Episode 4 Live at the Apollo


Episode 4

Stand-up comedy from the world-famous Hammersmith Apollo. Welsh funnyman Rhod Gilbert hosts, with a rapturous guest appearance from Liverpudlian John Bishop.


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Ladies and gentlemen,

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please welcome your host for tonight, Rhod Gilbert.

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CHEERING AND APPLAUSE

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Hello!

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Hello, Live At The Apollo!

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Hello. Give us a cheer! Are you well, Hammersmith?

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AUDIENCE: Yes!

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Are you well? Hello, hello. Yes, it's me.

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It's me off the telly!

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AUDIENCE CHEER

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I am the man in the Visit Wales ads.

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AUDIENCE CHEER

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AUDIENCE MEMBER SHOUTS INDISTINCTLY

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They're all right, those adverts, aren't they?

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-AUDIENCE: Yes!

-What's wrong with it? Wales is quite cool, now. Come on.

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It's quite... We've got Gavin And Stacey. Come on.

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Eh? And Larry Lamb is here. Look at that.

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Larry Lamb, ladies and gentlemen! The lovely Larry Lamb from Gavin And Stacey.

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Although you do have to question the wisdom and judgment of a man with the surname Lamb,

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who turns up when a Welshman is hosting Live At The Apollo.

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"What am I doing?"

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Those adverts are all right, aren't they - my "come to Wales" ads?

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CHEERING

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Thank you, two of you.

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They've been very successful, those adverts, I'll have you know,

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in bringing millions and millions of tourists to Wales.

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The numbers have gone through the roof.

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How many of you have been to Wales as a direct result of seeing my advert?

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A FEW PEOPLE CHEER

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Piss off!

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Why haven't you been? Two of you!

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Why haven't the rest of you been?

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Wales is all right. It's not shit any more. We've done it up.

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We've had development money. We've done...

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Cardiff Bay - have you been there? Go there on holiday.

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It's lovely. We've done it all up. You've got cafes and bars.

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You've got the sea down there now. It's amazing.

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It's true. Down where the shit was, that's all sea now, most of it.

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Cardiff Bay - I was there not long ago. Some of these restaurants have got tables outside!

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Al-fresco dining in Cardiff, for...! They're having a laugh, aren't they?

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I tried to have a Twix at a bus stop in Wales a few years ago. It was...

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It was too wet to eat, to be honest with you.

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Everyone's pretending it's Madrid. Come on, we'll sit outside!

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Your soup bowl's filling up faster than you can eat it, for Christ's sake!

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Stop raining!

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You never get past your starters.

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After seven hours of soup and rainwater, you give up.

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It's true. Your gin and tonic's overflowing. The little umbrella's blown inside out.

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Turn it back into the wind! Turn it back into the wind!

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There's waiters with frosted eyebrows fighting their way to the tables.

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"Spaghetti carbonara! Spaghetti carbonara!"

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Zzoong! "I'll get another one! I'll get another one!"

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There's people throwing lifebuoys to their bread rolls.

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"I'll pull you in! I'll pull you in!"

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Peas being airlifted to safety.

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Ah, ladies and gentlemen, would you like to meet some more celebs?

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AUDIENCE CHEER

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Keeley Hawes is here as well. Ashes To Ashes team. Where are they?

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-AUDIENCE CHEER

-Ashes to Ashes.

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That is about... Correct me... It's a bit complicated.

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-You play a London cop...

-Yes.

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..who got shot and woke up in the '80s?

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-Yes.

-Seems a lot of trouble to go to. Why don't you just come back to Wales with me tonight?

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You'll wake up surrounded by mullets, shoulder pads, offensive attitudes to women and race.

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You'd love it.

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And you might get shot. Who knows?

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If I was going to go back to any decade, I wouldn't choose the '80s.

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The '70s were the best, weren't they?

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Give me a cheer, '70s kids.

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CHEERING

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Yeah. The '70s were... Cos you do the voice for Lara Croft as well, don't you?

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See, we didn't have all those computer games in the '70s.

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We had real games, didn't we?

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Do you remember the games we used to have in the '70s? Mouse Trap - who remembers that?

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Remember Mouse Trap, where you wound the crank and it turned the gears,

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pushed the rod against the boot that kicked the bucket

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with the ball that rolled down the stairs, round the drainpipe, hit the lever, into the tub,

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fell through the hole onto the diving board, flipped the diver onto the tab,

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released the cage on top of the little mouse?

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Do you remember that?

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Do you remember that?

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We didn't have that.

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Guess Who?, as well.

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We had the Welsh version.

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Anybody else see the Welsh version of Guess Who?

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"Does she have a moustache?"

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"No."

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"Well, it's Bronwyn."

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'70s were the best, ladies and gentlemen.

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Who else have we got in? Let's have a look.

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Ladies and gentlemen, we have Peter Sissons in the house. Peter Sissons!

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And Krishnan Guru-Murthy, ladies and gentlemen!

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The newsreaders are here!

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The newsreaders are in.

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Why is it... I've been meaning to ask you this.

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Why is it that every disaster in the world is always the size of Wales, Peter?

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Every single bloody disaster

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in the world is the size of Wa...

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You hate us, don't you?

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I can see some of you nodding. I don't need you to tell me.

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You can see it in your eyes every night on the news.

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You can hear it in your tone of voice. "Today, an area the size of Wales was destroyed by fire."

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"Today, an area the size of Wales was devastated by floods."

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Why don't you just say what you're thinking? We can see what you mean.

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"Today, an area the size of Wales, but not bloody Wales!"

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Peter Sissons, ladies and gentlemen.

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Where's Krishnan? Why is the news always so depressing?

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Can't you give us a bit of good news? It's always so gloomy.

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If it's not swine flu, it's the recession or climate change.

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In a few weeks, it'll be the snow, won't it?

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That'll be what you'll get us worried about. You'll have us all...

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Everybody down the shops'll be bloody stocking up, won't they? Cos you say the snow's coming.

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Everybody will be buying all the bread, all the eggs, all the milk.

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"Quick! Buy all the bread, all the eggs..."

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Cos if the bomb drops, we'll have a massive bread-and-butter pudding, won't we?

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"Panic buying" you call it.

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Where do you get that phrase "panic buying"?

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"People are panic buying." No, they're not, Krishnan.

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Nobody's panic buying. They're stocking up a bit.

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At times of genuine panic, people do not go shopping, Krishnan!

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"Quick! John's having a panic attack. Where's my Advantage card? I had it here somewhere.

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"Quick! 999." "Which service?" "Argos, obviously."

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People don't go shopping in times of genuine pa...

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I suppose you think as the Titanic went down, the gift shop was heaving, do you?

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I bet it was rammed there. I bet you couldn't move for people trying on Titanic hats and T-shirts.

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"Can I try this on?" "Yeah, just swim through to the back. That's the way."

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"Can I bring it back if the wife doesn't like it?"

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"You'll have to be quick. The returns desk has just gone under."

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No wonder there's no room on the lifeboats -

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they're full of souvenirs according to you, aren't they?

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"Take my child, take my child!"

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"Piss off! He sat on my Toblerone. Get him out of here!"

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"Man overboard and he's got my snow globe!"

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Dear, dear!

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Oh! Do you know, the last time I was here, I, er...

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I had a bit of a...

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I had a bit of a rant.

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I did. I was having a bit of a whinge and a moan about torches with the power of a million candles.

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And the tog rating system.

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I was having a bit of a moan, but honestly...

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The press had a right go at me.

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They all said the things I talk about are trivial.

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Can you... Can you...

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Honestly. The Daily Telegraph leading the bloody charge, obviously.

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Have we got any Daily Telegraph readers? Give me a cheer.

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A FEW PEOPLE CHEER

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Where are you, you pompous twat? Who said that?

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Do you know what The Daily Telegraph said? The things I talk about are trivial.

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Do you know what they said? "He rants and raves about such minor irritations as buying a duvet."

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That's what they said. It's not a minor irritation.

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It probably is to you, Daily Telegraph -

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you've got a team of highly trained bedding staff at home, haven't you?

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You've got more important things to worry about.

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You're too busy worrying about whether your ancestral quiff will fit in the new Range Rover.

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You probably know all about the tog rating system.

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Togs are probably on the curriculum at Eton or Harrow, or wherever you went to school.

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The rest of us plebs have got no idea about togs, have we?

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-Tell the prick!

-AUDIENCE CHEER

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Honestly! I was trying to make a general point.

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I was trying to make a general point about people talking bollocks when you're trying to buy things.

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That's what I was trying to do. I realised the other day... It winds me up so much.

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I realised the other day, I'd been buying washing powder for over 20 years,

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with no bloody idea whether to buy bio or non-bio. Have you?

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Have you got any idea of the difference between bio...?

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To bio or not to bio? That's the question, isn't it?

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I've given up buying washing powder. I'll level with you.

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Ah, I've given up. I've given up buying washing powder.

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What's the bloody point in buying washing powder anyway? My washing machine's a prick.

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Oh, it is! It doesn't matter whether I buy bio or non-bio.

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Whatever side of the drawer I put the powder in, the water comes down the other frigging side anyway.

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I go left, he goes right. I go right, he goes left. Sometimes I wait for the water,

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put it in that side and the bugger switches on me halfway through.

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Why is washing your clothes so bloody complicated?

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"Are they wool? Are they delicates? Silk? Cottons? Colourfast cotton? Non-colourfast cotton delicates?"

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I don't know! I didn't make the bloody things. I'm not Ozwald Boateng!

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I never said I had a 2:1 from Oxford in textile engineering.

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I said I've got a number-two stain in my boxers that'll take a bit of clearing.

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Just wash the clothes!

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Just wash the clothes. Wash the clothes.

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Stop asking stupid questions. "What spin speed do you want? What temperature should I make the water?

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"Should I wash them now or delay the start?" That's the latest thing.

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Have you got a delay-start button on your machine? Cos we only come down early to beat the crowds, didn't we?

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Are you going to hold off in case I change my mind, washing machine, is that it?

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In case shit stains suddenly come into fashion this afternoon?

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Let's wait for the FTSE to close, shall we?

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Maybe dirty pants'll finish the day strongly - who knows?

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Maybe the Americans will invent a car that runs on underwear scrapings. You never know, do you?

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"Extra, extra! Read all about it! Skid marks up two points."

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"Well, thanks, washing machine. That was a close call. I almost washed those pants."

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Ask me useful questions. Why doesn't it ask us useful questions?

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"Have I left a tenner in my jeans?" That would be useful, wouldn't it?

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Not, "Do you want to pre-wash the clothes?"

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"Oh, yeah. Don't wash them without giving them a quick wash first. Don't make that mistake!"

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What is pre-wash? Does anybody know what pre-wash...

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What is...? Do the clothes get some kind of briefing in there? Is that what happens?

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"Listen up, clothes. The water's coming down in a minute. Any questions?"

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"Yeah, which side is it coming down today?" "No word on that yet, I'm afraid.

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"We'll know more once the powder goes in, I imagine."

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Ooh!

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Ladies and gentlemen, are you ready for me to introduce...

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the very special guest this evening?

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AUDIENCE: Yes!

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Ladies and gentlemen of Hammersmith, live at the Apollo, would you please welcome to the stage

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our special guest for this evening, Mr John Bishop!

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MUSIC: "Four to the Floor" by Starsailor

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Hello.

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CHEERING AND APPLAUSE

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Hello.

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Good evening, ladies and gentlemen? How are you?

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AUDIENCE CHEER Good, good.

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Ladies and gentleman, my name's John.

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I'm from Liverpool.

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AUDIENCE CHEER Thank you. Thank you.

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Nice to be here.

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Nice that the BBC have put a show on with an angry Welshman and a Scouser.

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I think we all know someone somewhere's getting a grant.

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I bought a new car recently and, er...

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And I'm not bragging - it's a people carrier.

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Yeah, which is the motor-vehicle equivalent of corduroy slacks.

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It's like saying to the rest of the world, "Look, I've give up, to be honest.

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"Just want a bit of space and some comfort now, and, er..."

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And I bought this people carrier, and I took it to my dad.

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Cos that's what you do now.

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Getting a new car is the modern equivalent of a kill.

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You get a new car and you take it to your dad and you go,

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"Look, Dad, I've caught a machine."

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And my dad come out and went, "Look, our John's caught a machine."

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Well, my dad's different. He's of that different generation.

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He wants to look at cars in an entirely different way.

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He wants to look at the engine.

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So I let him look at the engine, cos I would never tell my dad I have no idea what he's looking at.

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I couldn't tell my dad that. I couldn't tell my dad I don't know anything about cars.

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That would be like telling my dad I've got a favourite musical.

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It's just not a conversation a northern son can have with his dad.

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I couldn't tell him I'm in the RAC.

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It'd be like telling him I go morris dancing. It's just not what we do.

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So he comes out, he's looking at the car, he gets in my car.

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That's when he found what's got to be the most ridiculous invention on the planet.

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He gets in the car, we turn the heater on

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and that's when we find in my car, we've got two temperature controls.

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You turn the heater and then here, in the driver's seat,

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you can set your own temperature.

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And then there, in the passenger seat,

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you can set your own temperature.

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It's there! You can have a different climate between here and there.

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How pointless is that?

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In my car, you can have 19 degrees of difference between here...

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and there. When are you ever going to use that?

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Unless you're an Eskimo giving an African a lift.

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And what was worse about it... I got in the car and I drove away.

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I drove away from my dad and I did something that you only ever do once.

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I poured petrol into a diesel car.

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You can feel the pain, can't you? It's horrible.

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It's horrible. Cos every man in this room knows that pouring petrol into a diesel car

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is just like pouring gin into a woman.

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It is. Cos you know at some point during the evening, she's gonna break down.

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And that's what happened. I poured petrol into a diesel car and I drove off,

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and after about five miles, it coughed and it spluttered and it broke down.

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And I was sat there in the driver's seat, in my shorts and T-shirt.

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My wife was sat next to me in her hat and coat.

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The dashboard lights were flashing like mad and, cos she's a woman,

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she thinks the dashboard lights are flashing like mad to indicate what's wrong with the car.

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But because I'm a man, I know what every man in this room knows -

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that when those dashboard lights flash, they flash in Morse code,

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and that Morse code's saying, "You're a knobhead!"

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And it was horrible. If you've ever been in this situation, the car won't move.

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There's nowhere you can go. I phoned the RAC.

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He said, "There's nothing you can do. I've got to take your car away.

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"You've got to get someone to come and give you a lift."

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Well, in those situations, you only think of one person,

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so I phoned my dad.

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That was the worst decision I have ever made in my life.

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Because my dad turned up when the RAC van was still there,

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and we know they don't do anything subtle.

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They turn up in a big bleeding orange van, with a big orange light on it,

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so that people in passing planes know you're a dickhead.

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He turned up, he got out the car. I could see the look of disappointment on his face.

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He came walking over to me, he looked at me. He said, "What happened, son?"

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I'm trying to think of something brilliant and mechanical that I couldn't possibly fix.

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I couldn't think of anything.

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It was OK, because, obviously, my wife was there, so she decided to help.

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"He poured petrol in a diesel car, didn't you, you dickhead?"

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And it was like a pain going into me dad's heart.

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It was a dagger of disappointment.

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I could see the pain in his eyes as he looked at me.

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He said, "You did what?" And I didn't know what to say.

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I just didn't know what to say. I had nothing to offer as an excuse.

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I just looked at him. I said, "Well...

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"I've never had a diesel car before, Dad."

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And my dad something that only a dad would say. He just looked at me.

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He said, "Listen, son, you don't have to own a sheep to know what not to put in it."

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I've got to be honest - I still don't understand what that means.

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But that's how dads communicated with that generation,

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and things have changed. Things have changed.

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I've got three kids and you want, as a dad, to understand your kids and you want your kids to understand you.

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And it's very difficult, cos my kids are teenagers now and it's hard to relate.

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In fact, one of them just thinks I'm a knob, to be honest.

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I only know this cos he's one of those kids you get in shopping centres, you know,

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with the skinny jeans and the white pumps and the colourful hoodies,

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and they have hair hanging down and they all hug each other,

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and you can't tell what's a boy or a girl.

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Yeah, I've got one of them and, er...

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I've got to be honest with you - I'm not sure the same one comes home each night.

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And he had a thing recently called a sleepover,

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which has got to be the most inappropriately named activity on the planet.

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It should be called "why not have a load of teenagers you don't know in your house,

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"eating everything in the fridge till 4am, when they have a big row and everyone ends up crying" over.

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And it was during this sleepover, I walked past his bedroom

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and I heard one of his... One of his...mates.

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I heard...

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I heard one of them say, "You know what? It must be dead cool having a dad who's a comedian."

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To which, my son said, "No, he's a knob."

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I have got three kids, as I say.

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My oldest lad's nearly 15, but they operate in a different world now.

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Kids now, they become more... more sexualised quicker.

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They're more interested in sex than we were.

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Much more interested. I mean, I lost my virginity at 17.

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I found it again when I got married, but...

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Now, kids are driven towards it, driven towards it.

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I was in the living room with his mum one night. It was about midnight.

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It wasn't me birthday or anything, but she'd had half a bottle of wine,

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so I thought, "Well, you never know."

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And my wife's like every woman in this room, who knows when a text message is coming before it arrives.

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They've got this instinct, haven't they? Where they just turn into meerkats and they go...

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I'm in the living room with her. It's about midnight.

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All of sudden she goes like that.

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She goes into the kitchen, picks up his mobile phone, which is on silent.

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Brings it in. She said, "He's just got a text message." I said, "Turn the phone off."

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She said, "It's midnight, he's 14, he's just got a text."

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I said, "Well, turn the phone off." She said, "It's midnight, he's 14, he's just got a text message.

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"I'm going to read it."

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I said, "Whoa! You're not going to read it." She said, "I'm his mum. I'm going to read it."

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I said, "I'm his dad. You won't read it." She said, "I'm his mum. I'm going to read it."

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I said, "All right, have a look."

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She got this text message.

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She opened it and it read,

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"I want to shag you."

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The first thing that went through my mind

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is the same that went through every man's mind in this room... "You lucky..."

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Second thing that went through my mind was, "I hope that's not Mr Jenkins, cos..."

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No, it was a good school report, to be honest.

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Next thing, she looks at it and she says, "No, it's off some girl he's friendly with."

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I said, "Very good." She said, "It's not very good."

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I said, "What d'you mean, 'not very good'?"

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She said, "Well, it's time, innit?" I said, "Time for what?" She said, "It's time for the conversation."

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I said, "What conversation?" She said, "It's time you and him sat down and had the conversation."

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I said, "What conversation?" She said, "The conversation.

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"It's time you had the conversation with him."

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I said, "I'm struggling with THIS conversation!"

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I said, "What are you talking about?"

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She said, "The conversation.

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"The conversation. The father-son conversation.

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"The kind of conversation that your dad must have had with you."

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I said, "What?"

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I said, "You've seen my dad.

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"He's got tattoos of swallows on the back of his hands.

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"How many 'conversations' do you think we've ever had?

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"If it doesn't involve, 'What's the score?' I don't think we've spoke for seven years."

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I come down the following morning.

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His brothers are in the kitchen, giggling, cos they know what's going on.

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I walk in. He's sat in the living room, sat on the couch.

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I have to walk in. And I know, at this point, that this is an important conversation.

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This is a pivotal conversation.

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This is a moment where I'm going to educate him

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about things like love and sex and life and relationships.

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I know that, but I'm not equipped for it.

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So I walk in, I sat next to him on the couch.

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I just give him a dead arm. I don't know why I did that.

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I just thought it would break the ice a little bit.

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I looked at him. He looked at me. I went, "Erm..."

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I said, "Er...

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"So listen, son, er...

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"This isn't my idea, er...

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"But I was with your mum last night and, er, you know what she's like.

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"She's like a meerkat. 'Ooh-ooh!' She goes, gets your phone.

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"I said, 'Don't!' She said, 'I want to look.' I said, 'Don't.' She said, 'I want to...'"

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He said, "Dad, is this about sex?" and then I went red.

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I thought, "What am I supposed to say?" Cos this generation don't use words to explain everything.

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Everything's visual, everything's on YouTube, everything's on the Net.

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I thought, "The best way I can explain sex to him now is in a visual way.

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"And the best way I can do that is by sticking a porno on."

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I didn't, I didn't! Cos I realised at the end I would've had to say,

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"To be honest with you, son, they're not normally that enthusiastic.

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"And I've got to be honest with you - it's very rare they bring a mate."

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And I also didn't want him growing up thinking you get a plumber round every 20 minutes.

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But it is. It's a difficult thing.

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And also - as I say - me, I've been married now, er...

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..forever. Er...

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I've been married now 16 years on and off.

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And I say that because we've all reached that point, haven't we?

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I've emigrated from Liverpool. Now I live in Manchester.

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And, er...

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And I live there cos I met a girl there. I met a girl there.

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Met a girl in college. I fell in love,

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we got married,

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we had three kids and then, er...

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We reached that point when you've been married for seven or eight years, where you wake up one morning,

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look at each other and think,

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"Wouldn't it be better if you just pissed off and lived somewhere else?"

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And it just hits you, doesn't it?

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And you do your best. You get through it.

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I think you can probably measure a relationship by the way you give each other presents.

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I remember when I was first married to me wife. The first Christmases.

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I used to love Christmas then. It was special, Christmas, then.

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What I used to do every Christmas then, I used to get her a special present, one special present.

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And I'd hide that. And then I used get her little presents.

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I'd hide the little presents round the house and they were all clues as to where the special present was.

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Then I used to get a CD, and on the CD I used to put all the songs she'd listened to throughout the year.

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And I'd play the CD while she looked for all the presents.

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And every time she found a little present, she'd look at me and her little nose'd wrinkle up like that.

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And she had little dimples and she'd go, "Ooh," and I'd go "Ooh!"

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But you know, after 16 years...

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The way they bleedin' breathe.

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It's just constant, innit? You know what I mean?

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Every day. In and out, in and out.

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And it's hard when you're getting older as well. It's hard when you're getting older.

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I'm over 40 now and, you know, that's a difficult time for any man.

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It's a difficult time for any man, cos it's like God's having a laugh with you when you get over 40.

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The first pubic hair. The first grey pubic hair.

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Oh, that's a shock.

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That is a shock. That really, really tells you how old you've become,

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when you look down and see your first grey pubic hair.

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That was a real shock to the system.

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I had to say to my missus, "Listen, love, you're going to have to tidy that up.

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"I'm doing my best here, for Christ's sake! I'm dressed as a fireman. Come on!"

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Ladies and gentlemen, I've been John Bishop. You've been wonderful. Thank you, good night and God bless.

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CHEERING AND APPLAUSE

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Ladies and gentlemen, Mr John Bishop! Give it up!

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You have been a wonderful audience.

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This has been Live At The Apollo. I am Rhod Gilbert.

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Thank you very, very much for coming.

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Thank you and good night.

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The cream of British comedic talent return to the stage at the world-famous Hammersmith Apollo. Welsh funny man Rhod Gilbert hosts, with a rapturous guest appearance from Liverpudlian John Bishop.


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