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I miss our little chats.

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I miss her coming home or into a room, smiling,

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and I still expect her to come in one day

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and to be as she was.

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We're here to help mum Charlotte,

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who's fighting to recover from a life-shattering event...

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It was horrific and then you're just sort of riding a storm.

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..to reunite a family forced to live apart.

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-Is there something you would love to give to the boys?

-Yeah, together.

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All I want is for us to be that family unit

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that we talked about before the stroke.

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We're building a home where they can be together,

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but it's going to take an army...

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It's amazing. A lot of people doing a little can make a big difference.

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..and a lot of blood, sweat and tears.

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This is what puts the job over.

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Can you not see the amount of work that's got to be done?

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But it will be worth it.

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THEY GASP It's kind of cool, isn't it?

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We have all the usual suspects

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and our designer this week is the lovely Gabrielle Blackman.

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We only have nine days to do the job.

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This is DIY SOS: The Big Build!

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CHEERING AND APPLAUSE

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The beautiful Welsh border town of Monmouth

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is home to the Fairlie family - Charlotte, Rob,

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and their twin boys, Teddy and Fox.

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Video technician Rob and childcare worker Charlotte met ten years ago.

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Char was flanked by a few guys

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and then after I went to go and say hello,

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there was another guy and I'm, like, queuing to say hello.

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So, when I eventually said hello, I said,

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"Can I be fourth in line to buy you a drink?"

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And she said, "Yeah", and that was it.

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Three years ago, they got married and bought a run-down house

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to renovate, ready to start their family life together.

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Then Charlotte found out she was pregnant...with twins.

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Having twins was so exciting

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-and we were obviously elated, shocked, pleased. Brilliant!

-Yeah.

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You'd been working with children for so long, you were born to be a mum.

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All went well until late into the pregnancy,

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when Charlotte developed high blood pressure.

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She was monitored as a precaution

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but there was no sign of what was to come.

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Charlotte gave birth to two healthy boys - Fox and Teddy.

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But just minutes later, she suffered a massive stroke,

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a rare but devastating event.

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Suddenly, she was gone from being quite excited,

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even during the Caesarean, and then just being asleep.

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But worse was to come.

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After a week in a coma,

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Charlotte suffered a brain bleed and needed emergency surgery.

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It was horrific.

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The surgeon said that Charlotte had a 1% chance

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of surviving the operation

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and we were told to expect, you know, the worst.

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Against the odds, Charlotte pulled through.

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But the stroke left her with brain damage,

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speech loss and partial paralysis.

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She spent a further nine months in hospital.

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With Rob constantly by her side, Charlotte's big sister, Angie,

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took on the role of mum to the twins.

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Rob struggled to cope with what happened to his wife,

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let alone the arrival of two little boys who need 24/7 care

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so, as a family, we all tried to do our best

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to support him and help him through.

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You can imagine it was just a horrendous time.

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After months of intensive rehab, Charlotte is back home.

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Physically, she's defying expectations,

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slowly teaching herself to walk and battling hard to regain her speech.

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But the stroke had another cruel complication.

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Charlotte remembers nothing about going to hospital,

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and all the bits of Charlotte being pregnant,

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-Charlotte can't remember either.

-Totally.

-And giving birth.

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Even pictures don't really trigger any memory.

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-You just don't remember that time.

-No.

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Charlotte is now desperate to make up for lost time,

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create new memories with her boys and be a mum 24/7.

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But their house is making that impossible.

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The cramped cluttered rooms are unsafe for Charlotte to move around

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and there's nowhere for her to do her physio, hampering her recovery.

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BABY CRIES

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Looking after Charlotte and the twins

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is absolutely exhausting for Rob and it's taking its toll.

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It's impossible to juggle a full-time job,

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being a dad with twins, you know, and a full-time job as a carer.

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He desperately needs help, especially at nights,

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but there's no spare room for anyone to stay over, to give them respite.

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So, Rob is struggling to take care of Charlotte and the boys full-time.

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The children are basically living half the week away from home.

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It's not through choice.

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We don't have the space or facilities in the house

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-just to be a normal family.

-Painful, yeah. Mm.

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It's hard. It's hard for Charlotte, I think, more than anyone.

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She'd love to be with the boys more.

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That's the main thing, really,

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is to get Mummy, Daddy, Fox and Teddy all living together.

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It'll be lovely to be at home with Mummy and Daddy.

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All I want is for us to be that family unit that we talked about

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before the whole brain injury, before the stroke.

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That's all I want.

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And that's why we're here, to bring this fractured family back together.

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To what extent have you now taken over talking for Charlotte

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-and to what extent do you let Rob talk for you?

-All the time.

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I have to stop myself from jumping in and talking for Charlotte

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because Charlotte's got to practise.

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So, you can speak but it's actually processing a sentence together.

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Process, yeah.

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-So, it's easier say "Yes" and "No" sometimes?

-No, yeah.

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Tell us about this house then. I notice on the wall is a little sign

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-from your occupational therapist.

-Yeah.

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Trying to build in the fact that the stairs can become

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-an exercise for you, rather than something to fear.

-Yeah.

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-So, this is something to embrace.

-Yeah.

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Because we can build the house two separate ways.

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We can build it so that it's got lifts and pulleys and things

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or we could actually make it something to help you progress.

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That's it, because Charlotte had a stroke at a relatively young age.

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For people of an older generation,

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they would need all the gubbins to help

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but actually, with Charlotte,

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cos her brain's so plastic and her body can still crack on,

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those become like a sort of barrier, if you like,

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-because that'll stop Charlotte from progressing.

-Yeah.

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-So, some tough love, basically.

-Yeah, tough love.

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Yeah, if Char can do her physio in the house,

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if the boys can be here with us, we're...

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I feel we're waiting to start as a family.

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-We haven't really started as a family yet.

-Yeah.

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-I'm going to get the designer to come round and see you.

-Yeah.

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I want you to have ownership.

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Just because you can't communicate at the moment,

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-I don't want that to stop you being part of it, OK?

-Yeah.

-Good.

-Yeah.

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All right, we ought to get you under way.

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Monmouth is a small, close-knit community

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and it looks as though half the town has turned out to help.

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APPLAUSE

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When Charlotte had a stroke,

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she lost the ability to communicate that well and walk

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but, unlike, most, she's much better and it's going to take many years

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and, hopefully, with your help, that can happen

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and we can finally be a family and the parents we want to be.

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-So, thank you all and good luck.

-APPLAUSE

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Right, let's get cracking. We've got the usual nine days

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to turn this cramped little house into a dream family home.

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The groundwork guys have given us a head start

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by putting in the foundations for an extension.

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The scaffolding's up and, wow, look at the size of that!

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No prize for guessing who's going to want first dibs on that big boy.

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We're going to get the crane to lift the digger into the back garden

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cos, as normal, scaffolding's in the way,

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so the boys have very kindly offered to lift it over the roof.

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No problem at all.

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I'm not sure that's why we've got a gigantic crane here, Jules.

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If something does go wrong, it's 1.6 tonnes

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that would fall through the house, but that's all right -

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we have the manpower to put it back together again.

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Now the digger has landed, the trades can get stuck in,

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ripping, chipping and hammering out the inside.

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When it comes to designers,

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we always look forward to working with Gabrielle Blackman.

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We love her! We treat her like a little sister,

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which I guess makes us the annoying older brothers.

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Somebody - and I know it wasn't you -

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somebody put my phone...changed the time on my phone

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to three hours ahead. And this is NOT funny!

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But you just wake up and realise and go back to bed.

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No, no, cos my alarm went off and it's day one of the build,

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so I'm in a panic.

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Sp, I jump out of bed, shower, hair in rollers,

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full make-up in my kimono...

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-And it's four o'clock in the morning.

-4am.

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It's four in the morning and it's NOT funny!

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-THEY LAUGH

-Go on, stomp off.

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I'm stomping off in the right direction!

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Do your big cheese stomp.

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-She mistook the other day and stomped into a cupboard.

-Did she?

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THEY LAUGH

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'Ah, bless!

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'She may not have mastered the art of a good stomp,

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'but she's got this design lark down pat.'

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This is all about creating a home for the whole family

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that gives them the space to come back together

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and for Charlotte to recover.

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We're building a timber-framed two-storey extension,

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which will double the ground floor space

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to provide an open-plan living, dining and kitchen area,

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and reconfiguring the existing ground floor

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to create a playroom with space for Charlotte to do her physio.

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Upstairs, we're using the extra space

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to extend the twins' room

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and, importantly, create a much-needed guest bedroom,

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which means a carer or Auntie Angie can stay overnight

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so the family can be together.

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The family bathroom will become an en suite, making it more accessible

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and user-friendly for Charlotte, and we're adding a separate wet room.

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Finally, we're going to break up the sloping garden,

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so Charlotte can get outdoors to continue her rehab.

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Charlotte is a busy mum and she wants to be

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really hands-on with her kids and I know, having spoken to her,

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she puts herself last and Rob is really worried about this,

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so anything we can do to keep her rehabilitation

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as part of her daily life,

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so the stairs, the steps down to the garden,

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everything that we've thought about with the layout,

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I just want it to be a fun place for them all to be,

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so she can recover and look after the boys at the same time.

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-So her physio becomes part of her everyday life.

-Yeah.

-Very clever.

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The Monmouth trades have lost no time gutting the old house.

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Just as well, because I think I hear the sound

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of a new flat-pack extension arriving.

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-LORRY REVERSE ALARM BEEPS

-Keep going!

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-I don't want to put any pressure on here.

-Go on.

-But you've designed it.

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-Yeah.

-Is it all going to fit?

-I feel confident it will.

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-He doesn't feel the pressure, does he?

-Not at all, not at all.

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Gentlemen, thanks for doing this.

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It's brilliant. If we can get this in and wrapped up in two days,

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as you would say in gorgeous Wales, tidy darts.

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Tidy darts - absolutely.

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Tidy what? Joking aside, this a big job.

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It's going to need pinpoint accuracy. Look at that!

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Could you give me a decent tape? I lost mine on my last job.

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No, cos the last job I give you the other one, you broke that as well.

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-No, I didn't! Can you try and give me...

-No, I will not!

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-There's Perryman.

-Where?

-Just went past.

-Trying to pinch my tape.

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-He's not having it.

-I don't do it, as a rule.

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MARK LAUGHS

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That probably is his best joke ever!

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I think Mark's got the measure of Billy.

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All right, moving swiftly on.

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So, we've got a new bit of kit that shows you the top of the house,

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and look how beautiful Monmouth is.

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The new extension will go straight out onto the garden,

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where Gabby's got her heart set on a stone patio.

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What are you worried about, Jules?

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-I think it's too time-consuming to do in the time we've got.

-Yes.

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-We talked about doing it in timber.

-No, it's just too slippy.

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-It's a hazard and also, maintenance...

-Yes.

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The other alternative is the composite that looks like timber

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-but it's supposed to be non-slip.

-They love natural wood.

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-I'd rather use something real and lovely.

-Yeah.

-Yes.

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If we absolutely have to go down that route...

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Can I just suggest there is a way of laying stone

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over the top of that decking? There is a method for doing it.

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I was at a yoga centre recently

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and they had that out the back of the yoga centre.

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It wasn't a yoga centre - it was a pub.

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If there is a way of me having a stone surface,

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that's all I'm interested in.

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I don't really care how you get it up. I just want it stone.

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'Er, um, a bit personal. Quick, move on!

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'Now, there's always a danger with older houses

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'that once you start stripping things out,

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'you find all kinds of problems lurking.'

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We've got a bit of an issue with the side of the house, in that...

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Well, is it a big issue? I don't know, really.

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You decide for yourself. The side of the house might fall off.

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Literally, the whole side of the house might fall off.

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If you follow that line up, you can see that it's actually separating.

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That looks like a lot of extra work we weren't counting on,

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but we don't really want bits of the house falling on people -

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not on day one anyway!

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We're going to have to go outside

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and put some strong boys in the brickwork on the outside

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-to hold that end up. Whatever you do, do it double.

-Yeah.

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There's a lot of people running around,

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so where you'd normally have three acrows, we'll put five.

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That's not really double, is it, Chris?

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Once the extension's complete,

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we'll need to put a lot more strength back into this house,

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but at least that's slotting together like a dream.

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Just the roof to go. Here it comes.

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It's amazing!

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What do you guys think of your first day doing this?

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We've had a great day, to be honest. We're up to the roof level,

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we should be in the dry before end of play today.

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We're just glad that we're helping and trying to make a difference

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-to somebody else.

-Thank you so much, my loves, thank you.

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It's that kind of positive attitude all around the country

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that lets us do these ridiculous builds.

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If you look at the original house - I've just come through

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where the old wall used to be - there's all this extra room.

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Essentially, we've doubled the size of the downstairs.

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Not bad for a day. We're going to have this watertight

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by the end of the day. Just as well, cos it's going to rain tomorrow.

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Look at that - our new bit of kit again.

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Morning, morning, morning, morning!

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Today, we're expecting something big, red and shiny onsite.

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No, not Billy's nose. Or that steel.

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Oh, that IS what we're talking about.

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Oh, that! Yes, we've asked them to come out and hose down Mark.

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He just doesn't know anything about it.

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SIREN WAILS

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-Is there a fire?

-We're here to help.

-What, building?

-Give it a go.

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-Oh, yeah? You're here to join us for today?

-We here for a bit.

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-Between your shifts?

-Yeah.

-Thank you, ladies and gents.

-No worries.

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We really have got the whole community getting involved.

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These are the boys and girls of the Monmouth fire station.

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We do see people in very tough situations,

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but we don't usually see people at this part.

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We see it on jobs and then we're kind of detached

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from any recovery or anything like that.

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So, it's great for us to be part of something here

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which is the next step on, if you like, after they've had that trauma.

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It's great to be part of someone's recovery and recuperation.

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Doesn't that warm the cockles of your heart? It warms mine.

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Unlike this old chimney, which won't be warming anybody's cockles.

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We're turning part of the existing living room area into a playroom

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for the boys and a physio space for Charlotte,

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which means getting rid of the chimney breast downstairs.

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A good tip, not just to knock out the chimney breast at the bottom,

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-about having a good look at what's up top.

-You're right, yeah.

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-There's a tremendous lump of weight there.

-There is.

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I can see the bricks have been removed and this is just floating.

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We'd better do something about it.

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-Do you know a man who could maybe sort this out?

-I do.

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-Who's that?

-THEY LAUGH

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We're already using a lot of steels to strengthen the house,

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but we hadn't planned on having to shore up the chimney as well.

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By the time we've finished, this house will have

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more heavy metal than Metallica.

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But it's not the metal that's important -

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it's the manpower to make it happen.

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Everyone's working hard to create a home

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that will enable the family to finally be together full-time.

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Charlotte's best friends know how important that is to them.

0:17:050:17:09

-I'm Lizzy.

-Lizzy.

-I'm Ruth.

-Ruth. Hello, nice to meet you.

0:17:100:17:13

-Who's that down there?

-This is Sylvie.

-Sylvie. Hello.

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Sylvie's a day younger than Teddy and Fox,

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so Char and I were both pregnant at exactly the same time.

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-Thanks to MY wedding.

-We know that's where... Is that what happened?

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Yeah, that's what you get with a free bar.

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THEY LAUGH

0:17:280:17:29

How much are we actually seeing of the real Charlotte?

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Because it's very difficult for us to know, having not met her before.

0:17:330:17:36

Quite a bit, I think.

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I mean, even from the start, she's still been there to us.

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She's still been the same personality. That is her.

0:17:420:17:45

She's always that sunny disposition.

0:17:450:17:47

A huge responsibility for Rob to take on -

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thinking that he was going into hospital

0:17:490:17:51

and coming back with a wife and two children

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and to come back and be a carer.

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It's just crazy and I don't think a lot of people would have pushed

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as much as he pushed in the early days.

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When I was visiting her in the rehab centre when she was in hospital,

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it was him that was pushing for the next step that she could make

0:18:050:18:08

and it was him that really did push the whole way through

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and I think it's a lot down to that she got out of hospital

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as quickly as she did,

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given the severity of what she was going through.

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Kind of more important now to build a place

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where she can be reintroduced to her twins.

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She was robbed of that maternal instinct

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because of not actually remembering being pregnant,

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not recognising the twins.

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So, what, as a mother, is just instinctive,

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Charlotte has had to learn that

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and she has an amazing bond with her children and they with her.

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You can see it. She's just amazing with them.

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So, this house will make a real difference.

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It will make the world of difference to them.

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They can be just a normal family, which is all she ever wanted.

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And that's what we all want for Charlotte.

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One of the biggest issues for Charlotte since the stroke

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is how it's affected her speech and communication.

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Gabby wants to make sure her voice is heard,

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so she's popping round to sister Angie's, for a chat with Charlotte.

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-If I just get some colours out.

-Yeah.

-I just want this to be right.

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It's your home and I want you to feel it's right for you.

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-You don't have to choose particular colours.

-Yeah.

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Are there some that you really love or some you really don't like?

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-Yes, yeah.

-Mm-hmm.

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No. Yes.

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-This sort of soft...

-Yeah.

-..natural spectrum, you like.

-Yeah.

0:19:290:19:35

Practically speaking, what's the hardest thing?

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Oof, um, the leg.

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-Mm-hmm.

-Um, arm.

0:19:420:19:45

Speech.

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-What is that stopping you from doing at home?

-Shower, bath, no, no.

0:19:470:19:53

Sad.

0:19:550:19:56

When was the last time you were able to have a bath at home?

0:19:560:19:59

-Oh, I can't remember.

-Yeah.

-Yeah.

-A long time ago.

-Yes, long time.

-Yeah.

0:19:590:20:05

From looking around, you've got a lot of equipment that you need,

0:20:050:20:09

-a lot of physio stuff.

-Yeah.

-How hard work is that?

0:20:090:20:12

-Are you having to do exercises every day?

-Extra day, yeah, extra day.

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Yeah.

0:20:170:20:18

Up and down and walk the miles.

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-Yeah.

-Going up and down the stairs is good for you, isn't it?

-Yeah.

0:20:220:20:26

-Are you OK on the stairs?

-Yes, fine, yes.

-That's good.

0:20:260:20:30

-Up and down, the banisters.

-Mm-hmm.

-Yeah.

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And Fox and Teddy - is there something really special

0:20:340:20:37

that you would love to give to the boys?

0:20:370:20:40

-Yeah, together.

-Just to be together?

0:20:400:20:43

-Yeah, yeah.

-Oh, darling, we can sort that out.

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I think that was a great chat with Gabby and shows that,

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even with limited speech capability,

0:20:490:20:51

Charlotte can be part of the decision-making.

0:20:510:20:54

-Don't pick the lime green!

-Still trying to get her way.

0:20:550:21:00

Back onsite, we're bidding farewell to our firefighters,

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who've given the build a much-needed lift.

0:21:030:21:06

That was nice, wasn't it? They just turned up.

0:21:080:21:11

They had an hour and a half off, popped in,

0:21:110:21:12

fiddled around with the steels, helped clear out the garden

0:21:120:21:15

and off they went to save somebody else's lives.

0:21:150:21:17

-We are like an emergency service.

-No, we're not.

-Yeah.

0:21:170:21:20

We're like the fifth emergency service.

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No, we aren't. We really aren't.

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SIREN WAILS

0:21:240:21:28

No time for dad dancing. We've got a chimney to shore up. Get on with it!

0:21:280:21:32

Chris, make some sense, please.

0:21:320:21:34

We want to release this here, so we have to catch the top of the chimney

0:21:340:21:39

by spreading the load over a steel, just to sustain the chimney.

0:21:390:21:43

-It's just like kind of threading a needle.

-Nice and steady.

0:21:430:21:46

A big needle.

0:21:460:21:48

Looks like it's going to fit.

0:21:480:21:50

Now we can safely smash that chimney down.

0:21:520:21:55

I love it when a plan comes together.

0:21:550:21:57

It's only day two,

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but we've already got loads of trades onsite,

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all doing their bit for Charlotte, Rob and the boys,

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and it surprises even seasoned builders

0:22:040:22:07

who've been doing it for years.

0:22:070:22:09

-It's amazing what a lot of people doing a little...

-Yeah.

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It can make a big difference, can't it?

0:22:120:22:14

Now, it may look chaotic

0:22:140:22:16

but these trades have a good eye for detail - not only with their work.

0:22:160:22:20

What's going on with your eyebrows? THEY LAUGH

0:22:210:22:25

Caught out.

0:22:270:22:29

Seriously, cos all young dudes are doing all this stuff, aren't they,

0:22:290:22:32

with their eyebrows? My son does it. So, what's going on?

0:22:320:22:34

-You have them trimmed up?

-Yeah.

-Is that the look now, is it?

0:22:340:22:37

I'll do mine tonight!

0:22:370:22:39

THEY LAUGH

0:22:390:22:41

'For an old dog like me,

0:22:410:22:43

'I'd like to see less man-scaping and more landscaping.

0:22:430:22:46

'But there's much going on in the garden.

0:22:460:22:48

'Mike's idea for a stone-topped deck is a nonstarter,

0:22:480:22:51

'so we're back to composite. Or are we?'

0:22:510:22:54

I thought we had that nailed down yesterday.

0:22:550:22:57

No, it's changed four times since then.

0:22:570:22:59

Is there something you need to talk to me directly about?

0:22:590:23:01

-Why are you still messing about?

-I'm not messing about.

0:23:010:23:04

Apparently, we're still discussing this deck.

0:23:040:23:06

-We've sorted it now, haven't we, Jules?

-Only within the last hour.

0:23:060:23:08

Is it anything like the thing we decided

0:23:080:23:10

at about two o'clock yesterday afternoon?

0:23:100:23:12

Probably about ten o'clock yesterday morning, we decided it

0:23:120:23:15

and we've gone full circle, back to where we were.

0:23:150:23:17

-No, we didn't decide it.

-That's what I said

0:23:170:23:19

is the most practical solution and what's going to work.

0:23:190:23:22

But it also needs to look fabulous.

0:23:220:23:24

So now we are, 36 hours later, back at the exact spot

0:23:240:23:28

where we started off yesterday,

0:23:280:23:30

much to the disgust of our esteemed designer.

0:23:300:23:33

I may just as well have been standing at that wall

0:23:330:23:35

-head-butting it for two days. That's what I feel like.

-Mm.

0:23:350:23:38

-Not that wall. It would have fell down.

-It would have fell down.

0:23:380:23:41

THEY LAUGH

0:23:410:23:43

Yes, years ago, before health and safety,

0:23:430:23:44

we got him to run at a wall to knock it over.

0:23:440:23:46

It worked very well, I have to tell you.

0:23:460:23:48

With the main structural work out of the way,

0:23:480:23:50

the trades inside are charging ahead.

0:23:500:23:53

The last three days, we've been really working so hard

0:23:530:23:57

and now we've got a production line doing all the down lighters.

0:23:570:24:00

It looks good, doesn't it?

0:24:000:24:02

I'm just going to go and make a cup of tea, boys. Are you all right?

0:24:020:24:05

Lovely. No sugars in mine, thanks, Billy. My body is a temple.

0:24:050:24:09

We may have an embarrassment of sparks,

0:24:090:24:11

but we're short of bodies in other areas.

0:24:110:24:14

We've only got two plasterers and we should have 14.

0:24:140:24:17

-IN MARK'S IRISH ACCENT:

-We've already lost an hour.

0:24:170:24:19

That's 14 hours' labour. I'm just hoping the numbers will build.

0:24:190:24:22

For everybody else, "ars" are "hours".

0:24:220:24:25

We need to plasterboard the whole house today,

0:24:250:24:27

so Chris has come up with a novel way to speed things up.

0:24:270:24:30

Stairwell too small to take the plasterboards upstairs,

0:24:300:24:33

so we've cut a letterbox in and fire them up through the floor.

0:24:330:24:37

Remind me never to let him anywhere near...let him near...let him...

0:24:370:24:40

Remind me to invite him over for dinner.

0:24:400:24:42

I just noticed him behind me. Things are looking up on the garden front.

0:24:420:24:45

The new fence is going in and we've just had a delivery

0:24:450:24:48

of railway sleepers, which we're using to build raised beds.

0:24:480:24:51

I've been on a health and safety course recently

0:24:510:24:54

and I discovered that if you don't warm up properly,

0:24:540:24:57

you can get into all kinds of trouble.

0:24:570:24:59

MUSIC: Waltz No 6 In D Flat, Op 6, No 1 by Chopin

0:24:590:25:03

You're just trying to hold out your warm-up routine

0:25:110:25:13

until we've finished, are you?

0:25:130:25:15

That's an outrageous suggestion!

0:25:150:25:17

-Phew!

-I think you're more tired out after the warm-up

0:25:280:25:32

than actually lifting THE piece of wood.

0:25:320:25:34

Time for a cup of tea, I think.

0:25:340:25:36

'But in fact, there's no time for a brew,

0:25:360:25:38

'because we've got some important earth-moving going on

0:25:380:25:41

'in the back garden.

0:25:410:25:43

'We need to take advantage of that amazing view out the back,

0:25:430:25:46

'and the thing about a garden is, if you get it right,

0:25:460:25:49

'you can increase your living space by up to 50%.

0:25:490:25:52

'This is a place where Charlotte can come and work on her rehabilitation,

0:25:520:25:55

'spend time with the kids,

0:25:550:25:57

'spend time as a family, out in the open air.

0:25:570:26:00

'And on a day like this, why wouldn't you?'

0:26:000:26:02

Since the stroke,

0:26:030:26:04

Auntie Angie's house has become a haven for Charlotte and the boys.

0:26:040:26:07

Even with six children and three grandchildren of her own,

0:26:070:26:10

Angie has been a rock to the family.

0:26:100:26:13

How soon was it apparent

0:26:130:26:14

-that Charlotte's stroke was a very severe one?

-Very soon.

0:26:140:26:17

They said, "We've got to move her to Cardiff.

0:26:170:26:20

"We've got to operate on her brain straightaway

0:26:200:26:24

"to relieve the pressure."

0:26:240:26:27

So, Mum actually said goodbye to her.

0:26:270:26:29

She said, "Charlotte, if you need to go, we'll look after the boys."

0:26:310:26:34

So, um...

0:26:340:26:36

Luckily, she fought on. I couldn't help Charlotte get better.

0:26:390:26:42

The only thing I could do for Charlotte was look after the boys,

0:26:420:26:45

so I wanted to do that the best I could.

0:26:450:26:48

And how is it being a sort of surrogate mum of twins?

0:26:490:26:52

It, well, just shock, really, all round.

0:26:520:26:55

And not really like being a mum

0:26:550:26:58

-because we were constantly conscious of Charlotte.

-Of course.

0:26:580:27:01

I wouldn't let anyone near those twins

0:27:010:27:03

because Charlotte had to do everything first,

0:27:030:27:05

so if anyone knocked on the door, I'd say, "You can't come in.

0:27:050:27:08

"You're not seeing the twins before Charlotte.

0:27:080:27:10

"You're not holding the twins before Charlotte."

0:27:100:27:12

It was all about keeping them for Charlotte and that was it.

0:27:120:27:16

We photo'ed them and filmed them daily, everything,

0:27:160:27:19

so that Charlotte now has a record of every day she missed.

0:27:190:27:22

And how's that relationship developing

0:27:220:27:25

between her and her boys now?

0:27:250:27:26

It's really coming on now, since Charlotte was able to...

0:27:260:27:29

Well, Charlotte came out of hospital after nine months,

0:27:290:27:32

so it's all picked up.

0:27:320:27:34

Unfortunately, Char has to do loads of therapies and things,

0:27:340:27:36

so she still can't be with the boys as much as she'd like to,

0:27:360:27:39

but the bond's really there now, which is lovely.

0:27:390:27:42

When you're sat here with the twins

0:27:420:27:44

and your little sister next to you on the sofa, is it the same?

0:27:440:27:48

-No, she's a different person now.

-Is she?

0:27:480:27:50

She is a different person now, yeah. But we all change.

0:27:500:27:53

She's still my little sister

0:27:530:27:55

and I'll always love her and look after her.

0:27:550:27:57

I want to talk about Rob a little, because Rob's thinking,

0:27:570:28:00

"Great, a baby's going to come along," and this whole new life...

0:28:000:28:03

-Yeah.

-..ceases to exist, pretty much, doesn't it?

-Yeah.

0:28:030:28:08

Yeah, it's horrendous. I'm not surprised he struggled to cope.

0:28:080:28:12

I don't think anyone wouldn't struggle to cope.

0:28:120:28:14

Charlotte was the one that did everything.

0:28:140:28:16

She was organised, she looked after Rob.

0:28:160:28:19

So, for him to be left in the position he's in and is still in,

0:28:190:28:23

to a degree, it's horrendous, and I think he's still struggling with it.

0:28:230:28:26

He's still struggling to come to terms with what's happened.

0:28:260:28:30

It's not how it was meant to be.

0:28:300:28:33

Back on site, our plasterers have already boarded out the extension,

0:28:400:28:43

ready for the concrete screed.

0:28:430:28:45

We want the whole ground floor to be level, so there are no steps

0:28:450:28:48

or trip hazards for Charlotte or two lively toddlers.

0:28:480:28:51

-Have you seen the new swimming pool?

-Let's have a look. Look at that.

0:28:540:28:57

Isn't that beautiful? It's a bit dark though.

0:28:570:28:59

It's a bit dark for telly.

0:28:590:29:01

We're supposed to be making this look glamorous, mate.

0:29:010:29:03

What would you be using in the film game to light all this?

0:29:030:29:05

He was a film electrician. That's why he's rubbish at house electrics.

0:29:050:29:08

I'm a bloody good house electrician, I'll tell you, I'll sort you out.

0:29:080:29:12

-Not so good on sentences.

-No, still haven't sorted THAT out!

0:29:120:29:16

'Bless him. You can always rely on Billy.'

0:29:160:29:20

After a slow start today, the pace has really, really picked up.

0:29:200:29:24

The upstairs rooms are beginning to take shape.

0:29:240:29:26

Putting in the guest bedroom is crucial

0:29:260:29:28

to the family being together.

0:29:280:29:30

It will give them the space for someone to stay over

0:29:300:29:33

to help out and that's everything.

0:29:330:29:35

Standing up here, looking out, one of the things you really notice

0:29:360:29:39

is the amazing views off the back of this house.

0:29:390:29:41

And they say that if you can see nature,

0:29:410:29:43

your chances of recovery improve by anything up to 30%.

0:29:430:29:47

That's got to be good news for Charlotte, hasn't it?

0:29:470:29:49

Beautiful. Look at it.

0:29:490:29:50

The call to arms went out and we've now got an army of plasterers,

0:29:560:29:59

which is good news, especially for Chris,

0:29:590:30:02

as there are lots of walls and ceilings for them to do battle with.

0:30:020:30:05

-It's good to go. All right, bud?

-Yeah.

-Thank you.

0:30:080:30:10

Yeah, look at him. He's happy.

0:30:100:30:12

Now, the bifold doors have arrived, which is good,

0:30:120:30:15

because it'll open out onto that beautiful vista from the kitchen.

0:30:150:30:19

Great. Trouble is, there's something in the way.

0:30:190:30:21

That will fly in there.

0:30:230:30:25

No way. No way.

0:30:260:30:28

LAUGHTER

0:30:280:30:30

Yes, the old measuring up first, Mark.

0:30:300:30:32

Remember we talked about that earlier on?

0:30:320:30:34

OK, back on the van, lads.

0:30:340:30:36

One of the things I love most about The Big Build

0:30:370:30:40

is the people who turn up to lend a hand.

0:30:400:30:42

-There's a rumour onsite you're a champion bricklayer.

-That's right.

0:30:420:30:44

-Was in 2003, yeah.

-Champion of where?

-Wales. Welsh champion.

0:30:440:30:49

-Welsh champion?

-Yeah.

-So we've got a champion bricklayer of Wales in,

0:30:490:30:52

-and we've got you doing what?

-I'm cutting some leadwork...

0:30:520:30:55

THEY LAUGH

0:30:550:30:57

..to fix this lintel, so hopefully,

0:30:570:30:58

we don't get any damp in the front of the house.

0:30:580:31:01

-We're honoured to have you on board.

-I'm honoured to be here, guys.

0:31:010:31:03

Isn't that lovely?

0:31:030:31:05

And we get it all the time - people who really enjoy joining in.

0:31:050:31:08

Unbelievably, the new extension is already plastered

0:31:080:31:10

and the team are steaming through the upstairs rooms.

0:31:100:31:13

Everyone's just here to help and when you have a bit of bad luck,

0:31:130:31:16

there's nothing more pleasing than people coming together

0:31:160:31:19

to help someone for a cause like it is, ain't it?

0:31:190:31:23

He's right, but it's lovely to hear, don't you think?

0:31:230:31:26

It's take two on the bifold doors.

0:31:260:31:28

The scaffold has been shifted back to make room for them to fit -

0:31:280:31:31

we hope. And they're now...

0:31:310:31:34

slotting in like a dream. There we go.

0:31:340:31:37

-Happy days!

-Happy days.

0:31:370:31:39

-Does it all fit?

-They don't fit!

0:31:430:31:45

Couple of minor technical adjustments.

0:31:450:31:48

-What, like the scaffold was in the way...

-Minor adjustments.

0:31:480:31:52

-But they look beautiful, absolutely gorgeous.

-Yeah.

0:31:520:31:56

So, let's take stock.

0:31:570:31:59

We're more than halfway through our Big Build

0:31:590:32:01

and the garden's finally taking shape.

0:32:010:32:04

The first flight of stone steps are in.

0:32:040:32:06

These will be great for Charlotte's rehab

0:32:060:32:09

and we're building raised planters either side.

0:32:090:32:11

For Charlotte, these are fantastic

0:32:130:32:15

because it means you're not bending down to ground level.

0:32:150:32:18

Much more pleasing on the eye

0:32:180:32:19

and it adds height and texture to the garden as well.

0:32:190:32:23

It doubles up. It could become a sandpit as well.

0:32:230:32:26

I think he's joking, but we are all about options.

0:32:260:32:29

Inside, the kitchen cabinets are going in.

0:32:290:32:32

The new open-plan kitchen will give Charlotte plenty of room

0:32:320:32:34

to move around, which should make life that little bit easier.

0:32:340:32:38

Ah, what have we got here then? A bevy of beauties painting.

0:32:410:32:45

Oh, and another beauty in the corner.

0:32:450:32:48

Thank you very much for giving up your weekend. I hope you enjoy it.

0:32:480:32:51

We can only pay you with food.

0:32:510:32:53

-Can we get the odd peck on the cheek, Billy?

-Yes, course you can.

0:32:530:32:57

I'm happy with that. Mwah. Thank you.

0:32:570:33:00

Come on, son! Do you want a peck on the cheek? There you are, see.

0:33:020:33:07

No favouritism here, is there?

0:33:070:33:10

Well, I hope they're all up-to-date on their inoculations.

0:33:110:33:14

It finally had to happen, I suppose,

0:33:140:33:16

but rain rarely stops play on a Big Build,

0:33:160:33:19

especially when there's so much at stake for the family.

0:33:190:33:22

My daughter's got twin girls as well,

0:33:240:33:27

about the same age as the twins here,

0:33:270:33:29

and I know what hard work it is. Gosh, unbelievable.

0:33:290:33:33

When one runs one way, one runs the other way, what do you do?

0:33:330:33:36

So, I can imagine how hard it is for these people.

0:33:360:33:38

He's right, of course.

0:33:380:33:40

Twins are a wonderful gift but they're a lot of hard work,

0:33:400:33:43

and it has been hard for the whole family,

0:33:430:33:45

so when Charlotte had her stroke, the impact was felt by everyone,

0:33:450:33:48

but no-one more so than Rob.

0:33:480:33:51

You went into hospital with your wife,

0:33:510:33:54

expecting to come home with twins.

0:33:540:33:57

-Yeah.

-You came home the father of twins, but also then a carer.

-Yeah.

0:33:570:34:02

How do you begin to get your head round that?

0:34:020:34:04

It was horrific and then you're just sort of riding a storm.

0:34:040:34:08

-Are you still riding a storm? You are a bit, aren't you?

-I haven't...

0:34:080:34:12

I don't feel I've, um... I'm not sure if I've come to terms with it.

0:34:120:34:15

I haven't really... I haven't had a conversation with Char

0:34:150:34:18

since the boys, so for a year and five months.

0:34:180:34:21

-You miss her?

-Hugely.

0:34:210:34:23

I miss our little chats.

0:34:250:34:27

I miss her coming home or into a room, smiling,

0:34:270:34:32

and I still expect her, maybe, to come in one day

0:34:320:34:36

and to be as she was.

0:34:360:34:38

But I don't like to say it too much cos I don't want her to feel

0:34:380:34:41

like she's not there either, cos she is, underneath.

0:34:410:34:43

She just can't express who she is.

0:34:430:34:45

-It's a different relationship, isn't it?

-It is, very much so.

0:34:450:34:48

And we've had that for quite a long time now.

0:34:480:34:51

All I want is for us to get back to being a couple

0:34:510:34:54

and that's something that no-one really sees, apart from me.

0:34:540:34:59

Do you think the house being finished,

0:34:590:35:01

with Char and the boys being able to stay there

0:35:010:35:04

and Angie being able to come over and stay

0:35:040:35:06

will give you enough confidence that it might be a new start?

0:35:060:35:09

Completely. What you guys are doing might be sort of the only,

0:35:090:35:14

the only way we can start as a family.

0:35:140:35:17

It's a hell of a good reason to go and build a house, isn't it?

0:35:170:35:20

Phew, it's the best reason I can think of.

0:35:200:35:22

When all this happened, even when Charlotte came back to the house,

0:35:220:35:26

and the boys... that hope just vanished.

0:35:260:35:31

-It disappeared.

-And now?

0:35:310:35:33

It feels like it could be a whole new start -

0:35:330:35:35

an environment that Char can grow and definitely get better,

0:35:350:35:38

with her own motivation, which is huge, and the boys.

0:35:380:35:41

Oh, it would just be... It's a dream. It's a dream now.

0:35:410:35:45

Getting back to our own dream makers.

0:35:540:35:57

Just a couple of days to go and Mark's gone all Braveheart.

0:35:570:36:00

The garden's got to be finished by Wednesday night.

0:36:000:36:02

We didn't realise how big this was going to be,

0:36:020:36:04

so you have got a bit of a challenge on.

0:36:040:36:06

The trades have been going hell for leather on this build,

0:36:060:36:10

but there's still loads to do.

0:36:100:36:12

Now, normally, Jules is never happier than when he's in a digger,

0:36:130:36:16

but I think the stress of the garden build

0:36:160:36:18

may have got to him a little bit.

0:36:180:36:21

The powers that be have decided that this hedge is coming out.

0:36:210:36:25

It would have been a lot easier to take it out four days ago,

0:36:250:36:28

but there you go. Who am I to reason why?

0:36:280:36:30

I've got the wrong bucket on but I'm too angry to change it.

0:36:320:36:35

That's embarrassing! Digger drivers all over the country

0:36:350:36:37

-will be going, "Look at that fool!"

-I know!

0:36:370:36:41

You are what digger drivers look up to.

0:36:410:36:44

MARK LAUGHS

0:36:440:36:46

-He's a digger man!

-I'm the digger man!

0:36:460:36:50

I'm not sure, actually, that Mark laughing at Julian's helping,

0:36:530:36:57

but there you go.

0:36:570:36:59

Inside, the kitchen floor's going down,

0:36:590:37:01

ready for the bespoke worktops, which have just turned up.

0:37:010:37:04

-Have you used the concrete in your kitchens before?

-Never.

-No?

0:37:060:37:09

-No, this is the first time. Looks nice.

-It's amazing, isn't it?

0:37:090:37:12

-Whereabouts in Wales are you from?

-Glasgow!

-I thought so.

0:37:120:37:15

THEY LAUGH

0:37:150:37:18

Yep, they come from all over.

0:37:180:37:20

With the scaffolding down,

0:37:200:37:22

the foundation for the decking is finally going in.

0:37:220:37:25

Now, there's just the matter of 25 tonnes of topsoil

0:37:250:37:28

and 40 tonnes of aggregate to shift.

0:37:280:37:31

But I do feel we're getting closer

0:37:310:37:33

to putting some colour in the garden.

0:37:330:37:35

Look at that, look. Look at the blossom over there.

0:37:360:37:39

-That's not blossom, that's a...

-Cherry tree.

-No, what's that? A...

0:37:390:37:43

-That's a, um...

-Flower.

-I had one of those in my garden.

0:37:430:37:46

It's a big thingy tree. It's a... I'm a member of the RHS as well.

0:37:460:37:50

-That's a, um...

-You're right, now.

0:37:500:37:52

-That's a, um...

-Chestnut.

0:37:520:37:55

It's not a chestnut! It's plainly not a chestnut is it?

0:37:550:37:58

-They're not conkers, are they?

-Magnolia.

0:37:580:38:00

Magnolia - thank you very much!

0:38:000:38:02

That's what it is! I might be a bit rusty on my horticulture,

0:38:020:38:06

but one thing I do know - if you spend enough time in Wales,

0:38:060:38:09

sooner or later, you're going to find a leak.

0:38:090:38:12

-NICK LAUGHS

-That's mains, that is.

0:38:120:38:15

That's coming out hard, isn't it?

0:38:150:38:17

Try one of the stopcocks at the front.

0:38:170:38:20

-How's that?

-That's it. What was that you turned off?

0:38:230:38:27

-The stopcock under the hedge.

-The old mains?

-The old mains.

0:38:270:38:32

Well found, mate.

0:38:320:38:34

Luckily, we've got the local water board on tap

0:38:340:38:37

and they've turned up with some very high-tech gear.

0:38:370:38:40

He wants to have a look at it with his listening stick.

0:38:400:38:43

-Look with your listening stick?

-Yeah, that's a listening stick.

0:38:430:38:46

Have you seen one of those before?

0:38:460:38:48

Yeah, last time we had a broken main. Let me see if it works.

0:38:480:38:51

-Anything going on?

-Rubbish.

0:38:540:38:56

No, I think you've got about four days left in you.

0:38:560:38:58

Want to have a look? Go and have a listen?

0:38:580:39:00

Let's find out which one is back live

0:39:000:39:02

and then we can probably get it disconnected.

0:39:020:39:04

Ain't it lovely to see a bit of old-fashioned business

0:39:040:39:06

going on there? Upstairs, our trades are really cracking on.

0:39:060:39:09

Mind out, there's tools everywhere. Look in there.

0:39:090:39:11

The bathroom's got some tiles on in there. It's starting to take shape.

0:39:110:39:14

That's the babies' room. Poke yourself through there,

0:39:140:39:17

you can see there's some paper on.

0:39:170:39:19

The garden has been a lot more work than we first thought,

0:39:190:39:22

but we are getting there.

0:39:220:39:24

Which means it must be the perfect time for Gabby to decide

0:39:240:39:27

to paint all the fences a different colour, which goes down a storm.

0:39:270:39:30

Can you not see the amount of other work that's got to be done?

0:39:320:39:35

All the fences have got to be finished, all the turfing,

0:39:350:39:37

-all the planting.

-We've got loads...

0:39:370:39:39

You've just put another half a day on it by painting the fence

0:39:390:39:42

-that didn't need to be done.

-I'm not taking away your landscapers.

0:39:420:39:45

We've got decorators here, specifically to do this.

0:39:450:39:48

We've got the correct paint with the proper spec and they're doing it.

0:39:480:39:51

This is what puts the job over, is stuff like this.

0:39:510:39:54

He's very emotional, isn't he?

0:39:540:39:56

I think everyone needs to cool off a bit

0:39:560:39:58

so, while gabby's team plough on with the fence...

0:39:580:40:01

Black, really? Black?

0:40:010:40:02

..the boys are meeting up with Rob.

0:40:020:40:04

Since becoming a full-time carer and dad to twins,

0:40:040:40:08

Rob has had precious little time to himself,

0:40:080:40:11

so we've organised a boys' treat out.

0:40:110:40:13

-Boo!

-His wife gets that every morning!

0:40:130:40:16

Well, I say treat - kayaking on the River Wye.

0:40:160:40:18

-How do you feel? Confident?

-No, not really, no.

0:40:180:40:22

It looks like Jules has drawn the short straw - Billy.

0:40:220:40:27

JULES MOUTHS

0:40:270:40:29

-Whoa, whoa!

-Hey-hey!

-Whoa!

0:40:290:40:33

-Hold on, boys.

-He saved it, mate, he saved it.

0:40:330:40:37

Here we go - the point of no return.

0:40:410:40:44

LAUGHTER

0:40:560:40:59

-Oh, my God!

-It was planned.

-You all right?

0:41:010:41:04

-We went right through the middle there.

-I know, we saw you.

0:41:040:41:08

If you wanted to wake up very quickly, go canoeing.

0:41:080:41:12

-Enjoy yourself?

-This is lovely, yeah. It's been lovely.

0:41:120:41:15

I feel guilty though. I feel a bit guilty.

0:41:150:41:17

That's all back there when you get back there.

0:41:170:41:19

This is now, just a little bit for you, do you know what I mean?

0:41:190:41:22

-MARK:

-You've got put positive stuff in to get positive stuff out.

0:41:220:41:25

You need that in life, just to be able to bounce back and hit hard.

0:41:250:41:27

-Yeah, you've earnt it.

-Thanks, man, thank you.

0:41:270:41:30

Billy and Jules have got to come down next.

0:41:300:41:32

Here they come, here they come!

0:41:350:41:37

Whoa-oa! Yay! Ha-ha!

0:41:420:41:46

-Whoo!

-Come on, boy!

0:41:460:41:50

We're getting out here. Swim!

0:41:500:41:53

-Over this way, Bill. Come here!

-Swim, Jules!

0:41:530:41:57

We'll see you back at Monmouth!

0:41:570:41:59

Right, it's the final push.

0:42:070:42:09

The decking's going down, the turf's arrived,

0:42:090:42:11

so it's full steam ahead to get the garden finished.

0:42:110:42:14

But the jury's out on Gabby's fence.

0:42:170:42:20

-They've painted the fence black!

-I know.

-Dear me.

-You don't like it?

0:42:200:42:25

-But it's the colour of death.

-THEY LAUGH

0:42:250:42:28

-It's awful.

-Do you not like it?

-No, no, not at all.

0:42:280:42:31

-Maybe you should have an interview with our designers.

-I'm off!

0:42:310:42:34

THEY LAUGH

0:42:340:42:37

Third person has just come up to me and gone,

0:42:370:42:40

-"Why did you paint the fence black?"

-Cos it's going to look amazing.

0:42:400:42:43

They think it looks horrible.

0:42:430:42:45

Hands up how many people don't like the black fence.

0:42:450:42:48

-No, come on!

-Everyone.

0:42:480:42:50

-Nobody likes it, Gabby.

-Darling, it's magnificent.

0:42:500:42:53

It makes green look incredible.

0:42:530:42:55

It's an eyeliner for the garden, darling. It'll look magnificent.

0:42:550:42:58

Imagine me with no eyeliner on, how horrific that would look.

0:42:580:43:03

-Trust me, it's not good.

-I think you're being very harsh on yourself.

0:43:030:43:07

-No, I'm not, really.

-No, you are.

0:43:070:43:08

It's not just eyeliner, it's all the other things -

0:43:080:43:10

the base, lipstick and everything. It's, er...

0:43:100:43:13

'Come on, everybody! What brother hasn't been strangled

0:43:150:43:18

'by his little sister at some stage?

0:43:180:43:20

'We're all just one big happy family really.

0:43:200:43:22

'I never thought I'd say this, but the garden's almost done.

0:43:220:43:25

'We put in a special little feature for Charlotte -

0:43:250:43:28

'a central rail to the stone steps.'

0:43:280:43:30

It works either way, having this rail in the middle.

0:43:300:43:33

If it's the left side, she can come down with her strong side

0:43:330:43:35

and because we put it in the middle, she can actually go up

0:43:350:43:38

on her strong side and that works the other way round as well,

0:43:380:43:40

if her right side's the strong side.

0:43:400:43:42

So, this stairwell in and out of the garden

0:43:420:43:44

becomes part of her physiotherapy, which is kind of cool.

0:43:440:43:47

That's beautiful. This has been made for us

0:43:470:43:49

by a local artisan. Fantastic, isn't it?

0:43:490:43:51

And to be honest, I've just seen the fence

0:43:510:43:53

and look how the blossom colour pink is kicking more

0:43:530:43:56

because of the black fence that's in front of it.

0:43:560:43:58

And I was arguing about the black fence.

0:43:580:44:00

That kind of works, doesn't it? I like it very much, actually.

0:44:000:44:04

It's a mad dash to the finish line.

0:44:070:44:08

It's been a tough one, to be honest,

0:44:080:44:10

but we're almost there and it feels good.

0:44:100:44:13

-How's it been working with everyone here then?

-Wonderful.

0:44:130:44:16

-Yeah, really good.

-Why?

-Why?

-You've got to tell people why

0:44:160:44:19

cos people don't know what it's like, so...

0:44:190:44:21

It's just such an eye-opener.

0:44:210:44:23

It's great that everybody's pulled together, all the tradespeople,

0:44:230:44:26

and everybody's hearts are in the right places

0:44:260:44:29

and it's just an important cause, isn't it?

0:44:290:44:31

-We came on our own and have gone away as a team.

-Yeah.

0:44:310:44:34

-That's nice.

-Really good.

0:44:340:44:36

I like that. Come on your own, go away as a team.

0:44:360:44:39

'I think I might have that printed on a T-shirt.'

0:44:390:44:42

We arrived in Monmouth to help a family torn apart

0:44:500:44:52

when mum Charlotte suffered a massive stroke

0:44:520:44:55

after giving birth to twins.

0:44:550:44:57

It was horrific and then you're just riding a storm.

0:44:580:45:01

Against the odds, she's making remarkable progress

0:45:030:45:07

but their cramped little house had nowhere for help to stay,

0:45:070:45:10

and they couldn't cope with the boys full-time without it.

0:45:100:45:13

Is there something special you would love to give to the boys?

0:45:140:45:17

-Yeah, together.

-Just to be together.

-Yeah.

0:45:170:45:20

They were desperate to be a family again,

0:45:200:45:23

so the local trades of Monmouth and way beyond came together

0:45:230:45:27

to make that dream come true.

0:45:270:45:29

And this is what they achieved.

0:45:290:45:32

They've taken a pokey, cluttered semi and completely transformed it.

0:45:340:45:39

The new extension has doubled the ground floor,

0:45:410:45:44

giving the family a beautiful open-plan living-dining space,

0:45:440:45:48

with doors out to the garden.

0:45:480:45:51

The cramped kitchen is no more.

0:45:540:45:56

It's been replaced by modern cabinets

0:45:560:45:59

and bespoke concrete worktops.

0:45:590:46:01

There's now plenty of space for Charlotte to move around safely

0:46:010:46:04

and even a special little spot for Teddy and Fox.

0:46:040:46:08

The old living area is now a fabulous playroom for the twins

0:46:110:46:16

and also gives Charlotte the space she needs for her physio...

0:46:160:46:20

..with her exercise gear hidden behind sliding doors,

0:46:220:46:25

beautifully decorated by a local artist.

0:46:250:46:28

Upstairs, we've created a guest bedroom,

0:46:310:46:34

so that now Angie or a carer can stay overnight.

0:46:340:46:38

The existing bedrooms have had such a makeover.

0:46:380:46:41

The twins now have a proper little boys' room.

0:46:410:46:45

The old family bathroom has been transformed

0:46:460:46:49

into a beautiful en suite, complete with a moveable seat in the bath,

0:46:490:46:54

so Charlotte can once again enjoy a soak.

0:46:540:46:57

And we've added a separate wet room,

0:46:570:47:00

which will make showering much easier for her.

0:47:000:47:03

Finally, the old, inaccessible, sloping garden has gone.

0:47:030:47:07

In its place, a new turf lawn, split into levels

0:47:070:47:12

with a deck terrace that's just perfect for family time together.

0:47:120:47:17

The stone steps are flanked by giant raised planters,

0:47:170:47:21

ideal for Charlotte to do a spot of gardening. Very therapeutic.

0:47:210:47:24

Yes, the mighty Monmouth trades have given the Fairlies a home

0:47:240:47:28

where they can finally start their family life together.

0:47:280:47:32

We needed to give you space, we needed to give you a home

0:47:400:47:43

where you could actually spend time with your babies.

0:47:430:47:45

Everybody's really loved doing this for you. Open your eyes.

0:47:450:47:48

-Ooh!

-Oh, my God!

0:47:500:47:53

-Whoa!

-Oh, my goodness!

0:47:560:47:58

-That is just incredible.

-You like it?

-Yeah.

-It's incredible.

0:48:000:48:06

-It's incredible.

-Yeah!

0:48:060:48:08

Gabby was keen that when she came to you with a mood board,

0:48:080:48:11

-that there were things you'd like in colours and shapes and things.

-Yeah.

0:48:110:48:15

It's just unbelievable.

0:48:150:48:17

Everything that you do, you like to go to your left.

0:48:210:48:23

-It's the right side that's difficult?

-Yeah.

0:48:230:48:26

-The left, you know...

-That side.

0:48:260:48:27

So, the idea is everything that you do is thought through

0:48:270:48:30

-to make it beneficial for you.

-Oh, goodness.

-Oh, my goodness.

0:48:300:48:35

-That is just, er, wow!

-Oh!

0:48:350:48:38

Yeah, a little breakfast bar at the end here. You pull out the chairs.

0:48:380:48:42

-Ah!

-That is absolutely lovely.

-Ah!

0:48:420:48:45

So, in this corner here,

0:48:470:48:49

a little place for Fox and Teddy to hang their coats.

0:48:490:48:51

-Ah!

-That's brilliant.

0:48:510:48:53

-Clock. Clock.

-Yeah, it's a clock with the time on it.

-Yeah.

0:48:530:48:58

Just a little reminder.

0:48:580:49:00

So, let's bring you through into your new living room area.

0:49:030:49:07

-Oh, it's like a real home!

-Yeah.

0:49:100:49:12

Lots of room for the kids to run around in.

0:49:120:49:15

-Ah, that's gorgeous.

-Yeah.

0:49:150:49:19

-Can you see the photos? Gorgeous.

-Oh, my God!

-Goodness.

0:49:210:49:25

-Oh, my goodness.

-Yeah, this is lovely.

0:49:250:49:28

I'm speechless. It's not... It's...

0:49:300:49:33

It's not the same place, in a good way. It's just unbelievable.

0:49:330:49:37

I don't know how you've done it. It's beautiful, it really is.

0:49:370:49:41

-I know it's always tough for you to form sentences.

-Yeah.

0:49:410:49:44

-And you get frustrated with it - I know that.

-Yeah.

0:49:440:49:46

But I would like to know,

0:49:460:49:47

-can you see this making a difference for you?

-Yes.

0:49:470:49:50

I guess a big difference.

0:49:500:49:53

-It's a new start, isn't it?

-Yeah, home.

-Home.

-Yeah.

0:49:530:49:57

Welcome to your new physio space.

0:50:020:50:05

CHARLOTTE GASPS

0:50:050:50:07

-In behind here...

-Oh, my goodness.

-Oh, my goodness!

-That is just, er...

0:50:090:50:14

That's perfect!

0:50:140:50:16

CHARLOTTE LAUGHS

0:50:160:50:17

-So, what do you think?

-Oh, amazing!

-Speechless.

0:50:170:50:21

Speechless, yeah.

0:50:220:50:24

-Is this a space in which you can improve?

-Yeah.

0:50:240:50:28

-Cos you can do speech and language here.

-Yeah.

-Got the exercises.

0:50:280:50:33

It's just amazing.

0:50:330:50:34

Did you want to follow me to see the upstairs?

0:50:360:50:38

Your new room.

0:50:430:50:44

-Oh! Wow, that is absolutely brilliant!

-Yes.

0:50:460:50:51

-What do you think, my love?

-Yeah!

-Yeah.

0:50:510:50:54

But probably more important is going to be this room for you.

0:50:540:50:58

THEY GASP

0:51:000:51:02

-Oh, my goodness!

-It is... Wow!

0:51:020:51:06

-Down to your right, in the bath, is a self-raising chair.

-Yeah.

0:51:060:51:09

It will raise up and swing round

0:51:090:51:11

so you can get yourself in and out of the bath, Char.

0:51:110:51:13

-Thank you!

-That is brilliant.

0:51:130:51:16

-Want to see your boys' bedroom?

-Yes.

0:51:160:51:18

Oh, my God.

0:51:250:51:27

-Oh, "Fox" and "Teddy".

-Ah!

0:51:270:51:31

-So, obviously named for you, so you don't get mixed up.

-Yeah.

0:51:310:51:34

-Teddy and Fox, yeah.

-Ah!

-Proper little boys' room, isn't it?

0:51:340:51:38

-I know!

-Yeah. It's a proper little nursery. It's lovely.

0:51:380:51:42

Because of the situation that you're in, it was really important -

0:51:420:51:45

this was why we did the two-storey extension -

0:51:450:51:47

-to actually get another bedroom in somewhere.

-Yeah.

0:51:470:51:50

-Do you want to come and see that?

-Yes.

0:51:500:51:52

-Oh, that is incredible.

-Beautiful, isn't it?

-Yeah.

-Thank you.

0:51:590:52:03

So, from today, you can move in,

0:52:030:52:07

you can have the boys stay in the same house as you.

0:52:070:52:10

Yeah, it's, um, it's above and beyond anything I could have,

0:52:100:52:14

or WE could have probably thought or imagined.

0:52:140:52:17

-It is perfect, for want of a better word.

-Perfect.

0:52:170:52:22

-Really?

-It's a home, it's a real home, isn't it?

-Yeah.

0:52:220:52:24

Well, why don't we get the family in then, shall we?

0:52:240:52:27

Wow!

0:52:320:52:34

-Hey.

-Poppet.

-There.

0:52:340:52:36

Poppet. Look, this is your new home.

0:52:380:52:42

-It's absolutely fantastic.

-I know.

0:52:440:52:47

-Tissue.

-Thank you, Char. You're looking after ME now.

-Yeah.

0:52:490:52:54

Isn't this lovely? Auntie Angie's silly, eh?

0:52:540:52:59

Is she silly? Yes.

0:52:590:53:01

-It's amazing.

-I know.

-Wow!

0:53:010:53:06

I have got another surprise for you downstairs.

0:53:060:53:08

THEY GASP

0:53:180:53:19

-Oh!

-Oh, my God!

0:53:190:53:23

It's kind of cool, isn't it? Look at that!

0:53:230:53:26

Come on, poppet.

0:53:260:53:28

-Darling.

-Goodness me!

0:53:280:53:31

-Are you sure this is the right address, my love?

-I know!

0:53:330:53:36

Did you know you had such an amazing view?

0:53:360:53:38

-And now it's framed with a beautiful garden.

-Yeah.

0:53:380:53:40

-If you come round this side, Char.

-OK.

-You can then use the rail.

-Ah.

0:53:430:53:47

Brilliant!

0:53:470:53:48

This is your new physio, Char.

0:53:520:53:54

-Oh!

-CHARLOTTE LAUGHS

0:53:540:53:57

-Up, down, up, down the steps.

-Yeah.

-Yeah?

-Up, down, up, down.

0:53:570:54:00

I don't know how on earth they've done this.

0:54:000:54:04

During the summer, this is where you come to recuperate.

0:54:040:54:07

There's a lot of evidence that shows

0:54:070:54:09

that if you can see the countryside, greenery, trees,

0:54:090:54:12

-it will help with your rehabilitation.

-Yeah.

0:54:120:54:15

Walking up and down the garden, using the railings, should all help.

0:54:150:54:18

-Yeah. Thank you.

-I

-didn't do it.

0:54:180:54:22

-Isn't that lovely, though, to see your boys out in the garden?

-Yeah.

0:54:280:54:31

-Look, he's running about.

-I know!

-He's doing his little ducky walk.

0:54:310:54:36

-Does it feel like a home?

-Home, yes, definitely.

-Yeah. It's, yeah...

0:54:370:54:43

-It's...

-Big changes?

-Yeah.

-Massive.

-Yeah.

-Bit of weight off you?

0:54:430:54:47

-Yeah, it feels like home.

-Yeah.

0:54:470:54:49

It feels like the space is incredible and the space of...

0:54:490:54:53

-And knowing that you'll be safe with the boys here...

-Yeah.

0:54:530:54:57

That'll be a huge weight.

0:54:570:54:58

OK, listen, we'd like you to meet the twins, but one of them's asleep.

0:55:110:55:15

LAUGHTER AND APPLAUSE

0:55:150:55:19

-A new beginning?

-Yes, um, beginning, yeah.

0:55:320:55:35

And a chance for you now, finally, to spend proper time with your boys.

0:55:350:55:40

-With boys, yes.

-How do things change?

0:55:400:55:43

Well, when Char came back to the house, um, it just wasn't...

0:55:430:55:46

We couldn't be a family.

0:55:460:55:48

You haven't made a house, you've made us a home,

0:55:480:55:51

and for the first time, we can be a family together.

0:55:510:55:55

And that wouldn't be possible without you guys - there's no way.

0:55:550:55:58

And I've no idea what to say to all of you. There's so many.

0:55:580:56:03

And so, from the bottom of our hearts,

0:56:030:56:06

I want to thank each and every one of you individually

0:56:060:56:08

for giving us a family back, which we haven't had yet.

0:56:080:56:12

Does this take some of the pressure off?

0:56:120:56:14

Yeah, it feels like a huge weight cos this is our base,

0:56:140:56:17

this is our home, so it feels manageable now.

0:56:170:56:19

-So, starting afresh from today - when we get the keys...

-Yeah.

0:56:190:56:23

LAUGHTER

0:56:230:56:25

To be honest, the way it's been, they might be in one of the skips.

0:56:250:56:28

-LAUGHTER

-Thank you so much.

0:56:280:56:30

APPLAUSE

0:56:300:56:33

Thank you.

0:56:390:56:40

How are you?

0:56:400:56:42

-What an amazing community.

-I know!

0:56:420:56:44

As long as we don't have to sit on our knees for half an hour.

0:56:440:56:47

Mwah, thank you.

0:56:470:56:49

People often ask me,

0:56:490:56:51

"Why would people come and give so much and not get paid?"

0:56:510:56:54

It's because they're part of a community.

0:56:540:56:56

They're doing something special.

0:56:560:56:58

And what greater payment is there than creating a home

0:56:580:57:01

where a mother and her twins can create that bond

0:57:010:57:05

that they should have had when they were born

0:57:050:57:07

and through circumstance, they couldn't?

0:57:070:57:09

Somebody said to me in the week,

0:57:090:57:11

"We come here alone and leave as a team."

0:57:110:57:13

And of course, you're part of a team, you just don't know it.

0:57:130:57:16

Your community has amazing power.

0:57:160:57:18

Maybe you know somebody who needs your help.

0:57:180:57:21

INDISTINGUISHABLE CHATTER

0:57:280:57:30

Thank you. Mwah.

0:57:300:57:32

INDISTINGUISHABLE CHATTER

0:57:390:57:41

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