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If all you wanted was to spend time with your loved ones,

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how far would you go to achieve your dream?

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For one family, it could mean taking the biggest

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gamble of their lives and moving to the other side of the world.

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Julie Godfrey's dream job is turning her life into a nightmare.

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He's got the window down, he's screaming, "Mum, Mum, don't go!

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"Come back!" You can see that he's heartbroken and it's just horrible.

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And husband Alan can't take any more.

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It was snowing, it was freezing, my wife was in London.

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I was depressed and I just decided enough is enough.

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But can they find a better future in Australia?

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I'll tell you what, we'll do without Australia if this is it.

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And will they be able to cope with the heartache of moving

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to the other side of the world?

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With its British-style culture and sunny climate,

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Australia is the number one destination for people

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leaving the UK in search of a new life.

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In fact, over 35,000 people emigrate there every year.

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However, the grass isn't always greener

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and nearly a third return to the UK.

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Ahead of the Godfrey family

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is a week that could change the course of their lives.

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After experiencing the reality of living in Australia, they'll face

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a huge decision - whether to stay in the UK or to make the move for good.

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First of all, they have to deal with the arduous journey that

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takes them 11,000 miles from home.

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After two days of travelling,

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the distance has definitely taken its toll.

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The first leg of the flight was fine,

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the second leg of the flight was torture. It was really difficult.

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I found it really difficult.

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There is no way we could make that on a regular basis.

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I think you could make that flight maybe once a year, max. Oh, aye.

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-You could do it once a year.

-Not on your life.

-Not in my life.

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-I could do it once a year.

-I could do it once.

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-You could do it on your own once a year.

-That's fine.

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Especially if we are to stay married.

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The long flight has confirmed

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that this is going to be a life-changing week.

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Potentially, the next time we arrive in this airport,

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we are not going back.

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That could be us starting a whole new life.

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Yeah, a whole new life in Oz. New school, new jobs, new friends.

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-Do I need to be born again?

-No.

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Nothing, at the moment, can take the shine off it for me and I'm...

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Even me.

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But, in the same way, I'm prepared to,

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kind of, get a total reality check.

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I need to leave here knowing the worst that it has

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to offer as well as the best.

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There's a lot of challenges still to be faced in the coming seven days.

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But then the Godfreys are desperate to change their lives.

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Back in the UK, Alan, Julie

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and eight-year-old Cole live in East Glasgow.

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Alan is an electrician and three years ago, Julie studied nursing

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and became a midwife.

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This was a job she'd always dreamt of doing.

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I love it.

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From the first moment when I qualified

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and went in and had my first patient, you know,

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my knees were knocking, I thought, "I can't do this on my own."

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And then one of the coordinators just closed the door and said,

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"You're a midwife, aren't you?" And I thought, "Yeah, I am."

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However, since qualifying, Julie has not been able to find a vacancy

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in Scotland and has had to work nearly 400 miles away in London.

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This was going to be the short-term fix.

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This was going to be six months, a year, maximum,

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get me some experience

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and then I should be able to get a job at home

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and it just hasn't worked out that way so this,

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instead of a short-term fix, this is a long-term arrangement.

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Working away for three weeks at a time takes a heavy toll on everyone.

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Julie's basically never here.

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'In the last year, she has been home for just over a third of the year.'

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That's quite a long time to be away from your family

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in the space of a year.

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It's definitely a long time for Cole to be away from his mum for a year.

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Julie's long absences from home have the biggest impact on Cole.

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I want my mum to be with us all the time

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because she's always away

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and I want her to have a job near us.

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'When it comes to the airport

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'and he's got to say goodbye to his mum,'

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that's when he really gets really worked up.

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Sometimes he's shouting, you know, and he's got the window down,

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he's screaming, "Mum, Mum, don't go! Come back!"

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'You know, and you just have to keep walking

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'and you feel heartless for keeping walking.'

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You're trying to wave him off

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but you can see that he's heartbroken and it's just horrible.

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It's a painful situation that can't go on any longer.

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I was on a job, it was snowing, it was freezing, my wife was in London.

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I was depressed and I just decided enough is enough.

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I want something better for me, my wife and my son.

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I want something better for my family.

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This desperation for a normal life has pushed the Godfreys to

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look towards Australia.

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Knowing there is a demand for their skills,

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Alan and Julie are convinced their family's happiness lies down under.

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It can't be worse than what we are doing right now. It has to be better.

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And, you know, all the other things - the nice climate, bigger houses -

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maybe they are just a bonus. That's not what we are going for.

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We are going to try and find some kind of way where

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we can all live together.

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The move might give the family time but it will come at a heavy price.

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Cole's the only grandkid that my mum and dad have got

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and I feel really guilty that there is a very strong possibility

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that I'm going to be taking him away from them.

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I'm basically tearing my family apart

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to make me, Julie and Cole a family again.

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'That's really difficult.'

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Words can't describe how much I'll miss my parents.

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Aye.

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Even with so much to lose,

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neither Alan nor Julie can carry on like this.

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If Australia doesn't work out, we are running out of options fast.

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-We're not living the now, we're surviving.

-Yeah.

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Yeah, we're just existing at the moment and that's not what

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we want for us and we certainly don't want that for Cole.

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We definitely don't want it for Cole.

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The Godfreys face a massive seven days.

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Both Alan and Julie are desperate to find out

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if Australia can offer the family life they crave.

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But if it can't provide the answers, their dreams will be over.

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They'll be spending the week

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in the coastal city of Perth in Western Australia.

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This might be one of the most remote cities in the world

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but it is experiencing an economic boom.

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Couple that with over 50 miles of coastline and it could be

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the ideal place for the family life the Godfreys are searching for.

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Their home for the week is in the beachside suburb of Shoalwater

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in the south of Perth.

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Arriving in the middle of the night and after a tiring journey,

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this house will be their first taste of Aussie living.

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Right, Cole, where is your room?

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I think he's found it.

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What bed are you going to have?

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Cole has quickly made himself at home

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but Mum and Dad are far from impressed.

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It's a bit smaller than I expected.

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It's a lot smaller than I was expecting but, then,

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you come here with huge expectations, don't you?

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Aye.

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I wouldn't move from Scotland to something like this.

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It's only two bedrooms as well.

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You just think if people were coming to stay with you,

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I would kill someone in here.

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Aye.

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There's a chance I might kill one of you this week.

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Luckily, one little person is a bit more upbeat.

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I think the house is amazing.

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But, once Cole's in bed, Julie's fears become very apparent.

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It scares me a bit that this might be what people live in.

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And what we can afford?

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If it's what we can afford,

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I wouldn't put our family through all of that for this.

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This is going to go really well or really badly.

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Like most new arrivals, Julie and Alan have high hopes

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of what property in Australia can offer.

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But, while exchange rates in the UK have tumbled in recent years,

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property prices in Perth have been on the rise.

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So will finding a house they can love and afford be achievable?

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In the UK, they live in this two-bedroom semi in the Garrowhill

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area of Glasgow and they're keeping their feet firmly on the ground

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when it comes to finding a home in Australia.

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-It's got to have a nice area.

-Yeah.

-Nice school, parks.

-A few shops.

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I mean, I'm not looking to be in a city.

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If it's not within five minutes, 10 minutes to the beach,

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we would like a pool.

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What's really important to me is that there are other children around

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because Cole is so used to being able to get out to play here that

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I really want to feel safe letting him out,

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you know, like in a little community where I know there's parks

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and there's other children around and something that will let him settle.

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Julie and Alan think they could have a budget of £300,000

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so today we've arranged for them to see a slice of

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the Perth housing market.

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We'll show them three houses based on their budget and needs.

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Ranging from the affordable house to the dream home,

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it should give them a real idea of what's on offer.

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The first house is 20 miles south of central Perth

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in the Wellard area, making it well-placed

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for Julie and Alan's work.

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As this is a new suburb that's still being built, there are few

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shops and facilities - however, it does mean prices are relatively low.

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A brand-new show-home should be a good opener to Perth housing.

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-It looks nice from the outside.

-Yeah, it does.

-Doesn't it?

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-What do you think, Cole?

-Yeah.

-Yeah?

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This four-bedroom house has plenty of space

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but will the modern look appeal to the Godfreys?

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First house, Cole.

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It looks nice and modern.

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Cole, you've missed bits.

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I like this.

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-Lots of space. Storage.

-It's really nice.

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It's a big room, considering what you would get at home in a new build.

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Oh, look at this wee room.

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This looks like a wee living room for Cole.

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There is lots of space to run about and play.

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Well, this place has certainly got house-hunting off to a good start.

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-It's lovely, actually, isn't it?

-It's actually quite deceiving.

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Cos it doesn't look as big from the outside but it's long.

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-Yeah, that's the thing, isn't it? It goes back.

-Aye.

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And Cole has spotted a feature that would improve his quality of life.

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You've got a cookbook for Mum.

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-Mum needs a cookbook?

-I think she needs it(!)

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Maybe he means he prefers it to Dad's cooking.

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Moving on, the rest of the house is also a hit.

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It's something we don't have at home.

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-There's quite a lot here that we don't have at home.

-I know.

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Julie's already figured it out how this house could work for them.

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If you want to have your mum and dad and Stephen and Donna

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at the same time, there is plenty of space to have them

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and, like you say, give them their own space in the living room.

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I think this room is cool.

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What about the outside space?

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-Is there enough room for a boy with a ball?

-Yes, I think there is.

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-This is lovely, actually, isn't it?

-It is nice. It's really nice.

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Seating area over the back. What do you think, Cole?

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I think we should take this grass away and put a pool there.

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You would rather there was a pool than a bit of grass?

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-Yeah.

-Yeah?

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The lack of a pool isn't the only problem.

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This new suburb is missing some key features.

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If this is literally being built out of nothing, where's the school?

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And if it's a new school, has it got any reputation yet?

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-Facilities and stuff. Shops.

-Yeah.

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I wouldn't want to drive 20 mile for a pint of milk.

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The location might not be ideal

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but is this house even affordable within their £300,000 budget?

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Time to go back inside and find out the cost.

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Ready?

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That's right at the top of their price range.

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I wouldn't pay that to live in somewhere that has nothing yet.

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What do you mean it has nothing yet?

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I'd pay that if it was more established.

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If it was more established, you wouldn't get it for that.

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That's the whole point. I think if you drive up somewhere

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and you see kids playing in the street and you see a park

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and it's filled with kids and parents, that totally opens up

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-ways for you to make friends almost immediately, doesn't it?

-Aye.

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There's so much resting on this move

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and it's apparent that the Godfreys wants to get everything right.

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Julie might want the ideal house in the ideal neighbourhood

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but that could mean higher prices.

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See if we could get a house like this in the area that we

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-are looking for.

-That's the big question though, isn't?

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I think that's not going to happen.

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The second house is in the Secret Harbour area,

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40 miles south of Perth.

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It's a more established neighbourhood with schools,

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shops and beaches nearby - just what Julie and Alan are after.

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This house is also typically Australian but it's smaller

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and an older style than the first.

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How will this go down with the Godfreys?

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The front garden is beautiful.

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Yeah, the front garden is nice.

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It's small but it's a big couch, isn't it?

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-It's older than the last one anyway.

-Well, that's the thing,

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you've got to remember you just come from a completely new, modern house.

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But the bedroom's a good size.

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It's just really dark.

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This is just... This area is weird.

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Julie's looking at the positives in this house

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but Alan is taking a very different perspective.

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It's a weird shape.

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You probably have the same amount of space as you had in the other house

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-it's just not set out as well.

-No, you've not. I don't like this house.

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-I do.

-I like where it is.

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I like where it is but I don't like the house.

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-I do.

-I don't like the layout.

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I think that's the thing,

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we can't afford the nice, modern house next to the beach.

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Has Julie hit the nail on the head?

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Alan may want the modern house

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but it could mean a less-than-ideal location.

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I would rather live in that other house

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in an up-and-coming area than live here.

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Perhaps the garden can change his mind.

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Is this it?

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You'll no' be able to play football in this garden.

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-This can't be all the garden there is.

-This is it.

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It's a bit of a letdown when you see the front garden.

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-For the size of plot?

-The front garden is lovely.

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The front garden is beautiful but you expect to have grass at the back.

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-Nah, this is a definite no.

-No.

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Unfortunately, it's Julie who's changed her mind.

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Can the price turn things around?

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After all, this house is in the right kind of area

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and it's close to the beach.

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-Will we have a look? Are you ready for this?

-Yeah.

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£260,000 is well within their budget.

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-I still wouldn't.

-Aye.

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It's further away from Perth

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so maybe that's why it's a wee bit cheaper.

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I like the area and that's where it stops.

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I would buy that first house today.

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-Yeah?

-Yeah.

-Much better.

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Despite being in the right location,

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this house was too small inside and out and not to Alan's taste.

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Could the Godfreys struggle to find the ideal house in the right area?

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Everything now rests on the last property in the Waikiki suburb.

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Also close to the beach,

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this is a well-established area that has everything for a young family

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and being close to the main hospital makes it ideal for Julie's work.

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This road's too busy. Way too busy to let Cole out to play.

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Oh, dear. That's not the best of starts.

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Let's move on to the spacious four-bedroom house

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which should have everything the Godfreys are after.

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-What is it with us and old people's houses?

-I don't like this.

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That's not what I'd call a good first impression.

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Can the size of this house make a difference?

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This is horrible.

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This is by far the worst.

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No, you would need to pay me to live here.

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It would be depressing.

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You go first. I'm scared.

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I'm devastated if this is it.

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I couldn't live here.

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Will we have a look through there and see if it gets any worse?

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-What do you say?

-This better be going for a song.

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There is one feature that should lift everyone's spirits.

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Oh, come on.

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They've got a swimming pool, so they have.

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-That's the only redeeming feature.

-It is the only redeeming feature.

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The swimming pool's the cleanest bit of the house.

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You know what we could do?

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Set up a couple of camp beds out in the garden

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and sleep in the garden and just lock the house up.

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Yes, please.

0:18:210:18:23

At last, something they like.

0:18:240:18:26

This could be the turning point for this house.

0:18:260:18:29

However, Julie's worked out the downside of having a pool.

0:18:290:18:32

You know what this means, Cole, we can't afford a pool.

0:18:320:18:35

Because the people that bought this pool

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can't afford to do up their house.

0:18:370:18:39

We'll do without the pool.

0:18:390:18:41

I'll tell you what, we'll do without Australia if this is it.

0:18:410:18:44

That's a real blow to Julie and Alan's hopes

0:18:440:18:47

of finding a house they like, let alone the dream home.

0:18:470:18:50

Can the price make any difference?

0:18:500:18:54

Turn it over, Cole. Let's go for it.

0:18:540:18:56

That's just over budget but I doubt it's any consolation.

0:19:010:19:05

-It's a dump.

-Aye.

-It's not a good area.

0:19:060:19:09

That's more than that first house.

0:19:090:19:11

That's more than the first and the second house.

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-It's more than both of them.

-Exactly.

0:19:130:19:15

I'm flabbergasted that this is the most expensive house we have seen.

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That's shocking.

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It's a disappointing end to house-hunting even though

0:19:200:19:23

this house had plenty of space and a pool.

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The day did start well with a house they all agreed on

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but the new area was only to Alan's liking.

0:19:300:19:34

Things took a bit of a nosedive with the second house,

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despite Julie's best attempts to convince Alan.

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And hopes of finding the dream home crashed in the third house.

0:19:400:19:43

So, when it comes to voting, will it be UK homes or Australian housing?

0:19:450:19:49

Based on the three properties we've seen today, our vote goes to...

0:19:520:19:55

-Australia.

-Australia.

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I don't know.

0:20:040:20:05

If I was voting on the first property, it would be Australia.

0:20:060:20:10

But the second two really disappointed me.

0:20:100:20:13

I voted for Australia because I think the first property represents

0:20:130:20:16

what we are looking for, just not in the area that we are looking for.

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But I think, given the space that we still had to manoeuvre in the budget,

0:20:190:20:22

that we can get something similar in a better area that

0:20:220:20:26

-we are more comfortable with.

-Aye.

0:20:260:20:28

The votes may have been cast in favour of Australia but,

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after a chance to reflect on the nearby beach,

0:20:320:20:34

it's very apparent that this has not been the perfect start.

0:20:340:20:38

'That third house just bought a big dampener on it for me.'

0:20:380:20:41

Started off on a high then went down a wee bit then went down again.

0:20:410:20:49

I can see Alan really stressing about it. Majorly.

0:20:490:20:53

It's no life that we got at home, you know.

0:20:540:20:58

It's not like if this doesn't work out we can go back cos

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if we go back, we are accepting that what we are doing now is normal

0:21:000:21:03

and that's not normal.

0:21:030:21:04

You know, we don't have what most families take for granted.

0:21:040:21:09

I'm doing this move for my wife and my son.

0:21:090:21:13

Basically, just seeing him jumping about in the sea, having fun,

0:21:140:21:19

bringing him back to the way he used to be, a happy wee boy.

0:21:190:21:22

Despite their vote,

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Perth's housing market left the Godfreys feeling disappointed.

0:21:290:21:32

But it was the dream of spending time together that brought them

0:21:320:21:35

all the way to Oz and if Perth can offer a lifestyle

0:21:350:21:39

they could enjoy, it would be a big step in the right direction.

0:21:390:21:42

With Julie working away,

0:21:440:21:45

the Godfreys get very little time together as a family.

0:21:450:21:49

They are hoping Australia can give them the opportunities

0:21:490:21:52

they can only dream of in Scotland.

0:21:520:21:54

Cole's really sporty, he's very active and I want him

0:21:540:21:58

to go into a culture that embraces that

0:21:580:22:01

because if it's weather like, you know,

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lovely Scotland then sometimes all you can do are indoor things

0:22:030:22:07

and that very much restricts what your opportunities are.

0:22:070:22:11

Today is a special day. It's Cole's ninth birthday.

0:22:140:22:18

To celebrate, the Godfreys are going to Rottnest Island,

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just a short ferry ride from Perth

0:22:210:22:23

and the birthday boy's in for a special treat.

0:22:230:22:27

-Look at you.

-Check you out.

-Yeah.

0:22:270:22:31

You are in charge of that so if we crash, it's your fault.

0:22:310:22:35

It's renowned for its pristine beaches,

0:22:350:22:37

making it popular with day-trippers from Perth and beyond.

0:22:370:22:40

Cole loves the beach. He only learned to swim recently.

0:22:450:22:47

He was never really a swimmer, either.

0:22:470:22:50

So all of a sudden he's just...

0:22:500:22:53

The beach is his place and it's lovely to think that

0:22:530:22:56

if we moved here that, you know, we could do this regularly.

0:22:560:23:00

For Alan, this is exactly what he's been dreaming of -

0:23:000:23:03

bringing his family back together.

0:23:030:23:06

You just couldn't do that in Scotland.

0:23:060:23:08

You don't get the weather. You don't get the time.

0:23:080:23:11

As I say, it's just really good to see somebody happy again.

0:23:130:23:16

I'm away from Cole a lot of the year.

0:23:170:23:20

Last year I was only home for 13 weeks out of 52

0:23:200:23:22

but I make a point of being with him every birthday and every Christmas.

0:23:220:23:26

But I have to say we've never done

0:23:260:23:28

anything this exciting on his birthday, you know.

0:23:280:23:30

He said to me, you know, "Can we do this next year?"

0:23:300:23:33

So that's enough for me. He's having a great time.

0:23:330:23:36

After a morning on the beach, there's another treat

0:23:390:23:42

for nature-loving Cole - a chance to meet some quokkas.

0:23:420:23:46

These little marsupials are not found anywhere else in the world.

0:23:460:23:50

It looks friendly, but. Yeah.

0:23:500:23:53

That's a boy.

0:23:530:23:54

Wee greedy grubbers, aren't they?

0:23:540:23:56

That one is huge. That one will eat you.

0:23:560:23:59

# Happy birthday, dear Cole

0:23:590:24:03

# Happy birthday to you. #

0:24:030:24:05

Yeah!

0:24:050:24:07

And then it's back to the beach

0:24:100:24:12

to search for some better-known wildlife.

0:24:120:24:15

He's found Nemo.

0:24:190:24:20

It's been a day of simple pleasures but one that's highlighted

0:24:210:24:25

the importance of time together and what the Godfreys have been missing.

0:24:250:24:29

My day's been brilliant.

0:24:290:24:31

I think this has been the best birthday ever

0:24:320:24:36

because I've had it in Australia and it's really sunny

0:24:360:24:39

and I can go to the beach and everything.

0:24:390:24:43

It makes me realise more that we've got to do everything

0:24:430:24:46

we can to get here.

0:24:460:24:48

The more time Julie and Cole spent together,

0:24:480:24:52

they're going to start bonding a lot more again.

0:24:520:24:54

It would be good just to see what I can see from here.

0:24:560:24:59

It's no' very often I see a sight like that back in Scotland.

0:24:590:25:03

I like spending time with my mum and dad.

0:25:030:25:06

I don't spend enough time with Mum in Scotland.

0:25:080:25:13

Then it's time to vote on lifestyle but there's just one little problem.

0:25:140:25:19

-How are we going to get him out the water?

-I don't know.

0:25:190:25:22

Cole! Five minutes, pal. Right, time starts now.

0:25:230:25:27

No!

0:25:290:25:31

It's been a great day today.

0:25:360:25:38

It's been a good birthday so today we are going to vote for...

0:25:380:25:43

TOGETHER: Australia.

0:25:450:25:47

Experiencing an Aussie lifestyle gave Alan and Julie a glimpse

0:25:540:25:57

of the future they dream of and a very happy little boy

0:25:570:26:01

but it's only half the battle.

0:26:010:26:03

Emigrating will mean full-time work for Mum and Dad

0:26:030:26:06

and if they face long hours away,

0:26:060:26:08

they would be no better off than if they were at home.

0:26:080:26:11

Three years ago, Julie qualified as a maternity nurse -

0:26:130:26:16

the job she had always dreamt of.

0:26:160:26:18

But ever since then she has had to work in London.

0:26:180:26:22

Unable to find any suitable vacancies in Scotland,

0:26:220:26:25

she's at the end of her tether.

0:26:250:26:27

'I'm really struggling to find a way to bring it all together.'

0:26:270:26:31

It brings it home every time I'm in a room and a baby's born and you

0:26:310:26:35

see that family brought together and then you think, "Where's my family?

0:26:350:26:40

"I'm not with my family."

0:26:400:26:42

She's spending the morning at Rockingham Hospital

0:26:420:26:45

to see if Australia can offer any hope of a normal work/life balance.

0:26:450:26:49

Everything is riding on this.

0:26:490:26:51

It's really important that I get the right job,

0:26:510:26:53

that I'm 100% comfortable with the hospital, the role.

0:26:530:26:56

I'm under quite a bit of pressure today to find out

0:26:560:26:59

the full picture as much as I can.

0:26:590:27:02

Julie is met by maternity manager Karen

0:27:020:27:04

who has got all the facts and figures to hand.

0:27:040:27:07

You have a monthly turnaround of about 120 women.

0:27:070:27:11

That gives us a very manageable amount of work.

0:27:110:27:16

Karen wants to test out Julie's bedside manner

0:27:160:27:19

so she's giving her a chance to meet one of the newest mums on the ward.

0:27:190:27:22

Hello.

0:27:220:27:24

-Congratulations.

-Thank you.

-She's beautiful. What did you call her?

0:27:240:27:27

-Gracie.

-Aww.

0:27:270:27:29

-This is number two.

-Do you have the same midwives that looked after you?

0:27:290:27:32

It's funny cos I've seen some and it's two and a half years ago and

0:27:320:27:35

I've actually seen some of them and they recognised me from last time.

0:27:350:27:39

That was... Yeah. Oh, dear.

0:27:390:27:41

Meanwhile, with Cole being looked after by a childminder,

0:27:410:27:44

Alan is on his way to find out about his work prospects.

0:27:440:27:48

The home and lifestyle they crave depends on Alan also being

0:27:480:27:52

able to find well-paid work.

0:27:520:27:53

If we do make the move, me and Julie need to hit the ground running,

0:27:530:27:57

get jobs straight away and the two of us

0:27:570:27:59

need to start working straight away to realise the dream, basically.

0:27:590:28:03

As a self-employed electrician,

0:28:030:28:05

today is going to be particularly nerve-racking for Alan.

0:28:050:28:08

I usually get a job just straight through word-of-mouth, people that

0:28:080:28:11

I know, so I'm actually going to meet somebody I've never met before.

0:28:110:28:15

I'm feeling a bit nervous.

0:28:180:28:21

Luckily for Alan, company owner Bruce Marshall isn't too formal

0:28:210:28:25

when it comes to the interview.

0:28:250:28:27

What's your background as far as electrical?

0:28:270:28:29

Basically, I've done a bit of everything, to be honest with you.

0:28:290:28:32

I've done industrial, commercial, domestic.

0:28:320:28:35

Despite his nerves, Alan seems to be doing well.

0:28:360:28:40

And he is keen to address his biggest worry -

0:28:400:28:42

getting the necessary licence to work in Australia.

0:28:420:28:46

I might be in a wee bit of a Catch-22 situation

0:28:460:28:49

where a lot of companies won't employ me on a restricted licence

0:28:490:28:53

but I need to be working to get my A grade licence.

0:28:530:28:56

-Is that right?

-Yes, you do.

0:28:560:28:58

You need to be sponsored by an electrical contractor

0:28:580:29:01

and then you will have to do training.

0:29:010:29:04

-How long does that take, the training?

-It's a week.

0:29:040:29:06

-A week, a week.

-A week of your time, providing you pass.

0:29:060:29:09

That is good news.

0:29:090:29:11

Alan could be fully licensed to work as an electrician very quickly.

0:29:110:29:15

Is there a big difference in pay between the restricted licence?

0:29:150:29:17

-Absolutely.

-Is there? Is it a big difference, yeah?

-Yeah.

0:29:170:29:20

-What are we talking?

-Your income in WA for a good licensed tradesman

0:29:200:29:28

would be between 60 to 75 working in Perth.

0:29:280:29:32

That's another good result.

0:29:340:29:35

It could mean earning nearly £20,000 more than he does in the UK.

0:29:350:29:40

Over at the hospital,

0:29:430:29:44

Julie and Karen are getting down to the details.

0:29:440:29:47

-So, you'd come in with three years of experience?

-Yes.

-Yes.

0:29:470:29:50

You come in at 57,565.

0:29:500:29:53

You'd go up to 60,155.

0:29:530:29:57

Generally speaking, as far as operational services go,

0:29:570:30:00

the on the ground midwifery staff,

0:30:000:30:02

the top salary for that one would be 80,000.

0:30:020:30:05

Sure.

0:30:050:30:06

That could mean a salary of nearly £50,000 -

0:30:060:30:09

£20,000 more than she earns at home.

0:30:090:30:12

However, this move is about something more than money.

0:30:120:30:15

I'm looking for a change of lifestyle, as such.

0:30:150:30:18

I'm still willing to be completely flexible with my shifts

0:30:180:30:21

but I'd like to occasionally be able to take my child to school,

0:30:210:30:24

which is something I don't get the chance to do.

0:30:240:30:27

How do you work, if it was full-time?

0:30:270:30:29

How would the shifts pan out over the week?

0:30:290:30:32

The morning shifts we start at 6.30, finishing at 3pm.

0:30:320:30:35

So that's an idea that you have the whole afternoon with your children

0:30:350:30:38

and the same thing would be next shift if you're coming on at night.

0:30:380:30:41

The night shift will start at 8.30 and finish at 6.30

0:30:410:30:45

or seven in the morning

0:30:450:30:47

and you'll be able to go off and get everybody ready for school.

0:30:470:30:50

The pay and hours could be ideal for Julie

0:30:500:30:53

and that leaves the last crucial question.

0:30:530:30:55

Do you think there's much in the way of opportunities if I was to try

0:30:550:30:59

and arrive in Perth and get a job as a midwife?

0:30:590:31:03

I would say we would all be fighting for you.

0:31:030:31:04

THEY LAUGH

0:31:040:31:06

With their visits over, it's time for both Julie and Alan to decide.

0:31:080:31:12

Based on my chat with Bruce,

0:31:150:31:17

and everything that he had to tell me about work in Perth...

0:31:170:31:20

I'm going to vote for...

0:31:220:31:24

Australia.

0:31:260:31:27

No surprise there, then, and has Julie been swayed as well?

0:31:290:31:33

I've managed to get all the information that I thought I had to

0:31:330:31:37

and based on that, my vote for work goes to...

0:31:370:31:39

Australia.

0:31:440:31:45

I can work in a nice unit.

0:31:470:31:49

Give the care that I want to give and yet I can also have the shifts

0:31:490:31:54

that support the lifestyle that I'm looking for.

0:31:540:31:56

You know, it sounds like I'll be able to spend much more time

0:31:560:31:59

with my family which is the reason that we're here.

0:31:590:32:02

Finding decent work prospects and the chance to spend time

0:32:060:32:09

together is almost the perfect result for Alan and Julie.

0:32:090:32:13

But affording the house and lifestyle they want

0:32:130:32:15

could hinge on getting a good price for their UK home.

0:32:150:32:19

Julie and Alan believe it's worth around £125,000 and after the

0:32:200:32:24

disappointments of Perth housing, they'll need to raise every penny they can.

0:32:240:32:29

You ready?

0:32:300:32:31

I'm ready. Good news or bad?

0:32:310:32:33

So we sent round two estate agents to give an up-to-date valuation.

0:32:350:32:39

-Look how wet it is.

-That's Scotland.

0:32:390:32:43

It's the kitchen.

0:32:480:32:50

With livestock.

0:32:500:32:52

COLE LAUGHS

0:32:520:32:53

Nicely decorated. Very tastefully done.

0:32:570:32:59

This is Cole's room.

0:33:060:33:07

THEY LAUGH

0:33:070:33:09

Let me guess, Celtic supporter?

0:33:100:33:12

Nicely finished.

0:33:160:33:19

Fairly typical house for this area in Glasgow.

0:33:220:33:25

Thinking in terms of maybe an asking price of 120 to £125,000.

0:33:250:33:30

Won't go for that.

0:33:300:33:31

Three-bedroom semi-detached villa I would

0:33:310:33:34

expect in the property to obtain a price somewhere between 115 and 120.

0:33:340:33:39

And my suggested asking price would be offers over 115,000.

0:33:390:33:42

I didn't think we would get that in this market.

0:33:420:33:44

-If I thought we could get 120 I'd sell.

-Pleasantly surprising.

0:33:440:33:48

-This was the bad news I was expecting.

-Aye, well I was the same.

0:33:480:33:52

Maybe that's why I couldn't get to sleep last night.

0:33:520:33:54

Well, I'm afraid here's another worry still to deal with.

0:33:540:33:58

While Cole gets to enjoy a kickabout, mum and dad

0:33:580:34:01

tackle the big money issue - can they afford to live in Australia?

0:34:010:34:05

We prepared a comparison of costs to help them decide.

0:34:050:34:09

Might be able to move to Australia but can we eat?

0:34:090:34:12

Shopping.

0:34:130:34:14

Peppers!

0:34:160:34:17

£1.65 in the UK, £3.89.

0:34:170:34:21

Water's more expensive here

0:34:210:34:23

and you're going to go through a lot more of it here.

0:34:230:34:25

I can't believe how much more expensive fruit and vegetables are.

0:34:290:34:32

-So there is a difference of £13...

-35.

0:34:320:34:36

Oh, could totally deal with that.

0:34:360:34:38

Don't get me wrong, things are more expensive,

0:34:380:34:40

but I thought there was going to be a major difference in prices,

0:34:400:34:43

I thought it was going to be a lot more expensive here.

0:34:430:34:46

But what about the big outgoings?

0:34:460:34:48

The Godfreys would be looking to take on a large mortgage.

0:34:480:34:51

If we take it on property, too, because that's

0:34:510:34:53

the middle of the road one, the monthly payments are massive.

0:34:530:34:56

They are massive.

0:34:560:34:58

That's what you're talking about, £1,730.

0:34:580:35:01

That's an eye-opener.

0:35:010:35:03

Isn't it? We're going to be at least trebling...

0:35:030:35:07

here than we are in the UK.

0:35:070:35:08

That's an extra £1,000 per month just on the mortgage,

0:35:080:35:12

is the move suddenly looking unaffordable?

0:35:120:35:16

There's one big outgoing they've both forgotten.

0:35:160:35:18

But look!

0:35:180:35:19

HE LAUGHS

0:35:190:35:21

£900 per month in costs in London.

0:35:210:35:23

We forgot about that, didn't we?

0:35:230:35:25

And that's a minimum cost.

0:35:250:35:26

That is a minimum cost.

0:35:260:35:28

So what's the cost in Australia?

0:35:280:35:30

Nothing!

0:35:300:35:31

THEY LAUGH

0:35:310:35:33

So we're saving £900 per month.

0:35:340:35:36

Yeah, that's, that's the difference in mortgage completely absorbed.

0:35:360:35:40

Suddenly, the financial cost of Julie working in London has become apparent.

0:35:400:35:45

We've actually got two living costs back home

0:35:450:35:48

and over here we're going to have one living cost.

0:35:480:35:51

You're talking £1,700 better off.

0:35:510:35:54

More disposable income.

0:35:540:35:56

So our total monthly costs in the UK are actually more expensive than

0:35:560:35:59

they are going to be here.

0:35:590:36:00

So not only are we better off but our costs are less,

0:36:000:36:04

even though we've got a huge mortgage.

0:36:040:36:06

Do you know something, it's that massive chunk of money in London.

0:36:060:36:09

Aye. If you ask me...

0:36:090:36:12

SHE LAUGHS

0:36:120:36:13

Yeah, Australia wins.

0:36:150:36:17

Aye.

0:36:170:36:19

-We are financially much better off by living here.

-Aren't we?

0:36:190:36:24

So have the Godfreys figured out how to afford the life they dream of?

0:36:240:36:28

It's time to put their calculations to the vote.

0:36:280:36:31

Based on the exercise we've done today, looking at the cost

0:36:310:36:34

of living in the UK and also here in Australia, our vote goes to.

0:36:340:36:40

-Australia.

-Australia.

0:36:440:36:45

Seeing just how much they could save by not working away from home

0:36:510:36:55

has given the Godfreys' hopes a massive boost.

0:36:550:36:58

But there's still one more obstacle they have to confront -

0:36:580:37:01

the reality of leaving behind the people they love.

0:37:010:37:04

You've been looking forward to this bit, haven't you?

0:37:050:37:07

-Yeah.

-Are you sure you want to see it?

-Yeah.

-Yeah?

0:37:070:37:10

-Are you sure?

-Yeah.

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Hey, guys, hope you're having a good time.

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-Hi, Cole.

-I hope you are having a good time.

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I hope you are having a good time.

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He's always been there for me.

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He always helps me out with any problems that I've got

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and more so, he doesn't judge me for anything I've done,

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he just basically helps me out then lets me get on with it.

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Julie's great, life and soul of a party

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whenever we get together.

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She's up for a laugh.

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Cole doesn't sit down. Cole bounces about.

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He's always happy.

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He's got ants in his pants.

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Ants in his pants.

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She misses home and it gets a bit difficult when Cole's maybe not well

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and she's not there for him.

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Yeah, it's very frustrating for her

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because she's obviously helpless, she can't do anything.

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If Cole did move to Australia I would be sad because he is like,

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he's one of my best friends and, like, I'll miss him a lot

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because he's always been there for me.

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Alan came up to my house one day and just basically got me

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and my mum in the living room and said I've got something to tell you.

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He obviously found it hard to tell us

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because it's a really big move and obviously there's a lot involved.

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We don't want him to go, they'll be sad, losing,

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losing a son, losing Julie, losing Cole.

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Uh...it's indescribable how much I'll miss him.

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Missing out on the best, the best years of Cole's life.

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He's getting older and features are changing.

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We'll not get to see that.

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I'll miss all of them, I'll miss the whole three of them,

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so I will, and I shouldn't be crying, so I shouldn't be, so...yeah,

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definitely, that's for sure because they're absolutely fantastic

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neighbours and they're really, really good friends.

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So...

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I hope you have really thought about what you need to do here.

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I hope you make the right choices for yourself.

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I'm welling up!

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And I'll see you guys when you get back.

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Hi, guys, just to let you know, I'm going to miss you

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absolutely hundreds...especially the wee man, er...Alan...

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basically, you're my big brother so obviously you've been there for me

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through all the hard times that I've had.

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Just want to say that I hope everything that you go over there for

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works out for you and I hope to see you soon.

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Thanks, pal.

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Watching messages was a painful reminder of everything

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the Godfreys stand to lose by moving and with their dream in

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touching distance, it's left their future once again hanging

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in the balance.

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So, at the end of their week, how will they vote?

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Now with their week nearly over, there's still plenty to contemplate.

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I just didn't quite realise how close I was to my brothers.

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Just hearing what they had to say really choked me up a wee bit.

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I'm taking Cole away from them.

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Cole's been a big part of their life for the last nine years.

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The friends and family video really upset Alan.

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'What they said was really heartfelt and they are not the kind'

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'of family who are particularly over the top with each other.'

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They don't particularly tell each other how they feel very much.

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I think he feels like he's abandoning them.

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For Julie, Australia is the last hope of having the family life

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and career she's always dreamt of.

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There is no other answer.

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I mean, in Glasgow, I'm there probably about 10, 12, 14 days

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at a push out of the month.

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It's not healthy for us as a family. It's not healthy for my son.

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This week's just been probably the best week of my life actually.

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I came off the plane,

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turned to Alan and said, you know, like, I love Australia already.

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Erm...and I didn't think it would be possible to feel any better

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at the end of the week.

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For Alan, the future is far from certain.

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Landing in Australia, I just...

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I felt as if I had the world on my shoulders.

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This is by far the biggest decision I've ever had to make in my life.

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So when it comes to the crucial vote, will a new life together

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in Australia make up for those they'd be leaving behind?

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Well, this is our final day in Australia.

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We've had an absolutely amazing week.

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We've learnt pretty much everything we need to know.

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We're about ready to make our final vote.

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Australia.

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Australia.

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Undecided.

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-Oh!

-Controversial!

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That's a shock!

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-You've been Australia all week, Cole.

-I know, been Australia all week!

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Did the videos make you a wee bit undecided,

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although you really like the place?

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Now that I've seen the film, like...

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it's really hard and I don't know what to vote.

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That's OK.

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-Yeah.

-That's all right.

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Well, that's your decision.

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OK?

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We're going to be financially better off.

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As a family we are going to have more time to spend together,

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we're going to be better off as a family.

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It's given us so much this week,

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just a chance to be back together again and just start all over.

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After a week to remember,

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Alan and Julie have fallen for the promise of a new life down under.

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And with more family time on the cards,

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hopefully Cole's worries will soon be a thing of the past.

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We wish them all the very best of luck.

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