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Hello and welcome to Wanted Down Under, the show which catapults a British family | 0:00:02 | 0:00:07 | |
right across the other side of the world | 0:00:07 | 0:00:10 | |
to help them make the biggest decision of their life. | 0:00:10 | 0:00:13 | |
Busy single mum Becci Sanders and her 11-year-old son Keelan | 0:00:13 | 0:00:16 | |
are considering swapping the daily grind in Northampton | 0:00:16 | 0:00:20 | |
for a new life in Australia, | 0:00:20 | 0:00:22 | |
even though they've never been to see what it's like. | 0:00:22 | 0:00:25 | |
I feel as if we've outgrown this area, the house. | 0:00:25 | 0:00:30 | |
There's opportunities to be had elsewhere that aren't available here, | 0:00:30 | 0:00:35 | |
not only for me but for Keelan as well. | 0:00:35 | 0:00:37 | |
Keelan's hoping that a move to Australia will mean more quality time with his mum. | 0:00:37 | 0:00:43 | |
We'll be doing a lot more, I reckon, in Australia which we wouldn't do here. | 0:00:43 | 0:00:48 | |
My mum will take me swimming more, and cinemas maybe less because it's hot outside. | 0:00:48 | 0:00:52 | |
But will the reality of life in Australia prove a huge disappointment? | 0:00:52 | 0:00:56 | |
They feel like holiday apartments. | 0:00:56 | 0:00:58 | |
They don't feel like somewhere that you could live. | 0:00:58 | 0:01:02 | |
One of the reasons we want to get out of the UK is everybody | 0:01:02 | 0:01:05 | |
is living on top of everybody else. | 0:01:05 | 0:01:08 | |
Would moving away from his friends in pursuit of a dream life | 0:01:08 | 0:01:12 | |
be too much for Keelan to bear? | 0:01:12 | 0:01:15 | |
Do you want a hug? | 0:01:15 | 0:01:16 | |
Will that leave the Sanders family's plans in tatters | 0:01:16 | 0:01:20 | |
or will they decide to press ahead with a move down under? | 0:01:20 | 0:01:23 | |
When you look out of the window and all you see is grey clouds and rain, | 0:01:46 | 0:01:49 | |
the prospect of a new life in Australia can seem pretty appealing. | 0:01:49 | 0:01:53 | |
For people under 45 and with a skill that's in demand, | 0:01:53 | 0:01:57 | |
it's a realistic option to make the move. | 0:01:57 | 0:02:00 | |
But, if you've never even set foot down under, | 0:02:00 | 0:02:03 | |
it's a massive undertaking. | 0:02:03 | 0:02:05 | |
What if you haven't thought everything through before you make this life-changing decision? | 0:02:05 | 0:02:11 | |
We've given 20 British families the chance of a lifetime, | 0:02:11 | 0:02:15 | |
a week down under to see for themselves if it's all | 0:02:15 | 0:02:19 | |
they dreamt it would be. | 0:02:19 | 0:02:20 | |
They'll be asked then to vote one way or the other, | 0:02:20 | 0:02:23 | |
whether to stay in the UK or move to Australia. | 0:02:23 | 0:02:27 | |
Becci and Keelan Sanders live with their dog Munchy in Northampton. | 0:02:27 | 0:02:32 | |
Becci has long wanted to make the world her oyster | 0:02:32 | 0:02:35 | |
and hopes her job may be their ticket out of the UK. | 0:02:35 | 0:02:38 | |
She's a qualified occupational therapist | 0:02:38 | 0:02:41 | |
but currently works as a mental health advocate. | 0:02:41 | 0:02:45 | |
I want to make a difference to people's lives. | 0:02:45 | 0:02:48 | |
I think everyone that does nursing, OT and social work would say the same thing. | 0:02:48 | 0:02:53 | |
I don't feel as if I'm able to put that into practice here | 0:02:53 | 0:02:57 | |
because of the restraints with funding and budgets. | 0:02:57 | 0:03:00 | |
I feel there'll be more opportunities to make a difference to people's lives elsewhere. | 0:03:00 | 0:03:05 | |
While wanting to help others, | 0:03:05 | 0:03:07 | |
Becci also struggles with her own vulnerability. | 0:03:07 | 0:03:11 | |
For four or five months of the year, I suffer from depression. | 0:03:11 | 0:03:15 | |
My life is pretty much governed by Seasonal Affective Disorder. | 0:03:15 | 0:03:19 | |
It means that during the winter months I do very little. | 0:03:19 | 0:03:24 | |
I get up in the morning and sort Keelan out for school. | 0:03:24 | 0:03:27 | |
And I go to work and I come home and sleep, | 0:03:27 | 0:03:32 | |
and that's about all we do during the winter, | 0:03:32 | 0:03:35 | |
and it obviously has an effect on Keelan as well. | 0:03:35 | 0:03:38 | |
Well, it affects me because even the slightest thing | 0:03:38 | 0:03:41 | |
could make her really angry at me. | 0:03:41 | 0:03:44 | |
Which I don't like. | 0:03:44 | 0:03:46 | |
He has to do a lot more during the winter months to help me out around the house. | 0:03:46 | 0:03:51 | |
He has to do a lot more housework, | 0:03:51 | 0:03:53 | |
so I do feel guilty that I need to rely on him sometimes. | 0:03:53 | 0:03:57 | |
'I've got a very, very strong relationship with my mum.' | 0:03:57 | 0:04:01 | |
I look after her when she's ill, she looks after me when I'm ill. | 0:04:01 | 0:04:05 | |
Although they're close, Becci and Keelan have a strong support network | 0:04:05 | 0:04:10 | |
which extends beyond the two of them. | 0:04:10 | 0:04:13 | |
My mum will miss her best friend Heather a lot | 0:04:13 | 0:04:15 | |
because if one of them's had a bad day they'll go and see the other and cheer them up. | 0:04:15 | 0:04:20 | |
So that's what my mum will miss most, miss her friends. | 0:04:20 | 0:04:23 | |
-There isn't a day goes by when we don't talk. -No, no. | 0:04:23 | 0:04:26 | |
That's going to be the weirdest thing. | 0:04:26 | 0:04:29 | |
You don't realise how much you rely on someone | 0:04:29 | 0:04:31 | |
until they're not around. | 0:04:31 | 0:04:34 | |
I don't want to think about it cos I get upset! | 0:04:34 | 0:04:37 | |
If they can't replace those close emotional contacts, | 0:04:37 | 0:04:41 | |
they really will be on their own. | 0:04:41 | 0:04:43 | |
If we don't manage to make friends out there, | 0:04:43 | 0:04:46 | |
that will be quite difficult. | 0:04:46 | 0:04:49 | |
'It'll obviously make it more intense,' | 0:04:49 | 0:04:51 | |
the fact that I miss friends and family here. | 0:04:51 | 0:04:54 | |
I'll be sad I'm leaving them. If something really bad happened | 0:04:54 | 0:04:57 | |
to one of them then I'd have to come back. | 0:04:57 | 0:05:01 | |
Becci and Keelan have so much to think about | 0:05:01 | 0:05:04 | |
in considering a move to Australia. | 0:05:04 | 0:05:07 | |
Becci has decided they'll rent a property rather than buy | 0:05:07 | 0:05:11 | |
if they make the move. | 0:05:11 | 0:05:14 | |
But, to help them discover whether Australia can live up to their expectations, | 0:05:14 | 0:05:18 | |
we gave them a week's trial in the capital of the Northern Territory, Darwin. | 0:05:18 | 0:05:23 | |
We found three different lifestyles for our family to sample. | 0:05:23 | 0:05:27 | |
One in the country, one in the city and one on the coast, | 0:05:27 | 0:05:32 | |
each one with the offer of a job and a brand-new way of life | 0:05:32 | 0:05:35 | |
for them to enjoy on their budget. | 0:05:35 | 0:05:37 | |
First, let's take a look at the country lifestyle. | 0:05:37 | 0:05:41 | |
In rural Darwin, you can make the most of the area's outdoor spaces | 0:05:41 | 0:05:44 | |
and year-long balmy temperatures. | 0:05:44 | 0:05:48 | |
With a salary in the region of £23,000, | 0:05:48 | 0:05:51 | |
you may find rural living more affordable. | 0:05:51 | 0:05:54 | |
You could rent a two-bedroom air-conditioned flat in Gray | 0:05:54 | 0:05:57 | |
for 350 a week, which works out at around £600 a month. | 0:05:57 | 0:06:03 | |
Plus there's wildlife and stunning scenery | 0:06:03 | 0:06:05 | |
to be found right on your doorstep. | 0:06:05 | 0:06:07 | |
Cain Ellis is practice manager at a community-managed health service | 0:06:07 | 0:06:11 | |
which is on the lookout for people like you. | 0:06:11 | 0:06:13 | |
Our clinic services the Darwin region for indigenous people and their families. | 0:06:13 | 0:06:18 | |
We see a lot of people with chronic diseases such as diabetes, | 0:06:18 | 0:06:22 | |
heart disease, renal failure. | 0:06:22 | 0:06:25 | |
While we don't have openings in the mental health area at the moment, | 0:06:25 | 0:06:29 | |
we'd love to go down that track | 0:06:29 | 0:06:30 | |
and hopefully we can have a chat with you about the future. | 0:06:30 | 0:06:34 | |
First, you get to come and experience Darwin. | 0:06:34 | 0:06:36 | |
The culture, the weather. You might as well come and see for yourself. | 0:06:36 | 0:06:40 | |
So that was the kind of lifestyle they could enjoy in the country. | 0:06:40 | 0:06:44 | |
Let's take a look at what's possible in the city on their budget. | 0:06:44 | 0:06:49 | |
Capital of the Northern Territory, | 0:06:49 | 0:06:51 | |
Darwin is one of Australia's most buzzing and multicultural cities. | 0:06:51 | 0:06:56 | |
The rental market in Darwin city offers two-bedroom accommodation | 0:06:59 | 0:07:03 | |
for around 700 to £900 a month, so there's something for everyone. | 0:07:03 | 0:07:07 | |
You could work in a private practice like this one | 0:07:09 | 0:07:12 | |
which is owned by Terina Saunders. | 0:07:12 | 0:07:15 | |
The variety of work is what makes health and rehab quite exciting. | 0:07:15 | 0:07:18 | |
It could be a hand injury, injuries to their lower limbs, | 0:07:18 | 0:07:21 | |
spinal injuries, amputees - quite a range of different clientele. | 0:07:21 | 0:07:26 | |
The real plus of living in Darwin, of course, is the lifestyle. | 0:07:26 | 0:07:31 | |
It's such a great place to live and work. | 0:07:31 | 0:07:33 | |
Most of the year it's just beautiful, sunny, warm, lovely days. | 0:07:33 | 0:07:37 | |
You don't have to worry about getting cold. | 0:07:37 | 0:07:39 | |
It looks like their lifestyle could shape up pretty well in the city, | 0:07:39 | 0:07:45 | |
but what about a new life on the coast? | 0:07:45 | 0:07:48 | |
The Darwin coast offers a superb choice of recreational activities, | 0:07:48 | 0:07:52 | |
from fun watersports to excellent fishing. | 0:07:52 | 0:07:56 | |
With some of Darwin's most expensive residential areas lying on the coast, | 0:07:56 | 0:08:01 | |
renting here could strain your finances, costing from £750 to £1,000 a month. | 0:08:01 | 0:08:07 | |
The benefits, though, are many, not least a relaxed way of life, | 0:08:07 | 0:08:11 | |
where you can enjoy the beach from sunrise to sunset. | 0:08:11 | 0:08:16 | |
Local government employs occupational therapists. | 0:08:16 | 0:08:20 | |
One of the managers, Penny Fielding, tells us more. | 0:08:22 | 0:08:25 | |
The work that we have here is a range of general activities | 0:08:25 | 0:08:30 | |
and so we need someone who can be responsive to a range of different needs. | 0:08:30 | 0:08:34 | |
So, Becci, when you're in town, feel free to come by and have a chat. | 0:08:34 | 0:08:38 | |
So, the three options for Becci and Keelan all look appealing in different ways, | 0:08:38 | 0:08:44 | |
but they could only try one. | 0:08:44 | 0:08:45 | |
A new country lifestyle could mean better, cheaper accommodation | 0:08:45 | 0:08:50 | |
but may be too remote. | 0:08:50 | 0:08:51 | |
A move to the city of Darwin would mean being around people more | 0:08:51 | 0:08:54 | |
and easier access to work and school, | 0:08:54 | 0:08:57 | |
and the coast offers the outdoors lifestyle that they dream of, | 0:08:57 | 0:09:00 | |
but at a cost that may be out of reach. | 0:09:00 | 0:09:04 | |
So, three very different possibilities for our family to try. | 0:09:04 | 0:09:09 | |
Which one suited them best? | 0:09:09 | 0:09:11 | |
We sent the Sanders off to test life in the city for their trial week in Australia. | 0:09:11 | 0:09:17 | |
Becci and Keelan have certainly got a lot to work out in the coming days. | 0:09:17 | 0:09:22 | |
They've always been fine just the two of them, | 0:09:22 | 0:09:24 | |
but nearly 9,000 miles away from their friends and family, they may begin to feel isolated. | 0:09:24 | 0:09:30 | |
As they land at Darwin Airport after a gruelling 22-hour journey, they're raring to go. | 0:09:30 | 0:09:37 | |
Slightly apprehensive cos we don't really know what's going to happen, | 0:09:38 | 0:09:41 | |
-but we're very much looking forward to it, and prepared to throw ourselves in completely. -Yeah. | 0:09:41 | 0:09:47 | |
Can't wait to see it in daylight! | 0:09:49 | 0:09:51 | |
There's still a few hours to go before sunrise. | 0:09:51 | 0:09:54 | |
They're staying in the heart of Darwin city centre. | 0:09:54 | 0:09:58 | |
Wow. | 0:09:58 | 0:10:00 | |
-Oh, wow. -Look at the size of the kitchen! I'll get lost. | 0:10:03 | 0:10:07 | |
Their base for the week is on the third floor of a block of flats with two bedrooms and a bathroom each. | 0:10:07 | 0:10:13 | |
You've got your own toilet and shower! | 0:10:13 | 0:10:15 | |
-It's a huge room. -It is actually. | 0:10:17 | 0:10:20 | |
-It's really big. -Keelan's happy and Becci's keen to forge relationships with the locals straight away. | 0:10:20 | 0:10:25 | |
A shower big enough to fit two people in. | 0:10:25 | 0:10:28 | |
So I need to go and find another person! | 0:10:28 | 0:10:31 | |
Well, hopefully there'll be plenty of time to make new friends, Becci! | 0:10:31 | 0:10:35 | |
For now, just enjoy the unfamiliar view from the terrace. | 0:10:35 | 0:10:38 | |
Oh, wow. The balcony's cool. | 0:10:38 | 0:10:41 | |
-It's lovely. -Yeah. | 0:10:42 | 0:10:44 | |
They haven't had time to stop, but thoughts are already turning to the loved ones | 0:10:44 | 0:10:50 | |
they could be leaving behind. | 0:10:50 | 0:10:52 | |
It was very strange because Heather gave us a lift to the airport. | 0:10:52 | 0:10:55 | |
That was hard. | 0:10:55 | 0:10:57 | |
I think saying goodbye to Heather especially, | 0:10:57 | 0:11:00 | |
because she came in and had a cup of coffee with us at the airport, | 0:11:00 | 0:11:03 | |
and then she sort of went, "Bye," | 0:11:03 | 0:11:05 | |
and that was quite strange cos it suddenly hit me that we could be doing that for real quite soon. | 0:11:05 | 0:11:10 | |
Tomorrow the adventure begins in earnest. | 0:11:10 | 0:11:13 | |
Will Becci and Keelan find that life so far from home is all that they've imagined? | 0:11:13 | 0:11:19 | |
Back in the UK, Becci and Keelan live in a two-bedroom house in Northampton. | 0:11:25 | 0:11:30 | |
It's big enough for them and Munchy, but they're ready to move on. | 0:11:30 | 0:11:34 | |
As a single mum, Becci's finances are limited | 0:11:34 | 0:11:37 | |
and she's not looking to buy a house in Australia straight away. | 0:11:37 | 0:11:40 | |
She's hoping to rent, and her budget is up to £750 a month. | 0:11:40 | 0:11:46 | |
In the last five years, Darwin has been experiencing a boom | 0:11:50 | 0:11:54 | |
which has led to a shortage of accommodation, so rents are among the highest in Australia. | 0:11:54 | 0:11:59 | |
Will Becci's budget allow her and Keelan to find a property that they'd be happy to live in? | 0:12:01 | 0:12:06 | |
We've found three homes to rent in Darwin. | 0:12:08 | 0:12:11 | |
The first is in Coconut Grove to the north of the city | 0:12:11 | 0:12:15 | |
and will cost Becci around £750 a month, | 0:12:15 | 0:12:18 | |
which is as much as she wanted to spend. | 0:12:18 | 0:12:20 | |
It has two bedrooms, a modest-sized living space and a balcony. | 0:12:20 | 0:12:24 | |
The area is still under development, so they might need some imagination. | 0:12:24 | 0:12:31 | |
Aha! Yeah. More brick walls. | 0:12:31 | 0:12:35 | |
It's too built up, there's no garden. | 0:12:39 | 0:12:40 | |
It could be a property absolutely anywhere in the world and I want to feel as if I'm in Australia. | 0:12:40 | 0:12:45 | |
-It doesn't feel like a... -Yeah. | 0:12:45 | 0:12:47 | |
-It feels like it's just anywhere. -No. | 0:12:47 | 0:12:49 | |
-Not us, is it? -No. | 0:12:49 | 0:12:51 | |
And, if that wasn't bad enough, the utility room and bathroom turn out to be the same room. | 0:12:51 | 0:12:57 | |
I don't know if I like having the laundry in with the toilet and shower. | 0:12:57 | 0:13:01 | |
It could be a bit noisy and stuff. | 0:13:01 | 0:13:03 | |
No, that's a bit strange. | 0:13:03 | 0:13:05 | |
Mm. | 0:13:06 | 0:13:08 | |
Well, the interior of property number one just isn't cutting the mustard with these two | 0:13:10 | 0:13:15 | |
and it's unfortunate that it's slap-bang next to a building site. | 0:13:15 | 0:13:19 | |
A temporary thing, but I don't think that's going to convince the Sanders. | 0:13:19 | 0:13:23 | |
-There is a garden area, look. -Yeah. | 0:13:23 | 0:13:25 | |
Obviously you'd have to share that with everybody else. | 0:13:25 | 0:13:29 | |
-Yeah. -It's not really suitable, is it? | 0:13:29 | 0:13:31 | |
They feel like holiday apartments. They don't feel like somewhere that you could live. | 0:13:31 | 0:13:37 | |
And I'm sure people do live in them and quite happily, but it's not what we're looking for. | 0:13:37 | 0:13:41 | |
One of the reasons that we want to get out of the UK | 0:13:41 | 0:13:44 | |
is because everybody is living on top of everybody else | 0:13:44 | 0:13:47 | |
-and it feels quite claustrophobic, and this has exactly the same feeling. -Yeah. | 0:13:47 | 0:13:51 | |
Although the weather's nice and the apartments are lovely, | 0:13:51 | 0:13:55 | |
it still feels as though you're all scrunched into a small space. | 0:13:55 | 0:13:58 | |
-It's not really what we're looking for, is it? -No. | 0:13:58 | 0:14:01 | |
Keelan and Becci aren't too mad about high-rise living, | 0:14:01 | 0:14:04 | |
but in many areas of Darwin it might be their only affordable option. | 0:14:04 | 0:14:10 | |
In that case, property two may be more up their street. | 0:14:10 | 0:14:13 | |
It's in Nightcliff, a very sought-after area of the city. | 0:14:13 | 0:14:18 | |
It's got two bedrooms and one bathroom and would cost around £700 per month. | 0:14:18 | 0:14:23 | |
Oh, wow. It is gorgeous. | 0:14:23 | 0:14:28 | |
That's really nice. | 0:14:28 | 0:14:30 | |
It's stunning. | 0:14:30 | 0:14:32 | |
-It's like a little hideaway. -Yeah. | 0:14:32 | 0:14:35 | |
It is, it's gorgeous. It's gorgeous. | 0:14:35 | 0:14:38 | |
Well, they like what they've seen so far. | 0:14:38 | 0:14:41 | |
Let's hope the bedrooms will be up to the mark. | 0:14:41 | 0:14:44 | |
Oh, wow. This looks beautiful. Yeah, that'll do! | 0:14:44 | 0:14:49 | |
So Becci's got her tropical hideaway and Keelan's off next door to see if his is up to scratch. | 0:14:49 | 0:14:55 | |
So this would be your room. It looks nice. | 0:14:55 | 0:14:58 | |
-Without the extra bed, there'd be a lot more room. -There would, yeah. | 0:14:58 | 0:15:02 | |
-Quite like that. -It is nice. | 0:15:02 | 0:15:05 | |
Right, so that's a tick next to the living area and both bedrooms. | 0:15:05 | 0:15:09 | |
Oh, yeah. | 0:15:09 | 0:15:11 | |
-Yes. -Yeah! | 0:15:13 | 0:15:16 | |
Can we stay, please? | 0:15:16 | 0:15:18 | |
Last stop is to compare the garden with their own in the UK. | 0:15:23 | 0:15:27 | |
It doesn't compare to the garden back home. It's just fantastic. | 0:15:27 | 0:15:31 | |
-And you've got all this space. -Yeah. | 0:15:31 | 0:15:33 | |
Patio area. | 0:15:33 | 0:15:36 | |
But this is my ideal garden with all the tropical plants and... | 0:15:36 | 0:15:39 | |
-It's already got the plants there. -Yeah. It looks beautiful. It's lovely. | 0:15:39 | 0:15:42 | |
The inside is possibly slightly smaller than I thought it was going to be, | 0:15:42 | 0:15:46 | |
but then the outside space is just so fantastic we wouldn't spend that much time inside anyway. | 0:15:46 | 0:15:54 | |
Apart from that, it looks like next door's got a swimming pool, so they'd be very important to get to know! | 0:15:54 | 0:15:59 | |
Yeah, yeah! | 0:15:59 | 0:16:00 | |
Surely it would be better to have your own pool, like at property number three. | 0:16:00 | 0:16:05 | |
It's another flat, this time close to the centre of town and a stone throw from the sea. | 0:16:05 | 0:16:12 | |
It has two bedrooms and two bathrooms and extensive living space. | 0:16:12 | 0:16:17 | |
The monthly rent on this place would be just over £840 per month - | 0:16:17 | 0:16:23 | |
more than Becci was hoping to spend. | 0:16:23 | 0:16:26 | |
-Ooh! Lovely. -Yeah, there's so much room. | 0:16:28 | 0:16:35 | |
It feels more like a home as opposed to something that's bright and sort of like a holiday apartment. | 0:16:35 | 0:16:41 | |
This feels more like a home. This kitchen's gorgeous! | 0:16:41 | 0:16:45 | |
This flat seems to be allaying some of their doubts about apartment living, | 0:16:45 | 0:16:49 | |
and a bedroom for Keelan is next on the tour. | 0:16:49 | 0:16:52 | |
This is quite a big room. | 0:16:52 | 0:16:53 | |
It's a completely different style of apartment. | 0:16:53 | 0:16:56 | |
-It's 100% different. -Really, really nice. | 0:16:56 | 0:16:58 | |
The master bedroom has its own en-suite, | 0:16:58 | 0:17:01 | |
so Keelan would have exclusive use of the second bathroom. | 0:17:01 | 0:17:05 | |
Hey, this is nice. | 0:17:05 | 0:17:07 | |
It's not huge, is it? | 0:17:07 | 0:17:08 | |
-Then again... -It is actually! | 0:17:08 | 0:17:10 | |
-It is actually quite huge. -All of your storage is in there. | 0:17:10 | 0:17:13 | |
Cos you've got a walk-through wardrobe. | 0:17:13 | 0:17:15 | |
-It is lovely, and I love the fact there's a bath. -Yeah. | 0:17:15 | 0:17:19 | |
Enough fawning over your bathroom, Becci! | 0:17:19 | 0:17:22 | |
You haven't even been out on the balcony yet. | 0:17:22 | 0:17:25 | |
That's stunning. | 0:17:28 | 0:17:29 | |
-You can see the sea. -Oh, wow! | 0:17:29 | 0:17:32 | |
-How close is that? -That's very close. | 0:17:32 | 0:17:34 | |
-Cos the sand's just there. -I might have to cut a hole in the trees! | 0:17:34 | 0:17:38 | |
Just so you can see right through. | 0:17:38 | 0:17:40 | |
That's very close. | 0:17:40 | 0:17:42 | |
That's a better-size pool. | 0:17:42 | 0:17:45 | |
That's a bit better. | 0:17:45 | 0:17:47 | |
This time, although it's a shared pool, it's close to perfect. | 0:17:48 | 0:17:53 | |
-We should have brought our swimming costumes, shouldn't we? -Yeah. | 0:17:54 | 0:17:57 | |
It's lovely. | 0:17:57 | 0:17:59 | |
Yes, I could imagine lounging around out here. | 0:18:03 | 0:18:07 | |
There won't be much time for lounging around with this much rent to pay. | 0:18:07 | 0:18:11 | |
The Sanders were a little disappointed that Becci's tight budget | 0:18:11 | 0:18:15 | |
means their property options are limited. | 0:18:15 | 0:18:17 | |
The lush garden at property two made up for the relative lack of space inside, | 0:18:17 | 0:18:23 | |
but property one got it wrong on so many levels. | 0:18:23 | 0:18:26 | |
Property three proved a resounding success | 0:18:26 | 0:18:29 | |
with both Becci and Keelan finding something to love, | 0:18:29 | 0:18:32 | |
but the rent would be a real stretch. | 0:18:32 | 0:18:34 | |
It's time to find out how the reality of renting in Darwin | 0:18:34 | 0:18:38 | |
will affect how they feel overall about property. | 0:18:38 | 0:18:41 | |
Will they vote for the home they rent out in the UK, | 0:18:41 | 0:18:43 | |
or what they've seen is possible to rent in Australia? | 0:18:43 | 0:18:47 | |
So, on the basis of the three properties we've seen today | 0:18:47 | 0:18:49 | |
and compared to the property we've got at home, our vote has to be... | 0:18:49 | 0:18:55 | |
Australia! | 0:18:55 | 0:18:58 | |
It's been a long day. | 0:19:01 | 0:19:03 | |
As Keelan heads for the beach, Becci has a moment to reflect. | 0:19:03 | 0:19:07 | |
She wants to create a positive future for both of them, | 0:19:07 | 0:19:10 | |
and the responsibility weighs heavily on her shoulders. | 0:19:10 | 0:19:14 | |
The warmth and light will surely help her Seasonal Affective Disorder. | 0:19:14 | 0:19:19 | |
The SAD has a huge effect in the UK. | 0:19:19 | 0:19:24 | |
There's only sort of three or four months of the year | 0:19:24 | 0:19:27 | |
where we actually go out and do outside activities, and the rest of the time we're cocooned in the house, | 0:19:27 | 0:19:34 | |
and it obviously has an effect on Keelan as well because we do things together. | 0:19:34 | 0:19:39 | |
If I don't feel like going out then he doesn't get to go out either. | 0:19:39 | 0:19:42 | |
I can't see it being a problem out here at all. | 0:19:42 | 0:19:44 | |
It's pretty much always sunny. | 0:19:44 | 0:19:48 | |
I feel like a different person here already. | 0:19:48 | 0:19:50 | |
I've only been here a few days and I feel different already. | 0:19:50 | 0:19:53 | |
It's becoming clear how much they NEED to make this move, | 0:19:53 | 0:19:56 | |
but although her job is on the skills shortage list, | 0:19:56 | 0:20:00 | |
it's by no means certain that there will be a job waiting for her in Australia. | 0:20:00 | 0:20:05 | |
I would have to have a definite job offer, a definite job to come to. | 0:20:05 | 0:20:09 | |
I'm not in a financial position to come over here and look for work and set up a home in the meantime, | 0:20:09 | 0:20:16 | |
so I would have to have a job to sort of walk straight into, | 0:20:16 | 0:20:20 | |
and that is purely due to finances. | 0:20:20 | 0:20:23 | |
Tomorrow, the pressure will be on Becci to impress a potential employer. | 0:20:25 | 0:20:30 | |
Whether they'll be able to move hangs in the balance. | 0:20:30 | 0:20:33 | |
Becci trained as an occupational therapist, although she's chosen to work as a mental health advocate. | 0:20:38 | 0:20:44 | |
While her occupational therapy qualification would get her a visa to live in Australia, | 0:20:44 | 0:20:49 | |
finding a job that's up her street poses a different problem. | 0:20:49 | 0:20:52 | |
It's 8am and, after dropping Keelan off at the local scout group, | 0:20:55 | 0:21:00 | |
Becci's on the road early to do some research into the kind of job she could hope for if she made the move. | 0:21:00 | 0:21:07 | |
Having found that living as they'd like to in Darwin would cost more than expected, | 0:21:09 | 0:21:14 | |
Becci knows there's a lot at stake this morning. | 0:21:14 | 0:21:16 | |
I'm just really hoping that, from this visit, something definite comes from it. | 0:21:16 | 0:21:21 | |
We wouldn't be able to come out here if I didn't have a definite job offer. | 0:21:21 | 0:21:25 | |
So the pressure's really on. | 0:21:25 | 0:21:27 | |
She's come to meet Terina Saunders at Darwin Private Hospital, to see if she's got what it takes | 0:21:27 | 0:21:32 | |
to make it as an occupational therapist in Australia. | 0:21:32 | 0:21:35 | |
So I gather you're out here to find out a little bit about the occupational therapy opportunities. | 0:21:35 | 0:21:40 | |
-Yes, yeah, definitely. -Yeah. | 0:21:40 | 0:21:42 | |
-I worked in the UK many, many years ago... -OK. | 0:21:42 | 0:21:46 | |
..quite a few years back, and I quite enjoyed working there. | 0:21:46 | 0:21:49 | |
-Mm. -So it's good to see someone's coming in this direction to consider Australia. -Yeah. | 0:21:49 | 0:21:56 | |
Well, Terina's obviously open to having a Brit join the team, provided that Brit measures up. | 0:21:56 | 0:22:02 | |
..So new staff members, someone like yourself, if you were applying for a position with us, | 0:22:02 | 0:22:07 | |
we'd be looking and asking you what you feel you could offer. | 0:22:07 | 0:22:11 | |
Hopefully there'd also be some areas that I could bring some fresh ideas into as well. | 0:22:11 | 0:22:15 | |
Yes. Absolutely... | 0:22:15 | 0:22:16 | |
Good start. Hopefully Becci will be able to get a feel for the potential working environment. | 0:22:16 | 0:22:22 | |
Although most aspects are similar, there are one or two exceptions. | 0:22:22 | 0:22:26 | |
It's amazing the sorts of things that people will do to their hands unfortunately. | 0:22:26 | 0:22:32 | |
Sometimes in the line of work and sometimes sporting accidents, motor vehicle accidents. | 0:22:32 | 0:22:39 | |
We've even had injuries from crocodile bites, | 0:22:39 | 0:22:42 | |
which, unfortunately, aren't a very nice injury because of the risk of infection. | 0:22:42 | 0:22:48 | |
In one particular case the crocodile grabbed the chap's hand and did what they call a death roll, | 0:22:48 | 0:22:56 | |
so it rolled and that really caused quite a traumatic injury. So... | 0:22:56 | 0:23:02 | |
Things like dingo bites as well. | 0:23:02 | 0:23:03 | |
Not something we get in the UK! | 0:23:03 | 0:23:05 | |
Yeah, yeah. OK, well... | 0:23:05 | 0:23:07 | |
Come in and take a seat. | 0:23:07 | 0:23:09 | |
The tour's given Becci the chance to ask some questions of her own. | 0:23:09 | 0:23:13 | |
Can you tell me a little bit about shift patterns and working hours? | 0:23:13 | 0:23:16 | |
Yes. Most of the time basically Monday to Friday, so... | 0:23:16 | 0:23:21 | |
And is it fairly family-friendly? I'm a single mum. | 0:23:21 | 0:23:24 | |
-Yes, yeah. -So obviously, you know, I have to sort of fit around Keelan - | 0:23:24 | 0:23:27 | |
school hours possibly and school activities and things. | 0:23:27 | 0:23:31 | |
Yeah, we've usually tailored positions to the staff. | 0:23:31 | 0:23:35 | |
I guess that's one of the things we pride ourselves on | 0:23:35 | 0:23:39 | |
in private practice, and this being my own business, | 0:23:39 | 0:23:42 | |
that I can employ people under conditions and hours that suit | 0:23:42 | 0:23:45 | |
and that are fairly family friendly from that basis. | 0:23:45 | 0:23:48 | |
-Sounds it. -Yeah, yeah. | 0:23:48 | 0:23:49 | |
So what does Terina think of Becci's prospects? | 0:23:49 | 0:23:53 | |
She's an occupational therapist with a couple of years' experience. | 0:23:53 | 0:23:56 | |
She has a little bit of life, work experience, prior to that, | 0:23:56 | 0:24:00 | |
which, certainly for the line of work we're in, | 0:24:00 | 0:24:04 | |
we do look for people with maturity and skills from other areas. | 0:24:04 | 0:24:09 | |
That sounds promising. Could this be the good news Becci's hoping for? | 0:24:09 | 0:24:14 | |
-OK, Terina. Thank you so much for your time. -Yeah. -It's been lovely to meet you. -Yeah. | 0:24:14 | 0:24:17 | |
Yeah, well, all the best and I hope you consider coming out to Australia | 0:24:17 | 0:24:21 | |
because it's a great place to work, and good luck with the job-seeking. | 0:24:21 | 0:24:25 | |
OK, all right. See you then. | 0:24:25 | 0:24:28 | |
The chances for Becci for finding employment are pretty good, | 0:24:28 | 0:24:31 | |
though I would say she would have to be prepared to probably go to more remote areas of Australia. | 0:24:31 | 0:24:37 | |
Oh, not so promising after all. | 0:24:37 | 0:24:40 | |
Fierce competition for jobs in Darwin means it's unlikely Becci would find work easily there. | 0:24:40 | 0:24:45 | |
Certainly in the Northern Territory, Alice Springs and Katherine are always looking for OTs, | 0:24:45 | 0:24:51 | |
so I'm sure Becci would find work if she chose to come out here, yeah. | 0:24:51 | 0:24:56 | |
They've both fallen in love with the place, | 0:24:56 | 0:24:59 | |
but they wouldn't be able to move without that all-important job, | 0:24:59 | 0:25:03 | |
so will she vote for the UK or Australia? | 0:25:03 | 0:25:05 | |
Having spent some time with Terina today and getting a better idea of what OTs do in Australia | 0:25:05 | 0:25:11 | |
and although I'm aware there isn't a specific job available at the moment, | 0:25:11 | 0:25:15 | |
I am prepared to walk the streets and find something. | 0:25:15 | 0:25:19 | |
And compared to the type of OT work in the UK, I think my vote would have to be... | 0:25:19 | 0:25:25 | |
..Australia. | 0:25:29 | 0:25:30 | |
Becci seems sure about her decision, but if she can't find a job, their move will be impossible. | 0:25:30 | 0:25:36 | |
Anyone thinking of going to live in the Northern Territory | 0:25:40 | 0:25:43 | |
needs to be aware of some of the more hazardous aspects of this part of Australia. | 0:25:43 | 0:25:48 | |
And here's some information about one of the biggest potential dangers. | 0:25:48 | 0:25:52 | |
I think they're going to need a bigger boat! | 0:26:03 | 0:26:06 | |
Anyone that comes to live in the territory | 0:26:08 | 0:26:10 | |
needs a good understanding of saltwater crocodiles. | 0:26:10 | 0:26:13 | |
They've been protected since the early '70s. | 0:26:13 | 0:26:15 | |
That protection basically has afforded the population to increase dramatically, | 0:26:15 | 0:26:20 | |
and they do eat people, there's no doubt about it. | 0:26:20 | 0:26:23 | |
It's a really good idea to stay out of the water. | 0:26:23 | 0:26:25 | |
A saltwater croc's jaws are more powerful than those of a Tyrannosaurus Rex. | 0:26:26 | 0:26:32 | |
The biggest one confirmed that I know of is probably about six and a half metres - | 0:26:32 | 0:26:36 | |
just a massive animal. | 0:26:36 | 0:26:37 | |
When you see them, you think, "This is a dinosaur, this is huge." | 0:26:37 | 0:26:40 | |
An animal that size has got no problems taking down cattle, buffalo. | 0:26:40 | 0:26:45 | |
The downward pressure is equivalent to the weight of a large truck. | 0:26:45 | 0:26:49 | |
Cattle come to regular places to drink, | 0:26:49 | 0:26:52 | |
and the crocodile will hang around there for days, weeks, months sometimes. | 0:26:52 | 0:26:56 | |
The animal comes for a drink and he'll shoot out of the water. They grab the animal, pull them under. | 0:26:56 | 0:27:01 | |
They'll do what they call a death roll. | 0:27:03 | 0:27:05 | |
They'll grab the animal by the snout or the neck | 0:27:05 | 0:27:07 | |
and just twist and twist and twist until something gives. | 0:27:07 | 0:27:10 | |
Crocodiles that have been kicked out of their territory | 0:27:12 | 0:27:15 | |
will look for other areas and they'll travel vast, vast distances to find new territories. | 0:27:15 | 0:27:21 | |
So, in areas where last year you came for a swim and you know there's no crocodiles there, | 0:27:21 | 0:27:25 | |
you come this year... | 0:27:25 | 0:27:26 | |
There could be one sitting under there. | 0:27:26 | 0:27:28 | |
That happened recently. A lady was attacked at Lichfield Park. | 0:27:28 | 0:27:32 | |
She's lived out there, she's a resident, she knows the place. | 0:27:32 | 0:27:35 | |
She went in to wash her hands and a crocodile shot out and grabbed her. | 0:27:35 | 0:27:39 | |
Luckily she got away, but some people aren't so fortunate. | 0:27:39 | 0:27:43 | |
Salties have a tiny brain, but they're built for the hunt. | 0:27:43 | 0:27:47 | |
They can run on land at speeds of over 10mph. | 0:27:47 | 0:27:50 | |
It looks like a big, lumbering, slow animal but, if you're within his biting range, | 0:27:52 | 0:27:56 | |
the speed that he can flip around and nail you, | 0:27:56 | 0:27:59 | |
is quicker than you can move so, for anyone moving to Darwin, | 0:27:59 | 0:28:02 | |
there's probably three rules you'd need to take care of | 0:28:02 | 0:28:05 | |
and that's read the signs... | 0:28:05 | 0:28:07 | |
Don't be habitual near a water body. If you're going camping, enjoy it, | 0:28:07 | 0:28:10 | |
but go to a different place each time. | 0:28:10 | 0:28:12 | |
And thirdly, just understand and respect that these critters | 0:28:12 | 0:28:16 | |
are in their environment and you're coming into their environment. | 0:28:16 | 0:28:20 | |
Hey, you eat too, and they've got to eat as well, so just be careful. Be careful. | 0:28:20 | 0:28:26 | |
Becci and Keelan Sanders both believe their lives would be improved immeasurably | 0:28:30 | 0:28:35 | |
if they move to Australia. | 0:28:35 | 0:28:36 | |
They're convinced that broader horizons, better weather | 0:28:36 | 0:28:39 | |
and a more relaxed lifestyle could all be possible. | 0:28:39 | 0:28:43 | |
-Very much looking forward to it, and prepared to throw ourselves in completely. -Yeah. | 0:28:43 | 0:28:48 | |
But they were disappointed that Becci's budget limits their choices of where they could live. | 0:28:48 | 0:28:54 | |
Although the weather's nice and the apartments are lovely, | 0:28:54 | 0:28:58 | |
it still feels as though you're all scrunched into a very small space. | 0:28:58 | 0:29:02 | |
-That's not really what we're looking for, is it? -No. | 0:29:02 | 0:29:04 | |
And, most importantly, it seems Becci would struggle to get work | 0:29:04 | 0:29:08 | |
in her chosen branch of occupational therapy. | 0:29:08 | 0:29:11 | |
I would say she would probably have to be prepared to go to more remote areas of Australia. | 0:29:11 | 0:29:17 | |
And, without that all-important job, a move is out of the question. | 0:29:17 | 0:29:21 | |
A vital part of settling in any new place is making real and lasting friends. | 0:29:25 | 0:29:31 | |
Research shows that friends are crucial to people's happiness wherever they live. | 0:29:31 | 0:29:36 | |
So we decided to throw Keelan in at the deep end. | 0:29:38 | 0:29:41 | |
If he'd been hoping his trip to Australia was going to be something of a holiday, | 0:29:41 | 0:29:46 | |
he's in for a surprise. | 0:29:46 | 0:29:48 | |
Today is his first day at school. | 0:29:48 | 0:29:51 | |
Nice to meet you. | 0:29:51 | 0:29:52 | |
Local boy Charlie Burke has offered to show him around. | 0:29:52 | 0:29:56 | |
What's your school like? | 0:29:57 | 0:30:00 | |
It's very small compared to some of the schools in Darwin here. | 0:30:00 | 0:30:03 | |
-There's no bullying or anything so... -Oh, that's good. | 0:30:03 | 0:30:07 | |
I'd rather be in a smaller school, really. | 0:30:07 | 0:30:09 | |
Yeah. | 0:30:09 | 0:30:11 | |
I think Keelan was a bit worried about going to school and spending time there. | 0:30:11 | 0:30:17 | |
I've been surprised at how much he's thrown himself into it. | 0:30:17 | 0:30:20 | |
And then from year seven to ten, you then go to sixth form. | 0:30:20 | 0:30:25 | |
I am a little bit worried about taking him away from his friends and stuff in the UK. | 0:30:25 | 0:30:29 | |
But he can fit in pretty much anywhere and make new friends. | 0:30:29 | 0:30:34 | |
Do you have, like, assemblies and stuff? | 0:30:34 | 0:30:36 | |
Yeah, we have assemblies. | 0:30:36 | 0:30:39 | |
The class is having a science lesson and it's really hands-on. | 0:30:39 | 0:30:43 | |
What you'll do is break into groups. | 0:30:43 | 0:30:46 | |
Each group is going to focus on one of the animals. | 0:30:46 | 0:30:49 | |
You're going to be thinking of work to do with that animal. | 0:30:49 | 0:30:53 | |
Obviously you're not going to all be with Bob the croc... | 0:30:53 | 0:30:56 | |
It seems the other main difference in Australian schools | 0:30:56 | 0:31:00 | |
is that they include a small unit on crocodile wrangling! | 0:31:00 | 0:31:03 | |
But, as we've seen, it pays to know the dangers of the wildlife you might run into, no matter how small. | 0:31:03 | 0:31:10 | |
Do you want to hold him? Hold him like that, cos his mouth's not going to swing round and bite, OK? | 0:31:10 | 0:31:16 | |
My only concern really is to do with the dangers that are here | 0:31:16 | 0:31:21 | |
that we don't face in the UK, to do with wildlife and things. | 0:31:21 | 0:31:25 | |
Charlie can go first. | 0:31:25 | 0:31:27 | |
-Come on, man, he won't bite you. -They're quite rough. | 0:31:27 | 0:31:32 | |
-Have you ever seen a crocodile before...? -Yes. -Be careful of his leg. | 0:31:32 | 0:31:38 | |
TEACHER: By now, you should have your first ten words down | 0:31:38 | 0:31:42 | |
and you should now be handling the animal. | 0:31:42 | 0:31:45 | |
Put words down that relate to what you feel, what you see when you're up close to it, OK? | 0:31:45 | 0:31:52 | |
Spiky or scaly or...? | 0:31:52 | 0:31:55 | |
-Yeah, scaly, I'd say. -He's the longest living dinosaur, isn't he? | 0:31:55 | 0:31:58 | |
'Everyone seems really friendly, whereas in England,' | 0:31:58 | 0:32:03 | |
if you met someone, they might seem a little bit hostile at first. | 0:32:03 | 0:32:08 | |
It would take a while for them to start being friendly to you. | 0:32:08 | 0:32:11 | |
Children, adults, they just seem to want to get to know you. | 0:32:11 | 0:32:17 | |
Keelan's fitting in well, but if Becci could only find work in remote parts of Australia, | 0:32:17 | 0:32:23 | |
he might find his problem is less whether he can make friends | 0:32:23 | 0:32:26 | |
and more whether he can find friends at all to make. | 0:32:26 | 0:32:29 | |
I think if I was offered a job sort of in the middle of nowhere, | 0:32:29 | 0:32:32 | |
I would have to consider Keelan and the benefits to him. | 0:32:32 | 0:32:36 | |
He's at an age where he needs to interact with other people | 0:32:36 | 0:32:40 | |
and build social skills, so I would have to take that into account. | 0:32:40 | 0:32:44 | |
Keelan's done incredibly well today and his new friends have really taken to him. | 0:32:47 | 0:32:52 | |
But will his vote reflect how he feels about them? | 0:32:52 | 0:32:55 | |
I had a good day at school, I made a lot of friends and the work is all easier than it is in England. | 0:32:55 | 0:33:01 | |
Australia! | 0:33:01 | 0:33:02 | |
THEY CHEER | 0:33:02 | 0:33:05 | |
ALL: Aussie, Aussie, Aussie! Oi, oi, oi! | 0:33:05 | 0:33:08 | |
Well, he loves school here, but, what with helping his mother out at home during her winter depression, | 0:33:09 | 0:33:14 | |
Keelan doesn't always have this much time to be a kid. | 0:33:14 | 0:33:19 | |
If we don't manage to come out here, | 0:33:19 | 0:33:21 | |
I guess we'll just go back to the routine that we were in before, | 0:33:21 | 0:33:25 | |
where he has to be more helpful to me during the winter months. | 0:33:25 | 0:33:29 | |
And we go back to just the usual routine in the UK - me being on medication, | 0:33:29 | 0:33:36 | |
him, you know, doing the things he has to do. | 0:33:36 | 0:33:40 | |
So Becci's really beginning to worry about whether she could make it work in Australia. | 0:33:40 | 0:33:46 | |
Despite some disappointments, Becci and Keelan have remained positive throughout the week | 0:33:54 | 0:33:59 | |
and seem set on a new life down under. | 0:33:59 | 0:34:02 | |
Keelan's had no problems fitting in in Darwin, | 0:34:02 | 0:34:06 | |
but Becci still worries about taking him away from loved ones back home. | 0:34:06 | 0:34:11 | |
Before Becci and Keelan decide whether they're going to move to Australia, | 0:34:11 | 0:34:16 | |
we've got some messages from loved ones to remind them of their ties to the UK. | 0:34:16 | 0:34:22 | |
First up is Becci's best friend, Heather. | 0:34:22 | 0:34:24 | |
Hey, Becci, hey, Kee. How are you? | 0:34:24 | 0:34:26 | |
I hope everything's going really well out there. | 0:34:26 | 0:34:29 | |
I'd just like to say that | 0:34:29 | 0:34:31 | |
I'm going to miss you very much, | 0:34:31 | 0:34:33 | |
especially when you come round for your dinners on Sundays... | 0:34:33 | 0:34:37 | |
Generally she's usually thinking about other people, | 0:34:39 | 0:34:43 | |
and obviously Keelan and her get on really well, | 0:34:43 | 0:34:46 | |
and they've got quite a good relationship | 0:34:46 | 0:34:49 | |
and it spills over onto other people really. | 0:34:49 | 0:34:52 | |
You can't imagine | 0:34:52 | 0:34:54 | |
one without the other, if you know what I mean. | 0:34:54 | 0:34:58 | |
It's just a nice relationship. It's nice to see them together. | 0:34:58 | 0:35:02 | |
He's, like, funny, but... | 0:35:02 | 0:35:05 | |
I'm sure he'll be fine, | 0:35:05 | 0:35:07 | |
but at the moment it's, like, feeling quite sad, sort of thing. | 0:35:07 | 0:35:13 | |
He's very clever. | 0:35:13 | 0:35:14 | |
For a lad of his age, he's really clever, | 0:35:14 | 0:35:17 | |
and I think he's got the maturity and the responsibility | 0:35:17 | 0:35:21 | |
to really make something of this experience. | 0:35:21 | 0:35:24 | |
I know that Becci and Keelan are together and will always have each other, | 0:35:24 | 0:35:27 | |
but you can still be lonely for, you know, your sister | 0:35:27 | 0:35:31 | |
who's just around the corner and the rest of the family who aren't too far away, | 0:35:31 | 0:35:37 | |
and I know that, from my point of view, I would... | 0:35:37 | 0:35:39 | |
I would probably feel a bit lonely from time to time, and that's a scary thought. | 0:35:39 | 0:35:44 | |
We get on very well. | 0:35:44 | 0:35:47 | |
We're really more like a sister than mother and daughter, really. | 0:35:47 | 0:35:55 | |
We really do get on well, and I'm very proud of her. | 0:35:55 | 0:36:01 | |
I'm sure her dad would have been too. | 0:36:01 | 0:36:03 | |
I wouldn't want her ever to feel alone... | 0:36:03 | 0:36:07 | |
and helpless, and if anything... | 0:36:07 | 0:36:09 | |
you know, things go wrong, I'd want her to know that she's always got someone | 0:36:09 | 0:36:13 | |
that'll be on the end of the phone no matter what, and help you out. | 0:36:13 | 0:36:16 | |
When she was my bridesmaid on my wedding day, it was just... | 0:36:16 | 0:36:20 | |
It really was just the best thing in the world to have her there. | 0:36:20 | 0:36:24 | |
Becci was the one that told me I looked stupid in frills, that I wasn't allowed to wear red, | 0:36:24 | 0:36:29 | |
and that I had to make sure that I had nice underwear on. | 0:36:29 | 0:36:34 | |
And she was the one that chose it all with me. | 0:36:34 | 0:36:36 | |
I'm almost angry at her for leaving, but at the same time you can't be, | 0:36:36 | 0:36:42 | |
because it's achieving the main thing she's ever wanted. | 0:36:42 | 0:36:46 | |
She deserves a better life and I won't hold her back, although I will be sad and I shall miss her. | 0:36:46 | 0:36:53 | |
I can't wait to see you when you come back from the trip | 0:36:53 | 0:36:57 | |
and I'll have some chicken taters waiting for you when you come round. | 0:36:57 | 0:37:01 | |
I'll miss the hugs the most. | 0:37:03 | 0:37:05 | |
It's a hug that only someone who really understands where you're coming from can give you. | 0:37:05 | 0:37:12 | |
And she is often the only one that can understand where I'm coming from. | 0:37:13 | 0:37:20 | |
I'm going to miss you guys so much. | 0:37:22 | 0:37:24 | |
You have been absolutely fabulous to me since the day I met you. | 0:37:24 | 0:37:29 | |
Kee, I'm so proud of everything that you've done. | 0:37:29 | 0:37:34 | |
You've worked so hard to help your mum and support her and make her proud every single day. | 0:37:34 | 0:37:41 | |
Just cos you're going to Australia, don't think that has to stop. | 0:37:41 | 0:37:46 | |
And, Becci, it's going to be really hard here without you, | 0:37:46 | 0:37:52 | |
but I know that every time I come to see you | 0:37:52 | 0:37:55 | |
you're going to be happier every time, and you deserve it. | 0:37:55 | 0:38:01 | |
Look after each other and we will see you real soon. | 0:38:01 | 0:38:05 | |
That was hard, watching that, wasn't it? | 0:38:15 | 0:38:17 | |
Yeah. | 0:38:17 | 0:38:18 | |
Yeah, that was really hard. | 0:38:20 | 0:38:22 | |
I knew that I'd get emotional with Heather's bit. | 0:38:23 | 0:38:26 | |
It was almost as if she was in the room with us. | 0:38:29 | 0:38:33 | |
Yeah. | 0:38:33 | 0:38:35 | |
It doesn't change our potential plans, no. | 0:38:35 | 0:38:40 | |
What it does do is makes me realise that we need to be somewhere | 0:38:40 | 0:38:45 | |
that friends and family can come out and visit us and stay, | 0:38:45 | 0:38:49 | |
and that we need to keep lines of communication open, definitely. | 0:38:49 | 0:38:55 | |
Whether that be phone, internet or whatever. | 0:38:55 | 0:38:57 | |
Do you want a hug? | 0:38:59 | 0:39:00 | |
We'll have to persuade Heather and David to move out here as well. | 0:39:13 | 0:39:17 | |
-Try to. -Yeah. | 0:39:17 | 0:39:19 | |
-And Nanny. -And the rest. | 0:39:19 | 0:39:22 | |
Nanny's got to come out to cook us chicken taters. | 0:39:22 | 0:39:24 | |
I'll hold her to that as well! | 0:39:24 | 0:39:26 | |
Yeah. | 0:39:26 | 0:39:28 | |
Oh, that's the hardest part, and Becci and Keelan have had to face facts. | 0:39:35 | 0:39:41 | |
Any gains they might make by moving to Darwin come with a huge loss. | 0:39:41 | 0:39:46 | |
It's been a challenging week for Becci and Keelan Sanders, | 0:39:49 | 0:39:53 | |
9,000 miles from their home in Northampton. | 0:39:53 | 0:39:56 | |
Slightly apprehensive cos we don't really know what's going to happen. | 0:39:56 | 0:39:59 | |
But I can't wait to see it in daylight. | 0:39:59 | 0:40:01 | |
Keelan seemed to have no problems fitting in in Darwin. | 0:40:01 | 0:40:05 | |
It was actually really enjoyable. I was quite shocked. | 0:40:05 | 0:40:08 | |
In Australia, I shouldn't have to go to school when I'm not even living here, | 0:40:08 | 0:40:12 | |
and I actually really enjoyed it. | 0:40:12 | 0:40:15 | |
ALL: Aussie, Aussie, Aussie! Oi, oi, oi! | 0:40:15 | 0:40:18 | |
But they weren't totally sold on the idea of city living. | 0:40:18 | 0:40:22 | |
I think with the property, it would be cheaper | 0:40:22 | 0:40:24 | |
and we tend to get more land with a property on the outskirts. | 0:40:24 | 0:40:28 | |
Becci's Seasonal Affective Disorder was nowhere in sight, | 0:40:28 | 0:40:32 | |
so, if they can't make the move, life might return to depressing normality. | 0:40:32 | 0:40:36 | |
If we don't manage to come out here, | 0:40:36 | 0:40:38 | |
I guess we'll just go back to the routine that we were in before. | 0:40:38 | 0:40:43 | |
Me being on medication and him, you know, doing the things that he has to do. | 0:40:43 | 0:40:48 | |
Messages from friends and family back home were a wake-up call. | 0:40:48 | 0:40:52 | |
I didn't think it would be that bad. I didn't think I'd get emotional. | 0:40:53 | 0:40:58 | |
I thought I'd just keep cool, but... | 0:40:58 | 0:41:00 | |
I struggled a little bit. | 0:41:00 | 0:41:03 | |
Seeing Heather, it was very emotional. | 0:41:04 | 0:41:07 | |
It's almost going to be like losing a limb. | 0:41:07 | 0:41:09 | |
I probably will never have a friendship like that again. | 0:41:09 | 0:41:12 | |
And, with no job fixed up for Becci to come to, they might not be able to make the move at all. | 0:41:12 | 0:41:17 | |
If she does find a job down under, as a single mum with no support network, | 0:41:17 | 0:41:22 | |
times might be hard for her and Keelan. | 0:41:22 | 0:41:25 | |
And, if I thought that he was going to be horribly miserable out here, then I would have to think again | 0:41:25 | 0:41:33 | |
about what we were doing and why. | 0:41:33 | 0:41:36 | |
So it's crunch time. | 0:41:36 | 0:41:38 | |
Becci and Keelan must make their final vote. | 0:41:38 | 0:41:40 | |
After considering everything involved in a possible move down under, | 0:41:40 | 0:41:45 | |
do they prefer their lives back home in the UK, | 0:41:45 | 0:41:48 | |
or have they been convinced that their future lies here in Australia? | 0:41:48 | 0:41:52 | |
How will they vote? | 0:41:52 | 0:41:53 | |
After what seemed like a very long week here, | 0:41:53 | 0:41:59 | |
I've decided that I really like it here. | 0:41:59 | 0:42:01 | |
I've enjoyed everything that I've done so far | 0:42:01 | 0:42:05 | |
and, even though the friends and family bit was sad, they still want to be happy for us. | 0:42:05 | 0:42:12 | |
Having spent the week here, I think it's made me realise | 0:42:12 | 0:42:16 | |
that there's more to moving to Australia than I'd originally thought. | 0:42:16 | 0:42:20 | |
Darwin has really got under my skin and I think we've both fallen in love with Darwin completely. | 0:42:20 | 0:42:26 | |
If we had to choose between the UK and Australia, it would have to be... | 0:42:26 | 0:42:30 | |
BOTH: Australia! | 0:42:34 | 0:42:36 | |
The week's been a real hit and Becci and Keelan have loved everything they experienced in Darwin. | 0:42:37 | 0:42:44 | |
If, and it's a big if, Becci can find work, | 0:42:44 | 0:42:47 | |
then they're dead set on moving where they're wanted down under. | 0:42:47 | 0:42:51 | |
Join us next time when we find out what happens when another British family have to decide | 0:42:53 | 0:42:59 | |
whether to move where they're wanted down under. | 0:42:59 | 0:43:02 | |
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