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Ugh! | 0:00:34 | 0:00:35 | |
HE SNIFFS | 0:00:35 | 0:00:37 | |
Ugh... Hah! | 0:00:39 | 0:00:40 | |
A grown man crying. HE CHUCKLES | 0:00:43 | 0:00:45 | |
DOOR SLAMS | 0:00:45 | 0:00:47 | |
Alec? | 0:00:47 | 0:00:48 | |
DOOR SLAMS UPSTAIRS | 0:00:50 | 0:00:51 | |
MUSIC PLAYS ON RADIO | 0:00:51 | 0:00:53 | |
# Don't believe me, just watch | 0:00:57 | 0:00:59 | |
# Don't believe me, just watch. # | 0:01:06 | 0:01:09 | |
# Cos the players gonna play play, play, play, play | 0:01:09 | 0:01:11 | |
# And the haters gonna hate hate, hate, hate, hate... # | 0:01:11 | 0:01:14 | |
THEY CHUCKLE | 0:01:14 | 0:01:15 | |
# Baby, I'm just gonna shake shake, shake, shake, shake | 0:01:15 | 0:01:18 | |
# Shake it off, I shake it off | 0:01:18 | 0:01:20 | |
# Heart-breakers gonna break break, break, break, break | 0:01:20 | 0:01:23 | |
# And fakers gonna fake fake, fake, fake, fake | 0:01:23 | 0:01:25 | |
# Baby, I'm just gonna shake shake, shake... # | 0:01:25 | 0:01:28 | |
THEY LAUGH | 0:01:28 | 0:01:29 | |
# Shake it off, I shake it off | 0:01:29 | 0:01:32 | |
# I never miss a beat... # | 0:01:32 | 0:01:34 | |
Oh, dear! | 0:01:34 | 0:01:35 | |
# I'm lightning on my feet | 0:01:35 | 0:01:37 | |
# And that's what they don't see mm-hm | 0:01:38 | 0:01:41 | |
# That's what they don't see mm-hm | 0:01:41 | 0:01:44 | |
-# I'm dancing on my own -Dancing on my own | 0:01:44 | 0:01:46 | |
# Making moves up as I go... # | 0:01:46 | 0:01:48 | |
LOUD MUSIC PLAYS | 0:01:48 | 0:01:50 | |
Alec? | 0:01:52 | 0:01:55 | |
Go away! | 0:01:55 | 0:01:56 | |
What's wrong, what's happened? | 0:01:56 | 0:01:57 | |
What? | 0:01:57 | 0:01:59 | |
Turn that thing down! | 0:01:59 | 0:02:01 | |
HE SWITCHES MUSIC OFF | 0:02:01 | 0:02:03 | |
You didn't come home last night - where were you? | 0:02:03 | 0:02:05 | |
None of your business. | 0:02:05 | 0:02:07 | |
Hey, I'm responsible! | 0:02:07 | 0:02:09 | |
All I ask is that you let me know if you're staying at a friend's, | 0:02:09 | 0:02:11 | |
-or you're going out late. -Is that it? -Dinner's nearly ready. | 0:02:11 | 0:02:14 | |
I don't want it yet. | 0:02:14 | 0:02:16 | |
-We told Jane we'd be at her meeting, remember? -Oh, I'm not going! | 0:02:16 | 0:02:20 | |
You know I hate letting people down. | 0:02:20 | 0:02:22 | |
What about me? | 0:02:22 | 0:02:24 | |
Hey, when have I ever let you down? | 0:02:24 | 0:02:26 | |
Get out of my way. | 0:02:26 | 0:02:28 | |
What's got into you? | 0:02:28 | 0:02:29 | |
-Move! -Not until you tell me... | 0:02:29 | 0:02:31 | |
Argh! | 0:02:31 | 0:02:32 | |
Don't you walk away from me! | 0:02:35 | 0:02:36 | |
Fine then, I'm calling the police! | 0:02:39 | 0:02:42 | |
FRONT DOOR SLAMS | 0:02:42 | 0:02:43 | |
Hmm, smells amazing. | 0:02:45 | 0:02:48 | |
Yeah, almost good enough to eat. | 0:02:48 | 0:02:49 | |
Dig in. | 0:02:49 | 0:02:51 | |
You didn't have to do this, you know. We could have got a takeaway. | 0:02:51 | 0:02:53 | |
It's our first night in together, I wanted it to be special. | 0:02:53 | 0:02:56 | |
Er, are you two going to...? | 0:02:56 | 0:02:58 | |
Because I'm not planning on playing gooseberry around here. | 0:02:58 | 0:03:01 | |
Ignore her. | 0:03:01 | 0:03:02 | |
Mm, it's, um...sweet. | 0:03:02 | 0:03:06 | |
Special Vere family chilli. It's tasty, but mild. | 0:03:06 | 0:03:08 | |
Right. | 0:03:08 | 0:03:10 | |
I'm not a big fan of spicy food, so... | 0:03:10 | 0:03:12 | |
Really? | 0:03:12 | 0:03:13 | |
SHE COUGHS | 0:03:13 | 0:03:15 | |
-Is...Is it OK? -Yeah, er, yeah. -It's delicious. | 0:03:15 | 0:03:18 | |
My mouth's burning up! | 0:03:21 | 0:03:23 | |
You could have warned me! | 0:03:23 | 0:03:25 | |
Well, we didn't want to be rude! | 0:03:25 | 0:03:27 | |
Rude?! I'm literally dying here. | 0:03:27 | 0:03:30 | |
It is a bit hot. | 0:03:30 | 0:03:32 | |
Drink. I need a drink! | 0:03:32 | 0:03:34 | |
Ugh. | 0:03:34 | 0:03:35 | |
Oh, dear... | 0:03:35 | 0:03:37 | |
Ooh, it's like a million needles sticking in my tongue. | 0:03:37 | 0:03:40 | |
EMMA LAUGHS | 0:03:40 | 0:03:41 | |
I don't know how this happened! I mean, I'm normally so careful. | 0:03:51 | 0:03:54 | |
Honestly, last time I had Mexican, I was in the bathroom for days, | 0:03:54 | 0:03:57 | |
-I couldn't get off the toilet. -Mmm. Great housemate(!) | 0:03:57 | 0:04:00 | |
I've lost my appetite suddenly. | 0:04:01 | 0:04:03 | |
I had vomit on my shoes before 8:30, | 0:04:06 | 0:04:08 | |
and I've dodged a punch by lunch. | 0:04:08 | 0:04:10 | |
Hold up everyone, we've got a poet in the nick. Try not to panic. | 0:04:10 | 0:04:13 | |
You won't be laughing when Jack Caister's solicitor turns up. | 0:04:13 | 0:04:15 | |
Ah, he's a bit of a hunk from what I remember. | 0:04:15 | 0:04:17 | |
Well, I'll leave him in your capable hands, | 0:04:17 | 0:04:19 | |
while I have a night in front of the telly. | 0:04:19 | 0:04:21 | |
That as far as your imagination stretches, "Poet Hollins"? | 0:04:21 | 0:04:23 | |
No, cold beer and Belgian choccies. | 0:04:23 | 0:04:25 | |
Hmm, you're getting closer. Jimmi? | 0:04:25 | 0:04:27 | |
Um... I'd take the beer. | 0:04:27 | 0:04:29 | |
Spoken like a true medical professional. | 0:04:29 | 0:04:31 | |
Seriously though, old man, | 0:04:31 | 0:04:32 | |
you're practically at the pipe and slippers stage. | 0:04:32 | 0:04:35 | |
You're just jealous because you've got a whole night shift | 0:04:35 | 0:04:37 | |
stretching in front of you. PHONE RINGS | 0:04:37 | 0:04:39 | |
Hi, love. No, I'm on my way now. | 0:04:39 | 0:04:41 | |
Tonight? | 0:04:42 | 0:04:44 | |
No - no, I hadn't forgotten. | 0:04:44 | 0:04:46 | |
Does it have to be tonight? Can't it be some other time? | 0:04:46 | 0:04:49 | |
I've had a pig of a day. | 0:04:49 | 0:04:51 | |
No, no, that's fine, that's fine. See you, bye. | 0:04:51 | 0:04:54 | |
-Cosy night off the cards then, is it? -Don't! Ta-ra. | 0:04:54 | 0:04:58 | |
This our suspected assault? | 0:04:58 | 0:05:00 | |
How old are you, sunshine? | 0:05:00 | 0:05:02 | |
17. | 0:05:02 | 0:05:03 | |
OK, book him in. | 0:05:03 | 0:05:05 | |
-OK. Full name, please? -Alec Casey. | 0:05:05 | 0:05:07 | |
MOBILE PHONE RINGS | 0:05:07 | 0:05:10 | |
Um, eyes this way, please. | 0:05:10 | 0:05:12 | |
Um, I should probably take a look at that. | 0:05:16 | 0:05:18 | |
Right, tin of tomatoes going in, OK? | 0:05:24 | 0:05:26 | |
Agreed. | 0:05:26 | 0:05:28 | |
Needs a good stir. | 0:05:28 | 0:05:29 | |
Come on, are you a man or a muppet? Give it here. | 0:05:31 | 0:05:34 | |
-Well? -Mm-mm. | 0:05:40 | 0:05:43 | |
OK, maybe some lemon or some lime? Maybe sugar's better. | 0:05:43 | 0:05:46 | |
Just do it, whatever! | 0:05:46 | 0:05:48 | |
Oh, Sid, a few drops of lemon juice isn't going to do anything, is it? | 0:05:48 | 0:05:51 | |
Well... Oh...! | 0:05:51 | 0:05:52 | |
SHE GASPS | 0:06:04 | 0:06:05 | |
No, still hotter than Zac Efron in the buff. | 0:06:05 | 0:06:08 | |
-LAUGHING: -Zac Efron?! -Too right. | 0:06:08 | 0:06:10 | |
Look, I've got some leftovers in the fridge. | 0:06:10 | 0:06:12 | |
Why don't I make us something nice? | 0:06:12 | 0:06:13 | |
No, it's my mess, I'll sort it out. | 0:06:13 | 0:06:15 | |
It's fine, really. | 0:06:15 | 0:06:16 | |
Looks nasty. | 0:06:21 | 0:06:23 | |
Yeah. Hit a wall. | 0:06:23 | 0:06:25 | |
Tough night? | 0:06:27 | 0:06:28 | |
Hellish. | 0:06:29 | 0:06:31 | |
Chicken nuggets? | 0:06:32 | 0:06:33 | |
Goujons. | 0:06:33 | 0:06:34 | |
Whatever. Why? | 0:06:34 | 0:06:37 | |
Because you both like them. | 0:06:37 | 0:06:38 | |
You said this stuff clogs up your arteries | 0:06:38 | 0:06:40 | |
and gives you heart attacks. | 0:06:40 | 0:06:42 | |
Yeah - in excessive amounts. | 0:06:42 | 0:06:43 | |
And then you went on about diabetes. | 0:06:43 | 0:06:46 | |
Look, as an occasional treat, they're fine. | 0:06:46 | 0:06:48 | |
Mum, what do you want? | 0:06:49 | 0:06:52 | |
Wha...? Is it a crime just to have a nice meal | 0:06:52 | 0:06:55 | |
and spend the evening together? | 0:06:55 | 0:06:56 | |
I'm going to ask you some questions | 0:07:00 | 0:07:02 | |
and the answers you give will form your witness statement, OK? | 0:07:02 | 0:07:06 | |
Shall we start? | 0:07:06 | 0:07:07 | |
Can you tell me what led up to the assault? | 0:07:09 | 0:07:12 | |
Just a stupid argument. | 0:07:12 | 0:07:15 | |
About what? | 0:07:15 | 0:07:16 | |
Nothing in particular. | 0:07:18 | 0:07:20 | |
Right. | 0:07:20 | 0:07:21 | |
He seemed... He seemed upset. | 0:07:23 | 0:07:25 | |
Tell me more. | 0:07:25 | 0:07:27 | |
Had something happened? | 0:07:30 | 0:07:31 | |
No. Well... | 0:07:31 | 0:07:33 | |
I don't know. | 0:07:33 | 0:07:35 | |
But you must have some idea? | 0:07:35 | 0:07:36 | |
You're his foster carer. You have a duty of care. | 0:07:36 | 0:07:38 | |
He's 17. You get grunts at that age, yeah? Not conversation. | 0:07:38 | 0:07:43 | |
Well, something must have provoked the attack. | 0:07:43 | 0:07:45 | |
You've been Alec's foster carer for how long now? | 0:07:48 | 0:07:51 | |
Three months. | 0:07:53 | 0:07:55 | |
And how would you describe your relationship? | 0:07:55 | 0:07:58 | |
Few ups and down, but he's OK. | 0:07:58 | 0:08:01 | |
He's a good kid! | 0:08:01 | 0:08:03 | |
A kid who punched you? | 0:08:03 | 0:08:05 | |
So, how's school? | 0:08:09 | 0:08:12 | |
It's fine. | 0:08:12 | 0:08:13 | |
Did you finish your science homework? | 0:08:13 | 0:08:15 | |
-I'll do it tonight. -Right. | 0:08:15 | 0:08:16 | |
-Er, revision? -Same as yesterday. -Right. | 0:08:16 | 0:08:20 | |
You know, me and Heston, we've been getting on really well recently. | 0:08:21 | 0:08:24 | |
-Really? -What, you don't think so? | 0:08:24 | 0:08:26 | |
I don't know, Mum, it's your thing. | 0:08:26 | 0:08:29 | |
You know I've always believed | 0:08:29 | 0:08:31 | |
in being really open and honest with you guys... | 0:08:31 | 0:08:33 | |
-Can we have ice cream for pudding? -Yeah. -Great. | 0:08:33 | 0:08:35 | |
For the benefit of the tape, | 0:08:42 | 0:08:44 | |
in the absence of Alec's regular social worker, Jane Fairweather, | 0:08:44 | 0:08:47 | |
I'm here with James Becker, the on-call social worker. | 0:08:47 | 0:08:50 | |
OK. | 0:08:52 | 0:08:53 | |
Can you tell me what happened tonight, Alec? | 0:08:53 | 0:08:56 | |
No comment. | 0:08:57 | 0:08:59 | |
Your foster carer Mick said you seemed upset? | 0:08:59 | 0:09:02 | |
Not really. | 0:09:02 | 0:09:04 | |
Well, you don't just punch someone for no reason. | 0:09:04 | 0:09:06 | |
If something caused you to lash out... | 0:09:06 | 0:09:09 | |
Look, I can't help if you won't speak to me. | 0:09:10 | 0:09:12 | |
I don't want your help. | 0:09:12 | 0:09:14 | |
Alec, you look in pain, are you injured? | 0:09:15 | 0:09:18 | |
It's nothing. | 0:09:18 | 0:09:20 | |
For the tape, I'm stopping the interview | 0:09:20 | 0:09:22 | |
so that Alec can see the FME. | 0:09:22 | 0:09:23 | |
Leave it, will you?! | 0:09:23 | 0:09:25 | |
I need to ensure you're fit to carry on. | 0:09:25 | 0:09:27 | |
This is going to be a complete waste of time. | 0:09:37 | 0:09:39 | |
-We're not even going to be in the running. -Why? | 0:09:39 | 0:09:41 | |
Who are you trying to kid? Have a look. | 0:09:41 | 0:09:43 | |
We're too old, for one. | 0:09:43 | 0:09:44 | |
Hello! Hi. I'm Karen and this is Rob, my husband, a little bit shy. | 0:09:46 | 0:09:52 | |
Sorry! Sorry, we're a bit late. Hi! | 0:09:53 | 0:09:56 | |
Hello, I'm Jane Fairweather and this is my colleague, Joanne. | 0:09:56 | 0:09:59 | |
Hi, Jane. | 0:09:59 | 0:10:01 | |
Right, so the purpose of this evening | 0:10:01 | 0:10:03 | |
is to see whether you want to pursue foster caring - | 0:10:03 | 0:10:06 | |
and to help you decide, | 0:10:06 | 0:10:07 | |
I've invited along one of my most experienced carers | 0:10:07 | 0:10:09 | |
-and his foster child to speak to us. -Oh, great. | 0:10:09 | 0:10:12 | |
Good, yeah. Hopefully you've had a chance to meet | 0:10:12 | 0:10:15 | |
and say hello to each other, make friends? Yes? | 0:10:15 | 0:10:18 | |
OK, shall we go on through, then? | 0:10:18 | 0:10:20 | |
Oh, sorry! Bit eager. | 0:10:20 | 0:10:23 | |
Would you just lift your shirt for me? | 0:10:30 | 0:10:32 | |
What if I say no? | 0:10:32 | 0:10:33 | |
Look, you're obviously in some pain, so just let me do my job. Please. | 0:10:35 | 0:10:39 | |
What do you need those for? | 0:10:39 | 0:10:40 | |
Hmm. That looks sore. | 0:10:46 | 0:10:47 | |
It looks pretty recent. How did you get this? | 0:10:49 | 0:10:51 | |
ALEC INHALES SHARPLY | 0:10:51 | 0:10:53 | |
Look, if there's anything that you want to tell me in confidence...? | 0:10:55 | 0:10:58 | |
You done? | 0:10:58 | 0:11:00 | |
Yep. | 0:11:00 | 0:11:01 | |
So, what I'm trying to say is, my relationship with Heston | 0:11:11 | 0:11:14 | |
has progressed and we're ready to move to the next stage. | 0:11:14 | 0:11:17 | |
La, la, la, la... | 0:11:17 | 0:11:19 | |
-Alia, I'm trying to talk to you. -..la, la, la, la, | 0:11:19 | 0:11:21 | |
la, la, la, la, la... | 0:11:21 | 0:11:22 | |
Look, are we moving in with Heston, or not? | 0:11:22 | 0:11:25 | |
Well, we've discussed it. | 0:11:25 | 0:11:27 | |
We're not going to make any sort of decision without | 0:11:27 | 0:11:29 | |
talking to you first, you know, see how you... | 0:11:29 | 0:11:31 | |
Mum, it's fine. | 0:11:31 | 0:11:34 | |
Really? | 0:11:34 | 0:11:36 | |
We saw this coming a mile off. | 0:11:36 | 0:11:37 | |
We had a chat about him. Heston's nice - | 0:11:39 | 0:11:42 | |
and he can help me with my science coursework. | 0:11:42 | 0:11:45 | |
Shak? | 0:11:46 | 0:11:47 | |
Anything so you can cut us some slack. | 0:11:47 | 0:11:50 | |
What is that supposed to mean? | 0:11:50 | 0:11:51 | |
Come on, Mum. | 0:11:51 | 0:11:53 | |
You've been way more chilled out since you've been with him. | 0:11:53 | 0:11:55 | |
Are you saying that I was uptight? | 0:11:55 | 0:11:57 | |
Heston's loaded. His house is well nice. | 0:11:59 | 0:12:02 | |
Yeah, this place is OK. | 0:12:02 | 0:12:04 | |
My bedroom's tiny! | 0:12:04 | 0:12:06 | |
And the walk to school will be much quicker. | 0:12:06 | 0:12:08 | |
You two have really thought about this, haven't you? | 0:12:10 | 0:12:13 | |
It'd be easy to have friends round. | 0:12:13 | 0:12:14 | |
Plus, he's got this super hub. His Wi-Fi's loads better. | 0:12:14 | 0:12:18 | |
And you really like him. | 0:12:20 | 0:12:21 | |
How recent? | 0:12:29 | 0:12:30 | |
Mmm...I couldn't really say with any degree of confidence. | 0:12:30 | 0:12:33 | |
You know, Mick's knuckles were bleeding before. | 0:12:33 | 0:12:35 | |
Yeah, he told me he hit a wall. | 0:12:35 | 0:12:36 | |
And you believe him? | 0:12:36 | 0:12:38 | |
Come on, Jimmi. We've got a foster carer who calls the police | 0:12:38 | 0:12:40 | |
and then can't explain what happened. | 0:12:40 | 0:12:42 | |
There could be any number of reasons. | 0:12:42 | 0:12:44 | |
A kid who supposedly lashes out without provocation? | 0:12:44 | 0:12:48 | |
Let's not jump to conclusions. | 0:12:48 | 0:12:49 | |
Next you're going to be telling me that Mick "doesn't seem the type"! | 0:12:49 | 0:12:53 | |
OK, why don't we start by going round the group | 0:12:54 | 0:12:58 | |
and introducing ourselves. | 0:12:58 | 0:13:00 | |
Maybe you could say a little bit | 0:13:00 | 0:13:01 | |
about why you're interested in fostering. | 0:13:01 | 0:13:04 | |
Come on, someone must be brave enough to take the plunge. | 0:13:08 | 0:13:10 | |
Great. Thank you. | 0:13:12 | 0:13:14 | |
Hi, I'm Karen, as I said before. | 0:13:14 | 0:13:17 | |
Rob and I have got two grown-up children. | 0:13:17 | 0:13:20 | |
Rob's a wonderful husband. | 0:13:20 | 0:13:22 | |
That's the first I've heard of it! | 0:13:22 | 0:13:23 | |
And I hope that if you ask the kids, | 0:13:23 | 0:13:26 | |
they would say we've done a pretty good job. | 0:13:26 | 0:13:29 | |
Probably not when they were teenagers! | 0:13:29 | 0:13:31 | |
So, I'm a medical receptionist | 0:13:31 | 0:13:33 | |
and I come into contact with a lot of people | 0:13:33 | 0:13:36 | |
-and I hope that I make a difference. -I'm sure you do. | 0:13:36 | 0:13:39 | |
Well, obviously not like the doctors and nurses | 0:13:39 | 0:13:43 | |
cos they do an incredible job - | 0:13:43 | 0:13:45 | |
but it got me thinking, "There are so many needy kids out there | 0:13:45 | 0:13:49 | |
"and if Rob and I could help just one of them..." | 0:13:49 | 0:13:52 | |
What happened in the house Alec? | 0:13:56 | 0:13:58 | |
No comment. | 0:13:58 | 0:13:59 | |
Do you know how Mick hurt his hand? | 0:13:59 | 0:14:01 | |
-No comment. -Tell me how you got the bruise? | 0:14:01 | 0:14:03 | |
No comment. | 0:14:03 | 0:14:05 | |
You realise that even if you refuse to talk to us, | 0:14:06 | 0:14:09 | |
social services will carry out their own extensive investigation. | 0:14:09 | 0:14:12 | |
-What?! -To determine if Mick is able to continue as a foster carer. | 0:14:12 | 0:14:15 | |
How do you mean? What about me? | 0:14:15 | 0:14:16 | |
Well, we'll liaise with Jane Fairweather | 0:14:16 | 0:14:18 | |
-and sort out a respite carer for you. -No! | 0:14:18 | 0:14:20 | |
Look, I realise this is upsetting. | 0:14:20 | 0:14:22 | |
You don't understand! | 0:14:22 | 0:14:23 | |
Sit down. | 0:14:23 | 0:14:25 | |
Leave me alone! | 0:14:25 | 0:14:26 | |
CHAIR LEGS SCRAPE | 0:14:26 | 0:14:28 | |
OK, nice deep breaths, OK? Just breathe in slowly for me. | 0:14:30 | 0:14:34 | |
Out. In again, slowly. | 0:14:34 | 0:14:37 | |
Out. | 0:14:37 | 0:14:38 | |
Is it getting better? | 0:14:39 | 0:14:41 | |
Wouldn't it help, if you told them what happened? | 0:14:43 | 0:14:46 | |
Help? Who's it going to help? | 0:14:46 | 0:14:48 | |
Look, I understand you've got some loyalty towards Mick. | 0:14:50 | 0:14:53 | |
He never laid a finger on me. | 0:14:53 | 0:14:56 | |
-Right. -Listen to me, it wasn't Mick. He didn't hit me. | 0:14:56 | 0:14:59 | |
OK, so who did? | 0:15:01 | 0:15:02 | |
Someone else. | 0:15:04 | 0:15:05 | |
Well, then you should tell the police. | 0:15:07 | 0:15:09 | |
If you still want to go ahead after tonight, | 0:15:14 | 0:15:16 | |
the next stage is a home visit, | 0:15:16 | 0:15:19 | |
where we carry out something called a Fostering Initial Interview. | 0:15:19 | 0:15:22 | |
It lasts a couple of hours, | 0:15:22 | 0:15:24 | |
and it's really just a chance for us to learn a bit more about you | 0:15:24 | 0:15:27 | |
as a potential carer. | 0:15:27 | 0:15:29 | |
Of course, that's just the beginning of the process. | 0:15:29 | 0:15:31 | |
The beginning? | 0:15:31 | 0:15:33 | |
Yeah, we'll also be looking into key relationships in your life - | 0:15:33 | 0:15:37 | |
so, how you were parented, | 0:15:37 | 0:15:38 | |
we'll speak to your children if you have them, | 0:15:38 | 0:15:41 | |
and we'll also talk to any significant ex-partners. | 0:15:41 | 0:15:45 | |
Wow, warts and all. | 0:15:45 | 0:15:47 | |
SHE LAUGHS Exactly. | 0:15:47 | 0:15:49 | |
We'll look at your employment records and finances, | 0:15:49 | 0:15:52 | |
and then there's the medical. | 0:15:52 | 0:15:54 | |
Initially, you'll just go and see your GP, | 0:15:54 | 0:15:56 | |
they'll look over your medical records | 0:15:56 | 0:15:58 | |
and see if there's anything | 0:15:58 | 0:15:59 | |
that they think needs to be further looked into | 0:15:59 | 0:16:02 | |
or needs input from other medical professionals. | 0:16:02 | 0:16:04 | |
It is a big process, you know, it's pretty in-depth | 0:16:05 | 0:16:09 | |
but if you're completely honest with us, you'll be absolutely fine. | 0:16:09 | 0:16:12 | |
OK, why don't we take a short break | 0:16:15 | 0:16:17 | |
and I'll go and see if I can find out | 0:16:17 | 0:16:18 | |
why our speakers have been delayed? | 0:16:18 | 0:16:20 | |
You should go home. There's nothing you can do tonight. | 0:16:34 | 0:16:37 | |
-And Alec? -Well, we've spoken to him and he's confirmed that the bruises | 0:16:37 | 0:16:40 | |
were nothing to do with the incident. | 0:16:40 | 0:16:42 | |
Did he say who did it? | 0:16:42 | 0:16:43 | |
Not yet, but social services will look into it further. | 0:16:43 | 0:16:46 | |
So...he's not coming home? | 0:16:46 | 0:16:49 | |
They'll be in touch, let you know what's happening. | 0:16:49 | 0:16:51 | |
MOBILE PHONE RINGS | 0:16:53 | 0:16:55 | |
Jane, hi. | 0:16:58 | 0:16:59 | |
I'm sorry, we're not going to be able to make the meeting tonight. | 0:17:01 | 0:17:04 | |
No, I... | 0:17:04 | 0:17:06 | |
I-I can't explain now. | 0:17:06 | 0:17:08 | |
I'm really, really sorry. | 0:17:09 | 0:17:11 | |
Alec! | 0:17:15 | 0:17:16 | |
You OK? | 0:17:20 | 0:17:21 | |
It's such a mess. | 0:17:21 | 0:17:23 | |
We were supposed to be giving this talk tonight, | 0:17:23 | 0:17:25 | |
to people who wanted to become foster carers. | 0:17:25 | 0:17:28 | |
It's almost funny, when you think about it. | 0:17:28 | 0:17:30 | |
Well, they must respect you a lot to ask you to talk. | 0:17:30 | 0:17:33 | |
How long have you been doing it? | 0:17:33 | 0:17:35 | |
Nigh on ten years. | 0:17:35 | 0:17:37 | |
I think you should go. | 0:17:38 | 0:17:39 | |
No. No, not after tonight. | 0:17:39 | 0:17:42 | |
Where's the meeting? | 0:17:42 | 0:17:44 | |
Town Hall. | 0:17:44 | 0:17:45 | |
But I haven't got my car. I didn't even have time to grab my wallet. | 0:17:45 | 0:17:49 | |
Well, I'm going home, so I could give you a lift there. | 0:17:49 | 0:17:54 | |
Come on. | 0:17:54 | 0:17:55 | |
MOBILE PHONE RINGS | 0:18:02 | 0:18:04 | |
Hello. | 0:18:07 | 0:18:08 | |
Just going to the loo. | 0:18:09 | 0:18:10 | |
Maybe this wasn't such a good idea. | 0:18:12 | 0:18:13 | |
-Well, you're here now. -Jimmi? | 0:18:13 | 0:18:15 | |
I just gave Mick a lift. | 0:18:17 | 0:18:18 | |
He's one of the speakers tonight. | 0:18:18 | 0:18:20 | |
Ah, well, you're just in time, because they were about to wrap up. | 0:18:20 | 0:18:23 | |
It's this way. Come on. | 0:18:23 | 0:18:26 | |
Well, it's been really lovely to meet you all. | 0:18:26 | 0:18:29 | |
Thank you so much for coming. | 0:18:29 | 0:18:30 | |
Mick! I thought you couldn't come? | 0:18:32 | 0:18:34 | |
Long story. | 0:18:34 | 0:18:36 | |
Oh, OK. Well, everyone, this is Mick, | 0:18:36 | 0:18:39 | |
one of my experienced foster carers | 0:18:39 | 0:18:42 | |
and, erm...you are? | 0:18:42 | 0:18:44 | |
Jimmi Clay, just a friend. | 0:18:44 | 0:18:45 | |
OK. Well, Mick, if you're sure you're OK, | 0:18:45 | 0:18:49 | |
do you want to tell the group a bit about why you got into fostering? | 0:18:49 | 0:18:52 | |
I brought my two sons up the last few years on my own after... | 0:18:55 | 0:18:59 | |
after my had wife died. | 0:18:59 | 0:19:01 | |
It was tough. | 0:19:02 | 0:19:04 | |
You'd have thought that I'd had enough | 0:19:04 | 0:19:05 | |
but when they left, the place felt empty. | 0:19:05 | 0:19:08 | |
I'd this...hole in my life. | 0:19:08 | 0:19:11 | |
I started taking in kids, did OK for a while. | 0:19:11 | 0:19:15 | |
Thought I was sending them out into the world a bit more secure, | 0:19:15 | 0:19:18 | |
you know, better people. | 0:19:18 | 0:19:20 | |
But tonight I let someone down. | 0:19:20 | 0:19:21 | |
I failed him, the lad in my care. | 0:19:21 | 0:19:24 | |
I'm a grown man - I should have been able to deal with it | 0:19:24 | 0:19:27 | |
but instead I called the police. | 0:19:27 | 0:19:29 | |
Mick... | 0:19:29 | 0:19:31 | |
The boy's been through a really tough time. | 0:19:31 | 0:19:34 | |
You know, it's no wonder he gets it wrong sometimes, | 0:19:34 | 0:19:36 | |
lashes out at the wrong person. | 0:19:36 | 0:19:38 | |
But do you know what? He's a good kid. | 0:19:38 | 0:19:41 | |
He needed my help. | 0:19:41 | 0:19:42 | |
It's not your fault I hit you. | 0:19:43 | 0:19:46 | |
-Alec? -I couldn't say before. | 0:19:46 | 0:19:49 | |
Last night I went to see Dad. | 0:19:50 | 0:19:51 | |
I tried talking to him but he was out of it, like he always is. | 0:19:53 | 0:19:57 | |
Barely even recognised us. | 0:19:57 | 0:19:58 | |
You should have told me. | 0:19:58 | 0:20:00 | |
I said I wasn't there for anything, | 0:20:00 | 0:20:03 | |
didn't want money, nothing like that. | 0:20:03 | 0:20:05 | |
But he wasn't getting it. | 0:20:05 | 0:20:07 | |
He lost it. | 0:20:07 | 0:20:08 | |
When I got to yours, I just had to lash out at someone. | 0:20:10 | 0:20:14 | |
OK, let's take this somewhere else. Come on, let's go. | 0:20:14 | 0:20:18 | |
Excuse us. | 0:20:18 | 0:20:19 | |
-Thanks for this. -You're welcome. | 0:20:35 | 0:20:37 | |
KETCHUP SPURTS | 0:20:37 | 0:20:38 | |
What? | 0:20:38 | 0:20:39 | |
Nothing. | 0:20:39 | 0:20:40 | |
Right, well - eat, drink and be merry. | 0:20:40 | 0:20:43 | |
-Cheers. -Cheers. | 0:20:43 | 0:20:45 | |
Mmm. How are you settling in? | 0:20:49 | 0:20:51 | |
Yeah, great. No complaints at all. | 0:20:51 | 0:20:54 | |
You don't find it odd, living with two women? | 0:20:54 | 0:20:58 | |
No. Why would I? | 0:20:58 | 0:21:01 | |
Well, I don't know... | 0:21:01 | 0:21:03 | |
It's just, well, there are differences, I suppose. | 0:21:03 | 0:21:06 | |
Yeah, I suppose. | 0:21:06 | 0:21:08 | |
What she's trying to say is, don't leave the toilet seat up. | 0:21:08 | 0:21:13 | |
Oh. Yeah, I'll try and remember. | 0:21:13 | 0:21:16 | |
Actually, while we're on the subject - | 0:21:17 | 0:21:19 | |
all those pants and bras on the radiator... | 0:21:19 | 0:21:21 | |
I mean, it does make me feel just a little bit uncomfortable. | 0:21:21 | 0:21:24 | |
Of course, I'll move them. | 0:21:24 | 0:21:26 | |
Would you mind making some space in the bathroom for me? | 0:21:26 | 0:21:28 | |
Just a little space on the cabinet will be fine. | 0:21:28 | 0:21:31 | |
I have to say, I've never met anyone with as many bottles as you. | 0:21:31 | 0:21:35 | |
Er, pipe down, Little Miss Secret Trump In The Living Room. | 0:21:35 | 0:21:39 | |
I do not! | 0:21:39 | 0:21:40 | |
-Ladies. -She ain't no lady! -Yeah, and neither is she. | 0:21:40 | 0:21:43 | |
THEY LAUGH | 0:21:43 | 0:21:45 | |
Speaking of which, I will miss our girlie pamper sessions. | 0:21:45 | 0:21:49 | |
I'm not stopping you. | 0:21:49 | 0:21:51 | |
Yes, and if Jimmi Clay can don a face pack and a dressing gown. | 0:21:51 | 0:21:54 | |
Exactly. And you seem to have forgotten my killer massages. | 0:21:54 | 0:21:58 | |
-Mmm. I'll look forward to those. -Oh, yes. | 0:21:58 | 0:22:02 | |
I should've handled it. It's not like it was any surprise. | 0:22:04 | 0:22:08 | |
Alec's father is an alcoholic. | 0:22:08 | 0:22:11 | |
That's no excuse. | 0:22:11 | 0:22:13 | |
He pretty much kept it together, then...Mum died. | 0:22:13 | 0:22:16 | |
And he couldn't handle it? | 0:22:16 | 0:22:18 | |
He'd be fine for a while and then he'd start again. | 0:22:18 | 0:22:22 | |
I'd come back from school to find the door bolted. | 0:22:22 | 0:22:25 | |
He wouldn't let us in. | 0:22:25 | 0:22:27 | |
How long would he leave you outside? | 0:22:27 | 0:22:29 | |
All night sometimes. | 0:22:29 | 0:22:32 | |
So why did you go there? | 0:22:32 | 0:22:34 | |
Was it something I did? | 0:22:34 | 0:22:35 | |
I'm going to be 18 soon. I won't have anywhere. | 0:22:38 | 0:22:41 | |
Sorry, why is that? | 0:22:43 | 0:22:45 | |
I thought you can't stay past then. | 0:22:45 | 0:22:48 | |
No, there's potentially money available for foster children | 0:22:48 | 0:22:50 | |
to remain with their carers beyond 18 if they want to. | 0:22:50 | 0:22:54 | |
I thought I'd have nowhere. | 0:22:54 | 0:22:55 | |
Shouldn't someone have told Alec that? | 0:22:55 | 0:22:58 | |
Yes, they should - and it's no excuse, | 0:22:58 | 0:23:00 | |
but there's lots of things we should be doing, | 0:23:00 | 0:23:02 | |
there just isn't the time or the resources. | 0:23:02 | 0:23:04 | |
And the money, it isn't some catch-all, you know? | 0:23:04 | 0:23:07 | |
It depends on Mick and his circumstances. | 0:23:07 | 0:23:09 | |
But you'd take me back? | 0:23:09 | 0:23:11 | |
You know I'd love to. | 0:23:11 | 0:23:12 | |
He's the only person who's ever bothered about me - | 0:23:12 | 0:23:15 | |
where I've been, even stupid stuff like making my tea. | 0:23:15 | 0:23:17 | |
-Even when I've hurt you in the past... -Alec... | 0:23:17 | 0:23:19 | |
They should know what you've had to put up with. | 0:23:19 | 0:23:21 | |
Mick, you're supposed to keep a log, inform us of any incidents. | 0:23:21 | 0:23:24 | |
I think he was just trying to protect him. | 0:23:24 | 0:23:26 | |
Yeah. I knew he was having a hard time. | 0:23:26 | 0:23:29 | |
Please. I want to start again, like we were. | 0:23:30 | 0:23:34 | |
I'm afraid it's not that simple. | 0:23:36 | 0:23:37 | |
There are things you could do though, I mean, you could try. | 0:23:39 | 0:23:42 | |
I can't make any promises. | 0:23:44 | 0:23:46 | |
I just want to come back! | 0:23:46 | 0:23:49 | |
All right, look, I'll make some phone calls, | 0:23:49 | 0:23:51 | |
I'll speak to my head of department and we'll decide what's best. | 0:23:51 | 0:23:55 | |
It's likely you're going to have to go somewhere else temporarily. | 0:23:55 | 0:23:58 | |
It's all gone quiet. | 0:24:01 | 0:24:03 | |
Karen, leave them be. | 0:24:03 | 0:24:04 | |
A big lad like that, hitting his carer. | 0:24:04 | 0:24:06 | |
-We don't know all the circumstances. -No, but... | 0:24:06 | 0:24:09 | |
You look awful. | 0:24:10 | 0:24:11 | |
-Thanks. -What's happened? | 0:24:11 | 0:24:13 | |
Er, it's hopeful. | 0:24:13 | 0:24:15 | |
After what he did? | 0:24:15 | 0:24:18 | |
Karen, that was good news. Come on. | 0:24:18 | 0:24:20 | |
Do you need a lift? | 0:24:26 | 0:24:27 | |
No. Thanks, you've done enough. | 0:24:28 | 0:24:32 | |
Sure you're going to be OK? | 0:24:32 | 0:24:33 | |
I've got to get back and clean up. | 0:24:33 | 0:24:35 | |
I was in the middle of making dinner, chopping onions. | 0:24:35 | 0:24:38 | |
Crying once in a day at my age is OK | 0:24:40 | 0:24:42 | |
but twice - bang out of order. | 0:24:42 | 0:24:46 | |
MUSIC: Turning Tables by Adele | 0:24:46 | 0:24:48 | |
# Turning tables | 0:24:48 | 0:24:52 | |
# Turning tables | 0:24:52 | 0:24:59 | |
# Next time I'll be braver | 0:24:59 | 0:25:02 | |
# I'll be my own saviour | 0:25:02 | 0:25:05 | |
# When the thunder calls for me | 0:25:05 | 0:25:11 | |
# Next time I'll be braver | 0:25:11 | 0:25:15 | |
# I'll be my own saviour | 0:25:15 | 0:25:18 | |
# Standing on my own two feet. # | 0:25:18 | 0:25:22 | |
Well, that certainly highlighted the challenges. | 0:25:24 | 0:25:28 | |
Do you know, I had this image in my head | 0:25:28 | 0:25:31 | |
of little girls like Scarlett and Mia - | 0:25:31 | 0:25:34 | |
not a great big strapping lad like Alec. | 0:25:34 | 0:25:37 | |
They still need help, probably more. | 0:25:37 | 0:25:39 | |
-Damaged kids. -I did tell you that. | 0:25:39 | 0:25:41 | |
Does the idea of living with a violent, soon-to-be-man, | 0:25:43 | 0:25:47 | |
not scare you? | 0:25:47 | 0:25:49 | |
-In some ways. -It should be about making them feel cared for. | 0:25:49 | 0:25:53 | |
-But this lad, I mean... -He's more challenging, yeah. | 0:25:53 | 0:25:56 | |
Go to give him a hug and you end up in hospital! | 0:25:56 | 0:25:58 | |
That's a bit harsh. | 0:25:58 | 0:26:00 | |
Aren't you inspired by the way this has turned out? | 0:26:00 | 0:26:03 | |
I don't think I can go through with this. | 0:26:05 | 0:26:08 | |
And I want to know more. | 0:26:09 | 0:26:11 | |
Good morning, Miss Pitman. | 0:26:23 | 0:26:25 | |
So, how is everything? | 0:26:25 | 0:26:27 | |
No, no, no, this is Rob, he's my husband. | 0:26:27 | 0:26:30 | |
He just wants to have a word with you. | 0:26:30 | 0:26:31 | |
-I've only come about my feet. -I know. | 0:26:31 | 0:26:33 | |
-She won't go into hospital. -Why not? | 0:26:33 | 0:26:35 | |
Because she's absolutely terrified someone's going to take the baby | 0:26:35 | 0:26:38 | |
as soon as it's born. | 0:26:38 | 0:26:39 | |
And how do you know where his boss lives? | 0:26:39 | 0:26:41 | |
Because I saw his camper van. | 0:26:41 | 0:26:43 | |
Tell me you didn't go inside? | 0:26:43 | 0:26:45 |