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-The Welsh family is changing. | 0:00:02 | 0:00:04 | |
-Over the past 50 years... | 0:00:06 | 0:00:07 | |
-..the traditional image of Mam, Dad -and two children has been shattered. | 0:00:07 | 0:00:12 | |
-Another image has replaced it. | 0:00:12 | 0:00:15 | |
-An image of a more modern, more -complex and more colourful family. | 0:00:15 | 0:00:21 | |
-Here are some of the stories -of the modern Welsh family. | 0:00:21 | 0:00:25 | |
-Today, there are over -11,000 young carers in Wales. | 0:00:35 | 0:00:39 | |
-Children who care -for a family member who's ill. | 0:00:41 | 0:00:44 | |
-My name is Garmon. I'm 13 years old. | 0:00:49 | 0:00:52 | |
-I live with Mam, Dad, -my brother and sister. | 0:00:52 | 0:00:55 | |
-Through their work... | 0:00:58 | 0:00:59 | |
-..young carers save the Government -millions of pounds each year. | 0:01:00 | 0:01:04 | |
-I help Mam and Dad -because Dad has a bad leg... | 0:01:05 | 0:01:08 | |
-..and Mam has panic attacks. | 0:01:08 | 0:01:10 | |
-These are the hidden helpers -who subsidise the welfare state. | 0:01:10 | 0:01:17 | |
-When I grow up and move out, -no-one will look after Mam and Dad. | 0:01:17 | 0:01:22 | |
-That worries me sometimes. | 0:01:22 | 0:01:26 | |
-There'll be no-one -to look after them. | 0:01:26 | 0:01:29 | |
-I don't know what we'd do -without Garmon Jac to look after us. | 0:01:31 | 0:01:36 | |
-Dear me. | 0:01:36 | 0:01:37 | |
-Mam and I wouldn't be able to cope, -we'd be nothing, nothing. | 0:01:37 | 0:01:44 | |
-# Happy birthday to you | 0:01:44 | 0:01:48 | |
-# Happy birthday to you | 0:01:48 | 0:01:51 | |
-# Happy birthday to Garmon... # | 0:01:52 | 0:01:56 | |
-For the past 20 years... | 0:01:56 | 0:01:57 | |
-..Garmon's parents -have had problems with their health. | 0:01:58 | 0:02:01 | |
-They've relied on their children -to help them on a daily basis. | 0:02:01 | 0:02:05 | |
-We'd be stuck -without the three of them. | 0:02:08 | 0:02:12 | |
-They're life-savers, aren't they? | 0:02:13 | 0:02:15 | |
-Yeah. | 0:02:15 | 0:02:16 | |
-Anwen suffers with depression. | 0:02:20 | 0:02:23 | |
-I never thought I'd be able -to have children. | 0:02:23 | 0:02:26 | |
-About three months -before we got married... | 0:02:29 | 0:02:33 | |
-..we found out that I was expecting. | 0:02:33 | 0:02:37 | |
-That helped. | 0:02:37 | 0:02:38 | |
-It was as if the hormones were -helping me overcome the depression. | 0:02:39 | 0:02:46 | |
-The depression returned. | 0:02:48 | 0:02:50 | |
-I've been in and out of hospital -over the past five years. | 0:02:50 | 0:02:54 | |
-This is our wedding album. | 0:02:58 | 0:03:01 | |
-Our children have never seen it. | 0:03:01 | 0:03:05 | |
-We'll just flick through it. | 0:03:07 | 0:03:09 | |
-It was such a windy day. | 0:03:10 | 0:03:14 | |
-My veil went everywhere. | 0:03:15 | 0:03:19 | |
-There's a photo of myself and Dad -ready to get into the car... | 0:03:19 | 0:03:24 | |
-..and the veil -is blowing in the wind. | 0:03:24 | 0:03:28 | |
-A photo of Dad giving me a kiss. | 0:03:30 | 0:03:34 | |
-This is weird. | 0:03:34 | 0:03:36 | |
-This was before I was born. | 0:03:36 | 0:03:38 | |
-You were three months old... | 0:03:38 | 0:03:41 | |
-I know, I was in there. -I'm in all the pictures. | 0:03:41 | 0:03:44 | |
-You were in my belly! | 0:03:44 | 0:03:46 | |
-I was looking forward -to enjoying my old age. | 0:03:46 | 0:03:50 | |
-I'm 20 years older than Anwen. | 0:03:50 | 0:03:53 | |
-I was looking forward -to enjoying my life... | 0:03:53 | 0:03:57 | |
-..in peace and quiet. | 0:03:57 | 0:03:59 | |
-No suck luck! We had a load -of blinkin' children instead. | 0:04:01 | 0:04:05 | |
-Noisy children -stomping around the place. | 0:04:05 | 0:04:08 | |
-They're lovely children. | 0:04:12 | 0:04:14 | |
-I'm taking them to school. | 0:04:23 | 0:04:26 | |
-I'll get some peace at home now. | 0:04:26 | 0:04:29 | |
-Every morning, -while the children attend school... | 0:04:36 | 0:04:40 | |
-..Mick and Anwen go for a cuppa. | 0:04:40 | 0:04:43 | |
-Garmon's the one -who gives us a cuddle. | 0:04:44 | 0:04:48 | |
-Yeah. | 0:04:48 | 0:04:49 | |
-Yeah. - -He asks if we're alright. | 0:04:49 | 0:04:51 | |
-When I was in hospital two months -ago, in a psychiatric ward... | 0:04:52 | 0:04:57 | |
-..Garmon came in and I was crying. | 0:04:57 | 0:05:01 | |
-He sat on my lap. | 0:05:01 | 0:05:03 | |
-He gave me a cuddle. | 0:05:04 | 0:05:06 | |
-He was with me -and I was just crying. | 0:05:06 | 0:05:08 | |
-I was so depressed. | 0:05:10 | 0:05:12 | |
-He sat on my lap -and gave me a cuddle. | 0:05:12 | 0:05:15 | |
-He was there for about -ten minutes, just saying... | 0:05:15 | 0:05:18 | |
-.."It's OK, Mam, we'll go out -for a coffee some time." | 0:05:19 | 0:05:22 | |
-It's a big thing for a child -of that age to understand. | 0:05:24 | 0:05:29 | |
-When I wake up, Dad or Mam will ask -for a cup of tea so I'll make it. | 0:05:31 | 0:05:36 | |
-Then I'll do my chores. | 0:05:36 | 0:05:38 | |
-You'll have to put the rubbish out -in a minute. | 0:05:39 | 0:05:42 | |
-Just the bucket and recycling today. | 0:05:44 | 0:05:46 | |
-OK, bach? | 0:05:48 | 0:05:49 | |
-OK, bach? - -Yes. | 0:05:49 | 0:05:50 | |
-Yeah, yeah, good boy. | 0:05:53 | 0:05:55 | |
-I clean the toilets, -I tidy up in there, I help. | 0:05:58 | 0:06:03 | |
-Mam and Dad trust me to be there. | 0:06:04 | 0:06:08 | |
-Good boy, Garmon. Thank you. | 0:06:09 | 0:06:12 | |
-Mick has been disabled -since before Garmon was born. | 0:06:14 | 0:06:18 | |
-I don't remember Dad being healthy. | 0:06:20 | 0:06:23 | |
-He has these holes in his legs. | 0:06:23 | 0:06:26 | |
-They're disgusting. | 0:06:26 | 0:06:28 | |
-It's really painful for him. | 0:06:29 | 0:06:31 | |
-He can't walk. | 0:06:31 | 0:06:33 | |
-It's really difficult. | 0:06:33 | 0:06:36 | |
-Initially, it was osteoarthritis. | 0:06:37 | 0:06:40 | |
-It was two bones -rubbing against each other. | 0:06:40 | 0:06:43 | |
-I had a knee replacement. | 0:06:46 | 0:06:48 | |
-That worked for five years... | 0:06:49 | 0:06:51 | |
-..until it came loose -because of an infection. | 0:06:51 | 0:06:55 | |
-I had a second knee replacement. | 0:06:55 | 0:06:57 | |
-And then I was OK for a while. | 0:06:58 | 0:07:02 | |
-That's how it was over the years, -really. | 0:07:02 | 0:07:06 | |
-Anwen's problems -aren't limited to depression. | 0:07:09 | 0:07:12 | |
-I'm epileptic. | 0:07:16 | 0:07:18 | |
-I have to take care when I'm -using the kettle and the oven. | 0:07:18 | 0:07:25 | |
-Garmon is mostly responsible -for making us cups of tea. | 0:07:25 | 0:07:32 | |
-He's good. He'll come downstairs and -he'll make a cuppa for both of us. | 0:07:34 | 0:07:39 | |
-"Oh, OK then," he says. | 0:07:39 | 0:07:41 | |
-He always makes them, -fair play to him. | 0:07:42 | 0:07:45 | |
-As well as looking after -Mam and Dad... | 0:07:46 | 0:07:49 | |
-..Garmon also pays special attention -to his brother, who's autistic. | 0:07:50 | 0:07:55 | |
-Gwion can be very nasty to me. | 0:07:55 | 0:07:57 | |
-Because of his autism, -I don't think he realises that. | 0:07:58 | 0:08:02 | |
-I don't fully blame him. | 0:08:02 | 0:08:04 | |
-This is Rhian's room. That door. | 0:08:09 | 0:08:12 | |
-This is the toilet. The fancy door. | 0:08:12 | 0:08:16 | |
-This is the airing cupboard. -This is Gwion's room. | 0:08:16 | 0:08:19 | |
-I used to be in there, but now -I'm in here with Mam and Dad. | 0:08:20 | 0:08:24 | |
-This is my room. | 0:08:24 | 0:08:26 | |
-That's my bed, -down there, on the floor. | 0:08:27 | 0:08:30 | |
-This is Mam and Dad's bed. | 0:08:30 | 0:08:32 | |
-They used to share a room. | 0:08:34 | 0:08:36 | |
-Because of Gwion's autism... | 0:08:36 | 0:08:40 | |
-..he didn't give Garmon -any personal space. | 0:08:40 | 0:08:47 | |
-There were so many arguments... | 0:08:48 | 0:08:51 | |
-..we decided to remove Garmon -from the room... | 0:08:51 | 0:08:54 | |
-..and he's now in our room. | 0:08:54 | 0:08:56 | |
-I want my own room. | 0:08:57 | 0:08:59 | |
-Being in here is OK... | 0:09:01 | 0:09:04 | |
-..but it's not OK OK. | 0:09:04 | 0:09:06 | |
-We've applied -for a four-bedroom house. | 0:09:07 | 0:09:11 | |
-Of course, the supply -of four-bedroom houses is limited. | 0:09:11 | 0:09:16 | |
-Sometimes, I hide behind this chair. | 0:09:17 | 0:09:19 | |
-Then no-one can see me -and no-one can interrupt me. | 0:09:20 | 0:09:25 | |
-# I said that's life | 0:09:25 | 0:09:29 | |
-# And as funny as it may seem... # | 0:09:29 | 0:09:33 | |
-One thing that Garmon and Gwion -enjoy doing is performing. | 0:09:33 | 0:09:37 | |
-I like dancing. | 0:09:37 | 0:09:39 | |
-I feel alive. | 0:09:39 | 0:09:42 | |
-When I'm home... | 0:09:45 | 0:09:48 | |
-..I'm sometimes happy -and sometimes sad. | 0:09:48 | 0:09:52 | |
-When I'm dancing, I'm always happy. | 0:09:52 | 0:09:54 | |
-These are the things I've done -since I've been on this planet. | 0:09:56 | 0:10:02 | |
-Eight pantomimes. | 0:10:04 | 0:10:06 | |
-Mother Goose, Jack and the -Beanstalk, Cinderella, Robin Hood... | 0:10:06 | 0:10:10 | |
-..Aladdin, Dick Whittington -and the Pirate of the Caribbean... | 0:10:10 | 0:10:14 | |
-..and Snow White -and The Seven Dwarves. | 0:10:15 | 0:10:17 | |
-Four musicals -and I'm preparing for one right now. | 0:10:17 | 0:10:20 | |
-The children, Gwion and Garmon... | 0:10:21 | 0:10:23 | |
-..they're in a dance show. | 0:10:25 | 0:10:27 | |
-Gwion has worked out precisely... | 0:10:29 | 0:10:34 | |
-..how I can watch the show... | 0:10:34 | 0:10:36 | |
-..without there being -a large crowd around me. | 0:10:36 | 0:10:40 | |
-It's difficult for Mam and Dad -to watch me when I'm on stage. | 0:10:44 | 0:10:49 | |
-Mam gets panic attacks and Dad will -be in too much pain with his legs. | 0:10:49 | 0:10:55 | |
-I've performed -Gustav Mahler's Eighth Symphony... | 0:10:55 | 0:11:00 | |
-..at the Mariinsky Theatre -in Russia... | 0:11:00 | 0:11:03 | |
-..and the Millennium Centre -in Cardiff. | 0:11:04 | 0:11:07 | |
-At the moment, touch wood... | 0:11:08 | 0:11:10 | |
-..touch wood... | 0:11:12 | 0:11:14 | |
-..things aren't too bad. | 0:11:14 | 0:11:16 | |
-When I get depressed... | 0:11:16 | 0:11:19 | |
-..I just lie on the sofa -or go up to bed. | 0:11:19 | 0:11:23 | |
-I don't want to see anyone. | 0:11:25 | 0:11:27 | |
-When I'm like that... | 0:11:27 | 0:11:29 | |
-..they think... | 0:11:29 | 0:11:32 | |
-..I have no interest -in their lives... | 0:11:32 | 0:11:35 | |
-..even though they know I'm ill. | 0:11:35 | 0:11:37 | |
-When I have respite -from the depression... | 0:11:39 | 0:11:44 | |
-..I think it's important for me -to push my boundaries. | 0:11:46 | 0:11:52 | |
-I watch them if I can. | 0:11:53 | 0:11:54 | |
-Tonight is the opening night -of Garmon and Gwion's show. | 0:11:58 | 0:12:03 | |
-I really want to turn around -and not go. | 0:12:05 | 0:12:08 | |
-Before the show has even started. -Anwen feels the strain. | 0:12:20 | 0:12:24 | |
-As the auditorium fills up, -she goes from bad to worse. | 0:12:41 | 0:12:46 | |
-By the end of the first act, -it's too much for Anwen. | 0:13:06 | 0:13:11 | |
-I was shaking, I was sweating. | 0:13:13 | 0:13:15 | |
-I just couldn't do it. | 0:13:17 | 0:13:19 | |
-It's so difficult. | 0:13:19 | 0:13:22 | |
-Just doing something normal. | 0:13:25 | 0:13:27 | |
-. | 0:13:33 | 0:13:33 | |
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-Subtitles - -Subtitles | 0:13:36 | 0:13:38 | |
-Good morning. | 0:13:42 | 0:13:44 | |
-What's this? | 0:13:44 | 0:13:45 | |
-A tent. | 0:13:45 | 0:13:46 | |
-Where's Garmon this morning? -He's just come out of his tent. | 0:13:46 | 0:13:51 | |
-He's slept several nights -in his tent. | 0:13:52 | 0:13:55 | |
-I've put a mattress inside. | 0:13:55 | 0:13:58 | |
-I have an extension cord -to charge my phone... | 0:13:58 | 0:14:02 | |
-..and play on it. | 0:14:02 | 0:14:04 | |
-Last night, -he turned to me and said... | 0:14:04 | 0:14:08 | |
-.."I'm sleeping in the tent, Mam. | 0:14:08 | 0:14:12 | |
-"I want you and Dad -to have a bed to sleep in." | 0:14:12 | 0:14:17 | |
-I said, "You don't have to do that. -It's your room, not Mam and Dad's." | 0:14:17 | 0:14:22 | |
-We've been coming down to sleep -in the living room. | 0:14:23 | 0:14:27 | |
-He has his own bedroom, -our old room. | 0:14:29 | 0:14:35 | |
-He's still thinking about us. | 0:14:35 | 0:14:37 | |
-He sleeps in the tent now... | 0:14:37 | 0:14:39 | |
-..and we have the luxury -of having the mattress in his room. | 0:14:40 | 0:14:44 | |
-This morning, Anwen's food shopping -for the family. | 0:14:49 | 0:14:53 | |
-Garmon's coming with me. | 0:14:54 | 0:14:56 | |
-I'm nervous -before we've even left home. | 0:14:59 | 0:15:02 | |
-One day, when Mam is better... | 0:15:05 | 0:15:09 | |
-..and I can go places... | 0:15:09 | 0:15:11 | |
-..we'll come here to have a meal. | 0:15:11 | 0:15:14 | |
-OK? | 0:15:14 | 0:15:15 | |
-Lettuce, pepper, ham, salad cream, -Nutella, water, carrots, peaches. | 0:15:15 | 0:15:20 | |
-Peaches, peaches, where are they? | 0:15:21 | 0:15:24 | |
-Tangerines. | 0:15:24 | 0:15:26 | |
-Soon, panic sets in. | 0:15:27 | 0:15:30 | |
-Nutella. | 0:15:30 | 0:15:32 | |
-Salad cream, salad cream. | 0:15:35 | 0:15:37 | |
-Do you want to go outside, Mam? | 0:15:37 | 0:15:39 | |
-Um, no, I'll stay here. | 0:15:39 | 0:15:42 | |
-Where's the salad cream? | 0:15:42 | 0:15:44 | |
-Let's go down here. | 0:15:47 | 0:15:49 | |
-We'll have to leave the salad cream. | 0:15:50 | 0:15:53 | |
-When we're paying, -do you want to go outside? | 0:15:55 | 0:15:58 | |
-I'll give you the money. | 0:15:58 | 0:16:01 | |
-Um... | 0:16:08 | 0:16:10 | |
-If you can... | 0:16:10 | 0:16:12 | |
-..look for salad cream. | 0:16:13 | 0:16:15 | |
-Pay for everything -and we'll sort it out outside. | 0:16:15 | 0:16:18 | |
-See you outside. | 0:16:18 | 0:16:20 | |
-This makes me feel so upset. | 0:16:36 | 0:16:38 | |
-OK, Mam? | 0:16:43 | 0:16:45 | |
-Hello, Dad. | 0:16:56 | 0:16:58 | |
-Hello. We're in Morrisons. | 0:16:58 | 0:17:02 | |
-Mam's like, she's... | 0:17:04 | 0:17:06 | |
-..you know, Mam... | 0:17:06 | 0:17:08 | |
-OK. | 0:17:09 | 0:17:10 | |
-Ta-ra. | 0:17:10 | 0:17:12 | |
-Sorry, love. | 0:17:15 | 0:17:17 | |
-OK. | 0:17:17 | 0:17:19 | |
-I found the salad cream. | 0:17:19 | 0:17:21 | |
-Good boy. | 0:17:21 | 0:17:22 | |
-Here's Dad. | 0:17:23 | 0:17:25 | |
-Come on, mate. OK? | 0:17:35 | 0:17:38 | |
-I hope I'm better tonight. | 0:17:40 | 0:17:42 | |
-No-one knows what... | 0:17:43 | 0:17:46 | |
-..what a panic attack is like. | 0:17:46 | 0:17:49 | |
-I panicked. -I couldn't find the salad cream. | 0:17:49 | 0:17:53 | |
-I feel better. | 0:18:07 | 0:18:09 | |
-It's good to be home. | 0:18:09 | 0:18:11 | |
-For Anwen and Mick, life revolves -around hospital visits. | 0:18:23 | 0:18:29 | |
-Today, it's Mick's turn. | 0:18:36 | 0:18:38 | |
-We're going up to see -the consultant. | 0:18:39 | 0:18:42 | |
-Mick was meant to have an operation -in February. | 0:18:42 | 0:18:48 | |
-Mick's had numerous operations -on his knee. | 0:18:51 | 0:18:54 | |
-None have been successful. | 0:18:55 | 0:18:57 | |
-The scar and the bone -are both infected now. | 0:18:57 | 0:19:01 | |
-Every time he walks... | 0:19:01 | 0:19:05 | |
-..he's in excruciating pain. | 0:19:06 | 0:19:09 | |
-I hope they tell us today... | 0:19:10 | 0:19:13 | |
-..that it's an emergency... | 0:19:13 | 0:19:16 | |
-..and he can have -his operation soon. | 0:19:16 | 0:19:22 | |
-If they examine his leg... | 0:19:23 | 0:19:28 | |
-..and find too much infection... | 0:19:28 | 0:19:32 | |
-..they have said -they might need to amputate it. | 0:19:32 | 0:19:37 | |
-I think the children -are starting to realise... | 0:19:47 | 0:19:51 | |
-..the pain that he's in. | 0:19:51 | 0:19:54 | |
-I try to tell them... | 0:19:54 | 0:19:57 | |
-..that we can't go anywhere... | 0:19:57 | 0:19:59 | |
-..because Dad is in so much pain. | 0:20:00 | 0:20:03 | |
-They see their friends -going away for the day... | 0:20:03 | 0:20:07 | |
-..they go off on their holidays... | 0:20:08 | 0:20:10 | |
-..and our children do feel it. | 0:20:11 | 0:20:14 | |
-We can't do anything -about the situation... | 0:20:15 | 0:20:20 | |
-..until Mick's no longer in pain. | 0:20:20 | 0:20:24 | |
-When I'm 20, I want to join -the Aberystwyth fire brigade. | 0:20:28 | 0:20:33 | |
-When I'm between 30 and 50, I want -to move down to Cardiff to work. | 0:20:34 | 0:20:40 | |
-I want to put Mam and Dad -in a nursing home. | 0:20:41 | 0:20:43 | |
-I'll know they're safe. | 0:20:43 | 0:20:45 | |
-I want to be a fireman. | 0:20:45 | 0:20:47 | |
-Sometimes, I just want my own life -but I worry about Mam and Dad. | 0:20:50 | 0:20:55 | |
-The North entrance is there. -Here we go. | 0:21:06 | 0:21:09 | |
-Yes. | 0:21:12 | 0:21:13 | |
-I'll be in after you. | 0:21:16 | 0:21:18 | |
-I'm worried about Dad, -they might amputate his leg. | 0:21:34 | 0:21:38 | |
-He won't be able to walk far - -he won't be able to walk. | 0:21:38 | 0:21:42 | |
-That'll make it more difficult. | 0:21:42 | 0:21:45 | |
-Today, I'm hoping... | 0:21:49 | 0:21:52 | |
-..they'll say -they're going to pack the leg up... | 0:21:52 | 0:21:57 | |
-..in antibiotics for three months. | 0:21:57 | 0:22:00 | |
-Then they'll give him -another knee replacement. | 0:22:01 | 0:22:04 | |
-For the children, -since they were young... | 0:22:07 | 0:22:10 | |
-..Mick has been unable -to play football with them. | 0:22:11 | 0:22:15 | |
-He's not been able -to kick a ball with them. | 0:22:15 | 0:22:19 | |
-He's not half the man he was. | 0:22:19 | 0:22:21 | |
-I just hope, for the sake -of the children and him... | 0:22:24 | 0:22:27 | |
-..things can change. | 0:22:27 | 0:22:32 | |
-Fingers crossed. | 0:22:33 | 0:22:35 | |
-There's hope. | 0:22:43 | 0:22:45 | |
-He said, -"When do you want me to operate?" | 0:22:45 | 0:22:48 | |
-"As soon as bloody possible." | 0:22:48 | 0:22:50 | |
-It's gone on and on and on now. | 0:22:52 | 0:22:54 | |
-"I'll try and get you as pain-free -as possible as soon as possible." | 0:22:55 | 0:22:59 | |
-Excellent. I'm happy. | 0:23:01 | 0:23:04 | |
-Very happy. | 0:23:04 | 0:23:07 | |
-With antibiotics and surgery... | 0:23:09 | 0:23:11 | |
-..the doctors think -they can save Mick's leg. | 0:23:12 | 0:23:15 | |
-There might be renewed hope -for the future. | 0:23:20 | 0:23:23 | |
-I think they'll get better. | 0:23:27 | 0:23:29 | |
-Hopefully. | 0:23:29 | 0:23:30 | |
-Then we can make new memories -and make them better memories. | 0:23:31 | 0:23:37 | |
-S4C Subtitles by Adnod Cyf. | 0:23:54 | 0:23:56 | |
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