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'A long time ago, a couple gave birth to a baby boy | 0:00:37 | 0:00:40 | |
'in a village in the Punjab. | 0:00:40 | 0:00:42 | |
'The boy's mother died during childbirth, | 0:00:42 | 0:00:45 | |
'so he was wet-nursed by another woman, | 0:00:45 | 0:00:47 | |
'who had recently given birth to a daughter.' | 0:00:47 | 0:00:49 | |
BANGING | 0:00:51 | 0:00:54 | |
'The woman treated the boy as if he were her own. | 0:01:02 | 0:01:05 | |
'According to the traditions of the time, from that day forward, | 0:01:05 | 0:01:09 | |
'the children were deemed to be cousins. | 0:01:09 | 0:01:11 | |
'The babies grew up and went on to have children of their own - | 0:01:14 | 0:01:18 | |
'their offspring were named Mirza and Sahiban.' | 0:01:18 | 0:01:21 | |
It's a really nice kameez. | 0:01:41 | 0:01:43 | |
-Thank you. -Nadiya made it. She's very talented, my beautiful wife. | 0:01:43 | 0:01:47 | |
So how did you two meet? | 0:01:47 | 0:01:48 | |
We've known each other since we were children. | 0:01:48 | 0:01:51 | |
Wow, that is something. | 0:01:51 | 0:01:53 | |
Not really, we're cousins. | 0:01:53 | 0:01:56 | |
Right, this might be a little bit cold. | 0:01:56 | 0:02:00 | |
-Ooh. -Sorry. | 0:02:00 | 0:02:02 | |
It's not you, the baby just kicked me. | 0:02:02 | 0:02:04 | |
He's going to be the next Messi, I'm sure of it. | 0:02:04 | 0:02:06 | |
She is joining the Birmingham Royal Ballet. | 0:02:06 | 0:02:08 | |
SHE SPEAKS THEIR LANGUAGE | 0:02:08 | 0:02:10 | |
Just so long as the little one is fit and well. | 0:02:10 | 0:02:13 | |
THEY SPEAK OWN LANGUAGE | 0:02:13 | 0:02:16 | |
See the tiny hand, it's waving at us. Look! | 0:02:18 | 0:02:20 | |
Is that its head? | 0:02:25 | 0:02:28 | |
Oh, my God. | 0:02:28 | 0:02:29 | |
I'm just going to be a moment. | 0:02:33 | 0:02:36 | |
Is everything OK? | 0:02:36 | 0:02:37 | |
I'll be back in a bit. | 0:02:37 | 0:02:38 | |
-Are we doing this? -We are going home. | 0:02:50 | 0:02:54 | |
-I don't want to go home. -No, we've got to go home. | 0:02:54 | 0:02:57 | |
AIR HISSES | 0:03:14 | 0:03:16 | |
It's the baby's heart. | 0:03:20 | 0:03:21 | |
Problem on the scan? | 0:03:21 | 0:03:22 | |
I'd really appreciate a second opinion. | 0:03:22 | 0:03:25 | |
Doctor Hayhill, Consultant Obstetrician. | 0:03:28 | 0:03:30 | |
Mind if I take a look? | 0:03:30 | 0:03:32 | |
What is it? What do you see? | 0:03:40 | 0:03:42 | |
I'll need to show these scans to some colleagues of mine. | 0:03:42 | 0:03:45 | |
What colleagues? | 0:03:45 | 0:03:47 | |
A consultant in foetal medicine, | 0:03:47 | 0:03:48 | |
possibly then a paediatric cardiologist. | 0:03:48 | 0:03:51 | |
We may need to do a more specialist scan. | 0:03:51 | 0:03:54 | |
Is there something wrong with the heart? | 0:03:54 | 0:03:55 | |
Let's take one step at a time. | 0:03:55 | 0:03:57 | |
You must have some idea, or you wouldn't be worried. | 0:03:57 | 0:04:00 | |
There may be an issue with how the heart is developing. | 0:04:00 | 0:04:02 | |
What does that mean? | 0:04:02 | 0:04:04 | |
Let's let Doctor Hayhill speak to the specialist, | 0:04:04 | 0:04:06 | |
and we'll do a more detailed scan. | 0:04:06 | 0:04:08 | |
-And then what? -We'll get you back in, talk through all the options. | 0:04:08 | 0:04:10 | |
-Options? -How best to proceed. | 0:04:10 | 0:04:12 | |
We're having this baby! | 0:04:12 | 0:04:14 | |
Nadiya, I know this is very hard. | 0:04:14 | 0:04:16 | |
-Is it going to die? -Try not to worry, OK. | 0:04:16 | 0:04:18 | |
How could this happen? | 0:04:18 | 0:04:19 | |
Unfortunately, it's not always clear. | 0:04:19 | 0:04:21 | |
There must be some reason. | 0:04:21 | 0:04:24 | |
Could it be hereditary, something in the family? | 0:04:24 | 0:04:27 | |
I need some air. | 0:04:27 | 0:04:28 | |
Hello. | 0:04:38 | 0:04:39 | |
Can I help you? | 0:04:41 | 0:04:43 | |
Hi, Sgt Hollins. We've had a complaint from one of | 0:04:43 | 0:04:46 | |
your neighbours who says that he had his tyres of his car slashed, | 0:04:46 | 0:04:51 | |
outside your shop. | 0:04:51 | 0:04:52 | |
-Really? -Really. I know that you've complained about this car before, | 0:04:52 | 0:04:56 | |
you said that it was disrupting your customers. | 0:04:56 | 0:04:58 | |
Well, yes. Isn't it the police's duty to look after | 0:04:58 | 0:05:01 | |
law-abiding families and their businesses? | 0:05:01 | 0:05:03 | |
It's our job to support everyone, really. | 0:05:03 | 0:05:06 | |
Even those who make as much noise as they like? | 0:05:06 | 0:05:08 | |
The thing is, he says that this is not the first incident. | 0:05:08 | 0:05:11 | |
He said that last week, he had his car keyed, | 0:05:11 | 0:05:14 | |
and the week before that, something to do with his wing mirrors. | 0:05:14 | 0:05:18 | |
Did he report it? | 0:05:18 | 0:05:19 | |
No. | 0:05:19 | 0:05:20 | |
Do you want to tell me what happened this morning? | 0:05:20 | 0:05:23 | |
No, not particularly. | 0:05:23 | 0:05:26 | |
You got any cameras outside the shop? | 0:05:26 | 0:05:28 | |
Unfortunately not. | 0:05:28 | 0:05:29 | |
I'll check with the CCTV on the street. | 0:05:29 | 0:05:32 | |
Are you accusing me of something? | 0:05:32 | 0:05:34 | |
No, I just want to find out what happened. | 0:05:34 | 0:05:36 | |
Was anyone else in the shop at the time? | 0:05:36 | 0:05:38 | |
My nephew and his wife were out. | 0:05:38 | 0:05:41 | |
Just you, then? | 0:05:41 | 0:05:43 | |
Are you going to take the word of this man over mine? | 0:05:43 | 0:05:46 | |
I'll let you know how I get on with my enquiries. | 0:05:46 | 0:05:48 | |
Thanks for your time. | 0:05:48 | 0:05:49 | |
'When it was time for the children to go to school, | 0:05:56 | 0:05:58 | |
'Mirza's parents sent him to live with his uncle. | 0:05:58 | 0:06:01 | |
'He enrolled in the same school as Sahiban. | 0:06:01 | 0:06:04 | |
'At first, Mirza did not notice her. | 0:06:04 | 0:06:07 | |
'But as they grew into adolescence, | 0:06:07 | 0:06:09 | |
'feelings of love began to blossom between them.' | 0:06:09 | 0:06:12 | |
I didn't expect you to take so long. | 0:06:29 | 0:06:31 | |
I need you to start on that order. | 0:06:31 | 0:06:34 | |
What? | 0:06:34 | 0:06:35 | |
It has to be ready by tomorrow, remember? | 0:06:35 | 0:06:37 | |
-Just give her a moment, Auntie. -I'm fine. | 0:06:37 | 0:06:39 | |
Of course she's fine. She just went for a scan. | 0:06:39 | 0:06:43 | |
How did it go, by the way? | 0:06:43 | 0:06:44 | |
What? | 0:06:46 | 0:06:47 | |
What's the big secret? | 0:06:47 | 0:06:49 | |
The silk, what colour? | 0:06:49 | 0:06:51 | |
Red. | 0:06:51 | 0:06:52 | |
It's here, right in front of you. | 0:06:52 | 0:06:56 | |
What's wrong with the girl? | 0:06:56 | 0:06:57 | |
Just leave it, will you? | 0:06:57 | 0:06:59 | |
What happened at the hospital? | 0:07:01 | 0:07:03 | |
The baby - there's something wrong with its heart. | 0:07:03 | 0:07:07 | |
How bad is this thing? Can they fix it? | 0:07:07 | 0:07:09 | |
We don't know yet. | 0:07:09 | 0:07:11 | |
Is there a risk to Nadiya? | 0:07:12 | 0:07:14 | |
I don't think so. | 0:07:14 | 0:07:16 | |
She could get rid of the child. | 0:07:17 | 0:07:19 | |
How could you even think that? | 0:07:21 | 0:07:23 | |
That would be haram. | 0:07:23 | 0:07:24 | |
'Sahiban became a beautiful young woman, | 0:07:30 | 0:07:32 | |
'so beautiful that it was said that when she went shopping, the grocer | 0:07:32 | 0:07:36 | |
'would be distracted and instead of oil, he would pour honey for her. | 0:07:36 | 0:07:40 | |
'Mirza, too, was handsome, a skilled horseman and brilliant marksman. | 0:07:53 | 0:07:59 | |
'As the couple's love began to blossom, | 0:07:59 | 0:08:01 | |
'they were lost in their own world, lost in one another. | 0:08:01 | 0:08:05 | |
'Love was now writ in their destiny. | 0:08:05 | 0:08:09 | |
'Unbeknownst to them, so was great pain.' | 0:08:09 | 0:08:12 | |
How could you let her say those things? | 0:08:12 | 0:08:14 | |
Just ignore her. | 0:08:18 | 0:08:19 | |
She's poison. | 0:08:21 | 0:08:22 | |
It's a lot to take in right now for all of us. | 0:08:22 | 0:08:25 | |
Is that why you asked the doctor if it was in the family? | 0:08:25 | 0:08:28 | |
I was thinking of your dad. | 0:08:28 | 0:08:29 | |
What's he got to do with this? | 0:08:29 | 0:08:31 | |
He died of a heart attack. | 0:08:31 | 0:08:33 | |
It wasn't just his heart. | 0:08:33 | 0:08:35 | |
Besides, you don't know it's the same thing. | 0:08:35 | 0:08:38 | |
You think this is my fault, that I'm the one with some defective gene? | 0:08:39 | 0:08:42 | |
I think it's something we should have discussed. | 0:08:42 | 0:08:45 | |
When? | 0:08:45 | 0:08:47 | |
Before we made a baby? | 0:08:47 | 0:08:48 | |
Maybe even before we got married. | 0:08:48 | 0:08:50 | |
What? | 0:08:51 | 0:08:52 | |
Maybe it would have been better if we'd looked outside the family. | 0:08:55 | 0:09:00 | |
I didn't mean... | 0:09:03 | 0:09:05 | |
Nadiya, where are you going? | 0:09:06 | 0:09:08 | |
Nadiya, what are you doing? | 0:09:09 | 0:09:11 | |
Please, just listen. | 0:09:11 | 0:09:13 | |
Leave me alone! | 0:09:13 | 0:09:14 | |
I was being foolish. I didn't mean what I said. | 0:09:14 | 0:09:17 | |
-I thought you said you loved me. -I do. You have to believe me. | 0:09:17 | 0:09:21 | |
Nadiya! | 0:09:22 | 0:09:24 | |
'Mirza and Sahiban's love affair became the talk of the town. | 0:09:24 | 0:09:28 | |
'When Sahiban's father heard about it, he was furious, forbade it. | 0:09:28 | 0:09:32 | |
'Instead, he found a suitable young man from the same tribe | 0:09:32 | 0:09:35 | |
'to marry her.' | 0:09:35 | 0:09:37 | |
Are you not eating? | 0:09:42 | 0:09:43 | |
No, I'm not hungry right now. | 0:09:43 | 0:09:45 | |
Tough morning? | 0:09:46 | 0:09:47 | |
Yeah, I had a couple in earlier. | 0:09:47 | 0:09:50 | |
Their baby has got a congenital heart condition. | 0:09:50 | 0:09:52 | |
Oh, dear. What's the prognosis? | 0:09:52 | 0:09:55 | |
-Surgery's an option after birth. -Risky. | 0:09:55 | 0:09:58 | |
Yeah. | 0:09:58 | 0:10:00 | |
There was something else. | 0:10:00 | 0:10:01 | |
They told me that they were cousins. | 0:10:03 | 0:10:06 | |
Really? | 0:10:06 | 0:10:07 | |
I think it could have a bearing on what's happened. | 0:10:07 | 0:10:09 | |
Increased risk of abnormalities. | 0:10:09 | 0:10:11 | |
Yes, but it's not a given, is it? | 0:10:11 | 0:10:13 | |
I know lots of couples that have got no problems. | 0:10:13 | 0:10:15 | |
No, but you do need to tell the consultant. | 0:10:15 | 0:10:18 | |
'A date was set for the wedding. | 0:10:22 | 0:10:24 | |
'Desperate to escape her fate, Sahiban sent word to her lover, | 0:10:24 | 0:10:28 | |
'hoping he would come to rescue her, but she heard nothing. | 0:10:28 | 0:10:32 | |
'It seemed a hopeless situation.' | 0:10:32 | 0:10:34 | |
WOMAN PANTING | 0:10:37 | 0:10:39 | |
Hello. What's your name? | 0:10:39 | 0:10:42 | |
Nadiya. I'm pregnant. | 0:10:42 | 0:10:44 | |
OK, Nadiya, I want you to stay very still | 0:10:44 | 0:10:47 | |
for me while I call an ambulance. | 0:10:47 | 0:10:49 | |
72-44 to Control. | 0:10:49 | 0:10:52 | |
I've got an RTC on Bank Road, with one pregnant female, | 0:10:52 | 0:10:54 | |
ambulance required. | 0:10:54 | 0:10:56 | |
Stay very still for me. | 0:10:58 | 0:10:59 | |
An ambulance will be on its way very shortly. | 0:11:01 | 0:11:04 | |
Are you hurting anywhere else? | 0:11:06 | 0:11:08 | |
First cousins? | 0:11:09 | 0:11:11 | |
Yeah, it's not uncommon in families from Pakistan, | 0:11:11 | 0:11:14 | |
lots of other cultures too. | 0:11:14 | 0:11:15 | |
Do we know if there have been any previous cousin marriages in the family? | 0:11:15 | 0:11:18 | |
No, I'd have to look into that. | 0:11:18 | 0:11:20 | |
Because the risks get cumulatively greater. | 0:11:20 | 0:11:23 | |
I can't believe it's still legal. | 0:11:23 | 0:11:24 | |
-Hang on... -I know, cultural sensitivities. | 0:11:24 | 0:11:27 | |
No, not sensitivities, stigma. | 0:11:27 | 0:11:29 | |
That's what stops families reaching out | 0:11:29 | 0:11:30 | |
and getting the information they need. | 0:11:30 | 0:11:32 | |
So it's our fault now? | 0:11:32 | 0:11:33 | |
No, but... | 0:11:33 | 0:11:35 | |
Look, there's a genuine fear of coming out | 0:11:35 | 0:11:38 | |
in the open, and acknowledging there may be bad blood. | 0:11:38 | 0:11:41 | |
Now we're back in the Dark Ages. | 0:11:41 | 0:11:42 | |
There are a lot of positives to consanguineous marriages, | 0:11:42 | 0:11:45 | |
especially for the female. | 0:11:45 | 0:11:46 | |
Convince me. | 0:11:46 | 0:11:47 | |
OK, she's given higher status, | 0:11:47 | 0:11:49 | |
protection within a family she's already part of. | 0:11:49 | 0:11:52 | |
What they're protecting is the family's assets. | 0:11:52 | 0:11:54 | |
That might be part of it but there are | 0:11:54 | 0:11:56 | |
a lot of families that are very happy. | 0:11:56 | 0:11:58 | |
PHONE RINGS | 0:11:58 | 0:12:00 | |
And at the end of the day, you can't stop two people falling in love. | 0:12:00 | 0:12:03 | |
Ruhma Hanif. | 0:12:03 | 0:12:04 | |
Nadiya? | 0:12:05 | 0:12:07 | |
She's coming in. OK. | 0:12:07 | 0:12:09 | |
'Mirza could not allow his sweetheart to marry another man. | 0:12:13 | 0:12:16 | |
'He took his bow and quiver and rode to the town, | 0:12:16 | 0:12:19 | |
'the day before Sahiban's wedding.' | 0:12:19 | 0:12:21 | |
-So she accelerated after the junction? -Yeah. | 0:12:27 | 0:12:29 | |
Did you see anything in the road that she might have swerved around? | 0:12:32 | 0:12:35 | |
-No, nothing. -No. | 0:12:35 | 0:12:37 | |
All right, thanks for your help. | 0:12:37 | 0:12:39 | |
You don't mind staying on? | 0:13:04 | 0:13:05 | |
No. BP's normal. | 0:13:05 | 0:13:07 | |
You're sure there's no tenderness? | 0:13:13 | 0:13:15 | |
It was just my head. | 0:13:15 | 0:13:16 | |
Well, you've had a lucky escape. | 0:13:18 | 0:13:21 | |
But to be on the safe side, I'm going to check the baby. | 0:13:21 | 0:13:24 | |
Is it OK? | 0:13:37 | 0:13:39 | |
You hear that? | 0:13:40 | 0:13:41 | |
That's fantastic, right? | 0:13:41 | 0:13:44 | |
I'll come back and check on you again in a while. | 0:13:44 | 0:13:47 | |
I can't get my head around it. | 0:13:51 | 0:13:53 | |
What happened out there? | 0:13:54 | 0:13:56 | |
I don't know. | 0:13:56 | 0:13:58 | |
You must be able to remember something? | 0:13:58 | 0:14:00 | |
I just lost control of the wheel. | 0:14:00 | 0:14:02 | |
Why? Why did you lose control? | 0:14:02 | 0:14:03 | |
I'm tired. | 0:14:03 | 0:14:05 | |
Why don't we leave the questions till later? | 0:14:05 | 0:14:07 | |
Praise Allah, she's OK. | 0:14:27 | 0:14:29 | |
The baby also? | 0:14:29 | 0:14:30 | |
Yeah. | 0:14:30 | 0:14:31 | |
What? | 0:14:34 | 0:14:36 | |
Nothing. | 0:14:36 | 0:14:37 | |
Why can't you ever just be happy for us? | 0:14:39 | 0:14:41 | |
All I've ever wanted is your happiness... | 0:14:41 | 0:14:43 | |
But not with Nadiya? | 0:14:43 | 0:14:45 | |
She's right... | 0:14:48 | 0:14:50 | |
You're poison. | 0:14:50 | 0:14:51 | |
This baby, what's wrong with it? | 0:14:51 | 0:14:54 | |
Don't tell me you haven't thought it too. | 0:14:54 | 0:14:56 | |
Fazal! | 0:14:59 | 0:15:01 | |
Everything OK? | 0:15:04 | 0:15:05 | |
He's upset, it's understandable. | 0:15:07 | 0:15:09 | |
Yeah. | 0:15:11 | 0:15:12 | |
'Sahiban's brothers and her bridegroom | 0:15:14 | 0:15:16 | |
'discovered she was missing and set off on horses after them. | 0:15:16 | 0:15:19 | |
'Confident that he had gained sufficient distance | 0:15:22 | 0:15:24 | |
'from any pursuers, Mirza wanted to stop and rest for a while. | 0:15:24 | 0:15:29 | |
'But as her lover dozed under an acacia tree, | 0:15:29 | 0:15:31 | |
'Sahiban was filled with fear. | 0:15:31 | 0:15:34 | |
'If her brothers came and Mirza woke up, they would be sure | 0:15:34 | 0:15:37 | |
'to die from his arrows.' | 0:15:37 | 0:15:39 | |
-Doctor Hayhill thought it would be OK to have a quick word. -Yeah. | 0:15:41 | 0:15:44 | |
Nadiya, Sergeant Hollins is here. | 0:15:52 | 0:15:55 | |
Can you talk with him for a few moments? | 0:15:55 | 0:15:57 | |
You were very kind. | 0:15:58 | 0:16:00 | |
It's just a preliminary chat, | 0:16:00 | 0:16:02 | |
to see if I can piece together what happened. | 0:16:02 | 0:16:05 | |
I'm sorry, but I can't really remember much. | 0:16:05 | 0:16:08 | |
I have to ask you this - have you consumed any alcohol or taken | 0:16:10 | 0:16:13 | |
any drugs before or after the crash? | 0:16:13 | 0:16:15 | |
We don't drink. | 0:16:15 | 0:16:17 | |
And I need you to do this, I'm afraid. | 0:16:17 | 0:16:19 | |
I need you to blow into this tube... | 0:16:21 | 0:16:23 | |
..for about five seconds, please. | 0:16:24 | 0:16:27 | |
OK, you can stop. | 0:16:32 | 0:16:33 | |
Yeah, that's clear. | 0:16:35 | 0:16:36 | |
It wasn't why I lost control. | 0:16:37 | 0:16:39 | |
So you do have some idea what happened? | 0:16:39 | 0:16:42 | |
No. | 0:16:42 | 0:16:43 | |
Were you trying to avoid something? Something in the road? | 0:16:43 | 0:16:45 | |
Maybe. | 0:16:45 | 0:16:47 | |
I've spoken to a couple of people who witnessed the crash. | 0:16:47 | 0:16:49 | |
-Yes? -One of them said they saw you go through the junction, | 0:16:49 | 0:16:52 | |
then accelerate. | 0:16:52 | 0:16:53 | |
It was the brakes, they weren't working properly. | 0:16:53 | 0:16:56 | |
Right. I'll flag that up when the car gets checked over, | 0:16:56 | 0:16:58 | |
because there were tyre marks in the road. | 0:16:58 | 0:17:00 | |
We've got trained investigators who can tell whether you were | 0:17:00 | 0:17:03 | |
braking or accelerating, they're very clever. | 0:17:03 | 0:17:06 | |
Nadiya? | 0:17:06 | 0:17:08 | |
I was upset. I didn't know what I was doing. | 0:17:08 | 0:17:10 | |
Rob, I'm sorry, | 0:17:10 | 0:17:12 | |
but it's really important that she gets some rest. | 0:17:12 | 0:17:14 | |
Yeah, of course. We'll speak later. | 0:17:14 | 0:17:16 | |
Was this your idea of a way out? | 0:17:19 | 0:17:21 | |
-What? -Were you trying to kill our baby? | 0:17:21 | 0:17:23 | |
I would never! | 0:17:23 | 0:17:25 | |
-I can't do this any more. -Fazal. | 0:17:25 | 0:17:28 | |
No, it's over. Do you understand? | 0:17:28 | 0:17:31 | |
'She took Mirza's quiver and broke each arrow in half. | 0:17:36 | 0:17:40 | |
'Then she waited, praying that, when they arrived, | 0:17:40 | 0:17:44 | |
'her brothers would take pity on him. | 0:17:44 | 0:17:46 | |
'At the sound of drumming hooves, Sahiban woke Mirza from his sleep. | 0:17:50 | 0:17:54 | |
'He instinctively reached for his arrows, | 0:17:54 | 0:17:56 | |
'only to find the broken pieces. | 0:17:56 | 0:17:59 | |
'In that split second, an arrow from Sahiban's brother's bow | 0:18:05 | 0:18:09 | |
'pierced Mirza's throat and he fell to the ground. | 0:18:09 | 0:18:12 | |
'Mirza looked at his lover accusingly, | 0:18:12 | 0:18:14 | |
'wondering why she had betrayed him. | 0:18:14 | 0:18:16 | |
'As a second arrow pierced his chest, Sahiban threw herself over | 0:18:22 | 0:18:26 | |
'Mirza's body to protect him from further hits. | 0:18:26 | 0:18:29 | |
'But as the arrows rained down, | 0:18:29 | 0:18:31 | |
'she was killed also | 0:18:31 | 0:18:34 | |
'and the two lovers became the stuff of legend.' | 0:18:34 | 0:18:37 | |
I'm sorry. | 0:18:39 | 0:18:40 | |
Are you OK? | 0:18:41 | 0:18:43 | |
I was thinking of an old folk tale, Mirza and Sahiban. | 0:18:44 | 0:18:48 | |
Do you know it? | 0:18:48 | 0:18:49 | |
Yeah, I think. | 0:18:49 | 0:18:50 | |
Star-crossed lovers, | 0:18:50 | 0:18:52 | |
killed because their families disapproved of their union. | 0:18:52 | 0:18:55 | |
Generations making the same mistakes, over and over. | 0:18:55 | 0:18:59 | |
What have I done to you? | 0:19:01 | 0:19:02 | |
Is there a reason why you've mentioned this story? | 0:19:03 | 0:19:06 | |
To get at me. | 0:19:06 | 0:19:08 | |
Is that true? | 0:19:10 | 0:19:11 | |
My husband, Karim, he was my cousin. | 0:19:17 | 0:19:20 | |
So you should understand. | 0:19:20 | 0:19:23 | |
I had a little baby boy. | 0:19:23 | 0:19:24 | |
A child? | 0:19:26 | 0:19:28 | |
He died soon after he was born. | 0:19:28 | 0:19:30 | |
I had no idea. | 0:19:32 | 0:19:33 | |
It was such a beautiful day, I remember. | 0:19:35 | 0:19:38 | |
Basant. | 0:19:38 | 0:19:40 | |
The kite festival. | 0:19:40 | 0:19:42 | |
A lot of doctors were away that day. | 0:19:42 | 0:19:45 | |
The hospital was so quiet. | 0:19:45 | 0:19:47 | |
Like we were in the wrong place, everyone else was celebrating. | 0:19:49 | 0:19:53 | |
Do you know why he died? | 0:19:55 | 0:19:56 | |
I never found out for sure... | 0:19:58 | 0:19:59 | |
..but I know it was his heart. | 0:20:01 | 0:20:02 | |
I'm sorry. | 0:20:03 | 0:20:05 | |
Nadiya, this has no reflection on what's wrong with your baby, OK? | 0:20:07 | 0:20:12 | |
I'm going to make sure that you have the best care possible. | 0:20:12 | 0:20:16 | |
I never told my husband why the baby died. | 0:20:16 | 0:20:19 | |
Sorry, I don't understand. | 0:20:20 | 0:20:22 | |
Like Sahiban, I wanted to protect him, | 0:20:23 | 0:20:26 | |
so that he would be free to marry again, not tainted. | 0:20:26 | 0:20:30 | |
Because of the fear of bad blood. | 0:20:30 | 0:20:32 | |
What about you? | 0:20:34 | 0:20:35 | |
I sacrificed myself so that he could be happy. | 0:20:36 | 0:20:39 | |
You don't think I love Fazal enough, is that it? | 0:21:08 | 0:21:09 | |
I don't think that's what she meant. | 0:21:09 | 0:21:11 | |
You don't know her, | 0:21:11 | 0:21:12 | |
the way she's treated me since I married her precious nephew. | 0:21:12 | 0:21:16 | |
Mrs Malik. | 0:21:17 | 0:21:19 | |
You think I should let him go? | 0:21:19 | 0:21:21 | |
Yes. | 0:21:21 | 0:21:22 | |
-I am sorry for you. -For me? | 0:21:22 | 0:21:25 | |
Because you are wrong now, as you were then. | 0:21:25 | 0:21:26 | |
You have no right to judge me or my marriage, | 0:21:26 | 0:21:29 | |
or whether I have this baby. | 0:21:29 | 0:21:30 | |
It will only lead to more pain. | 0:21:30 | 0:21:32 | |
Things aren't as I hoped, but I accept what's going to happen, | 0:21:32 | 0:21:35 | |
and I'm going to try to be the best mother I can. | 0:21:35 | 0:21:37 | |
Inshallah. | 0:21:37 | 0:21:39 | |
Then you are stronger than me. | 0:21:39 | 0:21:41 | |
-Oh! -Nadiya? | 0:21:41 | 0:21:44 | |
What's wrong? | 0:21:44 | 0:21:45 | |
I think I'm bleeding. | 0:21:45 | 0:21:46 | |
I should get Fazal. | 0:21:46 | 0:21:48 | |
He won't come. | 0:21:48 | 0:21:49 | |
Let me talk to him. | 0:21:49 | 0:21:51 | |
It was my fear and I've driven a wedge between you. | 0:22:00 | 0:22:03 | |
The things I said to her. | 0:22:03 | 0:22:05 | |
Will be forgotten. Right now she needs you. | 0:22:05 | 0:22:08 | |
She could lose the baby? | 0:22:08 | 0:22:09 | |
I don't know but you must go. | 0:22:09 | 0:22:11 | |
Don't make the same mistake I did. | 0:22:11 | 0:22:13 | |
SHE SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE | 0:22:13 | 0:22:16 | |
Now go! Hurry! | 0:22:16 | 0:22:18 | |
Everything OK? | 0:22:33 | 0:22:34 | |
I pray that it will be. | 0:22:36 | 0:22:37 | |
Are you here about the accident? | 0:22:37 | 0:22:39 | |
No, about what happened outside your shop. | 0:22:39 | 0:22:41 | |
I thought you might like to know that we're not going to | 0:22:41 | 0:22:43 | |
-pursue the matter. -Oh, that's good. -Yeah. | 0:22:43 | 0:22:45 | |
Although, however, I would like some reassurance | 0:22:45 | 0:22:47 | |
that we won't get a repeat of this morning's events? | 0:22:47 | 0:22:50 | |
-I imagine not. -Mmm. | 0:22:50 | 0:22:53 | |
I think it's nice to show a bit of kindness to your neighbours. | 0:22:53 | 0:22:56 | |
How about they do that to me? | 0:22:56 | 0:22:57 | |
Yes, yes, of course, officer. | 0:22:57 | 0:23:00 | |
Thank you. | 0:23:00 | 0:23:01 | |
SHE SIGHS | 0:23:03 | 0:23:05 | |
'His beloved was dressed in a red bridal dress, | 0:23:08 | 0:23:11 | |
'her delicate hands darkly painted with mehndi. | 0:23:11 | 0:23:15 | |
'She had been taken to an upstairs room but Mirza knew the house | 0:23:15 | 0:23:18 | |
'from when he was a boy and managed to find Sahiban and steal her away. | 0:23:18 | 0:23:23 | |
'The lovers galloped off into the night.' | 0:23:23 | 0:23:25 | |
The bleeding has stopped. | 0:23:37 | 0:23:39 | |
That's a good sign, right? | 0:23:39 | 0:23:40 | |
Let's hope so. | 0:23:40 | 0:23:42 | |
I would never hurt our baby. | 0:23:42 | 0:23:43 | |
I know, I know. | 0:23:43 | 0:23:45 | |
I've messed up so badly. | 0:23:45 | 0:23:47 | |
Forgive me? | 0:23:48 | 0:23:49 | |
The baby, is it...? | 0:23:58 | 0:24:01 | |
Well, we're going to find out. | 0:24:01 | 0:24:03 | |
Are you ready? | 0:24:05 | 0:24:06 | |
Right. | 0:24:07 | 0:24:08 | |
BREATHING | 0:24:14 | 0:24:16 | |
Sounds strong. | 0:24:16 | 0:24:17 | |
Our baby's a fighter! | 0:24:17 | 0:24:19 | |
Seems so. | 0:24:19 | 0:24:20 | |
We'll keep you in for monitoring, keep an eye on things. | 0:24:20 | 0:24:23 | |
Thank you. | 0:24:23 | 0:24:24 | |
So it's going to be OK? | 0:24:26 | 0:24:28 | |
Whatever happens, this baby is precious and it's going to be loved. | 0:24:28 | 0:24:31 | |
Excuse me, your car. | 0:24:46 | 0:24:49 | |
There's a problem. | 0:24:49 | 0:24:51 | |
I have a nephew who runs a garage. | 0:24:51 | 0:24:53 | |
I will ring him for you, | 0:24:55 | 0:24:56 | |
ask him to give you neighbour's rates. | 0:24:56 | 0:24:59 | |
All right. Thank you. | 0:24:59 | 0:25:01 | |
I referred them to the local genetic service for counselling. | 0:25:36 | 0:25:39 | |
They'll explain any increased risks of future pregnancies, you know, | 0:25:39 | 0:25:43 | |
look into family history. | 0:25:43 | 0:25:44 | |
Sorry, you know all of that. | 0:25:44 | 0:25:47 | |
Is Hayhill all right with this? | 0:25:47 | 0:25:49 | |
I just don't like being backed into a corner. | 0:25:49 | 0:25:51 | |
-Feeling like I've got to defend a practice, a culture, even. -Mmm. | 0:25:51 | 0:25:55 | |
It's just weird. | 0:25:57 | 0:25:59 | |
You know, being with people who spoke Gujarati, | 0:25:59 | 0:26:03 | |
it reminded me of Aamir and his family and my family | 0:26:03 | 0:26:08 | |
and everything that I've lost. | 0:26:08 | 0:26:10 | |
And what about the kids? | 0:26:10 | 0:26:12 | |
They're missing out on grandparents, | 0:26:12 | 0:26:15 | |
extended family they've not even met. | 0:26:15 | 0:26:17 | |
They've got you. | 0:26:17 | 0:26:19 | |
But is it enough? | 0:26:19 | 0:26:20 | |
All we can do is make choices and hope they're the right ones. | 0:26:21 | 0:26:26 | |
And what if the choices I made come back to haunt me? | 0:26:26 | 0:26:29 | |
It is everywhere. | 0:26:37 | 0:26:38 | |
And as a health practice I think we should strive to set | 0:26:39 | 0:26:42 | |
a better example for the community. | 0:26:42 | 0:26:44 | |
She's not? | 0:26:44 | 0:26:46 | |
All of us? | 0:26:46 | 0:26:48 | |
Feet up with a bacon sandwich or sweaty leotards in the gym... | 0:26:48 | 0:26:52 | |
You could do both. | 0:26:52 | 0:26:54 | |
"My new directives are to take immediate effect | 0:26:54 | 0:26:56 | |
"with no exceptions." | 0:26:56 | 0:26:57 |