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Heir hunters track down people who are entitled to money from relatives who have died. | 0:00:02 | 0:00:07 | |
It's not an easy task. We do it every day of the week. | 0:00:07 | 0:00:10 | |
Sometimes, the deceased has become estranged from their family. | 0:00:10 | 0:00:13 | |
It's the heir hunters' job to trace them | 0:00:13 | 0:00:16 | |
and make sure any unclaimed money goes to the right person. | 0:00:16 | 0:00:19 | |
I had to lose my last remaining relative to inherit the money. | 0:00:20 | 0:00:25 | |
The research can be painstaking. | 0:00:25 | 0:00:28 | |
Rather like scratching one's head without any fingers. | 0:00:28 | 0:00:31 | |
And doesn't always go to plan. | 0:00:31 | 0:00:34 | |
We're back to square one. | 0:00:34 | 0:00:36 | |
But it's all about giving news of an unexpected windfall. | 0:00:36 | 0:00:40 | |
So, could the heir hunters be knocking on your door? | 0:00:40 | 0:00:43 | |
Coming up, is a very common surname a challenge too far for the team? | 0:00:48 | 0:00:53 | |
-Smith is always hard work. -It's tricky, it's a challenge, but that's what research is. | 0:00:53 | 0:00:58 | |
A story of crime, punishment and ultimate redemption. | 0:00:58 | 0:01:03 | |
If you told me that he was going to turn out to be a half-decent guy | 0:01:03 | 0:01:08 | |
that does charity work, I would've thought you were bonkers. | 0:01:08 | 0:01:11 | |
Plus, how you could be entitled to inherit unclaimed estates held by the Treasury. | 0:01:11 | 0:01:16 | |
Could thousands of pounds be heading your way. | 0:01:16 | 0:01:19 | |
It's Thursday morning and overnight the latest bona vacantia list has been published | 0:01:27 | 0:01:32 | |
showing the names of people who have died without leaving a will. | 0:01:32 | 0:01:35 | |
At Fraser and Fraser, the country's largest firm of heir hunters, | 0:01:35 | 0:01:40 | |
case manager David Milchard, known as Grimble, and boss Neil | 0:01:40 | 0:01:43 | |
are looking at four potential cases from the list. | 0:01:43 | 0:01:46 | |
-That's your coffee there. -Thank you. | 0:01:47 | 0:01:49 | |
Speed is always a priority because there are up to 40 rival heir hunting firms | 0:01:51 | 0:01:56 | |
all racing to find and sign up heirs for a commission of an estate's worth. | 0:01:56 | 0:02:00 | |
The one that looks the best is this one. | 0:02:01 | 0:02:04 | |
This morning, the team are feeling brave. | 0:02:06 | 0:02:08 | |
They've decided to work a case with the most common surname in Britain. | 0:02:08 | 0:02:13 | |
-It's a good bet, isn't it? -What do you reckon? -Yeah. | 0:02:13 | 0:02:17 | |
James Smith died in July 2011 near Chichester. | 0:02:19 | 0:02:23 | |
For the last three decades of his life, | 0:02:25 | 0:02:27 | |
he worked as a garden labourer. | 0:02:27 | 0:02:30 | |
His friends knew him as Jimmy. | 0:02:30 | 0:02:32 | |
Work colleague Doug Moye remembers him well. | 0:02:33 | 0:02:36 | |
I knew Jimmy 28 years. | 0:02:37 | 0:02:41 | |
Jimmy was never a big talker. | 0:02:41 | 0:02:43 | |
Always kept himself to himself. He was never one for starting a conversation. | 0:02:45 | 0:02:51 | |
He would only ever answer if somebody talked to him. | 0:02:51 | 0:02:54 | |
"How you doing, Jim?" "All right." And that was it. | 0:02:54 | 0:02:58 | |
"How are you feeling?" "Fair to middling." It's just the way he was. | 0:02:58 | 0:03:02 | |
No picture of Jimmy has been found. | 0:03:02 | 0:03:04 | |
But he's remembered as a hard worker who never complained. | 0:03:04 | 0:03:09 | |
Well, I think he was happy to have the job. | 0:03:09 | 0:03:12 | |
He never had a day off sick. He'd come in, he'd be there on time. | 0:03:12 | 0:03:16 | |
He'd be the last one usually in for a break, and generally the first one out after the break. | 0:03:16 | 0:03:22 | |
He wouldn't leave five minutes early. | 0:03:22 | 0:03:24 | |
Never asked for a holiday. Had to be sent on holiday. | 0:03:24 | 0:03:28 | |
Um, he got on with the job, what he needed to do. | 0:03:28 | 0:03:32 | |
And Jimmy kept his personal life and his past very much to himself. | 0:03:32 | 0:03:38 | |
Jimmy never said anything, unless you really asked him and pushed him. | 0:03:38 | 0:03:43 | |
He just didn't talk. He wouldn't say a thing about it. | 0:03:43 | 0:03:50 | |
He was just one of those people. You left him alone. | 0:03:50 | 0:03:53 | |
You didn't push him. He didn't seem troubled about anything. | 0:03:53 | 0:03:56 | |
In the office, the team has very little to work on. | 0:04:01 | 0:04:04 | |
So far, all they've got is a name and the place where James Smith died. | 0:04:04 | 0:04:09 | |
They need more information and fast. | 0:04:11 | 0:04:14 | |
So Grimble gets hold of one of the company's travelling researchers. | 0:04:14 | 0:04:18 | |
Hello. Bob Smith. | 0:04:18 | 0:04:19 | |
Bob spends his days out on the road gathering vital information for the team in the office. | 0:04:19 | 0:04:26 | |
They build up a picture of the person who has died by talking to neighbours. | 0:04:26 | 0:04:31 | |
And they also collect vital documents. | 0:04:31 | 0:04:34 | |
Hello, Bob. How are you going? Yeah. | 0:04:34 | 0:04:37 | |
Do you want to go down to Chichester? | 0:04:37 | 0:04:40 | |
Grimble sends Bob to James Smith's last known address | 0:04:41 | 0:04:44 | |
to see what he can find out. | 0:04:44 | 0:04:46 | |
The team has accessed the electoral register for Chichester, | 0:04:46 | 0:04:50 | |
which has given them a much needed lead. | 0:04:50 | 0:04:53 | |
We've run the name and what we think is the correct address through one of our databases here. | 0:04:53 | 0:05:00 | |
That's given us some information. Similar to an electoral roll | 0:05:00 | 0:05:03 | |
but has a date of birth attached to it. | 0:05:03 | 0:05:06 | |
We've got a birth for James Smith in 1940 in Portsmouth. | 0:05:06 | 0:05:10 | |
The date of birth is crucial as it should help the team identify James's parents. | 0:05:10 | 0:05:16 | |
If the birth we've got is right, his mother's maiden name is Couch. | 0:05:18 | 0:05:22 | |
Try to find a Smith-Couch marriage. | 0:05:22 | 0:05:25 | |
In a period of 20 years, there's three. | 0:05:25 | 0:05:29 | |
If the team can confirm James's parents' details, | 0:05:29 | 0:05:33 | |
they can look further into his family tree. | 0:05:33 | 0:05:35 | |
Because if they can't find a marriage for James, or children, | 0:05:35 | 0:05:39 | |
then his parents' relatives will be heirs. | 0:05:39 | 0:05:42 | |
But already there's confusion. | 0:05:43 | 0:05:47 | |
-Did he live in the nursery? -Did he live in the nursery? | 0:05:47 | 0:05:50 | |
It wouldn't be a nursing home, would it? | 0:05:50 | 0:05:53 | |
The team really needs to establish James's address | 0:05:54 | 0:05:58 | |
to work out whether or not he owned a property. | 0:05:58 | 0:06:00 | |
With such a common surname, the research is hard work, | 0:06:00 | 0:06:04 | |
which could end up being costly. | 0:06:04 | 0:06:06 | |
If James didn't own a property, his estate is likely to be low value | 0:06:06 | 0:06:10 | |
and might not be worth investigating. | 0:06:10 | 0:06:13 | |
That address is a garden centre. | 0:06:13 | 0:06:17 | |
That's what I thought. | 0:06:17 | 0:06:19 | |
Originally, the team thought James had lived in a nursing home. | 0:06:19 | 0:06:24 | |
But a closer look at the address suggests he might have lived at the nursery where he worked. | 0:06:24 | 0:06:29 | |
It doesn't make sense to Neil and Grimble. | 0:06:29 | 0:06:32 | |
So, what's it look like? A nursery? | 0:06:33 | 0:06:37 | |
-A garden centre. -He's living in the garden centre? | 0:06:37 | 0:06:41 | |
It looks like he's renting a caravan on the site. | 0:06:41 | 0:06:45 | |
There may be confusion over James's last known address | 0:06:48 | 0:06:51 | |
but, despite dealing with a common surname, the researchers think they've made a breakthrough. | 0:06:51 | 0:06:57 | |
We're working on a 1941 marriage. | 0:06:57 | 0:07:00 | |
Henry Smith to a Jennifer Couch. | 0:07:00 | 0:07:04 | |
Um, we've got one of James's possible brothers up to date. | 0:07:04 | 0:07:10 | |
Um, Simon's just ringing him up. | 0:07:10 | 0:07:12 | |
-It's wrong. -Wrong? | 0:07:12 | 0:07:14 | |
But one of the other case managers, Simon Mills, has just proved all this is wrong. | 0:07:15 | 0:07:20 | |
He has found James's mother was not called Couch after all. | 0:07:20 | 0:07:24 | |
And their research has been for nothing. | 0:07:24 | 0:07:26 | |
We're back to square one. | 0:07:27 | 0:07:29 | |
There's always a risk of a setback like this when dealing with such a common name. | 0:07:30 | 0:07:35 | |
Nonetheless, it's frustrating. | 0:07:35 | 0:07:38 | |
First thing this morning, we thought we'd identified the birth of the deceased. | 0:07:38 | 0:07:42 | |
We've got the cert and it's proved to be wrong. | 0:07:42 | 0:07:45 | |
Um, quite surprising because everything looked fairly good. | 0:07:45 | 0:07:49 | |
The reason most of these cases get on the list is because they're hard to work. | 0:07:49 | 0:07:53 | |
If they're very simple, very easy, or very close family, | 0:07:53 | 0:07:56 | |
then they should all be dealt with by the time they get to our office. | 0:07:56 | 0:08:00 | |
It's not an easy task for anyone to start working. | 0:08:00 | 0:08:02 | |
It's not an easy task for us and we do it every day of the week. | 0:08:02 | 0:08:06 | |
It's tricky, it's a challenge, but that's what research is. | 0:08:06 | 0:08:11 | |
Senior travelling researcher Bob Smith | 0:08:12 | 0:08:15 | |
has his own theory about the pros and cons of working a name like Smith. | 0:08:15 | 0:08:19 | |
If it's a common surname, the likelihood of competition is less. | 0:08:20 | 0:08:26 | |
But, obviously, it presents problems in terms of research | 0:08:26 | 0:08:30 | |
and trying to locate family members. | 0:08:30 | 0:08:33 | |
If it's an uncommon name, it's easier to locate people | 0:08:33 | 0:08:37 | |
but, of course, the element of competition comes into play then. | 0:08:37 | 0:08:43 | |
Because nothing is known about James, Bob is going to do all he can to move the case on. | 0:08:44 | 0:08:49 | |
What I'm going to do is make an enquiry with the people who worked there. | 0:08:51 | 0:08:55 | |
Find out from them what they know about his life, his family. | 0:08:55 | 0:08:59 | |
And, most importantly of all, | 0:08:59 | 0:09:02 | |
try and get an indication of whether he may well have left an estate with any value. | 0:09:02 | 0:09:09 | |
With the team in the office back to square one, | 0:09:09 | 0:09:11 | |
all hope rests on Bob Smith. | 0:09:11 | 0:09:13 | |
See what he can do. | 0:09:14 | 0:09:16 | |
But will Bob be able to uncover any clues about the mysterious James Smith? | 0:09:16 | 0:09:21 | |
He came home one day and all his family were gone. | 0:09:22 | 0:09:25 | |
Heir hunters trace the relatives of people who have died without leaving a will. | 0:09:31 | 0:09:36 | |
Sometimes, they've been estranged from their family for many years. | 0:09:37 | 0:09:41 | |
Only after their death is their family able to fill in the missing pieces of their lives. | 0:09:41 | 0:09:46 | |
Often discovering things they never knew about them. | 0:09:46 | 0:09:49 | |
And that was true when Mike Tringham of heir hunting firm Hoopers picked up the case of Philip Amanet. | 0:09:51 | 0:09:57 | |
A man who had a troubled life but was able to give something back in his later years. | 0:09:57 | 0:10:02 | |
Well, I think, in Philip's case, it's nice that the good work | 0:10:02 | 0:10:07 | |
that he'd done in the latter part of his life can be recognised, | 0:10:07 | 0:10:11 | |
which otherwise would have just been lost in the mists of time. | 0:10:11 | 0:10:15 | |
Philip Amanet's name was published on the Treasury Solicitor's bona vacantia list of unclaimed estates | 0:10:17 | 0:10:22 | |
following his death in Essex on the 29th of September 2009. | 0:10:22 | 0:10:27 | |
It was fairly close to home, a good name to work with, | 0:10:28 | 0:10:33 | |
and it had all the features of a potential case, | 0:10:33 | 0:10:35 | |
so we thought we'd work with it and see where it took us. | 0:10:35 | 0:10:39 | |
For the last six years of his life, Philip was involved with the church in Essex. | 0:10:39 | 0:10:45 | |
And its leader Peter Domini remembers him well. | 0:10:45 | 0:10:48 | |
I met Phil 2004. I work with the church, | 0:10:48 | 0:10:53 | |
he was volunteering at the local homeless centre. | 0:10:53 | 0:10:58 | |
He was a bit disconnected at the time and wanted to get involved with our little church. | 0:10:58 | 0:11:02 | |
Phil was fairly quiet, often had a smile on his face, | 0:11:04 | 0:11:09 | |
didn't push himself to the fore. | 0:11:09 | 0:11:12 | |
Phil was someone who just seemed to want to gently slide in | 0:11:12 | 0:11:17 | |
and be included and get involved. | 0:11:17 | 0:11:20 | |
Phil had a number of things which he was passionate about. | 0:11:20 | 0:11:23 | |
One was his disco. | 0:11:23 | 0:11:25 | |
Another one was his clowning. | 0:11:25 | 0:11:27 | |
For many years, Philip raised money | 0:11:27 | 0:11:30 | |
making appearances at local charity events as Bobo the Clown. | 0:11:30 | 0:11:35 | |
His disco and clowning came together. He loved to entertain children. | 0:11:35 | 0:11:38 | |
He did discos, children's parties. | 0:11:38 | 0:11:41 | |
He did some for different people in the church. | 0:11:41 | 0:11:45 | |
And his clowning, same again. | 0:11:45 | 0:11:47 | |
He wanted to raise money for charity and he loved to put on his clown suit. | 0:11:47 | 0:11:51 | |
I think he just wanted to put a smile on people's faces. | 0:11:51 | 0:11:55 | |
And when Philip died, he was surrounded by his many friends. | 0:11:55 | 0:11:59 | |
It was like the family he never had was then gathered around him, | 0:11:59 | 0:12:03 | |
loving him and caring for him. | 0:12:03 | 0:12:05 | |
Word had got out and we met all these people who turned up | 0:12:05 | 0:12:08 | |
from Phil's past, from his active days of clowning. | 0:12:08 | 0:12:11 | |
We had one chap in the church DJ-ing on Phil's record decks. | 0:12:11 | 0:12:17 | |
And anyone who wanted to got up and shared stories from different parts of Phil's life | 0:12:17 | 0:12:22 | |
over the years. | 0:12:22 | 0:12:24 | |
As with many cases, Mike Tringham's investigation began with Philip's death certificate. | 0:12:30 | 0:12:36 | |
First thing we did was to look for a record of his birth. | 0:12:38 | 0:12:42 | |
Which we didn't find initially. | 0:12:42 | 0:12:45 | |
And we speculated on whether he'd perhaps been born abroad. | 0:12:45 | 0:12:52 | |
Then it was suggested perhaps we just check the adoption records. | 0:12:52 | 0:12:56 | |
And, sure enough, we found his record of birth | 0:12:56 | 0:13:00 | |
or adoption in the birth indexes. | 0:13:00 | 0:13:03 | |
Discovering Philip's details on the adoption records was a real breakthrough in this case. | 0:13:03 | 0:13:09 | |
And these same records gave Mike his next clue. | 0:13:09 | 0:13:13 | |
The significant names are his adoptive parents. | 0:13:13 | 0:13:16 | |
We needed to find out more about them, who they were, what happened to them, | 0:13:16 | 0:13:20 | |
whether they were still living, | 0:13:20 | 0:13:23 | |
if they were deceased, whether they had other children. | 0:13:23 | 0:13:26 | |
That sort of thing. Trying to build up a picture of the deceased, | 0:13:26 | 0:13:30 | |
his family that he had been brought in to. | 0:13:30 | 0:13:32 | |
It was crucial to build up a picture of Philip's adoptive family | 0:13:35 | 0:13:39 | |
because under UK law it would be them and not his birth family | 0:13:39 | 0:13:42 | |
who would be entitled to inherit his estate. | 0:13:42 | 0:13:45 | |
Philip was born in 1954 at a time when the social stigma of having children outside marriage | 0:13:47 | 0:13:53 | |
meant many women who found themselves in this situation | 0:13:53 | 0:13:56 | |
felt they had no choice but to give up their child for adoption. | 0:13:56 | 0:14:00 | |
Parents' particular fear was that their teenage daughters might get pregnant. | 0:14:02 | 0:14:07 | |
Because then they thought their marriage prospects would be ruined. | 0:14:07 | 0:14:11 | |
If they were in education, they would have to leave school. | 0:14:11 | 0:14:15 | |
It was seen as a social disaster. If they did get pregnant, | 0:14:15 | 0:14:19 | |
there was often great pressure on them to go quietly to a mother and baby home | 0:14:19 | 0:14:24 | |
have the baby, give it away very quickly. | 0:14:24 | 0:14:27 | |
The majority of children were given up as babies | 0:14:27 | 0:14:30 | |
but, unusually for the time, Philip wasn't adopted until he was four years old. | 0:14:30 | 0:14:35 | |
His new parents were Henry Amanet and Violet Carlier. | 0:14:35 | 0:14:40 | |
They formally adopted Philip in 1958 | 0:14:40 | 0:14:43 | |
during an era when there was a great change in the way adoption took place. | 0:14:43 | 0:14:48 | |
By the 1950s, there was more regulation of adoption. | 0:14:48 | 0:14:51 | |
Societies were more organised, local authorities were getting involved. | 0:14:51 | 0:14:55 | |
There were still independent adoptions | 0:14:55 | 0:14:59 | |
in which doctors and nurses might find potential parents for babies. | 0:14:59 | 0:15:06 | |
And also families would somehow just informally pass children between them. | 0:15:06 | 0:15:11 | |
And that was allowed. It wasn't illegal. | 0:15:11 | 0:15:14 | |
But there was a growing feeling there should be more regulation. | 0:15:14 | 0:15:18 | |
In the office, Mike Tringham and his team had established that Philip was legally adopted | 0:15:22 | 0:15:26 | |
and were trying to chase the rest of the Amanet family. | 0:15:26 | 0:15:29 | |
They found out that Philip was the second child Henry and Violet had adopted. | 0:15:29 | 0:15:35 | |
David was six years older than Philip. | 0:15:35 | 0:15:38 | |
Unlike his younger brother, he'd been adopted as a bay. | 0:15:38 | 0:15:42 | |
If Henry and Violet had both died, then David would be next in line to inherit Philip's estate. | 0:15:42 | 0:15:48 | |
Looking at the ages of the adoptive parents, | 0:15:50 | 0:15:52 | |
if they were alive today, they would be into their 90s. | 0:15:52 | 0:15:57 | |
And so we would assume that they would be dead by now. | 0:15:57 | 0:16:03 | |
Mike's team searched death records and, as expected, they found that | 0:16:03 | 0:16:08 | |
Philip's mother Violet had indeed passed away in 1995. | 0:16:08 | 0:16:12 | |
But the team could find no record of a death for her husband Henry. | 0:16:12 | 0:16:17 | |
I was quite shocked to discover that the father was still alive, | 0:16:17 | 0:16:22 | |
the fact that the deceased was adopted, and yet one of his adoptive parents was still living. | 0:16:22 | 0:16:29 | |
It was a surprising breakthrough and meant the team had found the sole heir to Philip's estate. | 0:16:31 | 0:16:36 | |
But there was a dramatic twist to come and it would soon emerge that life in the Amanet family | 0:16:36 | 0:16:42 | |
had been extremely difficult. | 0:16:42 | 0:16:44 | |
Initially, it didn't seem to create a problem but, as a bit of time went on, | 0:16:44 | 0:16:50 | |
he started getting very disruptive. | 0:16:50 | 0:16:52 | |
Heir hunters track down thousands of rightful beneficiaries every year. | 0:16:57 | 0:17:02 | |
But not every case can be solved. | 0:17:02 | 0:17:05 | |
There are thousands of name on the Treasury Solicitor's unclaimed list | 0:17:05 | 0:17:08 | |
that have stumped the heir hunters. | 0:17:08 | 0:17:11 | |
To claim an estate of someone who has died intestate, | 0:17:11 | 0:17:16 | |
you need to trace your relationship in a direct line | 0:17:16 | 0:17:19 | |
from the deceased person's grandparents. | 0:17:19 | 0:17:21 | |
They need to supply certificates of birth, death and marriage. | 0:17:21 | 0:17:24 | |
And identity documents as well. | 0:17:24 | 0:17:26 | |
Today, we're highlighting two cases that have so far proved impossible to solve. | 0:17:26 | 0:17:32 | |
Could you be the beneficiary heir hunters have been looking for? | 0:17:32 | 0:17:36 | |
Perhaps you're in line for a windfall from a long lost relative. | 0:17:36 | 0:17:40 | |
First, is the case of Patrick Armstrong | 0:17:42 | 0:17:45 | |
who died in London's Maida Vale on the 25th February 2001. | 0:17:45 | 0:17:49 | |
All work to trace his relatives has so far drawn a blank. | 0:17:49 | 0:17:53 | |
Can you help? Are you related to Patrick? | 0:17:54 | 0:17:58 | |
Or perhaps you were a neighbour living in Maida Vale back in 2001 | 0:17:58 | 0:18:03 | |
who may have some information which could help find Patrick's beneficiaries. | 0:18:03 | 0:18:07 | |
Next, can you throw any light on the case of Jane Wighton | 0:18:09 | 0:18:13 | |
whose last known address was Barmwell Terrace in Edinburgh? | 0:18:13 | 0:18:17 | |
She died on the 15th of May in 2002. | 0:18:17 | 0:18:20 | |
Her estate was published by the Queen's and Lord Treasurer's Remembrancer or QLTR, | 0:18:22 | 0:18:27 | |
which is the list published in Scotland of people who have died without leaving a will. | 0:18:27 | 0:18:32 | |
Unlike the bona vacantia list, | 0:18:32 | 0:18:34 | |
which holds the names of people who have died intestate in England and Wales, | 0:18:34 | 0:18:39 | |
the QLTR does give values for estates. | 0:18:39 | 0:18:42 | |
Jane's estate is worth £11,657.18. | 0:18:42 | 0:18:48 | |
Both Patrick and Jane's cases remain unsolved. | 0:18:48 | 0:18:52 | |
Unless heirs are traced, the money they left behind | 0:18:52 | 0:18:55 | |
will go to government funds in their home countries. | 0:18:55 | 0:18:59 | |
When considering a claim for an estate, | 0:18:59 | 0:19:01 | |
it's important a person puts forward a very good case. | 0:19:01 | 0:19:04 | |
It's all based on the evidence. | 0:19:04 | 0:19:06 | |
We need the birth, death, marriage certificates, perhaps something on adoption. | 0:19:06 | 0:19:10 | |
Then we consider the evidence very carefully. | 0:19:10 | 0:19:13 | |
Do you have any clues that may help solve either the case of Patrick Armstrong or Jane Wighton? | 0:19:13 | 0:19:19 | |
If you do, you could have an unexpected windfall coming your way. | 0:19:19 | 0:19:24 | |
It's all in the name at heir hunting firm Fraser and Fraser. | 0:19:30 | 0:19:33 | |
The team is looking into the case of James Smith who died in Chichester in July 2011. | 0:19:33 | 0:19:39 | |
But his common surname is causing problems for the team. | 0:19:39 | 0:19:44 | |
Smith is always hard work. But the good thing is, | 0:19:44 | 0:19:48 | |
it'll be just as hard for the competition to get on to it as it is for us. | 0:19:48 | 0:19:51 | |
Rather like scratching one's head without any fingers. | 0:19:51 | 0:19:54 | |
They've already spent valuable time working on one possible family only to draw a blank. | 0:19:55 | 0:20:02 | |
So we're back to square one. | 0:20:02 | 0:20:05 | |
And it seems that James Smith was just as mysterious in life | 0:20:05 | 0:20:09 | |
as he is in death. | 0:20:09 | 0:20:11 | |
This guy turns out to be a bit of a mystery man. | 0:20:11 | 0:20:15 | |
David Cunliffe is the deputy manager of the pub where James, | 0:20:15 | 0:20:20 | |
known as Jimmy to his friends, | 0:20:20 | 0:20:22 | |
was a regular for many years. | 0:20:22 | 0:20:24 | |
He used to just sit at the bar. Pop himself up on the bar stool | 0:20:24 | 0:20:28 | |
and just sit there ordering his beer. | 0:20:28 | 0:20:32 | |
Um, after the smoking ban had come in, he couldn't smoke at the bar, | 0:20:32 | 0:20:38 | |
so he used to order a pint of beer and a packet of crisps. | 0:20:38 | 0:20:41 | |
He would pass you the money over the bar | 0:20:41 | 0:20:45 | |
and then he would try and snatch it back a little bit as a little joke. | 0:20:45 | 0:20:49 | |
And he'd always have a smirk on his face. He did have a sense of humour. | 0:20:49 | 0:20:53 | |
I think every pub has one. | 0:20:53 | 0:20:55 | |
No pictures of Jimmy survived and Doug Moye, | 0:20:55 | 0:20:58 | |
who worked with Jimmy for 18 years, knew very little about him. | 0:20:58 | 0:21:02 | |
He never spoke about family to me. | 0:21:02 | 0:21:05 | |
Then, I suppose in a way, I never really asked him about family. | 0:21:05 | 0:21:10 | |
But then, Jimmy is Jimmy. He is what he is. | 0:21:12 | 0:21:16 | |
We know Jimmy, we knew what he was like. | 0:21:16 | 0:21:19 | |
And so he was basically left alone. | 0:21:19 | 0:21:22 | |
Jimmy didn't seemed sad or lonely. | 0:21:22 | 0:21:26 | |
He always came in and said hello to the people behind the bar | 0:21:26 | 0:21:29 | |
and the other people sitting at the bar drinking. | 0:21:29 | 0:21:33 | |
He always had a smile when you spoke to him. | 0:21:33 | 0:21:35 | |
He never seemed down or upset about things. | 0:21:35 | 0:21:39 | |
Back on the office, the search for James's heirs has drawn a blank. | 0:21:42 | 0:21:47 | |
Early on, the team thought they had found his relatives in Portsmouth | 0:21:47 | 0:21:51 | |
but it was the wrong Smith family. | 0:21:51 | 0:21:53 | |
No, that Couch is incorrect completely. | 0:21:53 | 0:21:56 | |
Now they have a new lead and they're really hoping this one will pay off. | 0:21:56 | 0:22:00 | |
Just got the death certificate back for James Smith. | 0:22:00 | 0:22:04 | |
It tells us he was born in Berkshire in 1948. | 0:22:04 | 0:22:08 | |
And that he was a horticultural worker and that he worked, lived and died on the estate. | 0:22:08 | 0:22:14 | |
That explains the confusion about James's address. | 0:22:14 | 0:22:18 | |
And the team now understands why his last known address was a garden centre. | 0:22:18 | 0:22:22 | |
James might have been an odd-job man in the nursery. | 0:22:23 | 0:22:25 | |
Although the death certificate seems to give them the all-important birth date, | 0:22:25 | 0:22:30 | |
it's not enough. | 0:22:30 | 0:22:33 | |
We can't actually find a birth for a James Smith in Berkshire in 1948. | 0:22:33 | 0:22:37 | |
Hopefully, Bob Smith's enquiry will give more specification as to where he was born. | 0:22:37 | 0:22:44 | |
Bob has arranged to meet Tinika Swinkels, James's old boss | 0:22:45 | 0:22:49 | |
who knew him for many years and took him to hospital shortly before he died. | 0:22:49 | 0:22:54 | |
I'm making enquiries about James Smith. | 0:22:55 | 0:22:57 | |
Was he here very long at all? | 0:22:57 | 0:22:59 | |
-He's been with us since '84, February. -Since 1984. -Yes. | 0:22:59 | 0:23:05 | |
He was a very private person. The only time he started talking about family was in the last, er... | 0:23:05 | 0:23:11 | |
..months when he was alive. | 0:23:12 | 0:23:15 | |
He said before that he came home one day and all his family were gone. | 0:23:15 | 0:23:20 | |
-But we don't know what... -Really? -What the real story is. | 0:23:20 | 0:23:27 | |
I think something in '83 happened... | 0:23:27 | 0:23:29 | |
-Right. OK -..that made him move away from where he was. | 0:23:29 | 0:23:33 | |
-From where he was before? -And he completely blocked it out of his life. -OK. | 0:23:33 | 0:23:37 | |
Tinika thinks that James's personal details, including his name and date of birth, might be wrong. | 0:23:39 | 0:23:45 | |
Bob is going to have to dig a lot deeper. | 0:23:45 | 0:23:48 | |
The only thing we could find was a driving licence under a different name but Smith. | 0:23:48 | 0:23:55 | |
It was probably, we think, his brother. | 0:23:55 | 0:23:59 | |
-You think it belonged to his brother? -Might have belonged to his brother. | 0:23:59 | 0:24:03 | |
-What was the name? -That was David Smith. | 0:24:03 | 0:24:05 | |
The date of birth | 0:24:05 | 0:24:08 | |
was four or five years different from what he's given us. | 0:24:08 | 0:24:13 | |
Tinika thinks James may have had a younger brother called David. | 0:24:13 | 0:24:17 | |
And she remembers him talking about a sister too. | 0:24:17 | 0:24:21 | |
In passing, he made a comment about having a sister in Cornwall. | 0:24:21 | 0:24:24 | |
Yeah. In passing, he said that | 0:24:24 | 0:24:27 | |
one day he came back from school, work, | 0:24:27 | 0:24:31 | |
-and all his family had left. -They'd all disappeared. | 0:24:31 | 0:24:36 | |
This is not good news for the team. | 0:24:36 | 0:24:39 | |
James's family may be even harder to trace. | 0:24:39 | 0:24:42 | |
And Tinika has confirmed that James lived in a static caravan on the nursery site. | 0:24:42 | 0:24:47 | |
It's looking like James's estate is not worth very much | 0:24:47 | 0:24:51 | |
and so might not be worth investigating. | 0:24:51 | 0:24:54 | |
Bob has to find out if James had any assets. | 0:24:54 | 0:24:58 | |
Er, I'm surprised you don't know about it. | 0:24:58 | 0:25:02 | |
Well, they don't usually reveal that sort of information. | 0:25:02 | 0:25:06 | |
-Plus 30. -Plus 30? | 0:25:06 | 0:25:10 | |
The fact that James's estate is worth more than £30,000, | 0:25:10 | 0:25:15 | |
means the case is more valuable than the team thought. | 0:25:15 | 0:25:18 | |
And they can afford, for now, to keep researching. | 0:25:18 | 0:25:22 | |
Having done the enquiry, it all now rests on the research which is done in the office. | 0:25:22 | 0:25:28 | |
I've given them the facts that I've been able to obtain. | 0:25:28 | 0:25:32 | |
Er... | 0:25:32 | 0:25:34 | |
And it's really just a question of research | 0:25:34 | 0:25:37 | |
in the normal way of putting together a family tree. | 0:25:37 | 0:25:41 | |
The team follows up information Bob gleaned from the nursery. | 0:25:42 | 0:25:46 | |
Bob's done the enquiry. | 0:25:47 | 0:25:49 | |
Um, and we now know that James might also have been known as David. | 0:25:49 | 0:25:55 | |
They're working on the theory that the driver's licence | 0:25:55 | 0:25:59 | |
in James's caravan for a David Smith might have belonged to him. | 0:25:59 | 0:26:03 | |
So they start to look for David Smiths or David J Smiths | 0:26:03 | 0:26:07 | |
born around that time. | 0:26:07 | 0:26:09 | |
There's a David J Smith born 1948 in Eton. | 0:26:10 | 0:26:14 | |
At last the team might be making progress. | 0:26:14 | 0:26:17 | |
We're working up the speculative birth we have of a David J Smith, | 0:26:17 | 0:26:21 | |
which is the new name that has been added to the mix - David. | 0:26:21 | 0:26:25 | |
A potential alternative name for the deceased. | 0:26:25 | 0:26:28 | |
Found a birth in the right quarter in Eton, which is the right county. | 0:26:28 | 0:26:34 | |
Jo's worked it up and found a sister. | 0:26:34 | 0:26:37 | |
She's married and we've got an address in Essex. | 0:26:37 | 0:26:41 | |
The team are working up as many possibilities as they can. | 0:26:41 | 0:26:46 | |
And they've also found a James Smith born in Barnet. | 0:26:46 | 0:26:49 | |
Bit of a random area but worked it up and got a possible phone number for a sister in Devon, | 0:26:49 | 0:26:55 | |
which is at least heading in the right direction. | 0:26:55 | 0:26:59 | |
Simon is interested in the Devon link because Bob was told | 0:27:00 | 0:27:03 | |
that their James Smith may have had a sister living in Cornwall. | 0:27:03 | 0:27:07 | |
Give it a call, find out. | 0:27:08 | 0:27:10 | |
If the research is right, and the lady is James's sister, | 0:27:10 | 0:27:14 | |
it's likely that Simon will have to break the news to the family | 0:27:14 | 0:27:18 | |
that one of their relatives had died. | 0:27:18 | 0:27:20 | |
These calls are always difficult to make but sadly they're part of an heir hunter's job. | 0:27:21 | 0:27:25 | |
We were wondering if she had a brother James Smith. | 0:27:26 | 0:27:31 | |
She's got a brother James Smith. | 0:27:31 | 0:27:33 | |
We're actually looking for the family of a James Smith who has recently passed away. | 0:27:33 | 0:27:39 | |
So I don't know... If he's definitely still alive. | 0:27:39 | 0:27:42 | |
OK. In which case, the birth we're working is incorrect. | 0:27:42 | 0:27:47 | |
Sorry about that, it's a very common surname. | 0:27:47 | 0:27:49 | |
That's another dead end in the search for James Smith. | 0:27:49 | 0:27:54 | |
That's the kind of problems with Smith. | 0:27:54 | 0:27:57 | |
It's not a nice phone call to say, "Oh, is your brother still alive?" | 0:27:57 | 0:28:01 | |
If they haven't heard from him for a while, then they could panic. | 0:28:01 | 0:28:04 | |
That one's wrong as well. | 0:28:04 | 0:28:07 | |
There's bad news for the side of the office who are working the theory that James's real name was David. | 0:28:07 | 0:28:12 | |
They've had information about the birth they were looking for in Eton. | 0:28:12 | 0:28:16 | |
Slough registry office just phoned me back. | 0:28:16 | 0:28:19 | |
They've given me the information | 0:28:19 | 0:28:22 | |
of the birth of a David J Smith in 1948. | 0:28:22 | 0:28:26 | |
Unfortunately, it's wrong. | 0:28:26 | 0:28:28 | |
Um, the David J Smith born in Eton in 1948 | 0:28:28 | 0:28:33 | |
was actually born on the 6th of June. | 0:28:33 | 0:28:36 | |
And our deceased was born on the 28th of April. | 0:28:36 | 0:28:40 | |
So that's unfortunately wrong. | 0:28:40 | 0:28:42 | |
So we've got nothing, basically. | 0:28:42 | 0:28:45 | |
The team has been working on this for hours and it looks like they're no nearer to solving the case. | 0:28:45 | 0:28:51 | |
Every line of enquiry today has drawn a blank. | 0:28:51 | 0:28:55 | |
There are no James births at all in the right period in Berkshire. | 0:28:56 | 0:29:00 | |
There's a David J and that one turned out to be wrong. | 0:29:00 | 0:29:04 | |
We worked a James in Portsmouth, that was wrong. | 0:29:04 | 0:29:07 | |
And we worked a James in Barnet and that was wrong. | 0:29:07 | 0:29:10 | |
So all very random areas, I know, | 0:29:10 | 0:29:13 | |
but each one we had a reason for believing they might be correct and they're not. | 0:29:13 | 0:29:18 | |
It's now a case of ordering everything and wait until | 0:29:18 | 0:29:21 | |
we find out which one is correct before we do any more research. | 0:29:21 | 0:29:25 | |
By ordering birth certificates for every James Smith born in the right quarter of 1948, | 0:29:25 | 0:29:31 | |
the office hopes it will find the right one. | 0:29:31 | 0:29:34 | |
But it's a risky and potentially costly strategy because there are no guarantees | 0:29:34 | 0:29:39 | |
they'll find the birth they're looking for. | 0:29:39 | 0:29:41 | |
Will we get anything? I'm not overly confident, no. | 0:29:42 | 0:29:46 | |
Just because we're not 100% sure his name was James at the moment. | 0:29:46 | 0:29:49 | |
So doesn't leave me being too hopeful. | 0:29:49 | 0:29:53 | |
A few days later, the certificates have come in. | 0:29:57 | 0:30:01 | |
None of them are the right birth. | 0:30:01 | 0:30:03 | |
After investing time and money trying to find James's relatives, | 0:30:03 | 0:30:07 | |
the team still has no leads to follow. | 0:30:07 | 0:30:10 | |
We'll probably leave it alone for the time being. | 0:30:10 | 0:30:13 | |
Without even being certain of James's real name, | 0:30:13 | 0:30:17 | |
it's like looking for a needle in a haystack. | 0:30:17 | 0:30:20 | |
And boss Neil has no choice but to call a halt to the research for the time being. | 0:30:20 | 0:30:25 | |
We've discovered a £30,000 estate and that's heading straight to the government | 0:30:26 | 0:30:30 | |
because we kind find the birth of the deceased. | 0:30:30 | 0:30:33 | |
But the fact that James has proved so elusive | 0:30:34 | 0:30:37 | |
comes as no surprise to those who knew him. | 0:30:37 | 0:30:40 | |
Jimmy was a mystery. I do believe he was happy being that mystery. | 0:30:42 | 0:30:47 | |
But whatever the true story behind James's past, | 0:30:47 | 0:30:51 | |
he man himself will be sorely missed. | 0:30:51 | 0:30:54 | |
All of us have been quietly affected by the fact that he's suddenly gone | 0:30:54 | 0:30:58 | |
because he was kind of part of the furniture. | 0:30:58 | 0:31:01 | |
You just expect him to be there. | 0:31:01 | 0:31:03 | |
Did you know James Smith? | 0:31:03 | 0:31:05 | |
Do you know his actual name or have any other information that may help trace his relatives? | 0:31:05 | 0:31:11 | |
If so, you could ensure his £30,000 estate goes to his family | 0:31:11 | 0:31:17 | |
and not the government. | 0:31:17 | 0:31:19 | |
At heir hunting firm Hoopers, | 0:31:23 | 0:31:25 | |
Mike Tringham has been investigating the case of Philip Amanet | 0:31:25 | 0:31:29 | |
who had been adopted as a child. He died in 2009 aged 55. | 0:31:29 | 0:31:34 | |
During his investigations, Mike had been surprised by a twist in the case. | 0:31:34 | 0:31:40 | |
I was quite shocked to discover that the father was still alive. | 0:31:40 | 0:31:45 | |
And so Philip's adoptive father Henry was sole heir to his son's £6,000 estate. | 0:31:45 | 0:31:51 | |
There's no biological link between the two, as far as we can determine, | 0:31:53 | 0:31:56 | |
but that has no impact on our work. Under English law, | 0:31:56 | 0:32:00 | |
the same rules apply. | 0:32:00 | 0:32:03 | |
Philip spent a lot of his young adulthood working on fairgrounds across the country. | 0:32:04 | 0:32:09 | |
But later returned to Southend where he became a popular member of his local church. | 0:32:09 | 0:32:16 | |
Phil's the sort of person you remember as, he drew good out of other people. | 0:32:16 | 0:32:22 | |
Not just because he was selflessly hoovering up good for himself. | 0:32:22 | 0:32:25 | |
He seemed to have the ability to do that. | 0:32:25 | 0:32:27 | |
I'll remember Phil as someone who didn't get stuck is his life. | 0:32:27 | 0:32:31 | |
In the final years, when it was hard for him, | 0:32:31 | 0:32:33 | |
he just seemed to mature and grow and flourish as a person. | 0:32:33 | 0:32:38 | |
But Philip had a turbulent start to his life | 0:32:38 | 0:32:41 | |
As a very young child, he was given up by his mother. | 0:32:41 | 0:32:44 | |
And was adopted in 1958 by Henry and Violet Amanet | 0:32:44 | 0:32:48 | |
who had no biological children of their own. | 0:32:48 | 0:32:52 | |
In those days there was no way for an infertile couple to have children | 0:32:53 | 0:32:58 | |
other than by adopting. No infertility treatments then. | 0:32:58 | 0:33:02 | |
So if they could adopt, that was a way of becoming a family. | 0:33:02 | 0:33:08 | |
There was big social pressure to be a family. | 0:33:08 | 0:33:12 | |
Unusually for the time, Philip was four years old when he was taken in by the Amanets, | 0:33:12 | 0:33:18 | |
who already had a ten-year-old son David who had also been adopted but as a baby. | 0:33:18 | 0:33:24 | |
I would assume that Philip's adopting parents wanted another child | 0:33:24 | 0:33:30 | |
for their older adopted child. | 0:33:30 | 0:33:32 | |
If they'd adopted a baby, the age gap would have been very large. | 0:33:32 | 0:33:38 | |
They probably felt is was better to adopt a child who was already three or four | 0:33:38 | 0:33:43 | |
so that he would be a nice companion for their older child. | 0:33:43 | 0:33:47 | |
With their family now complete, | 0:33:47 | 0:33:49 | |
it seems Henry and Violet were like most people in 1950s Britain, | 0:33:49 | 0:33:55 | |
in that they simply wanted to settle down to a normal family life. | 0:33:55 | 0:33:58 | |
The idea of conformity probably does come from the chaos of the Second World War. | 0:33:58 | 0:34:04 | |
People wanted to retreat to comfortableness. | 0:34:04 | 0:34:09 | |
And I think the government also wanted things to just settle down. | 0:34:09 | 0:34:12 | |
Because people were more prosperous, they could afford now | 0:34:12 | 0:34:17 | |
to lead a quite comfortable quiet lifestyle if they wanted. | 0:34:17 | 0:34:22 | |
Unfortunately, life for the Amanet family would be anything but quiet. | 0:34:25 | 0:34:30 | |
It seems that, from a very early age, Philip rebelled and caused his family great anguish. | 0:34:30 | 0:34:36 | |
His brother David remembers how Philip started to go off the rails. | 0:34:36 | 0:34:40 | |
He started getting very disruptive. | 0:34:42 | 0:34:44 | |
Even stealing from a fairly young age. He'd steal food. | 0:34:45 | 0:34:50 | |
I'd look over my shoulder and think, "Oh, God! What's he knicking?" | 0:34:50 | 0:34:55 | |
And things only got worse. | 0:34:55 | 0:34:57 | |
My dad got him a job working for Essex water board. | 0:34:58 | 0:35:02 | |
It was his job to make the tea. | 0:35:02 | 0:35:04 | |
He was going into the portakabin they had, putting the kettle on, | 0:35:04 | 0:35:09 | |
while he was doing that, he was going through the blokes' jackets. | 0:35:09 | 0:35:12 | |
And the guys kept thinking they were losing money | 0:35:12 | 0:35:15 | |
and it was Philip stealing off of them. | 0:35:15 | 0:35:17 | |
And all David's efforts to bond with his brother came to nothing. | 0:35:17 | 0:35:23 | |
I tried to be close with him but there was always that little bit... He didn't want to do anything. | 0:35:23 | 0:35:30 | |
I took him to banger race and motor-race meetings at Brands Hatch. | 0:35:30 | 0:35:35 | |
But you kind of got the feeling that it wasn't really appreciated. | 0:35:35 | 0:35:41 | |
But it appears Philip's behaviour haunted him in later life. | 0:35:42 | 0:35:47 | |
Phil used to talk about the early years. | 0:35:47 | 0:35:49 | |
Talk about his family who'd adopted him and welcomed him. | 0:35:49 | 0:35:52 | |
And he used to reflect on it with real regret. | 0:35:52 | 0:35:56 | |
In London, Mike Tringham and his team had established that Philip's father Henry was still alive, | 0:36:01 | 0:36:07 | |
and the sole heir, but now had the difficult job of breaking the news of his son's death. | 0:36:07 | 0:36:13 | |
It's never an easy task having to inform a close member of a family | 0:36:13 | 0:36:18 | |
that someone has died who maybe they've lost touch with or been estranged from. | 0:36:18 | 0:36:23 | |
Particularly having to inform a parent of a child's death. | 0:36:23 | 0:36:29 | |
Although I've done it many times over the years, | 0:36:29 | 0:36:32 | |
I still don't look forward to it. | 0:36:32 | 0:36:34 | |
But, I suppose, with experience, one learns how to treat the situation | 0:36:34 | 0:36:39 | |
with a certain amount of sensitivity and tact. | 0:36:39 | 0:36:42 | |
Philip's father had been estranged from his son for many years. | 0:36:44 | 0:36:47 | |
But understandably the news was a great shock. | 0:36:47 | 0:36:51 | |
The father of Philip took the news pretty well under the circumstances. | 0:36:51 | 0:36:58 | |
He had lost touch with Philip for a number of years. | 0:36:58 | 0:37:03 | |
There had been a couple of occasions, | 0:37:03 | 0:37:05 | |
long periods of time, when they had been estranged. | 0:37:05 | 0:37:09 | |
But they'd been reconciled in the early '90s. | 0:37:09 | 0:37:12 | |
And they had had some contact but then that contact had lapsed. | 0:37:12 | 0:37:19 | |
And he really hadn't had any contact with his son for nearly 20 years. | 0:37:19 | 0:37:24 | |
Once Mike found Philip's father, he thought it was the end of the investigation. | 0:37:27 | 0:37:31 | |
But there was another twist to this story. | 0:37:31 | 0:37:35 | |
Philip's elderly father Henry died in January 2012 | 0:37:35 | 0:37:39 | |
before Philip's estate was wound up. | 0:37:39 | 0:37:41 | |
As Henry had died, the estate would now pass to Philip's brother David. | 0:37:43 | 0:37:49 | |
I've never had a case in more than 40 years' experience | 0:37:49 | 0:37:55 | |
of one adoptive son inheriting from another adoptive son. | 0:37:55 | 0:38:01 | |
And I don't suppose I'll see another one. | 0:38:01 | 0:38:04 | |
For David, who had an extremely difficult relationship with his brother, | 0:38:04 | 0:38:08 | |
the news of the inheritance was bittersweet. | 0:38:08 | 0:38:10 | |
It's upsetting primarily because it means | 0:38:13 | 0:38:17 | |
I had to lose my last remaining relative | 0:38:17 | 0:38:21 | |
to inherit the money. | 0:38:21 | 0:38:23 | |
Given the choice between having my dad back in the days when his health was better, | 0:38:23 | 0:38:28 | |
yeah, I'd quite happily give up the money and the bungalow. | 0:38:28 | 0:38:32 | |
David has struggled to forgive Philip for the pain he caused his parents. | 0:38:32 | 0:38:36 | |
Every time they tried to help him, or give him advice, | 0:38:36 | 0:38:39 | |
he just didn't want to know. | 0:38:39 | 0:38:41 | |
My mother was worried about what's going to happen when he comes home. | 0:38:41 | 0:38:46 | |
David doesn't know why Philip was so troubled because both adopted boys were treated the same. | 0:38:46 | 0:38:52 | |
I've got no problem whatsoever with being adopted. | 0:38:53 | 0:38:56 | |
Maybe it's a better environment than a lot of other children have | 0:38:56 | 0:39:00 | |
because there was no mistake that I was wanted. | 0:39:00 | 0:39:03 | |
It was the same with Philip, they wanted him. | 0:39:04 | 0:39:06 | |
We just had different ways of showing our appreciation. | 0:39:06 | 0:39:13 | |
There was no difference in the way my parents treated Philip to me. | 0:39:13 | 0:39:17 | |
If an opportunity came along to me, they said, "Go for it." | 0:39:17 | 0:39:23 | |
If the same opportunity was given to Philip, he wouldn't want to take it. | 0:39:23 | 0:39:28 | |
The last time David saw his brother was after Philip had broken in to the family home and stolen money. | 0:39:28 | 0:39:35 | |
But although Philip was difficult in his early years, in later life, | 0:39:35 | 0:39:40 | |
he started to get his life back on track and became a valid member of his local church community. | 0:39:40 | 0:39:46 | |
The change which came about seemed to be two steps forward, one step back. | 0:39:46 | 0:39:50 | |
Trying to climb a greasy pole at times for Phil. | 0:39:50 | 0:39:53 | |
But, at the same time, he did seem to year after year keep going at it. | 0:39:53 | 0:39:58 | |
The thing that was really impressive about Phil's change, | 0:40:00 | 0:40:03 | |
at the end, he'd had a stroke, he was in a wheelchair for the last year that we knew him, | 0:40:03 | 0:40:09 | |
he had everything to complain and be bitter about. And in all that adversity, | 0:40:09 | 0:40:15 | |
that was when Phil really seemed to soften and mellow. | 0:40:15 | 0:40:18 | |
David knows nothing about these later years and today, | 0:40:26 | 0:40:29 | |
40 years after he last saw Philip, | 0:40:29 | 0:40:32 | |
he's come to meet Peter to find out more about his brother. | 0:40:32 | 0:40:35 | |
The main reason I've come today is just to find out how my brother changed. | 0:40:37 | 0:40:42 | |
He wanted to be loved himself. | 0:40:42 | 0:40:44 | |
He'd had quite a few tough years. But then, over those years, | 0:40:44 | 0:40:49 | |
as we got to know him better, he just seemed to thaw out and warm up as a person. | 0:40:49 | 0:40:55 | |
Yeah. I wonder if that's a legacy of the fact that in his teenage years | 0:40:55 | 0:41:02 | |
everyone was against him for how he was. | 0:41:02 | 0:41:06 | |
People in our church would go and visit Philip thinking they're there to help him. | 0:41:06 | 0:41:10 | |
They'd sit down with him, he'd listen to them, it was a two-way thing. | 0:41:10 | 0:41:14 | |
Even when he physically couldn't do stuff, he still cared. | 0:41:14 | 0:41:17 | |
That's another thing. As a teenager, he wouldn't sit down and discuss anything. | 0:41:17 | 0:41:23 | |
Peter is clearly painting a picture of a man that David doesn't recognise at all. | 0:41:23 | 0:41:28 | |
If you told me that when he was 18, | 0:41:28 | 0:41:33 | |
he was going to turn out to be a half-decent guy that does charity work, | 0:41:33 | 0:41:37 | |
I would have thought you were bonkers quite honestly, if you'd told me that. | 0:41:37 | 0:41:41 | |
Is it frustrating for you that you, your mum and your dad | 0:41:41 | 0:41:44 | |
put all the graft and hard work in and you got all the rubbish back? | 0:41:44 | 0:41:48 | |
No, it's not frustrating because it took a long time | 0:41:48 | 0:41:53 | |
for the benefits to start to show. | 0:41:53 | 0:41:55 | |
And I don't think we could have handled that interim period, | 0:41:55 | 0:42:00 | |
that long period in his life, before he changed. | 0:42:00 | 0:42:03 | |
Perhaps now David can finally lay to rest the memory of his troubled brother. | 0:42:03 | 0:42:09 | |
What I'll take from it is the fact that nothing's wrong with my preconception. | 0:42:10 | 0:42:14 | |
But my preconception was based on information | 0:42:14 | 0:42:19 | |
that was close on 40 years old. | 0:42:19 | 0:42:21 | |
He did in later life have the guts to open up and admit that he was at fault. | 0:42:21 | 0:42:28 | |
And that impressed me that he finally had the nerve to have done that. | 0:42:28 | 0:42:34 | |
If you would like advice about building a family tree or making a will, | 0:42:41 | 0:42:45 | |
go to bbc.co.uk/heirhunters | 0:42:45 | 0:42:49 | |
Subtitles by Red Bee Media Ltd | 0:42:52 | 0:42:54 |