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-Richard Hughes

-was born with a brain tumour.

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-It's been a roller-coaster ride,

-in and out of hospital.

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-Scarred by surgery, he's

-endured years of pain and cruelty.

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-I wouldn't like to be in his shoes,

-all the things he's been through.

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-It's bullying, nothing else.

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-I wasn't hit or anything,

-it was just name calling.

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-He'd cry and say, "Mam, these

-children are calling me names."

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-Elephant Man...

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-..Michael Jackson,

-Hole-InThe-Head Boy.

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-I remember looking in the mirror

-and telling myself...

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-.."This is me, and if people

-can't deal with that, tough."

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-He's undergone 15 operations

-on his face and head.

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-In order to recreate his forehead,

-he's going under the knife...

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-..for the last time.

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-I've been waiting

-for this operation for two years.

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-It'll be nice to get it over with

-and carry on with life.

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-Behind the Scar

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-I'm feeling excited to have it done.

-I just hope this'll be the last.

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-Richard and fiancee Ffion are

-attending a hospital appointment.

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-The surgery

-he faces in a couple of weeks...

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-..is the culmination of

-many procedures to rebuild his face.

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-I'll probably be picked

-for that George Clooney ad.

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-They'll want me to do it

-after this operation.

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-George Clooney'll

-have nothing on me then!

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-You're much more handsome

-than George Clooney, I'd say.

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-Why would I want George Clooney

-when I've got Richard Hughes?

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-Richard has been back and forth

-hospitals in Liverpool since birth.

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-He will undergo his last procedure

-at Aintree University Hospital.

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-It's just down here,

-turn right and you're there.

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-Surgeons will insert implants

-into Richard's forehead.

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-Today they must check everything's

-in place before surgery.

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-Mr Richardson, the surgeon, has

-treated Richard many times before.

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-That's your scan.

-This is the side view.

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-This is the eye socket, this is

-the nose, which has been affected...

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-..by the original problem.

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-The forehead and brow

-are set too far back...

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-..so we want to bring them forward

-to make it look like other people's.

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-Lean towards me a little way.

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-Richard

-has no bone in half his forehead.

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-Several attempts to rectify this

-have led to nasty infections.

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-There's now an opportunity

-for one final attempt.

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-It won't bring things

-a long way forward...

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-..because the position is good now.

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-..because the position is good now.

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-Thanks very much.

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-We'll see you again.

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-I've known them all my life.

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-It's good that I'm still under

-the same team who know my history...

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-..and know everything about me.

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-Newborough on Anglesey.

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-It was here

-that Richard was raised...

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-..by his parents, David and Blodwen.

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-You'd been born a couple of hours.

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-I didn't see you.

-They had to rush you to Liverpool.

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-Dad went with you.

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-Here you are in the incubator.

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-It took them seven weeks

-to find out what was wrong with you.

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-They thought

-they were polyps but they weren't.

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-You had a tumour.

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-They gave you chemo

-but the tumour didn't shrink at all.

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-They said, "The only option is to

-use a special knife from America."

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-They opened up your face.

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-You went into theatre at 8.00am...

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-..and by 2.00pm,

-it had all gone well.

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-They removed the tumour.

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-Since the age of four, Richard

-has faced all kinds of procedures...

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-..which have caused facial

-impairments and lots of bullying.

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-You don't get so many people

-staring at you anymore.

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-Well, I do, but I can

-put up with it a bit better now.

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-It used to annoy me

-when people would stare at you.

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-I know, you'd get really angry.

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-You didn't do a thing.

-"Just open your mouth."

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-Rob is a childhood friend and has

-been a real support for Richard.

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-Come on, I'll buy you chips.

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-Come on, I'll buy you chips.

-

-Cheers, mate.

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-He was a quiet lad. He didn't

-come out much when he was younger.

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-I found it hard to make friends

-other than those I knew.

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-The name calling and whispering

-and people pointing and laughing.

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-His facial scars were a source of

-amusement for children and adults.

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-Richard had to deal with

-a torrent of abuse.

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-When we'd go to places like Bangor,

-people would stare at him.

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-Someone might say something

-and it used to anger me.

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-He can't help the way he looks.

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-If the person's suffering,

-why make fun of that person?

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-What for?

-Just for a laugh with friends?

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-But it's not a laugh, is it?

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-After having the tumour removed

-and knowing the cancer had gone...

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-..Richard fell ill again

-when he was four years old...

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-..with painful headaches.

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-They took you to Walton.

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-They scanned you and said to me...

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-.."Mrs Hughes,

-I think the tumour's back...

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-"..but we'll scan him tomorrow.

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-"Again."

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-You had an abscess

-on the dormant side of the brain.

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-If that had burst,

-it would've killed you.

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-You've been in and out ever since.

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-HE WHIMPERS

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-You used to cry in pain.

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-Dad didn't know what to do.

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-They said, "Put him in the pram

-and take him around."

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-You liked looking at the pictures.

-You remember that, anyway.

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-Along the corridors.

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-I hated it every time

-he went into theatre.

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-When we fed him,

-he couldn't catch his breath.

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-He made a lot of noise.

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-BREATHES HEAVILY

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-He was a very weak child.

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-I broke my heart over him.

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-# Happy birthday to you #

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-Every birthday was special...

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-..and Blodwen and David appreciated

-every moment with their son.

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-It was a close family unit.

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-Can we eat now?

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-Can we eat now?

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-Yes.

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-Over the past 10 years, his mother's

-health has deteriorated...

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-..and Richard

-has had to care for her.

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-A year and a half ago,

-they were dealt another blow...

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-..when his father died suddenly.

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-He misses him desperately.

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-Today, Richard is going to have

-a tattoo of his father on his back.

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-I was looking through photos of him

-and this was the one that stood out.

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-It captures

-Dad's smile and mischief.

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-He played jokes on everyone.

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-His personality

-comes through in this photo.

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-Who's best mate? Who's best mate?

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-Who's best mate?

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-Richard and his father

-were exceptionally close...

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-..especially when he helped Richard

-deal with the bullying.

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-He was

-more of a best mate than a father.

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-He told me not to listen to them.

-He spoke at school dozens of times.

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-I remember him

-coming in one time during a lesson.

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-They based the lesson on me.

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-About my illness...

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-..and why I looked the way I did.

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-A lot of it stopped after that.

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-There were

-more and more spells in hospital...

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-..and despite all the support,

-the bullying continued.

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-Richard left school at 13...

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-..and was home schooled.

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-I did my GCSEs at home.

-I didn't do very well.

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-I started volunteering

-at Clwb Ni in Llangefni...

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-..which is a youth club

-for children with special needs.

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-By volunteering there, I did my

-Youth Achievement Platinum Award.

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-I was the first person in Wales

-to do it.

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-That led to me volunteering...

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-..at Ysgol Y Bont, Llangefni...

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-..as a classroom assistant.

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-I was taken on

-and stayed for three years.

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-It always pained Dad

-that I couldn't find employment.

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-When he found out

-I'd got the job in Ysgol Y Bont...

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-..he was very proud

-and told everyone about it!

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-This tattoo

-will be a constant reminder of him.

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-Is this

-where your father liked to come?

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-Yes. He'd come every day.

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-Yes. He'd come every day.

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-Did he like coming for walks here?

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-Yes.

-He'd also go to the island to fish.

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-Now there's someone else

-in Richard's life...

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-..who's just as supportive

-as his father.

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-We met on a dating site.

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-I remember seeing a photo of Ffion,

-thinking, should I message her?

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-I jibbed out to begin with.

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-But then I noticed

-that she'd looked at my photo too...

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-..so I decided to message her.

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-When I saw his photo,

-I thought he was a bad boy..

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-..because of his scars, his nose...

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-..and all his tattoos.

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-We clicked straightaway.

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-The saying's true -

-never judge a book.

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-I did, in his case,

-but how wrong was I?

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-He explained to me about the scars.

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-They didn't bother me at all.

-I just liked the person.

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-We never have disagreements,

-we never argue about anything.

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-She's literally

-the female version of me.

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-I remember when I left you...

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-..you sent me a message saying...

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-.."Sorry I didn't give you a kiss."

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-He says I ran away before

-he had the chance to kiss me...

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-..but you don't kiss

-on the first date, do you?

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-Aah, cute!

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-Richard Hughes

-was born with a brain tumour...

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-..which has left him

-with deep scars on his face.

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-He's battled health problems

-and a great deal of bullying.

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-At home in Newborough on Anglesey...

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-..his friends have been supportive.

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-Good start!

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-I'm a team captain. We play

-every Thursday night in a league.

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-I'll take every chance I get to

-practise because I'm poor sometimes.

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-Other times I'm fine.

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-Other times I'm fine.

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-Go on!

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-Foul. Two shots, free table.

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-Because he had scars,

-people would stare.

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-I remember him starting secondary

-school, and as children can be...

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-..they didn't know what

-he'd been through and were cruel.

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-I wouldn't like to be in his shoes,

-all the things he's been through.

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-People have said

-awful things to him.

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-It's bullying, nothing else.

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-There are spiteful,

-horrible people out there.

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-These lads

-have been great with me for years.

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-They've been there for me

-when I've needed them.

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-We have a laugh.

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-What do you have there?

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-Class!

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-Despite his problems, Richard has

-always wanted to help others...

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-..by doing voluntary work.

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-The pool lads helped me a lot.

-I've worked with disabled children.

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-I taught them

-how to play pool properly...

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-..and they loved it.

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-It was rewarding

-seeing the youngsters progress.

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-I put what I've been given

-into action to help others.

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-His childhood was very uncertain.

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-Nobody knew

-what the future held for him.

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-Watch your head! Right, come on.

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-Come on.

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-There you go. Come on.

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-Nobody was more proud

-of his achievement...

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-..than his mother, Blodwen.

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-I've worried a lot about him.

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-I never thought he'd be here today.

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-A lot of Newborough people

-talk about him...

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-..and how well he's done.

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-I'm proud of Richard. He has

-a good job and he has a girlfriend.

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-I was worried he'd be alone.

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-But I'm glad he's met Ffion.

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-If anything should happen to me...

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-..at least I know he'll be alright.

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-My hero.

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-He's done very well indeed.

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-A fortnight

-after filming with his mother...

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-..Blodwen passed away

-after years of illness.

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-We've been used to her

-going in and out of hospital...

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-..but there was nothing

-they could do for her this time.

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-As a family, we took the decision...

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-..to switch off

-her life-support machine.

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-Throughout all my operations and

-illness, she's always been there.

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-She's been brilliant with me

-over the years.

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-It'd odd, I check my phone every day

-for messages from her.

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-A huge loss.

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-The day of the surgery

-has arrived...

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-..and for the first time, Richard

-faces it without his parents.

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-Richard Hughes?

-If you'd like to come through.

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-Ffion and her mother, Nia, have

-come to support Richard this time.

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-He's undergone

-this operation twice before...

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-..and both times it has been

-unsuccessful due to an infection.

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-All set? You know

-what we're doing, don't you?

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-You've had it all done before.

-Do you want me to explain?

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-No, it's fine.

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-They're going to open up

-the same scar from ear to ear...

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-..and attach implants

-to the bone on the left side...

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-..to smooth out the forehead so

-there's structure on the right side.

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-Thanks very much.

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-Thanks very much.

-

-I'll see you shortly.

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-It's amazed me how good he's been.

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-Just how strong he is.

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-I've been very nervous.

-I don't know what to expect.

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-I'm just looking forward

-to getting it over with.

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-Richard Hughes? Are you ready?

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-Good luck.

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-Richard's surgery

-is expected to take four hours.

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-It's going to be

-a long four hours for Ffion.

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-At only 24 years old, Richard has

-already undergone 15 procedures...

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-..on his face and head.

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-I had my first operation

-when I was six months old.

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-I had another when I was four.

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-I had another when I was about 10,

-which was a skin graft...

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-..on the top of my nose.

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-I had one when I was 17, when they

-took cartilage from my kidney...

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-..to make a bridge for my nose.

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-Then I had one two years ago...

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-..to save one side of the bone

-on my forehead...

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-..to avoid having large implants.

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-I've been waiting

-for this operation for two years.

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-It'll be nice to get it over with

-so that I can get on with my life.

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-Richard has been

-under the knife for an hour...

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-..and Mr Richardson, the surgeon,

-has operated on him before.

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-He's a very nice guy. He's

-put up with a lot. Very stoical.

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-He's a pleasure to treat.

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-Richard's old scar

-has been opened...

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-..and they're ready to insert

-the new implant in his forehead.

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-I'm looking forward

-to getting it over with.

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-This is all new to me. I haven't

-seen him have an op before.

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-I don't know what to expect

-when I see him, but I can't wait.

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-This time, the implants...

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-..are made from PVC and plastic.

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-Hopefully it'll be a success.

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-It's going very well.

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-The implants are custom-made

-just for Richard...

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-..using his CT scan

-as a three-dimensional image.

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-So the model's printed

-to a good fit to his skull shape.

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-It's gone very well.

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-We're concerned about infections...

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-..because there's always a risk

-and you can't eliminate that risk.

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-With a bit of luck, he won't

-get an infection this time...

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-..and he'll have benefited

-without needing anything else done.

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-But so far, so good.

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-I've never seen him with a forehead.

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-It'll be a different Rich!

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-A day after the surgery...

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-..Ffion's stayed in Liverpool

-to look after Richard.

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-How do you feel?

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-How do you feel?

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-Great.

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-I'm looking forward to getting the

-scar cleaned and going for a wash.

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-Well, he can finally go home.

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-Glad to see the back of this place?

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-Glad to see the back of this place?

-

-Oh, yes. Definitely.

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-Give them a little wave.

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-Home, James.

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-It's three months

-since Richard had his surgery...

0:21:470:21:51

-..and there have been major changes.

0:21:510:21:54

-Not only has his

-facial reconstruction finished...

0:21:540:21:58

-..he now lives across the water

-with Ffion in Caernarfon.

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-Their focus now is on their wedding.

0:22:020:22:05

-Shame there are no suits for you.

0:22:050:22:07

-Shame there are no suits for you.

-

-Yes, but...

0:22:070:22:09

-..you'll have to

-be in charge of that.

0:22:090:22:12

-It's a relief for Richard that

-the implant has been a success.

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-It felt odd at first...

0:22:160:22:19

-..because I no longer had a dip.

0:22:190:22:21

-It was more rounded off...

0:22:210:22:24

-..and it felt like I had

-a large forehead at first...

0:22:240:22:28

-..because I wasn't used to it,

-but it feels great now.

0:22:280:22:33

-I don't think many couples have gone

-through what we've been through.

0:22:350:22:40

-It's been tough

-but we've had each other.

0:22:400:22:43

-For me, he's a hero.

0:22:440:22:46

-He proves

-that life is there for the taking...

0:22:460:22:50

-..and to enjoy every day.

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-I was very aware

-of how I looked years ago...

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-..and felt

-I had to fit into a certain image.

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-But I don't care any more.

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-People still stare, but not as bad.

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-I don't let them bother me.

0:23:140:23:16

-I have confidence now

-whereas I had none before.

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-I look forward to getting married,

-having children and buying a house.

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-I want to live life to the full.

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