Enough Not Going Out


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# We're not going out

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# Not staying in

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# Just hanging around with my head in a spin

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# But there is no need to scream and shout

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# We're not going out

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# We are not going out. #

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Lucy?

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Lucy?

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What?

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It's 7:30 and the kids are still asleep.

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Isn't it great to wake up naturally?

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I don't know. Is it?

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You know what this means?

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We were right to put Baileys in their bedtime milk?

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No.

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Oh!

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Permission to come aboard, Captain?

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Permission granted.

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You'll have to be quick. I've got three packed lunches to make

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and I need to clean that sick off the booster seat.

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Well, you might want to cut down on the sweet-talking, then(!)

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Please tell me you can see them, too.

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What are you doing?

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Daddy was just tickling Mummy.

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What with?

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Why don't you go downstairs and do one of your jigsaws?

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Or maybe two jigsaws.

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Somebody's dreaming.

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And you, whatever you do, don't eat any of those Haribos

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-I've hidden in the top cupboard, just behind the teabags.

-Yes!

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Maybe in about five years, we'll get some privacy back.

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-Yeah. Unless we've got more kids by then.

-Ha!

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-What?

-What?

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-We have finished, right?

-You're getting quicker at this.

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Normally, I can at least tell when you've started.

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-I thought we weren't having any more kids?

-We're not.

-All right.

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For now.

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Is this some sort of psychological contraception?

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What, like, "Shall I pretend to be Tom Selleck"?

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I was feeling experimental, and it was Movember.

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-You are still taking precautions, aren't you?

-You know I am.

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Well, I know you're taking A pill.

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For all I know, you could be necking

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Tic Tacs and mentally repainting the nursery.

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Look, I'm not saying I definitely do want another,

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I just think we should have an open discussion before we rule it out.

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All right, let's have an open discussion.

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-Good.

-And then rule it out.

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That's not an open discussion, Lee.

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An open discussion is an exchange of

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ideas where you don't know how it will end.

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The last time I had an open discussion like that, I ended up sponsoring a guide dog!

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Where are you going?

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Oh! Can we discuss this like adults, please?

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No. I'm going for a Haribo.

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I bet the kids would like a new brother or sister.

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They'd like a full-sized model Dalek.

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No, you'd like that, and we're not getting one.

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Oh, so, that's not open to discussion?

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At least when we were trying to make love, it wouldn't suddenly come up the stairs.

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So, she's dead set on having another one, is she?

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She's not dead set, but she wants to discuss it.

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Oh, good God, you ARE in trouble.

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In the past few months, Anna and I have discussed having a new kitchen,

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we've discussed a very expensive private school for Jack

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and we've discussed having her parents over for far too long at Christmas.

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And guess which one of us got her own way?

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Why are you so against the idea, anyway?

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It's all right for you, with your one kid and your nanny.

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The nanny was Anna's idea.

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Obviously, we discussed it first.

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At least you and Anna still get to do different things.

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Me and Lucy's social life has been reduced to tedious get-togethers

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with tedious parents talking about tedious children.

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You two still coming around tomorrow?

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Wild horses couldn't drag me away.

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It is possible to get through this, you know.

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Anna and I talk about stuff all the time.

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Yeah, and you just said, you then do what she tells you.

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I might give the impression I'm doing whatever Anna tells me.

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Yeah, by very cleverly doing whatever she tells you.

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But sometimes, the trick is getting her to want the same things

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I wanted in the first place.

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Go on.

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Classic example. Few months ago, an investment matured,

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we decided to blow the money on a treat.

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I wanted a classic car, 1969 E-Type Jag convertible.

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But she wanted to blow the money on a five-star luxury skiing holiday in St Moritz.

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But we couldn't afford both.

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The harsh choices facing families in austerity Britain(!)

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Like I said, I wanted the car,

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but I acted like I wanted the skiing holiday.

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Do you know why?

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Because you're absolutely terrified of her?

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Because anything I want, she automatically doesn't want.

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-Result? We got the car.

-Right.

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And what's your advice for a marriage that isn't based on bitterness and mistrust?

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It's the same principle, but more subtle.

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It's about planting little seeds.

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Or, in your case, not planting any.

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You have got to make Lucy change her mind,

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but at the same time, make her think it was her idea.

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And how do I do that?

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Well, instead of telling her all the reasons

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why having another child wouldn't suit you,

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subtly make her see all the reasons why it wouldn't suit her.

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I see.

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-Well?

-I suppose having another child would mean

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that she has less quality time to spend with me.

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Perhaps give that one a bit more thought.

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Checking for three sixes?

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I think he might have head lice.

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But, look on the bright side,

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if you have it your way, we won't have to go through all this again.

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Charlie, why don't you go upstairs and flick nits at your sister?

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Yay!

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Look, um...maybe I was a bit hasty this morning,

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saying, er...no more kids, ever.

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-I'm not saying I do want more.

-No, neither am I.

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But I am up for, you know, an open discussion.

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Well, that's all I was asking for.

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After all, you've taken five years out from work, what's another five?

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Five?

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Well, yeah. With another mouth to feed, I won't be able to share

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the housework, like I did with the first three.

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All right, bad example.

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And we're going to need a bigger car.

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-I've been doing some research in the magazines.

-Oh!

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Take a look at this one.

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Oh, that's lovely!

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Oh, sorry, wrong page.

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That one's the classic vintage Jaguar E-Type convertible that Toby and Anna bought.

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I mean this one, in the no-frills section.

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Or, as they've called it, the more-kids-than-sense section.

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Huh! Oh, you've got to love Clarkson!

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Hm. That looks functional.

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-What type is it?

-Ah, whatever. They're all the same, anyway.

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You know, Vauxhall Zafira, Renault Espace, Nissan Minger.

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The point is, they're practical.

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Say what you want about sports cars,

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but have they got all-plastic interiors

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for when you have to hose out the vomit?

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Well, like I say, it's only a discussion at this stage.

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'Course it is. I mean, it's easy for me to say, innit?

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I don't have to go through the pregnancy.

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OK, yes, there's the morning sickness and the sore joints

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and the mood swings and the tiredness,

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and the dehydration and the leg cramps

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and the constant stabbing pain in the pelvic girdle,

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and the not wanting to get back into your bikini after the birth

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because of the varicose veins and the constant big, old bloated feeling.

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But look at all the benefits!

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Another healthy year of no wine.

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You forgot the constipation.

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Oh, come on! That'll come in handy when you're that busy.

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-Argh!

-Can't catch me!

-Yeah, I can!

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HIGH-PITCHED SQUEALING

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Quiet, Molly! Anna doesn't want to hear you screaming!

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It's all right, Lucy. You forget I have a child, too.

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I know how to deal with this.

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Are you sure you want four children?

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I know someone who's giving away a chinchilla.

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Actually, I'm starting to think having more children isn't such a good idea after all.

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-Really?

-Well, the more Lee and I talk about it, the more I've gone off the idea.

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Don't tell me, he's been looking at it from your point of view?

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Talked about how happy he was to make loads of compromises,

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-didn't put any pressure on you at all?

-Pretty much.

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The oldest trick in the book.

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Making the case for one thing,

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while subtly steering you in the other direction.

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That doesn't sound like Lee.

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-He was being clever.

-That's what I mean.

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Marriage is a complicated game of chess.

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You always have to look five moves ahead.

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My marriage isn't like a game of chess,

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it's more like throwing a Frisbee for a dog.

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Forget all the discussions and what-ifs,

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forget how open Lee was being.

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Just ask yourself one simple question.

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Might you want another child in the future?

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Well...maybe, yes.

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Well, there you go. Simple.

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You're right, Anna.

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I feel so much clearer after talking to you.

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I'm going to tell Lee.

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Don't tell him! My God, you're naive!

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You need to manipulate him in return.

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-Do I?

-Of course you do.

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Trust me, I know what I'm talking about.

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Recently, Toby wanted to buy a sports car, and so did I.

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But guess what I did?

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-I pretended I wanted a skiing holiday instead.

-Why?

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Because I knew Toby was trying to manipulate me,

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so I manipulated him in return.

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I knew he was only pretending to want the skiing holiday

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to make me want the car, but I already wanted the car,

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so I played him at his own game.

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That way, it looked like I'd compromised.

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And so, next time I want something, he owes me.

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And you've got to manipulate Lee to get what you want.

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Oh, I don't know. All sounds a bit cold and calculating.

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Good. I'm glad I'm making myself clear.

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I just saw a very heavily pregnant woman in the supermarket.

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-Oh, yeah?

-Yeah, she looked so happy. She had that...glow.

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-Is that right?

-Yeah.

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She'd just knocked over a display with her pushchair and the kids were running riot,

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but she just kept glowing.

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I know you used to call it blotchy-gland rash,

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but I call it glowing.

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I've been thinking about everything you've been saying

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and I feel bad about what I'm going to say,

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especially given that you've been so considerate and thoughtful about everything,

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but I've made a decision, and I feel definite about it.

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Go on.

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I don't want to have any more children.

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COWBOY: Yee-haw!

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That's a shame.

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I was so full of enthusiasm.

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Yes, you were. You were full of it.

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You've been very sweet, but you got me thinking,

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do I actually want more time off work?

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Do I really want to go through another pregnancy again?

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And I decided, no, I don't.

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Are you sure?

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Yes, I am.

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As in, not ever, for definite?

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For definite.

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Shall we put it in writing?

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Oh, I haven't got time for that.

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The kids are at my mum's and you and me have got some unfinished business from this morning.

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Ooo! Afternoon delight!

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My favourite delight, after Angel.

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-What's brought this on?

-Well, it's a special occasion.

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Is it?

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Yeah. The last time we make love before your vasectomy.

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-My what?

-You know, an operation on your genitals

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which stops sperm leaving the body and making you sterile.

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No, you're still not selling it.

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Well, it's the only way to make things final,

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and the pill has lots of side-effects, like weight gain,

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and I want to look good in that bikini, remember?

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A vasectomy doesn't have any side-effects.

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No. Unless you count cutting off half your genitalia with a big knife!

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Lee, it's a vasectomy, not gender-reassignment surgery.

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They don't cut half of anything off.

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They take less than a millimetre.

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So, what's that, about three-quarters?

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-We've talked about this in the past.

-Have we?

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Gosh! We've been talking about so much lately, I can't remember.

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I always said, if I get old and confused

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and I don't recognise you or the kids

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and I've got no quality of life,

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please do the humane thing and don't give me a vasectomy.

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Well, the pill was about keeping the window of opportunity open,

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but now, we've just decided to slam that window shut.

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But we don't have to slam it shut on my testicles, do we?

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Come on, are we going upstairs?

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-I'm not really in the mood any more.

-Oh, OK.

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Well, I suppose we'd better get ready for Anna and Toby, anyway.

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Ooo! It's a bit chilly in here, isn't it?

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SLAM!

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-Did you put the kids down?

-Yeah. I told Charlie he's a thicko

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and said the twins smelt like chicken Cup-a-Soup.

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-Look, Lucy...

-KNOCK AT DOOR

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Oh, can you get that? It'll be Anna and Toby.

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Chop chop!

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-Hello!

-Hi!

-Hi!

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Oh, you just missed the children, I'm afraid.

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Yes, anybody would think that Anna makes us sit outside in the car,

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waiting for the kids' bedroom light to go off.

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-Well, I followed your advice.

-What, about squeezing a lemon on it?

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Not about stopping fruit salad going brown.

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I'm talking about your Derren Brown mind-control tactics

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to make Lucy say no more kids.

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And?

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Now she wants me to have a vasectomy.

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Well, congratulations.

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Congratulations? My testicles have just been put on death row,

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they've not just passed their driving test!

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It solves all your problems

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and it's a perfectly routine bit of surgery.

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When you were a kid, did you have your tonsils taken out?

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Yeah, but I didn't have them taken out of my scrotum.

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A vasectomy?!

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Oh, it's OK, it's all part of the plan.

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There's no way he'll go through with it,

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and when he backs down, the balance of power returns to me.

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Oh, clever girl!

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You really have got him by the...

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How's the new car, Toby?

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Oh, not bad. You know, it's no skiing holiday,

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but marriage is all about compromise.

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Exactly. And skiing is a bit overrated, anyway.

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I mean, who wants to be up to their hips in frost?

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Yeah. I can get that at home.

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This looks delicious, Lucy, thank you.

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Oh, it's just something simple.

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But where would we be without our meat and two veg?

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-Are you doing this deliberately?

-Doing what?

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Sorry, I'm just a bit stressed at the moment.

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Lee's having a vasectomy.

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-I had no idea.

-Oh, gosh! Really?

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-I haven't actually said I'm going through with it.

-I wouldn't worry, Lee.

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These days, plenty of men go in for the chop.

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I think people refer to it as the snip.

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Snip, chop, hack, slice, mince.

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Bludgeon.

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What's worrying you about it?

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I don't know. What if it goes wrong?

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What if the doctor's doing the operation and his hand slips?

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A buzzer goes off and your nose lights up?

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Lee, a vasectomy is a perfectly straightforward operation.

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There's plenty of information available to show you how safe it is.

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Toby's right. I'm going to Google it.

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What could possibly go wrong with a vasectomy?

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-Oh!

-Ooo!

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Ooo, I wish I hadn't done an Eton mess now.

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-Have a look at that, Lee.

-Yeah, have a butcher's.

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This is ridiculous!

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I can't sit by and let that sort of ignorance go unchallenged.

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Oh, come on, Toby, what makes you such an expert?

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I'm a doctor.

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And that makes you better than Google, does it?

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Anyway, this isn't professional advice, this is personal.

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-Toby?

-If you have a vasectomy, Lee, you'll be fine. I was.

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This is hardly conversation for the dinner table, is it?!

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Well, you're the one who's got their phone open on mangledtackle.com.

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-So, when did you have it done?

-Six years ago.

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It was totally fine.

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Would you have it done again?

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There wouldn't be much point in having it done again.

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-You know what I mean.

-Of course I would. It was a simple little operation.

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-Did it hurt?

-Not really.

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-Was it embarrassing?

-Not at all!

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And how long afterwards was it before you, you know, got to have sex?

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I'll keep you posted on that one.

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So, it really was OK?

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It was simple and it was painless.

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And more importantly, it hasn't made me any less of a man.

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-No?

-No, that was a totally separate operation,

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performed by Anna slowly over a period of years.

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And did you, er...offer to do it, you know, voluntarily?

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Well...we discussed it.

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-So, Anna got her way?

-If Anna had got her way,

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I would have had it done before our first date.

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I beg your pardon?

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I didn't mean...

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You mean before we had Jack?

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No, of course not, it was just a silly joke.

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I always wanted a child, you know that,

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I just didn't want loads of kids. Is that such a crime?!

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-Of course not.

-And having just one child meant

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we were able to devote all our energy and attention

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to finding people to properly look after him.

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I know that.

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Why is it nowadays, if you don't want a huge, noisy family

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you're seen as not normal?

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It's hard work. You get no sleep,

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it costs a fortune and you get no time to yourself!

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Having loads of kids robs you of everything else you might want to achieve in life,

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and I'm not afraid to admit, that's how I feel.

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If you ask me, the world would be a better place if everyone was sterilised at 30!

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But...good luck with whatever you decide.

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She's right. I need to do this.

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For you and our family.

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What, you're going to do it?

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I need to man up and grow a pair, and then get them sterilised.

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Anna's right.

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No, I'm not.

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Tell him, Toby! Tell him I'm wrong!

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What, in front of you?

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Lucy?

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Lucy?

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What?

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We're awake before the kids again.

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Those novelty hot water bottles are getting more realistic.

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Should I, er...scoop her up and put her back into bed?

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-Why?

-You know...

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This might be the last time we, er...with me intact.

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End of an era, like the final ever Boyzone concert.

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Except I won't reform in 20 years and produce new material.

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-You're still going through with the vasectomy, then?

-'Course.

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EXCITED SHRIEKING

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Oh! Well, that was wonderful. How was it for you(?)

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Let's have a tickling competition.

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First one to wet themselves makes breakfast!

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You're in a good mood.

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Well, we've made a positive decision, haven't we?

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I'm going to bring you breakfast in bed.

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How about cereal with sterilised milk and seedless grapes?

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I can't believe that by tonight, it might all be over.

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-You're not seeing someone about it today, are you?

-Why not?

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Well, they wouldn't do it there and then, surely.

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It's not while-you-wait.

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Well, I don't think you drop 'em off and call back to pick 'em up later.

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The sooner we do it, the better.

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And in the meantime, we need to make the most of these little monkeys whilst they're young.

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Doesn't last forever, does it?

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LUCY SOBS

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Don't worry, kids, Mummy's doing happy crying.

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Why don't you go downstairs and put the television on...really loudly?

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What's the matter?

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I don't want you to have a vasectomy.

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-What do you want?

-Another baby.

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You said yesterday you changed your mind.

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I only said that to manipulate you. It was Anna's idea.

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You've been taking relationship advice from Frosty the Snow Cow?

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Oh, like you haven't been manipulating me?

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So let me get this straight,

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you asked me to have a vasectomy because you want a baby?

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That's a novel approach(!)

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I just wanted to keep the possibility open, that's all.

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But when things started to sound so final,

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it made me think I actually definitely do want another one.

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I didn't think you'd agree to the vasectomy!

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I did agree, because I listen to your needs and I do what you want.

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Good. I want another baby.

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I walked into that one, didn't I?

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It has to be a mutual decision.

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I know. But if I don't agree to another baby,

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then I'm responsible for Lucy being miserable.

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Lee, you're a married man, you took a solemn vow

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to be responsible for Lucy being miserable.

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There is one other way of looking at this, of course.

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Maybe you should just count your blessings.

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I have counted them.

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I've got three blessings and I adore them,

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but kids are like Pot Noodles,

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nobody needs more than three at a time.

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Count your blessings that Lucy's the kind of woman that wants more.

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I never had that option with Anna.

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I know, and I do appreciate it.

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Lucy's an amazing mum, and I love being a dad,

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but, come on, four?!

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I wanted to start a family, not a Beatles tribute act.

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Would having one more child really make such a huge difference?

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Don't they start looking after one another when you have a few?

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No, they do not!

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You still have to clothe them, and bathe them, and breast-feed them.

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Wow! You're more hands-on than I thought.

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You still have to look after them, tell them off,

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break up fights, check for lice,

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take that little seat on and off the toilet,

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chase them, have play fights in bed,

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teach them all the rude words to Jingle Bells

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and deny all knowledge of it at the carol concert.

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Have you considered the possibility

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that you might actually quite like to have another child?

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I did once have four Pot Noodles, actually.

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Maybe having another baby is not such a bad idea.

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Not me and him, we're not having a baby.

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I've had a vasectomy, anyway.

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Why are you so proud of that?

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How did you know I was here?

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I checked Wetherspoons and Ladbrokes, where else was left?

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Toby told me you were meeting Anna here.

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You've not been for the operation, have you?

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If I'd been for a vasectomy, would I be able to do this?

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Tinder, eh? Wish I'd swiped left now.

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Sorry I got so emotional this morning.

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You've got nothing to be sorry about.

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-Faster!

-OK!

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We need to talk about this properly, though.

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You mean without trying to manipulate each other?

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Yeah. Honestly and openly, like we should have done from the start.

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Or we could just let the wise old sage from the village have another crack at things(!)

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Oh, Anna, Anna, Anna!

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It's true, say her name three times and she does appear.

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Go and play with the other children, Jack.

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Hi, Jack!

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Lucy...Lee, I wanted to apologise

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for my outburst at dinner last night,

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and I certainly shouldn't have told Lucy to try to manipulate you, Lee.

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And I shouldn't have told Lee to try and manipulate you, either, Lucy.

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I didn't know you had.

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I'm going to go and stand over there now.

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It's none of my business, I know, but just because

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I don't want a bigger family doesn't mean you two shouldn't.

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I mean, look how happy those kids are.

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No! Argh!

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Toby, drop any of those children in the dirt

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and you'll be the one who's crying!

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Why not have more? You've got such great kids.

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That'd be nice, growing old, surrounded by so many of 'em.

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'Course it would. Children are a blessing.

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Oh, for God's sake! Toby, show some authority!

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You're supposed to be the Alpha!

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Look, four kids. It's not that different to three, is it?

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Mm. One per limb.

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Four could be a wonderful experience for you both.

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Benji, be careful with Toby!

0:25:510:25:53

Leave him. Toby needs to learn.

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Toby, stop showing your weakness!

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One of them's got my wallet!

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I'm sure whatever you decide will be the right thing.

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Help! CHILDREN SHRIEK

0:26:050:26:07

Jack, get off your father!

0:26:070:26:09

No teeth, you're riddled with germs!

0:26:090:26:11

-Four kids, eh!

-Help!

0:26:130:26:15

-Yeah. Who wouldn't want that?

-Help!

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TOBY YELLS

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I was ashamed of our children today.

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We need to think of a punishment.

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I already have.

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I've told them, no more beating up Toby for the next two weeks.

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I've not really thought through how difficult having four kids is, have I?

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No, but that's what we need to do,

0:26:410:26:43

have a proper discussion about everything and...

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Actually, can we not, just for a while?

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I'm not saying no more kids, nor am I definitely saying I do want more.

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I'm just saying, can we just see how things go for a bit,

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stop putting so much pressure on ourselves?

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Yeah.

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And who knows, if we do stop at three,

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maybe we'll save enough money to afford a treat.

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Perhaps even a skiing holiday.

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You're not getting a sports car.

0:27:070:27:09

So if we're not talking about stuff,

0:27:100:27:13

we're going to need to think of something else to do.

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Ooo! Somebody's been watching Magnum PI.

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What did you have in mind?

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Well, come a little closer and I'll show you.

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COWBOY: Yee-haw!

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Can I sleep in your bed again?

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HE SIGHS

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Go on, then. Get in.

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-Yay!

-Ooo!

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Oh, you know what?

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I think more kids might be out of the question now, anyway.

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# We're not going out

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# Not staying in

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# Just hanging around with my head in a spin

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# But there is no need to scream and shout

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# We're not going out

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# We are not going out. #

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