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This programme contains some strong language

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Show me some nipples!

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Let loose with your mates in the ski and party capitals of Europe.

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-Join in the action on the piste.

-I've never drunk so much in my life!

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There's freedom...

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I'm having such a good time, I just don't want to go home.

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..temptation...

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and excess.

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But what the kids don't know is their parents are coming too...

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-Yeah, let's go.

-You ready?

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-..secretly spying...

-I'm going to wee my pants.

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It's too much for me to take on as a mother.

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..to see if their little ones can stand on their own two feet.

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-LAUGHTER

-Jesus Christ!

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Will the parents like what they see...

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That is not what I expect of my son.

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..as their kids get the shock of their lives?

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Oh my gosh!

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My granny's here.

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-Coming up...

-Yes!

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Two very different boys head to the winter party resort of Val d'Isere.

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Cocksure Chase leaves his strict single mum behind

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for an irresponsible week on and off the piste.

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And self-conscious 20-year-old Ben...

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-Do you think I look cool?

-No.

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..says goodbye to his laidback dad.

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We're like mates, not father and son.

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..for an emotional week in the Alps.

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Oh!

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But will these two very different parents cope with what they see...

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-No!

-Half a bottle.

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..when they secretly watch their kids...

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WOMAN GASPS

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..and give Ben and Chase the shock of their lives?

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Oh my gosh!

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Looking forward to his first ever lads holiday with his mates,

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meet 20-year-old, uber-confident, Chase from Purley, South London.

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I've got a couple of nicknames in Croydon.

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Yummy, Yummy Chocolate Man or Fresh Prince of Croydon,

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because as you can see, my hair's quite long on top and I'm handsome like Will Smith.

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Chase lives at home with his two sisters, older brother and mum, Sharon,

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who, as a single mum, has had to be firm with all of her kids.

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I'm a strict mother, I've had to be.

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I was 27 with four, all under the age of four.

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-Chase, pick this up.

-I ain't picking it up.

-Chase, pick it up.

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-You're closer to it. You're closer.

-Chase, pick it up.

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If I ever ask my mum to do me something, she'll laugh in my face.

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I get treated like a slave!

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I'm not really a mate's mother, as such.

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Do I expect respect from my kids? Erm, yeah.

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And from what I've seen, I am getting it.

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Despite keeping Chase in line at home,

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Mum Sharon wants to spy on him so she can see what he gets up to when he's away.

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This is probably something that's going to make me see, really, what my son's like.

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So, I'd like to think what I've seen, through his younger days, growing,

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is still reflecting on him now.

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The worst thing on this holiday I could see

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would be Chase being disrespectful.

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If I find a girl that looks like Alesha Dixon, she is getting chirped, straight up.

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It's definitely important for me to be proud of Chase.

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Even though he's never skied before,

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cocky Chase thinks he's got it all sewn up.

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I reckon I'll be good. Why not?

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I play literally football, rugby, basketball.

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Skiing is just a different sport.

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I don't want Chase being careless on the slopes.

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Being a sporty person, he probably will be competitive or try to be.

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He thinks he can ski, but I know he can't.

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I am a risk taker, but when it comes to injuring my face, I'm not taking that risk.

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When you're good-looking, you don't want to injure your face.

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A budding model, Chase could also have some off-piste distractions,

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which is another of mum Sharon's major concerns.

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I do not have a clue about Chase's sex life.

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So far so good, I'm not a grandma yet.

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What about your condoms?

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Oh, er, I'm a Catholic - sex after marriage, innit?

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It's important for him to respect women because I've raised him.

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-Is there anything else?

-Condoms.

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And girls are quite forward nowadays, so I see, so I have to worry about my son!

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On this holiday, I wouldn't say I would really look for a woman -

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they usually come up to me.

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Like, I'm not being big-headed, but that just happens.

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You be careful with the alcohol "assumption".

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I don't really drink.

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The first 24 hours of the holiday, go to the liveliest bar, club,

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and just get on it the first day, that's what you've got to do.

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I am not a kid. I will look after myself, don't worry.

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Going with Chase on his first ever lads holiday

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are two of his closest mates...

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-I do like to er...

-Experiment.

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-That's, yeah.

-Yeah, cos he's showed me videos on his phone, innit?

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..try anything once Anthony.

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Here's Major... The Major, the Governor.

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I'm the Major. I run things, pretty much.

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..and organiser of the group, Adrian.

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-HE BEATBOXES

-Yo, Chase of Croydon, also known as The Fresh Prince of Croydon.

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Also going to Val d'Isere, is 20-year-old, image-conscious, Ben.

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I think I'm a bit obsessed with celebrities.

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I don't know why, I just love their whole lifestyle,

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everything about them, they just all seem so perfect,

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but Joey Essex is a personal favourite.

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Ben lives in a village near Dover with laidback dad, James,

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and his girlfriend of three years, Kelly.

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And traditional man's man, James,

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finds it hard to understand his son's fascination with his looks.

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You got more hair stuff in there than a woman.

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Yeah, but I need it, don't I?

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Me and Ben are close, but he's more into his...fashion.

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Spends a fortune on sprays and gels. I wish Ben was a bit more laddy.

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Ben spends ages in the bathroom.

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-Hurry up Ben, I need a shit.

-I'm doing my hair!

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Single dad James has brought Ben up by himself for the last six years.

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I did try my best with him.

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It's very difficult to be a dad and a friend and everything all at once, and a mum of course.

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It's... Yeah, I'd like to think I'm a good dad to him.

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Come on, it won't make a difference, you still can't get a girlfriend anyway, hurry up.

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Me and Ben are like mates, rather than father and son.

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Ben can talk to me about anything.

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-Is that it? Is it really worth it?

-It's perfect.

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-Really?

-Yeah.

-It don't look no different.

-No, it looks perfect.

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But Ben doesn't see things quite the same way as his dad.

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I don't feel like I can speak to him about any worries or stuff like that.

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Erm, I'd rather just have a joke with him.

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I wouldn't say it was a close family.

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We don't spend as much time together as we should do.

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And unbeknown to James, Ben is hiding something from his dad.

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Seriously low self esteem that stems from his teenage years.

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Confidence is a bit of an issue for me. I'm not as confident as I could be.

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I was overweight when I was younger.

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I didn't think that people had a good opinion of me, being overweight.

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I didn't really socialise a lot, at all.

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It's still not a point, erm, where I totally feel confident around everybody.

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So, dad James might get more than he bargained for from this spying trip.

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But what does HE hope to get out of it?

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Just to see what sort of things he gets up to when we're not about.

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Sometimes we won't see him for hours.

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He'll just disappear upstairs, just in his own little world.

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James may be a laidback father,

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but he's got two very strict holiday rules for first time skier, Ben.

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I'd like you to have a lesson.

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Just so you get the basics of what you're doing,

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so you don't hurt yourself.

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Certainly won't be happening.

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Tattoos are a no.

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-If I want a tattoo, I think it's my body.

-You know it's one of my hates.

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-Alright, mate.

-Hi, boys.

-Hi, mate.

-How you been?

-Not too bad.

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Going with Ben on his first ever skiing holiday are two of his mates...

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I'll tell you what, boys, I'm planning on getting absolutely paralytic every single night.

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..big drinker, Chris...

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-Minimum, 5am.

-Yep.

-We've got to stay out all night.

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..and night owl, Ash.

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I plan on getting you two

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absolutely smashed every single night,

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making sure that you have a quality time,

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and making sure that I enjoy myself too.

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-Wow.

-You need to man up, mate.

-That sounded gay, didn't it?

-Pathetic.

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Ben wants to keep the weight off and not show himself up.

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So unlike most lads his age,

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he's planning on staying alcohol-free this holiday.

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I make a bit of a fool of myself when I'm drunk.

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One of the reasons why I don't drink is because I want to look my best, I want to stay slim.

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Ben should have fun while he's young.

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He should have a drink, have a laugh.

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5am, and over in South London, Chase is about to leave the clutches of strict mum, Sharon.

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That's if she can let him go.

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-Condoms? Did you pack them?

-Adrian got them for me.

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Yeah good. Well done, Adrian.

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-Right, mum, see you...

-You look after yourself and take it easy.

-I will do.

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Chase is met by Ant and Adrian. With them all hailing from Purley,

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they're known as the "Purlaid Crew".

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Yes, Purlaid.

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See you, Chase. See you on the slopes!

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Time for the Dover boys to swap the white cliffs for the white slopes

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and head off on the holiday of a lifetime.

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-Pick them up Captain. All right.

-As per usual, half of that's hair products.

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-Give us a man hug, Ben.

-See you later.

-Take care.

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-OK.

-See you later, love. Bye.

-Enjoy yourself, have fun.

-Bye.

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See you, see you sooner than you think.

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And we'll be watching every move.

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Chase and Ben are oblivious that their parents will be joining them on holiday,

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Spying on them every step of the way.

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Both sets of boys are heading to the Alps -

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home to some of the best skiing in the world.

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But it's also home to one of Europe's coolest winter party resorts. Val d'Isere.

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With bars and clubs open day and night,

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hordes of youngsters descend on it every week,

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to party on and off the piste.

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And joining in on the Val d'Isere vibe

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are the very up-for-it Purlaid Crew.

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Yes. Nice sun. It ain't like England.

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I'm going to get even more and more brown.

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Free from the grip of his strict mum, and on his first ever lads' holiday,

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non-skier Chase is ready to hit the most challenging slopes.

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I'm going on the black slope. I ain't scared.

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You'll probably, literally, tumble down.

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Three hours later and the boys are nearly at their hotel.

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But first, they stop off for some vital supplies.

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Stocking up for the week, really - a little bit of cereal.

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Essentials, water for the hangovers.

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-Yes.

-Wahey.

-Well done, Chase.

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-We got a kitchen, bruv.

-No.

-Yes bruv.

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Oh, there's speakers as well. Oh! Sorted.

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We hit the jackpot.

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I need to use the gaff.

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Purlaid, welcome to our house, mate. Keep it nice and tidy there, mate.

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I don't want no skid marks in the toilet, yeah?

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Time to unpack the essentials.

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Bruv, we've got bare beers.

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Five o'clock and the Dover boys have just arrived.

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We're here then, boys, the sun's shining, time to have some fun.

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Nice bathroom.

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-Looks like me and you are sharing this then, Ash, mate.

-Erm, yeah(!)

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So, has the excitement of coming on holiday

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made Ben change his mind about being on the wagon?

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I'm not drinking, but I shall be getting them two smashed.

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Get them throwing their stupid dance moves.

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And just making a fool of themselves.

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That's a no then. But it sets his mates a challenge.

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There's no way I'm letting him go home a sober man.

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At the Purlaid Crew's hotel,

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Chase doesn't need any encouragement to knock back the booze,

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starting with a very French-themed Rose wine chaser.

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-Fuck that!

-Go, go!

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-HE BURPS

-I don't believe it, man.

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Fuelled by their pre-drinks, the boys head into town.

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But will they be able to handle what Val d'Isere has to offer?

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Are we scared? No, we're not. The only person I'm scared of is my mum.

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And away from the watchful eye of his mum,

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at the first bar, Chase swaps the bottle of Rose for a bottle of spirits.

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Ah, yeah!

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HE MOUTHS

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Drink it! Down, down, down!

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And it's not long before the Fresh Prince of Croydon

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tries to make his mark on Val d'Isere.

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Rizzle Kicks, nice to meet you.

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I said I was Rizzle Kicks and they believed me

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and I got a promotion - free drinks.

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Bonjour.

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-Basically...

-This guy's from Rizzle Kicks, man.

-No way.

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-What's your name?

-Sophie.

-Nice to meet you, Sophie.

-And you.

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First big night out, boys, in Val d'Isere.

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The Dover boys are also heading into town.

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And Ben is immediately faced with temptation

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as Ash and Chris get straight on it.

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Despite the peer group pressure, he stands firm.

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Ben hasn't had anything to drink. Not a sweet fanny fuck all!

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Do you want some milk, do you want some fucking milk(!)

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I've had two drinks - a Diet Coke and a water.

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I am a little bit jealous of the fun they're having,

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like getting the drink straight down and drinking competitions...

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Could it just be a matter of time before Ben cracks?

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Later, when a girl approaches him,

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Ben's not confident enough to even talk to her.

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-That girl's trying to chat to Ben and he just told her to fuck off.

-What one?

-This one right here!

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He should man up a bit, talk to some girls...

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He's a free agent, but Ben has his own reasons for not chatting her up.

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Er, a bit ugly, er, not quite my type

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and er, definitely not looking for anyone like that.

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Beers are off the agenda,

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girls are off the agenda, but at least Ben is having a good time(!)

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Erm, I probably am getting a little bit bored now.

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It's a little bit annoying Ben wants to go home,

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but it's cos he ain't drinking he wants to go home.

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I think, Ben, he needs to just let go a little bit.

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-4am.

-Time to head home.

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And Ben convinces the boys to call it a night.

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Can we decorate a Christmas tree?

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As the Dover boys head home...

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Go.

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..Chase is king of clubs in a bar across town.

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-RAPPING:

-My name is not chocolate, call me a Twirl.

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Yo, Listen, I want to sing like far out, Rizzle Kicks.

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Tonight's been a bit of a crazy one, like.

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We've had, erm, Chase acting as if he was Rizzle Kicks.

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And just like the biggest stars...

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-All I'm saying is I love my mum so much.

-Are you gone?

-I'm not gone.

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..it looks like fame has gone to Chase's head.

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-Let's walk in.

-Yeah, we can't walk in. It's closed.

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The fall means it's the end of the night.

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Anthony and Adrian take Chase home...

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Where's the girls? Get the girls.

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..and put him to bed.

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-Goodnight, boys.

-Goodnight, see you later, mate.

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I'm never drinking again.

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The Dover boys' hotel the next morning,

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and Chris and Ash are feeling the pain.

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-How many Jagers did we have last night?

-Too many.

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But having kept off the spirits, it means Ben's in good spirits.

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My body feels like a temple. Like I'm so refreshed.

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It's time to ski. But Ben's keeping his mates off the slopes

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with his infamous morning routine.

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Oi, Adrian...

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At the Purlaid Crew's hotel, Chase seems surprisingly sprightly.

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Adrian, come on, wake up.

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Maybe the hangover hasn't kicked in yet.

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Adrian, come on, wake up, we've got to go skiing.

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And they aren't the only newcomers to the slopes of Val d'Isere.

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Little do the lads know, their parents have arrived.

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Lovely day, isn't it? Really nice weather.

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First in is Ben's laidback dad, James, and his girlfriend, Kelly.

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Followed by Chase's strict mum, Sharon,

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who's joined by her friend, Marie.

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-Hiya.

-Hiya.

-You OK?

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-Hello. I'm Chase's mum.

-Hi, I'm Kelly.

-Hello, Kelly. Alright.

-Hiya, I'm Ben's dad.

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A three-hour journey into the Alps gives Sharon and James

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the perfect opportunity to swap notes on their kids.

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So, James, tell me what Ben's like.

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He's on a bit of a non drinking session at the moment.

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He hasn't had a drink for about five months.

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-Good.

-So what's Chase like?

-I don't really see him as a drinker,

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-so this is going to be very interesting to see.

-Well, let's hope they have some fun.

0:18:380:18:43

11am, and Val d'Isere's pistes are packed with skiers.

0:18:490:18:54

The Purlaid Crew are ready to join them.

0:18:540:18:57

Well, perhaps not Chase, because it looks like last night's booze has finally worn off.

0:18:570:19:02

I don't even want to ski.

0:19:020:19:03

I just want to bloody sleep for a bit longer.

0:19:030:19:06

I won't be the best of my ability to... Shit.

0:19:060:19:10

Tired, hung-over and new to skiing,

0:19:100:19:12

competitive Chase still bypasses the beginner's nursery slopes

0:19:120:19:17

to take on a steeper blue run -

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usually for skiers with a little bit more experience.

0:19:190:19:23

Fuck. I think I grazed my back so much, man.

0:19:270:19:32

I had an accident on my first ski, man.

0:19:320:19:35

I've ripped my bloody trousers. It's a massive gash, man.

0:19:350:19:39

It's lucky it's hot out here.

0:19:390:19:41

It's dangerous to ski with a hangover.

0:19:410:19:43

But with a careless disregard for his own safety,

0:19:430:19:45

the cocksure South Londoner,

0:19:450:19:47

who's had no lessons whatsoever, goes again.

0:19:470:19:50

I'm falling all over the place.

0:19:590:20:01

I'm like Bambi on ice and it ain't a good thing.

0:20:010:20:03

Having finally done his hair, Ben and the Dover boys are ready to hit the slopes.

0:20:030:20:08

Wow, look at all this stuff.

0:20:080:20:09

But as they get their kit, self-conscious Ben has his priorities sorted.

0:20:090:20:13

Looking good on the slopes is definitely important.

0:20:130:20:15

Obviously staying safe is erm, like second to that.

0:20:150:20:18

But it looks like Ben's going to do the sensible thing and get a helmet.

0:20:180:20:23

-Do you think I still look cool?

-No. Do a little dance.

0:20:230:20:26

I don't know about this helmet malarkey,

0:20:280:20:30

I could spend an hour getting ready.

0:20:300:20:32

-Are you two getting helmets?

-No.

-You're not?

0:20:320:20:35

-No.

-Well neither am I then?

-Yeah, you are!

0:20:350:20:37

-I'm not.

-You are.

-That's coming off.

0:20:370:20:39

Ben's insecurities get the better of him

0:20:390:20:41

and he easily bows to peer group pressure.

0:20:410:20:44

Mate, I'm not having the helmet, I can't look a complete idiot.

0:20:440:20:46

It's really important to me that I look good on the slopes,

0:20:490:20:51

especially in front of my friends.

0:20:510:20:53

First time on the slopes and Ben already breaks one of his dad's rules.

0:20:530:20:57

Like Chase, he's not bothering with a ski lesson.

0:20:570:21:01

I can't even get up!

0:21:090:21:11

I'm aching already.

0:21:160:21:19

Oh...

0:21:220:21:23

Oh, shit!

0:21:260:21:27

Shit!

0:21:270:21:29

I wish I'd got a lesson now.

0:21:350:21:36

Having settled in at their hotel,

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for the first time, the parents are about to see

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what their sons got up to on day one.

0:21:490:21:51

I wouldn't like to see him being disrespectful.

0:21:510:21:55

I wouldn't like to see Chase paralytic drunk.

0:21:550:21:59

I wouldn't like to see Chase drunk where he can't see what he's doing.

0:21:590:22:03

Really looking forward to seeing what Ben was up to last night,

0:22:030:22:05

just to see what sort of thing goes on without us being there, really.

0:22:050:22:09

I'm not sure if Ben would have broken his vow on not drinking or not.

0:22:090:22:12

But first up, it's Chase.

0:22:120:22:15

-Huh!

-He isn't?

-No!

-No!

-No!

-Half a bottle.

0:22:160:22:20

-Sorry?

-'Oh my goodness.'

0:22:200:22:23

God, he's going to finish it.

0:22:230:22:27

No!

0:22:270:22:28

-No way!

-Sharon?

0:22:280:22:32

-Well, I'm not very happy with that.

-No way!

0:22:330:22:36

I'm not very happy with that.

0:22:360:22:37

Like, I tell him when you do these mixing drinks

0:22:370:22:41

it's a form of alcohol poisoning.

0:22:410:22:43

It's just a shock to the system.

0:22:430:22:45

-Yes.

-We don't see this. I don't see him drink.

0:22:450:22:48

-Oh!

-No way!

0:22:520:22:56

Good.

0:22:560:22:58

Goodnight, boys.

0:23:040:23:05

Did you see the part when he fell over?

0:23:050:23:07

-Oh yeah.

-See, that to me, worries me.

0:23:070:23:10

I'm not used to that. I don't see that.

0:23:100:23:13

This is the first night,

0:23:130:23:14

but if it is an every night thing I'm seeing,

0:23:140:23:16

I'm going to be worried.

0:23:160:23:18

-We never used to drink that much.

-No way.

0:23:180:23:20

Next up it's James's turn to see what Ben's like away from home.

0:23:200:23:24

Oh no, he is being good.

0:23:270:23:29

Oh, shots. Oh!

0:23:310:23:33

-Go on, give one to Ben.

-How many?

0:23:330:23:35

-Oh, and a water.

-A water!

0:23:350:23:36

Water!

0:23:360:23:39

-I've had two drinks...

-SHE GASPS

0:23:390:23:41

-A Diet Coke and a water.

-Oh!

0:23:410:23:45

I am jealous of the fun they're having,

0:23:450:23:47

getting the drinks straight down.

0:23:470:23:48

-You must be proud with that?

-Yeah, yeah, if he says...

0:23:490:23:52

- Yeah, he said he could have as much fun. - But he did say he was jealous.

0:23:520:23:55

Yeah. I think he's going to succumb. I think he will.

0:23:550:23:58

JAMES: I kind of hope Ben has a drink and relaxes with the lads.

0:23:580:24:01

-They left him on his own.

-Oh!

0:24:060:24:09

It's annoying Ben wants to go home.

0:24:090:24:11

If you ain't drinking, you're not going to enjoy it as much.

0:24:110:24:15

-<

-Bless him!

0:24:150:24:16

There's a little division.

0:24:160:24:18

I think he would relax if he had a drink and mix in with the lads.

0:24:180:24:21

He did look, sitting on his own,

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as if he was a bit lonely and not sort of mixing in.

0:24:230:24:26

-Oh, he can be like that at home...

-We're used to him being at home, laying on his bed.

0:24:260:24:30

-Yeah.

-And just not mixing in and...

0:24:300:24:32

When you see him sitting back when the others are enjoying themselves...

0:24:320:24:35

-You'd like to see him up there...

-Yeah.

-..with the rest of them.

-Yeah.

0:24:350:24:38

The Dover boys have been practising hard for four hours.

0:24:400:24:44

And they're gearing up for a short race.

0:24:440:24:47

But they're not alone. Ben's dad James, and Kelly, are going to spy on him.

0:24:470:24:52

Having seen him struggle at night, James wants to make sure Ben,

0:24:520:24:56

who's in the yellow jacket, is having fun during the day.

0:24:560:25:00

God, I can't believe he's only just over there.

0:25:000:25:02

Oh, a couple of hundred feet away from him.

0:25:020:25:06

I hope he's got his helmet on!

0:25:060:25:09

Un, deux, trois!

0:25:100:25:14

PARENTS GASP Bloody hell, Ben!

0:25:140:25:18

-Oh my god, look how fast he's going.

-Look at him go.

-He's whizzing.

-He's going so fast!

0:25:210:25:27

Remarkably, Ben's hard work paid off. He actually won the race.

0:25:270:25:32

I'm just waiting for the national anthem now.

0:25:320:25:35

-That was really good, wasn't it? He don't realise we're just here.

-But how fast did he go?

0:25:350:25:39

-I know.

-How did he stop?

0:25:390:25:41

Brilliant!

0:25:420:25:43

Satisfied Ben's enjoying himself, dad James and Kelly sneak off.

0:25:460:25:50

Now back at his hotel,

0:25:580:26:00

self-conscious Ben hadn't realised how strong the alpine sun can be.

0:26:000:26:05

Sunburnt. I look like a cherry tomato... I'm just going to...

0:26:060:26:10

-All you need is a green wig and you'll be a fucking Oompa Loompa.

-I know. I feel awful.

0:26:100:26:14

I'm not going to worry about looking good tonight.

0:26:140:26:18

His face may be beetroot red,

0:26:180:26:20

but amazingly for Ben, he still wants to hit the bars.

0:26:200:26:23

Let's get out and party.

0:26:230:26:25

Night two in Val d'Isere.

0:26:250:26:27

Will this be when Ben cracks and gets back on the booze?

0:26:270:26:30

It doesn't look likely.

0:26:330:26:34

Ash and Chris get stuck in,

0:26:340:26:36

but tonight they seem less bothered about getting Ben to drink

0:26:360:26:39

and more focused on getting him a girl.

0:26:390:26:42

Come on, Ben. The challenge is, mate,

0:26:420:26:43

you've got to talk to at least one girl,

0:26:430:26:45

and that's not just a simple hello.

0:26:450:26:47

-I'm not going to speak to someone that I'm not interested in at all.

-You are just being a minge.

0:26:470:26:51

-Get in there!

-I'm having fun, I'm not, I didn't come out here to have...

0:26:510:26:55

You're 21, mate, and you're on a fucking detox.

0:26:550:26:57

-Are you still a virgin?

-No, definitely not, mate. Definitely not.

0:26:570:27:02

Ben's confidence issues are still affecting his holiday.

0:27:020:27:05

Just like at home, he feels he can't confide in anyone.

0:27:050:27:08

I think I might be a little bit scared of being rejected by girls,

0:27:080:27:11

I mean I've never had the confidence to go and speak to new people.

0:27:110:27:13

Probably with the whole confidence thing of being overweight, so it's difficult.

0:27:130:27:17

I don't think everyone knows about my confidence issues.

0:27:170:27:20

It's not something I voice to people.

0:27:200:27:22

What about your dad, and...do your family know?

0:27:220:27:25

Erm...

0:27:250:27:27

Visibly upset, Ben has difficulty answering.

0:27:310:27:34

I don't know.

0:27:340:27:36

Do you mind if I...?

0:27:450:27:46

With his insecurities on his mind,

0:27:460:27:49

Ben finds it hard to get into the swing of things.

0:27:490:27:52

So the Dover boys decide to call it a night.

0:27:520:27:55

I did feel quite awkward, it's like, it's not easy to talk about.

0:27:550:28:00

I definitely do bottle a lot up inside of me

0:28:000:28:02

and and don't really find it easy to talk to people about things.

0:28:020:28:06

Erm, I wish I could.

0:28:060:28:07

1.30am - at the Purlaid Crew's hotel,

0:28:110:28:15

they're sober and just going out.

0:28:150:28:18

Tonight, Chase will be playing the fame game - again.

0:28:180:28:21

Rizzle Kicks, yeah, that's me for tonight.

0:28:210:28:24

But the first bar they get to... is dead.

0:28:240:28:28

Then on the way to their second bar...

0:28:310:28:34

RAUCOUS SHOUTING

0:28:340:28:37

..whilst Ant finds a new friend,

0:28:400:28:42

Chase and Adrian get involved in a slanging match

0:28:420:28:45

with some drunken revellers - about skiing ability.

0:28:450:28:48

I just want to leave here, to be honest with you. Some dickheads.

0:28:480:28:51

You can't even double, you can't even double, you can't even straight out of reds man.

0:28:510:28:56

You can ski, well done(!)

0:28:560:28:58

Chase shows maturity by calming Adrian and turning his back on any aggro.

0:28:580:29:03

-I really wanted to hit him.

-We've got to be the bigger person.

0:29:030:29:06

We're here for a holiday.

0:29:060:29:08

We don't want to look like thugs, you know, cos we ain't.

0:29:080:29:10

Leaving Ant to his own devices, Chase and Adrian head home.

0:29:100:29:14

So much for trying to top their first night out.

0:29:140:29:17

At the parents' hotel they're about to see what their kids got up to

0:29:250:29:28

on the second day of their holiday.

0:29:280:29:30

But Chase's first night's drunken antics

0:29:300:29:33

have been worrying his strict mum, Sharon.

0:29:330:29:36

Well, I've slept on it, now, but I've still got mixed emotions.

0:29:360:29:40

Still definitely mixed, but I'm hoping today

0:29:400:29:43

I see something a bit more positive from him.

0:29:430:29:46

I've had major concerns about, erm,

0:29:460:29:49

him going skiing the next day after the drinking.

0:29:490:29:51

Man, I can't even ski today, I don't even want to ski.

0:29:550:29:59

I just want to bloody sleep for a bit longer,

0:29:590:30:02

-but we're up this early skiing.

-Serve you right.

0:30:020:30:05

-Ooh!

-Oh, oh!

0:30:070:30:09

-Bless him.

-Good!

0:30:090:30:11

Teach him a lesson. Slow down, slow down.

0:30:110:30:15

Oh, Chase, Chase, Chase! Oh, oh, oh!

0:30:150:30:19

No, I'm not happy with this now. He doesn't know what he's doing.

0:30:190:30:24

-No.

-He doesn't, he hasn't got a clue.

0:30:240:30:27

-I'm a bit disappointed now.

-Yeah.

0:30:270:30:29

-I'm disappointed in Chase.

-He shouldn't have drunk so much.

0:30:290:30:32

This is what my concern was though. This is something he's coming to do and the alcohol in him...

0:30:320:30:38

That's a bit of a concern because he's not thinking straight.

0:30:380:30:42

-He's not seeing the...

-The danger.

0:30:420:30:45

-Yeah. But I'm very worried.

-Of course.

0:30:450:30:48

-You can't even double, you can't even double, you can't even... Straight out the reds.

-I don't like that.

0:30:490:30:54

You can ski, well done(!)

0:30:540:30:56

-OK, good, walk away.

-He's walking away, yeah. He has.

-Good boy.

0:30:560:30:59

-Well done.

-Feel chuffed.

-I got worried.

0:30:590:31:02

-All right.

-Well, it's good that he walked away.

0:31:020:31:05

I'm relieved with that... cos I don't like bully behaviour.

0:31:050:31:09

This is what I was worried about - the confrontations with other people

0:31:090:31:13

when you've had alcohol in your system.

0:31:130:31:15

Last night, there would have been a fight.

0:31:150:31:18

-There would have been a fight.

-It just proves that while he's not with you, he's strong enough...

0:31:180:31:22

-Yes.

-..to make his own decisions.

0:31:220:31:24

I feel a lot better today.

0:31:240:31:25

I don't know whether he's learnt anything right now,

0:31:250:31:28

but by the end of the week, I might see something different.

0:31:280:31:31

Next up - Ben's dad, James.

0:31:310:31:34

Oh, dear.

0:31:340:31:35

I don't know about this helmet malarkey, I spent an hour getting ready.

0:31:350:31:39

-At least he's sensible.

-Yeah.

-'Are you two getting helmets?'

0:31:390:31:41

-No.

-You're not?

-No.

-Neither am I, then.

0:31:410:31:44

-Yeah, you are.

-I'm not.

-You are.

-That's coming off.

0:31:440:31:47

-No!

-That's coming off.

0:31:470:31:50

-Oh, no!

-How you feeling now?

0:31:500:31:53

Well, it just goes to show - pressure from the other lads...

0:31:530:31:56

-Yeah.

-He was ready, he had the hat on.

0:31:560:31:58

The thing that worries me the most

0:31:580:32:00

-there is that Ben gave in so quick to his mates.

-Yeah.

0:32:000:32:03

James's reason for spying on Ben

0:32:030:32:05

is to see what he's like away from home,

0:32:050:32:07

but he's about to get a bit more than he bargained for.

0:32:070:32:11

I've never had the confidence to speak to new people.

0:32:110:32:13

Probably with the whole confidence thing of being overweight,

0:32:130:32:16

erm, not really enjoying myself as a teenager. So, it's difficult.

0:32:160:32:20

'What about your dad, and do your family know?'

0:32:200:32:23

Erm...

0:32:240:32:25

-BEN:

-I don't know.

0:32:280:32:30

Do you mind if I...?

0:32:310:32:33

How you feeling?

0:32:380:32:40

Erm, it's a bit upsetting,

0:32:400:32:42

because, obviously, for the last sort of six years,

0:32:420:32:45

I've tried to be his mum, his dad and his friend.

0:32:450:32:48

So, obviously you can't do everything right.

0:32:480:32:52

-No.

-And sometimes if you try and be them three things,

0:32:520:32:54

they can't talk about everything, so it's a bit upsetting, yeah.

0:32:540:32:58

-Most definitely.

-I've never seen Ben get upset either, so...

0:32:580:33:01

-No.

-What do you feel like now, then, James?

0:33:010:33:03

Actually really, truthfully, seeing that last bit?

0:33:030:33:05

-Shit.

-Do you?

-Yeah, I feel...choked.

0:33:050:33:10

I must admit, I do feel pretty bad... Erm, sorry.

0:33:100:33:14

And that really, sort of, makes me feel like I've let him down.

0:33:200:33:24

I don't think you've let him down at all.

0:33:240:33:26

And you've been there for him.

0:33:260:33:27

-Yeah, but it's still...

-It's the communication side of it.

-..hard to watch.

0:33:270:33:31

Early morning at the Dover boys' hotel,

0:33:310:33:34

and Ben's clear head means he's made a big decision.

0:33:340:33:37

I'm thinking about getting a tattoo.

0:33:370:33:39

I've wanted to do it for a long time.

0:33:390:33:41

I might as well get it done out here.

0:33:410:33:44

Especially if I've got you to hold my hand, Ash.

0:33:440:33:46

Oh God, look at that snow.

0:33:480:33:51

How deep is the snow? It's nearly up to my knees.

0:33:510:33:54

Ash might have been fast asleep, but he's wide awake now.

0:33:540:33:57

Ben's dragging him and Chris to the nearest open tattoo parlour.

0:33:570:34:00

A 20-mile drive down windy roads to a nearby town.

0:34:000:34:04

I think this is a bit of a silly idea going in this sort of weather, Benny.

0:34:040:34:08

I don't even know if I want to go. I'd actually pay to get off.

0:34:080:34:13

But when Ben sets his mind on something, he sticks to it.

0:34:130:34:17

Ben, if we die and you survive, I'm going to haunt you for the rest of your life.

0:34:170:34:22

An hour-and-a-half later, they arrive.

0:34:220:34:25

I feel so nervous.

0:34:250:34:26

He's already broken his dad's rule of not taking a skiing lesson on his first time skiing.

0:34:260:34:32

Now, he's about to break the biggest rule of all.

0:34:320:34:34

One of Dad's last words to me was that I wasn't to get a tattoo.

0:34:340:34:37

But I'm going to get on with it, erm, and hope I don't cry.

0:34:370:34:42

-Hello.

-Hello. Hello.

-Erm, I've come for my first tattoo.

0:34:420:34:46

-OK.

-I want to get a single word.

0:34:460:34:48

Ben's tattoo is very personal to him. He believes he's made up a slang word pronounced, 'welt'.

0:34:480:34:54

Erm, it means good, amazing, erm, something positive.

0:34:540:34:57

Time to see if Ben has the confidence to go through with the operation.

0:34:570:35:02

-Oh!

-Does it actually hurt?

-Yeah!

0:35:030:35:07

Now you are a man!

0:35:120:35:14

It's really good, I really like it.

0:35:140:35:16

I feel like a man, I didn't cry.

0:35:160:35:18

With his new markings, Ben is brimming with confidence.

0:35:180:35:21

I'm proud that I've got it done. I never thought I'd be able to do it.

0:35:210:35:25

I just hope my dad don't have too much of a bad reaction to it.

0:35:250:35:29

I think it's my decision, and ultimately, it's my body.

0:35:290:35:33

In Val d'Isere, the Purlaid Crew have been skiing all morning.

0:35:420:35:47

But after hurting his neck in a nasty fall,

0:35:470:35:50

Chase has left the slopes and has gone for some medical advice.

0:35:500:35:54

Well, the pharmacist told me to move my neck.

0:35:540:35:57

She goes, "Well I can tell by your movement there's nothing broken."

0:35:570:36:00

Chase heads back to his apartment to rest.

0:36:000:36:03

Now halfway through his holiday,

0:36:030:36:06

his injury has made him think about his cocky attitude.

0:36:060:36:09

I did think I could ski

0:36:090:36:11

just because of the basis that I could rollerblade,

0:36:110:36:15

skate and do ice-skating.

0:36:150:36:17

On my first day of skiing, I was so terrible.

0:36:170:36:20

I was like flying over the place, and literally injuring myself.

0:36:200:36:24

Like, I scratched my back. Like today, I've ruined my neck.

0:36:240:36:27

But it's actually put me down to earth how arrogant I can get sometimes.

0:36:270:36:31

He's come a long way from announcing he was going to do a black run when he first turned up.

0:36:310:36:36

The Dover boys are getting ready to go out again,

0:36:390:36:41

and again Ben's not drinking, but Ash and Chris are.

0:36:410:36:45

Go on, Chrissie.

0:36:450:36:47

-Good drink, Ash?

-Oh mate, I'm smashed.

0:36:480:36:52

LAUGHTER

0:36:520:36:55

You're not even going to make it out, mate.

0:36:550:36:58

Fuck a goat!

0:36:580:37:00

But the booze gets the better of Chris.

0:37:000:37:02

Oh, Chris, have you been sick? It's absolutely everywhere.

0:37:040:37:08

Erm, he threw up all over the bathroom. So funny, but I think I'm going to end up cleaning it up.

0:37:080:37:14

I think there's only one option, as the sober one.

0:37:140:37:18

If someone other than me had been sick in my house, there's no way I was cleaning it up.

0:37:180:37:24

Hold my hand, seriously.

0:37:240:37:26

Across town, Chase, Adrian and Ant have made it past their bathroom.

0:37:260:37:31

As well as a good night out, they're looking for a couple of other things.

0:37:310:37:34

If we get any girls, it's a bonus isn't it?

0:37:340:37:36

-Crisps.

-Agreed?

-I want to get some crisps.

-Ant wants some crisps.

0:37:360:37:40

But what Chase doesn't know is two women are about to have their sights firmly fixed on him.

0:37:400:37:45

We're going to go and sneak in,

0:37:450:37:47

and hopefully do a bit of spying on Chase.

0:37:470:37:49

He's in a nightclub round the corner there.

0:37:490:37:52

Watching and listening from the club's kitchen,

0:37:520:37:55

mum, Sharon, wants to make sure Chase is acting respectfully

0:37:550:37:58

and staying out of trouble.

0:37:580:38:00

They don't look too bad, though, do they?

0:38:000:38:02

They're not drunk, staggering into someone?

0:38:020:38:06

How does it feel to be in here, knowing that he's just on the other side of that door?

0:38:060:38:10

-Do you know what, it's too surreal for me?

-Bizarre, isn't it?

0:38:100:38:13

But Sharon now has to deal with another of her concerns.

0:38:130:38:17

Her 20-year-old boy catching a lady's eye.

0:38:170:38:20

29, she said she is.

0:38:250:38:26

He has to lie.

0:38:320:38:33

-Oh, she never just said that?

-Oh, my goodness.

0:38:390:38:42

That was an invite for Chase, wasn't it?

0:38:420:38:45

-That was quick, he didn't have to do anything.

-That's some fast work.

0:38:450:38:48

Quickly run, show me the way.

0:38:480:38:50

Chase heads out of the club with his new, more mature friend.

0:38:500:38:54

And all Sharon can do is wonder.

0:38:540:38:57

-It's too much for me to take on as a mother, I can't cope. She's 29.

-I know.

-He's 20.

-Yeah.

0:38:570:39:03

I hope they got condoms, just in case, you know?

0:39:050:39:07

-Yeah.

-Cos I can't be a grandma yet.

0:39:070:39:09

The Dover boys have made it out to a nearby club.

0:39:140:39:17

Well, two of them, anyway.

0:39:170:39:18

Chris is back at the hotel, fast asleep.

0:39:180:39:21

Booze-free, Ben can still party hard.

0:39:250:39:29

Then Ash's kind words make him realise for the first time,

0:39:290:39:33

he CAN confide in his mates.

0:39:330:39:35

Ben's his own person, I'll always stick there by him.

0:39:350:39:37

I just hope Ben can tell me anything cos I'm always there for him.

0:39:370:39:40

He's a good lad and I'd do anything for him.

0:39:400:39:43

It does make me feel happy that I've got someone to talk to now.

0:39:480:39:52

It isn't always easy for me, but now I feel closer to him.

0:39:520:39:55

The two best mates party on into the small hours.

0:39:590:40:02

Mate, I had the sickest after party, bruv.

0:40:210:40:24

9am the next morning and seven hours after disappearing with a girl,

0:40:240:40:28

Chase is back at his hotel.

0:40:280:40:30

I got in at 4.30 and they ain't been to sleep since.

0:40:300:40:33

Having missed out on the action, Ant and Adrian want to know more.

0:40:330:40:37

Mate, I did not bang, man! I slept on the sofa, man.

0:40:370:40:40

I didn't want to disrespect the lady, you know what I mean?

0:40:400:40:43

-INTERVIEWER: Chase, I thought you said you hadn't slept.

-Oh shit, yeah.

0:40:430:40:48

Across town at the Dover boys' hotel...

0:40:520:40:54

I'm getting ready to go out anyway.

0:40:540:40:56

With his confidence growing, for the first time, Ben doesn't care what he looks like.

0:40:560:41:01

I think getting this sunburn probably has made me worry less about my appearance.

0:41:010:41:05

I've gone out without my hair done which never would have happened before.

0:41:050:41:08

This is probably the worst I've ever looked.

0:41:080:41:10

It has made me think, maybe I don't need to worry about the littlest things like a bit of dry skin.

0:41:100:41:15

Last night out with Ash made Ben realise he can open up to his friends.

0:41:150:41:20

Now his thoughts turn to his dad.

0:41:200:41:21

I don't think it's easy to confide in him. He had tried his best,

0:41:210:41:25

but we just haven't got the kind of father-son relationship.

0:41:250:41:28

We never sit down and talk properly.

0:41:280:41:31

It would be nice to confide in him and tell him the way I'm feeling.

0:41:310:41:34

Once again, it's time for the parents to see what their children got up to yesterday.

0:41:420:41:47

First up, Ben's dad, James, who's in for a shock.

0:41:470:41:51

-How you feeling, James?

-Yeah, good. A bit excited, a bit nervous.

0:41:510:41:56

-I made up a word. I want to get that tattooed on my wrist now.

-Oh, no.

0:41:570:42:01

On his wrist, what a dick.

0:42:010:42:04

Now you are a man.

0:42:040:42:05

-Oh dear, I see a sigh, I see...

-Yeah, really, yeah.

-..a sense of disappointment here, why?

0:42:050:42:11

Definitely. Before he come out, I said to him, man-to-man,

0:42:110:42:14

"Look, once you've got one, you can't get rid of it."

0:42:140:42:17

It's just, and to have it on his wrist as well,

0:42:170:42:20

where everyone at work can see it and...

0:42:200:42:22

yeah, really disappointed in that.

0:42:220:42:25

Have you heard of the word that he's made up?

0:42:250:42:27

- Welt? - This is a new word. - He's used it at home.

0:42:270:42:29

- It's part of... - He has used it at home.

0:42:290:42:31

I think he ought to get "numpty" or something like that, but yeah...

0:42:310:42:35

Well, shall we see what other stupid things he got up to, shall we?

0:42:350:42:38

OK.

0:42:380:42:39

Look at the state of that bottle of vodka.

0:42:420:42:45

-Good drink, Ash?

-Oh mate, I'm smashed.

0:42:450:42:47

Chris, have you been sick? It's absolutely everywhere.

0:42:500:42:54

THEY GROAN

0:42:540:42:56

Sick's probably my worst thing. And I hate cleaning it up.

0:42:560:43:01

He's never cleared up sick, has he? It's always, I end up doing it.

0:43:010:43:04

You had to do it the last time. He was in your shoes then.

0:43:040:43:07

-Yeah.

-Yeah.

-He was being... He was being Dad.

-Yeah.

0:43:070:43:11

Concerned about Chase's cockiness,

0:43:110:43:13

time for Sharon to see if her son has learnt any lessons.

0:43:130:43:17

Being on this holiday has made me think that, erm...

0:43:170:43:21

I think I do know it all,

0:43:210:43:22

like I think I'm Mr Know-It-All, all the time.

0:43:220:43:25

But I think... Like, I did think I could ski.

0:43:250:43:29

I've ruined my neck, I can't even move it all the way round. Oh!

0:43:290:43:32

It's made me think, like, you should always never, never give it chat unless you can do it.

0:43:320:43:38

I've always told Chase, "I don't know everything."

0:43:380:43:40

And to kind of get that in him now, at this age,

0:43:400:43:43

I'm glad for that, I'm so proud he said that.

0:43:430:43:46

Looking forward to seeing how last night developed. I know you're not too keen.

0:43:460:43:51

And he didn't go back with that girl, that's my main concern.

0:43:510:43:54

My baby!

0:43:560:43:59

Quickly, run, show me the way!

0:44:020:44:04

Hmm. Oh, my God!

0:44:040:44:07

Uh-oh. >

0:44:120:44:13

THEY LAUGH

0:44:130:44:17

-To be continued.

-Hold my hand.

0:44:170:44:20

- She's gone off with my baby. - He's a good-looking young lad.

0:44:200:44:24

My boy's only 20, and then he's gone off with her now, so it's...

0:44:240:44:28

I know it's... I just know. I know them.

0:44:280:44:30

But as long as he's looked after himself...

0:44:300:44:32

I actually have to accept Chase going off with this girl.

0:44:320:44:36

If he's respecting her, that's my main thing.

0:44:360:44:39

I want him to respect this lady because I raised him.

0:44:390:44:42

A mother raised him, a lady raised him.

0:44:420:44:44

After Chase stayed out all night last night,

0:44:440:44:48

the Purlaid Crew are going for a civilised meal -

0:44:480:44:51

a traditional Alpine fondue.

0:44:510:44:53

Get a bit of meat and you dip it in there.

0:44:530:44:56

As Chase dunks his meat, his mum and Marie sneak into his room.

0:44:560:45:01

After seeing her son go off with an older woman,

0:45:010:45:04

Sharon wants to find out

0:45:040:45:06

if he came prepared for a holiday romance.

0:45:060:45:09

I'm very excited, but I'm nervous as well. I'm trembling.

0:45:090:45:13

Oh, my God!

0:45:130:45:15

It's a risky operation. So they can only hope they don't get caught.

0:45:150:45:20

Once inside, Sharon, who's a strict mum at home,

0:45:200:45:24

can detect her son's territorial markings.

0:45:240:45:27

This one, I know that's Chase's

0:45:270:45:28

because he keeps leaving wet towels on there, and I keep telling him, "Don't do that, it's bad karma."

0:45:280:45:33

What's he gone and done? But that's Chase.

0:45:330:45:35

I'm not impressed with that, look at that. Skid mark on the toilet.

0:45:350:45:39

Then she finds what she's looking for.

0:45:400:45:44

Oh!

0:45:440:45:46

Condoms!

0:45:460:45:48

Safe in the knowledge that Chase has contraception, they sneak out.

0:45:480:45:53

I'm buzzing like a doorbell!

0:45:530:45:55

Yeah, and condoms, we saw the condoms in the room.

0:45:550:45:58

I was happy with that.

0:45:580:46:00

Things are just getting going in Val d'Isere's bars and clubs.

0:46:040:46:08

The Dover boys have gone for one final night out,

0:46:120:46:14

and as they hit their first bar, they're not alone.

0:46:140:46:17

Dad, James, and partner, Kelly, have sneaked into the kitchen.

0:46:170:46:21

Ben's only just the other side of this wall.

0:46:210:46:24

-He's in there.

-So we're, er, tip-toeing around.

0:46:240:46:27

James is hoping to see his son let his hair down.

0:46:270:46:31

There's a barmaid out there dressed as a snowman.

0:46:310:46:34

I'm going to go out there, head to toe in snowman gear and he's not going to know it's me.

0:46:340:46:40

-How funny.

-Wicked.

0:46:400:46:42

It's so risky, being as he's so close as well.

0:46:420:46:46

When Kelly's behind the bar,

0:46:460:46:47

James will be able to see and hear via a monitor.

0:46:470:46:50

And he's about to witness something he hasn't seen his son do in a while.

0:46:500:46:54

You know what boys, cos it's our last night, I've had a good time,

0:46:540:46:58

I'm going to have one drink.

0:46:580:46:59

What Ben doesn't know is that the first beer he's having this holiday,

0:46:590:47:03

he's buying from his dad's girlfriend.

0:47:030:47:07

Oh! What are you doing?

0:47:120:47:13

Shh.

0:47:140:47:16

I went out there, saw Ben and the boys,

0:47:160:47:19

and they was all like chatting and they came over for a drink

0:47:190:47:22

and I was just like, "Oh my god, what am I going to do?"

0:47:220:47:26

-Go on, Benny.

-Get it down you, mate.

0:47:260:47:29

-Right.

-In one. You can't do that.

-Show us how it's done.

0:47:290:47:33

Thanks to a good holiday.

0:47:330:47:35

He'll do it, he'll neck it so quick.

0:47:350:47:36

Do it!

0:47:360:47:38

Oh, Benny!

0:47:390:47:42

And down. Get in.

0:47:420:47:45

-Well done, mate.

-Wow.

-Oh, bless him. At least he's had a drink.

0:47:450:47:49

This is my party piece from a few months ago,

0:47:490:47:52

and I've kind of missed it, but I'm back on the water from now on.

0:47:520:47:56

It's been great to watch him have fun. He's so strong-headed, he's back to water already.

0:47:560:48:00

I'm really looking forward to seeing him tomorrow.

0:48:000:48:03

Happy with what they've seen, James scarpers,

0:48:030:48:06

and still dressed as a snowman, Kelly tries to.

0:48:060:48:10

It's been a big night for Ben,

0:48:170:48:18

but he and his mates also decide to call it a night.

0:48:180:48:21

I had my first beer in more than 125 days.

0:48:210:48:26

It felt different. It was good to do that with the lads

0:48:260:48:29

and, er, just celebrate the holiday.

0:48:290:48:32

I'm going to miss this place.

0:48:320:48:34

After a week of spying,

0:48:430:48:45

the time has finally come for Sharon to reveal herself to her son.

0:48:450:48:48

The Purlaid Crew are in a bar, having a round of blind shots.

0:48:480:48:52

I can smell shit in front of me already.

0:48:520:48:55

What Chase doesn't know is his mum is on her way.

0:48:550:48:58

Really happy to see Chase,

0:48:580:49:00

but still there's a lot of things that are unsettling me,

0:49:000:49:03

which I will be pulling on.

0:49:030:49:05

You know, the 29-year-old girl for one, going off.

0:49:050:49:08

Need to know whether there was any safety

0:49:080:49:10

and whether he was decent.

0:49:100:49:12

Erm, alcohol consumption.

0:49:120:49:14

To be honest with you,

0:49:140:49:15

it's quite hard because there's so much I want to say.

0:49:150:49:18

But I am really happy, I'm just so excited to see him. I want a hug.

0:49:180:49:22

Can you imagine his face?

0:49:220:49:23

-No. My little baby.

-It's going to be a picture.

0:49:230:49:26

-Merci.

-Thank you.

0:49:260:49:27

Chase is already downing his shots...

0:49:270:49:29

Oh my gosh!

0:49:290:49:30

..but is he ready for the shock of seeing Mum?

0:49:300:49:34

Bruv... >

0:49:340:49:35

-Oh, that was fucking disgusting.

-That weren't fantastic.

0:49:380:49:41

HE COUGHS

0:49:410:49:43

-Hey, I need water, bruv.

-Don't have water, mate.

0:49:430:49:46

-Oh, my gosh!

-What?

0:49:460:49:49

Oh my gosh.

0:49:490:49:51

THEY SCREAM

0:49:510:49:54

-Hello, Chase.

-Here you go, Mum.

-No way.

0:49:590:50:01

I'm just downing it, man, this is a shock mate, eh?

0:50:030:50:07

Have you been here the whole time? No way!

0:50:070:50:09

Can I have a hug anyway?

0:50:090:50:11

Oh!

0:50:110:50:14

So cute, man.

0:50:140:50:16

Now it's time for strict mum, Sharon,

0:50:160:50:18

to put him in the firing line.

0:50:180:50:19

And that's enough to sober anyone up.

0:50:190:50:21

You're sort of suffering from a bit of a crook neck or something.

0:50:210:50:25

-I'm just saying as in, you know... keeping it kind of safe, Chase.

-I WAS safe.

0:50:250:50:29

Maybe it was where you just didn't act a bit too cocky about it and cocksure,

0:50:290:50:34

you know, cos you have hurt your neck.

0:50:340:50:36

-I feel all right now.

-But do you understand what I mean, though, Chase?

0:50:360:50:39

-Yeah.

-And like, now we go to the alcohol bit.

0:50:390:50:43

-What I saw was worrying.

-I did drink a lot, I'm not going to deny it.

0:50:430:50:47

You don't need to take that much alcohol to be you.

0:50:470:50:50

Cos you're not... You're a confident guy.

0:50:500:50:52

I don't even drink alcohol at home, like...

0:50:520:50:55

But this is it, that's why it was a shock for me. Who raised you?

0:50:550:50:57

-You.

-Right and...

-That's what I said.

0:50:570:51:00

No, what I mean is I raised you, yeah,

0:51:000:51:01

so it's a mother that's raised you, isn't it?

0:51:010:51:04

I'm a woman, aren't I Chase? And with this girl, the 29-year-old.

0:51:040:51:07

All I'm saying is, I went back to her apartment,

0:51:070:51:10

she had an after-party and that's all,

0:51:100:51:12

and I slept, literally, on the sofa.

0:51:120:51:14

Of course I care what Mum thinks.

0:51:140:51:17

Like, I know if she thinks I'm doing wrong,

0:51:170:51:19

then I know for a fact I'm doing wrong.

0:51:190:51:21

-I'm sorry for worrying you.

-Chase, what I've seen, it has been good.

0:51:210:51:25

There was things you said that fundamentally made me feel,

0:51:250:51:28

"Oh, he does appreciate me and he does appreciate his values,"

0:51:280:51:32

and I want to at least let go a bit of those reins Chase, knowing that,

0:51:320:51:35

-you know what...

-I still got the values in me.

-Yeah.

-Yeah, I know.

0:51:350:51:38

I'm looking at it and thinking,

0:51:380:51:40

"I've seen another side of Chase that I would never had the opportunity to see,"

0:51:400:51:46

so it's good for me.

0:51:460:51:47

Cos I know he's a good boy and I know now that, you know what?

0:51:470:51:50

"You're all right, you've got standards."

0:51:500:51:52

And for me it's an eye-opener because I can back off a bit now.

0:51:520:51:56

He has made mistakes, but then we have to learn by our mistakes.

0:51:560:52:00

And I do think he is going to learn by them cos it's been emotional, it's been absolute fun.

0:52:000:52:05

This is an experience I'm not going to forget.

0:52:050:52:10

As the Dover boys return their ski equipment,

0:52:220:52:24

Ben's dad James, and his partner, Kelly,

0:52:240:52:27

are preparing to reveal themselves to him.

0:52:270:52:29

I'm really proud of Ben. He seems to have grown up a bit this week.

0:52:290:52:33

I know it sounds impossible to have grown up in five days,

0:52:330:52:36

but he seems to have grown up and shown us a different side to him

0:52:360:52:40

that we, obviously, have never seen before.

0:52:400:52:43

Yeah, I'm absolutely gutted the holiday's over.

0:52:430:52:45

I just felt I was picking up the skiing,

0:52:450:52:47

the nights out have become a bit better.

0:52:470:52:49

With James and Kelly hiding in a broom cupboard out the back of the store,

0:52:510:52:55

Ben is oblivious his dad is about to appear.

0:52:550:52:58

The one thing I won't miss is walking around in these boots.

0:52:580:53:01

Oh!

0:53:010:53:04

-Bonjour, Ben.

-Oh, God!

0:53:060:53:08

-We've been watching you all week.

-No way.

0:53:080:53:11

We've got to have some talking haven't we?

0:53:200:53:22

Yeah, yeah, we have.

0:53:220:53:24

Come here, you.

0:53:240:53:25

It's been an emotional week for father and son,

0:53:320:53:35

but Ben still has some explaining to do.

0:53:350:53:37

I can't believe you got that tattoo.

0:53:370:53:40

I don't think any of us thought that I would get it done,

0:53:400:53:43

but I really want it and it does mean something to me.

0:53:430:53:46

When I look back in years to come,

0:53:460:53:48

that'll probably remind me of this holiday.

0:53:480:53:51

-Obviously, I've seen some of the things you'd said in the week.

-Yeah.

0:53:510:53:55

And when you worry about your looks and what people think of you...

0:53:550:53:59

-Yeah.

-If people don't like you for who you are...

-Yeah...

0:53:590:54:02

..you really shouldn't worry.

0:54:020:54:03

What this week's done, it has shown that me and you,

0:54:030:54:06

we obviously need to talk...

0:54:060:54:07

-Definitely.

-And one things that obviously upset me the other day

0:54:070:54:12

was that you was like, "Erm, I can't talk to my dad,"

0:54:120:54:16

and that really upset me and made me feel that I've let you down.

0:54:160:54:19

No, you haven't, no. Definitely not.

0:54:190:54:21

Erm, and for years I've, all I've done is concentrated on working,

0:54:210:54:25

you know, to provide for you,

0:54:250:54:26

-and probably not been there in other ways because I've been so busy.

-Yeah, exactly.

0:54:260:54:31

Erm, and it has affected me and, and the last few days has been quite difficult.

0:54:310:54:35

-Yeah, been hard for me as well.

-Yeah, yeah.

0:54:350:54:39

-Erm, and obviously, now we know these things...

-Mmm.

0:54:390:54:43

-..we both need to, to work on it.

-Get closer, yeah.

0:54:430:54:46

I mean, if we'd never been away this week,

0:54:460:54:48

this would have gone on and on and we'd have grown apart.

0:54:480:54:51

You know, it's been quite an upsetting week,

0:54:510:54:54

-although it's been good to hear you say these things.

-Yeah.

0:54:540:54:57

-We certainly need to...

-Get closer.

-..get closer.

0:54:570:55:01

-But I promise you now...

-Yeah.

0:55:010:55:03

..on the way forward, that I'll be there for you

0:55:030:55:06

-and we will try and do more together.

-Yeah.

0:55:060:55:08

Oh!

0:55:110:55:14

It'll be fine.

0:55:170:55:19

-Right, no crying.

-No crying.

0:55:200:55:22

I feel really lucky to have been able to come out here and share this experience with Ben.

0:55:220:55:27

I think if we hadn't done this,

0:55:270:55:29

we would never have known the issues that we've got between us as a family.

0:55:290:55:33

It has made me think how hard I've got to work

0:55:330:55:36

to make a relationship with Dad work.

0:55:360:55:38

There's not a lot I really wanted to say.

0:55:380:55:41

It's just, like, I do really love you. I might...

0:55:410:55:45

Come on, it's all right. I know, mate, I do know.

0:55:450:55:49

Oh, God.

0:55:520:55:54

-I love you, mate.

-I love you too.

0:55:570:55:59

Next time - a party-hard student lets rip...

0:56:070:56:10

We do what we want!

0:56:100:56:13

..and a mummy's boy let's loose...

0:56:130:56:15

I just like being in the spotlight.

0:56:150:56:18

Who wouldn't enjoy people loving you?

0:56:180:56:20

..for a week of excess in the snow.

0:56:200:56:22

I'm not sure what his name is.

0:56:220:56:24

-What the hell are you doing here?

-LAUGHTER

0:56:260:56:29

I've been Sun, Sex and Suspicious Parent-ed!

0:56:290:56:31

-Snow.

-Snow, you plonker.

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