Episode 2 Paul O'Grady: The Sally Army and Me


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I can understand people saying, "Paul O'Grady in the Salvation Army? No."

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Because I've got a bit of a track record, let's face it.

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'But at many different times throughout my life,

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'our paths have crossed.'

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And when I worked for social services,

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I frequently turned to the Salvation Army for help.

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'So now, on the 150th anniversary year...'

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-Oh, here we go!

-SCREAMING AND LAUGHTER

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'..for the next three months, I'll be working with the officers and volunteers...'

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-Vegetable soup!

-You enjoy that?

-Fan-tastic! Oh, it was wonderful.

-Yeah?

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'..on my very own Salvation Army training course.'

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Do you know, you're putting me off old age with all this!

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I'll be travelling up and down the country...

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If it hadn't had worked out for me, I could be in your position now.

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-Thank you.

-You're welcome.

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Look at the size of him.

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..and even overseas.

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Too much.

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Tonight, I pass on my considerable cooking skills to some young people...

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As long as you watch yourself in that life,

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God forbid you die or you go to jail.

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..I help a man who hit rock bottom start his life again..

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Seriously, I wish you all the luck in the world. Come here.

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..and I pick up a new skill as a rap star.

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I'll fight to the very end!

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-We got it!

-That all right?

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And if I make it through, they've promised me

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I can lead the Salvation Army band down London's busiest high street.

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It's fabulous.

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For the last two weeks, I've been with the Salvation Army cadets

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at the training college in south London,

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'finding out what it takes to be a new recruit.' OK.

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'In the classroom, I learned why the Salvation Army wash feet...'

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Is this sort of for practical reasons?

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Practical, but it's also because it's what Jesus did.

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..before travelling down south to try and put it into practice.

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Paul's only just started his personal training course

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with us here and we did kind of drop him right in at the deep end.

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It's given me a lot to think about.

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It really has. Food for thought.

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When you hear their stories...

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'And it's going to be tougher than I thought.'

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Ah, you're welcome! No, you're welcome.

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So, a lot of the work we do here is emotionally testing

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and it's not for everybody.

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You have to be willing to roll up your sleeves

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and go the extra mile with people.

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I want him to be even more hands-on for this next challenge.

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I can see why they're called an army. Because they act like an army.

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They move in, they'll deal with the problem and they move out.

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It's the social care that they do I'm interested in,

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rather than the "save your soul".

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I think my soul's too far gone, to tell you the truth.

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Like an old battered kipper hanging there.

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LAUGHING: You're not going to save that!

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Before my next job, Jo has a little treat for me.

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And this is a little something for you to look at.

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Ah! Is this the new hat now?

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-This is a bespoke outfit...

-Oh, wonderful.

-..especially for you.

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-No, really?

-Uh-huh.

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-Oh, how fabulous.

-This is the only one that exists.

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The thing about the uniform is it's about faith first.

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Because we couldn't make you a soldier without you telling us

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that that was something within your heart you knew you needed to become.

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But we wanted you to be able to feel that you are part of us.

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-I don't look like a bus conductor?

-Not even slightly.

-No? Are you sure?

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No, it's smart. You can't wear it yet though. I haven't said that's all right.

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-You've got to wait.

-So I've got to pass the test, have I?

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This shield in particular is really powerful for us,

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-because it's...

-And it hasn't changed, that, has it?

-No.

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We've had that since the war.

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That was the sign that was on the mobile canteens

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when we served the tea in the war.

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The uniform has changed quite a bit

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since the Salvation Army was founded in 1865 by Methodist preacher

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William Booth and his wife Catherine.

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They wore uniforms to identify themselves as salvationists and Christians.

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In those days, the women wore bonnets to keep out the cold,

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but also to protect themselves from missiles being chucked

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by protesters who didn't like being told not to drink.

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Today, the Sally's distinctive red shield and uniform

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are recognised all over the world.

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I know there's no such thing as a free lunch, Jo,

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so what do I have to do before I'm allowed to wear this uniform?

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-If you are able to meet all my requirements...

-I will.

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-..and pass your training...

-Yeah?

-..then maybe this would be something

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that you could wear whilst you march.

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I'm not into fetish, or whatever you call it. I'm not into any of that.

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I'm not into rubber or leather uniforms.

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Just a nice, ordinary uniform.

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Naval always do it for me.

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'Well, enough of that.

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'The uniform is a big part of a Salvation Army officer's identity.

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'And I'm going to really have to earn the right to wear my outfit.'

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Paul is a great talker, so one of the simplest tasks that

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I can give him is to get out on the streets and sell the Salvation Army

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newspaper that we've been printing and selling for nearly 150 years.

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It's called The War Cry.

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I have heard of The War Cry, but to be honest,

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I don't know much about it.

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There we are. Thank you. God bless you.

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I'm being paired up again with my old friend

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Major Paul Johnson from Bournemouth.

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Who buys The War Cry?

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-Everybody. All sorts.

-My mum used to. She used to buy it.

-Yeah.

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The amount of people that come in who are now in their 50s, 60s.

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And they put something in your box and they say, "That's for my dad.

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"Because he was in the war, in the forces.

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-"The Sally Army were always there."

-Yeah.

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The War Cry has been on sale since 1879.

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It was designed to bring people to the faith.

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One of its main messages was to warn against the evils of alcohol.

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It was popular in the 1940s and during the Second World War,

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when it helped boost morale.

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I thought we were never going to get out, then.

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Today's paper is packed with everything from everything

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from army news to crosswords and recipes.

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It's sold for 20p normally,

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but I do wonder how relevant it is to the public today.

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Can you stand and look appealingly and smile?

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That's what I normally do.

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# Follow the fold and stray no more... #

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Do you want a War Cry? Go on, have one.

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'Maybe I can help make it more modern.'

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I'm the pin-up on page two.

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-You're funny, you are.

-Oh, get out of it.

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Ha-ha or peculiar?

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-Oh, look, see.

-Do you want a War Cry?

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Go on, have one. Right, we ready?

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Do you know what this is, what you're buying?

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-For the Salvation Army thing.

-Correct.

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It may feel like the paper is a bit outdated,

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but I can see how doing this does give the cadets a chance to

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talk to regular people about who the Sally Army are

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and why they do what they do.

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How did you do?

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-I did quite well.

-Oh, you have.

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Money raised from selling The War Cry goes towards

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the cost of helping people in need.

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Oh, no, look. Oh, that's a disappointment. Blinking euros.

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Send them to the French branch.

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-How much have you made?

-£16.03.

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-Well, that's not a bad haul, is it?

-It's very good.

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-So, then. The grand total.

-And we were only out there, what?

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20 minutes, weren't we?

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£43.43.

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Well, that'll provide how many dinners at Christmas?

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-We can do that for four pounds a head.

-Smashing.

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So that's fed 10 people at least, nearly 11 people.

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-That's good, isn't it?

-Yeah.

-There you go.

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Selling the papers is done by trainees of all ages.

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18-year-old soldier Lauren has grown up in the Salvation Army.

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I've always been quite proud to be part of it,

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but I know people very close to me that have decided it's not for them.

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You know, there's things that are cooler that they'd rather be doing.

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What was weird was seeing someone in school on a Monday morning

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after you'd been playing on a Saturday was sometimes

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they were a bit confused

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and they would just kind of like ask what you were wearing,

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and I remember once I was wearing my full uniform, and I was on the bus.

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I'd just started my new sixth form.

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And one of the boys came up to me and said, "Are you an air hostess?"

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And I had no idea why he was asking me if I worked as an air hostess.

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And he said, "Well, then why do you wear it?

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"If it's just where you go to church then why were you wearing

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"it on a bus on a Friday afternoon?"

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And I told him that although mostly I wear it on Sundays, when

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there's loads of other people who wear it, it is part of my identity.

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It's something to be proud of as well.

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It's where I found my identity as a Christian.

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So even if you're not wearing the uniform,

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you still have a part to play in the church.

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But I do think there's a lot of pressure on youngsters today now.

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-In what way?

-To conform to everybody else.

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To be one of the gang and all that business and to be cool.

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-And not to be different?

-Not to be different.

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It's a big mistake to be different. Big mistake.

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One of the biggest songs we sing at our church is called

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I Dare To Be Different.

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And it's the passion that they want to instil in young people.

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The way that I do that is by not drinking alcohol.

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I mean, I'm going to go to uni next year. I'm not going to lie.

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I'm terrified.

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I mean, for not drinking alcohol because it's such a big thing,

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it's a big part of university,

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but that's a promise that I've made and I'm doing it.

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I definitely think she should be in charge of youth.

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-She's great, isn't she?

-Missing the boat here if you don't.

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-And she's from Liverpool.

-I know, exactly.

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-Should we go and have this cup of tea?

-Yeah, let's have a cup of tea.

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Come on, then. We've had a good day's work there, I'd say.

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'Some of the money they raise goes towards their work helping

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'young homeless people.

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'It's estimated that nearly 300,000 youngsters aged between 16

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'and 24 sleep rough or in an unsafe place, and around 35,000 young

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'people are in homeless accommodation

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'at any one time across the UK.

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'As well as providing shelter for the most vulnerable,

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'they also teach them basic life skills.'

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The life skills classes that we teach in all of our lifehouses -

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we don't call them hostels any more, we call them lifehouses -

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they're really, really important to us

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because we want people to move on and to learn new skills

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and think about how to live independent lives.

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Today, Paul's going to be doing a baking class

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and I'm fairly sure anything could happen.

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Springfield Lodge in South London is one of the ten lifehouses

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they run in the UK that provides temporary

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accommodation for homeless youngsters. Up to 40 of them,

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aged from 16 to 21.

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They stay for an average of 16 months before moving on.

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Before, I was living in a girls' hostel. It was very bitchy.

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There was always some kind of confrontation

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and you'd kind of get in with the wrong crowd

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and then before you know it you're in too deep and it's you that's

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stuck with all the problems and all the tellings off and stuff.

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Now I'm here to start again fresh and not let the same thing happen.

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My life at the moment is looking much brighter than it was, say,

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two years ago.

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Young people here are taught the essentials,

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such as cooking and living on a budget.

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But while some are here because of breakdowns in family life,

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others are escaping the pull of gangs.

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I was involved with the gangs.

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I was more like social with the gang members

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cos I had cousins who were in gangs.

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And I think me being around that crowd kind of jeopardised me

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when I was in school,

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I got kicked out of secondary school.

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I didn't care what anyone thought of me,

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didn't want to do anything good about my life,

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it was just down the rails.

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The last time I was in a hostel was decades ago as a young care worker.

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I had a life, really, before I went into television.

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I got into this game quite by accident.

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I was working for Camden Social Services as a peripatetic

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care officer and what we did was... Say it was a single parent,

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she had to go into hospital, she had six children,

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I'd go into their home and look after them as a substitute parent

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to prevent them being split up and going into care.

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But that was 30 years ago, and I'm not quite sure what to expect here.

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-Hello.

-Hi.

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Helen Wilson has looked after the kids at Springfield for years

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and is mother hen to everyone.

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-Are you Salvation Army, then?

-I go to the Salvation Army,

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I worship at the Salvation Army on Sunday.

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And I have been in the Salvation Army uniform in my younger days.

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-I now am a smoker...

-So, hang on a minute.

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So, if you smoke you can't be in the Salvation Army?

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You can be in the Salvation Army, no problem whatsoever.

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-Well, what's stopping you, then?

-It's the uniform.

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You sign to be a soldier in the Salvation Army.

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-Soldier to God, isn't it?

-Yeah.

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And we sign the Articles of War which states that we will live

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a clean living life, and obviously smoking, drinking, gambling...

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sex before marriage...

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Drinking and gambling I can understand, but a little whiff,

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I mean, I'm sure Jesus wouldn't mind if he caught you with a Silk Cut.

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I'm sure he wouldn't mind. He'd probably give me a light.

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Can you me show around, Helen? Do you mind?

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-Of course I will. No problem at all.

-Let's go and have a mooch.

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Come this way. This is our main hub area.

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This is where in the evening and mornings they all hang about.

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-Playing Kerplunk?

-Playing Kerplunk.

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It would be Jenga, but they argue over Jenga.

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Sarah loses her temper on a regular basis over Jenga.

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Well, that's me. I get the ump playing games.

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-Do you have to go to bed at a certain time?

-No.

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-That's all right, isn't it?

-Yeah.

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So there's no bell going at eight o'clock saying,

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"Upstairs, teeth cleaned and in the sack"?

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-Just Helen screaming.

-She like Miss Hannigan from Annie?

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This lot seem pretty happy, but many arrive here with nothing

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and even have to be given basics such as soap and toilet roll,

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but I just can't get it out of my head that some of these youngsters

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have been involved in vicious gang life.

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We recognise that gangs exist.

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We recognise that because of all the dangers that go on, I mean,

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we've had young people that have had ends of fingers come off,

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-toes off, earlobes off.

-Is this with gangs?

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And this is when they've come out of a gang.

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Oh, it's part of their initiation as well.

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I mean, I've known young people that tragically have died

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through gang-related crime.

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And it's dangerous and it's scary.

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The young people in the area know that this is a safe environment.

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Yeah.

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The aim for these kids is to get into their own places

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and be responsible for themselves.

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So, for the next stage of my training

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I'm going to lead a life skills class.

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Classes can include almost everything from DIY,

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interview skills, managing money to basic cookery,

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and that's my challenge today.

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If you follow the recipe, you're laughing. That's it.

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I've got a little trick up me sleeve.

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My old Uncle Harold's lemon drizzle cake recipe. It's a winner.

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So, what you do, you beat your sugar and your butter first.

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That's it, good lad. Go on.

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With a whisk, whisk the butter, sugar, eggs, flour.

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Zest of two lemons and juice. That's it.

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And then a bit of flour so it doesn't curdle.

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Now, tell me about yourself. Go on, how long have you been here?

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-Past a month.

-Oh, is that all?

-Yeah.

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When I first moved in, straightaway, everyone just made you feel at home.

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Do you mind me asking, why are you here?

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How did you get here?

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Well, I just got involved in the wrong crowd

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and just done silly things, and I think since I've come here

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-there's been a much bigger change in me.

-Yeah.

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I'm more like willing to want to get out there

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and actually see what I can really do with my life.

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And what would you like to do?

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I've had a higher mission to want to play football.

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-Do you?

-Yeah.

-Good lad. Don't give it up, you know.

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No, I'm not going to.

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Look, we all go through bad patches, seriously. I was a dad at 17.

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-Wow!

-So, there you go.

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And all that bad lot you were talking about,

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-is that behind you now?

-Yeah.

-Good lad.

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-You don't need that.

-No.

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There's only two options for yourself in that life,

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it's either, God forbid, you die or you go to jail.

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-That's right.

-It's not really a life.

-Yeah.

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No, you want to keep away.

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They've been given hope, and you can see it in their eyes.

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They've got a future now,

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whereas maybe a few months ago they didn't believe they had a future.

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They thought that was it for them, you know.

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They were on the scrapheap.

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That's ready. Get that in there. Have you put your lemon zest in it?

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-Yeah.

-Nice. OK.

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How you getting on over there?

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Springfield Lodge has also provided a lifeline for 19-year-old Rilwam.

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You can put bricks together with that.

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Do you know what you can do with?

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A tiny little drop of milk in there. How long have you been here?

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I've been here about nine months now.

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I was in care for about...ten months.

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Would you say it's turned your life around?

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-Yes. At the moment I'm studying engineering.

-Oh, are you?

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So, my plan is to someday become a construction manger

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-or civil engineer.

-Do you know what?

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You've all got these great ambitions. You really have.

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You should all be proud of yourselves.

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-Oh, thanks!

-Seriously, you really should.

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Listen, when I was your age, if somebody said to me,

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"You should be proud of yourself."

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Never did. I wouldn't have believed them.

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But you should, the way you've got yourselves together.

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You've come through the care system, and look at you now,

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you're studying engineering. You're making a cake.

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-Yeah.

-Do you know they need, these kids?

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They need a bit of love cos that's what's been missing in their lives.

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Oh, here we go!

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Not the poor bloke!

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I've got to get on the bus like this!

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I'm working with the BBC.

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They need to know somebody cares.

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And they're not on their own, and that's what they're getting in here.

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Nice to meet you, Paul.

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Well, that concludes... That concludes...

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Paul was certainly no Jamie Oliver, but they did have fun.

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It was great to see him engaging with the young people,

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-and the young people engaging with him.

-Come here, you.

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They learnt about talking to each other, building relationships

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with each other and reacted to each other in a positive way.

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-Really nice to meet you.

-And you.

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-Welcome to Springfield Lodge.

-Thank you.

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We smell like Greggs.

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And that concludes our cookery lesson. Follow that, Mary Berry.

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Come on, gang, out!

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Helping people move on and make a fresh start is

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the aim of all the lifehouses.

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Whether for kids or for adults, they want to make sure that

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the transition into a new home is as easy as it can be.

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This is Cambria House in London, one of 25 all-male lifehouses in the UK.

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For the past year it's been home to 43-year-old Jonas,

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but he's finally been rehoused by the council.

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Usually the staff here help people move, but today, that's my job.

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-Nice to meet you.

-Nice to meet you.

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-You OK?

-Yeah, good, thank yo.

-So, you moving?

-I am, yes.

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-I'm your removal company. God help you.

-Great.

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-You've had a bad time, haven't you? From what I hear.

-Getting better.

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-Yeah. Can I take me coat off?

-Yeah, sure do.

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This time last year you were in a flat in Hampstead.

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-Yeah.

-With a boyfriend.

-Yeah.

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It all started with a text at two o'clock in the morning.

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My partner was on a night shift and...he just said,

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"I want you out, relationship's over."

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And it wasn't just the three year relationship that Jonas had lost.

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I put all my money into the wedding...

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..which was only really two and a half weeks away.

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I had not been working cos I had taken time off

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to organise my wedding. I didn't have any savings left.

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That was when I officially became homeless.

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With nowhere else to go Jonas ended up sleeping rough.

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That bench was my new home.

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It seemed a good enough place to just sit

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and work out what I was going to do.

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It wasn't something that I ever imagined could ever happen.

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It just feels like your whole world collapsed.

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It's very easy to not think about homeless people.

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I...

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It's just difficult being back, really.

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Can I ask how much you spent on the wedding?

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-About 40 grand.

-40 grand on a wedding?!

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I have to sit here.

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40 grand on a wedding?!

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See, this is love. This is what it does. Blinds you.

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I just sound like an old cynic.

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Do you think he just panicked and thought...?

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I don't know. And that's the thing,

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I've been hurt more than I've ever been hurt in my whole entire life.

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But it's not just about your feelings, it's about your life.

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I mean, he's changed your life completely.

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And you had all these plans, you were going to get married,

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you had a future together.

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And next thing... So, where did you go from there?

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I ended up with depression and it was just one thing after another.

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I was trying to find a job

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because I thought, "Having a job would help me..."

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Get a place.

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But then I went and got some advice and they were like,

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"No, You need a home.

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"You can't be sort of living out of two bags,"

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-and a lot of it is a bit of blur.

-That's shocking.

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But you had a classic case of how easy it is to go from

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that lifestyle, lovely flat, you had a partner.

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All of a sudden you're sleeping in Hampstead Heath.

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It's that easy.

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And that's the scary thing, it really is scary.

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Where would we be without bin liners?

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You can get so much more in there.

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Of course you can in a bin liner, they're fabulous.

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All of this is going to get creased.

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Have you got an iron when you get up there?

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-No.

-Have you got a bed?

-No.

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You've got no bed?! Where you going to kip?

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-On the floor.

-Oh, goodness.

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What have you got in here, bricks?

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It's part of our job here to see people move in to their own places

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and settle down. It's a success for us, it's a success for him too.

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Yeah, we'll miss him. I got no-one to do me garden now.

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Shall we go to Finchley?

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Do you want me to leave you to say ta-ra to the room?

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Go on. And then don't look back when you walk out the door

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cos that means you're never coming back.

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It's only a short journey to Jonas' new flat,

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but it's a big step in building his new life.

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I'm just glad you haven't got more stuff.

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Cheers. Sorry, it's another flight.

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Too bloody right, you are.

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You could do with a lift.

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-It's all right, isn't it?

-Yeah.

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Size of the balcony. It's really quiet.

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This must be great after being in the hostel for so long

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cos you've got your own front door and this is it now.

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I'm so grateful for a lot of people who have helped me through

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the whole process.

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I think you've got to keep looking forward, you can't look back.

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Exactly.

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I should imagine you feel relieved at having a place.

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So it's onwards and upwards.

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I sound like a headmistress of a girls school, don't I?

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Onwards and upwards, girls.

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No, but it is so.

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It's like this, this is it, you're out of there and here you are.

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What are you going to sleep on tonight? You going to be OK?

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I'll sleep on the floor. I've got my duvet.

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But compared with...

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Sleeping on the park bench in Hampstead Heath, yeah.

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Look, I'm going to leave you. It's been lovely meeting you.

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And seriously I wish you all the luck in the world. Come here.

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-Cheers. Thanks very much.

-And you take care of yourself.

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-Yeah?

-Yeah.

-Enjoy your new home.

-Cheers.

-Get it tarted up.

-I will do.

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-I'll see you soon. Take it easy.

-No problem. Take care, cheers.

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As he said, once you've slept on a park bench for six weeks,

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having no bed is nothing

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cos he's got a roof over his head and he can cook and he's safe.

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Really difficult to put into words how excited and...

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There's just so much possibility and that I think gives me hope.

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This week Paul has really started to embrace what we do here.

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It's all about getting stuck in and helping people

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to improve their lives.

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He bonded with the kids,

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even if they'll never remember how to make a lemon drizzle cake.

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And he made Jonas feel comfortable on what could have been

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a really nerve-racking day.

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Treating people with dignity no matter what their situation

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is a huge part of how we work, and Paul really nailed it this week.

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A few days after I visited Springfield Lodge,

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Helen rang me with some good news.

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19-year-old Rilwam has also found his own place

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and will soon be fleeing the coop.

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Thankfully he doesn't need any help moving, which is great

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because I just can't face any more stairs.

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-Here, I got you a present.

-Oh, wow! Thank you!

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You're very... It's not much, it's a clock.

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That's really nice. Thank you.

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But it's always handy when you got to be up at the crack of dawn.

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-Are you looking forward to this?

-Yeah, I'm very excited.

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-You nervous?

-A little bit.

-Do you know what?

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The best advice I was given in the theatre was,

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"Turn your nerves into excitement,"

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instead of being nervous, make it all...

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Go the other way. Get all excited. Well, it is.

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-19, you're getting your own flat. It's a big move.

-It is.

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Before he moves on, Rilwan and support worker Richie

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have set me a challenge.

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I'm pretty certain I'm the first trainee to have a go at this one.

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Did you do all this yourself in here?

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-You've got a recording studio?

-Yeah.

-It's brilliant.

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Who's singing this? Oh, is this you?

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And Sarah.

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Is this you on backing vocals?

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You should have had me and me tambourine.

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But it's not me tambourine skills they're after.

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They want me to record a rap using a speech by William Booth,

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founder of the Salvation Army.

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"While women weep, as they do now, I'll fight."

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And it's done to time with the music?

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-Do I do it to a rap beat?

-No, you just talk it.

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-Oh, I was looking forward...

-Well, do the rap, then.

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You're looking at the Ice T of Birkenhead here.

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I'm telling you. Can I do me moves in here?

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You can do your moves.

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-Are you ready?

-OK.

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# While woman weep, as they do now, I'll fight

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# While little children go hungry, as they do now, I'll fight

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# While there is a drunkard left

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# While there is a poor lost girl upon the streets, I'll fight

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# I'll fight to the very end. #

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Smashed! Smashed!

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That all right? Fabulous.

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We'll be in the charts next, kids.

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-It has been an absolute pleasure.

-And you and all, flower. And you.

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There you go. Me first rap record. Fabulous.

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Well, that's my new career sorted.

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-Oh!

-I thought I was pretty tough,

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but seeing how much work goes into offering real comfort

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and practical help to people who are struggling, well,

0:27:270:27:30

it's starting to have an effect on me.

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My soul's starting to twinge, actually, since I've been here.

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It's been laid dormant for quite a long time, underneath all the ice,

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and now it's starting to pop up, so who knows?

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You might see me marching down Oxford Street, banging on my drum.

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I hope so, it's something I've always wanted to do.

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That, and have a Lotus Europa Mark2, but there's no chance of that.

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'Next time, believe it not, I end up giving a Bible class.'

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Go easy on her.

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'I train to walk a mile in someone else's shoes.'

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I'm spinning going, "Where am I going, luvvy?"

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'And I face my biggest fear.'

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I'm not scared of death at all. I'm more scared of losing me marbles.

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Come here, you.

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