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We all have plans, don't we? Fall in love, have kids | 0:00:02 | 0:00:04 | |
and look forward to making those precious memories together. | 0:00:04 | 0:00:08 | |
But it doesn't always turn out that way. | 0:00:08 | 0:00:11 | |
No-one had any idea what was going to come. | 0:00:11 | 0:00:14 | |
You know, it was just, erm, a huge shock, really. | 0:00:14 | 0:00:17 | |
I just couldn't stop crying. | 0:00:17 | 0:00:20 | |
We're here to help a young family | 0:00:22 | 0:00:23 | |
who are faced with an uncertain future. | 0:00:23 | 0:00:27 | |
I feel like the pair of them | 0:00:27 | 0:00:29 | |
have been dealt the worst hand of cards going. | 0:00:29 | 0:00:33 | |
It's a situation we simply couldn't ignore. | 0:00:33 | 0:00:36 | |
What he wants to do is make positive memories | 0:00:36 | 0:00:39 | |
and he don't want to be disabled by the house. | 0:00:39 | 0:00:41 | |
I'm determined to sort of carry on. | 0:00:41 | 0:00:44 | |
And I, as a dad of two kids... You often think, | 0:00:44 | 0:00:47 | |
"God, if something happened to me, would my kids remember me?" | 0:00:47 | 0:00:50 | |
So, with help from East Yorkshire's local trades, | 0:00:52 | 0:00:56 | |
we're going to build a family home | 0:00:56 | 0:00:58 | |
where they can start making those happy memories together. | 0:00:58 | 0:01:01 | |
All the usual suspects are here and we have just nine days | 0:01:01 | 0:01:04 | |
to pull off this enormous build, which means we need a large army. | 0:01:04 | 0:01:08 | |
SOUNDTRACK CUTS OUT | 0:01:08 | 0:01:09 | |
Aren't you going to be a bit busy? | 0:01:09 | 0:01:11 | |
Aha! | 0:01:11 | 0:01:12 | |
We might have a chance after all. | 0:01:12 | 0:01:14 | |
This is DIY SOS: The Big Build! | 0:01:14 | 0:01:17 | |
ALL CHEER | 0:01:17 | 0:01:19 | |
Social workers Liz and Jason live just outside of Hull | 0:01:28 | 0:01:32 | |
with their two girls, three-year-old Lily, 18-month-old Poppy... | 0:01:32 | 0:01:37 | |
One, two, three - weeee! | 0:01:37 | 0:01:40 | |
..along with Liz's older daughter, 20-year-old Emily. | 0:01:40 | 0:01:43 | |
The couple met at the end of 2009. | 0:01:43 | 0:01:46 | |
We actually met through Facebook | 0:01:46 | 0:01:49 | |
and then we kind of went from there, really. | 0:01:49 | 0:01:52 | |
After a whirlwind romance, they married nine months later, | 0:01:53 | 0:01:56 | |
and their first daughter, Lily, followed soon after. | 0:01:56 | 0:02:00 | |
-You going to sit on the chair? Good girl. -Yay! | 0:02:01 | 0:02:06 | |
But in January 2011, the family's lives turned upside down when | 0:02:06 | 0:02:11 | |
Jason started experiencing worrying symptoms that couldn't be explained. | 0:02:11 | 0:02:17 | |
He started to have these horrendous headaches, | 0:02:17 | 0:02:20 | |
these migraine-type headaches which completely incapacitated him. | 0:02:20 | 0:02:25 | |
We got an emergency appointment at the doctor's | 0:02:25 | 0:02:28 | |
and he really went downhill, he really deteriorated. | 0:02:28 | 0:02:31 | |
I kind of knew something wasn't right. I mean, | 0:02:31 | 0:02:33 | |
I did cognitive tests, and it was like an empty clock, | 0:02:33 | 0:02:37 | |
and they'd say, "Can you draw four o'clock?" | 0:02:37 | 0:02:39 | |
I didn't even draw round the clock. | 0:02:39 | 0:02:41 | |
And then just trying to send a simple text message, | 0:02:41 | 0:02:44 | |
just couldn't do it. | 0:02:44 | 0:02:45 | |
And they said at that time, they didn't know | 0:02:45 | 0:02:48 | |
whether he'd recover or not and, you know, we'd only been | 0:02:48 | 0:02:50 | |
married five months and you think | 0:02:50 | 0:02:52 | |
everything is going to be a bed of roses, really. | 0:02:52 | 0:02:55 | |
It was just a huge shock, really. | 0:02:55 | 0:02:58 | |
The problem was they were continuously trying to do tests. | 0:03:00 | 0:03:03 | |
That's when they... | 0:03:03 | 0:03:05 | |
..diagnosed the Fabry's. | 0:03:07 | 0:03:08 | |
Go over there, sit at that end, | 0:03:09 | 0:03:11 | |
cos Mummy is going to help Daddy get his shirt on. | 0:03:11 | 0:03:13 | |
Fabry's is a rare, life-limiting disease. | 0:03:14 | 0:03:17 | |
It means over time, the body starts to poison itself, | 0:03:17 | 0:03:21 | |
damaging all the major organs. | 0:03:21 | 0:03:23 | |
He's got hearing loss in both ears, | 0:03:25 | 0:03:27 | |
he's got cardiomyopathy | 0:03:27 | 0:03:29 | |
with his heart, he's got kidney failure, | 0:03:29 | 0:03:32 | |
he's got severe gastrointestinal problems, | 0:03:32 | 0:03:35 | |
he's at high risk of having a stroke. | 0:03:35 | 0:03:38 | |
As it transpires, it's been affecting me all my life. | 0:03:39 | 0:03:44 | |
To help manage his illness, | 0:03:44 | 0:03:45 | |
Jason has enzyme replacement therapy. | 0:03:45 | 0:03:48 | |
No, no, no, no, no, you'll pull it out of Daddy's arm. No. | 0:03:48 | 0:03:52 | |
This treatment slows down the effects of the disease. | 0:03:52 | 0:03:56 | |
Just sort of the knowledge that the experts are happy | 0:03:56 | 0:03:59 | |
that my kidney and my heart are doing all right, | 0:03:59 | 0:04:02 | |
erm, and obviously they're constantly | 0:04:02 | 0:04:04 | |
under review, so from that side of things, | 0:04:04 | 0:04:07 | |
I'm quite happy with that. | 0:04:07 | 0:04:10 | |
Soon after coming to terms with this dreadful illness, | 0:04:10 | 0:04:13 | |
they were rewarded with the birth of their second little girl, Poppy. | 0:04:13 | 0:04:17 | |
It was fantastic. | 0:04:18 | 0:04:19 | |
I didn't know whether I'd be able to have any more children because, | 0:04:19 | 0:04:21 | |
obviously, I was a bit older and it's a long time | 0:04:21 | 0:04:24 | |
since I'd had my children. | 0:04:24 | 0:04:25 | |
It was a fantastic surprise, really. | 0:04:25 | 0:04:27 | |
But, as the family grew, Jason started to experience | 0:04:27 | 0:04:30 | |
severe muscle spasms and weight loss, | 0:04:30 | 0:04:33 | |
which are unrelated to his Fabry's disease, | 0:04:33 | 0:04:36 | |
and so went back for more tests. | 0:04:36 | 0:04:38 | |
He'd been referred to Liverpool, to, erm, | 0:04:38 | 0:04:40 | |
a professor of neurology to see if he could figure out | 0:04:40 | 0:04:43 | |
what was wrong with him, | 0:04:43 | 0:04:44 | |
and he came and sat next to me and he said, | 0:04:44 | 0:04:47 | |
"I'm not going to lie to you, you're an intelligent woman, | 0:04:47 | 0:04:49 | |
"Jason's got motor neurone disease." | 0:04:49 | 0:04:51 | |
This second diagnosis of motor neurone disease | 0:04:53 | 0:04:56 | |
affects the brain's ability to control muscle movement. | 0:04:56 | 0:04:58 | |
It causes the body to simply waste away. | 0:04:58 | 0:05:01 | |
The form Jason has | 0:05:03 | 0:05:04 | |
means he has a life expectancy of up to three years. | 0:05:04 | 0:05:07 | |
I spent the next three days crying, and I just couldn't stop crying. | 0:05:09 | 0:05:13 | |
On a day-to-day basis, erm, you try and forget about it. | 0:05:15 | 0:05:21 | |
But Jason is refusing to be beaten. | 0:05:21 | 0:05:24 | |
You know, the kids have still got to be looked after. | 0:05:24 | 0:05:28 | |
Job has still got to be done. | 0:05:28 | 0:05:31 | |
Whether it's possible or not, I still want to beat it. | 0:05:31 | 0:05:34 | |
Although he won't give up, | 0:05:35 | 0:05:37 | |
he now depends heavily on Liz and step-daughter Emily | 0:05:37 | 0:05:41 | |
and they are determined to fight this together. | 0:05:41 | 0:05:43 | |
I feel like the pair of them have been dealt the worst | 0:05:43 | 0:05:47 | |
hand of cards going. I mean, fair enough, they've found each other. | 0:05:47 | 0:05:51 | |
They've found happiness, they've got the kids. | 0:05:51 | 0:05:53 | |
You know, he's in his 30s. | 0:05:53 | 0:05:55 | |
The fact that he's eventually maybe not going to be here | 0:05:55 | 0:05:59 | |
and Mum is going to have to single-handedly raise | 0:05:59 | 0:06:02 | |
the children, they didn't expect that when Mum got pregnant. | 0:06:02 | 0:06:05 | |
Jason, who qualified as an electrician, | 0:06:08 | 0:06:10 | |
was in the middle of rewiring their home when he became ill, | 0:06:10 | 0:06:13 | |
and it's been like this for the last four years. | 0:06:13 | 0:06:16 | |
It's simply not safe for his two young children. | 0:06:17 | 0:06:20 | |
They have no hot water, the house is leaking, | 0:06:20 | 0:06:23 | |
and this small three-bedroom home | 0:06:23 | 0:06:26 | |
is just becoming increasingly more cramped | 0:06:26 | 0:06:28 | |
for a growing family of five. | 0:06:28 | 0:06:30 | |
All these jobs that I should be capable of, I'm not, and you know, | 0:06:31 | 0:06:35 | |
it's got to the point | 0:06:35 | 0:06:36 | |
where I don't even really touch a screwdriver, hammer, saw - | 0:06:36 | 0:06:40 | |
anything of that kind, because I just can't do anything with them. | 0:06:40 | 0:06:43 | |
It is depressing, to say the least. | 0:06:43 | 0:06:47 | |
As Jason's motor neurone disease gets worse, | 0:06:49 | 0:06:52 | |
he'll find moving around the house virtually impossible. | 0:06:52 | 0:06:55 | |
It's just such a struggle for Jason. | 0:06:56 | 0:06:58 | |
His balance is really badly affected. | 0:06:58 | 0:07:01 | |
At the moment, there are so many things for Jason to | 0:07:01 | 0:07:04 | |
trip and fall over. I mean, the outside space, there's lots of lips | 0:07:04 | 0:07:08 | |
and things that he could fall over. | 0:07:08 | 0:07:10 | |
Getting up the stairs and getting down is becoming quite hard | 0:07:10 | 0:07:14 | |
and, you know, a downstairs toilet and a bedroom would be obviously | 0:07:14 | 0:07:19 | |
an absolute massive help. | 0:07:19 | 0:07:21 | |
And when the time comes that | 0:07:21 | 0:07:24 | |
I need a wheelchair, then, you know, | 0:07:24 | 0:07:27 | |
they're going to be invaluable. | 0:07:27 | 0:07:29 | |
'Jason is trying to come to terms with the limited time he has left.' | 0:07:29 | 0:07:33 | |
No, you're going out if you've finished. | 0:07:33 | 0:07:35 | |
'He's determined to look after the kids for as long as possible.' | 0:07:35 | 0:07:38 | |
You know, people say, | 0:07:38 | 0:07:41 | |
"Oh, yeah, you get out of nappy changing and that." | 0:07:41 | 0:07:43 | |
I'm not bothered. | 0:07:43 | 0:07:44 | |
It's a struggle though, ain't it? | 0:07:44 | 0:07:46 | |
It's a struggle for you to look after them. | 0:07:46 | 0:07:48 | |
It is, but it's worth it, you know? | 0:07:51 | 0:07:55 | |
D'you want to take your breakfast now then? | 0:07:56 | 0:07:58 | |
At the end of the day, we don't know how long Jason's | 0:07:58 | 0:08:01 | |
got left, so we need to be spending | 0:08:01 | 0:08:03 | |
that precious time together, really, | 0:08:03 | 0:08:06 | |
rather than worrying about the house. | 0:08:06 | 0:08:09 | |
I know people will want to help this family | 0:08:12 | 0:08:14 | |
and build a home that is ready for the tough times ahead. | 0:08:14 | 0:08:17 | |
Kind of what we're trying to think of is... | 0:08:20 | 0:08:22 | |
is trying to future-proof this, | 0:08:22 | 0:08:24 | |
because you've got a lot on your hands over the coming years. | 0:08:24 | 0:08:27 | |
So what is it that you need us to do? | 0:08:27 | 0:08:30 | |
What can we do to future-proof this house for you? | 0:08:30 | 0:08:33 | |
Well, I mean, anything would be great, obviously. | 0:08:33 | 0:08:36 | |
Erm, just the house being warm, | 0:08:36 | 0:08:38 | |
having hot running water would be fantastic, | 0:08:38 | 0:08:41 | |
having a downstairs toilet and a downstairs shower | 0:08:41 | 0:08:44 | |
for Jason would be great cos, you know, he finds it really difficult | 0:08:44 | 0:08:47 | |
getting up the stairs now and it's also quite hazardous for him. | 0:08:47 | 0:08:50 | |
And, erm, you know, | 0:08:50 | 0:08:52 | |
the house being safe and accessible for Jason and the girls. | 0:08:52 | 0:08:56 | |
Doesn't seem fair, does it? | 0:08:56 | 0:08:57 | |
All one after another, all of these things piling on your family. | 0:08:57 | 0:09:00 | |
-You sometimes think, "Why me?" "Why us?", you know. -I'm sure. | 0:09:00 | 0:09:05 | |
I sometimes wonder if I've done something | 0:09:05 | 0:09:07 | |
seriously wrong in a previous life to deserve all this. | 0:09:07 | 0:09:10 | |
I can understand that kind of thinking. | 0:09:10 | 0:09:12 | |
I think you're going to find that actually that you haven't | 0:09:12 | 0:09:15 | |
done anything wrong in a previous life, | 0:09:15 | 0:09:17 | |
and in actual fact, while there has been an avalanche of bad, | 0:09:17 | 0:09:19 | |
you're about to get an avalanche of good from your local community. | 0:09:19 | 0:09:22 | |
Let's see if we can get them to charge in behind you | 0:09:22 | 0:09:25 | |
and lift some of the weight off your shoulders, yeah? | 0:09:25 | 0:09:28 | |
Yeah, we're not going to do this on our own, | 0:09:28 | 0:09:30 | |
and thankfully the local trades have done us and themselves proud. | 0:09:30 | 0:09:34 | |
A lot of people turned up already. | 0:09:34 | 0:09:36 | |
-HE LAUGHS -Come and say hello. | 0:09:36 | 0:09:38 | |
'Over 100 are ready to go, | 0:09:38 | 0:09:39 | |
'and it's one of the biggest turn-outs on a first day. | 0:09:39 | 0:09:42 | |
'This just tells you how much | 0:09:42 | 0:09:43 | |
'the family story has touched everyone's hearts.' | 0:09:43 | 0:09:47 | |
So we're going to try and do our best to make this | 0:09:48 | 0:09:50 | |
better for you guys. No coming back and peeking. | 0:09:50 | 0:09:54 | |
Thanks so much, guys. | 0:09:54 | 0:09:55 | |
'Right, let's get on with it. | 0:09:56 | 0:09:58 | |
'Because this is a massive build.' | 0:09:59 | 0:10:01 | |
The whole kitchen can come out, then. | 0:10:01 | 0:10:03 | |
We'll start ripping the kitchen out. | 0:10:03 | 0:10:05 | |
To elucidate, we are extending all down the side | 0:10:05 | 0:10:07 | |
and around the back. Not only that, we have a rather large garden | 0:10:07 | 0:10:11 | |
to landscape, and upstairs to redecorate - | 0:10:11 | 0:10:13 | |
all in just nine days. | 0:10:13 | 0:10:15 | |
I think it might be an idea to empty the cupboards | 0:10:16 | 0:10:18 | |
before we smash them down. | 0:10:18 | 0:10:20 | |
We're definitely in the right house, aren't we? | 0:10:20 | 0:10:22 | |
You all right taking that strip of ceiling down? | 0:10:22 | 0:10:24 | |
Yes, he is. | 0:10:24 | 0:10:26 | |
While Jules is in charge of demolition inside, | 0:10:26 | 0:10:28 | |
we have a bunch of lads already starting | 0:10:28 | 0:10:30 | |
on the timber framework for the new part of the house. | 0:10:30 | 0:10:33 | |
Oh, it's nice that the extension turns up on the back of a truck. | 0:10:33 | 0:10:36 | |
That looks like my bit. | 0:10:36 | 0:10:38 | |
But we need a plan of action | 0:10:38 | 0:10:40 | |
to fill this framework, and so we'll require a designer. | 0:10:40 | 0:10:44 | |
Luckily, I've ordered one. | 0:10:44 | 0:10:45 | |
-Oh, no, not that one - that's Oliver Heath. -Right. | 0:10:48 | 0:10:51 | |
Now, as you may remember, | 0:10:51 | 0:10:52 | |
we haven't always seen eye-to-eye in the past | 0:10:52 | 0:10:54 | |
but I will give it to him - | 0:10:54 | 0:10:55 | |
he always keeps coming back for more. | 0:10:55 | 0:10:57 | |
He must be very thick-skinned, like a rhinoceros. | 0:10:57 | 0:10:59 | |
Every time that we abuse you on one of these, | 0:10:59 | 0:11:01 | |
we have assumed that you've had enough, but you've come back again. | 0:11:01 | 0:11:04 | |
No, I come back stronger. That's how I come back, cos I know... | 0:11:04 | 0:11:07 | |
I know what I'm going to get thrown at me. | 0:11:07 | 0:11:10 | |
I come back and it's amazing. | 0:11:10 | 0:11:12 | |
Rotten fruit is what he'll get thrown at him. | 0:11:12 | 0:11:14 | |
Oliver's designs mean we're going to extend down the side | 0:11:14 | 0:11:18 | |
and right around the back. | 0:11:18 | 0:11:20 | |
This will create a utility room at the front of the house, | 0:11:20 | 0:11:22 | |
an open-plan kitchen/diner at the back, | 0:11:22 | 0:11:25 | |
and a downstairs bedroom for Jason and Liz. | 0:11:25 | 0:11:28 | |
The old existing kitchen will be split into a new wet room | 0:11:28 | 0:11:31 | |
and a playroom and study area. | 0:11:31 | 0:11:32 | |
This is great for Jason, as he will have | 0:11:32 | 0:11:34 | |
a safe contained space where he can spend quality time with the kids. | 0:11:34 | 0:11:39 | |
We're sprucing up the living room, | 0:11:39 | 0:11:40 | |
widening all the internal doors | 0:11:40 | 0:11:42 | |
for future wheelchair access, | 0:11:42 | 0:11:43 | |
and a new side entrance will make the whole | 0:11:43 | 0:11:46 | |
of the downstairs all one flat level. | 0:11:46 | 0:11:49 | |
Upstairs, it's all about the girls. | 0:11:49 | 0:11:51 | |
The layout is staying the same | 0:11:51 | 0:11:53 | |
but each room will get a brand-new look, including the family bathroom. | 0:11:53 | 0:11:58 | |
Liz's older daughter Emily will move into the master bedroom, | 0:11:58 | 0:12:01 | |
which means Lily and Poppy will now, | 0:12:01 | 0:12:04 | |
for the first time, have their own rooms. | 0:12:04 | 0:12:06 | |
We have equally big plans for the garden. | 0:12:06 | 0:12:09 | |
The main feature will be a wheelchair-accessible decked pathway | 0:12:09 | 0:12:11 | |
so Jason and the girls can enjoy the whole area together. | 0:12:11 | 0:12:14 | |
It should make for a safe, practical house so Jason can stop | 0:12:14 | 0:12:18 | |
worrying and concentrate on spending the time he has left with the girls. | 0:12:18 | 0:12:22 | |
Cue Oliver! | 0:12:22 | 0:12:23 | |
It's a really difficult one. | 0:12:23 | 0:12:25 | |
It's a really dynamic project, you know. Jason is in a state of change, | 0:12:25 | 0:12:29 | |
so we are trying to design the house for his current needs, | 0:12:29 | 0:12:32 | |
and then what's going to happen | 0:12:32 | 0:12:34 | |
in the near future, and then also... | 0:12:34 | 0:12:36 | |
They may have to exist in it | 0:12:36 | 0:12:38 | |
as a normal family without that, and then... | 0:12:38 | 0:12:41 | |
Yeah, so it's in a real state of flux. | 0:12:41 | 0:12:43 | |
So we are introducing all sorts of things to kind of future-proof it, | 0:12:43 | 0:12:46 | |
both in the short, medium and long-term. | 0:12:46 | 0:12:49 | |
I'm just a little cog within the whole mechanisation of | 0:12:49 | 0:12:52 | |
this change, and I kind of reckon | 0:12:52 | 0:12:54 | |
I'm a small, important part of this build. | 0:12:54 | 0:12:58 | |
-Yes. -As much as the electricians, the plumbers, er... | 0:12:58 | 0:13:01 | |
And the truth is that if you weren't here, | 0:13:01 | 0:13:03 | |
-we'd have had to have got someone else. -Yeah. | 0:13:03 | 0:13:06 | |
'That's not entirely true - we couldn't afford anyone else.' | 0:13:06 | 0:13:10 | |
We've had a little accident. | 0:13:10 | 0:13:12 | |
It looked like it was dropped a little bit, | 0:13:12 | 0:13:15 | |
so I just poked it | 0:13:15 | 0:13:18 | |
with a bit of tree wood and it all fell down. Just like that. | 0:13:18 | 0:13:22 | |
See, the boy doesn't know his own strength - | 0:13:22 | 0:13:25 | |
just pokes things and they fall apart. I'll let you tell Chris. | 0:13:25 | 0:13:28 | |
Plainly, it wasn't up to our standard, anyway, | 0:13:28 | 0:13:32 | |
so it had to be taken down. | 0:13:32 | 0:13:34 | |
Do you see what you've just done there? | 0:13:34 | 0:13:36 | |
You've just put a positive twist on a negative situation. | 0:13:36 | 0:13:38 | |
Exactly. | 0:13:38 | 0:13:40 | |
'And let me tell you, there's no shortage of positivity here. | 0:13:41 | 0:13:44 | |
'These guys are here to fit some hi-tech kit | 0:13:44 | 0:13:46 | |
'which is going to help Jason stay independent | 0:13:46 | 0:13:48 | |
'for as long as possible.' | 0:13:48 | 0:13:50 | |
What are we doing? | 0:13:50 | 0:13:51 | |
This is Lee and Andy. They're coming to do something... | 0:13:51 | 0:13:53 | |
-Gentlemen, how are you? -..very special for the doors. | 0:13:53 | 0:13:56 | |
You've got two cameras inside there | 0:13:56 | 0:13:57 | |
that emits infra-red onto your pupils, | 0:13:57 | 0:14:00 | |
and then the algorithms inside the computer | 0:14:00 | 0:14:02 | |
-know where you're looking. -Is that right? | 0:14:02 | 0:14:04 | |
So he can basically chose through the computer to make doors open. | 0:14:04 | 0:14:07 | |
-That's genius, isn't it? -Flipping heck. | 0:14:07 | 0:14:09 | |
So, basically, their home is eye-controlled, | 0:14:09 | 0:14:11 | |
so it's an eye-controlled living space. | 0:14:11 | 0:14:13 | |
The level of independence for somebody | 0:14:13 | 0:14:16 | |
who's lost their movement... that's awesome. | 0:14:16 | 0:14:19 | |
Immense. | 0:14:19 | 0:14:20 | |
Do you have any personal experience of, er...? | 0:14:20 | 0:14:22 | |
Yeah, I do - my wife, she has Fabry's disease, erm... | 0:14:22 | 0:14:26 | |
Her dad sadly passed away seven years ago of it at 48, | 0:14:26 | 0:14:30 | |
so I can see and I can empathise with what Jason's going through. | 0:14:30 | 0:14:33 | |
Hang on a second - it's electrically driven, all of this... | 0:14:33 | 0:14:36 | |
-Yes. -That means... | 0:14:36 | 0:14:37 | |
Which puts it in Billy's territory, which is... | 0:14:37 | 0:14:40 | |
-We've had that discussion. -Amazing bit of kit, don't you think, Bill? | 0:14:40 | 0:14:42 | |
Also, we haven't finished... The lighting will be as such... | 0:14:42 | 0:14:46 | |
When Jason looks at the lighting, that will come on as well. | 0:14:46 | 0:14:50 | |
Which means The Prince of Darkness and his team | 0:14:50 | 0:14:52 | |
have got to put in twice the amount of cabling. | 0:14:52 | 0:14:55 | |
I will check. I'll go and see what they're going to do. | 0:14:55 | 0:14:58 | |
Build it off there and then we'll make our plans to go up there. | 0:14:58 | 0:15:01 | |
And we have our work cut out in the back, | 0:15:01 | 0:15:03 | |
as we're installing a completely new central-heating system. | 0:15:03 | 0:15:07 | |
Yeah, I mean Liz and Jason haven't had hot water, | 0:15:07 | 0:15:09 | |
you know, an absolute basic, for ages. | 0:15:09 | 0:15:11 | |
This tank, new boiler, we're going to put | 0:15:11 | 0:15:14 | |
a solar water-heating system on the roof, | 0:15:14 | 0:15:16 | |
it's all going to come together to create a really lovely, warm, | 0:15:16 | 0:15:19 | |
cosy and energy-efficient house, which is going to be | 0:15:19 | 0:15:22 | |
a massive change for them, and this is all part of the plan. | 0:15:22 | 0:15:25 | |
'But we have to hide that big, ugly thing somewhere. | 0:15:25 | 0:15:28 | |
'Not the designer, the oil tank.' | 0:15:28 | 0:15:30 | |
Conceal this thing, which is no easy task. | 0:15:30 | 0:15:32 | |
Yes, but to be fair, when you say WE have to do that, | 0:15:32 | 0:15:36 | |
the garden designer has to now incorporate this great lump | 0:15:36 | 0:15:39 | |
into his beautiful garden design. | 0:15:39 | 0:15:41 | |
So if we make this project look even half brilliant, | 0:15:41 | 0:15:44 | |
-then that's actually amazing. -Half?! | 0:15:44 | 0:15:47 | |
No, it's going to be beautiful, cos we don't do 90%. We don't do 95%. | 0:15:47 | 0:15:52 | |
We do 100%, Oliver. | 0:15:52 | 0:15:53 | |
'Talking of percentages, the boys at the front have found precisely | 0:15:53 | 0:15:57 | |
'0% of the water mains which we need to connect the new drainage to.' | 0:15:57 | 0:16:00 | |
Here's an opportunity for you. | 0:16:00 | 0:16:02 | |
-Can I hop you out of the hole for a second? -Yeah. | 0:16:02 | 0:16:04 | |
Mark, see if you can fit in the hole better. | 0:16:04 | 0:16:06 | |
'Thank goodness we have the perfect bijou and compact builder | 0:16:06 | 0:16:09 | |
-'to get into the smallest holes.' -Aaargh! | 0:16:09 | 0:16:12 | |
OK, so if we, like, pass him the shovel... | 0:16:12 | 0:16:14 | |
Actually, that's way too big, isn't it, really? | 0:16:14 | 0:16:16 | |
Here, don't worry, | 0:16:16 | 0:16:18 | |
I was out the other day and I managed to find something. | 0:16:18 | 0:16:20 | |
Oh, hold on a minute! | 0:16:20 | 0:16:21 | |
You're not actually going to extract...? | 0:16:21 | 0:16:23 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:16:23 | 0:16:25 | |
For little, confined spaces. It's a real shovel, we haven't had it made. | 0:16:25 | 0:16:29 | |
It's a real shovel for confined spaces. | 0:16:29 | 0:16:34 | |
For people four foot and below. | 0:16:34 | 0:16:37 | |
It works, look. | 0:16:37 | 0:16:39 | |
I was there in a builder's merchants the other day, | 0:16:39 | 0:16:41 | |
picking up some stuff, and I suddenly saw that | 0:16:41 | 0:16:43 | |
and I thought, "I know, that's the very tool... | 0:16:43 | 0:16:45 | |
-"that could use that shovel!" -LAUGHTER | 0:16:45 | 0:16:49 | |
I only got it as a joke, | 0:16:49 | 0:16:50 | |
but it seems to be doing the job really well. | 0:16:50 | 0:16:53 | |
'All right, so we do give him some stick, | 0:16:53 | 0:16:55 | |
'but whilst a bunch of guys stand around | 0:16:55 | 0:16:56 | |
'watching half a man dig half a hole, | 0:16:56 | 0:16:59 | |
'things are moving at a supersonic speed around us.' | 0:16:59 | 0:17:01 | |
As you can see, a gentleman there | 0:17:01 | 0:17:03 | |
who's taking a window out. How are you, all right? | 0:17:03 | 0:17:05 | |
Jolly good, very happy up there. So he's taken the window out | 0:17:05 | 0:17:08 | |
because they've already got a new window in, | 0:17:08 | 0:17:10 | |
and if you look directly above it, that's new fascias and guttering | 0:17:10 | 0:17:13 | |
going all the way round the building already, | 0:17:13 | 0:17:15 | |
all within the first hour and a half, | 0:17:15 | 0:17:16 | |
which is just amazing when you think about it, | 0:17:16 | 0:17:18 | |
but then it is mayhem because there are 80-90 people wandering around. | 0:17:18 | 0:17:22 | |
It's going to take hours of hard slog, | 0:17:22 | 0:17:25 | |
and they've given up paid work to be here. Amazing! | 0:17:25 | 0:17:28 | |
You keep thinking, like, you know, somebody else needs this, | 0:17:30 | 0:17:33 | |
that's what I'm thinking in my head, you know... | 0:17:33 | 0:17:35 | |
-The family. -The family, the family, yeah, yeah, | 0:17:35 | 0:17:38 | |
-just keep carrying on. Just keep going. -That's the way forward. | 0:17:38 | 0:17:42 | |
Right, I'll go there, you go over here. | 0:17:42 | 0:17:45 | |
Truly, their family story has touched everyone on site, | 0:17:45 | 0:17:49 | |
but the person who most wants this to be right is Jason. | 0:17:49 | 0:17:52 | |
As a family, you've been steam-rollered, really, | 0:17:54 | 0:17:57 | |
by an avalanche of bad news. | 0:17:57 | 0:17:59 | |
Yeah, erm, didn't really see any of it coming, to be honest with you. | 0:17:59 | 0:18:04 | |
I sort of met Liz about five years ago | 0:18:04 | 0:18:06 | |
and we kind of just got fired into having kids, | 0:18:06 | 0:18:09 | |
you know, which is the best thing that's ever happened to me. | 0:18:09 | 0:18:12 | |
And then, like you say, we've had some pretty bad news since, | 0:18:12 | 0:18:17 | |
but they're my inspiration to fight it and... | 0:18:17 | 0:18:21 | |
..that's what I intend to do, and I am doing. | 0:18:22 | 0:18:27 | |
You know, getting up in the morning and giving them... | 0:18:27 | 0:18:33 | |
..giving them breakfast and... | 0:18:35 | 0:18:37 | |
and that seems... | 0:18:37 | 0:18:39 | |
..such a simple thing to do, but yet, for me, that's so important. | 0:18:41 | 0:18:48 | |
-You're facing a lot of difficulties and an uncertain future. -Yeah. | 0:18:48 | 0:18:52 | |
What plays on your mind the most? | 0:18:52 | 0:18:55 | |
I was, erm... I was 12 when... when I lost my father | 0:18:55 | 0:19:01 | |
and my sister was, erm, six. | 0:19:01 | 0:19:05 | |
Her recollection of my father was not...not that great. | 0:19:05 | 0:19:11 | |
I don't want that for my kids. | 0:19:12 | 0:19:14 | |
I want them to know their dad. | 0:19:15 | 0:19:17 | |
Notwithstanding what you're dealing with as a family at the moment, | 0:19:20 | 0:19:23 | |
what are your hopes for your girls' future? | 0:19:23 | 0:19:25 | |
I want them to do what they feel | 0:19:25 | 0:19:29 | |
is what they want to do in life. | 0:19:29 | 0:19:33 | |
Whatever they may choose, I'll be happy and proud. | 0:19:33 | 0:19:38 | |
It's not about what you do, it's who you are. | 0:19:39 | 0:19:43 | |
-To just be themselves? -Yeah. | 0:19:47 | 0:19:49 | |
Tell me about Liz. She's quite something, though, isn't she? | 0:19:50 | 0:19:54 | |
Unbelievably strong. | 0:19:54 | 0:19:55 | |
She's very strong. She feels that she needs to be strong for me. | 0:19:55 | 0:20:00 | |
You know, obviously, the inevitable is going to happen, | 0:20:00 | 0:20:03 | |
but all I ever wanted was, you know, Liz and the kids, | 0:20:03 | 0:20:06 | |
and I've got that, so... | 0:20:06 | 0:20:08 | |
It's about, you know, striving to keep that as long as possible. | 0:20:10 | 0:20:14 | |
With all you have to worry about and what's coming your way, | 0:20:16 | 0:20:18 | |
if the house is done, does that give you some reassurance? | 0:20:18 | 0:20:22 | |
The fact that we'll be able to spend a lot more time together, | 0:20:22 | 0:20:26 | |
you know, and the fact that we can make memories there, | 0:20:26 | 0:20:30 | |
we can play games with the kids, | 0:20:30 | 0:20:32 | |
obviously cos there's less stress, | 0:20:32 | 0:20:34 | |
so hopefully my deterioration will be less. | 0:20:34 | 0:20:40 | |
It means a lot. | 0:20:42 | 0:20:43 | |
We can't stop the inevitable, | 0:20:45 | 0:20:46 | |
but we can make Jason's time left with his family so much richer. | 0:20:46 | 0:20:51 | |
Back on site, the shell of the extension is up | 0:20:51 | 0:20:53 | |
and they are knocking through to create that open-plan kitchen/diner. | 0:20:53 | 0:20:57 | |
Steels have gone in to reinforce the upstairs | 0:20:57 | 0:21:00 | |
as the fireplace has come out, | 0:21:00 | 0:21:01 | |
and the roof trusses are going in at this early stage too, | 0:21:01 | 0:21:04 | |
and there's quite a lot of them. | 0:21:04 | 0:21:06 | |
In the bedroom, cos of the hoist | 0:21:06 | 0:21:07 | |
to get him in and out of the bed and his chair, | 0:21:07 | 0:21:09 | |
we're making the ceiling stronger so it can actually take the weight | 0:21:09 | 0:21:12 | |
of someone being pulled up and carried on those joists. | 0:21:12 | 0:21:15 | |
We think about everything in advance. | 0:21:15 | 0:21:18 | |
It'll look tidy, this, though, won't it? | 0:21:18 | 0:21:20 | |
These two are the best two roofing joiners in East Yorkshire. | 0:21:20 | 0:21:23 | |
We'll have this done in an hour. | 0:21:23 | 0:21:25 | |
We're in roofing royalty. | 0:21:27 | 0:21:29 | |
Meanwhile, downstairs, we have a very tetchy plastering guru, | 0:21:29 | 0:21:33 | |
as someone has managed to put a hole in the only ceiling | 0:21:33 | 0:21:35 | |
he didn't have to touch. | 0:21:35 | 0:21:37 | |
-That's, er... -It's annoying, isn't it? | 0:21:37 | 0:21:39 | |
Yeah, no, we don't need a hole there. | 0:21:39 | 0:21:41 | |
I'll talk you through patching the ceiling, shall I? | 0:21:41 | 0:21:43 | |
-Teach me. -You can do it. -I'd like that. | 0:21:43 | 0:21:45 | |
Tomorrow morning. It's a date. | 0:21:45 | 0:21:47 | |
You haven't got your name on your hat. | 0:21:48 | 0:21:49 | |
It's like a rite of passage, this, isn't it? Thank you. | 0:21:49 | 0:21:51 | |
There you go. | 0:21:51 | 0:21:53 | |
Would you say he's an attractive-looking man? | 0:21:54 | 0:21:57 | |
Would you say he's a handsome-looking man? | 0:21:57 | 0:22:00 | |
He's not...obscene, is he? | 0:22:00 | 0:22:03 | |
Praise indeed, he's not obscene! | 0:22:03 | 0:22:05 | |
I take that as a compliment. | 0:22:05 | 0:22:07 | |
Well, I don't... I don't find looking at men... | 0:22:07 | 0:22:09 | |
It doesn't do it for me, I wouldn't know. | 0:22:09 | 0:22:12 | |
Who do you find offensive to look at? | 0:22:12 | 0:22:14 | |
Er... | 0:22:14 | 0:22:16 | |
Billy. | 0:22:16 | 0:22:17 | |
'No, no, no, you can't be mean to Billy. | 0:22:17 | 0:22:19 | |
'He's been working hard with all the hi-tech kit | 0:22:19 | 0:22:21 | |
'that he doesn't quite understand.' | 0:22:21 | 0:22:23 | |
-What is that over there? -That's the central unit. | 0:22:23 | 0:22:27 | |
Is it the ten-cable system or the eight-cable system? | 0:22:27 | 0:22:29 | |
The eight-cable system. | 0:22:29 | 0:22:31 | |
Oh, thanks, as long as I've got that right! | 0:22:31 | 0:22:33 | |
Jason, the guy we're doing the house for, is an electrician, | 0:22:35 | 0:22:40 | |
and we've been taking some of his work out. | 0:22:40 | 0:22:43 | |
His work's been good, hasn't it? | 0:22:43 | 0:22:44 | |
Yeah, it's quite a good installation, to be honest, yeah. | 0:22:44 | 0:22:47 | |
It's a shame he didn't get quite to finish it, actually. He's done well. | 0:22:47 | 0:22:51 | |
It's a shame we had to take it out, | 0:22:51 | 0:22:52 | |
but we all know now, in our own minds, when we come to test it, | 0:22:52 | 0:22:56 | |
we know everything we've put in is brand-new. | 0:22:56 | 0:22:59 | |
It might not work, but it will be brand-new. | 0:22:59 | 0:23:02 | |
To be fair, they do have a lot of extra work. | 0:23:02 | 0:23:04 | |
So, where are we at at the end of day one? | 0:23:04 | 0:23:07 | |
Well, this room has been stripped out, brand-new windows, | 0:23:07 | 0:23:10 | |
electrics have all been done, they're still working on it there, | 0:23:10 | 0:23:12 | |
and a new lintel over this door. | 0:23:12 | 0:23:14 | |
Here, as we move into the playroom/study, | 0:23:14 | 0:23:16 | |
most of the ceiling's gone, electrics, plumbing put in. | 0:23:16 | 0:23:19 | |
Most of the floor's gone up there as well, funnily enough. | 0:23:19 | 0:23:21 | |
Perhaps the biggest change is through in this room. | 0:23:21 | 0:23:24 | |
We have a new stud wall | 0:23:24 | 0:23:25 | |
and, behind it, we have what will be the wet room. | 0:23:25 | 0:23:27 | |
We've taken the chimney out and put new steels in | 0:23:27 | 0:23:29 | |
to support the roof because we need the space. | 0:23:29 | 0:23:32 | |
Then I'm moving through into the new bedroom, | 0:23:32 | 0:23:35 | |
er, but of course you're in the new kitchen/diner, | 0:23:35 | 0:23:39 | |
which comes all the way round here | 0:23:39 | 0:23:41 | |
and leads down into the utility room. | 0:23:41 | 0:23:43 | |
Also, a brand-new roof on, which is something spectacular, | 0:23:43 | 0:23:46 | |
and if you look out here, | 0:23:46 | 0:23:48 | |
the boys are still working away on the garden. | 0:23:48 | 0:23:50 | |
Now, that's a pretty good first day. | 0:23:50 | 0:23:52 | |
It's day two and we have another amazing turn-out | 0:23:59 | 0:24:02 | |
of over 90 of the local trades, | 0:24:02 | 0:24:04 | |
but a big job for today is digging out the floor | 0:24:04 | 0:24:07 | |
for Jason's all-important downstairs bathroom, | 0:24:07 | 0:24:09 | |
and another step in getting all the floors level. | 0:24:09 | 0:24:12 | |
It's all there, it just needs finessing and connecting, | 0:24:12 | 0:24:15 | |
and at the moment they're finessing it with a big road breaker. | 0:24:15 | 0:24:19 | |
ROAD BREAKER CLATTERS | 0:24:19 | 0:24:22 | |
Out the back, Oliver is sharing his massive vision | 0:24:22 | 0:24:24 | |
with the landscape gardener. Very kind of him(!) | 0:24:24 | 0:24:27 | |
What I want him to be able to see is to look out from his room | 0:24:27 | 0:24:30 | |
-onto the garden. -Yeah. | 0:24:30 | 0:24:32 | |
You will still be able to see all of the garden from that window there. | 0:24:32 | 0:24:36 | |
I guess it's quite nice if you can also see it, | 0:24:36 | 0:24:38 | |
so if it is raised, cos the garden is quite... | 0:24:38 | 0:24:40 | |
You WILL still be able to see it. | 0:24:40 | 0:24:42 | |
So you can get a visual sightline | 0:24:42 | 0:24:43 | |
-from here to the destination point of that little island. -Yeah. | 0:24:43 | 0:24:47 | |
And for there to be like a... like real, live kind of | 0:24:47 | 0:24:50 | |
dynamic forms of nature here, so things like leaves, plants... | 0:24:50 | 0:24:54 | |
-He's an interesting character, isn't he, Oliver? -Yeah. | 0:24:54 | 0:24:56 | |
I couldn't help overhearing the conversation, and essentially | 0:24:56 | 0:24:59 | |
when he was saying all the things he wanted, | 0:24:59 | 0:25:01 | |
-they're things you're already doing, aren't they? -Yeah! -Yeah. | 0:25:01 | 0:25:05 | |
That's designers for you, though, isn't it? | 0:25:06 | 0:25:08 | |
'Oh, no! He thinks he can plaster now!' | 0:25:08 | 0:25:10 | |
It doesn't seem too bad, actually, Chris. | 0:25:10 | 0:25:13 | |
-Good luck. -Thank you. | 0:25:13 | 0:25:15 | |
What's going on in here, Olivia? What's going on? | 0:25:15 | 0:25:18 | |
I'm just fixing the ceiling, Mark. | 0:25:18 | 0:25:20 | |
'Is he allowed sharp stuff?' | 0:25:20 | 0:25:22 | |
I like this stage in the job because this is now a nascent home. | 0:25:22 | 0:25:25 | |
-What's a nascent? -Nascent means... | 0:25:26 | 0:25:29 | |
developing with potential, | 0:25:29 | 0:25:30 | |
an opportunity to be, not yet a home, | 0:25:30 | 0:25:33 | |
but it has potential for a home, | 0:25:33 | 0:25:35 | |
in the same way as Oliver is a nascent human being. | 0:25:35 | 0:25:38 | |
Oh, I see. | 0:25:38 | 0:25:39 | |
Not quite there yet. | 0:25:39 | 0:25:41 | |
Yes. | 0:25:41 | 0:25:42 | |
THEY LAUGH | 0:25:42 | 0:25:44 | |
Hands-on Heath. | 0:25:46 | 0:25:47 | |
'He takes a lot of stick, but he keeps going, doesn't he?' | 0:25:47 | 0:25:50 | |
Making the house and garden all on one level is a real challenge. | 0:25:50 | 0:25:54 | |
We have to dig a foot out of the old concrete | 0:25:54 | 0:25:57 | |
to get the outside decking exactly flush with the inside. | 0:25:57 | 0:26:01 | |
But above, the roofers are well ahead - | 0:26:02 | 0:26:05 | |
the extension is nearly water-tight and it's only the second day. | 0:26:05 | 0:26:08 | |
These tiles that you've supplied us are, like, the dog's...aren't they? | 0:26:10 | 0:26:14 | |
-They are, dog's proverbial. -Yeah. | 0:26:14 | 0:26:17 | |
Cos you could have got away with just chucking a cheap tile at us, | 0:26:17 | 0:26:20 | |
but this actually... | 0:26:20 | 0:26:21 | |
It was the nearest we had to what you were looking for, so... | 0:26:21 | 0:26:24 | |
Cos you did the bricks for us as well? | 0:26:24 | 0:26:26 | |
We've done the bricks for you as well. | 0:26:26 | 0:26:27 | |
You all right with a man hug? Not everybody... | 0:26:27 | 0:26:31 | |
Who doesn't like a man hug?! | 0:26:31 | 0:26:33 | |
There's always a lot of love around on our sites. | 0:26:33 | 0:26:36 | |
You know what, it's love and support the family will need | 0:26:36 | 0:26:38 | |
if they're going to get through the tough times ahead, | 0:26:38 | 0:26:41 | |
something they're getting in spades from older daughter, Emily. | 0:26:41 | 0:26:44 | |
You live at home with the family at the moment, don't you? | 0:26:45 | 0:26:48 | |
Yeah, yeah, in the box room, as it happens. | 0:26:48 | 0:26:49 | |
Do you see that being a long-term thing, | 0:26:49 | 0:26:52 | |
staying at home with the family, or...moving away? | 0:26:52 | 0:26:55 | |
Well, I think I'll be there to support my mum as long as I can, | 0:26:55 | 0:27:00 | |
if I have to live in the house and help raise the kids, | 0:27:00 | 0:27:03 | |
I'm not bothered, and I love my mum to bits | 0:27:03 | 0:27:06 | |
and I WILL be there to support her, no matter what. | 0:27:06 | 0:27:09 | |
It's a big commitment, though, for you to, you know, | 0:27:09 | 0:27:12 | |
to sort of almost set your own life on hold for a while. | 0:27:12 | 0:27:15 | |
Well, it's a very big commitment, but I'm a family-orientated person | 0:27:15 | 0:27:18 | |
-and... -And you obviously love your mum. -Yeah, I love my mum to bits. | 0:27:18 | 0:27:22 | |
My mum has raised me, so there's no reason why, | 0:27:22 | 0:27:24 | |
if she is struggling with things, I can't be there to support her. | 0:27:24 | 0:27:28 | |
Do you admire her for being able to be such a rock for everybody? | 0:27:28 | 0:27:31 | |
I do, I really admire her. | 0:27:31 | 0:27:32 | |
I don't know how she holds it together some days, I really don't. | 0:27:32 | 0:27:35 | |
She's really, really steady. | 0:27:35 | 0:27:39 | |
She's the one person that keeps it all together in the family. | 0:27:39 | 0:27:43 | |
She's an amazing woman, no doubt, then there's a tough road ahead, | 0:27:43 | 0:27:45 | |
but you're saying you'll be there | 0:27:45 | 0:27:47 | |
and walk along that tough road with her? | 0:27:47 | 0:27:49 | |
Oh, yeah, I fully intend to, I'll be there the whole way, | 0:27:49 | 0:27:52 | |
with her and with Jason, | 0:27:52 | 0:27:53 | |
cos Jason means a lot to me as well, he's done so much for me. | 0:27:53 | 0:27:57 | |
It's hard, isn't it, to deal with so much? | 0:27:57 | 0:27:59 | |
It must be very difficult for you, as a daughter, | 0:27:59 | 0:28:01 | |
to see your mum actually having to deal with so much all the time. | 0:28:01 | 0:28:03 | |
Yeah, it is difficult, but at the end of the day, we have to get... | 0:28:03 | 0:28:07 | |
make the best of what life Jason's got | 0:28:07 | 0:28:10 | |
and, like, making memories for Jason, | 0:28:10 | 0:28:13 | |
something that he's got to... | 0:28:13 | 0:28:15 | |
When he's feeling down, he's got something to look at, | 0:28:15 | 0:28:17 | |
make him smile a bit. | 0:28:17 | 0:28:19 | |
And, of course, memories for the girls too? | 0:28:19 | 0:28:21 | |
Yeah, memories for the girls, | 0:28:21 | 0:28:23 | |
to remember their dad and everything like that. | 0:28:23 | 0:28:25 | |
'What a very impressive young woman Emily is. | 0:28:25 | 0:28:28 | |
'A real support for her family, | 0:28:28 | 0:28:30 | |
'she really deserves a comfortable, cosy space of her own, | 0:28:30 | 0:28:32 | |
'and insulating her room will go that extra step to achieving that. | 0:28:32 | 0:28:36 | |
'But that means you and I | 0:28:36 | 0:28:37 | |
'have to endure Oliver droning on about energy ratings. | 0:28:37 | 0:28:41 | |
'I'm afraid we can't avoid it, here it comes.' | 0:28:41 | 0:28:44 | |
Yes! | 0:28:45 | 0:28:46 | |
Cavity wall insulation. I know, your favourite subject. | 0:28:46 | 0:28:49 | |
From the survey that we did with the assessment, | 0:28:49 | 0:28:51 | |
it tells us the family could save £213 a year | 0:28:51 | 0:28:55 | |
by having cavity wall insulation fitted. | 0:28:55 | 0:28:58 | |
So basically, these guys can pump this white stuff, | 0:28:58 | 0:29:01 | |
this white fluff, into the walls, it takes them about two hours | 0:29:01 | 0:29:04 | |
and the house is warmer and it's a really quick, easy job, | 0:29:04 | 0:29:07 | |
it's something that loads of people could do. | 0:29:07 | 0:29:09 | |
We're doing it from the inside but you can do it from the outside, | 0:29:09 | 0:29:12 | |
so you don't have to make a mess of your inside, | 0:29:12 | 0:29:14 | |
it's important you know that. | 0:29:14 | 0:29:16 | |
'Yeah, check me out with my energy-saving tips!' | 0:29:16 | 0:29:19 | |
And we're going to be putting solar panels on the roof. | 0:29:21 | 0:29:23 | |
What you're going to get is the panels sitting on the roof, | 0:29:27 | 0:29:30 | |
they'll heat up, giving them free hot water. | 0:29:30 | 0:29:32 | |
Free? Brilliant, isn't it? It's brilliant. We love that word - free. | 0:29:34 | 0:29:38 | |
The sun's here now. | 0:29:38 | 0:29:39 | |
Excellent! We've also got a wood burner going in to help | 0:29:39 | 0:29:42 | |
warm the house, but that means some poor guy has to | 0:29:42 | 0:29:44 | |
climb up the chimney to fix the flue. | 0:29:44 | 0:29:46 | |
I couldn't do a chimney like that now, cos... | 0:29:46 | 0:29:48 | |
I used to be all right with heights, but it's gone. | 0:29:48 | 0:29:50 | |
-I can't do heights now. -Can you not? | 0:29:50 | 0:29:52 | |
Yeah, I'm the same. I used to be all right, but not any more. | 0:29:52 | 0:29:54 | |
I'm all right with heights, but widths frighten the life out of me. | 0:29:54 | 0:29:57 | |
What about you, Byrnsey? | 0:29:57 | 0:29:58 | |
Heights? Oh, you remember I was in the circus - | 0:29:58 | 0:30:01 | |
done all the trapeze and everything? | 0:30:01 | 0:30:02 | |
After that, they commissioned me - Elvis Presley done a film, Acapulco. | 0:30:02 | 0:30:08 | |
I was actually Elvis Presley's body double, and I done the dive. | 0:30:08 | 0:30:12 | |
That is why I can take heights, I can do anything. | 0:30:12 | 0:30:15 | |
You didn't even have the fear of heights. | 0:30:15 | 0:30:17 | |
That's quite spooky, that you're good with heights, | 0:30:17 | 0:30:19 | |
cos you know Emily, the eldest daughter here? | 0:30:19 | 0:30:21 | |
-Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. -She likes heights... -Oh, nice. | 0:30:21 | 0:30:23 | |
..and we're going to take her bungee jumping. | 0:30:23 | 0:30:26 | |
Yeah! Bring it on. | 0:30:26 | 0:30:27 | |
Every week, he never fails to let us down, does he? | 0:30:27 | 0:30:30 | |
Well, it's no different with what I've been doing | 0:30:30 | 0:30:32 | |
in the trapeze world - | 0:30:32 | 0:30:34 | |
all it is is jumping out of a bucket | 0:30:34 | 0:30:35 | |
with a bit of string tied to your leg. | 0:30:35 | 0:30:37 | |
How can that be harmful? | 0:30:37 | 0:30:38 | |
Yeah, it's not the falling, Billy, | 0:30:38 | 0:30:40 | |
it's the hitting the ground hard that's the problem. | 0:30:40 | 0:30:42 | |
Out in the garden, as day turns to night, | 0:30:44 | 0:30:46 | |
it's the groundworks that are becoming the real problem for us, | 0:30:46 | 0:30:48 | |
as we try to make the outside | 0:30:48 | 0:30:50 | |
level with the inside for easy access. | 0:30:50 | 0:30:51 | |
It's still going on! | 0:30:51 | 0:30:53 | |
All the digging out of the concrete and everything, | 0:30:53 | 0:30:57 | |
this must be about the hardest deck you've had to put down, innit? | 0:30:57 | 0:31:00 | |
It's the most over-engineered deck I've ever come across, yeah. | 0:31:00 | 0:31:03 | |
And the reason you've had to drop it in | 0:31:03 | 0:31:05 | |
is cos of the difference between the height out here... | 0:31:05 | 0:31:07 | |
The height out here and the existing height slab in the house. | 0:31:07 | 0:31:11 | |
So, in case of a wheelchair in the future, straight in and out. | 0:31:11 | 0:31:15 | |
Yeah, getting the floor level inside is just as important, | 0:31:17 | 0:31:20 | |
and by the time we're finished with it, | 0:31:20 | 0:31:22 | |
it should be flat as a snooker table. | 0:31:22 | 0:31:23 | |
Complicated stuff, this - | 0:31:23 | 0:31:25 | |
people are having to work really hard in this house, | 0:31:25 | 0:31:27 | |
they're having to go the extra mile every time | 0:31:27 | 0:31:29 | |
just to make these things work - it's incredible. | 0:31:29 | 0:31:31 | |
But that means the poor flooring lads | 0:31:31 | 0:31:33 | |
have to screed and level the floor into the night. | 0:31:33 | 0:31:36 | |
Can I just say, "Thank you, lads"? Top job. | 0:31:36 | 0:31:38 | |
Morning! Just four days left. | 0:31:41 | 0:31:43 | |
The boys burned the midnight oil and finished the floor inside, | 0:31:43 | 0:31:46 | |
and the lads today are still struggling | 0:31:46 | 0:31:48 | |
with the concrete level outside - but it's not through lack of trying. | 0:31:48 | 0:31:52 | |
If we're not careful, it could add time | 0:31:52 | 0:31:54 | |
to what is already an ambitious garden - | 0:31:54 | 0:31:56 | |
but it is worth it, as it can be another area | 0:31:56 | 0:31:58 | |
for the family to have fun together. | 0:31:58 | 0:32:00 | |
Now, my idea of fun with the family is singing to them. | 0:32:00 | 0:32:03 | |
Really, really loving being a dad again, | 0:32:03 | 0:32:05 | |
spending lovely time with my oldest sons at the moment, | 0:32:05 | 0:32:08 | |
and spending a lot of time with young Eddie, as well, | 0:32:08 | 0:32:11 | |
who is very lovely. | 0:32:11 | 0:32:13 | |
You've written your own song for him, haven't you? | 0:32:13 | 0:32:16 | |
I have. | 0:32:16 | 0:32:17 | |
Give us a little rendition. | 0:32:17 | 0:32:18 | |
Well, I call him Wazoo, so now I've written a song. | 0:32:18 | 0:32:21 | |
# Here's little Wazoo | 0:32:21 | 0:32:24 | |
# It's just me and you... # | 0:32:24 | 0:32:27 | |
Hey, where are you going?! | 0:32:28 | 0:32:29 | |
Everyone's a critic. | 0:32:29 | 0:32:30 | |
Probably a good time for the lads to get out of earshot, to be honest. | 0:32:30 | 0:32:33 | |
Actually, it's Emily's 21st birthday - | 0:32:33 | 0:32:35 | |
it's the perfect opportunity for a day out | 0:32:35 | 0:32:37 | |
and for the family to create more of those precious memories. | 0:32:37 | 0:32:40 | |
It's also a good excuse for Billy to show off to Emily | 0:32:40 | 0:32:42 | |
how to bungee jump - after all, he used to be a pro at this, didn't he? | 0:32:42 | 0:32:46 | |
It's getting higher and higher, ain't it? | 0:32:47 | 0:32:50 | |
I've just got a twinge in me back, though. | 0:32:52 | 0:32:55 | |
It'll be good for it, it'll stretch ya. Go on, sunshine. | 0:32:55 | 0:32:57 | |
-Good luck. -Good luck - enjoy. | 0:32:57 | 0:32:59 | |
Is it me, or is Billy trying to chicken out? | 0:32:59 | 0:33:01 | |
Do you think he's going to do it, Jason? | 0:33:01 | 0:33:04 | |
-He lives dangerously, doesn't he? -Very dangerously. | 0:33:04 | 0:33:06 | |
He might just do it. | 0:33:06 | 0:33:08 | |
I think you should go first, Emily, | 0:33:08 | 0:33:10 | |
cos...ladies first, before gents, you know what I mean? | 0:33:10 | 0:33:13 | |
I'll be right behind you. Good luck, bubble-gum. | 0:33:13 | 0:33:15 | |
There is no stopping Emily, keen to make a memory of a lifetime. | 0:33:17 | 0:33:21 | |
I do it for my family, | 0:33:21 | 0:33:23 | |
to show them that you live every day as it is, | 0:33:23 | 0:33:26 | |
and don't dwell on what's coming in the future. | 0:33:26 | 0:33:28 | |
Three, two, one...bungee. | 0:33:28 | 0:33:31 | |
ALL CHEER | 0:33:31 | 0:33:34 | |
Whoo! Whoo! | 0:33:35 | 0:33:37 | |
-There she goes, Jason, she's done it. -Yeah. | 0:33:37 | 0:33:39 | |
OK, your turn, Billy - | 0:33:44 | 0:33:45 | |
don't make a fool of yourself, now. | 0:33:45 | 0:33:47 | |
Come on, Bill. | 0:33:47 | 0:33:49 | |
I've swum with sharks, horse ride... | 0:33:49 | 0:33:52 | |
I've done everything - but, oh, my back's so bad. | 0:33:52 | 0:33:55 | |
Why is he taking so long? | 0:33:55 | 0:33:57 | |
I've done my back coming up the stairs, | 0:33:57 | 0:34:00 | |
Chris?! I need you, son - I need a mate. | 0:34:00 | 0:34:03 | |
Right, I'll just pop up and have a word. | 0:34:03 | 0:34:05 | |
Just go up and egg him on. | 0:34:05 | 0:34:07 | |
What's the matter, son? | 0:34:07 | 0:34:08 | |
Come on, you can do that, look! | 0:34:08 | 0:34:09 | |
Yeah, but if a girl can do it, you can do it, Chris. | 0:34:09 | 0:34:12 | |
Hang on, what's happening?! | 0:34:12 | 0:34:14 | |
You're doing it - I just come up to give you some support. | 0:34:14 | 0:34:17 | |
I thought you were the expert - | 0:34:17 | 0:34:18 | |
diving out, double for Elvis Presley in Acapulco. | 0:34:18 | 0:34:21 | |
It was 1968, son. | 0:34:21 | 0:34:22 | |
Are you twisting this round to me? | 0:34:22 | 0:34:25 | |
Listen, what you've got to do - don't look down, | 0:34:25 | 0:34:27 | |
feet together, just jump out. No problem. | 0:34:27 | 0:34:30 | |
Now he's giving advice! That's hilarious. | 0:34:30 | 0:34:33 | |
This is mental. | 0:34:33 | 0:34:34 | |
Honestly, I don't know if I can do it. | 0:34:34 | 0:34:36 | |
I can't believe you bottled it. | 0:34:37 | 0:34:39 | |
I was going to do it, still, | 0:34:39 | 0:34:40 | |
but, mate, he said no - not with a bad back. | 0:34:40 | 0:34:43 | |
Three, two, one...bungee. | 0:34:43 | 0:34:46 | |
-Ohh... -Come on, you were there, then. -Nearly went, there. | 0:34:46 | 0:34:48 | |
So, you saw Chris at the top - so where is he now? | 0:34:48 | 0:34:51 | |
I don't know, he just walked off. | 0:34:51 | 0:34:53 | |
Emily went straight off, like that, come on, mate. | 0:34:53 | 0:34:56 | |
What was all that about? | 0:34:56 | 0:34:57 | |
Exactly - come on, then. | 0:34:57 | 0:34:58 | |
Big, deep breath, here we go - big deep breath, three, two... | 0:34:58 | 0:35:02 | |
ALL CHEER | 0:35:05 | 0:35:07 | |
-Yeah! -Whoo! | 0:35:07 | 0:35:11 | |
Thanks. | 0:35:12 | 0:35:14 | |
Thank you - you just got up there and done it. | 0:35:16 | 0:35:18 | |
And you...you owe me big time. | 0:35:18 | 0:35:20 | |
Rejuvenated from his adrenaline hit, | 0:35:24 | 0:35:26 | |
Chris is back to get up to speed with the work his boys have done. | 0:35:26 | 0:35:30 | |
Love plastering, me. | 0:35:31 | 0:35:32 | |
Here we are, look - you all right, boys? | 0:35:35 | 0:35:38 | |
They've done two more hits upstairs, so that's coming on. | 0:35:38 | 0:35:41 | |
This is being prepped for a big over skim this afternoon. | 0:35:41 | 0:35:43 | |
I don't know how many plasterers are here - | 0:35:43 | 0:35:45 | |
it's got to be 16. | 0:35:45 | 0:35:46 | |
It's good that you have plenty of boys on the job, Chris, | 0:35:46 | 0:35:49 | |
cos we need the plastering all finished today, | 0:35:49 | 0:35:51 | |
so we can get on with the next stage of the electrics. | 0:35:51 | 0:35:54 | |
And with all the extra hi-tech kit going in, | 0:35:54 | 0:35:56 | |
we can't afford any delays. | 0:35:56 | 0:35:58 | |
You can see the job changing, can't you? | 0:35:58 | 0:36:00 | |
Cos everything is going to be covered up - | 0:36:00 | 0:36:02 | |
ie, the plumbing, the electrics it's all in, | 0:36:02 | 0:36:04 | |
it's a positive move in the right direction | 0:36:04 | 0:36:06 | |
when the plasterers arrive. | 0:36:06 | 0:36:08 | |
And one of those fabulous plasterers who come to do their bit | 0:36:08 | 0:36:12 | |
is Jason's old school friend Simon. | 0:36:12 | 0:36:14 | |
Usually, when you... | 0:36:14 | 0:36:16 | |
When you find out news like this, everyone gets news like this | 0:36:16 | 0:36:19 | |
with some family member or friend or something, | 0:36:19 | 0:36:21 | |
but you can do nothing, can't you? | 0:36:21 | 0:36:22 | |
You can do absolutely nothing - | 0:36:22 | 0:36:24 | |
all you can say is, "I'm sorry to hear the news." | 0:36:24 | 0:36:26 | |
But you've given us the chance | 0:36:26 | 0:36:27 | |
to actually do something that matters, so thank you, fellas. | 0:36:27 | 0:36:31 | |
-Cheers. -Thank you very much. | 0:36:31 | 0:36:33 | |
Do you know, we get that kind of commitment everywhere we go? | 0:36:33 | 0:36:36 | |
And it never fails to amaze me how good people are. | 0:36:36 | 0:36:38 | |
These kinds of ambitious builds can only be done | 0:36:38 | 0:36:41 | |
with these kinds of people - | 0:36:41 | 0:36:42 | |
all of them are going the extra yard, | 0:36:42 | 0:36:44 | |
including the Trojans in the back yard. | 0:36:44 | 0:36:46 | |
All their hard work has paid off | 0:36:46 | 0:36:48 | |
and now they're cracking on with the decking. | 0:36:48 | 0:36:50 | |
Everything in this garden, now, is wheelchair-friendly - | 0:36:51 | 0:36:54 | |
your grades, your depths, your levels, | 0:36:54 | 0:36:57 | |
absolutely everything is wheelchair friendly. | 0:36:57 | 0:36:59 | |
But also it's much more complex than that - | 0:36:59 | 0:37:01 | |
so, the idea of the wavy line there is to hide the oil... | 0:37:01 | 0:37:04 | |
-The tank, yeah. -So, we can see all the pebbles - | 0:37:04 | 0:37:06 | |
what's going on there, then? | 0:37:06 | 0:37:08 | |
We're having a beach theme going on here, | 0:37:08 | 0:37:10 | |
grading off into blues, purples and green gravels, | 0:37:10 | 0:37:12 | |
coming back up into your pebbles, as well. | 0:37:12 | 0:37:15 | |
Yeah, they're making progress, | 0:37:15 | 0:37:16 | |
but still two days behind schedule with loads left to do. | 0:37:16 | 0:37:20 | |
In the house, the wet room boys are getting on with the tiling, | 0:37:21 | 0:37:23 | |
and all the plaster is drying out nicely. | 0:37:23 | 0:37:26 | |
Or have I spoken too soon? You see, that's Mark's worried face, | 0:37:26 | 0:37:29 | |
and those boys who've just put the ceiling up aren't too happy, either. | 0:37:29 | 0:37:32 | |
-There might be a problem. -What have you done? | 0:37:32 | 0:37:35 | |
Basically, what I've done is, | 0:37:35 | 0:37:36 | |
I haven't put any strengtheners into the ceiling to take the hoist, | 0:37:36 | 0:37:39 | |
I'd completely forgotten the hoist, and the ceiling's finished, | 0:37:39 | 0:37:42 | |
and I don't know what to do, I don't know how to get round it. | 0:37:42 | 0:37:44 | |
The roof trusses need extra support in the ceiling | 0:37:44 | 0:37:46 | |
to take the hoist, and Jason's weight, | 0:37:46 | 0:37:48 | |
and Mark has forgotten to do it. | 0:37:48 | 0:37:50 | |
And the only way round it... | 0:37:52 | 0:37:54 | |
..is to take the ceiling down. | 0:37:54 | 0:37:55 | |
..is to... | 0:37:55 | 0:37:57 | |
..take the ceiling down. | 0:37:57 | 0:37:58 | |
..take the ceiling down. | 0:37:58 | 0:37:59 | |
You can't take the ceiling down. | 0:37:59 | 0:38:01 | |
At this stage of the build, we really don't need that - | 0:38:01 | 0:38:03 | |
when Chris gets wind of this, he's going to go ape. | 0:38:03 | 0:38:06 | |
Distract him! | 0:38:06 | 0:38:07 | |
Oliver, why are you rummaging through bags of clothes? | 0:38:07 | 0:38:10 | |
What we're doing is we're going to make a blanket - | 0:38:10 | 0:38:12 | |
it's kind of like a blanket | 0:38:12 | 0:38:13 | |
that will kind of instil memories in the children. | 0:38:13 | 0:38:16 | |
So, we're going through some of their old clothes.. | 0:38:16 | 0:38:18 | |
-His clothes, so that.. -His clothes, yeah. -Oh, OK. | 0:38:18 | 0:38:20 | |
So that in the winter, they can kind of cuddle up with it, | 0:38:20 | 0:38:23 | |
and they can get a sense of the smell | 0:38:23 | 0:38:25 | |
and the touch of his clothes. | 0:38:25 | 0:38:26 | |
As mad as that sounds, I sort of get what he's trying to get across. | 0:38:26 | 0:38:30 | |
-Yeah. No, it kind of makes sense, on this occasion. -I know, I know... | 0:38:30 | 0:38:32 | |
Well, I tell you what, | 0:38:32 | 0:38:34 | |
when my dad died, we made all these cushions | 0:38:34 | 0:38:36 | |
out of...out of his old shirts, cos he kind of worked in the City, | 0:38:36 | 0:38:39 | |
-he had all these monogrammed shirts. -Right. | 0:38:39 | 0:38:41 | |
It was really lovely, you know, you kind of sit down in the evening | 0:38:41 | 0:38:43 | |
and you suddenly find yourself hugging this cushion. | 0:38:43 | 0:38:46 | |
You know, it's that tactile sense of warmth that's so nice. | 0:38:46 | 0:38:49 | |
I like that idea. | 0:38:49 | 0:38:50 | |
So, what we're doing, really, | 0:38:50 | 0:38:51 | |
is kind of like an upcycling project. | 0:38:51 | 0:38:53 | |
-Wait a minute, hold on... -Yeah, the pink could work, actually. | 0:38:53 | 0:38:56 | |
I mean, what we'll do is, we'll just take a little bit, you know, | 0:38:56 | 0:38:59 | |
-so it will just be a bit like that... -With the grey in it? | 0:38:59 | 0:39:01 | |
Yeah, exactly. That will just become a little patch. Er... | 0:39:01 | 0:39:05 | |
-But, you know, it's about... -Your idea was rubbish. | 0:39:05 | 0:39:07 | |
-I know, plainly. -Mine was brilliant. | 0:39:07 | 0:39:08 | |
It's just about pulling patchworks together. | 0:39:08 | 0:39:10 | |
Do you know what? That's a really lovely idea of Oliver's | 0:39:10 | 0:39:13 | |
to help keep memories of Jason alive for years to come. | 0:39:13 | 0:39:15 | |
And two people who know how important it is | 0:39:15 | 0:39:18 | |
are best friends Heather and Sue. | 0:39:18 | 0:39:19 | |
Has it been heartbreaking | 0:39:19 | 0:39:21 | |
watching this happen to the family from the outside? | 0:39:21 | 0:39:24 | |
I think we've seen, over the years, Jason deteriorating, | 0:39:24 | 0:39:27 | |
but, until last year, not knowing what it was, | 0:39:27 | 0:39:30 | |
and, you know - they're such a happy couple. | 0:39:30 | 0:39:33 | |
I think the main thing, now, is just to try and buy them time isn't it? | 0:39:33 | 0:39:37 | |
-Yeah. -Yeah. And I think that's what he wants to do, | 0:39:37 | 0:39:39 | |
is make positive memories, | 0:39:39 | 0:39:40 | |
and he don't want to be disabled by the house | 0:39:40 | 0:39:42 | |
or anything else, really. | 0:39:42 | 0:39:44 | |
-Mm. -So, if that enables him to be a good dad | 0:39:44 | 0:39:48 | |
and to be what he thinks is important | 0:39:48 | 0:39:51 | |
for the girls to remember about him, | 0:39:51 | 0:39:52 | |
-then it will make a really big difference to him. -Mm. | 0:39:52 | 0:39:56 | |
It will do, yeah. | 0:39:56 | 0:39:57 | |
Well, hopefully, if we get a move on, | 0:39:57 | 0:39:59 | |
we should have a warm, cosy house for them to make those memories - | 0:39:59 | 0:40:02 | |
and, with the oil heating system all plumbed in, | 0:40:02 | 0:40:04 | |
we are one step closer. | 0:40:04 | 0:40:06 | |
We've got less than 200ml. | 0:40:08 | 0:40:10 | |
Back with O'Shortie and the ceiling cock-up, | 0:40:10 | 0:40:12 | |
someone has come up with a quick fix to a big problem | 0:40:12 | 0:40:14 | |
which means the whole ceiling doesn't have to be taken down. | 0:40:14 | 0:40:18 | |
We've cut a little loft to get access to the void, | 0:40:18 | 0:40:20 | |
then we can go up and climb back in and fit the timber from above. | 0:40:20 | 0:40:26 | |
-You're a genius. -I know. | 0:40:26 | 0:40:27 | |
Jules may have fixed the hoist support problem, | 0:40:27 | 0:40:29 | |
but it still means you have two chippies | 0:40:29 | 0:40:31 | |
hanging out of Chris' newly plastered ceiling - | 0:40:31 | 0:40:33 | |
it's not going to go well. | 0:40:33 | 0:40:35 | |
-That is the last bit of plastering happening in this house. -Lovely. | 0:40:35 | 0:40:39 | |
Oh, no, it isn't. | 0:40:39 | 0:40:40 | |
All people who've stopped plastering take one step forward. | 0:40:40 | 0:40:42 | |
Chris, where do you think you're going? | 0:40:42 | 0:40:45 | |
Erm, we've knocked holes in the back room for the hoist boys, | 0:40:45 | 0:40:48 | |
and, er...we've got to pull the ceiling down, OK? Sorry about that. | 0:40:48 | 0:40:52 | |
What do you mean, "OK"?! | 0:40:52 | 0:40:53 | |
How can you drop a line like that, and end it "OK"? | 0:40:53 | 0:40:57 | |
There's nothing OK about it! | 0:40:57 | 0:40:58 | |
I thought he took that very well, actually. | 0:40:58 | 0:41:00 | |
Anyway, onwards and upwards. | 0:41:01 | 0:41:03 | |
We've got to do what we can, because it's important. | 0:41:03 | 0:41:05 | |
The way ahead for this family isn't easy. | 0:41:05 | 0:41:08 | |
Meeting Jason was a turning point for you in your life. | 0:41:09 | 0:41:13 | |
Well, it was just like a breath of fresh air, really, | 0:41:13 | 0:41:16 | |
and it was so unexpected. | 0:41:16 | 0:41:18 | |
I mean, I wasn't really looking for a relationship, | 0:41:18 | 0:41:21 | |
or looking for love, as it were. | 0:41:21 | 0:41:23 | |
I just thought, you know, it would be nice | 0:41:23 | 0:41:25 | |
to have a bit of fun and go on a few dates | 0:41:25 | 0:41:27 | |
and whatever happened happened - | 0:41:27 | 0:41:29 | |
but I certainly never expected to get married, | 0:41:29 | 0:41:31 | |
and I definitely didn't expect to have two more children. | 0:41:31 | 0:41:34 | |
But life has hit the family with another terrible blow, | 0:41:34 | 0:41:37 | |
as they've since found out | 0:41:37 | 0:41:39 | |
that the couple's daughters Lily and Poppy | 0:41:39 | 0:41:41 | |
have inherited Fabry's disease. | 0:41:41 | 0:41:43 | |
It turns out that Jason's mum also has it. | 0:41:43 | 0:41:46 | |
With the girls having being diagnosed with Fabry's disease, | 0:41:48 | 0:41:53 | |
is that a real worry long-term for you? | 0:41:53 | 0:41:55 | |
Does it weigh on Jason's mind? | 0:41:55 | 0:41:57 | |
He feels that he's burdened the girls | 0:41:57 | 0:42:00 | |
with this terrible genetic disease, you know? | 0:42:00 | 0:42:02 | |
There's a lot of guilt going on with Jason and his mum. | 0:42:02 | 0:42:06 | |
That can't be their responsibility, that can't be... | 0:42:06 | 0:42:09 | |
It would be different if they knew about it | 0:42:09 | 0:42:11 | |
and they went on to have children and pass it on | 0:42:11 | 0:42:13 | |
to children knowingly, | 0:42:13 | 0:42:14 | |
but, of course, Jason's mum didn't know about it, | 0:42:14 | 0:42:17 | |
and Jason didn't know about it until I was 20 weeks pregnant. | 0:42:17 | 0:42:20 | |
You know, he feels guilty | 0:42:20 | 0:42:22 | |
for putting me and the girls through all this. | 0:42:22 | 0:42:24 | |
You wouldn't have the girls, though, would you? | 0:42:24 | 0:42:27 | |
Exactly - and they're gorgeous. | 0:42:27 | 0:42:29 | |
-They are. -I wouldn't be without them. | 0:42:29 | 0:42:31 | |
Jason is always saying to me that I'd be better off without him, | 0:42:31 | 0:42:35 | |
and that I bet I wish that I'd never met him, | 0:42:35 | 0:42:39 | |
but, you know, I don't wish that at all. | 0:42:39 | 0:42:42 | |
I think they need to know what an amazing man their dad is. | 0:42:42 | 0:42:44 | |
SHE SOBS | 0:42:44 | 0:42:46 | |
This is a strong family | 0:42:50 | 0:42:51 | |
facing more than any of us can ever truly understand. | 0:42:51 | 0:42:56 | |
The love being poured into the fabric of their home | 0:42:57 | 0:42:59 | |
by the local community, I hope, will make them feel supported. | 0:42:59 | 0:43:03 | |
Jules is running, because we're running out of time, | 0:43:04 | 0:43:07 | |
with only one day left before we give it back to Jason and Liz. | 0:43:07 | 0:43:10 | |
..two, three! | 0:43:10 | 0:43:12 | |
Now, there's the small matter of moving the Wendy house, | 0:43:12 | 0:43:15 | |
which was built by Grandad for the kids and has to remain intact - | 0:43:15 | 0:43:18 | |
but preferably on the other side of the garden. | 0:43:18 | 0:43:20 | |
This is how they did the pyramids. | 0:43:20 | 0:43:22 | |
Do you know summat? I actually think it looked better here. | 0:43:22 | 0:43:25 | |
It's staying. Inside... | 0:43:25 | 0:43:27 | |
You wouldn't know, would ya?! | 0:43:29 | 0:43:31 | |
..Mark has got away with it. | 0:43:31 | 0:43:32 | |
Ceiling all strengthened and plastered just in time, | 0:43:32 | 0:43:35 | |
as the boys installing the hoist are ready to go. | 0:43:35 | 0:43:38 | |
Good job. | 0:43:38 | 0:43:40 | |
What the house needs, though, is warmth. | 0:43:40 | 0:43:42 | |
The trouble is, cos it's so wet and cold outside, | 0:43:42 | 0:43:45 | |
even though the sun's out, nothing's drying in here. | 0:43:45 | 0:43:47 | |
We need to get this heating system, as magical as it is, | 0:43:47 | 0:43:49 | |
commissioned, so that we can get the radiators on. | 0:43:49 | 0:43:52 | |
Have you seen any plumbers? | 0:43:52 | 0:43:53 | |
Dotted around, stuck to radiators somewhere upstairs - | 0:43:53 | 0:43:55 | |
but you're right, we do absolutely need to get the heating on. | 0:43:55 | 0:43:58 | |
-Time is running out. -Otherwise none of this will dry out. | 0:43:58 | 0:44:00 | |
-Let me see if I can find them. -Plumber! Any plumbers around? | 0:44:00 | 0:44:03 | |
You see, everyone inside and out are going hell for leather | 0:44:03 | 0:44:06 | |
trying to get all of those last jobs done. | 0:44:06 | 0:44:08 | |
Well, that's the four cubes, five cubes of concrete in, | 0:44:13 | 0:44:15 | |
which we're now going to settle down, but whilst we're doing that, | 0:44:15 | 0:44:18 | |
it means we can get the concrete mixer out | 0:44:18 | 0:44:20 | |
and we can get the oil in, cos they need to fill up the oil | 0:44:20 | 0:44:23 | |
so we can get the central heating started, | 0:44:23 | 0:44:24 | |
so we can start drying out the inside of the house. | 0:44:24 | 0:44:27 | |
Then we get that out, because up the end of the road is a tractor | 0:44:27 | 0:44:30 | |
with four tonnes of topsoil for the back garden | 0:44:30 | 0:44:32 | |
which needs to get in. | 0:44:32 | 0:44:33 | |
It is a bit like Piccadilly Circus here, at this stage - | 0:44:33 | 0:44:35 | |
everybody's kind of cottoned on to the fact | 0:44:35 | 0:44:37 | |
that if we don't do it all at once, we don't get it done at all. | 0:44:37 | 0:44:40 | |
But we have the materials, | 0:44:40 | 0:44:42 | |
we have the trucks and we have plenty of help. | 0:44:42 | 0:44:44 | |
Painters are painting, | 0:44:44 | 0:44:45 | |
this gentleman here is waiting to put up a wardrobe, | 0:44:45 | 0:44:48 | |
fitted in here, as we speak, it's all... | 0:44:48 | 0:44:50 | |
If you see a gap, jump in it. | 0:44:51 | 0:44:53 | |
As you can see, it's late in the evening, now, | 0:44:57 | 0:44:59 | |
and people are still working away, | 0:44:59 | 0:45:02 | |
because they want to get it done, and they're kind of aware | 0:45:02 | 0:45:05 | |
that we're running out of time. | 0:45:05 | 0:45:06 | |
Luke, at this stage in proceedings, | 0:45:06 | 0:45:08 | |
do you think, maybe, that your garden design | 0:45:08 | 0:45:10 | |
-might have been a tad ambitious? -Mm... | 0:45:10 | 0:45:12 | |
THEY CHUCKLE | 0:45:12 | 0:45:14 | |
No, I think... Nah, everything's possible, innit? | 0:45:14 | 0:45:18 | |
It will definitely be done for Friday. Definitely. | 0:45:18 | 0:45:22 | |
That's the day after we're supposed to show it to the family. | 0:45:22 | 0:45:25 | |
THEY LAUGH | 0:45:25 | 0:45:27 | |
Yeah, that ain't going to work, chaps. | 0:45:27 | 0:45:29 | |
This build really is going down to the wire - | 0:45:29 | 0:45:30 | |
and talking of wires, | 0:45:30 | 0:45:32 | |
this eye control kit is finally up and running. | 0:45:32 | 0:45:34 | |
-Working and everything? -Yep. -Brilliant. | 0:45:36 | 0:45:38 | |
The local community have pulled out all the stops | 0:45:38 | 0:45:41 | |
to give us a fighting chance | 0:45:41 | 0:45:42 | |
of giving this house back to Liz and Jason all complete. | 0:45:42 | 0:45:45 | |
You know, we might just do it. | 0:45:45 | 0:45:47 | |
Just nine days ago, | 0:45:51 | 0:45:53 | |
we found a young family who had hit crisis point. | 0:45:53 | 0:45:56 | |
Just a huge shock, really, | 0:45:57 | 0:46:00 | |
and I just couldn't stop crying. | 0:46:00 | 0:46:02 | |
Jason was battling life-limiting illnesses | 0:46:02 | 0:46:05 | |
in a house which no longer worked for his needs. | 0:46:05 | 0:46:08 | |
Worse still, the unheated building | 0:46:08 | 0:46:11 | |
was dangerous for him and his family. | 0:46:11 | 0:46:13 | |
My biggest concern is obviously the safety for the kids, | 0:46:15 | 0:46:18 | |
and, I mean, I want them to be able to go to bed | 0:46:18 | 0:46:20 | |
and then get up and it be safe. | 0:46:20 | 0:46:23 | |
You can see he gets so frustrated with it, | 0:46:23 | 0:46:25 | |
and I think it gets him down to see the house in this state, | 0:46:25 | 0:46:28 | |
when he was the one that was making it all better, basically. | 0:46:28 | 0:46:32 | |
This was a family who couldn't do it on their own, and needed help... | 0:46:32 | 0:46:36 | |
..and it was the local community that came to the rescue, | 0:46:37 | 0:46:40 | |
and amazingly, in just over a week, they've completely transformed | 0:46:40 | 0:46:44 | |
this impractical house into a wonderful home. | 0:46:44 | 0:46:47 | |
By extending at the back, | 0:46:49 | 0:46:51 | |
we've completely re-ordered the downstairs | 0:46:51 | 0:46:53 | |
by creating an open-plan kitchen/diner. | 0:46:53 | 0:46:56 | |
It's now a new, fresh and vibrant space | 0:46:56 | 0:46:59 | |
with life-enhancing natural materials. | 0:46:59 | 0:47:02 | |
What Jason needed the most was a downstairs bedroom, | 0:47:04 | 0:47:08 | |
and now he has a comfortable nature-inspired room | 0:47:08 | 0:47:11 | |
to soothe away the stress and anxiety of daily life. | 0:47:11 | 0:47:16 | |
Now it will be his private room with a view. | 0:47:16 | 0:47:19 | |
Next to the bedroom, we've created a functional wet room | 0:47:22 | 0:47:25 | |
that subtly looks after their needs now | 0:47:25 | 0:47:29 | |
and Jason's in the future. | 0:47:29 | 0:47:30 | |
Leading off the kitchen is the playroom/study area | 0:47:32 | 0:47:35 | |
designed with Jason in mind - he now has a safe contained area | 0:47:35 | 0:47:40 | |
to look after the girls | 0:47:40 | 0:47:41 | |
in the precious time he has left with them. | 0:47:41 | 0:47:44 | |
The lounge has been transformed into an inviting room | 0:47:47 | 0:47:49 | |
for the whole family to come together | 0:47:49 | 0:47:51 | |
where they can feel the warmth of the new wood-burning stove. | 0:47:51 | 0:47:56 | |
There are gentle reminders of Jason around the room, | 0:47:56 | 0:47:58 | |
and Oliver's idea of the comfort blanket has come up a treat - | 0:47:58 | 0:48:03 | |
now the girls can snuggle up to Dad for years to come. | 0:48:03 | 0:48:07 | |
The whole of the downstairs is now on one level, | 0:48:07 | 0:48:09 | |
and all the doors have been widened, making it all wheelchair friendly. | 0:48:09 | 0:48:14 | |
Upstairs, we have given the bathroom a fresh new look, | 0:48:14 | 0:48:17 | |
and Emily deservedly has the master bedroom, | 0:48:17 | 0:48:19 | |
which we've turned into a rich and moody boudoir, | 0:48:19 | 0:48:22 | |
creating the perfect place for her to escape to. | 0:48:22 | 0:48:25 | |
Lily has her own bedroom all to herself | 0:48:26 | 0:48:29 | |
and her very first grown-up bed. | 0:48:29 | 0:48:31 | |
Poppy has the perfect little girl's room, | 0:48:33 | 0:48:35 | |
displaying bags of colour everywhere you look. | 0:48:35 | 0:48:38 | |
It was a bit of an effort, but we've managed to transform the garden | 0:48:39 | 0:48:43 | |
into a beautiful beach-themed area, | 0:48:43 | 0:48:45 | |
making it accessible but functional. | 0:48:45 | 0:48:48 | |
It's the perfect place for the whole family to relax in. | 0:48:48 | 0:48:52 | |
More importantly, it's a home ready to make memories to last forever. | 0:48:52 | 0:48:57 | |
Well, it's been a bit of a struggle, to be honest, | 0:49:03 | 0:49:05 | |
but it's been a good turn-out, and everybody's worked really hard | 0:49:05 | 0:49:09 | |
to try and give you the home that you need. | 0:49:09 | 0:49:12 | |
So, if you're ready - | 0:49:12 | 0:49:14 | |
three, two, one... | 0:49:14 | 0:49:15 | |
Open your eyes. | 0:49:15 | 0:49:16 | |
Oh, my God, where are we? | 0:49:16 | 0:49:18 | |
-Wow! That's amazing. -Wow! | 0:49:18 | 0:49:22 | |
-We've added on the side of the building... -Right. | 0:49:24 | 0:49:26 | |
..and we've added on the back of the building, | 0:49:26 | 0:49:28 | |
so, essentially, that bit in there is your old house. | 0:49:28 | 0:49:31 | |
-None of this was here then? -None of this was here. | 0:49:31 | 0:49:33 | |
It's amazing. I love the cupboards. | 0:49:33 | 0:49:35 | |
Look in there - wow! | 0:49:35 | 0:49:37 | |
Oh, my word! The girls are going to love this. | 0:49:37 | 0:49:41 | |
-Yes, well, playroom. -Wow. | 0:49:41 | 0:49:44 | |
We talked about this, didn't we? | 0:49:44 | 0:49:45 | |
You wanted a playroom, you wanted somewhere that was safe | 0:49:45 | 0:49:48 | |
where you could keep all the toys, | 0:49:48 | 0:49:49 | |
where you could actually spend time with the girls. | 0:49:49 | 0:49:51 | |
I can't believe this is our house! | 0:49:51 | 0:49:53 | |
This is kind of an important room, this. | 0:49:53 | 0:49:55 | |
I don't think anybody else has asked us for a playroom before. | 0:49:55 | 0:49:57 | |
SHE GASPS | 0:49:59 | 0:50:00 | |
Wow! | 0:50:00 | 0:50:02 | |
-Look at the stove. -Wow. | 0:50:02 | 0:50:05 | |
And that's the blanket - these are the girl's jumpers, | 0:50:05 | 0:50:08 | |
and that was your cardigan. | 0:50:08 | 0:50:10 | |
-And... -Wow. -So, basically, you can all snuggle up together, | 0:50:10 | 0:50:15 | |
but it's like a...it's a family in one blanket. | 0:50:15 | 0:50:18 | |
Look at the panelling - the room is so different. | 0:50:18 | 0:50:20 | |
I'm trying to look at you and I'm trying to look at all this. | 0:50:20 | 0:50:22 | |
Oh, look at the pictures all over...! | 0:50:22 | 0:50:25 | |
Our wedding picture. | 0:50:25 | 0:50:26 | |
And all the flooring's the same | 0:50:26 | 0:50:27 | |
all the way throughout the house - it's just lovely. | 0:50:27 | 0:50:29 | |
-Did you notice that, walking through? -Yeah. | 0:50:29 | 0:50:32 | |
I noticed it was level. | 0:50:32 | 0:50:33 | |
You seem very emotional - is it the front room that's done it? | 0:50:39 | 0:50:43 | |
It's just all of it. | 0:50:43 | 0:50:45 | |
It's a bit overwhelming, in't it? | 0:50:45 | 0:50:46 | |
It's a bit, yeah... | 0:50:46 | 0:50:48 | |
It... | 0:50:48 | 0:50:50 | |
It just seems more...homely. | 0:50:51 | 0:50:54 | |
It's just totally different. | 0:50:54 | 0:50:57 | |
Totally. | 0:50:57 | 0:50:58 | |
You've got your kitchen, diner, playroom and utility room, | 0:50:58 | 0:51:03 | |
-but that's not all you needed downstairs, is it? -No. | 0:51:03 | 0:51:06 | |
-SHE GASPS -Whoa. -Wow. Oh, wow. | 0:51:06 | 0:51:09 | |
It's gorgeous. | 0:51:15 | 0:51:16 | |
Do you want to see something really breathtaking? | 0:51:28 | 0:51:30 | |
Oh, wow! | 0:51:32 | 0:51:34 | |
What did you do then? | 0:51:34 | 0:51:35 | |
-I looked at it. -You looked at it? | 0:51:35 | 0:51:37 | |
-Not only that... -That is really amazing. | 0:51:37 | 0:51:39 | |
There's lighting in the bathroom, the lighting in here | 0:51:39 | 0:51:42 | |
and the lighting in the lounge, which you can control from here. | 0:51:42 | 0:51:44 | |
Even as things develop with your illness, | 0:51:44 | 0:51:46 | |
you'll be able to stay in contact with the world | 0:51:46 | 0:51:48 | |
and talk to people, you'll be able to open doors, | 0:51:48 | 0:51:51 | |
you'll be able to move about in your own home the way you want to, | 0:51:51 | 0:51:54 | |
you can answer the door, you can communicate. | 0:51:54 | 0:51:57 | |
Future-proofing is what we're trying to do - | 0:51:57 | 0:51:59 | |
and this has all been built by your community. | 0:51:59 | 0:52:01 | |
It's amazing to think all these people have turned out | 0:52:01 | 0:52:04 | |
to do all this. | 0:52:04 | 0:52:06 | |
-Want to see the bathroom? -Yeah. | 0:52:06 | 0:52:08 | |
-Wow. -It's unbelievable. | 0:52:08 | 0:52:09 | |
-It's kind of cool, isn't it? -It's really cool. | 0:52:09 | 0:52:12 | |
You can't even believe the transformation. | 0:52:12 | 0:52:15 | |
It's like we're not even in our house. | 0:52:15 | 0:52:17 | |
It doesn't seem like our house at all. | 0:52:17 | 0:52:19 | |
This is for Poppy. | 0:52:21 | 0:52:22 | |
Oh, wow! Look at the bed! | 0:52:22 | 0:52:24 | |
And the little bears on the wall - and she's got her own toy box. | 0:52:24 | 0:52:28 | |
It looks really big. | 0:52:29 | 0:52:31 | |
Poppy is going to love it! | 0:52:32 | 0:52:33 | |
So, this is Poppy's. Lily's next - come this way. | 0:52:35 | 0:52:38 | |
I can't believe they've got separate bedrooms. | 0:52:38 | 0:52:41 | |
SHE GASPS | 0:52:41 | 0:52:43 | |
Look at the shelves. | 0:52:46 | 0:52:48 | |
Oh, this is amazing. | 0:52:52 | 0:52:53 | |
I'm... I can't believe it. | 0:52:56 | 0:52:59 | |
It's just overwhelming, in't it? | 0:53:01 | 0:53:03 | |
-Oh, wow. -Oh, wow. | 0:53:05 | 0:53:07 | |
Emily is going to absolutely love it! | 0:53:07 | 0:53:09 | |
Oh, wow. | 0:53:09 | 0:53:11 | |
She's a real credit to you, that young lady, Emily, | 0:53:11 | 0:53:13 | |
and she's determined to stay and help | 0:53:13 | 0:53:16 | |
and be part of whatever you have to go through. | 0:53:16 | 0:53:18 | |
I kind of thought it was important to give her something a bit special. | 0:53:18 | 0:53:22 | |
It's a massive weight...a massive weight off my mind. | 0:53:22 | 0:53:27 | |
It's all safe and clean | 0:53:27 | 0:53:30 | |
and I just can't believe it's our house. | 0:53:30 | 0:53:33 | |
Poppy off by the door? | 0:53:33 | 0:53:35 | |
-Do you want to see your new bedroom? -Go through the door. | 0:53:35 | 0:53:37 | |
-Go on, Poppy. -Wow! | 0:53:37 | 0:53:38 | |
Look - you've got a little bed all of your own, a big girl's bed. | 0:53:38 | 0:53:43 | |
All for Poppy. | 0:53:43 | 0:53:46 | |
-Oh, wow. Look at this! -Look at what you've got. | 0:53:46 | 0:53:51 | |
We'll have to say thank you to all the nice people | 0:53:51 | 0:53:53 | |
who've made us a new house, won't we? Hm? | 0:53:53 | 0:53:56 | |
-This is your room. -Oh! | 0:53:59 | 0:54:01 | |
Wow. Oh, my God, it looks gorgeous. | 0:54:01 | 0:54:04 | |
Amazing, in't it? | 0:54:06 | 0:54:07 | |
Yeah, it does, it looks beautiful. | 0:54:07 | 0:54:08 | |
Oh, look at the chaise longue. | 0:54:08 | 0:54:10 | |
Well, you've had a bit of a raw end of the deal, haven't you, | 0:54:10 | 0:54:13 | |
since Lily and Poppy came along? | 0:54:13 | 0:54:15 | |
And you know we all love you to bits, | 0:54:15 | 0:54:17 | |
and you've really helped us out, | 0:54:17 | 0:54:19 | |
and you just deserve...you deserve something for you. | 0:54:19 | 0:54:22 | |
-I love you. -I love you, too. | 0:54:25 | 0:54:27 | |
And building a house like this, as you imagine, in nine days, | 0:54:27 | 0:54:30 | |
the back garden becomes something of a building yard - | 0:54:30 | 0:54:32 | |
but it's still a beautiful view. | 0:54:32 | 0:54:34 | |
So, you happy to go out there? | 0:54:34 | 0:54:36 | |
-Yeah. -All right. -Absolutely, I can't wait. -Here goes. | 0:54:36 | 0:54:38 | |
-Oh, look at the decking! -Wow. | 0:54:40 | 0:54:41 | |
-Oh, my God! -Wow! -Oh, wow. | 0:54:41 | 0:54:43 | |
Look, Poppy, there's a fountain! | 0:54:43 | 0:54:44 | |
Oh, my God, there's a greenhouse. | 0:54:44 | 0:54:45 | |
I know. | 0:54:45 | 0:54:47 | |
It's... | 0:54:47 | 0:54:49 | |
Make your way on through. | 0:54:49 | 0:54:50 | |
Yeah, do you like it, Lily - our new garden? | 0:54:52 | 0:54:56 | |
Daddy! | 0:54:56 | 0:54:57 | |
So, what you have, the whole point of this garden, | 0:54:57 | 0:55:00 | |
is that when you are in your bedroom | 0:55:00 | 0:55:01 | |
that we were talking about earlier, and you open your bedroom windows, | 0:55:01 | 0:55:04 | |
those patio doors, you will be able to - even lying in bed - | 0:55:04 | 0:55:07 | |
you'll be able to see everything going on down here. | 0:55:07 | 0:55:10 | |
It's fantastic. | 0:55:11 | 0:55:13 | |
They're going to be all right, now. There's a huge community around. | 0:55:13 | 0:55:16 | |
The community's all come together to help. | 0:55:16 | 0:55:19 | |
It just feels like a dream. | 0:55:19 | 0:55:22 | |
It doesn't feel like a reality, at the moment. | 0:55:22 | 0:55:24 | |
I was thinking, "What had I done wrong in a former life | 0:55:24 | 0:55:27 | |
"to deserve all this?" And now I'm thinking, | 0:55:27 | 0:55:29 | |
"Well, what have I done to deserve all this?" | 0:55:29 | 0:55:31 | |
I clearly did something right. | 0:55:33 | 0:55:34 | |
Oh, I think you've done a lot right. | 0:55:34 | 0:55:36 | |
You only need to look at the two little girls - | 0:55:36 | 0:55:38 | |
in fact, all of your girls - to know that you've done something right. | 0:55:38 | 0:55:41 | |
Fancy meeting the builders, some of the people who've done this? | 0:55:41 | 0:55:44 | |
Absolutely. Yeah. | 0:55:44 | 0:55:45 | |
And there's quite a few of them who want to meet the family - | 0:55:47 | 0:55:50 | |
I can safely say, hundreds. | 0:55:50 | 0:55:52 | |
I just can't believe how many... | 0:56:16 | 0:56:18 | |
..people have come to help. | 0:56:20 | 0:56:22 | |
It's just absolutely fabulous, | 0:56:25 | 0:56:27 | |
and it's more than we could have ever dreamed of. | 0:56:27 | 0:56:31 | |
It's, erm... | 0:56:31 | 0:56:32 | |
It's going to make life so much easier for all of us. | 0:56:32 | 0:56:35 | |
It's a little bit scary | 0:56:35 | 0:56:37 | |
what's...what's...going to come in the future, but... | 0:56:37 | 0:56:40 | |
..you've made it all so much easier, what's going to come for Liz and me. | 0:56:41 | 0:56:46 | |
Thank you isn't enough, but we can... | 0:56:46 | 0:56:50 | |
..we can make a lot of memories now, and not worry about the house - | 0:56:53 | 0:56:58 | |
and it's all because of you people. | 0:56:58 | 0:57:00 | |
It looks fantastic - it's so amazing. | 0:57:03 | 0:57:06 | |
Come and meet some of the guys. | 0:57:06 | 0:57:08 | |
We do decorating... | 0:57:08 | 0:57:10 | |
It's unimaginable how Liz has come to terms | 0:57:11 | 0:57:15 | |
with the diagnosis for members of the family - | 0:57:15 | 0:57:17 | |
and, of course, Jason has a very tough road ahead of him, | 0:57:17 | 0:57:20 | |
but at least what these guys have done is given them space | 0:57:20 | 0:57:23 | |
and the environment in which to build those all-important memories. | 0:57:23 | 0:57:26 | |
We just sort of bungle through life, not making memories, | 0:57:26 | 0:57:29 | |
not spending time telling the people we love how we feel about them. | 0:57:29 | 0:57:33 | |
There's something we can learn from Jason, I think. | 0:57:33 | 0:57:36 |