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Today on The Big Questions, standing up to Russia, the right to know | :00:08. | :00:14. | |
about a partner's violent past, and being the child of a fundamentalist. | :00:15. | :00:32. | |
Good morning. I'm Nicky Campbell. Welcome to The Big Questions. Today, | :00:33. | :00:39. | |
we are live from Michaelston Community College in Cardiff. | :00:40. | :00:42. | |
Welcome to our audience and welcome to everybody! Next Sunday, the | :00:43. | :00:49. | |
people of Crimea will vote on whether they want to remain part of | :00:50. | :00:52. | |
the Ukraine or to join Russia. In just two weeks, Ukraine has changed | :00:53. | :00:57. | |
from being a country about to sign and Association agreement with the | :00:58. | :01:01. | |
EU to one which may lose not only Crimea, but also its eastern | :01:02. | :01:04. | |
territories to its powerful neighbour. 20 years ago, the UK, the | :01:05. | :01:09. | |
USA and Russia are all signed an agreement which guaranteed | :01:10. | :01:14. | |
Ukraine's current borders, in return for them giving up nuclear weapons. | :01:15. | :01:17. | |
America has sent fighter jets Poland and is talking tough about economic | :01:18. | :01:22. | |
sanctions. But some commentators have said it is the worst crisis | :01:23. | :01:27. | |
since the end of the Cold War, or since the 1962 Cuban missile crisis, | :01:28. | :01:33. | |
or even since Hitler's annexation of the Sudetenland in 1938. Our | :01:34. | :01:35. | |
government stopped Prince Edward from attending the Paralympics | :01:36. | :01:41. | |
opening ceremony in Sochi. They are thinking about placing visa | :01:42. | :01:44. | |
restrictions on some of the wealthy Russian oligarchs in large parts of | :01:45. | :01:47. | |
London and seizing some of their assets, unless it upsets the City. | :01:48. | :01:52. | |
We heard from William Hague on the Andrew Marr programme that | :01:53. | :01:56. | |
ultimately, energy may be one of the sanctions considered. Is it our | :01:57. | :02:00. | |
moral duty to stand up to Russia? Sir Graham Watson, MEP, you have | :02:01. | :02:08. | |
used those words, 1938, in this context. Explain that? I think it is | :02:09. | :02:13. | |
our moral duty to stand up to Russia. What is happening is | :02:14. | :02:18. | |
equivalent to Hitler's annexation of the Sudetenland in 1938. Putin is | :02:19. | :02:24. | |
trying to exercise what he considers to be his right to intervene | :02:25. | :02:28. | |
militarily in what would once upon a time have been described as | :02:29. | :02:32. | |
Russia's sphere of influence. At the world has moved on. You can't do | :02:33. | :02:38. | |
that. In doing so, Putin is abrogating a number of agreements, | :02:39. | :02:42. | |
not only the Budapest agreement from 1994, but also his commitments to | :02:43. | :02:45. | |
the Council of Europe conventions and so on. We must defend the | :02:46. | :02:51. | |
Ukrainians. Ukraine is a unitary state, and must be defended. Go in? | :02:52. | :02:58. | |
What does that mean? Well, it starts with where we are, what the European | :02:59. | :03:04. | |
Union agreed on Thursday, which was that we have already stopped talks | :03:05. | :03:08. | |
with Russia towards a new EU- Russia agreement and the talks on visa | :03:09. | :03:11. | |
liberalisation. We have said but unless Putin withdraws his troops to | :03:12. | :03:19. | |
basis, we will take targeted sanctions against individual | :03:20. | :03:23. | |
Russians, which is difficult for Putin to bear, because they hold a | :03:24. | :03:27. | |
lot of assets in western Europe and other places. There are lots of very | :03:28. | :03:32. | |
wealthy Russians around. Moreover, the European Union has said that if | :03:33. | :03:37. | |
Russia destabilises Crimea even further, there will be far reaching | :03:38. | :03:41. | |
economic and political consequences. I think it is right not to define | :03:42. | :03:47. | |
that to precisely, but it may have to involve military action. Nobody | :03:48. | :03:52. | |
wants that. Military action? Nobody wants it. With Russia? What are you | :03:53. | :04:03. | |
talking about? This is precisely the question being asked. Can you | :04:04. | :04:06. | |
intervene militarily if you have to? If so, how do you do so? Nobody is | :04:07. | :04:11. | |
arguing that we are going to fight a ground war against Russia? I hope it | :04:12. | :04:16. | |
will not come to that, because I believe we have enough power to | :04:17. | :04:18. | |
bring the Russians to the negotiating table without military | :04:19. | :04:23. | |
action. Professor Geoffrey Pridham, should all cards be on the table? | :04:24. | :04:29. | |
Even military? I agree, that should be the ultimate option. But we | :04:30. | :04:34. | |
should try everything else. There are economic sanctions, and also | :04:35. | :04:40. | |
propaganda. But in's began the towards the West at the moment is | :04:41. | :04:43. | |
pretty hard, and we should respond equally. We need a combination of | :04:44. | :04:49. | |
firmness plus diplomacy. The military action is behind all that. | :04:50. | :04:54. | |
If all else fails, you can never say you will not use the military | :04:55. | :04:57. | |
action, because that gives Putin an extra card to play with. You have | :04:58. | :05:02. | |
some support. Jeremy Corbyn, MP, this is worrying. We have a man who | :05:03. | :05:10. | |
has basically breached international treaties and moved into another | :05:11. | :05:14. | |
country. What my colleague was saying seemed to be a recipe for war | :05:15. | :05:18. | |
and incredibly dangerous. I do not support that. You have more support | :05:19. | :05:26. | |
than they did. I do not support Russian military action, and that | :05:27. | :05:29. | |
does have to be a peace process and the process of demilitarisation of | :05:30. | :05:34. | |
Ukraine and sticking to the original non-nuclear agreement. But the | :05:35. | :05:38. | |
hypocrisy of the West is unbelievable on this. Where was the | :05:39. | :05:42. | |
legality on the war in Iraq? Where was the legality on so many of the | :05:43. | :05:45. | |
other interventions made elsewhere? If one reads carefully what all the | :05:46. | :05:53. | |
Ukrainian forces are saying, yes, there is a nasty far right force in | :05:54. | :05:56. | |
Ukraine at the present time which is part of the government. There is | :05:57. | :06:00. | |
also a more live oral grouping in the Ukraine. There is also a large | :06:01. | :06:07. | |
Russian grouping in the Ukraine who clearly have loyalties towards | :06:08. | :06:09. | |
Russia. Does Ukraine break-up? That is a matter for the Ukrainian | :06:10. | :06:13. | |
people. At the idea that we should move the whole thing in rhetoric | :06:14. | :06:16. | |
towards a military war against Russia seems to me a disaster. You | :06:17. | :06:24. | |
mentioned 1938, Sir Graham, and the Nazis. Jeremy Corbyn makes the point | :06:25. | :06:29. | |
that some in the government have been described as Nazis, the Deputy | :06:30. | :06:36. | |
Prime Minister included, in Ukraine. These are not nice people to deal | :06:37. | :06:43. | |
with, are they? There was a law two years ago to introduce Russian as | :06:44. | :06:47. | |
the second official language at a regional level. The new government | :06:48. | :06:52. | |
decided to reverse this. That is now regarded as a mistake in having | :06:53. | :07:00. | |
provoked Putin. I have a feeling that that was one influence behind | :07:01. | :07:04. | |
his action in the Crimea. There are concerns on the Russian side, but | :07:05. | :07:10. | |
Putin has nevertheless broken serious international agreements. | :07:11. | :07:12. | |
The referendum in Crimea is also illegal. The Ukrainian constitution | :07:13. | :07:18. | |
allows referendums across the whole country, not just one region. As to | :07:19. | :07:24. | |
the moral arguments here, I think we are in a potential prewar situation. | :07:25. | :07:30. | |
It is not just about Crimea, it is about European security in general. | :07:31. | :07:34. | |
I have been living in the Baltic states. There is concerned there | :07:35. | :07:39. | |
that there could be a threat exploiting the Russian minorities in | :07:40. | :07:44. | |
those states. You are just back from Latvia. Are they worried there? Very | :07:45. | :07:51. | |
worried. There has been an intense increase in worry over the last ten | :07:52. | :07:54. | |
days. The prime minister made a statement that there was no threat | :07:55. | :07:57. | |
to Latvian security for the moment, she said. That is unambiguous | :07:58. | :08:04. | |
statement. I think we have got ourselves into this problem. Our | :08:05. | :08:07. | |
foreign policy has been a mess since the end of the Cold War. Frank Lee, | :08:08. | :08:11. | |
the EU, pushing ever eastward since the collapse of the Berlin Wall, we | :08:12. | :08:15. | |
have been wooing the Ukrainians to join the EU. Russia thinks we have | :08:16. | :08:23. | |
been encouraging the uprising in Ukraine. When that uprising | :08:24. | :08:26. | |
happened, it made Russian intervention inevitable. There was | :08:27. | :08:32. | |
no way Putin or any Russian leader would allow a major naval base in a | :08:33. | :08:38. | |
potential EU member state. There is also no way he would allow a | :08:39. | :08:43. | |
successful revolution to happen in Ukraine, on Russia's doorstep, when | :08:44. | :08:48. | |
it sets a precedent at home. I take the point about the analogy with | :08:49. | :08:53. | |
Hitler, but he is aligning himself with the interests of the Russian | :08:54. | :08:56. | |
ethnic people. It puzzles me how the West has been blinded by the | :08:57. | :08:59. | |
inevitability of the action that has had. I worry about the potential for | :09:00. | :09:08. | |
military conflict, but we have got ourselves in a situation where we | :09:09. | :09:11. | |
are hooked on Russian gas and Russian cash. We have been cutting | :09:12. | :09:15. | |
our military forces and we are in open session to stand up literally | :09:16. | :09:21. | |
to Russia. -- we are in no position to stand up to them. Dealing with | :09:22. | :09:27. | |
the situation of the naval base, the Crimea was put into the Ukraine by | :09:28. | :09:31. | |
Russia back in 1954 by Khrushchev. The Russians have a lease on that | :09:32. | :09:36. | |
naval base until 2047. Ukrainians have said nothing about terminating | :09:37. | :09:39. | |
the lease. It is clear that they have the right to use that naval | :09:40. | :09:45. | |
base for another 30 years. An Ukraine, I am not sure the European | :09:46. | :09:52. | |
Union has been pushing east, but what we have seen in Ukraine, | :09:53. | :09:56. | |
Georgia, Armenia and a number of other countries, people have been | :09:57. | :10:00. | |
saying, we would like to come closer to the European Union. So is your | :10:01. | :10:06. | |
interpretation of pushing east expanding democracy and civic | :10:07. | :10:08. | |
society and the rule of law? I would say the Ukrainians have been | :10:09. | :10:14. | |
demonstrating in favour of those things, and wanting their own | :10:15. | :10:17. | |
government to sign this new partnership that the Georgians and | :10:18. | :10:24. | |
Moldovans have signed. It was when Viktor Yanukovych pulled out under | :10:25. | :10:27. | |
pressure from Russia last November that there were all the | :10:28. | :10:29. | |
demonstrations in Kiev which led to the overthrow of Yanukovych and a | :10:30. | :10:35. | |
new government. We have to insist to the Ukrainians that they have free | :10:36. | :10:39. | |
and fair elections and elect a new government. But Viktor Yanukovych | :10:40. | :10:44. | |
was democratically elected. There was an agreement to have elections | :10:45. | :10:49. | |
later this year anyway, and there was a strong argument that the | :10:50. | :10:54. | |
removal of Yanukovych was not within the Ukrainian custard you should. Do | :10:55. | :11:02. | |
you think it was legitimate? -- it was not within the Ukrainian | :11:03. | :11:08. | |
constitution. But the wider issue is that the EU has got very close to | :11:09. | :11:14. | |
NATO. NATO has been pushing hard to expand eastwards. Inevitably, Russia | :11:15. | :11:18. | |
will get nervous if NATO sets up places around it orders. That | :11:19. | :11:23. | |
encourages Russian military is. Can't we go back to the point where | :11:24. | :11:27. | |
Ukraine was a nuclear free country that was not going to be a member of | :11:28. | :11:32. | |
any alliance, either with Russia or with NATO, and start to demilitarise | :11:33. | :11:39. | |
the situation and allow a proper debate for people to decide their | :11:40. | :11:44. | |
own future in Ukraine? It seems to me that there is a terrible danger | :11:45. | :11:48. | |
of a rush to a combination of an economic and military war, and | :11:49. | :11:51. | |
goodness knows what the consequences will be. I welcome to the audience | :11:52. | :11:57. | |
in a minute to find out what they think. It is potentially an | :11:58. | :12:03. | |
apocalyptic scenario. Jeffrey, do you want to come back 's eye would | :12:04. | :12:09. | |
point out that the February 21 agreement that Yanukovych side fell | :12:10. | :12:15. | |
flat, because he fled the following day. So that escalated the | :12:16. | :12:21. | |
situation. This was a Ukrainian revolution. Putin does not like it, | :12:22. | :12:28. | |
but it was a revolution which reacted against Yanukovych. Not just | :12:29. | :12:33. | |
against him failing to sign the agreement, but also against his | :12:34. | :12:37. | |
corrupt regime. You could see this in the build-up to the crisis. Would | :12:38. | :12:44. | |
Baroness Ashton go to Greece and support the opponents of the | :12:45. | :12:47. | |
austerity measures there? No, she would not. She is happy to go to | :12:48. | :12:51. | |
Ukraine and join a demonstration where there are fascists present in | :12:52. | :12:54. | |
order to get rid of an elected government there. You can't have it | :12:55. | :13:03. | |
both ways on elected governments. Russia is effect of league -- has | :13:04. | :13:08. | |
effectively annexed Crimea. Putin knew that we would half and puff and | :13:09. | :13:13. | |
that our hands were empty. Are we weak? Yes, and we have got ourselves | :13:14. | :13:17. | |
into that position. We need to get our foreign policy sorted out and be | :13:18. | :13:23. | |
clear on our national interests. He has been able to do this because we | :13:24. | :13:27. | |
are weak. He has a clear view about where he wants to take Russia. I | :13:28. | :13:32. | |
agree, it is scary and nationalistic and expansionist, but we have | :13:33. | :13:37. | |
enabled him to do it because we have nothing in our hand except sanctions | :13:38. | :13:44. | |
and not inviting him to the G-7. Putin has done this because he is | :13:45. | :13:47. | |
weak. It is true that we are weak, and the biggest card Putin has is | :13:48. | :13:52. | |
Russian oil and gas and our dangerous dependence on it. I hope | :13:53. | :13:56. | |
that if one thing comes out of this, it is that we start to develop | :13:57. | :13:59. | |
alternatives. We do a lot of trade with them. We have a lot of energy, | :14:00. | :14:05. | |
we have all that Russian money in London and other places. So anything | :14:06. | :14:09. | |
we do will be cutting off our nose to spite our face. I would not say | :14:10. | :14:14. | |
anything we do, but certain things could of course be damaging to both | :14:15. | :14:20. | |
sides. But Putin is increasingly isolated in Russia, and he is | :14:21. | :14:25. | |
playing to the gallery back home. He is playing the populist card. I | :14:26. | :15:29. | |
would go back to Churchill. In some ways, that interdependency stops us | :15:30. | :15:41. | |
fighting. It ought to. It didn't in 1914, and I am surprised that | :15:42. | :15:47. | |
parallels are being drawn historically. But one of the | :15:48. | :15:51. | |
parallels is not being drawn, which is that with 1914. After 1945, there | :15:52. | :16:00. | |
was the creation of an effective international organisation to manage | :16:01. | :16:04. | |
crises. I am surprised that we have not heard to work this morning, | :16:05. | :16:09. | |
United Nations. -- two words. That is surely where any talk of | :16:10. | :16:13. | |
sanctions or international action should be taken place. I am | :16:14. | :16:19. | |
surprised that nobody seems to be engaging that organisation, when | :16:20. | :16:26. | |
that is what it is there to do. But of course, with Russia's permanent | :16:27. | :16:29. | |
place on the Security Council, it cancels itself out. Well, the UN, if | :16:30. | :16:35. | |
it takes a one-sided decision, will get vetoed by somebody, so it | :16:36. | :16:40. | |
can't. Therefore, it falls to the UN to try to bring the sides together | :16:41. | :16:44. | |
and pursue a process of demilitarisation. But I am alarmed | :16:45. | :16:47. | |
by the weather NATO general secretary seems to be ramping up the | :16:48. | :16:52. | |
anti-all the time . It is not his job to promote wars. He is meant to | :16:53. | :16:56. | |
be answerable to a number of governments. He appears to be | :16:57. | :16:59. | |
behaving as though he is a free agent who can say and do what he | :17:00. | :17:01. | |
likes and develop this dangerous scenario. Ukraine has been a war | :17:02. | :17:08. | |
ground in Europe for two centuries. Millions have died from famine, war, | :17:09. | :17:12. | |
occupation and disasters. Let's not visit that upon them again . Lest | :17:13. | :17:17. | |
try and deescalate and demilitarise and try and bring about some kind of | :17:18. | :17:20. | |
peace process which will guarantee a peaceful future for those people and | :17:21. | :17:31. | |
for Europe. I don't believe we have the moral legitimacy to intervene. I | :17:32. | :17:36. | |
believe throughout history Britain has contributed to terror through | :17:37. | :17:42. | |
propping up authoritarian regimes. An example was 1953 when we | :17:43. | :17:46. | |
overthrew the Iranian Government. MI6 with the help of the CIA did | :17:47. | :17:53. | |
that. Harold Wilson's Government in the '60s help helping General | :17:54. | :18:00. | |
Suharto come to power in Indonesia leading to many deaths. And then the | :18:01. | :18:07. | |
Iraq war, which even Kofi Annan said was illegal. Even Bam, if you look | :18:08. | :18:14. | |
at drone strikes and how that's caused the deaths of hundreds of | :18:15. | :18:18. | |
civilians, if you look at the two principles of the patterns of life | :18:19. | :18:25. | |
and secondary strikes. This has been documented by Stamford Law | :18:26. | :18:30. | |
University. So we have no moral plinth to stand on. Good morning. I | :18:31. | :18:34. | |
agree with you and the gentleman there, because I think, as the | :18:35. | :18:40. | |
Bishop said, we do have bullies in our world. There've been many | :18:41. | :18:44. | |
examples, Saddam Hussein among one of them. I think the trouble with | :18:45. | :18:50. | |
our reaction is that there is a knee-jerk reaction by our | :18:51. | :18:54. | |
Governments I think every time in these cases. Either they are quiet | :18:55. | :19:01. | |
and apathetic and then they do something crazy. I don't think we | :19:02. | :19:05. | |
are in a position to judge. Our position is very grave. We are not | :19:06. | :19:10. | |
at the front. We are not Latvia, we are not in that region. We intereven | :19:11. | :19:15. | |
if with far too many things. None of our business? To a certain degree. | :19:16. | :19:19. | |
Sir Graham, you think it is our business very much, but have we just | :19:20. | :19:24. | |
lost the moral authority here because of recent years and going | :19:25. | :19:28. | |
further back, as that gentleman says, we are in no position to | :19:29. | :19:33. | |
judge. I think it is absolutely in our country's interests to uphold | :19:34. | :19:38. | |
international law. I don't defend everything that's been done in other | :19:39. | :19:42. | |
armed conflicts that have happened recently. I think we have made | :19:43. | :19:47. | |
mistakes. We are not the only ones to have made mistakes, the Russians | :19:48. | :19:53. | |
have, and others. But here we have a real interest as the United Kingdom | :19:54. | :19:58. | |
in upholding international law. What Putin has done is clearly to ride | :19:59. | :20:01. | |
roughshod over international law. That's why we have to act. Nobody's | :20:02. | :20:07. | |
talking about military intervention. Military intervention would have to | :20:08. | :20:11. | |
be a last resort, but my question to Jeremy Corbyn would be this. What do | :20:12. | :20:17. | |
you do, try to negotiate by all means, that's what we are trying to | :20:18. | :20:23. | |
do, but what if Russia go ahead with this referendum on Sunday in the | :20:24. | :20:32. | |
Crimea, a referendum down the barrel of a gun. As Stalin said, power in | :20:33. | :20:37. | |
politics is not with those who cast the votes but those who count them. | :20:38. | :20:41. | |
The Ukrainians themselves have asked the West to come in and help. In my | :20:42. | :20:46. | |
view we should help. You have the last word on this, Jeremy Corbyn. | :20:47. | :20:54. | |
And MP is a Hoon -- and Mr Putin has expressed admiration with Josef | :20:55. | :20:58. | |
Stalin, one of the biggest mass murderers in history. What if he | :20:59. | :21:05. | |
does go through with this? He is a popular Russian leader. Public | :21:06. | :21:08. | |
support for Russia isn't easy great as they thinks or a lot of other | :21:09. | :21:12. | |
people think. I'm not sure that the Russian people, having lost so many | :21:13. | :21:16. | |
in Afghanistan, want to see Russian lives lost in Ukraine any more than | :21:17. | :21:20. | |
people in this country want to see us going into a ludicrous futile war | :21:21. | :21:26. | |
that has to end up with a political settlement. All wars end with a | :21:27. | :21:31. | |
political settlement. Let's not start with the building up of Armed | :21:32. | :21:37. | |
Forces, moving fighter pilots to Poland. Negotiate through. The West | :21:38. | :21:42. | |
has no moral authority to lecture on this after drone strikes, after | :21:43. | :21:50. | |
Iraq, after so many other internal coups and conflicts around the | :21:51. | :21:54. | |
world. Hand the thing back to the UN to try to bring about a peace | :21:55. | :21:58. | |
process and de-escalate the rhetoric, which has been in danger | :21:59. | :22:02. | |
of plunging us into a catastrophic war with nuclear implications. | :22:03. | :22:05. | |
APPLAUSE Thank you very much indeed. We are debating this morning does | :22:06. | :22:26. | |
Clare's law go far enough? And can children be damaged in | :22:27. | :22:30. | |
fundamentalist religions? Get tweeting or send us any other ideas | :22:31. | :22:34. | |
or thoughts you may have about the show. | :22:35. | :22:40. | |
This weekend with the launch of Clare's Law which have obtained the | :22:41. | :22:43. | |
right to check with the police if a new partner has previous convictions | :22:44. | :22:47. | |
for violence against women. It is named after Clare Wood, who was | :22:48. | :22:51. | |
strangled and set on fire by a man she had met true the internet. | :22:52. | :22:57. | |
Unbeknown to her he had spent three years in prison for harassing | :22:58. | :23:00. | |
another woman and had previously served six months for breaking a | :23:01. | :23:05. | |
restraining order. Now, any woman has the right to ask whether a man | :23:06. | :23:09. | |
who a violent past, but also the police have the right not to tell | :23:10. | :23:15. | |
her all that they know. Does Clare's law go far enough? Morgan, you've | :23:16. | :23:20. | |
worked with women who've had terrible experiences in their lives. | :23:21. | :23:24. | |
We've seen surveys which are breathtaking, the amount of women in | :23:25. | :23:28. | |
our country should have been subject to physical and sexual violence. I | :23:29. | :23:32. | |
saw one survey saying it was one in three. Do you believe it is that | :23:33. | :23:38. | |
widespread? Yes. I think we can see violence against women and girls, | :23:39. | :23:41. | |
and domestic violence is probably the most present component of that | :23:42. | :23:48. | |
violent expression within certainly in Wales. Are the police doing | :23:49. | :23:51. | |
enough? It used to be said, it is just a domestic. Those days are gone | :23:52. | :23:55. | |
aren't they? They are not entirely gone. We do have two different | :23:56. | :24:00. | |
approaches to the law. If a woman is violently attacked by somebody on | :24:01. | :24:04. | |
the street, then there are laws in place where that person would be | :24:05. | :24:07. | |
arrested if it was a stranger. However, because it happens in our | :24:08. | :24:12. | |
private space, if you like, there are different ways of applying that | :24:13. | :24:18. | |
law. I have to say though that police, particularly over the last | :24:19. | :24:23. | |
five years, have certainly picked up apace and there's strong leadership | :24:24. | :24:28. | |
from the top to actually kind of take more action and not see | :24:29. | :24:32. | |
domestic violence as a purely domestic issue. So we are making | :24:33. | :24:38. | |
some progress. Some progress. Michael, you've fought for this for | :24:39. | :24:43. | |
your daughter and it is a great achievement and it is a tribute to | :24:44. | :24:47. | |
your dedication and steadfastness that this has come about, but is | :24:48. | :24:50. | |
there still a problem with the police? Well, I would hate to | :24:51. | :24:55. | |
correct you. I didn't do this for my daughter. I couldn't do anything for | :24:56. | :24:59. | |
my daughter. I've done this for girls in the future and in the | :25:00. | :25:03. | |
present. What happened to my daughter was tragic. What happens to | :25:04. | :25:09. | |
girls in this country, anything between 100 and 150 every year -- 15 | :25:10. | :25:16. | |
every year, men and women meet a violent death - 120. They meet a | :25:17. | :25:21. | |
violent death. For every one of those that died there was two people | :25:22. | :25:26. | |
like me, mothers, fathers, I didn't count, brothers, sisters, sons, | :25:27. | :25:32. | |
daughters, beganies, grandfather grandfathers. -- grannies, | :25:33. | :25:39. | |
grandfathers. The ripples fall out. My granddaughter is the biggest | :25:40. | :25:44. | |
loser in this. She is now 15. She's got to go through her life without | :25:45. | :25:49. | |
the arm of her mother round her, without the concern of her mother | :25:50. | :25:53. | |
round her. She's going to have to explain to her children why they | :25:54. | :25:58. | |
don't have a grandma. I didn't do what I have done, I want wanted to | :25:59. | :26:05. | |
trumpet what had happened to my daughter so that people woke up in | :26:06. | :26:09. | |
this country. I don't believe that half the population were getting the | :26:10. | :26:13. | |
support that they deserved. And had it not been for a young lady like | :26:14. | :26:22. | |
Michelle, without hazel Blears or the Bolton coroner, Mrs Leeming. | :26:23. | :26:27. | |
This would have never got off the ground. Does it go far enough | :26:28. | :26:33. | |
though? It is easy enough to get someone's driving licence details. | :26:34. | :26:36. | |
These convictions are a matter of record. These people have been in | :26:37. | :26:40. | |
court. Yes, my sentiments exactly. Where was the secrecy? If it had | :26:41. | :26:45. | |
already been in court and in the papers, why did the police not tell | :26:46. | :26:51. | |
my daughter, he's done this before, get your bum out of here? | :26:52. | :26:58. | |
APPLAUSE Why not? Why not? Why can't you just give | :26:59. | :27:03. | |
this information to people. It is up to Parliament to decide what the | :27:04. | :27:06. | |
rules are. They have had a look at this, they've listened carefully... | :27:07. | :27:11. | |
Well what do you think? Let me explain this first. They've listened | :27:12. | :27:18. | |
carefully to the arguments. Looked at the situation through three pilot | :27:19. | :27:22. | |
schemes and the changes in procedure have come about. There are tests | :27:23. | :27:26. | |
that have to be applied, whether we like it or not. These come from | :27:27. | :27:32. | |
reasonableness and proportion at. That's what the European Convention | :27:33. | :27:35. | |
on Human Rights says. The Government is moving in that field. They have | :27:36. | :27:38. | |
had to make that choice against that background. What they have done is | :27:39. | :27:42. | |
to decide on the basis of these three pilot schemes there can be | :27:43. | :27:46. | |
proportionate releases of information in extreme | :27:47. | :27:49. | |
circumstances. It's a big change in process and procedure. It can take | :27:50. | :27:53. | |
up to 35 days and those could be the most dangerous 35 days of a woman's | :27:54. | :27:58. | |
life. What the rules say clearly is a pressing need. There there is an | :27:59. | :28:03. | |
immediate case conference. One's got to say that on the basis of three | :28:04. | :28:08. | |
pilot schemes, the Home Secretary sanctioned it, if Parliament wants | :28:09. | :28:13. | |
to change the rules around criminal confidentiality, they have to make | :28:14. | :28:17. | |
that choice. Don't give me pressing need. 2006-2009, the head of ACPO | :28:18. | :28:28. | |
and a Chief Constable of Wiltshire did an indopeth survey into domestic | :28:29. | :28:34. | |
violence. I was handed it at my daughter's coroner's inquiry. He had | :28:35. | :28:37. | |
already come to that conclusion. So we are going back eight years to | :28:38. | :28:44. | |
2006 before he started picking up. I got to the Home Secretary, myself | :28:45. | :28:51. | |
and my son, on the Thursday. On the Tuesday, Clare's law was trialed. I | :28:52. | :28:56. | |
was a cherry on the cake. There was a lot of clever people long before I | :28:57. | :29:03. | |
had opened my cakehole to move this on. I was the one - I don't know if | :29:04. | :29:09. | |
it was the nature of my daughter's death, the timing of my daughter's | :29:10. | :29:14. | |
death, but it did something to decide who woke up to the fact that | :29:15. | :29:18. | |
there's domestic violence on a huge scale in this country and it is | :29:19. | :29:21. | |
being swept under the carpet. APPLAUSE Amanda, do you have | :29:22. | :29:31. | |
concerns about this law? How far it could go? I think, the main thing to | :29:32. | :29:35. | |
say is that it is great to have a law that raises the profile of | :29:36. | :29:38. | |
domestic violence, which is such a huge, huge problem. I don't have an | :29:39. | :29:42. | |
issue really with the police's ability the make a disclosure when | :29:43. | :29:46. | |
they deem that there is a significant risk of harm, which they | :29:47. | :29:51. | |
had the power to do before Clare... It is different difficult to | :29:52. | :29:56. | |
calibrate that. It is. They this the power to do that before Clare's law. | :29:57. | :30:01. | |
If we look at the 400 applications made under Clare's law so to date | :30:02. | :30:06. | |
there've been 100 disclosures. The police have determined those | :30:07. | :30:09. | |
individuals plenty a clear risks. There is not a problem with those | :30:10. | :30:13. | |
100 disclosures. It is what we can say about the 300 other cases where | :30:14. | :30:18. | |
the police felt there wasn't enough information to make a determination. | :30:19. | :30:23. | |
We know that domestic violence is hugely underreported. The majority | :30:24. | :30:26. | |
of victims will never tell the police about the violence that they | :30:27. | :30:30. | |
suffer. The cases that do come to police attention are extremely | :30:31. | :30:34. | |
unlikely to result in a conviction. We are asking the police to make a | :30:35. | :30:40. | |
determination on data that is largely absent. We are lulling | :30:41. | :30:43. | |
victims into a false sense of security for that reason. What about | :30:44. | :30:57. | |
those with no convictions? Clare's Law covers that, because it is about | :30:58. | :31:01. | |
instances that have been brought to police attention. A couple of | :31:02. | :31:06. | |
points. Firstly, it is not a change in the law. We call it Clare's Law | :31:07. | :31:11. | |
because it is an emotive term, which is helpful. It is not a change in | :31:12. | :31:17. | |
law, it is a change in procedure which has been given official | :31:18. | :31:19. | |
sanction. And it is not just the police, there is a multi-agency | :31:20. | :31:25. | |
panel that sits behind this. One could argue that they may get this | :31:26. | :31:28. | |
process wrong, but there is a clear process that people go through all | :31:29. | :31:32. | |
stop I just wanted to correct those impressions that might be given if | :31:33. | :31:38. | |
you don't know enough about it. They determined that there was enough | :31:39. | :31:42. | |
information in some cases that they could suggest that there was a risk | :31:43. | :31:48. | |
of harm. I know you mentioned that there were 400 applications and | :31:49. | :31:51. | |
maybe 100 of those were disclosed, but those 400 people who made those | :31:52. | :31:57. | |
applications, whether they were disclosed to or not, they are then | :31:58. | :32:01. | |
passed on information about where to go for support in the future. It is | :32:02. | :32:07. | |
a tool. That is information that those people may not have had if | :32:08. | :32:16. | |
they were not in that situation. What about those people who, in the | :32:17. | :32:19. | |
first flush of love, you have faith in love, isn't the last thing you | :32:20. | :32:26. | |
are going to do decide to run a few checks first? With Clare's Law, it | :32:27. | :32:33. | |
is not about checking up. If somebody starts to show some form of | :32:34. | :32:37. | |
controlling behaviour or violence. Oh, he will change! Or she will. | :32:38. | :32:46. | |
Yes, you can hope he or she will change. But as a campaigner, I do a | :32:47. | :32:52. | |
lot of research with domestic abuse charities. A lot of people signed my | :32:53. | :33:02. | |
petition to get this scheme past. One woman said to me that when she | :33:03. | :33:08. | |
first drug of a relationship with a man -- when she first struck up a | :33:09. | :33:11. | |
relationship with a man, his ex-wife said to her, he hit me, it will not | :33:12. | :33:16. | |
be long before he starts on you. She said, I just thought it was sour | :33:17. | :33:22. | |
grapes. Had this law been in place, she was adamant that at least that | :33:23. | :33:25. | |
would have been a gateway for her to just check. So you will get those | :33:26. | :33:30. | |
who are caught up in love and they do think he will change. But if the | :33:31. | :33:39. | |
police said, he does actually have a record, then you know it is not your | :33:40. | :33:42. | |
fault and this man is a serial perpetrator. But it is not the | :33:43. | :33:50. | |
woman's fault ever. Or the man's fault, it does happen the other day | :33:51. | :33:57. | |
way. Yes, but it is not the victim's four. We need to take a | :33:58. | :34:01. | |
stand against domestic violence . The only way to inoculate people | :34:02. | :34:05. | |
against that is by starting, at an early age in school, really | :34:06. | :34:12. | |
enlightening people about what a healthy relationship looks like, | :34:13. | :34:14. | |
giving them a different lens on the world. I appreciate that raising the | :34:15. | :34:22. | |
Clare's Law scheme is helpful, but once again, you are putting | :34:23. | :34:26. | |
responsibility on the victim to check out, when actually, a huge | :34:27. | :34:31. | |
proportion of the hymns don't even recognise that they are in an | :34:32. | :34:39. | |
abusive relationship. But the way Clare's Law works enables other | :34:40. | :34:43. | |
people to raise the issue with the police as well, so it is not all on | :34:44. | :34:51. | |
the victim. But that requires a public understanding of what | :34:52. | :34:53. | |
domestic is. And I think this change in procedure is a good thing, but it | :34:54. | :35:01. | |
must go wide in hand with other initiatives and support services. We | :35:02. | :35:04. | |
are implementing Clare's Law nationally at the same time that | :35:05. | :35:08. | |
services are being cut. 200 women a day are not being provided with a | :35:09. | :35:12. | |
refuge space when they ask for it. So how can we be implementing a law | :35:13. | :35:17. | |
that is aimed at increasing safety for victims at the same time that | :35:18. | :35:20. | |
services that are known to provide safety are not being given the | :35:21. | :35:26. | |
financial support they need? Some people have said this should be | :35:27. | :35:34. | |
extended beyond sexual and violent abuse to psychological abuse as | :35:35. | :35:40. | |
well. A lot of people say they live with that. So how far do we spread | :35:41. | :35:46. | |
the net? Yes. Well, when we started this off, we did not come across | :35:47. | :35:52. | |
what this young lady has just said, the closure of homes, no | :35:53. | :35:58. | |
after-care. The government seem to have wiped their hands one way or | :35:59. | :36:03. | |
another. And it is serial. It moves on. Everybody seems to think it is a | :36:04. | :36:08. | |
working class disease. It is everywhere. It is rife. For all the | :36:09. | :36:15. | |
people who put up objections, I wear slip on shoes, not because I can't | :36:16. | :36:22. | |
tie a knot. I want to pull them off and say, stand in my shoes for two | :36:23. | :36:28. | |
minutes, and you will know what pain is. You will know what it does to | :36:29. | :36:37. | |
people's lives. I don't sit here and pontificate. There are clever people | :36:38. | :36:41. | |
in this country, contrary to what a lot of us seem to think. There are | :36:42. | :36:46. | |
people in this country who can make this work. What do you think of the | :36:47. | :37:00. | |
psychological abuse angle? It is taken into account. You don't have | :37:01. | :37:03. | |
to wait for a man or woman to use physical violence. So it can just be | :37:04. | :37:11. | |
constant psychological abuse? Yes, if you are feeling intimidated or | :37:12. | :37:14. | |
controlled, that is how domestic abuse darts. But someone is unlikely | :37:15. | :37:18. | |
to have a criminal record for that. At at the same time, if there is | :37:19. | :37:24. | |
nothing to disclose, that person will be given ad vice and help and | :37:25. | :37:29. | |
is alerted to the fact of domestic abuse. One thing everyone has in | :37:30. | :37:35. | |
common here is the fact that we are talking about domestic. That is what | :37:36. | :37:39. | |
Clare's Law has one. It is not the solution, but it has raised the | :37:40. | :37:45. | |
issue of funding and it has got the government talking about it. If it | :37:46. | :37:55. | |
saves one life... If it saves one life, the four year campaign and the | :37:56. | :38:02. | |
team behind Clare's Law have achieved what has been worth all the | :38:03. | :38:05. | |
suffering, all the travelling and all the heartache we have had to go | :38:06. | :38:17. | |
through. The Bishop? In terms of talking about problems like this, it | :38:18. | :38:21. | |
is wonderful that it is out in the open. But you made the point earlier | :38:22. | :38:25. | |
about people wanting to be in a loving relationship. I recall, | :38:26. | :38:30. | |
before I was ordained, when I was in the law, in matrimonial dispute | :38:31. | :38:36. | |
situations, one would sometimes be faced with a battered spouse in the | :38:37. | :38:42. | |
office who would want some sort of immediate relief. And it was | :38:43. | :38:45. | |
possible to go Dwain Chambers and get an emergency injunction and then | :38:46. | :38:50. | |
a couple of days later, there would be a full hearing -- it was possible | :38:51. | :38:54. | |
to go to a chamber. And although this did not happen all the time, I | :38:55. | :39:00. | |
have seen cases several times where at the second hearing, it was | :39:01. | :39:08. | |
usually the wife who had sought the injunction in the first place, and | :39:09. | :39:10. | |
she would say, I have taken him back. He has promised he will not do | :39:11. | :39:14. | |
it again. And then of course, he often did do it again. We are | :39:15. | :39:18. | |
talking about complex human relationships. One of the huge | :39:19. | :39:25. | |
issues we have is that we don't have enough understanding about this | :39:26. | :39:31. | |
behaviour. Should people be given a chance to change? Yes, absolutely. | :39:32. | :39:38. | |
Women who have been affected by violence and abusive relationships | :39:39. | :39:43. | |
need change programmes to help them get back on track and deal with the | :39:44. | :39:46. | |
psychological and emotional damage. And perpetrators also need | :39:47. | :39:49. | |
programmes where they can change their behaviour. There are good ones | :39:50. | :40:00. | |
out there. Michael, I will come to you in the next debate. These social | :40:01. | :40:10. | |
predators slink through our society, spreading despair and despondency. | :40:11. | :40:18. | |
And as has been pointed out here, they are sometimes never picked up. | :40:19. | :40:23. | |
We have a cash cow in this country called the motorist. I can sit in a | :40:24. | :40:29. | |
car and tell you in a second that your car has been road taxed, | :40:30. | :40:34. | |
insured, has its MOT, who the driver and the owner is, and has it been | :40:35. | :40:40. | |
involved in a crime or drugs, in an instant. You want it to be that | :40:41. | :40:52. | |
easy? It should be made that easy. I believe the police have a national | :40:53. | :40:56. | |
computer at present which has 25,000 serial perpetrators on their books. | :40:57. | :41:02. | |
If that could be expanded, that would and so a lot of the questions | :41:03. | :41:08. | |
here. -- it would answer a lot of questions. It is not always to | :41:09. | :41:11. | |
remove the woman out of the violent situation, it is to take the man out | :41:12. | :41:18. | |
of the violent situation. Thank you all for your thoughts. | :41:19. | :41:25. | |
You can join in all this morning's debates by logging onto the | :41:26. | :41:37. | |
website. Or you can tweet. Tell us what you think about our last big | :41:38. | :41:43. | |
question. Can children be damaged in fundamentalist religions? If you you | :41:44. | :41:47. | |
would like to be in the audience at a future show, you can e-mail us. We | :41:48. | :41:53. | |
will be in Newcastle upon Tyne next week, Southampton on March the 23rd | :41:54. | :42:01. | |
and Glasgow the week after that. The mayor of London, Boris Johnson, | :42:02. | :42:04. | |
has called for Muslim children who are at risk of being radicalised | :42:05. | :42:08. | |
their parents to be taken into care. He says it is a form of child | :42:09. | :42:15. | |
abuse. Now a jihadist plot run by fundamentalist Muslims to take over | :42:16. | :42:19. | |
schools in Birmingham, Bradford and Manchester and run them according to | :42:20. | :42:23. | |
strict Islamic principles has been exposed. In the past, the courts | :42:24. | :42:27. | |
have barred a Christian couple from being foster parents cos of their | :42:28. | :42:33. | |
biblical views on homosexuality, and on this programme, we often have | :42:34. | :42:36. | |
under mentalist believers who reject scientifically accepted ideas and | :42:37. | :42:41. | |
think wives should always submit to their husbands full up religious | :42:42. | :42:46. | |
beliefs and modern liberal values are often in conflict. Can children | :42:47. | :42:50. | |
be damaged by fundamentalist religions? Jonny Scaramanga, you | :42:51. | :42:56. | |
were educated in a fundamentalist school. What were you taught? I was | :42:57. | :43:00. | |
taught that I should not be friends with non-Christians. The first week | :43:01. | :43:03. | |
I was there, the principal of the school taught us a sermon which | :43:04. | :43:07. | |
said, birds of a feather must flock together. She said I should not be | :43:08. | :43:15. | |
friends with non-Christians. And hell? Of course. We did not even | :43:16. | :43:21. | |
need to talk about how, because it did for granted that everyone who | :43:22. | :43:24. | |
did not believe what we believed was going to hell. But because those | :43:25. | :43:30. | |
people were going to hell and they were evil and that there was a risk | :43:31. | :43:33. | |
that they could corrupt as if we interacted with them, we were | :43:34. | :43:39. | |
advised not to have interaction with other people. We were also taught at | :43:40. | :43:44. | |
we ourselves were wicked because we were depraved because of sin, and it | :43:45. | :43:49. | |
was only because of Jesus in us that there was anything good enough at | :43:50. | :43:54. | |
all. It is a crushing thing to tell a child in terms of their | :43:55. | :43:59. | |
self-esteem. You are an evangelical Christian, Liz. You don't believe | :44:00. | :44:04. | |
that dinosaurs and people were on the earth at the same time, although | :44:05. | :44:08. | |
some people do. But that is bonkers, and it will limit their | :44:09. | :44:11. | |
career opportunities, clearly! But hell is important to your belief, | :44:12. | :44:15. | |
isn't it? What would you teach a child? That it exists. And who is | :44:16. | :44:25. | |
going there? Anybody who hasn't put their faith in Jesus and his death | :44:26. | :44:30. | |
on the cross to pay for their sins. It is important to understand the | :44:31. | :44:35. | |
difference between guidance and coercion. You have already said that | :44:36. | :44:42. | |
Mustafa is going to hell. And me. You can go the Heaven and it is your | :44:43. | :44:47. | |
choice if you decide to reject it. But you have to accept Jesus? I | :44:48. | :44:59. | |
have. That's fine. I I'll see you in hell then. It is an interesting | :45:00. | :45:07. | |
question, the fundamentalist regime. Isn't it tyrannical and bullying and | :45:08. | :45:11. | |
frightening to tell a little child they might go to hell? No, that's | :45:12. | :45:16. | |
twisting the story. My parents didn't tell me, you're going to go | :45:17. | :45:20. | |
to hell if you don't do this, that and the other. They explained Jesus' | :45:21. | :45:27. | |
and God's love by sending Jesus. This is a perverting idea of love if | :45:28. | :45:34. | |
you think God would send people to eternal damnation. It is not | :45:35. | :45:36. | |
possible. APPLAUSE Is it damaging for a child? | :45:37. | :45:42. | |
Why is that damaging for a child? If you believe thaw know that other | :45:43. | :45:45. | |
people are going to hell, it is impossible for you to treat them | :45:46. | :45:48. | |
with the value and respect that they deserve as human being. If you think | :45:49. | :45:53. | |
I'm depraved because of sin, you can't seriously say I'm worth as | :45:54. | :45:57. | |
much as you. We are all in the same boat. If you look at the way we | :45:58. | :46:02. | |
treat God, disrespect that we create the creator of the universe, one | :46:03. | :46:07. | |
that rightfully owns everything and the disrespect we have for him, it | :46:08. | :46:11. | |
is understandable. God gave us free will and choice. He did. And we to | :46:12. | :46:16. | |
pave our own way to whatever waits beyond. Some of us believe there is | :46:17. | :46:21. | |
something and others believe that it is a permanent cycle. And some of us | :46:22. | :46:28. | |
believe nothing, none of the above. I'm not really worried about hell. | :46:29. | :46:32. | |
This isn't a debate about hell - we've had that before. This is a | :46:33. | :46:36. | |
debate about what we teach our children and potentially how | :46:37. | :46:40. | |
damaging that might be. Bishop? What about those who take a literal view | :46:41. | :46:47. | |
of the Bible, and indeed the Koran, unmediated word of God, allegedly. | :46:48. | :46:52. | |
Could that be dangerous for children? It worries me immensely. I | :46:53. | :46:57. | |
believe that young people, older people, all need to be in a position | :46:58. | :47:01. | |
where they are properly educated to be able to make inform informed | :47:02. | :47:05. | |
choices about any belief structure that might be presented to them. You | :47:06. | :47:09. | |
only have to look at the history of the presents day to see where | :47:10. | :47:13. | |
fundamentalism can actually lead people. | :47:14. | :47:19. | |
APPLAUSE Before I come to you, what would you teach a child, since we | :47:20. | :47:27. | |
are here, about hell? I can speak of my own experience, not of hell but | :47:28. | :47:33. | |
my own education. I was taught just precomprehensive days in a state | :47:34. | :47:37. | |
grammar school. I was taught religious education but somebody who | :47:38. | :47:40. | |
I suppose nowadays would be described as a fairly fundamentalist | :47:41. | :47:46. | |
conservative evangelical Baptist Minister from the Welsh valleys. | :47:47. | :47:51. | |
Along with just about everybody else in my class I rejected what was | :47:52. | :47:55. | |
teaching, which was there's the Bible, you swallow it hook, line and | :47:56. | :48:00. | |
sinker. You take it as a literal word of God and if you don't | :48:01. | :48:04. | |
believe, that you know where you will finish up. Really? But look | :48:05. | :48:10. | |
what happened to me. I happened to believe that, I don't want to trade | :48:11. | :48:14. | |
verses of scripture with people, but one of the things that is most | :48:15. | :48:18. | |
important, Jesus said, if you have seen me, you've seen the Father. You | :48:19. | :48:22. | |
judge your understanding of God by what you see in the ministry and the | :48:23. | :48:30. | |
outreach and the welcome of Him. I don't see Him being as black and | :48:31. | :48:37. | |
white as some fundamentalists might put it. Scripture in parts might | :48:38. | :48:41. | |
have been written in that way because that was the cultural way it | :48:42. | :48:47. | |
was done then. But to force feed and indoctrinate young children with | :48:48. | :48:52. | |
some of the rubbish, quite frankly, that Christian education produces is | :48:53. | :49:00. | |
wicked. Mustafa, as we were breaking bread before the programme, having a | :49:01. | :49:06. | |
cuppa, you said that for example this phrase, homosexuality is | :49:07. | :49:12. | |
un-Islamic. Well, before coming... No, you come to it. How would you | :49:13. | :49:18. | |
teach, what would you teach a child, a young teenager who came to you and | :49:19. | :49:23. | |
said, I'm gay, what should I do, what would you say to that child? I | :49:24. | :49:27. | |
would talk to him about his feelings. Sometimes it is a normal | :49:28. | :49:31. | |
thing for teenage terse, especially when they go through the hormone | :49:32. | :49:38. | |
hormonal phases to feel a sense of, I'm homosexual. I could explain | :49:39. | :49:42. | |
psychological literature and it could be caused by different | :49:43. | :49:46. | |
hormones from their body. They are not understanding yet what they are | :49:47. | :49:50. | |
feeling, they are exploring their identity. I would talk to young boy | :49:51. | :49:56. | |
about his feelings. I wouldn't say OK, be homosexual. I wouldn't say, | :49:57. | :50:01. | |
you're banned. What I believe in terms of homosexuality and | :50:02. | :50:04. | |
heterosexuality is that heterosexuality is something that | :50:05. | :50:09. | |
God wants us to be heterosexuals. That's my belief. I would promote | :50:10. | :50:15. | |
that. To that child. But I would want to do that with the utmost | :50:16. | :50:20. | |
respect for his feelings and for what he feels and the stage he is | :50:21. | :50:24. | |
going through and for his identity and the difficult phases that he | :50:25. | :50:30. | |
might feel. Why did God create homosexuals? I believe God creates | :50:31. | :50:36. | |
human being. I don't believe God creates homosexuals or anybody else. | :50:37. | :50:39. | |
They are human being that have chosen a certain path. A certainly | :50:40. | :50:44. | |
sexual orientation. Just like me, I can choose to be a heterosexual. | :50:45. | :50:49. | |
That's my belief. And somebody can choose to go down another path. When | :50:50. | :50:55. | |
did you choose to be straight? When I was young. I believe that. You had | :50:56. | :51:00. | |
the choice to be a homosexual and straight? On that point, hands up | :51:01. | :51:04. | |
who wants to say something about this? I heard a Murray across the | :51:05. | :51:12. | |
audience -- murmur. It is patronising for Christians or anyone | :51:13. | :51:16. | |
of religious belief to say, we'll talk to people, we'll talk them out | :51:17. | :51:20. | |
of it. If you change your way maybe we'll accept you. If you speak to | :51:21. | :51:24. | |
some people, they will say the most difficult thing I've had to do is | :51:25. | :51:29. | |
admit that I'm gay. Why would I choose to do that? | :51:30. | :51:34. | |
APPLAUSE Anyone else? Anyone else wants to say something? I don't | :51:35. | :51:41. | |
think anybody chooses to be homosexual. It is something you are | :51:42. | :51:47. | |
or you are not. Exactly. Let's get back, how dangerous is it to teach a | :51:48. | :51:53. | |
child that? I think it is very dangerous to teach children that | :51:54. | :51:57. | |
you'll go to hell if you misbehave. The way a lot of religions seem to | :51:58. | :52:03. | |
try and teach morality is it doesn't matter what you do as long as you | :52:04. | :52:07. | |
accept Jesus you will go to heavy no-one the end. It is far more | :52:08. | :52:11. | |
important to teach children the difference between what's right and | :52:12. | :52:15. | |
what's wrong. I'm a humanist, so I believe that we should treat other | :52:16. | :52:21. | |
people with respect. But that morals of society, if you like, are things | :52:22. | :52:26. | |
which have evolved over time. They've not been thrust upon us by | :52:27. | :52:31. | |
some imaginary figure in the sky. I think teaching people how to behave | :52:32. | :52:37. | |
is far more important than saying, do what you but if you accept Jesus | :52:38. | :52:42. | |
you will go to heavy no-one the end. Mustafa? I think it is very | :52:43. | :52:46. | |
important to realise that parenting in itself is always about norms and | :52:47. | :52:50. | |
values, even if you don't have a religion or whatever you believe you | :52:51. | :52:56. | |
are teaching in a sense consciously or unconsciously that belief to your | :52:57. | :53:00. | |
child. If it is for example, the gentleman before said OK I don't | :53:01. | :53:04. | |
believe you should talk someone out of it, I believe he wants to talk me | :53:05. | :53:08. | |
out of talking someone else out of something, because he doesn't agree | :53:09. | :53:12. | |
with my view on things. So he is wanting to talk me out by having | :53:13. | :53:17. | |
this debate or presenting his argumentation, which is fine. With | :53:18. | :53:21. | |
all due respect it is fine, that's why we are here, why we are | :53:22. | :53:26. | |
discussing. I don't think it is in a sense important to understand the | :53:27. | :53:29. | |
perspective where someone comes from. You come from the perspective | :53:30. | :53:34. | |
that teaching hell or saying that if you misbehave you will go to hell, | :53:35. | :53:38. | |
which I don't agree with that way of teaching the by the way, but you | :53:39. | :53:42. | |
disagree with that so you want to talk me out of it. Or you want to | :53:43. | :53:47. | |
teach that view to your child. So you think he's an extremist. Mehdi, | :53:48. | :53:53. | |
you left Islam didn't you? I. About teaching our kids, it is very | :53:54. | :53:58. | |
selfish of us to think that our children are just our assets. I | :53:59. | :54:05. | |
personally think our kids belong to themselves and society. | :54:06. | :54:10. | |
APPLAUSE What land to you then? When did you have this reverse | :54:11. | :54:21. | |
revelation? I was born in Iran. My family had a liberal and moderate | :54:22. | :54:29. | |
background, I had to go tota... If you stood up and said, I'm an | :54:30. | :54:35. | |
atheist? I would be prosecuted and not be classed as a citizen in my | :54:36. | :54:39. | |
own country. I would get death threats. I'm taking a risk to talk | :54:40. | :54:43. | |
to you about my past. As I went to school, I was taught to be | :54:44. | :54:49. | |
religious. As a child I believed whatever they told me. I used to get | :54:50. | :54:57. | |
beaten in school for not practising Islam and dodging prayers. At some | :54:58. | :55:03. | |
point in my life I realised I was so fundamental I was telling my parents | :55:04. | :55:07. | |
and my family and my friends off about not practising the religion. I | :55:08. | :55:12. | |
was, I went so far that I was planning, I was just thinking that | :55:13. | :55:17. | |
dying and killing for my own religion is a good practice. I | :55:18. | :55:25. | |
should do anything necessarily to save my religion. There was points, | :55:26. | :55:33. | |
I can remember that me and my cousins were even planning to kill | :55:34. | :55:43. | |
someone after the fatwa -- killing Salman Rushdie after the fatwa. I | :55:44. | :55:48. | |
grew out of it and I became so sceptic. Are you scared to say this | :55:49. | :55:53. | |
now? You said at the beginning this is still quite a big thing for you | :55:54. | :55:57. | |
to say. It is a big deal but I'm not scared. I just believe what is | :55:58. | :56:04. | |
right. I need to say, I need to make people understand what's gone | :56:05. | :56:07. | |
through my life and what's happened to me and what is happening to other | :56:08. | :56:12. | |
kids in religious countries. It stays with people a long time | :56:13. | :56:18. | |
doesn't it? Absolutely. It can damage... Johnny? It took me about | :56:19. | :56:24. | |
ten years to find my way out of it and gradually realising that things | :56:25. | :56:27. | |
that I have been taught weren't true, and to get over the fact I | :56:28. | :56:31. | |
have been taught to accept what authority told me unquestioningly. | :56:32. | :56:37. | |
Your critical thinking skills get hammered because so many of the | :56:38. | :56:42. | |
teachings in fundamentalist Christianity, particularly those | :56:43. | :56:46. | |
that reject eve Luke, they are so illogical and you are taught this is | :56:47. | :56:50. | |
a good way to think, to disregard the evidence that disagrees with | :56:51. | :56:56. | |
your religion, and it encourages conspiracy theories and an | :56:57. | :57:00. | |
irrational too much to the evidence. I know Liz you would feel I'm | :57:01. | :57:04. | |
presenting a perverted version of Christianity, that what I think | :57:05. | :57:09. | |
about is not what you read, but what's fascinating about this is | :57:10. | :57:16. | |
what you believe is totally true biblical Christianity. We would both | :57:17. | :57:20. | |
have said we are taking the world of God and yet come to different | :57:21. | :57:25. | |
conclusions. It makes a mockery of it. It is all about context. The | :57:26. | :57:30. | |
question isn't so much that isn't it the beliefs that are the problem, | :57:31. | :57:33. | |
but good or bad parenting. You can have good or bad parents in whatever | :57:34. | :57:39. | |
background. They could be alcoholic, get divorced or take drugs. Larkin | :57:40. | :57:45. | |
said they mess you up, your mum and dad. I'm paraphrasing. If you coerce | :57:46. | :57:53. | |
your children it harms them. My parents taught me to use my powers | :57:54. | :57:57. | |
of critical thinking, to question everything. I have had a very good | :57:58. | :58:03. | |
education, I'm belowsed in that way. -- I'm blessed in that way. I've | :58:04. | :58:06. | |
decided that the evidence fits best with the account of the Bible. In | :58:07. | :58:15. | |
which case you will Joan me in condemning accelerated Christian | :58:16. | :58:20. | |
education. Definitely. Consensus. The debates will continue online and | :58:21. | :58:25. | |
on Twitter. Next week we are in Newcastle upon Tyne. For now it is | :58:26. | :58:31. | |
goodbye, enjoy your Sunday. Thank you for watching The Big Questions. | :58:32. | :58:34. |