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# We're not going out Not staying in

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# Just hanging around With my head in a spin

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# But that is no need to scream and shout

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# We're not going out

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# We are not going out. #

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OK. Bye.

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-That was Mum.

-Oh, they're back from their holidays?

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Yeah, they just got home. It was a lovely break.

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Certainly was, but we can't keep them away for ever.

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Where did Grandma and Grandad go?

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They went to Venice.

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It's a place in Italy with lots of canals.

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I know that.

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I know you do, sweetheart, I was telling Daddy.

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It was a special present from all of us for their wedding anniversary.

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50 years. Isn't that amazing?

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Certainly is. Your mum deserves a medal.

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It's only the "Till death do us part" line that's keeping her hanging on in there.

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Anyway, they're coming around in a bit to tell us all about it.

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Already? They've literally just got back.

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-Sorry, is that a problem?

-No. But they are here quite a lot.

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Not as much as you.

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Actually, I've just remembered, I've, er...got to pop into work.

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-On a Sunday morning?

-Yeah.

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Of course. I was forgetting you're the Archbishop of Canterbury(!)

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You're going to be here, and you'll listen to their holiday stories,

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and look at their photos and smile politely.

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Lying and avoiding my parents.

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I don't know which one is worse.

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Oh, it's definitely your dad.

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So, how are you?

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Yeah, all fine.

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Apart from the usual, Lee always trying to find an excuse

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to nip out when certain people he has an issue with come around.

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-Where is he?

-He's nipped out.

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I mean my parents.

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It's like he tries to avoid having anything to do with them.

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Sounds like you two are having a few problems.

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Oh, no, just letting off steam.

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It's OK, Lucy, you can talk to me.

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This might come as a bit of a surprise to you,

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but, just between us,

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my marriage to Toby isn't exactly perfect.

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No?!

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I know. We put on a show of being this ideal couple,

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all sweetness and light.

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The truth is, at times, I can be a little bit abrasive towards Toby.

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At times?

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I mean, abrasive?

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But recently, we decided to try and improve things,

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so we've been for some marriage guidance counselling.

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-Really?

-I have to say, it's been amazing.

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I've been talking about things more, vocalising my feelings.

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I'm really opening up.

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Wow! What about Toby?

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Yes, he comes along, too.

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Really, Lucy, you should try it.

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Us? Oh, we don't need marriage guidance.

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Why not? It would help you get to the bottom of these issues

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he has with your parents.

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Look, I can see your marriage isn't in trouble,

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but why wait until it is?

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Look at it this way, if you found a lump,

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even if you were almost certain it was nothing serious,

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you'd still go to the doctor, right?

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I suppose.

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Well, in your marriage, there's a lump.

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-Right.

-And I'm quite sure it's absolutely nothing to worry about,

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but it's still worth getting checked out.

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You know, on the off chance it needs to be removed.

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Yeah. Thanks for the advice, but have you ever heard the phrase,

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-"taking a sledgehammer to crack a nut"?

-Yes.

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Well, I'll probably just do that instead.

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Venice was beautiful.

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Yes, we loved it.

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The food, the architecture. We had all kinds of new experiences.

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Oh, what's Dad doing in this one?

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He's smiling.

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-Look at this one of Dad.

-That's interesting, Geoffrey.

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I never realised you showed up on photographs.

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-So, thank you both.

-Oh, don't be silly.

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If you can't put your in-laws on a plane and send them

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1,000 miles across Europe, what pleasures do we have left?

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So...50 years of marriage.

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Come on, then, what's the secret?

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Oh, there's no great secret.

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If you want to stay married, don't get divorced and don't die.

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So don't leave Lee and don't kill him.

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We're not underestimating the size of the challenge.

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Well, we probably should be leaving.

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Is everything OK, darling, with you two?

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Yeah. Why wouldn't it be?

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You know we're always here.

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Yes, I know you are, and so does Lee.

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Bye-bye, darling.

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What? I did what you asked.

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Really? I don't remember asking you to make smart-arse comments.

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I thought I was quite restrained.

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When your mum said that gondolier had taken her up the Grand Canal, I didn't say a word.

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Anna popped around earlier.

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That reminds me, the freezer needs defrosting.

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-She told me something quite surprising.

-Oh, really?

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Don't tell me, one of her servants has got rickets?

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She and Toby are having marriage counselling.

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And that surprises you?

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If I was married to Anna, I'd want counselling.

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I say counselling, it would be a bloke with a megaphone

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telling me to step away from the ledge.

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She suggested it might be good for us to give it a go.

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Unbelievable!

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Why is it every fad that Anna picks up, you have to follow?

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Pilates, spiralizer, Fitbit. I hope they never get mauled by tigers,

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you'll have me over the fence at Whipsnade with a pocketful of sausages!

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-We're fine!

-I know we are, but Anna and Toby were totally fine once.

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Why wait until we really need it?

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I don't need a colostomy bag,

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but it doesn't mean I'm going to get one fitted just in case.

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A counsellor is not the same thing as a colostomy bag.

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Oh, I don't know, I think there's a key similarity.

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Why would you want to copy Anna and Toby?

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Who'd want a marriage like theirs?

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I don't want a marriage like Anna and Toby's, I want a marriage like...

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Like...?

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Oh, I don't know.

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Like your mum and dad, that's what you were going to say.

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-Where are you going?

-To get something to keep polar bears away from that freezer.

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Obviously, they're not a problem at the moment,

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but why wait until we really need it?

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-So, how have you been?

-Fine.

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Yeah? Everything OK?

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Fine.

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How's Anna?

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Fine.

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What do you pay when your library books are late?

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-Is there something you're trying to ask me?

-Let me put it another way,

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-but you promise to tell me if I'm being too cryptic.

-OK.

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How's the marriage counselling going?

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That is supposed to be confidential.

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Yeah, but surely I'm allowed to tell you.

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Well, since you know about it anyway,

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yes, we have been going to see someone.

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So, what are they like, these sessions?

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Well, it's not my kind of thing at all, really.

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But at least I get to list all Anna's faults.

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Well, not all her faults, obviously, the sessions only last two hours.

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-So, what kind of things do you talk about?

-Everything.

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We even have to talk in far too much detail about our...sex life.

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-What kind of things do you say?

-Do you know what, next time,

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I'll have a laptop at the ready so you can join in via Skype(!)

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Counselling or the sex?

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So, er...how bad had things got before, you know, you decided to go?

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Well, things weren't great.

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But at least the counselling has improved things a bit,

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you know, in terms of the arguing

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and the sleeping in the spare room, of course.

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-Is that where you were before the counselling?

-No, that's where I am now.

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Before the counselling, I was at the Premier Inn.

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-Things must have been awful.

-Well, there's no room service,

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but it's clean and the showers are good.

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And Lenny Henry always cheers me up at breakfast.

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This is terrible!

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Well, thanks for your concern,

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but, like I say, we're working things through.

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I don't mean for you, I mean for me!

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Lucy wants us to go, but she must think we're in a right state

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if she wants to talk to someone who deals with couples who are that messed up.

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Remind me again why we're friends?

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Look, it's fine.

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The way I see it is this -

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marriage is a marathon, not a sprint.

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And like a marathon, you have to keep on going,

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drink as much as you can,

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and keep telling yourself over and over, "This will end".

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Ladies and gentlemen, the bride and groom.

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THEY CHUCKLE

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Ah. You ready to go, Anna?

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Or are you too busy discussing more personal details of our marriage?

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What is it this time?

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Telling Lucy that I like to keep my pyjamas on during sex?

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No. She didn't mention that.

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And why would she? It's a made-up example.

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Exactly. Because, as we know, Lucy,

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despite their wonderful marriage counselling, they never have sex.

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No, they're having a lot more sex since counselling, actually.

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I think you'll find they're in separate bedrooms, actually.

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-Yes, but they have an arrangement on Wednesdays where they...

-All right!

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I think I preferred it when you were talking behind my back.

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-Sorry.

-I'm sorry, too, Toby.

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I hear what you're saying

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and I acknowledge that you're annoyed with me.

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I shared information about our private life without your consent

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and without considering how that might make you feel.

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OK.

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Well, I hear what you're saying, too, Anna.

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I appreciate your apology.

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I should have understood that sometimes you need to share

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your feelings with friends.

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I apologise, too. I shouldn't have tried to stifle your conversation.

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Eurgh!

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We should be going.

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Thank you for being so honest with us.

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It won't go any further.

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Of course. And best of luck for Wednesday.

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See? Impressive, right?

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Impressive? It was like watching two Daleks trying to mate!

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At least their problems are discussed, Lee.

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Unlike the one you have with my parents.

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-We're nothing like Toby and Anna.

-Of course we're not!

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But counselling's improved their relationship in all sorts of ways.

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You heard, they're having more sex.

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Well, are you prepared to give it a go?

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If it's what you really want, then, yes, I'm prepared to have more sex.

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What about the counsellor?

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I'll have to see a picture of him first.

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Have you done any marriage counselling before?

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No. You?

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-And what made you come to counselling?

-Her.

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He only came because I promised him a McDonald's on the way home.

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-So, you're here reluctantly?

-A bit, yeah.

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I think our marriage is fine.

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And the way I look at it, if it ain't broke,

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charge it £70 an hour and it soon will be.

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Can we not discuss money, please, Lee?

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I'm sorry.

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Forget the embarrassing discussions about money, let's just talk about the sex.

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That's not the first time he's used that line to a woman.

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That's a joke.

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Lee's never paid for sex.

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We've got three kids, you always end up paying for it in the end.

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So, why did you want to come here today, Lucy?

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Um...you were recommended to us by our friends, Toby and Anna.

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You know them, right?

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I'm afraid I can't discuss any of my other clients.

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I wouldn't admit to that one either.

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That would be like saying you were Shane MacGowan's dentist.

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I don't discuss anything that happens in here at all.

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It's all confidential.

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Confidential. You could learn from that.

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-What does that mean?

-You, discussing our marriage with Anna!

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Some things are supposed to be kept between a husband and wife.

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-Right?

-You're not paying me to judge or point the finger.

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Oh, that's extra, is it?

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I only talked to Anna because you and I don't discuss our problems properly.

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Like your attitude towards my parents.

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Here we go. Right, you want me to discuss things, I'll discuss things.

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Lucy thinks I have an issue with her parents,

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but the real issue is that she puts their marriage on a pedestal,

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which means she then has unreasonably high expectations

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about our own marriage, and when we fail to meet those expectations,

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she sees it as a failure, rather than what it really is,

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which is the normal tensions that exist in any loving, happy relationship.

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Especially those that don't idealise their perfect parents' marriage.

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-What?

-Well, you asked me to do this properly.

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But you weren't supposed to think about it in advance.

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That's cheating!

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Does any of Lee's account strike a chord with you, Lucy?

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Well, I suppose I do see my parents as having the perfect marriage.

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When I was growing up, it was always a very happy home.

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And what about you, Lee, when you were growing up?

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Way ahead of you, Doc.

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Classic broken home, which, to some, might suggest an unhappy upbringing,

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which led to me having personal relationship issues as an adult.

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But it's actually the complete opposite.

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It enables me to value what Lucy and I have in our own marriage

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and makes me less likely to compare our perfectly happy marriage

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with anybody else's.

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Maybe you need some one-on-one time with my wife. Shall I pop out and get us all a coffee?

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Or maybe it's possible that Lucy,

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who comes from a place of security and warmth,

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is more able to vocalise these bigger questions about your relationship

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because she's not afraid of it causing bigger problems.

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Whereas you fear addressing anything you consider unpleasant

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due to your own deep-rooted anxieties.

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You what?

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How do you get along with Lucy's parents?

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Her dad hates me.

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It takes two people to make a bad relationship.

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Fair point. Her mum doesn't like me much either.

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Of course they like you.

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You talk about them not liking you, but maybe you don't like them

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because of what they represent.

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The secure and solid marriage

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that you didn't have around you growing up.

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Perhaps Lucy's parents aren't judging you at all.

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Perhaps you're judging yourself.

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Hang on. Can we go out and come back in again?

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Yes, I'm going to recommend you come several times.

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No chance. You'll have me saying I've got desires to set fire to things and sleep with my mum.

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Oh, I've had enough of this!

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Lee, can you sit down, please? This is progress.

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No. I came here on the express condition that it would be a complete waste of time.

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If I'd known it'd be worthwhile, I would have never agreed to it!

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So, you didn't enjoy it?

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No, I didn't, and it's all your fault.

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-Why?

-Because you've been in there.

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You know how awful it is, and you didn't stop me from going.

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This is like Lord of the Dance all over again.

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I didn't exactly recommend the counselling.

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No, but you didn't warn me that it'd all turn out to be my fault.

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Oh, I see.

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Yeah, that's right. It's all me, apparently.

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It doesn't mean she's right. I mean, you're a doctor,

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I bet you've made the odd incorrect diagnosis.

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Course I have. I'm not infallible.

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But put it this way, if I had a patient who owned a crocodile

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who came in complaining of lower limb pain

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and carrying his foot in a plastic bag, I wouldn't diagnose mumps.

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Maybe it's time you made some changes. I know Anna has.

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Exactly, Anna's made the changes, which means I'm the Anna.

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I'm the baddie, I'm the evil one, I'm the Wicked Witch of the West.

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Keep going.

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The counsellor said we needed to think of new pet names for each other.

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Look, I know I was sceptical about the counselling,

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and I still am, but I can't deny it has improved my marriage.

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We're sharing a bedroom again.

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-Really?

-Well, Anna has it the first half of the week...

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..I have it the second. But it's a start.

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Yeah, well, like I say, with all due respect,

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me and Lucy are not as bad as you two.

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I know.

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Because if counselling can't help you,

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you are worse than me and Anna.

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You are worse than me and Anna.

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Sorry, it's just not a sentence I get to say to people very often.

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What are you reading?

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Really? The Dummy's Guide to Telepathic Communication.

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Oi! No, I will not, cheeky, I've just brushed my teeth.

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Look, I've been thinking, about your mum and dad.

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I already know what you think of my mum and dad.

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Hang on, this is a positive thing.

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-Go on.

-It's true that I don't feel comfortable around them.

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I always thought it was because your dad was a miserable old sod

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who always put me down and expected everyone to do what he says

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and that your mum is also a bit stuck up in her own sort of way.

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Can we print these lovely words on a cushion and give it to them for Christmas(?)

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But, like the counsellor says...

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..maybe it's possible

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that I'm threatened by how strong their relationship is.

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And so...

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I hear what you're saying,

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and perhaps I should start feeling less threatened

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and start admiring them a bit more.

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Are you after sex?

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No.

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Obviously, I'm not completely ruling it out.

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-Go on.

-Excellent!

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I mean, keep talking.

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Oh.

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And so I've decided to make more of an effort with them.

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And I'm going to start by cooking them a celebratory anniversary meal.

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Lee, this is really great.

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But can you do me a favour?

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Don't mention any of this marriage guidance stuff in front of Dad.

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He thinks it's a sign of weakness to have semi-skimmed milk.

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Course.

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Maybe this counselling is having a real effect.

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Good night.

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I wish I'd saved this chat for a Wednesday.

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Thank you, darling. We feel very spoiled.

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First Venice, now this.

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Don't thank me, thank Lee. He did all the cooking.

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I loved the croutons.

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They were mushrooms.

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And it wasn't just the cooking, the whole thing was Lee's idea.

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Well, I must say, that's very uncharacteristic.

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Careful, Dad, you almost gave Lee a compliment.

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Oh, I'm quite capable of giving compliments when I want to.

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Well, I'm around all evening.

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If I were a cynical man, I'd say you'd done something terrible

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and now you were trying to make up for it.

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-Dad!

-It's OK, Lucy.

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I hear what your dad is saying.

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I am trying to make up for something, Geoffrey.

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Lost time with you and Wendy.

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Perhaps if I spent more time with you both,

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I'd learn what it takes to have such a long, fulfilling and wonderful marriage.

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My God, he must have done something awful.

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Ignore him. I thought this meal was wonderful, and so does Geoffrey.

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Look at his face!

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Why don't you two go and make yourselves comfy and we'll clear up?

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Well, this is going well.

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Look, I know Dad can be a bit gruff.

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It doesn't matter to me what Dad says or thinks,

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what matters to me is how you're reacting to him,

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and you're being really lovely.

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KNOCK AT DOOR

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Sorry to just land on you like this,

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but we were just passing and thought we'd say hello.

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Yeah, nothing at all to do with Anna wanting to hear about your counselling.

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Of course not.

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But now that Toby mentions it, how did it go?

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Well, um...we weren't sure at first,

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but I have to admit, the results are pretty impressive.

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How many sessions have you had since?

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Same as you, just Wednesdays.

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Counselling sessions.

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Just the one. But I've booked us in for another.

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-Have you?

-Well, I thought that's what you'd want.

-Thank you.

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Don't forget, someone's still owed ridiculously undersized McNuggets

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and a bit of limp lettuce.

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Is there anything you haven't told them about our sex life, Anna?

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I'm talking about McDonald's.

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As you were.

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Look, I'm sorry to be rude, but Mum and Dad are here at the moment.

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We invited them over for dinner.

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Oh, sorry, I didn't realise. Of course, we'll leave you to it.

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It's just that Dad's a bit old-school about this sort of thing,

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so I'm really trying to avoid him finding out we've been having marriage guidance.

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He'd probably say something like...

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Marriage guidance? What the hell are you talking about?

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Something like that.

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It's, um...Anna and Toby.

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They've been going for marriage guidance.

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Going through a rough patch.

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Keep spreading the word, we're not quite trending on Twitter yet.

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You weren't talking about them, you were talking about you and Lee going!

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-Oh, um...

-I knew it! I said he'd done something wrong, didn't I?

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Dad, all sorts of people go for marriage counselling.

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It doesn't mean we're in trouble.

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Rubbish! It's for marriages in jeopardy, that's what it is.

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The word jeopardy isn't very helpful.

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Unless you're playing Scrabble, of course.

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So, come on, then, what's he done?

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I'll tell you exactly what he's done.

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He's made an effort to do something really nice for you and Mum

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and you've thrown it back in his face!

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Yeah. I'm glad I didn't get you that lawnmower.

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He's never made an effort before.

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He must be trying to atone for something. So, what is it?

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-Nothing!

-Yes, leave Lee alone!

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-Shush, Wendy.

-Don't shush me!

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Not everyone who goes to marriage guidance has done something wrong!

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For goodness' sake, woman, stop sticking your nose in!

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Not everyone is like you and your little floozy!

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Floozy, another good Scrabble word.

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Not as good as jezebel, but...

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-What floozy?

-Nothing. Ignore me.

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OK. Huh! Can I tempt anyone to an olive?

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What, that wasn't her name, was it?

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-Dad?

-It was nothing. It was just a couple of lunch dates.

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Three lunch dates,

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one evening at a Berni Inn and a Demis Roussos concert.

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I'm going to take a punt and say this wasn't recently.

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Course it wasn't recently, it was many years ago,

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before you were even born, Lucy!

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Absolutely nothing physical happened, and...and you know it!

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I'd never have come if I'd known Brenda was going to be dragged up.

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What, you mean she was actually a man?

0:23:160:23:18

-Are you enjoying this?

-No!

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Lucy, it was nothing,

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and, to be quite honest, it's none of your business!

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Geoffrey's right, what he did all those years ago is his affair.

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-Well, not affair, I mean...

-Shut up!

-No, I will not shut up.

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I'm doing what you asked and showing some interest in your parents.

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We wanted to know the secret of their wonderful marriage, now we do.

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-Oh, my God, you actually are enjoying this!

-Course I'm not.

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We had some problems, but we dealt with them and we moved on.

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At least I thought we'd moved on.

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That was the whole point of those sessions.

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-What sessions?

-We had some marriage guidance.

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Ha! I'm still not enjoying this.

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What do you mean, "Ha"?

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Well, you know, marriage guidance, your perfect parents.

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I hoped you'd never find out about it, and you wouldn't have done

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if somebody hadn't opened their big mouth!

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Oh, typical! I tell you about his fling

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and he's more embarrassed about having counselling!

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Good job I didn't mention the pipe he started smoking during that time

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because he thought it made him look like a poet!

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Ha! All right, I enjoyed that one.

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Oh, come on, you've got to admit, it's quite ironic.

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We only went to marriage guidance in the first place to be more like them!

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You're using this as a weapon!

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So what if they had a bit of counselling? It's no big deal!

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I agree. At least they went for a proper reason.

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-Your dad had an affair.

-How many times...?

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I don't know, Geoffrey, is there others we don't know about?

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I should knock your block off for that comment.

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Typical! Never content until there's a squabble or a ruckus!

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Don't mention Scrabble again.

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-Unbelievable!

-Great, I'm getting more grief than your dad!

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Maybe I should have had an affair and I'd have got off lighter!

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Have you got her address? I'll go down to the nursing home and wheel Brenda out.

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Maybe I can borrow your pipe!

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Let's all take a moment to acknowledge what's been shared.

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Lee, I hear what you're saying...

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Oh, shut up, Anna!

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I beg your pardon?!

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If you had kept our business private in the first place,

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instead of telling the whole world, none of this would have happened!

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I don't need permission to speak from you, Toby.

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I am bloody sick of holding my tongue

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just to protect your so-called feelings!

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Well, I hear what you're saying

0:25:190:25:21

and you can stuff it up your jacksie!

0:25:210:25:24

Wait for me!

0:25:260:25:28

So...where were we?

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I was just saying,

0:25:350:25:37

how's the marriage guidance going?

0:25:370:25:39

Well, that went well(!)

0:25:510:25:53

I would book into the Premier Inn,

0:25:530:25:55

but Toby and your dad got the last two rooms.

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Look, I know you're angry, and you've got a right to be.

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I should have been more sympathetic.

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I was a bit too busy enjoying your dad being knocked off his perch.

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Schadenfreude.

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It's when you take pleasure in another person's misfortune.

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It's fairly well-known.

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Is it like when you're pleased because you know a word that somebody else doesn't?

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Because we can all play that game.

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Bastian Schweinsteiger.

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Look, I've said I'm sorry.

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I must have missed that. What language was that in?

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Before, when I offered you a Jaffa Cake.

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What did you say?

0:26:330:26:34

I said, "Do you want a Jaffa Cake?"

0:26:340:26:37

That was the apology?

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Come on, I put them on a plate,

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you must have been able to read between the lines.

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Anyway, I do apologise, and I mean it.

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I should have considered your feelings.

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And I think I owe you an apology, too.

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Turns out my parents aren't so perfect after all.

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They're doing all right, and so are we,

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especially after we go for another counselling session.

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Oh, can we not?

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Can we just work things out on our own from now on?

0:27:010:27:03

I'm glad we went. It made us talk things through,

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and that's all I ever wanted.

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Course.

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So I guess there's nothing else left to do now apart from have sex and move on.

0:27:120:27:15

Actually, I'm a bit tired.

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Good night.

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I wonder what time that McDonald's drive-thru closes?

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# We're not going out Not staying in

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# Just hanging around With my head in a spin

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# But that is no need to scream and shout

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# We're not going out

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# We are not going out. #

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If Lee and Lucy's marriage wasn't in trouble before they go to marriage counselling, it is by the time they leave.


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