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We all have plans, don't we? Fall in love, have kids

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and look forward to making those precious memories together.

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But it doesn't always turn out that way.

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No-one had any idea what was going to come.

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You know, it was just, erm, a huge shock, really.

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I just couldn't stop crying.

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We're here to help a young family

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who are faced with an uncertain future.

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I feel like the pair of them

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have been dealt the worst hand of cards going.

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It's a situation we simply couldn't ignore.

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What he wants to do is make positive memories

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and he don't want to be disabled by the house.

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I'm determined to sort of carry on.

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And I, as a dad of two kids... You often think,

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"God, if something happened to me, would my kids remember me?"

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So, with help from East Yorkshire's local trades,

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we're going to build a family home

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where they can start making those happy memories together.

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All the usual suspects are here and we have just nine days

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to pull off this enormous build, which means we need a large army.

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SOUNDTRACK CUTS OUT

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Aren't you going to be a bit busy?

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Aha!

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We might have a chance after all.

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This is DIY SOS: The Big Build!

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ALL CHEER

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Social workers Liz and Jason live just outside of Hull

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with their two girls, three-year-old Lily, 18-month-old Poppy...

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One, two, three - weeee!

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..along with Liz's older daughter, 20-year-old Emily.

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The couple met at the end of 2009.

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We actually met through Facebook

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and then we kind of went from there, really.

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After a whirlwind romance, they married nine months later,

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and their first daughter, Lily, followed soon after.

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-You going to sit on the chair? Good girl.

-Yay!

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But in January 2011, the family's lives turned upside down when

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Jason started experiencing worrying symptoms that couldn't be explained.

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He started to have these horrendous headaches,

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these migraine-type headaches which completely incapacitated him.

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We got an emergency appointment at the doctor's

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and he really went downhill, he really deteriorated.

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I kind of knew something wasn't right. I mean,

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I did cognitive tests, and it was like an empty clock,

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and they'd say, "Can you draw four o'clock?"

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I didn't even draw round the clock.

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And then just trying to send a simple text message,

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just couldn't do it.

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And they said at that time, they didn't know

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whether he'd recover or not and, you know, we'd only been

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married five months and you think

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everything is going to be a bed of roses, really.

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It was just a huge shock, really.

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The problem was they were continuously trying to do tests.

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That's when they...

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..diagnosed the Fabry's.

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Go over there, sit at that end,

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cos Mummy is going to help Daddy get his shirt on.

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Fabry's is a rare, life-limiting disease.

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It means over time, the body starts to poison itself,

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damaging all the major organs.

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He's got hearing loss in both ears,

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he's got cardiomyopathy

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with his heart, he's got kidney failure,

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he's got severe gastrointestinal problems,

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he's at high risk of having a stroke.

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As it transpires, it's been affecting me all my life.

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To help manage his illness,

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Jason has enzyme replacement therapy.

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No, no, no, no, no, you'll pull it out of Daddy's arm. No.

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This treatment slows down the effects of the disease.

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Just sort of the knowledge that the experts are happy

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that my kidney and my heart are doing all right,

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erm, and obviously they're constantly

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under review, so from that side of things,

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I'm quite happy with that.

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Soon after coming to terms with this dreadful illness,

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they were rewarded with the birth of their second little girl, Poppy.

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It was fantastic.

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I didn't know whether I'd be able to have any more children because,

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obviously, I was a bit older and it's a long time

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since I'd had my children.

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It was a fantastic surprise, really.

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But, as the family grew, Jason started to experience

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severe muscle spasms and weight loss,

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which are unrelated to his Fabry's disease,

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and so went back for more tests.

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He'd been referred to Liverpool, to, erm,

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a professor of neurology to see if he could figure out

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what was wrong with him,

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and he came and sat next to me and he said,

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"I'm not going to lie to you, you're an intelligent woman,

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"Jason's got motor neurone disease."

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This second diagnosis of motor neurone disease

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affects the brain's ability to control muscle movement.

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It causes the body to simply waste away.

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The form Jason has

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means he has a life expectancy of up to three years.

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I spent the next three days crying, and I just couldn't stop crying.

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On a day-to-day basis, erm, you try and forget about it.

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But Jason is refusing to be beaten.

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You know, the kids have still got to be looked after.

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Job has still got to be done.

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Whether it's possible or not, I still want to beat it.

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Although he won't give up,

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he now depends heavily on Liz and step-daughter Emily

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and they are determined to fight this together.

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I feel like the pair of them have been dealt the worst

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hand of cards going. I mean, fair enough, they've found each other.

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They've found happiness, they've got the kids.

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You know, he's in his 30s.

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The fact that he's eventually maybe not going to be here

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and Mum is going to have to single-handedly raise

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the children, they didn't expect that when Mum got pregnant.

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Jason, who qualified as an electrician,

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was in the middle of rewiring their home when he became ill,

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and it's been like this for the last four years.

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It's simply not safe for his two young children.

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They have no hot water, the house is leaking,

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and this small three-bedroom home

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is just becoming increasingly more cramped

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for a growing family of five.

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All these jobs that I should be capable of, I'm not, and you know,

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it's got to the point

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where I don't even really touch a screwdriver, hammer, saw -

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anything of that kind, because I just can't do anything with them.

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It is depressing, to say the least.

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As Jason's motor neurone disease gets worse,

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he'll find moving around the house virtually impossible.

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It's just such a struggle for Jason.

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His balance is really badly affected.

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At the moment, there are so many things for Jason to

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trip and fall over. I mean, the outside space, there's lots of lips

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and things that he could fall over.

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Getting up the stairs and getting down is becoming quite hard

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and, you know, a downstairs toilet and a bedroom would be obviously

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an absolute massive help.

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And when the time comes that

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I need a wheelchair, then, you know,

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they're going to be invaluable.

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'Jason is trying to come to terms with the limited time he has left.'

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No, you're going out if you've finished.

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'He's determined to look after the kids for as long as possible.'

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You know, people say,

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"Oh, yeah, you get out of nappy changing and that."

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I'm not bothered.

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It's a struggle though, ain't it?

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It's a struggle for you to look after them.

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It is, but it's worth it, you know?

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D'you want to take your breakfast now then?

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At the end of the day, we don't know how long Jason's

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got left, so we need to be spending

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that precious time together, really,

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rather than worrying about the house.

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I know people will want to help this family

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and build a home that is ready for the tough times ahead.

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Kind of what we're trying to think of is...

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is trying to future-proof this,

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because you've got a lot on your hands over the coming years.

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So what is it that you need us to do?

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What can we do to future-proof this house for you?

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Well, I mean, anything would be great, obviously.

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Erm, just the house being warm,

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having hot running water would be fantastic,

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having a downstairs toilet and a downstairs shower

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for Jason would be great cos, you know, he finds it really difficult

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getting up the stairs now and it's also quite hazardous for him.

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And, erm, you know,

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the house being safe and accessible for Jason and the girls.

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Doesn't seem fair, does it?

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All one after another, all of these things piling on your family.

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-You sometimes think, "Why me?" "Why us?", you know.

-I'm sure.

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I sometimes wonder if I've done something

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seriously wrong in a previous life to deserve all this.

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I can understand that kind of thinking.

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I think you're going to find that actually that you haven't

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done anything wrong in a previous life,

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and in actual fact, while there has been an avalanche of bad,

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you're about to get an avalanche of good from your local community.

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Let's see if we can get them to charge in behind you

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and lift some of the weight off your shoulders, yeah?

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Yeah, we're not going to do this on our own,

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and thankfully the local trades have done us and themselves proud.

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A lot of people turned up already.

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-HE LAUGHS

-Come and say hello.

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'Over 100 are ready to go,

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'and it's one of the biggest turn-outs on a first day.

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'This just tells you how much

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'the family story has touched everyone's hearts.'

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So we're going to try and do our best to make this

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better for you guys. No coming back and peeking.

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Thanks so much, guys.

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'Right, let's get on with it.

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'Because this is a massive build.'

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The whole kitchen can come out, then.

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We'll start ripping the kitchen out.

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To elucidate, we are extending all down the side

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and around the back. Not only that, we have a rather large garden

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to landscape, and upstairs to redecorate -

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all in just nine days.

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I think it might be an idea to empty the cupboards

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before we smash them down.

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We're definitely in the right house, aren't we?

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You all right taking that strip of ceiling down?

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Yes, he is.

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While Jules is in charge of demolition inside,

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we have a bunch of lads already starting

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on the timber framework for the new part of the house.

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Oh, it's nice that the extension turns up on the back of a truck.

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That looks like my bit.

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But we need a plan of action

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to fill this framework, and so we'll require a designer.

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Luckily, I've ordered one.

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-Oh, no, not that one - that's Oliver Heath.

-Right.

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Now, as you may remember,

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we haven't always seen eye-to-eye in the past

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but I will give it to him -

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he always keeps coming back for more.

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He must be very thick-skinned, like a rhinoceros.

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Every time that we abuse you on one of these,

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we have assumed that you've had enough, but you've come back again.

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No, I come back stronger. That's how I come back, cos I know...

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I know what I'm going to get thrown at me.

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I come back and it's amazing.

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Rotten fruit is what he'll get thrown at him.

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Oliver's designs mean we're going to extend down the side

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and right around the back.

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This will create a utility room at the front of the house,

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an open-plan kitchen/diner at the back,

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and a downstairs bedroom for Jason and Liz.

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The old existing kitchen will be split into a new wet room

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and a playroom and study area.

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This is great for Jason, as he will have

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a safe contained space where he can spend quality time with the kids.

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We're sprucing up the living room,

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widening all the internal doors

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for future wheelchair access,

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and a new side entrance will make the whole

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of the downstairs all one flat level.

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Upstairs, it's all about the girls.

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The layout is staying the same

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but each room will get a brand-new look, including the family bathroom.

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Liz's older daughter Emily will move into the master bedroom,

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which means Lily and Poppy will now,

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for the first time, have their own rooms.

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We have equally big plans for the garden.

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The main feature will be a wheelchair-accessible decked pathway

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so Jason and the girls can enjoy the whole area together.

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It should make for a safe, practical house so Jason can stop

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worrying and concentrate on spending the time he has left with the girls.

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Cue Oliver!

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It's a really difficult one.

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It's a really dynamic project, you know. Jason is in a state of change,

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so we are trying to design the house for his current needs,

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and then what's going to happen

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in the near future, and then also...

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They may have to exist in it

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as a normal family without that, and then...

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Yeah, so it's in a real state of flux.

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So we are introducing all sorts of things to kind of future-proof it,

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both in the short, medium and long-term.

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I'm just a little cog within the whole mechanisation of

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this change, and I kind of reckon

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I'm a small, important part of this build.

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-Yes.

-As much as the electricians, the plumbers, er...

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And the truth is that if you weren't here,

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-we'd have had to have got someone else.

-Yeah.

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'That's not entirely true - we couldn't afford anyone else.'

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We've had a little accident.

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It looked like it was dropped a little bit,

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so I just poked it

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with a bit of tree wood and it all fell down. Just like that.

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See, the boy doesn't know his own strength -

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just pokes things and they fall apart. I'll let you tell Chris.

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Plainly, it wasn't up to our standard, anyway,

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so it had to be taken down.

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Do you see what you've just done there?

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You've just put a positive twist on a negative situation.

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Exactly.

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'And let me tell you, there's no shortage of positivity here.

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'These guys are here to fit some hi-tech kit

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'which is going to help Jason stay independent

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'for as long as possible.'

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What are we doing?

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This is Lee and Andy. They're coming to do something...

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-Gentlemen, how are you?

-..very special for the doors.

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You've got two cameras inside there

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that emits infra-red onto your pupils,

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and then the algorithms inside the computer

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-know where you're looking.

-Is that right?

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So he can basically chose through the computer to make doors open.

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-That's genius, isn't it?

-Flipping heck.

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So, basically, their home is eye-controlled,

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so it's an eye-controlled living space.

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The level of independence for somebody

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who's lost their movement... that's awesome.

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Immense.

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Do you have any personal experience of, er...?

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Yeah, I do - my wife, she has Fabry's disease, erm...

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Her dad sadly passed away seven years ago of it at 48,

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so I can see and I can empathise with what Jason's going through.

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Hang on a second - it's electrically driven, all of this...

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-Yes.

-That means...

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Which puts it in Billy's territory, which is...

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-We've had that discussion.

-Amazing bit of kit, don't you think, Bill?

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Also, we haven't finished... The lighting will be as such...

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When Jason looks at the lighting, that will come on as well.

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Which means The Prince of Darkness and his team

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have got to put in twice the amount of cabling.

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I will check. I'll go and see what they're going to do.

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Build it off there and then we'll make our plans to go up there.

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And we have our work cut out in the back,

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as we're installing a completely new central-heating system.

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Yeah, I mean Liz and Jason haven't had hot water,

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you know, an absolute basic, for ages.

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This tank, new boiler, we're going to put

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a solar water-heating system on the roof,

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it's all going to come together to create a really lovely, warm,

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cosy and energy-efficient house, which is going to be

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a massive change for them, and this is all part of the plan.

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'But we have to hide that big, ugly thing somewhere.

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'Not the designer, the oil tank.'

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Conceal this thing, which is no easy task.

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Yes, but to be fair, when you say WE have to do that,

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the garden designer has to now incorporate this great lump

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into his beautiful garden design.

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So if we make this project look even half brilliant,

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-then that's actually amazing.

-Half?!

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No, it's going to be beautiful, cos we don't do 90%. We don't do 95%.

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We do 100%, Oliver.

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'Talking of percentages, the boys at the front have found precisely

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'0% of the water mains which we need to connect the new drainage to.'

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Here's an opportunity for you.

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-Can I hop you out of the hole for a second?

-Yeah.

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Mark, see if you can fit in the hole better.

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'Thank goodness we have the perfect bijou and compact builder

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-'to get into the smallest holes.'

-Aaargh!

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OK, so if we, like, pass him the shovel...

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Actually, that's way too big, isn't it, really?

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Here, don't worry,

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I was out the other day and I managed to find something.

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Oh, hold on a minute!

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You're not actually going to extract...?

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LAUGHTER

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For little, confined spaces. It's a real shovel, we haven't had it made.

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It's a real shovel for confined spaces.

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For people four foot and below.

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It works, look.

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I was there in a builder's merchants the other day,

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picking up some stuff, and I suddenly saw that

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and I thought, "I know, that's the very tool...

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-"that could use that shovel!"

-LAUGHTER

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I only got it as a joke,

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but it seems to be doing the job really well.

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'All right, so we do give him some stick,

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'but whilst a bunch of guys stand around

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'watching half a man dig half a hole,

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'things are moving at a supersonic speed around us.'

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As you can see, a gentleman there

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who's taking a window out. How are you, all right?

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Jolly good, very happy up there. So he's taken the window out

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because they've already got a new window in,

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and if you look directly above it, that's new fascias and guttering

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going all the way round the building already,

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all within the first hour and a half,

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which is just amazing when you think about it,

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but then it is mayhem because there are 80-90 people wandering around.

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It's going to take hours of hard slog,

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and they've given up paid work to be here. Amazing!

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You keep thinking, like, you know, somebody else needs this,

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that's what I'm thinking in my head, you know...

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-The family.

-The family, the family, yeah, yeah,

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-just keep carrying on. Just keep going.

-That's the way forward.

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Right, I'll go there, you go over here.

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Truly, their family story has touched everyone on site,

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but the person who most wants this to be right is Jason.

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As a family, you've been steam-rollered, really,

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by an avalanche of bad news.

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Yeah, erm, didn't really see any of it coming, to be honest with you.

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I sort of met Liz about five years ago

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and we kind of just got fired into having kids,

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you know, which is the best thing that's ever happened to me.

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And then, like you say, we've had some pretty bad news since,

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but they're my inspiration to fight it and...

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..that's what I intend to do, and I am doing.

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You know, getting up in the morning and giving them...

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..giving them breakfast and...

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and that seems...

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..such a simple thing to do, but yet, for me, that's so important.

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-You're facing a lot of difficulties and an uncertain future.

-Yeah.

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What plays on your mind the most?

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I was, erm... I was 12 when... when I lost my father

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and my sister was, erm, six.

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Her recollection of my father was not...not that great.

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I don't want that for my kids.

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I want them to know their dad.

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Notwithstanding what you're dealing with as a family at the moment,

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what are your hopes for your girls' future?

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I want them to do what they feel

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is what they want to do in life.

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Whatever they may choose, I'll be happy and proud.

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It's not about what you do, it's who you are.

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-To just be themselves?

-Yeah.

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Tell me about Liz. She's quite something, though, isn't she?

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Unbelievably strong.

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She's very strong. She feels that she needs to be strong for me.

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You know, obviously, the inevitable is going to happen,

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but all I ever wanted was, you know, Liz and the kids,

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and I've got that, so...

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It's about, you know, striving to keep that as long as possible.

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With all you have to worry about and what's coming your way,

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if the house is done, does that give you some reassurance?

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The fact that we'll be able to spend a lot more time together,

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you know, and the fact that we can make memories there,

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we can play games with the kids,

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obviously cos there's less stress,

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so hopefully my deterioration will be less.

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It means a lot.

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We can't stop the inevitable,

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but we can make Jason's time left with his family so much richer.

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Back on site, the shell of the extension is up

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and they are knocking through to create that open-plan kitchen/diner.

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Steels have gone in to reinforce the upstairs

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as the fireplace has come out,

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and the roof trusses are going in at this early stage too,

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and there's quite a lot of them.

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In the bedroom, cos of the hoist

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to get him in and out of the bed and his chair,

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we're making the ceiling stronger so it can actually take the weight

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of someone being pulled up and carried on those joists.

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We think about everything in advance.

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It'll look tidy, this, though, won't it?

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These two are the best two roofing joiners in East Yorkshire.

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We'll have this done in an hour.

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We're in roofing royalty.

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Meanwhile, downstairs, we have a very tetchy plastering guru,

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as someone has managed to put a hole in the only ceiling

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he didn't have to touch.

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-That's, er...

-It's annoying, isn't it?

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Yeah, no, we don't need a hole there.

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I'll talk you through patching the ceiling, shall I?

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-Teach me.

-You can do it.

-I'd like that.

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Tomorrow morning. It's a date.

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You haven't got your name on your hat.

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It's like a rite of passage, this, isn't it? Thank you.

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There you go.

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Would you say he's an attractive-looking man?

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Would you say he's a handsome-looking man?

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He's not...obscene, is he?

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Praise indeed, he's not obscene!

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I take that as a compliment.

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Well, I don't... I don't find looking at men...

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It doesn't do it for me, I wouldn't know.

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Who do you find offensive to look at?

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Er...

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Billy.

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'No, no, no, you can't be mean to Billy.

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'He's been working hard with all the hi-tech kit

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'that he doesn't quite understand.'

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-What is that over there?

-That's the central unit.

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Is it the ten-cable system or the eight-cable system?

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The eight-cable system.

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Oh, thanks, as long as I've got that right!

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Jason, the guy we're doing the house for, is an electrician,

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and we've been taking some of his work out.

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His work's been good, hasn't it?

0:22:430:22:44

Yeah, it's quite a good installation, to be honest, yeah.

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It's a shame he didn't get quite to finish it, actually. He's done well.

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It's a shame we had to take it out,

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but we all know now, in our own minds, when we come to test it,

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we know everything we've put in is brand-new.

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It might not work, but it will be brand-new.

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To be fair, they do have a lot of extra work.

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So, where are we at at the end of day one?

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Well, this room has been stripped out, brand-new windows,

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electrics have all been done, they're still working on it there,

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and a new lintel over this door.

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Here, as we move into the playroom/study,

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most of the ceiling's gone, electrics, plumbing put in.

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Most of the floor's gone up there as well, funnily enough.

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Perhaps the biggest change is through in this room.

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We have a new stud wall

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and, behind it, we have what will be the wet room.

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We've taken the chimney out and put new steels in

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to support the roof because we need the space.

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Then I'm moving through into the new bedroom,

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er, but of course you're in the new kitchen/diner,

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which comes all the way round here

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and leads down into the utility room.

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Also, a brand-new roof on, which is something spectacular,

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and if you look out here,

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the boys are still working away on the garden.

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Now, that's a pretty good first day.

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It's day two and we have another amazing turn-out

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of over 90 of the local trades,

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but a big job for today is digging out the floor

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for Jason's all-important downstairs bathroom,

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and another step in getting all the floors level.

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It's all there, it just needs finessing and connecting,

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and at the moment they're finessing it with a big road breaker.

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ROAD BREAKER CLATTERS

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Out the back, Oliver is sharing his massive vision

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with the landscape gardener. Very kind of him(!)

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What I want him to be able to see is to look out from his room

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-onto the garden.

-Yeah.

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You will still be able to see all of the garden from that window there.

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I guess it's quite nice if you can also see it,

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so if it is raised, cos the garden is quite...

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You WILL still be able to see it.

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So you can get a visual sightline

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-from here to the destination point of that little island.

-Yeah.

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And for there to be like a... like real, live kind of

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dynamic forms of nature here, so things like leaves, plants...

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-He's an interesting character, isn't he, Oliver?

-Yeah.

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I couldn't help overhearing the conversation, and essentially

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when he was saying all the things he wanted,

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-they're things you're already doing, aren't they?

-Yeah!

-Yeah.

0:25:010:25:05

That's designers for you, though, isn't it?

0:25:060:25:08

'Oh, no! He thinks he can plaster now!'

0:25:080:25:10

It doesn't seem too bad, actually, Chris.

0:25:100:25:13

-Good luck.

-Thank you.

0:25:130:25:15

What's going on in here, Olivia? What's going on?

0:25:150:25:18

I'm just fixing the ceiling, Mark.

0:25:180:25:20

'Is he allowed sharp stuff?'

0:25:200:25:22

I like this stage in the job because this is now a nascent home.

0:25:220:25:25

-What's a nascent?

-Nascent means...

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developing with potential,

0:25:290:25:30

an opportunity to be, not yet a home,

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but it has potential for a home,

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in the same way as Oliver is a nascent human being.

0:25:350:25:38

Oh, I see.

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Not quite there yet.

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Yes.

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THEY LAUGH

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Hands-on Heath.

0:25:460:25:47

'He takes a lot of stick, but he keeps going, doesn't he?'

0:25:470:25:50

Making the house and garden all on one level is a real challenge.

0:25:500:25:54

We have to dig a foot out of the old concrete

0:25:540:25:57

to get the outside decking exactly flush with the inside.

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But above, the roofers are well ahead -

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the extension is nearly water-tight and it's only the second day.

0:26:050:26:08

These tiles that you've supplied us are, like, the dog's...aren't they?

0:26:100:26:14

-They are, dog's proverbial.

-Yeah.

0:26:140:26:17

Cos you could have got away with just chucking a cheap tile at us,

0:26:170:26:20

but this actually...

0:26:200:26:21

It was the nearest we had to what you were looking for, so...

0:26:210:26:24

Cos you did the bricks for us as well?

0:26:240:26:26

We've done the bricks for you as well.

0:26:260:26:27

You all right with a man hug? Not everybody...

0:26:270:26:31

Who doesn't like a man hug?!

0:26:310:26:33

There's always a lot of love around on our sites.

0:26:330:26:36

You know what, it's love and support the family will need

0:26:360:26:38

if they're going to get through the tough times ahead,

0:26:380:26:41

something they're getting in spades from older daughter, Emily.

0:26:410:26:44

You live at home with the family at the moment, don't you?

0:26:450:26:48

Yeah, yeah, in the box room, as it happens.

0:26:480:26:49

Do you see that being a long-term thing,

0:26:490:26:52

staying at home with the family, or...moving away?

0:26:520:26:55

Well, I think I'll be there to support my mum as long as I can,

0:26:550:27:00

if I have to live in the house and help raise the kids,

0:27:000:27:03

I'm not bothered, and I love my mum to bits

0:27:030:27:06

and I WILL be there to support her, no matter what.

0:27:060:27:09

It's a big commitment, though, for you to, you know,

0:27:090:27:12

to sort of almost set your own life on hold for a while.

0:27:120:27:15

Well, it's a very big commitment, but I'm a family-orientated person

0:27:150:27:18

-and...

-And you obviously love your mum.

-Yeah, I love my mum to bits.

0:27:180:27:22

My mum has raised me, so there's no reason why,

0:27:220:27:24

if she is struggling with things, I can't be there to support her.

0:27:240:27:28

Do you admire her for being able to be such a rock for everybody?

0:27:280:27:31

I do, I really admire her.

0:27:310:27:32

I don't know how she holds it together some days, I really don't.

0:27:320:27:35

She's really, really steady.

0:27:350:27:39

She's the one person that keeps it all together in the family.

0:27:390:27:43

She's an amazing woman, no doubt, then there's a tough road ahead,

0:27:430:27:45

but you're saying you'll be there

0:27:450:27:47

and walk along that tough road with her?

0:27:470:27:49

Oh, yeah, I fully intend to, I'll be there the whole way,

0:27:490:27:52

with her and with Jason,

0:27:520:27:53

cos Jason means a lot to me as well, he's done so much for me.

0:27:530:27:57

It's hard, isn't it, to deal with so much?

0:27:570:27:59

It must be very difficult for you, as a daughter,

0:27:590:28:01

to see your mum actually having to deal with so much all the time.

0:28:010:28:03

Yeah, it is difficult, but at the end of the day, we have to get...

0:28:030:28:07

make the best of what life Jason's got

0:28:070:28:10

and, like, making memories for Jason,

0:28:100:28:13

something that he's got to...

0:28:130:28:15

When he's feeling down, he's got something to look at,

0:28:150:28:17

make him smile a bit.

0:28:170:28:19

And, of course, memories for the girls too?

0:28:190:28:21

Yeah, memories for the girls,

0:28:210:28:23

to remember their dad and everything like that.

0:28:230:28:25

'What a very impressive young woman Emily is.

0:28:250:28:28

'A real support for her family,

0:28:280:28:30

'she really deserves a comfortable, cosy space of her own,

0:28:300:28:32

'and insulating her room will go that extra step to achieving that.

0:28:320:28:36

'But that means you and I

0:28:360:28:37

'have to endure Oliver droning on about energy ratings.

0:28:370:28:41

'I'm afraid we can't avoid it, here it comes.'

0:28:410:28:44

Yes!

0:28:450:28:46

Cavity wall insulation. I know, your favourite subject.

0:28:460:28:49

From the survey that we did with the assessment,

0:28:490:28:51

it tells us the family could save £213 a year

0:28:510:28:55

by having cavity wall insulation fitted.

0:28:550:28:58

So basically, these guys can pump this white stuff,

0:28:580:29:01

this white fluff, into the walls, it takes them about two hours

0:29:010:29:04

and the house is warmer and it's a really quick, easy job,

0:29:040:29:07

it's something that loads of people could do.

0:29:070:29:09

We're doing it from the inside but you can do it from the outside,

0:29:090:29:12

so you don't have to make a mess of your inside,

0:29:120:29:14

it's important you know that.

0:29:140:29:16

'Yeah, check me out with my energy-saving tips!'

0:29:160:29:19

And we're going to be putting solar panels on the roof.

0:29:210:29:23

What you're going to get is the panels sitting on the roof,

0:29:270:29:30

they'll heat up, giving them free hot water.

0:29:300:29:32

Free? Brilliant, isn't it? It's brilliant. We love that word - free.

0:29:340:29:38

The sun's here now.

0:29:380:29:39

Excellent! We've also got a wood burner going in to help

0:29:390:29:42

warm the house, but that means some poor guy has to

0:29:420:29:44

climb up the chimney to fix the flue.

0:29:440:29:46

I couldn't do a chimney like that now, cos...

0:29:460:29:48

I used to be all right with heights, but it's gone.

0:29:480:29:50

-I can't do heights now.

-Can you not?

0:29:500:29:52

Yeah, I'm the same. I used to be all right, but not any more.

0:29:520:29:54

I'm all right with heights, but widths frighten the life out of me.

0:29:540:29:57

What about you, Byrnsey?

0:29:570:29:58

Heights? Oh, you remember I was in the circus -

0:29:580:30:01

done all the trapeze and everything?

0:30:010:30:02

After that, they commissioned me - Elvis Presley done a film, Acapulco.

0:30:020:30:08

I was actually Elvis Presley's body double, and I done the dive.

0:30:080:30:12

That is why I can take heights, I can do anything.

0:30:120:30:15

You didn't even have the fear of heights.

0:30:150:30:17

That's quite spooky, that you're good with heights,

0:30:170:30:19

cos you know Emily, the eldest daughter here?

0:30:190:30:21

-Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

-She likes heights...

-Oh, nice.

0:30:210:30:23

..and we're going to take her bungee jumping.

0:30:230:30:26

Yeah! Bring it on.

0:30:260:30:27

Every week, he never fails to let us down, does he?

0:30:270:30:30

Well, it's no different with what I've been doing

0:30:300:30:32

in the trapeze world -

0:30:320:30:34

all it is is jumping out of a bucket

0:30:340:30:35

with a bit of string tied to your leg.

0:30:350:30:37

How can that be harmful?

0:30:370:30:38

Yeah, it's not the falling, Billy,

0:30:380:30:40

it's the hitting the ground hard that's the problem.

0:30:400:30:42

Out in the garden, as day turns to night,

0:30:440:30:46

it's the groundworks that are becoming the real problem for us,

0:30:460:30:48

as we try to make the outside

0:30:480:30:50

level with the inside for easy access.

0:30:500:30:51

It's still going on!

0:30:510:30:53

All the digging out of the concrete and everything,

0:30:530:30:57

this must be about the hardest deck you've had to put down, innit?

0:30:570:31:00

It's the most over-engineered deck I've ever come across, yeah.

0:31:000:31:03

And the reason you've had to drop it in

0:31:030:31:05

is cos of the difference between the height out here...

0:31:050:31:07

The height out here and the existing height slab in the house.

0:31:070:31:11

So, in case of a wheelchair in the future, straight in and out.

0:31:110:31:15

Yeah, getting the floor level inside is just as important,

0:31:170:31:20

and by the time we're finished with it,

0:31:200:31:22

it should be flat as a snooker table.

0:31:220:31:23

Complicated stuff, this -

0:31:230:31:25

people are having to work really hard in this house,

0:31:250:31:27

they're having to go the extra mile every time

0:31:270:31:29

just to make these things work - it's incredible.

0:31:290:31:31

But that means the poor flooring lads

0:31:310:31:33

have to screed and level the floor into the night.

0:31:330:31:36

Can I just say, "Thank you, lads"? Top job.

0:31:360:31:38

Morning! Just four days left.

0:31:410:31:43

The boys burned the midnight oil and finished the floor inside,

0:31:430:31:46

and the lads today are still struggling

0:31:460:31:48

with the concrete level outside - but it's not through lack of trying.

0:31:480:31:52

If we're not careful, it could add time

0:31:520:31:54

to what is already an ambitious garden -

0:31:540:31:56

but it is worth it, as it can be another area

0:31:560:31:58

for the family to have fun together.

0:31:580:32:00

Now, my idea of fun with the family is singing to them.

0:32:000:32:03

Really, really loving being a dad again,

0:32:030:32:05

spending lovely time with my oldest sons at the moment,

0:32:050:32:08

and spending a lot of time with young Eddie, as well,

0:32:080:32:11

who is very lovely.

0:32:110:32:13

You've written your own song for him, haven't you?

0:32:130:32:16

I have.

0:32:160:32:17

Give us a little rendition.

0:32:170:32:18

Well, I call him Wazoo, so now I've written a song.

0:32:180:32:21

# Here's little Wazoo

0:32:210:32:24

# It's just me and you... #

0:32:240:32:27

Hey, where are you going?!

0:32:280:32:29

Everyone's a critic.

0:32:290:32:30

Probably a good time for the lads to get out of earshot, to be honest.

0:32:300:32:33

Actually, it's Emily's 21st birthday -

0:32:330:32:35

it's the perfect opportunity for a day out

0:32:350:32:37

and for the family to create more of those precious memories.

0:32:370:32:40

It's also a good excuse for Billy to show off to Emily

0:32:400:32:42

how to bungee jump - after all, he used to be a pro at this, didn't he?

0:32:420:32:46

It's getting higher and higher, ain't it?

0:32:470:32:50

I've just got a twinge in me back, though.

0:32:520:32:55

It'll be good for it, it'll stretch ya. Go on, sunshine.

0:32:550:32:57

-Good luck.

-Good luck - enjoy.

0:32:570:32:59

Is it me, or is Billy trying to chicken out?

0:32:590:33:01

Do you think he's going to do it, Jason?

0:33:010:33:04

-He lives dangerously, doesn't he?

-Very dangerously.

0:33:040:33:06

He might just do it.

0:33:060:33:08

I think you should go first, Emily,

0:33:080:33:10

cos...ladies first, before gents, you know what I mean?

0:33:100:33:13

I'll be right behind you. Good luck, bubble-gum.

0:33:130:33:15

There is no stopping Emily, keen to make a memory of a lifetime.

0:33:170:33:21

I do it for my family,

0:33:210:33:23

to show them that you live every day as it is,

0:33:230:33:26

and don't dwell on what's coming in the future.

0:33:260:33:28

Three, two, one...bungee.

0:33:280:33:31

ALL CHEER

0:33:310:33:34

Whoo! Whoo!

0:33:350:33:37

-There she goes, Jason, she's done it.

-Yeah.

0:33:370:33:39

OK, your turn, Billy -

0:33:440:33:45

don't make a fool of yourself, now.

0:33:450:33:47

Come on, Bill.

0:33:470:33:49

I've swum with sharks, horse ride...

0:33:490:33:52

I've done everything - but, oh, my back's so bad.

0:33:520:33:55

Why is he taking so long?

0:33:550:33:57

I've done my back coming up the stairs,

0:33:570:34:00

Chris?! I need you, son - I need a mate.

0:34:000:34:03

Right, I'll just pop up and have a word.

0:34:030:34:05

Just go up and egg him on.

0:34:050:34:07

What's the matter, son?

0:34:070:34:08

Come on, you can do that, look!

0:34:080:34:09

Yeah, but if a girl can do it, you can do it, Chris.

0:34:090:34:12

Hang on, what's happening?!

0:34:120:34:14

You're doing it - I just come up to give you some support.

0:34:140:34:17

I thought you were the expert -

0:34:170:34:18

diving out, double for Elvis Presley in Acapulco.

0:34:180:34:21

It was 1968, son.

0:34:210:34:22

Are you twisting this round to me?

0:34:220:34:25

Listen, what you've got to do - don't look down,

0:34:250:34:27

feet together, just jump out. No problem.

0:34:270:34:30

Now he's giving advice! That's hilarious.

0:34:300:34:33

This is mental.

0:34:330:34:34

Honestly, I don't know if I can do it.

0:34:340:34:36

I can't believe you bottled it.

0:34:370:34:39

I was going to do it, still,

0:34:390:34:40

but, mate, he said no - not with a bad back.

0:34:400:34:43

Three, two, one...bungee.

0:34:430:34:46

-Ohh...

-Come on, you were there, then.

-Nearly went, there.

0:34:460:34:48

So, you saw Chris at the top - so where is he now?

0:34:480:34:51

I don't know, he just walked off.

0:34:510:34:53

Emily went straight off, like that, come on, mate.

0:34:530:34:56

What was all that about?

0:34:560:34:57

Exactly - come on, then.

0:34:570:34:58

Big, deep breath, here we go - big deep breath, three, two...

0:34:580:35:02

ALL CHEER

0:35:050:35:07

-Yeah!

-Whoo!

0:35:070:35:11

Thanks.

0:35:120:35:14

Thank you - you just got up there and done it.

0:35:160:35:18

And you...you owe me big time.

0:35:180:35:20

Rejuvenated from his adrenaline hit,

0:35:240:35:26

Chris is back to get up to speed with the work his boys have done.

0:35:260:35:30

Love plastering, me.

0:35:310:35:32

Here we are, look - you all right, boys?

0:35:350:35:38

They've done two more hits upstairs, so that's coming on.

0:35:380:35:41

This is being prepped for a big over skim this afternoon.

0:35:410:35:43

I don't know how many plasterers are here -

0:35:430:35:45

it's got to be 16.

0:35:450:35:46

It's good that you have plenty of boys on the job, Chris,

0:35:460:35:49

cos we need the plastering all finished today,

0:35:490:35:51

so we can get on with the next stage of the electrics.

0:35:510:35:54

And with all the extra hi-tech kit going in,

0:35:540:35:56

we can't afford any delays.

0:35:560:35:58

You can see the job changing, can't you?

0:35:580:36:00

Cos everything is going to be covered up -

0:36:000:36:02

ie, the plumbing, the electrics it's all in,

0:36:020:36:04

it's a positive move in the right direction

0:36:040:36:06

when the plasterers arrive.

0:36:060:36:08

And one of those fabulous plasterers who come to do their bit

0:36:080:36:12

is Jason's old school friend Simon.

0:36:120:36:14

Usually, when you...

0:36:140:36:16

When you find out news like this, everyone gets news like this

0:36:160:36:19

with some family member or friend or something,

0:36:190:36:21

but you can do nothing, can't you?

0:36:210:36:22

You can do absolutely nothing -

0:36:220:36:24

all you can say is, "I'm sorry to hear the news."

0:36:240:36:26

But you've given us the chance

0:36:260:36:27

to actually do something that matters, so thank you, fellas.

0:36:270:36:31

-Cheers.

-Thank you very much.

0:36:310:36:33

Do you know, we get that kind of commitment everywhere we go?

0:36:330:36:36

And it never fails to amaze me how good people are.

0:36:360:36:38

These kinds of ambitious builds can only be done

0:36:380:36:41

with these kinds of people -

0:36:410:36:42

all of them are going the extra yard,

0:36:420:36:44

including the Trojans in the back yard.

0:36:440:36:46

All their hard work has paid off

0:36:460:36:48

and now they're cracking on with the decking.

0:36:480:36:50

Everything in this garden, now, is wheelchair-friendly -

0:36:510:36:54

your grades, your depths, your levels,

0:36:540:36:57

absolutely everything is wheelchair friendly.

0:36:570:36:59

But also it's much more complex than that -

0:36:590:37:01

so, the idea of the wavy line there is to hide the oil...

0:37:010:37:04

-The tank, yeah.

-So, we can see all the pebbles -

0:37:040:37:06

what's going on there, then?

0:37:060:37:08

We're having a beach theme going on here,

0:37:080:37:10

grading off into blues, purples and green gravels,

0:37:100:37:12

coming back up into your pebbles, as well.

0:37:120:37:15

Yeah, they're making progress,

0:37:150:37:16

but still two days behind schedule with loads left to do.

0:37:160:37:20

In the house, the wet room boys are getting on with the tiling,

0:37:210:37:23

and all the plaster is drying out nicely.

0:37:230:37:26

Or have I spoken too soon? You see, that's Mark's worried face,

0:37:260:37:29

and those boys who've just put the ceiling up aren't too happy, either.

0:37:290:37:32

-There might be a problem.

-What have you done?

0:37:320:37:35

Basically, what I've done is,

0:37:350:37:36

I haven't put any strengtheners into the ceiling to take the hoist,

0:37:360:37:39

I'd completely forgotten the hoist, and the ceiling's finished,

0:37:390:37:42

and I don't know what to do, I don't know how to get round it.

0:37:420:37:44

The roof trusses need extra support in the ceiling

0:37:440:37:46

to take the hoist, and Jason's weight,

0:37:460:37:48

and Mark has forgotten to do it.

0:37:480:37:50

And the only way round it...

0:37:520:37:54

..is to take the ceiling down.

0:37:540:37:55

..is to...

0:37:550:37:57

..take the ceiling down.

0:37:570:37:58

..take the ceiling down.

0:37:580:37:59

You can't take the ceiling down.

0:37:590:38:01

At this stage of the build, we really don't need that -

0:38:010:38:03

when Chris gets wind of this, he's going to go ape.

0:38:030:38:06

Distract him!

0:38:060:38:07

Oliver, why are you rummaging through bags of clothes?

0:38:070:38:10

What we're doing is we're going to make a blanket -

0:38:100:38:12

it's kind of like a blanket

0:38:120:38:13

that will kind of instil memories in the children.

0:38:130:38:16

So, we're going through some of their old clothes..

0:38:160:38:18

-His clothes, so that..

-His clothes, yeah.

-Oh, OK.

0:38:180:38:20

So that in the winter, they can kind of cuddle up with it,

0:38:200:38:23

and they can get a sense of the smell

0:38:230:38:25

and the touch of his clothes.

0:38:250:38:26

As mad as that sounds, I sort of get what he's trying to get across.

0:38:260:38:30

-Yeah. No, it kind of makes sense, on this occasion.

-I know, I know...

0:38:300:38:32

Well, I tell you what,

0:38:320:38:34

when my dad died, we made all these cushions

0:38:340:38:36

out of...out of his old shirts, cos he kind of worked in the City,

0:38:360:38:39

-he had all these monogrammed shirts.

-Right.

0:38:390:38:41

It was really lovely, you know, you kind of sit down in the evening

0:38:410:38:43

and you suddenly find yourself hugging this cushion.

0:38:430:38:46

You know, it's that tactile sense of warmth that's so nice.

0:38:460:38:49

I like that idea.

0:38:490:38:50

So, what we're doing, really,

0:38:500:38:51

is kind of like an upcycling project.

0:38:510:38:53

-Wait a minute, hold on...

-Yeah, the pink could work, actually.

0:38:530:38:56

I mean, what we'll do is, we'll just take a little bit, you know,

0:38:560:38:59

-so it will just be a bit like that...

-With the grey in it?

0:38:590:39:01

Yeah, exactly. That will just become a little patch. Er...

0:39:010:39:05

-But, you know, it's about...

-Your idea was rubbish.

0:39:050:39:07

-I know, plainly.

-Mine was brilliant.

0:39:070:39:08

It's just about pulling patchworks together.

0:39:080:39:10

Do you know what? That's a really lovely idea of Oliver's

0:39:100:39:13

to help keep memories of Jason alive for years to come.

0:39:130:39:15

And two people who know how important it is

0:39:150:39:18

are best friends Heather and Sue.

0:39:180:39:19

Has it been heartbreaking

0:39:190:39:21

watching this happen to the family from the outside?

0:39:210:39:24

I think we've seen, over the years, Jason deteriorating,

0:39:240:39:27

but, until last year, not knowing what it was,

0:39:270:39:30

and, you know - they're such a happy couple.

0:39:300:39:33

I think the main thing, now, is just to try and buy them time isn't it?

0:39:330:39:37

-Yeah.

-Yeah. And I think that's what he wants to do,

0:39:370:39:39

is make positive memories,

0:39:390:39:40

and he don't want to be disabled by the house

0:39:400:39:42

or anything else, really.

0:39:420:39:44

-Mm.

-So, if that enables him to be a good dad

0:39:440:39:48

and to be what he thinks is important

0:39:480:39:51

for the girls to remember about him,

0:39:510:39:52

-then it will make a really big difference to him.

-Mm.

0:39:520:39:56

It will do, yeah.

0:39:560:39:57

Well, hopefully, if we get a move on,

0:39:570:39:59

we should have a warm, cosy house for them to make those memories -

0:39:590:40:02

and, with the oil heating system all plumbed in,

0:40:020:40:04

we are one step closer.

0:40:040:40:06

We've got less than 200ml.

0:40:080:40:10

Back with O'Shortie and the ceiling cock-up,

0:40:100:40:12

someone has come up with a quick fix to a big problem

0:40:120:40:14

which means the whole ceiling doesn't have to be taken down.

0:40:140:40:18

We've cut a little loft to get access to the void,

0:40:180:40:20

then we can go up and climb back in and fit the timber from above.

0:40:200:40:26

-You're a genius.

-I know.

0:40:260:40:27

Jules may have fixed the hoist support problem,

0:40:270:40:29

but it still means you have two chippies

0:40:290:40:31

hanging out of Chris' newly plastered ceiling -

0:40:310:40:33

it's not going to go well.

0:40:330:40:35

-That is the last bit of plastering happening in this house.

-Lovely.

0:40:350:40:39

Oh, no, it isn't.

0:40:390:40:40

All people who've stopped plastering take one step forward.

0:40:400:40:42

Chris, where do you think you're going?

0:40:420:40:45

Erm, we've knocked holes in the back room for the hoist boys,

0:40:450:40:48

and, er...we've got to pull the ceiling down, OK? Sorry about that.

0:40:480:40:52

What do you mean, "OK"?!

0:40:520:40:53

How can you drop a line like that, and end it "OK"?

0:40:530:40:57

There's nothing OK about it!

0:40:570:40:58

I thought he took that very well, actually.

0:40:580:41:00

Anyway, onwards and upwards.

0:41:010:41:03

We've got to do what we can, because it's important.

0:41:030:41:05

The way ahead for this family isn't easy.

0:41:050:41:08

Meeting Jason was a turning point for you in your life.

0:41:090:41:13

Well, it was just like a breath of fresh air, really,

0:41:130:41:16

and it was so unexpected.

0:41:160:41:18

I mean, I wasn't really looking for a relationship,

0:41:180:41:21

or looking for love, as it were.

0:41:210:41:23

I just thought, you know, it would be nice

0:41:230:41:25

to have a bit of fun and go on a few dates

0:41:250:41:27

and whatever happened happened -

0:41:270:41:29

but I certainly never expected to get married,

0:41:290:41:31

and I definitely didn't expect to have two more children.

0:41:310:41:34

But life has hit the family with another terrible blow,

0:41:340:41:37

as they've since found out

0:41:370:41:39

that the couple's daughters Lily and Poppy

0:41:390:41:41

have inherited Fabry's disease.

0:41:410:41:43

It turns out that Jason's mum also has it.

0:41:430:41:46

With the girls having being diagnosed with Fabry's disease,

0:41:480:41:53

is that a real worry long-term for you?

0:41:530:41:55

Does it weigh on Jason's mind?

0:41:550:41:57

He feels that he's burdened the girls

0:41:570:42:00

with this terrible genetic disease, you know?

0:42:000:42:02

There's a lot of guilt going on with Jason and his mum.

0:42:020:42:06

That can't be their responsibility, that can't be...

0:42:060:42:09

It would be different if they knew about it

0:42:090:42:11

and they went on to have children and pass it on

0:42:110:42:13

to children knowingly,

0:42:130:42:14

but, of course, Jason's mum didn't know about it,

0:42:140:42:17

and Jason didn't know about it until I was 20 weeks pregnant.

0:42:170:42:20

You know, he feels guilty

0:42:200:42:22

for putting me and the girls through all this.

0:42:220:42:24

You wouldn't have the girls, though, would you?

0:42:240:42:27

Exactly - and they're gorgeous.

0:42:270:42:29

-They are.

-I wouldn't be without them.

0:42:290:42:31

Jason is always saying to me that I'd be better off without him,

0:42:310:42:35

and that I bet I wish that I'd never met him,

0:42:350:42:39

but, you know, I don't wish that at all.

0:42:390:42:42

I think they need to know what an amazing man their dad is.

0:42:420:42:44

SHE SOBS

0:42:440:42:46

This is a strong family

0:42:500:42:51

facing more than any of us can ever truly understand.

0:42:510:42:56

The love being poured into the fabric of their home

0:42:570:42:59

by the local community, I hope, will make them feel supported.

0:42:590:43:03

Jules is running, because we're running out of time,

0:43:040:43:07

with only one day left before we give it back to Jason and Liz.

0:43:070:43:10

..two, three!

0:43:100:43:12

Now, there's the small matter of moving the Wendy house,

0:43:120:43:15

which was built by Grandad for the kids and has to remain intact -

0:43:150:43:18

but preferably on the other side of the garden.

0:43:180:43:20

This is how they did the pyramids.

0:43:200:43:22

Do you know summat? I actually think it looked better here.

0:43:220:43:25

It's staying. Inside...

0:43:250:43:27

You wouldn't know, would ya?!

0:43:290:43:31

..Mark has got away with it.

0:43:310:43:32

Ceiling all strengthened and plastered just in time,

0:43:320:43:35

as the boys installing the hoist are ready to go.

0:43:350:43:38

Good job.

0:43:380:43:40

What the house needs, though, is warmth.

0:43:400:43:42

The trouble is, cos it's so wet and cold outside,

0:43:420:43:45

even though the sun's out, nothing's drying in here.

0:43:450:43:47

We need to get this heating system, as magical as it is,

0:43:470:43:49

commissioned, so that we can get the radiators on.

0:43:490:43:52

Have you seen any plumbers?

0:43:520:43:53

Dotted around, stuck to radiators somewhere upstairs -

0:43:530:43:55

but you're right, we do absolutely need to get the heating on.

0:43:550:43:58

-Time is running out.

-Otherwise none of this will dry out.

0:43:580:44:00

-Let me see if I can find them.

-Plumber! Any plumbers around?

0:44:000:44:03

You see, everyone inside and out are going hell for leather

0:44:030:44:06

trying to get all of those last jobs done.

0:44:060:44:08

Well, that's the four cubes, five cubes of concrete in,

0:44:130:44:15

which we're now going to settle down, but whilst we're doing that,

0:44:150:44:18

it means we can get the concrete mixer out

0:44:180:44:20

and we can get the oil in, cos they need to fill up the oil

0:44:200:44:23

so we can get the central heating started,

0:44:230:44:24

so we can start drying out the inside of the house.

0:44:240:44:27

Then we get that out, because up the end of the road is a tractor

0:44:270:44:30

with four tonnes of topsoil for the back garden

0:44:300:44:32

which needs to get in.

0:44:320:44:33

It is a bit like Piccadilly Circus here, at this stage -

0:44:330:44:35

everybody's kind of cottoned on to the fact

0:44:350:44:37

that if we don't do it all at once, we don't get it done at all.

0:44:370:44:40

But we have the materials,

0:44:400:44:42

we have the trucks and we have plenty of help.

0:44:420:44:44

Painters are painting,

0:44:440:44:45

this gentleman here is waiting to put up a wardrobe,

0:44:450:44:48

fitted in here, as we speak, it's all...

0:44:480:44:50

If you see a gap, jump in it.

0:44:510:44:53

As you can see, it's late in the evening, now,

0:44:570:44:59

and people are still working away,

0:44:590:45:02

because they want to get it done, and they're kind of aware

0:45:020:45:05

that we're running out of time.

0:45:050:45:06

Luke, at this stage in proceedings,

0:45:060:45:08

do you think, maybe, that your garden design

0:45:080:45:10

-might have been a tad ambitious?

-Mm...

0:45:100:45:12

THEY CHUCKLE

0:45:120:45:14

No, I think... Nah, everything's possible, innit?

0:45:140:45:18

It will definitely be done for Friday. Definitely.

0:45:180:45:22

That's the day after we're supposed to show it to the family.

0:45:220:45:25

THEY LAUGH

0:45:250:45:27

Yeah, that ain't going to work, chaps.

0:45:270:45:29

This build really is going down to the wire -

0:45:290:45:30

and talking of wires,

0:45:300:45:32

this eye control kit is finally up and running.

0:45:320:45:34

-Working and everything?

-Yep.

-Brilliant.

0:45:360:45:38

The local community have pulled out all the stops

0:45:380:45:41

to give us a fighting chance

0:45:410:45:42

of giving this house back to Liz and Jason all complete.

0:45:420:45:45

You know, we might just do it.

0:45:450:45:47

Just nine days ago,

0:45:510:45:53

we found a young family who had hit crisis point.

0:45:530:45:56

Just a huge shock, really,

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and I just couldn't stop crying.

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Jason was battling life-limiting illnesses

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in a house which no longer worked for his needs.

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Worse still, the unheated building

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was dangerous for him and his family.

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My biggest concern is obviously the safety for the kids,

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and, I mean, I want them to be able to go to bed

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and then get up and it be safe.

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You can see he gets so frustrated with it,

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and I think it gets him down to see the house in this state,

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when he was the one that was making it all better, basically.

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This was a family who couldn't do it on their own, and needed help...

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..and it was the local community that came to the rescue,

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and amazingly, in just over a week, they've completely transformed

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this impractical house into a wonderful home.

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By extending at the back,

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we've completely re-ordered the downstairs

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by creating an open-plan kitchen/diner.

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It's now a new, fresh and vibrant space

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with life-enhancing natural materials.

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What Jason needed the most was a downstairs bedroom,

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and now he has a comfortable nature-inspired room

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to soothe away the stress and anxiety of daily life.

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Now it will be his private room with a view.

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Next to the bedroom, we've created a functional wet room

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that subtly looks after their needs now

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and Jason's in the future.

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Leading off the kitchen is the playroom/study area

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designed with Jason in mind - he now has a safe contained area

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to look after the girls

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in the precious time he has left with them.

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The lounge has been transformed into an inviting room

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for the whole family to come together

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where they can feel the warmth of the new wood-burning stove.

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There are gentle reminders of Jason around the room,

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and Oliver's idea of the comfort blanket has come up a treat -

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now the girls can snuggle up to Dad for years to come.

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The whole of the downstairs is now on one level,

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and all the doors have been widened, making it all wheelchair friendly.

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Upstairs, we have given the bathroom a fresh new look,

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and Emily deservedly has the master bedroom,

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which we've turned into a rich and moody boudoir,

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creating the perfect place for her to escape to.

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Lily has her own bedroom all to herself

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and her very first grown-up bed.

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Poppy has the perfect little girl's room,

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displaying bags of colour everywhere you look.

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It was a bit of an effort, but we've managed to transform the garden

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into a beautiful beach-themed area,

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making it accessible but functional.

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It's the perfect place for the whole family to relax in.

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More importantly, it's a home ready to make memories to last forever.

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Well, it's been a bit of a struggle, to be honest,

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but it's been a good turn-out, and everybody's worked really hard

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to try and give you the home that you need.

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So, if you're ready -

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three, two, one...

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Open your eyes.

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Oh, my God, where are we?

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-Wow! That's amazing.

-Wow!

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-We've added on the side of the building...

-Right.

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..and we've added on the back of the building,

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so, essentially, that bit in there is your old house.

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-None of this was here then?

-None of this was here.

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It's amazing. I love the cupboards.

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Look in there - wow!

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Oh, my word! The girls are going to love this.

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-Yes, well, playroom.

-Wow.

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We talked about this, didn't we?

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You wanted a playroom, you wanted somewhere that was safe

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where you could keep all the toys,

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where you could actually spend time with the girls.

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I can't believe this is our house!

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This is kind of an important room, this.

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I don't think anybody else has asked us for a playroom before.

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SHE GASPS

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Wow!

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-Look at the stove.

-Wow.

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And that's the blanket - these are the girl's jumpers,

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and that was your cardigan.

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-And...

-Wow.

-So, basically, you can all snuggle up together,

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but it's like a...it's a family in one blanket.

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Look at the panelling - the room is so different.

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I'm trying to look at you and I'm trying to look at all this.

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Oh, look at the pictures all over...!

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Our wedding picture.

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And all the flooring's the same

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all the way throughout the house - it's just lovely.

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-Did you notice that, walking through?

-Yeah.

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I noticed it was level.

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You seem very emotional - is it the front room that's done it?

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It's just all of it.

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It's a bit overwhelming, in't it?

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It's a bit, yeah...

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It...

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It just seems more...homely.

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It's just totally different.

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Totally.

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You've got your kitchen, diner, playroom and utility room,

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-but that's not all you needed downstairs, is it?

-No.

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-SHE GASPS

-Whoa.

-Wow. Oh, wow.

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It's gorgeous.

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Do you want to see something really breathtaking?

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Oh, wow!

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What did you do then?

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-I looked at it.

-You looked at it?

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-Not only that...

-That is really amazing.

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There's lighting in the bathroom, the lighting in here

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and the lighting in the lounge, which you can control from here.

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Even as things develop with your illness,

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you'll be able to stay in contact with the world

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and talk to people, you'll be able to open doors,

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you'll be able to move about in your own home the way you want to,

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you can answer the door, you can communicate.

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Future-proofing is what we're trying to do -

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and this has all been built by your community.

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It's amazing to think all these people have turned out

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to do all this.

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-Want to see the bathroom?

-Yeah.

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-Wow.

-It's unbelievable.

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-It's kind of cool, isn't it?

-It's really cool.

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You can't even believe the transformation.

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It's like we're not even in our house.

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It doesn't seem like our house at all.

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This is for Poppy.

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Oh, wow! Look at the bed!

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And the little bears on the wall - and she's got her own toy box.

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It looks really big.

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Poppy is going to love it!

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So, this is Poppy's. Lily's next - come this way.

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I can't believe they've got separate bedrooms.

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SHE GASPS

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Look at the shelves.

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Oh, this is amazing.

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I'm... I can't believe it.

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It's just overwhelming, in't it?

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-Oh, wow.

-Oh, wow.

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Emily is going to absolutely love it!

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Oh, wow.

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She's a real credit to you, that young lady, Emily,

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and she's determined to stay and help

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and be part of whatever you have to go through.

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I kind of thought it was important to give her something a bit special.

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It's a massive weight...a massive weight off my mind.

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It's all safe and clean

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and I just can't believe it's our house.

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Poppy off by the door?

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-Do you want to see your new bedroom?

-Go through the door.

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-Go on, Poppy.

-Wow!

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Look - you've got a little bed all of your own, a big girl's bed.

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All for Poppy.

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-Oh, wow. Look at this!

-Look at what you've got.

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We'll have to say thank you to all the nice people

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who've made us a new house, won't we? Hm?

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-This is your room.

-Oh!

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Wow. Oh, my God, it looks gorgeous.

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Amazing, in't it?

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Yeah, it does, it looks beautiful.

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Oh, look at the chaise longue.

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Well, you've had a bit of a raw end of the deal, haven't you,

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since Lily and Poppy came along?

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And you know we all love you to bits,

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and you've really helped us out,

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and you just deserve...you deserve something for you.

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-I love you.

-I love you, too.

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And building a house like this, as you imagine, in nine days,

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the back garden becomes something of a building yard -

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but it's still a beautiful view.

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So, you happy to go out there?

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-Yeah.

-All right.

-Absolutely, I can't wait.

-Here goes.

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-Oh, look at the decking!

-Wow.

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-Oh, my God!

-Wow!

-Oh, wow.

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Look, Poppy, there's a fountain!

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Oh, my God, there's a greenhouse.

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I know.

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It's...

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Make your way on through.

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Yeah, do you like it, Lily - our new garden?

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Daddy!

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So, what you have, the whole point of this garden,

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is that when you are in your bedroom

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that we were talking about earlier, and you open your bedroom windows,

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those patio doors, you will be able to - even lying in bed -

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you'll be able to see everything going on down here.

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It's fantastic.

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They're going to be all right, now. There's a huge community around.

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The community's all come together to help.

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It just feels like a dream.

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It doesn't feel like a reality, at the moment.

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I was thinking, "What had I done wrong in a former life

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"to deserve all this?" And now I'm thinking,

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"Well, what have I done to deserve all this?"

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I clearly did something right.

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Oh, I think you've done a lot right.

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You only need to look at the two little girls -

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in fact, all of your girls - to know that you've done something right.

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Fancy meeting the builders, some of the people who've done this?

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Absolutely. Yeah.

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And there's quite a few of them who want to meet the family -

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I can safely say, hundreds.

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I just can't believe how many...

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..people have come to help.

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It's just absolutely fabulous,

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and it's more than we could have ever dreamed of.

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It's, erm...

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It's going to make life so much easier for all of us.

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It's a little bit scary

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what's...what's...going to come in the future, but...

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..you've made it all so much easier, what's going to come for Liz and me.

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Thank you isn't enough, but we can...

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..we can make a lot of memories now, and not worry about the house -

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and it's all because of you people.

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It looks fantastic - it's so amazing.

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Come and meet some of the guys.

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We do decorating...

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It's unimaginable how Liz has come to terms

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with the diagnosis for members of the family -

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and, of course, Jason has a very tough road ahead of him,

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but at least what these guys have done is given them space

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and the environment in which to build those all-important memories.

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We just sort of bungle through life, not making memories,

0:57:260:57:29

not spending time telling the people we love how we feel about them.

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There's something we can learn from Jason, I think.

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