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My head feels really itchy. | 0:00:19 | 0:00:22 | |
You don't need it, | 0:00:22 | 0:00:24 | |
so, it doesn't really matter whether you've got it or not. | 0:00:24 | 0:00:27 | |
Just completely fell out when I was about nine. | 0:00:27 | 0:00:30 | |
You can change your hairstyle all the time. | 0:00:30 | 0:00:32 | |
People might think you're different, but you're not. | 0:00:32 | 0:00:35 | |
13-year-old Kim and eight-year-old Dan have never met. | 0:00:40 | 0:00:44 | |
But, they have something unusual in common. | 0:00:44 | 0:00:47 | |
This summer, they'll meet for the first time, | 0:00:51 | 0:00:54 | |
along with lots of other kids just like them, | 0:00:54 | 0:00:58 | |
at a very special weekend camp. | 0:00:58 | 0:01:00 | |
When I meet people, | 0:01:11 | 0:01:13 | |
I don't know whether to tell them about my hair. | 0:01:13 | 0:01:15 | |
I don't know whether it'll make things more awkward. | 0:01:15 | 0:01:19 | |
Some of my friends at school still don't even know. | 0:01:19 | 0:01:21 | |
It's shocking. | 0:01:21 | 0:01:24 | |
I come into school nearly every day with a different hairstyle | 0:01:24 | 0:01:27 | |
and they still don't realise. | 0:01:27 | 0:01:28 | |
Kim has alopecia. | 0:01:28 | 0:01:32 | |
Alopecia is when your hair falls out. | 0:01:32 | 0:01:36 | |
It might just be a small patch that goes, | 0:01:36 | 0:01:38 | |
or every last little hair on your body. | 0:01:38 | 0:01:41 | |
It doesn't happen a lot to children, but it's hard when it does. | 0:01:41 | 0:01:45 | |
And rather than being seen without their hair, | 0:01:45 | 0:01:49 | |
many prefer to wear wigs. | 0:01:49 | 0:01:50 | |
That was the first day that it started falling out | 0:01:55 | 0:01:58 | |
and it's already come out in a big patch. | 0:01:58 | 0:02:01 | |
But quite a lot of it has come out at the front now. | 0:02:01 | 0:02:03 | |
This is how quick it goes, like, one second. | 0:02:03 | 0:02:06 | |
Some people actually lose it all overnight, | 0:02:06 | 0:02:08 | |
but mine just comes out in stages. | 0:02:08 | 0:02:10 | |
It's usually when I wake up in the morning | 0:02:12 | 0:02:14 | |
and half of it's on my pillow. | 0:02:14 | 0:02:17 | |
That's when my eyebrows started to go, | 0:02:17 | 0:02:20 | |
so, I've got no eyebrows left at that point. | 0:02:20 | 0:02:22 | |
At least when your hair falls out you can cover it up, | 0:02:22 | 0:02:25 | |
but with my eyebrows falling out, I try and draw them on | 0:02:25 | 0:02:28 | |
and they just look so stupid. | 0:02:28 | 0:02:30 | |
Doctors aren't sure why hair falls out like this, | 0:02:30 | 0:02:34 | |
and Kim's type of alopecia means that her hair keeps growing back, | 0:02:34 | 0:02:37 | |
and then falling out again. | 0:02:37 | 0:02:39 | |
That's where it has spread all the way back there | 0:02:39 | 0:02:42 | |
and there's just no hairline at all. | 0:02:42 | 0:02:45 | |
You're constantly up and down thinking it's going to grow back | 0:02:45 | 0:02:48 | |
and then it's not. | 0:02:48 | 0:02:49 | |
She's not comfortable with anybody outside the family | 0:02:49 | 0:02:53 | |
seeing her without wigs on. | 0:02:53 | 0:02:55 | |
She never goes out without a wig on. | 0:02:55 | 0:02:58 | |
Even if friends come round, | 0:02:58 | 0:03:00 | |
she doesn't take the wigs off in front of her friends. | 0:03:00 | 0:03:03 | |
It would be very hard. I probably wouldn't do it. | 0:03:03 | 0:03:08 | |
Even if someone paid me about ten grand, I still wouldn't do it. | 0:03:08 | 0:03:12 | |
It's hard coping with your hair falling out | 0:03:13 | 0:03:15 | |
when you feel you're the only one | 0:03:15 | 0:03:17 | |
and no one understands what you're going through. | 0:03:17 | 0:03:20 | |
But this summer, at alopecia camp, | 0:03:20 | 0:03:22 | |
Kim will meet other girls just like her. | 0:03:22 | 0:03:25 | |
I think going to camp will really help, | 0:03:25 | 0:03:28 | |
because I don't know how to look on the positive side of stuff. | 0:03:28 | 0:03:31 | |
If they've had it for a lot more years than me, then they'll know | 0:03:31 | 0:03:34 | |
how to deal with it and I'll take a lot of advice from them. | 0:03:34 | 0:03:39 | |
When she was younger, Kim used to be much more out-going. | 0:03:40 | 0:03:44 | |
She even had a successful acting career. | 0:03:44 | 0:03:49 | |
Cute face as well, ah, look. | 0:03:49 | 0:03:53 | |
Ahh, very good. | 0:03:53 | 0:03:55 | |
She was so confident when she did that for a 10-year-old. | 0:03:55 | 0:03:59 | |
It was unbelievable how, you know, outgoing and bubbly she was. | 0:03:59 | 0:04:02 | |
These last three or four months in particular, | 0:04:02 | 0:04:05 | |
she's not wanted to go out on her own. | 0:04:05 | 0:04:08 | |
I think if she's like that, it's obviously going to affect her. | 0:04:08 | 0:04:11 | |
Yeah, I think I've changed quite a bit since I did Hollyoaks, | 0:04:11 | 0:04:16 | |
cos my confidence level has dropped. | 0:04:16 | 0:04:19 | |
Those low confidence levels aren't helped by having to wear wigs | 0:04:19 | 0:04:24 | |
that mean she can't have hair styles like her mates. | 0:04:24 | 0:04:27 | |
When you see all the girls walking round with high buns | 0:04:27 | 0:04:30 | |
and high ponies and stuff, which is the fashion and stuff, | 0:04:30 | 0:04:33 | |
you're there with your hair down 'cos you can't do any of that, | 0:04:33 | 0:04:37 | |
it kind of makes you stand out a bit in a way. | 0:04:37 | 0:04:44 | |
You're not a different person without a wig than you are with. | 0:04:44 | 0:04:48 | |
It's just, you look different. | 0:04:48 | 0:04:50 | |
I like wearing wigs just to have hair, | 0:04:50 | 0:04:53 | |
but then I'd rather show everyone that I am bald, | 0:04:53 | 0:04:56 | |
that's just who I am. | 0:04:56 | 0:04:58 | |
Once, where I had my first wig, the synthetic one, | 0:04:58 | 0:05:01 | |
in year three, it like, blew off. | 0:05:01 | 0:05:03 | |
My name is Daniel Parkes and welcome to my house. | 0:05:05 | 0:05:10 | |
Eight-year-old Daniel is a professional stuntman | 0:05:10 | 0:05:13 | |
and world heavyweight boxing champion. | 0:05:13 | 0:05:15 | |
Start like this, and like...oops. Let me do that again. | 0:05:15 | 0:05:20 | |
And, yes, he has no hair. | 0:05:20 | 0:05:24 | |
Guess who this is? | 0:05:24 | 0:05:26 | |
It's Dan when he was younger, when he still had his hair. | 0:05:26 | 0:05:30 | |
But then something sad happened that had a big impact on him. | 0:05:30 | 0:05:33 | |
Granddad died because he had the belly ache. | 0:05:33 | 0:05:36 | |
When I first saw... | 0:05:36 | 0:05:39 | |
When my mum told me, I was crying, bursting into tears. | 0:05:39 | 0:05:42 | |
And what happened to Dan's hair after that was pretty unexpected. | 0:05:44 | 0:05:48 | |
It fell off. | 0:05:48 | 0:05:49 | |
I didn't like it. | 0:05:50 | 0:05:52 | |
-Ready? -Set, go! | 0:05:53 | 0:05:55 | |
It doesn't happen to many people, | 0:06:00 | 0:06:02 | |
but the stress of losing his grandad | 0:06:02 | 0:06:04 | |
might have been why Dan lost all his hair. | 0:06:04 | 0:06:07 | |
And Dan's kind of alopecia, | 0:06:07 | 0:06:09 | |
means that his hair fell out and never came back. | 0:06:09 | 0:06:12 | |
To and from school he always wears his hat. | 0:06:14 | 0:06:16 | |
Obviously, because he's got no hair, he feels the cold | 0:06:16 | 0:06:19 | |
and obviously he's got no hair, the sun gets him. | 0:06:19 | 0:06:22 | |
Dan likes school, but he doesn't like the name calling. | 0:06:27 | 0:06:30 | |
The bullies say, "baldilocks and the three hairs." | 0:06:30 | 0:06:33 | |
They say, "baldy" and "baldilocks." | 0:06:33 | 0:06:35 | |
Even though Dan's usually a happy chappy, | 0:06:35 | 0:06:38 | |
nasty names make him feel... | 0:06:38 | 0:06:40 | |
Sad and upset. | 0:06:40 | 0:06:42 | |
In the last few weeks, Kim's missed a whole heap of school. | 0:06:47 | 0:06:51 | |
I wake up sometimes and I just feel like, erm... | 0:06:51 | 0:06:54 | |
like I don't want to face it. | 0:06:54 | 0:06:56 | |
There was comments when I started in year seven, | 0:06:56 | 0:07:00 | |
there was quite a lot of teasing. | 0:07:00 | 0:07:02 | |
Because there was people saying like I don't fit in | 0:07:02 | 0:07:05 | |
and I don't belong at school cos I'm different. | 0:07:05 | 0:07:08 | |
I'd like to be able to just think, | 0:07:08 | 0:07:10 | |
it's going to be fine, give it a go and if something does go wrong, | 0:07:10 | 0:07:13 | |
you've got to the support of everyone just to carry on | 0:07:13 | 0:07:17 | |
and just get better about it. | 0:07:17 | 0:07:20 | |
The journey in on the bus was becoming a bit traumatic. | 0:07:22 | 0:07:26 | |
You'd had a couple of incidents where children made remarks. | 0:07:26 | 0:07:30 | |
She feels more comfortable going in with me in the mornings now. | 0:07:32 | 0:07:37 | |
Not going on the bus means Kim arrives alone. | 0:07:42 | 0:07:45 | |
So, last lesson, we started off with our lunar theme park. | 0:07:47 | 0:07:51 | |
Have a really quick look through. | 0:07:51 | 0:07:53 | |
And whilst her friends are in lessons together, | 0:07:53 | 0:07:55 | |
she's often working on her own, too. | 0:07:55 | 0:07:58 | |
I think it's because if something's happened in a lesson, | 0:07:58 | 0:08:02 | |
and I want to be on my own to do my work. | 0:08:02 | 0:08:04 | |
If something goes wrong in the lesson I don't want to be there, | 0:08:04 | 0:08:08 | |
and it's putting me off my work and stuff. | 0:08:08 | 0:08:10 | |
In some ways, girls want something positive, to be, like, looked at. | 0:08:15 | 0:08:21 | |
But, they don't really want something really negative, | 0:08:21 | 0:08:25 | |
to get all the attention and stuff. | 0:08:25 | 0:08:27 | |
And I feel like that as well. | 0:08:31 | 0:08:32 | |
I feel like I'm getting looked at because it's something wrong with me. | 0:08:32 | 0:08:37 | |
That it's something that's not a good thing, it's a bad thing. | 0:08:37 | 0:08:42 | |
Some days, she's feeling so low, | 0:08:43 | 0:08:46 | |
she convinces her mum she can't go into school at all. | 0:08:46 | 0:08:50 | |
I just say that I don't want to go in | 0:08:50 | 0:08:52 | |
and then we'd have a conversation about why. | 0:08:52 | 0:08:55 | |
She doesn't force me to do anything, | 0:08:55 | 0:08:56 | |
she just lets me do what I'm comfortable with doing. | 0:08:56 | 0:08:59 | |
Dan and Callum have been best mates since, well, forever. | 0:09:06 | 0:09:09 | |
In my heart, he's like a brother, | 0:09:12 | 0:09:14 | |
because I play with him all the time. | 0:09:14 | 0:09:16 | |
He's my best mate and he will... | 0:09:23 | 0:09:25 | |
if somebody blames me in the class, | 0:09:25 | 0:09:28 | |
he always sticks up for me and I stick up for him too. | 0:09:28 | 0:09:32 | |
Today, though, they've had some bad news. | 0:09:32 | 0:09:35 | |
I'm going to be in Miss Thomas' class | 0:09:35 | 0:09:37 | |
and he's going to be in... | 0:09:37 | 0:09:39 | |
I'm in year four and he is, but he's in a different class than me. | 0:09:39 | 0:09:43 | |
It's going to be hard for Dan without the support | 0:09:43 | 0:09:45 | |
of his best friend in class, and his mum's hoping camp will help. | 0:09:45 | 0:09:50 | |
I hope the camp can keep the confidence up, | 0:09:50 | 0:09:52 | |
so when he does go back to school, | 0:09:52 | 0:09:55 | |
he can fight back at any bullies. | 0:09:55 | 0:09:57 | |
Not physically, but give them | 0:09:57 | 0:09:58 | |
as good as they get verbally. | 0:09:58 | 0:10:00 | |
So he can turn round and say, "so what?" | 0:10:00 | 0:10:02 | |
School is over, the summer holidays have started | 0:10:05 | 0:10:09 | |
and it's the day before camp. | 0:10:09 | 0:10:10 | |
Are you getting in there? | 0:10:11 | 0:10:14 | |
Looks like we're taking him, Kim. | 0:10:14 | 0:10:15 | |
SHE LAUGHS > | 0:10:15 | 0:10:18 | |
He's going! | 0:10:18 | 0:10:19 | |
Howdy! | 0:10:23 | 0:10:25 | |
There's a cowboy theme | 0:10:25 | 0:10:27 | |
and Dan is desperate to be the best dressed doggone, rootin'-tootin' | 0:10:27 | 0:10:30 | |
rockin'-horse wrangler there. | 0:10:30 | 0:10:32 | |
Yee-haa! | 0:10:32 | 0:10:34 | |
"I can't wait to see my beautiful and wonderful friends today | 0:10:34 | 0:10:37 | |
"at the Be Bold Children's Alopecia Camp. | 0:10:37 | 0:10:40 | |
"Watch this space for photos and updates! Yee-haa!" | 0:10:40 | 0:10:44 | |
Over at the campsite in Scarborough, all is quiet on the western front. | 0:11:00 | 0:11:06 | |
But not for long. | 0:11:06 | 0:11:08 | |
I'm really excited. | 0:11:24 | 0:11:25 | |
The weekend will be more jam-packed than a pack of jam jars | 0:11:25 | 0:11:30 | |
jammed in your jim-jams. | 0:11:30 | 0:11:32 | |
Also, it's a great chance for people with alopecia | 0:11:32 | 0:11:34 | |
and their families to get together. | 0:11:34 | 0:11:37 | |
It's really nice, like, making new friends that have, like... | 0:11:42 | 0:11:46 | |
That are in the same situation as you are. | 0:11:46 | 0:11:48 | |
No-one stares. It's like everyone's used to it. | 0:11:48 | 0:11:51 | |
It's like, a dead relaxing place to be | 0:11:51 | 0:11:54 | |
and you can meet other people with alopecia. | 0:11:54 | 0:11:57 | |
You can always turn to someone who has it | 0:11:57 | 0:11:59 | |
and then they'll understand what it's like. | 0:11:59 | 0:12:01 | |
Some of them met at camp last year, but its Kim's first time | 0:12:01 | 0:12:05 | |
and, for now, she's keeping her distance. | 0:12:05 | 0:12:07 | |
Dan's not wasting any time. | 0:12:12 | 0:12:15 | |
OK, I'll serve, you served the first. | 0:12:15 | 0:12:18 | |
Will lost his hair two years ago | 0:12:19 | 0:12:22 | |
and Dan is the only other bald boy he's ever seen. | 0:12:22 | 0:12:26 | |
He's exactly like me, no hair at all, completely bald. | 0:12:26 | 0:12:30 | |
And Dan, he's cheerful, he's just, you can't stop him laughing. | 0:12:30 | 0:12:35 | |
One thing that we haven't talked about is having alopecia. | 0:12:35 | 0:12:38 | |
That's one thing that we don't really, we haven't talked about. | 0:12:38 | 0:12:41 | |
Everyone knows that the one thing all real cowboys love | 0:12:53 | 0:12:57 | |
is a toasted marshmallow. | 0:12:57 | 0:12:59 | |
Have my stick and have the rest of the marshmallows. | 0:12:59 | 0:13:02 | |
Even Kim's come down to earth to join them around the campfire. | 0:13:02 | 0:13:07 | |
Your tipi's right next to my tipi. | 0:13:07 | 0:13:09 | |
Mummy, are we having a fire before breakfast tomorrow? | 0:13:09 | 0:13:13 | |
It's the start of another fun-filled day at summer camp. | 0:13:21 | 0:13:24 | |
Cowboy Dan's up early to round up some more friends to play with. | 0:13:24 | 0:13:30 | |
Last year when we come to camp | 0:13:30 | 0:13:31 | |
and he found out he wasn't the only one, | 0:13:31 | 0:13:34 | |
that's when everything completely flipped over and changed for him. | 0:13:34 | 0:13:38 | |
Last thing I want is for him to go in his shell, | 0:13:38 | 0:13:40 | |
and these camps just keep, you know, bringing them out. | 0:13:40 | 0:13:43 | |
Is that your breakfast, a stick of rock? | 0:13:43 | 0:13:46 | |
I just had mine, sausages. | 0:13:46 | 0:13:48 | |
I think with more children here now, | 0:13:49 | 0:13:52 | |
it's building a support system for the kids, they're not on their own. | 0:13:52 | 0:13:55 | |
If Kim's going to tap into that support system | 0:13:55 | 0:13:59 | |
and get the most out of being here, | 0:13:59 | 0:14:01 | |
she's going to need to come down from that tree and get stuck in. | 0:14:01 | 0:14:05 | |
Michelle's had alopecia for most of her life. | 0:14:05 | 0:14:09 | |
She knows what it's like to desperately want to fit in. | 0:14:09 | 0:14:12 | |
If you haven't got hair, you just feel like you're... | 0:14:12 | 0:14:16 | |
a non-person sometimes. | 0:14:16 | 0:14:17 | |
And that's a real tough one for anyone to have to deal with | 0:14:17 | 0:14:21 | |
that's got anything different about them. | 0:14:21 | 0:14:24 | |
Worst thing is losing your eyelashes. | 0:14:24 | 0:14:26 | |
That, to me, was always the final straw. | 0:14:26 | 0:14:29 | |
It feels like you're being rubbed out. | 0:14:29 | 0:14:31 | |
Feels like they're rubbing bits of your body out, | 0:14:31 | 0:14:34 | |
and you can't do anything about it. | 0:14:34 | 0:14:36 | |
You basically live within this bubble of alopecia. | 0:14:36 | 0:14:39 | |
It's breaking that bubble | 0:14:39 | 0:14:41 | |
and realising that you can't put your life on hold because of that. | 0:14:41 | 0:14:44 | |
And it took me a long time to say, you know what, I am who I am | 0:14:44 | 0:14:48 | |
and if you don't like it, that's not my problem, it's yours. | 0:14:48 | 0:14:52 | |
Kim, Gemma, Gemma, Kim. | 0:14:52 | 0:14:54 | |
Michelle knows Kim's been feeling down, | 0:14:54 | 0:14:58 | |
and wants her to get the most out of her time here. | 0:14:58 | 0:15:01 | |
-I met Gemma, first time last year, wasn't it? -Yeah. | 0:15:01 | 0:15:05 | |
-And that was quite nice, wasn't it? -Yeah. | 0:15:05 | 0:15:08 | |
And had you met anyone else with alopecia before? | 0:15:08 | 0:15:10 | |
No. | 0:15:10 | 0:15:11 | |
Gemma's 12 and last year's camp gave her a big boost. | 0:15:11 | 0:15:14 | |
Michelle's hoping that Kim will learn from her and the other girls | 0:15:14 | 0:15:19 | |
how to handle the emotional ups and downs. | 0:15:19 | 0:15:21 | |
THEY LAUGH | 0:15:21 | 0:15:24 | |
-So, have you not been wearing wigs at all then? -I do. | 0:15:24 | 0:15:27 | |
-You do, but you just didn't feel like it this weekend? -Yep. | 0:15:27 | 0:15:31 | |
Well, you've got a great-shaped head. | 0:15:31 | 0:15:33 | |
Gemma lost her hair for the first time when she was five. | 0:15:33 | 0:15:38 | |
I do feel just as normal as everybody else seems to be. | 0:15:38 | 0:15:41 | |
I am quite confident | 0:15:41 | 0:15:43 | |
and I do do normal things that girls would want to do. | 0:15:43 | 0:15:49 | |
I don't think I have to wear a wig all the time | 0:15:49 | 0:15:51 | |
because I don't really mind who sees me. | 0:15:51 | 0:15:55 | |
I think it's really important to feel really confident | 0:15:55 | 0:15:59 | |
and to feel like you're looking good, | 0:15:59 | 0:16:01 | |
or looking beautiful, cos it just boosts your confidence. | 0:16:01 | 0:16:05 | |
Even though Gemma is happy to be seen without a wig | 0:16:05 | 0:16:09 | |
she also sees an upside to wearing them, too. | 0:16:09 | 0:16:12 | |
I feel like I've got another personality, | 0:16:12 | 0:16:15 | |
cos every wig is different. | 0:16:15 | 0:16:17 | |
In the morning it is faster, | 0:16:17 | 0:16:19 | |
it's easier to style, put it back in a pony tail or put it up. | 0:16:19 | 0:16:24 | |
When I was younger, I used to be really sad about not having any hair | 0:16:24 | 0:16:28 | |
and when people asked me questions, I used to take it really personally. | 0:16:28 | 0:16:31 | |
I don't mind my hair falling out, | 0:16:31 | 0:16:33 | |
it's when my eyebrows come out, that really upsets me. | 0:16:33 | 0:16:36 | |
It's bad having, not having eyebrows and eyelashes | 0:16:36 | 0:16:39 | |
because they kind of make your face, if you get me. | 0:16:39 | 0:16:42 | |
Everyone will stare at you, | 0:16:42 | 0:16:44 | |
but if you're brave, then you can just ignore all of that. | 0:16:44 | 0:16:47 | |
The last day of camp and a mobile beauty parlour has arrived. | 0:16:48 | 0:16:51 | |
And these girls reckon they have something in common with | 0:16:51 | 0:16:55 | |
a few of their favourite singers. | 0:16:55 | 0:16:59 | |
Beyonce wears wigs as well, and so does J-Lo. | 0:16:59 | 0:17:02 | |
Even Kim can't resist - | 0:17:05 | 0:17:06 | |
she's keen to find out how to draw in her eyebrows when she loses them. | 0:17:06 | 0:17:10 | |
I've tried drawing my eyebrows on as well, | 0:17:10 | 0:17:13 | |
but I've just miserably failed! | 0:17:13 | 0:17:16 | |
I can't, I can't do it, | 0:17:16 | 0:17:18 | |
so I'm hoping that I'll get in some tips | 0:17:18 | 0:17:21 | |
on how to successfully draw your eyebrows on | 0:17:21 | 0:17:23 | |
and what colour to use and stuff | 0:17:23 | 0:17:25 | |
and what colour would match your skin tone and things. | 0:17:25 | 0:17:28 | |
-Kim, what you having done? -What? -What you having done? | 0:17:32 | 0:17:35 | |
My eyebrows. | 0:17:35 | 0:17:37 | |
See, I've got one eyebrow, I've got one, but the other one I can't do. | 0:17:43 | 0:17:46 | |
If adults' eyebrows drop out, they can have them tattooed back on. | 0:17:46 | 0:17:51 | |
But this isn't a good idea for children. | 0:17:51 | 0:17:55 | |
So the beauticians here use powders | 0:17:55 | 0:17:56 | |
made especially for people who've lost their eyebrows. | 0:17:56 | 0:18:00 | |
The colours match different skin tones | 0:18:00 | 0:18:02 | |
and the powders are waterproof - they won't just rub off. | 0:18:02 | 0:18:05 | |
You can start it slightly more, | 0:18:05 | 0:18:06 | |
we can always start it a little bit further in, take it out. | 0:18:06 | 0:18:09 | |
If you look at just the brow, you're going to pick faults. | 0:18:09 | 0:18:12 | |
But if you look at you as a whole, it's just defined your face. | 0:18:12 | 0:18:16 | |
-What do you think of that colour? -Yeah, it's nice. | 0:18:16 | 0:18:19 | |
So, you got any plans for tomorrow? | 0:18:30 | 0:18:34 | |
I'm staying for the next whole day. | 0:18:34 | 0:18:37 | |
Dan's now happy with or without a hat, | 0:18:37 | 0:18:40 | |
but William isn't - he's always in a baseball cap. | 0:18:40 | 0:18:42 | |
He's finding it harder than Dan to accept life without hair. | 0:18:42 | 0:18:46 | |
His new friend's ready with some top tips | 0:18:46 | 0:18:48 | |
for handling nasty comments at school. | 0:18:48 | 0:18:50 | |
Hey, William, I'll tell you a little secret. | 0:18:50 | 0:18:53 | |
Once, when people call me baldy, guess what I call them back? | 0:18:53 | 0:18:58 | |
What? | 0:18:58 | 0:18:59 | |
Hairy. | 0:18:59 | 0:19:01 | |
I just call them Hairy Mary quite condary. | 0:19:01 | 0:19:04 | |
William's got some advice of his own on how to cope in a new class. | 0:19:05 | 0:19:09 | |
Well, I was in exactly the same situation | 0:19:09 | 0:19:12 | |
and what you have to do is, you have to, I am not kidding, | 0:19:12 | 0:19:17 | |
it seems so nervous, but everyone is in the same situation, | 0:19:17 | 0:19:20 | |
everyone's nervous and then you, you, you quickly make new friends. | 0:19:20 | 0:19:25 | |
I'd have to keep in touch with Dan, definitely keep in touch. | 0:19:25 | 0:19:29 | |
-cos you are the happiest person on earth. -Thanks, mate. | 0:19:29 | 0:19:32 | |
It's the last night of camp and everyone's dressed up | 0:19:35 | 0:19:38 | |
and ready for one almighty hoedown. | 0:19:38 | 0:19:42 | |
Yee-haa! | 0:19:42 | 0:19:44 | |
Seeing people like Beth and Michelle, | 0:19:49 | 0:19:52 | |
it didn't like, hit me straight away, I think it took a lot of time | 0:19:52 | 0:19:56 | |
to think about it and how they, like, get on with it and stuff. | 0:19:56 | 0:19:59 | |
I just didn't want to like, go out without my wig on and stuff, | 0:19:59 | 0:20:02 | |
but then I saw them, how they handle it, and they just don't care, | 0:20:02 | 0:20:06 | |
so I think it kind of sank in that, "Yeah, I could do that as well". | 0:20:06 | 0:20:10 | |
-Morning, William. -Morning. | 0:20:18 | 0:20:20 | |
-You look nice today. -Thanks. | 0:20:20 | 0:20:23 | |
This is, this is my email. | 0:20:23 | 0:20:27 | |
It's been another brilliant summer camp, | 0:20:27 | 0:20:30 | |
with loads of new friendships being made. | 0:20:30 | 0:20:32 | |
But has it been a big success for Kim and Dan? | 0:20:32 | 0:20:35 | |
-Bye, Kim. -You going? Oh... See you later. | 0:20:35 | 0:20:39 | |
How will they handle life back at home on their own? | 0:20:41 | 0:20:44 | |
You have to be proud of yourself, | 0:20:48 | 0:20:50 | |
otherwise you're not going to get anywhere. | 0:20:50 | 0:20:53 | |
I went into school without my wig and that was the first time | 0:20:53 | 0:20:56 | |
I ever showed anybody it. | 0:20:56 | 0:20:58 | |
If people bully you, you just have to stand up and ignore them. | 0:20:58 | 0:21:02 | |
Don't take anything too personally, | 0:21:02 | 0:21:04 | |
just if, people are just curious when they ask questions. | 0:21:04 | 0:21:07 | |
When we first met Kim, she was in a bad place | 0:21:10 | 0:21:13 | |
and often couldn't cope with school. | 0:21:13 | 0:21:16 | |
I wake up sometimes and I just feel like, erm, | 0:21:16 | 0:21:20 | |
like I don't want to face it. | 0:21:20 | 0:21:22 | |
It's now a few weeks into the new term that she was dreading, | 0:21:24 | 0:21:28 | |
and Kim's surprising herself. | 0:21:28 | 0:21:30 | |
You can take it home for a bit of homework. | 0:21:30 | 0:21:32 | |
I'll lose it. | 0:21:32 | 0:21:34 | |
I'll give you half an hour Friday. | 0:21:34 | 0:21:35 | |
-Put it in your bag, then you won't lose it! -I will. | 0:21:35 | 0:21:39 | |
She's going into school every day | 0:21:39 | 0:21:41 | |
and attending every one of her lessons, WITH her friends. | 0:21:41 | 0:21:46 | |
I just, I'm feeling like I'm pushing myself a lot more now, | 0:21:47 | 0:21:51 | |
um, cos I think last time I was just being a bit wimpy | 0:21:51 | 0:21:54 | |
and just kind of like, taking the easy option and stuff. | 0:21:54 | 0:21:57 | |
And this time I'm, like, really trying to make an effort | 0:21:57 | 0:22:00 | |
to not let things like, um... | 0:22:00 | 0:22:03 | |
upset me and stuff. | 0:22:03 | 0:22:05 | |
No, I spelt join wrong, I spelt join with a "g"! | 0:22:09 | 0:22:12 | |
I feel proud of myself, like when I have had a tough day | 0:22:12 | 0:22:16 | |
and it's started off, like, really bad, | 0:22:16 | 0:22:19 | |
but then I kind of like pick myself up and I get proud of myself again. | 0:22:19 | 0:22:23 | |
I just feel like I'm an ordinary school child now, | 0:22:23 | 0:22:27 | |
I don't, I just don't care. | 0:22:27 | 0:22:28 | |
At home, there's big changes too. | 0:22:31 | 0:22:33 | |
Her best mate is allowed to film Kim | 0:22:33 | 0:22:35 | |
doing something she'd wouldn't haven't wanted seen before. | 0:22:35 | 0:22:39 | |
-Are you recording? -Mm-hm. -Hello. | 0:22:39 | 0:22:40 | |
So, have you got used to applying eyebrows now as well? | 0:22:40 | 0:22:43 | |
Yeah, I did it yesterday, I was like, "I can do it!" | 0:22:43 | 0:22:46 | |
See, that one's thinner than that one now. | 0:22:46 | 0:22:49 | |
So, I can use that as a template and just make it thicker. | 0:22:49 | 0:22:53 | |
Before summer, Kim's confidence was so low, | 0:22:56 | 0:23:00 | |
not even a humongous wodge of cash would persuade her | 0:23:00 | 0:23:02 | |
to be seen without her wig. | 0:23:02 | 0:23:04 | |
It would be very hard. Um, I probably wouldn't do it. | 0:23:04 | 0:23:09 | |
Even if someone paid me about ten grand, I still wouldn't do it. | 0:23:09 | 0:23:13 | |
Want to zoom in? | 0:23:13 | 0:23:15 | |
I started to lose that bit there | 0:23:15 | 0:23:17 | |
and as you can see it's spread everywhere now. | 0:23:17 | 0:23:19 | |
But I dyed my hair pink, | 0:23:19 | 0:23:21 | |
cos it will not affect whether it falls out or not anyway. | 0:23:21 | 0:23:24 | |
Cos at t' end of day it's going to. | 0:23:24 | 0:23:27 | |
Yeah, it started to fall out while it wasn't dyed, | 0:23:27 | 0:23:29 | |
so the dying doesn't really make a bit of difference, to be honest. | 0:23:29 | 0:23:34 | |
If I hadn't have gone to camp, | 0:23:34 | 0:23:35 | |
I wouldn't be comfortable standing here on film without my wig on. | 0:23:35 | 0:23:41 | |
Just shows what a difference it makes. | 0:23:41 | 0:23:45 | |
So has the camp really affected your confidence, then? | 0:23:45 | 0:23:47 | |
I think the camp has helped quite a lot. | 0:23:47 | 0:23:50 | |
Right, what we're going to do now, | 0:23:50 | 0:23:52 | |
is we're going to sort through my wigs that I do want | 0:23:52 | 0:23:55 | |
and wigs that I don't. | 0:23:55 | 0:23:57 | |
This one was originally down to here. | 0:23:57 | 0:24:00 | |
This is the one that I spent most of my time in at camp. | 0:24:00 | 0:24:04 | |
This is one I got yesterday off the market stall for, again, £15. | 0:24:04 | 0:24:08 | |
Bop! Ooh, pulled half of it out trying to get it off. | 0:24:08 | 0:24:11 | |
So that's that one. | 0:24:11 | 0:24:13 | |
I gave you three ticks, write a little message, add an A. | 0:24:23 | 0:24:27 | |
In Birmingham, Dan's doing well, too, | 0:24:27 | 0:24:31 | |
in his new class, with his new friends. | 0:24:31 | 0:24:34 | |
Did you write that? I'm going to take that home with me. | 0:24:34 | 0:24:38 | |
In fact, he's doing so well, he's got a surprise for them all. | 0:24:38 | 0:24:43 | |
In my classmates, what's happening this afternoon, | 0:24:43 | 0:24:46 | |
I'm going to do a little speech. | 0:24:46 | 0:24:48 | |
I'm not even going to tell you about the speech, | 0:24:48 | 0:24:51 | |
I'm going to do it there, | 0:24:51 | 0:24:52 | |
I don't want to spoil it for you. | 0:24:52 | 0:24:56 | |
Before camp, there's no way he would have stood up in front of a class | 0:24:56 | 0:24:59 | |
and done a talk about anything, | 0:24:59 | 0:25:01 | |
but now, you know, he's proud to have no hair. | 0:25:01 | 0:25:05 | |
As you know, my name is Daniel Parkes | 0:25:05 | 0:25:07 | |
and I have a condition called alopecia. | 0:25:07 | 0:25:10 | |
And people keeps on saying, "What's alopecia?". | 0:25:10 | 0:25:13 | |
All your hair comes out. | 0:25:13 | 0:25:15 | |
I had mine out two years ago because I was stressed | 0:25:15 | 0:25:18 | |
because my grandad died. | 0:25:18 | 0:25:21 | |
Even women and men can have alopecia | 0:25:21 | 0:25:26 | |
and boys and girls. | 0:25:26 | 0:25:28 | |
Sometimes, people say that I have cancer, and I don't. | 0:25:28 | 0:25:34 | |
APPLAUSE | 0:25:34 | 0:25:37 | |
Thank you, any question? | 0:25:37 | 0:25:40 | |
Leyton? | 0:25:41 | 0:25:42 | |
How long did it take for your hair to come out? | 0:25:42 | 0:25:45 | |
Um, a long time, but we went to the barber's to cut the rest off. | 0:25:45 | 0:25:50 | |
Mark? | 0:25:50 | 0:25:52 | |
Um, will you hair ever grow back? | 0:25:52 | 0:25:55 | |
I don't know. Lashay? | 0:25:55 | 0:25:57 | |
Did you have a lot of friends at camp? | 0:25:57 | 0:25:59 | |
Yeah, I loved it, and we had lovely, lovely time. | 0:25:59 | 0:26:04 | |
Thank you, friends, for listening. | 0:26:04 | 0:26:08 | |
APPLAUSE | 0:26:10 | 0:26:12 | |
Can somebody get my mum a tissue? She's crying! | 0:26:17 | 0:26:22 | |
Finally, Kim is moving on. | 0:26:42 | 0:26:45 | |
She used to be too scared to go out with her friends. | 0:26:45 | 0:26:48 | |
Cos of the position I was in, I was really paranoid | 0:26:48 | 0:26:51 | |
and I wasn't thinking straight. | 0:26:51 | 0:26:53 | |
And every person that like, looked at me, | 0:26:53 | 0:26:55 | |
I thought they were looking at me in a bad way. | 0:26:55 | 0:26:58 | |
But now I know if they're looking at me, it's not anything bad, | 0:26:58 | 0:27:01 | |
I think I've realised that now. | 0:27:01 | 0:27:02 | |
I think now I'm going to know that I can push her a bit harder | 0:27:02 | 0:27:07 | |
than I have done in the past. | 0:27:07 | 0:27:09 | |
I know now that maybe she can handle it better than I thought she could. | 0:27:09 | 0:27:13 | |
And handling it better means that Kim's not afraid to stand out. | 0:27:13 | 0:27:16 | |
Can I get the, um, the bottom drawer, the purple stockings. | 0:27:16 | 0:27:20 | |
Purple? | 0:27:20 | 0:27:21 | |
She's got choices, wear a wig, or don't. | 0:27:21 | 0:27:25 | |
Or even wear one with bright blue streaks. | 0:27:25 | 0:27:27 | |
I can go out with my friends and do stuff and kind of, like, | 0:27:28 | 0:27:31 | |
draw attention to myself. | 0:27:31 | 0:27:33 | |
Like, we can go and roller-skate and stuff. | 0:27:33 | 0:27:35 | |
Cos before, I wouldn't roller-skate | 0:27:35 | 0:27:37 | |
because people would be like, taking the mick out of us | 0:27:37 | 0:27:41 | |
and I thought would it be about my hair? | 0:27:41 | 0:27:43 | |
But now I just, we just go out and just do like really stupid stuff, | 0:27:43 | 0:27:47 | |
just I'm like, I've got loads of my confidence back now. | 0:27:47 | 0:27:51 | |
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