour? | 0:14:24 | 0:14:27 | |
Staying in the Stokes Valley area, just a few minutes away, | 0:14:27 | 0:14:30 | |
is this three-bedroom 1950s weatherboard home. | 0:14:30 | 0:14:33 | |
Despite the outside not immediately grabbing Jon... | 0:14:34 | 0:14:38 | |
Bit more closed in, isn't it? | 0:14:38 | 0:14:39 | |
..inside, the vibe is more positive. | 0:14:39 | 0:14:41 | |
-Very spacious. -Yeah. -Lots more space. | 0:14:44 | 0:14:46 | |
-Much lighter as well, isn't it? -Yeah. Not quite as dark | 0:14:46 | 0:14:49 | |
-as the other house, is it? -No. | 0:14:49 | 0:14:51 | |
-Decent-sized kitchen for us, isn't it? -Yeah. -It's nice. | 0:14:51 | 0:14:53 | |
It's much lighter, isn't it? That's the thing that hits you, | 0:14:53 | 0:14:56 | |
-isn't it? -It's more homely. -Yeah. -Yeah. | 0:14:56 | 0:14:58 | |
It's not as large a lounge. | 0:14:58 | 0:15:00 | |
But it's more homely. | 0:15:01 | 0:15:02 | |
The light theme continues into the bedrooms. | 0:15:02 | 0:15:05 | |
It's a lot brighter than the other one. | 0:15:05 | 0:15:07 | |
Don't know. It just feels airier, even though | 0:15:07 | 0:15:10 | |
the room's probably not much bigger than the last house. | 0:15:10 | 0:15:13 | |
It does feel more spacious and more airy. | 0:15:13 | 0:15:16 | |
And Kerry-Ann could be coming round. | 0:15:16 | 0:15:18 | |
Yeah, maybe this one's more liveable in for me than the other one. | 0:15:18 | 0:15:22 | |
It's a relief to hear you say that because... | 0:15:22 | 0:15:26 | |
Yeah, I could see that the last house wasn't really to your liking. | 0:15:26 | 0:15:30 | |
Currently used as an office, | 0:15:30 | 0:15:32 | |
the largest of the three bedrooms is a real crowd pleaser. | 0:15:32 | 0:15:36 | |
Ooh! | 0:15:36 | 0:15:37 | |
-This is big, isn't it? -This is a bit more like it. | 0:15:37 | 0:15:41 | |
-This is good. It's got a lot of space, hasn't it? -Yeah. | 0:15:41 | 0:15:44 | |
It's light again, isn't it? | 0:15:44 | 0:15:45 | |
All the light coming through that window again. | 0:15:45 | 0:15:49 | |
Outside, the garden gets a thumbs up from Jon and Kerry-Ann. | 0:15:49 | 0:15:53 | |
-That's a decent enough size, isn't it? -Yes. -Yes. -A nice-sized garden. | 0:15:53 | 0:15:57 | |
Doesn't look too difficult to maintain either. | 0:15:57 | 0:16:00 | |
Even if the boys feel it's missing a certain something. | 0:16:00 | 0:16:04 | |
The other garden is a bit better than this garden. | 0:16:04 | 0:16:06 | |
Yeah, it'd be better if we joined them together. | 0:16:06 | 0:16:09 | |
You mean what you want is a treehouse | 0:16:09 | 0:16:11 | |
-and a swing in this garden... -Yeah. -..and it'd be fine. -Yeah! | 0:16:11 | 0:16:14 | |
So far, so good. | 0:16:14 | 0:16:16 | |
That is until a furry friend from next-door makes itself known. | 0:16:16 | 0:16:20 | |
DOGS BARK LOUDLY | 0:16:20 | 0:16:23 | |
-Those dogs are giving it a bit of welly, aren't they? -Plenty of room. | 0:16:23 | 0:16:26 | |
Excellent. | 0:16:26 | 0:16:28 | |
I'm not sure I could cope with that dog barking all day though. | 0:16:28 | 0:16:31 | |
DOG BARKS | 0:16:31 | 0:16:34 | |
Not the best way to end a viewing, but barking dogs aside, the house | 0:16:34 | 0:16:37 | |
has gone down well, so could they afford it with their £150,000 budget? | 0:16:37 | 0:16:43 | |
If we were to move over, this would be a nice house to live in, | 0:16:43 | 0:16:47 | |
wouldn't it? It's probably out of our price range. | 0:16:47 | 0:16:50 | |
I feel a little bit hemmed in by the close proximity of the other houses. | 0:16:50 | 0:16:54 | |
But it is a lovely house. | 0:16:54 | 0:16:57 | |
I reckon it's going to be a lot more than the last one. | 0:16:57 | 0:17:00 | |
And the last one was 151, wasn't it? | 0:17:00 | 0:17:02 | |
I think it's going to be nearer 200,000. | 0:17:02 | 0:17:05 | |
Go on then, Hayden. | 0:17:08 | 0:17:10 | |
Um... | 0:17:10 | 0:17:12 | |
That's £7,000 over budget. | 0:17:14 | 0:17:17 | |
-I am surprised. -Doable. | 0:17:18 | 0:17:19 | |
I really did think it would be a lot more. | 0:17:19 | 0:17:23 | |
-I'm more sold on this house than on the last one. -Yeah. -Yeah. | 0:17:23 | 0:17:26 | |
-For this house, I would actually consider being able to move here and live here. -Yeah. | 0:17:26 | 0:17:30 | |
-So you can see yourself moving over here with this? -No, I can see me living in this house. -All right. | 0:17:30 | 0:17:35 | |
OK. It's a start! | 0:17:35 | 0:17:37 | |
Jon could be edging closer to persuading Kerry-Ann. | 0:17:37 | 0:17:42 | |
Will property three seal the deal? | 0:17:42 | 0:17:45 | |
Just a few doors down on the same road is this four-bedroom home, | 0:17:45 | 0:17:49 | |
tucked away in a private setting in the bush. | 0:17:49 | 0:17:53 | |
-Look at that! -We're out in the sticks here, aren't we? | 0:17:53 | 0:17:56 | |
-Jon's a fan of seclusion. -You like the fact it's hidden, don't you? | 0:17:56 | 0:18:00 | |
I do, I like it. It's... It's out of the way. | 0:18:00 | 0:18:04 | |
And already, he can imagine it as a home. | 0:18:04 | 0:18:06 | |
-It's just so peaceful. -Yeah, it is. | 0:18:06 | 0:18:09 | |
-I could see myself here. -Could you? | 0:18:12 | 0:18:14 | |
Guitar on the porch. | 0:18:14 | 0:18:16 | |
-LAUGHTER -Hillbilly. | 0:18:16 | 0:18:18 | |
Inside pleases the whole family. | 0:18:18 | 0:18:20 | |
-Oh, wow! -Mm. -Wow! -It's a nice living space, isn't it? | 0:18:22 | 0:18:26 | |
Especially Jon. | 0:18:26 | 0:18:27 | |
It's lovely, isn't it? It's quite bright, isn't it? | 0:18:27 | 0:18:31 | |
Yeah, nice size as well. | 0:18:31 | 0:18:32 | |
Yeah, I like it. | 0:18:34 | 0:18:36 | |
The family bathroom wins praise. | 0:18:36 | 0:18:39 | |
-Oh, it's a bigger bathroom! -It is bigger, isn't it? | 0:18:39 | 0:18:42 | |
-Yeah. -It's a reasonable size. | 0:18:42 | 0:18:44 | |
Until they realise the bath might be | 0:18:44 | 0:18:46 | |
more suited to other worldly creatures. | 0:18:46 | 0:18:49 | |
I've got a feeling that New Zealand baths are smaller than ours. | 0:18:49 | 0:18:53 | |
-Or that New Zealand people are smaller than us. -They do have Hobbits. | 0:18:53 | 0:18:57 | |
Stepping outside, everyone's breath is taken away. | 0:18:57 | 0:19:00 | |
-Look at that! Look at that! -Wow! | 0:19:00 | 0:19:03 | |
-Lovely, isn't it? -Isn't that beautiful? | 0:19:03 | 0:19:06 | |
It's amazing, isn't it? | 0:19:06 | 0:19:08 | |
Look at these lovely trees. | 0:19:08 | 0:19:10 | |
What a stunning setting. | 0:19:10 | 0:19:12 | |
And Kerry-Ann can envisage the alterations she would make. | 0:19:12 | 0:19:15 | |
Yeah, it would be nice | 0:19:15 | 0:19:16 | |
if you had this bit of grass and cleared the path over there. | 0:19:16 | 0:19:19 | |
-Are you making plans? -No. | 0:19:19 | 0:19:21 | |
Nice try, Jon! | 0:19:21 | 0:19:23 | |
So will this house fall within their £150,000 budget? | 0:19:23 | 0:19:27 | |
Right. | 0:19:27 | 0:19:28 | |
Oh, I think this house is going to be massively out of our price range. | 0:19:28 | 0:19:32 | |
-I don't think we're going to be able to afford it. -Maybe 220? | 0:19:32 | 0:19:35 | |
220,000? | 0:19:35 | 0:19:37 | |
-I don't know. 240. -Right. Shall we see? -Yup. -Yup. | 0:19:37 | 0:19:41 | |
-Oh, my word! -Ah! | 0:19:49 | 0:19:50 | |
That's £26,000 over budget, but... | 0:19:50 | 0:19:54 | |
-That's surprising. -A lot cheaper than we thought | 0:19:54 | 0:19:56 | |
-it would be, isn't it? -Yeah. -That is brilliant, actually. | 0:19:56 | 0:19:59 | |
That's not so much out of our range at all, is it? | 0:19:59 | 0:20:03 | |
That makes me feel really confident about a move. | 0:20:03 | 0:20:06 | |
Depending on what job opportunities there would be out here. | 0:20:06 | 0:20:09 | |
-And the price of our house. -Yeah, and what house prices are... | 0:20:09 | 0:20:15 | |
Well, we'd get... That might be possible. | 0:20:15 | 0:20:18 | |
It's been a mixed day on the property hunt front. | 0:20:21 | 0:20:24 | |
Property one didn't have the best kerb appeal, | 0:20:24 | 0:20:26 | |
but impressed with its secret garden. | 0:20:26 | 0:20:29 | |
Property two's light interiors hit the spot, but the barking dog didn't. | 0:20:30 | 0:20:35 | |
And hideaway property three got top marks for peace and quiet | 0:20:37 | 0:20:41 | |
and its wow-factor garden. | 0:20:41 | 0:20:43 | |
So when it comes to the vote, | 0:20:43 | 0:20:45 | |
will the family choose properties at home or away? | 0:20:45 | 0:20:49 | |
Based on the properties we've seen today, our vote goes to... | 0:20:49 | 0:20:53 | |
-UK. -New Zealand. -Can't decide. | 0:20:58 | 0:21:01 | |
I think it's a bit of no-brainer, personally. | 0:21:04 | 0:21:06 | |
Nothing grabbed me worth moving and leaving what we've got for. | 0:21:06 | 0:21:10 | |
Travel halfway round the world for something I don't really feel comfortable in. | 0:21:10 | 0:21:14 | |
So it looks at the moment it's 2½ to 1½! | 0:21:14 | 0:21:18 | |
So New Zealand's winning at the moment. | 0:21:18 | 0:21:21 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:21:22 | 0:21:25 | |
Jon knows he needs to start winning Kerry-Ann around. | 0:21:29 | 0:21:32 | |
Finding good jobs with decent wages in New Zealand could do the trick. | 0:21:32 | 0:21:36 | |
Back in the UK, Jon runs his own business, | 0:21:40 | 0:21:43 | |
offering specialist music classes to students of all ages. | 0:21:43 | 0:21:47 | |
I love my job at the moment. | 0:21:47 | 0:21:49 | |
As long as I do something creative every day, then I'm happy, | 0:21:49 | 0:21:52 | |
but I never quite know what I'm doing day-to-day, | 0:21:52 | 0:21:55 | |
which is one of the great things about my job. | 0:21:55 | 0:21:58 | |
In New Zealand, he expects he'll have to return | 0:21:58 | 0:22:00 | |
to his former job of working as a college lecturer. | 0:22:00 | 0:22:03 | |
It'll have to be in further education again, | 0:22:03 | 0:22:06 | |
or the tertiary section, as it's known over there. | 0:22:06 | 0:22:08 | |
Because I have to work for a while and get my citizenship | 0:22:08 | 0:22:12 | |
before I can then start a business, which is what I'm doing now. | 0:22:12 | 0:22:16 | |
-Why are you moving country? -Why am I moving country? | 0:22:16 | 0:22:19 | |
Well, I might be, I might not be. | 0:22:19 | 0:22:21 | |
I don't know. | 0:22:21 | 0:22:23 | |
-Do you think I should move? -No. | 0:22:23 | 0:22:25 | |
No, OK. | 0:22:25 | 0:22:27 | |
I think I know someone else who's got that kind of view as well. | 0:22:27 | 0:22:31 | |
Kerry-Ann's a primary school teacher, which brings mixed fortunes. | 0:22:31 | 0:22:35 | |
I love my job. | 0:22:35 | 0:22:36 | |
I don't like all the pressures and massive amounts of paperwork, | 0:22:36 | 0:22:40 | |
but I do actually enjoy the time in the classroom with the children. | 0:22:40 | 0:22:43 | |
She's hoping the teaching profession in New Zealand is less pressured. | 0:22:43 | 0:22:47 | |
I'm hoping to find a job that will give me some sanity, yes! | 0:22:47 | 0:22:51 | |
And a lot less stress! | 0:22:51 | 0:22:53 | |
It's an important day for both Jon and Kerry-Ann, as they set off | 0:22:56 | 0:22:59 | |
to discover what work opportunities there might be in New Zealand. | 0:22:59 | 0:23:04 | |
Jon heads to the New Zealand School of Music | 0:23:04 | 0:23:07 | |
at the Victoria University of Wellington. | 0:23:07 | 0:23:10 | |
After a sleepless night, he knows today has to come up trumps | 0:23:10 | 0:23:14 | |
if he is to bring Kerry-Ann around to his way of thinking. | 0:23:14 | 0:23:18 | |
I've been up throughout the night, | 0:23:18 | 0:23:20 | |
thinking about what might happen, what might transpire. | 0:23:20 | 0:23:23 | |
If Kerry-Ann doesn't vote for New Zealand, I think | 0:23:23 | 0:23:26 | |
that'll be the end of it and that'll be a real kick in the teeth. | 0:23:26 | 0:23:30 | |
Kerry-Ann's visiting Silverstream Primary School, | 0:23:30 | 0:23:33 | |
just down the road from the houses the family viewed. | 0:23:33 | 0:23:36 | |
I think Jon's hoping that today will change my mind, | 0:23:36 | 0:23:39 | |
regarding jobs in New Zealand | 0:23:39 | 0:23:41 | |
and hopefully change my mind overall, | 0:23:41 | 0:23:43 | |
but there's no point uprooting everything in the UK | 0:23:43 | 0:23:46 | |
to come over to New Zealand and not be able to manage. | 0:23:46 | 0:23:49 | |
Jon meets musical director Euan Murdock, | 0:23:49 | 0:23:51 | |
who gives him a tour of the university's performance spaces, | 0:23:51 | 0:23:54 | |
recording studios and collection of instruments from around the world. | 0:23:54 | 0:23:59 | |
Just being here now, I can... My knees are going a bit. | 0:24:00 | 0:24:03 | |
And Jon can't resist having a go. | 0:24:04 | 0:24:07 | |
-See if you can do a scale, so you go one ahead of the other. -OK. | 0:24:07 | 0:24:11 | |
HE PLAYS | 0:24:11 | 0:24:14 | |
You're an absolute natural, Jon! | 0:24:18 | 0:24:20 | |
Jon's eager to know what music teaching opportunities | 0:24:20 | 0:24:24 | |
might exist for someone with his level of experience. | 0:24:24 | 0:24:27 | |
You would struggle to find a job at a university level. | 0:24:27 | 0:24:31 | |
However, the community college experience you have, | 0:24:31 | 0:24:34 | |
in my opinion, directly relates to institutes, polytechnics | 0:24:34 | 0:24:39 | |
and institutes of technology. | 0:24:39 | 0:24:41 | |
-Yes. -Of which, there are a number through New Zealand. | 0:24:41 | 0:24:44 | |
What do you think my salary expectations might be? | 0:24:46 | 0:24:49 | |
My sense is that, given your leadership already | 0:24:49 | 0:24:52 | |
in that area of work back in the UK, | 0:24:52 | 0:24:54 | |
that you would be in the senior band, which would put you | 0:24:54 | 0:24:58 | |
somewhere between 70,000 and 90,000 New Zealand dollars. | 0:24:58 | 0:25:01 | |
That's about £35,000, | 0:25:01 | 0:25:04 | |
over double what he currently brings home | 0:25:04 | 0:25:06 | |
on a self-employed basis in the UK. | 0:25:06 | 0:25:09 | |
But what about the all-important work/life balance? | 0:25:09 | 0:25:13 | |
New Zealand is a fabulous place to bring up a young family. | 0:25:13 | 0:25:16 | |
You have to work hard, there's no question about that, | 0:25:16 | 0:25:19 | |
but there's also an expectation that families are very important | 0:25:19 | 0:25:22 | |
and certainly within this school, | 0:25:22 | 0:25:24 | |
I'd like to think that families come first. | 0:25:24 | 0:25:27 | |
It's exactly the kind of news Jon had been hoping to hear. | 0:25:27 | 0:25:31 | |
And he's anxiously hoping Kerry-Ann's day is as encouraging. | 0:25:31 | 0:25:35 | |
I don't really know how Kerry-Ann's going to get on. | 0:25:37 | 0:25:41 | |
I'm hoping she'll be open-minded and positive, so fingers crossed. | 0:25:41 | 0:25:44 | |
School principal Mary shows Kerry-Ann around | 0:25:46 | 0:25:49 | |
and introduces her to ex-pat deputy principal Zach Mills. | 0:25:49 | 0:25:54 | |
She wastes no time in grilling him | 0:25:54 | 0:25:56 | |
on how he's found teaching in New Zealand. | 0:25:56 | 0:25:59 | |
-And the work/life balance is better? -Yes. | 0:25:59 | 0:26:02 | |
Certainly the schools that I've worked in, | 0:26:02 | 0:26:04 | |
they really want their teachers to have that work/life balance, | 0:26:04 | 0:26:08 | |
to go out and play their sport or do the things they really love | 0:26:08 | 0:26:11 | |
because they find they bring that passion and energy back into the school. | 0:26:11 | 0:26:14 | |
Next, she wants to know if there are jobs with her name on them in New Zealand. | 0:26:14 | 0:26:19 | |
Absolutely cos I see that you've been teaching for 16 years, | 0:26:19 | 0:26:22 | |
-is that right? -Yes. Too long! -Round about that. | 0:26:22 | 0:26:25 | |
-Yes. -And of course, you've got some real strengths in PE and in Music. | 0:26:25 | 0:26:30 | |
And of course, when we're looking to employ new teachers, | 0:26:30 | 0:26:33 | |
we're looking at what else they can bring to the school, | 0:26:33 | 0:26:37 | |
not just the reading, writing and maths. | 0:26:37 | 0:26:39 | |
It's all sounding very promising, | 0:26:39 | 0:26:42 | |
but then Kerry-Ann asks about the hard cash. | 0:26:42 | 0:26:45 | |
How much would she earn? | 0:26:45 | 0:26:46 | |
Roughly, you would be starting on round about 50. | 0:26:47 | 0:26:50 | |
-OK. -OK. | 0:26:53 | 0:26:55 | |
So... But then, you'd work up through the steps. | 0:26:55 | 0:26:59 | |
That's around £22,000. | 0:26:59 | 0:27:01 | |
Significantly lower than the £30,000 she currently earns at home. | 0:27:01 | 0:27:06 | |
OK. That's quite a bit lower than what I am on at the moment. | 0:27:06 | 0:27:09 | |
Absolutely. Yes, yes. | 0:27:09 | 0:27:11 | |
So, based on everything they've discovered today, | 0:27:11 | 0:27:15 | |
when it comes to work, will the couple choose home or away? | 0:27:15 | 0:27:19 | |
-New Zealand. -Undecided. | 0:27:22 | 0:27:24 | |
-Well, that could have been worse! -SHE LAUGHS | 0:27:26 | 0:27:30 | |
It's just that massive pay cut that worries me about the work. | 0:27:30 | 0:27:34 | |
It's not all about the money, is it? | 0:27:34 | 0:27:36 | |
It is also about the quality of life when you're at work. | 0:27:36 | 0:27:39 | |
And if I would be earning a bit more, then it might... | 0:27:39 | 0:27:42 | |
-Maybe that might balance things out a little bit. -Yeah. | 0:27:42 | 0:27:44 | |
I did think that if you voted no, that it would be the end of it, | 0:27:44 | 0:27:47 | |
-the whole thing, to be honest. -Mm. | 0:27:47 | 0:27:51 | |
So, the fact that you were edging towards maybe a yes... | 0:27:51 | 0:27:55 | |
..is positive. | 0:27:56 | 0:27:58 | |
Gives me a little bit of hope. | 0:27:58 | 0:28:00 | |
With Kerry-Ann yet to cast a vote in favour of New Zealand, | 0:28:05 | 0:28:08 | |
it looks like Jon's facing an uphill struggle | 0:28:08 | 0:28:11 | |
if he's to stand any chance of realising his dream. | 0:28:11 | 0:28:15 | |
With the sun shining, | 0:28:15 | 0:28:17 | |
the family head out to explore the lifestyle Wellington could offer them | 0:28:17 | 0:28:21 | |
and for Jon, it could be the ideal opportunity to get Kerry-Ann onside. | 0:28:21 | 0:28:26 | |
At home, much of family life revolves around football, | 0:28:28 | 0:28:31 | |
so the family start their day with a training session with the Juniors. | 0:28:31 | 0:28:36 | |
I like your top. Fantastic. | 0:28:37 | 0:28:40 | |
And while mum and dad meet some of the parents on the sidelines... | 0:28:40 | 0:28:44 | |
-This seems like a lovely area to live. -Oh, it is. | 0:28:44 | 0:28:47 | |
..Austen and Hayden are immediately at home, | 0:28:47 | 0:28:50 | |
kicking about with their new Kiwi friends. | 0:28:50 | 0:28:52 | |
We came out ten years ago and... | 0:28:56 | 0:28:58 | |
I mean, I didn't have my children when we came, | 0:28:58 | 0:29:01 | |
so it was a little bit lonely for me, | 0:29:01 | 0:29:04 | |
but you meet so many families through the kids and the clubs | 0:29:04 | 0:29:07 | |
and activities and we just spend our life outdoors, on the beach. | 0:29:07 | 0:29:12 | |
It's the kind of experience Jon had been hoping for. | 0:29:12 | 0:29:15 | |
Today has been fantastic. | 0:29:15 | 0:29:17 | |
We've had a chance to see what our lives could be like if we were here. | 0:29:17 | 0:29:22 | |
And everywhere that you go, people are friendly. | 0:29:24 | 0:29:28 | |
-Kerry-Ann's happy too. -Seeing the kids totally fit in, | 0:29:28 | 0:29:31 | |
being greeted by the parents that were there, | 0:29:31 | 0:29:34 | |
being spoken to quite happily, you know, it was really nice | 0:29:34 | 0:29:37 | |
and they just kind of welcome you with open arms. | 0:29:37 | 0:29:40 | |
-See you. -Thank you. -Bye-bye. | 0:29:45 | 0:29:47 | |
Next, the Lawrences head in to Wellington | 0:29:47 | 0:29:50 | |
for a spot of lunch beside the harbour, | 0:29:50 | 0:29:52 | |
giving the family time to catch up on how the week's going. | 0:29:52 | 0:29:55 | |
-What about this morning? Do you think the training was better? -Yeah. | 0:29:55 | 0:29:58 | |
-No. I don't think it was better. -It was equal. | 0:29:58 | 0:30:01 | |
It was equal. It was a lot more friendly though. | 0:30:01 | 0:30:04 | |
For Kerry-Ann, the week's improved as it's gone on. | 0:30:04 | 0:30:07 | |
Gradually, the week has got better for me, | 0:30:07 | 0:30:10 | |
whereas I think Jon started off on a high and will continue on a high. | 0:30:10 | 0:30:14 | |
But Jon accepts she's not entirely sold. | 0:30:14 | 0:30:16 | |
This week's been a bit of a mixed bag for Kerry-Ann. | 0:30:16 | 0:30:20 | |
I think she's seen that the lifestyle that she could have, | 0:30:20 | 0:30:25 | |
or we could all have here, it would be superb. | 0:30:25 | 0:30:28 | |
But I... I'm not sure... | 0:30:28 | 0:30:30 | |
I'm not totally sure she can look past | 0:30:30 | 0:30:33 | |
that huge pay cut she'd have to take. | 0:30:33 | 0:30:35 | |
I'm not sure at the moment which way I'm going to go. | 0:30:35 | 0:30:38 | |
It's borderline, which is a positive, | 0:30:38 | 0:30:40 | |
I suppose, on the first day, isn't it? | 0:30:40 | 0:30:42 | |
But yeah, still not sure if I'm swayed enough or not. | 0:30:42 | 0:30:47 | |
And the boys also know Mum's yet to be convinced. | 0:30:47 | 0:30:51 | |
I don't think Dad's quite done it. | 0:30:51 | 0:30:52 | |
Not quite convinced her to come, no. | 0:30:52 | 0:30:54 | |
Keeping his thoughts to himself, even Jon's beginning to realise | 0:30:56 | 0:31:00 | |
just how much he'd be leaving behind in the UK. | 0:31:00 | 0:31:03 | |
I know that I have wonderful friends at the moment | 0:31:04 | 0:31:08 | |
who have supported me through some really horrible, horrible times | 0:31:08 | 0:31:14 | |
and I have such a heightened appreciation | 0:31:14 | 0:31:18 | |
of what friendship really means now. | 0:31:18 | 0:31:20 | |
Could it be just a blip for Jon, or a complete change of heart? | 0:31:21 | 0:31:25 | |
Despite his disclosure, it has been a fun day out for all the family, | 0:31:25 | 0:31:30 | |
so when it comes to lifestyle, how will they vote? | 0:31:30 | 0:31:33 | |
Based on the experience we've had today, our votes are... | 0:31:33 | 0:31:36 | |
-New Zealand. -New Zealand. -New Zealand. | 0:31:45 | 0:31:47 | |
It's clean sweep. | 0:31:47 | 0:31:49 | |
-Everybody got New Zealand. -Ho-ho-ho! | 0:31:49 | 0:31:51 | |
-Are you slightly happy there, honey? -Back of the net! | 0:31:53 | 0:31:55 | |
SHE LAUGHS | 0:31:55 | 0:31:57 | |
Right... | 0:32:02 | 0:32:04 | |
Kerry-Ann's first vote for New Zealand | 0:32:04 | 0:32:06 | |
could mean Jon's dream isn't over yet. | 0:32:06 | 0:32:09 | |
But if it's to become a reality, the finances will need to stack up. | 0:32:09 | 0:32:13 | |
The couple feel their house in the UK is worth £160,000. | 0:32:13 | 0:32:18 | |
We sent round two estate agents to give their valuations. | 0:32:18 | 0:32:22 | |
This is actually a property I put on the market a couple of years ago. | 0:32:23 | 0:32:27 | |
Oh, good size room. Nice fireplace. Great views. | 0:32:27 | 0:32:31 | |
And a broken picture frame! | 0:32:31 | 0:32:33 | |
D'uh! | 0:32:33 | 0:32:34 | |
Since I was here last time, the kitchen's been replaced, | 0:32:34 | 0:32:37 | |
which is great, to a modern, high-gloss unit, | 0:32:37 | 0:32:40 | |
so it looks really, really modern. | 0:32:40 | 0:32:42 | |
Main bedroom. And again, dual aspect, which is really good. | 0:32:42 | 0:32:45 | |
Makes the room really nice and light. | 0:32:45 | 0:32:48 | |
I'd probably remove this, as it impedes a bit in the room. | 0:32:48 | 0:32:51 | |
-We could remove that, but then we would have no clothes. -That's true! | 0:32:51 | 0:32:55 | |
-That's my room! -Hayden! -Ah, so this is bedroom two. | 0:32:55 | 0:32:58 | |
It's obviously got a lot of things in here, including a bunk bed, | 0:32:58 | 0:33:01 | |
wardrobe and wildlife. | 0:33:01 | 0:33:03 | |
Um... You could alter this round and easily accommodate a double bed | 0:33:03 | 0:33:06 | |
-in here, so it's a nice-sized bedroom. -Whereas Austen's bedroom... | 0:33:06 | 0:33:10 | |
It's quite compact, but it's got everything you need in it. | 0:33:10 | 0:33:13 | |
Bed, wardrobe, drawers, games box... But it's got beautiful views. | 0:33:13 | 0:33:17 | |
Bit of lawn over to the side. | 0:33:17 | 0:33:19 | |
But of course, the main thing is the open view at the rear, | 0:33:19 | 0:33:22 | |
which is what so many people want, | 0:33:22 | 0:33:24 | |
when they live in the country. Great. | 0:33:24 | 0:33:26 | |
I would suggest marketing the property at £159,950, | 0:33:26 | 0:33:29 | |
but for a quick sale, I would suggest marketing at 155. | 0:33:29 | 0:33:32 | |
In the current market conditions, we'd probably recommend | 0:33:32 | 0:33:35 | |
a marketing price of £159,950, but to go no lower than 155. | 0:33:35 | 0:33:41 | |
-Price has gone up slightly. -Yes. -By about 10 grand. -Yes. -That's good. | 0:33:41 | 0:33:45 | |
-Amazing what a lick of paint will do. -It is. | 0:33:45 | 0:33:47 | |
The valuations go down well, | 0:33:47 | 0:33:49 | |
and next, the couple sit down to compare | 0:33:49 | 0:33:52 | |
the cost of living in New Zealand with the UK. | 0:33:52 | 0:33:55 | |
Starting with the weekly food shop. | 0:33:55 | 0:33:57 | |
Let's see how skint we are. | 0:33:57 | 0:33:59 | |
We drink milk by the bucket load and that's more expensive already. | 0:33:59 | 0:34:03 | |
Almost double the price, look. | 0:34:03 | 0:34:05 | |
We get through loads of ham, don't we? | 0:34:05 | 0:34:08 | |
Well, we won't if we're here, will we? | 0:34:08 | 0:34:11 | |
I've got it at £117.96. An extra £27 a week. | 0:34:11 | 0:34:16 | |
With groceries coming in at around £100 a month more in New Zealand, | 0:34:16 | 0:34:21 | |
Jon puts on a brave face. | 0:34:21 | 0:34:23 | |
That's not great news, but... It's not dreadful, is it? | 0:34:25 | 0:34:29 | |
Next, the couple move on to examine their bigger outgoings, | 0:34:29 | 0:34:32 | |
basing their figures on the dream home we showed them. | 0:34:32 | 0:34:35 | |
The mortgage is massively different, isn't it? | 0:34:35 | 0:34:38 | |
It's an extra 300 quid gone already. | 0:34:38 | 0:34:41 | |
Mm. | 0:34:41 | 0:34:42 | |
Look at petrol, look how much cheaper that is. | 0:34:42 | 0:34:46 | |
That's... That's good. | 0:34:46 | 0:34:48 | |
£462.49... | 0:34:51 | 0:34:55 | |
worse off a month. | 0:34:55 | 0:34:57 | |
In total, the couple work out, | 0:34:57 | 0:34:59 | |
they'd be spending nearly £500 a month more in New Zealand. | 0:34:59 | 0:35:03 | |
Jon's speechless, but once they take into account how much | 0:35:03 | 0:35:07 | |
they might earn in New Zealand, the figures begin to look better. | 0:35:07 | 0:35:11 | |
Yes, I can feel the smug smirk coming right now. | 0:35:11 | 0:35:15 | |
£629.51 a month better off. | 0:35:15 | 0:35:19 | |
-So... -SHE LAUGHS | 0:35:23 | 0:35:26 | |
Shall we get the tickets booked? | 0:35:26 | 0:35:28 | |
Their sums show they'd be better off to the tune of £7,500 every year. | 0:35:28 | 0:35:33 | |
It's made my decision a lot harder. | 0:35:33 | 0:35:36 | |
You can't argue with that, can you? | 0:35:36 | 0:35:38 | |
I can just feel the smug coming this way! | 0:35:40 | 0:35:43 | |
So will it be another clean sweep, | 0:35:46 | 0:35:48 | |
as the couple choose between finances in the UK and New Zealand? | 0:35:48 | 0:35:52 | |
Based on the figures we've seen today in the reality check, | 0:35:52 | 0:35:56 | |
our vote goes to... | 0:35:56 | 0:35:58 | |
-New Zealand. -New Zealand. | 0:36:04 | 0:36:06 | |
You can't argue with the figures, can you? | 0:36:09 | 0:36:12 | |
When you think about it, you know... | 0:36:12 | 0:36:14 | |
600-odd pounds a month better off is a no-brainer. | 0:36:14 | 0:36:17 | |
-I was tempted to do a little lap of honour around the garden. -Please don't. | 0:36:19 | 0:36:22 | |
KERRYANN LAUGHS | 0:36:22 | 0:36:23 | |
Such a significant boost to their finances has been impossible | 0:36:29 | 0:36:32 | |
to argue with, helping Jon's dream gain yet more momentum. | 0:36:32 | 0:36:36 | |
But the week's far from over, | 0:36:36 | 0:36:38 | |
and the family now face what could be the biggest hurdle to a move. | 0:36:38 | 0:36:43 | |
Having discussed it with the children first, they sit down to watch | 0:36:43 | 0:36:46 | |
messages from friends and family back home together. | 0:36:46 | 0:36:49 | |
FROM TV: Hi! | 0:36:50 | 0:36:51 | |
-Hi! -Hi! | 0:36:51 | 0:36:52 | |
Hi, guys. | 0:36:52 | 0:36:53 | |
Hi there, all of you. | 0:36:53 | 0:36:54 | |
Hi, Jon. Hi, Kez. | 0:36:54 | 0:36:56 | |
I love her to bits, yeah. | 0:36:56 | 0:36:57 | |
She's one of my best friends and yeah, she's very loyal. | 0:36:57 | 0:37:01 | |
Yeah, she's a great friend. | 0:37:01 | 0:37:02 | |
She's a lovely lass. | 0:37:02 | 0:37:05 | |
Mad, but lovely. | 0:37:05 | 0:37:06 | |
Jon is really fun to be with, really outgoing. | 0:37:08 | 0:37:13 | |
Hayden's the more grown-up one. | 0:37:13 | 0:37:15 | |
He looks very much like Jon | 0:37:16 | 0:37:18 | |
and acts very much like Jon | 0:37:18 | 0:37:20 | |
when Jon was younger, whereas Austen acts like Jon is now, | 0:37:20 | 0:37:24 | |
-a bit crazy and a bit... -THEY LAUGH | 0:37:24 | 0:37:27 | |
-Lively, entertaining... -Very accident prone. | 0:37:27 | 0:37:30 | |
-Very accident prone, yes. -Yes, | 0:37:30 | 0:37:32 | |
but good kids, really good kids. | 0:37:32 | 0:37:34 | |
-I must admit, I really didn't want them to go, did I? -No. | 0:37:34 | 0:37:38 | |
Nikki was in a state of depression for weeks on end, | 0:37:38 | 0:37:42 | |
used to be waking up in the night cos she didn't want them to go, | 0:37:42 | 0:37:45 | |
and I had to be consoling her. | 0:37:45 | 0:37:47 | |
We would never be able to take Mum to see him over there. | 0:37:47 | 0:37:50 | |
That would be an impossibility. | 0:37:50 | 0:37:51 | |
It's just the distance between us, I wouldn't be able to do that. | 0:37:51 | 0:37:56 | |
The one thing you want to do is watch your grandchildren grow up, | 0:37:56 | 0:37:59 | |
which we're not going to be able to do. | 0:37:59 | 0:38:01 | |
It's going to be a big loss to us all. | 0:38:01 | 0:38:04 | |
It's the birthdays and the Christmas and the Easter and the... | 0:38:04 | 0:38:08 | |
you know, when we're all supposed to be sat around a table, aren't we? | 0:38:08 | 0:38:12 | |
That'll be the hardest time. | 0:38:13 | 0:38:15 | |
Make the right decision based on what you want, | 0:38:16 | 0:38:19 | |
not what any other people want. | 0:38:19 | 0:38:21 | |
We think it's a great idea for you and a great opportunity, | 0:38:21 | 0:38:25 | |
so make the right decision. | 0:38:25 | 0:38:27 | |
We really don't want you to go, but if you have to, | 0:38:27 | 0:38:33 | |
if you want to follow your dream, you've got to do it. | 0:38:33 | 0:38:36 | |
If you decide that New Zealand is the place for all of you, | 0:38:36 | 0:38:39 | |
then you go with my best wishes. | 0:38:39 | 0:38:42 | |
I'd be losing part of me. | 0:38:42 | 0:38:44 | |
Because of... | 0:38:46 | 0:38:47 | |
I won't change anything. | 0:38:53 | 0:38:55 | |
Because I think, if they want to go, it's right. | 0:38:55 | 0:38:58 | |
Take care. | 0:38:58 | 0:39:00 | |
I don't know what to feel. | 0:39:08 | 0:39:10 | |
I know how I feel. | 0:39:10 | 0:39:12 | |
But I've got two... | 0:39:13 | 0:39:15 | |
two people in tears here... | 0:39:15 | 0:39:17 | |
..who, um... | 0:39:18 | 0:39:20 | |
..who probably mean more than the dream. | 0:39:25 | 0:39:27 | |
Just as the balance seemed to be tipping in favour of New Zealand, | 0:39:30 | 0:39:34 | |
messages from home have been a tough reminder | 0:39:34 | 0:39:37 | |
of how hard it would be to leave friends and family behind. | 0:39:37 | 0:39:41 | |
With their week in Wellington drawing to a close, | 0:39:41 | 0:39:44 | |
both Jon and Kerry-Ann are struggling with conflicting emotions. | 0:39:44 | 0:39:48 | |
So, where will the Lawrences decide their future lies? | 0:39:48 | 0:39:52 | |
When the Lawrences arrived in Wellington seven days ago, | 0:39:55 | 0:39:58 | |
Jon was desperate to see if New Zealand could deliver second time round. | 0:39:58 | 0:40:02 | |
The whole week's been fantastic. | 0:40:02 | 0:40:04 | |
We've had lots of good things like... I still think we'd have | 0:40:04 | 0:40:08 | |
a good house over here and good financial prospects. | 0:40:08 | 0:40:12 | |
But has New Zealand shown Kerry-Ann enough to sway her? | 0:40:12 | 0:40:16 | |
I'm still kind of torn between the fact of, yes, it could work, | 0:40:16 | 0:40:19 | |
then it could be fantastic and it could be for the best, | 0:40:19 | 0:40:22 | |
but if it doesn't, you know, | 0:40:22 | 0:40:23 | |
what are we losing out on that we're leaving behind in the UK? | 0:40:23 | 0:40:26 | |
I'm still torn between the two things. | 0:40:26 | 0:40:28 | |
Seeing messages from home brought focus to the thorny issue | 0:40:28 | 0:40:31 | |
of leaving loved ones behind. | 0:40:31 | 0:40:33 | |
Just watching your dad get upset's not really that easy, is it? | 0:40:33 | 0:40:37 | |
And friends as well that, you know, we really do heavily rely on, | 0:40:38 | 0:40:41 | |
and they're always there for us, so to find that | 0:40:41 | 0:40:44 | |
and get that again somewhere else is going to be tricky. | 0:40:44 | 0:40:47 | |
Well, I know it took a lot out of her. | 0:40:47 | 0:40:49 | |
And Austen was clearly upset. | 0:40:49 | 0:40:52 | |
She only usually cries when she really doesn't want to do it | 0:40:52 | 0:40:56 | |
or she's really sad, and... | 0:40:56 | 0:40:59 | |
She cried then, so... | 0:41:00 | 0:41:02 | |
Jon faces the ultimate dilemma - | 0:41:02 | 0:41:05 | |
having to choose between his dream and family. | 0:41:05 | 0:41:08 | |
I wish I could explain what's going through my head at the moment. | 0:41:09 | 0:41:12 | |
I'm massively confused. | 0:41:15 | 0:41:17 | |
I've been thinking about New Zealand for five years or so, | 0:41:18 | 0:41:22 | |
and I'm here now. | 0:41:22 | 0:41:24 | |
And yet I feel further away from it than I ever have. | 0:41:24 | 0:41:27 | |
But on the other hand I feel closer to my family than I've ever felt before. | 0:41:27 | 0:41:32 | |
So, where will the family finally decide their future lies? | 0:41:32 | 0:41:35 | |
My decision has been made for the last five years, | 0:41:37 | 0:41:41 | |
and now I have to kind of formalise it by turning the card, | 0:41:41 | 0:41:45 | |
all of a sudden it's not so straightforward. | 0:41:45 | 0:41:49 | |
We've had a great week. | 0:41:51 | 0:41:52 | |
Based on the experiences we've had this week, our vote goes to... | 0:41:52 | 0:41:56 | |
-UK. -Undecided. -Undecided. -UK. | 0:42:07 | 0:42:09 | |
Why is yours undecided? | 0:42:12 | 0:42:14 | |
-Because it has to be right for all of us, not just for me. -Yeah. | 0:42:14 | 0:42:19 | |
Seeing Austen so upset brought it home that it might be my dream, | 0:42:19 | 0:42:26 | |
but it can't be... | 0:42:26 | 0:42:27 | |
It has to be all of us. | 0:42:27 | 0:42:30 | |
So...but having said that, I've got a dream family. | 0:42:30 | 0:42:34 | |
Why did you change your mind? | 0:42:34 | 0:42:37 | |
-The video changed my mind. -Why? | 0:42:37 | 0:42:39 | |
-I just didn't want to leave everyone. -OK. | 0:42:39 | 0:42:42 | |
What about you, Austen? | 0:42:42 | 0:42:43 | |
I just really didn't want to leave my friends and family. | 0:42:43 | 0:42:47 | |
It's time to move on and it's time to think of someone other than myself. | 0:42:47 | 0:42:51 | |
In the end, his week in New Zealand's shown Jon | 0:43:00 | 0:43:03 | |
the dream life he's been chasing may actually lie closer to home. | 0:43:03 | 0:43:08 | |
It's been a long journey for the Lawrence family, | 0:43:08 | 0:43:11 | |
but wherever they go on to spend their future, | 0:43:11 | 0:43:14 | |
we hope it's a very happy one. | 0:43:14 | 0:43:16 |