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Well? | 0:00:42 | 0:00:43 | |
I don't know, Rhee. | 0:00:45 | 0:00:46 | |
-SHE GROANS -Why are men so useless? | 0:00:46 | 0:00:49 | |
I like these. | 0:00:52 | 0:00:53 | |
I'm not going clubbing. I've got to look smart. | 0:00:53 | 0:00:56 | |
What did you bring them out for, then? | 0:00:56 | 0:00:58 | |
Um...try the black shiny ones again. | 0:01:00 | 0:01:03 | |
Hurry up. | 0:01:06 | 0:01:07 | |
All right. | 0:01:07 | 0:01:09 | |
Give me a chance. Hobbit feet. | 0:01:09 | 0:01:11 | |
I have not got Hobbit feet! | 0:01:11 | 0:01:13 | |
Hmm. | 0:01:13 | 0:01:15 | |
-There we go. -Go on, give us a twirl. | 0:01:15 | 0:01:18 | |
-Ta-da! -Great. | 0:01:20 | 0:01:22 | |
-They're going to love you. -They're going to say no. | 0:01:23 | 0:01:26 | |
They're not. | 0:01:26 | 0:01:28 | |
I don't know what I'll do. | 0:01:28 | 0:01:30 | |
They're not. | 0:01:30 | 0:01:31 | |
-Hi. -Hi. | 0:01:46 | 0:01:47 | |
I got here way too early. | 0:01:47 | 0:01:49 | |
You're not the only ones. | 0:01:49 | 0:01:50 | |
-Hiya. -Hiya. -I'm so glad you're both here. | 0:01:50 | 0:01:53 | |
-Yeah, thanks for this. -It's our pleasure. | 0:01:54 | 0:01:56 | |
Honestly, I mean, no-one's ever spoken up for me before. | 0:01:56 | 0:01:59 | |
Listen, it's the least we can do. You both deserve it. | 0:01:59 | 0:02:02 | |
Ooh! | 0:02:02 | 0:02:03 | |
Contractions? | 0:02:03 | 0:02:05 | |
How often? | 0:02:05 | 0:02:06 | |
Just every now and again. | 0:02:06 | 0:02:08 | |
Not as bad as yesterday, though. | 0:02:08 | 0:02:10 | |
Just hope my waters don't go in the middle of all this. | 0:02:12 | 0:02:16 | |
Well, if they do, we'll handle it. | 0:02:16 | 0:02:19 | |
Or rather you'll handle it. | 0:02:19 | 0:02:22 | |
Fingers crossed it'll stay put until it's over. | 0:02:22 | 0:02:25 | |
-Right, come on, let's go in. -Yeah. | 0:02:27 | 0:02:29 | |
Thank you all for coming. | 0:02:36 | 0:02:38 | |
My name is Sue Harper. | 0:02:38 | 0:02:40 | |
I'm a social worker. I'll be the independent chair | 0:02:40 | 0:02:43 | |
of today's child protection case conference | 0:02:43 | 0:02:46 | |
for the unborn child of Rhiannon Davis. | 0:02:46 | 0:02:48 | |
I'll be here to help decide the best course of action. | 0:02:50 | 0:02:53 | |
This is my assistant, Eddy, who will be taking minutes. | 0:02:53 | 0:02:55 | |
-Hi, folks. -Morning. -Before we get things started, | 0:02:55 | 0:02:59 | |
let's go around the room to introduce ourselves. | 0:02:59 | 0:03:01 | |
Just give your name and a brief summation of why you're here today. | 0:03:01 | 0:03:04 | |
My name's Jane Fairweather, I'm the social worker currently | 0:03:04 | 0:03:06 | |
assigned to Rhiannon's case. | 0:03:06 | 0:03:08 | |
I'm Donna Sweeney, social worker. | 0:03:08 | 0:03:11 | |
I was previously assigned to oversee the care of Rhiannon's first child. | 0:03:11 | 0:03:15 | |
Ruhma Hanif. I'm Rhiannon's midwife. | 0:03:15 | 0:03:19 | |
I'm Dr Emma Reid. I'm Rhiannon's GP, | 0:03:19 | 0:03:22 | |
and I'm here to give my professional medical opinion. | 0:03:22 | 0:03:25 | |
I'm Rhiannon, obviously. | 0:03:25 | 0:03:26 | |
And this is Paul, my partner. | 0:03:26 | 0:03:29 | |
-Paul Cuthbert. -Yeah, sorry. | 0:03:29 | 0:03:31 | |
Thank you both for attending. | 0:03:31 | 0:03:33 | |
If at any point, either of you are unclear | 0:03:33 | 0:03:35 | |
about what's being said, | 0:03:35 | 0:03:37 | |
you must feel free to ask questions. | 0:03:37 | 0:03:39 | |
Let me remind you all this is not a formal court of law, but I must | 0:03:41 | 0:03:44 | |
ask that you respect each other's right to speak without interruption. | 0:03:44 | 0:03:48 | |
Everyone that wishes to contribute | 0:03:48 | 0:03:49 | |
will get a chance to do so in due course. | 0:03:49 | 0:03:52 | |
May I ask, will there be an opportunity to counter | 0:03:52 | 0:03:55 | |
any statements? | 0:03:55 | 0:03:56 | |
Should something pertinent to the case arise from what's discussed, | 0:03:56 | 0:03:59 | |
I'll see to it there's a chance to summarize before a decision is made. | 0:03:59 | 0:04:03 | |
Rhiannon, would you like to say a few things first? | 0:04:03 | 0:04:07 | |
You're welcome to say as little or as much as you wish. | 0:04:07 | 0:04:09 | |
Um, I just wanted to say thanks to all of you, | 0:04:09 | 0:04:12 | |
for giving me this chance to prove what this baby means to me. | 0:04:12 | 0:04:16 | |
I know that everyone in this room | 0:04:16 | 0:04:18 | |
wants what's best for this baby, | 0:04:18 | 0:04:19 | |
and, well, so do we. | 0:04:19 | 0:04:21 | |
Oh, and, if you see me fidgeting, it's just a contraction. | 0:04:23 | 0:04:26 | |
I'll try and sit still. | 0:04:26 | 0:04:28 | |
Of course, but if you start to feel uncomfortable, you must tell us. | 0:04:28 | 0:04:33 | |
Dr Emma Reid, perhaps you'd like to start things off? | 0:04:35 | 0:04:38 | |
Yes, thank you. | 0:04:38 | 0:04:40 | |
Um... | 0:04:40 | 0:04:41 | |
I have only recently met Rhiannon, | 0:04:41 | 0:04:44 | |
because she is now a patient of mine, | 0:04:44 | 0:04:48 | |
but it is because of this | 0:04:48 | 0:04:49 | |
that I feel I might be in a position | 0:04:49 | 0:04:51 | |
to give fresh eyes to this situation. | 0:04:51 | 0:04:53 | |
I meet a lot of expectant mothers in my job, and I can honestly say | 0:04:56 | 0:05:02 | |
that Rhiannon's commitment to her unborn child has been exceptional. | 0:05:02 | 0:05:07 | |
Her antenatal care has been outstanding. | 0:05:07 | 0:05:10 | |
She has kept an eye on her diet and taken full responsibility | 0:05:10 | 0:05:14 | |
for herself and for her environment, | 0:05:14 | 0:05:17 | |
even getting Paul to give up smoking | 0:05:17 | 0:05:20 | |
as soon as she found out that she was pregnant. | 0:05:20 | 0:05:23 | |
I am, of course, aware of the facts of the previous case. | 0:05:25 | 0:05:29 | |
Rhiannon has been very frank and open about her past mistakes. | 0:05:29 | 0:05:34 | |
However, she is in a very different place now. | 0:05:36 | 0:05:40 | |
And it is because of that | 0:05:42 | 0:05:44 | |
that I believe keeping this family together | 0:05:44 | 0:05:47 | |
is absolutely in the best interests of this child. | 0:05:47 | 0:05:50 | |
KNOCK ON DOOR | 0:05:50 | 0:05:52 | |
Sorry I'm late. | 0:05:54 | 0:05:55 | |
I've only just managed to get away from an incident. | 0:05:56 | 0:05:59 | |
Not a problem, please come in. | 0:05:59 | 0:06:01 | |
And I know she has been working hard | 0:06:01 | 0:06:04 | |
to make those changes for the long term. | 0:06:04 | 0:06:06 | |
-Are you all right? -In short, Rhiannon has matured... | 0:06:06 | 0:06:09 | |
-Is it the baby? -..into a conscientious... | 0:06:09 | 0:06:11 | |
-No, I'm fine. -..loving young woman... | 0:06:11 | 0:06:12 | |
And I believe that she should have the chance to give those | 0:06:12 | 0:06:15 | |
qualities to her child. | 0:06:15 | 0:06:16 | |
Thank you. | 0:06:18 | 0:06:19 | |
Ruhma Hanif. | 0:06:21 | 0:06:22 | |
Would you like to add to Dr Reid's | 0:06:22 | 0:06:24 | |
assessment of Rhiannon's antenatal care? | 0:06:24 | 0:06:27 | |
As Rhiannon's midwife, I've had the opportunity to engage with her | 0:06:27 | 0:06:31 | |
throughout this pregnancy, | 0:06:31 | 0:06:32 | |
and I concur with Dr Reid's description... | 0:06:32 | 0:06:34 | |
RUHMA'S VOICE FADES | 0:06:34 | 0:06:36 | |
BABY CRIES | 0:06:36 | 0:06:38 | |
Can you foresee any signs of postnatal depression? | 0:06:52 | 0:06:55 | |
I wish it were as simple as that to predict in advance. | 0:06:55 | 0:06:59 | |
In my view, the uncertainty around the fate of this unborn child | 0:06:59 | 0:07:03 | |
is causing tremendous stress. | 0:07:03 | 0:07:05 | |
And how is that strain playing out, in your opinion? | 0:07:05 | 0:07:08 | |
I think she's bearing up well under the circumstances, which bodes well. | 0:07:08 | 0:07:13 | |
She's showing tremendous resilience | 0:07:14 | 0:07:17 | |
and commitment to this baby at this early stage. | 0:07:17 | 0:07:20 | |
Thank you, Ms Hanif. | 0:07:20 | 0:07:23 | |
Sergeant Hollins. Perhaps you'd like to speak next. | 0:07:23 | 0:07:26 | |
Yeah. Um, I was asked to come in today to talk about Rhiannon's past | 0:07:26 | 0:07:29 | |
dealings with the police. | 0:07:29 | 0:07:31 | |
But I would like to say that I wasn't personally involved | 0:07:31 | 0:07:33 | |
when Rhiannon's daughter was taken away from her five years ago. | 0:07:33 | 0:07:36 | |
-But you're aware of the incident in question. -Oh, yes. | 0:07:36 | 0:07:39 | |
The case had a profound effect on many of my colleagues. | 0:07:39 | 0:07:43 | |
But my involvement with Rhiannon in the past was entirely drug-related. | 0:07:43 | 0:07:47 | |
SHOUTING AND BANGING | 0:07:47 | 0:07:49 | |
-Everyone... -Get off! | 0:07:49 | 0:07:51 | |
Stay where you are. You stay there. | 0:07:51 | 0:07:54 | |
-Don't move. -No, you don't. | 0:07:54 | 0:07:57 | |
Get off me! Get out of my way! | 0:07:57 | 0:07:58 | |
-Right, OK. -Get off me! -Have it your way then. | 0:07:58 | 0:08:01 | |
No! | 0:08:01 | 0:08:02 | |
-You'll get hurt. Stop struggling. -You can't keep me here! | 0:08:02 | 0:08:05 | |
I have done nothing! | 0:08:05 | 0:08:08 | |
How did she behave? | 0:08:08 | 0:08:10 | |
I would say that she behaved like I would expect anyone to | 0:08:10 | 0:08:15 | |
under the influence of narcotics. | 0:08:15 | 0:08:18 | |
She was later released with only a caution | 0:08:18 | 0:08:21 | |
because she we couldn't find any more drugs on her actual person. | 0:08:21 | 0:08:25 | |
And if I'm honest, at the time, | 0:08:25 | 0:08:29 | |
I did think that she got off too lightly. | 0:08:29 | 0:08:31 | |
And what's your opinion now? | 0:08:31 | 0:08:33 | |
My opinion now is that it's a good thing she didn't get locked up, | 0:08:33 | 0:08:36 | |
She's managed to clean up her act without going to prison. | 0:08:36 | 0:08:39 | |
For the last four years, we have had no dealings with Rhiannon, | 0:08:39 | 0:08:42 | |
which I think is testament to the commitment she has to staying clean. | 0:08:42 | 0:08:45 | |
And also, I'd like to add that Mr Cuthbert, her partner, | 0:08:45 | 0:08:48 | |
has been police checked, and he has no convictions. | 0:08:48 | 0:08:52 | |
Thank you, Sergeant, Hollins. You've been very helpful. | 0:08:52 | 0:08:55 | |
Ms Fairweather? | 0:08:56 | 0:08:58 | |
Right, well, | 0:08:58 | 0:09:00 | |
I've listened to what everyone has had to say about Rhiannon, | 0:09:00 | 0:09:03 | |
and of course I have formed my own opinion | 0:09:03 | 0:09:05 | |
of her character from my dealings with her. | 0:09:05 | 0:09:08 | |
I think it's commendable that she's done | 0:09:08 | 0:09:11 | |
so much to improve herself and her quality of life. | 0:09:11 | 0:09:14 | |
But unfortunately, this case isn't about Rhiannon. | 0:09:14 | 0:09:17 | |
We're all here today to decide | 0:09:17 | 0:09:19 | |
what's best for her baby once he's born. | 0:09:19 | 0:09:21 | |
And I strongly believe that a mother | 0:09:22 | 0:09:25 | |
who has inflicted a high level of neglect on her baby | 0:09:25 | 0:09:28 | |
cannot be allowed to put another child at risk of serious harm. | 0:09:28 | 0:09:31 | |
BABY CRIES | 0:09:31 | 0:09:35 | |
Statistics show that there's a high probability of recidivism | 0:09:43 | 0:09:46 | |
with child abuse cases, where the second, third, even fourth child | 0:09:46 | 0:09:49 | |
suffer the same fate as the first, | 0:09:49 | 0:09:51 | |
despite legal and social intervention. | 0:09:51 | 0:09:54 | |
This is true of all types of child abuse, but it's important to note | 0:09:54 | 0:09:57 | |
that neglect is the most common recidivism type. | 0:09:57 | 0:10:01 | |
Basically, history is often the best indicator of future behaviour. | 0:10:01 | 0:10:04 | |
-That is blatantly unfair. -Dr Reid... | 0:10:04 | 0:10:06 | |
Are you suggesting there's no such thing as rehabilitation? | 0:10:06 | 0:10:09 | |
Dr Reid. You were given your chance to speak without interruption. | 0:10:09 | 0:10:12 | |
Kindly extend the same courtesy to Ms Fairweather. | 0:10:12 | 0:10:14 | |
I'm sorry. | 0:10:16 | 0:10:18 | |
Please continue. | 0:10:18 | 0:10:19 | |
OK, look, in my job I deal with literally hundreds of cases | 0:10:20 | 0:10:24 | |
just like this one and each and every one is heartbreaking, | 0:10:24 | 0:10:28 | |
for everyone involved. | 0:10:28 | 0:10:29 | |
It's always tragic for a family to have to be broken apart, | 0:10:29 | 0:10:33 | |
and I believe it's our responsibility | 0:10:33 | 0:10:35 | |
to do everything we can to avoid it. | 0:10:35 | 0:10:37 | |
But in the end, the choice boils down to one thing - | 0:10:37 | 0:10:39 | |
the welfare of the child. | 0:10:39 | 0:10:41 | |
It trumps everything else. | 0:10:41 | 0:10:43 | |
And in my professional opinion, | 0:10:43 | 0:10:45 | |
there are grave concerns for the wellbeing of this baby. | 0:10:45 | 0:10:48 | |
Donna Sweeney. | 0:10:49 | 0:10:50 | |
I'd like to hear your assessment, | 0:10:50 | 0:10:52 | |
given your prolonged dealings with Rhiannon in the past. | 0:10:52 | 0:10:55 | |
Thank you. Um... | 0:10:55 | 0:10:56 | |
I was assigned to Rhiannon's case in 2011. My experience... | 0:10:57 | 0:11:01 | |
-I'm sorry! -Oh, here we go. -Are you OK? | 0:11:01 | 0:11:04 | |
Can we take a ten-minute break? | 0:11:04 | 0:11:06 | |
Yeah, course. Let's take a short break. | 0:11:06 | 0:11:08 | |
-Come on. My apologies. -It's OK. | 0:11:08 | 0:11:10 | |
SHE BREATHES HEAVILY | 0:11:14 | 0:11:17 | |
Rhiannon? | 0:11:17 | 0:11:20 | |
-Rhiannon, are you all right? -I'm fine. | 0:11:20 | 0:11:23 | |
You're not in any pain? | 0:11:23 | 0:11:24 | |
Your waters haven't broken, have they? | 0:11:24 | 0:11:26 | |
No, no. | 0:11:26 | 0:11:28 | |
Look, please come out. | 0:11:29 | 0:11:31 | |
It really isn't good for you or the baby to be this upset. | 0:11:31 | 0:11:34 | |
I can't breathe. | 0:11:37 | 0:11:38 | |
Yes, you can. | 0:11:38 | 0:11:41 | |
Look, I know that it's difficult | 0:11:43 | 0:11:45 | |
having to listen to things about your past | 0:11:45 | 0:11:47 | |
that you'd rather forget. | 0:11:47 | 0:11:49 | |
But you've worked so hard, you've made massive changes in your life. | 0:11:49 | 0:11:53 | |
I mean, the results speak for themselves. | 0:11:53 | 0:11:56 | |
Yeah, but what if that doesn't matter? | 0:11:56 | 0:11:58 | |
Of course it matters. You're addiction-free. | 0:11:58 | 0:12:02 | |
You're in a stable, loving relationship. | 0:12:02 | 0:12:04 | |
They're going to have to take notice of those things. | 0:12:04 | 0:12:08 | |
That social worker hates me. | 0:12:08 | 0:12:09 | |
I don't think that's true. | 0:12:10 | 0:12:13 | |
Come on, remember what you said. | 0:12:13 | 0:12:15 | |
Everyone in that room, they just want what's best | 0:12:15 | 0:12:18 | |
for that new life inside you. | 0:12:18 | 0:12:20 | |
You just have to show them you want the same thing. | 0:12:20 | 0:12:24 | |
Yeah, yeah, I can do that. | 0:12:24 | 0:12:26 | |
I'll fight for this baby, no matter what's said about me. | 0:12:28 | 0:12:31 | |
Good. Good. Come on, let's go back in. | 0:12:31 | 0:12:35 | |
Yeah, I just... | 0:12:35 | 0:12:36 | |
I need a pee. | 0:12:36 | 0:12:38 | |
Rhiannon was given chance after chance to retain her child. | 0:12:41 | 0:12:45 | |
She was offered drug rehabilitation placements. She failed to attend. | 0:12:45 | 0:12:50 | |
I tried to give advice and support | 0:12:50 | 0:12:52 | |
so she would clean up her squalid living conditions. | 0:12:52 | 0:12:54 | |
But she wasn't interested. | 0:12:54 | 0:12:56 | |
Eventually she refused to cooperate with me at all. | 0:12:56 | 0:12:59 | |
How so? | 0:12:59 | 0:13:00 | |
She became increasingly hostile towards me in the weeks | 0:13:00 | 0:13:03 | |
and months before her child was taken into care. | 0:13:03 | 0:13:06 | |
Things came to a head when she denied all access for me | 0:13:06 | 0:13:08 | |
to check up on the baby. | 0:13:08 | 0:13:09 | |
BANGING ON DOOR | 0:13:09 | 0:13:11 | |
BABY CRIES INSIDE | 0:13:11 | 0:13:13 | |
Rhiannon. | 0:13:13 | 0:13:15 | |
Rhiannon! | 0:13:16 | 0:13:18 | |
-What do you want? -You know why I'm here. | 0:13:18 | 0:13:20 | |
I'm concerned about your child and I would like to see her. | 0:13:20 | 0:13:22 | |
You're not coming in. | 0:13:22 | 0:13:23 | |
Rhiannon, you're in no fit state to look after her. | 0:13:23 | 0:13:25 | |
What's that supposed to mean? | 0:13:25 | 0:13:27 | |
-You've taken something. I can see it. -No, I haven't! | 0:13:27 | 0:13:29 | |
I'm fed up of you coming round here sticking your nose in. | 0:13:29 | 0:13:32 | |
She's my baby and I'll do what I want. | 0:13:32 | 0:13:34 | |
Rhiannon, please, she's crying. Just let me get to her. | 0:13:34 | 0:13:37 | |
You come here again an' I will swing for you, you skanky cow. | 0:13:37 | 0:13:40 | |
And that was the day I called the police in to investigate. | 0:13:42 | 0:13:46 | |
I was afraid for the child's safety and for good reason. | 0:13:46 | 0:13:49 | |
This baby was highly distressed. | 0:13:49 | 0:13:51 | |
She was undernourished, her nappy clearly hadn't been changed in days. | 0:13:51 | 0:13:56 | |
Rhiannon displayed no remorse or concern for her own baby. | 0:13:56 | 0:14:01 | |
Quite frankly, her only feelings seemed to be for herself. | 0:14:01 | 0:14:04 | |
But I was an addict. That's not who I am any more. | 0:14:04 | 0:14:07 | |
It's not who I am. | 0:14:07 | 0:14:08 | |
Please forgive me for asking, but are those tears for that baby girl? | 0:14:08 | 0:14:11 | |
-Or are you still crying for yourself? -That is unacceptable. | 0:14:11 | 0:14:14 | |
-That was a personal attack. -You're right. Ms Sweeney, look, | 0:14:14 | 0:14:17 | |
I appreciate we are dealing with highly emotive issues here, | 0:14:17 | 0:14:20 | |
-but I must ask you to stick to the facts. -I'm sorry. | 0:14:20 | 0:14:24 | |
But Rhiannon's inability to empathize with the pain | 0:14:24 | 0:14:28 | |
and suffering of her own baby girl, well, it can't go overlooked. | 0:14:28 | 0:14:32 | |
I strongly believe that the risk | 0:14:32 | 0:14:35 | |
to this next child is totally unacceptable. | 0:14:35 | 0:14:39 | |
Thank you, Ms Sweeney. | 0:14:39 | 0:14:41 | |
Perhaps now is a good time to take a short break. | 0:14:41 | 0:14:44 | |
Shall we recommence at 10:30? | 0:14:44 | 0:14:46 | |
-I'm going to go and get some air. -Paul. | 0:14:46 | 0:14:49 | |
I hope you're proud of yourselves. | 0:14:54 | 0:14:56 | |
-Excuse me? -Rhiannon was practically a child | 0:14:56 | 0:14:58 | |
when all of this happened to her. | 0:14:58 | 0:15:00 | |
You're condemning her for her past and yet you're denying her a future. | 0:15:00 | 0:15:04 | |
Emma, that's ridiculous. We're not here to punish Rhiannon. | 0:15:04 | 0:15:07 | |
We've got the baby's best interests at heart. | 0:15:07 | 0:15:09 | |
-And I don't? -Let's keep things civilised, shall we? | 0:15:09 | 0:15:12 | |
Try telling them that! | 0:15:12 | 0:15:15 | |
Emma. Wait. | 0:15:15 | 0:15:16 | |
What's going on? | 0:15:16 | 0:15:18 | |
They are trying to take her child away. | 0:15:18 | 0:15:20 | |
And I'm not allowed to be angry about that? | 0:15:20 | 0:15:23 | |
I understand you care about this girl, so do I. | 0:15:23 | 0:15:25 | |
But aren't you letting this get a bit too close to your heart, | 0:15:25 | 0:15:28 | |
which is not like you. Are you all right? | 0:15:28 | 0:15:30 | |
Don't worry, I just ponced one off someone. | 0:15:41 | 0:15:43 | |
I'd have one too if I could. | 0:15:43 | 0:15:45 | |
Better not give 'em any more ammunition, eh? | 0:15:46 | 0:15:49 | |
We have talked about what I did. | 0:15:52 | 0:15:55 | |
-I've never hidden anything from you. -I know. | 0:15:55 | 0:15:57 | |
It's just difficult listening to all the details and stuff. | 0:15:58 | 0:16:02 | |
I always sort of put that baby out of my mind. | 0:16:04 | 0:16:07 | |
But she's the same as the one you're carrying now. | 0:16:09 | 0:16:11 | |
That's our kid's big sister, Rhee. | 0:16:13 | 0:16:15 | |
Maybe they're right. Maybe I don't deserve a second chance. | 0:16:18 | 0:16:22 | |
I won't blame you if you wanted to walk away. | 0:16:23 | 0:16:26 | |
I'm sorry. Oh, I don't know. | 0:16:34 | 0:16:37 | |
It's just something about this case, it's got under my skin. | 0:16:37 | 0:16:41 | |
Why? | 0:16:41 | 0:16:43 | |
Maybe because I see myself in Rhiannon. | 0:16:43 | 0:16:47 | |
I wasn't exactly a great mother once. | 0:16:47 | 0:16:51 | |
Emma, that was a long time ago. | 0:16:51 | 0:16:53 | |
I know. But if I had had another child... | 0:16:53 | 0:16:57 | |
and if someone had tried to take it away from me | 0:16:57 | 0:17:01 | |
before I'd had the chance... | 0:17:01 | 0:17:02 | |
Whatever your feelings are, for whatever reason, | 0:17:05 | 0:17:08 | |
it's probably best that you keep them out of this. | 0:17:08 | 0:17:11 | |
Otherwise you run the risk of making it worse for Rhiannon. | 0:17:11 | 0:17:14 | |
Yeah. | 0:17:14 | 0:17:16 | |
Yeah, you're right. | 0:17:16 | 0:17:18 | |
Why would you even think I'd leave you? | 0:17:20 | 0:17:23 | |
I know you better than anybody in there, | 0:17:23 | 0:17:25 | |
and I know you're a good person. | 0:17:25 | 0:17:26 | |
-No, I'm not. -Yes, you are. | 0:17:26 | 0:17:29 | |
I see it every day. You make me smile every day. | 0:17:29 | 0:17:33 | |
I love you, Rhiannon. | 0:17:35 | 0:17:37 | |
Just as much as I know you're going to love our little boy. | 0:17:38 | 0:17:42 | |
And even if they take him away from us... | 0:17:42 | 0:17:46 | |
..they'll never be able to take me away from you. | 0:17:48 | 0:17:51 | |
Now blow your nose. | 0:17:53 | 0:17:54 | |
You can't go back in there with snot on your face. | 0:17:54 | 0:17:57 | |
Rhiannon. | 0:18:09 | 0:18:11 | |
I know a lot of stuff has been said about me today. | 0:18:13 | 0:18:16 | |
A lot of stuff that's ugly and sad | 0:18:16 | 0:18:21 | |
and hard to even think about. | 0:18:21 | 0:18:25 | |
But I do think about it. All the time. | 0:18:25 | 0:18:27 | |
I know what I did to my little girl can never be changed. | 0:18:30 | 0:18:35 | |
And I can never tell her how sorry I am for letting her down. | 0:18:37 | 0:18:43 | |
But I did love her. I just... | 0:18:43 | 0:18:47 | |
I couldn't feel it and I couldn't show it. | 0:18:47 | 0:18:50 | |
It's like that love was locked away somewhere, from both of us. | 0:18:52 | 0:18:56 | |
And...all I could think about was my next fix. | 0:18:57 | 0:19:00 | |
I can't tell you much about that time | 0:19:02 | 0:19:04 | |
because it's like I wasn't really there. | 0:19:04 | 0:19:07 | |
And it wasn't until I'd lost my daughter, | 0:19:07 | 0:19:11 | |
until I'd lost everything, | 0:19:11 | 0:19:13 | |
that I realised what I'd become. | 0:19:13 | 0:19:15 | |
And like all of you, I was disgusted. | 0:19:18 | 0:19:21 | |
That is why I fought to come off the drugs, and stay off them. | 0:19:22 | 0:19:26 | |
I learned how to take pride in myself again. | 0:19:26 | 0:19:28 | |
In how I look, where I live. | 0:19:28 | 0:19:31 | |
Who I'm with. | 0:19:32 | 0:19:34 | |
Meeting Paul and having him believe in me | 0:19:34 | 0:19:38 | |
has made all the difference in the world. | 0:19:38 | 0:19:40 | |
I know with him by my side, I can do things right this time. | 0:19:42 | 0:19:45 | |
I'm already a mother to this baby. | 0:19:48 | 0:19:50 | |
I bonded with him the second I saw that little squiggle on the monitor. | 0:19:52 | 0:19:57 | |
SHE SOBS | 0:19:57 | 0:19:59 | |
It's more than I can bear. | 0:20:01 | 0:20:04 | |
Please don't take my baby away from me. | 0:20:04 | 0:20:07 | |
Thank you. | 0:20:09 | 0:20:11 | |
I'm sorry. Can I say something? | 0:20:12 | 0:20:15 | |
Please. | 0:20:15 | 0:20:17 | |
I'm not very good with words | 0:20:17 | 0:20:20 | |
so if I go on a bit, I'm sorry. | 0:20:20 | 0:20:23 | |
But I just want you all to see what I see in Rhiannon. | 0:20:26 | 0:20:29 | |
She's the best thing that's ever happened to me. | 0:20:31 | 0:20:34 | |
Just now she said how much it means to her that I believe in her. | 0:20:36 | 0:20:42 | |
How much it's changed her. | 0:20:43 | 0:20:45 | |
Well, that works both ways. | 0:20:46 | 0:20:48 | |
She makes me believe that I can do anything. | 0:20:50 | 0:20:53 | |
Like be a dad. | 0:20:55 | 0:20:56 | |
I just want you all to remember that this is my kid too. | 0:21:01 | 0:21:03 | |
I want the chance to be a dad, and it's not right that you | 0:21:03 | 0:21:06 | |
should punish me, and my son, for something we had nothing to do with. | 0:21:06 | 0:21:10 | |
Look, I wouldn't be sat here now | 0:21:12 | 0:21:14 | |
if I didn't think Rhiannon could look after our little boy. | 0:21:14 | 0:21:18 | |
I'm here because... | 0:21:19 | 0:21:21 | |
..I know she'll be a natural at it. | 0:21:22 | 0:21:24 | |
Hey. What do you think of these? | 0:21:26 | 0:21:28 | |
Gorgeous. | 0:21:29 | 0:21:31 | |
Are you going to decide sometime today? | 0:21:31 | 0:21:33 | |
What do you think, Froggy? | 0:21:33 | 0:21:35 | |
Should Mummy get the frumpy pink one or the frumpy green one? | 0:21:35 | 0:21:37 | |
Some tempting decisions... | 0:21:37 | 0:21:40 | |
Too late. | 0:21:40 | 0:21:41 | |
BABY CRIES | 0:21:44 | 0:21:46 | |
Hello, little one. Hi. | 0:21:52 | 0:21:54 | |
She's beautiful. | 0:21:54 | 0:21:56 | |
-Hello. -Hello. | 0:21:57 | 0:22:00 | |
I can't promise that things are always going to be perfect. | 0:22:03 | 0:22:09 | |
Nobody can. | 0:22:09 | 0:22:10 | |
But what I can promise is that when times get tough... | 0:22:10 | 0:22:15 | |
..and Rhiannon needs my help, | 0:22:16 | 0:22:19 | |
I'll be there. | 0:22:19 | 0:22:20 | |
Please, all I'm asking is that you give us | 0:22:22 | 0:22:26 | |
the chance to be a proper family. | 0:22:26 | 0:22:28 | |
I'd, um, I'd like to add one more thing, if I may? | 0:22:34 | 0:22:38 | |
Please. | 0:22:38 | 0:22:39 | |
They say that good people do bad things. | 0:22:43 | 0:22:46 | |
And bad people do good things. | 0:22:46 | 0:22:48 | |
The truth is that we all make choices | 0:22:50 | 0:22:54 | |
every moment of our lives, and those choices add up to who we are. | 0:22:54 | 0:22:58 | |
And we are all capable of making better choices as we go along. | 0:23:00 | 0:23:04 | |
I thoroughly dislike this idea | 0:23:07 | 0:23:10 | |
that history is the best indication of future behaviour. | 0:23:10 | 0:23:14 | |
Why? | 0:23:15 | 0:23:17 | |
Because it denies the possibility of change. | 0:23:18 | 0:23:21 | |
Yes, it was Rhiannon's choice to take drugs. | 0:23:24 | 0:23:28 | |
But it was also her choice to stop. | 0:23:29 | 0:23:32 | |
If she has the determination | 0:23:34 | 0:23:37 | |
and the courage to get clean... | 0:23:37 | 0:23:41 | |
..then the possibility for change for her | 0:23:43 | 0:23:46 | |
is vast and we cannot ignore that. | 0:23:46 | 0:23:49 | |
If everyone has said all they wish to say... | 0:23:57 | 0:23:59 | |
..I'd like to adjourn to give us a moment | 0:24:00 | 0:24:03 | |
to decide an appropriate line of action for the child. | 0:24:03 | 0:24:06 | |
Game of charades, anyone? | 0:24:21 | 0:24:23 | |
How long's it been? | 0:24:23 | 0:24:24 | |
Can't be more than 20 minutes. | 0:24:24 | 0:24:26 | |
That's bad, isn't it? I know it is. | 0:24:26 | 0:24:28 | |
No, there's a lot to consider. | 0:24:28 | 0:24:31 | |
Here we go. | 0:24:33 | 0:24:34 | |
Would you all like to come back in? | 0:24:34 | 0:24:36 | |
Right, come on. | 0:24:37 | 0:24:38 | |
I'd just like to thank you all for your heartfelt input. | 0:24:40 | 0:24:43 | |
On a personal note, | 0:24:43 | 0:24:45 | |
this has been an extremely difficult decision for me to make. | 0:24:45 | 0:24:48 | |
But ultimately, I have been impressed by Rhiannon's clear | 0:24:50 | 0:24:53 | |
willingness to correct the mistakes from her past, | 0:24:53 | 0:24:57 | |
and moved by all those who have put their faith in her ability to do so. | 0:24:57 | 0:25:00 | |
I will pass all this testimony on to the family court judge | 0:25:02 | 0:25:05 | |
with a recommendation that they implement a child protection plan | 0:25:05 | 0:25:09 | |
offering support to the parents while they care for the child. | 0:25:09 | 0:25:13 | |
Everyone who agrees, please say so now. | 0:25:15 | 0:25:17 | |
-Agreed. -Agreed. -Agreed. -Agreed! -Definitely, yes. | 0:25:17 | 0:25:21 | |
-I'm sorry but no, I disagree. -Likewise. I strongly disagree. | 0:25:21 | 0:25:25 | |
Ideally I'd like to reach a consensus, but there is a clear | 0:25:25 | 0:25:30 | |
leaning in favour of the plan of action I've put forward. | 0:25:30 | 0:25:33 | |
My recommendation stands. | 0:25:34 | 0:25:36 | |
Thank you so much. | 0:25:39 | 0:25:41 | |
Thank you. I promise I won't let you down. | 0:25:41 | 0:25:43 | |
I still can't believe it. | 0:25:47 | 0:25:50 | |
We couldn't have done it without you. | 0:25:50 | 0:25:53 | |
-All we did was tell the truth. -I reckon a celebration's in order. | 0:25:53 | 0:25:57 | |
I'll have to give that a miss, I'm afraid. | 0:25:57 | 0:25:59 | |
-Alcohol-free of course. -Speak for yourself. | 0:25:59 | 0:26:01 | |
Thanks anyway. | 0:26:01 | 0:26:02 | |
Rhiannon, | 0:26:03 | 0:26:06 | |
I want you to know I have nothing against you personally, | 0:26:06 | 0:26:10 | |
but this was the wrong decision. | 0:26:10 | 0:26:12 | |
-What do you think you're doing? -My job. | 0:26:12 | 0:26:15 | |
Which is why I intend to go to the family court tomorrow | 0:26:15 | 0:26:19 | |
and ask for an order for the baby to be removed. | 0:26:19 | 0:26:21 | |
What? | 0:26:21 | 0:26:23 | |
They can't change their minds, can they? | 0:26:25 | 0:26:27 | |
Um... | 0:26:27 | 0:26:29 | |
They said that we could look after him. Everybody agreed. | 0:26:35 | 0:26:38 | |
So why are these social workers trying to ruin everything? | 0:26:38 | 0:26:41 | |
I don't know. | 0:26:41 | 0:26:42 | |
Are you a nurse? You're spending your wages here? | 0:26:42 | 0:26:46 | |
That's NHS money, public money | 0:26:46 | 0:26:47 | |
and you're giving it to these sadistic torturers. | 0:26:47 | 0:26:50 | |
When you first mentioned fostering, | 0:26:50 | 0:26:52 | |
I thought you'd gone a bit mad but no, your instincts were spot on. | 0:26:52 | 0:26:56 |