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Slaughter on the Shankill. It's the 20th anniversary of the Shankill

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bombing, the IRA atrocity that killed men, women and children. It

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was an appalling attack in an appalling week in Northern Ireland.

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It's another day for remembering, for grief and anger. And it's a day

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for asking, can we ever move on from the Troubles without leaving

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victims behind? Also on the show:

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Former Westlife star Shane Filan tells me how he faced financial

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ruin and is trying to rebuild his life.

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And the Stormont beauty contest row. Don't enter if you're too fat, too

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small or too old. MLAs have quit as judges. Were they right to walk

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away? 20 years ago today two IRA men

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carried a bomb into a busy shop on the Shankill Road. The blast killed

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10 people, including one of the bombers. On Sunday a plaque was

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revealed in memory of the IRA man killed in the blast - Thomas Begley.

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The plaque says he died on active service. Victims families have

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rejected an apology from the surviving bomber. We will be

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talking to the family's of the victims 20 years on. They were

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lovely people. She was everything you would want in a wife. Atypical

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13-year-old. She was my sticking plaster. Everywhere I went, she

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went with me. She was a fun-loving character. She was always joking.

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It was a beautiful day. I had to go to the bank. Sharon asked me to

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drop her off at the shops. She went into the fish shop and I spoke to

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her through the window. I said to her I would see her in five minutes.

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She wasn't going into the fish shop, she was going into the fruit shop

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next door. I said to my son in the back of the car, what I wonder what

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is keeping your mother? My son said, here she comes now. And then the

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bomb went off. We heard the explosion and I ran and when I got

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outside there was Wrobel, dust, I couldn't see in front of me. We

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could see the crowds and... The ambulances... It was just... I knew,

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you know? There was nothing, just a collapsed shop. We were digging for

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what seemed an eternity and every now and again there was a shout for

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quiet. I kept saying, I can't find my daughter. Where was she? Was she

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able to get away? We went to the Royal because being a children's

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hospital, we thought she would be taken there. A couple of detective

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said we should follow them and we followed them to the mortuary.

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People huddling together, family by family. We were the last family to

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be told and as families were told, you could just hear the screams.

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About 10 o'clock that night we were really worried because the family

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had been around the hospitals. Then a phone call came and it was the

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police saying they had three bodies. We did the identification. We don't

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really talk about it. Sometimes it this time of the year, but if you

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keep talking about it, it will tie your insides in knots. They say

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time is a good healer, but I don't think so. If there was an apology

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from Sean Kelly, I would not accept it. Thomas Begley was not a hero.

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He was a coward, and murderer, a child killer. No words can say

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sorry. Commemorating him as a hero is a step too far. Had the Begley

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family had a short service on Sunday, that would have been

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different. They were not heroes, they were murderers.

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There will be many people in the studio who will want to speak about

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this tonight, and let us start of this evening with Gareth Hawkins.

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Hello. Thank you for coming. I know this is one of the first times you

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have ever spoken about this. Tell us what happened to you. I was 16

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years old at the time and it was myself and my girlfriend at the

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time. We were going to visit her family who lived in the Shankill.

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That date we decided to go shopping and to the cinema. We were just

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walking down the street, on the same side as the fish shop. We were

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walking down there and there was myself, my girlfriend and Our

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younger brothers. We passed the door of the fish shop, around the

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middle of the window. We were a couple of feet away and the bomb

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went off. One was the first thing you remember? I was unconscious and

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the first thing I remember was being covered in rubble from the

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neck down. I lost consciousness again and the next thing I remember

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was seeing these women just looking at me and screaming. Some women

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came with the White Tower walls and put them around my head. -- White

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Tower walls. The ambulance people came. They kept saying, we cannot

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wait, we cannot wait. Get him away. I was put into a black taxi and

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taken to the hospital. You found yourself in intensive care? Yes.

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Who were you with? When I woke up in intensive care, I couldn't use

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my right arm, but that was it. In the bed beside me was Jim Harrison

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who was also caught up in deep bomber. At the end of the ward was

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Sean Kelly. -- caught up in the bomb. He was fighting for his life,

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the man who left the bomb. He would say that he did care. He did not

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care. You must have bought over the years about him being so close to

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you in that hospital. There was a heavy police presence, according to

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my family, all around him. And people were only allowed in one at

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a time. There was police all about the place, but I personally did not

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know he was in the same ward as me until I was out of intensive care

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and put on another ward. I do not think too highly of him at all. We

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always hear about moving on, looking to the future. You are

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still living with the aftermath of this to this day. Yes. After the

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bomb, I had post-traumatic stress disorder. Until this day I am still

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on anti-depressants, just to pick me up and get me through. Where

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were you yesterday? I was working yesterday. I work in a pub. You

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were having a blast taken out of your head? I was. There is still a

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little bit left in there. What type of implant does it have on you when

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you hear that the men who did that I have described by some people as

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soldiers of Ireland? I can only speak for myself, I cannot speak

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for the family's of the other victims, but myself, I half

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expected from those type of people. I expect them to glorify each other.

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I don't think they have moved on. I don't think they will ever possibly

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move on. This is just a small minority, but the plaque that they

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have for Thomas Begley, the three people on that stage, I was not

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surprised by that. I expect it from those people. We will hopefully get

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views from all sides of the community. There were atrocities on

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all sides and I acknowledge her. If you do want to contact us, the

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details will appear on your screen. Is it possible to move on? It has

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to be. Given what happened to me, you would have thought it would be

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more difficult to move on, but faced with the choices I had back

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then when Sharon was killed, to me there was no other choice. We have

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to find a way of stepping up to the plate and moving on. 20 years on

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the Shankill bomb, 15 years from the Good Friday Agreement, to be

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honest with you, I don't think we are as far on as we should be. I

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don't know whose fault it is. I think some of our politicians play

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games with us. The Thomas Begley commemoration event was condemned

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by some. You can see how things are being played out. I have tried my

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hardest since Sharon was killed and after I had a couple of years

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chasing a Gerry Adams around, I can to the conclusion that the Troubles

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were not the fault of Thomas Begley and Sean Kelly. They played their

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part and they have to take responsibility, but they was a

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wider context. We grew up in a society where sectarian was rife.

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The people who murdered my wife were only five minutes away, but we

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didn't go to the same schools, go to the same shops, share anything.

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They may as well have been 5,000 miles away. I am not trying to

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excuse Thomas Begley and Sean Kelly because they were responsible for

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the Shankill bomb, but you cannot blame the Troubles in Northern

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Ireland on people like that. There was a wider context.

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I ask everyone to put themselves in the place of the families for ten

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seconds and ask themselves how they would feel about what happened to

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those little children and the mothers and the fathers and say can

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you feel it in your heart how they are feeling? Nothing is going to

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bring them back. Victims on all sides. And there will be a lot of

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people saying, why is this all about the Shankill bomb? And let us remind

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ourselves, it is probably a good time to do so, what a terrible

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period this actually was in Northern Ireland. The Shankill bombing was

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followed by a series of loyalist attacks. An IRA bomb attack without

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warning kills nine people and injures 57 more. The Shankill Road

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was busy with lunchtime shoppers when the attack happened. I saw a

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woman there, I saw a man and a pram wheels.

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The people of Northern Ireland want peace, they want an end to this

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murder and mayhem from wherever it comes.

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The victims were preparing to start work when the shooting began. They

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fired between 40 and 60 shots. One of the dead man was killed in the

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first burst of gunfire. The scene inside the bar today where

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the signs of last night 's attack are still clearly evident. Two armed

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and masked men walked inside and opened fire indiscriminately. It was

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pandemonium and the whole place was screaming. Everyone was screaming.

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Could not believe it. We were Pain on all sides. You are a form of

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victims commissioner from a republican background. And a victim

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and how we look upon a victim, even the definition of a victim, it is

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ripping this community apart. It is, it is a very difficult and

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contentious issue. I am glad you showed the film that you just did

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because one night has my mind that 20 years this week and I remember

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the 24 people that died that week, in the middle we had the two young

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brothers gunned down in their own home and numerous other debts would

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Michael deaths. I am glad that the programme has heard from Gareth

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Wilkinson. People continue to live every day with debilitating

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injuries. We have to learn to embrace all of those people. We have

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to look at ways that we can start to bring our community together.

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Remembering and sharing what we have all experienced. But it is how

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people remember and a word is used often in Northern Ireland, I have

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heard it all week, I have heard it for many years, sensitivity. The

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Deputy First Minister Martin McGuinness tweeted tonight that the

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people of the Shankill Road should be treated with dignity and

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sensitivity. To put a plaque at on the very week that these people died

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commemorating a bomber who killed the children and men and women. Is

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that sensitive? It is a difficult issue. Sensitive, possibly not but

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it is part of our process of remembering as a community. We have

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great rituals around death and supporting families when they are

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grieving. We go two weeks until roles. We remind people that we are

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sorry for their problems. The unveiling of the pack this week, the

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events that took place on the Shankill Road, those are about a

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committee coming together to support those people that more within that

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committee -- community. They are about people saying we recognise and

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acknowledge your loss. I do want to ask you and this community tonight,

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when Sean Kelly and Thomas Begley, when they were walking into that

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sharp, and there is a little seven-year-old girl and there is a

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going to get Europe anyway, that's going to get Europe anyway, that's

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going to get blown up anyway, are they a victim? Are they a soldier?

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No one is seeking to justify the murder of innocent children. We

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should not go on my part. We are here today to try and see how we can

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sensitively commemorate those who have lost their lives as a result of

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the conflict. I think that is the issue for me. I did go there to say

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that at the end of the day, I remember and I acknowledge the fact

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that Thomas Begley was some mothers son. Of course that family needs pay

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their respects. They lost their son. I understand that. But what happened

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on Sunday for me was not just a simple act of remembrance. It was

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wrong. It glorified the violence. It was to be nigh for people like me. I

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am quite evenhanded. But what happened on Sunday, in my view, was

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wrong. He was not a soldier of Ireland. He murdered women and

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children and kids and then we turn around and we commemorate this. He

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would say he was fighting a war and innocent people get caught up in a

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war. And he would talk presumably about the British Army and the

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amount of innocent people that the about the British Army and the

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British Army have killed and collusion and state violence.

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Whenever that happens, and I understand that, and I'm against

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collusion, but the best of my knowledge we do not take those

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people and isolate them and remember them and reflect upon them and

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unveil plaques to them. We don't have to necessarily condone the

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actions of those who died to show compassion for those who mourn them.

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But it is what we do in Northern Ireland. It is back to this issue of

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sensibilities and -- sensitivity. It is about how people are remembered.

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John in Belfast has called us tonight. Go ahead, John. All I want

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to say is that as far as I know, the IRA never had suicide bombers. I

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don't think Thomas Begley went in there with the sole purpose of

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killing innocent people. He went in there to kill people who were

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planning to kill other people. But they just happen to pick a busy

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Saturday afternoon and a shop full of customers. Right, what he did do

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was according to reports, he left an 11 second fuse, he was at the back

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of the shop. He left himself enough time to get out of there. What I am

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saying now, don't be picking me up wrong. I am trying to understand

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this thesis and I'm going to hear it again from you that they did not

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intend to kill innocent people. 11 second fuse. To put a bomb in a shop

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full of men and women and children, what do they expect to happen? Is

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this a rewrite of history? I am not trying to rewrite history. It was a

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dirty war and everyone played their part in that dirty war. I am not

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going to suggest for one second that I am going back on history. That is

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not going to happen. But he was at the back of the shop, he has lit the

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fuse and left him an assigned to get out of there. His target was the

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people upstairs. He got a lot more people than that. If you look at the

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photographs, the whole front of a chop came out. -- shop. He

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definitely wanted to chemist Matt -- commit mass murder. They knew what

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they were doing. Tell me what happened to you, your family. I lost

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my sister that day. Man was out shopping with her. -- my mother was

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out shopping with her. She was in the shop and the bomb blew. Just

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really bad for my mother. Just terrible. Just bringing it all back.

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They knew what they were doing that day, no doubt about it. They knew

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they were going out to commit mass murder. They did not intend to blow

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themselves up. It did not go according to plan. It backfired a

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bit on them, I would say. What is it like all these years later? Hard.

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Just watching all that the families and my mother went through. Just

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hard to describe. I cannot put words into it. But you, like the rest of

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us, want a better Northern Ireland. Of course. And that means we have to

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understand there is pain and suffering on all sides. And so how

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do you reach out to the people who are saying they are equally in as

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much pain as you? And they have got an alternative story and they want

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is to end? But they want to be able to remember who they see as their

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soldiers and their history. Do you fight it or do you try to

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understand? You try to understand boys want to view. -- both points of

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view. The likes of Thomas Begley 's family, I believe, that they should

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remember their son, they are entitled to. But to glorify it, in

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the way that it is, it is just hard to handle, to watch it. There have

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been many correspondence and newspeople, I guess like me, trying

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to Article eight of sides of the argument of when that plaque was

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unveiled and the language that was used. Tell me what it was like when

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you felt it was happening to you and tell them what it felt like. It felt

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disgusting. It felt like they were walking over my sister 's grave.

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Once again, I cannot describe how I felt at the time. Just really,

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really hard to watch them stand there and do that on the television

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in front of me. It was just hard to watch. I want to remind us all what

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some of Sean Kelly actually said at the unveiling of this plaque. Just a

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matter of days ago. I offer no excuse for the killing of any of

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these innocent people. I am truly sorry for the loss of lives that

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day. Now he says he is really sorry, this

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is my final question to you, he says he's really sorry, and Martin

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McGuinness has endorsed that tonight, the Deputy First Minister,

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they are really sorry. To say sorry, that is better than not to say

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sorry. Have you not got to take it at face value or try to? I will

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never take that at face value. I will never accept his apology.

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Never. Thank you for talking to us tonight.

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What are your thoughts? This is a society with divided stories and a

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divided sense of history. They're off ideologies -- there are

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up ideologies involved. Someone said on your radio show that Thomas

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Begley died for Ireland. A so drop -- a soldier of Ireland, they said.

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That is how he would have seen himself and how he would have been

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led to believe he was. These men did not wake up in the morning and

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decide to go to the Shankill Road to commit what was a sectarian

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atrocity. But as difficult as it may be for some people, had people

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got to tolerate and understand those people who want to gather

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together to commemorate who Dacey as the soldiers? Is that the way

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forward in Northern Ireland? I do not believe it is the way forward

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at all, but what I would understand the situation to have been, this

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commemoration was not organised by the family. I don't think the

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family were enthusiastic about it, but it was their son, so they went

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along with it when it was happening. The organisation that these two

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young men belonged to was based upon the notion that they were

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fighting a war, sanctioned by a competent faction of the IRA. I

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don't accept that ideology, but we have to understand that those were

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the ideals. Let me bring Nigel Dodds in from our Westminster

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studio. Some loyalist paramilitaries at that time were

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very much increase in violence and their murder campaign against

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Catholics at that time, and that is the context that is important to

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remember here but we are talking about this. It is part of it. When

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you look back at that period and many years before it and after Rick,

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there were killings going on on all sides, including terrorists on the

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loyalist side and the Republican side. There were 1,700 deaths due

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to the IRA. We need to get this into context. Let us be very, very

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clear about the crowd last night on the Shankill Road. Today at the

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wonderful memorial service on the Shankill Road as well, people were

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coming together as a community in a respectful, dignified way to give

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support to the families and that is how it should be done. And people

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who went to the commemoration of Thomas Begley would say they did

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that, in a dignified way. I was about to come on to the stark

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contrast. People did not go out to offend anyone. You contrast that

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with the glorification because there was a plaque erected that pay

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tribute to someone who was a terrorist and despite what Martin

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others have said about sensitivity, others have said about sensitivity,

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cheered on by the presence of Gerry Kelly, a leading Sinn Fein member.

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It is bad. The wider and we also draw the parallel to Bryan Robson,

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I'm sorry, Robinson, the UVF killer, who loyalists parade behind? All

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violence is wrong, or murder is wrong. -- or a murder is wrong.

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Everybody should be brought to account and there should be no

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glorification or support or vindication of those who carried

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out these atrocities. And should people be able to march on the

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12th? I do not support glorification of terrorists. Is

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there to know? Absolutely. We do not support murder or mayhem. There

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should be no glorification of violence and terrorism. let me make

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it clear, there are attempts by some to to glorify those who

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committed crimes. That is why the definition of the victim needs to

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be a change. Thank you. I'm just looking at some of the sweets

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coming in. -- tweets. The lady there with the glasses. At the end

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of the day, these killers me exactly what they were going to do.

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They have prepared a bomb and walked into a shop with innocent

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people out doing their normal daily shopping. To put a plaque up is a

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disgrace and to say he was on active service is bad. They should

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have put up a plaque for the victims and their families. Jude

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Collins. Looking at the film, it would be very difficult not to feel

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deep distress. I don't know how some people can bring themselves to

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look at it. It is absolutely heartbreaking. If the question is

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about Thomas Begley and this memorial plaque, that is what

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opposing forces do. That is why we have set the task, that is why it

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all groups throughout the world celebrate their dead. -- that is

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why we have Cenotaphs. I wonder how much priority we should give it, as

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in, should it be at the very top of our priorities in Northern Ireland?

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Are we ever going to work out a way in which both communities can

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recognise that the stories are never going to be agreeable, we

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have to define a victim and we have to find a way to remember it each

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other's history together. Can it ever be done together or will this

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tension be passed on to the next generation? Very difficult. I

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sincerely hope we can go in that direction because that is what it

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comes down to, to see the things from the perspective of the people

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who have inflicted hurt on you, whatever side that is on. Thank you.

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I am really sorry that in this short time we have in television we

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are going to end our discussion on that issue. It is a massive

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discussion for us in Northern Ireland. We will continue it on the

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radio and you can continue it now on Twitter.

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Leicester's get a quick reminder of how you at home can interact with

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us. -- let us. The details are coming up on the screen.

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Still to come on tonight's programme - the Stormont beauty

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contest. If you are too fat, too short or too old, don't apply. My

:39:01.:39:03.

next guest rose to fame with the short or too old, don't apply. My

:39:04.:39:11.

Irish boy band Westlife. They had album sales in excess of 40 million.

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Waking up beside you. To watch the sunrise on your face. To know that

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I can say I love you. In any given time or place. A but as the group

:39:36.:39:45.

2012, Shane Filan was hiding a 2012, Shane Filan was hiding a

:39:46.:39:50.

secret - he was heading for bankruptcy. Now he is trying to

:39:51.:39:57.

rebuild his life and career. Let us welcome him - Shane Filan.

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You are a popular man. You are jamming my Twitter feed. They

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aren't talking about me, they are talking about you. Sorry about that.

:40:16.:40:23.

No problem. It's great to have you. There is a perception of a pop star.

:40:24.:40:31.

You see beat success on screen, but there was a lot going on behind the

:40:32.:40:45.

scenes. I lost my money. How much did you have? It was all of my

:40:46.:40:56.

savings. I put it into property. The Celtic Tiger was booming. I

:40:57.:41:02.

didn't have millions, but people were saying, you are stupid, you

:41:03.:41:07.

have got to get in. You are mad if you don't get in even further. I

:41:08.:41:12.

just had my first baby. The band had done well and we have made a

:41:13.:41:21.

few quid. Things could be over quickly and you think, I need to

:41:22.:41:30.

invest my money. I was only 25, 26. I put it all into property and lost.

:41:31.:41:36.

Can you remember thinking, this is really going wrong? The last few

:41:37.:41:42.

years, leading up to it when nothing was happening, we bought

:41:43.:41:48.

sites and were trying to get planning permission for things like

:41:49.:41:52.

supermarkets. It was a formula that seemed to work for other people.

:41:53.:41:58.

Did you borrow tens of millions? No, it was about 20 million. It was 18

:41:59.:42:11.

to be precise. And then you see the market climate, you are in too deep.

:42:12.:42:16.

What happens. You run out of money. If it was me, I would go into

:42:17.:42:23.

denial. I was in denial for a while and I was angry, but you look at it

:42:24.:42:31.

and think, I am in this boy band and we are doing it well, but the

:42:32.:42:40.

other side of my life is in tatters. I was paying out ?80,000 a month

:42:41.:42:48.

just in interest. It was crazy trying to keep it at bay.

:42:49.:42:53.

Eventually, you run out of money and then you just can't fix it. It

:42:54.:42:58.

had to be affecting your mood when you were performing and engaging

:42:59.:43:03.

with other people. When I was on stage it was the one time I never

:43:04.:43:09.

thought about it. When you are on stage it is very hard not to be

:43:10.:43:12.

happy. You are singing to thousands of people and it is amazing, but

:43:13.:43:17.

when you come off stage, you are worrying about it. You are getting

:43:18.:43:23.

e-mails from the banks and you are thinking, this is getting out of

:43:24.:43:27.

control. I tried my best and I tried to keep it at bay for three

:43:28.:43:33.

or four years. We do you blame? I don't want to blame anybody. At the

:43:34.:43:37.

time when I took the loans out, it was the right thing to do. It made

:43:38.:43:43.

a lot of financial sense. It is hard to blame anybody. I don't

:43:44.:43:50.

blame the banks or people. The whole world fell apart financially

:43:51.:43:51.

and I was just one of those people and I was just one of those people

:43:52.:43:56.

who got caught in it. I actually think you will be doing conferences

:43:57.:44:04.

around the banking sector for the rest of your life. You could point

:44:05.:44:09.

the finger at different things if you want, but I was just very

:44:10.:44:15.

unlucky. You are putting an investment there and taking a risk.

:44:16.:44:19.

I was just very unlucky. When things happen like that, you look

:44:20.:44:23.

at the rest of your life and you think, what do I have? I have no

:44:24.:44:30.

money, I was literally bankrupt, but I had a great wife, an amazing

:44:31.:44:36.

marriage and three healthy children. I looked at that and I thought, I

:44:37.:44:40.

would just start again. It is not the end of the world. If something

:44:41.:44:44.

was wrong with them, my children were sick, it would be different.

:44:45.:44:49.

You are building your life up again and you are fighting back. You have

:44:50.:44:53.

to. You have got to look to the future. That is what I look like. -

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- that is what I looked at. Is the future bright? I haven't a clue!

:45:05.:45:11.

Well, the start of my solo career has been good. I performed in

:45:12.:45:20.

Belfast and it sold out. I did not expect that. It is a nice thing to

:45:21.:45:26.

be able to do. It is early days, but it is better than it was a year

:45:27.:45:32.

ago. And you are going to sing for us later? I am. Go and get ready. I

:45:33.:45:46.

am looking forward to this. Now, for his first live performance in

:45:47.:45:54.

Northern Ireland, Ladies and Gentlemen, Shane Filan!

:45:55.:45:59.

money, when the if the punch line is funny.

:46:00.:46:26.

Worry if the sky is going to fall. Worry about winning, worry about

:46:27.:46:30.

losing, worry about the rows we are choosing.

:46:31.:46:35.

Worry is that someone is going to call.

:46:36.:46:40.

You spend so much precious time trying to figure out.

:46:41.:46:46.

What this crazy Maze of a beautiful world is all about.

:46:47.:46:54.

So click on back, fill your cup, put on your favourite song, turn it up.

:46:55.:46:56.

Find a little peace of mind in the sunshine.

:46:57.:47:05.

Don't waste your days looking at the clock, say I love you to the ones

:47:06.:47:16.

you've got. Because you only live once, once.

:47:17.:47:20.

You only live once, once, once. Worry about truth, worry about

:47:21.:47:32.

lying, worry about how much we're trying.

:47:33.:47:38.

When it's all going to come to an end.

:47:39.:47:43.

We spend so much precious time trying to figure out.

:47:44.:47:49.

What this crazy Maze of a beautiful world is all about.

:47:50.:47:57.

So click on back, fill your cup, put on your favourite song, turn it up.

:47:58.:48:02.

Find a little peace of mind in the sunshine.

:48:03.:48:06.

Waste your days, looking at the clock, say I love you till the ones

:48:07.:48:09.

you've got. As you only live once, once, once.

:48:10.:48:18.

You only live once, once, once. Click on back, fill your cup, but on

:48:19.:48:49.

your favourite song, turn it up. Find a little peace of mind in the

:48:50.:48:56.

sunshine. Waste your days looking at the

:48:57.:49:01.

clock, say I love you to the ones you've got.

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You only live once, once, once. Your live once, once, once.

:49:09.:49:20.

Yeah, you only live once, once, once.

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You only live once, once, once. Beautiful. Beautiful song. Thank

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you. It was meant to be a night of glitz and glamour at Stormont. The

:50:00.:50:07.

beautiful contest, a row broke out. Women could not enter if they were

:50:08.:50:11.

too short, too old or my of an aside 12.

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Spot the man reading the autocue. What do you think about this? I

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think it is quite shocking, not that these women should adhere to these

:50:40.:50:47.

particular notions of beauty, but actually that these beauty

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competitions exist at all. I was listing to your radio show and some

:50:52.:50:56.

really interesting comments came out there about, should we be shocked

:50:57.:51:00.

that you have to be over five foot seven and you have to be a size 12?

:51:01.:51:07.

Most beauty pageants are like that. What we should be surprised about is

:51:08.:51:10.

that they exist at all. But women are still continuously being judged

:51:11.:51:17.

on their beauty and body size. I don't think they are being

:51:18.:51:26.

continually judged. There are many good looking beautiful women out

:51:27.:51:30.

there who are size 18, 20. It is not about that. This is about the

:51:31.:51:36.

realities of the fashion industry. This competition is about finding a

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model. You can't be miss Ulster if you are over a size 12. And quite

:51:45.:51:53.

rightly so. The fashion industry is completely full of body fascists.

:51:54.:51:57.

Whoever goes on to win this competition will go on to represent

:51:58.:52:00.

Northern Ireland and will get a modelling career. It is an ambition

:52:01.:52:06.

that they have. If you're five foot six, you cannot represent Northern

:52:07.:52:10.

Ireland? Not in a modelling industry. I understand what you are

:52:11.:52:17.

saying but what we need to do is dismantle this system. There are

:52:18.:52:24.

many plus size models out there. Let's talk about real life. That is

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so condescending. I don't see what the problem is. It is condescending

:52:43.:52:47.

to bigger women. Women have been protesting against this style of

:52:48.:52:49.

beauty competition since feminism began.

:52:50.:52:52.

And the fact that they still exist is shaming. This is the 21st

:52:53.:52:58.

century. Women are equal members of society. Two people who were not

:52:59.:53:05.

protesting were the politicians who have now amazingly a year after

:53:06.:53:08.

actually attending his condition last year, they have pulled out the

:53:09.:53:19.

media told them it was not easy. -- pc. There were a lot of skinny

:53:20.:53:31.

people out there. Let's go to the audience. Do you think it was

:53:32.:53:34.

appropriate to hold it in Stormont? There are a lot more pressing issues

:53:35.:53:41.

going on at the moment. Basil McCrea was hosting it. He won't come on the

:53:42.:53:46.

programme. I think we can show you a picture of

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basil. He looks happy. But is it right?

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Sorry, but BT cannot be defined by your size, your Haytor your age. --

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beauty. What sort of message do you think that is sending across to

:54:14.:54:17.

schoolgirls that you are not worthy of you don't fit into this category?

:54:18.:54:24.

Exactly. Can I answer that? From where I am standing, you are

:54:25.:54:34.

clearly a pretty young lady. That is so condescending. She has a valid

:54:35.:54:41.

point. She doesn't need creeps like you saying, you are really pretty.

:54:42.:54:49.

She is never going to be the next supermodel. Who cares, maybe she has

:54:50.:54:53.

got a brain. These girls have a right to when to

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a modelling, edition and they should not be deprived of that right.

:54:57.:55:01.

Deprived of a right to enter a modelling competition?

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When you are saying it is fashion rules, explained Sophie Dahl, one of

:55:06.:55:14.

the biggest supermodels in the world consumer there are beautiful plus

:55:15.:55:16.

size models but they are in the minority. We need to dismantle the

:55:17.:55:22.

whole system. What are your thoughts around this?

:55:23.:55:27.

Good evening. I think the first point I would like to take bids with

:55:28.:55:31.

a me that for reason, she seems to think that if we celebrate beautiful

:55:32.:55:41.

people we are not celebrating intelligence.

:55:42.:55:51.

I wonder, if I had entered the comedy show, with IB stupid?

:55:52.:55:58.

You say you are next model? A very long time ago. Did you get weighed?

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I am talking 20 years ago. Sorry, in case that came across

:56:11.:56:14.

wrong. I hope it did not. The point I was thrown to make is do they way

:56:15.:56:20.

men? There are body constraints for men as there are for women. You have

:56:21.:56:33.

to appear healthy. Hold on, hold on. Can we do something, come and sit on

:56:34.:56:40.

this seat. He is the host for five minutes. This is a fat man saying

:56:41.:56:50.

this, are you actually telling me that you cannot be healthy as a

:56:51.:56:54.

woman if you are over a size 12? Are you telling me that? If you let me

:56:55.:57:07.

finish, you may just learn something. You are supposed to be

:57:08.:57:16.

controlling this. Let me give you this bit of information, I went on

:57:17.:57:19.

the Northern Ireland health service website today to check what they

:57:20.:57:23.

deem as being within healthy constraints. Were there any grey

:57:24.:57:28.

areas Chris DiMarco there were no grey areas. And they say any thing.

:57:29.:57:54.

The. . . We have a problem with obesity in Northern Ireland. An

:57:55.:58:02.

unkind person would say that Paul Martin would not win any beauty

:58:03.:58:09.

contests. I am a bad person. These women may well be intelligent

:58:10.:58:13.

contestants. They may have degrees coming out of their elbows. They are

:58:14.:58:16.

not being judged on their intelligence or their education or

:58:17.:58:18.

the number of degrees. They are being judged on their looks. It

:58:19.:58:23.

should never have been held in Stormont. These are public

:58:24.:58:29.

representatives. This contest is not represent the majority of women in

:58:30.:58:35.

Northern Ireland. They are women doing it for free choice. They

:58:36.:58:39.

actually feel, get out of their space, let them create their own

:58:40.:58:42.

business themselves, if that is what they see a modelling career, they

:58:43.:58:50.

are intelligent and self -- intelligent enough to decide. But

:58:51.:58:58.

there is such an incredible amount of pressure on young girls to look a

:58:59.:59:03.

certain way and BA said in size. And to have certain thoughts. It is what

:59:04.:59:08.

it is saying to those young girls. Is there anyone in the audience who

:59:09.:59:15.

supports a woman or a man to be in these contests? I think that is the

:59:16.:59:34.

so-called bigger people should be allowed to be in a beautiful pageant

:59:35.:59:39.

because they are as beautiful as a thin person. Thank you. Madame, go

:59:40.:59:49.

ahead. I think really, if it is that important to go ahead with it, it is

:59:50.:59:53.

mostly Miss Ulster, it should represent everybody. The average

:59:54.:00:09.

size of a women is 16. Why are these modelling contests really necessary?

:00:10.:00:16.

We don't have judging day-to-day. Also, what kind of message do think

:00:17.:00:24.

it sends young teenage girls that in very extreme cases could lead to

:00:25.:00:31.

suicide? First of all, what I want to point out is that nobody sets out

:00:32.:00:36.

a beauty contest with the idea of telling people that they are not

:00:37.:00:43.

suitable. The people that enter beauty contests enter them the same

:00:44.:00:46.

wears a scholarship and they are entering them to get a lead up the

:00:47.:00:54.

ladder, for want of a better phrase. I also think that the point that you

:00:55.:00:59.

made just now about it being damaging to young women, it is also

:01:00.:01:03.

damaging to men because it sets up expectations for what men should be

:01:04.:01:09.

achieving and the kinds of women they should be going out with. Let's

:01:10.:01:14.

face it, it is not reality. I think it is just as damaging to men. The

:01:15.:01:21.

whole attitude coming from this side of the table is very patronising to

:01:22.:01:31.

women. There will be plenty of outcry on the radio tomorrow morning

:01:32.:01:34.

when we continue to discuss both sides of the debate. Thank you,

:01:35.:01:37.

ladies and gentlemen. Good night.

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