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US officials say that some senior members of the Colonel Gaddafi | :00:09. | :00:16. | |
leadership were in a convoy heading to Niger. | :00:16. | :00:20. | |
There have been fresh allegations surrounding the circumstances of | :00:20. | :00:25. | |
the release of the Lockerbie bomber. It has been claimed that his | :00:25. | :00:29. | |
release was discussed with the British Government and linked to a | :00:29. | :00:38. | |
contract with the oil company BP. The transferor detainee is to some | :00:38. | :00:43. | |
Afghan jails has been suspended following allegations of torture. A | :00:43. | :00:47. | |
report says prisoners have been subjected to abuse, including being | :00:47. | :00:57. | |
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beaten and given electric shocks. Those are the headlines. | :01:03. | :01:09. | |
Now it is time for HARDtalk. Should the law ever give one human being | :01:09. | :01:14. | |
the right to kill another? That is the question at the heart | :01:14. | :01:18. | |
of this special edition of HARDtalk, which comes from the home of Tony | :01:18. | :01:21. | |
and Jane Nicklinson. Tony is completely paralysed - he wants to | :01:21. | :01:31. | |
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die. Jane wants to help him. Currently, British law stands in | :01:35. | :01:39. | |
their way. If Tony were to be killed, would it be murder or | :01:39. | :01:49. | |
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mercy? Tony and Jane Nicklinson were | :01:57. | :02:05. | |
married 25 years ago. Six years ago their world was changed forever. | :02:05. | :02:13. | |
Tony suffered a massive stroke at the age of 52. He survived, just, | :02:13. | :02:19. | |
but was completely paralysed. The only movement he can control is in | :02:19. | :02:22. | |
his eyes and his blinking but his brain and ability to think are | :02:22. | :02:32. | |
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unimpaired. Letter...I...letter...A. Tony communicates using his eyes | :02:46. | :02:50. | |
and blinks to pick out letters on a board. It is slow and, for him, | :02:50. | :02:53. | |
deeply frustrating. Having lived like this for six years, he has had | :02:53. | :02:57. | |
enough. He wants to die. As he cannot kill himself, he wants | :02:57. | :03:00. | |
someone else to end his life for him. Right now, that would be | :03:00. | :03:04. | |
called murder. Tony and Jane want British law changed to give him the | :03:04. | :03:07. | |
right to die. Using a specially adapted computer, Tony explains to | :03:07. | :03:10. | |
me his motivation. Tony Nicklinson, welcome to HARDtalk. I want to ask | :03:11. | :03:20. | |
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you the most basic question of all. Why do you want to die? At the | :03:21. | :03:25. | |
moment I want to die because I can see the future being worse for me | :03:25. | :03:31. | |
than it is now. I fear the next 20 years also with trepidation. I | :03:31. | :03:41. | |
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think this is as good as it gets and it is downhill from here. If I | :04:01. | :04:05. | |
knew the comfort of suicide was available, who knows, I might not | :04:05. | :04:09. | |
want to take my life. What I know is that not having a plan causes me | :04:09. | :04:13. | |
anguish that the people who oppose me do not understand. I am fed like | :04:13. | :04:17. | |
a baby with baby food, cannot do anything for myself and everything | :04:17. | :04:21. | |
is a matter of routine. I will live like this for the rest of my life | :04:21. | :04:25. | |
so is it any wonder I am not enthusiastic about living? You want | :04:25. | :04:29. | |
somebody else to be given the legal right to kill you. Would that not | :04:29. | :04:31. | |
create an extraordinarily dangerous precedent, particularly for the | :04:31. | :04:35. | |
most vulnerable disabled people? course it is dangerous if it is not | :04:35. | :04:40. | |
subscribe to the idea that just because it is difficult we should | :04:40. | :04:44. | |
not do it. There are plenty of examples around the world where it | :04:44. | :04:47. | |
has been done successfully and we can look to them for guidance. I | :04:47. | :04:51. | |
have devised a scheme that shows promise so that if I go, anybody | :04:51. | :05:01. | |
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can. I do not say it is easy, just possible. Pro-lifers often say this | :05:04. | :05:08. | |
would open the floodgates. Nonsense. Do you really believe that the non- | :05:08. | :05:13. | |
disabled, who can legally commit suicide... This is Tony before his | :05:13. | :05:17. | |
stroke - an active sportsman, a bit of an adventurer and proud father | :05:17. | :05:20. | |
of two daughters. Now Jane and a team of helpers have to do | :05:20. | :05:30. | |
everything for him. 24 hours a day, seven days a week. He is not | :05:30. | :05:33. | |
terminally ill but despite the love in this home he is terminally fed | :05:33. | :05:37. | |
up with his life. That is something that Jane Nicklinson has to live | :05:37. | :05:46. | |
with. Jane Nicklinson, welcome to to me his despair, his sense of | :05:46. | :05:54. | |
hopelessness. How hard is it for you to deal with your own husband | :05:54. | :06:04. | |
saying that sort of thing? It is very hard. It is not unexpected. | :06:04. | :06:08. | |
From the day he was taken ill, we knew what the prognosis was and the | :06:08. | :06:13. | |
day would come that this is what he would want. That is the kind of | :06:13. | :06:17. | |
person he is. You sort of get used to it in a way. We have been | :06:17. | :06:21. | |
thinking about Tony's death for the last six years. It does not make it | :06:21. | :06:29. | |
easier but you get used to it. his despair deepened over time? In | :06:29. | :06:37. | |
the very early days, I do not think he was aware of the prognosis. | :06:37. | :06:41. | |
was one of the first things he said to me when he started using his | :06:41. | :06:51. | |
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communication board. I do not think it has gotten worse. It was bad | :06:52. | :06:57. | |
from the word go. Tony says he wishes he had not been saved by the | :06:57. | :07:01. | |
doctors those six years ago when he had that terrible stroke. Do you | :07:01. | :07:09. | |
say the same thing? Do you wish the doctors had not saved him? That's | :07:09. | :07:15. | |
tricky. Yes and no. At the time when it happened, my daughters were | :07:15. | :07:25. | |
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with me and we all said we do not want to live like this. It is a | :07:31. | :07:34. | |
terrible thing to say but, yes, I wish the doctors hadn't saved him. | :07:34. | :07:39. | |
If we have a good day, maybe not but if it is what he wants it is | :07:39. | :07:44. | |
what I want. We have a little sense of how you and Tony live your daily | :07:44. | :07:47. | |
lives. What are the biggest frustrations for Tony in his daily | :07:47. | :07:50. | |
life? His biggest frustration is not being able to to communicate. | :07:50. | :07:54. | |
He always said if he could speak it would not be so difficult. It is | :07:54. | :07:57. | |
just everything is total frustration for him. For him and | :07:57. | :08:04. | |
also for you. In a different way for me. For him it is day-to-day | :08:04. | :08:14. | |
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life, getting up, eating. For me it is frustrating because seeing him | :08:18. | :08:23. | |
like this, what life has become for us... What I am getting at... We | :08:23. | :08:28. | |
will get to the legal issues in a minute. It is strange to talk about | :08:28. | :08:32. | |
Tony when he is right here with us. Tony clearly believes his life has | :08:32. | :08:36. | |
been ruined. The question for you is whether you believe your life | :08:36. | :08:46. | |
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has been ruined too? I suppose so, yes. I cannot say no because it has. | :08:48. | :08:58. | |
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We had so many dreams of the things we were going to do. Yeah. (CRIES). | :08:58. | :09:04. | |
This gets more and more difficult. Therefore, it would be better for | :09:04. | :09:10. | |
you if Tony were to die, to use that right to die. I do not want | :09:10. | :09:15. | |
him to die. There is no way that I want him to die. I see what his | :09:15. | :09:23. | |
life is. Maybe I do want him to die, not at the moment but the time will | :09:23. | :09:30. | |
come when he has had enough of life. OK, if it is what he wants then | :09:30. | :09:36. | |
that is fine. Let's talk about the legal issues. Right now, of course, | :09:36. | :09:39. | |
given his disabilities, Tony does not have the option of taking his | :09:39. | :09:47. | |
own life. He cannot do that. If someone was to help him, that would | :09:47. | :09:52. | |
be murder. Is it your and Tony's wish to fundamentally change the | :09:52. | :10:01. | |
law? If I help Tony to die I would be charged with murder. It would be | :10:01. | :10:05. | |
no different if I killed someone in cold blood. We want the law | :10:05. | :10:09. | |
changing. So-called mercy killings should be treated differently. A | :10:09. | :10:15. | |
change in the law on murder - that is what we are after. That is a | :10:15. | :10:21. | |
really profound change, isn't it? You are saying the law would in | :10:21. | :10:25. | |
some way have to create an avenue for somebody to be allowed to take | :10:25. | :10:29. | |
another person's life. Given our tradition of war, our notions about | :10:29. | :10:32. | |
the sanctity of life, it would be extraordinarily difficult and a | :10:32. | :10:42. | |
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radical thing to do. How do you think it would be done? I am not | :10:42. | :10:46. | |
sure where we are going for now. It is in the pipeline and we are | :10:46. | :10:50. | |
discussing it with our solicitors. They feel we do have a case. Why | :10:50. | :10:54. | |
should Tony be denied the right to take his own life? It is what he | :10:54. | :10:58. | |
wants and what he is asking for. There should be some system in | :10:58. | :11:04. | |
place. We are not saying it should be legalised point blank, going out | :11:04. | :11:12. | |
and killing someone and say, they told me they wanted to die. There | :11:12. | :11:22. | |
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would have to be a stringent procedure in place. You and Tony | :11:23. | :11:27. | |
have talked about this in detail. You would have to. Would you be the | :11:27. | :11:34. | |
one to end his life? I think so, yes. I want to be the one to do it. | :11:34. | :11:39. | |
He does not want me to. He wants to make it legal for other people to | :11:39. | :11:44. | |
do it so I do not have to. He wants me to give him a sedative and then | :11:44. | :11:48. | |
someone else come in and give him the euthanasia so I would not have | :11:48. | :11:53. | |
to do it and he would not have to see me. You would have to have a | :11:53. | :11:59. | |
doctor's agreement to be involved. Doctors have made it plain time and | :11:59. | :12:02. | |
time again they will not countenance being involved in the | :12:02. | :12:09. | |
explicit taking of life in this way. It would not necessarily have to be | :12:09. | :12:15. | |
a doctor. I could do it. I think I could. I have been asked this so | :12:15. | :12:23. | |
many times. I think I could do it. I am sure there are doctors out | :12:23. | :12:30. | |
there that would come forward. argument against it is that it | :12:30. | :12:33. | |
opens up an extraordinarily dangerous precedent, that if it | :12:33. | :12:35. | |
becomes, in certain situations, legal to kill the disabled, the | :12:35. | :12:38. | |
most vulnerable in our society, that very soon some vulnerable | :12:38. | :12:42. | |
people may feel that almost they are obliged to take the option of | :12:42. | :12:52. | |
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choosing death. Not if there was some sort of scheme in place. It | :12:56. | :13:02. | |
would obviously have to be very carefully thought out. There would | :13:02. | :13:07. | |
have to be a process you would have to go through to be able to do it. | :13:07. | :13:10. | |
Tony has devised a scheme of his own. Whether it is that was | :13:10. | :13:15. | |
something similar, it would have to be carefully thought. If there can | :13:15. | :13:20. | |
be a way for it to be done, why can anyone else take their life but | :13:20. | :13:24. | |
Tony cannot? He knows what he wants to do but he physically cannot do | :13:24. | :13:31. | |
it. You say he knows what he wants to do. Another argument from those | :13:31. | :13:36. | |
in the religious community and others is that minds can be changed. | :13:36. | :13:44. | |
Tony could change his mind. Have you discounted that? You could say | :13:44. | :13:47. | |
that about straightforward suicide. Suicide is legal for able-bodied | :13:47. | :13:51. | |
people. Their minds could be changed if things were different. | :13:52. | :13:58. | |
Why is ordinary suicide legal? relatives of suicide victims would | :13:59. | :14:03. | |
say, if only I had that opportunity to talk them out of it, to make the | :14:03. | :14:07. | |
case that it was the wrong option to take. If only, I might have | :14:07. | :14:11. | |
saved them. Because Tony cannot do it for himself, society, starting | :14:11. | :14:17. | |
with you, has that option to try and persuade him. He has been like | :14:17. | :14:21. | |
this for six years and he has not changed his mind yet. Who knows, in | :14:21. | :14:29. | |
the future? That is life, isn't it? I know Tony, for example, using his | :14:29. | :14:35. | |
computer, is writing his memoirs. You have described how he is | :14:35. | :14:37. | |
enjoying that process of remembering his past life, writing | :14:38. | :14:43. | |
about it, some of the adventures you two had together. That suggests | :14:43. | :14:48. | |
to me that there is still a way to get some enjoyment out of life and | :14:48. | :14:52. | |
that seems important. It is not enough, though, is it? It is not | :14:52. | :14:59. | |
enough for him. He wants to say something. Can I do it? Yes, of | :14:59. | :15:05. | |
course. Letter 'W', letter 'H'... (CONTINUES SPELLING) What... If... | :15:05. | :15:15. | |
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Apology for the loss of subtitles for 40 seconds | :15:15. | :15:55. | |
What... I... Feel... Is... Not... The... Same... As... Ordinary? I | :15:55. | :15:59. | |
think I know what you are saying. The reason why Tony wants to commit | :15:59. | :16:03. | |
suicide cannot be solved. This is as good as life is ever going to be | :16:03. | :16:08. | |
for him. An argument made by those who oppose the kind of legal | :16:09. | :16:12. | |
changes you want to see is that palliative care can make your life | :16:12. | :16:18. | |
better. There are ways in which care can improve the quality of | :16:18. | :16:28. | |
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your life. Is it too late for that now? We have had specialists here. | :16:32. | :16:36. | |
There is nothing really. Everyone is different. We all have different | :16:36. | :16:40. | |
expectations from life. If you knew Tony before, he is an ex-rugby | :16:40. | :16:43. | |
player, life of the party, adventurer, we travelled around the | :16:43. | :16:47. | |
world, he was good at his job. All the things he loved about life he | :16:47. | :16:53. | |
cannot do. I just wonder how far you are prepared to go, the two of | :16:53. | :17:02. | |
you, when it comes to see him through this wish to die. After we | :17:02. | :17:06. | |
see through the court case, the only option Tony has is to starve | :17:06. | :17:16. | |
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You are referring to the fact it is legal to assist suicide in | :17:21. | :17:27. | |
Switzerland. Could Dignitas create a system where it could be an | :17:27. | :17:34. | |
assisted suicide? I have been in touch with them and what they said | :17:34. | :17:42. | |
they could set up a system and he could operate it with a switch. | :17:42. | :17:46. | |
question is, if that is a possibility, of course it would | :17:46. | :17:49. | |
take money, if that is a possibility, why spend so much time | :17:49. | :17:59. | |
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and effort going through the British courts? Everything I have | :18:00. | :18:03. | |
seen in the court papers, from traditional verdicts in the past to | :18:03. | :18:07. | |
the words of judges, it suggests it is highly unlikely they will modify | :18:07. | :18:11. | |
the law on murder. Tony does not see why he should go to Switzerland | :18:11. | :18:15. | |
to die. He wants to die at home with his family around him, not in | :18:15. | :18:18. | |
some strange country. The journey itself would be incredibly | :18:18. | :18:24. | |
traumatic for him. Why should he have to? I asked you some very | :18:24. | :18:27. | |
sensitive questions about your feelings about Tony's death and | :18:27. | :18:30. | |
whether, to be brutal about it, if Tony's end would be a release for | :18:31. | :18:40. | |
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you. That raises the issue of vested interests from those around | :18:43. | :18:52. | |
somebody who is suffering, as Tony is. Can you see the danger is there | :18:52. | :18:56. | |
that it might come to a point where, if the laws you wanted are passed, | :18:56. | :18:59. | |
family members, others with an interest, they could be persuading | :18:59. | :19:07. | |
vulnerable people to end their lives? I am sure that happens with | :19:07. | :19:17. | |
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ordinary suicide cases. Ordinary suicide is not illegal. I am sure | :19:20. | :19:23. | |
people are coerced into committing suicide. It could happen. What | :19:23. | :19:26. | |
safeguards could you imagine to prevent it? The systems must be | :19:26. | :19:32. | |
added to deal with that. I think that Tony has come up with the idea | :19:32. | :19:36. | |
that the judge would have to be involved at every stage of the | :19:36. | :19:39. | |
process and there would be months and months of a cooling-off period | :19:39. | :19:42. | |
between an initial decision to allow the death and the actual | :19:42. | :19:48. | |
implementation of that decision. Do you really believe that would be | :19:48. | :19:54. | |
enough? I think so, yes. We all know what the pitfalls are and | :19:54. | :19:59. | |
hopefully this system would be able to prevent those. Tony's life is | :19:59. | :20:09. | |
hell, basically. He is being forced to live it. It is like a form of | :20:09. | :20:14. | |
torture, you could say. There has to be a way that something could be | :20:14. | :20:20. | |
sorted out. Each case has to be taken on its on merit. There are | :20:20. | :20:24. | |
indications that the British public has a great deal of sympathy with | :20:24. | :20:27. | |
many of the arguments you are making and, in the past, when there | :20:27. | :20:31. | |
have been deaths which have been associated with this idea of mercy | :20:31. | :20:34. | |
killing, jurors have tended to show sympathy for those behind those | :20:34. | :20:44. | |
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killings in their verdicts. Does that make you consider the | :20:47. | :20:50. | |
possibility of ignoring the law, in essence taking the law into your | :20:51. | :20:58. | |
own hands, and relying on the sympathy of a jury? That is a big | :20:58. | :21:04. | |
risk to take. As much as I love him, I am not sure if I am prepared to | :21:04. | :21:09. | |
spend time in prison. He would not let me do it. It would have to be | :21:09. | :21:15. | |
legal. I have got my children to think about. No, I could not do | :21:15. | :21:25. | |
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that. Have you talked about it? has always made it very clear from | :21:27. | :21:32. | |
the word go that there is no way he would let me do it because he would | :21:32. | :21:37. | |
not want to risk it. I admire people that can do it. I know there | :21:37. | :21:41. | |
have been some quite high profile cases recently. It takes a lot of | :21:41. | :21:51. | |
guts to be able to do something like that. I personally could not. | :21:51. | :21:58. | |
I wonder how some people would respond to this. You are a full- | :21:58. | :22:01. | |
time carer, it dominates your life, you talk about your daughters, they | :22:01. | :22:11. | |
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want to see their father but what do they say to you? They are 100% | :22:16. | :22:22. | |
behind everything that we're doing. When we have talked about just | :22:22. | :22:26. | |
doing it and breaking the law, they were horrified to think that I | :22:26. | :22:34. | |
would even think about doing it. It is hard for them. It is very hard | :22:34. | :22:39. | |
for them. They fully understand what their dad was like. They know | :22:39. | :22:43. | |
what he was like before he was taken ill. He was a total | :22:43. | :22:48. | |
embarrassment! But, they are totally behind us. You have the | :22:48. | :22:52. | |
look of a wife who has lived the life with someone, loved someone, | :22:52. | :22:56. | |
been with them for your adult life - in the course of this interview, | :22:56. | :23:00. | |
I get a strong sense of a bond between you and Tony, yet, all of | :23:00. | :23:10. | |
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our conversation's been about how to end his life. For you, you are | :23:17. | :23:27. | |
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in an impossible position. I could be totally selfish and want him to | :23:28. | :23:34. | |
carry on living but that would be selfish. I have got to do what he | :23:34. | :23:40. | |
wants to do. I support him and I have to. If I did not support him | :23:40. | :23:44. | |
when he needed me to support him, just the practicalities of that, I | :23:44. | :23:47. | |
do support him and this is very hard but you're constantly talking | :23:47. | :23:54. | |
about how your husband is going to die. We have been living with it | :23:54. | :24:01. | |
for six years. It does become easier. The final thought, you are | :24:01. | :24:05. | |
living in a very personal way with this but you're also dealing with | :24:05. | :24:08. | |
the system, whether it is the legal system, politicians, the health | :24:08. | :24:10. | |
service, doctors, ethicists, frankly, at the moment, nobody | :24:10. | :24:20. | |
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wants to offer you what you really want. Everything that has happened | :24:29. | :24:34. | |
with the legal case up until now has not been unexpected. It is what | :24:34. | :24:40. | |
we have been expecting all the time. It is what happens from now that is | :24:41. | :24:46. | |
important. We knew that this would probably be the outcome. They don't | :24:46. | :24:51. | |
feel that we have a case. We knew that was going to happen. It is | :24:51. | :24:55. | |
interesting to see what happens from now on. What that will be, I | :24:55. | :25:00. | |
do not know yet. Have you got the strength to carry on with his | :25:00. | :25:07. | |
caring? Yes, definitely. I think he quite enjoys it in a way, don't | :25:07. | :25:12. | |
you? Jane Nicklinson ,and Tony as well, thank you both for being on | :25:12. | :25:22. | |
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It is a very wet and windy day. Today should be a bit better than | :25:42. | :25:45. | |
yesterday. There will still be some showers around and it will be | :25:45. | :25:50. | |
fairly breezy for many. Some blustery winds still blowing. There | :25:50. | :25:54. | |
will be some showers, mainly across western and northern parts of the | :25:54. | :25:59. | |
UK. It is in the north and the west where we will see the showers | :26:00. | :26:03. | |
through the first part of the morning. The south and east could | :26:03. | :26:07. | |
get away with some brightness. Some sunny skies across the south of | :26:07. | :26:13. | |
Wales, but in the north, it will be fairly cloudy. There will be a | :26:13. | :26:16. | |
scattering of showers across Northern Ireland, with little if | :26:16. | :26:20. | |
any brightness. The showers will also be there across northern and | :26:20. | :26:24. | |
western parts of Scotland, but further east, it could be a bit | :26:24. | :26:29. | |
drier. Temperatures in the morning about ten degrees. As we head down | :26:29. | :26:33. | |
across northern England, showers will be gathering across the north- | :26:33. | :26:38. | |
west, one or two mate sneak across the Pennines. There will be some | :26:38. | :26:42. | |
fine weather across the south and east of England, even some pockets | :26:42. | :26:49. | |
of sunshine. The winds still fairly brisk. A similar story as we move | :26:49. | :26:53. | |
down towards the south-west. A largely dry start but fairly breezy. | :26:53. | :26:57. | |
As the day goes on, we will continue to see the showers have | :26:57. | :27:02. | |
been blown in on the wind. They will be concentrated across the | :27:02. | :27:06. | |
northern part of the UK. That is not to say we will not see a few | :27:06. | :27:10. | |
getting across to the more southern and eastern parts. But on the whole, | :27:10. | :27:16. | |
many places here will be drier. Dr M Bridges Of the Day in the south- | :27:16. | :27:21. | |
east, 18-19 -- top temperatures of the day. The show was will continue | :27:22. | :27:28. | |
to gang together into some longer spells of rain. The rain could be | :27:28. | :27:32. | |
fairly relentless for a while across Northern Ireland, north-west | :27:32. | :27:37. | |
England and North Wales. It will be a bit drier to the north of | :27:37. | :27:42. | |
Scotland and the south of England. A mild night when stay in to | :27:42. | :27:47. | |
Thursday, but a little bit cheerier. For Thursday itself, we had the | :27:47. | :27:51. | |
weather front draped across the UK, bringing some further rain across | :27:51. | :27:55. | |
some central and southern parts, especially as the rain its -- | :27:55. | :27:59. | |
starts to push northwards. Temperatures rising slightly. By | :27:59. | :28:04. |