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Gwen, I can manage. | 0:00:30 | 0:00:32 | |
No, you can't. Not unless I take you. | 0:00:32 | 0:00:35 | |
What are you doing? | 0:00:35 | 0:00:36 | |
I can't get off work this afternoon. I'll call the surgery. | 0:00:36 | 0:00:39 | |
Gwen, listen to me... | 0:00:39 | 0:00:40 | |
Is that the Mill? My father has an appointment today, | 0:00:40 | 0:00:43 | |
but he won't remember, and I can't get him there, | 0:00:43 | 0:00:45 | |
so we need a home visit. | 0:00:45 | 0:00:47 | |
There are many benefits to having an experienced midwife, | 0:00:50 | 0:00:54 | |
such as Sister Hanif, here. | 0:00:54 | 0:00:56 | |
The centre she used to work at had to let her go | 0:00:56 | 0:00:58 | |
due to a lack of funds. | 0:00:58 | 0:01:00 | |
That is why I believe it would be an opportunity for us | 0:01:01 | 0:01:05 | |
to adopt a new health initiative. | 0:01:05 | 0:01:07 | |
I think we should pursue this with St Philomena's. | 0:01:09 | 0:01:13 | |
I know I should have discussed it with you first, | 0:01:13 | 0:01:15 | |
but please, just look at the research. | 0:01:15 | 0:01:19 | |
Summarise it. | 0:01:21 | 0:01:22 | |
Local midwives have the benefit of extra support, | 0:01:22 | 0:01:27 | |
and surely it is better for a mother to have one midwife | 0:01:27 | 0:01:30 | |
that she can form a relationship with. | 0:01:30 | 0:01:33 | |
Hospitals cannot make this happen. | 0:01:34 | 0:01:37 | |
We can. | 0:01:39 | 0:01:40 | |
She's already clashed with Heston. | 0:01:40 | 0:01:43 | |
Why don't we just get another midwife? | 0:01:43 | 0:01:45 | |
She has already put a lot of hard work into this. | 0:01:45 | 0:01:48 | |
It would be unfair to exclude her just because of Dr Carter. | 0:01:48 | 0:01:52 | |
Are the differences personality or are the differences professional? | 0:01:52 | 0:01:55 | |
I do not know. You will have to discuss that with him. | 0:01:55 | 0:01:59 | |
Dr Granger? | 0:01:59 | 0:02:00 | |
Actually...I'm for it. | 0:02:03 | 0:02:05 | |
That's not what you were saying the other day. | 0:02:06 | 0:02:08 | |
Yeah, I know, but...Zara persuaded me. | 0:02:08 | 0:02:12 | |
All the work that she's doing on breast-feeding... | 0:02:12 | 0:02:15 | |
I think we could be doing more things like this in the community. | 0:02:15 | 0:02:18 | |
So she'd be happy. | 0:02:18 | 0:02:20 | |
Is Dr Carmichael voting for it? | 0:02:20 | 0:02:23 | |
She doesn't want to be a back-seat driver. | 0:02:23 | 0:02:25 | |
So she's abstaining until she's back. But it gets my vote. | 0:02:25 | 0:02:29 | |
But not mine. Sorry. | 0:02:29 | 0:02:31 | |
I think it needs to be unanimous. | 0:02:31 | 0:02:33 | |
Why not? | 0:02:33 | 0:02:35 | |
I'm just not sure we need it. | 0:02:35 | 0:02:36 | |
Mr Bellamy was 100% behind this. | 0:02:38 | 0:02:42 | |
What a wonderful legacy to leave! | 0:02:43 | 0:02:45 | |
Yeah. That's emotional manipulation | 0:02:47 | 0:02:49 | |
and I think it's totally the wrong reason to do it. | 0:02:49 | 0:02:51 | |
If we're going to invoke Howard, | 0:02:51 | 0:02:52 | |
then Howard would know when to let it go. | 0:02:52 | 0:02:54 | |
Maybe in the long term we could revisit it. | 0:02:54 | 0:02:57 | |
I have arranged for Sister Hanif to come in today, | 0:02:57 | 0:03:01 | |
to give you both a short presentation. | 0:03:01 | 0:03:04 | |
You've already sprung things on us once - you're not doing it again. | 0:03:04 | 0:03:07 | |
I've got a patient to see. Cancel her! | 0:03:07 | 0:03:09 | |
Would you like to take a seat? | 0:03:13 | 0:03:14 | |
Thank you. | 0:03:14 | 0:03:15 | |
Hello, it is Mrs Tembe. I am afraid it is still a no. | 0:03:17 | 0:03:20 | |
When you get this message, can you please phone me back? | 0:03:20 | 0:03:23 | |
And once again, I am so sorry. | 0:03:23 | 0:03:24 | |
Right. I'm off. | 0:03:24 | 0:03:26 | |
Have you cancelled the midwife? Yes. | 0:03:26 | 0:03:28 | |
Midwife? Don't worry, nothing's changed. It's not happening. | 0:03:28 | 0:03:31 | |
Sister Hanif was just coming to make a presentation. | 0:03:31 | 0:03:34 | |
No wonder I was suddenly switched to house calls. | 0:03:34 | 0:03:37 | |
So she's not even here and Mrs Tembe's keeping her away from you? | 0:03:37 | 0:03:39 | |
Jimmi, do not let that woman anywhere near this practice. | 0:03:39 | 0:03:42 | |
It's dead in the water. | 0:03:42 | 0:03:43 | |
Mr Reynolds? | 0:03:43 | 0:03:45 | |
What are YOU doing here?! | 0:04:19 | 0:04:20 | |
I work here. | 0:04:22 | 0:04:24 | |
Yeah, but you're supposed to be off! | 0:04:24 | 0:04:26 | |
I am so sorry. | 0:04:28 | 0:04:30 | |
I did not think you were going to be in today. | 0:04:30 | 0:04:33 | |
I did not want you to see me behind Mr Bellamy's desk like that. | 0:04:33 | 0:04:37 | |
No, it's fine. | 0:04:37 | 0:04:40 | |
Of course you would step up. | 0:04:40 | 0:04:42 | |
The patients go on, the Mill goes on. | 0:04:42 | 0:04:46 | |
Everything goes on. | 0:04:48 | 0:04:49 | |
Six months since your diagnosis? Yep. | 0:04:53 | 0:04:57 | |
How have you been? Good, all things considered. | 0:04:57 | 0:05:00 | |
Well, you're neither tachycardic or bradycardic. | 0:05:00 | 0:05:02 | |
Right in the Goldilocks zone. | 0:05:02 | 0:05:04 | |
And...70, so your pulse rate is fine. | 0:05:04 | 0:05:08 | |
He's running out of his cholesterol medication. | 0:05:08 | 0:05:11 | |
I'll write you another prescription. | 0:05:11 | 0:05:12 | |
Can we hurry this up, please? I need to get back. | 0:05:12 | 0:05:15 | |
You don't need to wait, I'll show myself out. | 0:05:15 | 0:05:17 | |
I need a word first. | 0:05:17 | 0:05:18 | |
His memory's getting worse. | 0:05:25 | 0:05:26 | |
You heard him - he didn't grasp what you were talking about. | 0:05:26 | 0:05:29 | |
That was just a bit of medical jargon. | 0:05:29 | 0:05:31 | |
I don't think he can look after himself any more. | 0:05:31 | 0:05:34 | |
He forgets things, gets confused. | 0:05:34 | 0:05:37 | |
We need to put him in a home. | 0:05:37 | 0:05:39 | |
We?! You're the doctor. You know how to make it happen. | 0:05:39 | 0:05:42 | |
Have you spoken to him about it? | 0:05:42 | 0:05:43 | |
Not directly. Who kicks it off, you or me? | 0:05:43 | 0:05:46 | |
You. You contact social services and then you look into homes. | 0:05:46 | 0:05:50 | |
But you have to talk to him first. | 0:05:50 | 0:05:52 | |
Who'll pay? | 0:05:52 | 0:05:53 | |
Sorry? For the care home. | 0:05:53 | 0:05:56 | |
Well, you need to talk to social services. | 0:05:56 | 0:05:58 | |
Mrs Tembe, hello. | 0:06:00 | 0:06:03 | |
Oh, I...left you a message. | 0:06:03 | 0:06:06 | |
Oh. I'm sorry, I've not checked. | 0:06:06 | 0:06:08 | |
Well, I'm here now. | 0:06:08 | 0:06:09 | |
I'm here to see Mrs Tembe. | 0:06:11 | 0:06:13 | |
Oh. Right. | 0:06:13 | 0:06:15 | |
You know each other? | 0:06:15 | 0:06:17 | |
Through St Phil's. | 0:06:17 | 0:06:18 | |
Oh...I am so sorry. But the partners do not want to proceed. | 0:06:18 | 0:06:23 | |
Is this about Howard's proposal? | 0:06:24 | 0:06:26 | |
Yes. | 0:06:26 | 0:06:27 | |
Well, who said no? | 0:06:27 | 0:06:30 | |
Not here, come through. | 0:06:30 | 0:06:32 | |
There's no point trying to protect them, Mrs Tembe. | 0:06:38 | 0:06:41 | |
I'm just going to ask. | 0:06:41 | 0:06:42 | |
It was Dr Clay. | 0:06:46 | 0:06:47 | |
Why? | 0:06:47 | 0:06:49 | |
He feels that there is emotional pressure. | 0:06:49 | 0:06:51 | |
Because it was Mr Bellamy's idea. | 0:06:51 | 0:06:54 | |
But I truly believe having Sister Hanif here | 0:06:54 | 0:06:57 | |
would be good for the practice. | 0:06:57 | 0:06:58 | |
I agree. And not just because it was Howard's idea. | 0:06:58 | 0:07:02 | |
Perhaps you could have a word with Dr Clay? | 0:07:02 | 0:07:04 | |
No, I... I don't think I'm the right person. | 0:07:04 | 0:07:07 | |
Emma's right. | 0:07:07 | 0:07:08 | |
If he felt he was being emotionally pressured... | 0:07:08 | 0:07:11 | |
having Emma get involved would only make things worse. | 0:07:11 | 0:07:14 | |
Mrs Tembe, I'm sorry to ask, but my next appointment's round the corner. | 0:07:15 | 0:07:21 | |
While I'm here with time on my hands, | 0:07:21 | 0:07:23 | |
is it possible to find a bit of room to do some work? | 0:07:23 | 0:07:26 | |
Yes, yes, of course. Come with me. Thank you. | 0:07:26 | 0:07:29 | |
BEEP | 0:07:32 | 0:07:34 | |
What's that? | 0:07:34 | 0:07:36 | |
It's this game I play. Brain...brain training. | 0:07:36 | 0:07:40 | |
It helps, doesn't it? | 0:07:40 | 0:07:42 | |
Well, it won't do any harm. | 0:07:42 | 0:07:44 | |
You coping at home all right? | 0:07:46 | 0:07:49 | |
Yeah! | 0:07:49 | 0:07:51 | |
I mean, I'm on my own, mostly, and I had to give up my job. | 0:07:51 | 0:07:56 | |
Not too lonely? | 0:07:56 | 0:07:59 | |
Me? No. | 0:07:59 | 0:08:01 | |
The one upside about dementia is that Gwen's round a lot more. | 0:08:01 | 0:08:04 | |
Used to be once in a blue moon. | 0:08:04 | 0:08:05 | |
Did you sort out that paperwork, like I asked? | 0:08:05 | 0:08:08 | |
Yes...we did it yesterday, remember? | 0:08:08 | 0:08:10 | |
Oh... Course. | 0:08:12 | 0:08:15 | |
I'll get that for you. | 0:08:15 | 0:08:16 | |
Social services will ask me for an assessment. | 0:08:24 | 0:08:27 | |
Now, I'm not sure he's ready to go into care yet. | 0:08:27 | 0:08:30 | |
We may be better with other options, like home support. | 0:08:30 | 0:08:34 | |
I've seen a lot more of him than you have. | 0:08:34 | 0:08:37 | |
That's as may be. But he seems in fine shape. | 0:08:37 | 0:08:39 | |
Don't you believe me? Well, it's not a question of belief. | 0:08:39 | 0:08:42 | |
But surely he's better off at home, with support, looking after himself. | 0:08:42 | 0:08:47 | |
I'm running after him all the time. | 0:08:47 | 0:08:48 | |
He doesn't always remember to eat. | 0:08:48 | 0:08:50 | |
I know it's very difficult sometimes looking after the people we love. | 0:08:50 | 0:08:54 | |
I...can't keep giving up the time. Even with home support. | 0:08:54 | 0:08:58 | |
I'll look at the options. | 0:08:58 | 0:08:59 | |
Oh, Jimmi, there you go. I'll get your printer cartridge replaced. | 0:09:05 | 0:09:09 | |
Ah, great, thank you. | 0:09:09 | 0:09:10 | |
So, weekend courses? | 0:09:10 | 0:09:12 | |
Yeah, I'd been thinking about taking up something new for a while. | 0:09:12 | 0:09:16 | |
Recent events... | 0:09:16 | 0:09:18 | |
There's no point putting anything off. | 0:09:18 | 0:09:20 | |
Never too old to start a new adventure. | 0:09:20 | 0:09:21 | |
But I'm too young to hear that! | 0:09:21 | 0:09:23 | |
No, but I know what you mean. | 0:09:23 | 0:09:25 | |
I've got a brand-new kitchen and nobody to cook for but Rob. | 0:09:25 | 0:09:29 | |
Maybe you should get some of your workmates over? | 0:09:29 | 0:09:31 | |
Road-test that kitchen of yours. | 0:09:31 | 0:09:33 | |
I was thinking I would do that. | 0:09:33 | 0:09:34 | |
My Cooks Heaven party tomorrow night got cancelled. | 0:09:36 | 0:09:39 | |
People will want to snap it up, but it's still available. | 0:09:39 | 0:09:42 | |
You get a great discount on food and drink. | 0:09:42 | 0:09:45 | |
And if you take it up short notice, | 0:09:45 | 0:09:46 | |
we get loads of extra goodies for free. | 0:09:46 | 0:09:49 | |
We? | 0:09:49 | 0:09:50 | |
You get the freebies, and I get my commission. Oh! | 0:09:50 | 0:09:54 | |
Emma? | 0:09:55 | 0:09:57 | |
If you want to talk... | 0:10:00 | 0:10:01 | |
No. No, I don't. And certainly not at work. | 0:10:01 | 0:10:04 | |
Smile. | 0:10:11 | 0:10:12 | |
What are you doing? | 0:10:13 | 0:10:16 | |
Have you got nothing better to do than irritate | 0:10:16 | 0:10:18 | |
one of your co-workers on their break? | 0:10:18 | 0:10:20 | |
Stop papping me, please, James! | 0:10:20 | 0:10:22 | |
Oh, come on, give me a break. Didn't you ever want to be a model? | 0:10:22 | 0:10:25 | |
Just the swimsuit kind. | 0:10:25 | 0:10:28 | |
I'm thinking of taking up a new hobby. | 0:10:28 | 0:10:31 | |
Photography. It's either that or basket weaving, aromatherapy. | 0:10:31 | 0:10:34 | |
Thanks, Karen. | 0:10:40 | 0:10:42 | |
What is that woman doing here? | 0:10:42 | 0:10:45 | |
Ruhma? Mrs Tembe said that she could use Zara's room. | 0:10:45 | 0:10:48 | |
Oh...well? | 0:10:53 | 0:10:57 | |
I like it. | 0:10:57 | 0:10:59 | |
One could set one's watch by it. | 0:11:00 | 0:11:03 | |
By what? | 0:11:03 | 0:11:04 | |
That middle-aged thing. | 0:11:04 | 0:11:05 | |
You know, you lose someone close to you, so you think, | 0:11:05 | 0:11:08 | |
"I know! I must improve my life!" | 0:11:08 | 0:11:10 | |
Just like New Year's resolutions. | 0:11:10 | 0:11:12 | |
Then you'll feel even more miserable once you fail. | 0:11:12 | 0:11:14 | |
Why are you my friend? | 0:11:14 | 0:11:16 | |
It's my honesty. Can you go and be David Bailey elsewhere, please? | 0:11:16 | 0:11:19 | |
I'm not middle-aged either! | 0:11:19 | 0:11:21 | |
Took you long enough. | 0:11:21 | 0:11:22 | |
Smile. | 0:11:22 | 0:11:24 | |
Let me be cool. Go on. | 0:11:24 | 0:11:25 | |
I can't do that. | 0:11:25 | 0:11:27 | |
Let me be cool. | 0:11:27 | 0:11:28 | |
I need a filter for that. | 0:11:28 | 0:11:30 | |
Oh, I want it all - now! | 0:11:30 | 0:11:32 | |
Have you got a stapler? | 0:11:32 | 0:11:34 | |
So, Cooks Heaven party...your place, tomorrow night? | 0:11:35 | 0:11:40 | |
What about Sergeant Hollins? | 0:11:40 | 0:11:41 | |
He loves cooking and entertaining! | 0:11:41 | 0:11:43 | |
Sounds fun. | 0:11:43 | 0:11:44 | |
I have nothing else planned. | 0:11:44 | 0:11:47 | |
Good, so you're coming. Must remember to invite Ayesha and Niamh. | 0:11:47 | 0:11:52 | |
Coming to what? | 0:11:52 | 0:11:53 | |
You don't all have to walk on eggshells around me. | 0:11:57 | 0:11:59 | |
We're not, no, it's just that Karen's having some of the team | 0:11:59 | 0:12:02 | |
over tomorrow for one of my Cooks Heaven events. | 0:12:02 | 0:12:04 | |
And if you're feeling up to it, she'd love you to come, too, | 0:12:04 | 0:12:08 | |
but completely understand if it's not right for you. | 0:12:08 | 0:12:12 | |
I think I'll pass, if that's all right. | 0:12:13 | 0:12:16 | |
Of course. | 0:12:16 | 0:12:17 | |
I need some fresh air. | 0:12:17 | 0:12:18 | |
You handled that really well. | 0:12:19 | 0:12:22 | |
Oh, you must come too, right, Karen? | 0:12:22 | 0:12:24 | |
Yeah. Brilliant! | 0:12:24 | 0:12:27 | |
Mrs Tembe? I need a word now. | 0:12:37 | 0:12:40 | |
Well, you'll just have to make the time. | 0:12:40 | 0:12:43 | |
Yes, two minutes will be fine. | 0:12:43 | 0:12:45 | |
KNOCK ON DOOR Yes? | 0:12:45 | 0:12:47 | |
We need you in reception. | 0:12:47 | 0:12:48 | |
HE SIGHS | 0:12:48 | 0:12:50 | |
No, you definitely had a house call earlier. | 0:12:52 | 0:12:55 | |
That's ridiculous! | 0:12:55 | 0:12:56 | |
I'd remember if I had a house call earlier. Can I help? | 0:12:56 | 0:12:58 | |
I have an appointment, Dr... | 0:12:58 | 0:13:00 | |
Carter. | 0:13:00 | 0:13:01 | |
We saw each other an hour ago. | 0:13:01 | 0:13:03 | |
Yes...now you're here...I remember. | 0:13:03 | 0:13:07 | |
I'm very sorry. | 0:13:07 | 0:13:09 | |
Can I get you something? | 0:13:09 | 0:13:11 | |
Some water. | 0:13:11 | 0:13:13 | |
Why don't we sit down over here and have a chat? | 0:13:13 | 0:13:17 | |
I must have forgotten. | 0:13:17 | 0:13:19 | |
What is happening to me?! | 0:13:19 | 0:13:21 | |
Well, with dementia, at this stage, you'll have good days and bad days. | 0:13:21 | 0:13:26 | |
It's perfectly normal. | 0:13:26 | 0:13:28 | |
I think we should call Gwen. She has power of attorney. | 0:13:28 | 0:13:31 | |
She needs to know what happened. | 0:13:31 | 0:13:32 | |
Is that what the paperwork was? | 0:13:32 | 0:13:35 | |
I signed the house over to her. | 0:13:35 | 0:13:38 | |
The house? | 0:13:38 | 0:13:40 | |
To protect it if I have to go into care. | 0:13:40 | 0:13:43 | |
For her. | 0:13:43 | 0:13:45 | |
What's Gwen's situation? | 0:13:45 | 0:13:47 | |
Good job, her own flat. She's doing very well. | 0:13:47 | 0:13:50 | |
Actually, this has been mortifying. I'm sorry for wasting your time. | 0:13:50 | 0:13:54 | |
Are you thinking what I'm thinking? | 0:13:56 | 0:13:59 | |
His house in Westbourne Park is worth a lot of money. | 0:13:59 | 0:14:02 | |
Get it signed over to her, and then stick him in a home? | 0:14:02 | 0:14:05 | |
Oh, Mrs Tembe. | 0:14:05 | 0:14:07 | |
HE SIGHS | 0:14:08 | 0:14:10 | |
Hey. | 0:14:16 | 0:14:17 | |
I said I didn't want to talk about it. | 0:14:17 | 0:14:19 | |
You said not in there. | 0:14:19 | 0:14:21 | |
All right, you win that one on a technicality. | 0:14:21 | 0:14:24 | |
One question and then if you want me to leave, fine. | 0:14:24 | 0:14:28 | |
One. | 0:14:28 | 0:14:29 | |
Do you want me to treat you like a doctor or a patient? | 0:14:29 | 0:14:33 | |
I just want people to stop treating me like I'm going to break. | 0:14:33 | 0:14:36 | |
A patient, then. | 0:14:36 | 0:14:37 | |
Whatever. | 0:14:37 | 0:14:39 | |
Then, how have you been? | 0:14:39 | 0:14:42 | |
Fine, mostly. A little bleeding. | 0:14:42 | 0:14:46 | |
Do you want me to check...? No. | 0:14:46 | 0:14:49 | |
A little bleeding's... | 0:14:49 | 0:14:50 | |
Is normal after a miscarriage. Yes, I do know. | 0:14:50 | 0:14:53 | |
How's it feel being back here? | 0:14:56 | 0:14:58 | |
I thought it was one question. I lied. | 0:14:58 | 0:15:00 | |
It's weird. | 0:15:03 | 0:15:06 | |
Harder than I thought it would be. But I just have to focus, | 0:15:06 | 0:15:09 | |
get to the end of the day and then it's done. | 0:15:09 | 0:15:13 | |
Losing a baby is hard. Losing your partner is hard. | 0:15:15 | 0:15:18 | |
Losing both... | 0:15:18 | 0:15:20 | |
I don't know what you're going through. | 0:15:20 | 0:15:23 | |
I can only try to help, so please let me. | 0:15:23 | 0:15:26 | |
Does anyone in the Mill know what happened? | 0:15:30 | 0:15:32 | |
Some. | 0:15:32 | 0:15:34 | |
I think that's why Jimmi said no to the midwife proposal. | 0:15:34 | 0:15:37 | |
He's worried that having you here will be a constant reminder to me. | 0:15:37 | 0:15:42 | |
At least he hasn't got an irrational dislike to midwives. | 0:15:42 | 0:15:44 | |
Unlike that cranky... | 0:15:44 | 0:15:46 | |
Who? | 0:15:47 | 0:15:49 | |
Bow ties. | 0:15:49 | 0:15:51 | |
Oh. Heston? | 0:15:51 | 0:15:53 | |
"Cantankerous, arrogant fool" trips off the tongue a bit easier. | 0:15:53 | 0:15:57 | |
Perhaps we should put that on his door. | 0:15:57 | 0:15:59 | |
This is about what works for you. | 0:16:04 | 0:16:06 | |
Getting from one day to the next, that's fine. | 0:16:06 | 0:16:09 | |
But you don't have to do it on your own. | 0:16:09 | 0:16:11 | |
If you find any problems just give us a ring. | 0:16:16 | 0:16:19 | |
Is Mrs Tembe free yet? She's got meetings... | 0:16:19 | 0:16:21 | |
PHONE RINGS ..but she might get a few minutes in between. | 0:16:21 | 0:16:24 | |
Hello, Mill Health Centre. | 0:16:24 | 0:16:26 | |
DOOR CLOSES Oh, Mrs Tembe? | 0:16:28 | 0:16:31 | |
Heston! It's Gwen Taylor. | 0:16:31 | 0:16:33 | |
Her dad, he's not come home and he's not got his phone. | 0:16:33 | 0:16:36 | |
Miss Taylor? | 0:16:36 | 0:16:38 | |
George? | 0:16:43 | 0:16:44 | |
George? | 0:16:50 | 0:16:51 | |
Gwen's worried about you. | 0:16:53 | 0:16:54 | |
Can I get in? | 0:16:56 | 0:16:57 | |
What happened? | 0:17:08 | 0:17:10 | |
I don't know how to get home. | 0:17:10 | 0:17:12 | |
I got in, started the car and... | 0:17:12 | 0:17:15 | |
and...knew I didn't know where to go. | 0:17:15 | 0:17:19 | |
What is happening to me? | 0:17:19 | 0:17:21 | |
This is as good as it gets...now? | 0:17:24 | 0:17:28 | |
And... And it's going to get worse? | 0:17:28 | 0:17:32 | |
It's...never going to get better. | 0:17:32 | 0:17:36 | |
George...do you think you CAN look after yourself? | 0:17:38 | 0:17:42 | |
I don't want a care home. | 0:17:42 | 0:17:44 | |
But...but... | 0:17:45 | 0:17:48 | |
I've been enough of a bother. I'll be fine. | 0:17:48 | 0:17:51 | |
Please, just leave me. It'll come back to me. | 0:17:51 | 0:17:53 | |
I WILL remember. | 0:17:53 | 0:17:55 | |
You shouldn't be driving. | 0:17:57 | 0:18:00 | |
HE SIGHS | 0:18:00 | 0:18:01 | |
Karen, I'm taking Mr Taylor home. | 0:18:05 | 0:18:08 | |
So you think maybe the daughter's right? | 0:18:08 | 0:18:10 | |
I don't know. He's had one bad day. | 0:18:10 | 0:18:12 | |
Maybe she just doesn't want anything bad to happen to him. Hmm. | 0:18:12 | 0:18:15 | |
Dr Carter, my next meeting has been delayed. I have a few minutes. | 0:18:15 | 0:18:20 | |
I'm helping a patient right now. Can we catch up later? | 0:18:20 | 0:18:23 | |
I am very busy for the rest of the day. | 0:18:23 | 0:18:26 | |
Right. | 0:18:26 | 0:18:28 | |
I was thinking of taking up photography. | 0:18:47 | 0:18:49 | |
Good for you. What's got you into that? | 0:18:49 | 0:18:52 | |
Oh, you know, after what happened, | 0:18:52 | 0:18:55 | |
just thought I'd turn over a new leaf. | 0:18:55 | 0:18:57 | |
Right. So it could be anything? | 0:18:58 | 0:19:02 | |
It's not actually that you like taking pictures? | 0:19:02 | 0:19:06 | |
It's just I've got an uncle who's a bit of a camera bore... | 0:19:06 | 0:19:08 | |
I mean, an amateur photographer. | 0:19:08 | 0:19:10 | |
I wanted to get into it for a little while, but I guess | 0:19:10 | 0:19:12 | |
he could tell I wasn't really that into it. | 0:19:12 | 0:19:14 | |
He said, "Don't waste all your money on lenses and whatnot | 0:19:14 | 0:19:17 | |
"until you know you've tried it and you like it." | 0:19:17 | 0:19:19 | |
You know, I always thought the blokes with the big lenses were compensating | 0:19:19 | 0:19:22 | |
for something. Like middle-aged men with sports cars and trophy wives. | 0:19:22 | 0:19:27 | |
So if I need any advice, I know where to find you. | 0:19:27 | 0:19:29 | |
He gave me one of his old camera bodies actually. I've still got it. | 0:19:31 | 0:19:34 | |
Never used it. | 0:19:34 | 0:19:35 | |
It's yours if you want to try it out. | 0:19:35 | 0:19:37 | |
It's a bit like that one actually. | 0:19:37 | 0:19:39 | |
Really? | 0:19:39 | 0:19:40 | |
That one? Mm. That's the one I was looking at. | 0:19:41 | 0:19:45 | |
Good choice. That's one of the ones my Uncle Merv recommended. | 0:19:45 | 0:19:48 | |
If you like, I could show you | 0:19:48 | 0:19:50 | |
a couple of good starter lenses he told me to get. | 0:19:50 | 0:19:52 | |
Yeah, that'd be useful. | 0:19:52 | 0:19:54 | |
Well, apparently, the best place to start is a good 50mm lens. | 0:19:54 | 0:19:59 | |
This one. It's a good all-rounder, so he says. | 0:19:59 | 0:20:03 | |
Long-term memory is OK and I can remember how to do things I used to. | 0:20:05 | 0:20:10 | |
I don't have any problem with the actual driving. | 0:20:10 | 0:20:13 | |
It's just where you're going? | 0:20:13 | 0:20:15 | |
That's never happened before. I... I forget things, small things. | 0:20:15 | 0:20:20 | |
Is it getting worse? | 0:20:20 | 0:20:22 | |
I don't know. | 0:20:22 | 0:20:24 | |
I don't remember. | 0:20:24 | 0:20:25 | |
Your father's fine. | 0:20:27 | 0:20:29 | |
I don't like the way you talk to me. | 0:20:29 | 0:20:31 | |
Well, I'm concerned for his wellbeing. | 0:20:31 | 0:20:34 | |
He needs a care home. | 0:20:34 | 0:20:36 | |
Well, there are areas of concern, I agree, but... | 0:20:36 | 0:20:38 | |
He couldn't remember his way home! He couldn't contact me! | 0:20:38 | 0:20:41 | |
Which, for now, seems like an isolated incident. | 0:20:41 | 0:20:44 | |
We need to keep an eye on him, see if there's further deterioration. | 0:20:44 | 0:20:47 | |
What? When it happens again? | 0:20:47 | 0:20:49 | |
Well, I'm not sure he should be driving, for a start. | 0:20:49 | 0:20:51 | |
Which would make him even more dependent on me! | 0:20:51 | 0:20:54 | |
This isn't your decision. | 0:20:54 | 0:20:56 | |
We have to do what's in his best interests. | 0:20:56 | 0:20:59 | |
Are you saying I wouldn't? Why else would I do it? | 0:20:59 | 0:21:03 | |
Some people might be concerned about losing their inheritance. | 0:21:03 | 0:21:06 | |
How dare you? | 0:21:06 | 0:21:07 | |
And of course, for the next six years, | 0:21:07 | 0:21:09 | |
the social services will treat this house as his asset. | 0:21:09 | 0:21:12 | |
You need to back off. And I want a second opinion. | 0:21:12 | 0:21:15 | |
Um, I've looked at Mr Taylor's notes and I've talked to him. | 0:21:25 | 0:21:29 | |
I've not been able to do anything | 0:21:29 | 0:21:31 | |
which leads me to a definitive conclusion. | 0:21:31 | 0:21:34 | |
However, with everything I've seen, | 0:21:34 | 0:21:36 | |
I would be inclined to agree with Heston. | 0:21:36 | 0:21:38 | |
And that's not just doctors sticking together. | 0:21:38 | 0:21:40 | |
His dementia is advancing. What if he forgets to take his meds? | 0:21:40 | 0:21:43 | |
That could be dangerous, right? | 0:21:43 | 0:21:45 | |
Yes. | 0:21:45 | 0:21:47 | |
He lives alone. He isn't getting any stimulation. | 0:21:47 | 0:21:49 | |
So the chances are, he's going to start dwelling in the past. | 0:21:49 | 0:21:53 | |
His memory's going to get worse. | 0:21:53 | 0:21:54 | |
Sometimes family has to step up | 0:21:54 | 0:21:56 | |
and look after the welfare of their loved ones. | 0:21:56 | 0:21:58 | |
There's only me and I can't give up my life. | 0:21:58 | 0:22:01 | |
You have power of attorney? Yes. No. | 0:22:01 | 0:22:03 | |
Your father told me you have. | 0:22:03 | 0:22:06 | |
We talked about it once, but I don't want it. | 0:22:06 | 0:22:08 | |
You have the house in your name. | 0:22:08 | 0:22:10 | |
HE put it my name. I don't want it. | 0:22:10 | 0:22:12 | |
It's nothing but bad memories before Mum walked out. | 0:22:12 | 0:22:15 | |
She took me with her, but I barely knew him till a couple of years ago. | 0:22:15 | 0:22:19 | |
He reached out, then this dementia happened. | 0:22:19 | 0:22:22 | |
I know what happened between my parents wasn't all his fault. | 0:22:22 | 0:22:26 | |
But there were times when... when I really needed him | 0:22:26 | 0:22:28 | |
and he was never there. | 0:22:28 | 0:22:31 | |
Just because we share some genes... I won't sacrifice my life. | 0:22:31 | 0:22:34 | |
I never wanted the house, but he gave me no choice. | 0:22:34 | 0:22:38 | |
So sell it, give it to the care home! I hate the place. | 0:22:38 | 0:22:41 | |
Heston! | 0:22:43 | 0:22:45 | |
George...you told me | 0:22:46 | 0:22:48 | |
that you signed power of attorney over to your daughter. | 0:22:48 | 0:22:51 | |
Is that true? | 0:22:51 | 0:22:53 | |
Yes. I talked about it with her. | 0:22:53 | 0:22:55 | |
Yes, but did you do it? Did you speak to a lawyer? | 0:22:55 | 0:22:58 | |
We never got round to it. Course we did. | 0:22:58 | 0:23:00 | |
No. You put the house in my name. That's it. | 0:23:00 | 0:23:03 | |
I thought... | 0:23:03 | 0:23:05 | |
But if you're sure... I guess I can't have. | 0:23:07 | 0:23:10 | |
Heston. | 0:23:12 | 0:23:13 | |
I think I've been unfair on her. | 0:23:16 | 0:23:18 | |
You got off on the wrong foot? Like you did with the midwife? | 0:23:18 | 0:23:20 | |
You're bringing Ruhma to the Mill. | 0:23:20 | 0:23:23 | |
I told you. I've already dealt with it. | 0:23:23 | 0:23:25 | |
I've got to get back. | 0:23:25 | 0:23:26 | |
George... | 0:23:29 | 0:23:30 | |
Gwen is worried... | 0:23:33 | 0:23:35 | |
that you won't be able to look after yourself. | 0:23:35 | 0:23:39 | |
And she can't commit the time to caring for you. | 0:23:39 | 0:23:42 | |
So we need to investigate | 0:23:43 | 0:23:46 | |
whether extra support or a home is the best option for you. | 0:23:46 | 0:23:51 | |
I want to stay in my home. | 0:23:51 | 0:23:53 | |
I understand that, but we need to know what we're going to do | 0:23:53 | 0:23:59 | |
if things deteriorate. | 0:23:59 | 0:24:01 | |
I told you it wasn't about the money. | 0:24:07 | 0:24:10 | |
I know. I'm sorry. | 0:24:10 | 0:24:13 | |
Jimmi, I've been looking for you. | 0:24:20 | 0:24:23 | |
Um, I understand that Mrs Tembe put Howard's midwife proposal to you. | 0:24:23 | 0:24:29 | |
Yes. | 0:24:29 | 0:24:30 | |
And you vetoed it? Why? It's a good idea. | 0:24:30 | 0:24:34 | |
It wasn't right for us. | 0:24:34 | 0:24:35 | |
I understand that you're being sensitive to me | 0:24:38 | 0:24:41 | |
and how I might feel, seeing Ruhma in the building all the time. | 0:24:41 | 0:24:44 | |
That was something I had to take into consideration. | 0:24:44 | 0:24:48 | |
I know more than anyone right now how important it is to have | 0:24:48 | 0:24:51 | |
a good midwife around when things go wrong. | 0:24:51 | 0:24:54 | |
And I think our patients deserve that. | 0:24:54 | 0:24:57 | |
Yeah, but we can't go back over decisions | 0:24:57 | 0:24:58 | |
just because the staff don't like it. | 0:24:58 | 0:25:00 | |
Yeah, but right here, right now, I'm not just staff, am I? | 0:25:00 | 0:25:05 | |
Emma, this is the kind of emotional manipulation that really worries me. | 0:25:05 | 0:25:09 | |
You don't have to worry about me being reminded. | 0:25:09 | 0:25:12 | |
It's not like I'm going to forget. | 0:25:12 | 0:25:14 | |
You will get past this. | 0:25:14 | 0:25:16 | |
I don't want to get past it, Jimmi. | 0:25:16 | 0:25:18 | |
And, well, you know, you don't get past this stuff, do you? | 0:25:19 | 0:25:22 | |
You just carry it with you. | 0:25:22 | 0:25:25 | |
I dread the day that I wake up | 0:25:25 | 0:25:27 | |
and Howard isn't the first thing that I think of. | 0:25:27 | 0:25:29 | |
And as awful as this is, that will be worse. | 0:25:29 | 0:25:32 | |
Thank you for letting me use the room, Mrs Tembe. | 0:25:34 | 0:25:36 | |
I really wish I could have done more. | 0:25:36 | 0:25:39 | |
I feel like I promised you so much and delivered nothing. | 0:25:39 | 0:25:42 | |
It's not your fault. | 0:25:42 | 0:25:43 | |
Oh. Speak of the devil. | 0:25:44 | 0:25:46 | |
Leaving so soon? | 0:25:46 | 0:25:48 | |
It was good to see you again. | 0:25:48 | 0:25:51 | |
"Life is but a walking shadow, a poor player | 0:25:51 | 0:25:54 | |
"that struts his hour upon the stage and then is heard no more." | 0:25:54 | 0:25:59 | |
"It is a tale... | 0:25:59 | 0:26:01 | |
"told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, signifying nothing." | 0:26:01 | 0:26:06 | |
Macbeth Act 5, Scene 5. | 0:26:06 | 0:26:09 | |
Yes, she is still here... | 0:26:09 | 0:26:12 | |
So, Dr Clay and I went through Howard's proposal again. | 0:26:14 | 0:26:18 | |
And we've decided to take it to the trust. | 0:26:18 | 0:26:20 | |
Why the change of mind? Does it matter? | 0:26:22 | 0:26:26 | |
Are you happy? | 0:26:26 | 0:26:28 | |
OK, just one elephant in the room to sort out, then. | 0:26:30 | 0:26:33 | |
Heston. Hm. I could have a word. | 0:26:33 | 0:26:35 | |
No. Where's the fun in that? | 0:26:35 | 0:26:38 | |
I thought tonight was about supporting Valerie | 0:26:45 | 0:26:47 | |
and taking everyone's mind off Howard. | 0:26:47 | 0:26:50 | |
Not showcasing our new kitchen. | 0:26:50 | 0:26:51 | |
Spread your wings, ladies. | 0:26:51 | 0:26:53 | |
They want to buy, you want to make that happen. | 0:26:53 | 0:26:57 | |
Welcome to your Cooks Heaven. | 0:26:57 | 0:26:59 | |
You will find something here that's perfect for any kitchen. | 0:26:59 | 0:27:02 | |
Spoon! | 0:27:02 | 0:27:04 | |
Everybody just stop! | 0:27:04 | 0:27:06 |