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Time spent travelling in your twenties | 0:00:02 | 0:00:04 | |
on the other side of the world can often leave you longing for more. | 0:00:04 | 0:00:09 | |
But when your bachelor days are behind you and you have a wife | 0:00:09 | 0:00:12 | |
that's happy at home, is it a move you can realistically make? | 0:00:12 | 0:00:16 | |
Ever since backpacking in New Zealand, | 0:00:17 | 0:00:19 | |
Greg Wallen's been planning on making a permanent return. | 0:00:19 | 0:00:24 | |
I want to make a home in New Zealand more than anything in the world. | 0:00:24 | 0:00:27 | |
Now married, his wife's willing to be convinced. | 0:00:27 | 0:00:30 | |
It's always been his dream, it's been what he wants to do, | 0:00:30 | 0:00:33 | |
and he put all of that on hold for me. I owe it him to try. | 0:00:33 | 0:00:37 | |
But when a trial week in the country doesn't quite go to plan... | 0:00:37 | 0:00:40 | |
It's cold, the floor feels damp. | 0:00:40 | 0:00:42 | |
It's not the image I had in my head of moving to New Zealand. | 0:00:42 | 0:00:44 | |
I'm worried, Jen. Really, really worried. | 0:00:44 | 0:00:46 | |
..will Greg be forced to give up on his dream? | 0:00:46 | 0:00:50 | |
Maybe I was thinking the grass is definitely greener on the other side. | 0:00:50 | 0:00:53 | |
Now I'm kind of like, brutally honest, | 0:00:53 | 0:00:55 | |
"Oh, my God, what have I done?" | 0:00:55 | 0:00:57 | |
Lying nearly 1,000 miles from its neighbour Australia, | 0:01:19 | 0:01:22 | |
New Zealand's home to the southernmost capital in the world. | 0:01:22 | 0:01:27 | |
A third of the country is designated as national parks and reserves, | 0:01:27 | 0:01:31 | |
and inhabitants are never more than 80 miles from the sea. | 0:01:31 | 0:01:34 | |
So it's easy to see why every year, | 0:01:38 | 0:01:40 | |
7,000 adventure-loving Brits choose to make the country home. | 0:01:40 | 0:01:44 | |
Greg Wallen was all set to return to the land he loved as a backpacker | 0:01:47 | 0:01:51 | |
when a dabble in online dating brought his plans to an abrupt halt. | 0:01:51 | 0:01:56 | |
Fast-forward five years, and Greg is still passionate in his belief | 0:01:56 | 0:02:00 | |
New Zealand is where he should be living. | 0:02:00 | 0:02:02 | |
He just has to convince his wife, Jenni, it's a realistic option, | 0:02:02 | 0:02:06 | |
and worth giving up everything she has at home. | 0:02:06 | 0:02:10 | |
The Wallen's trial week kicks off with | 0:02:10 | 0:02:12 | |
more than 22 hours in the air, flying to Auckland via Hong Kong. | 0:02:12 | 0:02:16 | |
It can be a tough journey for anyone, | 0:02:21 | 0:02:23 | |
but it's only made worse when, like Jenni, you're three months pregnant. | 0:02:23 | 0:02:27 | |
My morning sickness, which lasted 27 hours, | 0:02:27 | 0:02:32 | |
was not great. | 0:02:32 | 0:02:34 | |
Three-year-old Evie struggled too. | 0:02:34 | 0:02:36 | |
You didn't sleep, did you, madam? | 0:02:36 | 0:02:37 | |
Evie didn't sleep at all from Hong Kong to here. | 0:02:37 | 0:02:41 | |
But she was good, she was good. | 0:02:41 | 0:02:43 | |
The long trip's given Jenni plenty of time | 0:02:43 | 0:02:45 | |
to think about the distance she's put between family. | 0:02:45 | 0:02:48 | |
I've had a few tears on the plane already. | 0:02:48 | 0:02:52 | |
I kept thinking about how often my mum would likely come over | 0:02:52 | 0:02:56 | |
and it all just got a little bit overwhelming. | 0:02:56 | 0:02:59 | |
And for Greg, touching down again on Kiwi soil has been moving too. | 0:02:59 | 0:03:03 | |
I got a bit emotional when I landed, actually. | 0:03:03 | 0:03:06 | |
It was kind of like, almost like, "I'm home" feeling. It's weird. | 0:03:06 | 0:03:10 | |
It's good. I feel completely comfortable, completely at ease here. | 0:03:10 | 0:03:14 | |
Whether New Zealand will become his home will depend on Greg | 0:03:14 | 0:03:17 | |
persuading Jenni over the next seven days. | 0:03:17 | 0:03:19 | |
Meet the Wallens. | 0:03:26 | 0:03:27 | |
They are Greg, Jenni and three-year-old Evie, from Sheffield. | 0:03:27 | 0:03:31 | |
In 2010, as a young carefree bachelor, Greg spent a year | 0:03:31 | 0:03:35 | |
backpacking in New Zealand, and the country captured his heart. | 0:03:35 | 0:03:39 | |
The thing I liked most about New Zealand was the people, | 0:03:39 | 0:03:42 | |
the culture of the country. | 0:03:42 | 0:03:43 | |
Everything was really, really clean. | 0:03:43 | 0:03:46 | |
Within about six weeks of being in New Zealand | 0:03:46 | 0:03:49 | |
I felt completely at ease with life. | 0:03:49 | 0:03:51 | |
When his travel visa expired, Greg reluctantly returned to the UK, | 0:03:51 | 0:03:55 | |
but smitten with everything New Zealand had to offer, | 0:03:55 | 0:03:58 | |
he immediately began planning to move there for good. | 0:03:58 | 0:04:01 | |
I came back to the UK, had a job lined up here in Sheffield. | 0:04:03 | 0:04:06 | |
I had about a six months tops target in my head and then go back. | 0:04:06 | 0:04:10 | |
But fate intervened in his New Zealand plans | 0:04:11 | 0:04:13 | |
when he dipped his toe in the waters of online dating. | 0:04:13 | 0:04:17 | |
I wasn't looking for anything serious, wasn't looking for love, | 0:04:17 | 0:04:20 | |
wasn't looking for marriage, I was just looking for someone to spend | 0:04:20 | 0:04:23 | |
time with because I didn't really know anyone in Sheffield, really. | 0:04:23 | 0:04:26 | |
I'd gone on it, being a single parent, not having much opportunity | 0:04:26 | 0:04:29 | |
to meet anyone, and we talked online and met up for a date. | 0:04:29 | 0:04:34 | |
Greg and Jenni hit it off straight away, | 0:04:34 | 0:04:37 | |
but Greg was upfront from the start he was on his way back down under. | 0:04:37 | 0:04:41 | |
I don't think either of us really went into it thinking, | 0:04:41 | 0:04:45 | |
"This is going to be a long-term relationship." | 0:04:45 | 0:04:48 | |
Then as it got more serious and as I started to feel more for him | 0:04:48 | 0:04:52 | |
I started to get a bit more worried he was going to up and leave me. | 0:04:52 | 0:04:56 | |
I was like, "OK." | 0:04:56 | 0:04:58 | |
Within two weeks of meeting, | 0:04:58 | 0:05:00 | |
Greg was begging Jenni to join him for a new life in New Zealand. | 0:05:00 | 0:05:03 | |
As their relationship blossomed | 0:05:03 | 0:05:05 | |
she was clear her heart lay in the UK. | 0:05:05 | 0:05:09 | |
I fell in love with Jen, and the more I was falling in love with Jen | 0:05:09 | 0:05:12 | |
the more the dream was slipping away at the same time. | 0:05:12 | 0:05:14 | |
And then Jen was going, "Stay, don't go back. We can have a good life here." | 0:05:14 | 0:05:18 | |
And I was just obviously torn. | 0:05:18 | 0:05:21 | |
And then obviously I decided to stay with Jen. | 0:05:21 | 0:05:24 | |
Choosing love over the Kiwi lifestyle, Greg settled down to start | 0:05:26 | 0:05:29 | |
a new home with Jenni, and took on her daughter Evie as his own. | 0:05:29 | 0:05:33 | |
The couple married in 2013, | 0:05:33 | 0:05:36 | |
but Greg's dream of a life in New Zealand hasn't disappeared. | 0:05:36 | 0:05:40 | |
I think at the point where Jen wasn't as keen as I was, | 0:05:40 | 0:05:43 | |
it was a blow, but it never really went away for me. | 0:05:43 | 0:05:46 | |
I want to make a home in New Zealand more than anything in the world. | 0:05:46 | 0:05:51 | |
While he fell in love with the country as a single man, | 0:05:51 | 0:05:54 | |
he believes it's the ideal place for his new family to settle. | 0:05:54 | 0:05:58 | |
When I lived in New Zealand I felt it was perfect for me. | 0:06:00 | 0:06:03 | |
I remember walking through towns, parks, beaches - kids everywhere, | 0:06:03 | 0:06:07 | |
and they were all incredibly happy, and I remember just thinking | 0:06:07 | 0:06:10 | |
to myself all the time, "This is a brilliant place to raise a family." | 0:06:10 | 0:06:13 | |
With Jenni expecting, the family will soon outgrow their current home. | 0:06:16 | 0:06:19 | |
And Greg believes it's the ideal opportunity | 0:06:19 | 0:06:22 | |
to kick-start his dream once again. | 0:06:22 | 0:06:24 | |
It's only two bedrooms. | 0:06:26 | 0:06:27 | |
If we have another child it would be very difficult. | 0:06:27 | 0:06:31 | |
The living space is just not big enough. | 0:06:31 | 0:06:33 | |
It's not big enough as it is, to be fair. | 0:06:33 | 0:06:35 | |
-We are already overflowing, aren't we? -Yeah. | 0:06:35 | 0:06:37 | |
Instead of using the money we have got to move to a bigger house, | 0:06:37 | 0:06:40 | |
we could potentially use that money to emigrate to New Zealand. | 0:06:40 | 0:06:44 | |
Knowing how passionate her husband is about making a home | 0:06:44 | 0:06:47 | |
on the other side of the world, Jenni's prepared to give it a shot. | 0:06:47 | 0:06:51 | |
If we can make it work, finance, job-wise, quality-of-life-wise, | 0:06:52 | 0:06:56 | |
now would be a good time. | 0:06:56 | 0:06:58 | |
But she's already losing sleep thinking about leaving her family behind. | 0:06:58 | 0:07:03 | |
I wake up in the middle of the night, or I'll be talking to one | 0:07:03 | 0:07:07 | |
of my family or friends who are saying, "Oh, we're going to miss you." | 0:07:07 | 0:07:10 | |
And I crumble and go, "Oh, I don't know if I can do this." | 0:07:10 | 0:07:14 | |
And taking Evie away from her parents is also causing concern. | 0:07:16 | 0:07:19 | |
It's one of the things that holds me back, | 0:07:19 | 0:07:22 | |
thinking that Evie is not going to have that relationship | 0:07:22 | 0:07:25 | |
with her grandparents that I really want her to have. | 0:07:25 | 0:07:29 | |
Leaving loved ones could be hard for Greg too. | 0:07:29 | 0:07:33 | |
He's only recently reconciled with his mum. | 0:07:33 | 0:07:35 | |
The hardest person for me to leave behind would probably be... | 0:07:35 | 0:07:39 | |
Sorry. | 0:07:39 | 0:07:40 | |
It's probably... | 0:07:40 | 0:07:42 | |
It's probably going to be my mum. | 0:07:42 | 0:07:46 | |
I didn't talk to my mum for a number of years, | 0:07:46 | 0:07:49 | |
and since meeting Jen we've kind of got our relationship back, | 0:07:49 | 0:07:52 | |
so I'm kind of nervous about chucking that away again. | 0:07:52 | 0:07:56 | |
That's tough for me. | 0:07:57 | 0:07:59 | |
For four years, Greg's been desperate | 0:07:59 | 0:08:01 | |
to make a permanent return to New Zealand. | 0:08:01 | 0:08:04 | |
Now he has a week to see if the country he fell for as a backpacker | 0:08:04 | 0:08:07 | |
is as good as he remembers, | 0:08:07 | 0:08:09 | |
and convince his wife to start again on the other side of the world. | 0:08:09 | 0:08:13 | |
To move to New Zealand is a risk, it's a massive risk, it's a gamble. | 0:08:15 | 0:08:19 | |
I'm not going to lie about it. | 0:08:19 | 0:08:20 | |
This will definitely prove to us whether I was kind of looking at it | 0:08:20 | 0:08:23 | |
from 12,000 miles away through rose-tinted spectacles. | 0:08:23 | 0:08:27 | |
For me and Greg, it's about whether or not we put our roots down | 0:08:27 | 0:08:31 | |
and really commit to our life here, | 0:08:31 | 0:08:33 | |
or whether we commit to a life in New Zealand. | 0:08:33 | 0:08:36 | |
So the rest of our life feels on hold until we've made that decision. | 0:08:36 | 0:08:40 | |
Greg, Jenni and Evie are spending their trial week in Auckland, | 0:08:49 | 0:08:53 | |
home to a third of all New Zealanders. | 0:08:53 | 0:08:56 | |
Their base for the week is situated in Milford, | 0:08:56 | 0:08:58 | |
on the city's north shore. | 0:08:58 | 0:09:00 | |
Will her first taste of Kiwi living work its charms on Jenni? | 0:09:00 | 0:09:04 | |
Wow. It looks lovely. | 0:09:06 | 0:09:08 | |
Upstairs, the open-plan kitchen | 0:09:08 | 0:09:10 | |
and living area make a good first impression. | 0:09:10 | 0:09:13 | |
Wow, that's amazing. | 0:09:13 | 0:09:15 | |
Look at the view from here, Jen. | 0:09:15 | 0:09:16 | |
As they settle in, Greg's overjoyed to have finally got Jenni to New Zealand. | 0:09:16 | 0:09:20 | |
It's took four years to get Jen to this point. | 0:09:20 | 0:09:24 | |
I can't believe it's all boiled down to this. | 0:09:24 | 0:09:27 | |
But she's anxious about the week ahead. | 0:09:27 | 0:09:29 | |
Deciding on the rest of my life at the end of this week | 0:09:29 | 0:09:32 | |
is quite a scary prospect. | 0:09:32 | 0:09:34 | |
It's scary. | 0:09:34 | 0:09:37 | |
Greg feels he's in prime position to convince her to make the move. | 0:09:37 | 0:09:40 | |
I think this is the best chance of persuading Jen to move out here | 0:09:41 | 0:09:45 | |
because, for me, walking upstairs here | 0:09:45 | 0:09:47 | |
and looking at this view of the city from, you know, | 0:09:47 | 0:09:49 | |
the most beautiful country in the world, it sold me. | 0:09:49 | 0:09:53 | |
I've just got to try and get Jen over the line. | 0:09:53 | 0:09:55 | |
But while Jenni accepts how much this all means to her husband... | 0:09:55 | 0:09:59 | |
It's always been his dream, it's been what he wants to do, | 0:09:59 | 0:10:01 | |
and he put all of that on hold for me, so I owe it to him to try. | 0:10:01 | 0:10:05 | |
She's in no mood to bow to pressure. | 0:10:05 | 0:10:07 | |
He's going to have to allow me time to think, | 0:10:08 | 0:10:11 | |
and not just keep saying to me, "Look at this, isn't this great? | 0:10:11 | 0:10:14 | |
"Look at this, isn't that great?" | 0:10:14 | 0:10:15 | |
He needs to not try and force his viewpoint on to me. | 0:10:15 | 0:10:20 | |
Greg's got an uphill struggle on his hands if he is to finally make his dream come true. | 0:10:21 | 0:10:26 | |
This is it. This is, like, you know, make or break for me. | 0:10:26 | 0:10:29 | |
The next week will decide where the family will spend the rest of their lives. | 0:10:29 | 0:10:33 | |
Back in the UK, the Wallens live in a two-bedroom house in Sheffield. | 0:10:39 | 0:10:43 | |
We do like living here, and we do like the area, | 0:10:43 | 0:10:46 | |
but it's just not big enough for our needs any more. | 0:10:46 | 0:10:49 | |
-We've outgrown it, haven't we? -Yeah. | 0:10:49 | 0:10:51 | |
Jenny's fond of an aspect of their current home | 0:10:51 | 0:10:53 | |
that Greg feels could help his cause. | 0:10:53 | 0:10:56 | |
I like the open-plan living, I like the fact we've got two toilets. | 0:10:56 | 0:10:59 | |
-You'd like New Zealand, then, that's very open-plan living. -Yeah, that's good. | 0:11:00 | 0:11:04 | |
But there might be a difference of opinion in what a Kiwi home has to have. | 0:11:04 | 0:11:09 | |
At least three bedrooms, two bathrooms, | 0:11:09 | 0:11:13 | |
preferably one of those is en-suite. | 0:11:13 | 0:11:14 | |
-A wood burner. We can put the wood burner in! -It's a must for me. | 0:11:14 | 0:11:19 | |
-You say it's not a deal-breaker, but it could be. -We can put one in! | 0:11:21 | 0:11:24 | |
We can't change sizes of rooms! | 0:11:24 | 0:11:26 | |
The Wallens have £250,000 to spend on a Kiwi house. | 0:11:28 | 0:11:33 | |
Today we'll show them three properties - | 0:11:33 | 0:11:35 | |
two on budget and a third which could be their dream home. | 0:11:35 | 0:11:39 | |
Only after they've seen each one will they find out its value. | 0:11:39 | 0:11:42 | |
For the first viewing, the family drive about an hour south of Auckland to Waiuku. | 0:11:46 | 0:11:50 | |
Close to a park and the local primary school, | 0:11:52 | 0:11:54 | |
will this four-bedroom property be a good fit for the Wallens? | 0:11:54 | 0:11:58 | |
The house's kerb appeal gets the viewing off on the right foot. | 0:11:59 | 0:12:03 | |
What do you reckon, love? | 0:12:03 | 0:12:05 | |
That looks very nice. | 0:12:05 | 0:12:06 | |
And Evie quickly makes a friend. | 0:12:06 | 0:12:09 | |
-Good girl. -Oh-h-h. -Cat! | 0:12:09 | 0:12:11 | |
-A cat, is that a winner for you now, then, Evie? -Yes! -Yes! | 0:12:11 | 0:12:15 | |
Everything is going swimmingly until they step into the first bedroom. | 0:12:15 | 0:12:19 | |
-I don't like it. -Why? -It's hideous. -What don't you like about it? | 0:12:19 | 0:12:22 | |
Right. It's cold, the floor feels damp, | 0:12:22 | 0:12:25 | |
I reckon the place has got rising damp, it needs a rewire. | 0:12:25 | 0:12:27 | |
And I don't know... I just don't like it, full stop. | 0:12:27 | 0:12:30 | |
Straight away, this house is falling | 0:12:30 | 0:12:32 | |
far short of what Greg had been hoping for. | 0:12:32 | 0:12:35 | |
Wow, that's... Oh-h-h! | 0:12:35 | 0:12:39 | |
And the next bedroom doesn't help. | 0:12:39 | 0:12:41 | |
I don't like the feel of it, Jen. | 0:12:41 | 0:12:43 | |
We've got to come 12,000 miles, | 0:12:43 | 0:12:45 | |
both our new jobs, with two children, | 0:12:45 | 0:12:47 | |
integrate into life and then we've got to sort the house out as well. | 0:12:47 | 0:12:50 | |
Do you know what I mean? I just think it's a bit of a tall order. | 0:12:50 | 0:12:53 | |
Oh, dear. It's not looking good. | 0:12:53 | 0:12:55 | |
So you don't want a renovation project? | 0:12:55 | 0:12:57 | |
-It's going to be too much for me, Jen. -OK. | 0:12:57 | 0:12:59 | |
Let's go to see what else this place has got to offer, | 0:12:59 | 0:13:01 | |
because I'm not really happy at the minute. | 0:13:01 | 0:13:03 | |
The next two bedrooms are downstairs. | 0:13:03 | 0:13:05 | |
Oh, this is nice! | 0:13:05 | 0:13:07 | |
This is lovely. I like this exposed brick. | 0:13:07 | 0:13:10 | |
-Do you prefer this bedroom to the ones upstairs? -Yeah. | 0:13:10 | 0:13:14 | |
It's an improvement, but Greg's expectations just aren't being met. | 0:13:14 | 0:13:18 | |
It's just it's not the image I had in my head of moving to New Zealand. | 0:13:19 | 0:13:22 | |
It's far from it. | 0:13:22 | 0:13:24 | |
I can't, I'm not going to raise my kids in a place like this. I just... | 0:13:24 | 0:13:28 | |
I'm shellshocked, to say the least, to be honest with you. | 0:13:28 | 0:13:31 | |
And disappointment quickly turns to despair. | 0:13:31 | 0:13:34 | |
I'm worried, Jen. Really, really worried. | 0:13:34 | 0:13:37 | |
This is... I've got... | 0:13:41 | 0:13:44 | |
I'm actually really scared this is not going to work. | 0:13:44 | 0:13:47 | |
Really scared it's not going to work. | 0:13:47 | 0:13:49 | |
I don't know. Where are we going, left? | 0:13:53 | 0:13:55 | |
Upstairs, the living room does show more promise. | 0:13:55 | 0:13:58 | |
Boy, this is much better. | 0:14:00 | 0:14:02 | |
Yeah. I didn't expect this! It's got the log burner. | 0:14:04 | 0:14:08 | |
That's one of your requirements, a log burner. | 0:14:08 | 0:14:10 | |
I don't think we're going to need a log burner. | 0:14:10 | 0:14:12 | |
-Was it a long burner you wanted? -Yes, it was, dear. -Was it? Oh. | 0:14:12 | 0:14:15 | |
Wasn't quite sure. You'd not said it enough. | 0:14:15 | 0:14:17 | |
And the kitchen comes up trumps. | 0:14:17 | 0:14:19 | |
-Nice big kitchen. -Nice, isn't it? | 0:14:19 | 0:14:22 | |
Until electrical engineer Greg spots some dubious wiring. | 0:14:22 | 0:14:25 | |
Oh, my God! | 0:14:26 | 0:14:28 | |
Look at it. Look at that! | 0:14:28 | 0:14:30 | |
Back home, that would be uninsurable. | 0:14:30 | 0:14:32 | |
This house clearly isn't the one for the Wallens, | 0:14:32 | 0:14:35 | |
so just how close does it come to the family's £250,000 budget? | 0:14:35 | 0:14:40 | |
Right, the moment of truth. | 0:14:40 | 0:14:42 | |
How much do you think? | 0:14:43 | 0:14:44 | |
160? I'll go a bit higher, £170,000. | 0:14:46 | 0:14:49 | |
-Probably be on for about 200,000 in Sheffield. -Come on, think positive. | 0:14:49 | 0:14:53 | |
£165,000. | 0:14:53 | 0:14:54 | |
Go on, do it. | 0:14:58 | 0:15:00 | |
£261,000. | 0:15:00 | 0:15:02 | |
That's £11,000 over budget. | 0:15:03 | 0:15:05 | |
It's like a bleeding lease, isn't it? | 0:15:07 | 0:15:08 | |
-Looking like we're not moving for the house! -261 grand for this. | 0:15:08 | 0:15:11 | |
This has made me feel sick with worry about the rest of this week, to be honest. | 0:15:11 | 0:15:15 | |
I knew we were going to be in for an emotional few days. | 0:15:15 | 0:15:17 | |
The price of Auckland property is hitting home for Greg. | 0:15:18 | 0:15:22 | |
Will property two be more up his street? | 0:15:22 | 0:15:24 | |
Just a 20-minute drive to the east is Pukekohe, | 0:15:27 | 0:15:30 | |
a town offering a relaxed way of life, | 0:15:30 | 0:15:32 | |
yet within an hour's commute of Auckland's city centre. | 0:15:32 | 0:15:36 | |
Wow, look at this front garden. | 0:15:38 | 0:15:40 | |
From the outside, this three-bedroom home makes a much better impression. | 0:15:40 | 0:15:44 | |
I definitely like this area more. | 0:15:44 | 0:15:46 | |
It's got a much better view, much better feel about it. | 0:15:46 | 0:15:49 | |
Yeah, this is good. | 0:15:49 | 0:15:50 | |
Inside... | 0:15:50 | 0:15:52 | |
Oh, this is a nice little hall, this feels more modern. | 0:15:52 | 0:15:55 | |
..Greg's mood continues to lift. | 0:15:55 | 0:15:56 | |
Oh, this is a nice bedroom, isn't it? Yeah, this is nice. | 0:15:57 | 0:16:01 | |
Positive first sign. Doesn't feel damp, doesn't feel cold. | 0:16:01 | 0:16:05 | |
Yeah, it's quite a good start. | 0:16:05 | 0:16:07 | |
And Evie's happy too. | 0:16:07 | 0:16:09 | |
-Really, really, really good! -Yay! | 0:16:09 | 0:16:11 | |
Next door, bedroom two also pleases. | 0:16:11 | 0:16:14 | |
Oh, another bedroom. This is a nice-sized child's room, isn't it? | 0:16:15 | 0:16:19 | |
Yeah, it's good. I'm happy. | 0:16:19 | 0:16:21 | |
This house is winning Greg's approval, | 0:16:21 | 0:16:23 | |
but the floor plan could be a stumbling block for Jenni. | 0:16:23 | 0:16:27 | |
I'm glad there is a third bedroom, | 0:16:27 | 0:16:28 | |
but I'm not sure how I feel about it being off the dining room. | 0:16:28 | 0:16:32 | |
And she's no happier in the kitchen. | 0:16:32 | 0:16:34 | |
I'd redo it. | 0:16:35 | 0:16:37 | |
-The lot? -Yeah. -Really? -Yeah. | 0:16:37 | 0:16:40 | |
Outside, the garden doesn't impress either. | 0:16:41 | 0:16:43 | |
It's a bit pokey, isn't it? | 0:16:45 | 0:16:46 | |
So, basically, then, the garden for kids is at the front. | 0:16:46 | 0:16:49 | |
-It's not enough, is it? -No. | 0:16:50 | 0:16:52 | |
This house has won praise and criticism in equal measure, | 0:16:52 | 0:16:56 | |
but could Greg and Jenni afford it with their budget of £250,000? | 0:16:56 | 0:17:01 | |
For us to flip that card over and keep the dream alive, | 0:17:01 | 0:17:04 | |
it's got to be under 200, I'm thinking 180-ish. | 0:17:04 | 0:17:09 | |
So, what do you think it's worth? | 0:17:09 | 0:17:10 | |
Based on the last property, I'm going to say about 250. | 0:17:10 | 0:17:14 | |
Go for it. | 0:17:17 | 0:17:18 | |
251,000. | 0:17:22 | 0:17:23 | |
That's £1,000 over budget. | 0:17:24 | 0:17:26 | |
No, absolutely not. | 0:17:27 | 0:17:28 | |
Maybe I was looking at it with rose-tinted spectacles. | 0:17:28 | 0:17:31 | |
Maybe I was thinking the grass was definitely greener on the other side. | 0:17:31 | 0:17:34 | |
Now I'm kind of like, to be brutally honest, "Oh, my God, what have I done?" | 0:17:34 | 0:17:39 | |
The possibility his dream could be slipping away | 0:17:39 | 0:17:42 | |
proves too much for an emotional Greg. | 0:17:42 | 0:17:44 | |
So far the property hunt has brought doubt and disappointment, | 0:17:49 | 0:17:52 | |
but there is still one more property to view. | 0:17:52 | 0:17:55 | |
Also in Pukekohe, we found what could be Greg and Jenny's dream home. | 0:17:56 | 0:18:00 | |
Will it be the one to turn around their property fortunes, | 0:18:00 | 0:18:04 | |
and get Greg's dream back on track? | 0:18:04 | 0:18:06 | |
-Wow. -OK. -This is much better, isn't it? | 0:18:08 | 0:18:11 | |
This much more like what I would like. | 0:18:11 | 0:18:14 | |
Inside, Greg's expectations are at last being met. | 0:18:14 | 0:18:18 | |
This is the image I had in my head. This is what I wanted you to see. | 0:18:18 | 0:18:21 | |
-Spot on. -Lovely. -Perfect. | 0:18:21 | 0:18:22 | |
The spacious kitchen with its granite worktops | 0:18:23 | 0:18:26 | |
has both Greg and Jenni excited. | 0:18:26 | 0:18:28 | |
Oh, this is amazing, isn't it? | 0:18:28 | 0:18:30 | |
-This is such a nice finish. -Nicely laid out. -Nicely laid out. | 0:18:30 | 0:18:34 | |
Large enough. | 0:18:34 | 0:18:35 | |
And a second living room hits the spot. | 0:18:36 | 0:18:39 | |
-This is a lovely family lounge. This is huge. -Wow. | 0:18:39 | 0:18:44 | |
I have noticed the one thing it doesn't have that you wanted. | 0:18:44 | 0:18:47 | |
-Log burner. -Yeah. -I'm willing to sack the log burner off. | 0:18:49 | 0:18:52 | |
That's a fair compromise, Greg! | 0:18:52 | 0:18:54 | |
This is the New Zealand house that I had in my head. | 0:18:54 | 0:18:58 | |
-It's revived the dream, hasn't it? -Yeah. | 0:18:58 | 0:19:00 | |
The first three bedrooms continue to impress. | 0:19:00 | 0:19:04 | |
-It's a nice... -This is nice. -I would say I'm sold on it. | 0:19:04 | 0:19:07 | |
Well, yeah, it's a lovely sized room. | 0:19:07 | 0:19:10 | |
Nice window looking out over the back garden. | 0:19:10 | 0:19:12 | |
It ticks every box and more. | 0:19:12 | 0:19:14 | |
-Look at this for Evie. -This is perfect for Evie. | 0:19:14 | 0:19:16 | |
-She'd absolutely love it. -The dream could be alive. | 0:19:16 | 0:19:19 | |
But Greg's beginning to worry if they could afford to call this house home. | 0:19:19 | 0:19:24 | |
I've got a feeling we're going to get absolutely smashed on price. | 0:19:24 | 0:19:27 | |
Money worries seem a distant memory, though, | 0:19:27 | 0:19:30 | |
as the master bedroom seals the deal. | 0:19:30 | 0:19:33 | |
Oh, this is perfect. | 0:19:33 | 0:19:34 | |
You can't tell me this does not beat hands down every house | 0:19:34 | 0:19:37 | |
-we looked at in Sheffield over the last two years. -Yeah, it does. | 0:19:37 | 0:19:40 | |
It's a room that just keeps on giving. | 0:19:40 | 0:19:43 | |
-Oh! -A walk-in wardrobe. | 0:19:43 | 0:19:45 | |
-A walk-in, not just a built-in! Oh, wow! -Mind-blowing. | 0:19:45 | 0:19:49 | |
Oh, en-suite! Oh, this is nice. | 0:19:51 | 0:19:54 | |
I'm still speechless! | 0:19:54 | 0:19:57 | |
It's perfect. | 0:19:57 | 0:19:58 | |
And outside, the garden's picture-perfect. | 0:19:58 | 0:20:02 | |
That view is stunning. | 0:20:02 | 0:20:03 | |
-Couldn't ask for more, really, could you? -No. | 0:20:04 | 0:20:07 | |
This really could be Greg and Jenni's dream home. | 0:20:07 | 0:20:10 | |
Time to find out if it's within reach of their £250,000 budget. | 0:20:10 | 0:20:15 | |
This is my dream New Zealand house. | 0:20:15 | 0:20:17 | |
If we flip this card over now, it comes in 350, 400,000... | 0:20:17 | 0:20:21 | |
Basically, if it works out financially, | 0:20:21 | 0:20:23 | |
-and the lifestyle is good... -We're on. | 0:20:23 | 0:20:25 | |
Even if, even if this costs us so much that we couldn't really afford, | 0:20:25 | 0:20:31 | |
at least in the short term, to be saving up to go home, | 0:20:31 | 0:20:35 | |
I like this house so much | 0:20:35 | 0:20:37 | |
that I'm thinking we'll deal with it for the time being. | 0:20:37 | 0:20:40 | |
Right. This is it, darling. | 0:20:40 | 0:20:42 | |
£400,000. | 0:20:42 | 0:20:43 | |
-I think someone should look at this card. -OK. | 0:20:51 | 0:20:54 | |
Oh, my God! | 0:20:57 | 0:20:58 | |
-What? -331,000! -Really? -That is cheap, really! | 0:20:59 | 0:21:05 | |
That's £81,000 over budget. | 0:21:05 | 0:21:08 | |
It's looking positive at that, isn't it? | 0:21:08 | 0:21:10 | |
If we can get a decent wage, that is all my dreams and more, | 0:21:10 | 0:21:14 | |
and anything I could have hoped for, come true. | 0:21:14 | 0:21:16 | |
That's how much it means to me. | 0:21:16 | 0:21:18 | |
Greg's delighted. if he can secure the job to pay for this property, | 0:21:20 | 0:21:24 | |
his dream really could be back on track. | 0:21:24 | 0:21:27 | |
It's been a day that taken Greg on a journey from desperation to hope. | 0:21:28 | 0:21:32 | |
Property one caused concern with potential damp issues | 0:21:33 | 0:21:36 | |
and outdated wiring. | 0:21:36 | 0:21:38 | |
Property two failed to impress, with the garden deemed far too small. | 0:21:38 | 0:21:42 | |
But property three raised the bar with wow factor living areas | 0:21:43 | 0:21:47 | |
and scenic views. | 0:21:47 | 0:21:48 | |
So when it comes to property, will the family vote home or away? | 0:21:48 | 0:21:52 | |
Based on all the properties we've seen today, our vote goes to... | 0:21:53 | 0:21:57 | |
Three, two, one. | 0:22:01 | 0:22:03 | |
-UK. -Undecided. | 0:22:03 | 0:22:04 | |
Where do you want to go? | 0:22:05 | 0:22:07 | |
My house! | 0:22:09 | 0:22:10 | |
Why were you undecided? | 0:22:11 | 0:22:14 | |
That last house we saw was just ideal, and in England, | 0:22:14 | 0:22:18 | |
we would never be able to afford that, but if the finances | 0:22:18 | 0:22:23 | |
over here mean that we could afford that, then I would be New Zealand. | 0:22:23 | 0:22:28 | |
We'll find out tomorrow whether we can afford it or not. | 0:22:28 | 0:22:31 | |
And if we can, it'll flip straight to New Zealand, but at the moment, | 0:22:31 | 0:22:35 | |
I need to put my thinking, logical head on, | 0:22:35 | 0:22:38 | |
and my logical head at the moment says to stay in the UK. | 0:22:38 | 0:22:41 | |
Greg may have found the perfect pad, | 0:22:49 | 0:22:51 | |
but if the couple are to afford it, finding well-paid jobs will be vital. | 0:22:51 | 0:22:56 | |
Back in the UK, Greg's an electrical engineer | 0:23:00 | 0:23:03 | |
and runs his own business fitting and testing electrical safety equipment. | 0:23:03 | 0:23:07 | |
Absolutely love it. | 0:23:07 | 0:23:09 | |
Used to work for a company, which I enjoyed, but I thought I could | 0:23:09 | 0:23:13 | |
do better on my own, and business at the moment's really, really busy. | 0:23:13 | 0:23:16 | |
Currently booked out for the next sort of three months solid. | 0:23:16 | 0:23:19 | |
In New Zealand, he'd be keen to become an employee again, | 0:23:19 | 0:23:22 | |
hoping that would improve his work-life balance. | 0:23:22 | 0:23:25 | |
I hope kind of to work around the 40 to 50 hours a week | 0:23:25 | 0:23:29 | |
in New Zealand for a company. | 0:23:29 | 0:23:31 | |
Weekends and evenings off, ideally, so I can get some more time | 0:23:31 | 0:23:34 | |
with my family, which I currently don't have always. | 0:23:34 | 0:23:37 | |
Jenni, meanwhile, is a social worker dealing with child protection. | 0:23:37 | 0:23:41 | |
I love, in my job, the thought of helping people. | 0:23:41 | 0:23:45 | |
I'm helping children to make sure that they have the greatest start in life they can. | 0:23:45 | 0:23:51 | |
To sign off on a move, she'd need to be sure her career prospects weren't hindered. | 0:23:51 | 0:23:56 | |
The next step forward, if I was to remain in the UK, would be | 0:23:56 | 0:23:59 | |
looking at a management role, | 0:23:59 | 0:24:01 | |
and that's what I would be looking for maybe in New Zealand. | 0:24:01 | 0:24:04 | |
Hard on the heels of discovering how expensive property can be | 0:24:07 | 0:24:10 | |
in Auckland, today's job search comes with added pressure. | 0:24:10 | 0:24:14 | |
-Don't come back with less than 100,000. -OK. | 0:24:14 | 0:24:16 | |
While Evie's looked after by a childminder, | 0:24:16 | 0:24:18 | |
the couple set off to investigate their work prospects. | 0:24:18 | 0:24:21 | |
It's a big day for Greg's dream, and he is feeling the strain. | 0:24:21 | 0:24:25 | |
The paramount thing is money. | 0:24:25 | 0:24:27 | |
If we've got enough money to look at buying something like | 0:24:27 | 0:24:30 | |
house three that we saw yesterday, | 0:24:30 | 0:24:32 | |
I'm pretty sure we'd all vote yes at the end of the week. | 0:24:32 | 0:24:35 | |
Greg's meeting Dave Bird who runs an electrical company currently fitting out a new housing complex. | 0:24:35 | 0:24:40 | |
This here is a block of probably the first 15 apartments | 0:24:42 | 0:24:44 | |
that we've just started pre-wiring. | 0:24:44 | 0:24:46 | |
Straight away, he's keen to hear if his qualifications would be recognised in New Zealand. | 0:24:46 | 0:24:50 | |
When you come out here, you're going to have to | 0:24:51 | 0:24:53 | |
-submit all your qualifications to the Electrical Wiring Regulation Board. -Yeah. | 0:24:53 | 0:24:57 | |
Which they'll probably accept if you've done your City & Guilds, I assume you have. | 0:24:57 | 0:25:01 | |
Yeah. Is that transferable out here or...? | 0:25:01 | 0:25:03 | |
It is, but then you still have to sit your regulations exam. | 0:25:03 | 0:25:07 | |
But how likely would Greg be to find work? | 0:25:07 | 0:25:10 | |
I would say that a qualified electrician is normally never | 0:25:10 | 0:25:13 | |
-out of work, a good one is never out of work. -OK. | 0:25:13 | 0:25:16 | |
That sounds encouraging. | 0:25:16 | 0:25:17 | |
Meanwhile across town, | 0:25:17 | 0:25:19 | |
Jenni is visiting a charity which provides social work services. | 0:25:19 | 0:25:23 | |
She is met by practice leader Sinnett, | 0:25:23 | 0:25:25 | |
a South African who recently migrated from the UK. | 0:25:25 | 0:25:28 | |
How easy did you find it to find a social worker job? | 0:25:30 | 0:25:32 | |
It depends on what you want to do. | 0:25:32 | 0:25:35 | |
What I found is, you have much more choice here | 0:25:35 | 0:25:38 | |
around the kind of social worker you want to be. | 0:25:38 | 0:25:42 | |
In the UK, it's a lot of child-protection focus. | 0:25:42 | 0:25:45 | |
Here, it's a lot more focus on early intervention. | 0:25:45 | 0:25:49 | |
Sinnett tells Jenni settling into Kiwi life isn't difficult. | 0:25:49 | 0:25:53 | |
Yeah, it's been a good experience. | 0:25:53 | 0:25:55 | |
I think people in New Zealand are very welcoming. | 0:25:55 | 0:25:59 | |
My husband had some friends here and they were just very welcoming | 0:25:59 | 0:26:03 | |
and I've made some really great friends at work. | 0:26:03 | 0:26:06 | |
That should be reassuring. | 0:26:06 | 0:26:09 | |
Back at the building site, Greg is getting down to the nitty-gritty | 0:26:09 | 0:26:12 | |
and asks about Dave's employees' working week. | 0:26:12 | 0:26:15 | |
-Generally, it's a 40-hour week. -Yeah. | 0:26:16 | 0:26:18 | |
But because most of the guys work a nine to ten hour day, | 0:26:18 | 0:26:22 | |
you can easily knock in 50 hours a week. | 0:26:22 | 0:26:25 | |
The hours are what he hoped for but what about the bottom line, | 0:26:25 | 0:26:29 | |
Greg's potential earnings? | 0:26:29 | 0:26:31 | |
Between the 60s and you could easily go up to the 80 plus. | 0:26:31 | 0:26:34 | |
That's around £35,000, significantly more than the £25,000 | 0:26:34 | 0:26:39 | |
-he currently earns at home. -That's good. | 0:26:39 | 0:26:42 | |
That's a bit more like what I was hoping for. | 0:26:42 | 0:26:45 | |
Greg is delighted with what he has discovered today, | 0:26:45 | 0:26:47 | |
but he knows everything now rests on how Jenni fares. | 0:26:47 | 0:26:50 | |
We need her to be up around the 100,000 mark to make it work for us. | 0:26:51 | 0:26:56 | |
With the overtime here, we're nestled nicely for myself, | 0:26:56 | 0:27:00 | |
so if Jen gets what we think she's going to get | 0:27:00 | 0:27:03 | |
in a managerial position, I think we're on to a winner. | 0:27:03 | 0:27:07 | |
It's crunch time for Jenni as she meet senior manager Elizabeth Walker. | 0:27:07 | 0:27:12 | |
So you would come in at a senior practitioner level. | 0:27:12 | 0:27:15 | |
-Are you interested in the salary range? -Yes, definitely. | 0:27:15 | 0:27:20 | |
It's quite a broad range. | 0:27:20 | 0:27:21 | |
It starts at 53 and moves up to around 63, the mid-60s. | 0:27:21 | 0:27:26 | |
-Is that New Zealand dollars? -Yes. | 0:27:26 | 0:27:27 | |
Even at the top of the bracket, | 0:27:30 | 0:27:32 | |
Jenni would see her income fall from around £31,000 to £27,000. | 0:27:32 | 0:27:37 | |
How sought-after are social work roles? | 0:27:38 | 0:27:41 | |
It has become extremely competitive. | 0:27:41 | 0:27:44 | |
My last recruitment effort, we had one social work vacancy. | 0:27:44 | 0:27:48 | |
We had 72 applicants, so it wouldn't be easy, | 0:27:48 | 0:27:51 | |
but you could secure employment. | 0:27:51 | 0:27:54 | |
Jenni breaks the bad news when she catches up with Greg later on. | 0:27:54 | 0:27:58 | |
I wouldn't be earning as much as we thought, basically, | 0:27:58 | 0:28:01 | |
so that was the kick in the teeth. | 0:28:01 | 0:28:04 | |
If you came... | 0:28:04 | 0:28:07 | |
Greg shares what he learned. | 0:28:08 | 0:28:10 | |
I'd be looking at about 60, 65,000. | 0:28:10 | 0:28:13 | |
If I did overtime, I'd be looking at around 80,000. | 0:28:13 | 0:28:16 | |
So actually, in one respect, it's not as good news for me | 0:28:16 | 0:28:20 | |
but it's much better news for you in terms of finances? | 0:28:20 | 0:28:23 | |
Yes. | 0:28:23 | 0:28:25 | |
So, after a day of mixed fortunes, how will the couple vote | 0:28:25 | 0:28:28 | |
when it comes to work in New Zealand versus the UK? | 0:28:28 | 0:28:33 | |
So, based on the jobs we've seen today, our vote is... | 0:28:33 | 0:28:37 | |
-New Zealand. -New Zealand. Why did you do that? | 0:28:42 | 0:28:46 | |
Well, I know why you've done it, | 0:28:46 | 0:28:47 | |
because it was really good news for you. | 0:28:47 | 0:28:50 | |
Your news actually makes me think, maybe I can be the one | 0:28:50 | 0:28:53 | |
who works part-time and you can be the one to work full-time. | 0:28:53 | 0:28:57 | |
I'd have to do a few more hours than I was hoping to | 0:28:57 | 0:29:00 | |
but we've always done what we have to do to make it work. | 0:29:00 | 0:29:02 | |
Greg may have had a shaky start to his week | 0:29:10 | 0:29:13 | |
but a vote for New Zealand from Jenni, despite a drop in salary, | 0:29:13 | 0:29:17 | |
means his dream could be back on track. | 0:29:17 | 0:29:20 | |
New Zealand's famed for its family-friendly lifestyle | 0:29:20 | 0:29:23 | |
so a day sampling some Auckland activities | 0:29:23 | 0:29:26 | |
could be just what's needed to land another vote in his favour. | 0:29:26 | 0:29:30 | |
The family kick off the day with a visit to a French market | 0:29:35 | 0:29:37 | |
in Parnell, just east of the city centre. | 0:29:37 | 0:29:40 | |
It has been voted one of Auckland's best food markets | 0:29:40 | 0:29:43 | |
and they're soon tucking in. | 0:29:43 | 0:29:45 | |
Mozzarella? That's nice. | 0:29:47 | 0:29:49 | |
It's the kind of family day out | 0:29:52 | 0:29:54 | |
Greg's hoping will be a regular occurrence. | 0:29:54 | 0:29:56 | |
Today is going absolutely swimmingly. | 0:29:56 | 0:29:59 | |
Seeing Evie here in New Zealand | 0:29:59 | 0:30:00 | |
and how she's been the last couple of days, wow! | 0:30:00 | 0:30:04 | |
It's just... It's tears of happiness, not sadness, | 0:30:04 | 0:30:08 | |
but seeing your children happy makes me happy. | 0:30:08 | 0:30:11 | |
The market is a place Jenni can imagine making a regular haunt. | 0:30:12 | 0:30:16 | |
Come here, have breakfast, get some fresh produce, | 0:30:17 | 0:30:21 | |
some wine and champagne to go in our hot tub | 0:30:21 | 0:30:24 | |
that we're going to have out the back of our house. | 0:30:24 | 0:30:28 | |
Why am I trying to convince you? | 0:30:28 | 0:30:30 | |
Are you beginning to change your mind a little bit? | 0:30:30 | 0:30:32 | |
This is good, it's progress. | 0:30:32 | 0:30:33 | |
I got my pain au chocolat! | 0:30:33 | 0:30:35 | |
Next, a trip to Auckland Zoo... | 0:30:35 | 0:30:37 | |
# We're going to the zoo, zoo, zoo, how about you, you, you? # | 0:30:37 | 0:30:41 | |
where Evie soon displays her wildlife knowledge. | 0:30:41 | 0:30:44 | |
Ostrich! | 0:30:44 | 0:30:46 | |
Penguin! | 0:30:46 | 0:30:48 | |
Look, zebra! | 0:30:48 | 0:30:50 | |
Oh, dear me. | 0:30:50 | 0:30:51 | |
-Giraffe! -Oh, look! | 0:30:51 | 0:30:55 | |
Thinking of Evie's future, Jenni's view | 0:30:55 | 0:30:57 | |
on moving to New Zealand could be softening. | 0:30:57 | 0:30:59 | |
Evie is loving New Zealand and I think I am starting | 0:31:01 | 0:31:05 | |
to feel very much that this would be ideal | 0:31:05 | 0:31:08 | |
for her and for our other child. | 0:31:08 | 0:31:10 | |
And Greg's beginning to feel confident his wife's coming around. | 0:31:10 | 0:31:14 | |
As the week's gone on, she's become more and more | 0:31:14 | 0:31:17 | |
and more sort of towards New Zealand. | 0:31:17 | 0:31:20 | |
I reckon the dream's still alive. | 0:31:20 | 0:31:22 | |
I kind of feel it's job almost done, but not quite there. | 0:31:22 | 0:31:25 | |
I've still got a little bit of apprehension. | 0:31:25 | 0:31:27 | |
Leaving loved ones though could still be an issue for both Jenni and Greg. | 0:31:27 | 0:31:31 | |
Mum's kind of been really, really supportive about the whole thing. | 0:31:31 | 0:31:34 | |
She keeps saying, you know, | 0:31:34 | 0:31:36 | |
"We're only a day away, worst-case scenario." Wow... | 0:31:36 | 0:31:40 | |
Um, you know, I need to do what's best for my family | 0:31:40 | 0:31:43 | |
and ultimately, that's what I need to do. | 0:31:43 | 0:31:45 | |
It's very easy to get caught up in the whole lifestyle and, | 0:31:45 | 0:31:48 | |
"Wouldn't this be great, wouldn't this be brilliant for us | 0:31:48 | 0:31:51 | |
"and for Evie," and, um... | 0:31:51 | 0:31:53 | |
But I've not yet really started to think about the impact | 0:31:53 | 0:31:56 | |
of leaving family and friends. | 0:31:56 | 0:31:58 | |
Thoughts of friends and family aside, it has been a fun day out. | 0:32:00 | 0:32:05 | |
So has the lifestyle in New Zealand proved a winner for Greg and Jenni? | 0:32:05 | 0:32:10 | |
Cast your vote! | 0:32:10 | 0:32:12 | |
-New Zealand! -New Zealand! | 0:32:20 | 0:32:22 | |
-New Zealand! -Good girl! -Yay! | 0:32:22 | 0:32:24 | |
I voted New Zealand cos look at the day we've had. | 0:32:24 | 0:32:27 | |
It's been relaxing and peaceful. | 0:32:27 | 0:32:29 | |
We've not been constantly worrying about the weather, | 0:32:29 | 0:32:31 | |
even though we're in autumn, nearly winter over here. | 0:32:31 | 0:32:34 | |
-And it's not been too costly. -It's a good feeling | 0:32:34 | 0:32:37 | |
but I was kind of 99.99% sure we were all going to... | 0:32:37 | 0:32:41 | |
-Enjoy the lifestyle. -We can't fault this, can we? -Can't fault it. | 0:32:41 | 0:32:44 | |
It's beautiful. | 0:32:44 | 0:32:46 | |
With two votes from Jenni for New Zealand, Greg's dream could be | 0:32:50 | 0:32:53 | |
within his reach. | 0:32:53 | 0:32:55 | |
But if it's to stand any chance of becoming a reality, | 0:32:55 | 0:32:58 | |
it's vital the finances stack up. | 0:32:58 | 0:33:00 | |
The couple feel their house in the UK is worth around £110,000. | 0:33:02 | 0:33:06 | |
To find out if they're right, we've sent round two estate agents. | 0:33:06 | 0:33:10 | |
Nice open plan living space. Neutrally decorated. | 0:33:10 | 0:33:14 | |
And nice windows that overlook the garden. | 0:33:14 | 0:33:17 | |
So, the kitchen looks well looked after | 0:33:17 | 0:33:19 | |
and also nice and modern as well. | 0:33:19 | 0:33:22 | |
So, it's a nice low-maintenance garden | 0:33:22 | 0:33:24 | |
with the access out to rear parking. | 0:33:24 | 0:33:27 | |
Good-size bathroom and again, another contemporary look. | 0:33:27 | 0:33:30 | |
I've fixed the bath now! | 0:33:30 | 0:33:33 | |
And this is a great-size second bedroom. | 0:33:33 | 0:33:36 | |
-My bedroom! -That's your bedroom, isn't it? | 0:33:36 | 0:33:39 | |
-Another good-size double bedroom. -That's yours and Daddy's! | 0:33:39 | 0:33:43 | |
And a cat. Hello! | 0:33:43 | 0:33:46 | |
THEY LAUGH | 0:33:46 | 0:33:48 | |
In today's market, | 0:33:48 | 0:33:50 | |
I would value this property at a guide price of 110-120,000. | 0:33:50 | 0:33:54 | |
For a quick sale, I'd value the property at 105,000. | 0:33:54 | 0:33:56 | |
In today's market, I would value this house at around about 110,000. | 0:33:58 | 0:34:02 | |
If the owners wanted a quick sale, | 0:34:02 | 0:34:04 | |
then I would suggest a price between 100 and 105. | 0:34:04 | 0:34:07 | |
-That's exactly what I kind of anticipated. -Yeah. | 0:34:07 | 0:34:10 | |
-I'm not shocked at all. -No shock. -I'm quite happy with that. | 0:34:10 | 0:34:12 | |
I'm quite happy with that as well. | 0:34:12 | 0:34:14 | |
With their valuations on target, the couple to move on to examine | 0:34:14 | 0:34:17 | |
how their finances would fare in New Zealand. | 0:34:17 | 0:34:20 | |
Do you want to do the honours, or shall I? | 0:34:20 | 0:34:22 | |
We've provided a comparison of costs, starting with the weekly food shop. | 0:34:22 | 0:34:27 | |
-Ketchup, 1.23. -We knew that was dear the other day. | 0:34:27 | 0:34:30 | |
-I nearly fell over in the supermarket. -Meatballs, £2. | 0:34:30 | 0:34:33 | |
She's not going to be having them any more. | 0:34:33 | 0:34:37 | |
Which means it's £57.27 dearer. | 0:34:37 | 0:34:40 | |
£250 more per month would double what the family currently spend on food. | 0:34:40 | 0:34:45 | |
But Greg's not daunted. | 0:34:45 | 0:34:47 | |
It's more, but it's not terrible, is it? | 0:34:47 | 0:34:51 | |
Well, we need to put it into context with wages. | 0:34:51 | 0:34:54 | |
So, what about the bigger bills? | 0:34:54 | 0:34:57 | |
Greg and Jenni based their sums on the dream house they saw. | 0:34:57 | 0:35:00 | |
That's just jumped straight out at me, | 0:35:00 | 0:35:02 | |
the cost of the mortgage, compared to at home. | 0:35:02 | 0:35:05 | |
-Yeah. -That's... | 0:35:05 | 0:35:07 | |
-That's a biggie. -Phone/internet, £20 at home... -Yeah. | 0:35:07 | 0:35:12 | |
£40 here, so that's minus 20. | 0:35:12 | 0:35:14 | |
-What's the difference? £1,796. -Yeah. | 0:35:17 | 0:35:20 | |
In total, the couple discover they'd be spending | 0:35:22 | 0:35:25 | |
around £1,800 per month more in New Zealand. | 0:35:25 | 0:35:28 | |
It's going to go down to wage, because if that was our UK wage, | 0:35:28 | 0:35:31 | |
we couldn't afford to live here, could we? | 0:35:31 | 0:35:33 | |
-We've not got £1,796 a month spare. -No. | 0:35:33 | 0:35:37 | |
The figures don't look good, | 0:35:37 | 0:35:39 | |
and taking their potential wages into account only improves them slightly. | 0:35:39 | 0:35:44 | |
-So we're £654... -Worse off. | 0:35:44 | 0:35:46 | |
The couple would be almost £8,000 a year worse off if they made the move. | 0:35:49 | 0:35:53 | |
But whilst Jenni isn't impressed, Greg's not giving up. | 0:35:53 | 0:35:57 | |
I don't think that's bad. | 0:35:57 | 0:35:59 | |
-That's on what we call our dream home mortgage. -So basically, | 0:35:59 | 0:36:03 | |
we would have to go for a house which was like property one or two. | 0:36:03 | 0:36:07 | |
Yeah, but it wouldn't be forever, would it? | 0:36:07 | 0:36:11 | |
Making sacrifices on a home in the short term would undoubtedly help. | 0:36:11 | 0:36:16 | |
But as the couple take their vote on finances in New Zealand versus | 0:36:16 | 0:36:19 | |
the UK, is the compromise one they'd both be happy to make? | 0:36:19 | 0:36:23 | |
Based on today's reality check, our vote goes to... | 0:36:23 | 0:36:27 | |
-UK. -UK. | 0:36:33 | 0:36:35 | |
-Are you a bit gutted about that? -Massively. | 0:36:35 | 0:36:39 | |
We probably could still make it work financially, | 0:36:39 | 0:36:42 | |
but I think it would be more of a struggle. | 0:36:42 | 0:36:45 | |
I'm not going to lie, after seeing that, I am questioning myself. | 0:36:45 | 0:36:49 | |
That's massive for me. | 0:36:49 | 0:36:51 | |
While New Zealand's lifestyle has been everything Greg remembered, | 0:36:54 | 0:36:58 | |
achieving the life he dreams of would require significant compromises. | 0:36:58 | 0:37:02 | |
But it's perhaps the emotional cost of emigrating | 0:37:02 | 0:37:05 | |
which could prove the biggest barrier to a move. | 0:37:05 | 0:37:08 | |
As Evie is looked after by a childminder, | 0:37:08 | 0:37:11 | |
the couple sit down to watch messages from home. | 0:37:11 | 0:37:14 | |
Hi, Jenni, hi, Greg. | 0:37:16 | 0:37:17 | |
I hope you're having a wonderful time in New Zealand. | 0:37:17 | 0:37:20 | |
-Hi, Jenni, Greg. -Hello, Auntie Jenni and Uncle Greg. | 0:37:20 | 0:37:24 | |
Hiya, guys. I hope you've had a good week. | 0:37:24 | 0:37:26 | |
On the whole, they seem to be a match made in heaven. | 0:37:26 | 0:37:30 | |
Hilarious is the word to me that sums Jenni up. | 0:37:30 | 0:37:34 | |
She's got a lot of friends, she's sociable, she's popular. | 0:37:34 | 0:37:37 | |
Independent, principled, loyal. | 0:37:37 | 0:37:40 | |
He is very much a family man. | 0:37:45 | 0:37:48 | |
Family is really important. | 0:37:50 | 0:37:53 | |
Evie's a really bubbly little girl. | 0:37:53 | 0:37:56 | |
Um... She's really good friends with my daughter. | 0:37:56 | 0:37:58 | |
-And they work together well. -Evie is my granddaughter. | 0:37:58 | 0:38:03 | |
I do spoil her. | 0:38:03 | 0:38:05 | |
But if they go, I'll miss her. | 0:38:05 | 0:38:09 | |
If they left, I think it would leave | 0:38:11 | 0:38:13 | |
a big hole in everybody's life, not just in mine. | 0:38:13 | 0:38:17 | |
Obviously, yeah, it would be a massive wrench, | 0:38:17 | 0:38:20 | |
because you've got my mum and dad, then you've got me and Jenni. | 0:38:20 | 0:38:22 | |
The family, essentially, would be halved, | 0:38:22 | 0:38:25 | |
because my sister's gone, so it would just be me and my kids. | 0:38:25 | 0:38:28 | |
You make a decision based on | 0:38:28 | 0:38:30 | |
what you think is best for you and your family. | 0:38:30 | 0:38:34 | |
We'll always love you and we will always be here for you. | 0:38:34 | 0:38:37 | |
We'll all really miss you | 0:38:37 | 0:38:39 | |
and we'll miss the times that we spend together, | 0:38:39 | 0:38:42 | |
we'll miss seeing Evie grow up | 0:38:42 | 0:38:43 | |
and we know that all your other friends will feel the same. | 0:38:43 | 0:38:47 | |
But you've got to do what's right for you. | 0:38:47 | 0:38:49 | |
I hope that you make the right decisions that suit you | 0:38:49 | 0:38:54 | |
and don't worry too much about us here, | 0:38:54 | 0:38:57 | |
because we'll be on the next plane if there's anything wrong. | 0:38:57 | 0:39:01 | |
You know that I love you, you know that I support you. | 0:39:01 | 0:39:05 | |
I'll come visit! | 0:39:05 | 0:39:08 | |
But please, make the decision which is right for you. | 0:39:08 | 0:39:11 | |
It's really making me question whether I've got the guts to, er, | 0:39:18 | 0:39:24 | |
to go through with it. | 0:39:24 | 0:39:26 | |
We have to make what decision we think's best for our family, | 0:39:26 | 0:39:29 | |
and that means that we are going to have to be very selfish | 0:39:29 | 0:39:33 | |
when we make that decision and not think about others, | 0:39:33 | 0:39:36 | |
because I think if we thought about others, | 0:39:36 | 0:39:38 | |
the answer would very clearly be, no, we're not going. | 0:39:38 | 0:39:41 | |
Ever since he last set foot in the country years ago, | 0:39:41 | 0:39:45 | |
Greg has been desperate to make a permanent return to New Zealand. | 0:39:45 | 0:39:49 | |
All week, he's been on a mission to persuade wife Jenni to make | 0:39:49 | 0:39:53 | |
the move, but messages from home may now have given him pause for thought. | 0:39:53 | 0:39:58 | |
So, where will the Wallens decide their future lies? | 0:39:58 | 0:40:02 | |
Touching down again in New Zealand, Greg was hoping the country | 0:40:03 | 0:40:06 | |
would live up to his bachelor-day memories, and it hasn't let him down. | 0:40:06 | 0:40:11 | |
I knew it was going to be good, but I think it's far better, | 0:40:11 | 0:40:13 | |
from a lifestyle and living perspective. | 0:40:13 | 0:40:15 | |
It's infinitely better, | 0:40:15 | 0:40:17 | |
in my opinion, than what we would have back in the UK. | 0:40:17 | 0:40:19 | |
And despite her initial reluctance, | 0:40:19 | 0:40:21 | |
a taste of what New Zealand could offer has also appealed to Jenni. | 0:40:21 | 0:40:26 | |
The experience I've had this week that has won me over the most is... | 0:40:26 | 0:40:31 | |
is the lifestyle. | 0:40:31 | 0:40:33 | |
But the couple's week has also shown the reality of life | 0:40:33 | 0:40:36 | |
in New Zealand wasn't everything Greg had envisaged. | 0:40:36 | 0:40:40 | |
I'm not going to lie, I thought we would fare a lot better than we did. | 0:40:40 | 0:40:43 | |
Then you get here on the first day and obviously, hence why | 0:40:43 | 0:40:47 | |
I got a bit upset, you're looking at your first house and thinking... | 0:40:47 | 0:40:50 | |
it's going to come in over your budget, | 0:40:50 | 0:40:53 | |
and it's not at all what you want or would expect from our house. | 0:40:53 | 0:40:58 | |
He is having to come to terms with the fact that things | 0:40:58 | 0:41:01 | |
aren't as picture-perfect as he initially thought out here. | 0:41:01 | 0:41:05 | |
And he's struggling to come to terms with leaving family behind. | 0:41:05 | 0:41:09 | |
The most emotional part of the week, for me, was seeing my family. | 0:41:09 | 0:41:13 | |
I know that... | 0:41:13 | 0:41:15 | |
HE SIGHS | 0:41:16 | 0:41:18 | |
I know that I need to make the decision for my family. | 0:41:18 | 0:41:21 | |
But, you know... | 0:41:21 | 0:41:23 | |
..I kind of care about everyone else as well. | 0:41:25 | 0:41:27 | |
Um... | 0:41:27 | 0:41:29 | |
With their final vote inching closer, | 0:41:29 | 0:41:32 | |
the couple are wrestling with conflicting emotions. | 0:41:32 | 0:41:35 | |
It has been difficult, because I'm arguing with myself, | 0:41:37 | 0:41:40 | |
I can feel an internal conflict of arguing with myself over it. | 0:41:40 | 0:41:45 | |
I'm playing with the rest of my family's life, you know, | 0:41:45 | 0:41:48 | |
I'm not going to dance around it, it's... | 0:41:48 | 0:41:50 | |
..harder than the decision I took to ask Jen to marry me. | 0:41:53 | 0:41:56 | |
It's harder than the decision I took to take on Evie as my own child. | 0:41:56 | 0:42:01 | |
It's time to decide where the family's future lies. | 0:42:01 | 0:42:05 | |
Will Jenni greenlight Greg's dream? | 0:42:05 | 0:42:07 | |
And will he decide breaking bonds at home is a price worth paying | 0:42:07 | 0:42:10 | |
to achieve the lifestyle he wants? | 0:42:10 | 0:42:13 | |
We've had a fabulous week here in New Zealand and our vote goes to... | 0:42:13 | 0:42:17 | |
-..New Zealand. -New Zealand. | 0:42:29 | 0:42:31 | |
No! | 0:42:31 | 0:42:33 | |
What made you do that? | 0:42:34 | 0:42:36 | |
There's some negatives, but there's also a lot of positives. | 0:42:36 | 0:42:39 | |
I think that we've got to give it a try, | 0:42:39 | 0:42:41 | |
because I think otherwise, we'll always be wondering, what if? | 0:42:41 | 0:42:44 | |
So, I think we need to come and give it a try. | 0:42:44 | 0:42:47 | |
This is all my birthdays, all my Christmases, | 0:42:47 | 0:42:50 | |
everything I've wanted, since I came back. | 0:42:50 | 0:42:54 | |
It's a great result for Greg - with Jenni signing up to the move, | 0:43:00 | 0:43:05 | |
he should be on his way back to New Zealand soon. | 0:43:05 | 0:43:08 | |
We hope the Wallens go on to make many happy memories together | 0:43:08 | 0:43:12 | |
as they embark on their new life on the other side of the world. | 0:43:12 | 0:43:17 |