Browse content similar to Van Konningsveld/Evans Family. Check below for episodes and series from the same categories and more!
Line | From | To | |
---|---|---|---|
After years of working towards it, | 0:00:02 | 0:00:04 | |
the pieces are finally | 0:00:04 | 0:00:05 | |
falling into place | 0:00:05 | 0:00:07 | |
to allow you to jet off to a new life in the sun. | 0:00:07 | 0:00:10 | |
There's just one last thing you need to do - | 0:00:10 | 0:00:14 | |
persuade the love of your life to join you. | 0:00:14 | 0:00:16 | |
Kelly van Koningsveld longs to call Australia home... | 0:00:16 | 0:00:19 | |
This is a dream that I've wanted for a very long time. | 0:00:19 | 0:00:22 | |
..but partner Gary is more than happy in Wales. | 0:00:22 | 0:00:25 | |
I am a homebird. Everything and one I know is in Caerphilly. | 0:00:25 | 0:00:28 | |
Unable to agree, | 0:00:28 | 0:00:30 | |
Kelly's hopes to emigrate are putting their future on the line. | 0:00:30 | 0:00:33 | |
If Gary doesn't like it, | 0:00:33 | 0:00:35 | |
we do need to consider where our relationship goes from here. | 0:00:35 | 0:00:39 | |
So, will a trial week down under be enough to secure Kelly the life | 0:00:39 | 0:00:42 | |
she wants and keep Gary by her side? | 0:00:42 | 0:00:45 | |
Now I'm deciding whether I'm going to be part of Kelly's dream, | 0:00:45 | 0:00:48 | |
or whether it's something she may be undertaking on her own. | 0:00:48 | 0:00:52 | |
With more than a quarter of its population born overseas, | 0:01:13 | 0:01:16 | |
Australia is consistently ranked | 0:01:16 | 0:01:18 | |
in the world's top ten countries to live. | 0:01:18 | 0:01:21 | |
Latest figures show over 34,000 UK residents move there every year, | 0:01:21 | 0:01:26 | |
but it isn't utopia for everyone. | 0:01:26 | 0:01:29 | |
Of those that take the plunge, over half will return home. | 0:01:29 | 0:01:32 | |
For the last three years, | 0:01:33 | 0:01:35 | |
Kelly van Koningsveld has been working tirelessly towards swapping | 0:01:35 | 0:01:39 | |
the home comforts of Wales for a life less ordinary in Australia. | 0:01:39 | 0:01:44 | |
As it currently stands, though, moving to the land | 0:01:44 | 0:01:47 | |
she's fallen for would mean leaving the man of her dreams. | 0:01:47 | 0:01:51 | |
So, given just one week, can Kelly convince partner Gary to | 0:01:51 | 0:01:56 | |
join her for a new life on the other side of the world? | 0:01:56 | 0:02:00 | |
The couple's trip to Australia begins with an arduous 17.5 hours | 0:02:00 | 0:02:03 | |
in the skies, flying from London to Perth via Dubai. | 0:02:03 | 0:02:07 | |
But Kelly's taken the travelling in her stride. | 0:02:09 | 0:02:12 | |
I really enjoyed it. | 0:02:12 | 0:02:14 | |
It didn't seem as long as I thought it was going to be. | 0:02:14 | 0:02:16 | |
It was really good. | 0:02:16 | 0:02:18 | |
She's thrilled to have made it down under for the first time. | 0:02:18 | 0:02:22 | |
I'm really, really happy to be here, excited for the week ahead. | 0:02:22 | 0:02:27 | |
For Gary, the journey has already left him questioning | 0:02:27 | 0:02:30 | |
moving so far from home. | 0:02:30 | 0:02:32 | |
This is the furthest flight I've ever done by about 14 hours. | 0:02:32 | 0:02:35 | |
I think it's going to take a bit more persuasion | 0:02:35 | 0:02:38 | |
than I first thought. | 0:02:38 | 0:02:39 | |
And he doesn't share Kelly's elation about his new surroundings. | 0:02:39 | 0:02:43 | |
It still seems a bit surreal. | 0:02:43 | 0:02:45 | |
I'm not so excited at the moment, | 0:02:45 | 0:02:46 | |
just interested to see what's to come, I think. | 0:02:46 | 0:02:49 | |
But Kelly is determined to win him round. | 0:02:49 | 0:02:52 | |
I want to show him that life can be better in Australia, | 0:02:52 | 0:02:55 | |
and I think this week's going to do it, | 0:02:55 | 0:02:56 | |
and I will work hard to try and do it. | 0:02:56 | 0:02:58 | |
As the couple head out into Perth, they know their relationship | 0:02:58 | 0:03:02 | |
could be on the rocks if things don't go according to Kelly's plan. | 0:03:02 | 0:03:06 | |
Back in the UK, Kelly van Koningsveld and Gary Evans | 0:03:08 | 0:03:11 | |
live in Caerphilly in South Wales. | 0:03:11 | 0:03:14 | |
-ALL: -Yay! | 0:03:14 | 0:03:16 | |
The couple have built a solid relationship | 0:03:16 | 0:03:18 | |
since meeting at a punk gig three years ago, | 0:03:18 | 0:03:21 | |
despite their contrasting take on life. | 0:03:21 | 0:03:23 | |
# Go, Gary, go, Gary! # | 0:03:24 | 0:03:26 | |
I want to experience new things all the time, | 0:03:26 | 0:03:28 | |
I want to meet new people, | 0:03:28 | 0:03:29 | |
I love being outside my comfort zone. | 0:03:29 | 0:03:32 | |
I am a homebird. Everything and one I know is in Caerphilly. | 0:03:33 | 0:03:37 | |
-You're... -Quite happy. -..quite happy where you are. | 0:03:41 | 0:03:44 | |
Plodding. I can't plod. | 0:03:44 | 0:03:45 | |
All right! | 0:03:47 | 0:03:49 | |
-I wish you would sometimes. -Yeah. | 0:03:49 | 0:03:51 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:03:58 | 0:03:59 | |
At the core of Kelly's appetite for adventure is a feeling of wanderlust. | 0:03:59 | 0:04:04 | |
As much as Wales is a beautiful country and it does offer the hiking | 0:04:04 | 0:04:07 | |
and the mountains that I love, I've never really felt settled. | 0:04:07 | 0:04:12 | |
A few months after meeting, Kelly told Gary about her dream | 0:04:12 | 0:04:15 | |
to live in Australia despite never having been. | 0:04:15 | 0:04:19 | |
He didn't give it much thought | 0:04:19 | 0:04:20 | |
until she announced she was giving up her job to do a degree | 0:04:20 | 0:04:23 | |
in social work, after hearing it was a sought-after profession down under. | 0:04:23 | 0:04:28 | |
I think that was really the point where | 0:04:28 | 0:04:30 | |
I realised how deadly serious she was. | 0:04:30 | 0:04:33 | |
It was like a golden ticket into Australia, I was like, | 0:04:33 | 0:04:36 | |
"That's the one that can get me in." | 0:04:36 | 0:04:38 | |
And I had the experience, so it was like a no-brainer to me really. | 0:04:38 | 0:04:41 | |
Now qualified and with cousins | 0:04:43 | 0:04:45 | |
already living in Perth, Kelly's ready to make | 0:04:45 | 0:04:47 | |
the move, and she has a clear vision of what life would be like there. | 0:04:47 | 0:04:51 | |
A lovely job, outdoors all of the time. | 0:04:52 | 0:04:56 | |
I would sleep outdoors if I could. | 0:04:56 | 0:04:58 | |
And just such a nice, relaxed way of life. | 0:04:58 | 0:05:01 | |
You don't have to plan things, then thinking, | 0:05:01 | 0:05:03 | |
"I can't do this now, because of the weather." | 0:05:03 | 0:05:06 | |
That is my kind of dream. | 0:05:06 | 0:05:08 | |
Unfortunately, Gary has a very different point of view. | 0:05:08 | 0:05:11 | |
I've just got so much more to think about than just | 0:05:11 | 0:05:14 | |
being able to wake up with the sun shining through the curtains. | 0:05:14 | 0:05:18 | |
For him, the idea of walking away from everything | 0:05:18 | 0:05:20 | |
they know is mind-boggling. | 0:05:20 | 0:05:22 | |
Caerphilly is a close-knit community, | 0:05:22 | 0:05:24 | |
so you will often bump into people who you know. | 0:05:24 | 0:05:27 | |
The thought of being somewhere where you know nobody, | 0:05:27 | 0:05:29 | |
that is a scary thought, definitely. | 0:05:29 | 0:05:31 | |
Food's ready! | 0:05:31 | 0:05:32 | |
Having worked in the same place for almost 13 years, he's terrified | 0:05:32 | 0:05:36 | |
at the prospect of risking his career for the completely unknown. | 0:05:36 | 0:05:41 | |
I cannot imagine quitting my job to go and try and find another job... | 0:05:41 | 0:05:44 | |
in this country, never mind the other side of the world. | 0:05:44 | 0:05:47 | |
He also feels guilty at the thought of | 0:05:48 | 0:05:50 | |
breaking emotional bonds with family | 0:05:50 | 0:05:52 | |
and the close group of friends he's grown up with. | 0:05:52 | 0:05:55 | |
It would definitely be difficult to leave the group of friends | 0:05:55 | 0:05:57 | |
that I do have now. To start a brand-new group of friends, | 0:05:57 | 0:06:01 | |
I can't quite get my head around the whole... | 0:06:01 | 0:06:04 | |
Just being able to do it, where would you start? | 0:06:04 | 0:06:06 | |
After much discussion, | 0:06:06 | 0:06:08 | |
the couple are unable to agree on where their future lies, and now face | 0:06:08 | 0:06:12 | |
some incredibly difficult decisions about where they go from here. | 0:06:12 | 0:06:16 | |
I love you to bits. | 0:06:16 | 0:06:17 | |
I'd just be devastated if we did finish | 0:06:17 | 0:06:19 | |
over where we lived. | 0:06:19 | 0:06:20 | |
I obviously want you to come, but I really don't want you to be unhappy. | 0:06:22 | 0:06:27 | |
And if that means you staying, that would mean more to me | 0:06:27 | 0:06:30 | |
than you being with me and miserable. | 0:06:30 | 0:06:32 | |
I guess. | 0:06:35 | 0:06:36 | |
Longing to live the life she dreams of, | 0:06:37 | 0:06:39 | |
the week ahead will be Kelly's best opportunity to convince Gary | 0:06:39 | 0:06:42 | |
to leave his comfort zone for a future with her, far from Wales. | 0:06:42 | 0:06:46 | |
I think there's quite a lot of pressure on me | 0:06:48 | 0:06:49 | |
to overcome all my fears and concerns... | 0:06:49 | 0:06:52 | |
..for it to work. | 0:06:54 | 0:06:55 | |
It's decision time. He's realising now how real it all is. | 0:06:56 | 0:07:01 | |
And he can't bury his head any longer. | 0:07:01 | 0:07:03 | |
For their trial week down under, the couple are visiting | 0:07:17 | 0:07:20 | |
the city of Perth in Western Australia, where even | 0:07:20 | 0:07:23 | |
in the winter, daily temperatures rarely dip below 18 degrees. | 0:07:23 | 0:07:27 | |
Their temporary home is in Warnbro, | 0:07:29 | 0:07:31 | |
a coastal suburb 40 minutes' drive from the city centre. | 0:07:31 | 0:07:34 | |
But will this two-storey house live up to Kelly's image | 0:07:34 | 0:07:37 | |
of Australian living? | 0:07:37 | 0:07:38 | |
-Gorgeous, isn't it? -Yeah. It's going to be amazing. | 0:07:39 | 0:07:42 | |
Hopefully, inside will prove Kelly right. | 0:07:42 | 0:07:45 | |
Here we go, first step inside. | 0:07:45 | 0:07:47 | |
-Looks lovely, doesn't it? -Oh, yeah, wow. | 0:07:48 | 0:07:51 | |
Split over two floors, the main living accommodation is upstairs. | 0:07:51 | 0:07:55 | |
-Upside-down house. -Yeah, it's nice. | 0:07:55 | 0:07:58 | |
Look at that view. Oh, absolutely fantastic. | 0:07:58 | 0:08:01 | |
Making their way onto the balcony, | 0:08:01 | 0:08:03 | |
the couple are delighted with the beach-side location. | 0:08:03 | 0:08:06 | |
-It's stunning, isn't it? -This is an amazing base for the week. | 0:08:06 | 0:08:10 | |
And a further look around inside confirms the house | 0:08:10 | 0:08:13 | |
has everything they need. | 0:08:13 | 0:08:14 | |
Guessing this is the main bedroom. | 0:08:14 | 0:08:16 | |
-Massive. And an en suite. -I actually can't believe it. | 0:08:16 | 0:08:20 | |
Yeah, it's huge, absolutely huge. | 0:08:20 | 0:08:22 | |
It's a great start to the week, and so far, | 0:08:23 | 0:08:26 | |
the country is proving even better than Kelly thought. | 0:08:26 | 0:08:30 | |
My first impression of Australia - absolutely amazing. | 0:08:30 | 0:08:33 | |
It's exceeded my expectations. | 0:08:33 | 0:08:36 | |
Gary knows how much Kelly wants Australia to be their destiny. | 0:08:36 | 0:08:40 | |
But it'll take more than sea views to convince him it's the right move. | 0:08:40 | 0:08:44 | |
I need to see that I can afford to live out here, get the work, | 0:08:44 | 0:08:47 | |
and that I can overcome the issues with moving to | 0:08:47 | 0:08:50 | |
the other side of the world, basically. | 0:08:50 | 0:08:52 | |
The week ahead will hopefully lay Gary's concerns to rest, | 0:08:52 | 0:08:55 | |
securing Kelly the future she wants and keeping Gary by her side. | 0:08:55 | 0:09:00 | |
This is a very big week. One of the biggest weeks of my life, I guess. | 0:09:00 | 0:09:03 | |
A lot can change now in the next four, five days. | 0:09:03 | 0:09:06 | |
Our whole relationship rides on this week. | 0:09:06 | 0:09:09 | |
If Gary doesn't want to come, or he doesn't like it, | 0:09:09 | 0:09:14 | |
then we do need to kind of consider | 0:09:14 | 0:09:16 | |
where our relationship goes from here. | 0:09:16 | 0:09:18 | |
In the UK, the couple live with | 0:09:25 | 0:09:27 | |
Kelly's family in Caerphilly, South Wales. | 0:09:27 | 0:09:29 | |
Kelly hopes their first home together will be in Australia. | 0:09:29 | 0:09:33 | |
Initially planning to rent, | 0:09:33 | 0:09:35 | |
their budget would be £850 per calendar month. | 0:09:35 | 0:09:39 | |
And she knows exactly what she'd like for her money. | 0:09:39 | 0:09:42 | |
Definitely needs to have a spare room, maybe two. | 0:09:42 | 0:09:45 | |
Kind of semi-rural, not too... | 0:09:45 | 0:09:47 | |
Yeah, we don't want to be too out in the sticks. | 0:09:47 | 0:09:49 | |
Not too inner city, I'm not really a city slicker. | 0:09:49 | 0:09:51 | |
Ideally, a beach would be amazing nearby. | 0:09:51 | 0:09:54 | |
Ultimately, though, the only deal-breaker for Kelly | 0:09:54 | 0:09:57 | |
is a pool in the garden. | 0:09:57 | 0:09:58 | |
..second job for a pool! | 0:09:58 | 0:10:01 | |
To find out what kind of house they could actually have in Australia, | 0:10:02 | 0:10:06 | |
today we'll show Gary and Kelly three properties - | 0:10:06 | 0:10:09 | |
two on budget and a third which could be their dream home. | 0:10:09 | 0:10:13 | |
Only after they've seen each one will they find out its value. | 0:10:13 | 0:10:16 | |
First up, the couple head 40 minutes south of Perth | 0:10:16 | 0:10:19 | |
to the city of Rockingham. | 0:10:19 | 0:10:21 | |
Beachfront restaurants and a range of bars | 0:10:21 | 0:10:24 | |
and shops promise an excellent quality of life | 0:10:24 | 0:10:27 | |
close to the ocean, which could be perfect for Kelly. | 0:10:27 | 0:10:29 | |
-Next one up, is it? -It looks nice, doesn't it? -Yeah, it does look nice. | 0:10:29 | 0:10:33 | |
But will this four-bedroom house be what they had in mind? | 0:10:33 | 0:10:36 | |
-Quite big. -It is quite big. I wasn't expecting a double garage. | 0:10:36 | 0:10:40 | |
Hopefully, inside will exceed Gary's expectations too. | 0:10:40 | 0:10:43 | |
See what it's going to be like. | 0:10:43 | 0:10:45 | |
-This is nice. -Straight into a small living room, Gary is not so sure. | 0:10:46 | 0:10:50 | |
This is cosy if this is the main sitting room. | 0:10:50 | 0:10:53 | |
-It can't be, there's no TV. -It's rather small. | 0:10:53 | 0:10:56 | |
Kelly, on the other hand, is happy with what she sees. | 0:10:56 | 0:10:58 | |
I think I'm going to like it all, | 0:10:58 | 0:11:00 | |
because I'm just being a bit biased with it. | 0:11:00 | 0:11:03 | |
At least she's honest! | 0:11:04 | 0:11:06 | |
But the master bedroom with in-built storage has genuine appeal. | 0:11:06 | 0:11:09 | |
Oh, walk-in dressing room, yes! | 0:11:09 | 0:11:11 | |
GARY LAUGHS | 0:11:11 | 0:11:13 | |
This will be able to fit my clothes. | 0:11:13 | 0:11:14 | |
-Just what I've always wanted(!) -Yeah! | 0:11:14 | 0:11:16 | |
Do I detect sarcasm, Gary? Moving on, a spacious en-suite bathroom. | 0:11:16 | 0:11:22 | |
-Much roomier than what you get at home, isn't it? -Yeah, I think so. | 0:11:22 | 0:11:25 | |
Loads of room. | 0:11:25 | 0:11:27 | |
The main kitchen/living area | 0:11:28 | 0:11:30 | |
is modern, bright and typically open-plan. | 0:11:30 | 0:11:33 | |
That's exactly what I was looking for. | 0:11:33 | 0:11:36 | |
But would it entice Gary to the other side of the world? | 0:11:36 | 0:11:39 | |
I could see myself wanting to live somewhere like this. | 0:11:39 | 0:11:42 | |
That's good news for Kelly, | 0:11:42 | 0:11:44 | |
and the generous outside space could help her case for moving even more. | 0:11:44 | 0:11:49 | |
-It's huge. -It is nice, isn't it? -Yeah, really like that. | 0:11:49 | 0:11:53 | |
It doesn't have a pool, but with facilities | 0:11:54 | 0:11:57 | |
and space for outside dining, Kelly can see Gary fitting right in. | 0:11:57 | 0:12:00 | |
-Cos you love barbecues. -Mmm. -You're a barbecue beast. | 0:12:00 | 0:12:04 | |
It's perfect, I suppose. | 0:12:04 | 0:12:06 | |
Gary could be buying into Aussie property easier than Kelly thought. | 0:12:08 | 0:12:11 | |
Encouraged, the couple head back indoors to explore | 0:12:11 | 0:12:14 | |
the rest of the house. | 0:12:14 | 0:12:16 | |
-What is it, a spare room? -What would this be for? | 0:12:16 | 0:12:19 | |
Gary spots potential for a man cave, but Kelly's not buying it. | 0:12:19 | 0:12:24 | |
I don't believe in man caves. | 0:12:24 | 0:12:26 | |
GARY LAUGHS | 0:12:26 | 0:12:27 | |
You're supposed to be trying to sell this to me. | 0:12:27 | 0:12:29 | |
You should be agreeing to these terms. | 0:12:29 | 0:12:31 | |
Yeah, but I don't want to put you on a false footing! | 0:12:31 | 0:12:33 | |
Thinking you can have a man cave, cos you ain't. | 0:12:33 | 0:12:36 | |
Moving on, the family bathroom isn't made-to-measure. | 0:12:36 | 0:12:39 | |
Look how titchy the bath is! | 0:12:39 | 0:12:42 | |
-That's tiny. -It's titch. | 0:12:42 | 0:12:44 | |
You don't like baths anyway, it's probably too hot to take baths. | 0:12:44 | 0:12:49 | |
Kelly's giving it the hard sell and Gary doesn't look convinced, | 0:12:49 | 0:12:54 | |
but the couple are still interested to find out | 0:12:54 | 0:12:56 | |
the cost of living in a house like this. | 0:12:56 | 0:12:58 | |
I think it's going to be over what we can afford. | 0:12:58 | 0:13:01 | |
Mm, about £1,200 a month? | 0:13:01 | 0:13:03 | |
-I think a bit higher than that. -Do you? -Yeah. | 0:13:03 | 0:13:06 | |
-1,350. 1,400. -Do you? | 0:13:06 | 0:13:09 | |
I think so, yeah. | 0:13:09 | 0:13:10 | |
-Their budget for rent every month is £850. -Here we go. | 0:13:11 | 0:13:16 | |
Shut up! | 0:13:22 | 0:13:24 | |
Oh, God. | 0:13:24 | 0:13:25 | |
I really wasn't expecting that. | 0:13:25 | 0:13:27 | |
Just £35 over budget. | 0:13:27 | 0:13:29 | |
Oh, my God. | 0:13:29 | 0:13:31 | |
-That's manageable. -Shut up, I can't believe that. | 0:13:31 | 0:13:34 | |
You could never get anything like this... | 0:13:34 | 0:13:36 | |
No way. I'm well impressed with that. | 0:13:36 | 0:13:38 | |
-I know. -Well impressed. | 0:13:38 | 0:13:40 | |
Gary wasn't sold on the bathroom, | 0:13:43 | 0:13:45 | |
but the price hasn't pulled the plug on the potential for a move. | 0:13:45 | 0:13:48 | |
Hopefully, the next property will be even better. | 0:13:48 | 0:13:51 | |
To find out, the couple travel further south to | 0:13:53 | 0:13:56 | |
the coastal location of Port Kennedy. | 0:13:56 | 0:13:58 | |
With excellent public transport links, | 0:13:58 | 0:14:00 | |
this is a popular place for commuters wanting to escape the hustle | 0:14:00 | 0:14:04 | |
and bustle of the city, which should make it perfect for Gary and Kelly. | 0:14:04 | 0:14:07 | |
Let's have a look. | 0:14:07 | 0:14:08 | |
But will this four-bedroom house in a quiet cul-de-sac be enough to | 0:14:08 | 0:14:12 | |
make Gary commit to moving? | 0:14:12 | 0:14:14 | |
-I'm not as impressed from the outside. -No? -No. | 0:14:14 | 0:14:17 | |
Hopefully, inside will be more favourable. | 0:14:17 | 0:14:19 | |
Oh. | 0:14:19 | 0:14:21 | |
-What's that wall for? -I don't know, | 0:14:21 | 0:14:23 | |
that's a bit strange, isn't it? | 0:14:23 | 0:14:25 | |
It's not a great start, | 0:14:25 | 0:14:26 | |
and Gary's not sold on the spacious living area either. | 0:14:26 | 0:14:29 | |
Just find it really awkward. | 0:14:29 | 0:14:31 | |
Like, you've got the sofa there, the TV there, | 0:14:31 | 0:14:33 | |
-what would you do with...? -That kind of open space. | 0:14:33 | 0:14:35 | |
It's not really like a dining area. | 0:14:35 | 0:14:36 | |
It is big, though. | 0:14:36 | 0:14:39 | |
Kelly's trying to stay positive but it seems less is more with Gary. | 0:14:39 | 0:14:43 | |
I'm not loving this. | 0:14:43 | 0:14:45 | |
-No? -No. | 0:14:45 | 0:14:48 | |
And the issue with too much space continues elsewhere. | 0:14:48 | 0:14:51 | |
-The master bedroom, is it? -Yeah, that's a nice size. | 0:14:51 | 0:14:54 | |
-It is, isn't it? -Yeah. | 0:14:54 | 0:14:56 | |
But again, what do you do with all that? You don't need that much... | 0:14:56 | 0:15:00 | |
nothing space, do you? | 0:15:00 | 0:15:02 | |
Kelly looks dejected, but when they move into the kitchen, | 0:15:03 | 0:15:06 | |
things look a bit more encouraging. | 0:15:06 | 0:15:09 | |
I like this, I really like this part. | 0:15:09 | 0:15:11 | |
It's nice, it's open. | 0:15:11 | 0:15:13 | |
-But... -I wouldn't move to the other side of the world | 0:15:13 | 0:15:15 | |
to live in this house, I don't think. | 0:15:15 | 0:15:17 | |
The house isn't helping Kelly's argument for moving, | 0:15:17 | 0:15:20 | |
and when they go outside, the garden proves... | 0:15:20 | 0:15:23 | |
Disappointing. | 0:15:23 | 0:15:25 | |
-Yeah. -I think it's fine up until... | 0:15:26 | 0:15:28 | |
-..there. -KELLY LAUGHS | 0:15:29 | 0:15:31 | |
-Yeah. -And this is it. | 0:15:31 | 0:15:33 | |
It doesn't have the pool Kelly dreams of, but it's Gary | 0:15:33 | 0:15:36 | |
who's really struggling to see himself living here. | 0:15:36 | 0:15:39 | |
If you came and lived somewhere like this, | 0:15:39 | 0:15:41 | |
I do think you may only have to worry about a single bed. | 0:15:41 | 0:15:45 | |
I'm sure he doesn't mean that, Kelly. Back inside, another small bathroom. | 0:15:45 | 0:15:50 | |
They've got a bigger bath, a big normal-sized bath. | 0:15:50 | 0:15:53 | |
But the decor does little to impress Gary. | 0:15:53 | 0:15:56 | |
-It's another room I'm... -Not blown away by. | 0:15:56 | 0:16:00 | |
..I'm not blown away by. | 0:16:00 | 0:16:02 | |
Quite the opposite. | 0:16:02 | 0:16:03 | |
It might not be somewhere Gary wants to call home, | 0:16:06 | 0:16:08 | |
but with £850 for rent every month, | 0:16:08 | 0:16:12 | |
Kelly is still curious to find out the price tag for a place like this. | 0:16:12 | 0:16:16 | |
I reckon...700? 750? | 0:16:16 | 0:16:19 | |
-Yeah, I'd like to think even less than that. Ready? -Yes. | 0:16:20 | 0:16:24 | |
GARY EXHALES AND LAUGHS | 0:16:29 | 0:16:32 | |
I wouldn't be happy upping sticks | 0:16:32 | 0:16:35 | |
and moving to the other side of the world to pay £864 a month on this. | 0:16:35 | 0:16:39 | |
Gary's lack of enthusiasm is a real blow for Kelly. | 0:16:41 | 0:16:44 | |
Hopefully the final property of the day will get him | 0:16:45 | 0:16:48 | |
more excited about a potential future down under. | 0:16:48 | 0:16:51 | |
It's situated in Baldivis, | 0:16:53 | 0:16:55 | |
a semi-rural area 35 minutes south of Perth. | 0:16:55 | 0:16:58 | |
15 minutes from the beach, this growing suburb with | 0:16:58 | 0:17:01 | |
a small-town feel should be a perfect fit for Kelly. | 0:17:01 | 0:17:04 | |
We've found what could be their dream home, | 0:17:04 | 0:17:07 | |
but will it be enough to keep Kelly and Gary united? | 0:17:07 | 0:17:10 | |
Let's go and have a look. | 0:17:10 | 0:17:12 | |
-It's really, really nice. -Yeah, this has definitely got... | 0:17:12 | 0:17:15 | |
-The wow factor straightaway. -..the wow factor from outside. | 0:17:15 | 0:17:18 | |
-Looks promising, hopefully inside will be too. -Wow. | 0:17:18 | 0:17:21 | |
Oh! Whoa. | 0:17:23 | 0:17:24 | |
Natural colours and warm timbers have been used to give | 0:17:24 | 0:17:27 | |
a luxurious feel throughout, and the couple look lost for words. | 0:17:27 | 0:17:31 | |
HE LAUGHS | 0:17:31 | 0:17:32 | |
-I'm actually speechless. -Yeah, I'm a bit speechless. | 0:17:32 | 0:17:36 | |
I've never lived anywhere this grand. | 0:17:36 | 0:17:39 | |
So is it somewhere Gary could see himself settling? | 0:17:39 | 0:17:42 | |
-I love it. -Mm. | 0:17:42 | 0:17:43 | |
-Can you imagine yourself living in something like this? -Yes. | 0:17:43 | 0:17:47 | |
-You can? -Yes. | 0:17:47 | 0:17:49 | |
It's an encouraging start for Kelly, and when she clocks the views | 0:17:50 | 0:17:54 | |
from the state-of-the-art kitchen, her imagination goes into overdrive. | 0:17:54 | 0:17:58 | |
Oh, my God! | 0:17:58 | 0:17:59 | |
THEY LAUGH | 0:17:59 | 0:18:02 | |
Shut up, like! | 0:18:02 | 0:18:03 | |
You would just cook your stuff, watch people in the pool. | 0:18:03 | 0:18:06 | |
At last, the pool Kelly has dreamed of. | 0:18:06 | 0:18:10 | |
That is absolutely stunning. | 0:18:10 | 0:18:12 | |
And moving outside for a better look, | 0:18:12 | 0:18:14 | |
the couple discover plenty of room for relaxing in the sunshine too. | 0:18:14 | 0:18:18 | |
This outside bit here totally ticks every box for me. | 0:18:18 | 0:18:21 | |
There's nothing else that you could ask for. | 0:18:21 | 0:18:24 | |
This is exactly why I would want to move over here. | 0:18:24 | 0:18:26 | |
I'd find it hard to say no to something like this as well. | 0:18:26 | 0:18:30 | |
Kelly and Gary's future together looks a lot more promising, | 0:18:30 | 0:18:33 | |
and back inside, four spacious bedrooms. | 0:18:33 | 0:18:36 | |
-Ho-ho! -There's a nice master bedroom as well. | 0:18:36 | 0:18:39 | |
Massive master bedroom. | 0:18:39 | 0:18:40 | |
The luxurious en suite is anything but shabby. | 0:18:42 | 0:18:45 | |
Two showers? Shut up. | 0:18:45 | 0:18:48 | |
-This is, eh... -It looks amazing. | 0:18:48 | 0:18:51 | |
-It's brilliant, that, isn't it? -This is hotel spec, isn't it? | 0:18:51 | 0:18:54 | |
With access to the swimming pool, it's everything Kelly dreamt of. | 0:18:54 | 0:18:59 | |
Every box you could think of ticking has been ticked. | 0:18:59 | 0:19:02 | |
And she soon discovers there's even a few extras. | 0:19:02 | 0:19:04 | |
Oh, it's a hair...salon! | 0:19:04 | 0:19:07 | |
-I was not expecting that when I walked through. -Oh, my word! | 0:19:07 | 0:19:11 | |
It's no ordinary home, so the couple are keen to find out how much | 0:19:14 | 0:19:18 | |
the dream house would set them back. | 0:19:18 | 0:19:20 | |
I reckon it's going to be about... | 0:19:20 | 0:19:22 | |
two grand. | 0:19:22 | 0:19:23 | |
-Now I've seen this house, I want this house. -I know. | 0:19:23 | 0:19:27 | |
So will the couple's £850 budget for rent every month be enough | 0:19:27 | 0:19:31 | |
to make Gary's wishes come true? | 0:19:31 | 0:19:33 | |
-Ready? -Yep. | 0:19:33 | 0:19:34 | |
-No way! -What?! | 0:19:40 | 0:19:42 | |
-No... -£969 a month? | 0:19:42 | 0:19:46 | |
It's almost £120 over budget, but with the right jobs, | 0:19:46 | 0:19:51 | |
the house could be more affordable than they thought. | 0:19:51 | 0:19:54 | |
-Shut up. I cannot believe... -I can't believe that that's... | 0:19:54 | 0:19:59 | |
A grand, honest to God, I can't believe that. | 0:19:59 | 0:20:02 | |
You get a pool, you get all that, you get five million rooms... | 0:20:02 | 0:20:06 | |
for a grand! | 0:20:06 | 0:20:07 | |
GARY LAUGHS | 0:20:07 | 0:20:09 | |
I can't actually believe it. | 0:20:09 | 0:20:11 | |
It's been a great end to house-hunting for Gary and Kelly. | 0:20:11 | 0:20:15 | |
Property one had the space the couple wanted inside and out, | 0:20:15 | 0:20:19 | |
but it didn't have the pool Kelly desires. | 0:20:19 | 0:20:21 | |
The interiors of property two failed to impress Gary, | 0:20:23 | 0:20:26 | |
and although close to budget, | 0:20:26 | 0:20:27 | |
the price wasn't enough to change his mind. | 0:20:27 | 0:20:30 | |
But the final property of the day was an instant hit, | 0:20:31 | 0:20:34 | |
boasting modern, luxurious interiors | 0:20:34 | 0:20:37 | |
and the pool of Kelly's dreams. | 0:20:37 | 0:20:38 | |
At just £119 over budget, the house was well within reach. | 0:20:38 | 0:20:43 | |
So has today done enough to help Kelly persuade Gary to choose | 0:20:45 | 0:20:49 | |
property in Australia over the UK? | 0:20:49 | 0:20:51 | |
I think it's a good time to vote. | 0:20:52 | 0:20:53 | |
-Australia. -Australia. | 0:21:03 | 0:21:05 | |
Yes, I knew you would. | 0:21:05 | 0:21:07 | |
That last house, when we turned over and saw the actual price, | 0:21:07 | 0:21:10 | |
and realised that it was within our reach, it was then an easy decision. | 0:21:10 | 0:21:15 | |
I am really excited that you have voted Australia. | 0:21:15 | 0:21:18 | |
It means one less thing to have to battle you with. | 0:21:18 | 0:21:21 | |
-Yeah, the war is still on. -Yeah, one battle is done! | 0:21:21 | 0:21:24 | |
GARY CHUCKLES | 0:21:24 | 0:21:25 | |
The dream property really captured Gary's heart, putting him | 0:21:32 | 0:21:36 | |
a step closer to agreeing to the move. | 0:21:36 | 0:21:38 | |
Ultimately though, Kelly knows he needs to be | 0:21:38 | 0:21:41 | |
assured he can find work | 0:21:41 | 0:21:42 | |
if she is to succeed in her campaign to conquer his resistance. | 0:21:42 | 0:21:46 | |
Back in the UK, Kelly gave up a well-paid job with | 0:21:48 | 0:21:51 | |
the youth offending service to further her qualifications | 0:21:51 | 0:21:54 | |
in a bid to gain a visa for down under. | 0:21:54 | 0:21:56 | |
With the experience and the background I had, | 0:21:58 | 0:22:01 | |
I chose to apply for the social work degree to get me into Australia. | 0:22:01 | 0:22:06 | |
Working for Her Majesty's revenue and Customs for the past 12 years, | 0:22:06 | 0:22:10 | |
Gary was recently promoted to a role within | 0:22:10 | 0:22:12 | |
the VAT compliance office. | 0:22:12 | 0:22:14 | |
I do love it, it is a great bunch of boys that I work with. | 0:22:16 | 0:22:19 | |
The work is interesting, so yeah, I am happy where I am at the moment. | 0:22:19 | 0:22:23 | |
Recently qualified, Kelly is confident there will be opportunities | 0:22:23 | 0:22:26 | |
for her down under, so it is Gary's work prospects that really matter. | 0:22:26 | 0:22:31 | |
I think employment is going to be the tipping point as to | 0:22:31 | 0:22:34 | |
whether I will even consider going there or not. | 0:22:34 | 0:22:38 | |
Discovering work prospects in Perth will be crucial in | 0:22:41 | 0:22:45 | |
keeping the couple together. | 0:22:45 | 0:22:47 | |
We have arranged for Kelly to meet Mark Burgess, | 0:22:47 | 0:22:49 | |
a general manager at a non-governmental organisation | 0:22:49 | 0:22:52 | |
that helps offenders become law-abiding members of the community. | 0:22:52 | 0:22:57 | |
-Hi, Kelly. -Hello. -Welcome. | 0:22:57 | 0:22:59 | |
-How about we just head upstairs and go for a quick chat? -Okey doke. | 0:22:59 | 0:23:02 | |
The company provide support for a wide variety of clients. | 0:23:02 | 0:23:06 | |
Kelly is keen to check how her qualifications | 0:23:06 | 0:23:09 | |
will translate down under. | 0:23:09 | 0:23:11 | |
I've just finished the social work degree back in the UK, | 0:23:11 | 0:23:14 | |
can I use it straight away? | 0:23:14 | 0:23:15 | |
The degree allows you membership to | 0:23:15 | 0:23:17 | |
the Australian Association of Social Workers, and there are a number | 0:23:17 | 0:23:20 | |
of roles available for graduate social workers. | 0:23:20 | 0:23:23 | |
That is really positive. | 0:23:23 | 0:23:24 | |
The day is off to a great start for Kelly. | 0:23:24 | 0:23:27 | |
Hopefully, Gary will be in demand too. | 0:23:27 | 0:23:31 | |
To find out, he is meeting | 0:23:31 | 0:23:32 | |
recruitment specialist Claire Lindley. | 0:23:32 | 0:23:34 | |
Hi, Gary, I am Claire from Randstad, nice to meet you. | 0:23:34 | 0:23:37 | |
Gary is keen to talk business. | 0:23:37 | 0:23:39 | |
Back home I have got a fairly well-paid job, | 0:23:39 | 0:23:41 | |
I am just wondering whether my skills are transferable. | 0:23:41 | 0:23:44 | |
Certainly, in the Perth market, | 0:23:44 | 0:23:45 | |
they would be skills that would be transferable here. | 0:23:45 | 0:23:48 | |
Compliance is an area that people are even more so | 0:23:48 | 0:23:51 | |
looking for experience. | 0:23:51 | 0:23:53 | |
Right, that is good, because both of the roles | 0:23:53 | 0:23:55 | |
I have played have been partly compliance-based. | 0:23:55 | 0:23:57 | |
Knowing his skills are transferable should be comforting for Gary, | 0:23:57 | 0:24:01 | |
but he is still nervous about how long | 0:24:01 | 0:24:03 | |
it would take to find suitable work. | 0:24:03 | 0:24:05 | |
Would you say it would be something that you would get a job | 0:24:05 | 0:24:07 | |
quickly in, or is it always a struggle to try | 0:24:07 | 0:24:09 | |
and get onto the employment ladder? | 0:24:09 | 0:24:11 | |
People with good skills and experience who are willing to | 0:24:11 | 0:24:13 | |
-work will always do well in this market. -Oh, that's good. | 0:24:13 | 0:24:17 | |
Gary is getting the answers he needs so far. | 0:24:17 | 0:24:19 | |
Meanwhile, across town, | 0:24:20 | 0:24:22 | |
Kelly is keen to find out about a typical working week in Australia. | 0:24:22 | 0:24:26 | |
Monday to Friday, 9 to 5 roles, | 0:24:27 | 0:24:29 | |
you really do have a nice opportunity for a work/life balance. | 0:24:29 | 0:24:33 | |
That is fantastic, that is absolutely fantastic. | 0:24:33 | 0:24:35 | |
All that is left to find out now | 0:24:35 | 0:24:37 | |
is how much Kelly could earn as a newly-qualified social worker. | 0:24:37 | 0:24:40 | |
Working for a non-government agency, | 0:24:40 | 0:24:42 | |
you would be looking at a salary range of £31,000-£33,000 per year. | 0:24:42 | 0:24:47 | |
In a government department, | 0:24:47 | 0:24:48 | |
you would be looking at a salary range of £34,000-£39,000 per year. | 0:24:48 | 0:24:52 | |
That is really positive. I am currently on £31,000, | 0:24:52 | 0:24:55 | |
so I would be coming in on a very similar salary. | 0:24:55 | 0:24:58 | |
If it was government, that is an increase in the salary, | 0:24:58 | 0:25:01 | |
so that is fantastic news. | 0:25:01 | 0:25:02 | |
Kelly's meeting has confirmed she can have the career she has worked | 0:25:02 | 0:25:06 | |
so hard for down under. | 0:25:06 | 0:25:09 | |
Meanwhile, Claire recommends Gary gets a feel for the local job market | 0:25:09 | 0:25:12 | |
by doing temporary work before applying for permanent roles. | 0:25:12 | 0:25:16 | |
The market here is very project-based. | 0:25:16 | 0:25:18 | |
So many people do well out of casual work. | 0:25:18 | 0:25:21 | |
Then the salary for that would be roughly £27,000 a year. | 0:25:21 | 0:25:24 | |
It is definitely I think an eye-opener, | 0:25:24 | 0:25:27 | |
and I wasn't expecting... | 0:25:27 | 0:25:29 | |
Maybe the casual work here is equal to, | 0:25:29 | 0:25:31 | |
if not better, what I am currently on in the UK. | 0:25:31 | 0:25:34 | |
The potential to earn around £3,000 more doing casual work | 0:25:34 | 0:25:38 | |
has left Gary in a bit of a quandary. | 0:25:38 | 0:25:41 | |
Would I leave a steady job with the risk | 0:25:41 | 0:25:43 | |
of just a temporary contract? | 0:25:43 | 0:25:45 | |
Although landing a temporary contract would put me | 0:25:45 | 0:25:48 | |
on more money than I would be on back in the UK. | 0:25:48 | 0:25:51 | |
When the couple get together to discuss their findings, Kelly is | 0:25:51 | 0:25:55 | |
most interested in hearing how Gary got on | 0:25:55 | 0:25:57 | |
with the recruitment consultant. | 0:25:57 | 0:25:59 | |
So how did it go? | 0:25:59 | 0:26:00 | |
She did leave me with a couple of jobs, but it would be a case | 0:26:00 | 0:26:03 | |
of moving to do casual work until something, I guess, would come up. | 0:26:03 | 0:26:07 | |
Even the casual and temporary work, | 0:26:07 | 0:26:10 | |
I would probably go into a job where I would be on, like, | 0:26:10 | 0:26:12 | |
Great British pounds, £25-£27,000 a year. | 0:26:12 | 0:26:16 | |
-That's more than... -So a higher salary. | 0:26:16 | 0:26:18 | |
Time to find out if the potential to earn a higher salary | 0:26:22 | 0:26:25 | |
would be enough to persuade Gary to choose work in Australia over the UK. | 0:26:25 | 0:26:29 | |
-Australia. -Australia...just. | 0:26:35 | 0:26:37 | |
-Oh, that's good. -Not expecting that? | 0:26:37 | 0:26:39 | |
No, I wasn't expecting that at all. | 0:26:39 | 0:26:41 | |
I do have to have a long, hard think, but the thought of being able | 0:26:41 | 0:26:44 | |
-to afford the dream house is, at the moment, swaying me. -That's good. | 0:26:44 | 0:26:48 | |
But only just. | 0:26:48 | 0:26:50 | |
So far, Kelly's week has gone better than she could ever have hoped, | 0:26:57 | 0:27:02 | |
with Gary sold on housing and reassured | 0:27:02 | 0:27:05 | |
by his employment prospects down under. | 0:27:05 | 0:27:08 | |
An avid fan of active pursuits at home, | 0:27:08 | 0:27:10 | |
could a taste of the outdoor Australian lifestyle | 0:27:10 | 0:27:14 | |
Kelly longs to share with him be just what is needed to bring him | 0:27:14 | 0:27:17 | |
another step closer to leaving the home comforts of Wales behind? | 0:27:17 | 0:27:22 | |
The couple start their day with a short ferry ride | 0:27:25 | 0:27:28 | |
from the Port of Fremantle to Rottnest Island. | 0:27:28 | 0:27:30 | |
It's a bit choppy, isn't it? How long do you think the journey is? | 0:27:32 | 0:27:36 | |
Five minutes, hopefully. | 0:27:36 | 0:27:38 | |
Sailing over the Indian Ocean, the crossing takes just under | 0:27:39 | 0:27:43 | |
an hour, and Kelly is relieved to finally disembark. | 0:27:43 | 0:27:46 | |
-Glad to get feet on land? -EXHALING: -Yeah. | 0:27:46 | 0:27:49 | |
HE LAUGHS | 0:27:49 | 0:27:51 | |
I'm not a sea mammal. | 0:27:51 | 0:27:52 | |
The island is believed to have separated from the mainland | 0:27:55 | 0:27:57 | |
over 7000 years ago, and Kelly and Gary are keen to do some exploring. | 0:27:57 | 0:28:02 | |
It is boiling. | 0:28:03 | 0:28:05 | |
It's nice though, it is | 0:28:05 | 0:28:06 | |
better than walking in the rain with your waterproofs | 0:28:06 | 0:28:09 | |
-and all that on. -Yeah. | 0:28:09 | 0:28:11 | |
The couple are keen hikers back in the UK, | 0:28:12 | 0:28:15 | |
but the weather conditions here are very different, and as they | 0:28:15 | 0:28:18 | |
take in the scenery, Kelly points out a few more differences from home. | 0:28:18 | 0:28:22 | |
Caerphilly wouldn't have this, would it? | 0:28:22 | 0:28:24 | |
No, but then you've got the Brecon Beacons and... | 0:28:24 | 0:28:27 | |
Yeah, you do, but this would be kind of doorstep material rather | 0:28:27 | 0:28:31 | |
than having to do a bit of a trek. | 0:28:31 | 0:28:33 | |
Drive up for it. | 0:28:33 | 0:28:34 | |
Gary is staying loyal to his homeland, | 0:28:35 | 0:28:37 | |
but Kelly soon spots something they definitely wouldn't find in Wales. | 0:28:37 | 0:28:42 | |
Look. | 0:28:42 | 0:28:43 | |
Oh, this is amazing. I would move here just for you! | 0:28:43 | 0:28:47 | |
The island is home to around 10,000 quokkas. | 0:28:47 | 0:28:50 | |
KELLY GIGGLES | 0:28:50 | 0:28:51 | |
But Gary is less impressed at becoming mates with a marsupial. | 0:28:51 | 0:28:56 | |
-They're like big, fat rats with cute faces. -TO QUOKKA: -Come on! | 0:28:56 | 0:28:59 | |
KELLY SMACKS HER LIPS AND THEY BOTH LAUGH | 0:29:00 | 0:29:03 | |
Moving on, the couple make the steep climb to one of the island's | 0:29:07 | 0:29:10 | |
best vantage points. | 0:29:10 | 0:29:12 | |
Eesh. | 0:29:12 | 0:29:13 | |
Nice. | 0:29:14 | 0:29:16 | |
The views are worth the effort, | 0:29:16 | 0:29:18 | |
and the day could be changing Gary's outlook on the move. | 0:29:18 | 0:29:20 | |
This is kind of what I was expecting, | 0:29:20 | 0:29:22 | |
can't really argue with it, | 0:29:22 | 0:29:23 | |
-it is just totally different to what we are used to, isn't it? -Yeah. | 0:29:23 | 0:29:26 | |
But it has also set Kelly thinking about the reality of moving | 0:29:26 | 0:29:29 | |
so far from home on her own, | 0:29:29 | 0:29:31 | |
and reminds her of how much this experience means to them. | 0:29:31 | 0:29:35 | |
It wouldn't be the same without Gary with me. | 0:29:35 | 0:29:38 | |
I'm hoping that today will have shown him the lifestyle | 0:29:38 | 0:29:43 | |
and that can outweigh the finances, outweigh security with the job. | 0:29:43 | 0:29:49 | |
As the sun begins to set, it is | 0:29:49 | 0:29:51 | |
clear Gary is far from certain about what the future holds. | 0:29:51 | 0:29:54 | |
I'm still feeling quite pressured, as far as us as a couple go. | 0:29:55 | 0:29:59 | |
I'm still not 100% convinced on what I'm going to | 0:29:59 | 0:30:02 | |
decide and where we are going to go, at the moment. | 0:30:02 | 0:30:05 | |
Difficult choices lie ahead, but meanwhile, it is time to | 0:30:06 | 0:30:10 | |
find out if the day has done enough | 0:30:10 | 0:30:13 | |
to see Gary choose Australia over the UK. | 0:30:13 | 0:30:15 | |
After sampling the Australian lifestyle today, | 0:30:15 | 0:30:18 | |
it is time for us to vote. | 0:30:18 | 0:30:20 | |
BOTH: Australia! | 0:30:29 | 0:30:31 | |
-Any surprises there? -No. -Yeah. | 0:30:31 | 0:30:33 | |
No, I knew you would convince yourself. | 0:30:33 | 0:30:35 | |
It speaks for itself. | 0:30:35 | 0:30:37 | |
-Am I that easy to read? -Yeah. | 0:30:37 | 0:30:39 | |
One of Gary's biggest concerns about a potential move is | 0:30:52 | 0:30:55 | |
the thought of having to establish new friendships. | 0:30:55 | 0:30:58 | |
To help put his mind to rest, we have arranged for the couple to | 0:30:58 | 0:31:01 | |
meet with Kelly's cousin Nicki and her family. | 0:31:01 | 0:31:04 | |
-Hello! Nicki! -Hiya! | 0:31:06 | 0:31:09 | |
It's been 19 years since Nicki and Kelly last saw one another. | 0:31:09 | 0:31:13 | |
-Have you enjoyed it this week? -Yeah, it's been really good. | 0:31:13 | 0:31:15 | |
The lifestyle, I think, suits us down to a T. | 0:31:15 | 0:31:18 | |
We travel a lot, and I don't think there is | 0:31:18 | 0:31:20 | |
any better place in Australia. | 0:31:20 | 0:31:22 | |
One of Gary's problems is, we don't have a support network | 0:31:22 | 0:31:26 | |
here yet, which is why it was a big thing to meet you guys. | 0:31:26 | 0:31:29 | |
You won't have any trouble. | 0:31:29 | 0:31:30 | |
-You won't have any trouble making friends, that is for sure. -Yeah. | 0:31:30 | 0:31:34 | |
While the girls catch up, | 0:31:34 | 0:31:36 | |
Gary helps Nicki's husband Neville get a barbecue going, | 0:31:36 | 0:31:40 | |
and finds out what he thinks of life down under. | 0:31:40 | 0:31:43 | |
Mate, we love it. Summertime, we are out there | 0:31:43 | 0:31:45 | |
probably four nights a week. | 0:31:45 | 0:31:46 | |
If it's too hot, you jump in the pool. | 0:31:46 | 0:31:48 | |
THEY LAUGH | 0:31:48 | 0:31:49 | |
Back to the barbie. | 0:31:49 | 0:31:51 | |
-Kelly will be glad you are saying all of this. -Oh, I love it. | 0:31:51 | 0:31:54 | |
As the evening wears on, | 0:31:55 | 0:31:57 | |
Neville admits he is not convinced Gary will take the plunge. | 0:31:57 | 0:32:01 | |
He is a little bit up and down, so it'll be interesting to see | 0:32:01 | 0:32:04 | |
if that is going to happen. | 0:32:04 | 0:32:06 | |
The chance to see the kind of evenings they could enjoy | 0:32:06 | 0:32:09 | |
if they do make the move has been reassuring for both Kelly and Gary. | 0:32:09 | 0:32:13 | |
It's nice to kind of see what support networks we would have here | 0:32:13 | 0:32:16 | |
if we did move out, so I have really enjoyed today. | 0:32:16 | 0:32:19 | |
Yeah, being able to get outdoors, have a barbecue, | 0:32:19 | 0:32:22 | |
enjoy the Australian way, I guess, it's been really good fun. | 0:32:22 | 0:32:26 | |
Won over by the lifestyle | 0:32:33 | 0:32:34 | |
and realising making friends could be easier than Gary feared has | 0:32:34 | 0:32:38 | |
put him another step closer to agreeing to Kelly's dream. | 0:32:38 | 0:32:42 | |
But she knows she still needs to be convinced the move | 0:32:42 | 0:32:45 | |
won't break the bank. | 0:32:45 | 0:32:46 | |
To help the couple figure out how living costs in Australia | 0:32:46 | 0:32:50 | |
compare with the UK, we have provided them with some financial facts. | 0:32:50 | 0:32:53 | |
-You ready? -Yeah. Nervous? -A little bit. -A little bit? | 0:32:55 | 0:32:59 | |
I'm intrigued as well, I think. | 0:32:59 | 0:33:00 | |
-Yeah, I don't know which way it is going to go. -Yeah. | 0:33:00 | 0:33:03 | |
-First up, a comparison of their weekly grocery shop. -Oh, bread. | 0:33:03 | 0:33:07 | |
-That's more expensive. -Bananas. -Oh, my God! | 0:33:07 | 0:33:11 | |
-That's massive. -Yeah! | 0:33:11 | 0:33:13 | |
I love a banana. | 0:33:13 | 0:33:15 | |
GARY LAUGHS | 0:33:15 | 0:33:16 | |
You'll have to start loving half a banana. Lemons, then. | 0:33:16 | 0:33:19 | |
You're going from 99p to £2.59. | 0:33:19 | 0:33:22 | |
They just grow on trees round here, we'll just go and pick them. | 0:33:22 | 0:33:26 | |
Overall, their shopping bill would be just over £100. | 0:33:26 | 0:33:29 | |
So that's £15... | 0:33:29 | 0:33:31 | |
and a penny more a week. | 0:33:31 | 0:33:35 | |
-£60 a month. -Well, that is not that bad. | 0:33:35 | 0:33:39 | |
Gary doesn't looked convinced, | 0:33:39 | 0:33:41 | |
as the couple move on to the bigger monthly bills. | 0:33:41 | 0:33:44 | |
Basing figures on the final property they viewed, | 0:33:44 | 0:33:46 | |
they're £369 out of pocket straightaway. | 0:33:46 | 0:33:51 | |
It is a lot more expensive than what we are paying in the UK, | 0:33:51 | 0:33:55 | |
but in the UK we don't get the pool. It was a huge house. | 0:33:55 | 0:33:59 | |
Unfortunately, many of the utility bills are bigger, too. | 0:33:59 | 0:34:03 | |
So, obviously there's gas, £15 in the UK, £16. | 0:34:03 | 0:34:06 | |
So, minus one. Electricity, minus six. | 0:34:06 | 0:34:10 | |
-Water. -So what are we on, 35 in the UK. -Minus 25. | 0:34:10 | 0:34:15 | |
There are too many minuses. | 0:34:15 | 0:34:17 | |
Kelly adds everything up to find out their overall costs. | 0:34:17 | 0:34:21 | |
-What did we get? -2,702. -2,702. | 0:34:21 | 0:34:27 | |
So we are £266 out of pocket. | 0:34:27 | 0:34:31 | |
OK. | 0:34:33 | 0:34:35 | |
Concerned, Gary shifts his attention to their potential new | 0:34:35 | 0:34:38 | |
earnings down under. | 0:34:38 | 0:34:40 | |
Basing his figure on the assumption he will find casual work. | 0:34:40 | 0:34:44 | |
-So, 3,679. -3,679 combined. | 0:34:44 | 0:34:49 | |
That's £184 more than their joint income in the UK. | 0:34:49 | 0:34:53 | |
But when they take away the higher bills | 0:34:53 | 0:34:56 | |
and compare the result to their disposable income at home | 0:34:56 | 0:34:59 | |
every month, there's no escaping they're quids down. | 0:34:59 | 0:35:03 | |
-£82. -Worse off. | 0:35:03 | 0:35:05 | |
But then you do get the lifestyle, the weather. | 0:35:05 | 0:35:10 | |
Doesn't seem to be... | 0:35:10 | 0:35:12 | |
I would pay £82 a month for that in the UK. | 0:35:12 | 0:35:15 | |
Ultimately, they would be just under £1,000 worse off | 0:35:15 | 0:35:18 | |
per year in Australia. | 0:35:18 | 0:35:21 | |
I guess when you just look on the face of it, | 0:35:21 | 0:35:24 | |
we would be £82 a month worse off. | 0:35:24 | 0:35:26 | |
That sounds great with the lifestyle | 0:35:26 | 0:35:28 | |
and house we could potentially have. | 0:35:28 | 0:35:30 | |
But I mean, again, it keeps coming back to the whole risk of, you know, | 0:35:30 | 0:35:35 | |
this is based on just a kind of guesstimate as to what | 0:35:35 | 0:35:40 | |
-I could potentially get if I could get a casual or temporary job. -Mm-hm. | 0:35:40 | 0:35:44 | |
Gary is still struggling to get his head around the idea | 0:35:46 | 0:35:49 | |
of sacrificing job security. | 0:35:49 | 0:35:52 | |
But will the figures have done enough to secure another vote for Australia? | 0:35:53 | 0:35:57 | |
-Australia. -Australia. | 0:36:00 | 0:36:02 | |
-Yeah, I think...almost a bit of a no-brainer. -Yeah. | 0:36:02 | 0:36:05 | |
You are only £82 worse off... | 0:36:05 | 0:36:10 | |
but with that house. | 0:36:10 | 0:36:12 | |
Just based on the finances, I was pleasantly surprised, I think. | 0:36:12 | 0:36:16 | |
-I think the £82 a week, that's worth the lifestyle, I think. -Yeah. | 0:36:16 | 0:36:21 | |
With the lifestyle they stand to gain outweighing the loss of a few | 0:36:27 | 0:36:30 | |
pounds in their pockets... | 0:36:30 | 0:36:33 | |
it seems Gary is really buying into Kelly's Australian dream. | 0:36:33 | 0:36:37 | |
But realising his reluctance to leave everyone he's grown up | 0:36:37 | 0:36:40 | |
with in Wales, she knows watching messages from loved ones back | 0:36:40 | 0:36:44 | |
home could set him back to square one. | 0:36:44 | 0:36:48 | |
-Should we watch and see? -Mm-hm. | 0:36:48 | 0:36:51 | |
-ALL: -Hello, Kelly and Gary! | 0:36:51 | 0:36:54 | |
Hello, Kelly. | 0:36:54 | 0:36:56 | |
Gary is very, very laid-back, and Kelly is the sort of go-getter. | 0:36:56 | 0:36:59 | |
I think that is why they work so well, because they are chalk | 0:36:59 | 0:37:02 | |
and cheese. But Gary can also be really funny. | 0:37:02 | 0:37:04 | |
Don't know what's she on about. | 0:37:04 | 0:37:06 | |
She's done so much in her short life. | 0:37:06 | 0:37:09 | |
You won't believe what she's done. She's... | 0:37:09 | 0:37:12 | |
I wish I was like her, and where she gets it from and the energy. | 0:37:12 | 0:37:16 | |
'Kelly is very strong minded. She's always wanted to live away. | 0:37:16 | 0:37:19 | |
'She had that set in her mind before she met Gary.' | 0:37:19 | 0:37:22 | |
I think, then, he is going to have to decide whether he's in or out, | 0:37:22 | 0:37:25 | |
-really, because I think she will go without him. -Probably. -Yeah. | 0:37:25 | 0:37:29 | |
If Gary and Kelly went, | 0:37:30 | 0:37:32 | |
there would be a gap that probably wouldn't get filled. | 0:37:32 | 0:37:35 | |
'Yeah, there would be.' | 0:37:35 | 0:37:36 | |
I want Auntie Kelly to stay because I love her. | 0:37:36 | 0:37:40 | |
'My worst fear is if she got into trouble.' | 0:37:43 | 0:37:45 | |
You know, if she was ill or if she had an accident | 0:37:45 | 0:37:48 | |
and I couldn't get to her quickly. | 0:37:48 | 0:37:50 | |
She's got extended family over there, who would support her. | 0:37:50 | 0:37:52 | |
But there's nothing like your mum, you know, | 0:37:52 | 0:37:54 | |
when you are in trouble and you need help. | 0:37:54 | 0:37:59 | |
'I dread the thought of it, really, because the thing is, | 0:37:59 | 0:38:02 | |
'the older you get, you don't' | 0:38:02 | 0:38:03 | |
know if you will be able to get out there and see them again. | 0:38:03 | 0:38:07 | |
That's... At my age. | 0:38:07 | 0:38:10 | |
I don't even want to think about it. | 0:38:10 | 0:38:13 | |
'I would really miss you if you were to go,' | 0:38:13 | 0:38:15 | |
but obviously if you do choose to go, I wish you the best of luck. | 0:38:15 | 0:38:19 | |
Even though we will all miss you loads, and we don't want you | 0:38:19 | 0:38:22 | |
to go, we do want nice holidays and somewhere to stay. | 0:38:22 | 0:38:25 | |
So I hope you have a fantastic time, and make the decision right for you. | 0:38:25 | 0:38:29 | |
You've both been good mates to us. | 0:38:31 | 0:38:33 | |
You deserve the opportunity to do what's best for the pair of you. | 0:38:33 | 0:38:36 | |
'There's always a place here for you if you do decide to go out there.' | 0:38:36 | 0:38:39 | |
-But again, do what you want. -Fantastic friends. -Do what you want. | 0:38:39 | 0:38:43 | |
'It's going to be hard, I will miss you.' | 0:38:45 | 0:38:47 | |
You know, you are a great couple and... | 0:38:47 | 0:38:51 | |
you are a big part of my life. | 0:38:51 | 0:38:53 | |
And it is going to be hard when you go, | 0:38:53 | 0:38:55 | |
but I think you should give it a go. | 0:38:55 | 0:38:58 | |
'Hi, Kelly.' | 0:38:58 | 0:38:59 | |
You've been a wonderful granddaughter. | 0:38:59 | 0:39:02 | |
And I'm so proud of all the things that you've achieved. | 0:39:02 | 0:39:06 | |
And I will really miss you if you go, | 0:39:06 | 0:39:08 | |
but if you do decide to go, I wish you all the best. | 0:39:08 | 0:39:12 | |
-What do you think of that? -I'm a bit more emotional than I thought. | 0:39:16 | 0:39:21 | |
I don't know. | 0:39:21 | 0:39:22 | |
It is quite hard, actually, isn't it? | 0:39:24 | 0:39:27 | |
Yeah. | 0:39:29 | 0:39:30 | |
-I guess we're leaving a lot behind, I suppose, aren't we? -Mm. | 0:39:34 | 0:39:38 | |
And it is missing my nephew's growing up, that's what I think | 0:39:38 | 0:39:41 | |
the struggle is for me. | 0:39:41 | 0:39:43 | |
I don't want to not be part of his life. | 0:39:43 | 0:39:48 | |
-Do you know what I mean? -Yeah. -It is hard, like. That's all it is. | 0:39:48 | 0:39:52 | |
Kelly's chances of persuading Gary to make the move down under | 0:40:01 | 0:40:04 | |
had looked promising all week. | 0:40:04 | 0:40:07 | |
But messages from loved ones have been a real reminder for both | 0:40:07 | 0:40:10 | |
Gary and Kelly of the true emotional cost of leaving the UK behind. | 0:40:10 | 0:40:16 | |
As the couple prepared to make their all-important final decision, | 0:40:16 | 0:40:20 | |
will the reality of being 10,000 miles from friends | 0:40:20 | 0:40:24 | |
and family outweigh the benefits of a life in Australia? | 0:40:24 | 0:40:28 | |
Kelly's first trip down under was all about convincing Gary to | 0:40:32 | 0:40:35 | |
share her vision for their future. | 0:40:35 | 0:40:38 | |
But as they prepare to make the most important choice of the week, | 0:40:38 | 0:40:41 | |
messages from home have left him with a conundrum. | 0:40:41 | 0:40:44 | |
You know, whichever way I go, there are going to be people upset. | 0:40:44 | 0:40:47 | |
It's a kind of balancing act now to decide what I think is right for me, what I think is right for Kelly | 0:40:47 | 0:40:51 | |
and what I think is right for everybody else. It is just trying to put all that together | 0:40:51 | 0:40:55 | |
and make that one final decision. | 0:40:55 | 0:40:57 | |
Words from loved ones were difficult for Kelly to hear, too. | 0:40:57 | 0:41:01 | |
I was a little bit more emotional and a bit more affected | 0:41:01 | 0:41:04 | |
by the family and friends' videos than I kind of thought I was. | 0:41:04 | 0:41:08 | |
So it is a bit of soul-searching for myself as well, | 0:41:08 | 0:41:10 | |
to kind of weigh that up with the dream I've had for a long time. | 0:41:10 | 0:41:14 | |
But Gary knows she'll still chase the life she desires. | 0:41:16 | 0:41:19 | |
I would say, yes, I'm fairly confident. | 0:41:19 | 0:41:21 | |
I still think I know which way Kelly is going to vote. | 0:41:21 | 0:41:25 | |
She's going to vote Australia. | 0:41:25 | 0:41:28 | |
Ultimately, Kelly and Gary realise if they aren't on the same page when their | 0:41:28 | 0:41:32 | |
final votes are cast, they could end up on opposite sides of the world. | 0:41:32 | 0:41:37 | |
This is kind of a dream I've wanted for a very long time. | 0:41:37 | 0:41:40 | |
And if he can't see himself in Australia, then we need to kind | 0:41:40 | 0:41:44 | |
of have a conversation about our future and where we go with that. | 0:41:44 | 0:41:47 | |
Now I'm deciding whether I'm going to be part of Kelly's dream, | 0:41:47 | 0:41:50 | |
or whether it's going to be something that she may be undertaking on her own. | 0:41:50 | 0:41:54 | |
With so much at stake, it's time to find out whether Kelly | 0:41:54 | 0:41:57 | |
and Gary will be together or apart | 0:41:57 | 0:41:59 | |
when it comes to choosing where they want to call home. | 0:41:59 | 0:42:03 | |
This week, I've had the chance to show Gary what Australia has | 0:42:03 | 0:42:06 | |
to offer, so I think we should just get down to vote, maybe. | 0:42:06 | 0:42:09 | |
Come on, then. | 0:42:09 | 0:42:10 | |
-Australia. -UK. | 0:42:20 | 0:42:22 | |
Oh! | 0:42:22 | 0:42:24 | |
-How come? -I'm basing it purely on what we've seen this week, | 0:42:24 | 0:42:27 | |
and I just don't think the dream house, with my job prospects, | 0:42:27 | 0:42:31 | |
is a gamble I'd be willing to take for either of us, I don't think. | 0:42:31 | 0:42:34 | |
I think when we go back home, we need to look at the affordability. | 0:42:34 | 0:42:38 | |
You know, what we could afford if work wasn't to go as planned for me. | 0:42:38 | 0:42:41 | |
And then if we can still find somewhere that was affordable, | 0:42:41 | 0:42:45 | |
I would be more inclined to be voting Australia. | 0:42:45 | 0:42:48 | |
I do want you to come, so if you could kind of look into that, | 0:42:48 | 0:42:51 | |
that would be brilliant. And it would be nice if we could come together, | 0:42:51 | 0:42:55 | |
rather than me on my own. | 0:42:55 | 0:42:56 | |
Despite Kelly's best efforts, | 0:43:01 | 0:43:04 | |
Gary is not ready yet to commit to a move down under. | 0:43:04 | 0:43:08 | |
Wherever they decide to call home, and whether or not it's together, | 0:43:08 | 0:43:12 | |
we wish both Kelly and Gary all the best for the future. | 0:43:12 | 0:43:17 |