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MOBILE RINGS

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Hello.

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Professor Lewis? It's Doctor Sid Vere. I wanted to check

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you're still on for the Student Fair this afternoon?

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Absolutely, yes. I shall be heading down your way, in about 30 minutes.

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Fantastic!

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We can talk through it then.

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See you then.

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-All right?

-Yep. He's on his way.

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-Here are those bits that you wanted. How's it going?

-Yeah, fine.

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We're going to focus on eating disorders,

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some creative therapies, art...

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We've got someone who specialises in Yoga coming down.

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We've got speeches throughout the day, couple of big ones

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to finish on. Professor Lewis from the uni. And then, to finish,

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I've got this graduate student who has been through it all.

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He's so inspirational.

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OK, all right, what do you want me to do?

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How much time have you got?

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I'm at the Campus for a bit this morning,

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but I can come back and forth.

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OK, well, maybe promote the practice and try and push the helpline.

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OK, fine. See you.

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Here they come.

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MOBILE RINGS

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Hi Ben! It's good to hear from you.

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Listen.

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I wanted to say sorry about yesterday.

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What for?

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For going on about Harry.

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That's fine!

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Yeah, but it wasn't fair, to put it on you like that.

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No, no. I just really wish there was something I could do to help.

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Maybe I could take you out for lunch to make up for it?

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You can buy me lunch.

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But on the condition that we both talk about whatever

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we want to talk about.

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Harry included. Deal?

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Deal.

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If anyone wants to make an appointment,

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come in for a chat, that's what we're here for.

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Or you can fill in ones of these postcards, drop it in the box

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and we'll get back to you.

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Half three's fine.

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So how long do you want me to speak for?

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-Most people are doing about five or ten minutes.

-That's fine.

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Actually, there's some interesting new stuff on social

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inclusion in relation to recovery, I might do some on that.

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Sounds great. Thank you.

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-Hey, Daniel.

-Haven't seen you down the club recently.

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It's a busy time, getting third-year students over the final hurdles.

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-Handicap suffers every year.

-Oh, yeah.

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I know it might get annoying, but can I ask you a question?

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-Medical one.

-Sure.

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Although your GP is usually the best placed. Who are you with?

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Doctor Reid.

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She's a lovely woman, um, the thing is,

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I'm in a new relationship and, er,

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I kind of feel a little bit...

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discussing this kind of thing with her.

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OK, I'm going back down to the Campus Surgery in a bit,

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if you want to talk.

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-Sure.

-OK.

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Seriously, no-one wants to sign up, they're too embarrassed.

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What should we do?

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Not sure there's an easy answer to that one.

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There we go.

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Now, promise me you'll be more careful next time.

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Because no goal is worth a scrape like that.

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Oh, I said the wrong thing there.

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-Thank you.

-No problem, take care.

-Come on!

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You'd have thought they'd at least fill in a postcard.

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WHALE SONG PLAYS

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Do you reckon the whale noises are putting them off?

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Mental illness carries such a stigma.

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They're bound to be self-conscious, I guess.

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-Yeah, but how do you get round that?

-No idea.

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Oh! Maybe the Campus website?

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Yeah! Bit less in your face. Anonymous.

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Exactly. And then you get the conversation started.

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-Hiya, I'm Ruth.

-Hi, thanks for coming.

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Ruth, this is Ayesha, our practice nurse.

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This is Ruth, she's doing a PhD in the psychology department.

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And you're promoting yoga as an alternative therapy?

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-That's me.

-SID'S PHONE RINGS

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-Shall I put these out?

-Yeah, wherever you like.

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Hope you have more joy getting people to sign up than we have.

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Really?

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Oh. That's a shame. I can't change your mind?

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OK, you too.

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My amazing recovering student has just changed his mind.

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Said he doesn't want defining as the mentally ill person with a story.

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Can see his point.

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What now?

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There's got to be someone, you know, who's been there, seen it all.

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-Can you hold the fort for a bit?

-Yeah, 'course.

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Everything all right?

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In a word, no.

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Oh!

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It's so frustrating.

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I met this little boy yesterday, Harry.

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He's just a lovely child, and he's lying in his hospital bed.

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He's got a systemic autoimmune condition,

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and there's nothing they can do for him.

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It's unstoppable.

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-Harry Owens?

-You know him?

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I know of him, yeah.

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It started in his gut and now it's affecting his thyroid.

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What's the prognosis?

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Valerie, I know.

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I know. Seriously, I'm on it.

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I just can't discuss the details right now.

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I will talk to you later. OK, bye-bye.

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Sorry! Where were we?

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Just wondering if you want me to get up on the table and demo some moves?

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I've got the leotard on under this.

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Um...

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Don't worry. Joking.

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Yoga. The link between health, mental health and physical health.

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Try it. Great for anxiety, depression, stress.

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It's been a while since I've done the old downward facing dog.

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Is it me or do most yoga positions sound a bit rude?

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Great for your love-life! That's for sure.

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What love-life?

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MOBILE RINGS

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Hi, Valerie.

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A Grim Reaper costume? No, do not buy that.

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I'll get it sorted, I promise!

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We've been seeing more and more of each other, you know,

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drinks, coffee...

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You kind of bump into each other in the corridor,

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ten minutes later you're still talking to each other.

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So, what's the problem?

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Someone like you would probably think this is not a problem.

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OK. I sense, things are going to become physical.

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We're going away together for the weekend.

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And I'm afraid it's not going to work.

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Any particular reason? Have you had previous surgery in the area?

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Or do you have low blood pressure?

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No, no. It's more of a fear of self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Nerves about it not working, leading to more nerves,

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leading me into a spiral, meaning it's not all right on the night.

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-It's all in the mind.

-Isn't everything?

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Let's check the body first.

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Make sure your physiology is in order first, OK.

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So, just roll your sleeve up.

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-I'm in a bit of a fix.

-Oh.

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My main speaker dropped out for this afternoon.

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You know that we're running a mental health

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stall at the student fair.

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Anyway, the great thing about him was that he'd really been there.

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-You know, and...

-You want me to speak?

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It would be so great to hear about your experience.

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The problem we've got is, we've got all these students,

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they won't even take a leaflet in case people start labelling them.

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And then there'd be you, a doctor. It would be such a positive message.

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I did that once. It felt OK.

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But I'm not doing it again. Sorry.

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I'm sure there's someone you can ask.

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What's the verdict, Doc. Am I going to live?

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You're in OK shape.

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But I see that you're on nitrates for angina.

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You know that rules out the little blue pills, don't you?

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I had read something. Does that completely rule them out?

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I wouldn't run the risk.

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-Just as I thought.

-You need to relax.

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And trust that your body will do the right thing.

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Yeah, but the pressure's on, more than you might think you know?

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There's a bit of an age gap. 20 odd years.

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It kind of sneaked up on us.

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First I thought, we were just good friends.

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Definitely a meeting of the minds.

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It's quite intimidating, to be honest.

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You fancy her. She fancies you.

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There isn't a problem.

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Morning, Heston. Actually, bit of a long shot, are you busy later?

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Ruddy car blocked me in.

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I was stuck outside Mrs Rylance's house for 20 minutes!

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And they saunter back from shopping, no hint of an apology!

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I could have been on an emergency call.

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Sorry? Did you want something?

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-No, it's fine. Forget about it.

-Good man.

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KNOCKING

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-Hello?

-Hi. Harry Owens.

-Yes.

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It's been bugging me since we last spoke.

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His condition, some call it 'FAS?' Fredricksson's Autoimmune Syndrome?

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I didn't hear anything about that.

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It's new.

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I saw the research was referenced at a conference a few months back.

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I didn't go to the seminar, but...

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-Do you mind if I...?

-Oh, please.

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I'm sure they were developing a treatment.

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I've scoured all the official journals. There's nothing!

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No, it's because it's way off the mainstream.

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Might be worth a look though.

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Here we go! Yeah.

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It's a form of plasmapheresis with some less common

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electrolytes by the look of it.

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They're using an immunosuppressive biological agent.

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And there you go.

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It's not approved.

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Right, in the UK.

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Or anywhere, look.

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It's available in Europe, on an experimental basis...

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Yeah, well that's tricky and expensive.

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No, no, this could be a lifeline.

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I'm going to have to leave you with that.

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I promised Ayesha I'd head back to the stall.

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-Are you OK to cover?

-Of course.

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And thank you so much for this, Daniel.

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So, how's it been?

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Busy. But we've coped.

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And, I've had an idea for Valerie's hen do. Finally!

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-Phew.

-It's a bit off the wall.

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This is Valerie we're talking about.

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Exactly, so it could be perfect.

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Did you manage to find another speaker?

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Nope. No dice.

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That's a shame. What are you going to do?

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That is just not true!

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No way am I guaranteed a first just because he's marking my paper!

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So, like I said, I'm really sorry.

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Let's talk about anything but.

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Actually, I might have found something.

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Maybe you've been here before.

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A colleague of mine dug this out.

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It's very obscure stuff, and it's really early days.

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I mean, it's not even available over here, but I thought,

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you know, it's positive,

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and it might show that there's some progress being made somewhere.

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"Significantly prolongs the life of patients." This is amazing!

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It's at the really experimental stages.

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-I will come see you later on.

-Yeah.

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-Daniel.

-Hi.

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Just wanted to say, what we were talking about earlier.

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-You must think I'm making a mountain out of a molehill.

-No.

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But the thing is, I didn't mention the most important bit.

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I know it sounds ridiculous, but I think I'm falling in love.

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I didn't think it would happen to me.

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Not at my age.

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Thought all that had closed down years ago,

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when my wife packed her bags.

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You forget what a fantastic feeling it is.

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It's like being a teenager!

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So it's been good talking to you.

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Thank you for your honesty.

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I've just got to act on it now.

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Yeah.

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What?

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She's obviously really important to you.

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Yeah, she means the world. Why do you ask?

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Maybe just be careful.

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You're her supervisor, right? You're responsible for marking her work.

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Look, I don't want to rain on your parade...

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But, is it worth considering, before you get in too deep,

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whether or not she's just using you?

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What makes you say that?

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I overheard her talking before.

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Sorry.

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No, no, no. I had my suspicions.

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But then, you know what?

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I buried them,

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because I think somewhere deep down

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I think it's all too good to be true.

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So right now, I hate you for saying so, but you're right.

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Thanks.

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I knew something would come up, it always does.

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Just when you think you're beaten.

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OK, let's not get ahead of ourselves.

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You know, it's still in the very early stages.

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It's not like it's on the NHS.

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Yeah, but they're not exactly amateurs,

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not when you read the science behind it.

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You know, I've been praying every single night.

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And sometimes when I've been lying there,

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I've known something will come along.

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Or should I say, someone?

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Thank you so much.

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-I'm going straight down the hospital now.

-Oh, OK.

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Right.

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Bye.

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Yeah, things are going well.

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I'm not sure how much longer I'll be down here but...

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Listen, I'm going to call you later, OK.

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Oh, hi. I heard you're doing a speech.

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Perhaps you can use some of it in your doctorate.

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Although, I hear you're guaranteed a good mark whatever you write.

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Sorry, what are you talking about?

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What are you trying to say?

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Someone overheard you.

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-I should have known from the start.

-Overheard what?

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Don't bother. It's hard enough already.

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Dad? Are you OK?

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Thank you.

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I didn't know you were coming in today.

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Yeah, I saw this in town

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and I thought, "I know someone that loves Roman soldiers."

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He'll love it.

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Actually, do you want a cup of tea?

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Yeah.

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Roy, can I have a word?

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That young girl you were talking to back there -

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is she your daughter?

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Martine.

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Yeah, and is she in your department, too?

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Yes, why?

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Because she's the one that I overheard.

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You thought I was having an affair with Martine.

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To be fair, I didn't know that she was your daughter.

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-I've got some news.

-So have I.

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-Yeah, but...

-No, you need to hear this.

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Doctor Richmond caught me on the way in and he's...

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I think he's trying to prepare us.

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They were saying that the main thing now is to make sure that

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-Harry's comfortable.

-Of course he's got to be comfortable.

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You're missing the point.

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He's not just going to come out and say it, unless he has to

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but he's basically saying it's palliative care from now on.

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We have to accept that.

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No, there's some new research I've found.

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-That's why I'm here.

-How many times?

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-This is different.

-We have to help each other.

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-Don't make me do this on my own.

-Please, wait! Just wait!

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Are you going to listen?

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Yeah.

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Ruth Darby?

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-Hello, my names Daniel Granger. I'm from the...

-From the surgery.

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Yeah. I think there's been a bit of a mix-up

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about you and Professor Lewis.

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What kind of a mix-up?

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Well, the thing is, he told me that

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he was starting a relationship with someone

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and that there was a bit of an age gap.

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And then I overheard his daughter talking about the fact that she

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was going to get a first because he was marking her paper.

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At that point, I didn't know that was his daughter.

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So I put two and two together and

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I'm afraid I've made a bit of a mess of things.

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Well, that's what he was grovelling on about.

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Yeah. So I wondered if there's any chance that we could rewind

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and pretend that none of this happened?

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No, of course there isn't!

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The thing is, it's completely my fault.

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Roy has done nothing wrong.

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How very male of you to entirely miss the subtext.

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He couldn't wait to believe you, could he?

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He's been trying to back out

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ever since we decided to go away together -

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over one too many glasses of wine, it seems.

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-He wants to go away with you.

-How do you know what he wants?!

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Why isn't he telling me?

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You're right.

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I haven't been communicating brilliantly.

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Oh, you have, Roy, actually.

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But it's time I did.

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I've come to say, how much you mean to me.

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Semiotics.

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Come on, Professor, you've being saying it loud and clear.

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I'm much too old for you.

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-No!

-It's fine. I get it, don't worry.

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Ruth, just listen to me.

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"Do you want to know who you are? Don't ask.

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"Act! Action will delineate and define you."

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Thomas Jefferson.

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Surprised you don't know that one, Roy.

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Ruth, wait!

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I'd be so grateful if...

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OK.

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Yeah, well, thanks anyway.

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Still no joy?

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No.

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Now what?

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Guess I'll have to do it.

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I thought you wanted someone who'd been through it.

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Yeah, well...

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I do know what it's like to be a student

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-away from home for the first time...

-Not quite the same.

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No, but I could talk about looking after your mental well-being,

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staving off depression and low self-esteem.

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I mean, it's more about recognising

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when these things are happening to you...

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and to other people, come to that.

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What?

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Is it your mum?

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I've not heard from her since she left.

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She could be dead, for all I know.

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Oh, come on, Eysh.

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It's true. Drinking herself to death.

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Is that why she drinks?

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Maybe.

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It's probably why I drink so much.

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Are you stressed?

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Worried.

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Do you realise we've never talked about arrangements?

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What arrangements?

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For when Harry passes on.

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I don't want to talk about that.

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So what happens then, practically?

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-I don't know and don't want to know.

-So who's going to sort it out then?

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Nobody, because it's not going to happen.

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You're in denial and it's going to be me picking up the pieces.

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That's not fair.

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Some students arrive here with established problems.

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We need to make sure their needs are met.

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But many people also experience difficulties

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for the first time at university.

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Life here contains plenty of triggers -

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isolation, disorientation, stress.

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This is where a proactive and holistic approach is needed

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before these issues begin to spiral.

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Sleep, exercise and eating well, they all help,

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but there's something even more fundamental we can all do -

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that's talk.

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That's why a buddy system is so important.

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Talking, easing the burdens.

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It's so easy to do, yet so easy to forget to do.

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So this is to all of you... of us -

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reach out, and others will reach out to you.

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If you need to take action, act.

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That will make the difference.

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-Just listen.

-Please, Ben.

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"It represents a long-awaited step forward in seeking to combat

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"the enigma that is FAS."

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"The new approach is based on plasmapheresis,

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"and has been achieving some extraordinary,

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"unexpected results in terms of extending life."

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Sarah, this is real.

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So it's about peer-to-peer support

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and support between those who have problems and those who don't.

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University is a time of stress.

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That comes with the deal.

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But arguably, it's the stressful times that forge us as people.

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So embrace it, but more importantly, embrace the people around you.

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-Let's go on holiday.

-Yeah, right.

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Come on, you can't say you don't need one.

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-Let's go together.

-Together?

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Not "together" together.

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You know, just two mates. It'll be fun.

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Yeah, all right. As long as you organise it.

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-I've got enough on my plate with Valerie.

-Fine.

-Cool.

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-Thank you so much, Professor Lewis. Thank you.

-You're welcome.

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Now, we did have another speaker, but sadly they've had to pull out.

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So I'm going to say a few words instead.

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Now, I can't speak from any personal experience,

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not at all but...

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Well, I am a doctor and after several years at medical school

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and I think I know a few things about stress and anxiety.

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I mean, none of us are immune.

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And I've seen enough patients to know just how common these

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issues can be...

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I just want to say sorry.

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I've been so nervous about everything.

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You must have thought I was mad.

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Unfortunate choice of words.

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We all just need to be mindful, OK?

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Step outside our own worries and just live in the moment, OK?

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Keep learning, keep healthy, keep active and connect.

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Yeah, let's all do that, shall we?

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Just connect with each other, yeah? Thank you.

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Don't you want to know the reason why I've been so nervous?

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It's because I can't stop thinking about you.

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You mean so much to me.

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I can't afford to get anything wrong.

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Just more talk, Roy.

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You see why this is different?

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Look, this is not me going on the internet,

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wanting to believe everything I read. This came from a doctor.

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She sat me down and showed me this stuff.

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-Will you promise me something?

-Anything.

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Don't tell Harry any of this. Not a word.

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Of course not. Not until we're further down the line.

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It's not going further down the line, Ben.

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No more. Promise me.

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Please, Sarah, just talk to the doctor.

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Here.

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MOBILE RINGS

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Our son is dying. We've known for months, now.

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We have to accept it, for his sake.

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I will not waste any more of his precious time on dreams.

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From now on, our focus is on making his last days as comfortable

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and as happy as can be.

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That's it.

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I don't need to be appraised to express my opinion,

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-thank you very kindly.

-That is abundantly clear, Al.

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No disrespect, but I don't tell you how you could do your job better.

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So naive.

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You have no idea what The Man is capable of.

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I'm not making any exceptions, Al. You're in after Niamh.

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I know there's something I want, I just don't know what it is.

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OK, so, lots to think about.

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