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-You get a fantastic buzz

-from living a double life.

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-A very, very dangerous man.

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-Nothing to say?

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-It's so sad.

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-A real eye-opener.

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-Tonight, I look

-at the sex industry in Wales.

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-But rather than the traditional

-street corner work...

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-..I look at what's happening

-behind closed doors.

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-I spend time

-with an escort in her sixties...

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-..who's living a double life.

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-I also examine a new phenomenon,

-sex for rent.

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-Landlords offering accommodation

-in return for sexual favours.

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-When many of us

-hear the term sex industry...

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-..the image that springs to mind

-is street workers or prostitutes.

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-There are about 140 sex workers

-on the streets of Cardiff in 2018.

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-But like everything else, the sex

-industry changes with the times.

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-I'm meeting a woman who makes

-a living in the sex industry...

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-..online, over the phone

-and from her bedroom.

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-I'm here to meet Mrs Jones...

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-..or the one and only Mrs Jones,

-as she is known.

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-She works as an escort.

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-I'm here to ask her

-just what being an escort entails.

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-Hello, Mrs Jones, can I come in?

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-Hello, Mrs Jones, can I come in?

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-Come up.

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-Hello, Mrs Jones, how are you?

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-Hello. Come in.

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-Thank you very much.

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-Thank you very much.

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-You're welcome.

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-So, this is your flat?

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-HQ!

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-Do you make tea for your punters?

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-Do you make tea for your punters?

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-No, never.

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-Although Mrs Jones has welcomed me

-and the camera to her flat...

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-..she doesn't want us

-to show her face.

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-She was a teacher

-but has now retired.

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-I thought I'd never get work

-because I was old...

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-..but it keeps coming.

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-She earns money

-without having to leave her home...

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-..or even the sofa.

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-Since she started in 2014,

-she has earned over 23,000...

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-..through her webcam and phone work.

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-What kind of things

-do they ask you to do on the camera?

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-Give me a twirl...

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-..then I go topless,

-then everything comes off.

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-Then they sit there and they like...

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-..seeing me enjoy...

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-..watching them

-pleasure themselves.

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-Today, even though I'm here,

-the messages come non-stop.

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-The men on the other side

-of the camera...

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-..are keen to see

-what Mrs Jones has to offer.

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-I'm about to experience

-seeing her at work.

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-How you doing?

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-Hello!

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-Come to relieve yourselves

-after a hard day's work?

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-What would you like me to do?

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-What are you thinking about?

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-Would you like to see

-all of me now then?

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-Wow! That was fascinating.

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-And you just...

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-And you just...

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-Calming world.

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-I don't know who comes or when.

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-Do you know how much..?

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-11.

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-11? Wow! In less than five minutes.

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-A little bit less, yes.

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-After seeing more than I'd expected

-in the living room...

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-..Mrs Jones leads me to the room

-where she makes the big bucks.

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-Right.

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-Right.

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-The playroom.

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-This is where it all happens.

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-After retiring as a teacher...

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-..Mrs Jones wanted a way

-to fill her free time.

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-Four years later, she's still at it.

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-The type of people you see,

-your clients...

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-..they vary, I expect.

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-Some are married, maybe?

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-One customer's wife has cancer.

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-It's not serious, stage one.

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-But he doesn't like to ask

-for things like that now.

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-Ask her, you mean?

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-Yes, things like that.

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-One man came here

-whose wife was dying.

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-How do you feel about that?

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-Knowing that these men have wives?

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-In some cases, wives who are dying?

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-Are you happy to do stuff with them?

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-Are you happy to do stuff with them?

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-Yes, I do that.

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-They come looking for me,

-I don't go looking for them.

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-Mrs Jones charges 50

-for 15 minutes in her company...

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-..or 70 for 30 minutes

-and 120 for an hour.

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-While we're talking,

-one of her regulars calls.

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-Drive over and text or call me.

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-It should be fine.

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-It's time to get ready

-for her first client of the day.

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-Right, I'm ready for work.

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-Wow!

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-It's a bit different

-to what you wore earlier.

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-Look the part.

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-Look the part.

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-Yes, obviously.

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-While Mrs Jones

-is at work in her bedroom...

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-..I stay out of the way

-in the living room...

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-..until she, and he, have finished.

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-Alright, Mrs Jones?

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-How long was I? Ten minutes?

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-Yes, ten or 15 minutes.

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-And a tip!

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-Within 15 minutes,

-her next client is at the door.

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-Come on through,

-you know where to go.

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-There you go.

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-What about your friends and family?

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-Do they know?

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-Do they know?

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-No.

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-That's what I enjoy most.

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-It gives me a real buzz,

-living a secret life.

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-Really? So, none of your family

-knows that you do this work.

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-The boys are at work all day.

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-Your sons?

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-Your sons?

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-Yes.

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-The family's out.

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-No-one knows I'm home.

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-So, you do actually

-live a double life?

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-Yes, that's the attraction.

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-You get a fantastic buzz

-from living a double life.

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-Before you did this,

-you were a teacher.

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-That's very different.

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-It is different, superficially.

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-But people think that women like me

-are some kind of sex slaves.

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-Well, I was a teaching slave.

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-There's no slaving here.

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-I'm completely in control.

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-It's my choice.

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-I choose when I work...

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-..I choose what I do.

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-And if I want two weeks off,

-I get them.

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-I pay my taxes.

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-I'm not doing anything wrong.

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-It's just other people

-that can't accept what I do.

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-I can.

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-I'm not ashamed at all.

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-It doesn't bother you.

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-It doesn't bother you.

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-No, I'm doing a job, full stop.

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-After the break,

-the dark side of the sex industry.

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-With hidden camera evidence,

-I confront the men...

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-..who demand more than rent money

-for a place to live.

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-Cardiff is constantly growing.

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-New flats and buildings

-are being built all the time...

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-..to house those who move here

-from all over Wales and beyond.

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-But some take advantage of those

-seeking a roof over their heads...

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-..by offering accommodation

-for sexual favours.

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-A new phenomenon

-called sex for rent.

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-Such accommodation is apparently

-being offered in South Wales...

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-..on the website Craigslist.

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-Sian, a member of our team,

-kept an eye on the website.

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-This is incredible. "Rent greatly

-reduced in return for favours."

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-It's quite clear what he wants.

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-Then this one.

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-"I'm looking for a single attractive

-female to occupy a room. No males."

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-I contacted many of them,

-but one was more keen than the rest.

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-This man was offering accommodation

-in a flat for 650 per month.

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-But the ad contained the wording

-"Reduced deposit/rent arrangement...

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-"..for alternative payments

-negotiable."

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-Before long, he explained just what

-he meant by "alternative payments."

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-It's here in black and white.

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-"We could have a FWB arrangement."

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-That's friends with benefits. Wow!

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-"Which would be

-effectively rent free...

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-"..if you wanted

-to really save your money."

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-Initially, he was suspicious.

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-He asked Sian, or Abi,

-as he knew her...

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-..to send him photos

-to satisfy him that she was serious.

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-The 46-year-old man was then happy

-to meet for a coffee.

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-In order to gather evidence

-of the arrangement being offered...

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-..Sian met him in a bar,

-wearing a hidden camera.

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-How often do you

-want to sleep with me?

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-You tell me what you're looking for.

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-If we go ahead with our friends

-with benefits arrangement...

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-..does that mean it's rent free?

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-According to

-the Ministry of Justice...

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-..such an arrangement is illegal

-under the 2003 Sexual Offences Act.

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-An offence is committed...

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-..by offering accommodation

-in return for sex...

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-..and encouraging or causing someone

-to operate as a prostitute.

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-After Sian had gathered

-the necessary evidence on camera...

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-..she left the bar.

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-But I was around the corner

-waiting for the man.

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-You've been essentially

-taking advantage of her.

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-You've offered her

-a place to live for sex.

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-Is that true?

-Do you know that's against the law?

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-Any comment?

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-It's called sex for rent,

-I'm sure you're aware of that.

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-That's exactly what you wanted,

-sex for rent.

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-You had correspondence

-with our journalist.

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-You sent over 60 emails.

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-You've got nothing to say!

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-Nothing to say?

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-You had plenty to say

-to Abi, didn't you?

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-That's it, he's gone...

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-..without saying a word.

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-He's had plenty to say to Sian

-for the past two weeks...

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-..but not one word tonight.

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-But he did tell Sian

-that if they had sex once a week...

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-..then she could stay

-at his home rent free.

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-Within a couple of hours,

-he emailed...

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-..begging us not to broadcast

-the evidence we had gathered.

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-"I should have trusted my gut

-and not done this.

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-"I'm such a fool, but this will ruin

-everything I have left everywhere.

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-"I have absolutely no intention of

-even considering doing this again.

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-"Tonight has given me a reality

-check and I'm ashamed of myself.

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-"Please don't expose me

-for a monster."

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-The next day, he emailed again,

-wanting to admit everything.

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-He said the only house he owns...

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-..is the one in which he lives

-with his wife and children.

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-That he couldn't have offered

-accommodation even had he wanted to.

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-And that he was conducting his own

-investigation on Craigslist...

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-..after reading

-about such arrangements online.

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-I went to meet Dawn Bowden,

-AM for Merthyr Tydfil and Rhymney.

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-She has already voiced concerns

-about such adverts.

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-I wanted her opinion

-about what we had found out.

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-It's almost like he's offering her

-a service, isn't it?

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-That this is to her benefit. Gosh.

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-Sex for rent came onto her radar

-when a local housing association...

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-..said that such adverts

-existed in South Wales.

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-It was primarily women being

-targeted, that we could identify.

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-Some men had also been targeted.

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-But the common denominator in all

-of them, they were vulnerable.

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-Yes, exactly.

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-Predators.

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-She raised her fears

-in the Senedd...

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-..and asked for a measure

-to ban such adverts in Wales.

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-We were told that because

-there was no money changing hands...

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-..that in effect,

-there was no prostitution.

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-We've now got an assurance

-from the Home Office...

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-..that, actually,

-this type of behaviour...

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-..would be an offence

-under the Sexual Offences Act.

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-But what about those who really do

-find themselves in such a situation?

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-We contacted several people

-who had advertised on Craigslist...

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-..seeking a room for free or willing

-to offer alternative payment.

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-Only one woman responded.

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-She said, "I've had a lot

-of response to the ad...

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-"..but mostly dodgy,

-vile and nasty men.

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-"One guy arranged to meet me...

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-"..then said I had to send

-a picture of my vagina.

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-"If I didn't,

-I couldn't have the room."

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-The next part shocked me more.

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-"I have considered

-going to prison...

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-"..to get me out

-of this homeless situation.

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-"I don't know what else to do."

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-But we also wanted to know

-what response we'd get...

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-..if we posted

-our own advert online.

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-Sian posted this message

-on Craigslist.

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-Before long,

-she had plenty of offers.

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-Within a fortnight,

-I had over 20 responses.

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-From men, mostly?

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-From men, mostly?

-

-They were all from men.

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-What kind of response

-did you get from these men?

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-This was one of them.

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-"Married man

-willing to pay for your bedsit...

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-"..in exchange for fun

-when I desire.

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-One was really suggestive

-from the outset.

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-He sent a photo right away.

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-"I can help you out

-with money for some fun.

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-"I also may have a house

-if things work out between us."

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-We contacted the man via email.

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-He asked for a number

-and more details about Sian...

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-..before starting to send texts.

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-He was more than willing

-to put his cards on the table.

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-I've just seen it.

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-"But I'd want to sample what's on

-offer first, if that's OK with you."

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-The next day, Sian donned

-the hidden camera once again.

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-She went to meet him for a coffee.

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-We wanted evidence on camera

-of what he was prepared to offer.

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-What can you offer with your house?

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-What do you want?

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-He clearly felt a bit nervous,

-whispering and moving closer.

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-He was right to worry,

-because more members of our team...

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-..were at the next table,

-filming everything.

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-And in terms like, rent-wise?

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-I'm just looking for somewhere

-to live, more than anything.

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-Her own key? Fair play to him.

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-She can come and go as she pleases.

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-I am skint...

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-Of course, Sian had no intention

-of taking him home to have fun.

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-But we were happy

-to have some fun with him.

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-My name's Sion Jenkins.

-I'm a reporter for S4C.

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-I want to ask

-about what you've been doing.

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-Do you think it's fair

-to take advantage of young girls...

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-..who want a place to stay

-in exchange for sex?

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-You came here

-to sample what's on offer.

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-Do you tend to treat your women

-like cars or tasting menus?

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-Do you know it's against the law?

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-You like oral, apparently?

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-You were willing to offer her

-50 today to have sex.

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-Have you got nothing to say at all?

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-Not a word from him.

-Not one word.

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-But he did say that he was willing

-for Sian to stay with him...

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-..if she had sex with him

-twice a week.

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-Now, he has fled.

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-Since then, the man

-has sent us several emails...

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-..begging us

-not to show our evidence.

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-He says that doing so would destroy

-his life and those of his family.

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-"I had led

-a blameless life up to now...

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-"..and have never been

-in any sort of trouble.

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-"My concern is for my wife,

-children and grandchildren...

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-"..whose lives

-will also be changed forever...

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-"..as they all know me

-as a respectable, upright man.

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-"This has had

-a profound impact on my life.

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-"I can assure you, nothing like it

-will ever happen again."

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-I also showed this evidence

-to Dawn Bowden AM.

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-..to get her response to what

-this man was willing to offer.

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-He's going to try her out first.

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-He's going to try her out first.

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-Exactly.

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-What do you think about this?

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-What do you think about this?

-

-It's just appalling, isn't it?

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-Dawn Bowden has already called

-for a law to ban such adverts.

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-We contacted Craigslist to ask

-for their reaction to our findings.

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-They didn't respond.

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-What would you like to see done

-to try and eradicate this problem?

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-As you say, it's under the surface.

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-You've got to get to the point...

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-..where we identify these people

-and they are prosecuted.

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-Once you get a few prosecutions...

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-..that'll give people the confidence

-to come forward and report it.

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-But it is extremely difficult...

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-..if people are in

-absolutely desperate circumstances.

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-They need somewhere to live,

-a roof over their heads...

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-..and for some people, this is

-the only way they can get it.

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-Sex for rent is a new phenomenon.

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-There have been no prosecutions

-for the offence yet.

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-But our research shows

-there are men out there...

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-..who are ready to take advantage

-of girls in need...

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-..and to offer them accommodation

-in return for sexual favours.

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-Who knows, there may be some people

-living under such conditions...

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-..in our capital city today.

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-My look at the sex industry

-has been an eye-opener in many ways.

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-It's much more than the stereotype

-of women walking the streets.

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-It goes on in houses and flats

-across the UK.

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-While some seem happy

-to sell their bodies...

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-..others are drawn into its darker

-side, and are being exploited.

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